I met this HB7 on Tinder and got her number. I usually do a pre screen call however I wanted to see how it went with just texting. A little bit of banter with a shit test via text and then straight to logistics.

Yesterday...

  • Her: blah blah "Tell me your last name so I can tell my bf (who's a cop) just in case you run away with me"
  • Me: "haha you think I'm going to run away with you?! Let's introduce your bf to my grandma, they might hit it off.
  • Her: blah blah "oh my best friend, he's single, you think she'll like him?"
  • Me: "She's sharp like a hawk and destroys Sudoku, ok so time and place"....
  • Her: cool, def want to meet, sounds fun

Next day calls me 1.5 hours prior to meeting

  • Her: "oh hey there's a game or something downtown and there's going to be lots of traffic, let's meet some other time" (in my mind, riight cause we were going to meet no where near the game, let's use that excuse, I didn't get the impression this was a shit test but her bowing out, np)

  • Me: "oh right, well we were going to do this and that (left out details kept mysterious) but hey take care.

Then I hop on Tinder and unmatch her. I'm at at the point where there are women who want to meet me and don't bail. I'm not wasting my time, abundance mentality.

10 minutes later...

  • Her: "hey I went to tinder to grab a picture of you to save to my contacts but you deleted me? did you get the impression I'm not interested because of tonight? or did you lose interest?"
  • Me: no response, let that hamster spin

4 hours later...

  • Her: "ok I thought you were a nice guy, glad I dodged your bullet"

On the plus side she called to tell me in advance she didn't want to meet. cool, still don't owe you anything.

Don't waste time on these women, don't waste time on trying to figure out why she lost interest or to change her mind, let go and game other women.