Approaching can get so... dull

NewtypeJ · 2019-11-27T11:08:19+00:00

I like this one because I’m definitely an introvert. I let myself treat it like it’s a social experiment of some kind. I am an intelligent scientist doing research into the world of PUA. That way my curiosity overrides my introversion. I also fluff a lot when talking to women, as in, make up some exaggerated details for the sake of lightening the mood. Really it’s just me keeping my own privacy. Note these lies aren’t about major things, it’s more in a joking manner about small things that won’t really affect anything. Saying you have millions of dollars is lying, unless you do but then you don’t need game. Saying you’re nocturnal and that you think you’re a vampire while playfully biting her on her neck is fluff (with kino of course).

The key thing to remember is, you are who you are. As an introvert, you’ll want to pull away and seclude yourself. Depending on your level of introversion, you might want to take some time out to see if you really want a relationship.

Avoid clubs. They’re loud and filled with people. Bad environment for us and we can’t thrive. Find solo activities you can do, that way you can meet women and do what you enjoy. Never thought I’d ever meet women at my fight gym I go to, but it happens.

Good luck and happy hunting.

stuff_of_legend · 2019-11-27T10:32:27+00:00

The only way to make it more fun in real life is to make it more fun in your imagination. If everytime you think of going out to meet people you imagine yourself having a dull, miserable and strenuous experience then your central nervous system, reticular activating system and basically your subconscious mind sees those images and feelings as a request and it diligently creates them in your experience, hence the term 'self-fulfilling prophecy'.

If you really want to have fun, have fun in your mind, modify your beliefs about yourself and your beliefs about women and your environment and just like magic your requests to your subconscious mind will manifest in your reality.

sinbad2011 · 2019-11-27T19:28:02+00:00

Bad attitude.

push it. push yourself in many other ways. your routine has become predictable. you desire unpredictability.

FlexEconGuy · 2019-11-27T10:17:24+00:00

Hang out at cafes where people read books.

azsxdcfvg · 2019-11-27T19:28:59+00:00

Well, why are you approaching people? What do you want?

ChrisDarmount · 2019-11-27T21:09:52+00:00

It sounds like you need to take more risks and have fun with it.

It’s probably getting dull because you’re doing the same thing over and over trying to protect your self from the pain of rejection.

Try to loosen up and do some crazy shit and make some memories. If it’s getting dollar monotonous, you’re doing it wrong. You should be getting into all kinds of weird situations and very many times the day should end in unexpected ways.

rich_god · 2019-11-27T11:10:50+00:00

If you don't have fun, people won't have fun with you and you won't have success or progression. Do things that you want to do, focus on having fun, and then meet people from there.

Title	Approaching can get so... dull
Author	Social_cynicism
Upvotes	8
Comments	22
Date	November 27, 2019 10:00 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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