TINDER IS KILLING MY SELF-ESTEEM

Quintrell · 2015-03-14T17:39:26+00:00

If your entire self-worth hinges upon whether enough sufficiently attractive girls swipe right on a smartphone app, you need to get off Tindr and work on your inner game.

Regardless, complaining that your 150+ matches aren't hot enough comes off as really shallow. There's nothing wrong with Asian girls.

Big_TX · 2015-03-14T18:23:39+00:00

is there really such a thing as leagues when it comes to outer appearance because clearly some only look for that.

You have 153 6s 7s and 8s

I can't get matched with anyone I want to..

.

because clearly some only look for that.

Just something to think about

ldg55 · 2015-03-14T17:47:26+00:00

Is your profile generic? What sets you apart from everyone else? What is your default photo?

Generally, others have had success making sure it was only them in the initial photo. Then the subsequent photos show friends and what not.

I think my tag line was something like, "I heard this was better than ChristianMingle, my name was JesusInTheStreetsSatanInTheSheets. Snap chat me pictures of your cat "insert username here"

A lot of the time my first response would be "So, should we tell our kids we met on Tinder?"

It elicited funny responses and you could see if they were humorous or just lame.

I never just said Hey or Whats Up, or You're cute or lame generic stuff like that. Think of all the other guys that are saying the exact same thing. BE UNIQUE!

When I asked for the number, I'd say something like "This app is killing my battery. whats your number so my phone doesn't die"

Again, your mileage will vary, can't really change your skin color. Maybe try to update your style or hair style? The folks over at /r/malefashionadvice have quite a bit of knowledge on the side bar regarding that.

Good luck my friend!

sirmaxwell90 · 2015-03-14T17:48:36+00:00

I wouldn't bother too much with Tinder or Okcupid or any other dating site/app. Yes, it is reassuring to get matches of HB9's etc. however, I wouldn't get worked up into it. In my experience girls look don't particularly care what you look like but more of what is with you in the picture i.e. nice car, boat and so on. You get the idea. Then what types of pictures as well, are they at a beach are they in a club are you doing something fun. Do you look like you can show them a good time. It's all of those questions that zip through their head. Or at least that's what I think. This goes to your question of a thing like a 'league' and I'd say yes. They look for these things that I mentioned, but not all of them look for those things either. It's the same when you look at a girls profile that is with her and her five friends and you can't tell whose profile it is and they are in a bar. Instant left swipe for me.

What you can do is what some friends of mine ended up doing is they swiped right for every single girl they came across and they chose which one to talk to on who they got paired up with.

proleteriate · 2015-03-14T17:55:54+00:00

i can confirm. i don't do well on tinder at all, because the most attractive quality about me is in the sub-communication. It's a stupid app good for a very specific demographic, don't let this get you down.

ArtistBlock · 2015-03-14T19:32:51+00:00

Don't use tinder then. If its too much, approach in real life and get the woman you want.

dlb92 · 2015-03-14T17:53:36+00:00

Man the fuck up, boy

craiggy · 2015-03-15T00:26:04+00:00

I know this will probably sound like boasting, but I am a very attractive male. I'm 6'6, am well built, and have good features. I've had several girls tell me I'm a 10.

That being said, I can't get matched with an attractive girl on tinder to save my life. Don't let it bother you.

Turlast · 2015-03-14T17:41:03+00:00

Plenty of guys have trouble getting swipes on Tinder. Simply being a white guy with a beard in no way means you'd definitely get more swipes. It's Tinder. Don't let it get you down. I know plenty of good looking guys that do average or worse on Tinder compared to what they do while out. You're good.

MUNK92 · 2015-03-20T01:47:18+00:00

Do not do online if you are not a white, black, or hispanic guy. There is a hierarchy here. Asia is shitty too because it a place where racist white expats come to exercise their racist hegemony and privilege and local women are white boy worshipping hoes.

MUNK92 · 2015-03-20T01:48:42+00:00

Every time I hear white, black, or hispanic guys complain about women, my blood boils. Clearly you guys are wasting your racial privilege. Half breed hapas have half white privilege. Women like them because they are half white.

neonfuzion · 2015-03-14T20:09:36+00:00

Shut the fuck up and man up you pussy. At least your not Asian.

Title	TINDER IS KILLING MY SELF-ESTEEM
Author	sedditseddit
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Comments	49
Date	March 14, 2015 5:19 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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