I am 22M better than average exotic looking dude in Miami. When I am drinking juice I am an animal with the liquid courage. Able to do and talk my way into anything I want. I’ve always been good at hustling and finessing dudes my whole life. But when it comes to chicks while being sober seems like my sexual power is significantly weaker. I tend to find myself being to kind and polite. When I’m drinking I’m a dog and idgaf I say whatever and get laid easy. I don’t want to rely on liquor to get laid. I’ve been practicing and am pretty extroverted naturally, however I feel like I’m lacking tactics and startegy. I’d appreciate some advice on a generic game plan I can use on my cold approaches to establish sexual tension ASAP. I am not looking for advice on securing a relationship as that is quite easy for me. I feel like my politeness and honesty make chicks look at me as relationship material. However I don’t want a relationship especially not with a Miami chick 😂.

Also why do I feel like i comes off as desperate on cold approaches when I’m sober.

Thanks in advance