I did Rejection Therapy for 60 Days AMA

SuperSpicyCra · 2012-02-28T18:48:29+00:00

What the heck is rejection therapy?

StarchSniffer · 2012-02-28T21:42:48+00:00

What was the effect / feeling after the first day? And will you buy me a beer?

Thatsrugged · 2012-02-28T18:51:21+00:00

How would it work in a small town where I know everyone? Do yo feel much more confident than you did before?

newyork20lives · 2012-02-28T19:03:44+00:00

Well? How do you feel after two sustained months of it?

Do you feel more confident in comparison to when you first started out? More importantly, what did your intentions appear to be (I understand that you internalize rejection as the 'goal', but your targets don't know that, so I'm curious as to what sort of persona you projected).

maggisv · 2012-02-28T20:46:41+00:00

Did anyone unexpectedly agree to what you were proposing when you didn't think they would? If yes, how did that work out? Were you thrown off? Also, did you get a lot of dates? :)

Styleofdoggy · 2012-02-28T19:42:03+00:00

what kind of favors did you ask for?

Bootyndabeach · 2012-02-28T19:56:47+00:00

What are some examples of ways that you were rejected? Was it all dates?

30vanquish · 2012-02-28T20:15:52+00:00

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swamy_g · 2012-02-28T20:22:11+00:00

Did you do anything ridiculous or outrageous? How far did you push yourself?

victorhn · 2012-02-28T20:31:16+00:00

Can you give the list of tasks that are proposed in this therapy?

Geovicsha · 2012-02-29T01:11:52+00:00

I'm new here, what the heck does AA stand for?

healxph0enix · 2012-02-29T03:11:41+00:00

This sounds great. Though I think possibly I can do without this, but this just sounds fun and beneficial.

I would imagine to start out must be difficult, but gets easier. Also it seems like the condition is one rejection, which would push you to go crazier:P

-Ever had a time the things you asked for kept getting accepted so you had to go extreme wants to get that rejection? If so how did that go?

-Have you gotten anything from this like new friends/connections/dates?

-Any realizations you can share? Something you thought before that was proven wrong.

(ex. Be genuine/authentic. Being normal is...normal. Don't need impressive muscle or jobs or whatever to meet great people and be liked. I had a fear of showing who I am. Fear of being accepted/liked.)

-Was it fun?

Lastly...redheads are sexy indeed:)

kazagistar · 2012-02-29T10:05:13+00:00

Did you ever go on an "non-rejection" streak, especially towards the end? If so, how did you deal with it?

vj88 · 2012-03-01T07:08:37+00:00

Thats awesome. You got me motivated to do it. I love the ask for gum cause who has gum these days. My view on it is the more you do it and have the mindset to try and get rejected this less likely it will happen. I think I read Cajun from love systems (anyone who doesn't know who he is http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=2009352446961728591) saying once that he believes that one of the reasons he is successful is that he will go up to a girl with the mindset "I dare you to blow me out".

30vanquish · 2012-02-28T21:55:52+00:00

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Elmil · 2012-02-29T01:30:42+00:00

What if it's a Saturday are you supposed to go out or can getting rejected by my room mates count

30vanquish · 2012-02-29T05:17:51+00:00

Just curious as to what positive effects you found at the end of it as I've been considering doing something like this?

Were these small rejections (i.e. asking for the time from someone) or also large rejections (asking a good female friend of yours to have sex with you?).

How did you change and get better at dealing with rejection throughout this process? At what day do you feel you realized deep down rejection wasn't that big of a thing and it stopped effecting you?

TheMangoPeople · 2012-02-29T06:52:37+00:00

Did you perceive any change in people's behavior towards you as a result of this program?
Did your confidence increase just in cold approach or also in other areas of your life?

blue_barracuda · 2012-02-29T20:39:39+00:00

Never heard of this before in my life. Sound pretty cool though, thanks for the info

HipsterCasanova · 2012-02-29T20:58:35+00:00

Being Attached to Rejection is as silly as being Attached to Positive Reactions.

While this can really teach you rejection doesn't matter, you just wasted a good 60 days that could have been spent getting over the real issues.

IvyLeagueBro · 2012-06-03T11:04:07+00:00

I am trying to do it and I keep asking girls out but all I get are yes responses (makes it awkward when I didn't really want to go out with some of them in the first place, I was just doing it for the game.) DAE have this problem? Should I just ask other things of people?

Title	I did Rejection Therapy for 60 Days AMA
Author	30vanquish
Upvotes	36
Comments	73
Date	February 28, 2012 6:32 PM UTC (14 years ago)
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