I think people who date like would greatly benefit from starting an online community where we can meet like minded individuals. I think we ought to start what I call commitment culture. So commitment culture has different aspects to it from social narratives to cultural perception/attitudes. But at its core it follows the philosophy of eudaimonia which is a philosophy of happiness that can be found in Aristotle's writing. I like to think of it favoring sustained happiness or delayed gratification over fleeting joy or instant gratification. But now to define aspects of commitment culture. I don't mean to shame or judge people who engage in hook up culture do you ok. I know many of you will disregard this and just argue for the sake of arguing.

Social narrative: So in this context social narrative means a roadmap of finding romantic partners. We would teach kids and young adults to date seriously with intention of marriage or long term relationship. We would teach them we ought to hold onto the people who make us happy for long as possible instead of chasing fleeting joy perpetually. Even if we break up with our high school sweat hearts we will have learned important lessons we can use to help us aide with our future relationship. This does not mean we have to give up on our philosophy only to reinforce this philosophy. We would also teach them you don't need variety of sexual partners to be happy or content. We can seek variety else where in life.

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Social values: Some of our social values include the coupling of sex and romance, sustaining happiness as long as possible, and allowing yourself to feel attached and emotions. There are other things we ought to value such as empathy, emotional regulation, relationship skills, boundaries and video games. Yes video games are important to our culture as well lol. But going back to sex, we can prove to the world that shaming or religion is not needed for people to couple sex and romance together exclusively.

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Some extra stuff: This is a long shot but having our own blog would be a good idea, we can have scientific articles debunking arguments from sex at dawn alikes and monogamy deniers. We can attck the normalization of cheating culture as well teach people to spot redflags. We can offer good relationship and dating advices. We can do so much great things for people if we all collaborated and build up commitment culture. I know I am just daydreaming but it be cool if we all connected together. I wish all my commitment buddies a good night

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Edit: I know the sex positivite feminist of this subreddit will leave mean and nasty comments aimed to mock me. I am not shaming or judging people who live differently I just want community for people like me.