So, I sometimes lie about my age when meeting girls. I just found it really makes things easier if they're a year or two older. I have brushed this off in the past by saying "I had a bet with a friend", pretty effectively. But I did it early on.

I've been seeing this one girl for over a month now, and she thinks I'm 24, when in fact I'm her age (22). Our birthdays are both coming up very soon, but I'm not sure if we'll be spending either together. What's your play here, tell her as soon as possible or just wait for her to find out (Could probably get away with this for a very long time)? Also interested to hear general thoughts and if anyone else does this.

I don't like the fact that if I'm not able to brush it off smoothly she'll start wondering "what else I'm lying about".

Anyway, I do expect to get heavily flamed for this, but it should make for an interesting topic of discussion heh...