What were your most memorable approaches?

TheyTrollinTheyHatin · 2018-01-16T06:16:18+00:00

My first same night lay. I had read about direct game and radical honesty so I tried it. I saw woman with skin tight pants. I loved her legs and ass. I walked up to her, I looked her in the eye with a smile and said something to the effect of “hi, I saw you and I just had to tell you that I think you’re really beautiful. Would you like to get a coffee with me right over here?”

I fully expected her to reject me. But my goal was just to be fearlessly honest. So by saying what I said I was already successful in my goal. But the craziest thing happened. She took me by the arm and as we walked to get coffee, she asked me about myself. She was with her sister and she straight up ditched her sister to hang out with me. Her sister was pissed. I ended up talking to her for 3 hours before we finally had sex.

She asked me a lot of questions. I didn’t try to impress her. I just tried to be real. Eventually I started telling her how attractive I thought she was and how I wanted her. She said “are you drunk? I’m not having sex with you.” I said “I’m not drunk. I didn’t ask you to have sex with me. I said I wanted to.” She said “stop talking like that! You don’t have to say that to impress me!”

I didn’t understand her. I fully expected her to walk away and reject me. But I was determined to express myself honestly. So eventually I told her that when I first saw her I thought her legs were so fucking sexy. And eventually I was massaging her legs. Eventually we made out. Eventually we went to my car and eventually we had sex.

She was actually from out of town visiting her sister, so I didn’t get her number or keep in touch. I learned a lot from that interaction. I’ve been honest ever since.

I’ve discovered that for me, seduction is less about convincing a woman to sleep with me, and more about finding out if we are compatible.

If I get rejected, I think it’s a compatibility issue and I don’t take it personally. Rejection is quick and I don’t waste time dwelling on it. I focus my attention on women who are interested in me. And being honest is the simplest and quickest way to find them.

__ManBeast__ · 2018-01-16T02:50:05+00:00

The ones where I ended up getting laid

dutchmangab · 2018-01-16T11:21:31+00:00

I had one about 2 years ago. The approach(non-pick-up) turned into a date that lasted till the last train departed to the city she was staying and a holiday romance.

I live in a Dutch city(not Amsterdam) which has a big pitoresque old style innercity which gets a lot of tourists in the weekends There was this foreign girl who seemed worried and was looking around. So being the helpful person I am I just asked if I could help her. She apparently lost her friend and I helped her find her friend.

While trying to find her friend we talked and she(she was Iranian) told me she was happy a handsome guy. I didn't really have seducing her in my mind during all this, so when they invited to join them for drinks and food I was really surprised.

Her friend eventually left us when I invited them to go to an early evening bar/danceclub. We both enjoyed each others company till it was time for her to catch her train. I invited her to my place and she proposed to do that the next day if I made her dinner.

I was really lucky. This was definitely not a skill related happening.

SocietalEngineering · 2018-01-16T15:50:24+00:00

Interestingly, my most memorable approaches are the ones where I got shot down the hardest. I barely even remember the ones that worked, lol

LimitedContributor · 2018-01-16T17:40:51+00:00

This was my first approach, 2016. It counts.

One day, I went to this university college as a guest. Great day. It was actually last winter. Haha Perfect blend of sun warmth with chilliness. Walked around campus a bit as I finally made my way into the student lounge or center, whatever you call it. Minutes in, I noticed this college student/female with a nice figure of my epitome by first impression. She seemed athletic. I went "Sh!t. Gotta get to her before its too late!" From that point, I had to take advantage of the opportunity. Nothing weird. I just took the risk. She went into a store variety that sells college wear for the students and I went to. My heart is racing, boom boom boom. She really exceeded my expectations up close. I had to back out. My heart needed to settle. She went into the cafeteria to grab a bite and next thing I know, we're literally sitting across from each other. Very phenomenal. I realized my heart would have never settled so I got up, cleared my mind and went it for and little did I know, it was incredibly worth it. The performance was great, no anxiety slip ups and the communication was.. just done right. No try hardism or unstable energy and I knew how much time I had. She got to know me in minutes. I claimed I was trying to meet people around the campus that appealed to me but, I know she knew what I really wanted. She was a junior for sake. The approach ended with me attempting a front as a skip back, giving her space. "Sh!t Gotta go back." I slowly moved back, straightened my arms as if I was landing towards her and she followed. Our faces are literally not even an inch apart anymore. All we could see is each other. As we're stuck in a close up, I said "My name is such and such." And she replied "Its nice to meet you to." I held my hand upward, waved as I got outta there and blew it. Haha

Very memorable day. It will never happen again. I was the best version of my self.

Tokemoke · 2018-01-16T19:38:48+00:00

I had recently moved to a new city and I was walking around the main strip on a Saturday afternoon. I had already approached a few girls when I saw this tall blonde girl in a summer dress. I walked up to her and startef chatting her up.

Turns out she was visiting from out of town by herself. I told her I thought she was attractive in between small talk and getting to know her. She asked if I wanted to hang out. We ended up going on a ferry ride to the island, explored downtown and ate at a nice restaurant. It was a

I went in for the kiss pretty early on but it paid off, didn't end up sleeping with her but it stood out as one of the first successful interactions I had where I got a feel for escalating and leading. I still talk to her every now and then.

Maturion · 2018-01-17T14:00:13+00:00

I had invited some old friends of mine that evening, had some beers together and played video games at my place. After some time, we were running out of beer, so I decided to buy some more beer at a shop next door. On my way back, I saw a cute girl in the stairways, she apparently lived in the same building. I thought about talking to her, but then again, I was visibly drunk, sweaty, wearing tracksuit pants and was carrying two six-packs of beer. Well, I did approach her anyway. And it fucking worked. I was surprised by myself, but I was really relaxed and smooth and we immediately hit it off. She gave me her number and we went to a great date the same week. This really showed me that having a cool vibe and showing a nice personality is the most important thing here.

Title	What were your most memorable approaches?
Author	Venusian_Artist
Upvotes	28
Comments	13
Date	January 16, 2018 1:22 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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