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| 9 | Dating low SMV femalesThink about that one again. SMV is sexual market place value. So, her SMV is defined by how desirable she is to the largest amount of men. A woman can have a high SMV with tons of baggage. It would be higher without it, but baggage does not instantly mean her SMV is low. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/21 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Skinny, bad teeth, average income, and no social skills. Should I just ignore dating until I’m better?Your body does require certain foods to produce testosterone. So a lack of it could be a bad diet. In your case it it looks like the cause was something else, but in some it could just be diet. For instance, taking a boron supplement (which also removes fluoride from your body) has been shown to increase testosterone levels by 60%. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/21 07:40 PM |
| 2 | Just found condoms in my LTR purse. WE DON’T USE CONDOMS.Chill out man. As you said. Could be nothing. I have often carried extra condoms encase one of my bros hooks up and forgets one. Just a handy thing to have around. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/21 10:28 PM |
| 8 | Is it possible for me to ever meet a girl?Physical attraction is not the only way to be attractive. But it would seem that, from your own words that you are ugly. In that case, I would focus on building your reputation in your community. Women can only be attracted to those they respect, and respect itself will go a long way to making a woman attracted to you. Build a reputation as a strong, positive, capable and philanthropic man. Ether fix your deformities or be proud of them and the struggle they cause. I don’t think you will ever ge… | /r/askTRP | 26/02/21 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Why do women try to change you, if they just end up hating you once you’ve changed?They don't. They are trying to see if you will change yourself for somebody else. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/20 09:50 AM |
| 1 | Seventeen years old. Literally no friends, dating or life experience. I need help.I wouldn't be worried. Woman are just other people. As much as TRP tries to distinguish them from guys, they are still people. Like men, woman want the best partner/lay they can get. Just be open and honest about what you want from them. You want causal sex, confidently tell them so. Some will curse you out and then sleep with you, some will just say they aren't interested. You can't lose. I think that is a big thing that most men don't realise. If you are being open and honest about your desire… | /r/askTRP | 10/12/20 07:32 PM |
| 2 | How can I stop being needy when I'm friendless?Maybe bro. From my own experiance, it is harder to hide something from people than we think. Hiding something often comes off as creepy or weird, we don't see this ourselves but others do. When I was younger, I had a hard time expressing my sexuality and others could detect it. Once I learnt to show women how much I liked them, I was more confident and comfortable and others where more comfortable with me. Is there a specific reason you can't be yourself? Or is it just fear? | /r/askTRP | 11/11/20 12:13 AM |
| 9 | How can I stop being needy when I'm friendless?Don't take my advice as anything solid, but have you considered coming out of the closet? If you're living a lie, others are going to feel that something is off. If your honest with yourself and them, you will get a better response. As a gay man, women will also feel less threatened by you, and be more willing to be your friend. You will be able to get what you want most, female validation/friendship. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/20 08:32 PM |
| 2 | Is this TRP behaviour?"Been studying much (whatever topic you are studying) lately?" The only reason you can't think of something is because you care if you fail. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/20 03:51 AM |
| 7 | Got banned from Tinder AGAIN. Tried using a new google voice number, new email, and new Facebook account. Seems as if I’m banned forreal forreal now. Anyone got any ideas to create a new account?What did you do to get banned? | /r/askTRP | 28/09/20 02:00 AM |
| 9 | Is this TRP behaviour?Well, your attitude here shows a lack of experience. You also sound like you don't have much confidence in yourself. Show her you are funny and ask her on a date. If she finds you attractive (or attractive enough) she will say yes, if not no. The biggest thing you can learn from TRP is that she is just one person who does not matter. When you are putting yourself first, fine with her saying no and also asking other girls or at the same time, you have learnt most of what TRP has to offer. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/20 01:59 AM |
| 9 | Are all modern women basically slutsAll modern woman? All woman have been like this since the beginning. The only thing that has changed is now men have given up control. | /r/askTRP | 07/09/20 05:33 AM |
| 1 | Girl I simped for in university wants to visit me and hang out on my sailboat. Yay or nay?Not many people have the right answer here. Only one person said it and I will repeat it. Letting her come to your sail boat is fine, but you have to tell her first that if she does, you're going to fuck her, no negotiation. Tell her that and how you're going to do it. You have expressed yourself as a man. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/20 06:00 AM |
| 8 | Apart from sex, I dread spending time with gfAll the other comments on here are from bad advice. They sound whipped. Spending time with GF? Not required as long as the sex is great. She will understand that you're a busy guy. Though, if you are dreading it, it sounds like you you're not coming at this situation from a position of power. You're not dictating what the relationship is and what should happen. Best advice, be busy. Spend minimal investment by messaging her everyday or so how you're thinking about her and thinking about spending… | /r/askTRP | 15/08/20 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think girls are so prone to block people?Arguing with a woman? Well first off, she will lose all respect for you. Pretty good reason to block you. Only an idiot would so easily give away his position of power. Nobody should have time for idiots. Block | /r/askTRP | 13/08/20 12:44 AM |
| 0 | Can girls beta bux guys for relationships too?Guys and girls are not that different. We both value what is scarce and will do a lot for it. Young attractive girls only get so much attention because they are the minority of females. The minority of guy's get the same. Woman Simp all the time. Just not to most people on asktrp. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/20 05:57 AM |
| 1 | At what point do you squash disrespect instead of maintaining "frame" ?In general, you need to establish your own boundaries in your own mind. What is acceptable to you and what is not. Unless you have a position of respect (your the boss), challenging disrespect that isn't direct won't work. It will only go negatively. First off, who is important to you? Yourself, friends and family? Then only care about them and what they think. Is the disrespect hindering your work? If so then you need to talk to the person about how their actions are limiting the amount of work… | /r/askTRP | 07/03/20 10:16 PM |
| 1 | At what point do you squash disrespect instead of maintaining "frame" ?How are you being disrespected? | /r/askTRP | 07/03/20 08:38 PM |
| -4 | Did I soft next this plate correctly?You mean you like to be cucked? | /r/askTRP | 28/10/19 07:34 AM |
| 1 | Plate seems to be "baiting" me with another guy. What gives?A plate can be exclusive. You don’t have to be exclusive to them. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/19 07:12 AM |
| 1 | Plate seems to be "baiting" me with another guy. What gives?You mean you continue to sleep with girls that fuck other guys? Sounds like you’re the cuck. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/19 07:11 AM |
| 1 | Plate seems to be "baiting" me with another guy. What gives?From your post it sounds like it sucks to be you. It’s up to you, but if a girl sleeps with a guy after me. It’s a hard next. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/19 11:23 PM |
| 3 | Plate seems to be "baiting" me with another guy. What gives?Why do you sleep with a girl that isn’t exclusive with you? | /r/askTRP | 27/10/19 11:08 PM |
| -11 | Did I soft next this plate correctly?If she sleeps with somebody after you, it’s a hard next. Never take her back. Don’t take that disrespect. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/19 11:05 PM |
| 13 | How to avoid discipline burnout?Just keep going. After you read this, go and take a run for as long as you can. At some point during that run you will hit what they call “the wall”. The point that you feel you don’t have the energy to go on. In reality, you have only used about 40% of your stamina at this point. You could run for much longer, but you don’t because it doesn’t feel like you can. Don’t trust your feelings. When going down the self improvement road, you will hit the wall 100% of the time. Everybody does. What do y… | /r/askTRP | 26/10/19 09:45 PM |
| 3 | Are people becoming more and more redpilled?It appears that everybody but those on askTRP are becoming more red pilled everyday. Funny that. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/19 08:35 PM |
| 5 | Girls use online dating just for validation and not to meet guys ?Girls use tinder for both. But they only meet guys they like. If you want to get girls above 4-5. You need to be exceptional. This also needs to be portrayed in your photos. A tip, if you are good looking, woman automatically assume you are at least 2 points higher than you are, then guys mess up when they show their lack of confidence. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/19 08:32 PM |
| 2 | Will there be a "tipping point" where women finally realize that technology (dating apps) has given them unprecedented abundance, and then...When? possibly never. Why blame yourself when you can blame others? Humans are incredibly bad at self reflection, despite how much time they devote to it. The woman who are aware of the situation, likely already knew and avoided it. Or knew about it and took advantage of it. If you’re asking on a global level. Only if something else gets them more attention. Woman rate a persons and their own value on the attention they get and can get. Why do you assume a woman’s life would be better without it… | /r/askTRP | 20/10/19 11:34 PM |
| 2 | 6 years into a LTR, but something is going wrong with me for no apparent reasonWell, what the specific denominations say about the Bible is not always true. Generally, their view of God and what He wants is skewed. Did you know for instance, that a woman must repent if she doesn’t obey her husband? God says it is her duty to keep her husband happy, no matter the circumstances. Some other small things: The Bible doesn’t command us not to cuss. We can drink alcohol in moderation If you attach a denomination to yourself, you will go wrong. All denominations have false teachin… | /r/askTRP | 19/10/19 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Oneitis in a classroomAll her out in the next 4 days or hard next | /r/askTRP | 18/10/19 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Drunk vs SoberYou’re too serious and boring when sober? Then don’t be as serious or boring. | /r/askTRP | 18/10/19 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Being honest and direct feels good on one hand, on the other hand it puts you at a disadvantageIf he is so beta, why can’t you steal his girl? Are you even more beta than he is? I don’t like to me mean, but seriously read your post. It sounds like a 101 beta who thinks the girlfriends boyfriend is worse than he really is. I can tell that you were friend zoned from beginning on the post. Check yourself. | /r/askTRP | 18/10/19 09:42 PM |
| 2 | Update: first date girl slept in my bed we kissed and spooned but nothing more. Am I done or is this good?Could be bad, could nether be bad or good. It depends on what type of guy you are. If a girl did this to me I’d tell her to leave, she isn’t staying over if she isn’t going to give me something. But maybe that’s not your style. One thing is for sure though, she wasn’t rip her own clothes off turned on. They can’t help having sex at that point. Ideally that’s where you want to get them, and you don’t get a woman to that point by being a nice guy. | /r/askTRP | 18/10/19 09:33 PM |
| 1 | 6 years into a LTR, but something is going wrong with me for no apparent reasonWhat do you want us to say? Which way would you prefer to go? Couple of notes: Being a Virgin at marriage is only a requirement for Christian woman, not men. Sex out of wedlock is aloud for men. Modern society changed the rules, not the Bible. Cheating outside of a marriage is fine for a guy. It’s just physical. Why aren’t you married? It’s been six years. | /r/askTRP | 18/10/19 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Sadness phase, end good ltr, what is love, .. Makes me fucking depressedMale love doesn’t feel like anything. A female type of love feels like something. What you’re looking for is that emotional temporary love. Ether that or your current girl is not your physical type. | /r/askTRP | 18/10/19 09:14 PM |
| 3 | Being honest and direct feels good on one hand, on the other hand it puts you at a disadvantageThat whole post was so beta. Cringe bro, cringe. Obviously she likes dominant possessive guys. Girls don’t give a shit whether you love them or not. They only care about how you make them feel. | /r/askTRP | 18/10/19 09:08 PM |
| 0 | What are some obvious and not so obvious bad/good habits for a better life?Most important bad habit: Making posts on askTRP that aren’t actually questions | /r/askTRP | 18/10/19 09:01 PM |
| 2 | Girl has been with 2 of my closest friendsDump her. Anything else is oneitis. | /r/askTRP | 18/10/19 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Could this mean she is cheating on me?It’s a woman’s job to make sure you KNOW she isn’t cheating. It’s a man’s job to cheat. If you are doubting, that’s her fault, even if she isn’t cheating. She needs punishment ether way. Only question is how much, soft next until apology or hard next if she cheated. | /r/askTRP | 18/10/19 08:56 PM |
| 4 | FavorsThen don’t do it. People always push you to find your boundaries. Only do favors when somebody actually needs your help, not when they are being lazy. | /r/askTRP | 18/10/19 08:53 PM |
| 4 | What's up with girls flaking?Rule 1. Don’t get excited Shows ether inexperience or neediness | /r/askTRP | 18/10/19 08:51 PM |
| 1 | I have found abundance but now I have no motivation to get girls.Abundance? Can you have sex with a ton of hot girls at any time? If not, no abundance. The desire scale once you get abundance goes like this: You are amazed at how much sex you can get. You have tons of sex with tons of girls The novelty wears off You settle on 2-4 girls you like You get on with more important things in your life If you don’t have abundance the scale goes like this: No sex so your super horny Can’t get much sex so you convince yourself for some reason that you don’t need it or … | /r/askTRP | 18/10/19 08:42 PM |
| 1 | How to ask out a girl in a tight knit community while maintaining plausible deniability?I often see those is TRP dancing around what to say to woman. Clearly most of them still treat woman as their god. If a woman likes you, she likes you. As long as you stay true to yourself, you can do anything and she will still like you. If she is on the fence, assume she likes you. Woman are easy. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/19 07:56 PM |
| 4 | How to ask out a girl in a tight knit community while maintaining plausible deniability?Girls also cross their legs when they are turned on. It’s uncomfortable for them otherwise. I wouldn’t take crossed legs as good or bad. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/19 07:52 PM |
| 21 | How do I stop being invisible?Being invisible is an attitude. Look at yourself, you actually don’t won’t to be seen, you only think you do. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/19 07:49 PM |
| 3 | My friend's gf wanted to watch a movie with me, aloneClearly you don’t care about your friend, otherwise you wouldn’t be considering sleeping with his girl. So, go for it. She sounds like a catch and definitely won’t cause you any issues. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/19 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Girl ghosted me after I asked her outDon’t ask face to face. She ignored your first contact. Wait and message her again later. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/19 09:47 PM |
| 3 | Girl ghosted me after I asked her outNo specific reason. It’s only an amount of time that doesn’t appear to be needy. I wouldn’t wait any less than a month, maybe more. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/19 09:13 PM |
| 4 | Is it pointless explaining to women that their promiscuity makes them undesirable?Yes. Because girls already know this (if they didn’t, they wouldn’t try to hide it). It doesn’t mean they will stop. How many men are looking toward their future and making smart decisions? Not many. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/19 09:11 PM |
| 3 | Girl ghosted me after I asked her outAsk again in one month. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/19 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Hypergamy?Look up cognitive dissonance. Summed up, woman first become attracted, then attach that attraction to something they think they like. The point is, it doesn’t matter how you are attractive, only that you are, girls don’t care about anything other than their feelings. My bottom bitch has no idea why she is obsessed me, but she is. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/19 11:56 AM |
| 3 | Went a little too bluepilled talking to a girl, am I fucked?No. You’re not. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/19 05:28 AM |
| 2 | How can i have more fun approaching girls?Yeah bro, your afraid. Performance anxiety. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/19 05:23 AM |
| 6 | How can i have more fun approaching girls?Sounds like you’re afraid of woman. You should find your own company fun. If you do, just avoid girls that reduce your enjoyment. Girls that don’t give back much don’t normally like you anyway. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/19 05:17 AM |
| 2 | Shit tests at workHmmm... Well standard things to gain respect would be, work hard but don’t take things to seriously. If you get girls numbers, more respect. The faster your skills improve, more respect. The cooler friends you have, more respect. Sounds like you are just going to have to bite the bullet though. Stay calm, cool and unaffected buy this guy, despite what he is trying to do. Things will fall into place. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/19 03:16 AM |
| 5 | As a redpiller what identifies you as the best option for a women ? What do you give women in return ?I’m one of the best bakers in my country in my field. Nevertheless, these skills only get me more attention and money. Why do you want to know? | /r/askTRP | 13/10/19 03:11 AM |
| 8 | As a redpiller what identifies you as the best option for a women ? What do you give women in return ?Other people want it. I’m fun. People feel calmer when they are around me. I have money to spend. My skills are valuable. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/19 02:19 AM |
| 3 | How can I stop giving too much attentionNo. I would say that your issue is giving too much attention to a few things. Giving more attention to everything else, will decrease your obsession with the few things you’re obsessing over now. A wider range of things you give attention to, will decrease the overall attention you give to one thing. Edit: It is very hard not to give 100% of your attention to something. Very hard to reduce the amount of attention you give. So try spreading that attention out first. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/19 02:09 AM |
| 3 | Fucked up, oneitis. Feel like I have lost personality. What to do going forward?Stop being a little bitch. You can love and woman and sleep around. You can love and be in a LTR with 5 woman while they know about it if you want. Oneitis is neediness. You’re not flirting with girls properly because you are afraid of losing this girl. What to do? Dump current girlfriend. Or tell her about your dream to have 5 girlfriends all taking turns on your D. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/19 02:04 AM |
| 1 | How can I stop giving too much attentionThinking about things with zero outcome isn’t giving your “attention” to it. Giving your attention is putting energy into something. I encourage you to give your attention to everything and everyone. Should solve your issue. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/19 01:59 AM |
| 2 | Bodybuilding? Lift bro!I’m not. I don’t want to be either. Good on you if it’s a passion though. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/19 01:56 AM |
| 7 | How does a typical approach for you go?Not the words, but how you say them is more important. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/19 01:55 AM |
| 18 | As a redpiller what identifies you as the best option for a women ? What do you give women in return ?The one golden ticket. My attention. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/19 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Shit tests at workDoes he have authority over you? | /r/askTRP | 13/10/19 01:54 AM |
| 3 | “One”itis or WhateverIf you’re having issues, you can cut woman off altogether, you can only have plates, or just one night stands. There is such a thing as womenitis. The condition where women are the most important thing in your life, and not one specific woman. This sounds like what you have. Fix it by creating boundaries, such as no serious relationships. Another option is to try and fuck 100 girls in a year or some other thing like that to get it out of your system. Anything which lowers the importance of woman… | /r/askTRP | 13/10/19 01:51 AM |
| 2 | Hypergamy?Everybody notices. However women don’t critically think about their attraction. They will just feel the difference. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/19 01:44 AM |
| 2 | I’m tall, fit, and have a good career but I can still only bag chubby girlsNo need to put yourself down. Enjoy your life, and enjoy being with the woman you can get with (even the scraps). If you can do those two things, guaranteed the quality of women and life will go up. Woman are attracted to men, and lots of woman will be attracted to you. You only need to remove the obstacles in the way that cause that attraction to die. Often that is a bad attitude and not appreciating what you can get. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/19 01:42 AM |
| 1 | I’m tall, fit, and have a good career but I can still only bag chubby girlsMaybe you aren’t as good looking as you think. Or maybe you don’t know how to show off who you are with a photo. Men and women use two different strategies. You need to be assertive from the get go. Firstly you’re photos need to show that you are fun, strong and assertive. Then your messages need to build comfort (without being a pussy), and in person, back to assertiveness. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/19 10:49 PM |
| 28 | Alcohol makes me way more charismatic. How do i improve my sober self ?Alcohol reduces inhibitions, stress and such. Taking the stick out if your ass will make a difference. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/19 10:44 PM |
| 3 | I’m tall, fit, and have a good career but I can still only bag chubby girlsDon’t judge yourself by the attention you get on dating apps. Some, like Tinder, stack the deck until you pay them. Also, good looks and money will only get your so far. If you’re not assertive or dominant, better looking woman younger will give up on you. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/19 10:42 PM |
| 2 | so women will spend their youth fucking the most muscular men possible and then settle down with some normal dude once they hit their 30s?Even ugly woman get laid, married and have kids. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/19 08:35 AM |
| 1 | I fear my friends aren't really my friends, and it's my faultFear of missing out is a primary human motivator. It’s normal and everybody has it. Sounds like you need more, fun, excitement and relaxation in your life. The better your life is, the less you care about things outside it. I would also suggest ditching your goals. Replace them with systems if you replace them with anything at all. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/19 04:57 AM |
| 2 | ONEitisIt’s normal to feel pain after a break up. Don’t think about it too much. Relax, ditch your goals and enjoy your life. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/19 04:51 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with friends/girls mad at you for seemingly no reason?Best to tell girls to shut it if they try to argue with you. Or laugh at them. Or just leave. Never explain just do. Don’t waste your time, and they won’t waste yours. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/19 04:49 AM |
| 1 | How do you start being more assertive and unsubmissiveStart. There is no other way. You just do it. I think the question should really be “How do I stop being scared of asserting myself?”. You can’t until you start asserting. Otherwise everybody would do it. You have jump off the cliff and learn to fly. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/19 04:33 AM |
| 1 | "What kind of girls do you like?"I like girls who do what I say. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/19 04:30 AM |
| 0 | How often should a male jerk off?As much as you want. Jerking off doesn’t stop you getting laid. If you need to stop jerking off to get laid, you’re a pussy. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/19 04:26 AM |
| 3 | I fear my friends aren't really my friends, and it's my faultThe problem is definitely you. Neediness is a turn off to everybody. Even friends. How to fix it? Don’t care about other people as much, care more about yourself. If you’re not enjoying your own time, you’re going to be extra needy. If you’re constantly thinking about other people rather than thinking about yourself, it’s a bad way to be. Edit: Focusing on yourself and not others plus relaxing, will get you many friends. But don’t change for anybody other than yourself. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/19 04:23 AM |
| 2 | Why did she leave?Telling a woman you are going to kiss her, massive turn off. Woman want to be dominated. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/19 04:19 AM |
| 1 | What to do when you're at bar/club and a girl tells you to wait?Tell her No. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/19 04:14 AM |
| 1 | I experienced something that changed my perspective on what is confidence. Could someone explain what happened here?Don’t focus on other people too much. You are more important. If you only focus on yourself, you can be anything and still hold frame. In fact, I wouldn’t even care about the question you asked. Caring about other people you don’t know (giving them any mental energy) is not worth your time. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/19 04:13 AM |
| 9 | so women will spend their youth fucking the most muscular men possible and then settle down with some normal dude once they hit their 30s?That’s not true. Are looks all that men care about? No. So it won’t be al woman care about ether. That is just an excuse for ugly guys to not step outside their comfort zone. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/19 04:07 AM |
| 1 | I thought I escaped and understood the blue pill but it seems like I still act or think in blue pill ways without realizing. How do I fix this outside of just reading 300 books because I've tried that already.Reading books isn’t going to help you. Reading books is for when you want to get better at something you are already doing, not when you’re not doing what you need to. You already know what you need to do, you can feel it. You just don’t have the confidence to act on it. It’s built in. Do what you know you need to, zero compromise. You will be fine. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/19 04:05 AM |
| 4 | Can women at work tell when male co-workers are nervous around them?Unless you have trained yourself to not show your nervousness, you will show it. So yes, they can tell. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/19 04:00 AM |
| 8 | so women will spend their youth fucking the most muscular men possible and then settle down with some normal dude once they hit their 30s?If you had too many options what would you do? Woman only settle down because as they get older, their options start to dry up. The situation is far more complicated than your title suggests. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/19 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Broke up with 18 month LTR tonight. Could I please have your thoughts and adviceA lot of people here giving bad advice. They sound pretty butt hurt. “Don’t promote again”? Bad advice. Only thing you should demote and hard next for is, sleeping with another guy. Girls today are fucked up. You know it, they know it. They need to be trained. If you’re looking for a pre-trained woman, you will only find ones that have been trained by a boyfriend (alpha widows) or by their father (almost non existent in western societies). What should you do? Cut contact for a time you decide, i… | /r/askTRP | 08/10/19 11:34 PM |
| 0 | Why do women do this?No, it does not. | /r/askTRP | 04/10/19 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Are women who approach you always lower SMV than you?You probably could have. Set standards and you will be fine. After half a year if the standards need to be revised. Do so. | /r/askTRP | 04/10/19 02:13 AM |
| 2 | My first ever LTR... Is this feeling normal?No. I mean, what values do I have? Zero is the answer. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/19 09:20 PM |
| 2 | My first ever LTR... Is this feeling normal?What values? | /r/askTRP | 03/10/19 09:10 PM |
| 1 | My first ever LTR... Is this feeling normal?It can happen with any woman. Some are harder than others, some will never like you enough for it to happen with you. But you have to be 100% dominant. Any crack that brings it down to 99% could cause your relationship to fail. If you’re not that type of person, it might not work for you. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/19 09:05 PM |
| 1 | My first ever LTR... Is this feeling normal?Of course. By investing in the relationship, you are giving her value. Making the gap between both of your values smaller. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/19 08:58 PM |
| 1 | My first ever LTR... Is this feeling normal?Another one wants me. They can’t get enough. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/19 08:50 PM |
| -1 | My first ever LTR... Is this feeling normal?You have some lessons to learn. The only “performance requirement” you have, is to yourself. I didn’t preform, I am only myself. “Any woman who happily does an open relationship like that must severely lack options”. Thanks for the insult, so kind. But you’re right. She has zero options better than me. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/19 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Would it be beta to Ltr oneitis I used to orbit in my blue pill days ?Hmmmmm.... I would say don’t do it. Not because she was once your oneitis but because you are asking us if you should. If your so unsure, you must have a feeling that she would have some sort of power over you if you dated. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/19 08:22 PM |
| 3 | Why do women do this?Your response should have been. “I don’t cuddle. If I come over, I’m going to fuck you.” Or if you really had to study, then who cares. You got what you needed done. Trying to understand woman is a feminine trait. Just boldly tell them what you intend to do. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/19 08:18 PM |
| 3 | My first ever LTR... Is this feeling normal?Performance requirement? Men don’t have a performance requirement. Who told you that? A woman? I’ve been with my GF for 5 years, loves me more than ever, and knows that I am not exclusive to her while being exclusive to me. I didn’t even try. What did I do? I didn’t care about the outcome of our relationship. I treated her like shit I fucked her a lot Required her to do what I tell her to do, always. Basically never took her out on dates or put any effort into the relationship, that’s her job Sh… | /r/askTRP | 03/10/19 08:09 PM |
| 16 | Are women who approach you always lower SMV than you?Remove the SMV value from your thinking. Woman are just attracted or not. They don’t think past the sale. Some woman are aggressive, some are not. Some are more aggressive because they are ugly. Some are aggressive because they are really attracted to you. Don’t get caught up on possibilities that may or may not be true. What do your standards say? Does the girl that approach’s you live up to them? Then go for it. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/19 07:59 PM |
| 3 | I can’t get myself to just take actionAh, stop being a little bitch? People do what they want to do. Not what they think they want to. Stop hating on yourself and be honest. You love who you are. You love procrastination, you love pretending to hate your life. May as well be positive about the life you love living. If you wanted to change, you would. It is that simple. Is it as easy as flipping a willpower switch? Why yes, yes it is. But you have to want it. Zero point in trying if you don’t want to | /r/askTRP | 03/10/19 07:47 PM |
| 0 | Every girl is a Alpha widow in 2019Then you will never get it. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/19 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Every girl is a Alpha widow in 2019That is by no means unattainable. It’s actually easier than you think. But why? What is your reason for wanting this? | /r/askTRP | 03/10/19 05:35 PM |
| 43 | Every girl is a Alpha widow in 2019Girls don’t move on from there ex’s... Until the find a replacement that is better. If you’re not causing them to move on, you’re not better than their ex. Which is pretty clear to us, because you’re here on reddit complaining. Don’t care so much. They are fucking you, what more do you want? If they start talking about their ex’s, tell them to shut the fuck up or get out of your house. Then at least they will respect you. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/19 08:07 AM |
| 2 | That really fucking hurt. I think I'm recovering well now. thanks for the support here that I've readNo. Books are a great resource if you’re not a bitch. They can’t help you if you are though. Books for bitches is just procrastination. Only thing I can recommend, stop asking for permission. Do it in a radical over the top way. It won’t actually be radical, it will just feel that way. Once you are going after what you want in a big way, then other people’s knowledge can help get you there faster. Not many will tell you this though, they just want to sell books. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/19 08:22 PM |
| 2 | lack focus because I am emotional about broken plateDon’t let me cast a spell on you. There is no journey. Being a man is already inside of you. You already know what you need to do. You’re just waiting for ask RP to give you permission to do it. This is why I called you a little bitch. Believe in yourself, you already have the answer. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/19 07:49 PM |
| 2 | That really fucking hurt. I think I'm recovering well now. thanks for the support here that I've readGuys don’t “fall in love”, unless they are mentally a girl. That hurt you’re feeling is the little bitch inside feeling sorry for itself. It isn’t you. Kill the little bitch and you will be fine. Be a fucking man. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/19 07:41 PM |
| 2 | lack focus because I am emotional about broken plateStop being a little bitch. Feelings are for girls. Why is this girl more important to you than your own sanity? She cast a spell on your weak needy ass. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/19 07:35 PM |
| 3 | The Difference Between Good Game and Being a Clown?The first rule of persuasion is “Get Attention”. Currently you are using your entertaining behavior to get that attention. You will always need to get attention, but there are other ways to get it. The more attractive/fit you are, the more attention you get. The more money you show that you have, the more attention. The more aggressive you are, the more attention you get and so on. Woman rate their own value and the value of those around them by the attention they get. This is why they go crazy … | /r/askTRP | 02/10/19 07:31 PM |
| 2 | LTR has a lot of orbiters, I fear that I’ll get cuckedDon’t be afraid. Needy AF. Who cares about validation girls get from other guys? Not me. Girls only sleep around if they don’t like you enough. 100% in your control. If she is afraid of losing you, she won’t sleep around. Switch it up. You need to be the one getting the attention and not caring about sleeping around, she needs to be the needy one. Guy’s and girls are really similar, girls only prefer to be led and guys SHOULD prefer to lead. Guys on this sub don’t understand that though, because… | /r/askTRP | 02/10/19 07:15 PM |
| 2 | Should I stop approaching girls for some time and focus on working towards my dream/career?No. Not at all. Your progress in this order. Fitness, woman, money. Gain competence in each category BEFORE moving onto the next. If you miss out woman and go straight to money, woman will take all the money you earn from you. Edit: Likewise, if you don’t become fit before moving to woman or money, results will be sub par. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/19 04:44 AM |
| 0 | It feels like I'm losing my mind, and all I can do is wait...I didn’t suggest that. If you read my post, you would have noticed that I encouraged the OP to increase his value. Not decrease it like getting back together with a girl who has cheated on you would do. While she has probably cheated, zero guarantee. What I did offer was basic tips on the FOUNDATION of increasing the value of your attention, if he wants to get back with his wife. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/19 07:11 AM |
| -1 | It feels like I'm losing my mind, and all I can do is wait...What is the Red Pill about then? | /r/askTRP | 20/09/19 06:55 AM |
| -1 | It feels like I'm losing my mind, and all I can do is wait...The Red Pill is not anti marriage. The Red Pill is “Do what the fuck you want while being a man about it.” If you’re going to let some guy online tell you that you shouldn’t get married or do anything for that matter, you’re completely blue pill. A follower. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/19 06:33 AM |
| -1 | It feels like I'm losing my mind, and all I can do is wait...Sorry? The OP can do as he pleases. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/19 05:59 AM |
| 11 | Dealing with girls who try to push their friends on youWhat wrong with meeting her friends? Don't go on a lunch date or anything. But if you meet at a club or a party, all good. Invite her and her friends to the club, bring some of your friends and have fun. Then she can no longer nag you. Alternatively, when they nag you about it. Tell them to fuck off, and you don't have time for their shit. If they don't like it. Good riddance. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/19 05:57 AM |
| 13 | How to not stick you dick in crazy when they're all crazy?You can manage crazy. Stick your dick in them all. Just make sure they are hot enough to be worth the hassle. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/19 05:52 AM |
| 0 | Virgin freshman noob, long time lurkerJust be honest. Tell John you like her and that he needs to back off. It's not personal, you just need some alone time with the girl. If he can't accept it, he is not a good friend. Dump him. Don't get oneitis for your friend. As for the girl and not getting onitis, there are many things you can do. But two would be: Be honest about what you want with her and if she doesn't want that, don't be friends Get to know her without being so obvious while getting to know other girls at the same time. No… | /r/askTRP | 20/09/19 05:50 AM |
| 0 | It feels like I'm losing my mind, and all I can do is wait...Hmmmm... Do you want to save your marriage? Your wife doesn't value your attention. Whatever respect she had for you is not what it was. How do you add value to your attention? Do things that are fun Be as attractive as you can be, workout, make more money, dress well Most importantly, make your attention as scarce as possible, to your wife If your thinking of giving your wife as much one on one time as you think she needs to save your marriage, wrong move. Be as busy and unavailable as you can.… | /r/askTRP | 20/09/19 04:56 AM |
| 1 | How do you escalate with a shy girl after you isolate her?If you generally touch everybody all the time, men and woman, it won't feel weird for you to touch another person. Game is all about the foundation you lay. Also, if she likes you she wants you to kiss her. Even if she is nervous and shy, just do it. How much do you value your time? Stop wasting it. You also already have oneitis with this girl. If your concerned about screwing it up in the slightest, you have oneitis. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/19 04:29 AM |
| 2 | Don't care anymore (first girl coming over my house)“I don’t care”. You care bro. A general rule is that people who claim to not care, care more than most. Also I would claim it’s almost impossible not to care if you’re a virgin. It’s natural to care before your first time. Some points. Don’t take red pill to seriously. There is some good advice and interesting viewpoints. But in the end, being a man is built in, you already know what you need to do. Just listen to yourself. Go with that masculine flow. Nofap is amazing for some people, changes t… | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 11:47 AM |
| 3 | Why are women attracted to men who have trouble with the law?Breaking the rules is attractive. Why? Do leaders make rules or follow them? Are leaders letting themselves be defined or defining the world for others? But most importantly, what do you need to brake the rules? Balls. None of the above is why women like bad guys though. Most red pill ideas are only ways for analytical men to assign meaning to a woman’s reactions. The real reason is that bad boys attract and control attention. Breaking the law attracts attention. Better looks attract attention. … | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 08:01 AM |
| 3 | Sex and gaming girls with easeSounds like you have replaced your old problems with better problems. Great job bro. That is the best anybody can do. Where to go from here? Have you thought about getting more serious with some girls? Having three serious girls (or more) is harder but more fulfilling than just sleeping around. Dating multiple girls while they know about each other is a challenge, it could reignite the sexual fire inside. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/19 05:31 PM |
| 82 | Today, I failed. I thought I was doing everything right, but she ended up telling HR that I was making her “uncomfortable”.Hahaha, sorry bro, sounds like a shit situation. You learnt a lesson so, all good. Don’t date girls at work. Personally I don’t think the flirting was a big deal, she seemed into it. You likely didn’t end the convo soon enough though. Better to exit at the high than wait for the low. If you really want to date or fuck a girl at work, take things slower, let her find out your a cool cat before you turn things sexual. Also remember that woman go with the flow and do tons of things they don’t want … | /r/askTRP | 10/09/19 09:30 AM |
| 2 | Finally met a respectable, feminine, old-school, woman— the problem is she expects me to pay for everything.Wow, don't be a cheap c*nt. You earn double what she does and your not paying? You want a feminine traditional girl? Pay for dinner and outings, not big things, just the small things. If you don't have the money to do that, what are you doing with your life? Also, my current GF is exclusive to me, but I'm not to her. I would try and work out something like that for yourself. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/19 10:06 PM |
| 2 | Penis not working, helpThe first time I went for an interview for a job, I felt really calm. When I finished I found out that I had sweated through my shirt and my heart was up near 100 beats per second. Didn't even know. Luckily I don't sweat much on my hands or face. Being nervous is normal, it is just the excitement of not knowing what is about to happen. If you can get hard while along it is most likely just nerves. The underlying reason may not be apparent though. It could be that you are afraid of under preformi… | /r/askTRP | 08/09/19 05:28 AM |
| 5 | Penis not working, helpFirstly, luck doesn't give you anything but an opportunity. You didn't get lucky, it was all you. Secondly, how many times have you had sex before? What turns you on? Where you relaxed? Did you get her to give you a blow job to get you hard? Were you looking forward to being hard and inside her? Only answer the question you feel are relevant. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/19 02:37 AM |
| 27 | LTR affected too much by sister, therapist, and blames me for looking back at a girl who was eyefucking me at a club. What is the situation?You shouldn't keep giving attention for bad behavior. Girls argue to get attention. They will stop if they figure out that you cut attention off 100% when they start. | /r/askTRP | 07/09/19 11:28 AM |
| 2 | Will girls shut you down or make it more difficult to interact with them if they believe you're a player?The female currency is attention. They are very aware of this and where attention is coming from and where they give it. Since most females believe that guys value attention as much as they do, they will use there attention as a weapon. Or try to. Because of this, you can always tell what a woman wants, it is where she will put her attention. Any attention that is over and above what she normally gives to others that is. Likewise, this is why woman play hard to get, because they know it works wh… | /r/askTRP | 06/09/19 08:51 PM |
| 10 | Why is TRP Against Marriage?TRP is filled with angry people trying to improve themselves in an angry way. That anger is often misdirected at woman. These are people who were broken, trying to fix themselves. Never expect perfection at asktrp. As for your suggestion, by all means do as you please. There is not one path for everyone. Nor are RP guidelines rules, just guidelines. The biggest thing you can learn from TRP is that you are valuable, and a born leader. The second is that women are not men, nor are they like men. T… | /r/askTRP | 06/09/19 04:36 AM |
| 30 | The light switch effect.AWALT, it's just the way woman are, they can't do anything about it. Don't blame them for it. Blame the people who should of taught you about it. It's not being cold, it's just normal. You can't tell me you wouldn't leave your average girlfriend for a supermodel if you had the chance. Or date both. All men act in a certain way too. We just don't need to leave our current partner to get a new one. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/19 02:31 AM |
| 0 | How to differentiate between a woman flirting for validation and a woman actually interestedOnly experience will teach you this. Experience with escalating. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/19 06:47 AM |
| 9 | Overcoming Alpha WidowsIt’s a scale. The more issue she has(lay count, alpha widow, feminism...), the more D and effort on your part she needs to come around to an obedient and loving girl (All girls can come around, most just aren’t worth the effort). For comparison, virgins almost fall in love immediately and require the least amount of work. At least in my experience. Take it as a warning and decide how much effort a girl is worth. Edit: As to how to overcome it, add value to your time. The best way to do this is t… | /r/askTRP | 06/08/19 08:15 AM |
| 0 | LTR of 2.5 years threatening to break up if I don't commit more (I.e. move for her and in together). How do you deal?Tell her to shut up. Then tell her that if she doesn’t behave you will leave her ass. Done. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/19 08:14 AM |
| 2 | What’s the most practical way to get a girlfriend?Put yourself first. Have balls (most important) Be around girls so they can see your balls (not literally see your ballsacks) Done. Girls will come want to date you. The quality of girls that like you will adjust to the quality of person you are. A quality tip. The main thing girls are attracted to is not confidence. It's balls. A balsy guy. | /r/askTRP | 03/06/19 08:04 AM |
| 1 | For men, the level of motivation for mating doesn't justify the benefits. Evolution screws up men.Nope. I just expanded on my previous two points | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 07:44 PM |
| 1 | For men, the level of motivation for mating doesn't justify the benefits. Evolution screws up men.There are four things you need to do to get a loyal woman: Don't be lazy. Be assertive and aggressive in your life, work and with woman. Put yourself first. You are the most important person to you. Fuck her into oblivion. Until she blanks out and can no longer see. This is fucking her right. Always Increase the value of your attention. With these four things you can get a loyal woman. You will have to train her into one. But it is possible. Mr Beta, you're testing my patience. You don't know me… | /r/askTRP | 17/04/19 03:56 AM |
| 13 | Is being very selfish the best way to live life?Not at all. Take care of yourself first. This might seem selfish to beta cucks. It's not. After you have taken care of yourself, be generous. If you want to excel in life and especially business, selfishness will be your down fall. It will limit you to mediocrity. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/19 08:55 PM |
| 0 | For men, the level of motivation for mating doesn't justify the benefits. Evolution screws up men.A woman is not 100% hypergamy. That is simply one aspect of her personality. Hypergamy states that a woman is looking for her best dating/mating option. Just like guys do. Hypergamy also states that a woman is 100% loyal to her best option. Be her best option. Or rather be the only option she could every imagine being with. Understanding hypergamy is only the first level of understanding woman. Your on level one bro. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/19 06:41 PM |
| -1 | Guys, i'm broken, would love to hear from you...Terrible advice, can't believe it has so many up votes | /r/askTRP | 16/04/19 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Guys, i'm broken, would love to hear from you...Sounds like TRP hasn't helped you that much. Your still suffering from the core beta insecurities. You have placed your girlfriend as your self worth. Dumb bro. If anything TRP should have taught you that girls are emotional and unstable. Do you want to place your self worth in something emotional and unstable? No wonder you are feeling fucked up. What you need is to gain some self respect. Do things in your life that a version of you that you respect would do. Start with dumping your girlfriend… | /r/askTRP | 16/04/19 05:38 PM |
| 2 | This girl I see in the bus every few days...I can't even say she was interested. The story that you posted is hard to understand. I could easily tell you if physically masculine/attractive. But, having balls is what woman are really looking for | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 08:02 PM |
| 1 | For men, the level of motivation for mating doesn't justify the benefits. Evolution screws up men.No. TRP talks about hypergammy and HOW woman love. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 07:48 PM |
| 1 | For men, the level of motivation for mating doesn't justify the benefits. Evolution screws up men.She works for you. You become her agent. If she is hot enough, easy money. Don't expect an ugly girl to make you much money. An ugly girl should still be trying though. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 06:50 PM |
| 1 | For men, the level of motivation for mating doesn't justify the benefits. Evolution screws up men.If you're not attractive and shit in bed, sure. Woman are very loyal to men, it is called love. You need to leave the anger phase | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 06:48 PM |
| 2 | For men, the level of motivation for mating doesn't justify the benefits. Evolution screws up men.Did I say that? You sound angry. If she isn't into you and your fucking her, she is ether a prostitute or you're raping her. Her being attracted to you obviously comes first. Then all you need to do is fuck her right. Sounds like you couldn't even imagine what that would be like though. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 06:43 PM |
| 2 | For men, the level of motivation for mating doesn't justify the benefits. Evolution screws up men.Shut the fuck up. be humble and learn something | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 06:39 PM |
| 2 | This girl I see in the bus every few days...There is no way I could tell with that limited info | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 06:38 PM |
| 2 | This girl I see in the bus every few days...No she won't. Unless you're really ugly. If that is the case you have other things to work on. She probably won't react well to you approaching her in the manner I suggested, not at first anyway. You have to stay cool, calm and collected and not back down or apologise. If she isn't interested, she will simply say so. "Sorry I'm not interested" or "I have a boyfriend" and such. If she over reacts and starts criticize you, she is likely testing to see if you really have the balls you just demonstr… | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 11:35 AM |
| 2 | For men, the level of motivation for mating doesn't justify the benefits. Evolution screws up men.If your girl isn't helping you become a millionaire, you're doing it wrong | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 10:26 AM |
| 1 | For men, the level of motivation for mating doesn't justify the benefits. Evolution screws up men.Then you're doing it wrong. Woman should increase the money you have in your life. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 10:02 AM |
| 13 | For men, the level of motivation for mating doesn't justify the benefits. Evolution screws up men.Your view is understandable, but it is wrong. Men get: A loyal woman Somebody who will do anything for you Basically a servant Never have to cook or clean again All you have to do is fuck them right | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 04:43 AM |
| 2 | This girl I see in the bus every few days...Good. She should know what you want within the first five minutes on conversation | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 09:58 PM |
| 1 | I need help with regards to cold approachYou're missing the point. No balls = no girls. Girls want to fuck as much as you do. Not being open and honest is an incell trait. Also, if you respect your own time. You want to find out if she is interested as fast as possible. No fucking around with pleasantries. She likes you or she doesn't. You don't have to use my words, you could be pg13. But my point is clear | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 07:41 PM |
| 4 | I need help with regards to cold approachThe best advice you will ever get is to be open and honest. 200% open and honest. "Hey girl, your so beautiful. How about I take you back to mine right now and slip of those pants off of yours. Then I'm going to take my rock hard dick and slip it into that tight wet pussy and make you cum until you can no longer see our of those pretty eyes." Open and honest cold approaching. Self respect gained. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 06:49 PM |
| 21 | Losing my virginity at 23Only good advice so far. OP needs to understand that his sexual anxiety stems from wanting this girl to like him or girls in general. If he didn't care, he wouldn't care about busting a nut five seconds in. OP, girls don't give a shit about you. They simple can't be fucked. It's not a female problem, generally most people don't care. I don't care about you, but I'm a nice guy so I'm giving you advice. You need to stop caring so much. You only need to care about yourself and those who you are res… | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 06:43 PM |
| 2 | This girl I see in the bus every few days...Be open and honest with her. Tell her you want to sleep with her, and how you want to do it. Self respect gained. Self respect is all that matters. Not pussy | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 06:32 PM |
| 2 | How To Deal With Cognitive DissonanceBeing red pilled isn't an action. You can't act red pilled. Self respect is what you're looking for. You need to respect yourself, and respect your time. Give each second of your time the respect it deserves. It's your time. Are you going to waste it? Are you going to use it on people who don't consider your time important? People who waste it? The red pill is a round about way for analytical guys to find their way through a bunch of lies. It doesn't have to be that hard. What do you really deep… | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 03:42 AM |
| 1 | I care about them. They dont even think...You need some self respect ASAP. What would a version of you that you could be proud of do? | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 08:18 AM |
| 1 | When do you guys recommend giving a second chanceHave you told her you want to fuck her? How long ago did you ask her out? | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 08:15 AM |
| 1 | the voice of hot girlsBe quite. This is AskTRP, not OpinionTRP. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 08:11 AM |
| 10 | Honest Advice Requested.Solid and well put advice | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 07:58 AM |
| 2 | How to stop changing my behavior(approval seeking) when attractive women are around?This type of behaviour comes from Being a Little Bitch™. The solution is to make a decision that under no circumstances, for the next two months, will you sleep with any woman. In this two months, do stuff a you that you could be proud of would do. Self respect gained. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 07:51 AM |
| 8 | Update on girl, turns out she changed her mind and wants me... not sure how to handle.Tell her to f off. Self respect + 1 | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 07:47 AM |
| 1 | What did I do wrong?I would not worry about your SMV. Keep doing what you are doing. Until you gain more confidence, you can't judge your SMV. Without confidence and a some aggression, you can't express your true SMV. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/19 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Where to startWoman are very sexual beings with few exceptions. My current LTR is ready whenever I want. Anytime, anywhere. As soon as I started being dominant with women, they started to want to have sex, all the time. Gaining dominance in the relationship won’t be to hard, but first you need to be in a position where you are able to excel without her. Once you no longer need her, you can start leading/dominating her. She will putty in your hands and do anything you want, or leave you. But anything is better… | /r/askTRP | 05/01/19 04:22 AM |
| 1 | Where to startSolid advice. We need more of this at askTRP | /r/askTRP | 05/01/19 04:15 AM |
| 1 | Where to startCan’t beat being fit and jacked. You said you want some leverage in the relationship. This will give you more than you realize. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/19 04:15 AM |
| 108 | Addressing the half-assed responses in this subSounds like you’ve got oneitis | /r/askTRP | 05/01/19 04:09 AM |
| 1 | How to make my life more interesting as a 17 year old?At your age, drop your hobbies (unless they put you into a social environment) and start building skills. The more skills you have by the time you enter the workforce, the easier life will be. You’ll get more girls, money and friends if you lay proper foundations now. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/19 03:54 AM |
| 1 | How do I get out of this rut and have "abundance mentality"?You can’t fake abundance mentality. It has to be felt to be expressed. How to have abundance mentality = get abundance. However, in saying that, having abundance in one area of life can substitute for another, for a time. Having an abundance of things you enjoy doing in life(that you don’t need women to do) can come off as “abundance mentality” to girls. Having a lot of money can bring about abundance mentality in that area and it will bleed into others. If you aim to have abundance in every are… | /r/askTRP | 05/01/19 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Why are so many early 20's girls crippled with foundationless anxiety?Generally as a whole, woman have anxiety. However it is amplified by our extremely connected world. To many women to compete with, to many companies making money off their insecurities. The other reason and probably the biggest is that women are “half people”. Unlike men they are not complete. They need a strong man to complete them. To be a foundation for them, give them boundaries and such. It is common red pill knowledge that women mentally stop developing halfway between an adult and a child… | /r/askTRP | 05/01/19 03:29 AM |
| 1 | I took a step back in career and my girl beta-shamed me?Doesn’t matter. May as well alpha up and see how it goes. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/19 02:07 AM |
| 3 | she 'fears love and attachment'Pretty simple. Don’t give a shit. Live your own life. If she brings it up again, pretend your not really listening. Say something like “That’s cool babe.” with a disinterested tone. Don’t care about it, because you shouldn’t. You have your own life to live. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/19 09:34 AM |
| 3 | I took a step back in career and my girl beta-shamed me?Pretty easy to solve, but you have to be willing to lose her. There is no 100% successful magic advice. You have to tell her that if she doesn’t like you, she can fuck off because you have stuff to do. Maybe not in those words, but with the same force and intent. Nothing gets women wet like a guy who knows his value. Also, don’t listen to the guys telling you to drop her. It’s good advice, but alphas do what they want to. If you want to date a bitch, do it. However, there is no good outcome for … | /r/askTRP | 04/01/19 09:26 AM |
| 4 | How to lose boyfriend vibe?Much better to respect yourself. Same result with more positivity | /r/askTRP | 04/01/19 09:17 AM |
| 2 | How to lose boyfriend vibe?Pretty simple. Tell her you want to fuck. If she says no, tell her to get in contact with you when she does because you don’t like wasting your time on something that is going nowhere. If she says it is going somewhere, laugh and say not for me. Then leave and don’t contact her until she contacts you. Pretty much dread game. Or as I like to call it, having some self respect. Keep in mind that this only works if she is already attracted to you. It communicates so many attractive qualities I don’t… | /r/askTRP | 04/01/19 09:15 AM |
| 9 | If women don't need men as providers anymore, what use do they have for us?The bottom 80% will always be needed. Without them the top 20% doesn’t look so good. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/19 08:58 AM |
| 2 | Why are girls so flakey? What the fuck?As far as I am aware, no it isn’t updated often. Reread everything you have read and then read it again. You will be surprised what new things you pick up. However, you will never learn as much as you will by interacting with woman who are attracted to you and respect you. I would suggest finding girls who are into you, even if they are low smv. You will experience how every woman should treat you. Dominate them and you will learn how women want to be treated. Edit: Check out “The G Manifesto”. … | /r/askTRP | 04/01/19 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Why are girls so flakey? What the fuck?The side bar is full of excellent advice. Generally, a flaky girl is a girl who is not that into you. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 10:51 PM |
| 0 | Why are girls so flakey? What the fuck?You shouldn’t be doing that. Basic Red Pill, only use text for logistics. It’s not a hard rule, but you should have better things to do than talk to a girl. Less communication is better. Leave the real communication for when you’re in person. Even if she texts you, keep your messages short, light, funny and a dismissive, like you have better things to do than talk to her. Which, if you are following the side bar, you will have. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 10:36 PM |
| 0 | Why are girls so flakey? What the fuck?I would have asked the day before. Asking an hour before is assuming she will flake | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 09:32 PM |
| 23 | GF feels depressed when talking about achievements/goalsHer being depressed about your success is a red flag. A good woman would be overjoyed. It increases your SMV There are three possibilities here and none of them are about her own career. She doesn’t think she is that valuable and is worried that your increased value will make you look elsewhere(that’s what she would do). She doesn’t respect you and is annoyed that her underling is more successful than she is. She is thinking of leaving you and is annoyed that you keep increasing you SMV making i… | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 07:12 PM |
| 1 | How can I make a good impression on day 1 of class?Sort of. If you have had read the side bar, you wouldn’t use that phrase. Best to read that before you offer advice. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 07:04 PM |
| 4 | Why are girls so flakey? What the fuck?Probably because you used Snapchat. But seriously, ditch that shit. She likely thought you where coming off as needy. Confirming a date an hour beforehand? Seems a bit needy to me. A man she wants to date wouldn’t care to much and just hit up a plate. Woman want a killer. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 07:01 PM |
| 2 | Entering monk modeSounds like a plan. That is the first step to being an alpha, creating a direction. A couple of things though, hard beds are better. You will get used to it. It isn’t a preference thing, it is better for your back. Also, Jordan Peterson has some basic advice, but he is pretty tame and mainstream. He can never turn you into an alpha, nor is he one himself. At some point you will need to look for a better mentor. Such as Rollo Tomassi, The G manifesto, the cad club. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 06:54 PM |
| 3 | I think my parents were a prime example of "Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks". Would you agree?A lot of guys on here are saying. “Be a good son to your father.” Or “Be loyal to your father.”. They offer zero other advice. Come on. Instead, tell your father to get his shit together. Be tough on him and give him an example to follow. Or not, he is his own man and has made his own decision, he isn’t your responsibility. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 06:45 PM |
| 3 | I think my parents were a prime example of "Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks". Would you agree?1 to 4 are solid advice. But only 5 makes you Alpha. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 06:37 PM |
| 3 | How can I make a good impression on day 1 of class?I understand what your saying. “Just be yourself” isn’t technically bad advice if you actually understand what it means. The thing is, it is used so often by mothers, sisters, women and the media that it has taken on a new convoluted meaning. “Just be yourself” today means “You are good as you are”. It means that you should be ok with who are, you don’t need to improve. No matter how you define it, add to it or create exceptions for it, guys, especially the new ones, will take it in the way they… | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 06:28 PM |
| 2 | Number or Snapchat?What your describing is apathy, not outcome independence. Outcome independence is like having a full fridge. You might feel like cooking some Mexican, but you don’t care if when you get home you don’t have the ingredients, because your fridge is so full anyway. If you have ten great friends, you might want to spend time with one of them that day. But you wouldn’t mind if they can’t make it because you have nine other friends to contact. You wouldn’t download snapchat to maximize the possibility … | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 06:11 PM |
| 2 | Number or Snapchat?In what way? Mocking? No I don’t mock to much in regular conversation. Nor am I so abrupt or exaggerated. But what is this about homophobia? Am I on a red pill sub reddit anymore? Using the word “gay” in a mocking way is not homophobic. I would continue to use it even if it was. The red pill has never had anything to do with gay people. Generally the opinion has been one of stoicism. Nobody cares. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 11:21 AM |
| 17 | How can I make a good impression on day 1 of class?“Just be yourself” in the red pill community is generally rated as the worst advice. Given by mothers and sisters. It is not helpful in any way. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 11:09 AM |
| 9 | How can I make a good impression on day 1 of class?It is hard to give proper advice without more information about your situation. A note though, being quite and mysterious only works if people notice you. If you have a good skill, it can make quite and mysterious work. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 11:06 AM |
| 2 | Number or Snapchat?I knew this subreddit was in decline. But I didn’t know men on here are not even red pilled anymore. Time to read the side bar again. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 10:57 AM |
| 0 | Number or Snapchat?Snapchat shows neediness, an abundance of time. Communication with a girl should only be used for logistics. The less you communicate, the better. It’s true that a picture can say a thousand words. You only want to say about ten. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 10:51 AM |
| 3 | Number or Snapchat?Ignoring that Snapchat is on it’s last legs. It’s stock is crashing. Why would you follow the trend? Men don’t do this, woman do. If you need Snapchat to get girls, your method of communication is not your problem. If a girl respects you, she will not only understand you have better things to do than use Snapchat, she will expect you not to use it. Extremely needy. Makeup and high heels are also used by most American women. Maybe you can bond with them more if you use those things. Woman follow … | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 10:40 AM |
| 0 | Number or Snapchat?Then differentiate. Stand out by not using that weesh shit. What is it with these millennials? Using Snapchat is breaking red pill rules. You are the prize. She comes to you, she conforms to you. If she wants you she will text. Why would I want a girl who is only interested enough to reply on snapchat. It is breaking the rule of abundance. Who cares if she doesn’t reply to your text. Many more and better girls. Trying to gain an edge with Snapchat screams of neediness. It is breaking the rule of… | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 10:25 AM |
| -6 | Number or Snapchat?Number bro. What is this with Snapchat? Are you a gay? I do not care if there is a 0.1% higher chance with Snapchat. I do not care about getting the close. I don’t care about the girl. A number is an invitation for her to enter part of my life. My private (and awesome) life that I don’t broadcast on social media. Snapchat is gay. Don’t got time for that shit. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 10:03 AM |
| 21 | If prostituition became legal in the future, do you think we would see more men preferring to pay for sex instead of playing these "games" with women just to sleep with them?Not a chance. Prostitution is legal in my country, not much has changed. There is no "playing field" to even out. You're not competing with woman, you're competing with men. Assuming you have read and understand the side bar: One rule, don't be lazy = Free pussy. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/18 08:44 AM |
| 0 | I'm a pathological liar, and probably a complete psychopath. Made some changes but need tough love and adviceLying is a sign of caring about the outcome. A person who doesn't care about the outcome won't need to lie. Outcome independence. I understand it may be different for you, lying is built in now. But if are always lying it's going to be hard to go from full throttle into reverse. Try setting a quota of lies you are allowed to tell per day and slowly decrease it. Make the amount achievable. Be optimistic about it. Set a valid inspiring reason to not lie. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/18 10:08 AM |
| 5 | "I want to sleep with you, but i think you will never call me again" Proper response?Deception is never the right call. Dispite some guys advocating for a dark triad type of act, it not the right way to go. Mysterious, yes, caring about yourself more than others, sure. Deceptive, no. Masculinity is direct, femininity is deceptive or at least works in the shadows. Deception goes against abundance mentality. If you need to deceive you don't have abundance. Also, deflecting is not deception. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/18 05:08 AM |
| 1 | I called a girl “Gigantic”Apologizing when you did nothing wrong, shows weakness. Did you cause any real harm? Were your intentions to harm? No and no. Only apologize when there is a very real harm that you caused. Like breaking a person's limb or causing another to lose a large amount of money. Otherwise own your mistakes. If you show this kind of weakness and submissiveness they will bend you and fuck you in the ass. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/18 04:56 AM |
| 1 | I have alpha qualities but I am still a loser.Dominating a woman is all mental. Over six foot hot guy, mentally stimulates a woman more than a short fat guy. It is all in the mind. If you can’t dominate them socially/mentally, you’re out of luck. Mental strength is key. As a human what is our most powerful advantage? In the wild it is not physical strength, but mental strength and wit that has allowed us to dominate the food chain. Mental strength is more important than physical strength or height. Mental strength shouldn’t be confused with… | /r/askTRP | 05/09/18 11:54 AM |
| 0 | A woman I see regularly at work tries to laugh on purpose at every joke about me. Why the hell does she do that lol?The advice on this sub is really going downhill. Firstly, “Why the hell does she do that lol?” Really? lol? Are you a teenage girl? I don’t want to harass you, but that should be your first warning sign that you don’t have your shit together. Laughing to release nervous tension (As an example, saying something controversial creates nervous tension. A woman might say “I just don’t like him lol”. She is nervous that she will be criticized for not liking a person, lol gives her an out. “Just kiddin… | /r/askTRP | 02/09/18 02:17 AM |
| 0 | How do I fuck other girls without feeling bad for my fwb? Never fucked multiple girls before.How much do you get paid an hour ten pounds? Then give her two hours of your time. Maybe three. But you should value your time more than that. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/18 08:27 PM |
| 1 | How do I fuck other girls without feeling bad for my fwb? Never fucked multiple girls before.You won’t feel guilty when you start fucking these easy lays you have. When you go into a store, do you feel guilty about buying more than one plate? I hope not. What value has this fbw given you to deserve your extended attention? Sex is not valuable. Sex is everywhere. Your only getting onitis because your not sure if you can get another girl. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/18 07:53 PM |
| 2 | How in the world do redpilled guys even pretend to be interested enough to hold something resembling a prolonged conversation with 90% of women?Sick. Girls are not meant to be on your level. They are made to serve. Don’t expect anything more than that. They are 70% child brained. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/18 07:48 PM |
| 0 | Girls on bike said "heey" to me. IOI or attention seeking?That depends, did her hey have more than one y or not. Did it look like a “heyyyy” or a “hey”? In seriousness though. You’ll never know until you find out. Alphas don’t wait for IOIs, do you like her or not? Waiting for IOIs is an excuse betas use to be lazy. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/18 07:43 PM |
| 1 | How do I keep Plates as plates and from finding out about one another?Bitch, who cares. I learnt as a little kid that plates brake. I also learnt that you fucking USE a plate to eat off. Not to form an emotion bond with. Many plates to choose from at the store, everybody should have one. Nobody cares if you have more than one. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/18 07:38 PM |
| 2 | How do I keep Plates as plates and from finding out about one another?Solid advice. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/18 07:35 PM |
| 2 | Am i the only one who attract more girls on nofap?If pheromones were are major part of human attraction, like dogs we would be sniffing privates. Without a good nose, a human simply cannot tell where a pheromone may come from. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/18 07:33 PM |
| 3 | Am i the only one who attract more girls on nofap?Must be magic | /r/askTRP | 15/08/18 07:26 PM |
| 5 | Am i the only one who attract more girls on nofap?Second one only. Girls like guys who want to fuck. Most guys on TRP are only used to having 2% of an Alpha sex drive. Makes them think no fap is magic. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/18 07:24 PM |
| 8 | Am i the only one who attract more girls on nofap?Reasonable and logical advice. None of this magic shit. Give it more often please. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/18 07:21 PM |
| 3 | Am i the only one who attract more girls on nofap?Not a negative, ladies love it. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/18 07:20 PM |
| 9 | Am i the only one who attract more girls on nofap?If you don’t fap, you are hornier and have more sexual energy. Girls notice and it turns them on. A guy who has this uncontrollable sexual desire. Panty wetter. Try to be this horny 60 minutes after a fap. Major life hack. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/18 07:17 PM |
| 0 | Am i the only one who attract more girls on nofap?Biggest effect comes from girls noticing how horny you are. Turns them on. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/18 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Am i the only one who attract more girls on nofap?Hmmmm.... Yes. Why do you have limpy dick? Can’t get hard? | /r/askTRP | 15/08/18 07:13 PM |
| 2 | Am i the only one who attract more girls on nofap?Betas feel deep shame when they use a woman. Null point g. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/18 07:12 PM |
| -1 | Am i the only one who attract more girls on nofap?Na g | /r/askTRP | 15/08/18 07:10 PM |
| 3 | I stuck my dick in a crazy, clingy girl. How to save my ass?Tell her a sob story about how some girl broke your poor little heart. Now you can't date anyone for longer than a week without becoming majorly depressed because of said girl. For the sake of your job and mental health, you can't date girls for any length of time. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/18 04:46 AM |
| 0 | How do you have abundance mentality about girls when you have no girls?You get some girls. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/18 11:35 AM |
| 2 | 1 use hall pass limited time only!If you are still enticed and want to sleep with more chicks, then stop being exclusive. That simple. The very idea of your LTR's approval being a concern goes against all the teachings of TRP. A hall pass is saying her approval matters, and you won't lose it if you bang a chick one time. This is her principal and her rule. Her approval matters. Her frame. So I ask you, what are your principles, what are your rules and what do you approve of? | /r/askTRP | 10/08/18 10:01 AM |
| 1 | 1 use hall pass limited time only!Why would a guy care about a woman leaving? Sure it hurts but who cares? Get over it. A TRP man should not be 100% loyal to a girl who has not proven herself. And even at that point it should be conditional loyalty, if that is even loyalty at all. If you care enough about her leaving to care about a commitment test, you are already in her frame. What would I do in this situation, tell my girl to "fuck off" in a playful yet half serious tone and continue doing what I was going to do anyway. Woman… | /r/askTRP | 10/08/18 07:10 AM |
| 1 | 1 use hall pass limited time only!Yes, but you say "or she's shit testing you to see if you're going to step out.". Why would she do this? She could only be testing his word saying he will stay committed. And why? If she is going to leave she will anyway. As the man in the relationship, you should never be worried about commitment tests. You should be testing her commitment to you. A "shit test" is normally referring to a frame/resolve test, or am I wrong? Not a commitment test (is that even a thing?). Edit: Also, if she wants t… | /r/askTRP | 10/08/18 06:45 AM |
| 2 | 1 use hall pass limited time only!Not helpful advice. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/18 05:47 AM |
| 3 | 1 use hall pass limited time only!Why is your LTR defining the terms of the relationship? You are the one who should be defining the relationship. If you want to be exclusive then be exclusive. Otherwise don't. If she has forced you to be exclusive by threatening to leave, then you need to leave her. If the prospect of a "hall pass" entices you, you should take a good look at your relationship. If are enticed it shows you don't believe you run the relationship. Your LTR offering you a "hall pass" shows that she thinks she is run… | /r/askTRP | 10/08/18 05:47 AM |
| 2 | LTR wants to see me almost every day. Should I allow it or pull back and deny her a bit?I live with an LTR. Only guy she has been with, submissive and “loves” me a lot. I can do anything I want to her and she embraces it, I can even sleep with other girls. Anything I want except give her too much attention that is. Woman do not see the world as we do. Everybody has their own skew on the world, but woman take that a step further. They need mental space to imagine you as the perfect guy that you’re really not. If you’re always there, their perfect imaginary view of you isn’t. | /r/askTRP | 28/07/18 02:36 PM |
| 1 | LTR letting me cheat to continue relationshipTake advantage of it. What harm can it do? You can always leave her later. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/18 03:15 AM |
| 1 | My family, mostly my Mother, actively work against my self-improvement constantly. I live with them. Is moving out a priority? Should I cut them out?Are you paying for board? If so get her to sign a board contract. As soon as you start paying you have rights to be left alone. Don't sweat it bro. Just tell her no and only no. Don't explain yourself. I say this with the understanding that you are paying board. If you are not then you are still under the authority of your parents, and this is what you get. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/18 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Did I make the right choiceYou seam to be a bit down. What your saying isn't stupid. Everybody has to go through lack of experience. You have started to become aware of TRP at a young age, which is good. You have a big advantage over me. My recommendation is to not take it so seriously. Take self improvement seriously, but game is just for fun. Believing in yourself is what will get the girls. Also, inexperience is nothing to be ashamed of at your age. Don't be afraid of getting any ether. Your life is just beginning. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/18 01:30 AM |
| 7 | Did I make the right choiceBest advice is to never sleep with girls who are really drunk. Rape charges can come from that. Dodged a bullet there. I once made out with a girl when we were both quite drunk, both ended up chucking. Never went anywhere after that. Normally though, just go for the kiss anyway, no matter who is there. If your the guy who is sexual, nobody will frown if you act according to your nature. Have fun with it. Relax and enjoy your time. | /r/askTRP | 02/07/18 10:28 PM |
| 2 | Is my mission too general?Does your mission make you want to act? If so it is focused enough. If you don't feel inspired by your mission, change it or focus it. What matters is action in a positive direction. Whatever makes you the most excited and motivated to act, is what you need and all you need. | /r/askTRP | 02/07/18 10:11 PM |
| 1 | What would be a good answer to this shit test?Little bit flamboyant. Get where you are coming from though. Just a little to much effort for me. | /r/askTRP | 02/07/18 10:07 PM |
| 2 | I done fucked up and need help/advice/smack round the head.I wouldn't say you "Fucked up". You made a mistake, learn from it and grow. Nothing else to do. You got the lay so what is the problem. I say this because you seam to be taking all of this too seriously. It is a game. woman come and go. Do what YOU want and don't give your power to them. Don't ever do something YOU don't want to do. Have fun and learn to be complete without a woman or with a hundred. Your YOU no matter the situation. That is game. And it's called "game" for a reason. It is a gam… | /r/askTRP | 02/07/18 09:28 PM |
| 1 | How to not come across as too needyDon't care about blowing it, have some fun. Being needy is caring to much. Only solution. Stop caring. | /r/askTRP | 02/07/18 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Girl from chat ditched me at first date after half an hour, help me figure out the obivious.Yeah bro, context is everything. If you have high hopes, your gonna get let down. Big problem with woman today is that their context on what they think they deserve is messed up. | /r/askTRP | 02/07/18 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Girl from chat ditched me at first date after half an hour, help me figure out the obivious.Trust me, joking about your physical difference such as a bent nose or any other thing such as a plain face in a good humoured way will go miles to make you more acceptable. Talking about how ugly your face is, is not joking about it. Saying something like "When I was a kid the wind changed and my face stuck this way." Is more of a joke, albeit a bad one. If your have a big nose, you could say something like "Hang on, I'm just about to climb Everest." Before you scratch your nose. Laughing relea… | /r/askTRP | 02/07/18 12:39 AM |
| -1 | do girls regularly bend over in front of you to flirt ?Mid 30s 8? Na bro. | /r/askTRP | 01/07/18 07:35 PM |
| 2 | Girl from chat ditched me at first date after half an hour, help me figure out the obivious.It's a little hard to tell why she left. Clearly at some point before meeting you she realised she needed an exit strategy. It may have not been your looks. Certain things you did wrong, changing a location at her request is fine if it doesn't inconvenience you, but don't let her pick the location. Number two, you shouldn't have walked with her but insisted on sitting down. A big part of game is acting as though you have something worth while to offer. A man with something worth while has option… | /r/askTRP | 01/07/18 07:33 PM |
| 1 | I will be homeless in the next month and I have no car. My credit is hopelessly low, and I'm feeling suicidal. Should I break up with my GF?All good, we are all insecure from time to time. Best thing to do is, relax, take a step back, smile and think about how you can master this situation in the most fun way possible. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/18 12:55 PM |
| 13 | I will be homeless in the next month and I have no car. My credit is hopelessly low, and I'm feeling suicidal. Should I break up with my GF?You're thinking to hard about this. If you like her, keep her around, if you don't, then dump her. Move in if you want to, or don't. See how everything I mentioned revolves around what your want to do and not something you read online? It's called being a man. Don't give a fuck, work hard, be positive and have a laugh. You will be fine. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/18 12:45 PM |
| 37 | AskTRP told me to hard next my ex. I accepted her back and guess whatWe decided to get back together Just a note for the future. You are using "we" a lot. You decided to get back with her. You were in the power position. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/18 11:11 AM |
| 1 | HB9 on Instagram keeps liking my photos (specifically photos OF me). But she has a BF and a kid...advice?The only solid actionable advice here. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/18 06:03 PM |
| 1 | I think I broke TRP rules and it worked. Can someone explain? Confused because it goes against theory.Game has a lot more gray areas than you may think if you read TRP. TRP rules should only be used as a way to learn the core foundations and principles of female nature and how to truly become a man. Once you have this understanding, you don’t need any rules, you can feel the situation and know what to do. You become Chad. TRP rules are essentially a way to direct a guy away from being a beta. They are not complete and are not the right way for every situation. But if you are beta and don’t know … | /r/askTRP | 21/05/18 05:58 PM |
| 3 | Girlfriend Disrespects me.If she is disrespecting you, she isn't entering your frame, ether that or your frame is weak or you're allowing people to disrespect you in your frame. Don't get into arguments. It's your life, what you say goes. If she tries to start an argument, tell her where the door is. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/18 06:01 PM |
| 3 | If getting married is fucking insane due to her one day taking half your shit. Would getting married with a prenup outlining that in the event of divorce she gets absolutely nothing of yours be perfect?In my country of you live with a partner (unmarried) for three consecutive years you become a defacto couple and she can still steal half your shit. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/18 03:40 AM |
| 1 | Wanna be confident? Fail.That sounds like a giving up attitude to me. If I become confident at faking my confidence, I won’t need to fake anymore. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/18 07:12 AM |
| 0 | Branding Yourself.You don’t have to be underdressed. But dressing up isn’t important. Maybe it is simply the culture of my country, so it is excepted here, but as long as you are clean and well groomed, dressing above what is required is often detrimental. What is important is standing out, that however should come from the energy you give off. Women are the product. Who does it look like is trying to sell themselves? Who dresses up? Who pays tons of attention to themselves to get attention from the opposite sex?… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/18 12:02 AM |
| -1 | Branding Yourself.A lot of what you say is true. Be desirable, make yourself known, the more women that you have in your town or city, the more women there will be to fuck. I don’t agree with dressing up though, that’s a female thing. Dress up to the expected level for the occasion, but nothing more. Possibly even go a little under dressed. Also I don’t agree with thinking of yourself as a product. Woman are clearly the product that you purchase with your SMV. The higher your SMV the more purchasing power you hav… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/18 10:03 PM |
| 1 | THE POST TO END ALL ADDICTION POSTSI should explain it differently. Scientists have not proven infinite willpower, but they have disproven the studies which suggested it was a finite resource. The inconsistency was just too high. Those who believed they had infinite willpower showed no ego depletion at all. The jury is still out on this one, but evidence would point to willpower not being finite. There are thousands of factors of course. Your hypothalamus regulates where you see yourself on the social hierarchy. If it perceives y… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/18 06:32 PM |
| 6 | Responding to: “is | /r/askTRP | 24/02/18 09:13 AM |
| 1 | THE POST TO END ALL ADDICTION POSTSScience has proven the willpower is only finite if you believe it is. Those who believe it is infinite, actually have infinite willpower. In light of this, yes is yes, and no is no. With enough discipline you can say yes at one point and no at another. You really are in control of what you do. It won’t be easy, but definitely possible. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/18 06:16 AM |
| 9 | Wanna be confident? Fail.What if you constantly fail at faking confidence? Can you become really confident in your ability to fake being confident? And if so, at that point are you really faking anymore? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/18 05:48 AM |
| 3 | Experienced true, self assured confidence for the first time.Keep eye contact with strangers while walking, it is more confrontational but you can tell if a girl likes you by the way she reacts to it. It is a frame game with strangers, who feels uncomfortable first. If a guy asks what your problem is he is just challenging your frame. Will you submit or will he? Every interaction is a frame game, enjoy it and look everybody in the eye. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/18 05:25 AM |
| 1 | Passing The Ultimate Shit Test: The One You Give YourselfYou shouldn’t laugh at every shit test. Emotion is your engine, direct it. Using controlled emotion is perfectly fine, even if it is anger. I do think using humour to not let others get to you is putting the cart before the horse. Humour is something you find once others don’t get to you. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/17 11:29 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill BetasAll of it is. Believing something is true, doesn’t make it so. Not knowing of a truth doesn’t mean it is non-existent. The whole idea of “finding your truth” is a very feminine one. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/17 07:18 AM |
| 2 | Red Pill BetasA truth for oneself is a lie. Truth is objective not subjective. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/17 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Failing a comfort testI don’t think this is about letting your guard down or failing a comfort test. She is just a bitch. Why date a girl where you feel you have to walk on a tight rope? She made the mistake, not you. Your only mistake would be not ending it right then and there (not sure if you did or not). She disrespected your family. If she is really repentant, maybe give her a second chance with conditions. She treated you like a god, act like it. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/17 11:48 AM |
| 3 | Intersections: Groups of Alpha men vs Groups of Beta MenDon’t be so hard on your self. Everything is always all your fault, always will be. And that is great, it means you have the power to change everything. If everything was somebody else’s fault, you would always be a victim( a woman). Don’t give a fuck about the negative feelings and have fun improving your life. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/10/17 06:30 PM |
| 3 | Intersections: Groups of Alpha men vs Groups of Beta MenNo problem. I do find that there a many guys who don’t understand frame, for the benefit of those reading and possibly yours I’ll explain. Your frame is your personal view on the world, your personal reality. Your frame contains your attitude towards events, people, items and really anything. How things and situations make you feel, how you react and so on. It also contains your beliefs, goals and dreams. While it is possible to hold a stoic, calm frame, it is also possible to hold an angry or p… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/10/17 12:34 AM |
| 2 | Intersections: Groups of Alpha men vs Groups of Beta MenI would expect you wife to be more attracted to you after seeing you compared to these betas. Remember, you hold the frame of the situation. If your wife is normally submissive, she will also submit to your emotions. Maybe you are the problem? It is not impossible to dislike beta guys, not because they are bad and lazy people, but because they remind you of what you used to be. I don’t know, I don’t know your situation. But I do know that you as the leader, define the context and how your wife s… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/17 05:47 PM |
| 4 | Simple advice from 122 years ago. Thanks, Rudyard.Let’s not forget the last line Yours is the Earth and everything that’s in it, And—which is more—you’ll be a Man, my son! Being a man is worth more than the earth and everything in it. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/17 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Feminism as a society-wide shit test - Why the places with the nicest guys have the angriest feministsRule woman with grace and conquer them with peace. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/17 12:25 AM |
| 13 | Feminism as a society-wide shit test - Why the places with the nicest guys have the angriest feministsWould you rather I say that women like having a strong male to lead them? Or that women are only attracted to a man when they submit to his frame? They want to be ruled, to lose control and responsibility. They all mean the same thing. I hope I didn’t hurt your feelings. What does neuroticism have to do with my comment? Read it again. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/17 09:24 AM |
| 24 | Feminism as a society-wide shit test - Why the places with the nicest guys have the angriest feministsI believe your right when you say that womens reactions come from a lack of real men. The lack of real men creates an emotional problem and their hamster assigns something as the cause. Women are unfulfilled and they don’t know why, so they blame men because women can’t be the problem of course. No way do you create your own problems. Women *were made to be ruled, without it, they are incomplete. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/17 11:25 PM |
| 2 | Having a few slut friends have shown me how women can experience the entire spectrum of dating (simultaneously with multiple men), with complete control, frame and ease.Considering that 99% of men think like this, it’s definitely possible to get into the top 1% as an ugly man. Maybe not the top 1% of the 1%, but you can outshine 99% of men. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/17 07:02 PM |
| 1 | The Four Fundamentals Of Game Part 2: Emotional CalibrationSounds like way to much effort to me. Value your time and stop focusing on girls. If a girl is in your frame and you value your time, she will value it too. That’s attraction right there. Dgaf about what she is feeling. Plenty more girls available if she doesn’t like you. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/17 10:42 AM |
| 2 | Never forget, she does not desire YOU. She desires the image you have put forth.Everyone gives off an image. But an ego is a false image. It is what you want others to think of you. It is your own idea of who you are in relation to other people. If you destroy your ego, the only thing that remains is you. No fake behaviour to support a false image of yourself. You still have an image, but that image is just you and everything that you are. A woman can't ever see that truly, because they invent their own image in their mind if who you are, depending on if they are attracted … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/17 10:59 PM |
| 3 | I'm the IT guy. I tap into a female coworker's computer and accessed her chat software. She's constantly trying to fuck with me behind my back... best way to address it?Anybody can do anything, there is not right and wrong, only consequences, and women have so few now days. You don't have to work there, you can remove yourself from the situation. Or you can not care about social pressure. She would have only tried to manipulate you with something she thought you had a weakness towards. You do have something she wants though, and that gives you some form of power. You could probably fuck her if you wanted to, but that might not be the best idea. Use the power yo… | /r/askTRP | 14/08/17 07:07 PM |
| 2 | 5 Key Principles Of Stoicism To Keep You Mentally StrongI know what "Live every day as your last." Means. It is also about as helpful as "just be yourself". This is a Red Pill reddit, the OP should be able to do better. Edit: If it were my last day, I certainly wouldn't live as though I had a future, that would be pointless. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/17 06:00 PM |
| 3 | I'm the IT guy. I tap into a female coworker's computer and accessed her chat software. She's constantly trying to fuck with me behind my back... best way to address it?You're responsible for her now, she is under your umbrella and to a point, she must do as you say. Manage her, get her to do work that she is able to do. If she complains, simply tell her that this is payment for you doing the harder stuff for her. Before long, as long as you remain calm, she will fall into your frame. You have something she wants, help, use it to control her. It doesn't matter how, simply controlling her will put her in your frame. Example: if she is speaking badly about you, b… | /r/askTRP | 14/08/17 05:53 PM |
| 10 | Never forget, she does not desire YOU. She desires the image you have put forth.Shouldn't we destroy our ego? Isn't this the Red Pill way? If you're worried about the image you put off you're catering to your ego. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/17 10:20 AM |
| 31 | 5 Key Principles Of Stoicism To Keep You Mentally StrongLive every day like it was your last? Are you kidding me? So I should spend all my money because I might not be alive tomorrow? The amount of pointless and destructive things one would do if he knew this was his last day. Why be healthy? Why do anything productive? Live as though you have a future, live today in such a way that you know that your actions will make a better tomorrow. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/17 10:17 AM |
| 2 | Been waking up at 5 AM for the past 2 years and it has really changed my life. Here are 5 reasons to get up at 5 AM, and also some tips on how to get started. | Join the 5 AM club.Studies show that those who believe they have infinite willpower, have infinite willpower. The whole "willpower is a battery" was disproved some time ago. Only people who believe in limited willpower get willpower fatigue. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/17 05:44 PM |
| 7 | Why do I keep wanting to masturbate even though after I cum I feel like shitGaining discipline, like anything else, is through prolonged time outside your comfort zone. In this instance, moving outside your comfort zone would be withholding masterbation gratification for a prolonged period. Simply stop. It is that simple, your will power is infinite. Even if you think it is not, it is. In the end you are completely responsible for every action, even when you "give in", or more to the point, choose to go against your previous decision. Obedience is life, rebellion is dea… | /r/askTRP | 13/08/17 08:15 AM |
| 1 | Need help pulling my life together after rape chargeOthers have said go to therapy. Good advice, you can also do self therapy at the same time though. Try writing down the events that took place in detail. Write about how that made you feel, the pain, the suffering, the anger. Your brain hasn't been able to fully process what happened to you, it is stressed because it fears more pain. Until it can process what happened, learn from it, it will always have a negative effect on your life. Therapy and writing will actively help your mind process the … | /r/askTRP | 09/08/17 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Proof it DOESN'T matter too much. Incels could not accept it when I asked for their explanation! They raged.Good on you man. A lot of the TRP community are jealous arseholes. From what I see though, you are doing one thing right. You say you don't hold frame, but in fact you do. You hold a really solid frame. Holding frame is holding your opinions and beliefs when challenged. Not only that it is reframing every situation around those opinions and beliefs. Frame isn't about being stoic or showing little emotion. It is about owning a situation. As one man said "All it takes to get a girl is for your fra… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/17 08:07 AM |
| 2 | Help guys parents making me stay homeYou're living at home, not much you can do but move out. You shouldn't rebel, you're family. Move out if you can. If you're paying board that's a different situation. If you pay board they have zero power over you, they still have power over the house and what you can do in it but no power over you. Power comes from responsibility ("With great power comes great responsibility." Also works in reverse). If you don't pay board, then your parents are responsible for you and have power over you and y… | /r/askTRP | 08/08/17 09:57 AM |
| 1 | Wife is "lonely" and I just don't believe herI'm no expert, but claiming to be lonely when your spending more time together than ever would seem disrespectful. She isn't valuing your time because she gets to much of it. You eat too much food and suddenly food has little value to you. Withdrawing your time will make it more valuable. I saw the thread about treating women as children and I also saw that you disagree. The idea behind this is that children are emotional and have not developed rational thought, likewise woman are the emotional … | /r/askTRP | 07/08/17 07:04 PM |
| 1 | "Most people don't have that willingness to break bad habits. They have a lot of excuses and they talk like victims" - Carlos SantanaGood post. But decision fatigue has been proven false. In fact decision fatigue only effects those who believe in it. You have unlimited will power if you believe you do, so the science says anyway. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/17 01:45 AM |
| 2 | A lot of this community is full of shit and has weak frame.I believe the end of frame is to be the perfect father figure to all. Calm, strong, completely solid, ready to kill, yet full of love and kindness. A healthy combination of Alpha and Beta, the Alpha qualities are in control, yet you are still full of the Beta love and compassion. I don't think we should destroy the Beta in ourselves, we should embrace it. But just like a woman, we need to make it submit to our Alpha side. The Beta is an amazing tool when focused by the Alpha side of you. So, I u… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/17 06:51 PM |
| 2 | A lot of this community is full of shit and has weak frame.Your right, a lot of us do have a weak frame and are full of bad ideas, that is why we are here. I know from experience, the urge to want change now and to be an Alpha right now. It is simply a lack of patience and possibly some ignorance surrounding how much it actually takes to be a real man who can hold frame. A lot of people on this forum are children in comparison to real strong men, they are just starting out. Myself included, we have to start somewhere. One of the biggest parts of strong … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/17 09:48 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible to stop being an incel? If so, how?Could do, but learning a martial art may be a better option. To truly experience a fight you need to be in a real one. In a friendly fight both parties are trying not to hurt each other too much, in a real fight you don't hold back. A fight club would be a good idea, but someone would have to set it up. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/17 12:54 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to stop being an incel? If so, how?You're not to far gone, not many people are. You haven't drunk the liberal cool aid so you are better than some. Firstly I'll start with your definition of Alpha, it seams to be wrong. An Alpha is simply the most powerful person in his social group, the leader, the person others look to. That is the only trait of an Alpha, he is the top dog. You can have many Alphas on many different levels, and an Alpha in one group can be a beta in another. Do what you like doing and be the best at it, that's … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/17 11:21 PM |
| 1 | The Illusion of Lasting SatisfactionWhile there are some basic and easy to be seen truths in this post, the underlying message is false. The OP assumes non temporary satisfaction is possible, but only through different means than the rat race. The truth is, life is pain and suffering. We are in a constant battle with death. As men it has always been our job to stand in the freezing stream of life, neck deep, and forge ahead. This is life. The further we get up the stream, the bigger our wake becomes, and the more others will seek … | /r/TheRedPill | 02/08/17 10:38 PM |
| 2 | What To Eat In Order To Fuel Your BrainIt all depends on the temperature you cook it at and for how long. Polyunsaturated fats/oils oxidise when heated and with age. The more polyunsaturated fat an oil contains, the faster it will oxidise. Olive oil however has a lot of monounsaturated fat, which is less susceptible to oxidisation. Plus it also contains antioxidants of its own. It is certainly a much better choice than your normal oil. Any oil though, once heated to its smoking point, becomes poisonous. Olive oils smoking point is ar… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/17 09:30 AM |
| 4 | What To Eat In Order To Fuel Your BrainOrganic fruit can be better than non organic fruit, simply because they may not have been on the shelf for long. Polyunsaturated fat is obtained in any other way than eating the seed or nut it came from, is quite bad. Liquid fats go rancid and poisonous at an alarming rate. Fish and olive fat is different, but it still should not be heated. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/17 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Do you care too much about the opinions of others? Do you give too many fucks? There is a simple exercise to get over this, it's called 'shaving your head bald' | Let me explain, there is a method behind the madnessI've done this twice, and I have full head of hair. I'm not a fan of ego or excessive pride. Not because I care about other people or anything, I just find it more peaceful to think of yourself as dust in the wind. I try to find things that are unusual and I then do them, in an effort to not give a fuck about what others think. Doesn't always work, but every bit helps. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/17 03:18 AM |
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