Is TRP suppose to work like this?

HahahahaWaitWhat · 2014-07-01T15:58:22+00:00

Uh, no, that's not how it works. Your fiance is just a douchebag.

Archwinger · 2014-07-01T16:43:59+00:00

Is TRP suppose to work like this?

No.

My fiancee of 4 years has started taking The Red Pill,

You mean reading stuff on the internet? He already sounds like he has a very, very well-developed internet hobby.

but it is like he is just using it to make himself feel ok about his unproductive habits.

I suppose there have been a few Red Pill readers who proudly declared, "Doing whatever ~~comes easiest~~ I want is ~~the path of least resistance~~ manly!" That's really the wrong message, and by "really" and "the wrong message", I mean like 180 degrees in the wrong direction. The Red Pill is out there for men who have been failing miserably under the status quo looking to change their lives. Not to justify their continuation of a failing strategy.

He does not want sex. All he does is jerk off, play video games, watch porn, drink, smoke, did I mention jerk off and watch porn? And he does not work out. All he does is take up space on the couch.

Did you spend 30-45 seconds reading anything on The Red Pill before asking whether your fiancee's behavior is what TRP is "suppose" to be?

To top this off he now acts entitled, I have to make him sandwiches and do laundry bc he is THE MAN and I have to do anything womanly at home, if I try to talk he tells me to shutup and that he does not have to deal with my bullshit or that I am being stupid.

Man, I wish saying I was "the man" was all it took to be the man in my house. Life would be so ~~stupid~~ manly!

He is mad at me everyday but won't tell me why, he will sayse he does not need to explain himself to me and that i am lucky to be with him.

Your man is mad at himself for being a loser, and mad at himself for not having what it takes to make a single positive change in his life. You're just the closest target, because blaming yourself for things that are your fault is ~~honest and a great first step toward change~~ dumb and beta!

I am not blaming TRP for ruining my relationship, I am just wondering what I get out of this relationship now that he has become emotionally abusive from taking on only certain things from TRP?

I really take offense to how easily women throw around the "abusive" label. If being a jackass and arguing with your significant other is "abusive" then every single relationship under the sun is abusive. He doesn't hit you. He doesn't rape you. He's not blackmailing you. He isn't forcing you to do anything you don't want to do. He just says mean things. Oh, boo hoo. Your parents, your boss, your friends, and every person you ever date from now until the end of your life is going to say mean shit to you. They're not abusing you.

vandaalen · 2014-07-01T16:06:39+00:00

Could it be that your fiancé actually is a woman?

americnleprchaun · 2014-07-01T17:02:02+00:00

It seems that he's increased his self-respect to the utmost, without putting in equal effort in self-improvement. If I were you I'd dump him and get back on the market.

fiancee of 4 years

Is there a confirmed date for your marriage? Because it sounds like he's wasting your time.

retsage · 2014-07-01T18:15:35+00:00

He's a waste of space, but you're the loser staying with him.

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drrtyfrrnr · 2014-07-01T15:49:41+00:00

Ugh, I hate these threads.

Johnny10toes · 2014-07-01T18:14:10+00:00

I hope he sorts it out. If he's reading TRP he should eventually work out what's going on.

In the mean time put in your time at the gym.

Jibs_ · 2014-07-01T19:54:21+00:00

On the 1-10 scale where do you and him fall?

thepillwastaken · 2014-07-01T23:06:39+00:00

This is a massive troll post. Terrible.

alreadyredschool · 2014-07-02T10:14:44+00:00

He is a moron. But you really have to fix that porn addiction thing.

He probably thinks he is able to replace you with 7 plates but he is far far away from that. Ask him to cut porn down to 1 time a day. Too much porn is bad.

If he really wants to go RP he should start cold showers

http://impossiblehq.com/tedxluc-cold-shower-therapy

and nofap.

He can't be in control of the relationship without being a man.

Title	Is TRP suppose to work like this?
Author	throwaway0987666
Upvotes	0
Comments	39
Date	July 1, 2014 3:39 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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