It’s all so exhausting

MannerNo7000 · 2024-04-16T02:38:02+00:00

Hypocrisy and double standards everywhere.

‘We are equal.’

Equal treatment happens:

‘No not that’

1gbh · 2024-04-16T04:28:48+00:00

There needs to be a subreddit for these hypocrites

AdamChap · 2024-04-16T07:18:37+00:00

This is a good one OP. Love the way men having texts is bad but women having sex videos is okay.

Really there is a lack of understanding of what men and women value and are insecure about. Women's insecurities are something we have to take seriously but our own insecurities are to be mocked and laughed at.

We are told to man up when it's our own negative thought but to step up and listen when she has one.

There's the toxic masculinity they are fond of talking about.

Aletheian2271 · 2024-04-16T05:59:58+00:00

Reddit is full of simps. Just ask about body count and see the simps sail course.

"it just means she's experienced " "she's Sexualy free and your sexualy repressed" "real men are secure enough not to care"

They post this as their wife's boyfriend gives them a thumps up.

El_Psy_Congroo4477 · 2024-04-16T08:30:06+00:00

If you tell the internet a story about some disagreement between a man and woman and ask them to side with one or the other, the majority will blindly side with the woman regardless of the circumstances. Repost these stories with the genders flipped and watch the responses flip as well. We're conditioned to believe that women can do no wrong and should always be sided with over men.

Chama-HUH · 2024-04-16T02:45:52+00:00

Men need to stop taking advice from Reddit lol, our intuition is the best thing for us, do you really believe the man who asked that question doesn’t know what his wife is doing is wrong, he knows what he needs to do but he isn’t confident in his decision making. Trust your gut always especially when it comes to relationships don’t end up like the sad souls on the divorced men sub, women will never have your best interest at heart so fuck their advice.

_Lucifer7699_ · 2024-04-16T03:47:37+00:00

They cry for equality and then get angry when it's handed to them.

Fuck these hypocrites.

Clothes_More · 2024-04-16T05:15:08+00:00

the "im going clubbing dressed like a hoe and you cant tell me otherwise" generation REALLY thinks they can have such discussions with US?!

Our forefathers are spinning in their graves right now at our general wellbeing and women being the first line of parasites acting like "useful idiots" and deterring us from actual change.

Unknownsadman · 2024-04-16T09:51:29+00:00

Ehhibit B answers are shocking. Altoughthey have lower upvotes than the ones on A

Traditional-Bunch-56 · 2024-04-16T03:10:41+00:00

One more reason to follow your gut..

ayroxus94 · 2024-04-16T11:56:32+00:00

In this day and age, you NEED to keep track of messages from your exes. You never know what they will accuse you of.

DMFan79 · 2024-04-16T06:29:50+00:00

Just a note to anyone who finds himself in the same situation: do not relent.

Asking to erase your past, for whatever reason or trying to decide what you can or cannot keep (be it something saved on your hard disk or a collection of magazines and so on) is a way to control you.

That's a huge red flag. I repeat, do not relent and take some time to think if about your relationship.

Cosmicrule43 · 2024-04-16T11:09:38+00:00

The amount of sly manipulation these people are doing is the very reason masculinity is dying in the west. Don't fall for such BS and stay true to your principles no matter what.

Mister_Hugh_Mungus · 2024-04-16T12:56:03+00:00

There was a post a few days ago about a guy who was uncomfortable about his GF flashing her tits and dancing topless with other men in the club.

He was being gaslit into believing that he is being controlling, rather than trying to establish boundaries in the relationship. Imagine if a girls bf was helicoptering their dick at other women, somehow think it would be different...

Reddit advice in 2024 is actually insane. I suggest all men flip the genders, no more posts from the male perspective to force balanced responses.

If you look at the commenters, you will they constantly take the womans side. I told one of them they were currently at 20/20 for taking a negative view of men and ended up getting reprimanded by reddit. I always thought we were allowed to look at post histories?

Billmacia · 2024-04-16T11:48:42+00:00

I live those type of experiment in reddit, you can easly see the bias toward women and see in a small lens how society treat women (lesser punishment and lower expectation for them).

Johntoreno · 2024-04-16T10:59:25+00:00

Reddit is a cesspool of degenerates, freaks&sociopaths. Nothing surprises me anymore, combined with the liberal censorship after trump's victory and tumblr exodus, reddit has become an irredeemable echo chamber.

cutelikekobra · 2024-04-16T05:00:20+00:00

I don't think the people who were so hellbent on deleting old texts are the same people arguing about keeping the sex tape. Having said that. The double standards exist because we have a lot of simps in this world that would do anything to get laid/validated. And, they don't mind bending over backwards for almost any woman. Also, since when have people (millennials) decided that airing their personal affairs for other people was a good thing. I mean, what the fuck. Why be with a person who keeps the sex tape with their ex still around. Leave and move ahead.

First world problems - when you have too much of a good thing going on so you bitch and whine.

wiptcream · 2024-04-16T13:03:18+00:00

simps are a plague on our society.

Harpua81 · 2024-04-16T14:38:44+00:00

Meanwhile, guy finds his girl had old sex tapes and the comments are along the lines of: "Who cares? Y'all prudes. She just misses her younger body!" https://www.reddit.com/r/redditonwiki/s/CszAn52x6n

neko_zora · 2024-04-16T15:36:47+00:00

For once I actually felt nauseous after reading a post online…

Peter_Principle_ · 2024-04-16T12:05:39+00:00

"Why keep them?"

Why? Because when that ex comes back ten years later weeping "he raped me!” to a detective, prosecutor and/or jury, that material is going to be the only evidence you have that you didn't commit a sex crime. You're insecure? I don't want to go to prison for decades.

Can't believe no one - on this sub of all places - has pointed it out yet.

I ain't deletin' shit. To anyone who asks the answer is a resounding, unwavering "no". Get over it or take a hike.

TipiTapi · 2024-04-16T13:41:10+00:00

IDK man, the ones on Exh. B have 1-2 upvotes each. Hardly a popular opinion (no wonder, its insane).

Edit: I was right. Found the post and all the top comments are with OP.

Lmao.

elebrin · 2024-04-16T13:48:50+00:00

Honestly, I wouldn't want to do it because it's going to take a few weeks of effort to go digging for all of the old messages and delete them and I don't want to put in that effort.

Then again, I don't move my contacts or old messages or anything when I get a new phone. I program in the numbers I want/need and leave it at that. I have maybe 30 numbers in my phone and that's it.

Sad-Needleworker-325 · 2024-04-16T15:43:15+00:00

Any sub that has this sort of vibe is muted, for me. Just healthier and better to let these freaks scream at each other in their echo chambers

redidiott · 2024-04-16T15:52:46+00:00

I can't relate to this society. It's not a matter of taking sides. It's that the whole of it is on one side, and I'm on another. They're all degenerates to my way of thinking, A, B... all the way through Z. And that's OK.

Just stay the hell away from me.

sickofretards · 2024-04-16T16:37:22+00:00

I hate monkeys. - Suguru Geto

Omecore65 · 2024-04-16T16:51:04+00:00

This is nit picking, look at the reacts from exhibit A to B. Show the same general like consensus.

anotherfreakingalt · 2024-04-16T19:07:42+00:00

I am losing faith dear fucking god

wafflepiezz · 2024-04-17T02:23:30+00:00

Misandry and toxic feminism is so mainstream now, it’s sad. I think Reddit has some of the most ridiculous ones though.

Gen Z women becoming brainwashed with entitlement, delusion, and selfishness.

Fu2-10 · 2024-04-17T03:03:29+00:00

This is just absurd.

IamTheConstitution · 2024-04-17T04:40:15+00:00

Just to be clear. These are 2 different people, right? If so, the 1st guy, just delete, but she should respect him and give him time and not become a crazy bitch. His old text aren’t a red flag. Her becoming crazy is. As for the second, obviously more than a red flag. Run away. Thinking if I was in his shoes I’d feel so sick and her throwing them away wouldn’t be enough. Yes I’d feel inadequate because she wants something to remind her of how her sex was with her ex.

IthrowAwayYourAdvice · 2024-04-16T19:22:56+00:00

This isn't an art gallery no need to put exhibit, other then that good stuff

jonasshoop · 2024-04-16T12:39:23+00:00

You are being selective on the comments you chose. If you go to the thread, the most heavily upvoted responses are that she should delete them.

MushroomMade · 2024-04-16T11:24:10+00:00

Honestly why you care so much about deleting them, you admit it wasn't on your mind, is it just stubborness?

Title	It’s all so exhausting
Author	Funderwoodsxbox
Upvotes	464
Comments	79
Date	April 16, 2024 2:23 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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