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MRP what's this? OOTL
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/19 01:33 PM
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This ^ The folks above obvs have not read the read TRP or you'd see the innumerable stories of men being converted to TRP from UNFAITHFUL women. Many are for the most part NOT anti-commitment until after they have provided commitment and been betrayed. As I identify it, it seems more an act of "if you can't beat them join them" rather than a desire to 'pump & dump' To expound further: It's seems to me to be a natural and expected reaction to the implemented societal institutions. If women will b…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/19 01:07 PM
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You deleted your post could you let me know what they were? I don't need them I do pretty well I'm just curious what kind of frame and mentality you were conveying and I like to analyze other people style.
/r/seduction29/04/19 05:58 AM
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Dude deleted these, I was curious what they were. Do you remember what they were?
/r/seduction29/04/19 05:57 AM
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I don't disagree with most of this, but I don't agree with these statements enough to say that dating in your 20's is harder. It's all about what you know... I'd say at 24 I knew more about women and relationships that most men I meet in their 50s now... Most men are so clueless it's quite literally disgusting. I would actually say it's harder for me personally to date in my 30s because I get the 'how old are you' shit test more often and b/c... fed up with women’s bullshit I'm kinda not focused…
/r/seduction20/02/19 07:15 AM
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did you watch the video?
/r/seduction20/02/19 07:09 AM
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How old are you? Cause I recently entered my 30s and I'm not confident you know what you are talking about based on my own experience. Dating before 30 is easier unless you are looking to settle down... Sure women expect less from you but that's a good thing... I don't have the time to put into this but dating at 24 was just as easy as 30 without the expectations on me or the younger women thinking it 'weird'. I've been in the game for a long time and based on my own experience you're not wrong …
/r/seduction20/02/19 04:37 AM
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until you hit your 30’s dating is going to be very difficult. Why?
/r/seduction20/02/19 01:13 AM
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Just making sure I understood the ACTUAL question before I waste my words responding to it. It's about knowing what you have on offer and knowing how to market it. If you sell cars you don't sell trucks and sport cars on fuel economy and you don't sell Honda's and Toyota's on their flashy head turning looks and and mind bending speed... lol You seem to consistently focus on your leas attractive qualities. If you were selling a truck you'd talk about the cost of gas and maintenance cost rather th…
/r/seduction19/02/19 10:13 PM
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You sound very arrogant... but only when people don't provide me a solution, because I am way smarter than everyone else and tried everything :) But I identify with you, I think though it's more to do with persistence, and a willingness to try alternate solutions, than to do with your smarts! and tried everything :)
/r/seduction19/02/19 09:48 PM
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I was actually introduced to game by a woman who's precise intention was to manipulate men trying to game her. I was amused by this and learned some game to treat it like a chess match and see who could out play the other. Game worked very well on her.
/r/seduction19/02/19 09:43 PM
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"This is not what happens with non-autistic or normal folks who learn this stuff by intuiting or observing social signals much better (attention focused on social information, as opposed to dry information.)" The nice thing here is autistic people can execute on strategy more specifically. It's the difference between someone with natural talent and a man in his grid for 10 years. A naturally talented person or a person with advantages is going to be less cognizant of the WHY behind success, a pe…
/r/seduction18/02/19 09:33 PM
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I think the common thread here, the question behind the questions, the meta problem is: 'How do I attract women without being inauthentic, fake, or an asshole?' Am I wrong?
/r/seduction17/01/19 01:15 PM
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I posted a link but the bot took it down search "SHE will tell you how to sleep with her!" in the seduction subreddit. It's a 2-minute video that I feel explains how you should navigate this situation much better than the other suggestions here. I'll let the video stand as it' own proof/endorsement
/r/askTRP16/01/19 11:14 AM
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south asian culture, if she kills herself, I'm getting busted You make it sound like a legal matter like you could be held culpable for her self inflicted injury. Is that the case? NOTE: My friend says you should ask her if she is serious about harming herself. He says if she is you should talk to her friends about it and contact the authorities if necessary to get her psychiatric help. Honesty is best, I try and communicate with with my partners and be forthright. It sounds like in this case yo…
/r/seduction15/01/19 06:18 PM
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mutual disclosure and vulnerability builds trust and intimacy
/r/askTRP15/01/19 04:04 PM
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south asian culture, if she kills herself, I'm getting busted. this is an important statement that you need to elaborate on so we can understand the situation precisely and offer you opinions. I don't think any of us would like to jeopardize your safety or freedom inadvertently.
/r/seduction15/01/19 10:51 AM
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Yo dude, hope I did not scare you away. Keep coming back I'm just a blunt guy!
/r/seduction14/01/19 02:11 PM
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I found that I got more interest the older gnarly I look. What kind of interest? What age ranges? What are you interested in sex relationships etc? What is the response you want what is the one you get?
/r/seduction14/01/19 01:15 PM
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I may have been a bit 'reactive' but the PU community has been under fire from feminists lately and it's not the community as a whole that get's dragged out on the news it's few bad actors and comments out of context "If it bleeds it leads". Yeah I think until OP get's really familiar with social ques and comfort levels he should just ask his partner: Is this cool, are you okay with this, I want you to feel safe and comfortable, etc... When i was just starting out dating I'd just tell girls (tru…
/r/seduction14/01/19 08:56 AM
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There is no morality issue here, his daughter is 14 not 8. She knows where babies come from. Humans are born naked and everyone alive is the result of sexual reproduction... Stop making shit weird. Tell your daughter you're having a date over and that your date might spend the night. Tell her if she feels weird about it she can go to a movie and you'll pay for movie & uber etc... She's old enough to have romantic interest herself and having her dad act all weird about it does her no benefit. Mak…
/r/seduction13/01/19 03:47 PM
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Jesus... The fuck... I'm not saying women never enjoy this stuff, but if dude lacked experience and lacks awareness of social ques for escalation you might just get him charged saying this shit... WTF is wrong with you!? Brah, this guy's not wrong but saying this shit like it's obvious, when it's not, in the me too era of 'regret rape'... lol Take shit slow, you're better off learning from girls who lose interest cause you move to slow and they lose interest than move to fast and creep them the …
/r/seduction12/01/19 12:11 PM
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Dude, you take things too literally, are you autistic? Legit question, not a dig. Take a self-test if you are not diagnosed. Clearly, they are not saying "just be tall and your dick will get teh sex".... Obvs that not happening currently, right? So that can't be what they mean. Height can be an asset if you use it right tho! Like a chick with a fat ass can use that to her advantage, but if she is just fat or has an ugly face... right? So if you are tall and good looking GREAT, but it's all worth…
/r/seduction12/01/19 09:07 AM
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This ^ I am significantly taller than you and have only gotten 'I don't like tall guys' 2 or 3 times in my life
/r/seduction12/01/19 09:01 AM
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Why is dude downvoted, seems like this was a suggested response for OP to use not a dig at OP... EDIT for typo
/r/seduction12/01/19 08:32 AM
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This post not having more upvotes yet is absolutely fucking Criminal...
/r/seduction23/10/18 08:08 PM
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This is solid advice, along with what I was saying. Male humor is more direct think slapstick and female humor is more subdued, subtle, subversive, think sarcasm... Sharp wit dry humor, a joke where the other person can't tell if it's a joke or not. Make fun of her in a playful way, make fun of other people in the bar, make fun of a guy hitting on her.
/r/seduction11/08/18 02:34 AM
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Guys like the boisterous kind of humor girls like shit a bit more subdued and subtle. Look at that new James Bond (Daniel Craig) dude, he makes jokes in the movie but they are chill. With women your jokes are more of a display of intelligence through wit. It's a sexual fitness indicator, you'd do well to think of it as such. Thusly you don't want to dance like a beta monkey to "impress the girls" but just amuse yourself and if they think it's funny good for them if not then ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ IDGAF (atti…
/r/seduction11/08/18 02:30 AM
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Wow someone downvoted you... This sub... SMH
/r/seduction11/08/18 02:18 AM
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can be really fun if done right THIS ^ is so important! Something I forget too... I tend to emphasize logistics, but appeal to emotions with fun stories of awesome times can be a great way to open an emotionally connecting dialogue...
/r/seduction11/08/18 02:15 AM
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Telling him that if he sees someone he likes, you'll go chat her up and then introduce him Better yet just bring him out and figure out who he thinks is attractive then open her for him and wing the shit out of it. I did this for a person, it worked great, it gave them confidence in themselves and in me.
/r/seduction11/08/18 02:09 AM
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bruh... no one said this is limited to aspies Correct! no one said that nor implied it... lol Good tip though. ASD do this all the time!
/r/seduction11/08/18 02:06 AM
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how you can have social media and not realize for yourself that women are sexual creatures. MySpace, girl in bras, damn there were some hot ones. Yeah we rationalized it as they wanted attention (not sex) and that's how they knew to get it. They were just 'hurting' girls who 'needed jesus' insert picard facepalm
/r/seduction09/08/18 01:42 AM
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Did not see that, thanks!
/r/askTRP08/08/18 08:45 PM
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link / elaborate?
/r/askTRP08/08/18 02:45 PM
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Nietzsche's Master–slave morality on wiki I only discovered this recently, what have you read about it? Have you read any of his works or works derived from his works?
/r/TheRedPill07/08/18 01:25 PM
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It's interesting that there are three appetites listed and a and all three are controlled and contorted by successful empire building religions and governments... Just a small observation, curious who else noticed it?
/r/TheRedPill07/08/18 01:15 PM
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they were raised by single mothers or had beta fathers yes I don't think many naturals come to the pick up scene lol... I would consider myself a natural, but I was cucked hard by parents. Once I broke free of that false reality I did not have to learn much I just did what came naturally and had a lot of success. For me it was just receiving the messages that women liked sex wanted to have sex and that basically gave me the internal validation to behave like the man-whore I was born as...
/r/seduction07/08/18 10:56 AM
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I've met / known plenty of military men who have 0 game. Lot's of failed marriages, cheating, weak-ass self-image, etc... Plenty of Ego & Posturing, but that's mostly transparent to women. They can play the provider role for a bit, there is more to it than that, but honestly there's nothing there you need to emulate...
/r/seduction06/08/18 06:11 PM
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I don't reccomend at all day game. Why? Com'on you can't leave it so open ended ;)
/r/seduction06/08/18 01:15 PM
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Dude don't stress the haters... When I started game it was an instant transformation. The first night I went out and ace'd this girl's shit test her friend physically STOPPED me from taking her home and she shouted at him and fought with him in the bar about it lol... That was the moment I knew I was on to something great :D I kept at it and a at my high point I was seeing and having sex with multiple girls who all knew about each-other. Been offered threesomes multiple times but logistics or on…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/18 08:38 AM
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Autistic? Me too :) Look up the The Five Love Languages, you'll like that shit
/r/seduction04/08/18 06:40 AM
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Yeah, I am fatigued as well. Still, we should talk at least to have some company and enjoyable discourse. I think if we combine forces maybe we'll get superpowers. Let's give it a shot!
/r/seduction04/08/18 06:33 AM
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I hope you have some success, but you'll always have the same results if you keep doing the same things!
/r/seduction02/08/18 09:29 PM
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You don't need any of that shit to get women. Correct, BUT that's a Straw man argument... Logistics though, It's why I always had my fancy entertainment stuff in my room :) It's not about 'get'ing a woman, she's already gotten. It's about progressing things toward the bedroom logistically. Logistics, as already mentioned. What is your method for game? How do you get a woman from not in your house, to in your home, there to the bedroom, and there to the bed? This is not a rhetorical question. It'…
/r/seduction02/08/18 08:43 PM
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Thought I shared this with you already... whoops https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/h62fu/calibration_101/ Check it out I think this is along the lines of what you need. Watch the video in the link then read the text for a recap. It will sink into your reality more that way. If you find that useful, then HMU via PM for more along these lines!
/r/seduction02/08/18 08:27 PM
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Personally, I've started to close the door when I use the rest room, but my wife still leaves it wide open. What are other ways to create mystery in a long term relationship? TIL: Shitting with the door closed creates mystery in your relationship!
/r/seduction02/08/18 04:58 AM
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I'd be interested to talk with you, not for advice but to swap stories. (pm me) You're running into the same problem I run into. I hear a feminist talk and I try to be as respectful as I can when picking up women. It does not work, good on paper as women say, but not what they respond to in the flesh and blood of the now... I constantly end up in this trap, because I truly want all my relationships to be mutually beneficial, but unfortunately what women say they respond to and how they want to b…
/r/seduction02/08/18 04:13 AM
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Are you? Closing? Care to point me to any of previous posts, specifically? (not being an ass, just asking, ) EDIT Most guys here are not closing chicks they meet on dance floors. Why do you make that assertion?
/r/seduction02/08/18 03:58 AM
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Dancing sucks because of knee problems lol...?
/r/seduction02/08/18 03:53 AM
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Breh, real or trolling? also this belongs in /r/AskSeddit
/r/seduction02/08/18 02:34 AM
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"this was nice but im busy now. you need to go" You forgot the part where he tells her "I'm gonna text you now non-stop and have weird boundary issues and stuff, I hope you are into that"
/r/seduction02/08/18 02:33 AM
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The post generalizes things a bit with the "zoomed in/out", but good stuff and examples True, GREAT MINDS DISCUSS IDEAS; AVERAGE MINDS DISCUSS EVENTS; SMALL MINDS DISCUSS PEOPLE. — ELEANOR ROOSEVELT BUT: simplify to succeed complicate to fail. Make something complex to cause failure and dependence in your audience. Giving people a functional strategy to get going and find the nuance on their own, seems to be what was shot for here. Words are hard sometimes, hope this made sense...
/r/seduction02/08/18 02:12 AM
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Okay, but I'm going to use crayons. Is that alright?
/r/seduction02/08/18 01:26 AM
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Big TV, Surround Sound, Projector, Media Server that can download any movie etc...
/r/seduction02/08/18 01:14 AM
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Point number #1 was learned elsewhere by me but it was a real tipping point in my game. People are so busy thinking of themselves and what to say, finding someone who really listens and hears is rare.
/r/seduction01/08/18 04:44 PM
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LOL 1 in a million women are gonna know that projector is 4K and probably he's just shooting it on the wall. Should have gone with 1080p More money for condoms... Logistics though, It's why I always had my fancy entertainment stuff in my room :)
/r/seduction01/08/18 04:30 PM
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I think you're being downvoted because 'large' is relative. Please provide more specifical advice for size necessary, number of uses, and applications.
/r/seduction01/08/18 04:28 PM
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PLOT TWIST: Girl was his mom, makeout was not hot... Well less hot, had to hide boner in waistband.
/r/seduction01/08/18 03:51 PM
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You: "So like how much would that cost?" You: "Do you guys do bitcoin or venmo, cash only...?"
/r/seduction01/08/18 03:47 PM
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Fair. The number of periods seems excessive and aggressive, especially for how many questions I had to ask before you stated your point plainly. Not sure what I intend for you to do with that information, maybe just to be aware of how you are perceived :/ Meh, must sleep...
/r/seduction01/08/18 03:35 PM
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How were you able to establish that? I looked but I missed something apparently...
/r/seduction01/08/18 10:06 AM
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If you never do anything differently you'll always get the same result
/r/seduction01/08/18 10:01 AM
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No online game is real and okay, but you're selling yourself short not doing IRL game first cause you'll be burning leads you can't close from lack of reference experience. Most of my 'lay count' is from cold approach just out during my day and bringing the girls home. Can you show me how to do the same thing OP did? I think his numbers are excellent actually. Probably not, look what you wrote. I can't bring myself to follow up on challenges or anything productive Dude, I like you and wish you t…
/r/seduction01/08/18 06:02 AM
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Thanks for this, pretty much consistent with what I have heard/experienced.
/r/seduction31/07/18 07:44 AM
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Where was this crossposted to?
/r/seduction31/07/18 07:37 AM
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Not sure why you are downvoted. Maybe it seems you are discouraging or humble bragging? I think maybe different areas have different challenges? In some areas, stuff is going on at all times, other places it's a ghost town after bar close.
/r/seduction31/07/18 07:36 AM
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DJ's generally get washed up from fucking a lot of party girls Vapid empty people, and meaningless sex, eventually you get laid enough you want a connection with a human being. Think ice cream, at first it's great but if it's the only think you eat you feel like death. Burnout is real... Burnout: I have taken well over a year off game with no sex. Honestly, I know I can get laid if I want so the scarcity mindset has left me. I can focus on things that are more fulfilling, like building friendshi…
/r/seduction31/07/18 04:27 AM
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It helps to shift the blame from 'those bitches' to 'Old me was in a stifled state, and I would have not wanted me either' Self-blame can hurt when you are in it, but when you are a new you, blaming your old self is likely the correct frame. As a semi-fictional example based on an amalgamation of alcoholics, I have known: Alcoholic Dave stage #1: I really need money can you lend me some? receives money Dave: Thanks Alcoholic Dave stage #2: Man I am in debt now while trying to get sober because o…
/r/seduction30/07/18 05:23 PM
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No need to apologize, I was just further clarifying so you could take more value from what I was sharing. I'm not going to begrudge you for misinterpreting my intent. The onus is on me to learn to be a more clear and succinct communicator. Nothing is failure, just opportunity to improve (or you're dead :/) HAHA To be clear that last phrase is as much for me and communicating better as for you and refining your own goals :)
/r/seduction25/07/18 01:53 AM
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It sounds like you are in a good place and I am glad to hear it. That said my last question was less a direct inquiry and more a rhetorical suggestion to take regular inventory of your mental and emotional state for self-definition or active re-definition.
/r/seduction25/07/18 01:05 AM
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Don't be overly pedantic, you know what I mean and you did not address any other my other points. I have people to talk to, it's just not the right atmosphere for seduction/romance. There are less available partners for romantic pairing, you need to go where there are more. Can you disagree with this statement? What I have is: my job, an Anime and Gaming club, visiting with my best friend, and the people I see around when I walk around my town. Let's not forget my loving family. Good, it sounds …
/r/seduction24/07/18 09:15 PM
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Intention/Motivation>Actions>Words... You read other people by their actions and try to muddle through to suss out what their intentions might be. You don't need to do that here, use metacognition to become familiar with yourself, your underlying intentions are more important than your external actions. The three phases are not about looking at how you behave but your internal reality. How do you THINK and FEEL inside about yourself and women?
/r/seduction24/07/18 09:09 PM
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Ascend my friend the air is cleaner and the energy peaceful at the top of the summit!
/r/seduction24/07/18 09:07 AM
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Like everyone else said just move. You can't meet girls or build social skills with no one around to talk to. Work, save money Pay a school or ask/pay a friend to teach you how to drive Buy a car, 3grand will get you a decent Honda Save more Move to a new city during the summer Camp free or cheap while looking for work 6.5. Or you can buy an SUV and sleep in the back till you find work & housing / get established Eat cheap, Get food stamps, Stretch that budget till you land a job Get an APT with…
/r/seduction24/07/18 07:54 AM
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What do you consider OLD chicks? Are you into MILF/Cougar types? Maybe write a better post with a more direct goal and a little background? Also, this belongs on /r/AskSeddit so post asking there. REporting post here don't take it personaly just pm me the link to your post on /r/AskSeddit and I'll come to give good advice :)
/r/seduction24/07/18 03:35 AM
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Cha
/r/seduction24/07/18 03:32 AM
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Hmm? Specifically?
/r/seduction24/07/18 03:18 AM
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Good TL;DR, now make bold or italic to make it stand out from the post like this or this BOLD **this** Italic *this* To make writing and editing posts easier I suggest 'Reddit enhancement suite' for your browser extensions/add-ons! Example: TL;DR: Met a cool girl at an event and could tell she was into me but I was too afraid to make a move. Left and walked to my car but then came back and got her number. How I did it/copy paste this :-) : **TL;DR:** *Met a cool girl at an event and could tell s…
/r/seduction24/07/18 03:05 AM
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Good for you and good job contributing a submitting a field report rather than shit posting :) My one suggestion is to include a TL;DR at the top of posts so people can decide if they want to commit time to the read. It allows people to direct the investment of their time more easily and get's you more readers cause they don't just pass over the read.
/r/seduction24/07/18 01:23 AM
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POKE?
/r/seduction23/07/18 04:09 AM
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Why not just skip to date, and have them meet at your place? In my experience, if I push an instant date to 30min-2hr they will just come straight to my place for Water/To See My REALLY great Plan >_>/To use the bathroom/To cool down or warm up/Hangout/Talk/To X Excuse. They know why they are asking to come over / why I am inviting them they just want plausible deniability for slut shaming. If they can't won't come over from the instant date most of the time they will come right to my place, no …
/r/seduction23/07/18 04:03 AM
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Dude let's be real, lie or change topics, women ask me question I don't want to answer all the time. I just ignore those questions and ask my own. Maintain a dominant frame and don't do anything you don't want to do.
/r/seduction23/07/18 03:50 AM
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OP Here, The article is worth your read TL;DR: You start out "NICE" -> JADED -> CONFIDENT TL;DR w/ explaination: You start out NICE you're a doormat you get pissed so you become JADED you learn to assert boundaries and become comfortable and CONFIDENT You realize guys like you used to be were never 'nice'. They are just pussy worshiping passive fucking pushovers. They attempt to manipulate and placate women into providing pussy as a service. You find this behavior disgusting, sad, pathetic, and …
/r/seduction23/07/18 03:19 AM
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I can’t hold your hand the entire way man. You need to figure this out Yes you CAN you're just CHOOSING not to ;P
/r/seduction23/07/18 03:02 AM
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Honestly, if it's the first date maybe /u/DarkArtsPUA11 can make it work for them to set the expectation to go to your place after the date. As for me I always play it as a let's see what happens next kinda thing. I mean what if she's not a ONS kinda girl you want to kill second or third date sex just to POLARIZE and have a close bias because some women just pull out of the date? Just read the situation build the sexual tension and give her plausible deniability at the end of the night for going…
/r/seduction23/07/18 03:00 AM
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LOL, I love the second one have used it many times!
/r/seduction23/07/18 02:25 AM
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haha, I love to see how many styles work. Really its all about frame. I would say really, go for the kiss, but not use that last line. Instead, I'd just go body language/eject (walk away confidently) and make her chase me ect... Not saying one action is better. All of us here are acting like we know what we are talking about, but it's not the one 'method' or the other that makes it work. It's the nature of being comfortable in yourself with whatever action you choose that really does it with wom…
/r/seduction23/07/18 02:11 AM
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You are welcome!
/r/seduction23/07/18 02:03 AM
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This is not wrong, might have to add some of this to my explanation! :D
/r/seduction23/07/18 02:01 AM
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I think there are a couple factors at play here You need to redefine Love You are disillusioned Your goals are all fucked up. You need to reestablish why you should care, about ANYTHING!!! You might need to improve your conversational skills Your understanding of 'love' may have failed you. This might be the time to redefine it. Love has many meanings and other languages have many words for love. I think you use love to mean that exciting infatuation with a girl, or a zeal/excitement for life!!!…
/r/seduction21/07/18 08:07 AM
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EDIT 8/1/2018 Did not realize the was a link post thought it was a question... Speak from experience with narcissists friends. This ^ (/u/oyoungpadawan) & other factors: Ego Confidence Unstable women Drugs Emotional cycling Emotional Abuse Ego Appearance of outcome independence (most are narcissists are hiding insecurity) I would actually say it's the appearance of lack of ego that makes them a draw. They tell themselves lies they don't care about a 'bitch' meanwhile they are seething inside tha…
/r/seduction21/07/18 05:57 AM
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Read this! You're welcome BTW ;) Let me know your thoughts after, do you have the same questions now, new ones? Feel better, have more hope?
/r/seduction20/07/18 09:41 PM
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If that was the case If what was the case? I said multiple things, could you be more specific? wouldn’t he want to contact the kid🤔🤔? If I understand you correctly, the subject you are referring to would be to get the dudes game tips. Well: If this is in the states his (teacher fucker's) name would be withheld as he is a minor. Maybe OP want to contact teach to get her perspective on what dude did that was so appealing or maybe just want to contact her to find dude's name (teacher fucker) I dunn…
/r/seduction20/07/18 08:41 PM
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/u/recyclablebanthas deserves all the credit! make sure he's the one getting your upvotes!
/r/seduction20/07/18 08:36 PM
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This belongs in /r/AskSeddit and also you did not read the side bar did you?
/r/seduction20/07/18 08:35 PM
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Curious what you use for the sex one. Mostly I ignore shit test and lead with strong frame. I just bulldoze over anything I'm not interested in talking about and lead the conversations.
/r/seduction20/07/18 08:23 PM
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From another thread just posted, seems to speak to this situation! https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/90gyei/how_come_i_can_get_makeouts_etc_at_clubs_but_cant/e2qm5yn/
/r/seduction20/07/18 08:21 PM
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As a young man transitioning to old fuck, and a relatively good daygame practitioner I can assert that every one of these points is exactly correct :D I have gone through the transition of every single one of these stages.
/r/seduction20/07/18 08:17 PM
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I think what he's (op) saying: That young ass man must have been rocking some bad boy game to be pulling that hard, and there are some skills to emulate. Not that I am saying this is the case, that teacher could be in a bad marriage and just be looking for validation etc... Plenty of scenarios what we have nothing to learn from dude. Point being: in a literal sense I don't see how this is the wrong sub? What would be a more appropriate sub? I can see why people would be averse to the dialouge bu…
/r/seduction20/07/18 08:05 PM
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Jesus man I am impressed with every one of your posts! I am going to work to emulate your writing style, I think it will help me in my goals of becoming a better communicator!
/r/seduction20/07/18 07:56 PM
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To be fair that was dumb on his part for sure, but holy fuck balls. It's insane that a person can be considered an adult and not be capable of declining sex. I mean I fucked a girl I did not want to fuck because of social pressure, but it's just a lousy fuck, not a violation if my security of self or something. I have been much more violated and felt like I was robbed of my security as a human being by things that are perfectly legal... The state of things makes me sad, especially since it got t…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 03:40 AM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Master–slave_morality
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 03:34 AM
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Yes, there is conflicting information. I just don't see how your post connects to the OPs post. Another link posted here in this thread speaks to what you are referring to, maybe makes it less confusing?
/r/seduction13/07/18 05:25 PM
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Wait, is yes means yes like an actual proposed fucking bill? I wrote a lot more then accidentally clicked cancel :'(
/r/TheRedPill13/07/18 04:25 PM
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I don't understand the point you are making or how it would relate to the OP And then Then, being after which point in the OP/interactions in general? we're told we're perves for being so interested in girls immediately before getting to know them. I'm not trying to be intentionally obtuse. You do seem a little butthurt, however, I am sure there is a point you are trying to convey. I just don't see what it is or how it relates to the OP. If you care to restate your position more clearly or expou…
/r/seduction13/07/18 02:42 PM
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I'd be curious to see what you'd say anyway if you would not mind putting in the time?
/r/seduction10/07/18 04:56 PM
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Don't worry about getting guy friends, when you meet girls they have friends that are male too that they can introduce to you More picky about my male friends, I am very deep into PUA with advanced knowledge. Most men are so AFC and cringy I can't stand to be near them... It also becomes an act of wearing a mask because they know not shit about the world and spend too much time signaling virtue and white knighting. So yeah I am looking for QUALITY male friends! since you're posting this here I a…
/r/seduction05/07/18 05:59 PM
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Of special importance are the points about "make the new friendships ABOUT something" and "make it extra-easy, pick an interest or hobby you ALREADY love" I think it's also good to keep in mind that you want to be building STRONG connections not just quantity. Any night I can get 20+ numbers, do you how many of those I follow up on? My strengths are my weaknesses: Extrovert Social Butterfly Love Meeting New People People Love My Energy Enthusiasm I can make a lot of really unsustainable connecti…
/r/seduction05/07/18 04:18 PM
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"A woman's #1!!! EvoPsych biological imperative reproduction coupled with fear of abandonment. So if you demonstrate you care about who she is and 'connect' with her she will prioritize you as a romantic partner. This is true with every woman I have fucked/dated from the club sluts to the religious small town girl to the cheating girlfriend." From my other post, women prioritize men who they feel don't view them as a conquest but seem to want a deeper connection.
/r/seduction03/07/18 01:44 PM
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It depends on how you come across, bad boy the sex does not count, or relationship material. I have done both and am both, but I'd be curious to connect with the guys you know and see how they operate, I always like studying approaches.
/r/seduction03/07/18 01:43 PM
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No, note my name ;) It's a joke based on the song by TLC... I am quite literally a useless fuck. I can go in further depth, but if all you want is a GF or to bang you can be a fat skunk (well maybe not stink) but dress well and learn to comport yourself. Literally, the only thing you need to do to do well with women is learning to talk to them and connect with where they are at. This whole post really should be in /r/AskSeddit tho...
/r/seduction02/07/18 05:37 AM
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Doesn't this belong in /r/AskSeddit That said I'm the spectrum and do just fine. Have you read the side bar? Have you read any books on pickup? PM me when this thread is in the proper place, and you have taken some action for yourself, like reading the sidebar and Mark Manson's models or smth... (god helps those who help themselves)
/r/seduction02/07/18 03:54 AM
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That seems like the majority of men in this thread, considering the mere suggestion of 'integrity' is getting downvotes while 'I fuck dudes wives and meet them face to face is getting upvotes' Agree or disagree, but the idea of men becoming more RedPill and being more alpha contrasted with the passive aggressiveness of downvoting without having to contribute and then defend their own opinion(s) is a bit laughable... As a man who as trained a few men out of stifled mindsets into more fulfilling l…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 03:36 AM
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You're probably not wrong but physically and sexually I very attracted to rave girls and their openness to getting fucked like a whore and in the ass but I am also not into raves or drugs... So how do you resolve that conflict? it's unhealthy to calibrate yourself for gaming girls you're not into. I'm not into their lifestyle or poor decision-making process. The women I like as people would be good for relationships, unfortunately, I just want to fuck. I am in conflict with my own interests and …
/r/seduction25/06/18 04:55 AM
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Do you drop the ones you didn't like? Or keep them for 11pm 'what's good?' texts? I think he means, girls you're not (feeling) vibing with, but are still receptive to you, do you try to turn them into booty calls and nothing else since you don't 'like' them ((as a person) for the sake of being brief.)
/r/seduction24/06/18 09:55 AM
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Halfway through the bone sesh ;)
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 09:18 AM
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TL;DR (for me at least) my advice seems like it'd fit here If you are not dick in pussy inside of three days, barring she's a virgin/religious, time to not give her attention till she allows for escalation. I usually have a girl naked and am knuckle deep within a few hours but sometimes two dates, and the outlier is three dates or longer.... Seems to be a good post though!
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 08:47 AM
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Can +1 religious idiots who think evolution is a plot undertaken by satan to discredit creation etc... Source: was into all that gobbledygook till I read the bible and found out what a bunch of self-contradictory wackadoodle non-sense it all was.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 08:14 AM
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Now? We talk Please for your sake cut these toxic narcissists out of your life! No more talking, It's Just a cost-benefit analysis, they add nothing to your life and keeping them in it has a huge POTENTIAL cost. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vcWvJmWIlo0 My mother was an awful person I have not talked to her for over half my life and it is one of the best choices I have made! All love good luck!
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 07:49 AM
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lol, What the fuck do you eat $400 per person, Organic Gold? I eat about 3000 calories per-day on 160 per month in America...
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 05:39 AM
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Eh, I'm just having fun making fun of you because you're so reactionary and weak and rude, but I am guilty of the same sin as you. Not helping out my fellow man. Dude you need to be less reactive and not cave to my frame so easily Don't give into excuses. Learn to de-escalate Sure dude is bigger than you sure he might want to kick your ass, which is why you out think (mail a letter to his friend who can tell him his wife is running around), or out talk him. I have talked myself out of getting my…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 04:58 AM
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The other guy gains nothing. Minimizes his losses by doing nothing Lol, you guys really love to talk alpha and this and that shit but I'm getting downvoted for having a set, and you're getting upvoted for: 0 gains Minimizing Losing And doing nothing Fucking your fellow bro to save your own skin Cuckman, is that the husband or you cause I'm confused... Notice how my second option was Or blow her out on the sly? (eg: send a vid of her face sucking your dick through the grapevine, or just nudes of …
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 04:38 AM
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Dude, if you have something to say just say it... It's the internet, I can't give you a wedgie and put you in a locker, so quit trying to be sly and hide behind passive aggressive cleverness. Grow a dick and speak your mind
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 04:17 AM
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Dude's don't have hymens and aren't maidens male virginity is not a thing. Don't bring it up dudes, not important unless you plan on being clingy. Know how to work a clit read so sex tips and she wont even know...
/r/seduction24/06/18 04:04 AM
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It's a shit test she wants him to play the man and he won't. It's like a small animal that pokes the larger one to play with it. Or how a kid wrestles with their parent/older sibling they want to win but when they don't it makes them feel secure knowing there is someone stronger than them looking out for them. You can also compare it to when a kid feels emotionally out of control (too much sugar or smth) so they'll play poke the bear with their parent to get the parent to take control, it's a ve…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 03:05 AM
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Dude, I got ripped off for a bunch of cash by a con-man. I look at it as a blessing many people in my life are in their 50s and 60s and still wear rose-colored glasses. Look up the song 'I thank god for unanswered prayers' Sometime the shit that fucks you ends up a blessing in the long-term
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 02:51 AM
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Or you just get proof and blow her out on her facebook in front of her family and friends (from a fake third account if need be) and watch her SMV and social value tank. Then just own it on your FB and immediately (same day) mark your relationship as ended remove her from friends and be dating someone else. She'll look loose awful and worthless and you'll be the man who just took out the garbage and gave it the reverence that garbage deserves.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 02:48 AM
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But did you blow her out? Or blow her out on the sly? You should have taken pictures and just pulled him aside and told him what a piece of shit she was so he could leave her and take all their money/sell the house and get the fuck out of dodge :)
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 02:35 AM
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Loyalty no, but maybe reverence... Some dudes don't realize it's a bad idea to fuck another dude's thot, when said thot is with a dude literally twice your mass. Some good ways to help them remember tho... I would not know anything about that though, speaking strictly in theory...
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 02:10 AM
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Your question belongs here: /r/askseddit/
/r/seduction23/06/18 11:20 PM
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WTF... I posted a similar thread like a week ago and got downvoted so no one saw it or added anything useful, lol SMH... Look at my post and see what I was/am doing. It's still work, but maybe better than how you are managing things currently? Maybe we should collaborate? This community is flooded with people who should be on AskSeddit. They ask a lot of hand-holding questions and drive away the veterans who would otherwise enjoy this place, and contribute their knowledge. I think I'll make a po…
/r/seduction23/06/18 11:13 PM
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non-sense... park semi-far away from the club, makeout & escalate on the way to the car fool around in your car get her hot and bothered and she will either beg you to fuck her in the car or go home with you to fuck her... Shoot if you do it right you can just have her suck your dick while you drive!!! I had a girl so fuckin juiced up from finger banging her in the club that by the time we were in my car I had FOUR fingers UP HER ASS, she was fully naked in my car and begging me to fuck her. I h…
/r/askTRP06/05/18 04:32 AM
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Ever write that?
/r/seduction05/05/18 07:56 PM
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Stop, looking at porn and only jerk off at most once per week.... It'll come back ;) When it's Wednesday, and you can't stop fidgeting after a sexy girl walks by cause you have so much Jizz built up, or it's been a month and a half since you unloaded you will find a way and it's so satisfying. When you get to the point random lays are not doing it for you, then find higher quality women and date them for a bit, take a break from game. Focus on having a relationship, building friendships with guy…
/r/seduction04/05/18 10:08 PM
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Best comments so far 1 Live Your Values 2 Keep Growing 3 Entertainment Treadmill The one thing all these posts miss though, is different women are different... This is a great post that exemplifies this! Yeah, you don't want to be on the entertainment treadmill, a dancing monkey to amuse a girl... BUUUUUT if she is your stereotypical super social ADD club girl (psychotic), keeping things novel (be a bad boy!) is sorta your role here! That is the failing I see everywhere, thinking someone has a m…
/r/seduction04/05/18 09:42 PM
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Nothing against you bro, there are just some especially thick headed slow people out there and all you need is ONE fool who does not know how to understand nuance to go rape someone. My rule is anytime I am giving advice about sexual escalation I include the statement "When in doubt, don't rape" and suggest they pursue more sexually 'open' opportunities till they have a good sense of the energy of the situation and how to read a partners non-verbals. Nuance, nuance, man, people just don't get it…
/r/seduction15/04/18 07:24 AM
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NOTE: WHEN IN DOUBT, DO NOT RAPE!!! /u/Kenic_In_MD You gotta be careful here bro, some of these dudes seriously do not get nuance. Honesty, there are tons of girls who like to fuck, sometimes it's best to let one go and revisit later. You can always tell her she was sending mixed signals and you needed space cause it was confusing you. Bang some more girls get more experience and revisit/meet a new girl and escalate smoothly with your new experience/knowing how to feel things out. When you have …
/r/seduction13/04/18 05:51 AM
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Oh... changed my mind... Let's NOT ;P (be friends) haha Cleverness can be improved, just work at it :)
/r/seduction12/04/18 08:56 PM
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"I feel a little bit ok for having asserted some boundaries but I feel anyone with a modicum of self respect would have done the same." You'd be surprised how many people don't have a "modicum of self respect" boss moves!!!
/r/seduction12/04/18 03:29 AM
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lol... I am tall and hot and guys always try and tell me that means I have an easy time with women but they will be savage to anyone with their passive-aggressive tests. Like how are you going to be on a PUA Reddit and whine about shit tests. At the end of the day, shit tests are no different than one of your bros tearing you a new one and making fun of you in front everyone. If you know how to respond it's just good-hearted fun, that goes back an forth. If you get butthurt it shows you are not …
/r/seduction12/04/18 03:19 AM
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whisper I farted earlier and deflated a little.... If she responds well to the first one you could follow it with: I get bigger if you inflate me, you just have to blow me a little ;)
/r/seduction12/04/18 03:08 AM
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Holy shit, this was epic... Made me involuntarily chortle (loudly) Fucking grand, give this dude a prize. Let's be friends :)
/r/seduction12/04/18 03:04 AM
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Asians, Blacks, and Latinas, would be my suggestion!
/r/seduction24/01/18 02:03 AM
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Update in one month bump
/r/seduction16/01/18 06:31 AM
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haha, just got the irony. Your nickname is "HilarityEnsuez" but, you have a poor sense of humor and can't take a joke. I get it now! That's a good shtick, a reall knee slappa' I tell ya'! Verrrrrry clever ;)
/r/seduction20/11/17 09:55 PM
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They are no bitches so much as stupid and subject to other stupid people social pressure and adolescence. Men and women are different, a man with punch you in the face, a woman will ruin your reputation. Men evolved to be bigger than women so we could defend our offspring from attack and be better hunter-gatherers. Women while weaker on average develop emotionally at a younger age and have a heightened sense of empathy why they lack in brute strength they make up for with manipulation. Everybody…
/r/seduction20/11/17 09:38 PM
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You're welcome! I edited the post for greater clarity, all the points are the same but it's at least somewhat readable/comprehensible now hahaha ;)
/r/seduction20/11/17 09:01 PM
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Haha thanks, yeah it's meant to be ironic because or the mad amount of effort I put into my comments :D I'm in NOT LA :( I don't make a habit of disclosing anything that could be used to DOX me publically. I'm the OVERLY cautious type :/ hahaha I added you as a friend if I make it out that way we'll have to game together. Do you make it to other parts of the world/big cities in the US often? NYC, Chicago, Austin, Dallas, Any other ones I am not thinking of...
/r/seduction20/11/17 08:52 PM
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You're welcome ;P
/r/seduction19/11/17 04:24 PM
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Haha true, very insightful! Like my own guru ;) I only do things I like to do -- so in some cases, while it's not the best use of my time, it does not really matter --since there is no real purpose to existence, thus if it brings me enjoyment then I might as well pursue those ends. The other perspective is my time could be spent more profitably. So when I am able to make those better choices I do. The greatest peace I have found in life is accepting me for who I am today and trying to better mys…
/r/seduction19/11/17 04:13 PM
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So I have a really strong conflict: On one hand, I want to encourage you to step outside your comfort zone and learn to get good at conversation. On the other hand, I think so much of what is pushed as game is cold approach while I strongly believe this is an integral component of learning I don't think club game and cold approach is the end all be all or even what to aim for if you are an introvert or shy. Like i think the end goal for some guys SHOULD be social circle game/online/and girls cha…
/r/seduction19/11/17 04:04 PM
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Your last two paragraphs are gold! I would love to game with you ;) I don't see a fundamental flaw in your logic anywhere. The only thing I would say if you have to be less emotional about kicking your own butt over acting out of congruence with your own emotions. Game is game cause you play it and have fun. Free yourself from outcome. Acknowledge the lesson to learn here is to test the boundary between honest emotional connection+investment VS being needy and establish where exactly that line i…
/r/seduction19/11/17 03:35 PM
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Smoke weed everyday!
/r/seduction19/11/17 01:44 PM
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's back
/r/seduction19/11/17 01:00 PM
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Are you actually having luck with that? or are you just clowning?
/r/seduction19/11/17 12:53 PM
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lol, more reason to bang them... If a girl offends me I am definitely gonna have sex with her and turn her into a better person OR barring that as a possibility, date her, dump her, and give her a crisis of identity which will afford her the opportunity to self-reflect and become less of a piece of shit. But my penis is more noble and altruistic than most :D Seriously tho, you are giving up too easily, hahaha lol :) Like if I was black guy or smth and a little white girl said some racist shit to…
/r/seduction19/11/17 12:34 PM
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No, I am in other parts of the werld!
/r/seduction19/11/17 10:12 AM
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Thanks, means a lot I have a few reddit accounts and write a lot of long ass posts trying to help people but this is the first time I have been gilded. I'm a pretty slow typist so some of the posts I have made can take me 2-4hours it's a lot of work. Sometimes those posts don't get a single upvote or even a comment. I'm not here to stroke my ego with karma, but to know that what I write matters or make a difference to someone really means the world to me! Can I ask what specifically helped you s…
/r/seduction19/11/17 10:01 AM
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Read this thread from literally five hours ago! https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/7dtwoe/performance_anxiety_is_killing_me_help/dq0i7w3/?context=3
/r/seduction19/11/17 03:27 AM
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Haha, nah I never have a precedent... that's not true, asking for help is a great precedent It also depends on location, if you are in a social environment like a bar or a college town vs If you are in a busy fast moving environment or a bad neighborhood. Stopping to be friendly is fine if nothing is going on like waiting for a train but if she is walking super quickly you'll need an attention grabber and hope she's not late for a meeting lol. Mostly don't worry about it, just be friendly and co…
/r/seduction18/11/17 07:41 PM
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I do, pm me
/r/seduction18/11/17 07:19 PM
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[You should switch to lifestyles skyn condoms btw MASSIVE difference best I have found so far] You are gonna thank me ;) Yo /u/FaxBee /u/TickleMeSmallz is absolutely right! I have had this issue, one time I was losing my hardon cause the condom sucked. So the next time I was fucking I was all in my head about losing my boner. the things that helped me were: Tell the girl that you like her and are super turned on by her but you need to feel more comfortable. Explain you want to fuck her like mad …
/r/seduction18/11/17 07:16 PM
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Haha no prob bob, you don't have to hit up bars that's just the go-to. Hit up the sidewalks outside the bars or any populated place that's better anyway. Just start doing approaches. Have you read any books on pickup yet? That's fucking hilarious that you have gotten blown by two girl but no kiss, fucking life is unreal sometimes lol Glad I can help ;)
/r/seduction18/11/17 06:43 PM
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Who is commanding anyone? Me? OP? What OP wrote did not seem at all commanding and even if it did many schools of pick up suggest to speak from authority. If anything I think /u/throwawaylilbastard should have/could have been more commanding. Like "hey I'm Chaaaaaad let me get your number so we can braid each others hair! k, thnx, bai" Could you please quote which statement was made where a command was issued instead of a request? I am not seeing it. If you offer a criticism but fail to clarify …
/r/seduction18/11/17 06:24 PM
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Or you just take them off base so they can't reject. I do this all the time. You just say something so outlandish she has no response for it, then just move right past it and into a conversation. Like OMG I just stepped in shit, did you just shit on this train platform. While she is stammering you just say nah I'm kidding it was me, I shit here sometimes. By the way, my name is nick, you are? Her: Nancy Me: Nice to me you nancy my name is Dan by the way Nancy: I thought you said your name was Ni…
/r/seduction18/11/17 05:44 PM
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I was being silly BTW, but on the real, if you read the situation and you have the right type of personality you can get away with it and it might work. I'm the type of person who does not take anything seriously tho.
/r/seduction18/11/17 05:09 PM
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yeah perfect just say some dumb shit about fucking and then start praying. If she doesn't fuck you at least it'll make a funny story lol ahahahahahah. I can't remember where I heard it but someone said whenever they are trying to make a decision on what choice to make they always ask themselves what would make for a better story... Seems like a great way to have an exciting life and without a measure of restaint an exciting arrest record as well lol.
/r/seduction18/11/17 05:04 PM
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Well, bring me back some, and good luck!
/r/seduction18/11/17 04:55 PM
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That's the point precisely! Verbal communication evolved pretty recently in our past most communication strategies rely on body language and tone. Say what you want with your tone, eyes, and body, and with your voice talk some nonsense. As long as you demonstrate sexually selective character traits you do fine. Status, Dominance and some other shit I forget, but all of that is conveyed without saying a thing. The words are just a social convention and a tool to disarm, people feel uncertain of s…
/r/seduction18/11/17 04:53 PM
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Yo, real talk drop them like a bad habbit. Tyler talks about a LOVER vs PROVIDER Dynamic they got you in that provider role. Do they know you are seeing other girls? If they know you are seeing other girls I'd just spend LESS time with them but keep them on as a plate. When they ask why you are spending less time with them just tell them you really like them but you want a more organic relationship like you want to be intimate with women you care about see if there is something there to be built…
/r/seduction18/11/17 01:03 PM
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Breh, fellow aspie PM I'll consider mentoring you. You'll be slaying the ladies in no time, and hell yes you should date in highschool!
/r/seduction18/11/17 12:31 PM
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Good for you! that was clever with the 4th one, gotta say I don't know you but I am proud and I would sarge with you!
/r/seduction18/11/17 12:20 PM
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do it for the vine!
/r/seduction18/11/17 12:16 PM
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No, and yes! are you there on vaycay or do you live there?
/r/seduction18/11/17 12:15 PM
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Care to break down why the phrasing was bad, and what you'd suggest as an alternative? I take issue with criticism where an alternative/suggestion is not provided. Those types of criticisms can come across as a teardown or even a passive-aggressive teardown. For instance a problematic opener: White Guy: Hello African woman sorry my ancestors owned yours. you are hot and I want to sex with you. Give me sexy sex. Black Girl: Uhh, no thanks here's some mace tho spray Suggested opener White Guy: Hi …
/r/seduction18/11/17 12:06 PM
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You were doing really well until the end lol... The idea is not wrong but the way the sentiment is expressed seems contrastingly aggressive for the tone of the rest of the message. Not a criticism in the least, just an observation. 'if you approach in a very respectful and aware way, most women won't complain that much, those that would are probably generally hostile people who will struggle to find happiness no matter the circumstance.' Not sure why I wanted to do that but I did, sooo, I did :D
/r/seduction18/11/17 11:22 AM
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Should have said you may be 19 but you fcuk like you're 35 ;)
/r/seduction18/11/17 11:15 AM
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wow these are some nice brick tunnels! Honestly, that's perfect! You do it in a sarcastic silly way where it shows you are aware of how lame of a topic it is. It shows you have value to talk to her even if you have nothing to say. I might use that one!
/r/seduction18/11/17 11:13 AM
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Man it sounds like you need reference experiences. I say go out to the bars and make out with some drunk girls, NOTHING MORE than kissing you don't want to catch a charge. Just get a feel for the vibe of sexual tension moving physical proximity closer and closer until bam kiss... Kissing is like magnets, you know how when they are far apart there is no draw but as you move them closer and closer eventually you can't keep them apart. THAT! If you don't know how to feel that out you just need refe…
/r/seduction18/11/17 06:35 AM
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This is solid advice, once you get your legs under you (conversationally) so to speak then you won't feel so anxious b/c you'll have confidence rooted in the knowledge that you have been able to maintain conversations with other people.
/r/seduction18/11/17 01:46 AM
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lol, not making fun of you. It was a legit question, but haha hard to give a lone-wolf vibe with lots of friends around right ;) Like one a woman thought YouTube was spelled UTube, I was not laughing at her so much as the idea that I had not considered anyone could/would think that. Kinda made me do a double take on my presuppositions ;)
/r/seduction18/11/17 01:42 AM
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You just want that one. FUck it man get her out of your head fuck some other girls and keep the lead warm by snapping her occasionally. Bring a couple girls around that you are hooking up when you are chilling with that group of friends. When she sees you with other girls, let it fuck with her head so she's like does he like me or nah...? You see where I am going with this? You get some sex in the meantime, you get over your oneitis, she sees you with other girls which social proofs you, makes h…
/r/seduction17/11/17 12:21 PM
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Start saying no all the time! You are probably co-dependant (look it up) you need to develop healthy boundaries. When I need to make a change I make a simple easy to remember rule so I can consistently execute that rule. I don't have context but here are the two situations I see: I. You are asked for help and help, maybe to the detriment of your responsibilities due to the time taken. SOLUTION Say no to every request the first time. If someone persists asking, have it be a permanent no, since th…
/r/seduction22/10/17 11:48 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/7450qa/good_at_pick_up_but_cant_make_friends_ill_teach/
/r/seduction04/10/17 01:41 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/7450qa/good_at_pick_up_but_cant_make_friends_ill_teach/
/r/seduction04/10/17 01:41 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/7450qa/good_at_pick_up_but_cant_make_friends_ill_teach/
/r/seduction04/10/17 01:41 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/7450qa/good_at_pick_up_but_cant_make_friends_ill_teach/
/r/seduction04/10/17 01:40 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/7450qa/good_at_pick_up_but_cant_make_friends_ill_teach/
/r/seduction04/10/17 01:40 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/7450qa/good_at_pick_up_but_cant_make_friends_ill_teach/
/r/seduction04/10/17 01:40 AM
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I feel like that's NOT true... Well if you a being literal, like ZERO friends then yes... But I have a low number of friends and have been fucking as many as 5 girls at the same time. I think it's about priorities if you want friends so you can fuck just cut out the middle man and get good at pick up. If you want friends you are gonna need to put in effort there. I'm on here because I was thinking about how I want friends and how it's hard to make friends wah wah boo hoo. No, I'm just being a la…
/r/seduction02/10/17 07:20 AM
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I mean that seems like evidence that some girls are shitty not that ALL girls will cheat on you with their EX. I have been friends with EXs while they have BFs and nothing has happend. EXs are EXs for a reason, they may be awesome and the sex may be good but, we ended it. We can always fuck if they break up and she needs a rebound or smth... I don't need to smash while she's got something good going on. I'm not trying to say it's not something to look out for/be aware of/look at objectively. I j…
/r/seduction24/09/17 09:51 PM
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You are welcome, check my eddits
/r/seduction24/09/17 09:47 PM
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why is this your only post? is it a burner account? are you new to reddit? I can't get an idea of your experience because I don't know anything about you. Do you have another reddit account? Are you just here to fix your problem and leave? Are you a part of the community, do you (have anything to) give back? I see so many newbies and douches just breese through here and ask a question like this is the google of PU. It's not GooglePUA it's a community. Being as open as it is, seems to dilute it s…
/r/seduction24/09/17 09:07 PM
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I can't know, because I can't read the situation/context/body language/Don't have the experience of having been in a relationship with her, but it sounds like she is emotionally fatigued and is really trying. Base on the info I have now from your other posts and my questions I'd say you just need to trust her. I'd communicate clearly and compassionately that while you can understand her need to have this guy for finals (and not wanting to spurn his advances as a result) that you expect her to cu…
/r/seduction24/09/17 07:55 PM
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I get the mindset, and it's a nobly enlightened one, the first step of seduction is demonstrating value, and in some situations the capacity to become violent in the name of obtaining peace, security, or resources, is definitely valuable. God damn son! RESPECT someone with brain. All these white knights fruiting up PUA yick :D
/r/seduction24/09/17 07:13 PM
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Might read up some books about lying and body language!
/r/seduction24/09/17 07:09 PM
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Sounds like you already have her chasing you. Didnt tried to get me to stay" Did she seem like it was coming from a place of defeat like she knew there was nothing she could say/didn't know what to say, or did it seem like she was checked out and just didn't care anymore? In another of your posts: they had a chat then she left him with a seen Do you mean she made a scene put up a fuss? What happened?
/r/seduction24/09/17 07:08 PM
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you are stupid, lying and manipulating people is abuse, spying because you want to confirm your gut feeling before over reacting is a perfectly rational and legitimate action. I had a girl lying to my face I checked her texts while she slept to confirm then had a firm conversation with her booted her ass out. You are right about it coming off as possessive, needy, and annoying, and how she would react if she knew, but when you are dealing with someone who has a history of lying sometimes you nee…
/r/seduction24/09/17 06:46 PM
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This bot sucks, stop please. haiku are annoying things. Why would you make this!?
/r/seduction24/09/17 06:38 PM
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What do you want from the relationship? What is YOUR ideal outcome?
/r/seduction24/09/17 06:22 PM
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That's amazing!!!!
/r/seduction24/09/17 05:09 PM
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NOPE, that's it! If she has a history of lying dump her right now. Cite here history of lying and leave. If she says she wants you, and does not want you to leave, tell her she needs to stay single for a while and go to counseling and resolve here issues with lying. When she hits you up and says she want to get back together with you, you let her know that you are seeing other people and will continue to do so until she proves that she is capable of earning your trust. If she asks if that means …
/r/seduction24/09/17 05:04 PM
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a seen? you mean a scene? as in like was mad?
/r/seduction24/09/17 04:39 PM
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What evidence do you have?
/r/seduction24/09/17 04:35 PM
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I like you and agree with you! Also this idea of fighting vs beating dudes ass. Let's be clear fighting is lame and makes you look like a dumb bitch. Beating dudes ass quickly and decisively makes you look like a boss. I would not get physical unless you know you can win. edit also getting physical is generally not advisable because laws lol but if you are gonna fight, win.
/r/seduction24/09/17 04:23 PM
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Does she know, you know? Did she see you, see her take it? If not, do nothing, don't worry, be chill! Buy a second copy and put it somewhere she can see like on your nightstand. If she asks about it, just say tell her about the parts you thought were insightful and how they helped you form better relationships/get you out of stiffed patterns. Ask her if she got/has any insights, or has any thoughts to share as a woman. Maybe how she forms relationships or could be healthier If she acts incredulo…
/r/seduction23/09/17 11:27 PM
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This man is a God!
/r/seduction23/09/17 11:12 PM
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"You should come over, when are you free" then leave it alone edit this is gold! https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/6fbue5/fucked_a_good_friend_of_mine_because_it_was_clear/dih6dz2/
/r/seduction05/06/17 08:27 AM
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Dude just be honest you have not hung out, it's fine you might not get an f-close but it's never too late to be honest. Just hit her up, ask her to come out to a thing, like outdoor music or smth. Meet her somewhere so you have to walk with her for a bit so you have an opportunity to talk. Say: Hey yesterday (whenever) you caught me totally off guard. Let her ask why. Tell her you realized she said she wanted to hang out as 'friends' and you didn't think anything of it you just thought she was t…
/r/seduction05/06/17 07:29 AM
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I lol'd
/r/seduction05/06/17 06:40 AM
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Some do, pass on them till you are 21-23 you'll be all around better for it. If your friends give you shit tell them you tried it once and couldn't stop fapping to their mom on facebook ;)
/r/seduction05/06/17 06:37 AM
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That's what my grandfather told me right before he died. The hooker didn't arrive in time, I didn't pay her because she made my grandfather a liar. Also because I never had the money to begin with and don't see a moral obligation to be truthful with sex workers... But I have issues, I'm the bad guy here... SMH
/r/seduction05/06/17 03:46 AM
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Dude I am only a couple years behind you, don't worry about it. Biggest thing is if you don't live in a city with lots of girls, move to a college town a liberal college town, most of the girls have sex positive feminist attitudes. You might run into a few SJWs but once they show there colors just don't speak to them (or acknowledge them act as if they don't exist) like they are not there and keep walking. The young college girls like a guy with some 'experience' you look 'distinguished' to them…
/r/seduction05/06/17 03:35 AM
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Tyler is like in his 40s now I think...
/r/seduction05/06/17 03:25 AM
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NO JOKE!!!!! Go to the gym!!!!! BEST INCENTIVE, IT WILL MAKE YOUR DICK BIGGER!!!! But only for the next few years. Going to the gym while you are this young will likely make your dick bigger too! The two most important factors in dick size are human growth hormone and testosterone but they only affect the size of your penis till the end of puberty when a gland in your brain shuts off. High intensity compound (whole body movements) exercises like squats ETC... will boost both HGH and TEST both co…
/r/seduction05/06/17 03:09 AM
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None of your suggestions for respecting women are wrong, but I think you feel the way you do about pick-up because you were likely exposed to the wrong ideas. From the very beginning of my foray into PU I learned nothing but greater respect and understanding of women. There are many people here who regurgitate things they have heard without any real wisdom of their own. They seem to speak for the sake of their own vanity, for the sake of having something to add, being important, being experience…
/r/seduction03/06/17 08:16 PM
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Change your paradigm (pussy on a pedestal) not your actions! Your actions and feelings are all based on your paradigm. You obviously put pussy on a pedestal. As you fuck more women it will be easier to naturally stop doing this (because you will see them as more human) but stopping now makes approaching easier RIGHT NOW!!! So why don't you put pussy on a pedestal? Women are people just like you or I, they poop and fart and they are kind of shitty, so why would you give two fucks about impressing…
/r/seduction24/07/16 10:00 PM
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Not, being a dick, but it sounds like you didn't "have the game down" then. Just get back into it. Create a plan, identify obstacles, and Identify your strengths. For me approach anxiety has almost never been an issue, but my night game/club game needs work. My strengths core confidence, day game, game at bars, game outside the club, anyplace I can talk comfortably without shouting, etc.. You might have obstacles in your path, you can't expect improvement without identifying what is setting you …
/r/seduction24/07/16 09:42 PM
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dude guys with selfies look desperate. Just go do shit and be mindful to take pictures while you are there. Talk to ppl about their instagrams look at their pics figure out who is good at taking pictures (lighting, angles etc...) have them take pics. Another good option is when out in public grab a high maintenance looking chick, tell her you can tell she puts a lot of time into her look and know she knows how to take a great picture and you would be super grateful if she would take a picture of…
/r/seduction14/07/16 12:10 AM
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this ^ Unless your flirt game is on lock in which case you fish em' in and once they are hooked have them GIVE YOU the number rather than ask for it.
/r/seduction13/07/16 11:55 PM
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Her: You look old Me: Well you seem stupid Me: Let's just fuck and see how we both feel about one another in the morning. lol
/r/seduction13/07/16 11:39 PM
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Thanks dude! I put a lot of late night effort into that, can't muster anymore time, your effort is appreciated. It should have been so much shorter, and it is super poorly written but I hope it has some value to someone...
/r/seduction13/07/16 10:02 PM
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If it makes you feel any better, I'm at the opposite end of the spectrum, very tall and can't hear girls in loud environments. You just say you know what, I cant hear you, lol let's just dance, we'll talk later. Move things outside from there, everyone get's tired/needs a drink/breather/cool down/smoke/etc...
/r/seduction13/07/16 09:24 PM
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This guy is the man! Got a boner just thinking about all the sof skin hair and perfume of pulling a woman in!!!
/r/seduction13/07/16 09:20 PM
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"Plus everyone is the same height lying down" lol not true... I have been over a foot taller than some of the girls I see and it's difficult to kiss in missionary or other positions at times cause my head it so much further away from theirs. I take your meaning, I'm just being unnecessarily pedantic .^
/r/seduction13/07/16 09:17 PM
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2nd the crowds thing, same at a night club girls trying to have fun are bothered when you interrupt them in the zone. If you can't, or don't go dance then don't take them out of their zone. I can speak from experience when you are in your "zone" and some motherfucker bothers you... you are just like fuck off go die.... So don't hop into her zone unless you can properly calibrate and meet/vibe with her where she is at.
/r/seduction13/07/16 08:56 PM
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they know that guys are there to fuck them so as a general rule (obviously pay attention individual, I run "natural game" not routine) tease them (teasing shuts out their ability to be a skeptic of you) upon ioi kino escalate with socially appropriate touching like you would normally. This is overly simplified but should give you skeletal framework. Overall just be a guy contributing positive energy and conversation while setting a dominant frame and conveying your intention accurately.
/r/seduction13/07/16 08:49 PM
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Yeah honestly simple is better, just look at her with a sexy face like she just gave you fuck me eyes and tease her that she is turned on by it. Look very sure of yourself (super confident) and skeptical of her. I like to push the envelope so I would taking it further telling her to be careful not to pull the rest of it out when I fuck her like dirty nasty line filthy sexual line here
/r/seduction13/07/16 08:36 PM
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Haha, put yourself out there definitely I find day game, I use it at night, sometimes even in bars (honestly I just do me I dont really change up my game much) works great all the time and is waaaaaay easier than tinder, granted we may have different strengths! check out this video for a highlight of different strengths https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zHyhzoF9gWw
/r/seduction13/07/16 08:31 PM
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Holy Shit Dude!!! I game a little different (prefer to date multiple girls, than multiple new chicks) but man I respect it, I would love to go out with you sometime. Our sexual energies seem to be pretty similar it could be fun to bring both our pulls back to the crib and have them fuck the shit out of each-other. Dude we would have such unbridled colossal fun!!!
/r/seduction13/07/16 10:07 AM
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Honestly, seeing multiple women at once is the best way to handle it. For the most part it keeps them interested cause you are the chase. It sends a clear signal that you are in the market and not settling for any one thing just yet, why would you? I generally disclose the fact I am seeing other women at some point after sex (protected) you don't owe anyone anything. Lots of girls see and fuck multiple guys at once and have done so for years. Generally I bring up the fact I'm seeing other people…
/r/seduction13/07/16 09:39 AM
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honestly probably just an "excuse" cause you have not made her feel safe and comfortable yet. You need to have clear intent on the approach so she knows you are interested. Then make her comfortable and feel safe. Some girls will go on a date like "whatever something to do, I guess..." Other girls want to feel comfortable with you first. Drop anything that may be pressuring her, focus on getting to know her as a person, find out her interests and places she likes to go/feels comfortable. Invite …
/r/seduction13/07/16 09:23 AM
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Text game is a legitimate thing, do you have an alternate suggestion?
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