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Use hands and mouth. Rotating Corkscrew motion with hands, up and down hitting the sweet spot at the base of the "crown", alternating between pressure with hand and pressure with mouth. Doesn't take long.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/26 11:04 PM
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This woman raised you and modeled behavior for how to have a relationship with the opposite sex. Your dad as well. Dig deep beyond this latest awareness, find out what behavior you might bring into your next relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/26 02:54 PM
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My phrasing was off, I didn't mean to accept someone regardless of their faults, I meant to see someone for who they are and accept that you can't change them. Having the agency to stand up for yourself is a different skill set.
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/26 03:04 AM
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I'm a married man, so take my opinion with a grain of salt. Honestly you sounded pretty controlling and manipulative in your post, and he sounds a bit immature and yet to actualize into a free thinking, confident, and masculine man. A red pilled woman will tolerate some roughness around the edges of her man, as well as ideological disagreements, because of the safety and balance that a grounded, masculine man provides. I recommend practicing acceptance of a person based on their virtues and deme…
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/26 01:46 AM
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You don't, you just don't say yes to them.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/26 01:01 AM
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Use your hand in a corkscrew motion while you suck, hand/lip motion overlaps where the base and head meet. Mouth focuses on the head - he shouldn't be able to last more than 5min
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/26 02:39 PM
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The initial "No" weeds out the guys that are lazy, the men that get it understand that no could be a placeholder for a future "Yes", and they are just doing the dance. Men are visual, and they feel connection through intimacy. They don't get a connection from the dance or the commitment piece...yet. A man can commit to any woman, but a woman can only commit to the right man.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/25 02:17 PM
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Marriage is definitely hard mode - you give up dread game, a "cheap" but a very effective tool to manage women.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/24 03:01 AM
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Sounds like borderline personality disorder, or the tendencies of it. You should try to get diagnosed. It's a very difficult thing to manage - from both sides. It requires a very compassionate and patient partner, with clear communication of boundaries. My mother has it, and I used to date someone who was BPD.
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/23 02:40 AM
2

I get a breakout on my right butt cheek that lasts 2-3 days every 6 months. I am down playing it, my situation is not that bad.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 01:27 AM
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Herpes ain't much of a big deal, you probably already have it and don't even realize.
/r/askTRP03/07/19 11:13 PM
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No, what you did was play into your FWB's insecurities by making her seek validation from you. "Wait, so if i'm only fucking him, why hasn't he decided to make me his girlfriend?" It's a very fine line - you just have to keep up the attraction. The moment it fades, her entire perspective will flip.
/r/askTRP01/02/19 03:37 PM
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Quit prioritizing your motivation/goals around what you think girls want. Women are not the goal, they wait at the finish line and pick a winner, i.e. they come along for the ride. It's not the abs that girls like, it's the way that they make them FEEL that matter. All you gotta do is do the requisite sequence for a particular girl and get her to FEEL a certain way. (Money/Looks/Confidence being the generic triangle of attraction). I don't have abs (not for the past 5 years at least) - girls sti…
/r/askTRP07/01/19 06:36 PM
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Tldr: your mindset is a key element of your SMV. Build confidence and it will channel into abundance.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 07:51 PM
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Go for a walk - a park, a trail, a walk along the bay, etc. Keeps you both moving, plenty of distractions along the way to talk about, cheap as fuck.
/r/askTRP10/10/18 02:39 PM
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I respectfully disagree, you're framing it through a relative scale. The n-count is an objective indicator of the pair bonding potential of a woman - it's a snapshot of accumulated behavior. A woman sleeping with you does not make you a Chad, you simply did the right monkey dance to make her feel that you were. If she fucks you ASAP it means she puts out easily - and so sex is probably the only thing she should get.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/18 06:07 PM
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I Just married my dream RP woman. She never went to college. I married her because of her incredible capability to nurture and support me, which in turn inspires me to support her in the ways I am suited to. I could care less about her career or educational accomplishments - I'm prepared to use the ones I have to serve as the provider. In fact, I expect her to stay at home and focus on raising the kids when they come. In the meantime, and soon after the kids are old enough to not need her 24/7 c…
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/18 09:30 PM
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I would call into Stefan Molyneux'e show and speak with him. He'd clear things up for you REAL quickly.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/18 04:36 PM
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Yes - if a woman is above a 5 she is considered fuckable.
/r/askTRP28/05/18 03:33 AM
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Guys having experience in the sexual market is not equivalent to women having experience. Men NEED that experience - we are bumbling bufoons in our journey of actualizing into RP men - and the biological consequence to our pair bonding potential is not so severe as it is to our female counterparts. You want a man that "just gets it", right? Early 20s guys don't, trust me. You want a Captain, not a Chadlet. You want a man that will cherish and protect your purity, not squander it. Your youth is o…
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/18 12:22 AM
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As an RP man, my honest assessment is that your behavior is uninspiring. You are more concerned with securing who you feel to be an alpha than you are in behaving like a RPW. The two are not mutually independent.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/18 03:28 AM
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Exactly. Women's fundamental role and responsibility is to inspire men to compete in dominance hierarchies. You aren't going to give a a shit about an inanimate sex bot - it's a recipe for motivational disaster.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/18 06:50 PM
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Try dating women that come from more traditional cultures - Eastern European women for example. Expect you to be the man, they know their place as the woman. Cook, clean, they scoff at feminism. Still hypergamous and solipsistic (AWALT), but you can be more at ease because they haven't been corrupted by Marxist ideas.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 12:31 AM
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Each of your paragraphs is a different topic, loosely strung together under a theme of "women just wait at the finish line, women are solipsitic, women aren't worth the trouble". You can learn how to play with fire, but there's really no point in complaining about the fact that fire can burn you.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 10:58 PM
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It's essentially what /u/redpillschool said in his stickied comment, albeit he did it in a more succinct and direct way. I decided to write a story about it.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 07:56 PM
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Read Briffault's Law and then ask yourself if women are honorable.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 06:20 PM
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Monk mode is a great phase to engage. You acquire a natural abundance mentality purely by disconnecting & resetting yourself - you channel a patience and discipline that really grounds you. Self improvement is a breeze. But monk mode only lasts so long - on the order of 6-24 months. As it subsides make sure to keep an eye on your motivation - be present and aware of your real-time experience. Women, as much of a pain in the ass they are, have a biological influence of keeping us sharp. Their hyp…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 05:41 PM
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If you want to do this, you simply have to abandon favourable ground The operative term being "favourable", because the definition changes with age and perspective. Pussy is a commodity and in isolation it is not worthy of veneration - but eventually one gets to the point that the novelty of a new pussy just doesn't inspire as much as it used to. Some advance into and develop more sophisticated social networks that you benefit in brandishing that wedding band. Others get tired of a hedonistic an…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/18 05:20 PM
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What does it feel like? The world is my playground, and all the women running around playing are horny teenagers that are easy to conquer. I clearly see where I stand in the dominance hierarchies of my networks. All I need to do is go through a couple of choreographed steps and I get what I want. It's almost become boring - my abundance mentality has shifted my standards further to want more. Pussy has become a commodity with low inherent value - fucking girls you don't care about get's old. It'…
/r/askTRP26/02/18 04:13 PM
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Oh I didn't even see that part. I agree. My LTR lives with me, we share expenses in this manner because we are a team - we are essentially emulating what may become something that is much more. So OP is dating for only a month? Slow down, don't go overboard, and don't try to match or outshine the captain dollar for dollar - especially if you don't make nearly as much as him. You're in the trial period - you're interviewing each other for the full time position. Show him your appreciation. Gratit…
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/18 04:36 AM
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Here's what I do with my GF: We take our weekly income and establish a ratio for expenses. At the end of the day, I make about 3x the money she does. This means that for every $1 she contributes to expenses, my equivalent is $3. Things we spend for together as a couple are split in this manner: vacations, big purchase items like furniture & appliances, legal fees, rent. I buy groceries most of the time, every once in a while she comes home with some grocery shopping. I 100% pay for things a boyf…
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/18 09:45 PM
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"I am 100% honest, you should come over and find out the rest"
/r/askTRP27/12/17 04:03 PM
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About 2 years to fully actualize. After being a TRP keyboard warrior for a few months and passing the anger phase, I got myself a GF that served as a TRP guinea pig. Great to see AWALT live, and to put a lot of the theory into practice. I also lived with female roommates for a period.
/r/askTRP23/12/17 06:03 PM
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In the later stages of life, having children or serving as a mentor to a younger generation (coach, boss, etc.) is critical to self-fulfillment. Without engaging in the process of passing knowledge down to the new generation(s) you risk a battle with depression. White people - have more children.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 02:05 PM
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The commercial is geared for the wife, not the husband.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/17 02:01 PM
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I gave you my argument, you haven't responded to it yet. In the context of my argument, even suggesting that women engage in the aforementioned activities IS silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/17 12:47 AM
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You ignored the context of what I wrote and chose to focus purely on the semantics of the word "choose" with regards to men. Obviously the man is choosing the woman, but he doesn't get to choose that sex happens without the woman making that decision first. Wanna reformulate your argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/17 12:33 AM
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No, you're saying that. Maybe you should reread what I wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/17 11:43 PM
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Good bot
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/17 08:39 PM
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Yes. Women have no business operating in combat roles, and I sure as hell don't want a female cop coming to help me when there's a burglary at my home. Equality is a falsehood, and it applies to the obvious cases of manual labor/dangerous jobs an well as fields like tech. Culture plays a role in the gender gaps we see, but so does Biology. To ignore that leads to people writing the silly paragraph that you just did. Men have no inherent value, they are defined by what they do. Their burden is to…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/17 08:34 PM
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Choice: Women are the gatekeepers of sex, they make the ultimate decision of whether or not it happens. Men don't get to choose, they just put themselves out there and hope/work to be chosen. Women make the choice, not men. Biological Burden: The reproductive burden falls on women, some choose to fuck with it by taking birth control or by sexually engaging with men not suited to raise a child. Men do not have this biological burden - their burden is their disposability. These two points push the…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/17 06:24 PM
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In the 6 years of my career so far (applications engineering/sales engineering) I have worked for a total of 6 companies. 1 doesn't count as it was an acquisition, and for 1 other I only worked there for 4 months (bad fit) - but this turned out to be a good thing -Entry level at 50k -Next jump to 56k (new job) -Next jump to $65k (new job) -Next jump to $80k (big raise - really I was underpaid) -Next jump to $84k (small raise - acquisition) -Next jump to $110k (bad fit, only worked there 4 months…
/r/askTRP16/07/17 08:57 PM
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Some people have it, others don't. But if I had to say - you learn through practice and emulation, so your best bet is to find someone with a high EQ and observe them. You also need to emotionally ground yourself - look into stoicism and establish the baseline of what really matters. Take the red pill (in the sense of TRP) - FYI for me it took about 2 years for results to actualize. I'm on year 4 now and I still need to keep blue pill conditioning in check. Look into dark triad traits and see wh…
/r/askTRP27/05/17 05:46 PM
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Guys use it for sex, period.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/17 02:01 PM
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You should always put every decision under consideration through a Machiavellian filter: "Can this decision benefit me? In which ways could I leverage this situation to come out ahead?" Think: selfish. This is an approach that is best combined with a strong EQ. EQ = Emotional Quotient, which can be considered to be the emotional counterpart of IQ = Intelligence Quotient. People with high EQs are able to read the emotions of social situations and that of other people and use that information to g…
/r/askTRP27/05/17 01:54 PM
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Have her stick a finger in the butt when she gives you head, it's awesome.
/r/askTRP20/04/17 05:07 PM
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You're stuck with a kid, deal with it. It means that you need to maintain a stricter abundance mentality, don't sweat it when women can't cope with a kid in the picture. From Machiavellian point of view, I would recommend preying on her insecurities when possible and also leveraging the value that taking care of a kid presents. Don't mention the kid and game as usual: remember, sexual strategy is amoral. In the event that it comes up or they find out, act natural as if they just found out you ow…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 04:00 PM
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Especially South Africa amirite! Dat apartheid
/r/PussyPass19/04/17 02:54 PM
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AKA Moldylocks AKA Pubacabra AKA Snatchsquatch AKA Pubacca
/r/PussyPass18/04/17 03:37 PM
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I.e., check out the toolbox of sexual strategy known as /r/TheRedPill for those who don't know. Plenty of crossover with /r/DarkTriad (kind of the /r/darkenlightenment of relationships) when it comes to conquering relationships with people, particularly women, in a Machiavellian way.
/r/PussyPass18/04/17 02:30 PM
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I think this one https://www.reddit.com/r/The_Donald/comments/63fzjn/shills_downvoting_this_cernovich_on_alex_jones/
/r/PussyPass05/04/17 07:48 PM
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I'm pretty sure Muslims are above women and fags now
/r/PussyPass30/03/17 10:52 PM
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https://www1.udel.edu/educ/gottfredson/30years/Rushton-Jensen30years.pdf Read this normies, a summary of 30 years of IQ research.
/r/PussyPass21/03/17 06:41 PM
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To be honest, it sounds like you don't pay any attention to this woman and she's so desperate that this was an extreme way to catch your eye. I've had two examples of this happen to me in the past: I got pulled aside by a teacher because apparently some girl was offended that I laughed at a joke that someone made during lunch the previous day. I never remember that joke ever being told, I can only assume that I was laughing at something else while she got her feelings hurt. Regardless, whether o…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 03:32 PM
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Self actualization is serious business.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 11:02 PM
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This comment adds zero value to this community, why is it being upvoted?
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 08:47 PM
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I agree that It was white knighting in the sense that gender was irrelevant to the point being made.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 08:06 PM
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Women are the worst people to ask for relationship or dating advice. It's not because they say simple shit like be funny or compassionate, they are being 100% truthful every time. It's because they give you advice on what they want from their Chad with no consideration of you and what you need to become that Chad. It's hard waiting at the finish line.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 01:59 PM
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Actually, she was speaking 100% truthfully when she gave you that response, it just wasn't the complete answer. She wants kindness and compassion from the company asshole.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 09:28 PM
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I made a post about this concept a year ago regarding the Plasticity of your brain. The sooner you take the red pill during BP indoctrination, the easier the red pilling process is in regards to transition and lifestyle upkeep.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/16 01:00 AM
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Eh, life's not that serious. She breaks up with you? So be it, confused little darling that she is. She's only the most responsible teenager in the house, you really can't fault her for it. Abundance mentality provides a peaceful and commanding mental state - it's not a "defensive" tool. You don't need to "channel" abundance mentality so that you can ghost a girl, you simply have it and you have control of your life. If a girl leaves, then let her leave. She can come back if it suits you, be a k…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 07:04 PM
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I call it blue pill plasticity
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 12:10 AM
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Yea, no one said you wouldn't burn yourself if you played with fire.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 01:00 PM
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The ideal situation is to somehow convince her that an abortion is in her best interest, i.e. the Hail Mary
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 04:10 PM
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Women are but the most responsible teenager in the house. You can appreciate this statement without holding them in contempt. The beauty lies in your responsibility to be a man. Women will only be as shitty as you let them be.
/r/askTRP13/12/16 02:38 PM
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/asktrp quality post, no offense but gtfo until you're ready to post here. (reported - this will be removed soon) take her on one more date, and then escalate like a man. If she puts up more ASD then be very frank that you aren't having your needs met (dread), and move on. Either way that she responds will be what you will be looking for.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/16 04:27 PM
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Hey man, you don't need to wait until she leaves a scar. It's a useful reminder after you've left and all is done, but not worth the disrespect.
/r/askTRP11/12/16 04:08 PM
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We say don't post because you dilute the sub with low quality content. This community exists for purposes much greater than yourself.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 09:34 PM
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Piss off. You're not ready to post here if this is what you're inspired to write. edit: I notice this is the second time you submit a complaint about the sidebar. The first one got removed, this one will too.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 07:50 PM
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A woman inviting you to drink alcohol with her.
/r/askTRP18/11/16 02:01 PM
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Treat every new girl you meet like she's a dude Easy: in your head strip away her tits, ass, and sexual appeal and judge her like a dude.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/16 08:44 AM
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"Commitment or GTFO" is perfect, what a great way to apply TRP's fervor into the RPW framework.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/16 07:00 PM
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Women are but the most responsible teenager in the house. You, as the man, do not get a day off being the man. No matter how irrational their behavior may be, you are still required to be the beacon of rationality. Do you blame the woman for being irrational? Should you blame yourself for being rational? No, you carry on as the man. You are disposable until you prove otherwise.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 02:01 PM
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https://therationalmale.com/2016/10/24/please-breakup-with-me/
/r/askTRP03/11/16 01:03 AM
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No woman will say something like that to a man she respects. She got comfortable. Put some dread, give her a taste of her own medicine (i.e. small tits? talk about your titty fucking fetish, etc.). Drop comments constantly about how attractive other women are. Be prepared to take a "L".
/r/askTRP06/10/16 04:19 PM
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Piss of with your moralizing, this is a sub for discussion.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/16 04:00 PM
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FYI Archwinger is one of the most based red pilled dudes of the TRP community. He wasn't hostile at all, and trust me - you didn't offend him. He is simply letting you know that you aren't special.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/16 11:46 PM
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Get yourself a woman from a traditional society, one whose family comes from nothing. Source: currently dating a 22 y/o from Moldova.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/16 10:45 PM
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Women will ignore everyone in the room that falls into the lower 80%. The alpha of the room, or AMOG, will be the focus of her attention.
/r/askTRP22/09/16 05:02 PM
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As Rollo puts it, it's called being a man "who just gets it".
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 09:08 PM
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The Red Pill may not be the most useful toolbox to manage depression, essentially you're just gonna hear "man up" several different ways. What TRP advocates is really just that, so it could help depending on your perspective. I like to perceive TRP through the guise of Hedonistic Nihilism - Hedonism is the pursuit of pleasure, and Nihilism is the concept that everything is pretty much meaningless. This framework is useful in dealing with many facets of life, particularly inter-gender relations. …
/r/askTRP08/09/16 01:52 PM
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I recently dumped my 35 y/o ex-model Russian girlfriend for being a needy princess. Managed to link up with a 22 y/o fresh off the boat Moldovan chick a few weeks later. Extremely traditional society, knows how to cook, cleans for me, very feminine, lets me be the man and she knows her place. My first blue pill reaction was guilt - that I wasnt contributing my fair share, she's doing so much, maybe I should treat her on more dates. Any other women would be furious doing all this nurturing for me…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 10:36 PM
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I recently dumped my 35 y/o ex-model Russian girlfriend for being a needy princess. Managed to link up with a 22 y/o fresh off the boat Moldovan chick a few weeks later. Extremely traditional society, knows how to cook, cleans for me, very feminine, lets me be the man and she knows her place. My first blue pill reaction was guilt - that I wasnt contributing my fair share, she's doing so much, maybe I should treat her on more dates. Any other women would be furious doing all this nurturing for me…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 10:33 PM
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The unspoiled milk in your analogy is a unicorn.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/16 01:40 PM
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Shit post. Go post this in mensrights
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 08:22 PM
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Hehe too bad you can measure "salary" but you can't measure "happy". NAWASLT I just made up: Not All Women Are Shitty Like That. They may all have the propensity to be shitty, and some have made it an integral part of their personality, but any woman can be groomed by a powerful man. That is the goal: strive to be that powerful man, don't wait for the woman, or the environment around her, to fix her. Your only recourse is to find a decent woman and try your best to maintain that decency.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 08:11 PM
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He concludes by saying that in order for there to be a change, there must be danger again While I understand how and why this is a solution - it's not one that is necessarily in the control of men. This is a scenario that forces women to change themselves - a concession in favor of agency, something we know women are not very fond of. As men we must take action - we are the ones who let feminism happen, and we must take action to address the way it affects us. I do not agree with what is propose…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 07:53 PM
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Well, we could appreciate that US history curriculum now actually portrayd a [more] accurate depiction of our imperialist past. But I wouldn't say it was due to the quest for truth, more of a fallout from all this privilege/appropriation/oppression talk.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 07:17 PM
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Wait for real? A cupcake = 7 miles?
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 08:31 PM
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Personally, here in NYC I like to lie and say I'm a janitor for a local high school - kinda fun to see their reaction. About a third of them immediately disengage mentally - the eyes give it away, their disgust seething. The other 2/3rds have their curiosity piqued, either due to the novelty of the response or because they are socially savvy enough to reveal it was a lie.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 04:17 PM
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Taking LSD or other psychedelics is like taking the red pill. Take it when you are ready, no one can make you take it.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 04:57 PM
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Get yourself an immigrant, American women are fucked.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/16 08:30 PM
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When you take the red pill, and I mean fully swallow it, you are given a new set of glasses: the red pill lens. It is a new way of seeing things - the true way that things operate. At first, the red pill lens is something you keep nearby, sometimes you put it on but many times you forget. You see, your mind hasn't gotten used to the tint yet. Your brain is plastic, years of blue pill conditioning makes it feel unnatural. You still keep it nearby. You engage yourself as you go through your life e…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/16 08:28 PM
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Your first question: sort of true. It's a mix of women losing touch with their femininity (trying to be men), and men not being raised masculine enough (weak frames). Second question: A woman "never" entering a man's frame is kind of like saying a child will "never" go to bed on time. Oh they will, you just need to exhibit the correct discipline (frame). All women want to submit to a powerful man. Avoid: Feminists Career women Women with daddy issues Women who have been sexually abused Single mo…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/16 07:10 PM
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TRUMP 4 LYFE
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/16 03:09 PM
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Watch this https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=ooAOc9Fwg0U&feature=youtu.be
/r/askTRP09/08/16 08:50 PM
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Both PUA and TRP are toolboxes. Take what you wish and move the fuck on. Shit post.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 06:55 PM
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You can get transcripts from your wireless carrier.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 06:40 PM
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About to hit 29, recently crossed the six figure mark. It's so easy now.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 07:47 PM
2

Common law marriage, known in the UK as Living Together as Husband and Wife, is an informal marriage arrangement that goes into effect after cohabitating for a long enough period. Essentially, if you guys act like you're married, then the courts can treat you like you are married. Why do you NOT want a prenup?
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/16 03:55 PM
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You're just an Albatross
/r/TheRedPill01/08/16 02:05 PM
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Perfect opportunity to agree and escalate. Your response was great.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 07:23 PM
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To be completely honest, the fact that he was hesitant to come and visit you is an indicator that he is not putting you in the potential LTR category. This does not mean that he won't ever categorize you as LTR material, it's just he hasn't engaged himself on it. Your encounters with him have been a series of highs under free-spirited circumstances, so it's not like he's actually had much of an opportunity to stop and consider his intentions with you. One thing I will assume is that you have mad…
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/16 05:29 PM
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There are two sides to this coin: yours and hers. Yours is important because you need to be fulfilled with yourself and you character. This means you are honest with yourself, you speak with conviction, and you assert yourself to your satisfaction. You are responsible for conducting yourself in a true manner. Women don't listen to your words, they listen to their feelings. And her feelings are not static, unlike like your words and your intentions. She is hurt now (temporarily) because your word…
/r/askTRP26/07/16 02:32 PM
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Women are socially adept creatures, and they fully understand the implications of expressing validation towards men. She did not snapchat you "for no reason", she was giving you bait. She was in town, she thought of you, and she gave you the opportunity to appease her loneliness. After her "IDK just passing though" snap you had an opportunity to tell her to pass by you.
/r/askTRP26/07/16 02:21 PM
2

With the limited amount of information provided, I'd say you are not doing this "red pill shit" right. You say her behavior pisses you off? Translation: you depend on her for validation. Do you see what's wrong with this?
/r/askTRP25/07/16 09:12 PM
3

The truth of the matter is that this woman you are dating is free to do whatever the fuck she wants, so your first step needs to be letting the fuck go. That means: quit worrying about what she does, and quit getting disappointed in her behavior. SHE IS THE WAY SHE IS, and only she can prove otherwise. Remember, YOU are the gatekeeper of commitment. If she happens to branch swing onto this black guy, then realize that you just got relieved from a toxic burden. This is abundance mentality. From t…
/r/askTRP25/07/16 06:49 PM
2

No. Women do not approach because they lack agency. This is based on evolutionary biology which directs females towards non-risk based behavior.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 04:11 PM
4

They can actually fucking say before they go out at night, I'm getting some dick tonight. My previous roommates, both female 32 & 31, called it "dick hunting".
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 05:19 PM
3

Yo, a girl fingering your ass while she gives you a blowjob feels fucking awesome. Do it if you feel comfortable.
/r/askTRP07/07/16 12:42 AM
4

As a mechanical engineer, I disagree. It's not as ludicrous as you'd think. I'm doing fairly well myself, my advice to you is try not to get pigeonholed into a design role. Take a new job every 1-3 years if you want to grow your salary. Your first job will be low paying because you are useless. Here's how I progressed with salary: Entry level: 56k New job after 7 months: $65k 1 year later: 80k 1 year later: 87.5k New job 1 year later: 110k + 15k bonus So I'm 28 making 125k. You can do it, stay h…
/r/askTRP05/07/16 11:49 AM
1

Oh, you'll be getting another phone call.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/16 04:37 PM
5

Man some excellent examples of the hamster at full speed. Here are the two that gave me a good, sensible chuckle: Several weeks before, I confronted my housemate after I found out that we had both slept with Sam. In our rather casual conversation, we marveled at how his fuckboy reputation didn’t seem to match his quiet, passive demeanor. Although we were both warned by our friends that he had a history of being shitty to girls, we were, after all, cooperative and sex-positive housemates. We enco…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/16 02:33 PM
5

I recommend you make your friends list private to only yourself.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 07:16 PM
9

You should also file a restraining order against the LTR. Zero tolerance.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/16 06:33 PM
3

The 80/20 rule has always existed, average guys will ALWAYS be seen by women as below average.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 08:10 PM
2

If you want to play with fire, you might get burned. Those are the unwritten terms of engagement. Whether or not you want to play with fire is your choice. Debating the purpose is redundant.
/r/askTRP19/06/16 11:33 PM
3

For those who are more MGTOW leaning and are interested in theory, check out this video by Colttaine (15min, seriously worth it): MGTOW: A Unified Theory of the Human Condition He uses Maslow's Pyramid to explain how masculine vs feminine imperatives navigate through the hierarchy of needs. Really insightful.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/16 05:54 PM
2

You guys are missing the most obvious point: the girl is responsible for her own behavior. Doesn't matter how badly he may want her, she is the one who has to say "yes" If she does, good. Opportunity to find some worthy tail.
/r/askTRP16/06/16 07:46 PM
40

Listen, you aren't getting very good advice in this thread. What you need to do is value yourself more instead of depending on her validation. The truth of the matter is that this woman you are dating is free to do whatever the fuck she wants. Remember, YOU are the gatekeeper of commitment. If she happens to branch swing onto this guy, then THANK the guy as he just relieved you of a toxic burden. This is abundance mentality. Ask yourself, why are you feeling uncomfortable with her going to this …
/r/askTRP16/06/16 07:39 PM
1

I used to date a single mother, and the one thing that I learned is that when there is a child involved, it's about the child. It's not about you anymore, and whoever you choose to date will have to adopt the same mindset. This requirement is going to effectively shrink your dating pool by removing the men that are unable or unwilling to subscribe to it. Child rearing is difficult work, but it is much easier when you have a partner to help out. If you do choose to have this child, I hope that yo…
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/16 03:49 AM
3

Get over your ego and channel your behavior through a Machiavellian framework. You are not serving someone, you are manipulating them for your own benefit. Every action you take is merely an investment into a relationship you can leverage in the future.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/16 04:54 PM
0

Alpha is contextual, therefore the strategy to BE alpha is contextual. "Be Alpha" is a strategy just as much as "be smart" is a strategy (it's not). Actual strategy involves things like hard work, dedication, delayed gratification, self-reflection, development and reinforcement of frame, challenging and overcoming blue pill indoctrination, social awareness and the red pill lens, etc. The OP is clueless in this his original post and all his replies. He thinks that he can use culture to negotiate …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/16 10:23 PM
3

Your post, and every reply in this thread, is simply the classical culture vs biology argument. You think I'm close minded because I do not accept your insinuations that culture > biology. Stay plugged my friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/16 07:37 PM
3

Yep he's a troll
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/16 07:13 PM
1

PPD is awful, hence the attempt with pillscollide. This is the second post today here in PPD that I've seen where some plugged in talks about AF/BB as if its some sort of male strategy. It's about female dual mating strategy, not about male strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/16 05:44 PM
9

trial by cuntfire This is my new phrase for "divorce"
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 08:12 PM
8

Sounds like you're trying to hamster this one. A couple reasons to prefer a 24 y/o over a 34 y/o: 10 extra years of youth. You age like wine, won't you prefer a 34 y/o when you're 44? 10 extra years that you can groome her for LTR material Likewise, 10 less years of her riding the CC, negatively affecting her ability to pair bond Younger = more fertile. May be a nonissue
/r/askTRP01/06/16 08:17 PM
2

Deleting you would mean she would risk having to stand up for making that decision. Women want zero accountability.
/r/askTRP31/05/16 10:48 PM
0

This is a challenging concept to explain to the unplugged, especially since any part of the discussion can lead to a kneejerk-emotional roadblock. I use the following one-liner to gauge a person's intellectual capability before diving into this sort of discussion: Women will never be equal to men because they cannot handle the disposability that is inherent to being a man. I always go back to this Patrice O'Neal video, We're Better Than You, which explains the Men > Women hierarchy using the Kin…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 07:13 PM
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At NYU it definitely does. Straight women at NYU are miserable & lonely, the ratio is about 40% men/60% women, and a considerable portion of the men are gay. I just show up at the NYU bar spots and women game me.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 04:47 PM
4

Stefan Molyneux does a pretty good breakdown through this presentation of facts and statistics. Short answer: promiscuity reduces a woman's ability to pair bond.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 11:38 PM
1

I'm still not there yet Spiritual work is the hardest type of work and is never ending. Enlightenment is an ideal that we are always regressing from.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 05:55 PM
4

These two girls are part of the same social circle - so unfortunately you can't have your cake and eat it too. Pick one and expect to lose the other. But: Since you're already involved with A, if you jump ship to B you potentially jeopardize a chance with A down the line. But, if you stay with A, B can only want you further due to the pre-selection from A. You risk missing out on B because she will get snatched up by another alpha. You will have to wait until she is single again.
/r/askTRP09/05/16 03:59 PM
0

I'll give this one a shot: Men are better than women the same way the King is better than the Queen, but you can't accurately claim that the King is better than the Queen at every facet of life.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 10:07 PM
23

Straight from The_Donald my fellow centipede
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 09:54 PM
1

Men are most definitely better leaders, but I cannot agree that we are better in all regards. We are better than them the same way the King is better than the Queen, but you can't accurately claim that the King is better than the Queen at every facet of life.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 08:07 PM
2

The concern lies with doing damage to growth plates through over-aggressive lifting. I stand corrected.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 02:53 AM
1

Careful with heavy lifting with working out so young, it can stunt your growth.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 01:36 AM
2

There was a post on here on the ultimate back up plan in case a woman does not want an abortion. It involves going full Machiavellian by employing a series of psychological events that guide her hamster into believing that getting an abortion is her own idea and the best option for her. When dealing with a woman that is convinced she wants to keep the baby, your best option is psychological warfare. And no, I don't mean fighting her and threatening to abandon her, that would only make her double…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/16 11:34 PM
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My sister dated a transgender, female to male. Hasn't done surgery yet but is doing the hormone treatment. He said that the hormones made him start to objectify women, look at them more like sex objects. It was a fantastic revelation.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/16 03:54 AM
3

You're a plate to her just like she's a plate to you. Do what you feel like doing, next or keep spinning the plate. Hi 5 your bro.
/r/askTRP28/04/16 06:08 PM
4

Meal subscription delivery services like Hellofresh and BlueApron are excellent for this: 3x meals for two each week. It's about $10/meal all in, which is cheaper than take-out but more expensive than cooking from scratch. $20 dinner date, healthy meal, don't need to grocery shop. Also a great way to learn how to cook. Also if the girl gets promoted to an LTR, you get 3 nights a week of staying in cheap, no need to run a $50-150 tab taking her out on a date.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 02:45 PM
6

150k subscribers!!!! Good job mods, great community we have here.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/16 04:10 PM
2

Smiling gives it all way, I stick with pensive and mysterious.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/16 11:58 AM
2

Simply say Ok.
/r/askTRP18/04/16 01:41 AM
3

The MGTOW community put together a video using Mazlow's Pyramid, it's called MGTOW: A Unified Theory of the Human Condition. It uses this hierarchy of needs to compare the male vs female approach to satisfying these needs. Very good video.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/16 05:12 PM
3

Women can be damaged goods, sure. But some idiots keep buying used and broken stuff like its luxury and new, and the market has gone to shit. The beauty is that this never has to be your problem. Masculinity is always sexy.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/16 02:59 PM
1

The female brain is malleable, you can always show a display of high SMV to generate the tingles. It's never over until you don't give a shit. It's not so much about sleeping with her, but realizing that it's simply your turn.
/r/askTRP17/03/16 12:28 AM
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I got triggered when the bunny told the fat police cat that only bunnies can call other bunnies cute and it wasn't appropriate for him to do so.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 07:19 PM
1

Quit writing about it here and do it. Stay off reddit.
/r/askTRP11/03/16 06:57 AM
1

I think you're right. I've met her, she seems the type.
/r/askTRP08/03/16 07:44 PM
1

The goal of such a contract is to provide an adequate environment for the raising of children. In this manner, why wouldn't it be possible to replace the role of the state with terms of the agreement? Child support is included in the agreement, under terms that each party agrees to. Agreeing to these terms also means agreeing to not make claims through other channels (i.e. state)
/r/askTRP08/03/16 05:44 PM
2

Heh I'm in mechanical engineering equipment sales and construction, mostly old middle aged men. A few red pill, mostly blue pill dudes.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/16 06:02 AM
1

Damn dude, get into STEM related sales.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/16 03:12 AM
1

How much more expensive are girls than boys? 1.5x? 2x?
/r/TheRedPill07/03/16 08:47 PM
1

asktrp GTFO SHITPOST READ THE RULES.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/16 02:18 PM
1

LOL and make sure to share your business with her too.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 08:54 PM
3

You seem to overlook the other half of the equation: how many bluepillers do this...
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 02:33 PM
1

Corollary of Briffault's Law
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 08:35 PM
3

I know what I'm worth and I will not accept any less. You hiring me is a win-win proposition.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 08:25 PM
2

http://archive.is/vGo4k
/r/askTRP23/02/16 07:29 PM
12

I'd say rule 34 of TRP would be massive gangbang of HB8s and HB9s
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 07:06 PM
12

To elaborate on the second point, that reaction is a product of your ego. Your ego is your best friend and your worst enemy, you must train yourself to engage an awareness, similar to that of the red pill lens, to be aware of how your ego may be guiding or forcing your emotional experience. Its a matter of engaging as a monk/stoic or in a reactive/defensive/emotional/biased manner. Tolle's second book "A New Earth" focuses on the ego.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 04:46 PM
2

No. As a man you have to groom your woman. This means protecting her from herself (hypergamy), and also guiding her behavior into becoming something that inspires you.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 05:13 PM
1

When a woman says she wants something from men, she means that is what she wants it from the alpha men she is attracted to, not from just any man. This is why you never take advice from women, they are incapable of empathizing with a beta.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 03:48 PM
2

The casino one is great too.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 06:38 PM
1

It's always been this way, check out Michael Jackson's performances, etc. Peace, love etc. PG-13 crowd, lot's of money to be made.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 05:17 PM
2

For those of you who think Shkreli is a piece of shit, watch this interview. He's a pretty stand up guy.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/16 06:41 AM
1

She can only care about how a thing makes her feel, not the actual thing in question. This is the source of the disconnect from truth and rationality - AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 09:57 PM
1

The true answer to this has more to do with your personal life than just reading the sidebar. It has to do with your childhood experience, particularly the relationship that your parents had with each other and yourself. You'll find that the women you pull into your life treat you in a manner with strong correlation to how your mother treated you and your father. When you identify your needs, and identify destructive traits that don't need to be tolerated, it becomes much easier to translate int…
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 08:55 PM
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I can't say he handled it very well, obviously he was a stage with the asian one where he was easily annoyed by her and continued the relationship with manipulation. He also showed signs of feeling betrayed by the new girl. He had a hard time accepting that he had to simply walk away and cut his losses. Simple case of narcissism, not much to personally ascribe to.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 12:20 AM
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This guy does not understand Briffault's Law. His mistake is assuming that she could "love" him like he loves her.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 05:06 PM
4

It's not that he's butthurt, and it's especially not that he is intimidated/can't handle Megyn Kelly. It's simply not an endeavor that he can benefit from, as all it serves to do is benefit Fox news. It's a calculated decision, the risk to reward is not there. Stefan Molyneux - Donald Trump Not Participating In Fox News Debate
/r/TheRedPill27/01/16 09:12 PM
1

Those were Patrice's words, please don't give me credit. That man was a red pill genius. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a_dFPC5FKuE Your original post was shit, and your response to my comment was just a series of ad hominem attacks. You have contributed nothing, and are not willing to accept criticism. Keep lurking and reading instead of lowering the quality of content in this community.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 04:00 PM
1

Female 'hypergamy' is not a thing. This is where your post went to shit. Just because women are capable of exhibiting the same level of promiscuity as men doesn't justify the behavior from a biological standpoint. They can't get away with fucking like we can, it's detrimental to their ability to pair bond. As men, we are responsible for guiding our women in ways that they are incapable of doing themselves. As Patrice puts it, "we are better than them" - a queen is just a queen: the king's bitch.…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 05:49 AM
1

strong father figure This. This is the whole idea behind why it's detrimental to be raised by a single mother (or single parents period). In this context, everyone needs a strong masculine role model in their life, it serves as a grounding foundation. I am one of two older brothers for my youngest sister, she uses us as a benchmark for her standards for what she looks for in men. She's damn strongheaded, sort of a tomboy, and doesn't seem to be promiscuous. She's 24, and if I had to guess, throu…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 03:33 PM
1

I couldn't cum for the first few times I had sex, it's common. You'll get more comfortable in your skin. Consider this, the woman is in a much more vulnerable position and very nervous too. It's your job to be in command of yourself so you can command her too. Protip: Don't concern yourself with making her experience the best it can be, focus instead on yourself. I don't mean cum when you feel like it, I mean use her body like you wish.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 10:27 PM
1

It's the mental block of sexual anxiety, combined with the physical effects of decreased sensitivity. Change the pace, take a break and pay attention to her body to keep her warmed up, let the Dick relax for a sec. All the sensitivity is at the head of your Dick. One trick I like to do is brush the head on her clit, works for you and for her. Your Dick will harden up.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 08:04 PM
7

Confident Sarcasm with an IDGAF overtone. Good for shit tests and bros who try to AMOG you.
/r/askTRP04/01/16 08:35 PM
-3

"I'm made of flesh and blood, I have instincts. It's why I keep you around". More dread.
/r/askTRP04/01/16 07:37 PM
1

Why yes, I agree. Quite fascinating.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/15 03:06 PM
3

TBP advice is what a woman would typically give you. Something on the lines of "Be yourself" or "someone will like you for who you are". Its a passive take on the "plenty of fish" concept, where TRP is more aggressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/15 06:23 PM
5

This happened in WW2 when the Nazi's took over Paris - it turned into quite a party scene where the French women whored it up with the German soldiers. Can't blame em really, they must've been starved of dick by that point anyway.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/15 05:08 PM
1

Neel Kolhatkar is pretty good.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 03:40 PM
0

100-200 sexual encounters is believable
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/15 09:01 PM
22

World Toilet Day trumps Men's rights.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 03:40 PM
1

They are the same thing, but an orbiter would be raising a ratio > 1 to the power of persistence.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 10:57 PM
2

Why work if you don't have to That kinda sounds like another example of the pendulum swing of hypergamy, where you lost frame and established a precedent that you now have to fight. Not blaming you, your situation sounds like it would naturally occur. This marriage shit is hard mode.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 03:39 PM
3

There's a formula for that: creepiness =((awkwardness x forwardness)/(attractiveness))^persistence
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 03:30 PM
14

Being successful is a huge liability for me That statement is so fucked.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 03:17 PM
3

No just check in once a week, keep it sexual/escalated
/r/askTRP06/11/15 08:24 PM
2

I loved the "DON'T LET YOUR GUARD DOWN FOR A SECOND YOU FUCK" and the baking. Get your mitts, boys.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 05:09 PM
9

The President of the Uni refused to shake her hand when she walked the stage on graduation. There's a video, he manages to "distract" himself taking a sip of water when it's her turn to walk. Funny shit. If I was an employer I would not hire her.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 01:55 PM
1

yea, where's /u/abdada/ at. The wisdom is lacking.
/r/askTRP03/11/15 04:27 AM
5

Absolutely true. The entire machine that is Feminism is a deception. The purpose of feminism is to increase the mercantile role of women, as it is consumer society's best interest to give women buying power. In the end, women simply shifted from their husband's sphere of influence to the sphere of influence of her employer's. Now they have to struggle with a dual alienation which is to endure both the husband and the boss. Their "right" to work has become an obligation and it ultimately has made…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/15 08:06 PM
1

She used to be a stripper, too.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 05:09 PM
2

What exactly are you arguing? People have sex? Sure, it's fun. Some have more sex than others. No one is forcing you to accept the red pill, and it really makes no difference if you do. Happy beta hunting.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/15 05:08 AM
2

So then you're just an albatross? It's nice to get laid and get the fix/confidence boost from a beautiful woman, the MGTOW thing just never appealed to me.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 06:59 PM
2

Well, sure. Hypergamy is neither right nor wrong, it just is. My snarky comment was simply a way of saying that you're wasting your energy getting worked up about it.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 06:45 PM
2

Congratulations on the pity party, you're doing a great job.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 06:32 PM
3

The term for it at my engineering school was Golden Pussy Syndrome (GPS). The net effect on women was that their perception of their sex appeal was multiplied by 1.5-2x in the HB scale. You had a short window of about 8 weeks at the beginning of the new school year to bang easy freshmen before they got afflicted. I feel bad for them, as soon as they hit the job market after graduation they got put right back into their place in the SMP - with ZERO game and an inflated ego.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 04:46 PM
1

He's already going down the rabbit hole and no ones gonna hold his hand. I felt inspired to give him a gentle push. I absolutely think it's appropriate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/15 02:07 PM
2

(wall of text, whoops) The red pill/blue pill metaphor is taken from The Matrix and it serves a heuristic tool to explain the unplugging process, i.e. you take the red pill and become aware of the harshness of reality and accept the truth of how the world really works, or you [continue to] take the blue pill and return to ignorance. In this case, it refers to awareness/ignorance of deep rooted fundamental differences between the psychology, and resulting behavior, of the genders. This fundamenta…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/15 08:06 PM
13

38th Law of Power: Think as you like but behave like others.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 05:14 PM
23

A verbal "NEXT!" as you walk away from a rejection is an excellent method of psychologically purging yourself and wiping the slate clean. Let the rejection flow back out of you, next!
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 04:31 PM
1

No, the anger will not result in violence, it will result in MGTOW: Men Going Their Own Way. Men will check out, fuck marriage, fuck relationships, thank you feminism for deteriorating the female condition with your sex positivity.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 10:32 PM
2

The anger is a phase, it's normal. Those who do not understand the red pill are entirely put off by the theories because of the anger and misogyny they witness in the community. It's a human reaction to being lied to and misled your entire life when it comes to relationships and sexual strategy with women. The analogy of the red pill is a heuristic tool to explain the unplugging process, i.e. you take the red pill and become aware of the harshness of reality and accept the truth, or you [continu…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 10:22 PM
7

At 6" per cock, a mile of dick is over 10,000 men. What a time to be alive.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 04:44 AM
1

That doesn't work for the state. The state benefits when the woman has a mercantile role, it's in their best interest to give women buying power. See the Feminist Deception.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 04:34 AM
12

Christ what a beta response. You are the commander of your own situation.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/15 02:20 AM
1

yes, all women desire a man that wants to achieve, be intelligent, and desire to be in a relationship. no, not all women require the man to feel the same way about them.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 02:45 PM
2

The metaphor is regarding the hierarchy of power in a relationship between man and woman. Women don't want to be mommy to you, they want a masculine leader. The man has to be better than her for her to respect him. A man can make any woman his queen, but the reverse does not work for women due to hypergamy. Quote by Patrice O'Neal, see this segment on the Black Phillip Show. Skip to 9:20 if you want the relevant part.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 02:40 PM
3

Hmm without context, that statement does appear to have those implications. The figurative word is strong, which generally has positive connotations, but in the context of masculinity/femininity it is totally different. I'm going to change the word to masculine.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 02:37 PM
5

J-Lo gave her dancer boyfriend a 10k weekly allowance so she could feel pampered.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 01:06 AM
3

The metaphor is regarding the hierarchy of power in a relationship between man and woman. Women don't want to be mommy to you, they want a masculine leader. The man has to be better than her for her to respect him. A man can make any woman his queen, but the reverse does not work for women due to hypergamy. Quote by Patrice O'Neal, see this segment on the Black Phillip Show. Skip to 9:20 if you want the relevant part.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 11:02 PM
2

You know, I noticed it too. I think that's normal for that industry though, short term contracts. Would not look good for other industries.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 10:53 PM
2

I am good looking, all my bio says is "Try me.". Works pretty well.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 06:43 PM
1

What about pillscollide? I feel like the entire concept is a fruitless endeavor.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 06:32 PM
8

Goofy, that was an adjective that Patrice loved to use. RIP.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 03:36 PM
3

What a refreshing article to read, it's sad that about 80% of the women I share this with get offended.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/15 01:43 AM
1

When you take the pill, you begin to view the world through a red pill lens. These "glasses" grant you awareness, you see the hypergamy around you. You immediately recognize behaviors and patterns, you see the truths about sexual strategy. Engage the lens, it will strengthen and guide your frame.
/r/askTRP19/10/15 04:38 PM
2

So he's 2/3. Don't settle, keep searching for that 3/3.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/15 08:49 PM
3

Simple question: You can't negotiate what you desire, so why are you trying to?
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/15 07:24 PM
2

This reminded me of study I saw before that feminists rallied over. They did a survey of men to compare the qualities that men seek in a partner vs the qualities they seek in a daughter (The Shriver Report Snapshot: An Insight Into the 21st Century Man). Surprise, surprise - pretty much it came down to men wanting obedient and nuturing wives, yet intelligent and independent daughters. Men want their wives to take care of them and want their daughters to be able to hold their own against other gu…
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 08:56 PM
0

She is her own person? What is this post even about.
/r/askTRP14/10/15 08:23 PM
1

Daily dose of red pill, either through checking websites/videos in the manosphere, or engaging your red pill lens when you interact in social environments. Channel that awareness of your blue pill tendencies, especially when hit with shit tests from women. It builds over time.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 02:20 PM
2

There are two things high quality men want: beauty and class (most guys just care about the former). They don't care about your career, they don't care about how strong and independent you are - that's their job. You can't buy class, you practice it. Self-respect, humility, & integrity rolled into a confident feminine framework. Most women I encounter channel confidence through their narcissism. The ones that don't truly catch the eye.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/15 04:52 AM
1

It's scientifically proven that your IQ drops a couple points in the presence of someone you find attractive. Unrelated to the confidence bit, but it directly affects your game.
/r/askTRP09/10/15 02:44 PM
5

Vomit on the passenger side was because she stuck her head out to puke, someone else was driving. She was too wasted to drive
/r/askTRP08/10/15 11:29 PM
15

Can't compete with a fantasy
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 07:30 PM
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Good to see that the top comment is solid wisdom. Looks like something /u/abdada would write.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 05:56 PM
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Obviously the issue they are hving is more complex than was described, and not so binary as to simply be too much of one thing. Differences between people are hardly noticeable when a relationship is blanketed in naivety and passion, yet they eccentuate and snowball in nonrational manners as it fades and certain tensions rise. My comment was merely a neutral statement on human nature, not a "shit attitude". If you actually read it you would notice that it was actually indirect advice to employ g…
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/15 02:20 PM
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No one wants too much of one single thing, if you were too assertive he'd likely give you shit for not respecting his lead.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/15 12:27 AM
0

Pay your half and be done with it, if she say no then move on.
/r/askTRP04/10/15 04:55 PM
1

No one is responsible for another's behavior. If the woman is acting below a man's standards for respect, it is an optional endeavor to engage them to improve, or endorse it on any level. The red pill is simply the tool to be aware of this dynamic, among many others. A heuristic for modern men stuck in an increasingly hypergamous society.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/15 12:10 AM
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Straw Dogs (1971) Sorcerer (1977) The Lives of Others (2006) Homicide (1991) A Prophet (2009) The Beat That My Heart Skipped (2005) Red Belt (2008) Fear X (2003) These aren't necessarily RP movies, but a selection that embrace qualities of the masculine nature and male experience. They do not fit the mainstream, corporate driven film model and instead explore masculine virtues in a wide variety. Many of these films did not succeed very well commercially. List taken from the book "Thirty Seven" b…
/r/askTRP03/10/15 07:06 PM
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She sucked your dick as badly as she wanted to breathe.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 04:26 PM
0

28 y/o engineer with a master's degree and professional certification, -$50k in loans. I'll be positive real soon though.
/r/askTRP02/10/15 12:07 AM
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This is essentially introduction to MGTOW
/r/TheRedPill26/09/15 03:43 AM
2

28 male, N count is around 25
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/15 06:16 PM
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Loving unconditionally is the ideal, and it is driven by a supply of inspiration. That is a key role for the woman with regards to the man - to inspire. A man is unstoppable when he is inspired.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/15 11:37 PM
2

Wow thanks for this post. As an INTJ man it is clear that I would benefit by searching for a partner of similar personality type.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/15 05:40 AM
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You must be your woman's lover AND father. Redpill LTR/Marriage wisdom, everyone remember this
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 08:27 PM
1

I think this sub is fucked, you just can't talk about fight club
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/15 08:02 PM
0

/u/Archwinger takes my vote. /u/HumanSockPuppet, /u/Whisper, /u/Rollo-Tomassi , /u/DrWarlock, /u/GayLubeOil for honorable mention. /u/Abdada has extensive married redpill wisdom to share.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/15 05:16 PM
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Shit tests
/r/askTRP20/08/15 03:40 PM
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Whenever a girl interacts with you of her own volition, sex is on the table. Too many male hamsters overlook this principle based on the expectation of always having to initiate. This rhetoric only serves to challenge your abundance mentality. There is nothing wrong with initiating, but you have to know your worth - your time. Female sexual strategy is based on them having something we want, (sex), and them giving it out selectively to maintain it as a high quality commodity in the supply/demand…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 05:25 PM
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I mean no offense to your gender, but grown or not, every women I have encountered in my life has succumbed to moments of emotional instability, insecurity, or denial in accordance with her coincident emotional experience. Tears/tantrums is the expression for this. Men do not have such a volatile experience (at least those with high testosterone). As an analogy, consider the mathematical plot of a sinusoidal wave. The upper and lower bounds represent peak positive and negative emotional states. …
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 05:19 PM
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It's an expression that embodies the requirement and expectation of the man to be the rock that provides stability, as well as the king/queen or captain/first mate power dynamic that is best suited for the male/female relationship. Btw this expression and the words below are quotes from /u/HumanSockPuppet. They have resonated with me tremendously and I carry them with me. As lovers, men want to please the women we love. But sometimes we have deny our girls what they want so that we can achieve s…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 01:27 PM
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Ladies and gentlemen, the Cock Carousel: I never really used to have too much of an issue... If I wanted to get laid, I would find someone probably around 95% of the time. I tended to keep a couple of FWB type things going too that were very infrequent, but meant I could always give them a call if there were no new partners available. Was single for 2 years, longest dry spell was about 2 weeks.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 03:47 PM
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To be a good partner, you must be a lover and a father. (quoting you /u/HumanSockPuppet)
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 03:40 PM
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FYI The 70x guilded EMSK post "why the "Red Pill" will kill you inside" The OP fails to recognize that men's love is different than women's love. And as long as you keep that power dynamic active, you will never know what love is. Because love means that you feel what your lover feels. If she hurts, you hurt. If you hurt her, you feel all of her pain and all of the shame for knowing that you're the one that caused it. If you really love someone, you'll never want to hurt them. And make no mistak…
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 03:37 PM
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If women were transparent I don't know if I'd pursue them with any amount of enthusiasm.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 06:52 PM
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You are the gatekeeper of sex, it's your responsibility to gauge whether or not you sleep with someone. Exclusivity is a mutual condition, where each party has elevated the other to the point where it becomes natural. If you are disgusted by a man who isn't exclusive with you, then he hasn't elevated you to the exclusive regime. So yes, if you don't want to be a plate then don't sleep with him without confirming your [escalated] position in his mind.
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/15 12:30 AM
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Quintius Curtius from the RooshV forums wrote the following in his book: A certain worldview has taken hold of our societies, somehow, in the preceding decades, that has had the net result of disenfranchising men and relegating masculinity to remote frozen wastes. Embrace your masculinity, practice it, let if define you. It is what you are.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 09:16 PM
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Depends on which engineering major you're talking about, 70k is kinda high for certain fields (I'm talking NYC salaries, too). Secure those internships, do the Co-op program, network with alumni from school/frat etc. Relevant work experience trumps all.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/15 10:01 PM
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All of that was just a flowery, feminized version of saying that you as a man, are the gatekeeper of commitment. As soon as your inspiration is drained, you're no longer an option to her (IM MAXIM #51).
/r/TheRedPill23/07/15 09:24 PM
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The 6 months is key, it will be the turning point when the honey moon phase ends. At the pace at which he is gushing, he should burn out by then. The marriage counseling suggestion is golden, it forces the pair to step out of their flowery bubble and face real questions. At 5-6 months I would recommend you prime him with a few serious hypothetical situations: What if you're married down the line with kids, and you get into a serious car accident. Coma for 6 months. Do you believe she will be abl…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/15 07:31 PM
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I am the younger of two older brothers that my sister has had growing up. We had a somewhat absent father growing up (divorced parents, dad on antidepressants, saw him on weekends only). Essentially, it was a single parent household. My sister, 24 now, has turned out with a strong head, though a little on the naive side, with a very confident demeanor when it comes to long term planning and emotional expectations of partners. Having two older brothers was a huge plus. Women need strong male figu…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/15 07:01 PM
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I'm franky disgusted with this, despite it being the typical TRP success story where the man is free of any legal obligation because logic. Obviously it's a very messy situation and there quite possibly is no way to fix it. But this story, and the comments I see here, is an example of the hypocrisy of this subs TRP mentality at a high level. This teenage girl is going to have such tremendous daddy issues that she will never be able to have a healthy relationship with any man in her life. She is …
/r/TheRedPill23/07/15 04:27 PM
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These women will need to make the choice as teenagers How much can a father do, really.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/15 03:29 PM
2

yo this guy checks out
/r/askTRP23/07/15 04:27 AM
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Hunger is the best spice.
/r/askTRP23/07/15 04:21 AM
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You gonna raise the kid or not? There's a new variable in this equation, it's not just about you anymore. No, you are not responsible for her behavior. Yes, you are responsible for contributing to a potentially unstable environment for the kid. Stick around and go 100%, or bail and get another plate. She sounds crazy.
/r/askTRP22/07/15 04:20 PM
12

As a Spaniard, go fuck yourself.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 03:59 PM
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There are ideals, and there is reality. It is a model to pursue. The red pill grants awareness of the N-count framework.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/15 02:15 PM
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I, for one, wish we could wipe out "be a man" and "man up" from all of our vocabularies. But, actually, why do we need to remove the language? We just need to change what it means. The tweens involved in the Hatch workshop offer some real-life evidence that that may be already happening. "When you go your own way, it feels good because you feel free and you can do what you want to do, and you don't have to do what other people say," one of the boys said.
/r/MGTOW21/07/15 10:53 PM
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The burden you'll take if ever you muster sufficient courage to ask her to marry you and adopt her boys as yours. Poor chap, shaming tactics are a woman's ploy
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 03:20 PM
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women who haven't reached emotional fulfillment can be extremely dangerous. burst of defeated laughter. Seriously though, I don't think I've witnessed that yet in my life
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 03:12 PM
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The point I'm making is that he's not only taking vengeance on the woman, but also on the child. Yes, she's a vindictive bitch, but the kid didn't have a thing to do with this.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 12:50 PM
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The kid didn't do shit to you. That's greater than your ego.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 05:55 PM
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That's very selfish toward the child, you'd be a POS to enable the single-parent household environment. Act immediately, go get a doctors note that you shoot blanks notarized. Begin separating yourself from said woman logistically and financially, have a clear paper trail, and drop the bombshell on her with ample time for her to consider abortion. Just walk away, don't pursue such petty vengeance. Just because you ain't the daddy doesn't mean that the kid should grow up without one. Edit: Cmon T…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 05:32 PM
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This is the most valuable piece in that post that resonates with me (from Dream Killers): I tend to promote the idea that Men should be sexually and emotionally non-exclusive until age 30, but this is a minimal suggestion. I think 35 may even serve better for Men. The importance being that as a Man ages and matures in his career, his ambitions and passions, his personality, his ability to better judge character, his overall understanding of behavior and motivations, etc. he becomes more valuable…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 05:18 PM
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Found this in one of the comment chains when asked about sharing their number: Divide by two and subtract three. A joke my friends made up in college, but could apply for some. Not condoning lying, because really, who cares about the numbers.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/15 04:01 PM
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You know, it's a great metaphor for MGTOW, but i think it extends further in general to male vs female nature. Men have their own framework to proceed in life, which is completely different than women's. In order to be with the woman you have to align to fit her framework, or so it seems...
/r/MGTOW18/07/15 10:51 PM
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Higher quality version here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G8XkvSTS6Y0&feature=youtu.be
/r/MGTOW17/07/15 06:37 PM
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The frustrating thing about this video, and the feminist imperative in general, is that even though Milo won the debate, feminists will not see it that way. We got nowhere with this "victory".
/r/TheRedPill16/07/15 01:31 PM
2

what a peculiar but understandable typo
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 08:43 PM
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Not the guy you replied to but I check RPW regularly, though it doesn't appeal to me that much. I find that I still have to fit into their (feminine) frame when talking about RP concepts. Female vs male space, can't change it. I'd have to assume OP is adjusting her commentary to fit our frame. She'd get torn to pieces otherwise.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 06:53 PM
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I grew up in the south, you can get a modest apartment with roommates for ~$150/month range. Buy yourself a $50,000 house and mortgage payments can be $250.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 04:57 PM
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Low class move on her part
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 02:41 PM
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I recommend separating sections with bold formatting/horizontal lines etc., tough to read this post. Good content otherwise
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 03:46 PM
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Check out my post Plasticity. It's all about conditioning, our habits and way of functioning is plastic.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/15 11:49 PM
1

both, take them for a ride.
/r/askTRP30/06/15 10:47 PM
1

Relax your lips entirely. Imagine trying to be the softer lips that fold around hers, but also taking the lead. Easy on the slobber and the tongue. You have hands, use them. Not straight to tits and ass, try her sides, arms, back of the head, etc. Stimulus package.
/r/askTRP30/06/15 01:36 PM
2

Confirmation bias
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/15 09:57 PM
2

The question isn't about marrying the right girl, it's about questioning the cost/benefit of marriage, particularly in today's feminized culture, and even marrying at all. For many, replace "purchase wife" with "arrange for surrogate mother".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/15 07:33 PM
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FYI some of the links (Patrice) have been taken down due to copyright violation.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 04:20 PM
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After thinking about it, that perspective applies to quite a few things including feminism, organized religion, and politics. Moral: think for yourself, trust no one.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/15 05:55 AM
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Hmm the 0-2 day rule may not work in fast paced urban environments, such as nyc, if you're trying to secure a girl for the weekend. A lot of competition and a lot of possible things to do that will fill that calendar. If you want a girl Friday night you gotta ping her Monday. Now, Monday/Tuesday night dates (next level flirting, once you evolve out of weekend only chase) can be more easily secured in the 0-2 day range.
/r/askTRP18/06/15 11:41 PM
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Hot damn, was just googling Hulk, he got divorce raped pretty badly. Net worth prior to divorce: $30M-$40M Divorce rape: had to pay over 70% of his personal net worth. Net worth today: $8M source
/r/TheRedPill17/06/15 08:53 PM
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Try the 3-second game: you see a girl you like, make a move within 3 seconds or you fail. Fun to do at bars with a buddy. You can practice by having your buddy point one out.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/15 07:38 PM
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Agreed on the value of male spaces, but personally disagree on American football. To each their own, but I will not play a sport that is statistically proven to lower my lifespan and affect my cognitive abilities (from all the trauma). You can absolutely find "manly" male spaces through other channels.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/15 06:34 PM
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Bill Burr - Beautiful Women and The Finish Line
/r/TheRedPill17/06/15 06:03 PM
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"Being an emotional tampon" is a function of your own confidence, the time you invest as a form of support, and your intentions. Your time is the most valuable thing, what do you want from the woman? Is she worthy of your time? Women are volatile, unstable creatures. We are the foundation that give them balance. Imagine a sine/cosine curve, and you are the straight line. You are the straight line through which they oscillate around. Expand that to 3D and add in more interference. As a man, you h…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/15 01:01 AM
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"I'm here for you" and "I'm here to listen". Empathy not sympathy
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 11:34 PM
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I would recommend reading TRP top posts of all time. This subreddit has a lot of young men in it (I'm 28 myself). Some of these men are in the denial/anger phase, many of them their goal is simply to get laid. But there are many married dudes, and there are many intelligent philosophers. Check out posts by Illimitableman, Rollo-tomassi, Archwinger, GayLubeOil, Whisper, HumanSockPuppet, Drwarlock (there's more). These are some of the guys who have posted some quality material.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 06:39 PM
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TRP is a philosophy, one aspect of it is awareness of male sexual strategy - the AF/BB dichotomy. Everyone has different goals, and different levels of maturity. Swallowing the pill is a commitment to perpetually engage red pill awareness. You may employ it in the conquest for pussy, you may employ it to support activities of self improvement, or you may employ it to strengthen your relationship with women you deem worthy. TRP is not PUA, it's a philosophy. Edit: TRP's take on finding a human be…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 06:00 PM
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Not so much strategy, just greater awareness of the conditional attraction that women have towards men. Women want winners, they stand and wait at the finish line. Your working hard and struggle is not appealing, it looks weak. They want the polished product after it's gone through the mill. As the prime product, feast on whichever woman you feel like. You have all the time you want.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 04:03 PM
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Solid argument, I'll follow your advice and stick my head in a bucket of sand
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/15 04:38 PM
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Ah yes, the pool boy. He'll still fuck you when you're 45, keep telling yourself that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 09:09 PM
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Men are the gatekeepers of commitment, women are the gatekeepers of sex. 80% of divorces are initiated by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 09:08 PM
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You keep referencing the idea that women don't need men as some sort of defense against the notion that men want to take care and provide. You also counter my points on male desire by redirecting towards female desire. It's really difficult to talk about TRP truths to a female.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 09:05 PM
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Wealth is what a strong body was 250+ year ago. Standard of living has increased to the point that we don't need to worry about physical survival anymore, but our biological imperatives still remain. Wealth is today's mechanism with which to protect and provide with. And to answer your question, for the most part yes. I'll quote /u/TheGreasyPole - This is just one of those things that's true in the aggregate with individual exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 08:48 PM
5

Yea man, we all have 12" cocks on the internet. Mine's 15"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 08:24 PM
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I responded to your other comment on men's wall, but I'll reiterate. A man's wall is not the same as a woman's wall, but they are both defined by when SMV starts to decline. A man's sexual market value is based on his looks AND more so by his ability to provide (wealth, status, etc). If we used your logic on the wall, 18 year old boys would be the cream of the crop and the target of every woman (yea right....). The hard truth is, men don't give a shit if a woman has a successful career. This isn…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 08:15 PM
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Yes he has taken the red pill, but it would be more accurate to label him an MRA. The facts in the video are based on a survey of 10,000 women between the ages of 15-44. It is not biased, it is not red pill theory, it is a presentation of facts. Promiscuity affects women's ability to pair bond. It does not have that affect on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 07:58 PM
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You see, the wall for a man is not like the woman's. A man's wall can approach abruptly, but it can also be rebuilt. Iit is not so much defined by looks as it is by wealth and the ability to provide. I am under CONSTANT pressure to build that capacity, given my biological imperatives and the way that society defines a man's identity by what he does, that in a sense I am perpetually aware of my wall. To hit the wall is to fail as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 07:54 PM
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Physically age you, no. Reduce your ability to pair bond? Yes. Women are biologically different than men, they are not designed to be promiscuous. They are not designed to be risk takers. A woman is biologically designed to lock down the baddest alpha out there, as he is best suited to protect and provide for her. A woman can't take risks, that's a 9 month commitment and she needs to pick carefully. The more men a woman sleeps with, the less capable she is of respecting future men she's with. A …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 06:51 PM
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Nothing wrong with it, my comment was my own personal opinion. The reasoning is that I do not find it necessary, and rather dangerous, to marry a woman before reaching financial prime. Currently 28 and with about 40k in student loan debt, I'm building my financial wealth and will be well established by 35. Zero intentions of getting married anytime soon. I'm going to have fun and fuck around until then. I feel bad for the women who are blissfully unaware about the wall, but hey they sleep with m…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 06:41 PM
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The best strategy for a woman or a man is do whatever the hell they want and as long as they are not hurting people I care about That's the same narrative as "be yourself/find yourself" and "have fun now, you can settle down later" and the liberal sentiment that "everyone's a winner and no one's a loser". Wrong. Your advice is a painful strategy for women, hence the purpose of this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 05:03 PM
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26-32 for men? try 35+ edit: this is my own personal opinion and the general consensus of the red pill men in my network
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/15 05:00 PM
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Hah, that kind of talk will get this place banned
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 10:01 PM
2

So you're saying persevere and maintain conviction, sounds good. I especially like that last bit, thanks for the inspiration.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 04:16 AM
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Gold-digging, fat acceptance, entitled behavior have one thing in common: it's both party's faults. As much as you want to bash the women for their shitty behavior, the men are also enabling it. It doesn't matter how misconstrued their perception of their own sex appeal gets, Chad is gonna give them tingles. Be the tingle.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 04:47 PM
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Hi Karen, So I shared your response to the question "Why do Men hate Women" from purplepilldebate on my Facebook. I honestly thought that piece was very well written and a display of mature self awareness on the plight of men from a woman's perspective. I also considered it to be politically correct enough to have an open debate, but I was only met with angry attacks, rebuttals founded on an array of logical fallacies, and accused of "pushing a rhetoric that undermines and distracts from more im…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 04:27 PM
1

I recommend you read this comment thread by /u/abdada on TRP marriage. There is a recipe for a successful marriage, and it's TRP all the way.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 10:24 PM
4

Be humble, think before you speak. You will find like minded individuals much easier that way.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 04:37 AM
1

Thanks, that's kind of what I had in mind. I want to keep fucking around until I'm sick of it. I'll be priming when I pass 35
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 09:27 PM
1

Yes I second that sentiment, I would be interested in reading that post. I'm in full support of marriage as a structure to support child rearing, just trying to prepare for it on all fronts (age 28).
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 09:10 PM
1

Haha it's kinda cute the other way around
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 06:44 PM
1

I found this comment in Roosh forums that has some valid points. All of the men that make up the manosphere have reached their state of perspective through experiences that are intrinsically related to every other man's on some level. The internal rustling and unsettling state that something is just not right, the masculine identity crisis, frustration. TRP has grown immensely, yet a lack of defined structure or leadership bandwidth has noticeably deteriorated the integrity of the community. MGT…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 07:33 PM
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Roosh is also throwing MGTOW under the bus too. Sandman's retort is that neomasculinity is gynocentric.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 07:14 PM
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You can't negotiate desire. This is the statement that I use to shut down feminists. Granted it doesn't work, but I'm content with it.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 04:18 PM
11

Ah I gotta get the hell out of NYC. The money is good, but this shit is getting old.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 02:34 PM
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She didn't do him a favor, the neighbor did.
/r/askTRP17/05/15 01:07 AM
2

Demanding more and offering more...more like offer more to put yourself in the positions to be able to demand more. Otherwise it's the classical 30-35 y/o that's more work and less rewarding than the 20-25 y/o
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/15 09:53 AM
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Like you are the priority, not them. They want to be a part of your shit.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 03:59 PM
1

Men offer their time as value. If it isn't treated as valuable, such then it isn't worth convincing otherwise. See Archwinger's post about the power of walking away. It's the simple formula to establish the boundary for respect and the standard for relationships with any individual.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 04:52 AM
4

Similar RP jobs: Rigging, pipe fitting, plumbing. If you aren't pursuing the STEM jobs that will land you at a corporate desk or in management, get into the trades.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 04:24 PM
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You can't negotiate desire. Silly creatures are conflating values. (Rollo Tomassi post)
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 05:08 AM
2

prenuptial agreement - people intending to marry or contract with each other establish provisions for division of property and spousal support in the event of divorce or breakup of marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/15 05:02 AM
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King and Queen, King is always better than the Queen. I wouldn't say you don't respect them, it's that you know you're better.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 04:13 PM
1

Let them, it's not your concern.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/15 03:58 AM
0

Dude here, you sound like the kind of girl I'd like to marry. You define your own reality, these friends of yours are shaming you from what seems to be a form of self projection. At 27, I've slept with about 25 different women, and about only 4 of them mattered to me. Making love and developing an emotional connection through love making is a worthwhile endeavor, and you can't achieve that without a significant investment of time and emotional commitment. The hookup culture today is toxic and dr…
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/15 04:36 AM
1

You are thinking and reacting to your emotions, instead of remaining stoic. I.e. AWALT and she just needs to be put into her place, not necessarily nexted. Maintain frame, play dread game, and if she truly is as you say she is, next. LTR is for practice, easy sex, and comfort. You don't find a good woman, you make a good woman.
/r/askTRP21/04/15 10:53 PM
3

You are correct sir, asktrp is not mature enough nor experienced in LTRs to agree with you. Don't sweat it.
/r/askTRP21/04/15 09:13 PM
1

You don't actually choke, just have a grip on her neck to establish dominance and control. My two preferred methods: Fucking her in the spooning position, arm reach around and grabbing her neck. Works great to pull her face over so you can kiss/ear nibble/talk dirty. Missionary, reach arm around her back and grab the back of her neck. Establish dominance, you can also leverage your grip to pull her back to you as you fuck her. Good luck.
/r/askTRP17/04/15 11:18 PM
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Title sounds like a showerthought of a BP man who had a glimpse of RP truth.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 09:37 AM
1

Main thing is realize that no body thinks or cares about you as much as you think they do. Liberate yourself. Most people are caught up with their own ego and bullshit.
/r/askTRP16/04/15 04:35 AM
2

$40k? LOL I need to move out of NYC
/r/askTRP14/04/15 05:04 AM
1

This was just another shit test, and you maintained frame. At least she was straightforward about it.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 03:29 PM
6

Welcome to abundance mentality. The quest for pussy is like the tomato sauce that you let simmer in the pot. You can always open a jar of Ragu, but slow cooking that homemade goodness is always worth the wait.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 03:43 AM
0

I would say fulfillment is proportional to inspiration, so this is a very personal question. What inspires you? I'm inspired by integrity, gratitude, and a hot body.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 10:03 PM
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Just like the HB scale is relative to each individual, the "king potential" that every man has is relative to every woman. It's also a moving target. I wasn't arguing that every man is a king and can get any woman to be their queen, I'm saying that a woman can ONLY be fulfilled with a man that she regards as better than her and worthy of being her king. AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 06:05 PM
1

Dread game, that's what he needs.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 04:04 PM
3

My gf just told me about how her father dodged all financial responsibility from divorcing her mother: he bought a condo in nyc, put it in his new wife's name, and claimed bankruptcy. Guess what happened? New wife became new exwife and he lost it all. Only way to secure assets you make during marriage is cash in a safety deposit box buried somehwere that NO ONE knows about.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 04:01 PM
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My effective way to NGAF about female bullshit is to analyze their character by stripping away their sexual potential. Take away the Ass/Tits/Vagina, what does this girl offer? It breeds abundance mentality.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 11:15 PM
1

Yes! My LTR is many magnitudes a better person (relationship-wise) than when we first met. Improved integrity, gratitude, generosity, to name a few. I feel bad for the next guy, she'll be an alpha widow (though I'm pretty sure she already was entering the relationship with me).
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 10:52 PM
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It's truly a powerful RP perspective that is to be used for two critical reasons: A filter to gauge LTR potential The foundation for which to maintain frame when dealing with female bullshit. This is what BP men lack, they are blinded by hypergamy and their shallow lust. They excuse women's shitty behavior and fall prey to guilt/shame tactics. With this RP perspective you can remain stoic in your journey, because you understand what really matters. It is a compliment to abundance mentality. When…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 10:47 PM
6

In light of this I don't LTR up girls with any depth. What I mean is, I don't expect it to last, and I seem invested, but really I'm not. I pretend to care, but I don't give a fuck. They're all research and practice to me. I'm not actually "in love" she hasn't "got me" she has me spending time on her (which is what she wants - commitment) but I don't form the emotional attachment because they lack the qualities necessary for me to want to even attempt caring about them. When you LTR an unworthy …
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 05:44 AM
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You can still salvage this. Next time you see her act like the awkward exchange never even happened. Spontaneously kiss her against a wall, or go straight back into kino. She's worrying about this just as badly as you are, just give no fucks and take back the driver's seat that you unknowingly had before.
/r/askTRP10/04/15 05:24 AM
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Fighting over women is silly, it's a dynamic that enables shitty behavior from women. You shouldn't focus on "keeping her from going back to her boyfriend", that is not of interest. You are a king, you can make any woman your queen, you don't have to try to keep her there to be your queen. You seem to lack abundance mentality. You have displayed confidence and assertiveness that has drawn her to you, but do not fall back to BP demeanor (ie: give fucks) because that will make her go back to bf. A…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 03:14 PM
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Sorry there was a degree of separation in my comment with regards to the original context of inspiration. Those three I listed were mechanisms for inspiration, the first two would contribute to trust.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 12:06 AM
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I can't answer that for you personally, but I'm inspired by gratitude, integrity, and a hot body.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 11:57 PM
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Red Pill is not new, it only seems new to us.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 11:55 PM
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Inspiration is everything. A man is designed to protect and provide for the woman, all the woman has to do is inspire him. What inspires you?
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 11:48 PM
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I've told my SO (6 months together so far, very brief) that I have no interest in marriage or kids, with her or with anyone, for at least another 10 years. I also told her that if she feels like she is wasting her time with me then she should consider leaving, I'm not in any rush. Forget about it, not going to happen, take it or leave it. She seems ok with it. I'm 27 and I am alpha (looks/money/RP personality), she's 33 ex-model and works in the beauty business. I got a feeling that she's either…
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/15 09:49 PM
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Several comments: The best reason to get married that i have ever heard is when you can't imagine spending the rest of your life without her by your side. So, how does one feel this way? My interpretation is that you have spent so much time together and gotten to know eachother to the point that convenience and compatibility intersect. A pessimistic interpretation is you have accumulated enough baggage that reintegrating your personality with another person is too much effort. An optimistic inte…
/r/askTRP08/04/15 02:44 AM
1

Stoicism dude
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 02:01 PM
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You’re not searching for the right woman. You’re searching for the right you. An excellent way to describe how TRP isn't PUA but a philosophy.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 04:11 PM
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The need for women to control every single opinion about sexuality a man may have. See: Wife intervening on a married man's attempt to hangout with non-married male friends.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 02:49 PM
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If she's obviously over 30, I always say 29. Works great.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 04:13 PM
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Thanks, same to you!
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/15 07:36 PM
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As a man that used to date a single mother: Because you aren't in a relationship with the woman, you are in a relationship with the kids. It's not about you and her, it's about the kids. You are the bottom of the totem pole. (That is if she's a good mother. A good mother will put her children before any boyfriend.) Single parents date single parents, or someone ready to be the role-model for the children. no time to fuck with some college level relationship. It was a pain in the ass, I'll raise …
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/15 11:24 PM
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You have full control over who you are with. Yes and no. I have full control about choosing to be with them, but I have no control on who they are. People change, relationships are a moving target and it won't always line up smoothly. You are absolutely correct about risk, and that's why I'm not getting married. I will have children without getting married. That does not eliminate risk, but it will reduce it.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/15 08:01 PM
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Hey, I have no problem with alimony. You take time off on your career to rear the children? There's the opportunity cost of the time you could have spend developing a career and increasing your worth, and you deserve compensation for it. But this gets abused - what's your incentive to get back on your feet and get working again if that means the alimony money stops flowing? I'm not sure about the stay at home family model, maybe just a few years off for the early child's years and then back to w…
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/15 07:36 PM
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A prenuptial agreement relates to the division of assets, property, and establishes an agreement on spousal support. They are recognized, but not always enforced - subject to the court/judge. A parenting agreement is focused on custody, finances (child support etc), and welfare of the children. The plan moving forward for the children. It is something that is filed with divorces. Either way, I'm not getting taken to the cleaners with a parenting agreement.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/15 07:17 PM
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Parenting agreement between partners, a contract between two individuals. Pre-nups get thrown out, I don't believe in the marriage because of kids concept for the previously mentioned issues.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/15 06:35 PM
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As a 27 year old RP man, I have no incentive to marry. I'm scared to death by it. After hearing all the stories from men twice my age from work/family/articles, the mentions of how a woman changes after she gets married (get's "comfortable", happy wife/happy life, no more sex), and the horribly imbalanced and sexist divorce court/child custody laws, why the hell would I sign up for that? What is my incentive? Why do I need to involve the government in my relationship? People change, 5-7 years an…
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/15 06:08 PM
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The power of the Internet for organizing Men’s Rights Activists, Pick Up Artists, and other anti-feminist groups has meant a surge in numbers of those who see feminism as “anti-male” or who despise the ways that feminism subverts patriarchal masculinity. So MRAs are anti-feminist but feminists are totally pro-male? Blatant hypocrisy.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 04:51 PM
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Sounds similar to the 3-second challenge game, except instead of a beer as a reward it's your pride and bro-hood at stake. Either way, it's all about turning fear of rejection into IDGAF
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 03:55 PM
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She's definitely committed to extraction by sucking
/r/askTRP27/03/15 04:41 AM
1

It just takes a catalyst to eliminate a vice and start a domino effect
/r/askTRP25/03/15 10:57 PM
1

Looks like she deleted both
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 10:40 PM
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every time we quit talking she came back. But this is the first time I actually said I was done compared to before where we just stopped talking for a bit. I want to focus on myself at the moment along with the fact I was sick of her being flakey. I wouldn't mind plating her later again when I'm doing better and have more plates Frame and focus, my man. Your personal situation is affecting your frame. Don't lose sight of the primary theme in that you are a fucking king, and you can make any wome…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 04:57 AM
2

All three women are susceptible to their own feeling oriented perspective of life. The chance aspect of life will influence their experience, who knows what kind of men they will run into. The fact that OP nexted them will separate him apart from future male encounters. Perhaps they will run into a collection of betas that put them into an "alpha drought", or through a similar experience they realize the potential they gave up in OP. If they come back or not, OP is in the best position by just f…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 04:17 AM
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A lot of factors at play here, there's no definitive answer. The only recommendation I will give you with regards to what you're supposed to do is just focus on yourself. Treat self-improvement like it's your full time job, any plates that come back are bonuses awarded for your hard work. You walked away, stick to it.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 12:19 AM
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I predict 2 of these 3 will be interested in sleeping with you in the future. Let them feel it out for a while, they'll be back.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 09:34 PM
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This. OP's post is useful to those for which it is new or unrecognized information. Recognize the way you judge others and focus on being a genuine person. Women see three sexes: Women, Alphas, and Betas. Men also see three sexes: Attractive women, Men they respect, everyone else.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 03:36 PM
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Men do this too. Generally speaking, the more attractive and successful one is with the opposite sex, the more optimistically they will carry themselves. Radiant energy.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/15 01:23 AM
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Time. Getting pussy helps, but your frame is shot and your body language will work against you.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 01:18 AM
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27-28, initiated unplugging about a year ago. I'm a very attractive Spanish/American guy who was raised by a single mother, and hammered with old-fashioned etiquette by her mother (grandmother) as a little boy. 21-25 was spent forcing myself to integrate into party/bar/club/hook up culture. Dated a single mother for 6 months (boy that was enlightening, HUGE BULLET DODGED). After then I embraced a dry-spell, the "something isn't right" feeling irked me. Initiated unplugging at 26, right about whe…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 08:01 PM
1

Be mysterious. The challenge is that you have to put yourself out there for a first impression, which means drop the ego and be a radiant motherfucker. The key is that it's not your concern how they interpret that first impression. That's the concept behind self-improvement and the benefit of self-amusement. You become inherently confident when you effectively filter women that don't choose to be a part of your journey.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 04:21 AM
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And business when aiming for success beyond middle management.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 03:37 AM
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Drop the chivalry bit, replace it with common courtesy. Someone invites the other one to dinner/movie? The inviter pays. Is she inviting you to dinner, or are you both deciding to go out to eat? At a bar: would you like something to drink (invite, you pay) vs what would you like to order (each pay). If you want to go out to eat, then go and pay for your own, and she can pay hers.
/r/askTRP11/03/15 10:17 PM
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Depends on your physical frame. Check out Express, Zara, & Uniqlo, get key nice items at Nordstrom Rack. Nothing wrong with getting plenty of staple/base items at H&M, but invest good money into the key items (peacoats, dress shirts, shoes)
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 10:18 PM
1

No free drinks, no expectations, only rely on self-amusement.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 04:58 PM
5

It's really tough to explain it objectively. I'd also attribute it to women being more insecure of their ability/value when it comes to asking for raises as well.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 02:57 AM
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Check out payscale.com's study on the gender pay gap using actual market data There IS a gender pay gap for women vs men doing similar work, but it's closer to 1-4%.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 02:14 AM
3

Dread game has been painful but effective so far.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 07:04 PM
2

For the right man, a woman can be as single as she wants to be at any given moment. This reminds me of the following statement that I read on some blog post giving relationship advice: "A woman can't just be with any man, she has to find the right one. A man, on the other hand, can make any woman his right one." Is that a TRP statement or a hypergamous statement?
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 06:26 PM
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Holy shit, the 33y/o Russian girl I'm dating fits the 31-34y/o description EXACTLY. Doesn't help that she's an ex-model and we live in NYC.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 06:19 PM
2

Shit post, typical rehash of sidebar material with your own personal trauma sewn into it. You don't have to be hot to be alpha, it just helps.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 05:52 PM
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Chris Rock - Differences Between Men & Women
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 06:46 PM
5

Set goals, but keep them to yourself.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 05:13 PM
3

4 years if you stick to the studies and don't fuck up. 5-6 if you do a combined masters or co-op program (alternate semesters working and studying.)
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 07:49 PM
3

22 = graduated with bachelors. What's so confusing?
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 07:23 PM
5

LSD could do the trick too. 125ug tab.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/15 07:22 PM
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RP man here, sounds like he's trying to figure out what he wants in a partner (we all do this). This is a classic case of wanting what you don't have, and taking for granted what you do have. In this case, you aren't assertive/challenging/confident enough when compared to his idea of a perfect woman. This idea of the ideal partner, no matter how realistic, shapes our desires and dictates what features/characteristics that we find attractive in a partner. The thing is, it's a moving target, and u…
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/15 10:30 PM
10

No woman has every successfully dominated me. When they try it's "cute".
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 06:07 PM
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Both gender's are attacking the author. I like this one: Just change the title to "Unbelievable: Woman with shitty attitude can't get a date" to make this into an Onion article.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 06:01 PM
6

TRP is a philosophy, it isn't the art of PUA. Please read the side bar.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 05:39 PM
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I tried to play the card of how she is really cool to hang out with and I'd love to keep seeing her (but definitely not in a supplicating way, more like "you're really cool, I clearly love spending time with you, which is why I asked you to hang out this weekend, and why we've been hanging out for months; but it's your choice to keep seeing me or not"); and how I don't want to enter a relationship because of how I was in two long relationship back-to-back (true) and how my last girlfriend broke …
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 06:42 AM
1

I recently posted this in a separate thread: Having problems with getting rejected? After rejection, as you turn and walk away give a verbal "Next!" out to yourself. Let the negative energy flow out of you, the act of saying "Next!" flushes you clean and you are a clean slate. Combine this with the 3-second rule: You see a girl that piques your interest, you have 3 seconds to make a move or you fail. No time to think about failure or rejection, that will only diminish your confidence as you sit …
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 06:18 AM
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getting rejected isn't the worst thing. Having problems with getting rejected? After rejection, as you turn and walk away give a verbal "Next!" out to yourself. Let the negative energy flow out of you, the act of saying "Next!" flushes you clean and you are a clean slate. Combine this with the 3-second rule: You see a girl that piques your interest, you have 3 seconds to make a move or you fail. No time to think about failure or rejection, that will only diminish your confidence as you sit again…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 02:22 AM
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This balance is what /u/humansockpuppet consistently repeats: When you're a good boyfriend, you love your woman twice: once as a partner, and once as a "father". As lovers, we want to please the women we love. But sometimes we have deny our girls what they want so that we can achieve something for their own good. That's where being a father comes into play. You have to inoculate yourself against her tantrums and tears. You have to be ready and willing to lay down the law and set firm boundaries …
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 01:50 AM
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He did. You need to remove yourself from HER frame and force her into YOURS. OP was justifying the extra time as purely a function of the female's behavior and frame, completely ignoring the BB vibes that he was likely putting out.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/15 01:44 AM
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Spanish and German here, 6ft soccer player. Raised by single mother, brainwashed with chivalry and putting the female on a pedestal. Looks ain't everything but it sure helps
/r/TheRedPill12/02/15 04:34 PM
0

Do NOT give a business card (unless it's your own). You should NOT trust an unknown woman with your employer's contact information.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 12:59 AM
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Not spinning plates, but I can offer a useful perspective from my current LTR. She asks about what qualities I would look for in a woman that I would marry. I list off qualities honestly (grateful, frugal, fit, supports me, good mother, etc). She shit-tests me with the follow up question "So I guess I'm not on that list?" I tell her: "Nah, based on what you've brought to the table so far, you haven't made the list". Drama ensued. But since then she's been working overtime, cleaning up her act an…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 12:47 AM
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I'm a hot guy. An interesting dynamic I run against is that they don't want to give it up too easily because they don't want to fuck up LTR potential. Guys below my SMV get easier access because "they don't really matter", they aren't worth the investment. I see this with my previous roommate and her match.com dating experiences: she won't let the guy fuck her until they put in work (4-5th date), but all the meantime she's getting railed by the local drug dealer because "he doesn't matter".
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 12:31 AM
2

"No. I would thank the guy, too."
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 04:43 AM
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I highly recommend reading "A New Earth" by Eckhart Tolle. Not specifically TRP related, but an excellent read on transcending our ego-based state of consciousness and embracing awareness to be more present in life. Absolutely amazing read.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/15 07:02 PM
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It's been a slow progression for me. I'm a very attractive guy, an I make good money, so I never really had to work too hard for pussy. It has gotten easier, I will admit, especially on my own mind.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/15 05:28 AM
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This is why women lie to you about their partner count. Once they figure out that it matters, what the fuck else are they supposed to do? I understand why women lie about partner count, no big deal. But what is the reason that it matters? Is a man suppose to prefer a woman with a 5 partner count vs a 25 partner count? I'd rather a woman know how to handle a cock, I'm not here to give lessons. Is it an argument about psychological detriment to the traditionalist model? Is it a demonstration that …
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 04:10 PM
1

Cockily is a word my brother. Stoically Cocky vs Cockily Stoic. I'll take the first, I'm not a masochist.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 09:00 PM
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Looks like your ego hasn't been put in check, my friend.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 06:12 PM
1

I haven't read it, A New Earth is my first read. A quick google search and I found the following statement: "Power of now is presence and New Earth is ego." Looks like both are valuable, I will try TPiN next.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 06:11 PM
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"A New Earth" by Eckhart Tolle. Not specifically TRP related, but an excellent read on transcending our ego-based state of consciousness and embracing awareness to be more present in life. Absolutely amazing read.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 06:31 AM
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I'm currently finishing up a long series of consequences from my first 0.09 BAC DUI. It has cost me $10,500 (no felony, got it reduce to reckless driving). It's nothing to fuck around with.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 06:22 AM
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Some guy that will make her his only passion in life. Wrong. This is the classical what she says she wants, versus what she really wants. There was an excellent perspective that I read from /u/HumanSockPuppet yesterday: When you're a good boyfriend, you love your woman twice: once as a partner, and once as a "father". to further clarify: As lovers, we want to please the women we love. But sometimes we have deny our girls what they want so that we can achieve something for their own good. That's …
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 04:55 AM
1

"I'm in charge with your permission". You're in charge, she feels ok with that.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 06:19 AM
2

Just bought your book The Rational Male, looking forward to reading it. Subscribed.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 06:13 AM
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I used Mark Rudovs video about how dating is legal prostitution: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MNqYBn4qBVk Got in a fight with my girl at first, but she's over it now.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 05:12 AM
3

Haha, go 90%, then let him do the last 10%. Resentment free relationship! On a serious note, your methods are excellent for dealing with a man's pride.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/13 11:50 PM
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Awesome post, it really resonated with me. I'm a 26M, starting to get an idea of the realities of long-term human companionship. I'm new to TRP, was curious about RPW and I came across this post. Both of these communities have great value.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/13 11:34 PM
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