Would you say it's too late ?

Budget-Kick822 · 2026-03-08T23:36:32+00:00

No its not too late. You dont need a man whore phase if you want to find a wife. However, abundance and optionality is valuable in terms of generating enough leads where you find someone youre compatible and happy with, and increasing the overall quality of your leads.

Late 20s women can be found through your social circle, at "classier" night life venues like cocktail lounges/wine bars etc, the gym, farmers markets, hobbies, grocery stores, parks, rec sports leagues.

tyYdraniu · 2026-03-08T23:24:04+00:00

still early for you

i wanted to say where, but i dont have much time to answer so i will go in a quick answer: go where womem go frequently, that people have a reason to go there at least once per week for a huge period of time or even forever, that have space to talk and meet each other, good luck

Long8D · 2026-03-08T23:51:27+00:00

Hell no it's not too late. I'm in my mid 30s myself and I'm just starting to live my life now. Spent basically my whole adult life in relationships since I was 17, only ever had like a month or two gap between them, last one ended January and now I'm finally just doing me for the first time. That's about 17-18 years of not being alone.

The thing about being a man is you genuinely have time. You can get married at 40, find a woman in her late 20s, have kids and build a great life. That's a real option for us. Women in their mid 30s don't really have that same luxury which is why they're the ones feeling the clock not you. So relax a bit because the urgency bro, this feels like the start of a midlife crisis hoinestly lol

As for where to meet single women in their late 20s honestly if you have the means, Southeast Asia or South America. I know that's not the answer everyone wants to hear but it's the truth. The dating dynamics there are completely different, women are more openly interested in a stable western guy, and the quality of the experience in general is just on another level if you go in with the right mindset. The girls there treat you way differently than girls here in the west. It's not for everyone but if you can swing it even for a trip it'll probably reset your whole perspective on what's possible for you at this stage away from western countries.

Not to mention the quality of life you can have in those countries. Obviously, most of these women will care about the size of your wallet, it doesn't have to be too thick though, but you're both getting something in return. Dating in Philippines is like playing a game on the easiest mode possible.

It's another world, and most of the stuff talked about in these subs is not even needed at all there. The push pull, the game, the careful calibration of text responses all that stuff exists because western dating has become this particular kind of adversarial dance. Go somewhere like the Philippines or Colombia and a lot of that just evaporates as you're not fighting the same headwinds. It's like the behavioral toolkit we build here was designed for a specific environment and outside of that environment you barely need it. You can still use it obviously, but when I got to the Philippines I already have 2 different girls offering to pick me up from the airport. You can honestly set up dates using 1 hand without looking with a new girl every single day. Everyone will date there... no matter how you look or how old you are. And if you can't get a date there, then something is really wrong..

becomesharp · 2026-03-09T11:01:07+00:00

I'm mid 40s and have been in this industry for a long time so ive seen the good, the bad, and the ugly.

It's not too late when you hit a certain age.

It's too late when you hit the mental stage where you give up, stop trying, or become the old dog that can't learn new tricks.

I've trained guys in their 50s that did fine. And i've turned away guys in their 20s who gave up and refused to put in the work.

Discopotatoz · 2026-03-10T01:31:36+00:00

The beauty of being a man is it's almost never too late. We don't have the age constraints that women have to contend with and our attractiveness rises the older we get (wisdom, status, resources, experience ) whereas with women it's generally the opposite (beauty, fertility, agreeableness lol). The universe is constructed to allow us an almost infinite opportunity for self-improvement.

LeoTrollstoy · 2026-03-08T23:23:20+00:00

lol I’m 40 asking the same question. Lmk if you find the answer

No_Relief7644 · 2026-03-09T16:26:08+00:00

Yes mid 30s is too late to do anything in life or have a family. No one has ever found love or has a family past the age of 35

star_wars_the_501st · 2026-03-08T23:32:22+00:00

You’re at peak value at mid 30s you’re good

Friendly-Media4214 · 2026-03-09T01:25:16+00:00

Fuck all this business about rushing to get married and have kids.

Title	Would you say it's too late ?
Author	Mq200
Upvotes	5
Comments	15
Date	March 8, 2026 11:12 PM UTC (5 months ago)
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