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SCROTES MADJanedola/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 05:41 PM
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LIES MEN TELLJanedola/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 05:53 PM
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FIELD REPORT Janedola/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 06:47 PM
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DISCUSSIONJanedola/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 09:41 PM
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DISCUSSIONJanedola/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 11:45 PM
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SEEKING ADVICEJanedola/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 05:43 PM
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DISCUSSIONJanedola/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 04:50 PM
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SEEKING ADVICEJanedola/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 12:25 AM
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SEEKING ADVICEJanedola/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 03:08 AM
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DISCUSSIONJanedola/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 09:53 PM
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SEEKING ADVICEJanedola/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 08:37 AM
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DISCUSSIONJanedola/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 09:12 PM
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FDS SUCCESS!Janedola/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 01:36 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYJanedola/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 11:28 AM
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FIELD REPORT Janedola/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 03:02 PM
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LIES MEN TELLJanedola/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 05:41 PM
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DISCUSSIONJanedola/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 10:45 PM
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Sorry, sis, but this ain't it. LVM often play violent games, obviously, but violent games aren't really the root issue. Showing it to kids would be a negative value move, but adults playing gory games is fine. I consider myself well-rounded, and I enjoy those types of games. Also, just to be entirely fair, rape is not a mechanic in any video game outside of weird NVM japanese anime games, you can't rape somebody in Call of Duty or Red Dead. Honestly, since this was like a prime talking point of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 11:07 AM
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I have relatives that have Aspergers, and honestly you're bang-on. From what they've said, Aspergers is basically too much social awareness, like picking up literally every micro-signal somebody sends out. The insensitivity/awkwardness is like a person being hyper-sensitive to sound, and blocking out most of it with earmuffs so it doesn't drive you mad. Basically, my cousin and I had a long talk this christmas about him having it. Honestly, being apathetic and guiltless is just pure LVM, for my …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 11:28 PM
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My brothers and my dad. My little brother (18) moved out at 17, and has kept a steady job. Me and him are quarantined together right now. He says he dislikes people but after some a near-break in happened maybe 2 weeks ago he spent the whole night checking if the other ppl (complete strangers) were okay, helped my elderly neighbors for a bit and so. My other brother is a huge family man. He really can't talk enough good about his wife and his kids. Never heard another person speak ill of him, an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 01:43 AM
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I don't know how somebody can dedicate themself to one thing like that. I had an ex who, despite being a former "hardcore gamer" just played for a few hours a week. Maybe to a musical instrument, or painting, but not something as rigid and defined as a video game
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 02:51 PM
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I don't understand how. My folks are unfortunately on vacation so me and my little brother are basically holed up at my place. I'm taking the time to read a bunch and afaik my brother forgot his phone and is practicing his guitar like 10h a day. It's actually pretty nice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 02:47 PM
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I asked my brothers about this, having wondered the same thing. According to them, it's a comfort thing, since that area is warm. Completely non-sexual and according to them, there's usually underwear in between. Don't ask me why, but I honestly don't judge it as LV, provided they watch their hands
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 12:33 PM
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I agree. It's not her responsibility at all. But it's kinda disgusting seeing people in this thread joking that it's "natural selection" if he starves, having seen my little brother almost killing himself because of eating disorders
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 03:18 PM
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Late to the party, but this just sounds like an eating disorder to me. Specifically since my brother has struggled with bulimia and has almost exactly these measurements. It's not her responsibility or whatever, but a lot of ED sufferers hide this stuff. My brother did until he became visibly unhealthy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 03:14 PM
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Maybe he shouldn't be dating if he had all that charity stuff
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 09:03 PM
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Yeah my friend has impulse control issues, she does that. But yeah - like where does he get off posting those stories where she could find them? Like apparently it was really tacky shit too, like them playing with their food or some "funny" thing she did
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 08:00 PM
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3 or 4 times? It was over like 3 weeks so it shouldn't be that big a deal?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 04:11 PM
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Yeah. Height is one of the few ways I'd say men DO get oppressed, since they statistically get paid less, are less likely to be management level if they are short and are more likely to get bullied/treated poorly. The dating part is unfair but I can't count dating as oppression. Honestly, it's tough, because they have legitimate reasons to be unhappy/angry, but the common male solution is to externalize it and become colossal tools. A sad thing, really
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 06:23 PM
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Yeah. One of the few HVM I know is my brother. He dropped out halfway through HS, worked his ass off and had his own place and a steady job at 17. But most men aren't like that, and none of my brothers are exactly "normal" guys in any sense
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 06:21 PM
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This sounds like something my dad said to my brother after he was sexually assaulted and started slipping mentally. I'm glad there are some men out there who look out for people, even if they are terrifyingly few.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 06:18 PM
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I agree. Honestly, height requirements have always struck me as really dumb, it's kinda like not liking someone for cellulite or because their nose has a freckle. Like, everybody is within their rights for preferences but height and some other things are just dumb to me. That being said, a lot of short guys get unnecessary shit, and end up doing what men do and become toxic. They basically start out with a minus and work it into a bigger one by being assholes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 06:06 PM
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Why didn't you just block him though? Why did you waste both his and your time?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 01:52 PM
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Honestly, I'm severely uncomfortable about having a stranger bringing me drinks. Like the first thing my dad told me and my brothers when we were approaching drinking age was to never let anybody get you a drink, nor leave yours unattended
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 09:11 PM
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Look, we aren't all gonna agree on stuff. I'm probably on the milder edge of FDS, and some of the more extreme things I've read, like using guys for money/gifts/whatever, talking about genetics and willfully wasting men's time just because, that stuff disgusts me, but all of FDS isn't like that all. Far from it. They take the genuinely disgusting exploitative 1% and lump the other 99% of us, who just want to weed out the shit and find decent men with them, like that in any way is comparable to a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 07:06 PM
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u/keycommunication8
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 02:09 PM
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I know right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 02:07 PM
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Yeah, that's what happens lmao. The guys with good jawlines keep 'em showing from my experience
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 09:38 PM
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Damn, good work compiling this! Sadly though, it's not for me. It's way too poppy and too few guitars, if only I could enjoy the message and the music sigh Still, good work everyone!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 09:37 PM
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Wait, hate to be a buzzkill but shouldn't the guy see the text history still and put 2 and 2 together? Then again, with some men lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 04:11 PM
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Leave his ass. He's obviously going through emotional shit that's spilling over to you. That is not okay for anyone that's not even exclusive. He has every right not to want a relationship, but he let it get this far and acted like a dick about it. Go look elsewhere. One sidenote though, this part I cannot STAND getting rejected sexually honestly concerned me a bit. Not trying to be mean or anything, but that honestly sounds like sexual entitlement, which is harmful in the long term. Not trying …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 04:09 PM
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It's a complicated situation. He's not owed your attraction, and gaining 20lbs fast could indicate other issues, but honestly, I've seen several posts (rightfully IMO) calling out men for dumping women after weight gain. It's a tough situation, you best look inside yourself, and talk openly with him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 04:03 PM
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Also... Onision with movie star good looks? Maybe when he was starting out, but have you seen him the last few years? Greasy as fuck with nasty skin. He ain't cute. Girl, he was never cute! At best he looked like a diseased Shane Dawson, now he's some homeless-looking pizza face with a neanderthal brow desperately trying to escape his face
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 11:43 PM
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They should honestly invest more wisely. If they don't wanna be let down, invest in women that won't let them down. They choose who they ask out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 11:38 PM
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I don't get male logic. If they are gonna view it as an investment, why not invest more wisely then? I won't lie, some women are terrible "investments", but nobody is forcing these men to go after them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 11:36 PM
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I think it's upbringing. I have 2 brothers, one a bit older than me, and one that's a little younger. Going to school with them as a kid made me realize being a little boy is brutal. School-aged boys have some of the most unforgiving social hierarchies, and they are almost entirely based on violence, sports and dominance. Boys reinforce each other with displays of aggression. "Beating someone up" seems to be a social promotion of sorts, and this continues into teenhood, where beating up each oth…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 09:31 PM
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Because they view it as a waste of money, I believe. I think their mode of thinking is "why waste my money on a woman if things might not go as I want/sex". That's what I could scrape together at least. They view it as an investment that "fails" "too often", so they don't do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 09:23 PM
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I think it depends on the person. My best friend is a guy that was short, chubby, had marks in his face and had ill-fitting hair for most of his teens. I moved away for about 2 years for another school, and he did a complete 180. Best looking guy in most scenarios. But the ugly duckling mentality is left. I don't think he was resentful to begin with, but he still can't fathom women finding him attractive, so he's awkward as hell. At least he's not a redpill type asshole
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 12:25 AM
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Who the fuck asks someone to "prove" themselves in a dating scenario? What kind of sociopath shit is that to do to a person. If you're not into a person, no amount of "proving" themselves is gonna change that and don't act like it doesn't. This stuff is organic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 12:20 AM
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I'd say the telltale sign of actual wealth is not bragging about it. I've met fuckboys trying to impress with their daddy-bought cars, their fancy toys and their salaries. They all have loans or are in debt. Interestingly, the only guy that was legitimately wealthy never showed it. He just had a bunch of expensive music stuff that he just didn't find brag-worthy. It's a wonder how little a male WITH money shows off compared to a male without
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 12:19 AM
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Yeah, the last way is probably the most straightforwrad, I'll start with that! Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 03:28 PM
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Of course! You can never be too sure. But I'd say from what I've seen it looks a lot more promising than with most guys. He was completely calm, even with a drunk/drugged-up guy trying to hit him in the stomach, no macho rage bullshit, or running away from the situation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 04:31 PM
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Yeah! I'm honestly shocked, since all but like 4 of the guys i've dated have been scumbags. He just stood there looking the big drunk guy in the eyes when he was starting to get physical with him. Never seen a guy do that, it's either impotent rage mode or running off to save his own ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 04:28 PM
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I consistently put off meeting himself until he proved himself, and had our first meeting be around my (drunk) friends to see if he could actually behave around someone he isn't interested in. Basic social skills test
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 04:26 PM
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I've always taken cats as a way to reveal a guy's true nature. Cats generally hate lazy low value people and those who violate boundaries. It's honestly jarring seeing the guy I'm dating being the "Cat Whisperer" or something, like cats actively love the guy, when most of my (shitty-ass) exes scared them away by walking in the room lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 02:57 AM
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I don't to be honest. I don't have a vindictive bone in my body. But you ladies do you :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 02:08 AM
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If he's a good partner, then I don't honestly see the problem. I wouldn't blame you for dumping his ass. But, autism does carry a huge negative stigma. A "normal" guy like the guy you're describing is by many people lumped in with all kinds of bizarre people, or with severely autistic people. Having family members with autism, I know navigating this stuff is incredibly difficult, especially with their challenges. For many autistic people, the label carries a lot of shame and self-hate, even if t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 02:06 AM
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Anal sex is just bullshit. I'm not even sure guys like it. I had a guy friend admit to me that he only tried it because the societal pressure, that the stuff makes him sick after that. Who the fuck invented this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 02:00 AM
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I agree. All the mindgames and "make him wait/make him pay" like it's a financial matter honestly makes me feel disgusting inside. But that's the world men made
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 01:58 AM
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That's just shitty
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 01:55 AM
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Oh yeah, I'm definitely not saying that you should ignore your pregnant partner. Fuck any guy like this that does that. I mean specifically I would wager a fair amount of guys would have an issue with PIV sex after a certain point? Guys don't know that much about female anatomy + there really is the matter of a super vulnerable child growing inside
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 06:23 PM
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I don't even get why they hone in on the 6'5 number? Most women I know that like taller guys mean 5'10-to-6' and above? I'd be very hard pressed to find someone who demands an unrealistic height like 6'5 minimum, and even then, why get offended scrotelets?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 06:19 PM
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I didn't say it was about being attractive. I would wager a lot of men feel uncomfortable having sex with someone that far into pregnancy, just because of the child inside. I have no way of knowing this, outside of being a bi woman that would probably be turned off by a pregnant woman after a certain point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 06:12 PM
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I think it is. Just because of the general "vulnerable child inside" aspect. I'd honestly be more concerned if the guy was all for fucking while my body was aching and carrying an infant inside
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 06:09 PM
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I HATE this fake it till you make it shit. It's just gonna build everything on lies. We don't let men get away with being "athletic" once, in gym class 13 years ago, so fuck this fake ass shit too. Nobody should have to lie to find a decent human being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 03:38 PM
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So fucking sad. I get that it's gonna be a no-go for a lot of guys, especially when she's 2/3rds in, and that's a bullet some of us are gonna have to bite if we get pregnant, but fuck it, he's just cheating. It's not even sinking to porn, it's sinking to looking up girls that are in your area, that he's probably gonna try
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 03:33 PM
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People are dumb. Basically, some of us go a bit too far into just being unnecessarily shitty to men, so the "masculinists" apply this to all of us, and make it a misandrist conspiracy lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 07:01 PM
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Yeah, I wanna know that too. I'm pretty anti-marriage for myself until it's guaranteed that nobody gets screwed over in divorces.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 08:00 PM
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No, she was a shrewd businesswoman who helped BUILD Amazon. That's why she deserves that money, Gonna be unpopular, but she wouldn't have deserved or gotten that money if she wasn't such a badass. But, she's IMO like 50% of their success, hence she deserves all that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 07:59 PM
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Doubt it. Maybe he is, but it's probably not related to this. My friend talked to one of his childhood friends, and apparently he was always kinda detached from stuff and people
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 10:11 PM
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He really does. Honestly, the way he treats her is admirable AF. Taking her out to nice places, going on adventures and stuff. The problem is that he obviously doesn't care outside of making her feel nice. I've never heard a man say he "hates fancy restaurants", or look dead inside at the prospect of an amusement park ride. Seems like the kind of person that would welcome dropping dead randomly, which isn't healthy for my girl friend over here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 10:08 PM
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In her words, it's because she "knows he cares", which I don't doubt, actually. The guy spends like any decent HWM would, only he finds doing it miserable, and cares zero about himself. She thinks that since he cares for her, all is good, despite the fact that he quite clearly has no real joy about anything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 10:07 PM
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She likes it, but she's more concerned about his well-being at this point. I'm a bit concerned too. Being a selfless man is the perfect scenario, but part of it is him being happy too. Seems like he goes out of his way to make her happy, and would care less if a meteor randomly crushed him to death. It's not healthy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 10:05 PM
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From talking to the dude, he's very intelligent. He just really doesn't give a fuck. It's kinda sad. He has a supportive gf, good friends, and as I said, he's sharp, but I get the impression that he wouldn't step away if a bus was about to hit him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 10:03 PM
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Yeah maybe. It's sad. She's sad. He's miserable, and is trying to make her happy to cover up the fact that he seems miserable (I've met the guy, he barely speaks, jokes about killing himself, and lives like he hates himself, if my friend isn't there)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 06:44 PM
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I doubt sociopath. As I said, he treats my friend really nicely, for no real immediate reward, despite pretty obviously loathing fancy restaurants and going outside. He's not been manipulative or anything like that, he's from my view just severely depressed. It's honestly admirable that he treats her to all that stuff, but I want them to break up since it's clear he'd rather blow his brains out than eat at a nice restaurant, if it doesn't make her happy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 06:42 PM
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It's sad. I try telling her that, but she's kinda stuck on him. No matter the fact that nothing in the world makes him happy, and that he just goes through the motions all the time, she's convinced somehow, that he's madly in love with her too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 06:38 PM
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That's the problem I think. She has feelings. He reinforces them by taking her out, treating her kindly and being generous. But they both have to live with the fact that he finds no joy in any of the high value dating stuff. She told me he only takes her out because she likes nice dates, and loathes fancy restaurants, or treating himself in any way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 06:35 PM
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Maybe you're right. The way she describes him, he's super selfless and generous to her, typical HVM generosity. BUT he finds absolutely no joy in doing that stuff. He does it to make her happy, and according to her finds nothing gratifying in taking her out. Or going to work, or seeing friends, or family. According to her, he's the kindest guy on earth, because he cares so fucking little about himself, his money, or anything in the world, and it breaks my heart for both of them, really.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 06:32 PM
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Also, planning to read the responses to my friend, so maybe I'll get her to comment something too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 04:53 PM
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I always had a theory that attractive men care less about appearance then ugly guys, maybe because a "perfect 10" holds less novelty for someone who gets that amount of attention. Like, I have a friend who gets girls wanting to celebrate stuff like christmas or their birthdays with him after meeting him once, yet he chose to date a girl "below" him. Honestly, it was just pathetic seeing neckbeards tell him his girl was "ugly" because her teeth weren't perfect, while they stewed in old clothes an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 02:50 PM
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Anybody that's truly happy doesn't need to go around saying they're happy constantly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 02:54 PM
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honestly, just sounds like little Ricky is upset that his dad was one of the 20th century's most important historical figures, and he can't find a way to bank off that, or do anything better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 12:36 PM
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I don't get their ass-backwards logic. The male equivalent of getting raped is... getting raped. Why the fuck would you dilute the meaning of a meaningless, horrible crime? It's like these men are so thick they don't realize that divorce isn't their version of rape, a man or woman forcefully having sex with them is their version of rape. Talk about MRA's shooting their cause in the foot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 12:34 PM
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Feels kinda like that. Obviously, I wouldn't wanna pay for someone I broke up with, but if we're talking about alimony, it's mostly just a livable wage for a woman who gave her life to these unwashed asses. Gotta disagree with you about Frusciante though, sis. 50k is way above necessary for alimony IMO, his ex wife is already a talented musician with a decent career, even if he no doubt can afford it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 12:31 PM
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Yeah! Rape is rape! How is a shitty situation in anyway comparable to sexual assault, unless it ACTUALLY IS sexual assault? It's men that talk like this that ruin the impact behind words. Like, they wouldn't believe my brother actually got abused by a classmate, but boy, that test sure "raped" them. Fuck teenage boys
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 12:29 PM
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i love his solo music. The whole man is honestly fascinating. Also, word of advice, look up pictures of him aged about 20, and get back to me 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 12:28 PM
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Oh, i know he can afford it. I'm just saying it's a specific example of someone getting screwed over. I was under the impression that alimony was to give your ex a livable situation, 50k+ a month is miles above just livable, both of them are professional musicians. I just honestly don't feel it's anyone's responsibility to keep someone upper class Good job at the math stuff sis, I suck at that stuff
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 12:26 PM
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Yeah. It's disgusting how people diminish a very specific crime by applying it to whatever they don't like. I get saying something kicked your ass, but how and why the fuck did whatever you're talking about "rape" you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 12:22 PM
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Same with "I hate other people". Like, we all hate other people, but do you really have to verbalize that shit? It's red flags from a mile away if you have to verbalize something so common
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 09:31 PM
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Why though? I've known enough guys to know the hell that is getting nice abs. It's proper dieting, cardio, focused workouts, full-body workouts, a whole bunch of shit. Most guys don't even see results until like 4 months in. Who would be dumb enough to throw that away??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 09:44 PM
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I fucking hate the "positive vibes only" shit. Sure didn't help my brother cope after a classmate raped him. Or me when my teachers told me to "lighten up" after a goddamn suicide attempt. Life isn't all sunshine and positivity. We aren't living in an Instagram collage made for guys to jerk off to
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 06:58 PM
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Off-topic, but that's fucking weird? I know guys are dumb, but I don't think they'd give up abs that easy. That stuff takes months to get, even if you're thin as a rail Source: family are fitness freaks and I'm trying to get abs like the rest of them lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 06:29 PM
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I get that. But I think it's kinda off to instead invest in something where there's gonna be a bunch of money and lawyers if things go bad. Plus my family is all about weddings, I loathe even going to them, and if I would get married, there would be literal years of crap ahead, since my mom is a strong believer in "fairytale weddings"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 05:49 PM
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I don't wanna spend my life with a guy that won't. If he wouldn't do it without a ring, why should I have the legal system force it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 05:48 PM
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That does sound nice, but I doubt anyone can measure up to my standards for marrying. I'd marry myself if I could tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 05:46 PM
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I'm not having any kids. In all honesty, I'd rather be a "spinster" than getting married and then dealing with legal shit if I get divorced. That's why it's one of the only things I DON'T hold moids accountable for
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 05:45 PM
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Oh, I'm not gonna sacrifice anything. No career changes, no moving without both of us being 110%, no kids, nothing. I want to be as completely self sustaining as I am now, as a single woman, but in a healthy ltr. I don't want to give myself to a wedding, whatever that would entail. I get that a lot of people do, but it's been bothering me, seeing the posts about "get married in X amount of years, or it's over" you know? I don't wanna get married, I look for very similar personality traits in a p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 11:43 AM
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Look, I appreciate legal protection, but I'm not spending thousands on a wedding, nor divorce lawyers. I think there's been a backlash against marriage from both men and women. Both have the chance to get screwed over To me it's just an expensive and archaic tradition from when men bought and sold women as property. I sound like a hippie but I don't need a piece of paper if I find the right HVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 09:15 AM
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I'm young, so don't want kids. Don't think I ever do really. I just don't see why I need an expensive document that does nothing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 09:11 AM
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He was one of the only ones to genuinely support me when I was assaulted 2 years ago. Like actually support, not just platitudes. He's not exactly normal, he doesn't follow decorum like other people
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 10:03 PM
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Well, he's bi, but exclusively dates men. It probably is difficult for him. He doesn't date casually like a lot of gay men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 07:59 PM
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Yeah a few of mine do too. Some don't care enough to comment. Some think it's dumb. These are fine, but he just stepped a few levels up from all that. Hilarious shit. Scrotes b mad. If he weren't a great guy outside of this I would've cut the friendship tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 07:58 PM
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Basically, he saw the stuff about ignoring/testing partners as manipulation lol The part that stuck out for me the most is when he asked what value we were providing, since he caught on about the HWV/HVM thing. fucking HILARIOUS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 07:56 PM
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Yeah, kinda dilutes the meaning of a very serious disorder. Not everyone is BPD, it's a serious disorder way past "acting like a shitty person sometimes"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 07:54 PM
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Basically, he saw posts about blocking/ghosting and thought bpd lol. He said we're hypocrites because we hate when guys block, but supposedly encourage doing it ourselves lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 07:53 PM
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Definitely!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 01:42 AM
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Yeah, honestly it just seems like it wasn't of interest to him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 01:40 AM
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Alright then! Honestly seems like a nice dude, only guy I know that can keep a stable friendship with a woman lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 01:38 AM
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Honestly, I buy the late bloomer part. I stalked out his FB profile. Mans went from chubby little kid to a tall fitness nut in about a year lol Honestly, he doesn't seem all that interested in porn. He told me about a friend of his that constantly tried showing him super nasty shit and said he kinda lost the taste before gaining it hahah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 01:35 AM
2

love this advice! So glad my big bro taught me this, saved me so much bullshit emotional labor
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 07:43 PM
9

i mean, it must suck, I sorta sympathise with them, since it's such a big part of their appearance, but why go in disgrace? Fuck, a lousy wig is better than a cueball with some leftover cat hairs stuck on. Start planning early for this, look at your family members hair, do whatever. 99% of guys don't have full, great hair even as kids, so it's gonna happen. Or get a transplant or cure it or whatever. Just don't leave the rotting corpse of your hairline stay on?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 12:24 PM
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ALSO, try being active! This is honestly for EVERYONE, since most people I know slip up, even me. You don't need a gym membership, but at least get some exercise. Run when you need something in another room. Walk to that place you're going instead of driving. Try helping out lifting shit at work when needed. The everyday excercise really does wonders. For those that already DO excercise, don't go overboard? I like muscles as much as anyone else, and I've been dying to get my lady-abs on, but dam…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 12:20 PM
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TAKE CARE OF YOUR HAIR! There's like 1 guy with naturally amazing, thick hair for every 1000 of you who bald as a fetus, so try to be like that 1 guy, even if it's not natural! Cool it with the manscaping. Pubes? Sure! Ass? Sure! But don't go around trimming arm hairs and shit, unless it's long enough to curl. Chest hair is great, as long as you can physically see a human body through it imo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 12:14 PM
24

my ex played bass and had these rock-hard callouses on his fingertips. Worked out so he had them on his hands too. Word of advice for those who like nice hands, date a bassist. All they do is practice with their fingers + it's probably the least egocentric type of musician there is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 12:08 PM
6

sorry. I'm honestly not always the best at reading this stuff over the internet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 01:49 AM
7

Probably, yeah. I'll share some of my experiences here Knew this fat, unshaven slob that consistently preached that guys couldn't be friends with "females", eventually refused to associate with them This one guy was CONVINCED that only male models got girls, did not have an answer for why the human race weren't all models by this point One fat neckbeard my bff worked with refused to do anything but the absolute minimum because the bosses were women. No. Joke. -_- One guy wanted gvmnt mandated pr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 01:44 AM
1

Is short height that big of a deal to guys?? Maybe I'm inexperienced here, but the only "big" size difference I've seen was between my 6foot best friend and a 5'1 girl, and that was never an issue. Obsessing over it just seems like another loli pedo creep excuse, prolly some 5'5er doing it too lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 01:38 AM
2

These things take time. Every human being experiences this, and there isn't any set time limit, or "acceptable" frame for this stuff. i get over this kinda stuff fast, my older brother spent half a year depressed after he and his ex split. You're human, just take steps to make YOURSELF feel good
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 01:34 AM
5

Was 17, so not that long ago, but this 6'3 piece of string thought it convenient to pick me up in his shitty car, proceed to rattle his shitty bass system and wanted me to pay half of the gas money. Oh, and he wore a tank top and his shoulders had these 4-inch tendrils of hair, ew
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 01:31 AM
15

That's kinda abusive tho?? I'm not trying to defend the shitty-ass mug, but that comment really reminded me of some angry dude smashing dishes or something. No offense
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 01:27 AM
1

Because I don't want sword fighting and spelunking. I love hearing him talk about that stuff, but caves are from experience creepy, and he's shown me some scars from bad protective gear. Not for me sister
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 09:41 PM
1

He includes me in the safer ones. He loves music more than anything in the world, so he¨'s brought me along to music stuff, shown me the guitars he's build and whatnot. Nothing about the more dangerous adventures, but I told him that I would keep away from those
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 09:40 PM
1

He's invited me along to music stores, making music being his greatest love in life, though I'm not super keen on the "adventure" part, since that has apparently involved diving off bridges, cave exploration and medieval sword fighting, yeuchh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 09:39 PM
1

It depends on what you define as adventures. I've gone with him to music stores, had dinners with him and gone and done some christmassy shit. I told him up front that I REFUSE the more active adventures, mostly since those involve a lot of physical effort
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 09:37 PM
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Well, we just started talking a month ago. We've gone on dinners, and he took me along to a music store to help me pick out a cheap guitar (he builds his own). He meets a lot of women, and yeah, a lot of them seem to want him alone, but honestly, he ignores their advances, or doesn¨t even catch them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 06:35 PM
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Honestly, it's probably the whiplash of meeting a guy that actually has shit going on. Most guys in my area jack off and eat bacon as a "lifestyle", and here's this guy that's got twice as much going on as me. I guess it is a bit of insecurity on my end
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 06:31 PM
9

It's the flighty part I'm worried about. He's so careless, he's ALWAYS got a backup plan. But honestly, I'd rather take him than some scrote that barely leaves his house. From what I know, he's not averse to staying home all day either. I honestly think I have stockholm syndrome from lazy scum, and this guy's just very different. It's just kinda bizarro to see a guy that's got a full life outside of dating, you know?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 06:29 PM
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Probably yeah. I am so used to low value dudes who think bacon and jacking off counts as hobbies. It's kinda sad that I as a HVW feel intimidated by a man. I love playing music, but how can I face up against a guy that learned how to play upright bass when we visited a music store for 40 minutes? But, yes, it's probably just that I'm THAT new to guys who have things going on in their lives. Most really, honestly don't
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 06:26 PM
4

Its a weird dichotomy for me. I want the confirmation that he's interested, but I've got this big independent streak, I'm almost obsessively independent and having someone else pay for me kinda feels degrading. It's really dumb, I know, and i'm trying to get over it on here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 05:43 PM
3

I feel kinda... childlike? Like I work hard, I get good money and I feel kinda infantilized by having someone pay for me. I know, it's dumb
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 05:39 PM
2

Chris Hansen, THE Chris Hansen is on his ass. He's interviewed his most prominent victims, and is in contact with the FBI
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 05:38 PM
2

r/GenderCritical
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 01:54 AM
2

It's honestly kinda weird for me. I make a lot of money. I love it when a guy does the right thing, but honestly, getting my shit paid for makes me feel a bit like a child. it's like this conflict
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 12:21 AM
1

I have, actually, but not romantically. My best friend is a guy who only texts people once in a blue moon. He's just super introverted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 11:33 PM
6

Fuck it, I'm gonna say it. Average means fucking skinny. The average weight for men was consistently around 150-160 until the 1960s. Body fat is okay, but the average male body doesn't have a gut hanging out, nor breasts that can compete with mine. Just like my body's natural state isn't to have multiple chins.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 11:32 PM
5

It's kinda sad. I get hating someone who cheated on you, nobody can take that away from you, gonna defend him here and say "fuck her". But FFS, it's been THREE YEARS. IT'S NOT HEALTHY! He's basically torturing himself instead of taking this as a chance to mature like an adult
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 11:29 PM
2

The guy in the video is Onision, aged 26 in this clip. The woman is his ex Shiloh, age 17 here, who he abused verbally and sexually to the point that she suffered a nervous collapse. He also refused to care for her when she misscarried and forcefully shaved her head and defeminized her. He has lately been exposed from grooming upwards of 10 girls starting as young as 13, and emotionally wrecking several of them. He's responded to all this by deleting his site (which was suspected of distributing…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 11:27 PM
2

Basically, he was a relic of "random" 2009 internet humor, the kind that resonated with young girls. He's finally been stripped of monetization, his Patreon got banned last week and he responded by pouring liquor over himself and shrieking like a child. This man is 34, accused of grooming, distributing child porn, and unfortunately the father of 2 young kids
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 11:24 PM
6

Honestly, she's better than OK! She's a beast! This fucking guy tore down her career and she built a new one FROM THE GROUND UP. Absolute badass!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 11:22 PM
1

Disgusting. I've kept tabs on this fuck, and even posted about him on GC. He's honestly subhuman. I don't wish harm on a lot of people, but this guy deserves it, since he's too thick to even realize the severity of what he has done. Fuck him to hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 11:21 PM
6

really, there's zero fucking excuse for that. My little brother learned basic cooking while dealing with literal suicidal depression. It takes like 5 seconds to put something in the oven, activate a timer and eat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 11:18 PM
1

Honestly, a nice girth is preferrable, for the guy too I believe. Too long means ramming the cervix to hell, like the OP said, and I've known guys that had to maneuver their dicks to even sit comfortably on a toilet seat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 03:08 PM
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Honestly, why do dudes even act like height is a personality trait in the first place. I've found it super rare to find another woman genuinely hung up on height outside of wanting someone taller, which for most dudes isn't even hard
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 03:06 PM
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It definitely is above average, except in the netherlands, but not freakishly tall. It's basically the equivalent of a 5'8 woman, in that "tall, but not noticeably tall way". But who knows what the future holds, the standard male height a hundred years ago was like 5'6 and Napoleon was above average lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 03:04 PM
5

Yeah maybe, how else would a kid that is a well known dropout be several CLASSES richer than every single one of his peers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 10:29 PM
2

Yeah... It's kinda off for a guy my age to be throwing around thousands between different accounts, especially when it's basically expected that people our age are broke and probably live at home still. Hell, he refuses to name the company he even works for, and brags about not doing any work because "his bosses love him"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 10:10 PM
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Yeah. And these are the ones he ignored. I have friends who knew him before my friend came along, and he was apparently the single most picky guy they had ever seen, like different tastes in music was a dealbreaker to the guy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 10:08 PM
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It's really fucking weird tbh. The guy basically divorced his parents and moved on his own a few weeks after becoming a legal adult, he does work a day job, but from what he himself has said, he basically just takes naps and does like an hour of work a day. He's apparently gotten 4 raises the past year or so?! My friend caught a glimpse of his bank stuff on his phone, and he was sending people thousands, with no information
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 10:07 PM
3

Honestly, high T can be such a double edged sword. I've met fat, "muscular" douchebags that scream about testosterone, yet the only guy I can certifiably say has it is my friend, and even then, he's just super quiet, does his own thing and only mentioned it once or twice. What I'm getting at is that I think ACTUAL high T is measured both by physicality, and how they react to the world. Any fat sack with some muscle can say that they're manly, but their brains obviously can't handle/or are even u…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 07:53 PM
0

How can you NOT love animals? One of the only decent guys I ever knew was one that had a sidegig at one of those doggy daycares. Too bad he never gave a shit about asking me out -_-
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 07:49 PM
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Yeah, not traditionally, you're right. I mean comparatively, since he objectively had things going for him that a lot of dudes never even get. I'm aware of this, she was not. Honestly, I think he was using the fact that he was doing so good to be a shitty person
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 07:12 PM
4

Damn, that sucks, having to immigrate to find decent men. I find the height thing pretty dumb personally, but it sucks when there's NOBODY attractive around
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 09:26 PM
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No, pretty sure he's straight. I do think he has aspergers or something. Basically, he gets what the gymbros want - women checking him out, but he either seems unaware or uncomfortable with the attention. It's honestly sad, none of the "gymrats" seem to talk to him, but he's always been friendly afaik. FFS, he even resets the weights, whereas most moidrats don't even seem to wipe their ass before using machines. Honestly, if I didn't get the feeling he would crawl into a shell or something, I'd …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 06:19 PM
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YES! All of the guys at my gym are sweaty, hairy and usually bald or with a greasy ponytail. Except this male model looking dude, who's more a gymnast than a gymrat. Seems super friendly, but is coincidentally completely uninterested in women - _ -
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 11:34 AM
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I don't know much about steroids, but he doesn't strike me as a guy that uses them. He's more "attractively" fit than the gross bodybuilder shit men think women love
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 04:16 PM
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Sure? Any input on the post?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 11:10 PM
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To clarify, I am not interested in him personally. I just find it weird that this guy, who fits the stereotype of a Chad (deep voice, works out, financially well-off, what have you) seems to have zero interest in dating or sex or anything like that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 10:48 PM
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