game changes as you age

Red_vsBlue · 2014-11-28T15:58:54+00:00

You're only as old as the women you're fucking.

bsutansalt · 2014-11-28T15:58:48+00:00

Yes the game changes as you age. It gets easier! I've noticed in recent months I don't have to work as hard to get women's interest. I take that back. I don't have to do any work at all, they're just naturally into me. I really don't know what's changed in the last couple years while I was in an LTR, but it's a remarkable difference.

Maybe the women I'm surrounding myself with are older and it's them nearing the wall that's what's different? I don't go to bars & clubs like I used to so that could possibly explain it. Guess there's only one way to find out.

And "Game" doesn't really change. Women are still going to generally be attracted to the same things. It's just for older guys we are more naturally attractive I've found, so less "game" is required.

94redstealth · 2014-11-28T14:21:50+00:00

I bring this up because most of the discussion send to be focused towards 24 year olds, give our take 4 years.

vengefully_yours · 2014-11-28T19:58:52+00:00

Gray hair is a plus, muscle is a huge plus, be the confident man and shit gets easier. I do better now at 45 than I did at 35 and 25, despite having nearly the same muscular build. Two divorces and I've become the man they must qualify to, I am the prize, I have the fucking cookie. My age range is the same, 18-28, but I'll throw a bone to the 29-45 girls from time to time if they look good enough.

My game is polished to the point nobody can tell, not even other guys when I game a bitch. If they see me crash and burn, it's not because I was rejected, it's because I rejected her and killed the attraction on purpose. Had to start that with the prevalence of methamphetamine using girls and heroin junkies. I like thin girls and those drugs keep a girl thin, so even a hint of it and I scuttle my ship. Don't need hepatitis C or all my shit pawned to get a fix. Plenty of non drug usinggirls out there.

BluepillProfessor · 2014-11-28T16:04:27+00:00

Womyn are womyn.

The change that occurs is YOU. YOU get more confident and cultivate a better IDGAF attitude that attracts them like moths to a flame.

getomc · 2014-11-28T15:28:13+00:00

It's in the sidebar. It's all the same. Keep doing the same shit to girls of.the same age. Hit on 'em. If they don't act right, next them. Given that you've had time to increase your SMV, the only thing that's different is that you don't have to fake having equal SMV rather than leveraging a possible future.

Of course, if you were a slacker...

GregariousWolf · 2014-11-28T17:28:41+00:00

A man is only as old as the woman he feels. --Groucho Marx

favours_of_the_moon · 2014-11-28T22:07:02+00:00

It changes in that once you hit 30, the shoe is on the other foot.

There is a huge noticeable change about who wants who more. I noticed it and talked about it extensively 10 years before TRP existed. It's really astonishing.

JamesRoscoe · 2014-11-29T06:23:03+00:00

Does game change when you age? Of course it does. When you were 21 years old, you had no money, but you could lift a car. If you were a bad boy, bonus points! When you are 51, if you have fought this life to best of your ability, you might be able to play the "provider" card. But, at 51, you can mix that with "the most interesting man in the world". As you get older, you will find a group of women who are tired of getting lied to. They will be tired of instability. The whore phase is winding down. As you get older, you gain power. I have a woman who is 17 years my junior. I get to understand the younger generation through her. I understand through her, and through many of you, that Alpha men are now the enemy. The irony is that women INSTINCTIVELY, need that man who is built for command. They don't know why, he will probably be an asshole. Leaders almost always are. Now, as you get older, you will develop and refine a bullshit detector. You will stop tolerating flakey, you will stop letting women get into a relationship and gain weight. You will lay out what you expect from her, and in return, what she will get from you. That, gentlemen, is a position of power! If you do what you are supposed to do as man, you can look a woman in the eyes, and say, my way or the highway, and she will go. Why? Because what you are giving her is much better than what she has now. That is what you can do when you get older.

primordialbeast85 · 2014-11-29T04:02:20+00:00

For me, after having great success as a young man and being brutalized by the baby trap game, I'm in a weird stage. Pretty much MGTOW as of now, just starting to get back years later. When you open Pandora's box and you are subject to how women can be on both sides, wow, it's a mind fuck. Haha honestly, just looking to get my finances in order, get in the best shape of my life and waiting on fucking Vasagel honestly. Generally my motto is fuck women and I'm being very, very cautious about getting back into this pool. Realizing there is no long term plan here and it's all about temporary satisfaction has morale at an all time low.

2014-11-28T22:53:57+00:00

No. The game's always the same. The only thing that changes is how girls see you.

ultrasuperthrowaway · 2014-11-28T16:17:39+00:00

Much easier since experience now tells me what to do, and realize situations.

I'll give two examples:

I call this the "waiting game". Was partying on the roof of a hostel in Istanbul in the Sultan-Ahmet. Girl at party interested in me and another dude. I realized what type of situation it is and pace myself and my drinking and energy levels. Other dude drinks too much and passes out. I win by default and get the girl and have sex with her for an entire week while we travel by train to Athens then by boat to Mykonos and Santorini. Notable experience: waking up to a blowjob with the sun rise in Santorini one of the most beautiful locations in the world.
I call this "know the cockblock" At a mansion party of a house sitter in suburban Austin Texas. 2 women who are exchange students from Finland and Sweden show interest in me the go upstairs. I proceed to follow but get extreme negativity from one person at the party telling me to home instead. Experience taught me never let myself get blocked, after long stand off I finally get upstairs and the girl who was blocking me actually throws a condom into the room and walks off. I proceed to have sex with the 2 foreign exchange students until 4am when I leave.

2014-11-28T21:57:57+00:00

I've only recently swallowed the Pill at 20, but I've noticed that yes, it does.

When I was in high school, I was probably about a 6.8 on the SMV scale. About a month ago, I went to the homecoming game to play with the marching band(I was the trumpet section leader back then) 'cause I was bored that night. When I was in the stands screaming high notes(double F and higher), I noticed some of the really attractive cheerleaders on the field and many of the color guard were eye flirting the Hell out of me. One of the girls in the color guard started talking to me and once she found out I was 20, she lit up like a Christmas tree.

Of course, I didn't do anything illegal that night nor do I plan to in the future(age of consent is 17 in my state), but that's just my 2¢.

denmaur · 2014-11-28T17:11:17+00:00

I'd also like to see more discussed about older guys. Of course, "older" is relative. I'm talking about over 40 and over 50. I'm 56 and fresh out of a divorce and have absolutely no interest in women my age. So, what age is realistic for me to chase, 20's, 30's 40's? My last two relationships since the divorce have both been with mid-twenties girls and I'd love to stay in that range if it's reasonable. Then again, I don't want to waste a bunch of time chasing them if it's a rarity for them to be interested in guys my age. I'm successful in my career, stay in good shape, dress fairly nice but could improve some in that area, and the last two loved me- literally (if you can believe them).

DreamBoatGuy25 · 2014-11-28T17:40:53+00:00

I would think that being an older (40+) guy, especially one who is interested in much younger women(who isn't), would be the most opportune time to start taking advantage of what traveling outside the country has to offer.

We all know that American men have it much easier in places like Brazil, Eastern Europe, Asia, Central/South America. And by the time you get to 40 you should have a decent career going and enough financial flexibility to hop over to some of these places and snag yourself someone very RPW.

I'm not one myself, but over the last few years I've been hearing a lot about Mormon men doing their "mission" in Brazil and other countries where the culture still values femininity and feminine virtue, getting a younger wife there, and bringing her back to the states. Apparently it's driving American Mormon women into the nuthouse but, that's a bed they made, or at least it's a bed their mothers made for them by never teaching them how to be an actual woman.

In any case I would definitely consider traveling overseas. It's generally not as a expensive as you might think, especially if you like Asian or Latin women. There are a lot of countries where the dollar goes a long way.

Playing the game of self-entitled narcissistic American woman can be frustrating. A change in environment can make all the difference. If the game your playing isn't working for you, simply change the game.

2014-11-29T01:58:52+00:00

It gets easier as you're more confident and have more to offer. I've also found I get more selective. Women past the wall have too much baggage usually, so I unashamedly focus on the young ones, say 18-24, even if I'm twice their age. I just wanna have a good time, not taking everything too serious.

artemiswasfowled · 2014-11-28T20:39:29+00:00

Going against what some in here have said, I will never regret hitting my peak in college. Being the frat boy in a well liked frat and enjoying the beauty of your youth while getting laid along with it, nothing beats it. Chilling with your male friends who keep pointing you towards girls that are interested in you and having that sense of community. I endorse the red pill but I am in an LTR right now, don't regret it one bit.

As you get older, your SMV does go up to a lot of women but I think it is mainly because by then you have figured it all out. IMO, the novelty factor has gone away by then. Fucking a hot girl while you are 18, young, and on your own for the first time is so much more fun than being 30 and doing it. There is just something about getting pussy in your youth that seems to make you a happier guy than getting it while older.

Title	game changes as you age
Author	94redstealth
Upvotes	12
Comments	50
Date	November 28, 2014 2:20 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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