Boyfriend only wants blowjobs?

11 points•26 comments•submitted by princessofnewyork to r/DeadBedrooms

Hi, I've been a lurker here for a while but it's my first time posting. Anyway, my SO is a 23M HL and I'm a 20F ML. We've been together for 8 months now but we've only had penetrative sex twice. Sex is a decent sized priority for me. However, all my boyfriend seems to want is blowjobs and nothing else. I have no problem giving them to him but I'd really like a deeper level of intimacy. He doesn't seem to be interested in penetrative sex, even if I ask he just says "No, the head is fine". As if my wants aren't important too. He doesn't really like to return the favor when it comes to oral either. He's only eaten me out maybe once or twice and I had to beg for it pretty much. He claims that eating girls out is 'gross'. We also don't really cuddle or kiss and when I try to initiate stuff like that, he wants to get straight into a blowjob.

So, my question is how can I get him into doing more intimate things with me? And how can I get him to understand that my desires are just as important as his?