When You Experience Firsthand How Flaky and Fickle(Some Women) Are You’re Constantly Reminded Why It’s a Numbers Game

adamlaxmax · 2026-06-05T05:52:45+00:00

if she reschedules with an actual day - is it really a full flake? Most girls dont even offer an alternative time which just means its a plain out rejection.

mkkpt · 2026-06-05T07:42:38+00:00

You know it's a numbers game, but you're not playing the numbers.

A Saturday date for most people a good sign. For all you know she's finishing up her period and wants to fuck you senseless on Saturday.

I'm not saying compromise your work, boundaries or suffer 1000 reschedules. You can reschedule for a day that suits you both and send her some low effort tension building flirty messages.

refreshingface · 2026-06-05T10:01:01+00:00

Yes, you have to treat it as if you are a worker at an assembly line.

On to the NEXT, with no attachment to the previous.

Illustrious-Tooth702 · 2026-06-05T14:46:39+00:00

Yeah, it makes sense. You need to find the one who is decent person, and a good match for you. You need to weed out the untrustworthy ones. Especially if you want to have a stable long term relationship.

To be honest this is the main reason why I don't go to online dating sites. There are a lot of immature people there.

BustingFeelsGreat · 2026-06-05T17:51:25+00:00

Flake me once shame on you -
flake me twice shame on me.

Elegant-Wolf-12 · 2026-06-08T20:42:53+00:00

No need to un-match. Just don't let yourself get caught up in the reaction

Matter_Still · 2026-06-05T08:18:49+00:00

To suggest that it's "a numbers game" is to admit that randomness dictates the outcome--and that dating is a variation of the "Infinite Monkey Theorem": put a typewriter in front of a large number of chimps and ultimately their random pecking on the keys will result in having typed all the works of Shakespeare.

It sounds good, but it's not true. As a matter of fact there is a very small chance that a given chimp will even come up with the word "banana".

I've read enough sad comments by a collection of guys who, as a group, have invested more than a hundred years in running the numbers, made thousands of approaches, and still haven't been on a date, kissed, or come close to getting laid.

At the same time, I personally know at least a dozen guys who were shy and backward but who finally approached one girl, began dating her, got engaged, and eventually married to her.

Clearly, it is not always a "numbers game". I believe that idea is used as a justification by guys who need to approach MANY women to be found attractive by one, or by guys who launch themselves at women despite not having any reason to believe they will be successful.

Title	When You Experience Firsthand How Flaky and Fickle(Some Women) Are You’re Constantly Reminded Why It’s a Numbers Game
Author	United-Implement-382
Upvotes	15
Comments	17
Date	June 5, 2026 5:45 AM UTC (1 month ago)
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