I’m about to block a dude who’s mutually followed me for years now because I noticed something very off. I remember two years ago or so, he got married to a beautiful lady and had a beautiful baby with her.

For the first few months he kept pictures of his family up. Maybe half a year to a year in, the posts of his wife went missing and there were only a few pictures left of his baby on his Instagram. He tried to message me and I asked what happened to his wife, he claimed they were on a break or separated “because of her postpartum”. I left him on read and never replied because I did feel low value energy from him even before I joined FDS, but I wasn’t assertive enough at the time to just block/delete.

A man abandoning his wife during postpartum made me think he likely couldn’t wait to get his dick wet again or was just generally unsupportive with her depression. So it made me worry a lot about how much she’s probably doing for their daughter all on her own. I don’t use Instagram very often so when I logged on today and was looking through stories, I noticed his profile pop up and realized I should remove him from myself for good.

Looked at his Instagram feed before doing that and all pictures of his precious baby daughter are no where to be found now. Undoubtedly archived… He exclusively posts photos of cars and thirst traps of other women he took in the name of his “photography”. I’m guessing he’s back on dating apps and likely not mentioning he’s separated/recently divorced and a father… just living this same old sad ‘bachelor life’ in his 30s, avoiding responsibility and thinking it’s totally cool to hit on women while deceiving them about his past.

Have other women here subtly noticed things like this happen with men they once thought were decent?? I hope the mother of his daughter and his baby are doing well and that he’s at least paying child support. I just think if it were a woman who archived all photos of her child, she would be getting way more heat for it. I don’t know why lvm think this is okay.

Edit: to people who think they prefer to not share too much about their own personal life on social media, I believe it’s reasonable to not want to overexpose our children. I just find it highly questionable that he used to proudly post about his daughter and now he changed his social media to look like she never was born. He posts about everything else he’s proud of: which apparently is just cars and women who are not his wife. It is one thing if he doesn’t use social at all, it’s another thing when he does often use social to broadcast his other priorities in life… I feel protecting is different from mere hiding.