incredibly weird sub

bill0124 · 2022-09-16T19:32:49+00:00

I have no idea what you're talking about. All those 'mean' comments are in response to people saying they're hopeless and how horrible the dating market is. "Focus on your career, bro" is good advice when someone is that fucked up in the head.

Plenty advice is shared here. People go out of their way to make these massive field reports. People share videos and other resources that have helped them.

MocDcStufffins · 2022-09-16T20:03:24+00:00

You can't make someone who isn't attracted to you change their mind. What you are learning here is;

How to make yourself more attractive.
How to maximize your chances with someone who is already attracted to you.
Where to meet women to be able to shoot your shot.

So, the most common advice is work on being the best version of yourself, because its the thing that has the biggest impact on your ability for find women. When you wholeheartedly believe you are a catch, then women will also.

Then you work on conversation skills and reading situations/body language.

Then putting that to practice by going where the right kind of women are. Boom, that is the whole thing.

This subreddit is the place to talk about the finer points of these things and hone skills. But points 2 and 3 are mostly useless if you haven't worked on #1.

simplyaguyonline · 2022-09-16T16:32:02+00:00

Being realistic is not shitting on people.

How can you talk about “seduction,” when you are unable to have a basic level of attraction as a baseline?

It seem cruel. But being a fat, poor, antisocial person is unattractive to pretty much the entire world. So you gotta start by getting better.

Then you can discuss attracting people. Indicators of interest. Push and pull. Wit and flirting. Game and approaches.

Can’t teach football to someone who can’t walk dude.

atomant88 · 2022-09-16T16:19:40+00:00

Start with the wiki

But no rookie posts or questions are allowed here. So every post should be a font of knowledge if the mods are enforcing the rules

EducationalMeeting95 · 2022-09-16T16:25:20+00:00

So here's the thing

Attraction/ seduction /dating is an education not a tip/trick thing.

Mostly people learn through pain, experience, research and trial n error.

Nobody can give it to you in a post / comment format.

Yes people can help you with guidance.

As to whom to listen to or what book to read Or even what to do.

But can't educate you completely.

All of those statements you mentioned are indeed useful advices. But only people who have been rejected / failed and Really want to do better Will take one of those as a useful advice.

Basically you have to be in a place to Need it. Only then it's valuable.

My advice to you is to get knowledge on all all these things.

Be a researcher. Hunt for knowledge read as much as you can.

It will take you on a weird journey that will challenge A Lot of what you know and change a lot in you. Your mentality, thought process, perception, identity and a lot of things.

But it'll build a lens in your mind and you'll be able to somehow 'See' things like you couldn't before.

Like why did that girl ghost you ? Why was she excited that time but not later ? Why did she say that when she meant the other thing ? Why the fuck are women so different ?

All this is a journey. Can't happen in a post .

All the best.

Blazinhazen_ · 2022-09-16T20:54:47+00:00

*proceeds to not give any actual advice* Ok lol

Reasonable-Software2 · 2022-09-16T22:48:56+00:00

I casually browse this sub, definitely not for advice though.

Look into Todd V for serious, actionable advice

Competitive-Bill-612 · 2022-09-16T18:42:27+00:00

All the advice in the world isn’t gona save you unless you save yourself and put the work in both dating. That includes self betterment. Whose gona love you if you don’t even love yourself; your body, your goals. There is no magic advice or one word that gets a woman to open her clothes up for you. The criticism in this page is meant to wake you up from what is actually possible.

If we were being all nice about it we’d just tell you fuck it just be yourself and love will come like, like what society tells you.

Take it with a pinch of salt. Word of advice if you can’t handle a little criticism through a bunch of strangers behind a laptop, youre not gonna be able to handle the rejection from real people and improving your dating life is really not for you.

ciaobellapgh · 2022-09-16T18:57:49+00:00

Okay you want a starting point? Go to the gym and lift weights... Bro. Focus on your career. No one is coming to save you.

You're going to disregard this as not being advice because you're so focused on being a helpless victim. But if you decide to get your head out of your ass then you will see that the advice everyone has been giving you is excellent advice and a perfect starting point.

If you look like a weak man (you already act like one) then you will benefit hugely from the gym. No one has ever gone to the gym and regretted it.

Focus on your career. Are you a loser and just spend your time playing video games or generally wasting time? That's not attractive. It's not attractive to men or women.

Lastly, no one is coming to save you. Because they're not. You sound lazy, whiny, critical, and sarcastic. Generally just incredibly negative. You will always be this type of loser unless you choose to not be. Has anything you tried in the past worked to make you stop being a loser? No? Okay so then try the advice you keep disregarding instead

Senior-Dot387 · 2022-09-16T22:40:41+00:00

I believe actual seduction is a personal thing so you can’t really give concrete advice. All you can really do is give little shoves in the right direction, hoping that person will find their own way to seduce women.

Title	incredibly weird sub
Author	ciaobellapgh
Upvotes	12
Comments	47
Date	September 16, 2022 4:14 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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