To all

I’ve been doing 50/50 for the last few months and I’m still dealing with financials etc. She is starting to crack and has been weaponizing our children against me and is hoping that I lose my cool in front of the kids or text something stupid in our parenting app.

My advice is pretty simple. Never lose your cool in front of your kids but the big one is use tech to your advantage. Having an ai app on your phone and ideally subscribing to it has probably saved my bacon a few times. Just screen shot whatever she is typing and put it in the app and have it draft a few replies and cut and paste. Done and you hopefully didn’t document anything stupid. Also if you’re on social media at all there’s all these parenting activity apps that you can just watch the videos and get an idea of an activity or two. Or you can sub if you have cash to spare. I honestly just screen shot the activity and wing it later.

I hope this helps. Stay strong everyone