Using Seduction In a Long Term Relationship

Angels-Advocate · 2014-01-09T20:48:40+00:00

Tight game doesn't end once you get the girl. The girl likes the guy who picked her up, not the slouch who acted like he was someone else. This is why it is important to internalize good game. However, if you didn't have good game in the first place and you are currently in a relationship this will help spice things up.

Number 1) If you are fat get in shape. Getting more attractive is the first step

Number 2) If you aren't ambitious find something to make you ambitious. Driving towards a goal is the second step.

and most importantly

Number 3) Start leading more often/ start making more decisions. Hey, I'm picking you up and we are going out/ Let's invite some friends over for dinner and a movie/ Let's go for a walk. Nothing is sexier than a man who will take the initiative and lead. I don't care what anyone tells you, it's the truth.

This will get you started, but seduction in general will help bring back the spark. Read the sidebar material and start learning the basics. Also, the book "The Sex God Method" will help in the bedroom as well.

puabookworm · 2014-01-09T23:50:26+00:00

Make statements instead of asking questions, lead, make decisions. I don't mean to totally take all choice away from her, but if it's something of little consequence (ex. where to eat) and she seems indecisive, just make a choice. Tying into the making statements, helps avoid wasting time on small decisions. Examples:

Bad: "Hey do you want to grab lunch today? What do you feel like eating? I'm thinking pizza, is that OK with you? Are you sure that's OK? We don't have to if you don't want to."

Good: "Let's get lunch. I'm thinking pizza unless you have something else in mind".

Bad: "Do you want to come to my place tonight?"

Good: "You should come to my place tonight."

Push/pull. Tease in a clearly joking way, without saying "just joking" afterwards (unless they take it seriously). For example, yesterday when my girlfriend said she didn't like watermelon, I dramatically tossed her hand away and said "Oh my god, it's over. We're done. This can't work." with a smile, intense eye contact, she pretended to be sad, but instead of saying "hahah just kidding", I kissed her instead.

masterrod · 2014-01-10T01:08:24+00:00

I think you're goal is skewed.. In seduction, you're trying to make path way for some sexual union, that ideally is in best interest of both parties. But at this point she's already slept with you, there are a lot of things sexually you can do. Now you're pulling on a different path. Now you should be seducing her by strengthening and pointing towards new challenges, likely non sexual challenges. Basing the relationship on heights emotions will leave you always searching, and incomplete.

MarkAfterDark · 2014-01-09T22:43:16+00:00

Seduction works in all walks of life. It is self-improvement. Make the things you've learned habitual and you'll be fine.

2014-01-10T14:04:19+00:00

Always want her less than she wants you. Read some Heartiste. He's a cuntnugget who gets most of his cold approach successes from his looks not his game, but his relationship game advice is very solid.

thouliha · 2014-01-09T21:23:02+00:00

To keep things fresh I do things like:

Write my girl sexy or romantic letters while I'm at work
Make mixtapes
Give little gifts/presents
Give back massages/relax her
Do whatever you can to create space (have your own life/interests/hobbies) Don't depend on her completely for entertainment

I'd say seduction gets a lot tougher after you get the girl you want. You can't just slouch and sit back. Show her you still care and find her attractive. Work for her, and she'll stay intimate and interested.

BlasphemyAway · 2014-01-10T02:51:57+00:00

Move her. Make her laugh and cry. Make her drop her defenses. Know her better than she knows herself. Make her feel connected to unimaginable realms of power and light.

safiagrace · 2014-01-09T22:06:36+00:00

Its not just for your partner, seduction makes oneself feel incredible, sexy and confident too!

If you're starting off and are a bit nervous about putting yourself out there straight away then start with small gestures; boys- walk up to her slowly locking eye contact, slowly reach for waist and when you are about 3inches away snap her in, and kiss her and cup her head in your hand. You'll know what to do from there ;) Girls- you have the best weapon against a guy and no its not the obvious... Its actually the opposite of just giving yourself up. Starting with the appearance boys live mystery and feeling as if you're just for them. Hair up immediately makes him think i wonder what her hair looks like when its down. And clothes; covering more up the more they'll be mentally taking off in their minds and the more you've got on the longer itll take them to get it off so be a tease ;) a scientific study in a woman's health magazine showed that red lips holds a guy's gaze for on average 7.3 seconds whilst nude/ pink lips hold your mans gaze for only 5.2. Also if a man is interested in you then he will stare at you for, on average, 8.2 seconds. Intense.

Title	Using Seduction In a Long Term Relationship
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Date	January 9, 2014 8:21 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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