Hey everyone,

Could someone more experienced break down the idea of “quitting too easily?” Chasing is obviously not the move, but I’ve also heard guys sometimes say you also shouldn’t quit to easily. Where’s that line between desperation and persistence?

Also: for those with higher body counts, how tf did you do it? I can interact with women fine (done over 50 first dates and even a few first date lays) and have had my looks complimented by both men and women, so I know I’m not a lost cause.

I approach when I can but nothing has come of it (I also live in a very socially dead location), and on the apps it’s like they suddenly decide to be as difficult as possible when making plans, so that’s not working great. I get a lot of matches, but only like 1 in 30 will be “easy” to plan a date with, which makes me think it’s something on my end.

The guys who are better than this at me have given me two pointers: flirt with everything and be willing to fuck almost anything. Is this really all there is to it? Besides being direct and non-needy obviously.

Thanks in advance.