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[–][deleted] 30 points31 points32 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yep.
Also do I feel the need to defend this with reasoning? If yes, it's fear.
[–]Radtron3000FDS Disciple25 points26 points27 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Intuition is why I broke up with my recent ex. No regrets.
[–]Hot-apricotFDS Newbie15 points16 points17 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks! on behalf of all anxiety sufferers.
[–]pinkyberriesFDS Disciple11 points12 points13 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I suggest reading "the gift of fear". It's a good book.
[–]radical__daphneRuthless Strategist5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is great!
[–]throwaway93731FDS Apprentice7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ahh this is just what I needed. I find that I’m so guarded when it comes to men these days, I can’t tell when it’s my intuition vs. I’m just afraid of being hurt again.
[–]galian84FDS Apprentice5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I wished I listened to my gut about my last 3 exes...would have saved me so much heartache and headache.
This is a really good chart!
[–]redbirdfliesFDS Disciple1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Love this. Thank you!
[–]laura9sksFDS Newbie[S] 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
uwu
[–]throwawaytck1001FDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes! This is so much more useful :) Thank you.
[–]nymphaetamineFDS Disciple2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I needed this. I have anxiety & PTSD from a past abusive relationship and I often can't tell if my gut feelings are grounded in real warning signs or just fear. It helps to have a baseline to go off of.
[–]rinabeanFDS Disciple0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Intuition can make you fearful, anxious, ungrounded. I don't think this graphic is based in any kind of real psychological understanding - certainly not when dealing with the primal fear of a dangerous man
Maybe this is more for... applying for a job you're not sure you'll get.
[–]laura9sksFDS Newbie[S] 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It was shared by a psychotherapist, Seerut K. Chawla, on her instagram.
Here is the post with further explanation.
[–]rinabeanFDS Disciple2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks for the link. She admits it's "rarely frightening"
I think her advice is dangerous if applied to men, but she doesn't say what she intends it for.
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