Was i used?

joshsway · 2015-12-23T15:53:57+00:00

you got used .. it happens, be proud ;)

pianobrah · 2015-12-23T16:06:15+00:00

Does she really owe you anything for having casual sex with you once? I don't think you were used, she might not just be interested in anything more with you.

You shouldn't be too invested in a girl you banged once off of tinder.

King_Awkward_IV · 2015-12-23T19:14:11+00:00

I'd agree she's being rude. But you got laid, not used.

glitterkittie · 2015-12-23T20:29:03+00:00

Maybe you just weren't great in bed. We can't be everyone's cup of tea.

CrushHazard · 2015-12-23T19:14:12+00:00

If you spent the night the first time you had sex, she probably isn't thinking that you want a casual hookup thing unless you made it clear that night. This sounds like a simple case of you like her more than she likes you, but she was horny and you were there, so whatevs.

I wouldn't pursue this, and in the future, I would pick something better than "it was fun" to say. Even if you want to keep it casual, you should be better at sexually charged flirting conversations....something like this:

"You are delicious."

"Thanks! LOL."

"I'm free most of the weekend. Text me if you get horny so I can come over for seconds. ;)"

If you want more than just a casual thing, then obviously you should make your flirting more personal and less carnal in nature, but the idea is still the same. Don't treat her like a buddy. She either wants to be a tasty piece of meat that you want to ravage or an angel that you want to worship.

Hecticchow · 2015-12-23T16:45:57+00:00

You showed too much interest by messaging her on the same day as you leaving her place. And men don't get "used" btw.

Title	Was i used?
Author	femtenkroner
Upvotes	7
Comments	23
Date	December 23, 2015 3:37 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/3xz09d/was_i_used/
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