Why is it so hard choosing between a brain dead hot girl and the perfect chick who is just average looking?!

Throwaway1337145317 · 2019-11-24T10:43:05+00:00

You don't care about either girl, just the way they make you feel. Stick with the hot girls until you grow out of it. I imagine you don't want to hurt a girl who cares about you.

maserti · 2019-11-24T12:43:17+00:00

Nah your just being shallow honestly, there’s no league. Get rid of the idea. This is not sports lol. Rating girls on a number system doesn’t work because it doesn’t transfer. It’s either your attracted to them or your not. So in case of the super hot girl you only “put up” with her because of how she looks is pretty weak, get around women that like that 6 you say who is more wholesome and well rounded. Remember an average girl can turn hot with clothes and makeup if she wants to so don’t forget that. Get more wholesome women that are emotional stable and you’ll be fine

2019-11-24T10:37:46+00:00

Thanks for sharing. I think long term definitely go for the nice girl who treats you like a king. Remember that looks fade.

rich_god · 2019-11-24T13:11:28+00:00

If it's hard to choose, it's because none of them are good for you in the long term. You will find a girl that is both your most intimate best friend, and at the same time you can't stop thinking of her body and what to do with it. Maybe even more than one.

You did well. I can assure you that when a girl will be right for you, there will be no hesitation. You will only ask yourself "how did I get so lucky ?", and so will she.

magnetradio · 2019-11-24T12:45:19+00:00

You need to learn how to handle the "bad" ones. These girls need to be treated a little different. You have to establish respect first. They know that they have tons of men who are at their disposal, so that's why they act that way. If you establish a relationship of respect first, she'll treat you a little sweeter if she likes you. For every bitchy woman, there's a man who she treats like a king. That's actually what these women are looking for... a man who can put her in her place so she can treat him like a king.

The "6", on the other hand, doesn't have this luxury. As a matter of fact, if she knows that you're talking to the "bad" one, she may feel like she has to pull out the red carpet. Be careful with these girls too because sometimes they can take all the "royal treatment" away if you get too comfortable. You want to treat these girls right, but the moment they fall off from giving you the "royal treatment", get them back on course. Sometimes women lure you in with kindness and switch up their demeanor once they got you.

The aim is to establish respect first. Once both types of girls know and understand that in order for them to be with you they have to treat you with respect and kindness, they'll either do so if they like you or move on. You always want "dead weight" to be dropped out of your life.

manonpoint_com · 2019-11-24T17:14:08+00:00

We're hard wired to value looks. However, once you bang a few hot chicks and date a few, you'll realize that from a relationship perspective, looks become less of a factor way more quickly than you might expect.

appbummer · 2019-11-24T13:29:26+00:00

Maybe you need to have sex to release some tensions and see things clearer. Or get to see many other girls, which will make you realize that oh, she is hot but A and B or C are close and will be just fine.

PiperBigBell · 2019-11-24T16:03:48+00:00

Would you want to accidentally get the brain dead chick pregnant? Could you explain that to your family and friends? Why you're reproducing with an idiot

DajuanKev · 2019-11-24T18:25:21+00:00

Apart of you want to experiment, its hard to beat that. The average girl is generally better for you but the hot girl is like that anime chick.

ChrisDarmount · 2019-11-24T18:42:53+00:00

It sounds like neither girl is good for you.

I think it’s obvious that you should find a girl that you’re both attracted to and who is someone who you like.

borko781 · 2019-11-24T20:15:12+00:00

Just go for the hot chick and enjoy the good things for now , no need to obsess over some relationships

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