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The opinion of anyone age 40+ as it pertains to dating today is as completely and utterly useless as my expertise on nuclear physics.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 02:15 AM
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If it's with someone you have a strong emotional connection with, it is the best pleasure life has to offer
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:22 PM
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I’d also push back on the idea that only women “without much going for themselves” want providers. Edited my post to clarify that I'm talking about women who want to not work at all, not women with a career who are looking for equal or higher income.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 09:41 PM
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We are, it's just a lot more competitive/difficult to do so. Being your run of the mill average joe earning 60k a year isn't going to cut it anymore. If you go into medicine, law, or big tech you can absolutely still be a provider. But personally, I think that the provider concept is antiquated and dual income households are the way to go, it makes retiring early much more viable, and frees up money to spend on non-necessities that improve quality of life. The women that do want a traditional "p…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/25 09:24 PM
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(Most) of the juice ain't worth the squeeze. Hard to find a good woman, requires a lot of time & effort to find, and sifting through a lot of low quality ones
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 11:57 PM
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Women don't need a dating strategy/philosophy. AWDTSG is just a place for undesirable women to congregate. Also, don't think for a second that you can trust humans to be honest. Men lie. Women lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 07:11 AM
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You actually have one of the most aesthetic looking pages i've ever seen, and top tier photo quality, kudos
/r/seduction08/04/25 12:59 AM
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I haven't changed my flair in years but I chose red because it aligns more closely with what I believe than blue pill does. Certainly does not mean I agree with everything in trp. But that's besides the actual point of the thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 04:30 AM
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Why are you flared redpill?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 04:27 AM
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Atrocious argument. All you did was lump all men into a monolith and then try to argue that some men being pricks or committing crimes equates to misandry. Bad people are bad towards all people, irregardless of whether it's a man or woman on the receiving end of their actions. The only misandrist men are white knights who try to portray all men as morally reprehensible, rapists, violent ect...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 03:52 AM
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It is not the equivalent of redpill like some comments in this thread state. FDS is/was unironically a femcel community for undesirable women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 01:09 AM
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This sounds like the sort of friendship I had with a girl when I was like 14 years. This was not a serious relationship, and you both have a lot of maturing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 03:23 AM
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The two are not mutually exclusive. You can believe men don't care about career while also simultaneously believing men get screwed in divorce court. But the notion that men don't care about career isn't true; it just doesn't compensate for appearance in women the same way it does for men. But most upper middle class people pair up with people of similar socioeconomic status, by virtue of the fact in their education and upbringing they tend to be around people of the same socioeconomic status.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 11:43 PM
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I’d suggest that a significant number of them don’t want kids There is a growing trend of couples who don't want to have kids, but that's a whole lot different than being single. Personally I believe that romantic connection is a crucial part of the human experience, and one that family relationships and friendships can't replace. Find someone who is single at 40+ and not disappointed about it, and you've found a liar.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 05:14 AM
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One of the rare high quality posts on this subreddit these days
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:31 AM
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It's more like, the left has been shitting on men for a decade now and alienate a lot of voters because of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 12:40 AM
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It's not that they don't have an effective way, it's that NOTHING can replace romantic experience for anyone, man or woman, in the context of being a huamn. Friendship and romantic relationships are two entirely different things. Find me a single woman who is single (like actually single, not situationships) at 35+ and not lonely and you've found a liar.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 11:52 PM
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The issue with divorce court is division of assets and in some instances extreme child support and alimony payments. Take NBA player who earns $100 million dollars over 6-7 years. Let's say he marries a woman is at the time a nurse, or some sort of professional who is well above mean income. They get divorced after those 7 years, and she is entitled to half of that money and potentially exorbitantly high child support payments. I don't think being married to someone should automatically entitle …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 06:07 PM
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A yes, the patriarchy where men get bent over backwards in divorce court and men can be ordered to pay child support even after paternity fraud has been proven. There is no such as the patriarchy in 2024. It is the extremely wealthy vs everyone else. The everyone else includes men and women, that are both getting screwed over Also, feminism has zero interest in equality, and depending on the type of feminism (liberal feminists) some of them don't really even have any interest in actually protect…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 05:59 PM
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We are talking about different things. There are med units in the military who's job is to render aid just like in your example. We rely on hospital workers, garbagemen, postal workers, trades people ect... for society to function. That's a lot different than "men are lonely and struggling with mental health". Everyone already knows men are lonely and struggling with mental health. People have been talking about it for YEARS. But society (and women) doesn't care about that whatsoever, and if you…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 05:46 PM
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Schrödinger's feminism: a woman is simultaneously a victim and empowered, until something happens. Then she can choose which state benefits her the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 05:39 PM
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That's not a way of thinking, it's reality, it's always been reality, and there's nothing anyone can do to ever change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 05:37 PM
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Any figure/study citing 6-8 cents is full of shit. That is an obscenely high difference, and if it were the case every company would just hire more women and dramatically increase their profits by reducing cost. There might be a 1 or 2% difference, that stems from men's higher likelihood of asking for raises. But the "pay gap" as the term is used doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 05:33 PM
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It's not about how or what I think, i'm describing the reality of being a man, we don't have inherent value for existing or get societal sympathy the way women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 05:30 PM
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Pay gap isn't a problem for men to fix because the pay gap doesn't exist, its an imaginary concept feminists made up
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 05:28 PM
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They are aware, they just don't really care all that much, and it's also not really women's job to fix it. If you are a man, nobody is coming to save you and nobody will feel sorry for you. You have take actionable steps to better yourself and build the life you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 04:30 AM
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The response to a man doing it would absolutely be completely different. When you have children you make a commitment that whatever happens in life, you will face that adversity to be there for your children. You can't run away from that. I don't know what led this woman to make that decision but she is an incredibly selfish human being for trying to end her child's life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 04:26 AM
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It is absolutely impossible to study that with any semblance of reliability. Not everyone will be honest about cheating, and cheating also takes place without the other party knowing sometimes. The concept that morality is intrinsically tied to gender in general is downright illogical. Men lie. Women lie. Men cheat. Women cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 04:21 AM
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Me neither. And that's because it's a made up term
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 05:14 AM
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In the context of dating, nobody inherently owes anyone anything. Although, being upfront about intentions is part of being a decent human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:38 AM
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So if a woman feigns attraction to a guy with a lot of money, who wouldn't be interested in being intimate if he knew she wasn't actually attracted to him, is that rape as well? Do not conflate dishonesty and consent. You are downplaying how serious and terrible rape really is by arbitrarily trying to re-define it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 04:34 AM
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It's not about good or bad, i'm just describing reality
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 03:48 AM
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Women ushered in an era in which commitment is not a requirement for intimacy. This is one of the results of that. Outside of a few exceptions (i.e. virgin, or waiting until marriage), if a woman isn't getting intimate with you within like 4-5 dates, she's not attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 10:19 PM
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A relationship build on dishonesty isn't genuine
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 10:17 PM
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I'm far better able to defend myself than all but a tiny minority of the men I know. Unless you are a professional mma fighter, you are mistaken.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 06:21 AM
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You never know what someone is willing to do, what their state of mind is like, and whether or not they are carrying weapons. Violence is an absolute LAST resort, regardless of how strong/trained you are. I've put myself in harm's way to help strangers before and there's nothing heroic about it, it's downright stupid. Protect people important to you if necessary, but jumping into a potentially dangerous situation for a stranger is stupid. Call the police and let them handle it. The girl in the O…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 06:15 AM
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They have to be not for profit Eliminate ELO system entirely Married people looking for a 3rd, or polygamous people = instant ban, not allowed on the platform Hinge style where if someone likes you they show up in your feed, and you have to like them back to match or vice versa Limit number of likes per day to limit spam swiping/liking
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 11:29 PM
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Reading and seeing all the salt from far left nuts the last 48 hrs on social media has been a real pleasure
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 06:20 AM
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suggested drinking bleach during a pandemic He does things like that because he mistakenly believes that he is an expert in everything. When I say quick-witted, I mean that he is able to very quickly formulate rhetorically effective responses. Or at least, he was in the election leading up to 2016. He went from a fringe joke candidate to slowly destroying every other candidate in the primaries. Here is a good example of him doing so: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T2z8App14bs Kamala is not as u…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 10:54 PM
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The difference is that trump is polarizing, not purely unlikable. Hilary was mostly just unlikeable. A lot of people absolute loathe Trump, but simultaneously he is considered by many to be charismatic, and i'd say he is (or was at least) objectively quick-witted with a good sense of humor. That's why he was able to get elected in the first place despite no political experience. Back to the point in the OP: I think the fact that Kamala has a realistic chance at winning, and is considered to be t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 09:19 PM
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It should feel equal so that neither party feels like they are being singled out as the bad guy. Such as....? Paternity fraud is a real thing that occurs all over the world. I don't see any downside to preventing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:14 PM
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Will never happen in a million years because the government has no interest in preventing men from raising children that aren't theirs. If that occurs, and the actual dad is a broke deadbeat, that means the child will be supported by government $$.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/24 10:12 PM
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Ah yes, this is the reason that women avoid jobs like being a plumber or electrician.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 10:55 PM
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We need more men in education. There is a lot of pressure on men to become high earners. Teachers play a vital role, but they get paid like shit...so that's not going to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 04:05 AM
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The data simply means that higher earners have less kids, it doesn't indicate anything about the quality of life of kids from poorer households. Higher earners have children at a lower rate because they realize the responsibility and cost that comes along with raising children properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:46 AM
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Men can already do this, they just want it mandatory so they can be insulated from accusing their partner of cheating. I don't want my tax money to go up so men can be spineless. Paternity tests aren't all that expensive, our country spends money on infinitely more unnecessary things. It's simply not socially acceptable to ask for a paternity test. The REAL cost, and why it hasn't happened yet, are the costs incurred when a father finds out a child isn't his, and now the government has to suppor…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 12:44 AM
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Best post in the sub in quite some time. It's pretty fascinating to see someone so casually arrive at the same conclusion about the way the world works.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:48 PM
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There is no absolutely no circumstance in which someone with kids is another person's "match." until you get to 40 to 50 years old. People on places that talk about dating really don't understand the weight of taking on the responsibility of having a child to be responsible of when you date/marry someone with kids. There are a shit load of women (yes, even women who are 30-35) with varying levels of attractiveness who don't have kids. The 30-35 year old's "match" is another 30-35 year old of wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 05:03 PM
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The demographic/age range that dating discourse revolves around these days, and their attitudes/beliefs, is not appropriately characterized by using statistics about marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 02:05 AM
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when nothing of real value comes from it. precisely why I rarely post here anymore. there is no reversing how social media & online dating have changed dating, and complaining about it wont do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 05:56 AM
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Fact of the matter is there aren't many women posters on this subreddit because women are a lot more likely to engage with content/in communities that they agree with. The same is true about dating discussion in general elsewhere on the internet and social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:10 AM
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The main problem is that getting married is too easy. Making it harder to get married would solve absolutely none of the problems with marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:01 AM
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There are nowhere near enough people interested in working in childcare for everyone to have access to it, even if the government did pay. That's exactly why childcare is so expensive. Absolutely HUGE demand (there are waiting lists to even get your child in daycare in some areas) and not enough supply. And that's with a declining birth rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 09:28 PM
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A wife of a guy earning 60k isnt doing anything different than the wife of a guy earning 1 million. If anything, the guy earning more can hire people to reduce his wife's workload around the house. There are literally hundreds of millions of Ayesha Currys, but only one Steph Curry. The athlete is an extreme example but even for a guy earning 150k+ I think its something to be conscious of. Its a much safer financial decision to pair up with someone of similar socioeconmic status, and not only for…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 08:16 PM
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That becomes a problem functionally because the partner receiving half the assets didn't necessarily do all that much to contribute to it, and often times most certainly doesn't have the skill set to acquire those assets on their own. Take for example a basketball player earning $50 mil a year for 5 years. Wife divorces him after 5 years, is entitled to half of that, despite not doing anything out of the ordinary to earn it nor having a world class skill set in basketball. Divorce should be easy…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 06:39 PM
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This is just chatting, not dating. Until it's off the app and in person it's not dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/24 02:01 AM
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Reason #1 is irrelevant. There are infinitely more costly things that the government wastes money on, the cost would be minuscule in the grand scheme of things. Reason #2 is precisely why mandatory paternity tests do not (and will never) exist. It is preferable (from the government's standpoint) to have a father unknowingly support a child that isn't his, than for the government to support it. I'd argue reason #2 is complete and utter bullshit to anyone that has any semblance of a moral compass …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 10:12 PM
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Caitlin clark is a picture perfect example of how nobody tears down women more than other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 03:15 PM
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Sharing private matters publicly has more to do with lack of respect and class, not vulnerability.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 06:53 PM
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Feels like it should be common sense. Divorce being a massive financial risk for men = incentive not to commit
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 12:21 AM
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For a normal person in normal circumstances i'd be with you. But if I'm worth 9 figures and have a playoff game after the birth of my child, i'm playing in the game and then flying on a private jet immediately back to minny (where games 3 and 4 are) I don't think it would've been much of an inconvenience to be in denver for like 6 hours before heading back to minny
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 01:03 AM
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It's a lot different when you're getting paid $40 mil a year with access to private jets. If he's going to miss a game why not just miss the whole series to be there for the first 2 weeks or so of his child's life?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 12:54 AM
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Chance for attraction will never happen if it's not there to begin with. How many dates these days end in a "I wasn't feeling a connection/spark"?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 11:01 PM
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The videos in that hashtag are fucking hilarious. Always love some quality satire Funniest thing about it is that these vids aren't an exaggeration
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 06:16 AM
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Iirc that guy was making closer to 400k lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 06:51 PM
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There are a few women who call me "most important guy" in her life after her parents. You know who they fuck? The guys who don't care much about them. Then why are you blue pill? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 06:50 PM
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2000 a month on food lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 10:55 PM
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that is not reproductive rights
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 03:59 AM
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Not the same thing. There's plenty of research out there that shows that children brought up in single parent households have worse outcomes. Gay couples are two parent households.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 10:31 PM
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Incorrect
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 10:21 PM
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Voluntarily choosing to be a single parent via surrogates/donors should be illegal
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 10:13 PM
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Trp today is not a great resource, all the posters from back then abandoned it and it's pretty dead. And no, I have my challenges just as everyone does but I wouldn't say I'm struggling struggling, in large part due to finding trp adjacent self improvement message boards 5-6 years ago. I don't really think there are any great resources for men right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 03:20 AM
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Also incredible work in implicitly acknowledging that men's rights advocates and red pillers don't actually care about men's issues. Not much of a gotcha moment, the modern day "manosphere" is for the most part just a bunch of grifters trying to earn $$. It's not the same as the redpill that got quarantined on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 09:28 PM
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Well I mean, modern day feminism has nothing to do with equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 09:24 PM
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I don't post here much anymore due to being busy irl & kinda bored discussing the same topics, but I do find it kinda interesting seeing some of the same regulars that have been here forever lol The things that are responsible for the current dating climate (sex w/o commitment, women being able to financially support themselves, single salary not viable to support a family like men could in the past, women's options dramatically increasing and the inability of women to accurately assess their "l…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 09:22 PM
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r/MensLib Mens lib is an awful subreddit for pandering white knights who have no backbone. Not that modern day manosphere is great either, certainly better than menslib though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 09:11 PM
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I'm indifferent to it. The "manosphere" is mostly just full of grifters trying to earn $$, it's a far cry in a lot of ways from actual redpill that started on the trp sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 10:16 PM
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I don't necessarily care if it did or didn't work, there are a million more important things to spend $$ money
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 09:18 AM
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and attempting solutions. This is more "sweeping things under the rug" to avoid getting people to talk about them, the government has very little interest in helping normal every day people in any regard, much less in the context of relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 12:00 AM
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Colossal waste of resources
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 11:59 PM
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Kudos for honesty, because a hell of a lot more women than will admit to it also have this mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 04:53 AM
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"Manosphere" red pill maybe. True redpill circa ~2017 that only existed on reddit and message boards nah. Redpill is about accepting the way the world works and adapting to it, not changing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 11:55 PM
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Well that would be odd since women look better in general with muscle on both upper and lower body, but if she wanted bodybuilder arms she's never getting there without PEDs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 06:10 PM
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I'm well aware that it's more difficult for women to put on muscle mass and lose weight. But their competition/point of comparison for a nice physique, is other women who also have the same ability to put on muscle and lose fat. And women also don't need to get as lean to be "lean" To put it simply, a "perfect body" for a man requires 5-6 years of dedicated lifting with good genetics. A "perfect body" for a woman can be achieved in a shorter amount of time naturally. Well not perfect perfect, be…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 06:09 PM
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Although women don't put on muscle as fast, it's actually easier to build a nice physique as a woman. Simply by virtue of the fact the most important muscles for a woman's aesthetic are the largest muscles (glutes, hamstrings, quads) and the ideal woman's physique doesn't require as much mass or leanness as aman's.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 03:37 AM
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Yep I retired as a mod. I dont post here much because I'm busy irl + got tired of the topics that are frequently discussed here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:02 AM
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As difficult as it is to make yourself into successful man women want to date, I just can't help but think 99% of any dudes that want to be a stay at home dad are lazy as shit with no ambition. And the vast majority of women wouldn't be interested in that dynamic, especially not the ones worth dating. Either the guy is the primary breadwinner or the man/woman both earn a similar amount and both contribute. Stay at home dad is a divorce waiting to happen in most instances.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 10:49 PM
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My issue has more to do with from the bf's perspective, i'd be devastated if I was in his shoes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 12:18 AM
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Appreciate it fam, lost interest here because all the topics here have been done to death, but mostly i'm just busy as hell irl lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 12:16 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/188zkmo/my_27f_sister_25f_bf_29m_and_parents_49f_and_52m/ Thoughts on this? I support abortion as a right largely for situations like SA, instances where the couple wont be able to provide a quality life for their child, or severe birth defects. This girl more or less unilaterally behind his back decided to terminate what would've been her and her boyfriend's child, with both he and her sister and her brother in law offering to raise the chil…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/23 06:52 PM
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People generally don't feel empathy towards situations/for people they can't relate it to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:54 PM
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being short or tall, ugly or handsome, ethnic or white. . Am I wrong here? Yes. This is textbook non-sequitur, the two are not mutually exclusive. Those things can play a huge role, and simultaneously so can having/not having a social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:51 PM
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Most women would sleep with an average guy who actually shows her a good time and makes her feel special and sexy. If that were the case this subreddit would not exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:46 PM
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I dont know you nor care what you look like
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:16 PM
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You said virtually nothing about how you rate your appearance, which is the most important determinant of what sort of man you can get commitment from. What else would he offer? Companionship? I have a great social circle which fulfils this need. Also I find women far more interesting to talk to, men tend to bore me. Friends/family play a different role, there isn't really anything in life that can genuinely replace romantic companionship. As for why a woman should get married, I don't tend to f…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:47 PM
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That's because you don't genuinely believe that men are responsible for what they do with their dicks. Sure I do. I've turned down the opportunity to sleep with lots of women while in a relationship. Even got the go ahead to do it and I refused.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:20 PM
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It's a bit different. When a girl is immediately explicit with a guy she isn't necessarily exclusively looking at him as a piece of meet. The physical attractiveness threshold for a girl to date seriously/have sex with a guy are more level than vice versa, and in some instances girls will even date lower than the guy they would hook up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 11:18 PM
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I'm just saying man, i've never met/heard of a man who lets other dudes bang his wife, who has the respect/admiration of his friends
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 10:50 PM
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Dishonesty is worse than being upfront, don't get me wrong. And as with all things in life, there are outliers. I have a friend who's had plenty of casual sex but while in a relationship she has eyes for nobody else. She's an anomaly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 10:49 PM
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Do you think its also the other way around too or you have a double standard there? Nope. I think men can more easily have sex with no emotional attachment. But sometimes in life you have to move past the cave man urges for something more meaningful. Do you think its also the other way around too or you have a double standard there? I can only speak based on my experiences, there's no study/data to prove any of this. For me personally, like almost all of my dating related views, I found out the …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 10:44 PM
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Considering the magnitude of the consequences for being found guilty in criminal court for it, unbiased 3rd party witnesses, or video evidence, or both. There are situations where I could see other evidence being sufficient. Cosby for example, there was court testimony talking about him using quaaludes and an obscene amount of women with eerily similar stories.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 10:29 PM
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If we're speaking US only I use the terms interchangeably, though I know there are plenty of dems who are more moderate. I know that on a global scale US dems are not consider "far left"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 10:25 PM
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I think the reason so many people are shocked is because the adage of "be a good person and treat women like people!" does not necessarily show results more or less
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 10:24 PM
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And i don't understand how far left people being upfront about not wanting monogamy/wanting open relationships=scumbags with mental issues Not automatically and not intrinsically, just an observation i've noticed over the last 5-6 years that there tends to be a correlation between the two. And again I simply don't think a woman can love a man and want to bounce on some other dude's dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 10:22 PM
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Rare that a non liberal will let their wife bang other dudes, it's mostly common in liberal spaces
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 10:21 PM
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Keep up the good work chief, just remember not to rely on motivation because it's fleeting. Hit the gym and keep the diet going because you want to better yourself, even if you don't want to that day
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 10:07 PM
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obesity immaturity/not being able to communicate like an adult
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 10:03 PM
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not ones worth wifing up, which eliminates most of them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 10:02 PM
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Some women are down to fuck ones who are for the streets
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 10:00 PM
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Starting off right away with something sexually explicit means a man doesn't respect a woman as a person/views her as an object of desire. A woman worth starting a life together would never be receptive to such advances. And my views on casual sex in general despite having done it before, is that it's just an empty meaningless pleasure, like drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:59 PM
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It's bizarre to me that any grown ass man with a wife (and possibly kids) wants to spend his time fucking random women, casual sex is nothing more than a fleeting pleasure. I will say I simply don't think it's possible for a woman to love a man and sleep with another man, whereas I don't think the same is true for men. Still don't think people should have extramarital affairs regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:58 PM
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Unless you think that "morally corrupt" is stuff like having consensual sex or being gay or something in which case, nah. I'm referring to things like honest, honor, empathy ect.. And I honestly don't think there is any difference in character between the average person of either party. The exaggerated caricature of some dumb trump lover on tiktok isn't representative of the average, most conservative people I know are kind, decent people who have some backwards beliefs on a few topics due to th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:55 PM
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Reads like one but I take no pride in it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:50 PM
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People shit on conservatives a lot, conservative men in particular, but there is a fuck ton of far left people who are as morally corrupt as they come. Guarantee if you meet anyone into that degenerate open relationship/ethical non-monogamy shit you will realize they are a shitty person who's parents didn't raise them properly at some point or another. Very high incidence of mental issues too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:27 PM
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Girls sending me nudes/down to hook up when I say something sexually explicit to them as my 1st message is legit depressing man. The normal response of a quality woman should be block/ignore that. So few down to earth respectable people looking for love. The determinant of whether girls find something creepy or charming/funny has virtually nothing to do with the content of what is said and everything to do with how attractive/smooth the guy is. Also, despite the optics of being a conservative to…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:22 PM
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Tinder is not for average men
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 05:09 PM
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We broke up
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:19 AM
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Hinge
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 11:49 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/daozqgevd3qb1.jpeg?width=861&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=0addcefc54c634e3f591774df0db29a0df87cfd7 Got tired of politely asking girls to get dinner/drinks lmfaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 11:45 PM
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1st one is doubtful, really nice body but nothing too special face wise. There's plenty of guys more attractive/desirable than me but she got cold feet basically the morning after. And it's not really all that complicated to make a girl feel good physically, how you make her feel with teasing her/making her laugh is what gets her turned on. Def did that and charmed her in the moment but 1 date isn't really enough to build a really strong attachment
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:46 AM
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Nah the sounds I was making she knew she was good lmao. Alcohol makes it harder to finish
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 06:32 AM
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seems to me like she felt slutty/regretful afterwards. said she's only been with 3 guys and never guys over to a guy's place on 1st date
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 01:03 AM
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Damn near every girl under 25 has some sort of personality disorder
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 12:37 AM
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Just slightly tipsy, we both had 1 drink and barely touched the second one
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 12:30 AM
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A lot of girls wont even do that for a guy they love lmao. I didn't even push to do anything either, she gradually asked me to take clothes off and kept dry humping me until I caved. So no way physical attraction was an issue
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 12:27 AM
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Cialis
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 12:24 AM
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I spent my birthday with a thicc cute girl who paid for 2 rounds of drinks, spent 45+ minutes sucking my dick like I was her husband 3 hrs after we met and was shoving her tongue down my throat the entire evening. This girl was screaming so loudly while I was using my fingers I was worried my neighbors might call the police. 2 days later she messages me that she doesn't feel a spark. BRUH. I cannot handle these girls in the west. You can elicit every sort of emotion for in them, charm them and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 12:17 AM
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Appreciate the vote of confidence lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 03:24 AM
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Because it's just a fleeting pleasure like drugs and alcohol, instead of the incredible experience it is when there's a connection
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 03:21 AM
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More attractive than avg but no chad, I don't think most girls can do casual without catching feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 03:20 AM
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More or less but it wasn't appealing prior to that either, just even less appealing now.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 03:19 AM
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Took a loooot of work to get to this point and even now it doesn't feel easy. I'm like a 6.5/10 maybe and benefit from the avg dude being very unimpressive. Once you meet that looks threshold for most girls the flood gates open up
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 03:18 AM
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you are correct
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 03:14 AM
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I have, girls always catch feelings and sex with them starts feels like a chore because I'm not interested romantically lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 11:08 PM
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I honest to god don't know how people do casual sex. Broke up with my girlfriend not too long ago, went on a date with a decent looking girl who heavily hinted at wanting to hook up and literally could not be less interested. Diff girl I matched with is down to come over literally just to blow me and it sounds so eh. It's like I'm horny/down to do it until I'm in the moment then remember it's an empty unfulfilling pursuit. But simultaneously it's still stuck in my head that I should be trying to…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 11:03 PM
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I de-modded myself right before making this post lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:58 AM
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Take care fam
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:01 AM
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Appreciate it man
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 12:00 AM
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you wont
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 05:53 PM
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Appreciate all the cool people I met here but i've lost interest in talking about dating and by extension moderating here, it was fun for a while
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 05:22 PM
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She shot her shot at chris evans and her current boyfriend is a mediocre looking normal guy with like 24k followers on ig, so clearly not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 03:55 PM
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Lizzo is apparently a huge POS, shocker.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 02:05 PM
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There's nothing masculine about a girl with with thicc thighs and a toned butt, muscle is hot on girls
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 05:19 PM
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I did a cycle in the past and quite literally thought I was superman. It was the perfect storm of anger/motivation from people who wronged me + hormones + having the time to hit the gym 5-6 times a week. I was doing working sets of weighted chin ups with 75 lbs strapped to my waist, had the confidence to say anything to any girl and literally did not give a shit But sometimes feeling like superman can make you say and do some stupid shit, because you have no inhibitions, or at least certainly lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 12:37 AM
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Bro unless you are extremely attractive outright asking girls to hook up does not work. It comes across as sleazy. If that's what you want you have to be more subtle, say you're open to hanging out and seeing where it goes ect... and then IF you get to hang out in person you have to read her body language/vibe to see if she's interested in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 12:33 AM
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I've gotten 6 in just a span of a few hrs when I used to be on it during the busiest months, but don't be fooled...there is a fuck ton of bots scammers, OF models using it to advertise, girls just trying to get ig followers ect... on tinder. Maybe like 1 or 2 of those 6 is a real girl actually using the app to try to meet a guy/hang out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 12:28 AM
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Yeah, definitely not
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 08:30 PM
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Grifting to an audience in search for guidance and saying outlandish things that generate attention
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 05:04 PM
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He's prob talking about the new rates UPS negotiated, iirc some drivers will now be earning like 110k~ But that's probably not out of the gate
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 05:03 PM
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Dw, ~18-25 will be a lot of fun for you when you get there, barring another pandemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:59 PM
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An extreme deficit in one area can off set the advantages of money, status, looks ect... Money isn't magic. Men with a lot money are able to pull beautiful women because they are a) in social and professional spaces where those women are and b) they are able to subtly indicate that they have wealth, without leading with money.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:55 PM
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They are sedentary but I don't think they involve very much physical activity. My idea of physical jobs = manual labor. Men very clearly do a lot more of that societally. Which makes perfect sense and there isn't anything wrong with that, men are physically stronger and more inclined to pursue blue collar jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 04:24 AM
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Keep it civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 04:20 AM
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Not immediately. I saw your post in the queue; a user's post history does not excuse personal attacks. I just issued him a warning, but if a user violates any rules in their comments report them and a mod will get to them in the queue at some point. Incivility is for personal attacks against another user. If we banned/warned everyone for broad statements (i.e. stating men/women are entitled) nobody would be able to post.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 04:19 AM
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Keep it civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/23 02:21 AM
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Retail work is your idea of a "pretty physical" job? Oh boy...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 09:53 PM
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Many men assume that pregnancy and children's a woman's job. it becomes her job if she keeps it when he is opposed to becoming a father.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 11:20 PM
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No, they’re just thinking wow I could be a surgeon/athlete/president etc just like barbie Well maybe we should promote that more as a society instead of normalizing girls selling naked content to simps and mentally ill men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:18 PM
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I don't agree. Nor do I think you would agree if your autism magically disappeared tomorrow. You perceive it to be unfathomably easy because you have a huge hurdle to overcome. It took me 100s of hrs in the gym to get from skinny to fit, and a lot of talking to women to improve game/emotional intelligence and get past social anxiety, to actually do well dating. And then when you do finally start to attract girls you're interested the process is mentally draining and tiresome because a) you're ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:14 PM
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Girls playing with barbies aren't thinking about "the patriarchy" The film is misandrist trash that's underlying message is "women good men bad"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:00 PM
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There are usually signs and red flags
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 09:34 PM
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You phrase this like women actually avoid dating men who abuse them. They don't, morality is largely irrelevant to dating success with women because they don't select for it. Looks, emotional intelligence, status, income. On a wide scale, morality doesn't mean jack shit in the context of dating women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 09:31 PM
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I couldn't recall your username earlier but I had an interaction with an autistic man last week that made me really empathize with you. His was a lot more severe but the uncontrollable sounds and gestures...that's really a different level of social hurdle to overcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 09:29 PM
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Of course hollywood used barbie, a child's play toy, to spread misandrist feminist propaganda lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 09:28 PM
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Nurse practitioners are utterly useless and largely are allowed to exist due to capitalism
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 02:35 PM
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Same. like it when my gf sits on my face
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 01:42 PM
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Do not troll
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 04:59 PM
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I think most don't try to self improve and put themselves out there to the extent that you have to try to get girls. There are some men that just have an extremely difficult set of circumstances to overcome, but I think those are a minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 08:21 PM
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Largely because the girls there are younger, but there are still a shit load of overweight girls on college campuses too
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 07:08 PM
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For the sake of argument, I used to follow a really sexy girl on ig that was a model for car shows, and then subsequently started doing OF. When she found found a man she really liked she proceeded to remove any remotely provocative content from her ig and get a breast reduction. Posting surfing vids is not even revealing content, Jonah is a dumbass for thinking she'd stop doing that, but I'm just pointing out that generally speaking the thought process that "girl does X why would she change" do…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 06:58 PM
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You can never get lost time back but that "something wrong" may just be being too afraid of rejection and unwillingness to get out of your comfort zone, both of which are fixable
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 06:55 PM
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Q4A Has women's standards actually gone up or is it that this generation of men has not been able to meet them? Both. But the average women is borderline obese and brings virtually nothing to the table. The state of dating is not a binary issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 06:52 PM
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99% of the negative reaction to him i'm talking about is from the texts his ex released, most people don't even know about the other allegation, which is also just unproven hearsay at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 06:18 PM
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I genuinely wouldn't be surprised if it does become the norm. What jonah hill did was literally nothing but he's being treated like a rapist. People already trying to excuse women cheating because they assume she must've been emotionally neglected. There is no more setting of boundaries if you are a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 05:58 PM
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If you are making people uncomfortable in this way as an adult and it isn't intentional, it's incredibly likely you have a disability affecting your social development. Disagree. Toeing the line between confident/playful and off putting is simply not as intuitive as you're letting. I only managed to become semi decent at talking to girls and start to pick up on subtleties by learning from mistakes. Having a normal conversation vs having a conversation in the context of a date/trying to ask a wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 09:45 PM
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Doubt it brings in 40x less revenue. Standardizing medal awards is a lot different than providing equal prize money to a sport with comparatively no talent internationally.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:32 PM
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Or what happens? This guy is a multi millionaire at 22. He has a huge following of fans, much of which he gained doing over the top things like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:29 PM
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Women's olympic sports make bank and get viewership. There are several women on the US gymnastics team who have huge followings and top tier brand endorsements.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:25 PM
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https://www.aljazeera.com/amp/sports/2022/11/20/fifa-revenue-hits-7-5b-for-current-world-cup-period https://frontofficesports.com/fifa-reportedly-falls-100-million-short-of-womens-world-cup-rights-goal/#:~:text=The%20organization%20aimed%20to%20sign,Street%20Journal%20reported%20on%20Thursday. If you make 40x less revenue of course you'll have a lower prize pool. This is a losing argument and anyone arguing about ir knows that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:11 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/nba/comments/154sgb8/jidion_banned_from_all_nba_related_events_for/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=1 People have no sense of humor these days, this is hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 04:09 PM
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I mean yeah she is more successful than 99.9% of people. Just speaking about her lifestyle choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:33 PM
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Also Lizzos health is between her and her doctor What I stated applies to anyone who is obese. She and people supporting her are contributing to the obesity epidemic under the guise of "body positivity"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 12:32 PM
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I said that I look like lizzo Kudos for honesty but i'm a bit surprised someone would so readily compare themselves to lizzo on here. Lizzo is putting herself at a much greater risk of diabetes and heart disease in the future, and people should not identify with her. She seems like a nice person though.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 09:54 AM
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Yup, trying to get those followers up
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:33 AM
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https://www.cnn.com/2023/07/20/football/womens-world-cup-pay-prize-money-spt-intl-dg/index.html How the hell do news agencies let dumb shit like this get published? The women's world cup earned $200 million in revenue. The last men's world cup earned 7.5 BILLION dollars in revenue. Not even getting into the fact that the men play against the likes of Messi and Mbappe, there isn't 0.01% the amount of talent in women's soccer as in men's.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:30 AM
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Idc about jonah hill very much but the fact that his ex bullying him for the last several weeks is socially acceptable because so many women are enabling/encouraging it is obnoxious as shit, this is how far we have strayed that people can't call out a crazy lunatic for what she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:24 AM
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Lmao pls Very, very few men get cold approached by women in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:20 AM
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Feminism in a nutshell. It's as much about equality as I am about hockey. I don't know watch nor know jack shit about hockey.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:18 AM
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sell stuff via messages or reel people in to a 2nd paid page
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 08:17 AM
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Yup but have family there so ive visited. In general every autistic person I've ever met has been very polite and pleasant.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 07:33 PM
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Many things are different in canada. Everyone is seemingly a lot nicer there the handful of times i've been there
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 06:57 AM
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More likely than the other way around
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:17 AM
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That's fantastic for you but i'm describing a general trend
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:17 AM
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Also correct
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 04:16 AM
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Do you think it might have anything to do with the way guys on the spectrum talk about women online? This is complete and utter non-sense. Firstly: women date and marry violent criminals, men that sexually assault them, domestic abusers. Morality is essentially irrelevant to success with women. Secondly: This is an example of confirmation bias. You see a handful of awkward guys on the internet talking about women in a way you find objectionable and then a) assume they're all on the spectrum and …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 09:54 PM
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Consent? For a make believe relationship? What in the world is this post?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 09:38 PM
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However, if NT guys are willing to date ND women more, are they just willing to put up with their indiscretion more, or don't care as much? Generally speaking, women collectively have a laundry list of things they want in a man. Whereas men just want a down to earth loyal girl they find cute. This is an extension of that on a smaller scale, in conjunction with being socially awkward being more acceptable for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 09:34 PM
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Girls on the spectrum don't want to date guys on the spectrum. And they have a far easier time dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 08:52 PM
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Go for it
/r/AllPillDebate18/07/23 05:20 PM
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Defamation suits are absurdly difficult to win
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 12:25 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/152ckkp/cousin_f24_falsely_accused_me_m31_of_sxual/ Can't recall the last time I felt so furious reading a reddit post
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 08:17 AM
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Can concur, i'm glad at least a part of my childhood was when the only real social media was facebook, which was a very, very different website than it is today.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 08:02 AM
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She's already healthy weight and relatively fit, but if she got hotter so i'd be happy as long as it doesn't change anything else in our relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 09:52 PM
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Changing this to discussion to allow anyone to make a top level reply, since it's a broad topic
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 09:48 PM
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Brilliantly said. Everything, literally everything revolves around profits. Healthcare, entertainment...like it's gotten to a point where people buy anything and everything for the express purpose to of re-selling it. Shoes, concert tickets, sports event tickets, video game consoles... ditto for corporations buying up numerous homes to rent them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 09:47 PM
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Promising now thing and then doing another sounds like pretty textbook dishonesty if you ask me. She is letting hormones dictate her actions, not common sense and practicality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 09:43 PM
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You forgot the most damaging of all by far: white knights.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 09:41 PM
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Also men: haha this lady had sex within the confines of a serious LTR and he’s 12 years older than her and still isn’t treating her better. Let’s push for her to get an abortion. Treating her better? They communicated and were on the same page, then she proved to be dishonest and untrustworthy. Decision is hers but single mother life isn't fun nor is it healthy for a child to grow up without a father, and this relationship is over after the trust has been broken.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 09:21 PM
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They don't have to be, I'm stating he shouldn't have to have any responsibility whatsoever in this situation. They were both on the same page about not wanting kids, used contraception, and she stated worse case if it fails she'd get an abortion. She's selfish, and dishonest.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 09:18 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/1525agf/boyfriend_is_pushing_for_abortion/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=2 Situations like this are why financial abortion/signing away parental right before birth should exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 08:55 PM
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If I had my gf a few years earlier I might have ended up be bluepilled. Sometimes you forget there are women that all of the RP ideas/commonalities men go through don't apply to, because there are so few of those sorts of women. Stuff like emotional vulnerability being a turn off, dating pricks because morality simply isnt something women prioritize, entitlement ect.. But then again finding the RP community (before the YT manosphere) changed my life for the better, so maybe I wouldnt have won he…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 11:40 PM
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change my view
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 08:16 PM
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Emotional unavailability, or a guy/girl the person is more interested came along. But 1 and 3 don't sound like a 180 to me. Just didn't pan out. P.S. Never, ever ask a girl to kiss. Read the vibes and her body language and make a move when you feel the time is right
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 06:56 PM
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Changed to CMV
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 05:03 PM
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Yes, but lets pose a scenario where a guy makes 180k and his partner earns 60k a year. In my opinion if they divorce assets acquired during marriage should not be split 50:50
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 02:09 PM
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That's your idea of "abuse"? I refuse to use that word so lightly and make a mockery of actual victims of abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 04:28 AM
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No fault is worse for different reasons. Women are now financially independent and can support themselves. People should not be entitled to half of their spouse's assets if they leave voluntarily barring things like domestic abuse (found guilty for it) or infidelity. Commitment has to be mutual. And functionally, with the way the world has changed, alimony longer than 5~ years should not exist. Divorce court is antiquated and the west treats marriage like nothing more than a summer fling.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 04:25 AM
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You could literally apply that to almost anything i.e. men are under obligation to stay and look after their children (which is true, but that would make them a deadbeat prick) Not leaking private conversations is common courtesy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 02:32 AM
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He's responsible for things he's said and choosing poorly, he's not responsible for his ex spitefully leaking their messages 2 years later because she's jealous and wants to grow her ig
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 02:04 AM
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Yes, he did. Doesn't change that his ex is batshit crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 01:01 AM
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making her reliant? She's a law student. She can and will make her own living regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 01:00 AM
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Reminder that top level comments have disagree with the original post.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 08:04 PM
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Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 06:32 PM
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he was controlling and could have possibly been emotionally abusive? Being controlling is a sign of emotional abuse. I don't agree with that. Person X express expectations, Person Y is free to express that they are unacceptable and leave. My idea of controlling/emotionally abusive would be a guy that physically isolates (moving) his wife or girlfriend from her friends and family and takes steps to prevent her from working/being financially independent if she wants to, so that she is financially …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 06:32 PM
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That litmus test has to also involve the boyfriend leaking the messages on social media and starting a campaign to cancel his ex. And in that case, I absolutely would have the same opinion. A woman that isn't mentally deranged would've handled this situation by expressing that those expectations aren't acceptable for her and breaking up with her boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 06:27 PM
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They are in the minority, but god bless these women for restoring some of my faith in western women today. Aside from them being in the minority, women backing Jonah (just like johnny depp) get shit on by other women. Criticize this woman's actions in any women's/feminist subreddit and watch how fast you get banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 06:19 PM
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Tbh I'm surprised that this kind of story got so much traction. It's just old relationship drama, why are people so invested into it? The increasing social acceptance of misandry. Funny thing is that keke palmer's ex also got a lot of shit (rightfully so) for criticizing her publicly, but when a woman leaks private messages and puts her ex on blast people take her side. Hypocrisy at it's finest.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 06:17 PM
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He was stupid, that I don't disagree with. Fortunately for Jonah it appears he has learned from his mistakes of the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 06:16 PM
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Somehow I have a hunch the boyfriend wouldn't go around sharing messages in public to try to cancel his ex girlfriend 2 years later in an attempt to clout chase/out of jealousy. If he did, he'd by considered a psycho. People have turned the word "abuse" into a colossal joke that minimizes the experience of actual victims of abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 06:13 PM
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She's a grown woman. If his expectations are incompatible with her life, then she could've put her big boy pants on and simply stated those boundaries wont work for her and then break-up with him, instead of doing this bat shit crazy "cancel my ex" campaign leaking private messages. Unreasonable standards are characterized by one thing and one thing only: not being able to actually date someone who meets those standards. Jonah is in a happy relationship with a woman with a child on the way. And …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 06:10 PM
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It's not a bad analogy, you made a claim and he proved your claim was non-sense. Nothing about boundaries means it's exclusively about the person themselves refusing to do things. If I had a boundary that I'm not comfortable with my gf talking to a male friend that made inappropriate comments, that wouldn't be anything that I refused to do, yet it would still be a boundary. Take home message is: stop making up definitions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 05:14 PM
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In her own words, verbatim, his ex is trying to start a career here
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 05:12 PM
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Take this up with your fellow men. They started this dating cultural expectations. And now, we're all trying to figure out in real time. It's exhausting. It's changing because women their own income for the first time in American history but we're still entrenched in ideology from 1770s. I don't see men being expected to initiate as a bad thing. I'm just pointing it out to explain that when women say "whoever asked should be", they are aware of this expectation and in essence don't want to just …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 11:53 PM
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What, is he faking being blind all his life?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 11:43 PM
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He asked her out, and he doesn't pay. Conveniently, men are expected to initiate/ask girls out, and do most of the time. When women "he asked her out" or "whoever asks the person out" they just mean the guy should pay. To be honest I would recommend men to pay for women they are interested in dating seriously, if she's been attentive/engaged on the date. But the OP's attitude, that she felt so offended he didn't pay for something she ordered, comes across as really entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 11:42 PM
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Money is pointless if you aren't able to subtly demonstrate your wealth, and if you aren't in social spaces (not talking about work) where high earning men go to. An extreme enough deficit in any of the major areas (physical attractiveness, game/emotional intelligence, status, wealth) can invalidate all of the rest. That's the case for tech bros. Combination of deficits in 1 and 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 11:22 PM
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Name one person who looks like me and is also as autistic as I amand hasn't off'd themselves. You don't look that bad and you are wealthy. Didn't you say a girl you hooked up with was talking to you recently? You have hobbies and a life. Things don't seem that bad for you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 11:20 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/14z6hl8/wouldnt_pay_for_my_one_drink_on_first_date/ Today on r/dating, grown woman upset she didn't get free stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 11:18 PM
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I think whoever asked should pay. Women just say this when they want to say the man, because conveniently it will far more often the man that asks a girl out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 05:23 PM
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I don't want a trad woman but I've always paid on dates (except one time I got catfished lol), but being on a date doesnt automatically = man should pay. That kind of mentality reeks of entitlement. In the past if the girl didn't offer to pay her meal for me personally I take that as a red flag. A trad relationship involves a man being the bread winner, but going on 1 or 2 dates/courting phase really doesnt mean shit. I suspect some men who want trad women purposely ask to split to weed out enti…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 04:13 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4D9HaCIA-Uc Blind guy kicked out of gym for "staring" at girl in the gym
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 07:15 AM
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For a sample size to have a 95% confidence interval to represent the entire US population, it would need about ~380 people. This study has 328, so the sample size isn't really too problematic. Your rebuttal mostly just demonstrates a lack of understanding of statistics. Of course you are more than welcome to cite your own studies as well if you want. It should go without saying, but being rational is far from the only variable that goes in school performance. We know that on average men and wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 07:10 AM
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I'm gonna pre-face this by saying that the "men more likely to leave their sick wives" study that gets cited sometimes has been debunked already several times. That aside, I feel for this woman. With her husband almost 15 yrs and they have a child together. She appears to also have pretty severe nerve damage in her arms/legs so I imagine it is really like being a care taker to someone, but nevertheless the saying goes in sickness and and in health.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 07:01 AM
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So his range of acceptable is normal BMI. I doubt this poster would consider 24 unacceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:51 AM
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His point went over your head. The point is that that the dream man of unexceptional woman will be an exceptional man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:50 AM
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Women will only continue dating tall/attractive men long term if they enjoy spending time with them as well, the guy has to have game and charisma. Whereas women who date men who are rich due usually do so exclusively for their money. So in that regard it is a lot more shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:47 AM
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men being more rational https://online.ucpress.edu/collabra/article/5/1/54/113043/Rationality-is-Gendered
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:44 AM
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You basically described the US in 2023 in a nutshell.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:42 AM
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Yeah at this point the OP is simply arguing against an opinion that nobody expresses. I have never, ever seen anyone on reddit say that all dresses, hells and jewelry are bad, much less on this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 02:54 AM
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It's not a matter of complaining; the most desirable men most women want to date simply won't wait because they don't have to; women perpetuate hook up culture and collectively no longer require commitment for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 02:21 AM
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I'm talking about long-term relationships or marriages where a couple has a child and they separate, either because the guy was a prick or a deadbeat dad. Generally in those instances there were red flags well before having a child together. Some red flags can't be covered up with lies. Lack of financial stability over a long period of time can't be covered up. Neither can poor communication skills, verbal abuse, not being able to do basic household chores ect...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 09:40 PM
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These women asking for the opinion of male figures in their life would be a good start
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 09:37 PM
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Yes, it is. Men are responsible for the women they pick as well; Johnny Depp married a literal psychopath and it had a tremendous impact on his life. Bad people will always exist and that's simply not something that will ever go away. Things like better understanding of consent and better communication we can improve upon, but the sorts of guys that will abuse women, or deadbeat dads...those people will unfortunately always exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 09:31 PM
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Rarely is that the case in couples with kids without numerous accompanying red flags beforehand.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 09:28 PM
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Here in the US the government does in fact support single parents, financially. I personally don't believe it is the government's role to help them beyond giving aid financially; the important part is to make sure the child is taken care of. The solution to this problem is for women to take more accountability, prioritize good character and vet better.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 09:26 PM
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Neither is achievable but a far larger percentage of women absolutely could be better judges of character by: Prioritizing maturity, communication, good character, stability. A lot of women say they value these things but maybe only like ~10-15% genuinely do. It's not that hard to vet, nor does it have to be done alone. Take into account the opinion of male figures in your life, get an idea of a man's reputation in the community, get an idea of the character of his family (families with strict, …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 09:23 PM
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The "why don't you blame the man" thing will always be so silly to me when talking about single motherhood. In a perfect world we could make everyone be loyal, kind and mature, but life doesn't work that way and you can't control everyone else's actions. It's like someone who hangs out with gang members drug dealers saying "why don't you blame the drug dealers and gang members?" instead of taking responsibility for who they allow into their life. Despite being more emotionally intelligent than m…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 09:05 PM
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Well hopefully that normie would realize you don't take legal advice from a doctor, nor do you take medical advice from a lawyer. Same thing applies here. If a guy has no dating experience he has virtually nothing to offer in the way of analyzing dating dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 08:52 PM
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very low quality thread
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 08:50 PM
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Please check the post flair and repost your comment under the automod if necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 08:41 PM
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You say revealing clothing and then go on to list clothes that aren't necessarily even revealing. There is a lot of variery in how revealing dresses are. Just to be clear I really don't care what girls wear and don't tell my own gf how to dress, but girls who dress up in very revealing clothing 1000% do it to attract attention. Whether that be from men or on social media. Anyone who disputes that simply doesn't understand how women think and act. Despite my personal stance I see no issue with me…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 08:39 PM
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Yeah it does but these dudes cant get a girl to go out with them to give her the D to begin with lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 12:43 PM
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D game is something that comes waaay after everything else, you need everything required to be able attract a girl and then make her like you in the first place to get to that point. And it can be improved with experience, it's hardly something that holds struggling men back. That would be poor emotional intelligence and/or being physically unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 07:41 AM
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So for like 8 months i: went to the gym once every 2 days, worked 2 jobs, studied an engineering degree at one my the top unis of my country and constantly approahced and talked to people (in approrpiate settings), trying to improve my social skills and my ability to flirt/woo someone You didn't do anything wrong here, and these things aren't exclusive to redpill. Everyone can benefit from going to the gym, studying a degree in a respected field, and making a more concerted effort to talk to peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 07:40 AM
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Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 09:35 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:30 AM
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u/Former_Molasses_7073 please unblock u/fiftypoundpuppy and reply confirm you did so
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:12 AM
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Well I can't argue with that haha
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 10:29 PM
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Top 5 comment in purple pill debate history
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 10:19 PM
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This hoe waited 2 yrs, after he dumped her and then had a baby with a hotter woman. What he could've done better is not talk about it over text, and more importantly stay away from crazy women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:57 PM
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Woman says: if you don't stop liking other girl's pics on ig i'll leave you Is that a threat too?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:55 PM
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Threatening...oh please. She was not dependent on him and free to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:44 PM
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You are missing the big picture here. She waited 2 years to do this, after seeing him with another woman, who is expecting a baby with. This is all about jealous and clout. Regardless of what you think if this is a boundary or controlling, calling this "abuse" is utterly laughable and disrespectful to people who are actually abused, and there was no reason she needed to make this public. Look at her ig yourself and the way she's acting, this gir wants c l o u t
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 09:43 PM
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You want both. Muscle w layer of fat over it Kayla mansouellis on tiktok is a a good example
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 01:32 PM
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I like them because it shows: They value health/taking care of themselves physically They have discipline Gym girls have hella ass
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 12:19 PM
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She is an extreme outlier and Bezos has shit taste
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 12:16 PM
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What's so surprising about that? More revealing clothes tend to accentuate a woman's curves and body, and make her look more attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:35 PM
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I don't find that text to be questionable, I was expecting 100x worse and at this point anything can be considered questionable. We are at a point where any sort of boundary a guy expresses will be called insecure/misogynistic
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:15 PM
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Guess we'll find out
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:14 PM
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More revealing clothes will def attract more attention, but men pay attention to attractive women regardless of what they wear.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:13 PM
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He overestimated his RMV and SMV. Nope. He's expecting a baby with a more attractive woman, who doesn't act like a femcel like his ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:06 PM
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The comments on jonah hill's ex ig page have actually restored some of my faith in women today. Unlike keke palmer's bf, he expressed his preferences privately. Now, after she was exposed for being a jealous clout chasing hoe, jealous that jonah hill moved on most women are (rightfully) calling her out for feigning abuse and just all around being immature. Jonah will enjoy his life with the woman he's expecting a baby with, and this broad's 5 mins of fame are over. Outside of physical or sexual …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:00 PM
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Jonah Hill was dumb. Not reason enough to plaster their relationship in public. You should check out houseinhabit's ig story; his ex is an immature clout chasing diva who is mad he moved on with a new woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 02:52 PM
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People are upset that he was telling her to take down her posts Recent twist of events on @houseinhabit's instagram stories. Long ass watch so to anyone who doesn't want to the, the TL;DR is jonah hill's ex is a colossal POS looking for clout, and she's trying to "expose" him to a) further her career and b) because she's jealous he started dating a new woman shortly after they broke up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 07:22 AM
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Women are incapable of being lonely. This is not true and illustrates that you have some more grass to touch, not all women frequent bars/clubs. I know women who are lonely as hell, in large part because they are just really unattractive. Not necessarily even overweight too, just unfortunate looking faces.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 07:16 AM
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More or less pretty well known actor (Jonah Hill) asked his girlfriend at the time (a surfing instructor?) to take down surfing vids where she's in a bikini, said something like "the one where your ass is in a thong" She's going off on insta about how he's misogynistic, manipulative ect... his msg to her was cringe but the way she's going off I expected 100x worse
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 07:15 AM
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He came across as a bit cringy but I was expecting WAY, WAY worse. This lady is going off like he literally sexually assaulted her, demonstrates how immature and childish she is to air something so minuscule in public. Recent twist of events on @houseinhabit's instagram stories. Long ass watch so to anyone who doesn't want to the, the TL;DR is jonah hill's ex is a colossal POS looking for clout, and she's trying to "expose" him to a) further her career and b) because she's jealous he started dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 07:12 AM
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So not prostitutes. This thread and law are specifically about having sex for money, strippers and porn may full under that umbrella but they are and have been legal to buy/sell for quite some time. Which brings me back to my point: there are very, very few women paying male escorts for sex. Which makes sense because they can get it for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:25 AM
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What do you mean by legal forms? This thread is specifically discussing prostitution which is illegal in the US everywhere other than nevada.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 05:18 AM
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Old and overweight women can get casual sex for free. Like you do realize that there’s nothing legally stopping men from having wealthier wives and collecting alimony in the event of divorce? Women generally date up in socioeconomic status, but this is a moot point because men don't prioritize income/career do as much as women. Appearance is most important, followed by personality. Divorce/family court is still pretty antiquated and biased in favor of women but that's a different rabbit hole. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:38 AM
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No, but being at a strip club is more of a social/night life sort of activity. Jacking off to a girl online who probably has an employee chatting with you is a bit different. Obviously we have no info on buyer demographics, but i'd venture a guess that the vast majority of them are nowhere near rich and just wasting all their expendable income on it. Porn addiction and all that jazz.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:34 AM
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Anything that involves asking questions and discussing topics will inherently involve some sort of disagreement at some point. Participating exclusively in echo chambers where people agree 24/7 is a one way ticket to become a brainwashed sheep that regurgitates the same talking points.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:29 AM
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Not mad, I think it's stupid for any man to see an escort to begin with. With casual sex there is no emotional connection which already makes it a much lesser experience, but at least there is genuine desire. Paying for sex, there isn't even that. Waste of money that can be put to be better use. I just want to get across that if any sort of law disproportionately affects one group or gender, practically speaking, there is nothing "neutral" about it. Alimony being neutral is silly, the gap in inc…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:25 AM
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Yeah and there are also people with 9 toes. What percentage of people buying sex are women?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:13 AM
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I'm not sure I follow what you're saying. How are men to blame for 18 and 19 year old girls choosing to sell naked content of themselves online? To lonely and/or mentally ill men nonetheless. It's women that are making it socially acceptable for other women to be doing this in the first place. Bear in mind the avg OF creator earns a few hundred a month, sounds like a pretty shitty life decision the overwhelming majority of them will probably regret later if you ask me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:10 AM
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"and" your comment is both irrelevant and disingenuous. It's like stating that florida's permanent alimony laws before the recent change "gender neutral" because either gender can technically pay alimony. No, women make up ~98% of alimony recipients and the law almost exclusively put old ass men in a position where they had to keep working well into the age of retirement so grown ass woman could live off their ex husbands. The take home message is that context matters, your comment is nothing mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:05 AM
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If you look at it with rose colored glasses and no context. Women makeup the overwhelming majority of prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 02:22 AM
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the memes write themselves, what a massive waste of time and money
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 12:29 AM
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Critizing anyone who opposes women doing porn or acting like a hoe as insecure or trying to control women's bodies
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 12:02 AM
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Feels like it should be pretty obvious that men prioritize a woman's income far less than vice versa, but the women on these subs are not big on common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 11:50 PM
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18 and 19 year old girls are getting naked on onlyfans of their own volition. Blame the push from feminism and the far left towards normalizing hyper sexualization
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 11:47 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/AskFeminists/comments/14pi601/life_time_alimony/jqjifkk/?context=3 Pretty funny exchange on the askfeminists sub that illustrates what most subs that discuss dating or gender are: echo chambers. Immediately fold and resort to personal attacks when you ask them to form a coherent argument or respond to evidence, and yell "thE pATRiARCHY!!!" like Mr. Crocker yelling about fairy god parents. This is also why I have respect for women that post here, despite the fact that the…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 11:42 PM
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Life is expensive. So of course women will want a man who is financially successful/stable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 11:19 PM
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The average man in the US is 5'9, significantly overweight, and earns ~40-50k. He is not ambitious nor active. People on this subreddit (and women in general) have distorted perceptions of what the average man is. The average man is not impressive whatsoever. But bearing that in mind, you can be slightly above average and still struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 11:08 PM
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You have no clue what you're talking about whatsoever Though most people find a partner in real life, the percentage of people that use OLD apps absolutely include "normal" people. I've seen plenty of verified neurotypical 8/10+ women on the apps. If your flair is true and not a joke, then you don't have the requisite experience to even be remotely credible on anything pertaining to dating to be honest. Pre-requisite experience with women is an absolute necessity to really understand their behav…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 10:52 PM
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It's a bit much but even if he was okay with it, it's the dancing. Bordering on cheating to grind on another man like that. Her boyfriend didn't say about that but...what's he gonna say? He's known as "keke palmer's baby daddy" and usher is...usher lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 08:02 PM
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Thoughts on the whole usher/keke palmer thing? Where her boyfriend went wrong is calling her out in public, that should've been a private conversation. But I don't see any issue with expressing that you don't want your gf/wife to wear clothes where her ass is literally out. As usual the sjws on social media are calling him insecure, controlling, don't tell a woman what to wear ect... and she literally has a child with this man and is basically grinding on usher, streets behavior. This is also a …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 07:31 PM
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White knights do more damage to society today than feminists ever could
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 05:41 PM
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I don't think they have to be mutually exclusive. I just think they almost always are. I've never met a girl who's a freak and also has had sex with just like 1 or 2 people. They definitely exist but there aren't many of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 04:52 PM
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Dunno, rule was in place before I became a mod here. Prob because it's a controversial topic/results in a lot of rule breaking when it's discussed
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 04:51 PM
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It's a matter of consistency. Does being sexual come with having been promiscuous for you? As a guy I also want a girl who's a freak, but that means she wont be a girl who's a virgin or has been with like 1 or 2 guys (which I'm totally fine with), but that in mind I'm not waiting for a girl that's had sex quickly. The whole point of waiting is build comfort, and if a girl has had casual sex it's contradictory to do that and then want to wait for a guy she wants to date seriously. So i'll wait li…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 04:35 PM
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Keep it civil
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 04:09 PM
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Can't talk about race here
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 04:09 PM
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Top level comments must disagree with OP
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 04:09 PM
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Man that subreddit is downright comedy. Drop dead gorgeous women would post there and the comments section was full of "5.5" Most hilarious thing is if you tried to rate basically anyone 6 or higher you'd get banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 04:07 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 04:06 PM
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It's not about women being property. I'm not on the "I need X% of her money" train like Tate. It's about my views on intimacy; it should be something special and meaningful between a guy/girl with an emotional connection. Sometimes a girl has had like ~10 other partners just from past relationships/dating which is fine, I'm not as hung up on that as other guys, but any stranger being able to see every inch of your wife/girlfriend for a few dollars is on a different scale entirely. Not so special…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 07:26 AM
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I know I'll get downvoted for this but I think both men and women should be shamed for not dating a sex worker. Women generally feel entitled to having any preferences they want while shaming men for having preferences. Shaming will happen, but the vast majority of men still wont date a prostitute or onlyfans girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 07:18 AM
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No racially charged content.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 07:16 AM
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Keep it civil
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 07:16 AM
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Keep it civil
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 07:15 AM
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Keep it civil
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 07:15 AM
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Keep it civil
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 07:14 AM
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Keep it civil
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 07:13 AM
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After learning that users of r/femaledatingstrategy are 20x more likely than the average redditor to also use r/cptsd (complex ptsd), I feel like I'm starting to understand radfems more. Color me unsurprised
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 07:13 AM
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Keep it civil
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 07:12 AM
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Speaking generally here, though I'm not the person you replied to, I do believe intimacy is supposed to be something special between two people. If a couple wants to take it a bit further and get another girl involved and have fun with her together than it's whatever I guess, but I absolutely lose respect for and think less of men that let their wife have sex with other men. And beyond that, as a general rule I don't believe any woman engaging in this genuinely has respect for her husband though…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 07:08 AM
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Top level comments must disagree with the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 07:05 AM
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haha prob because the posters and mods over there think that anal is degrading, for whatever reason
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 07:04 AM
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Keep it civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 07:03 AM
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If it happens it has less to do with lack of sexual access and moreso the cascading effects not having romantic fulfillment can have on your mental well-being. May want to be careful, reddit is touchy with this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 07:01 AM
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Keep it civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 06:59 AM
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Top level comments must disagree with the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 06:59 AM
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Top level comments must disagree with the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 06:59 AM
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Top level comments must disagree with the OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 06:59 AM
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Aint worth it, women like that have serious problems
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 04:59 AM
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She's "interested" in him because now he's wealthy and successful, while she's a divorced single mother who dropped out of college. Lots of women do this. He literally wrote that he expressed interest in her in high school and she turned him down. And this isn't his fault, he's doing the right thing by not entertaining her interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 10:35 PM
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Low effort post
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 10:29 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/14sswex/a_woman_from_high_school_and_college_expressed/ How men get redpilled
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 10:09 PM
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Yes, they will, as they currently already are. But as a man, if any stranger on the internet can see your wife naked for $4.99 then you have some life choices to evaluate. Men with self respect will keep doing what they're doing, we can leave getting cucked (literally) to the adam22s of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 09:36 PM
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Maybe not but mostly he was just going about his business and not thinking about her
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 07:51 PM
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Look at all these dumb femcels spamming victor wembanyama's ig (the #1 pick in the nba draft this year) to apologize for something HIS SECURITY GUARD did. Trying to cancel this young dude for something he had nothing to do with. And his security guard was really just reacting to someone running behind victor and trying to grab him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:48 PM
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It's neither good nor bad, it's just biology. Women have always dated upwards in socioeconomic status; they spend 9 months vulnerable while pregnant and as such look for the man who can be the best possible provider. And I agree 100% 40k for a grown man shows no drive or ambition. But there are men that will tell men like that bluntly that that's unacceptable if they want to attract women, whereas society/culture tells women they deserve whatever they want just as they are. The above average guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 09:54 PM
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Question for men
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 09:45 PM
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Yup, takes very little to be above average, but quite a bit more than that to be perceived as above average by women. Ask most women what they think the "average" man is and they'll say like 5'11 200lbs, face that is actually more of a 6 or 6.5/10, earning 70-80k a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 09:41 PM
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Avg man is 5'9, significantly overweight, and earns like 40k a year. It's nothing impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 09:11 PM
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Locked due to excessive circlejerking and inability of OP to engage in good faith/civilly
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:25 PM
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Not mentioning it =/= lying. If it comes up the be honest about it. If it's a deal breaker who cares, can lose virginity to another girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:21 PM
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You can't have a toxic violent culture if men stop feeling entitled to sex. This doesn't exist. And ironically, women that spread this belief do so precisely because they spend too much time online. There are far more women that feel entitled to relationships than there are men that feel entitled to sex, and the activity level in female incel equivelant spaces (lip stick alley, twox, fds prior to mods refusing to moderate it) prove that. Some women feel that sex entitles them to commitment, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:16 PM
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At a certain age, being a virgin or having little to no experience with women (dating sex, friends etc) becomes a unnatractive mark on a mans name if it comes up. You don't have to mention it. You can go from virgin to sex with several women in a very short time span.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 10:11 PM
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I think fit girls look hot personally, she does looks a little plastic-y but I think she's hot. Emma lanyi and syndey shmitty are prob better examples of a more natural looking 10: https://www.tiktok.com/@emmalanyi, https://www.tiktok.com/@sydneyshmity?lang=en
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 06:46 PM
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If you're ever curious you can check reveddit. If the post shows up, mods took it down. If it doesn't, OP deleted it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 06:31 PM
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This is a 10: https://www.tiktok.com/@bikini.shows/video/7243506679894019334?lang=en
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 06:29 PM
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Been here for a while, tbh sometimes we leave them up they are interesting/discuss it in a unique way
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 06:28 PM
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Considering women initiate ~80% of divorces, yes. RP is not trad anyway. Not 2017 RP when it started to get popular, and not 2023 manosphere RP either. So this thread is a moot point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:12 PM
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I'm sure plenty of men have been around a nice goofy like nerdy guy they feel extremely safe around but have zero attraction to whatsoever. It's important but nowhere near the biggest factor. I don't think it's even the 5th biggest factor. Looks, game, money, status, being good in bed are all more important. The top commenter in that thread is BSing her ass off
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:07 PM
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Getting off the internet helps but there's really no escape from obsessing over sex, even irl. This is gonna sound a bit crude but seeing a girl in yoga pants so far up her ass they leave nothing to the imagination starts to get a bit rough when you're a horny 19 year virgin lmao But yes, at some point men have to channel that frustration into the more productive things you mentioned, to make themselves more attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 08:10 PM
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The reason sexless men are not as happy as sexless women has a very small point in being "horny" and has way more to do with a lifestyles choices women make for their overall happiness rather than giving up because they don't have this one thing right now Two things here: You are correct that too much value societally is placed on having sex. When I first had sex I felt a sense of validation and self esteem, but I very quickly realized casual sex is an unfulfilling hedonistic pursuit that wont f…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:43 PM
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My girlfriend is bi and has taken me along to a nightclub (just drinking/dancing, nothing beyond that) where you'd see those sorts of people. Ngl not the most attractive people, but if you didn't pay anyone to have sex with you, and you're texting/hanging out with a girl who's interested in you in return, this is something you should celebrate and feel good about for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:31 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/JustUnsubbed/comments/xvlkaf/actually_did_a_few_months_ago_but_just_unsubbed/ This definitely falls under reddit ToS on inciting violence. Was up for like half a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:23 PM
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Texting one of the women I made out with last night My man Told you I still have hope for you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:22 PM
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For anyone curious, the post was: I never had a sex life as a woman. I never had good looks and didn't have romantic success but I just accepted that and moved on. I never became a bitter person. It seems like men today are bitter and feel entitled to sex. I am sensing a near gender war at this point. What is going on with men these days? That's it. What "great comment" could anyone make to such a thread. The comments in it were ~75% just circlejerking men bad
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:19 PM
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https://old.reddit.com/r/news/comments/14op4jh/desantis_signs_bill_eliminating_permanent_alimony/jqeehf2/?context=3 divorce/family court for men in a nutshell
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:24 PM
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On paper I think women absolutely deserve permanent alimony. One adult should live off another adult they divorced permanently based on....?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:46 PM
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This addresses more than just permanent, it limits short and medium term marriage alimony duration as well
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:45 PM
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Gender queer. Feel free to google and find the visual illustrations for yourself, then you'll realize why it shouldn't be in school libraries.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:42 PM
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Why'd you leave this part out? But it also spurred impassioned pleas from ex-spouses who said they had been forced to work long past the age they wanted to retire because they were on the hook for alimony payments. This is an amazing step in the right direction. Grown ass women who expect to live off their spouse they divorced forever can screw off. It's 2023. There are a myriad of ways someone can learn skills and get a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:39 PM
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If this isn't sarcasm this shit is WILD to me. Taxpayers paying people to take care of their own kids, something that is the responsibility of a parent to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:24 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/ChoosingBeggars/comments/14otjfb/thinking_you_deserve_a_full_salary_for/ There's a (fairly small but radical) group of women who legit think women should be paid a whole ass salary for raising their own kids, and this made me think of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:18 AM
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Same as the average irl, 5. There's prob some really unattractive ones, but i've also seen posters who post pics of themselves on their profiles are a solid 7~
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 01:34 AM
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Whoops, meant to say Robert got played
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 01:34 AM
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Tiffany had sex with Steve, who she met that night at the bar. They'll never chat again. Months later, she meets Robert, and they wait 2 months before PIV sex. They date for 7 months. Steve got played, by a woman who isn't attracted to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 01:11 AM
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No racially charged content
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 01:04 AM
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+1 for bowling I don't even like bowling that much in general but it makes for a really fun date activity
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 03:59 PM
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She'd be entitled to a huge amount of child support, which if we're being honest is awarded in amounts excess what is needed to raise children, and she'd be able to use that. And that example raises a much more important thing to be concerned about, grooming.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 02:45 PM
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Yes but men don't generally have several month waiting periods. The entire point i'm getting at is consistency. If the purpose of waiting to have sex is to build comfort first, it makes no sense to have casual sex with anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 04:47 AM
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Those two are mutually exclusive
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 04:13 AM
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That's fine as long as you're consistent with your personal values on intimacy. I'd expect any woman with that mindset, that she will wants to wait to sex, to not have had casual sex. Because if she needs time to feel comfortable in the context of dating seriously, she'd never feel comfortable in a casual situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 04:07 AM
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You frame 4-8 times like it's nothing. If you're going on extended dates spending long amounts of time together, staying over each other's places overnight ect... 8 dates is a lot of time spent with someone. And people are free to set their own terms but women as a collective no longer require commitment for sex, so the men most women want to date wont invest time in women who want to wait that long. And why would they? There are other women who wont wait that long, and 3-5 months with someone o…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 03:58 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/14nvv0b/i_feel_like_most_guy_rush_into_sex/jq9h5sx/?context=3 This man woke up today and chose to spit facts. The part about women who want to wait very long periods of time/until you're exclusive using sex as a manipulation tool/power dynamic is absolutely true for virtually all of them that aren't virgins or have been with like 1-2 people. If you are actively going on dates, 1-2 a week, even a month is a shit load of time to spend with someone. Exclusiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 03:44 AM
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Now it’s limited to 50% of the length of a short-term marriage, 60% of the length of a moderate-term marriage, and 75% of the length of a long-term marriage. Shouldn't even exist for short term marriages. This is one microscopic step in the right direction in the right direction, towards addressing antiquated laws that were designed for a time when women weren't apart of the work force.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 03:37 AM
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You are correct on both counts. But again the point remains that almost no men receive alimony, women will be the ones affected by this change
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 10:11 PM
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Never too late to go to school or get a job. Family values has nothing to do with divorcing and indefinitely receiving someone else's hard earned money. Asset division is enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 10:07 PM
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Virtually all the people receiving alimony (98% iirc?) are women. This will have almost zero effect on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 08:58 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/14ny3f5/florida_governor_ron_desantis_signs_a_bill_ending/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button Big W for equality Its 2023, women outnumber men in higher education and can support themselves financially.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 08:11 PM
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But I value being financially self sufficient, intelligent, well-educated, and an open communicator who’s direct and doesn’t play games. Those are all positives. I like that you put emphasis on self sufficient rather than "I'm X job and proud of it", because really...very few people really get to do what they are passionate about, usually at most it's something tolerable. Working = income, and income = freedom and self sufficiency.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 01:52 PM
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Yes, yes they do. I've prob told this anecdote but I have a friend who is in fellowship to be a cardiologist. She will be earning ~350-400k in the not so distant future, but she has no suitors because...she is just really unattractive. Not even fat either, just unfortunate facial features. Looks will always be #1, followed by personality #2. Though looks and personality are more important, contrary to what you might read on here men do value career. Higher socioeconomic status women are more cla…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 01:50 PM
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A nice girl can be such a calming presence/give you such a sense of peace
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 01:33 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/14neonk/when_you_use_the_uno_reverse_card/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button lol Unironically accurate satire
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 12:00 PM
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Keep it civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 02:20 AM
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Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 02:20 AM
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No, it's just a lazy strawman. No actual redpiller says that, redpill rarely even talks about height outside of acknowledging that women are attracted to tall men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 11:57 PM
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OLD + social media. 30 years ago women had access to the men in their social circle/community in their immediate vicinity. Now they have access to a lot more men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 11:56 PM
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Women don't swipe right anywhere near 30% of the time. Irregardless of this particular study's results.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 10:50 PM
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Casual sex isn't an issue but a lot of men struggling to find fulfilling romantic relationships isn't a good thing. Men are a lot more motivated and productive members of society when they're mental and physical well-being is good. The thing is, the things that led to dating in 2023 aren't changing so there isn't really any solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 10:27 PM
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The answer is simple, but this isn't it...at all. Social media + OLD (moreso social media) have exponentially increased women's options exponentially. Pair that with women earning their own income (a good thing) and looking to date equal and up in socioeconomic status (hypergamy, makes sense to want the best man evolutionarily), and you get dating in 2023.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 10:24 PM
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What are this sub's standards? Fat is like...170 lbs at 5'5 for example
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 06:59 PM
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Big =/= nice butt, though a nice butt can be big shape is more important.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 06:56 PM
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Thoughts: women's standards in 2023 are through the roof. They have exponentially more options than ever, earn their own income and will generally, outside of a few outliers, want to date men of equal or higher socioecononimc status. Average or "normal" simply doesnt cut it if you want to do well with women. A man can be a plain normal dude with nothing seriously wrong with him and he wont get jack shit via online dating, nor will he fare well via cold approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 06:52 PM
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Yes, friends are part of a the same "social circle"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 12:21 PM
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Changed to CMV
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 05:17 AM
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Then I agree. And there's actually a professor in the US who has actually filed like ~150ish law suits and rising against universities that offer women's scholarships on the basis of discrimination/violation of federal laws.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 12:05 AM
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Well billionaires are shooting a lot higher. A tech bro earning 300-400k or even a million a year isn't on the same level. 6s and 7s can absolutely be in the same circle as average men. Plenty of attractive girls are friends with men who are average.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 11:53 PM
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Mb I was speed reading
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 10:56 PM
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He prob means welfare for single mothers if I had to guess. Just as a disclaimer I don't share that opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 10:55 PM
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Simply don't accept if you aren't interested in the man. Some women do despite not being interested
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 10:54 PM
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This is such poor emotional intelligence and self sabotage. One thing redpill harps on is to NEVER slut shame women, rather, you should make them feel like they wont be judged for having a high body count or being kinky, because that will make her a lot more likely to be honest about it. That, and shaming a woman wont exactly increase your chances of sleeping with her. It kills me when guys do this shit. Don't slut shame women you're trying to date/sleep with, and don't mention anything remotely…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 10:39 PM
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Fitness and income are two things that you can change. It's socially acceptable for a woman to want a man who's fit even if she's not, and a man who makes a higher income. Your point about height being immutable isn't really relevant. The underlying point is that people can have a preference that they don't necessarily have themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 10:36 PM
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Why ask for a guy who is 6ft (3 inches above average) if you're 5'1 (3 inches below average)? Why ask for a guy earning 100k+ a month if you earn 60k a month? Why ask for a guy who is fit if you're overweight? People are allowed to have their preferences. The issue is that it's only socially acceptable for women to have preferences; the second a man does he's insecure or misogynistic. This argument is really easily refuted, but beyond that, the way the world works is that men with high body coun…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 10:32 PM
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Something you arent accounting for is that these sorts of men will bang 7s and even 6s depending on many options they have..the sorts of men slightly above average men are trying to date. Men's standards for casual sex are a lot lower than their LTR standards. And then good looking men who dont have fame or status will also even bang 5s depending on how into casual sex they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 10:08 PM
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I went from 0 and kissless to 6 in about a span of 3 months when I first started getting girls. When you meet the looks threshold and vibe check the flood gates open up. If you don't...then its rough lol. Dating and sex for men is as very feast or famine a trend as there is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 10:07 PM
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Whoops my math is off, he's closer to ~1.5-1.75 inches less if hes under 4. Take home message is that its not surprising girls would think hes small
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 09:48 PM
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One standard deviation is around 1 inch iirc. He said hes just under 10cm so less than 4 inches. Thats much smaller than the average, by about 2.5 inches. Pretty big difference
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 09:42 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/14lmlq1/having_a_small_penis_has_ruined_dating_for_me_and/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button Today on r/dating, women gas light man about his small dick problems. Theres a comment that says "stop looking at porn and comparing yourself" with an accompanying link that puts his size at a whopping 5th percentile...lol Tbhh reading these sorts of things is what made content to just be average size a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 07:34 PM
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Thats great and all but you never answered where the money will come from. 100k a year for each mother is more than the entire federal budget.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 04:31 PM
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Love zendaya as mary jane and shes def attractive, but I see girls more attractive than her every week just walking around. Shes not exceptionally beautiful like Gal Godot or Blake lively for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 04:28 PM
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Shocked mods didnt remove that post. r/dating is hella bluepilled
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 04:24 PM
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Ladytron also has bars
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 04:24 PM
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Oh no! You have to get into college based off academic merit now! Gender and diversity quotas are next lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 04:20 PM
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I know a guy who lied about his race and managed to get into harvard law school. He styles his hair in a certain way and has the complexion to actually look the part. Had good grades and solid extracurriculars, but odds are with his real ethnicity he'd be attending a top 100 university in his state, not an ivy league. He's not the sort of guy who's ever the smartest guy in any room. I was like how the hell did he get in until I found out. Also, I don't really blame him, blame the system. He's a …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 04:18 PM
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Funny thing is they make up 7% of the population, and still have to score better to compete with other candidates. Affirmative action was a racist policy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 04:11 PM
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This is a fantastic change. It was a blatantly racist policy. There is a minority group that make up ~7% of the US population but had to get much higher stats and test scores just to compete. College admission applications shouldnt include any racial information. And if colleges are going to be lenient, it should be based on an individual's school district, not their race. There are minorities in private schools, and poor majority people in crappy school districts, but guess which one benefits f…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 04:07 PM
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Your replies to threads recently have been terrific. You don't get this deeper than surface level analysis from bluepill. But yes, morality/character generally isnt a trait women prioritize regardless of whether or not they're high quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 03:54 PM
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The "bad" part is that there are a LOT of those women, particularly younger women in their 20s when they are at their most attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 03:52 PM
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So where is the money to pay every mother like 30-40k+ supposed to come from exactly? On average you'd need an additional 20k per working person in additional taxes. The richest people have their money in equity and real estate, so they functionally avoid income tax. Where does this extra 3-4 trillion dollars come from? You have beliefs but no solutions to enact them. This idea is not rooted in reality. Childcare workers take care of OTHER people's kids, at a facility. Of course they get paid, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 02:39 PM
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A one time few thousand $$ credit to incentivize having children like some countries do, sure, though I doubt it would change the minds of most women who don't want children. What you seem to be getting at is to pay stay at home moms like a salary. Which aside from being very extreme (salary + maternity leave??) isn't remotely feasible. Think about how many families there are in any given country, and then think about how much money would be needed to pay them all. There's like ~85 million mothe…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 06:50 AM
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i'll temporarily re-approve it if you want to reply
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 10:56 PM
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Keep it civil
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 10:52 PM
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No circlejerking
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 10:52 PM
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If a person leaves the workforce so they can provide full time childcare or adult care they are working and their work is valuable and entitles them to compensation Compensation from who, her husband? I really hope you don't really mean to imply here that other people (tax payers) should pay women to take care of their own kids, because that would possibly be the most wild thing i've ever read on here. Paying people to take care of their own kids though...c'mon now. Monetary compensation is driv…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 10:43 PM
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Your source doesn't prove that divorce court is unfair women, nor does it disprove that some women divorce because they feel like they'll be better off afterwards. It merely supports the idea that women have a higher risk of poverty after divorce. That's it. Can't make any jump from that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 09:38 PM
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You more or less nailed it. Women being worse off financially post divorce is not a reflection of the fairness of divorce/family court, which is pretty obviously biased in favor of women by virtue of being designed to address issues that existed when women didn't work. Rather, it is reflective of divorced women unable to be successful financial on their own merit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 09:36 PM
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Changed to CMV
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 09:32 PM
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Doesnt really have any taste if the girl is hygenic and just showered
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 04:53 PM
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Kind and empathetic are less rare than you may think. Communication yeah, just because a lot of guys are awkward and/or immature
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 04:53 PM
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Hsv1 is primarily oral, but can be genital. Pretty low odds of getting it via oral if no outbreak. Id think risk of just straight up sex is more risky for herpes because its passed via skin to skin contact. But theres other STDs and def no way id go down on a girl if we werent exclusively seeing each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 04:49 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/14kl8ym/got_slutshamed_by_a_man_who_ate_my_ass_on_one/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button A pretty funny post on twox for a change. But like, who eats ass during a hook up...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 04:33 PM
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Because there would be a lot less single nice guys
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 04:26 PM
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That's wonderful for you, but if that were the case for most women this subreddit (and redpill) wouldn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 05:02 AM
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The main distinction is women who WANT to be single or prefer it to being in a relationship are happier singer. With the exception being younger women in their early 20s that want to explore and enjoy the single life, I don't believe "single by choice" is a thing that actually exists for women. If Mr. Right came knocking on the door, they wouldn't be single. Single by choice generally just means that a guy at the level they want to date isn't interested in dating them long term. Sometimes that c…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 03:56 AM
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It can definitely be looks for normal looking guys, I think you have to be above average if you want to do well with women in 2023. Average is 5'9 and overweight. OLD and social media have increased women's options, and in turn their standards. Something is "wrong" with a man if he can't get anything and is also not trying to do anything to improve himself to change that. This is kind of a redundant point because if one woman doesn't like your looks, you simply go to another one that does. The m…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 03:35 AM
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I'm sure I have a more reputable one saved somewhere in my saved reddit posts but don't really care to go digging for it. If you google Paul dolan retracts claim you'll find other sources on it, with quotes from him. And the guardian removed his post. Here is a link with a detailed explanation as to what exactly he misinterpreted, with actual excerpts and tables from the data
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 03:31 AM
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In actual TRP (like before all these YT podcasts showed up), they call this the "anger phase", where men as a result of heartbreaks or whatever negative experiences with women become bitter and angry towards them. At some point this has to dissipate and men are supposed to look at the way women think and behave (in the context of dating) as something that's neither good nor bad, it's just the way the world works. Like hypergamy: women spend 9 months pregnant, so it makes perfect sense that they'…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 03:22 AM
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Risque but not slutty
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 03:13 AM
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Does a fisherman ask a fish how to catch fish? Literally none of the useful dating advice I got came from women, much less ones I slept with before. I am really struggling to come up with a single thing. Most of advice i've gotten from women was just cliche "be yourself" sort of thing. Any helpful and non-obvious advice will require concrete actionable steps you can take, and that will have to come from other men that have already done that. Women don't date women (except bi/gay women, but their…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 02:55 AM
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Automod please
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 02:50 AM
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Grateful to have met my gf from dating apps, but god damn I do not miss being on them. There are a lot of girls who don't reply to messages which is to be expected because they get so many, but even many of the ones that did reply gave the most dry mundane responses
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 02:49 AM
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Very unusual to see that sort of self awareness from attractive women. Most just sort of have a very binary outlook; if a man struggles with women, it must be because he is a jerk, lazy, doesn't put in any effort ect... when in reality morality really has very little to do with dating success for men. Game is definitely underrated there, and in the "manosphere" which isn't quite the same as ~2017 redpill. Looks are a requirement and get you the opportunity, but charm is what gets a girl to like …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 02:43 AM
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What makes you interested in engaging in spaces like those? Not that there's anything wrong with it, just very unusual for conventionally attractive girls to take interest in communities like that. I personally love reading the experiences and perspectives of people I disagree with and/or can't relate to, but that's pretty unusual
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 02:24 AM
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Yeah I know they have a bot for that, ditto for offmychest. Diabla is women's only so it's a bit different, but for the others I think it's lame to ban people en masse purely for dissenting opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 02:14 AM
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The "single women happier" study people commonly cite was really just some dummy professor trying to sell a book misinterpreting data and publishing research with false findings. A quality relationship should only enhance your life, and romance isn't something friends or family can really replace. All play different roles in social fulfillment. If a person can't find a quality relationship, that's when it's time to do some self reflection and self improvement, to attract better quality partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 02:08 AM
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r/dating has a bot that automatically bans anyone that posts here It's a pathetic subreddit anyway though. Good for the occasional laugh but anything remotely controversial gets removed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 02:05 AM
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Here I thought single women are happier and they are focused on their careers, hobbies and friendships. Odd
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 01:17 AM
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Just got banned on r/diabla despite never posting there once lol I wonder if a poster here happens to be a mod there and got upset at me bringing up that fds and lipstickalley are femcel spaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 01:12 AM
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Yup. About 42% of americans are obese, and another 30ish% are overweight. We are inflating it but the UK also has as really high percentage of overweight people.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 12:39 AM
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The average 30 year old couple isn’t this fat boring man and woman without a smart phone trudging around a supermarket. That is (objectively) and unironically the average 30 year old couple. The avg man/women in the west is overweight (borderline obese) statistically, and obesity percentages rise with age. There is literally nothing to argue here, it's like trying to claim the sky isn't blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 11:46 PM
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I don't know you personally but I think there is still hope for you bro
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 10:14 PM
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u/danceswithmyr kindly unblock please
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 10:08 PM
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They are more picky in the sense that we prioritize looks #1 (personality is still important, but it looks have to be there) but if you ask most men what they want in a woman, vs what women want in a man, most men will just answer something along the lines of: down to earth loyal girl I'm attracted to. Whereas most women will have a laundry list of requirements. And oddly enough, it seems that a large chunk of women who are below avg often seem to have more of them than women who are conventiona…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 09:57 PM
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ah NFTs. to think some of these chimps that look like a detailed ms paint drawing sold for thousands of dollars
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 09:52 PM
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No way to prove it but I legitimately think there are more femcels than there are incels. If you look at membership #s on message boards for both (fds, lipstick alley) vs spaces incels use, the numbers are extremely skewed towards women. Twox is a default sub but a large subset of their regulars are femcels too, lots of overlap wth dating subreddits for older people (desirable women are virtually all in long term relationships by their mid to late 20s, not 40s) I use the term femcel to describe …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 08:57 PM
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They usually larp to fulfill weird kinks, not for validation
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 08:41 PM
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She had me somewhat until the $100 gift everyday
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 08:37 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/14kg68c/had_a_date_where_a_guy_made_a_ton_of_demands_for/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button Things that didnt happen for 500, Alex. Women legit just LARP on reddit to get validation after being rejected. Wild
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 05:55 PM
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The statistic you cited has almost nothing to do with the premise you're arguing. Hook up culture essentially means culture that promotes and accepts casual sex. And there is a lot of casual sex being had, regardless of the fact that a fairly significant subset of men arent having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:14 PM
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Simplest explanation: democratic women are less family oriented, having more adversarial attitudes and beliefs towards men, and are thus simply a lot harder to please and maintain a happy, functional marriage with.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 06:12 AM
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Absolutely fantastic post. democratic women are more likely to be steeped in feminism and left wing feminism basically makes a virtue out of women being unhappy about their men. Any acts of service in the relationships that would traditionally considered being a loving supportive partner are counted against the man as part of the patriarchal oppression. Unfortunately virtually all far left women don't have the self awareness to realize this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 06:10 AM
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Hitting the gym: i've been lifting since 2017, started off 130 lbs soaking wet at 6ft and am now ~175-180 lbs (not all of that extra is muscle obviously lol) Better wardrobe/effort into appearance. I put a lot of effort into appearance on dates, put on cologne, started trimming my hair to keep at the length it looks best at it regularly ect... I have things going for me career wise. Healthcare professional (one that requires a doctorate degree), lawyer, engineer, software engineer...any of those…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 02:53 AM
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Sure https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/14fepnd/daily_community_chat_megathread/jp1mf9d/?context=3
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 02:35 AM
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It's mostly there to prevent bad faith low effort rebuttals
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 02:34 AM
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There's two of my former fwbs that still message me from time to time despite me making no efforts on my part to continue any sort of friendship or hang out. It's definitely a real phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 12:57 AM
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Most of them do, it's mainly the man-hating karens that say otherwise. My gf's complaints about dating apps were that she was overwhelmed with messages and matches lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 12:54 AM
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Do not troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 12:02 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/AskFeminists/comments/14ipjka/i_have_a_hypothesis_about_inceldom_and_dating_is/ Most dating and all women's subreddits are just one big circlejerk. Men entitled to sex, wow such an original and compelling argument, anyone in this echo chamber agree? In the last 2 yrs I've had sex with women i'd never imagined i'd be able to pull, and met a smart, beautiful girl who is now my girlfriend. And despite all that I still know full well that dating is leaps and bounds easier fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 11:49 PM
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Who said anything about marriage? Sounds like projection to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:17 PM
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I'm gonna pre-face this by saying i'm not super hung up on n-count personally. The reason why men are put off by promiscuity and the "sexual revolution" is because there is simply a certain degree of inherent repulsiveness that comes with finding out a woman has that type of life style, not inability to participate. Men who are put off by promiscuity would still have casual sex with these women, they just don't want to date them seriously. Earlier this week I posted a link about a guy putting hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:09 PM
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Yup. Everyone shits on straight dudes, but women who are even slightly attractive have far more privilege and get away with much more shit than anyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:01 PM
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yeah i guess i'll have to agree with you there
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 06:57 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9ZF7k9nVNRw Woman becomes a man and realizes life is quite a bit harder
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 06:42 PM
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You nailed it. Only accurate answer in this entire comment chain. Modern day feminism (both radical and liberal) is closer to female superiority than equality.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 06:33 PM
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"6ft too tall" is not a regular chick, 5'11/6ftish is basically perfect for most women. For a regular chick 6'5+ might be "too tall"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 06:31 PM
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yeah we are not going to do that Directed towards a specific user is already against the rules for incivility. Ban calling a general group of people bitter? That would be so soft that the sub might as well be closed. This is one of the few subs where people can say things that are somewhat politically incorrect, dunno why people are so fixated on silencing opinions they disagree with or may find offensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 05:01 PM
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If it was an accident, why shouldn't both parents stay and raise the child? I think you are misunderstanding what I'm trying to say. This is like asking "why do robbers rob places"; bad and immoral people will always exist, and telling people to avoid them does not mean those immoral people get a pass. My aunt picked an immature, disrespectful man with no education or employment. That was a huge mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 02:35 PM
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I'm not saying the mother is not in the right for staying with her child. This is my position: There's instances where a man's behavior changes (i.e. physical abuse) after having children, and a woman realistically couldn't have predicted that would happen. There are other instances where a marriage falls apart where there was no sort of abuse or anything like that, and post divorce both parents still work together amicably to raise their children. There are (a lot) of instances where women do a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 04:12 AM
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Not incapable of moral reasoning, moreso that there are other determinants of how well men do with women: physical appearance, emotional intelligence/game, financial stability (income), and status. I believe women are just as competent and intelligent as men. Men probably have more individuals at both extremes of intelligence, but that's not what I'm discussing here. I'm discussing what women prioritize when it comes to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 03:59 AM
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Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 03:57 AM
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Then they should pick men who meet their expectations. There's a very good reason as to why basically every girl has an anecdote(s) about an asshole ex she dated, and it's because morality generally isn't a trait women prioritize. Of course there are instances where a man's behavior changes radically after children, but instances where there are no red flags beforehand are rare. Bottom line is that if I was going to spend 9 months pregnant and give birth, i'd be very, very careful about who I ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 03:47 AM
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it's just the daily thread, we are a bit more lax here unless it's very blatant incel content
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 03:41 AM
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Why do guys do this to themselves? I've always been a bit awkward and struggled with emotional intelligence compared to the avg person, but even I know to never bring up anything remotely controversial or polarizing relating to dating or gender dynamics with a girl. There is literally no benefit or reason to
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 03:35 AM
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Will criticizing single mothers make them better? No, because that's not the purpose. The purpose is to prevent other women from making poor decisions and ending up in the same situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 03:29 AM
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Its a rebound effect to single mothers being praised as brave and courageous by other women. Beyond that deadbeats will always exist. Will criticizing them make them better people? You cant control others but you can control who you allow into your life. Sometimes women end up in marriages where their husband becomes abusive afterwards, but outside of that most of these women chose poorly. There's plenty of women with children in happy marriages who didnt chose deadbeat dads. In my culture the c…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 12:59 AM
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Conveniently for you, there are no such studies in existence with any respectable sample size.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 09:54 PM
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When do you ever see people defend them? They are called "deadbeat" fathers for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 09:06 PM
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Single individuals shouldn't be having children period, whether that be a man via a surrogate or woman via IVF. It is nothing short of narcissistic child abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 08:46 PM
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I don't think the women really thought she was the prettiest, Sophia was the most attractive by far and everyone there knows that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 07:57 PM
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Is she? I know kobe's parents don't like her but not much else about her
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 06:58 PM
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Keep it civil It's the daily chat thread, calm down dude
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 06:57 PM
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Same, kinda funny the men didn't rate her the lowest though. She's actually decently cute and would look really cute with some makeup and better posture
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 06:54 PM
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Rules on who can access artificial insemination, an elective medical procedure, has nothing to do with eugenics. A woman in such a scenario could still have sex and have kids if she wants to
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 06:52 PM
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You are conflating two different things here: femininity and assertiveness societally. You can absolutely be feminine but still confident, assertive, and comfortable asserting your boundaries and not letting people walk all over you. There is a happy medium between being an obnoxious person looking for a fight all the time (masculine women) and being a woman who is assertive and firm. If you are sweet and romantic, they will chew and spit you up in our current dating scene. This is because datin…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 06:33 PM
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As simply and succinctly as I can't put it: I think participating in a gangbang is intrinsically disgusting and degenerate behavior. That goes for both men and women. Sex is supposed to be about sharing something beautiful with someone you have some sort of connection with. Sometimes as people we get horny and have casual sex...but getting railed be 3 guys at the same time and used like some sort of sex toy is just really repulsive to me, and I'd definitely lose respect for any guy who was comfo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 11:54 PM
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For women, that emotional connection can lead to that visceral physical lust type of attraction. The entire reason there are more men than women looking for casual sex is because of this. Women's physical attraction is affected more by emotional connection and familiarity; for a guy a hot girl with a fat ass is hot and it's that simple. Which isn't to say for women that they aren't attracted to height, muscle, masculine face ect... but a lot of women need to feel chemistry to feel really physica…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 10:01 PM
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I skimmed it and missed the no PIV sex. Yup. She probably doesnt reallze shes shooting herself in the foot. Guys women want to date generally wont wait as long as he did, I had sex w my gf on date 2 and wouldnt wait more than 4-5 dates at most.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 09:18 PM
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Honestly was expecting something different. This just seems like a guy who wasnt super interested in her and is busy/stressed out in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:32 PM
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Already in development
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 04:56 PM
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There are far less contraception options for men. And the ones we do have arent as effective. Vasectomies are not performed by doctors with the intention to be reversed, and the reversal rate falls off a cliff after 5+ years. My gf has an IUD. She has 0 side effects from it and it lasts years on end. Plus it feels better for both of us w/o a condom
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 04:54 PM
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Such as..? Which threads recently
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 04:51 PM
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That men age like fine wine. Most people age poorly, women just fall off more quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 04:50 PM
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https://nypost.com/2023/06/21/woman-shot-texas-uber-driver-she-thought-he-was-kidnapping-her-to-mexico-police/ Poor guy driving for uber to support his family murdered by some lunatic. Sad as hell
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 04:50 PM
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Uh....heart failure and diabetes? You don't need a moral incentive to look after your well-being. This is like asking why should someone brush their teeth or wash their hands before eating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 04:10 PM
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No, overweight people are supposed to try to change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 02:56 PM
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This is some of the worst advice for women I have ever seen on reddit. What is "giving someone" your 20s? You know you can study, have fun and still date right? Women should do what makes brings them meaningfulness happiness. So not porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 01:30 PM
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Thats great for them but they'd be healthier, happier and more confident at a healthy weight
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 12:38 PM
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No. I legitimately think it will contribute to feelings of resentment; hypergamy is a trend that you can find in countless species, thats been studied in peer reviewed scientific journals for decades. Reverse the trend and date down in socioeconomic status and the result is an increase in divorce rate. Women are just flat out not attracted to the idea of financially supporting a man. Your argument is illogical for two reasons: Male breadwinners also have the financial means to divorce yet them e…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 12:36 PM
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Only women married and taking care of children. Inexcusable for an adult woman not to have a job
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 06:17 AM
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Being repulsed by your fiance getting gangbanged by 3 guys is not a "boundary", it's simply having basic self respect. No worthwhile man will be comfortable with that. More than likely as a result of this she will just avoid telling guys in the future about this. And hey, better late than never.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 04:31 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/14fj84m/my_wife_is_considering_divorcing_me_i_am_angry/ There's a reason divorce rate sky rockets when the wife significantly out earns her husband. Generally speaking a woman who's a breadwinner will not respect a stay at home father she is supporting financially.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 03:07 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/14fj84m/my_wife_is_considering_divorcing_me_i_am_angry/ There's a reason divorce rate sky rockets when the wife significantly out earns her husband. Generally speaking a woman who's a breadwinner will not respect a stay at home father she is supporting financially.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 03:06 AM
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They let far right ideology, Andrew Tate and Kevin Samuels and “alpha males” grift them right out of a normal dating life, all hyped up on movie’s plot device (red pill). The "manosphere" as it's been known the past 2 years is trending downwards. Tate's facing charges, Kevin Samuels passed away, people know Pearl is basically just a parrot. Now that it’s common knowledge how prominent manosphere beliefs are, it’s not likely that women are ever gonna relent and give those guys a chance. Who women…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 03:02 AM
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full of actual cuckolds ( not the meme shit ) Saying that's disgusting is what I got perma banned for there a while back actually lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 02:56 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/14fkiyh/my_fianc%C3%A9_is_calling_off_our_wedding_because_of/ The comments section is interesting. It's a mix of "if he's judging you for your past he's not worth it" and "it's okay for him to have that boundary" It's absolutely bat shit crazy to me anyone could get upset at a guy calling off a wedding for finding out his wife to-be literally got railed by 3 guys simultaneously. She is for the STREETS for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 02:39 AM
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Simping is causing problems for both guys and girls. Cut it out. Do not simp and tell other people you see exhibiting these characteristics to stop it. It doesn't really work like that. Simping results from lack of options. Most men have very few options, so they are more desperate and have higher demand for the women that do some some semblance of interest in them, than the women have for them. Simping isn't something that I see changing. There's no point to spend time worrying about something …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 02:02 AM
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Separating yourself from the other non-simps who have been in the lab is the real challenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 01:59 AM
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Yup. Weight loss is not easy, but it is simple. Consume less calories than you expend, exercise at least 2-3 a week to increase your TDEE, and you will lose weight over a long period of time. Most people that say they can't lose weight are underestimating how many calories they're eating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 10:32 PM
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For me what I classify as hate is over the top vitriol that serves no purpose other than to make someone feel bad. There is some of that to be sure, but for the most part most men that comment on this just say that there's no excuse to be fat (barring some sort of disability or untreated systematic disease), and it's unattractive for a person to not have enough self control to take care of themselves physically.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 10:28 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/14fbcl2/reddit_has_finally_reduced_me_to_tears/ If this was posted a guy on here, it would be removed for woe is me/incel content. r/dating is as bluepill a sub as it gets, kinda crazy how it's acceptable to basically post femcel content on reddit and social media in general. OP is also unemployed; a man would be torn to shreds for such a post and told to get his shit together.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 10:24 PM
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This is the only accurate answer in the entire thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 10:18 PM
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This is because fat men aren't proud of being fat and don't call themselves big beautiful men. That's literally why.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 10:15 PM
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Imo any rape or violence claims that are proven to be verifiably false and made with malice should result in a prison sentence comparable to the crime the the person is being accused of.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 09:42 PM
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Some were prosecuted and faced consequences, the ones that were never caught ore reported didn't. It's a federal crime precisely to protect women from it happening to them, not just for show.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 09:34 PM
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Eh fair enough, you did say a good life and you can do that in cheaper places.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 09:27 PM
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The feelings don't always go away. Women's idea of a platonic friendship is generally a lot more intimate than men's, and can sometimes resemble a relationship without the physical aspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 09:25 PM
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it still doesn’t give the right for anyone to force a woman to be pregnant if she doesn’t want to be. It's not about bodily autonomy. Bodily autonomy does not entitle someone to an elective medical procedure. Emphasis on word elective medical procedure. Let's say I want to get rid of my hand. It's my body and I have autonomy over it. If a hospital denies me the right to amputate my hand, are they violating my right to bodily autonomy? No, obviously not. I am pro-choice but bodily autonomy is an …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 09:20 PM
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depends on the specific area you live. Cost of living in NY or california is absolutely nuts
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 09:18 PM
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Yeah she said she's known him since he was 19, literal psycho straight out of a nightmare.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 09:09 PM
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If a famous celebrity man tweeter at a woman who is also a public figure threatening to release sex tapes with her this is what would happen: He'd be under criminal investigation He'd lose all his sponsorships He'd be fined/suspended, potentially lose his job Instead with her, people are just treating it like a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 07:45 PM
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True in the poor $$ management, and the way he was flinging money at her he might go down that route. Its all up to him. If he gets in shape and lays off the food he can be a billionaire when his career is over. If not he's gonna keep getting injured and may wash out in the next 6-7 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 07:38 PM
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Perpetually out of work makes it sound like hes unemployed. He gets paid BANK, he just gets paid to sit home most of the time lol And he knocked a diff girl up, thats why shes upset. Though shes much older and a pornstar so idk what she expected, he was never going to wife her up and treated her pretty damn well, dude was giving her like 80k a month
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 07:30 PM
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Oh he 100% should have vetted better. Famous men especially need to steer clear of girls like this, she is literally psychotic. Nothing will happen unless she actually releases them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 07:28 PM
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Women say this because most of them dont realize what its like to be close friends with someone you have feelings for and watch them date other people. Ending a friendship because feelings werent reciprocated doesnt mean a guy was feigning friendship, it means it was too difficult to remain friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 07:24 PM
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The batshit crazy pornstar Zion (nba player) was hooking up with is now tweeting and threatening to release their sex tapes. Just casually threatening to commit a federal crime, reverse the roles and imagine what would happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 07:22 PM
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You may not have an issue but OF girls may not want to be lumped together. I generally think its a silly term that came about because people find the term prostitute offensive
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 06:31 PM
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Nothing. Just "under investigation". In romania you can just hold someone without filing charges.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 06:29 PM
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Yeah, mature people in long term relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 02:44 PM
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Tate charged but this shouldnt come as a shock, they werent holding him in custody for most of the year for nothing. It was funny to see the way he triggered so many feminist subs when he went viral and much of what he says is true, but he is ultimately a grifter who will cling to whatever is personally beneficial for him at any given. I'd be surprised if he's found innocent.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 02:40 PM
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Yes it has. It's just less awkward to ghost if you're talking to someone but haven't met. I've only ever ghosted a girl I went on a date with once, and that was because she was a catfish that was 50 lbs heavier and looked nothing like her pics even if she wasn't 50 lbs heavier. I'd prefer it if people could just say hey I had a good time but I don't think we have chemistry, but I guess for women they are apprehensive about a guy flipping out if they reject him so they ghost, so it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 11:45 PM
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It has made posting naked content socially acceptable and lured in what would otherwise be regular women to do so thinking they'll make bank You are also simply incorrect. The title speaks for itself, it states "credibility of women in society", it does not distinguish between OF women and regular women. The things some women may do may influence the reputation of all women, just as it does for men. The vast majority of men don't commit sexual assault or domestic violence, yet they get demonized…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 09:37 PM
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Social media was always inevitable, and unlike OF it has some really incredible positives.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 09:16 PM
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I do think people should have 100% ownership over their name and likeness This is probably the one positive aspect i'll agree with. Porn was/is far more exploitative of women. also why I'm noticing everyone except the most liberal of women pushing back more on the ease of which onlyfans has made online sex work to vulnerable young women. This is true for a lot of very radical far left trends, but for some of them most women wont speak up for fear of backlash/getting cancelled.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 09:15 PM
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This is actually a myth you'll only find online. The vast majority of men will not be willing to date someone who does porn or OF. Not all will say that because it is far less socially unacceptable for men to say "I wont date x or y"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 09:11 PM
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If I was a woman i'd say selling pics of my asshole for any stranger to see for $4.99 subscriptions would be one of the most degrading things I could do. I'll save the respect for women who are educated professionals actually doing something worthwhile in life, or for stay at home moms since they do a lot of hard work as well. Respect is earned, not given.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 09:01 PM
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I think the term "sex worker" is odd and too big an umbrella. A woman who has sex with other people for money is a prostitute. A woman who posts naked content online for money is a pornstar. There, no confusion. The two are vastly different and shouldn't be lumped together.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 08:59 PM
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They are basically like a less despicable version of phone scammers that target elderly, though they do a lot more harm in the grand scheme of things because they are so common. OF girls more or less earn money by targeting mentally ill and/or lonely men and feigning a personal connection with them. Secondary to that, they have normalized posting yourself naked on the internet, which has in turn encouraged more young girls who are 18-20 years old to do so, the vast majority of which will never e…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 08:58 PM
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You can def find a mature stable guy at 25. Without even much of an age gap really. I have friends who are in their mid 20s who are fully fledged doctors, lawyers, and engineers and plenty mature enough for a serious relationship. 21 (or 22 depending on birthday) is old enough to graduate college. 4-5 more years is plenty additional time to mature and become financially stable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 07:31 PM
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I don't think any group is really oppressed in the united states to be honest. There are double standards and inconsistencies here and there, but usually when people use the word "oppression" they don't understand the weight that word carries. If you hear anyone using that word, expect them to have a victim complex. Anybody who is intelligent and has discipline can find fulfillment in all the important parts of life. "value" is really ambiguous; there are women entrepreneurs, doctors, lawyers, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 06:40 PM
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My questions are how & where do you find such a person, and what is the best possible way to communicate my preference in the most respectful way, to both women who happen to be and women who are not. So your question is essentially how should a virgin interested in finding a virgin find one and communicate that. You should probably put that in the first paragraph. Your post is very all over the place and otherwise that's a lot of reading to commit to for people to know what your post is about/w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 06:29 PM
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I've seen the people that tend to be involved in polyamory, and they look like stereotypical reddit mods. This is because all of the men who are okay with their girl smashing other dudes are either have a cuck fetish or are unattractive/undesirable, or both. When I was on dating apps most of the people into this were very far left people who aren't very masculine. Men with options will never agree to such an arrangement. To take it a step further, men with options would break up with a girl for …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 03:31 PM
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Keep it civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:40 PM
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Keep it civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:40 PM
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27 or 28 i think
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:44 PM
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The trans sports discussion is fascinating to me, because it's a branch of an umbrella which is literally the only topic I can think of where feminists (rad fems) and anti-feminists actually agree, an exceptionally rare occurrence. Maybe that speaks to how absurd it is that it can unite two vastly different groups of people who are otherwise figuratively at each other's throat on literally everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:30 PM
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Guess we'll find out lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:26 PM
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Woman proposing is a huge no-no. And i'd say it's a bit on the earlier side, but at their age and where they are financially they can start thinking about a future. I think he's prob just making sure this is what he wants. Small chance he gets cold feet and calls it off completely
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:23 PM
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yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:21 PM
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Changed to cmv
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:05 PM
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My sister's best friend is educated, has a great career and is a homeowner in her 20s. However, she is a 4/10 at most if I'm being very generous, and not remotely feminine. She managed to pull a pretty conventionally attractive 6'3 dude who has his shit together and earns just as much as her. Her family absolutely loves him. Recently they've been having some relationship issues stemming from her getting antsy that he hasn't proposed to her (they've been together for ~1.5-2 yrs iirc?) I think it'…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:41 PM
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So in other words....you're telling me anything that doesn't portray women in a positive light gets deleted?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:05 PM
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Yes no and maybe is not rating appearance though. This system doesn't serve the same purpose as the 1-10 one
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:42 AM
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Do not troll
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:38 AM
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This dude is very obviously trolling and i'm bewildered that so many people are seriously entertaining his comments
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:38 AM
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It's largely in response to misandry being normalized and widespread over the past decade
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:22 AM
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Your comment is a generalization. A bit of both happens for both genders. Look I don't dispute that some men have an unhealthy bitterness towards men, but it's not "the issue" because there is a larger subset of women with unhealthy bitterness towards men. Lipstick alley has 4x the number of members as here, and that's wild considering how many throwaways and ban evasion accs have been made here. Fds (femcel central) has 250k subs. Twox is a default sub, but it's active as hell and the posts spe…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:05 AM
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On like 95% of subs where gender is discussed its bitterness towards men, not women. Ditto is true for most of the social media platforms.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:28 AM
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When I think submissive I just want her to let me take the lead on certain things and not look for an argument every 2 seconds like a lot of western women seem to want to do. Doesn't mean I don't want her to have her own opinions or challenge me on things
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 12:49 AM
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Yes I agree. You split expenses and chores based on income and time available. Whoever makes more pays a larger share, whoever has more free time does a bigger share of chores. There are is a small but growing subset of radical women, that free time and income being completely equal, insist that a man should pay 60/40 to 70/30 expenses wise because a woman should be compensated for pregnancy. Those are the sorts of crazy women men should avoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 12:31 AM
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Well there's a lot more substance to that answer compared to what they are posting on the sub. We're getting very philosophical here and I'm not super passionate about this subject, but this is what i'll say in response: I concede that having children is a bit selfish to some degree, because you are bringing someone into the world to enhance your life in some way, with the hopes that you will be able to raise them well and provide them the resources and stability they need, but that's a far cry …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 12:20 AM
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sound like a refreshingly healthy relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 12:15 AM
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All romantic relationships are transactional to at least some degree, but that shouldn't manifest in obvious ways in a relationship. What i'm referring to are women that feel entitled to a man paying for dinner, think expenses should be split unevenly (i.e. 70/30 man/woman) by virtue of her being a woman, thinks she's doing a man a favor by letting him have sex with her ect... just general signs of entitlement and unhealthy attitudes. And I actually am happy/want to the primary person paying for…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 09:33 PM
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Entitlement, playing mind games, viewing anything relationship wise through a transactional lens, general dislike/hatred of men, has no passions/life of her own
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 08:46 PM
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Yes but that's not an explanation as to why her actions are problematic. When I judge women's actions, or anyone's actions for that matter, I always thoroughly explain my rationale and give reasons as to why. I've yet to ever hear any rational argument from anyone as to why having children is always morally objectionable. "Adopt instead" is among the worst of them. Provided that the child is healthy and doesn't have any severe defects, the parents don't have severe genetic disorders that they ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 08:07 PM
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What's the issue exactly? As long as the child is healthy and she can provide a good quality life and stable environment for her child, it's nobody else's business. A handful of anti-natalists and childfree couples have this bizarre arrogance to them, like live life the way you want but I don't understand the need to tear down other people for procreating, which is literally our biological imperative.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 07:25 PM
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Kinda funny he doesn't really live and breathe basketball either. Clearly likes it but mostly the dude just wants to ride his horses, drink beer and chill in a pool
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 07:23 PM
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Keep it up fam. abundance mindset
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 07:20 PM
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Welcome to reddit sir, I got permanently banned from r/twox for correcting a statistic and then being told actually kms. Mods did nothing to the poster either, and admins gave her a light 2 or 3 day ban.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 07:17 PM
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Don't linger on it, 4s and 5s women tend to be a lot more entitled than women in the ~6 to 7 range. Hell i've seen some 4s that higher expectations than 8s and 9s.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 07:16 PM
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Because we've gotten to a point where even a girl explicitly giving verbal consent will still get support if she later comes out and accuses a man of sexual assault. Feminists will argue she was coerced or some shit
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 07:14 PM
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No personal attacks
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 07:10 PM
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Keep it civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 07:08 PM
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We're not doing this. Don't bring minors into a post that has nothing to do with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 07:07 PM
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Most people who are "gym bros" are just going through a phase. I did, when I was taking pre workout, creatine, protein shakes every day, lifting 6 days a week. Flash forward 6 yrs from when I started lifting and I dread going to the gym and just do the bare minimum to maintain where I'm at. The ones who do and always will make it their life style through the course of a relationship are pretty rare, and even the ones that do are generally so good at time management that it's not an issue. Most p…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 07:02 PM
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This is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 10:25 PM
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to some degree, but this girl is next level batshit crazy. She has been tweeting about him for almost 2 weeks going back and forth between attacking him and saying she is gonna be with him again.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 10:16 PM
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She could learn a lot from Savannah James on how to carry herself with class
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 10:15 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/14b0ee5/womens_scholarships_and_awards_eliminated_to_be/ Women outnumber men in higher education and don't need their own exclusive scholarships. If feminism is really in favor of equality there should be no issue or reason to be upset here. Next up on the table is getting rid of affirmative action
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 10:11 PM
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Keep it civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 09:22 PM
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Yes it is. Natural is so much better
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 09:14 PM
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Zion Williamson (nba player) is getting embarrassed on twitter by what appears to be a mentally ill pornstar he was hooking up with (Moriah Mills). She looks completely plastic and has a BBL that looks like a comically big diaper. She is a legit 2/10. Steph curry's wife ayesha is okay looking, but she's now twice embarrassed him publicly. First on a talk show she complained about not getting enough attention from other men, and then recently she jokingly started sliding her wedding ring off when…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:47 PM
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A lot of subs I imagine will
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 08:17 PM
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Yes Although I am one I just act like one of the regular plebs on here
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 06:42 PM
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This reddit strike is getting to be stupid at this point. I honestly dont believe mods even should be able to private a sub. The r/nba sub went down for game 5 of the nba finals and is down indefinitely. Its annoying as hell, reddit should just add the features these 3rd party apps have.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 04:52 PM
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How do you take them down? Cease and desist order to fb or something? The issue is they'll just make a new one. Have to get all the mods and admins banned on fb to really stop them.
/r/MensRights16/06/23 04:34 PM
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That to me is infinitely more wild than anything i've said, but to each their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 04:00 AM
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You would have to apply that argument to SA cases too to be logically consistent. Do you feel that abortion should be outlawed in that case too? The sort of situation i'm referring to involves people who can't even cognitively understand that decision to begin with. Someone who is mentally and physically disabled and functionally just a step above a vegetable has no frame of reference for what life would be like if they were perfectly healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 03:39 AM
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its worse for anyone who asks that question to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 03:36 AM
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Not gonna happen fam lol Women that check other women get called pickmes and receive a lot of personal insults for going against the hive mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 03:30 AM
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I actually tip my hat to any women that posts here because I respect people who don't mind encountering/engaging with ideas they disagree with. It's a lot easier to stick to echo chambers, which most women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 03:28 AM
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Well I wouldn't be the one making that decision seeing as i'm not a woman lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 03:06 AM
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No i'm saying "just put it up for adoption" is a shitty argument that pro life people who actually don't really care about the children after their born use. And yes i'd rather not live than have a very severe disability that requires 24/7 care. There are conditions someone can be born with that will doom them to having zero quality of life whatsoever, conditions that can also prevent someone from even reaching more than a child level of intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 02:53 AM
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Right but not offering an elective procedure is not really the same as forcing donation. Inaction vs action, that's what I'm getting at. Bodily autonomy is a losing argument, there are much more pragmatic reasons to be pro-choice: Someone who is SA'd should not have to raise their rapist's child When abortion becomes a legal it impacts women's ability to obtain medication and other medical care, because if it has potential pregnancy/nursing implications they can be denied it. Which we've seen po…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 11:58 PM
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No one has the right to use another person’s body for their own survival. I say this as someone who is pro-choice: you have bought into propaganda, and mistakenly (and illogically) believe that bodily autonomy grants someone the right to an elective medical procedure. It does not. It would be like me stating that nobody can force me to keep my thumb, then argue that my right to bodily autonomy is being violated because I'm being denied a procedure to amputate my thumb. I know that sounds ridicul…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 11:45 PM
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All the major organs are developed within the first trimester. And it isn't too long after that that it looks like a fairly small newborn baby. Abortion should be for extenuating circumstances. Rape, incest, severe deformity that will result in no quality of life, contraception failure when not in a position to raise a child ect... right now rape, incest, and mother's life in danger make up a very very small % of abortions. Most are elective.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 11:30 PM
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They had a post advocating to shoot men a little while ago that got almost 10k upvotes. Not that far off. I can't link to the repost to it atm because the r/justunsubbed subreddit is private.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 10:33 PM
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Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 10:31 PM
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Looks like catch got creative with the flairs lol I just now remembered we can change users flairs
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 10:18 PM
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Well you agreed with me so clearly my opinion must have some merit. I don't claim to be an expert on dynamics in the black community nor do I speak on it. What I commented on isn't dependent on her race, if any woman said the same things and used slurs against men of her own race id have the same opinion. She should be banned on YT for racism.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 10:14 PM
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Im not black but I think shes an absolute lunatic. How can anyone support aborting males of their own race? One thing is for sure, no quality man would put up with an attitude like hers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:24 PM
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Id venture a guess 6-8%
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 08:23 PM
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There is a youtuber named Cynthia G with 120k subs. She is a black woman that uses racial slurs against black men and advocates for black male babies to be aborted. This is 1000x worse than anything Andrew tate has ever said for example. Why the fuck such a vile human being is allowed to post content like that on YT I have no idea, because shes damn sure been reported. Its wild to me that women are allowed to beat (Amber Heard), drug and rob (Cardi B), dox and harass en masse (Drew Afuelo), lega…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:46 PM
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Jesus christ...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:34 PM
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Yeah but if you get to show it and its 3 inches you are screwed every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:59 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/offmychest/comments/148e40j/i_have_micropenis_and_it_is_harder_than_you_think/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button Like any dude that has seen porn I used to be insecure about just having an avg dick, but reading stuff like this changed my mind and just made me grateful. For guys there are more things outside of your control that can make life much harder. I will thankfully never know what its like to be like 5'…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 12:55 PM
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The disapproved jobs list is funny as hell. There's no way this website isn't one big troll...way too much comedic genius to be made by a NEET.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 10:49 PM
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Maybe the real copers were the friends we made along the way
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 10:48 PM
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Mrdrgree gets a bad rep but she's actually chill as hell. I've seen her be willing to reduce bans pretty often if someone has been polite in modmail/has a mostly clean record. She lowkey carries the sub and is the most active mod, last 2 purges were on her suggestion. Also this subject has been done to death but people conflate basic needs required to actually live with needs that have more to do with well-being and self actualization, but are still called "needs"; socialization is considered a …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 10:35 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 10:30 PM
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An 8/10 can leverage her appearance to do much better than a mcdonalds cashier. And i'm not necessarily talking exclusively about modeling either.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/23 01:17 AM
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Any remotely decent mom will always put her kids before herself, especially when they are 5 and 7 years old. She should fly in the same class as the rest of her family and is a selfish dumbass, wasting money exclusively her own personal comfort.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 06:59 PM
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Not even close to MJ
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 06:55 PM
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https://www.insider.com/mom-flies-in-business-class-leaves-family-in-coach-feminism-2023-6 What happens when a man has no self respect and marries a narcassist
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 06:54 PM
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If you're in the US there are a myriad of trt clinics that will essentially give out trt to damn near anyone with a pulse.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 04:37 PM
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You missed the point. The point is that men generally don't put as much stock into a woman's career, and for men who are exceptionally wealthy she doesn't necessarily even need a career. Plenty of athletes and I have a friend who will be a fully fledged cardiothoracic surgeon in a few years. She will be making bank, and she's a pretty nice person. Yet, she's almost 30 with no quality men lining up to date her. Why? Because she is like a 3/10. Career doesn't even come into play for men unless the…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 04:34 PM
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But whatever you do, don’t swallow the red pill! The advice you described is precisely redpill. People are conflating redpill from 2017 and before with the current youtube manosphere. A man can't find better advice than what is in the side bar of the actual redpill sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 03:11 PM
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Hit the gym, get better outfits, get a haircut that suits you, ditch glasses and wear contacts ect...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 03:07 PM
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Even for casual interactions, while it certainly occurs, 10+ is not common. But the guy I replied dis outright say "couples", not casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 03:03 AM
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Bluepill people generally don't like engaging with content that they disagree with/find offensive and opt to post in echo chambers. Not true for all of them obviously, but generally that's the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 12:47 AM
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Committed relationship no contest. Casual sex is unfulfilling, a fleeting pleasure. Intimacy with someone you have a connection with is 1000x better, but even beyond that just spending time together doing mundane things like going out to eat or getting drinks is nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 12:46 AM
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In a thread flaired change my view all top level comments must disagree with the post. Comments that agree can go under automod.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 12:19 AM
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Whatever works for you I guess, as long as everyone is happy with the breakdown of roles and contributions
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 11:33 PM
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On average in the west life is harder for a man. But "worse off" depends moreso on environmental factors like your family's socioeconomic status, how attractive, and how intelligent a person is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 11:30 PM
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If he does the cooking then are you the one earning most of the income? It's not so much odd to me that he cooks, moreso that your implying that you don't also cook.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 11:26 PM
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Changed to CMV because discussion posts must be neutral. Top level comments that agreed have been removed.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 11:20 PM
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There is no such thing as a "172% chance"; a 100% chance of something occurring is a guarantee. You can instead describe something in terms of increase in probability; if something is 100% more likely to happen than something else (not the same as 100% chance to happen), that means it is twice as likely. But 172% chance is like saying 2+2=5, it is completely illogical.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 11:19 PM
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Who cares about strength peak? Start at 20 and lift seriously for 5-6 years and you will be about as strong and as muscular as you ever will, and you'll get all the benefits that being strong confers in the bedroom and in being able to protect a girl. Facial hair is largely genetic to begin with, but there are oils for beard growth now. The biggest factor you are overlooking is that collagen production decreases with age.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 08:41 PM
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Yes. Its something rollo (godfather of RP) stresses and was commonly discussed on the trp sub before it started to die down.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 08:13 PM
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Avg age gap is ~2-3 years. 10 years is an anomaly, which again is why I said you need other factors to pick up much younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 08:12 PM
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Near 80th percentile income, somewhat fit (no dad bods), comfortably more attractive than average, decent game with women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 06:59 PM
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Honestly mine is women after 30 still can't pull or aren't as attractive when in their 20s Because they aren't. A 33-34 year old women simply can't compete with a hot young 23 year old girl. Take any celebrity who is in their 30s and attractive, and odds are (without designer clothes and professional makeup) they were more attractive in their early 20s. But a woman who's 30+ def still has options if she's hot and puts effort in to maintain her appearance, hits the gym ect...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 05:56 PM
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Top 20% is good enough but it takes a lot more than the above to get there. Have a job, be social, and don't be fat is nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 05:52 PM
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The most direct and obvious solution would be to improve the ‘quality’ of the population of single men so that a larger percentage of women would opt to partner up. You had me up until the word population. This is why we are where we are. People acknowledge that the avg man is not an appealing dating prospect, but it's considered misognyistic and politicially incorrect to point out that the average women is also not an appealing dating prospect. It's damn rare to find a woman who is: feminine, l…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 05:46 PM
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My biggest disagreement with trp is probably the idea that men age like fine wine. Most people age like shit, women just fall off sooner. I've seen dudes I went to high school with look like they dam near aged 15 years from 18 to 25. Put on a ton of weight and can't keep it off, their hairline is destroyed, their skin looks rough. Ideal time for a guy to be in an LTR with plans to eventually get married is mid 20s to early 30s imo. That time frame allows time to establish a career, gain life exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 05:42 PM
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I really don't put much stock into the specific #s in these self reported surveys. I doubt 63% of men in their 20s, but the trend/disparity seems to check out with how many younger men complain/struggle with dating these days. Even fairly avg women have no problems getting a boyfriend if they want one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 05:37 PM
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In most of my top upvoted threads on this sub I've linked a myriad of sources. That being said, there's a trend on this sub where someone will make a claim and someone will ask for evidence in instances where it isn't feasible. Evidence from peer reviewed scientific studies is the gold standard, but some stuff simply can not be substantiated with that kind of evidence because it's too abstract a concept/relies on data collection that will simply not end up being accurate. Anything pertaining to …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 05:26 PM
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Most men in their 30s are more attractive than than in their 20s Most people age like shit. Men are most attractive from their mid 20s to very early 30s. The dudes that think they will be 38 years old picking up hot 22 year old women are deluded, that isn't going to happen without serious money/status.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 05:18 PM
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You assert here that women care more about looks in their 20s than at any other time of their life. Is that actually supported by evidence? Being at the age that is considered peak physical attractiveness to men does not require that they also prioritize physical attractiveness the most at that age. For example, it may be that women care about looks the most in their 30s or 40s. The importance women place on looks may remain fairly steady over a long period of time. This claim needs supporting e…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 05:15 PM
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There's really nothing to substantiate that. I'd counter your suggestion by saying that plenty of young women (and I say this as a young guy, who is around plenty of young women) when asked if they are single will say they're in a "situationship" / it's complicated sort of thing, not that they are outright not single.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 05:09 PM
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It's not about what she "deserves" or not, we have laws in society and men are inherently much stronger than women and more capable of inflicting harm when they hit someone. If she had wanted to she could've very easily called the police and filed charges against him. I don't think anyone should put their hands on anyone outside of instances of self defense/defending someone else. When you hit a man for touching you inappropriately it's also a bit different, because man groping a girl carries wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 04:13 PM
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2/10? The avg woman is 5'4 170 lbs in the US today, weight wise she is pretty average. She has cute facial features, could be stunning if she lost weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 03:48 PM
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Like I said the real names were replaced, her first name is unique enough that i've never met anyone else with that name. Eh even my current gf didn't mention much about me to her friends until maybe our 4th date, beyond just "i've got a date later". They're close enough that my gf wanted to introduce me to her friend/hang out at some point
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 03:34 PM
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mb i shouldve realized, this has happened a few times replying to you lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 03:31 PM
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They don't have to be. She could've just touched his arm instead and it would still be an issue. Unwanted non-consensual touching after repeatedly being told not to = sexual harassment
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 03:29 PM
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It did quite literally come from two separate tinder matches, separated by a year
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 02:58 PM
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Lmao. I enjoyed reading this comment
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 02:42 PM
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Her friend and only I went out twice so she wouldn't have necessarily mentioned it. What's your idea of what's considered a "small town"?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 02:39 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/145ngn2/i_slapped_a_female_because_she_keep_sexually/ Pretty strange thread/comments... a lot of people here would consider me a huge misogynist, but my instinctive reaction to this post was that the guy is a dumbass for physically hitting someone, and could have easily put himself in a position to be charged with battery and expelled. The comments are praising him, and one person even tells him if he has it on video he can "nuke the university in…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 02:29 PM
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They say AWALT Not meant to be taken so literally. Just intended to remind men not to be fooled into thinking a woman they met a few months ago is some special unicorn. As with all things in life, outliers exist. The general trends RP describes are generally very accurate, and the challenge is finding a woman who doesn't exhibit some of those behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 02:23 PM
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Women were right all along. Looks isn't the only factor. Nobody claimed that outside of blackpill, which isn't even permitted to be discussed her or on 99% of reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 02:22 PM
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Once you start to get girls you realize they really are all trying to date the same dudes. My gf a few weeks ago (names are replaced for obvious reasons) said you haven't met Vanessa yet. I said oh wait...do you mean Vanessa...smith? and we looked at each other realizing we're talking about the same person and i've gone out with my gf's friend before. Unsurprisingly she wasn't very put off by that (yes, pre-selection is real) This was like the 3rd or 4th time in the last year and a half a girl I…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 02:19 PM
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Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 11:27 PM
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Really great comment all around.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 10:51 PM
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goodlookingloser, killyourinnerloser These are self improvement websites from men in the space pre-social media manosphere. Their personal anecdotes in particular were really helpful. And also TRP r/theredpill. The sub is a shell of it's former self, but the advice is all still there in the sidebar. It's a lot more grounded than what the redpill is these days. More emphasis on accepting what is/not being upset at female nature.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 09:05 PM
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I said a lot of them are spineless. Not all. But for reasons others have pointed out guys on wall street are really not a very good example. Cutthroat people focused only on money will represent their views to reflect whatever is most advantageous for personal gain.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 09:01 PM
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I was raised in a very conservative culture but I'd describe myself as a moderate who would be/wants to be a liberal if they weren't so batshit crazy in certain regards. If we're being honest a lot of liberal men are spineless white knights. Or they're astute enough to identify issues men have, but are brainwashed into thinking they are the result of the ominous "patriarchy" and actually think liberal feminism strives for equality, as is the case on r/menslib. Being a conservative or moderate ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 04:58 AM
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You can always agree and add something to it/elaborate on their point
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 10:50 PM
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Use reveddit
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 12:43 PM
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Yes, it is my opinion. You could've contacted modmail and asked the other mods to vote on the removal but instead chose to post about it here, so in turn I'm giving my opinion here. The fancy verbiage isn't an issue...there's just no substance to be discussed. This sub is to discuss dating dynamics and gender relations as they pertain to dating; just stating normal men have value is so surface level and off topic. The top comment more or less nailed it: Your attempt at sounding fancy is amateuri…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 07:03 AM
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And the idea that if you treat a girl this way, she won't return it in spades is largely ludicrous or a sign you're dating a broken person. The women who will return it in spades are few and far between. Most western women are poor quality options for dating seriously. Generally speaking as a man you will be INFINITELY more successful with women if you are indifferent, sometimes emotionally cold, and absolutely do NOT treat women like a treasure. I should know, since i've been that guy, and the …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 06:53 AM
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Your post is a creative writing piece looking for...I dunno, brownie points? There was nothing to discuss. It's literally just "normal guys are cool" with some fancy verbiage that even the few people that commented were put off by.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 06:47 AM
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Idk why people would buy the premium, you only get matches if people swipe on you, right? An app can’t change that Yes, but you have to show up in people's stack for them to be able to even swipe on you to begin with. This is even more important given that apps are at least 3/4ths men. Tinder platinum will give you priority likes/people you like will see you in their stack earlier than other users. The difference between it and free is like a totally different app, I got ~10x more weekly matches…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 06:31 AM
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This isn't a creative writing sub chief
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 06:29 AM
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I get that it branches off of submissive, but the term "submit" is so off putting to me. I think we as men should legit stop using it lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 06:28 AM
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Most of which she wont seriously entertain if she's a queen
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 06:27 AM
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Do not troll
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 05:09 AM
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Keep it civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 05:09 AM
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Gender relations and dynamics discussed in those subreddit are almost exclusively about heterosexual cis men and hetero/bi cis women. Because they make up the vast majority, and LGBTQ dating dynamics are simply different than hetero guy/girl dynamics. You are smart enough to know this yet used an outlier edge case to retort that men can get abortions too. It's irrelevant. You're right that sometimes the abortion argument can be insincere, but not for these reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 09:25 PM
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So you're argument boils down to "then don't have sex" It's like telling someone don't drive because you might get into an accident.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 09:19 PM
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As a woman, the choice of having a kid or not is ultimately up to us. A man could use a condom, but it breaks. He could pull out, but sperm can be in precum. I could say I'm on birth control... but lie about it, forget to take it on time, or it could fail. Nailed it. My gf has an IUD, and I always pull out. Still, there is a chance, albeit an exceptionally low chance, that she could get pregnant. Women have final say. Even functionally post roe v wade being overturned, there are resources availa…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 09:12 PM
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That will never change nor do I think its sad to not want another adult to support me financially.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 12:38 PM
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That would be very fun considering I’m the one paying our bills. This will never not be bizarre to me...a woman that can take care of herself financially is welcome, but if I'm not contributing more financially in a relationship and in taking care of my family, I subconsciously feel like I am simply not living up to my potential as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 04:54 AM
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Women just leave men alone when it comes to their weight and this is a good thing. Yeah they choose to focus on other things to shame like dick size and height, which unlike weight are outside of your control. So much for body positivity huh? "Men are fat too!" isn't a good rebuttal to someone pointing out that women are borderline obese in the west today. Barring an untreated systemic condition or major disability there is no excuse for anyone to fat. Exercise and eat less calories than you bur…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 04:49 AM
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You're on the right track but I don't necessarily agree with the examples you gave. Slow drift toward absurdity: 80% of women are only attracted to 20% of men. I prefer to think of this concept as 80% of the women want or are trying to go for 20% of the guys. Social media and online dating (social media moreso) has increased women's dating options exponentially compared to what they would've had 15-20 years ago. As a result they are aiming for the best they can get, and the top guys have more op…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 04:37 AM
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It absolutely follows. Someone who advocates for not shaming someone based on their sexual experience, whether they choose to be conservative or promiscuous, should not shame men for their sexual experiences or lack of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 07:05 PM
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You can absolutely participate in casual sex while simultaneously not being interested in seriously dating girls who have a lot of casual sex. Women who have casual sex shame men who struggle with women all the the time. They have no ground to stand on in this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 04:42 PM
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You are in essence claiming cultural influences in dating dont exist. There are core similarities between people everywhere, but women in the US are a lot different than women in other continents, particularly regions that havent been influenced as much by the plague that is liberal feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 02:03 PM
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Click the links and tell me what you find
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 11:28 PM
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Removed for OP trolling.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 11:18 PM
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The post when approved (I personally approved it) had zero links whatsoever. OP added them after I made my comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:56 PM
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Moving the goal posts. You made a claim that said "countless studies" have debunked hypergamy. Link those countless studies then.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:07 PM
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This has been debunked by countless studies. No it hasn't. Theres no substance to to this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:31 PM
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Yeah I agree. Im explaining why men dont want to be considered husband material.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 04:51 PM
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Culturally they are not. No guy wants to be called husband material
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:08 AM
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I assess my league based on my past experiences of men showing romantic interest in me. that's the way it should be
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 12:15 AM
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Husband material =/= being a catch Husband material has a negative connotation among men because it's usually used by women to describe men who aren't as fun/charming or attractive, but are financially stable and mature/would make a good father.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 11:57 PM
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yes, yes it is
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 11:56 PM
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Meh being a catch is really just a shorthand way to describe someone who values self improvement and ambition and has put effort in to reflect that. Someone who is professionally successful, fit, interesting, attractive, can hold a conversation, has hobbies and passions ect...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 11:11 PM
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https://grammarist.com/usage/et-cetera-etc/#:~:text=Et%20cetera%2C%20usually%20abbreviated%20etc,literally%20means%20and%20the%20rest. There's suppose to be a period and then comma after it but i've written it this way so long I'm used to it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 11:05 PM
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There is a compromise between self esteem and delusion. As a general rule I think thinking highly of oneself is something that's backed up by competence and hard work. Women who are a total catch should think highly of themselves and have high standards. There was a woman on FnF a while back who was maybe a 3/10 saying she wants a man earning 100k a month. To this day I have never seen a person's dating expectations and reality so mismatched.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 11:02 PM
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Not really a direct disagreement of the premise so i'll post this here. I say fuck having to act a certain way. There is no reason hook up culture has to harm you personally, nor do you have to participate in it. I'd like someone who loves me for me and my quirks, but I don't think it's possible. It is absolutely possible. Being emotionally vulnerable will be off putting to most women, and if you play the "character" you are referring to you, you absolutely will be more successful with women. Bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 10:59 PM
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CMV: Women are far, far worse at assessing their "league" / who they can realistically date seriously. When an above average guy matches with a ridiculously hot model looking girl, he will immediately suspect that she's a bot, scammer, advertising onlyfans ect... this isn't the case with a lot of women. This is because women conflate sexual interest with relationship value. They have so many options for casual sex and can't differentiate between the two, and instances where they have casual sex …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 10:48 PM
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Could be, the darling made it sound like it was towards me. And the statement is true, there are droves of thirsty dudes who want sex. BUT, the caveat I have to that is that if a woman only finds herself being pursued by men who only want sex, it is because that woman simply has very little to offer. Really high quality women, the type of women men want to date and share a life with, are very sought after and are usually in serious long term relationships by the time they're in their mid 20s. OL…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 10:32 PM
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Eh I don't think women are as visual as men by virtue of the fact that there are no male equivalents to boobs and ass. That, and a woman's physical attraction for you can increase a lot more as she becomes more emotionally attached. The same is true for guys, but not to the same extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 10:11 PM
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I'm a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 08:11 PM
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the fact that someone reported this for breaking reddit tos...lmaoooo I'm sure you've got some muscle under there but it's buried. You need to focus on shedding like 15-20 lbs with a long cut.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 06:54 PM
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it be like that. some of the most thoughtful and engaging women i've had convos with were kinda mid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 06:53 PM
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Neither do I. And men experience sexual harassment and violence from women as well, people just don't it anywhere near as seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 06:26 PM
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Feel free to correct me if i'm wrong but from what i've read and heard, lgtbq communities are very tight knit and the people in them, regardless of whether they are conventionally attractive or not (not necessarily referring to you, this is a general observation) tend to have quite a bit of sex and are able to reliably date within their community. Most "pill" communities tend to revolve around discussing heterosexual cis men and hetero/bi cis women and their dating experiences, just because they…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 06:15 PM
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Nah invisibility/radio silence sucks all the way around. The women at r/foreveralone say the quiet part a lot of women wont admit out loud. Romance and social relationships in general are such an integral part of life
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 06:05 PM
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Well I did it with my gf on the 2nd date so I guess not far off
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 06:01 PM
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No, it's about intellectually dishonest women infantilizing other women when it suits their narrative and doing the reverse when it doesn't. Women who are adults can't make decisions about their personal relationships, but they can make an onlyfans and post naked content online? Most women that get upset about this also support minors being able to consent to hormone therapy and life altering medical procedures. Think what you want but be consistent. And let's be honest here, cougars going for y…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 04:52 PM
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Yeah. There are a lot of potential reasons for why he walked away. And we're only hearing her side of the story.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 04:36 PM
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Eh generally girls worth dating wont do it on the 1st date lol 3-5 is fine. Some dummies will sit there and wait months.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 04:34 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/1404fja/so_tired_of_men_being_dishonest_about_what_they/ Most based comments i've ever seen in a r/dating thread. OP complains about men using for sex, and the commenters astutely point out that the guy she went out with very well could have just not enjoyed the sex/felt chemistry, or felt at that point that they weren't compatible for a relationship. One person even pointed out how toxic the idea that men should stick around just because they've had sex.…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 04:10 PM
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No, I am explaining to you how the rules for this subreddit work. If we banned everyone who made a general statement this sub would cease to exist. She'd have to have said something that violates reddit ToS to warrant a ban.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 10:28 PM
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Normal people don’t have to “self-improve” to get a partner. Complete non-sense. Normal people glow up too. Normal people lift weights, get better sense of style, get better hair cuts ect... As a general rule, nothing worth having in life will be handed to you without putting in the work to get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 07:17 PM
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Change that from "will I find someone" to "I will find someone" and go out and do it. Make yourself into a man that quality women want to date and go talk to them. And there are quality girls out there you can build a life with, just not many of them, and they don't stay single for long.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 05:38 PM
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Not all women are attracted to that sort of look. Most aren't. Pretty is not masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 05:35 PM
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Because men don't carry a child for 9 months and then deliver it/go through labor. It's evolutionary. If you disagree with this, you are thinking about hypergamy with far too narrow a lens. Humans are not the only species that exhibit hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 03:48 PM
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They're all obnoxious but liberal feminists are the worst by far. Radical feminists tend to have some of the most extreme beliefs, but they don't pretend to be something they're not. They are pro-women through and through and act like it. In that regard I have more respect for them. Liberal feminists pretend to be interested in equality, when in truth they are a female superiority misandrist hate group that will sell out their fellow women if they don't agree with the hivemind.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 03:45 PM
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No personal attacks
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 03:42 PM
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Keep it civil
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 03:41 PM
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Keep it civil
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 03:41 PM
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It's bordering on trolling but not enough that I think it warrants a warning/ban. If we did so for anyone who made a claim but can't substantiate it with evidence, realistically like half the content on the sub would be removed. And although not the case here, some claims are too abstract or too politically incorrect for a reputable study to be available to cite. I think generally women are repulsed/unattracted to emotional vulnerability in men, for example, but it would be a) challenging to set…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 03:31 PM
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What constitutes misinformation can sometimes be ambiguous and isn't a rule, but I think the no trolling rule covers that sometimes depending on the context, if it's really blatant, in this case it's more of a technical misinformation. Tinder has never outright admitted to using bots but they have done illegal things like charging customers different prices based on age. The company thrives on scummy business tactics. So quite frankly i'd be shocked if they don't use bots. I know for almost cert…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 03:17 PM
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Keep it civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 03:06 PM
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Keep it civil
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 02:59 PM
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Keep it civil
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 02:58 PM
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What consequences should someone face for that? Are you talking legal consequences? Or like societal backlash from people?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 02:56 PM
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Being attractive. Their algorithm pushes newer accounts, and more attractive people to the front. Being in an area with a high population of people in your age range trying to date
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 02:54 PM
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Respectfully, that's fantastic for you, but it's irrelevant to their business model. If that was the case for everyone tinder wouldn't exist, they rely on subscriptions and microtransactions to make money. And people meeting someone/getting off the app = less people making money.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 02:39 PM
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Because she is being general, yes. Incivility rules are to prevent people from getting personal/insulting other users.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 01:58 PM
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The more people that get off dating apps the better. They are designed to keep people single and paying for subscriptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 12:57 AM
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Keep it civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 12:44 AM
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Keep it civil
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 12:42 AM
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Keep it civil
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 12:42 AM
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Keep it civil
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 12:41 AM
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Keep it civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 12:40 AM
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Keep it civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 11:59 PM
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I wonder if you know the origin of that phrase. The whole point of "pull yourself up by your boot straps " is that it is physically impossible to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 11:57 PM
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The average number of lifetime partners for women is ~4-8 depending on the source.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 10:21 PM
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A man who sleeps with a lot of women ia colloquially referred to as a player/stud. Douchebag describes poor behavior. All you did here is incorrectly define terms to vent about promiscuity being viewed more favorably for men. Well guess what? A lot of things are different between men and women. Is it fair that men who dont have sex are shamed for it by women, while in contrast a woman who's a virgin isnt, and is sometimed even preferred. Is it far that women dating much younger men never get shi…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 06:23 PM
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Keep it civil
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 03:53 AM
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Keep it civil
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 03:52 AM
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Keep it civil
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 03:51 AM
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Low effort rant/trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 03:48 AM
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Keep it civil
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 03:48 AM
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Do you believe that even multiple rigorous studies would change this disagreement? No. And beyond that there is a political influence to what studies get published today. The other day a woman poster posted a study that said like 1/3rd of men would sexually assault women if there were no consequences. The sample size? A whopping 60ish men, all from the same university in middle of nowhere north dakota. Studies that set out to further a liberal and/or feminist agendas are a lot more likely to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 11:21 PM
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Because the avg person flat out sucks dating-wise. Borderline obese, lack of ambition, lack of feminity for women/masculinity for men, lack of maturity and emphasis on morals/values ect... This is the single biggest reason why a lot of people vent/are unhappy about dating in 2023. People already know that the avg guy isn't a catch. What is controversial and denied, largely by women, is that the avg woman is also not a catch. At all. Just being at a healthy weight puts you so far ahead of other p…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 11:09 PM
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Which study are you referring to? I don't know why people are so hung up on obvious trends. Because those obvious trends, obvious as they may be to you and me, are still controversial/spark disagreement.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 11:06 PM
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Q4A: Would you rather work in a workplace ran by men, or by women? My sister's past experience working in predominantly female work places has been awful. Unprofessionalism, gossip, people back stabbing you, people trying to do the bare minimum at the expense of their co-workers ect... her experience working in place where the managers and administration are primarily males was a lot better. This is consistent with other people i've talked to who say women-run work places are toxic as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 11:05 PM
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Average women are viscerally desired, by men who are above average even (for sex) This notion that average men want hot super model looking women is a myth. People conveniently either say men have delusional standards or men are desperate, depending on which argument is appropriate to shut down the opposing argument. Which one is it then? Here's the cold hard truth: most men, including a lot of really decent kind men, just want a loyal down to earth girl they find cute. The OKCupid study hasn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 10:56 PM
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Most of them could find a girl to date if they put in 2-3 years focused on self improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 10:49 PM
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Off topic
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 10:47 PM
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Personally i'd be on board with changing that, I can bring it up in modmail
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 10:40 PM
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List of subreddits I have found tend to have a strong association with femcel type behavior: inceltear, blatantmisogyny, twoxchromosomes, femaledatingstrategy, askwomenover30 First 3 in particular. If a woman spends a fair bit of time in any of those 3 subs that's as big a self report as it gets.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/23 10:39 PM
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Don't agree with his terminology but he was otherwise absolutely spot on. A lot of bipolar people wont agree to receive help because it's not all bad like depression, it's hot and cold between manic/depressive episodes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 11:39 PM
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So pay women to chat with the men by charging the men and taking a cut. So scam? This is like onlyfans but you don't get to see boobs and ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 11:37 PM
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That’s wild to me as a woman. Women are largely the ones responsible for this trend. They use incel/virgin as an insult like candy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 11:36 PM
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I'm sorry but there is not an absolute snowball's chance in hell the woman jordan peterson shamed is 5'11 160-175 lbs. 175 lbs does NOT look like that on a 5'11 frame. She still looks good, just getting the facts straight. And your argument is terrible because you named a few men and then assume all rp men are equal in their ability to discern obesity/post wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 10:13 PM
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Most accurate comment i've ever seen from you in the daily chat Aside from being unattractive/lack of self respect it also artificially inflates egos of the gender said person is showing desperation towards.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 02:18 PM
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No witchhunting. Dunno who this person is but if they violate rules they will be issued warnings/bans accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 02:17 PM
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partner up with someone and use each other as motivation to become healthy. Bad idea. Someone who can't control their own weight is very unlikely to be able to do it and maintain it relying on someone else as motivation. Motivation is fleeting. Like many things in life, health/fitness is about discipline. This is a nice comment but being pragmatic everyone just has to get off their lazy and step up. In terms of fitness, career, game, effort put towards dating ect...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 02:12 PM
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Makes me think these men come into her life, sell her a dream, get what they want, then move on. Your thought is correct. And I would never date someone with kids. Same is true with the vast majority of childless men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 12:53 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/13vaa0p/breaking_news_we_got_are_we_dating_the_same_guy/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button Nice
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 03:09 AM
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The percentage of quality prospects is the same on both sides. If anything there are fewer quality women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 03:07 AM
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When I talk about high class women I am not necessarily talking about personal wealth, but socioeconomic status. And there are plenty of women born into families of higher socioeconomic status who are gold diggers. A lot of professional athletes' wives, for one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 02:34 AM
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This is off topic but most guys don't pay for onlyfans, if they do, they do it to try and interact directly with the woman which is pathetic. The women who take advantage of these guys are the same as guys who go after girls that get drunk at areas for sex. Eh not quite a good comparison, being drunk to a point can make it difficult to actually consent. But they do take advantage of men who are largely mentally ill/lonely. Which is in large part why I'll never respect girls that show their boobs…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 02:27 AM
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Patently false. People of the lowest socioeconomic have the highest birth rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 12:36 AM
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Obese and gold digger can found in any social class. There are some very high status obese women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 11:39 PM
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Individually everyone is responsible for themselves. On a more macro level/thinking about behavioral trends, a 4/10 who seemingly gets 100s of likes a week because men are so thirsty and conflates that sexual interest with her actual value (as in who would date her seriously) has less incentive to improve, sure. But again, a shitty dating option, man or woman, has only themselves to blame at the end of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 07:24 PM
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No, I think it's similar. But public opinion paints a picture that there are so many great women out there and so few good men. In reality it goes both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 06:43 PM
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I don't even know you Like I said you can message modmail. If the mod wants to reveal they removed it they can do it that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 06:21 PM
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I'm not gonna reveal that but if you message modmail the mod that removed it can give you an explanation as to why. If I had to guess it was probably because your question was a leading question/not neutral, and also low effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 06:13 PM
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Myron is a huge grifter as well and only seeks to profit off lonely angry men just like Tate. That $500/mo patreon course "helping men transform from simps to PIMPS" shows that. No clue what's in that course but I doubt it's worth $500. Of course, he doesn't perceive it that way. He feels his platform/fame allows him to charge a lot of money for his time, and believes it will help men. And yes the charleston white thing was disgusting. As a grown ass man Myron should've told him to get the fuck …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 06:10 PM
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The most recent one was manually removed. When a mod manuallly removes it a post other mods can see which moderator removed it. The other 3 times it was likely just flagged by automoderator. When a thread is flagged by auto moderator it wont be visible to other users until a mod approves it. Sort of like a temporary removal.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 06:06 PM
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I legitimately think if most women spent a week trying to date as a man they would be completely and utterly horrified at how few high quality women there are out there. If you are a guy in your mid 20s to mid 30s trying to date, there are an obscene amount of women that fall into one or more of the following categories: obese, single mother, trashy/ratchet, gold digger. It is just staggering. And the wild part is that these women still expect the world. I'm thankful i'm not single because it wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 06:03 PM
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I can see it because I'm a mod, but regular users cannot. Because another mod manually removed the thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 05:52 PM
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Do you mean threads or comments? Some key words flag posts/require review in the mod queue to show, but I am seeing plenty of your comments showing up in the sub in your post history just in the last day alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 05:45 PM
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Interesting how tate has cut ties with the manosphere/redpill essentially. There is a lot of truth to the way he describes the way the world works. Simultaneously, he really is the biggest con artist. Made bank off of lonely men from cam sites, and scamming people into joining his "university" full of info a quick google search could give you. Associated with RP creators when it was lucrative for him, then he turned a blind eye. He even started pandering to islam (he does not live that lifestyle…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 05:40 PM
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You just did right now? If you mean the thread you posted, I wasn't the one that removed it. So you'll have to ask for an explanation in modmail.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 05:35 PM
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Contact modmail. it will resort in a warning and potentially ban if they don't unblock.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 02:13 PM
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Somehow I have a very hard time believing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 07:56 PM
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RUN. Or don't. And then remember the comments that told you to later when you regret it. Women that participate in these groups are crazy misandrists, stay away. And talking to 5 guys? She's for the streets fam.
/r/MensRights28/05/23 07:55 PM
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r/foreveralonewomen This is a serious answer btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 07:07 PM
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What do you consider high earning?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 07:02 PM
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All about money instead of love huh? It's not worth it for men to marry women period if their mindset is reflective of the one you described/so focused on money. However, women work more in the social sector (healthcare, teaching, administration, Human Resources etc.). This is absolutely NOTHING compared to the men that work hard labor blue collar jobs. NOTHING. Women dominated fields are (teaching, HR, extraneous managerial positions) are cushy jobs compared to the jobs that are male dominated.…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 06:48 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/13tecqr/most_womens_gendered_expectations_of_men_are/ This is a really fantastic post. Most women lazily write it off as men just being misogynistic (the concept of morality being gendered is idiotic for reasons obvious to anyone with an IQ over like 80) What women don't realize is that there are commonalities and experiences men can relate to/resonate with intertwined within the manosphere's content. This is how Andrew Tate went viral. It's how…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 05:15 PM
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u/No-Assistant-2592 Great post.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 05:06 PM
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OP abandonment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/23 07:50 PM
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That's just called being a hoe
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 10:53 PM
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Yes. The actual date is where the magic happens/where you charm a girl. Your looks will get you to the date, you need game after that to actually get her to like you. Unless you look like a male model, in some instances.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 10:02 PM
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Men very rarely get fuck zoned. I'll say women because a woman can get hot/glow up. A guy who is fuck zoned likely has some big red flags. One girl I know said she was fwbs with a guy she liked and was attracted to but he's a drug dealer.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 09:59 PM
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Plenty of things are too abstract to quantify/study properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 09:57 PM
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Society in it's present state also encourages men to be weak men. I chose to be responsible for my own actions and not fault society, and encourage others to do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 09:42 PM
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An extreme outlier
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 05:28 PM
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Keep it civil
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:41 AM
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Same if you're an ugly girl. If you look like a toad, but have a lot of money, you can become more desirable. Yeah not quite. Women can't compensate for appearance to remotely the same extent that men can with personality and career.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:41 AM
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But if you are willing to sit out if you don't like your options, Sitting out doesn't inherently change your worth. And I think people heavily exaggerate how happy people who decide to "sit out" are, you simply cannot replace having a romantic partner in your life. It is completely different than familial relationships or friendships. Career is whatever in the grand scheme of things... damn near anyone would have their position posted in a week if they passed away, with maybe an email sent for c…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 12:35 AM
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Not anymore. Google anisa jomha 2023 if you're interested
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 11:47 PM
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Serotonin diminishes sexual function. And SSRIs prevent serotonin reuptake. Although that's a vast oversimplification, and there are other classes of antidepressants. If you are bored this is a nice study on it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 11:45 PM
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Beats me, I was like the most polarizing poster on the sub when they asked me to be one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 11:40 PM
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All 3 are pre-requisites
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 11:39 PM
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They may want to be as successful as him financially and in terms of attracting so many hot girls. But not how transactional his relationships are.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:50 PM
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You have to look at their viewership, not total subs. Total subscribers is worthless. There's a YTer with 15 million subs who gets 10-40k views per video. Last I checked one of their live streams, maybe like 2 months ago, they were getting 11k viewers on YT alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:48 PM
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Well functionally it is impossible to see who is the one who downvoted.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:46 PM
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Pretty impressed that this thread is mostly good faith discussion. I was expecting a lot more posters to blame the patriarchy/misogyny. That's would be the case if you posted this on a lot of other subs. I think women really love the idea of being dominated, but in a situation where they know it's a facade, with someone they feel safe and comfortable with. Some of this stuff, like the bdsm that can result in actual cuts, bruises and other stuff...that I really don't get nor would I even be comfo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 04:28 PM
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Your stats are wrong. The source I link breaks it down by BMI (i.e. "overweight" is 25-29.99 BMI), so in total 84% of men and 80.9% of women are overweight (overweight, obese, and severe obesity categories combined. Your "1/3rd and 1/4th" stat doesn't mean overweight in the sense it's used colloquially to include anyone who is overweight. It just means 25-29.99 BMI. If that small a percentage of people were actually overweight in the US there would be a shit load more fit/normal weight people th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 04:18 PM
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I cant explain it any more simply to you than I did. Think for yourself why two 30 year olds would be much more ready to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 02:31 PM
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You can live together before that to find out what the OP is talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 12:12 PM
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Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 11:50 AM
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Why are men abusive deadbeats? Why are women abusive? Lesbian relationships have a pretty high rate of domestic violence. Bad people and immature people will exist. You can't control the actions of the other near 8 billion people in the world, only your own. Domestic abuse isn't always the best example because sometimes there were no signs of it previously, but generally speaking a lot of women date men who treat them like garbage, because again, morality is not a determinant of how successful m…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 06:01 AM
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Both of these can exist. People don't want to work the low paying poor condition jobs, so there is a shortage. And simultaneously everything is expensive as shit. But I also am skeptical in trusting academia if it has a clear liberal/feminist bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 05:53 AM
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Because if you meet at let's say, 18, you aren't necessarily ready to get married at 21. For some people that age they aren't even finished with undergrad, never mind being in financial stable and mature enough to decide to start a life with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 05:52 AM
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Seems like they are in fact not given that women initiate 70-80% of divorces. It's less about raising/lower standards and more being an adult and prioritizing things like maturity and morality. Women are more emotionally intelligent on average, so why do they date and marry man childs, deadbeats, men who abuse them ect...? Because the ones that do so (there are exceptions sometimes) don't value maturity and morality. Generally when people talk about rising standards they talk about the women wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 05:49 AM
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I mean realistically noone is going to give you their number to hang out with your dog. They may like your dog but you have to ask if they want to hang out with you/they have to be interested in hanging out with you. Not necessarily saying it will work but the way you are phrasing it definitely wont work.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 05:46 AM
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Not by much. And there are almost twice as many women in the "severe obese" category as there are men. The existence of overweight men has nothing to do with the fact that fat isn't attractive, and obviously people will comment on the sex they are attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 05:43 AM
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https://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/real-life/news-life/husbands-heartbreaking-tribute-to-late-wife-after-deadly-crash/news-story/5603b889e275bdb70a4d79418d5173f8 Hopefully the judge has a shred of backbone and gives this girl the life sentence she deserves.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 05:40 AM
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OP's link: https://www.instagram.com/reel/CsmP7F1LRqn/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 04:48 AM
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In my own experiences I’ve known endless men who think it’s endearing to be in their 20s and not know how to cook a simple meal or do their own laundry. There are ample opportunities to know if this is the case before getting married. Perhaps these women should pick better. I know a lot of couples who have been happily married for 20+ years. They vetted to make sure they were starting a life with a mature, responsible adult who comes from a family that raised them well. And I know a lot of men t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 04:44 AM
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3 years is nothing if they met very young/early. 3 years if you met at 25-27 is a whole different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 03:39 AM
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Most women are very careful about keeping tabs on their guy, and they don't share their men. Women find out pretty quickly if their man is cheating. A man doesn't have to cheat to be having sex with multiple girls. Multi-dating (but not exclusive with anyone yet) is common place today, and fwb relationships also exist. A woman that lands a high-value man isn't liable to be willing to share him. Depending on how high value he is she may not have a choice. Whoever is the more scarce commodity sets…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 03:37 AM
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Nah. It's a consequence of societal misandry. Spaces where legal defamation of character is occurring on a daily basis is not considered to be problematic as long as it's directed towards men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 03:36 AM
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I don't think in terms of who benefits or being less/more. I view casual sex as an unfulfilling waste of time. At the very least a woman who's like a 7 or 8+ might get flown out, pampered, have someone buy her stuff, but contrary to what some dudes here say 4/10s are absolute not having sex with celebrities. Like actual celebrities, not some indie singer with 20k followers. But at the end of the day, sex is a lot more meaningful with someone you have an emotional connection with and is a valuabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 03:25 AM
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4/10 is not mid, no duh they aren't sleeping with 9s when 9s can hook up with 5-10. But they can and do receive attention from men well above their level who wouldn't actually date them seriously. Even dating seriously, a woman has to be either reaaally unattractive or really delusional to be unable to find a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 03:19 AM
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Girls effort in dating in the west these days be like showin up expecting a 22oz ribeye at a 4 star restaurant on a burger king budget Fellow kings worthwhile girls are out there in the US, but they arent common. Don't waste your time with the ones who cant even get their weight under control or hold a conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 05:01 PM
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Can't speak for this poster but I think what he's getting at his that these women are unable to discern between sexual market value and value in terms of who they can feasibly date seriously. This feeds into the entitlement and lack of effort that we see from women in the west. Why put effort in with someone who matches your relationship level/value when you inherently think you deserve and can do better?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 12:27 AM
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Keep it civil
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 12:24 AM
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I suspect this is true of a lot of young women. You suspect correctly. However, by the time a lot of them realize this they are now no longer young women. Or even worse, they are now a single mother, which decimates their potential dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 12:22 AM
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I'm biased but I think she's a legit 8/10 dressed up/trying to look nice
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/23 12:13 AM
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Nailed it on the passive part. Just be yourself sort of thing. And i've only done cold approach a few times but i'll say this: nobody has any right to dictate when and where men can and can't approach women. As long as a guy is respectful and leaves when a girl isn't interested, that's all that really matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 11:28 PM
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Changed to CMV because discussion posts must be neutral
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 11:18 PM
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Somehow someone always makes an anti-science comment like this when this topic is brought up. I guess it's because it's easier to write something off as uncontrollable than to accept that it's something that individuals can change. Energy cannot be created nor destroyed. It is calories in calories out. There are a lot of factors that influence that calories out part (genetics, health conditions, medications, activity level ect...) , but barring an uncontrolled systemic condition or extenuating c…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 09:27 PM
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I don't think too highly of myself (6/10, maybe 7 on my best day) but man would it shut a lot of people up if they could see what my girlfriend looked like. But posting pics on reddit if you participate in a sub this controversial? I don't recommend it to anyone with all the deranged bitter women on reddit. Not necessarily on ppd, moreso the ones that are subbed to places like r/twox, fds, people that spend time in inceltear or niceguys ect...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 09:13 PM
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After genetics, body fat percentage affects the way a man’s face looks more than anything else. A 5% change in body fat percentage, as little as 10lbs of fat, can be the difference between having chiseled features that women swoon over or being invisible. Damn is that last 5% to from like ~15-17 to ~10-12 difficult to lose though lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 09:09 PM
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This convo is over. If you have an issue with me you can take it to modmail.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 09:03 PM
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Post quality has nothing to do with the poster on a personal level
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 08:33 PM
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She said the women were concerned about her, and men were concerned about the car. Its a shot at men. The men dgaf about her car. They were just able to rarionalize that her car being fixed is the most logical way to ensure she is safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 07:20 PM
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It's on their friends/family to remind them of the positives in their life. I've come across a few women on apps with pretty severe cerebral palsy. Anyone who wants to date them will have to simultaneously be a secondary caretaker/help them get around in their chair, sex might be a bo-go, a lot of activities are off the table, their life expectancy is decreased ect... realistically, they may not be able to ever find a partner. But if you concede that to people it ends up discouraging people who …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 06:31 PM
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Oh boy a sample size of 86 men in middle of nowhere north dakota. Surely this conclusion is statistically sound enough to represent half the human population. No agenda here. Certainly not. Not in a journal literally titled "Violence and Gender"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 06:07 PM
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Thats an awful message. Relationships with other people are what makes life beautiful. The message they need to hear is that a lot of them are deluding themselves into thinking they are doomed, when in truth if they put effort into self improvement for a few yrs they could be above average, make friends, go on dates ect...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 06:05 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/13pnsk2/accidentally_created_a_social_experiment_when_my/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button Today on femcelxchromomes, woman who's car broke down manages to somehow turn several men stopping to try and help her into "men are trash"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 06:02 PM
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Yeah thats a pretty reddit-wide trend. My husband/wife/bf/gf is doing or not doing X, what should I do? 1st comment is well have you tried....getting off reddit and talking to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 03:39 PM
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Keep it civil
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 03:19 PM
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If it was another ppd user here yes. If it was just some random woman, no. Though the way the term whore was used in this context is a bit different than it usually is to describe a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 03:19 PM
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No personal attacks
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 03:17 PM
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This is not my own concept but from a book called "the subtle art of not giving a fuck" but Mark Manson. For a relationship to really be great you need to be a "fuck yes" about someone and they need to be a "fuck yes" about you; if they really like you it will feel natural, they will make time for you and put in effort. Some men need to have more self respect and not pine over women who are not all that interested/not putting in effort. Don't get complacent. I started typing this before I finish…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 02:59 PM
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You are mistaken, this is not a passport bros support post. I generally don't think it's very practical to start a relationship that may be contingent on the girl having ulterior motives, or to leave your friends/family behind if you intend to just move there instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 02:53 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/13odr2p/visited_brazil_and_tried_online_dating_back_in/ Saw this post on the r/onlinedating sub a few days ago. Some people are pointing that some of these women are likely hanging out with the OP for $$$, but it did make me think about the whole passport bros trend. I never had any interest in going abroad to meet women, but most of the women i've dated who actually put in reciprocal effort, respected my time, made engaging conversation and lacked …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 02:23 PM
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Outliers exist. Your argument is a very poor one. If I told you humans have 10 fingers, and then you countered by finding an example of a person with 11 fingers, would that prove my claim wrong? Bezos has absolute SHIT taste in women. His ex wife is legitimately still beautiful and stood by him from the start, while lauren sanchez looks like pure plastic surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 01:51 PM
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Wow I actually saw that article a while back but didn't know he grabbed her ass. Talk about awful reporting.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 01:40 PM
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Personal advice can go in daily chat
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 04:00 AM
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Yeah I also think it's pretty hilarious the emphasis is on shaming men rather than telling the adult women who chose to consensually participate in them to choose differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:40 AM
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Yes, that part is never going to go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 02:39 AM
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As with all things in life there are exceptions. I prefer to avoid having a defeatist mentality, and really I think the percentage of men that what you are implying applies to is so limited.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:17 AM
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I mean what I described is totally unconstitutional and not remotely realistic. Just thinking about a hypothetical Dunno about other men but for me I met most girls I went out with via OLD, but there were a few I asked out in person. When I go to bars/clubs and other social venues, the girls there are either generally with their friends on a girl's night or with their boyfriend/husband. Trying to cold approach in that environment sounds difficult. So the best option is really to meet women in yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:15 AM
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Unironically I hear quite a few people say they've had more success with fb dating than any other apps. But it doesn't really seem like there are that many people using it as far as I know. Technically speaking it's also monetized, since time on fb dating = fb makes $$ on ads.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:12 AM
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If the ability to monetize dating apps was prohibited tomorrow, dating would instantly get leaps and bounds better. Add an automatic sim card and photo recognition based perma ban on anyone advertising onlyfans (require verification to prevent impersonation) to boot. Max 20 right swipes a day. Obviously, all of this would require someone to make an open source free service for people to use. The apps benefit from people NOT meeting someone, they function to keep people on the app paying for subs…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 01:01 AM
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Yikes. I really doubt this is very uncommon, a 6 can have sex with guys who are 8+ pretty easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 12:57 AM
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Wasting someone's time and feigning interest in them to get food? That's your idea of fun to think about?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 12:55 AM
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Simplest answer I can give as someone who lost his virginity quite late/struggled with girls when I was younger is that society (and we as men as well, individually and collectively) place so much emphasis on sex and success with women that men that struggle believe having sex is some panacea. Women also contribute to this BIG TIME by using virgin/incel (lack of sexual success) as the go-to insult against men. In reality it's not a panacea. You have casual sex and the validation of feeling wante…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 08:07 PM
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That's a pretty good answer
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:54 PM
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Meta analysis of 211 studies. Shouldn't come as a surprise considering androgens are the primary factor driving libido. Non-androgen hormones play a role too of course, but there's a reason why F to M trans men or women who hop on PEDs suddenly experience a crazy jump in libido. And a reason as to why testosterone in low doses is used to treat women with little to no libido. A woman would have to be a nympho to have comparable sex drive to the average man. Edit: Just to be very, very clear becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 04:48 PM
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Women get just as horny as men do. It’s been proven over and over again. Complete and utter non-sense. Do I need to go find the 100+ study meta analysis
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 04:33 PM
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It's not, unfortunately this post chose to focus on sex instead of romantic intimacy. Intimacy is a need, and someone's well being will suffer if they don't experience it. No sex = no romance/intimacy either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 04:32 PM
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Are you really peeved about that or did you just want to post big boobs lmfaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 03:19 PM
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The phrase is not supposed to be genuine advice. It's an appropriate response to people who think they have any idea whatsoever about how dating dynamics/relationships work but are actually clueless due to lack of actual real world experience. And make no mistake, a person with no real world experience has no credibility. That applies to almost any subject matter in life, and the only way to rectify that is to actually get real world experience. Even people who start off with much lower emotiona…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 03:12 PM
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u/mrs_drgree can give you an answer
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 03:00 PM
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Dunno nor do I care to think about it. Life is great and much of what I did spend time looking at/watching contributed to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 01:51 AM
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There's a website I came across when I was a bit younger that offers a lot of really specific advice called goodlookingloser. The creator doesn't outright claim to be RP per-say but there are some rp influences to what he talks about. Some of the advice will have people rolling their eyes, but his blogs about the lonely weekends he used to spend alone and figuring out what he wants in life were really inspirational to me. RP in 2023 is a lot different than RP in ~2017. One of the biggest themes …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 12:41 AM
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I don't watch FnF or really any rp channels anymore, but I see clips on adjacent channels, and if anyone's been following sneako it's been really interesting to see his growth this year. Just a few months ago he was bat shit over the rails crazy end of red pill, and now he's actually arguing against it. Similarly, over the last year i've come to realize most men in the manosphere outside of Myron (though I disagree with him on a lot) have very little in the way of helpful advice, and are just pu…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 11:51 PM
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Keep it civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:45 PM
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Emotional intelligence is usually a pre-requisite to do well with women. STEM guys tend to be a bit more nerdy as well. Which some girls like, but it's more niche than the sort of girls that will be into blue collar guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:44 PM
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No personal attacks
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:20 PM
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Because you said sex comes after exclusivity
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 10:20 PM
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From what i've seen women that say that women no longer need men aren't bowing out of the game. They are still trying to date but they are jaded/have low expectations that they will end up in a good relationship. And I think it's odd for anyone to "bow out of the game" because love/romantic fulfillment is such an important and potentially beautiful part of life. Friends, family, and a romantic partner all fulfill very different roles...there is just nothing that can replace romance. To me it com…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 06:08 PM
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Nothing is guaranteed in life, I don't claim anyone can find their ideal partner, but in the long-term attitudes and mindset are generally things that you can control, barring untreated mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 06:01 PM
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Ally is such an odd term to me. I'm an "ally" to my friends, family, and girlfriend lol I don't view it as insults, I view my description of the women I mentioned as observations. Bitterness and expression of not needing the other gender is a sign of insecurity stemming from personal deficits and inability to lead the type of life you want. Anyone with unhealthy attitudes towards an entire gender who is unfulfilled in their romantic life can change that. It's just a matter of someone looking inw…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 05:52 PM
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Meant to say I don't think women believe they don't need men Even the ones that say it don't really believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 05:31 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/offmychest/comments/13mu0gn/update_my_wife_is_not_the_woman_i_used_to_know/ She more or less admitted it was about salary. She left him because she believes she deserves better lifestyle wise/man who is more successful. "Stagnant" is basically just code word for broke. She asked for divorce. I wasn't expecting that at all. I asked her why, and her reply was that after talking to her friends she understood that I wasn't fit to be her husband, that we have different values…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 05:30 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/offmychest/comments/13mu0gn/update_my_wife_is_not_the_woman_i_used_to_know/ He posted an update. It wasn't about him treating her poorly. She left him because she believes she deserves better lifestyle wise/man who is more successful She asked for divorce. I wasn't expecting that at all. I asked her why, and her reply was that after talking to her friends she understood that I wasn't fit to be her husband, that we have different values and different lifestyles, and that …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 05:29 PM
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Don't take my word for it. You are the one providing anecdotes. The comment I linked to has excerpts taken directly from the research. And the article I posted has direct quotes from the researchers that published the study, owning up to making a mistake. There's really no reason to believe either gender is more likely to leave the other based on illness. That would be contingent on the fact that women are more moral and virtuous than men or vice versa. Which is a laughable premise for reasons I…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 05:12 PM
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This is patently false. Got debunked so hard here the OP ran to twox to cry about it and then deleted her post. The dummy researchers who originally made this claim made a coding error and reported false conclusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 05:10 PM
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It's 2 yrs
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 05:07 PM
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Yes, she had much greater ambitions and is now able to afford a much more lucrative life style. He's capped out at an a salary which wont be attractive to a lot of women. Which is why I said she can probably find a better guy value-wise. I posted this because women on this sub frequently dispute the notion that women hypergamous. But they are. The reason a lot of women who are high earners complain about difficult finding a man, is because their dating pool is so much smaller because they are lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 05:03 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/offmychest/comments/13lu6eh/my_wife_is_not_the_woman_i_used_to_know_she_let/ Update post: https://www.reddit.com/r/offmychest/comments/13mu0gn/update_my_wife_is_not_the_woman_i_used_to_know/ A wife outearning her husband significantly is a risk factor for divorce, so this is unsurprising. Odds are that over time, if the woman is the breadwinner in the marriage, she will become resentful and want a man who earns as much as her or more. This is also why I say that although…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 04:52 PM
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You don't. The situation I described above is still applicable if you are dating 1 person. I'm saying if you find out you aren't sexually compatible earlier you can use the time you would've spent with her, to date someone more compataible.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 04:47 PM
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Ah okay we're on the same page, I misunderstood what you said a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 04:10 PM
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A 10 yr old reddit account with a long post history to match is a LARP? Doesn't seem all that likely to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 04:09 PM
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The cps was called in regards to his step son from his 2nd marriage. CPS immediately dropped the case. When they came again, they found nothing. He can't visit his son because his ex wife got a restraining order and she refuses to answer the phone to let him speak with his son.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 04:07 PM
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gym obsessed girls who compete and cut down to unhealthy fat percentage levels Girls who's lives revolve around exercise and nutrition are unhealthy? You realize they only cut down to extremely low body fat percentage very briefly for the shows? Then spending time hating on korean beauty standards because those women look different? I don't recall any man ever saying "I want a woman who is healthy" when listing his standards anyway. They might say fit, someone who works out, or that they aren't …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 03:14 PM
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She didn't want to have custody to begin with. The issue isn't the 1k a month, the issue is he should've gotten custody and just been his primary guardian. And he is unable to see the son he's supporting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 03:11 PM
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I don't see any evidence of that being true. Pointing out that domestic abuse is bad or that not being able to take care of basic personal things around the house is immature is like saying that the sky is blue, it's not something that needs to said because it's obvious. Fact of the matter is that bad people who do deplorable things, and lazy immature people, will always exist. If either of my siblings were spending time with shitty people my focus would not be on telling those shitty people to …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 03:04 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/13m0hdf/family_court_is_absolutely_stacked_against_men_a/ TL;DR When this man got divorced his ex wife didn't even want to keep their child (nor did she pay a cent in taking care of him) but he still was only able to get 50/50 custody. And now he pays $1k a month in child support and can't even see or talk to his own son. There are women making salaries comparable to fully fledged doctors, just because they had a child with a celebrity. If you ever se…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 02:49 PM
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Wishing you the best of luck man. This is such bullshit.
/r/MensRights20/05/23 02:44 PM
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For that specific guy maybe, I can't get in his head to know if he really just has no intentions of settling down, but what she's complaining about seems more like a trend where she's the common factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 02:12 PM
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Get more emotionally invested in the guy, spend a lot of time with each other leading up to being exclusive -> he breaks up because there is no chemistry sexually. Sounds quite a bit more hurtful for the girl. And i'd rather find out if we're sexually compatible within the first 3-4 dates before spending like 2 months with a girl. You only have so much time, and that time could be better spent with someone you are compatible with. Proper dates with time spent planning fun things to do/places to …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 02:11 PM
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Repeating the same mistake of not falling in love with a guy she spent 1 day with maybe lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:57 PM
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For the sake of clarity she saids weeks to months. What she is looking for, immediate relationship for people in their mid 20s to early 30s, is something that seldom happens in western culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:57 PM
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Bingo. The timeless saying that women are the gatekeepers of sex and men are the gatekeepers of relationships is still correct. Which is also why a girl's true value has more to do with the level of man who will commit to her, not who will have sex with her. Men will have sex with girls who are below their dating seriously/girlfriend material standards looks wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:55 PM
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She fell in love with a guy after spending 1 day with him. The OP is just immature and her expectations of how fast a relationship will form are completely and utterly delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:52 PM
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Says you? No it doesn't. Not in 2023. Plenty of people have sex these before exclusivity is established and end up in a relationship a little while after, that was the case for my girlfriend and I. Fact of the matter is the ~20% of men women are competing for/ideally want to date have options, and women no longer require commitment to have sex, so there's no reason for them to wait. Desirable men wont wait to have sex unless a girl is a virgin (because in that case everything has be taken slower…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:49 PM
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Someone's true intentions always end up coming out if you let them talk enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:14 PM
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I think she did make the right decision, because he dodged a bullet by not dating her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:13 PM
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It is for everyone unless they are an immature 18 year old or in an arranged marriage. You cannot get to know someone in like a week well enough to start a relationship. Like what is she gonna go out with a guy on monday, again on friday, then expect to be in a relationship? She's delusional.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:13 PM
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Dating for 1-2 months before agreeing to be in a relationship is perfectly normal. It takes time to get to know someone. She wants a relationship immediately because she's a lot more immature than the people she's dating who want to see if they're compatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:09 PM
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She said he didn't want to get into a serious relationship "straight away" and wanted to spend time with someone to see if they're "compatible." Sounds perfectly normal to me. Mature well adjusted adults don't simply jump into a relationship after like 2 dates. For context her post history has a thread where she states she fell in love with a guy after a whopping 1 day. Then said he disrespected her boundaries by being friends with her. Go a little further back and theres a comment of her tellin…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 12:59 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/13m4rl3/i_just_started_telling_them_no_thanks/ The garbage that gets upvoted on the biggest joke of a dating subreddit, r/dating. Woman upset that men want to get to know someone for a few weeks or months before being in a committed exclusive relationship. People point out the supposed misogyny on reddit, but reddit admins are so woke that realistically anything that is actually misogynistic gets removed. I think it's time they grow a backbone and start r…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 12:47 PM
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Knew a girl who was fucking her boyfriend several times a week meanwhile he's regularly calling her a whore, telling her to go back to sucking dick, ignoring her messages, dude didnt even pay for her dinner on her birthday. Women supposedly have higher emotional intelligence yet pick guys who treat them like shit and even in some instances physically abuse them. Morality is irrelevant to success with women, and importance of personality is overstated by virtue of the fact that it doesn't even co…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:19 PM
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Why'd you choose the phillipines and vietnam? What was your experience with women like over there compared to where you're originally from presuming it's in the west?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 01:39 PM
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Meh r/dating is a sad pathetic excuse for a subreddit run by snowflake pansies as mods. Nothing lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 11:29 PM
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No and thank god for that. Twox is the female equivalent of an incel sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 11:27 PM
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The "opposite" is the pushback you have from people trying to diminish the role that looks play.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 10:00 PM
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Top level replies must challenge the OP in a CMV thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 09:59 PM
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I used to do that and its quite good validation having 5 hot guys complimenting you and messaging you all the time. I cant see any negatives to dating apps. This is why you see no negatives, you have no clue what the experience is like for men. I met my partner off tinder. Its quite easy to find your person off there. So did I. Had casual sex with hot women I met from there too. Dating apps are still shit for most people, men especially. They artificially inflate women's standards, because women…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 09:58 PM
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If you're on the sub right now, there will not be an AI robot in our lifetimes that will make you feel the same things as holding an actual woman in your arms.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 01:53 PM
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One word: entitlement. Some women feel that simply existing entitles them to a desirable guy with his shit together. Though this question is really suppose to just be for discussion/hypothetical, nobody with an ounce of emotional intelligence actually asks someone on a date "what do you bring to the table?"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/23 01:51 PM
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No personal attacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 11:23 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/13heit9/my_28m_girlfriend_25f_says_that_she_only_does/ AF/BB
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 10:10 PM
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Circular argument "Now I'm ready for an equal partner."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 10:06 PM
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Shes not interested in them because the ones asking her out are low quality
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 09:33 PM
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Ohhh okay mb, gotcha
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 09:32 PM
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Older people are more experienced, established in their career wise, have had ample time to have fun and are generally thinking to look for something more serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 09:32 PM
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Who said anything about mothers? Plenty of couples are childfree these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 08:17 PM
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Her own words: "Now I'm ready for an equal partner." Its common sense. A relationship with a quality man/woman will just enhance your life. "Single by choice" for a woman turning 30 is an oxymoron, if a really great guy was interested in dating her serously she'd date him in a heartbeat. Single by choice for a woman who isnt super young just means the men she wants arent interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 07:51 PM
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Her realization is not that she wont have a boyfriend again. What you are seeing in real time is a woman unable to reconcile with the fact that she is simply unable to get commitment/interest to date seriously from the men she wants to date. This is actually a pretty widespread phenomenon today. Par for the course for women on twox and fds. They are femcel subreddits for women salty that their dating options are low quality men. Guarantee she and any woman posting something similar is also still…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 07:28 PM
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Fair game for someone to legally defame you in front of tens of thousands of women in your area, thats like twox? Riiiight buddy, whatever you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 06:32 PM
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Thats the inherent nature of crimes that occur with no footage or witnesses. You wouldnt be able to call someone a rapist who was acquitted of charges without being liable for defamation, for example. If we reduce the burden of proof for these crimes like some idiotic european countries are trying to do, the number of innocent people wrongfully convicted (which already happens) will absolutely skyrocket. People being able to defend themselves/retort is also crucial. Throw the book at rapists if …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 06:29 PM
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No personal attacks
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 04:58 PM
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No personal attacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 04:56 PM
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The group is supposed to be about safety...if it were purely for men charged with sexual assault or domestic abuse, with legal documentation, it would serve that purpose. Instead it's basically just a place to break the law.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 04:54 PM
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Almost nothing in life is black and white. She doesn't think I'm a bad person, but my reasons for being very sweet and respectful to her/treating her well are my personal values, that's just the way I treat people who are important to me. I think a lot of women legitimately incentivize bad behavior by dating shitty men and sticking around. Having been the cocky indifferent asshole for a bit when I first started having sex, I can say without a doubt that behaving like that will make a guy more su…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 04:51 PM
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Because I have to enforce the sub's rules? lol A post has to be neutral unless it's a CMV thread. And of course women will say morals are important to them, what women say they value vs their actions don't necessarily always match up. That, and a good amount of women on this subreddit are a bit older (strong overlap with datingoverthirty); older women tend to be more mature and place more value on character and stability.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 04:40 PM
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You are talking about sex and discussion is silly. There are literal needs (i.e. food and water) and then other needs that are not required to sustain life but moreso for general well-being and self actualization. Most people would agree that social relationships (i.e. family, friends, an SO ect...) are a need, but you obviously don't need social relationships to survive physiologically. Nobody who considers intimacy a "need" is thinking about it on the level of basic sustenance/believes you qui…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 04:33 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineDating/comments/13hfnt8/another_terrible_experience_courtesy_of_are_we/ Woman has genital herpes, doesn't disclose to the man until right before they have sex (only after he mentions he's been tested/has a convo about sexual health), then lies about him to tens of thousands of women when she's upset he doesn't want to continue things. This one is for all the obnoxious women in this sub who have continuously gaslit everyone into believing these are spaces where defa…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 04:29 PM
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Because he's given her some money for things last year. Doubt it amounts to a full year of rent though...dude's probably just a man child.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 02:43 PM
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Kind respectful and stable IS considered a bad personality by a lot of women, younger ones especially lol Being kind and respectful will get you a lot of "you're a great guy and will make someone happy one day", but if you want a worthwhile girl it's better to find one who can appreciate respect and sweet gestures.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 02:40 PM
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Virtually every state offers no fault divorce, and 17 of them only offer no fault divorce. This means that hypothetically, a woman could cheat, stop contributing to the household, quit her job of she has one...and after all that she can still get half her husband's assets and potentially alimony. Family/divorce is just objectively fucked atm in the US. People who are bad partners should not be entitled to the same percentage of their partner's assets as people who were good partners but it simpl…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 02:26 PM
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I’m seeing an influx in men trying to convince women being tall isn’t an attractive trait. On what planet? lol If anything guys have even more of a fixation with height than girls, which is saying A LOT considering some girls have pretty lofty height requirements
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 02:19 PM
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Two of my gf's friends have boyfriends, one of them refuses to pay rent even though they live together, and the other girl always shows up with bruises because her boyfriend hits her. Odds are they could easily find a decent guy that treats them 100x better, but this sort of thing is pretty common. Like i've always said, morality/how well you treat women is irrelevant to how successful men are with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 02:17 PM
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I literally just removed this for being a leading question. Don't try to circumvent thread removals by reposting a thread later.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 01:41 PM
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The men women want to date straight up wont wait 3 months, unless she is a virgin/hasnt experienced sex yet (because then everything has to be taken slower) And why would they? They have other options who will have sex with them within a few weeks if not sooner. Women asked for the sexual revolution and this is the outcome. Men with options wont wait for sex. Especially if you outright tell a guy you have some dumb femcel 3 month rule straight out of fds. As a guy that doesnt like casual sex the…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 06:11 PM
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Changed to CMV
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 06:08 PM
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This post just illustrates a trend where women want to minimize a 18+ woman's autonomy when it's convenient, and then pretend they didn't when the topic of something like selling naked videos of yourself to strangers on the internet comes up. If you think 18-20 year old girls shouldn't date 25 year old guys, more power to you. Go tell the women who date older men that. They are an adult and they can make their own decisions about who they date, and the character of the men they choose to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 09:16 PM
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Yeah i'd say being able to monetize nude content of yourself is most definitely a marker of being an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 09:15 PM
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Yes. Start ASAP. Start talking to women. You dont have to wait until you've been lifting for 5-8 years and have a fully established career. Most people age like shit. Women fall off quicker because youth is associated with beauty in women, but most people dont age like fine wine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:54 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:39 PM
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I should've clarified but I am in favor of splitting expenses by income, and chores by time respectively. I'm not arguing for "I make more but we work the same hrs but you do more chores" The scenario I am talking about in my initial post is similar income and time but the woman expects a 70/30 expenses split in compensation for pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 09:01 PM
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Chores by time, expenses by income. I should've clarified
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 09:00 PM
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Can you split the cost of being expected to put yourself in harm's way to physically keep your wife safe from harm if necessary?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 08:59 PM
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Trad wives do all the housework and in turn their husband pays all the bills. Its a fair trade off and not what im referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 08:57 PM
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As in like: you make the same income and have the same amount of time for housework, but the women expects expenses to be split 70/30.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 04:36 PM
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Any women that expects compensation for pregnancy/doesnt believe in splitting expenses and chores equally depending on income/time is almost certainly a toxic femcel posting in dating subs for older women, fds, twox ect... Ditto for women that have an irrational dislike of straight cis men, women that post "1 in 4 women have X" stats in convos that have nothing to do with that ect...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 04:29 PM
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For a woman, being in a relationship with a man who is her equal in every way (looks, income, chore division, etc.) is a net negative Really low quality post
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 04:25 PM
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Yes it is an alien concept unfortunately. I dont understand why this even needs to be explained.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 04:18 PM
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I've only seen toxic femcel type women demand compensation for pregnancy. Sane women understand that relationships are 100/100, not 50/50. You allocate expenses and housework based in income and time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 04:14 PM
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Not fight, leave. Seems pretty intuitive to me that a girl staying with her abuser for the rest of her life is more dangerous than leaving.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 03:04 PM
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I get where you're going with the comparison but women in the west (especially women that make up the majority ethnicity) are far too priviledged for that comparison to be accurate. Which is largely why I'm so critical of spaces like menslib. They are setting us back by catering to modern day feminism. Of course, most of that priviledge women have in the west is a positive. Women being able to be independent, get an education, have a career ect... all of that is a positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 02:59 PM
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This is one thing I can't blame women for if it's small (like actually small, not 5 inches lol) Sex is pretty important. I'm just under 6 inches and wouldn't mind being slightly bigger to make certain positions better as it is
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 03:23 AM
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While I was on the self improvement train years ago I stumbled on forums for men to do exercise that can lengthen/add girth. Some of the below avg men size wise said they'd often get rejected for it at some point even if they were good with their mouth/hands. And really I can't blame women for this, because a guy with an avg or bigger dick can also use his mouth/hands well and give her the best of both worlds. The exercises do legitimately work, but they require a lot of time/consistency and iir…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 03:18 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/13bww2h/why_do_women_readily_take_abuse_because_they_are/ Diminishing the concept of personal responsibility for grown ass adults is one of the biggest issues in society today. That isn't to say that an abuse victim is at fault, but they are responsible for whether they stay or leave in the long-term. Leaving an abusive situation/getting the resources can be difficult and take planning, but the conscious decision to stay with someone who puts the…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 03:01 AM
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Keep it civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 02:51 AM
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I mean enjoy whatever subs as you see fit. A lot of people get lumped in with "MRAs", but the MRA subreddit is about as tame as it gets. Women get 1000x more leeway on social media spaces with what they can post. There was a post on twox that got near 10k upvotes up for months essentially advocating for women to shoot cis men. There's a woman on YT who openly admits to aborting male children of her own ethnicity.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 02:49 AM
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There are studies on the matter who compare trans women at different intervals being on HRT with women born as women. But there are also studies (less of them, and they likely were performed with an agenda) that conclude that the advantage isn't significant. Basic common sense says that things that male puberty confers do not entirely go away when you go on hormones. But most convincing, food for thought: the sports debate only started getting traction because trans women in different sports lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 09:31 PM
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Innovation? Lmao I'm pretty pro lgbtq but what the hell do they have to do with beer? People (rightfully) get pissed off when companies that sell products try to peddle their politics and beliefs onto others. It was the same thing when when gilette released that dumbass commercial calling all men predators more or less that nuked their value. And don't think for a second these companies actually care about these sorts of causes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 09:26 PM
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yup. it's a white knight sub for men with no backbone
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 09:23 PM
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Do not troll
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 04:42 PM
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Keep it civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 04:41 PM
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They are on facebook. And from what former mods/women in the groups have said actual doxxing tends to get removed. But irregardless of that, and more importantly, there is legal defamation/slander occurring in these groups. That's why some of them have gotten shut down and why the creator is asking for tens of thousands in donations for legal fees.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 04:38 PM
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I'm not the person to ask. I just know about them because hasan (twitch streamer) mentioned them briefly
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 04:31 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/13ay4ye/i_shared_my_story_on_a_are_we_dating_the_same_man/ Looked into her post history a bit and it appears her ex cheated on her. The way she wrote it you'd have think he kidnapped her, beat her, and stole her life savings. Personally I think it's a good thing for people to know if someone is spreading rumors about them privately. There are two sides to every story and people should get a chance to defend themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 04:23 PM
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It's not just Miami and LA (I can't list all of the cities lol), but the behavior of women on the show is an exaggerated version of the way women are outside of those types of places act. Whereas a dumb 4/10 might want a guy earning 100k a month on FnF, a fairly average looking overweight woman who doesn't live in a big city might want a man with a salary that puts him in the top ~10-15% of earners.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 03:36 AM
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they mention men bit being 6 feet as a disadvantage I mean it very obviously is a disadvantage lol. This is a CMV thread so my top comment has to be things I disagree with. Do I agree with sleeping with 50 women to identify a hoe? Hell no, I think casual sex in general is stupid. But I've never claimed to agree with every redpill opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 02:28 AM
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They don't tell people you have to be 6 ft lol. And raising children is unbelievably expensive now, it makes sense to want to be financially secure if you're going to bring another person into this world and all it's hardships.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 01:19 AM
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Fresh is just a yes man who has sugar daddy type interactions with women. Myron on the other hand has plenty of advice to offer. The things he emphasizes ($$, getting in the gym, accountability, using failures and people bullying you in the past as motivation ect...) make sense and his understanding of the way women behave is fairly accurate for girls in Miami, LA, those sorts of places. It is really difficult to find a good woman, because there aren't many today. Attractive ones? Yeah, there's …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 01:18 AM
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Celebritities can and do DM girls on ig. There are dating apps for famous people, where the girls on there (non famous ones) have to very attractive to get access to. Often celebrities just date each other lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 08:09 PM
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Please unblock u/EulenWatcher and reply to let me know when you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/23 07:33 PM
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People lie, numbers don't: https://lozierinstitute.org/fact-sheet-reasons-for-abortion/ Rape, incest, mother's life in danger make up a very small percentage collectively. Contraception failure rates very from fairly low to almost never depending on the type and can't account for the huge # of abortions. Most abortions are elective, done as a result of being sexually irresponsible/not using protection.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 11:26 PM
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I'll leave this up because I think these definitions are/can be relevant to dating behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 05:49 PM
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Abuse denounced. There you go. Can you proclaim that world hunger is bad? Who sits there spending their team denouncing things that most decent people obviously acknowledge to be wrong. This post is a "touch grass" moment. I don't spend any time feeling guilty about immoral things that other people do nor feeling like I have to come out and say that those things are immoral. And im pro-choice but that video was downright embarrassing...an abortion is not something to celebrated. Getting reproduc…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 07:33 AM
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Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 10:03 PM
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Because the fact that misandry is a lot more prevalent on social media platforms is relevant. If someone told you 2+2=5 would you spend time trying to convince others that they are wrong? It should be pretty obviously referring to women as holes or advocating for cheating is deplorable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 09:45 PM
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How long did it take you to find these 5 comments? Here is a surprise: if you had to r/twoxchromosomes there are thousands of comments/posts every day like this, except towards men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 09:38 PM
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Simps don't necessarily give attention to everyone, often they get hung up on one girl in particular
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 10:31 PM
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Yup. And shitty men would struggle with women. That is very obviously not true in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 10:30 PM
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And a lot of men who are “moral” can be seriously abusive. I don't use the word "abusive" lightly, so as far as i'm concerned those two are mutually exclusive. No dude that beats his wife is moral regardless of honorable his "code" is I don't need to know much about abusive relationships to know people shouldn't tolerate their spouse/SO hitting them, or that abusive men have zero problems whatsoever getting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 10:29 PM
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Why have an opinion on anything? Do you have a source from a peer reviewed scientific journal for everything you say? "Fact of the matter" is an expression, but even if I did have a source, something as abstract and ambiguous as attraction cannot be definitively proven to where it is irrefutable fact with just one or two studies.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 10:14 PM
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If you're looking for a peer reviewed study there are none that I know of proving this. Not that such a study would even get the funding or societal approval to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 09:59 PM
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It's not about "enjoying it", it's about the fact that most women consistently prove that morality is irrelevant when it comes to the men they date. And nobody should need a reddit thread to know that they should leave a partner that is physically abusing them. Now actually leaving/making a plan can be a bit trickier, but the conclusion that "hey this guy hit me he's a huge piece shit and I should leave him" should be pretty easy to arrive at.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 09:56 PM
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No racially charged content
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 08:23 PM
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The fact of the matter is that a lot of women (younger ones in particular) are more attracted to men that feign indifference and sparingly show them attention. You want attention because you don't get as much of it sort of thing. I've said it before but men's success with women has very little correlation with how positively they treat women/morality. Every other day on relationship/dating subs theres a woman on a throwaway asking for advice because her boyfriend hit her or said/did something de…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 08:11 PM
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Buddy when I was 19 I hadn't even held hands with a girl much less had sex with a girl lol. It happens and you have nothing to be ashamed of. I just replied to this guy because he's just fueling rage bait. Don't fall for it, and remember that nobody is owed anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 07:12 PM
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In all honesty, if she was at altogether mature and differentiated, asking for a relationship would not be a problem at all. She'd just reply to take it slower. If you can't understate how off putting and emotionally unintelligent it is to ask a girl "be my girlfriend" after one date I don't know what to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 06:01 PM
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