Last year in November my wife (31F) asked me (29M) for a divorce. We got married in 2020 but have been together total of 6 years. In the beginning I was just having a good time, I was 23 and she was 25 single with a daughter already. I ended up falling in love with her but struggled accepting the role of step father. So we had lots of back and forths until I realized wow despite me being with other women and cheating she has stuck around, she's the one! So I went to therapy realized I didn't love my self and that's why I was always seeking validation. I took a few months to find myself and love myself. I was ready to finally be with her so we dated again and things were so much better and I decided to marry her and take on the role of step father.

Thats when things started to get really bad. We moved in together and it was like we couldn't co exist. Everything was an argument and before I married her I told her if she couldn't forgive me for all the things I've done then let's not get married but she said she was ready to move on and agreed to start a new page, turns out it was a lie. She carried all the hurt and it made things so hard! I admit that I wasnt a good partner, I was immature and selfish plus her daughter (9 years old) has a resentment towards me because her mother painted me as a monster.

Fast forward to 2022, my son was born, I realized the importance of being a good role model and being a family man so I stepped it up. I was able to find a better job, going back to school to get my masters degree, and have been saving to buy an investment property. When I'm finally ready to be the man she needs is exactly when she hits me with I want a divorce. I don't love you anymore and don't have feelings for you.

We haven't been able to finalize the divorce but she found out I started to talk to someone new and is upset and says just because she wants a divorce doesn't mean she doesn't love me. I'm so confused guys. My parents divorced and I told myself I would stick with one partner I want to be a family again but she doesn't appreciate me or treat me well. What should I do?