What do you guys do if she's late?

Refuse2Lose76 · 2024-03-23T14:21:56+00:00

late? with her period? .. fucking get ready for life to change! .. late? for a date? call her and ask her how long she gonna be!

TurbulentAardvark345 · 2024-03-23T14:25:25+00:00

Make sure you do a DNA test

ChicoBrillo · 2024-03-23T14:58:43+00:00

If it's the first time and she's not crazy late, "no problem".

I'm not going to give her shit for it, I'm pretty easy going, and she might even feel bad about it enough already.

If it's habitual? Some people just have a different relationship with time. If I like her I probably would continue to see her but I won't show up exactly on time either anymore.

My dads gf is very bad with time and he gets absolutely livid every time she's late, which is kinda dumb to me, because, he knows she's like that...so why stress yourself out expecting her to magically be on time when you know she's always late?

If she's late in a way that just shows flakiness or that she's not that into me? I still am not going to make a big deal out of it because who needs drama? But I most likely will just stop hitting her up and move on.

-Twyptophan- · 2024-03-23T15:11:55+00:00

Depends on the reason. Usually it's just due to taking long to get ready. I'm not going to be mad if she took a little longer to look good for our date. The only other time I've experienced girls being late is because of traffic if they're driving from a far distance away and there's traffic. I think it's reasonable to be lenient if someone is driving a long distance to see you

It all comes down to being reasonable. As long as she's not being blatantly disrespectful, it's fine

TRTGymBro · 2024-03-23T14:18:17+00:00

5-10 mins is okay to account for traffic etc. anything more than that is unacceptable. If you get there and she is telling you she is just leaving and 30 mins away, I'd give her the riot act and go find another girl

Mr_Dixon1991 · 2024-03-23T14:28:43+00:00

Late for what?

nocturnalanimal69 · 2024-03-23T18:02:35+00:00

I once had a girl completely stand me up. She called me right before I was about to get on the freeway when she finally called me. Turns out she had been in a small car accident, but told me she could get there in about 20 minutes. I ended up turning around and proceeded to close the deal on the first date.

If a girl is late (within reason), you can use it to your advantage. It’s a great way to demonstrate you are not easily flustered by small inconveniences, and it provides an opportunity to throw a small/fun neg her way.

Judgement-day-now · 2024-03-23T18:10:26+00:00

Best strategy:

Just start to talk to other girls. So she should arrive and just think: fuck this wasn’t a good idea 👍🏼 and trust me: she will never do it again cause you pushed her in the right frame

doyouknowshmolik · 2024-03-23T14:37:03+00:00

Depends on the relationship

Ordinary_Yam1866 · 2024-03-23T14:58:34+00:00

Depending on how far she is coming from, give her a reasonable time to be late. After that, unless she calls that she is late in time, just up and leave. If she realizes that she will be very late and doesn't care to notify you, she doesn't really care about you.

Fabulous_Papaya358 · 2024-03-23T17:08:17+00:00

Leave

treeguy201 · 2024-03-23T17:44:49+00:00

Late for her doctors appointment?

TransitionNormal1387 · 2024-03-24T00:04:57+00:00

When it comes to the first few dates, better late than stood up.

Ok-Abbreviations9212 · 2024-03-25T04:18:20+00:00

Depends on how late she is.

20 minutes or under? Not a big deal. That's barely even late in my book.

30-45 minutes? Likely the range people start thinking about leaving, and figure ya got stood up. Needs serious explanation.

Over 45 minutes? Just leave. She's not showing up.

I was stood up a date. I put the ball in her court, and she never did want a date. (This was a first date). Never heard from her again. Not really worth giving it a second thought.

FluidEnd7479 · 2024-03-26T18:30:03+00:00

More then 20 min I leave

Legitimate-Joke7602 · 2024-03-23T14:07:56+00:00

I am the one who is always late

Title	What do you guys do if she's late?
Author	district999
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Comments	18
Date	March 23, 2024 1:59 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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