Amber Heard was arrested for suspected domestic violence in 2009. Not a lot of coverage on it, though. Must not be relevant ...

civilsaint · 2016-06-07T14:38:35+00:00

It's not domestic violence because she's a girl.

Imnotmrabut · 2016-06-07T17:22:35+00:00

Mutual Combat - in DV cases 70% of women are aggressors - 40% mutual aggressors and in 30% Unilateral aggressors - the same figures also apply to men.

So a person who has a history of DV Perp marries a person with no history of DV either as perp or victim and now we have that person being listed as the Perp and the Perp as the victim.

What do men experience when attacked?

Table 1. Types, Frequency, and Prevalence of IPV

Type of IPV	Percent who Experienced	Average # of Times It happened in Past Year
Minor Psychological	100.0%	62.1
Severe Psychological	96.0%	27.8
Controlling Behaviors	93.4%	39.8
Insisting on Sex	41.1%	3.9
Minor Physical	98.7%	31.6
Severe Physical	90.4%	15.1
Very Severe Physical	54.0%	4.0
Minor Injuries	77.5%	9.7
Severe Injuries	35.1%	4.6

WHAT HAPPENDED DURING THE LAST PHYSICAL ARGUMENT? We asked about the last physical argument that took place between the helpseekers and their female partners. The majority of men reported that in the latest instance, their female partners had hit first (93%), and in response, the male helpseekers:

Males Response When Female Partner Hit First	%
Attempted to get away	85.4%
Yelled and Cursed	62.8%
Called Friends/Family	45.3%
Cried	29.8%
Called Police	28.3%
Grabbed/Shoved/Pushed/Hit Back	19.5%

During the last physical argument, according to the reports of male helpseekers, the female partner was more than twice as likely to have been drinking than the male partner (26.2%; 11.5%, respectively).

http://www2.clarku.edu/faculty/dhines/Men_closer_look_IT_factsheet_final.pdf Hines, Denise A., & Douglas, Emily M. (2010). A closer look at men who sustain intimate terrorism by women. Partner Abuse, 1(3), 286-313.

Given the known patterns and statistics and that Heard has a known and reported DV History and Depp does not (and even has past family saying loudly he does not) in all likelihood this is all a case of mutual Combat with heard the Instigator due to her internal and life long motivations.

Did Depp abuser her? I looks likely, but what is not being talked about is did she abuse Depp and if so HOW? That is not attacking the victim, that is investigating a crime scene and checking all evidence to see what has happened.

I do believe that Heard is no innocent and have to ask just one question. When it became clear that the marriage/relationship was doomed..... who was the driving force behind the 1 year wait time to see if it could all be fixed?

I'm no betting man, but I'm betting of that person being Heard. It's what long term abusers do so that they can retain power and control over their target whilst giving of the "imprimatur" of being the victim! Depp has no associated History, but Heard has.

brzcory · 2016-06-07T16:26:19+00:00

Her ex-wife looks like her now-ex-husband.

Coincidence?

DailMail_Bot · 2016-06-07T14:11:01+00:00

Non-Daily Mail Mirror

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InvaderDem · 2016-06-07T16:11:35+00:00

It's in my Trending section on Facebook, so it's not exactly going unnoticed.

Rethgil · 2016-06-07T20:59:59+00:00

That's sickening. Despite all have seen and heard of feminism and our media I can't believe they aren't reporting this. Can you even imagine the reaction the genders were reversed? They'd be laughing at Amber openly saying she was violent herself so what goes around comes around. Not to mention saying she is an adult who knows how to use her feet and walk away if she is so victimised.

Feminists scream about how women are the physical equal to men. Then in the same breath, conveniently ignore that they are able to leave bad partners and are not little babies who need governments to hold their hands to be able to find the front door and simply walk away. Its what men are expected to do every day. Turn the other cheek and walk away.

ThePigmanAgain · 2016-06-07T18:22:26+00:00

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Il128 · 2016-06-07T19:25:19+00:00

It is very, very, very difficult to get a woman charged with domestic violence. Unless she does it in front of the police or there are TWO witnesses or a recording the man is going to jail.

For these stats to look this way, it'd absolutely incredible. Think about it.

2016-06-07T19:28:36+00:00

Imagine if Depp was.

Game over.

2016-06-07T19:21:45+00:00

/u/heimdahl81 pointed out in another sub that her bruise in the photo towards the bottom appears to be in a different place than the bruise in the video. It seems to be shifted down more..

whelponry · 2016-06-07T15:35:17+00:00

Amber, this one's for you...

McFeely_Smackup · 2016-06-07T21:12:28+00:00

she was arrested for "grabbing her girlfriends arm"?

How does a woman manage to get arrested for that?

InvaderDem · 2016-06-07T14:12:08+00:00

TMZ link

arosebyanyother_user · 2016-06-08T03:53:48+00:00

An arrest is not a conviction FYI. I do not think we can judge this idiot and false accuser based on an arrest.

I was falsely accused, arrested, tried and found unanimously not guilty. That is why I became an equal rights activist.

So this hits a bit of a nerve with me.

SigmundFloyd76 · 2016-06-07T15:48:28+00:00

What?!!? Lol.

Surprise surprise.

Are we allowed to acknowledge the pattern here?

SpikeNLB · 2016-06-07T18:38:17+00:00

Well at least now we know when she started developing her 'playbook' so to speak.

Il128 · 2016-06-07T20:00:58+00:00

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ThePigmanAgain · 2016-06-07T23:42:25+00:00

Interesting. If this is what she does in public, you have to wonder what she does in private...

Rabid_Chocobo · 2016-06-08T02:50:03+00:00

Jesus, who revised this article before they printed it?

CountVonVague · 2016-06-08T06:46:35+00:00

"Depp has no pre-nup" figures

52576078 · 2016-06-08T13:37:20+00:00

I wonder if Heard's ex-girlfriend has spoken up in her defence, like Depp's ex has in his defence?

2016-06-08T15:55:34+00:00

Here is my shot in the dark on this.

Amber Heard is a bisexual woman, but likes women more for emotional intimacy and men for only occasional physical intimacy. This is not all that uncommon.

She meets Johnny Depp in casual circles - wants to fuck him (curiosity, notoriety, status, etc...) so she does. Johnny gets caught up because a young starlet 20 years his junior with bisexual tendencies just rocked his world in bed. He wants to lock her down. Johnny is rich, famous and very much used to getting what he wants - and he wants Amber Heard.

Hey what a deal for Amber Heard! She get access to Depp's wealth and fame, plus he's doing all the pursuing so it's not much work for her.

Meanwhile, she never really broke it off with her former female partner as they remain "friends". Basically lives a lie being with Johnny while being emotionally committed to Ms. Van Ree. Depp is in love. She is not. This runs its course until it becomes blatantly obvious to everyone in Depp's personal circle that she's just using him. It comes to a head. She has a history of violent behavior so my guess is she either got physical with Depp and ended up with a little temporary red mark under her eye in the ensuing tussle, or she just flat out made the shit up. Either way, she's going to leverage it as much as she can to extract the biggest payoff possible for her and Ms. Van Ree in the divorce.

Meanwhile Depp's former partner and mother of his children defends his character.

Makes me wonder... Did Depp make a mistake ending it with a woman who truly loved him - who to this day still has his back? Admittedly I don't know enough for that answer, but from a far it seems possible.

One thing is for certain - I think he was a fool for wifing up Heard. He should have known better - should have kept her as nothing more than a spinning plate and then dissed her off when she demanded more. 50 years old - already has grown kids - why the fuck is he getting married for? Why would any man in this day and age get married unless children and family was the goal. I know Heard is young enough for kids, but I'm not getting the settled down mom vibe from her. Depp was dumb.

Title	Amber Heard was arrested for suspected domestic violence in 2009. Not a lot of coverage on it, though. Must not be relevant ...
Author	InvaderDem
Upvotes	1130
Comments	57
Date	June 7, 2016 2:09 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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