Is this boring?

norwegiandoggo · 2024-07-12T12:16:19+00:00

You find women who prefer a similar lifestyle to yourself.

You're not a drinking party guy? Cool beans. There are many women who aren't into drinking and partying either. You should focus on those women and ignore whatever the party girls say. Party girls are not going to be your thing.

Western-Month-3877 · 2024-07-12T12:58:28+00:00

I’d find a hobby or hobbies. It could be hiking, sports, into fixing cars, playing a musical instrument, etc.

The main point of an interesting person (thus makes him attractive) is he enjoys his life, being expressive, likes doing challenging stuff thus full of dynamics in his life. A hobby would add a lot of points to those traits. This is why guys playing sports like basketball or football, or in a band are stereotypically seen as hot or attractive. You don’t wanna be seen dull, boring, and predictable.

VrilHunter · 2024-07-12T14:04:34+00:00

Get some hobbies. Join clubs related to those hobbies. There you'll meet like minded girls.

You have to find the places where the type of girls you like go to. Simple.

Monchichi_b · 2024-07-12T12:20:47+00:00

It's not about drinking and smoking or clubbing. Actually it's a green flag not doing it. I guess you also don't want to attract those girls. But a woman needs to feel something besides you. She needs to wonder what you do, how it makes her feel being next to you. Long term attraction is about the potential life she sees next to you. You could be a successful Business man who is travelling a lot, maybe you're Spiritual and seek something deep, maybe you get excited doing your sports. How does it feel to be you, do you think your life is exciting? Are you excited about your life? If you are you will attract the girls you want.

Most people are too afraid to live their life fully and try to live up to expectations of others. For men it is often the expectations of the father. One great advice I got was to live as if your father is dead.

Broad-Cranberry-9050 · 2024-07-12T17:54:54+00:00

I think you should find people who enjoy your lifestyle. Sounds like you are going for people who find that lifestyle fun and at 22 people want to enjoy that lifestyle now before they settle down. That's why you are experiencing this. I would never tell you to do something you dont want to. If you dont find it fun you odnt find it fun. I was like you didnt smoke, drink or club. I had personal reasons for it and I also just didnt find it fun. But as I got older I realized that I was missing out on experiences I wanted so I decided to try out clubbing and drinking a bit. I learned to enjoy it. With drinking I found a number of drinks I felt comfortable with that didn't get me too hammered. I dont love to drink but I enjoy it at times. It is possible to limit yourself which is something I didnt know I could do because I had never tried it out. My experience with drinking was if people drank they didnt know when to stop. But even my friends tell me I've always been good at not drinking too much. Again if you don't want to do it that is fine. If you are ever curious, I'd say just give clubbing/drinking a try maybe you will like it or learn to enjoy it.

OkProfessional9405 · 2024-07-12T20:41:06+00:00

I think you need to broaden your appeal by being less boring. Don't get me wrong I'm not telling you to do things you don't like, I'm telling you to pick something that you can get behind that will give you a social outlet. Otherwise your dating pool will just be too small.

Consider taking a dance class.

aFalseSlimShady · 2024-07-12T21:39:56+00:00

I don't do any of those things. I've dated women that do. My answer to a girl I'm involved with when she's going out with friends is "have fun, be safe, call me if you need me."

MrAnonPoster · 2024-07-12T11:49:03+00:00

You obtain yourself an exciting lifestyle

GymBroTRT · 2024-07-12T12:12:49+00:00

Have you tried cutting off your dick and balls and joining a monastery?

Dry_Tune2919 · 2024-07-12T13:26:40+00:00

Yea, stick to the boring Indian girls

Title	Is this boring?
Author	im_guide
Upvotes	0
Comments	28
Date	July 12, 2024 11:24 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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