Almost every rule that was unspoken or spoken that I as a man had to follow, my date completely broke.

Any insecurities or weird hobbies or traumas that would be perceived badly I usually kept to myself but every girl it's ready and willing to dump all her problems and emotional baggage on the first day among other things

That's because it's still socially acceptable for women to do this and not men

When a man does all these things such as be emotional and be vulnerable this man Hood gets question and his sexuality and either is socially penalized or loses any attraction points he gained for his woman.

Of course I'm typing this out put in drive as it's never as simple as this but it's just something I've noticed over the years.

My last ex love bombed me. And I have no problem with that nor do I find it cringy but it's also most likely due to the fact that she is a girl and I find it hard to imagine that if I roll the reverse that I would have been taken seriously.