Haven’t had any sexual contact with a female in about 3 years and that was high school. Going to a wedding the next month, anytime I go to an event with women it’s in my head already that there no way I get laid . Which obviously leads to not getting laid. I can’t just change my mindset no matter how hard I try. I lift and chase my purpose but I just know in the back of my head I’m not getting ass. How do o break this?