How to work on text game

CulturalDetective · 2019-01-24T06:35:40+00:00

RSDjeffy always says the sole purpose of texting is to arrange meeting. I tend to agree

neverquitehere · 2019-01-24T06:21:40+00:00

Be straight up, a woman would rather it that way then mess around over text for hours. Have light conversation and slowly steer the conversation in the direction you want.

Stop over thinking. You've got this 👊👊

NotEvenLegit · 2019-01-24T14:16:09+00:00

I hate theories so here are my actual experiences. I’m currently in college and all I do is study, gym, and date. I’ve experienced and seen what works and what doesn’t. I studied from dating coaches that are controversial like RSD and those who are very credible like Mark Manson. I’ve boiled it down to basically this:

Fuck conversation, just ask to hang out. Maybe send one text of “how you doin” or “it was meeting you” but that’s about it. Just ask to hang out, if she says yes, ask when she’s free and set a location and time. If she gives you some BS answer along the borders of “no”, you can ask her a second time later or just delete number.

The principle is very simple: girls who likes you will make it easy to meet up. You don’t need paragraphs of texts to convince her to meet up. Just ask. Girls who are not really interested will have a lot of resistance. Don’t even bother with girls who are not interested, why would you hang out with somebody who doesn’t enjoy your company. The date is gonna suck.

Many girls have told me stories of guys they text and have also shown me their text messages with guys. I’ve had guys call the girl while she was on a date with me. I’ve had guys sending thirsty messages while the girl is hanging out with me. Girls will text you for the sake of texting. You might get a dose of validation from a text back, but if it doesn’t lead to a meet up it’s ultimately pointless. The point of getting numbers of social media info is to set up dates.

Here’s a personal reason why I basically don’t text anymore. After going on enough dates with girls who actually enjoys my company, I find having a real life conversation with someone who actually cares about me is infinitely more fulfilling than any text messages I can send or receive. Text to me at this point is just a “date set up tool” because real life conversation is so much more fulfilling.

This does not mean I don’t get rejected, I still do, all the time. But this is the most efficient method I know so I’m sharing it with you.

woahman0421 · 2019-01-24T05:57:04+00:00

Text in the way that you would talk

Or what your ideal is for how a real world conversation plays

2019-01-24T11:21:30+00:00

NEVER EVER EVER have a text conversation with a girl you want to date. Use text/calls to set the date, and be silent until the date. If she cancels or want to follow up the date, send 1 message that is fun and flirty. That’s it. No extra fluff.

LingeringGnome · 2019-01-24T08:51:39+00:00

You: Hey this is that irresistible bastard Eric from American Eagle.

Her: haha, okay.

You: let's finish our conversation, see how it goes tomorrow night at bar X, 9.

Then you put down the phone.

Less is almost always more with women unless it's penis size (haha).

Let me also add that this is why I DO NOT recommend KINO for beginners, and instead to just go for the kiss. Because beginners get all up in their head over every tiny little thing. It's better to be minimalist and execute that minimalism effectively than be a weirdo who's confused about what to do next. Text game and Kino are very similar in that regard.

kaleidoscopekitten2 · 2019-01-24T12:20:11+00:00

As a women, I’m saying to ask lots of questions! Google conversation starters and questions to ask a date. Within a couple of days I ask deep questions, but I’m looking for a relationship not just sex, so maybe for just sex you would send flirty emojis and innuendos. And then if the guy doesn’t ask me on a date within a couple of days, which I prefer, I ask them.

I like to meet within a week and hopefully less time. Like if we start talking on Sunday and talk all day Sunday and after work Monday then if he doesn’t ask me out on Tuesday I will. I would then try to set the plans for Wed-Fri after work. I like to meet IRL as soon as possible and if the date was good, a longer second date could happen Saturday or Sunday.

Roly__Poly__ · 2019-01-24T07:26:29+00:00

There are girls who like texting back and forth, but you don't want to do that with your time. Loser application. If they want your attention, they can come get it in person.

Warm it up via text just enough to move the conversation towards meeting up. Then do the "let's meet up at time x or time y for sushi" or whatever date you wanna go on.

Small, personal suggestion: Make the date be whatever YOU wanna do that day.

Title	How to work on text game
Author	crispix24
Upvotes	9
Comments	24
Date	January 24, 2019 5:53 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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