A Cringe Inducing Confession

AndyBrown65 · 2021-07-07T12:49:55+00:00

"Demand key back, or have locks changed"

Faaaarq.... please tell me she hasn't moved in...

Sadly, am I wrong to assume the poor lad doesn't see his dad? Sounds like she has alienated the boy from the father and there's some dad out there distraught, and probably paying child support for a kid he doesn't see, while she uses the $ for boob jobs, tats etc.

It's not your job to raise her kid.

So, change the locks, put up CCTV for the inevitable vandalism and take a video of the condition of your house inside ad out with a date stamp/proof just in case she comes back to boil your bunny.

ronak1112roshan · 2021-07-07T14:23:20+00:00

You are a certified idiot. In the future, do not think of sex as something that is not without consequences. Unless you are drowning in pussy, for the average man, a few sexual encounters might cause his brain to pair bond with the woman. Stay careful.
All your valuables, important documents, expensive shit should be immediately moved to a secure location. Like a short term storage locker (suggest setting up a password system with the owner, if possible). I would suggest not to give them to a friend, coz if she comes to know she might vandalize their house to get back at you.
Change the locks. Don't ask her for the key until you do. After changing the locks, ask for the key. If she gives it back without much drama, you are mostly safe. If she refuses to do it peacefully, brace yourself for the shitstorm.
Get hidden cameras and plant them around your house. Make them inconspicuous. Get a video recording of the entire house with a date and time stamp from somewhere irrefutable say a news channel for date and time. Leave nothing out, from the porch to the basement: get it on camera. Make multiple copies of it if needed. Have on on your phone, one on your computer, one in cloud storage and one on a pen drive or something.
Close any shared accounts only after you break up with her or when your above preparations are done. This includes any bank accounts, Disney+, Amazon Prime, Netflix, Hulu etc. Changing them right now might tip her off about something being afoot.
Screen record every text you send from now on. Better yet ask her to talk to you on email. The day you have the conversation of ending things, record your last conversation. Make her aware that you are recording the conversation (unless you have single party consent in your state).
If people on SM know about you, have posts explaining about the break-up ready to go. Write it on a notepad and have it ready to copy-and-paste when you are done. She might try and defame you on social media by posting all sorts of nasty shit on it about you. Don't block her yet. If you have a friend who follows her, use his account to monitor her for sometime for any false allegations if she blocks you.

This is what I can think of. This should protect you to a good extent from any fallout.

m8Nhm93WMGwC · 2021-07-07T13:55:17+00:00

Tell her you are in a huge debt to some gangs (borrowed money to buy crypto) and for her and her child safety she needs to stay away till you repay and after that "you probably would be broken for years".

alienmuseum · 2021-07-07T14:22:20+00:00

tattoos on women? Major turn off...

OwenWentFullMGTOW · 2021-07-07T13:48:04+00:00

Am I missing anything?

No, sounds like you basically gave her your entire life.

Srsly, cut her loose and move on. You can't fix her, her son or her poor life choices. Cut her loose. She's nothing but one liability after another.

Cut her loose.

kyledontcare · 2021-07-07T13:08:00+00:00

Have a good video camera ready to record when she has her melt down in case she runs to the cops and claims false accusations against you. Maybe even have a friend with you there as a witness.

bigfatincel · 2021-07-07T15:10:51+00:00

Yes, you fucked up. Now get out of Dodge.

2ravens · 2021-07-07T13:28:24+00:00

Can you just change the lock? If not, getting that key will be an issue I bet.

Snoo-1303 · 2021-07-07T18:16:15+00:00

Damn I hope this is satire. So many red flags in this women and you still fell for it. End it. End it. End it.

Awaythrowthrowaway3 · 2021-07-07T18:11:01+00:00

A key can be copied, change the locks. You have nothing to be ashamed of, she is “damaged” and it is in our nature as men to want to fix things. You will never be able to fix a woman. Good luck to you.

jabbercockey · 2021-07-07T19:24:53+00:00

You have the same trouble I do and why I try to go monk now.
I'm not red-pilled enough to not emotionally bond with a woman that I have physical intimacy with.

The sob stories work on me. In my work I deal with children so seeing a kid that looks like he needs help preys on my mind.

Don't do this again your tender heart will lead you into deep dark waters.

Now let me tell you how to get out of it:

Don't set up some demanding "you must leave now scene". That will just create drama.
What you want to do is start whining to her like a little bitch. Constantly complain about every little thing. I mean every little thing. "It's too hot." "It's too cold." "My food is too salty." " There isn't enough salt on my food." etc.

Sit her down and tell her you feel so close to her and so connected with her, that you've never felt like this about any woman before. Say " Now I feel like I can really share with you." Then spend several hours having a heart to heart. Tell her your fears , your doubts, your favorite colors. How you cried when your favorite show got canceled. Your fear of spiders or bats or dogs whatever. If you really don't have any of that make some up and be emotional about it. Tell her how you wish it was acceptable for men to wear toenail polish because you love the way it looks and would love a polish with sparkles in it.
Say "I know it sounds silly, but I can't help how I feel."
Tell her about all the teachers you've had that were mean and how they scarred you for life and you would be more successful if they hadn't stunted your ambitions.
Tell her how your grandad, uncle etc. never gave you enough attention.
Then ask her to just hold you. Whimper and shake a little while she does and say "I feel so close to you and it's so comforting knowing I have someone to confide in."
Cap the night off by asking if you can borrow $200 til payday. Say "Otherwise I will have to pawn great-grandma's bracelet and I hate to think of strangers fondling it." Sniffle a little.

she will get gone soon you won't have to have a big blow-up or lose sleep.

Good luck my man.

Doc_Sithicus · 2021-07-07T20:08:47+00:00

You fucked up.

On the plus side, you are aware that you've fucked up and you are taking steps to remedy the situation.

Other folks here gave you a lot of good advice so I'm just going to say this: learn from this mistake and never do it again.

Number_Useful · 2021-07-07T21:21:37+00:00

You gotta go full beta. Say someone in your immediate family passed away and you’re having a hard time. You’ll need to stay with someone else and take time off work. Cry, make her believe

AlphabetMafia8787 · 2021-07-07T15:16:16+00:00

I suspect that she wants me to step in and fix her errors in raising her son.

Trust me, the kid will fight you every step of the way, and mom will stay between the 2 of you supporting him while encouraging you to keep trying, try harder, etc.

It is a task I DO NOT want to do. I will not do it. It is too much work, and there is nothing in it for me.

The only thing in it for you is self-damage. It's really a game you cannot will and you'll basically be Sisyphus.

She is a former cutter (self harm).

Geez, dude: Runaway! You ever heard: "Don't stick your dick in crazy"...??? Yeah, those cutters are BPD. You don't even fuck those girls. All you do with BPD chicks is get away and try to become invisible to them. They destroy lives throughout their entire existence.

Honeybadgeroncrack · 2021-07-07T18:48:48+00:00

Change the locks. A key will be copied before it is returned

Funny_Wolverine_9 · 2021-07-08T02:34:15+00:00

One thing that comes up over and over in this forum is to stay away from single mom's. I hope this is a good learning experience. Please prepare yourself for any false allegations that may arise. Please ensure breakup is done via texts so she can't accuse you of threatening her. Please ensure all conversations are recorded going forward.

I myself was accused of rape from my own ex-wife

Black_Jackel · 2021-07-08T15:56:22+00:00

You fucked up, but it could be a lot worst. She doesn’t live with you so end now before she tries to. Also next time you see a kid being raised poorly say to yourself in the back of your mind “I’m not that kids dad, thank god.”

ctgjerts · 2021-07-07T16:58:49+00:00

Might want to check with an atty as she's living in the house and may have renter rights.

Best thing to do at this point is get all your valuables out of the house, stop restocking the fridge, forget to pay the utilities, cancel all entertainment, stop bathing, and start being an ass. You want her to decide you're not worth the effort so she moves out or seeks greener pastures.

Title	A Cringe Inducing Confession
Author	jimjames1967
Upvotes	37
Comments	47
Date	July 7, 2021 12:42 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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