Had an appt yesterday to get a full panel. The doc asked why and I told him my old running buddy was doing it and TRT strongly recommended it, my mail-in saliva sample gave a score of 91, and shared my lack of energy and sexual desire.

Dr: "How often do you have sex?"

Me: "Good times are once a week, but overall it's been once a month."

Dr: "That's totally normal. Nothing to be alarmed about. Sure, 18 year olds are much more active, but nothing's unusual about your frequency."

He then around three times to the fact that it might be depression (even though I told him my outlook on life is positive) and that after the results come back, we could pursue that route if my T levels are normal (even though the nurse earlier said "T has such an incredible range of what's normal..."

If he says no, I'll go somewhere else. But I'm curious if this pushback is normal, and why there would be pushback.