Uphill battle against looks.

abart · 2015-08-01T11:27:16+00:00

Hit the gym, r/fitness will help you out. The table won't turn until you take over the wheel. Do it today, not tomorrow.

wotsitsaredelicious · 2015-08-01T11:47:12+00:00

Mate, looks aren't much more than they do part of the work for you. The way you carry yourself, speak and personality (basically just your inner game) is the most important thing. Read models if you haven't already. And hit the gym. You say you're built like a child, but you're 5'9", you're not short. Get some muscle, with the right program and diet,you'll be amazed at how quickly you can put on muscle. It'll help with confidence more than anything.

Oh. And the while genetics thing is total shit with bodybuilding. You're not putting on muscle? You're doing something wrong, either not eating correctly or you're doing the wrong workout.

cmoneyt8ker · 2015-08-01T13:57:49+00:00

Forgot about women for six months. Focus 100% on yourself. Get on a solid workout program , eat and get your mind right.

DaygameCoach · 2015-08-01T14:21:46+00:00

You don't have an uphill battle vs looks. You have an uphill battle vs self-limiting beliefs. If you think you are too (whatever it is), you are! Try being shorter, fat, old and bald like me (and I still do well!). It's in your head. Open all those women you are attracted to.

A lot of game with women is how you make them feel.

Cuisine Daygamer.net

Dyablo66 · 2015-08-01T11:58:39+00:00

If you consider your build a problem, start fixing it - hit the gym, start eating a lot (don't understate it, especially with your body type). You'll never know if your genetics are such a problem if you don't even try. Maybe you won't get huge, but you definitely can gain enough mass to stop looking "like a child" if you dedicate yourself to it.

Peckerdick · 2015-08-02T00:19:22+00:00

The whole body type thing (endo, meso, ecto) has been debunked. It's bullshit. Just because you're skinny right now doesn't mean you can't become ripped. Genetics only play a role in how quickly you build muscle and the upper limit of how muscular you can get (like after 10 years of dedicated body building). Don't even think about it. Go to /r/fitness and learn how to do it right. You will get impressive results.

Also just to add, If you're thinking of getting fit just to attract women, it's probably not going to work. A fit man with no confidence only gets laid by lower quality women without confidence. You don't want this. Trust me, I am there right now. I worked my ass off this year, am in better shape than I've ever been, and am striking out with women just as much as I had been before. I'm only now realizing where my real weaknesses are now and working to fix them.

If you haven't already, read Mark Manson's Models. This will tell you exactly where your problems are and what you need to work on. It sounds like your entire mindset needs an overhaul, just like mine did.

f3yleaf · 2015-08-01T19:41:42+00:00

Hit the gym bro, Sexyugly is a thing.

Yes it will help lol, its a gamechanger! There is no fucking excuse for ANY guy to not hit the gym, not doing so is self-sabotage, its probably just as important for a guy like you as all game you could learn.

With your insecurity about it and likely low T, you are probably operating at 10% atm, dedicate 6 months to putting on some muscles, it will change your life.

nolander_78 · 2015-08-01T20:50:35+00:00

As I'm now getting "old"

Don't think that way, you are only as old as you allow yourself to feel.

CrushHazard · 2015-08-02T08:13:31+00:00

Have you tried peacocking? I mean, you won't get the cream of the crop women who are looking for male models and millionaires, but the average girl would likely prefer a stylish rogue over a slightly better looking guy who appears boring. Just a thought.

AroundTheWorld2016 · 2015-08-01T19:54:42+00:00

Thanks some solid points of view on this thread. Had an interesting experience today. I'm traveling in Bosnia right now. I went out with this American girl I met. We were really into each other. Great chemistry, but she had to leave for another country so we only had a couple of hours together.

This guy came to pick her up who she met in Croatia. They were going with a big group to go camping.

He was about 6'2, long dark hair, facial hair, rather alpha looking. He came over to carry her bags for her. He left for a minute and I basically asked if they were together and hooking up.

"It's ok, I'm just wondering what women find attractive," I said.

"AAAACHH NO!" she declared. My first thought was denial...

"Really? He's clearly into you. Don't be shy, and I'm not a jealous type." I said.

"No, honestly," she replied. "It's not quite like you think. Just because someone looks a certain way--it takes more than that. It's about how he makes you feel. That guy kind of hangs on to me, but I don't feel attracted to him."

But maybe she did to me? It's hard to say. But typically when I see a guy who looks like that with a girl, I assume they're fucking. It's eye-opening to learn otherwise.

Title	Uphill battle against looks.
Author	AroundTheWorld2016
Upvotes	13
Comments	17
Date	August 1, 2015 9:58 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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