I think my Soon To Be ex is playing a game. However, this game is one that was waved a long time ago. She had been triggering me for quite some time. And for the longest, I would ask her kindly to please do things and respect boundaries and provide certain things that I believe was respectful and kind to the relationship. However, I started to get really sick and needed more help. Long story short after 10 years of being in a relationship with her something snapped about 60 days before she left. I wasn’t an angel, but I did say some things that were hurtful and unkind that now she’s trying to say that she endured for years. Which is not true, she knows that I know that, however she does have a recording that she shared with me and supposedly he has more recordings of me. I’m currently working with a therapist that I’ve been working for a couple of years and in the middle of getting hip surgery. And going through this divorce. How bad can this get? We only have assets at the moment to divide I’m starting to think that they’re building a case to try to divide assets on equally. Has anyone had this experience before?