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| 4 | She attempted to ghost me after two great dates. But why?Dude just stop. You can respond to people within 15 minutes. No one should be taking days and weeks unless they are autistic or legit dont care about the other person | /r/seduction | 16/06/25 04:59 PM |
| 5 | Why I Call It Provider Services, and Why More Men Are Quietly Opting InI understand what you are saying. If you don’t fuck for a month, it shows when you are chasing women. If you have used services you will be more relaxed, giving off an abundance mentality vibe when you are dating | /r/TheRedPill | 02/04/25 05:56 PM |
| 0 | Using money to upgrade my dating lifeVeneers, emsculpting for abs, hair transplant if needed. | /r/seduction | 07/03/25 01:56 AM |
| 300 | To all the experienced guys here: Does casual sex increase happiness?It is cool for a night or the day after but ultimately not really Still casual sex I feel is better than no sex | /r/seduction | 20/02/25 03:59 PM |
| 11 | When pursuing a serious relationship, how long would you wait for sex before assuming she's playing you?Lol that’s what’s up. | /r/seduction | 18/02/25 07:00 PM |
| 38 | Worst first date ever on Valentine’s DayIve waited for a first date too before. She ended up being a fwb. She also was late to a lot of meet ups. Sometimes it takes time to learn who a person is. This person you met … idk. Sounds like you gotta chalk this one up to the game and keep it moving. Dont use the word beverages. It’s a weird word. Don’t make jokes about strippers and stuff like that. Sensitive spot for woman who don’t have a choice to do that. Get in the gym. Keep shooting shots. It’s a numbers game | /r/seduction | 15/02/25 08:01 AM |
| 33 | Worst first date ever on Valentine’s DayLmfaoo chill bro. It’s not easy out here in these streets rn | /r/seduction | 15/02/25 07:59 AM |
| 0 | Blocked after breakupsBlocked by my ex and I am at a loss for words how she could so simply do this | /r/seduction | 23/01/25 07:09 AM |
| 2 | Blocked after breakupsIt’s such a sad sad thing | /r/seduction | 23/01/25 07:07 AM |
| -3 | Better to upset women, than to be forgettable.Don’t test that theory if you don’t have to | /r/seduction | 21/01/25 05:33 AM |
| 92 | Better to upset women, than to be forgettable.It’s true. Don’t filter yourself. Try your best to not show weakness as well | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 11:00 PM |
| 12 | Your circadian rhythm is everything.Just turned on the eye comfort mode / night shift on my phone. Forgot that was even a feature. Thanks | /r/TheRedPill | 17/01/25 08:29 PM |
| 9 | should i tell herIt’s done bro. You have to be ON. When she told you to fuck her , you should have got a hotel room or asked if her place was free. Women don’t give guys multiple chances to fuck them early on. If you miss your shot you get put in a weak position and they can lose attraction. Next time you’re together and things are going good, you gotta lead her to the bedroom. Take her clothes off and proceed to do your thing. Have a condom on you. I | /r/seduction | 13/01/25 05:29 AM |
| 2 | Today is my 22nd birthday and I am still a virgin. I will quit Reddit but I wanted to say some things before I leave.The game is harder now than it has ever been bro. 27M Got lucky a couple times cause I went away to university and now I get more lucky when I go abroad and put myself in situations where sex can happen like hostels. Happy birthday bro. But yeah man again it’s not easy for some of us. Idk how some of these guys be getting girls so easily, but I have a small amount of anxiety that I try to ignore and pretend is not there but I do have it in social situations. The key to all of this is believing i… | /r/seduction | 05/01/25 05:48 PM |
| 7 | Emotional investment is created by ACTIONI agree with this and have definitely fallen trap to the beta cycle a couple times in my life. Have also had women fall into the trap as well lol. I know for guys who have fallen into the beta cycle trap it is hard to get out of sometimes - they’ll have to work their way out of it but for women who have fallen into the trap and when/if the Light Switch effect occurs. Does all of this emotional investment just go out of the window on the women’s side? | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/25 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Reconnected with my ex-situationship, but now she’s the one leaving.I’ve had my moments of not being cautious and I made some great memories and had some great moments, but when the relationships inevitably sort of have to end, those moments end up causing me pain because of how hard it was for me to let go. You just have to know what you can handle and decide if shes worth the risk | /r/seduction | 22/12/24 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Reconnected with my ex-situationship, but now she’s the one leaving.A lot can happen in two months. Shoot your shot and see where it goes. You’ll never know unless you do it. But also are you going to be okay if you get this fling and she leaves? How will your heart handle it. Lately I’ve been trying and am going to continue to avoid situations that have no long term potential. Save me from the potential heartbreak. | /r/seduction | 22/12/24 05:05 AM |
| 2 | Rejection Is Healthy; Fear of It Is NotFacts. Keep going | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/24 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Have a third date planned with a stunning blonde girl.Make sure this date has alcohol involved. Helps loosen up the nerves. Make sure it’s a fun date where you get lost in whatever you’re doing. A comedy show would be good or a paint and sip. Good luck bro, definitely try the kiss again if you see a good chance. | /r/seduction | 12/12/24 06:18 AM |
| 5 | How do I get the attention of a girl who sees messages and gives me a reply after so long?Ask her out. If she says anything other then yes, she is not interested and it is a dub. Like everyone else has said you will have to move on. The game is polarization. You have to get a yes or a no from her. | /r/seduction | 11/12/24 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Girl canceled 4 hours before date.Just hit her up and make the plans for next Saturday. Don’t say dumb stuff like that again - if you’re hungover don’t come .. that’s just not enticing. You would’ve been better off saying I have a surprise for you or something like that to increase her wanting to come | /r/seduction | 08/12/24 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Picking up at salsa class and socialsI don’t like the fling thing tbh. I want to find love. And travel and party with her haha. That would be the best thing tbh. | /r/seduction | 29/11/24 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Picking up at salsa class and socialsThanks for your advice, I was thinking about joining another studio. Maybe would be good to switch the scenery and people up. It is a bit overrated to at the same time. | /r/seduction | 28/11/24 02:31 PM |
| 2 | Picking up at salsa class and socialsI want to go to Latin America bro. That’s the mission in my head everyday, but I have no way to make good enough money abroad so I can stay. I got caught last year. Met a girl I wanted to legit marry some day, but because I had to keep bouncing from her country back to mine to make money and then come back, it didn’t work out. Devastated. So for now I am trying to just stay home and find love or companionship here in the states, while I stack my bread up. The long distance was hard and the end w… | /r/seduction | 28/11/24 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Picking up at salsa class and socialsHaha you and other one person are interested in how this will go. No one has shared any advice. I think the best thing to do is probably risk my friendly relationships with the women I like and try to take them out and see if anything comes to fruition. The risk is if it doesn’t work out, I will just have to see them in class and be cordial | /r/seduction | 28/11/24 01:16 AM |
| 1 | So i need help im 20 and last time i had anything with a girl i was 15 and a failed talking stage at 18Keep lifting, and when it comes to the ladies, there are moments in your life where you will see a girl you think is pretty. There are moments you just enjoy her beauty and then there are moments you have to say something you or you may regret it for a little while after. Going up and shooting your shot is better than the little regret from not doing it. You don’t lose anything by going up to a girl and saying some words. She is probably also just as socially anxious as you. For real, learn this… | /r/seduction | 25/11/24 11:07 AM |
| 1 | Feel lost and lonelyIt’s common man. In the same boat currently. Not a lot of action at the moment and losing the motivation to go after it. But at the same time, if you have goals you gotta step back, reassess, do some lifting and get back out there. Do some traveling, meet some new girls in hostels or locals in the places you go. See how you feel and then come back home with new confidence. Good luck | /r/seduction | 11/11/24 06:01 AM |
| 1 | Too manyHow did you get 4 girls bro ? | /r/seduction | 10/11/24 07:49 AM |
| 2 | Where should I go for hookups- Cali or NYC?It’s not that wild. | /r/seduction | 09/11/24 12:41 AM |
| 2 | Where should I go for hookups- Cali or NYC?Tulum, Medellin, Philippines | /r/seduction | 08/11/24 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Why am I terrified of approaching womanRegret is worse than rejection. Always go for it. | /r/seduction | 07/11/24 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Thank you so muchCongrats, now do it again | /r/seduction | 02/11/24 11:27 PM |
| 4 | How girls actually want you to text them.. (+3 examples that got me laid)This | /r/seduction | 24/10/24 05:26 PM |
| 2 | Just walked back from the club alone again and feel so depressed and don't know what to even try anymore.Join a fraternity at your school. I didn’t really get much action until I did this. Better if you are the one throwing the parties and girls are coming to you. More of an advantage than going to bars and being a random. That’s one. Second, look into studying abroad. See your options pick a nice place, ask a few of your best buddies to go and go run through a country and see how that semester goes. It’s tough out here man. I go out every weekend too just to take the train home alone. Shit is depr… | /r/seduction | 19/10/24 03:46 PM |
| 0 | What's the red pill explanation of why girls get tattoos?My ex had a lot of tattoos and wanted more. She really liked pain. I guess getting a tattoo is painful and a real rush. I don’t have any so I wouldn’t know. But normally when people get one, they feel like they have to get more | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/24 10:53 PM |
| 11 | How do I let go of my incessant need for “closure”?Let go of the closure thing. It doesn’t exist. Women will never tell you the truth. Not all, but the majority are too weak to tell you to your face what the issue is. Sometimes shit isn’t even your fault. Outside things happen sometimes that have nothing to do with you. Choose people who choose you and try your best to forget those that choose wrong ;) Get back into the gym and crush out 50 pull ups | /r/seduction | 15/08/24 09:58 PM |
| 5 | Slept with girl talked for a few days then she just ghosts!?No, not this early. She isn’t your gf yet and owes you nothing for now. You don’t own her. Just keep it cool, make the plans and fuck her again. That will feel way better than trying to correct her behavior It is difficult but try to take your ego out of these things as much as you can | /r/seduction | 15/08/24 03:02 AM |
| 6 | Slept with girl talked for a few days then she just ghosts!?Hope you heal bro. Came out of mine a month or so ago. Stings here and there but we can only move forward and try to improve while we heal. Good luck | /r/seduction | 15/08/24 03:00 AM |
| 35 | Slept with girl talked for a few days then she just ghosts!?It means you just forget about it and move forward man. You’re in the game, sometimes women come, sometimes they go. She is never yours, it’s just your turns. Always enjoy a woman when you have it and learn to be okay letting go. It is a tough thing to do but once you understand she is never yours, you’ll be fine when these things happen. Charge it to the game if it fails. Onto the next, whenever you’re ready | /r/seduction | 15/08/24 02:27 AM |
| 31 | Slept with girl talked for a few days then she just ghosts!?Try one more time and if it doesn’t go well, just charge it to the game | /r/seduction | 15/08/24 01:59 AM |
| 5 | Girl takes forever to respondAlso yo, sometimes when you let go of the girl before she lets go of you , a lot of the time she gets more attracted and runs to you. This attraction can be short lived and then it’s back to old patterns again. Find a balance but protect your mental at all costs. Can’t afford to go into deep depression | /r/seduction | 10/08/24 03:25 AM |
| 3 | Girl takes forever to respondDamn first love. I didn’t fully let go at all for years man, did the on and off long distance thing. Honestly got to a few very very low points in my life dealing with her. When I would have been soooo much better off just letting her go for good once I realized she didn’t like me anymore towards the end of our relationship. Good luck man, it may not seem like it but there WILL ALWAYS BE ANOTHER GIRL, ANOTHER LOVE, it may not come tomorrow or next week or even next month but it is coming for sur… | /r/seduction | 10/08/24 03:19 AM |
| 9 | Girl takes forever to respondFirst time she told me yes she does like me and is enjoying getting to know me but she is just very busy with work. She was a manager at a clothing store in manhattan. I knew yeah she could get busy but 24 hours to respond to a text, no one is that busy. I let it rock the first time but then again as time went on , I kind of just went scorched earth and had to tell that this is effecting me, etc. It eventually lead to no dates happening, her saying we could be friends, etc. you know the classic … | /r/seduction | 10/08/24 03:14 AM |
| 13 | Girl takes forever to respondLet this one go. I know you get a rush when she finally responds , but this shit is just bad for your health man. Used to have a girl take a day to respond to me as well. Got to the point where I had to ask her directly if she liked me. People do what they want. If you aren’t getting energy back from them and you are giving it out , then just be off it. Learn this from a young age 18/19 and you’ll be able to keep your self respect as you age. I fall victim to this shit sometimes still too but I … | /r/seduction | 10/08/24 02:57 AM |
| 7 | I can’t bring girls over, what should I doHotel , | /r/seduction | 07/08/24 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Why so hard despite being attractive?Haha | /r/seduction | 26/07/24 05:51 PM |
| 5 | There Is Always A Bigger FishGrow in other ways. Keep your job and max out retirement funds for as long as you can. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/24 05:44 AM |
| 1 | On a good and a bad month, how many lays you get at apps?I have a majority of all that other shit down. Purpose, self worth, etc. We aren’t delusional, we aren’t getting women in our cities. That is the unfortunate reality for some of us rn, despite being super fit, having money and looks, etc. I am looking for a girlfriend I can make my potential wife soon. I’m 27 , the clock is ticking. I have my health right now and my youth. It’s time | /r/seduction | 06/07/24 01:02 PM |
| 1 | On a good and a bad month, how many lays you get at apps?They are everywhere bro. But the game has still been very tough. It is what is. I’ll finesse something soon | /r/seduction | 06/07/24 12:31 AM |
| 1 | On a good and a bad month, how many lays you get at apps?That’s a good way to look at things. Something I’d love to have settle in my mind | /r/seduction | 05/07/24 04:48 PM |
| 1 | 27m , looking for motivationI understand bro. I don’t have the answer for that. At 27M I’m also not really that happy man. Going to work endlessly to afford the same stupid American bull shit. I want to say fuck everything and move to Colombia and try life there but i don’t want to struggle earning shit money and potentially prolonging how long I’ll have to work if that fails long term. I don’t know what to say or do too bro. One day a time. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/24 01:36 PM |
| 9 | On a good and a bad month, how many lays you get at apps?When I get rejected a lot some nights and have to go home alone on that nyc train, I feel so defeated. After years of the game , it is not that lit anymore. | /r/seduction | 05/07/24 12:35 PM |
| 2 | 27m , looking for motivationFair. That’s the other side of the spectrum. Not wanting to participate or not being able to participate. But no matter what man , you’re still the one alive having to live. Life is not always up and it isn’t always down. Who and what do you want to be. Go after that if you can. Easier said than done but what else is there to really do. Time is going. If you can sell life insurance and other products like accident, disability, etc. in your city , check that out, study for the tests, get licensed… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/24 06:01 PM |
| 3 | İ feel hopeless beacuse of my virginityYeah I told a girl I was a virgin in college my sophomore year at 19, she did not want to fuck me. After thanksgiving break I lied and told her I lost it, we fucked. Women are attracted to heads with experience. Even though you are a virgin, study body language and try to adapt the body language and attitude of someone who is already getting laid. Good luck man. If you really have trouble getting laid then you can always go travel to a new country and try to have fun with other travelers in host… | /r/seduction | 04/07/24 02:01 AM |
| 1 | You've been dating someone for 4 weeks getting serious then suddenly she doesn't respond . How do you approach the subjectProbably went to sleep early or is busy. Just keep your emotions in check. Text her good night before you go to sleep or wait till the morning and text her good morning and go from there. Good morning is probably the best thing. Let it rock for tonight | /r/seduction | 04/07/24 01:39 AM |
| 1 | 27m , looking for motivationYeah doing hobbies now. Practicing salsa, still lifting, traveling. Fun things to do but these things don’t bring a crazy long fulfillment within. I got time for all these things. My main concern right now though is just racking up the money. I want to see my investment accounts in the 6 figure range. Halfway there but even then I can only get so much fulfillment from that too | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/24 11:20 PM |
| 2 | 27m , looking for motivationYeah inner game is a big thing , been hard for me to really accept inside that I have accomplished so many things because I still feel I can do more. Hard to feel satisfied but the sad thing is satisfaction doesn’t last forever | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/24 10:07 PM |
| 1 | 27m , looking for motivationWhere are you in your journey ? | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/24 08:33 PM |
| 2 | 27m , looking for motivationWhat do you do or what did you do for work. Congrats on the early retirement option. I wanna have this decision at 45 as well. Got a lot of time to live, learn and earn till then. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/24 07:55 PM |
| 4 | Any tips to attract women as a rising seniorThis this this | /r/seduction | 26/05/24 01:56 AM |
| 2 | Is sex in club bathrooms a thing or just something in movies?Fucked another American girl in a bathroom stall in a club in Bangkok,Thailand. Did it for the story | /r/seduction | 12/05/24 12:11 AM |
| 1 | 5 Million Dollars or Cancer?Bro delete this | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/24 06:01 AM |
| 9 | Every woman is a freak. If she is not with you, it's you, bro.You dumb bro? Go enjoy the vacation and fuck the model. If not for you, for the male race | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/23 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Every woman is a freak. If she is not with you, it's you, bro.What kind of things. I wanna take my sex to the next level. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/23 02:14 PM |
| 11 | Understanding Female Nature is EssentialThis is OG side bar facts. Do not forget it. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/23 02:57 PM |
| 21 | The Fourteen Commandments of FrameYou thank God and you keep going. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/23 03:36 PM |
| 2 | Get some means and get some hoes.This shit is facts. Every man here should go to the safe touristy area of Medellin, Colombia and go get a taste of fine ass you pay for. The girls there are even more enthusiastic because they are happy to be chosen. Thank me later | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/23 09:50 PM |
| 3 | Married BP Alpha to Chad…A world I didn’t know existedWord makes sense , do you know which clubs are good in the city? | /r/TheRedPill | 23/07/23 03:48 PM |
| 2 | Married BP Alpha to Chad…A world I didn’t know existedHow’d you do it? Cold approach? Online app? | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/23 01:56 PM |
| 27 | Married BP Alpha to Chad…A world I didn’t know existedMiami seems like a dope spot to get shit popping. I’m in New York City and it’s a tougher game as I’m playing against chads with a bit of money as well lol. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/23 01:17 PM |
| 2 | STEP 1: The Start - How To Get Unstuck From The Stickiest Step in Self ImprovementYo for the newbies. Don’t just read this and feel good for a couple minutes, get after something new in your life. New lifting goals New skills - me personally I’m starting driving and im one month in some salsa/bachata classes. Keeping to the schedule of the activities I plan is important to me. New grooming - I’m doing a one month crest 3d whitening circuit for my teeth. I want to learn some more Spanish at some point. Gonna have to start this one soon. Adding and sticking to all this new shit… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/23 03:32 PM |
| 3 | How do I get over her? When does it stop?What are some ways you know to recover? And that’s interesting, do you think narcissists may attract narcissists? I know there’s different levels, etc | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/23 02:08 PM |
| 4 | How do I get over her? When does it stop?Which reading material for the ones that plant themselves deeper into your head? | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/23 11:50 AM |
| 1 | The Lament of the Red Pilled BetaGoing through a little something right now and your comment was very good for me to read. I’m in need of a change of perspective. I need to step into the fact that there is abundance all around me and I can take it, the issue is I feel stuck for some reason, like I don’t deserve the things I want. Idk if you’re a big writer or whatever, but I would a appreciate a post expanding on this comment if you can. I’ll take a pm also if you’re not into the whole post thing | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/23 02:55 PM |
| 2 | Woman are interested but life is still a mess.After school? Or next spring break or whatever. Take 2-3 weeks and go do some traveling in Southern Thailand and then one week in Bangkok. You’ll meet all types of young travelers. Spit game and go party and enjoy yourself. Really put yourself out there. I had fun with both European jawns and regular Thai girls. Worse comes to worse, pipe one of the available ladies of the night, wear a condom. Being out of your comfort zone where you can create a new identity for yourself for a short time shoul… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/23 11:33 PM |
| 1 | No man is ever good enoughNah I’m just messing around. There’s mad spots but on the low they aren’t that lit. Like you’d think nyc would be a prime club destination but it isn’t. I feel like the only place where I’ve really gone clubbing is LA or Miami. Where do you find these 9s and 10s at clubs?All we have are bars where the girls stand around. We can private message also | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/23 10:03 PM |
| 1 | No man is ever good enoughWhere are all of these “clubs” in New York City? I go out all the time and the only real club here is Mission | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/23 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Coming from money has spoiled me and ruined my drive.You should go backpacking. Take a couple months and go to Thailand, teach some English, give back. Or just travel and get a different perspective on life | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/23 05:57 PM |
| 0 | Red Pill as a spiritual journey to self-fulfillmentI don’t know, I doubt they are that miserable. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/22 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Red Pill as a spiritual journey to self-fulfillmentI don’t get what you mean when you say American modern women are miserable. These bitches seem to be chilling. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/22 04:11 AM |
| 4 | Why You Need Instagram in the Modern Sexual MarketPlaceEveryone is giving you shit but having a good insta helps prescreen you sometimes. I’ve gotten a couple alley oops off my Instagram. You have to put in the work no matter what, lifting lifestyle etc. might as well take pics and post. I’m 25 been building it since I was 19. I had over 100 posts but I brought it down to 98. I don’t post a post much anymore but I do post on my stories when I travel. If someone looked at my Instagram they would know I LIFT I TRAVEL and I have a great time. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/22 12:05 AM |
| 10 | Why her body count mattersVirgin girls can hurt you just as much. Just act accordingly | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/22 03:01 PM |
| -2 | Why her body count mattersWhere do you get the Balkan girls ? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/22 03:00 PM |
| 1 | New guys.. Getting laid is easy. The real benchmark is: How many relationships ended when you wanted them to? How many decent women have you walked away from?Have you grasped it? What does that even feel like ? | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/22 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Need some direction: go after sex or go after her heartFacts that’s what I wanted to do originally. Take her out. Do a lot of little shit like make out with her, hold her hand. Forehead kisses , but I wanted her to invite me over type shit so that way I know she wants me no questions asked. I wanted her to want it but on the low I probably need to make a move soon. The post yesterday has me a little worried that I need to act faster | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/22 07:25 AM |
| 0 | Need some direction: go after sex or go after her heartLmfao no one uses that stupid ass shit. Get real | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/22 07:21 AM |
| 1 | I (19M) don't understand if she (21F) is interested or notYou got it and yo even if shit doesn’t work out with this Jawn. You are 19 , you’ll be fine. Take the others advice and read up and also make sure you’re in the GYM. Prioritize a fire physique and if you are at a university or some shit, Join the top frat. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/22 09:59 PM |
| 1 | I (19M) don't understand if she (21F) is interested or notDO NOT SAY ANYTHING UNTIL SHE RESPONDS. HOLD FRAME. A girl I’m seeing soon took 25 hours back to back to respond to me. Let her think. She doesn’t want to seem too easy. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/22 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Need some direction: go after sex or go after her heartAsktrp is gone dickhead. Get off your high horse and off Reddit | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/22 02:02 AM |
| 0 | Need some direction: go after sex or go after her heartDamn son got me a little paranoid now. The next date is the third and it wasn’t really possible to fuck on the second. I’ll have to do it within the next two I guess. I just wanted to seduce this one, didn’t want the sex to be the main thing this time around. I like her vibe and she’s a pretty little thing. Not thinking about a whole life with her but definitely some sort of relationship after some more vetting. Once we do pipe, she’ll peep I got the high sex drive and sex will become a priority… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/22 11:39 PM |
| 3 | Need some direction: go after sex or go after her heartHow you feel about the comments on the post ? | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/22 10:20 PM |
| 18 | Need some direction: go after sex or go after her heartFacts, I’ll make the move. If I win, I guess I’ll fuck but you’re right. Trying to make a move is important | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/22 08:35 PM |
| 6 | Need some direction: go after sex or go after her heartThat’s what I’m hoping. I wanna be THAT guy for her. I want to keep building the sexual tension up and getting to know her and then she has to invite me over or something y’know. I know how to lead and finesse my way into her pants but you know I’d rather build some emotional investment | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/22 07:41 PM |
| 11 | Need some direction: go after sex or go after her heartFacts. Can’t be stupid. If I could play it my way I’d fuck after the 5th date , get some emotional investment in there | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/22 07:37 PM |
| 22 | Need some direction: go after sex or go after her heartWord third date is coming up. Might have to fuck next time I see her after the date. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/22 07:35 PM |
| 27 | Need some direction: go after sex or go after her heartMy guy you’re right but you didn’t even answer the question? | /r/TheRedPill | 03/11/22 07:26 PM |
| 1 | How close are you guys with your parents? I feel like I have to completely cut them off in order to become cold hearted and more masculine.Nah be red pill and alpha or whatever but love your parents. I love my mom more then anyone else out here. I would never be cold hearted towards her or remove her for anything | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/22 03:21 AM |
| 7 | Struggling through breakupIt’s gonna take a lot of time brother. I still haven’t fully recovered and my break up was almost 3 years ago. Take your time with it for real. Enjoy your single life, try to keep busy with friends and new girls and travels and shit, but just know when those feelings come up, to let yourself feel them and to know that it is okay that you feel them. They lessen with time. Try to block her social media also. It’s not really the best thing to keep up with her and shit. The quicker you can do this t… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/10/22 08:38 PM |
| 5 | So, who are you here with?I was here with my boy buy My boy met a girl and he took her home. | /r/seduction | 29/10/22 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Was she being sexual with me in text??Take her to a bar. Get her faded , go home and escalate. If you end up having sex she can blame the alcohol | /r/seduction | 22/10/22 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Why does it take you so long to respond to texts?Facts I see what your saying. I’m lowkey about to clip it tho. This is more like a take it or leave it thing for me. I’m telling her I want to get to know you more if you’re interested in that cool, if not then take care. I appreciate you speaking with me and for the tips. I know being lower interest and non needy is great for maintaining attraction but I’m trying to get to the other side first so I guess have to chase a bit. Wish me luck! | /r/seduction | 22/10/22 08:59 AM |
| 1 | Why does it take you so long to respond to texts?So what should I do. Wait until like next week for this. The date was just on Wednesday. So I guess I am being kind of stupid and quick. She’s 22 and pretty tho so Ik she has other options. While I still have the feel good feelings from the date I wanted to strike instead of trying to be slick waiting a couple days to set up the next date. Seems like I should’ve .. but not much I can do now. This hot cold shit is dumb in my opinion because any other guy can swoop in and take her on a date and th… | /r/seduction | 22/10/22 08:42 AM |
| 1 | Why does it take you so long to respond to texts?That’s just the thing man. I am high interest and I want to be available to her. My schedule isn’t entirely open but I’d like to work with hers. I took out the “really” and the “probably very” to calm it down a bit. Idk tbh. It’s a last ditch effort. If she didn’t like me it’s clipped but she seemed to be having a great time (even thanked me for the great night)and kissed me back. I know emotions change and shit but geez. I’ll get over it if there’s nothing I can really do but gotta try | /r/seduction | 22/10/22 08:33 AM |
| 1 | Why does it take you so long to respond to texts?Yeah her loss but also mine too lol. This is the message for now. Hey I had a really fun time meeting you. I know your schedule is a little different and you’re probably very busy, but I’d like to continue getting to know you. If you want, let me know when you have some free time and we can make some plans. If not then all good it was nice to meet you If I don’t make a move I’ll never see her again so This is kind of like a last ditch effort. She may respond to my previous message tomorrow (afte… | /r/seduction | 22/10/22 08:02 AM |
| 1 | Why does it take you so long to respond to texts?Yo has being direct ever worked out in your favor? It has for me a couple times and I think I may have to use it again. I met this girl for a first date on Wednesday and it was a really fun time. Id like to see her again but she doesn’t work a traditional 9-5 , gets out of work at like 11pm and even 9pm sometimes. I think she works a lot to afford her place. We both live in Brooklyn and I found out she lives alone so it’s probably even more for her to live here. If she liked me she’d make time f… | /r/seduction | 22/10/22 07:07 AM |
| 1 | Why does it take you so long to respond to texts?Shit lame bro. | /r/seduction | 22/10/22 06:01 AM |
| 12 | Need Advice. The more girls I hook up with the more I miss my ex.Yo I hear you on the missing your ex thing. It’s been almost 3 years for me. I miss her a lot from time to time. I haven’t found anyone that could take her place tbh. But the thing that helps me is I did my best to get back together. I have no regrets and that’s what helps me. You sent a message , no response, it sucks but you did your part. You won’t have to think what if I reached out , would things be different. Keep doing what you’re doing. Let yourself feel the pain for a bit but then get b… | /r/seduction | 21/10/22 03:40 AM |
| 1 | The Wisdom Of GayLubeOil Put My Penis Inside 5 LatinasYeah there’s a difference between a 20 year old young man and a 28 year old man for sure. Are you in Latin America now also? How has it been ? | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/22 01:35 PM |
| 1 | What spontaneous/unexpected gestures are good for building attraction?A small gift. Just some shit to show you were listening. I got my ex girl a little bear from London when I visited and came back and then Chocolate from Belgium when I visited. If this is your gf or someone you’ve had sex with already you could get a vibrator or a cock ring for the bed room or handcuffs just to spice things up also | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 12:27 AM |
| 5 | The Wisdom Of GayLubeOil Put My Penis Inside 5 LatinasWord that’s good. I’ve never been computer savvy tbh. But that’s a good thing you’re doing for people. I respect it. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/22 02:19 AM |
| 11 | The Wisdom Of GayLubeOil Put My Penis Inside 5 LatinasWhat jobs can you do in LATAM where you make dollars besides teaching English online? | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/22 10:00 PM |
| 2 | Leave the Cage Door OpenFacts. In the future I’ll see what’s up, with this ex unfortunately there’s too much feels | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/22 10:11 PM |
| 6 | Leave the Cage Door OpenSo nowadays what do we do when it is an ex LTR who wants to return. I know your situation is different but I’m asking for learnings sake. If I leave the cage door open doesn’t that potentially put me in a position where I could be hurt again. I’ve had an ex try to return to the cage after handing me a major L last year, but I ignored it. I did however want to respond but I chose myself. It was kind of like a lose the pussy, but keep self respect situation. I sometimes wonder if I made the right … | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/22 08:13 AM |
| 1 | Leave the Cage Door OpenHow is it more fun to lose ? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/22 08:02 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone here ever lead someone on in order to get in their pants?Just had a girl who wanted me to also be her bf from day one. After we had sex she asked me if we’re together now. I’m a nice guy so I said yeah. After that she started calling me bae. It was whatever but then she wanted me to buy her a bag, pay for all the dates and kept sending relationship memes. We met up twice for sex and went on 3 dates. I recently cut it and she went crazy, non stop texts, even from a different number. It’s my fault for leading her on. I don’t know how things would’ve pro… | /r/seduction | 18/09/22 06:44 AM |
| 1 | How do I talk to girls just for the fun of it and not stress?These girls are not your homies. When you speak to a woman you want to date or sleep with, you speak to her as if she is a woman you want to date or sleep with. There needs to be a MAN to WOMAN interaction. You need to show some INTENT. ToddV on YouTube talks about it a bit more. If you speak like your homies, you will become homies and I’m sure you don’t want to be friend zoned or whatever. Practice this shit | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Girl at concert coming on to meShould’ve tyb’d there. Try it out and see what happens, you could be the next branch | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 07:06 PM |
| 2 | I want to bring a board game to make my coffee dates better. What are some good games?I go to bars with board games bro. Once I’m done talking, I don’t mind switching it up and playing some games. Connect 4 - whoever loses the round has to give the winner a kiss. It’s a good way to build rapport but unfortunately I have noticed that after these dates the girls are not romantically interested in me. Potentially giving off friend vibes. Try to kiss them before pulling out the board games | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 02:36 AM |
| 5 | Cold aproacing, lack of confidence. Beta vent postMake sure you work at it. For me shit is a constant battle, easy to slip into negativity, but then I have to take care of myself to get back up. Do what you need to do | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/22 01:09 AM |
| 18 | Cold aproacing, lack of confidence. Beta vent postYo my guy. First things first, good shit on doing what you’re doing. More good things will be coming your way just know that. You are taking steps and that’s all that matters and you aren’t giving up. That’s the biggest thing. Second, YOU ARE NO LONGER BETA. You are an ALPHA my guy. You are hitting the gym, you know what you want and are going after it, and you are increasing your social skills. Do your thing, get your money up as well and keep going. I don’t want to say this shit is tough but t… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/22 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Do any men here cry behind closed doors?I don’t cry often but a tear will shed here and there when the time calls for it. It’s a form of release, let it out when you need to, but yeah do it alone | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/22 10:33 PM |
| 9 | Sending a text after several months.Just say hey stranger and if she remembers you as much as you remember her, you’re golden Good luck | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 02:48 AM |
| -1 | Maintenance Sex and AffectionFind the article about Dread. I think it’s called the 12 steps of dread | /r/askMRP | 26/04/22 12:23 PM |
| 4 | Asexuality is the way to goYou’re not wrong bro. Shit is tough out here and shit can lead to depression after constant failure. There are two paths to take. Keep going after it or do what you’re doing. Idk bro, I want to feel that genuine desire a woman can have for me again, there is no greater enjoyment to me than that unfortunately. I have to keep going :( | /r/TheRedPill | 25/04/22 12:12 AM |
| 7 | Do you guys lie to have sex? how do you handle the guilt?I once met a virgin at a party. We were hooking up and I said let’s get out of here. She told me she was a virgin, I told her straight up I couldn’t love her. She said she wasn’t looking for love. I said bet. Go on your date and treat her well. When the time comes to take her home and shit, just be honest with her throughout. Treat her well, whatever. Have sex and establish that you’re seeing each other casually. Taking it slow. Relationships are serious, no need to rush right into that, it coul… | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 05:31 PM |
| 1 | First datesFacts it’s a sort of catch 22. All my boys are in the same position. All of them have girls that aren’t really on their level, looks wise at least, but they keep them around cause they are emotionally invested and their needs are getting met, which allows them to focus on their shit - making money and one other one has physical goals he’s going after like running marathons which ttraining for takes time. Going on these pointless dates has cost me a lot of money, time and mental anguish. At this … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/22 05:57 PM |
| 1 | First datesThe truth of that is bro, you CAN do better. But the bitches have limitless options. I don’t know who’s fault it is but bitches think they are better than they really are and that’s what fucking me. I’m from Brooklyn and thanks to that I have access to all of New York City but this place has a lot of dudes from all types of different backgrounds and it’s easy to get lost in the mix. Always someone better richer taller whatever. When I go places like Europe or Thailand, I have a bit more wiggle r… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/22 04:50 PM |
| 1 | First datesI feel you bro. Sometimes I wanna get out of it too but then I’m fucked. On some no bitch shit but I get lonely. I got friends I could chill with and it’s good for you in the moment but it would be nice if I had a main bitch texting me how was your day or sending some bs meme to get attention. Shit feels nice and people are doing it, so why can’t I do it. I don’t wanna be some macho man saying nah I don’t need that, when in actuality I want it. I agree with you, I have been hitting the gym harde… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/22 03:16 PM |
| 2 | Frankly this sub has shown me I am hopeless, pussy starved, and should really just kill myselfPussy starved male here. Sometimes get feelings of worthlessness but hey brother. That’s just a feeling. Feelings come and go. One day you’re on top of the world the next you can be drowning, but feelings CHANGE. Circumstances change. Take the advice brother, definitely get in the gym. Give yourself a good month of lifting then 2 then 3. Watch your body transform. Go traveling, Thailand, Cambodia, Bali. Go see some beautiful shit solo, make some friends with the other travelers there. They are t… | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 02:22 PM |
| 1 | First datesYou see, things start happening after the first date. But I mean bro, we shouldnt be too hard on ourselves. It’s the first date. It’s not like I’m gonna slap her ass and say babe let’s get outta here. We’re meeting a stranger off an app. Shit my guy I wanna get a little comfortable too before I kiss you, I’m not some desperate fuck trying to stick my tongue down your mouth after an hour. (I mean I’d love to but let’s breathe a little). I don’t know. I’m not a clown either. I’m not asking bitches… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/22 02:16 PM |
| 1 | First datesLmao I’m handsome and shredded af but I’m like 5’9. Average height | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/22 02:10 PM |
| 1 | First datesYou don’t even contribute here. Just talking shit. How did your frame get so broken bruv? I can tell your not a happy guy. Your the only pussy to talk shit, literally everyone else has added some substance. I don’t need to explain to you but Many men have this issue, it’s worth bringing up in the main sub, not some forum no one uses bitch | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/22 02:08 PM |
| 0 | First datesMate go do something else. I’d rather be proactive and get good advice, then post on that watered down forum. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/04/22 06:40 AM |
| 1 | First datesAsktrp is gone dickhead. Would’ve loved to post it there | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/22 09:33 PM |
| 1 | First datesFacts, during my last date there was a point I actually was already thinking about fucking her because I was enjoying myself. I didn’t do shit with the energy tho. Wanted to get thru the first date calmly and advance on second. Mistake for assuming there would be a second. Your right bro, try to fuck on the first. I’m tired of the foolish pussy boy act. Idgaf about most of the interview questions, I’m tryna see if this bitch can take pipe. Need to be more honest with my actions | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/22 12:53 AM |
| 10 | First datesThanks, I’ll give it another read. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/22 04:10 AM |
| 3 | Do girls like virgin boys?Yo just keep that shit to yourself. Don’t tell the girl, pretend you know what you’re doing and that’s it. Fuck everything else | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 03:51 AM |
| 1 | yo is this normal?Marking their territory. Excuse to see you. Gift | /r/seduction | 19/03/22 05:53 PM |
| 2 | Picking Up A DancerGood shit boss. A lot these heads don’t understand what a field report is. Keep going | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/22 02:02 PM |
| 0 | Please Work on your looksSon is comparing Europeans and Thai women to American white women. Bro are you Ed ? That’s like comparing American black women to legit African women. People of different cultures appreciate different things Anyways ugly , I feel bad for you. You’re gonna remain an incel while the rest of us , drown in pussy. Up to you , better start learning how to be alone | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 09:59 PM |
| 5 | Told a guy I only want something casual but now I have feelings for himYou guys are dating. Fair, sex and time spent together can cause feelings. I’m sure he’s feeling some type of way about you as well or he wouldn’t really let you sleep over or text you like he is doing. Just inform him that you really like him and see where he goes from there. Doubt you’ll scare him away. One month - honeymoon stage, | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Please Work on your looksIt’s not only Asian women down there champ. Thailand is full of travelers from all over the world. Mainly Europe. Stop being closed minded and go live a little: this is my last message to you. Good luck buddy | /r/seduction | 17/02/22 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Please Work on your looksI’m not flexing on you bro. I’m trying to open your mind. What to you want? Cause I can sit here and call you an ugly piece of shit who’ll never find love or I can push you to just take more chances. | /r/seduction | 17/02/22 09:02 AM |
| 3 | Please Work on your looksDickhead then eat 3000. 2000 is for motherfuckers trying to maintain. Literally stop with the excuses and go bench. No way you’ll be skinny when you’re benching 2 plates and doing 100 pull ups a day. Get after it. Wtf. I don’t wanna hear anymore excuses. | /r/seduction | 17/02/22 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Please Work on your looksThailand you’re good. Colombia okay. Just be smart | /r/seduction | 17/02/22 12:18 AM |
| 2 | Please Work on your looksNothing but excuses. And im black too bro. I had all types of women over there want a piece of me. And the best part was it was free of charge. Stop being a fucking pussy and answering everyone with an excuse. David Goggins - Can’t Hurt Me. Go listen to the audiobook and get your shit together my nigga. Wtf be a man. | /r/seduction | 17/02/22 12:17 AM |
| 6 | Please Work on your looksYo I used to be on the porn shit too, but then i took a two month trip to Thailand. Guess what, they don’t alo porn in their country. So I had no choice but to quit cold turkey. It was a blessing. For now just fap to pics or use your imagination. Just don’t watch that shit. Plus take a trip bro to Thailand or Cambodia or Colombia. Go somewhere. At 6’3 the ladies will flock to you and you’ll see you’re not some lame guy. It’s just western women that are the problem. But not all Women are bad. Tru… | /r/seduction | 16/02/22 08:13 PM |
| 2 | Please Work on your looksGo to the gym and get absolutely shredded then. One day your metabolism will slow down. Make sure you have good habits by then | /r/seduction | 16/02/22 08:10 PM |
| 18 | Her body count is a strong predictor of infidelityFuck all this shit go run 4 miles and lift. Get after it | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/22 03:54 AM |
| 1 | My ex is dating an older manA little late homie. And it turned out to be some friend she has, they weren’t dating. I just got shook seeing the pic on social media. We create stories for people without knowing the truth. Smh. Long story short. The girl is no longer in my life at alll | /r/askTRP | 04/02/22 04:04 AM |
| 1 | THE DOMINO EFFECT: Or how an encounter with a single girl can lead to much more.Good shit , keep going , wear a condom | /r/TheRedPill | 03/01/22 09:20 PM |
| 203 | My little bro has had more sexual experience than me…Damn , help him out a bit 😅 | /r/seduction | 23/12/21 02:20 AM |
| 3 | Treat yourself as if you were someone worth fighting for.Go take a trip with your best boy to southern Thailand. Or go solo. Move around. Make friends. Take a leap | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/21 02:49 AM |
| 1 | As a younger man who’s a kissless virgin, what’s the point?Yo brother. Do some research and go to Thailand. No lie. I’ve been here 14 days and have gone on many adventures. Shit is fire and you will be forced to put yourself out there. Spend some time in hostels, go out. I like the south part (islands) more than Bangkok. The Thai women are feminine and direct. If they like you, they like you. They view sex different. Just to get some experience so you can see that you aren’t some wack person. Idk where you live but in the West shit is actually kind of t… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/21 04:31 AM |
| 4 | Wife requesting I be more dominantRead Sex God Method for handling the sex part. It is very good stuff. Your wife wants to be your toy, just go caveman on her and nut in her mouth. For the relationship part, check out the top posts on TheRedPill subreddit. You could also read The Way of the Superior Man, No More Mr. Nice Guy and The Rationale Male (if you don’t want to buy the book, you could visit therationalemale.com and read the best of year one, then go on to year 2,3,4 and 5. All of this shit may be a shocker, but it’s good… | /r/askMRP | 12/11/21 11:10 PM |
| 1 | My goal is to have my first date by the time I'm 40.Yeah homie, definitely leave your country for a bit and go see what girls are like elsewhere. Just to boost the confidence a bit. Experience is important | /r/seduction | 30/10/21 03:53 PM |
| 28 | I woke up today and i saw a message from a girl who broke my heart 3 years before.If you block her , you won’t get a second message. | /r/seduction | 22/10/21 10:10 AM |
| 2 | I woke up today and i saw a message from a girl who broke my heart 3 years before.Yeah then bro. Delete the message and move forward. If it’s a risk on your heart and you can’t trust her with it then by all means delete the message and forget about her. Your emotions will be in the air for a bit. But at the end of the day, choose yourself over her. Good luck | /r/seduction | 22/10/21 09:32 AM |
| 1 | I woke up today and i saw a message from a girl who broke my heart 3 years before.This one is tough. Could be sending the song hoping you take the lead and ask her out. Could be an attention thing. It mainly depends on you. If this girl has harmed you in the past and you have now moved on enough to the point where you don’t need her continue moving forward and don’t set yourself up for heartbreak and ignore. If you have no other options and don’t mind the potential heartbreak. Respond to the song and see if she makes conversation (displays interest). Navigate from there. Good… | /r/seduction | 22/10/21 09:15 AM |
| 1 | Breaking out of comfort zone - Teaching English in Thailand vs just vacationingSo experience wise you think just traveling around Bangkok and Thailand in general for 2 or 3 months would be better than teaching full time? | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/21 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Sick of America? Go visit Colombia. It is a breath of fresh air.Yo boss. Thinking about going to Colombia for a short stay. Would a month be too much in Medellin? | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/21 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Cross Post - Getting over a BPDFacts. A lot of heads have different goals but after a while this is the mindset that will ultimately take place after heads really realize that AWALT and there is nothing we can do about it. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/21 11:32 PM |
| 3 | Cross Post - Getting over a BPDJust left a narcissist. It’s been fucking tough bro. Real talk, I peeped the red flags and I still continued to go through with it thinking that I could handle the break up when it came because I’ve dealt with getting over a girl before. Nah. The trauma and abuse you go through is out of this world and very hard to shake off your mental. I hope to feel baseline normal again one day | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/21 06:37 PM |
| 3 | Being On The Alpha Fucks Side Of Hypergamy Mutually Improves Your Relationship With WomenIt depends on what you want from that girl. I have had girls I didn’t mind being the side guy. But when I meet a girl I want to exclusive fuck and chill with I don’t want to be the side guy. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/21 02:40 PM |
| 2 | Being On The Alpha Fucks Side Of Hypergamy Mutually Improves Your Relationship With WomenLolll that made me smile and then laugh. Thank you friend. Happy hunting | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/21 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Being On The Alpha Fucks Side Of Hypergamy Mutually Improves Your Relationship With WomenYesssirree the new guy doesn’t even know what’s coming to him yet. And yeah it’s my fault, I already mentally owned it. I should’ve stayed true to at least the second break up. I didn’t want any bad blood or for the relationship to deteriorate. Wanted to leave on a high note so maybe in the future we could start over when I get back if it worked out that way. I don’t know about that anymore after all this shit but life. You live and you learn lol. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/21 03:47 AM |
| 24 | The Friendzone is a Logical Fallacy.Yessir. He either gets fucked or rejected. Do not accept friendship with women you know you want to fuck. Make your intentions known if you are already in that situation and leave the friendship. Maybe down the line you will then get a chance to fuck after she’s seen that you actually have balls. I have fucked two women that I USED to be friends with because I kept it a buck with them and told them straight up “why would I settle for less when I know what I want”. Simple as that. Move forward. L… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/21 02:46 AM |
| 3 | Being On The Alpha Fucks Side Of Hypergamy Mutually Improves Your Relationship With WomenLmfaoo you got it bro. Real talk at blood pressure issues. The good times were really good and the pussy was really good too :’( It wasn’t really a we agreement I tried to break up with her multiple times but she always came running back the next day. My goofy ass thought I was in control, I was at the time I guess, until she could find another dude. Yeah bro, I only had one other girl I was in a ltr with and when shit started going downhill I held on way too long. I promised myself once shit st… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/21 02:06 AM |
| 5 | Being On The Alpha Fucks Side Of Hypergamy Mutually Improves Your Relationship With WomenIf i’m being honest right now I wanted to be more and I expressed that , BUT I am leaving the country in 3 months so it would be dumb to start a relationship right now, plus I think the girl I was fucking potentially was a narcissist - she may have new supply (dick) now so she was starting to get a little carried away with her dread so I ended it out of self respect. I didn’t want to be the side guy or a potential orbiter. Originally we didn’t want to lose each other so we agreed fwb but my feel… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/21 12:13 AM |
| 2 | Being On The Alpha Fucks Side Of Hypergamy Mutually Improves Your Relationship With WomenWhen you say “your commitment will never happen in the way that she believes she needs it” , what does that mean ? Also what do you mean if my feelings were aligned with my words and boundaries? I expressed my feelings and my boundaries. I had to cut her off because of the boundaries I set in stone. Self respect > | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/21 10:01 PM |
| 15 | Being On The Alpha Fucks Side Of Hypergamy Mutually Improves Your Relationship With WomenJust had to drop a fwb recently because she wanted me to be the guy on the side. It’s very unfulfilling when you have feelings for the girl. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/21 07:01 PM |
| 41 | If You're Here, Asking About HerEmphasis on the goofy bitch who isn’t going to be around in a year or two | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/21 09:38 AM |
| 1 | College dorm or apartment for transfer student?Live in the dorm bro. Apartment will have you lonely. Be the beer and alc connect. Look for the frat stars and sorority girls. Join a frat and then you can go live in an apartment once your social circle is set up. Don’t shoot your self in the foot by living in apartment. You’ll go to class then apartment and then you’re lonely. Dorm will allow you to quickly make friends. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/21 02:49 AM |
| 8 | I [33M] just decided to separate from hot ukrainian wife [32F] right after she started to build a new LTR with a random dude. Why has she ruined our marriage? To what extent is it my fault?Yo bro, don’t worry. You finessed a beautiful Ukrainian Jawn. Many men here can’t do that. They usually are money whores inside. You gave her a good time, she gave you a good time. Her clock is ticking, it’s time for her to find Daddy Warbucks. All relationships are temporary. Bitter pill to swallow but true. She cheated on a different degree. Relationship over. Move forward, try your best not to slip into an emotional abyss. She doesn’t love that man and he doesn’t make her pussy tingle. Don’t … | /r/askTRP | 21/06/21 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Messed up big timeFine. Then just start dreading and getting what you want. If she doesn’t want to break up that means you have power. Use that power to lead the relationship. Read up more on asktrp or TheRedPill. LTR Game , Control Game, etc. | /r/askMRP | 21/06/21 12:50 PM |
| 7 | My friend is in an LTR and his gf does not want to take his last name or have the children take his last name if they marry.Facts | /r/askTRP | 21/06/21 04:26 AM |
| 5 | LTR Broke up with me today. Need Ideas.Don’t respond bro. Don’t give her any closure. She’ll be back when she calms down. Just take the sex, do not continue relationship, tell her you don’t know about that at the moment. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/21 01:19 AM |
| 3 | Messed up big timeLook realistically here is what needs to happen right now. You need to just let her go. She has been waiting for the relationship to end. She has been stopping the sex in order to get your to react and you reacted the WRONG way in a situation like this. You were supposed to apply dread - see other girls, come home late, guys nights on the weekends and solo travel or guy trips. These things keep her on her toes wondering about you and what you may be doing. If she has access to you at all times, … | /r/askMRP | 21/06/21 01:16 AM |
| 5 | Wife wants divorce because of sex life but i don't want to not see my kids everydayYo bro ima keep it very very real we preach self improvement over here. So your attitude of being okay where you’re at doesn’t sit too well with a lot of us. If YOU are happy with who you are then by all means bro you won the game. You did your shit and you are good. Nothing left to prove. If she wants to go then let her go. I hope you just don’t regret not taking action when she dips. Women want to see her man going up and becoming somebody more in the world, they don’t want them to be better t… | /r/askMRP | 18/06/21 04:04 PM |
| 8 | Wife wants divorce because of sex life but i don't want to not see my kids everydayYo bro what are you doing? Get your ass up and live life. Board games and tv ? You sound like the girl in the relationship. Go out and be active, do activities with your wife and fuck her. You’re wasting her time. She doesn’t have much longer before she can’t do the shit she wants to do. It’s the last call on the train for her. Idk how old you are, but yeah it’s either you stop being a selfish shit and experience life with the woman you married and had kids with or you fuck off. You are in a gre… | /r/askMRP | 17/06/21 08:44 PM |
| 2 | Messed up with texting, need helpAyyy knew it would work out homie. Keep smashing | /r/askTRP | 15/06/21 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Did my text game show abundance/business? What can I improve?Never explain anything. It’s not that serious. Just keep shit casual, hey how was the show or how was chilling with your friend? She’ll say it was fun. Be like word that’s good. You down to chill Tuesday? If you know when she’ll be free it would also be gucci to call her instead and handle this | /r/askTRP | 13/06/21 06:22 PM |
| 1 | How to dress casually without looking like a slob?Yo homie just get in the gym. Get a nice ass chest , neck and arms. Start wearing muscle t shirts and you’ll be chilling. Cop a nice stainless steel or silver bracelet and get an Apple Watch Cop some fresh nikes for causal wear and some nice Chelsea boots for the fall/winter. Zara has fresh shit also | /r/askTRP | 13/06/21 06:19 PM |
| 2 | Did my text game show abundance/business? What can I improve?Never should have told her you have plans. That shit made it seem like you were just faking abundance. If you actually have plans You tell the girl later on if/when she follows up that you now have plans , that will teach her to take advantage when you offer to meet. You should’ve just said oh word enjoy your time with your friend or no worries have fun with your friend No use in overthinking it now. Hit her up in a couple days if she doesn’t text back. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/21 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Messed up with texting, need helpFacts good shit. So you’re doing the we’ll see way. That’s good too. Wishing you luck my guy. Abundance mentality for this. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/21 02:43 PM |
| 2 | Is it ever a good idea to verbally bring up the topic of sex with a date?Book a hotel room for the 4th date. Gotta try to finesse some way. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/21 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Messed up with texting, need helpIt be like that sometimes. Don’t stress. Thursday is pretty recent. I bet that she’ll be over. You know her best, you can either call her to set the plan up more directly no games or you could risk it sending a “what’s the word” text - it’s slang for what’s going on. Either way, she’ll be back. Don’t stress | /r/askTRP | 13/06/21 02:15 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend said she missed me after acting kinda rudeThere are times where you will have to speak up. If you are speaking up tooo many times the relationship is trash and it should not be LTR. Sometimes it’s hard when you really like the girl. For something like this, it’s whatever. She was being bitchy about a food place. View it as a shit test - a child doesn’t want to eat her vegetables so she is throwing a fit. Get her some dessert afterwards to change her mood. I would be tight too if I had to go to a place I didn’t want to go , it’s okay. Do… | /r/askTRP | 13/06/21 07:51 AM |
| 1 | Messed up with texting, need helpShe told you what time she is going to be in town. That’s interest. Don’t sweat it. I hope you gave her some dick to remember last time you were with her champ. Don’t text her again to set up the plans. Too much of a track record of you looking needy. Let her hit you up. If worse comes to worse and you really have no other plans. You can give her ONE call when you think she’d be free and set the plans up on the phone. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/21 07:45 AM |
| 4 | Girlfriend said she missed me after acting kinda rudeHomie, you did good for ignoring the bullshit. Sometimes shit gets rocky, you drove to the place where your brothers wanted to eat. She was acting like a bitch. You fucked up by texting her all that nonsense. Try not to ever explain why you’re mad at her, especially through text cause they lowkey get off on that shit. Thats a clown game. That’s why she texted you ok. To get even more under your skin. I’m gonna assume you held frame and left it as is. That’s when the tension arises and someone wi… | /r/askTRP | 13/06/21 07:40 AM |
| 4 | Just lost my virginity at 22.I didn’t finish my first time either and I was very let down. All that hype for this ... It gets better. You’ll learn how to focus and nut when you want too as time goes on. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/21 12:03 AM |
| 64 | The bottom of the bucket crabs will try to pull you downI didn’t read your post yet, just looked at the pics. Yes fucking sir !!! That’s how it’s done when you put in the work and use your head. Good shit boss. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/21 04:25 PM |
| 3 | LTR Calling me out on dread?Dread is mainly supposed to be passive though. You’re not really supposed to be actively dreading - that’s how you get your girls saying “are you trying to make me jealous” | /r/askTRP | 12/06/21 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Starting from zero SMV?Yo kid, it’s okay. I lost my virginity at 19 also. Real talk read up on alpha body language, fix your sense of clothing style, get and stay in the gym - this is a forever thing - make sure you are always working on becoming stronger in any core exercise, practice calisthenics as well. Cop some whey protein or some mass gainer and drink that shit with milk after your workouts. It’s important in the early years. You are young so money might be hard for now. If you’re in school , focus on that and … | /r/askTRP | 12/06/21 12:26 PM |
| 12 | LTR Calling me out on dread?Good shut. How did she know you were out with a female friend tho ? | /r/askTRP | 12/06/21 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on Traditional Stoic Game vs being Passionate?Mdma is for yourself and your experience. If that involves women lit, but don’t focus on women during your roll | /r/askTRP | 11/06/21 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Update 2: all you want from me is sexanything for the guys Lmaoo | /r/askTRP | 11/06/21 11:16 AM |
| 1 | Update: all you want from me is sexYikes | /r/askTRP | 11/06/21 11:16 AM |
| 0 | Update: all you want from me is sexI’m taking the advice. Just gonna escalate and fuck her. Everything else she says is noise | /r/askTRP | 10/06/21 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Update: all you want from me is sexI’m taking the advice. Just gonna escalate and fuck her. Everything else is noise | /r/askTRP | 10/06/21 06:05 PM |
| 2 | Update: all you want from me is sex😱😱😱 | /r/askTRP | 10/06/21 05:38 PM |
| 29 | Update: all you want from me is sexHomie, I’m just sharing the comedy. Other men can learn from this too This is my oneitis tho unfortunately. I’ll suffer for it soon, but ima enjoy my turn until the end | /r/askTRP | 10/06/21 05:33 PM |
| 4 | All you want from me is sexThis woman proved herself to be an LTR to me, it’s just we can’t do it right now because I am leaving the country in a couple months. No reason to invest that deeply, however we both do have feelings for each other and shit can get painful for both of us at times. It’s complicated but it adds to the experience | /r/askTRP | 10/06/21 03:56 PM |
| 13 | All you want from me is sexPlate comes over just for sex and leaves. Literally just meat. Fwb comes over just for sex as well but you can take her out to dinner and enjoy outside activities with her. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/21 03:55 PM |
| 19 | All you want from me is sexExactly bro , not sure what to really say to her anymore. I enjoy spending time with her outside of sex but she is really getting annoying with it. We’ve also agreed that all we would do is strictly fuck. I know that’s not what she wants and it’s not what I want so I do whatever else I want , but it’s like she just wants benefits without being happy about giving me the sex. It’s mad annoying because when we do fuck she cums multiple times and enjoys the sex waay more than me tbh. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/21 03:46 PM |
| 13 | All you want from me is sexYeah we watch a lot do tv. I take her on walks, to the beach, play Chinese checkers, I let her do her school work while I cooked for her on Friday, all types of random shit I try to do with her. She doesn’t see it because at the end of the day i always end up going for sex because I want sex. Tired of her bitching for wanting something natural. I have high test and could fuck up to 4 rounds a day. I’ve been thinking about a real soft next lately. I am going on a week long vacation next week wher… | /r/askTRP | 10/06/21 02:32 PM |
| 3 | Lived around the world, came back, what is going on?So what job did you have homie? Many men are interested | /r/askTRP | 03/06/21 08:06 PM |
| 1 | How to be ‘smoother’ when walking, moving about or dancing?Attractive Body language - study it and find what works for you At first it is conscious, after a while while it will be subconscious | /r/askTRP | 31/05/21 07:33 AM |
| 2 | How to stop being so naive?Elite, I needed this as well as young intelligent fit man getting ready to leave his first job | /r/askTRP | 29/05/21 08:24 PM |
| 2 | How do you go from passive to normal?This was a very useful tip homie | /r/askTRP | 29/05/21 08:17 PM |
| 0 | Other opportunitesLoll appreciate it kid | /r/askTRP | 29/05/21 03:51 PM |
| 2 | Can only get and stay hard for one girlYeah bro lol. My main plate is very cute and pretty hot tbh. Almost to the point where if I lose her , I knowwwww I’m gonna have to step my game up to fuck hotter girls than her. You’re right, the other 2 were def average. | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Can only get and stay hard for one girlLoll | /r/askTRP | 28/05/21 11:49 AM |
| 3 | How to get over recent extreme BP behavior?These comments are all fire. Just know that you are you and she is she. You can begin a new relationship and be/ become a new person for someone else. I know you are feeling overwhelmed right now but try to put things into perspective when it becomes too much. Let this relationship go for a second. She may want to come back , she may not want too. Make sure you are okay regardless. Keep lifting, go do some traveling, get a massage and go to the sauna. Go to the strip club with the boys and throw… | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 02:06 PM |
| 7 | Dumped by unicorn LTR. Need some help becoming the Alpha I used to be.Time for you to do new shit. Start traveling!!! around with a friend on the weekends. Seriously , new environments and experiences help put things into perspective a bit. Lift harder. Go to a sauna spa place and go get a massage. Cop some fresh new clothes your ex hasn’t seen. It’s gonna take some more time for you to get over her and for her to start missing you. You have to feel like shit entirely for it to get out of your system. Don’t try to numb the pain too much when you’re going through i… | /r/askTRP | 26/05/21 10:41 AM |
| 2 | Best way to handle when she says "maybe"Did she respond to this ? | /r/askTRP | 25/05/21 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Life knocked me down, am I destined to be a loser?It’s not too late for you | /r/askTRP | 24/05/21 11:47 AM |
| 3 | Does anyone else feel the need to cum daily?I’m the same homie. I was worried something might be wrong too but I think it’s just high test , high sex drive. Gotta use it to get shit done. Can become very fit with it. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/21 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone else feel the need to cum daily?I support this | /r/askTRP | 23/05/21 01:17 PM |
| 2 | What to do between scheduling a date and the day of the actual date?If she hits you up, answer her and use your senses. Don’t go fishing heavy for a conversation but don’t be afraid to have a small one. If you are having a small one, throw in a little flirting or high value demonstrating - just finished at the gym, just finished a project for work, just got back from Miami, etc etc. Good luck | /r/askTRP | 22/05/21 08:46 PM |
| 2 | Best colognes for alpha malesVersace Eros - Parfum I’ve tried Dior sauvage and Dior sport and bleu de Chanel. The Versace always beats it. My ex and the girl I’m currently fucking love it. Thank me later | /r/askTRP | 22/05/21 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Decision finalized, backlash however.I I I | /r/askTRP | 17/05/21 08:47 PM |
| 0 | Decision finalized, backlash however.Facts. Oneitis. Shit is rough. When you’re in the feelings, it’s very hard to just let go. It sucks because it’s not like there was a serious issue for me to blame. We communicate well and the vibes are still there. The staying with her option is just nonsense. It’s not an option no matter what. I’d much rather go and grow, just have to deal with the cons. Just curious as to how I should manage this friend with benefit relationship. Do you text only for logistics? Are you a friend and a lover? I… | /r/askTRP | 17/05/21 12:53 PM |
| 0 | Decision finalized, backlash however.I have been withdrawing attention. She hit me up and we made plans to hang today. She is trying to see me less, but it’s not what I want. The situation is rough yo. I’m gonna go and do my thing but still have to survive and thrive until then | /r/askTRP | 17/05/21 12:10 PM |
| 1 | Yo am I fucking up?Lmaooo | /r/askTRP | 17/05/21 10:25 AM |
| 1 | Yo am I fucking up?Thank you | /r/askTRP | 17/05/21 10:25 AM |
| 1 | Green or red FLAG? Next or not?Try one more time and if she is really denying again, excuse yourself “to take a call”’and then politely kick her out. And start cleaning like you’re about to have a new girl over. If you’re really good than maybe even schedule two girls for the same night. Plan A and Plan B | /r/askTRP | 15/05/21 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Green or red FLAG? Next or not?Oh she’s been to the crib and no sex? | /r/askTRP | 15/05/21 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Green or red FLAG? Next or not?Pull back and let her initiate. Invite her over and tell her to bring wine. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/21 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Could not get hard at all.Yeah she’s gonna hold that shit and work for her cock. What else ? | /r/askTRP | 15/05/21 01:22 AM |
| 2 | Could not get hard at all.Tell her to give you head next time | /r/askTRP | 14/05/21 09:27 PM |
| 4 | Been using her for emotional support all this time, just broke up. How do I move on?Try your best to Meet a couple girls in real life. Seduce and charm then. Once you’re in and out of them , I don’t think you’ll be thinking about your LDR so much. Emotions are hard to just let go of though. It’s going to take some time. Chin up. Time will heal you for the most part. I used to not believe it but it does. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/21 01:19 AM |
| 1 | should you ask any cute girl her number if you're interested?Fuck that noise. You see something you like and have the confidence to initiate, many men wish they had this. Keep going. Don’t let opportunities slip by | /r/seduction | 07/05/21 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Making me jealous/ thirst trap?Don’t react. She wants to get the rise out of you. Just let it rock and you’ll be golden. She’ll get bored | /r/askTRP | 07/05/21 01:47 AM |
| 2 | Is there ever too much alpha?It was three quick slaps to the face. Just a quick rush you know. I guess it was too much | /r/askTRP | 06/05/21 03:22 PM |
| 2 | When you aren’t gonna be at your best, what do you do?Yeah bro I told her what was going on. She went into supportive girlfriend mode pretty quick. Happy with the results. We’ll see what happens next. If she is able to hold me down and help with my family during this hard time, she for a fact has my loyalty. | /r/askTRP | 04/05/21 07:49 PM |
| 3 | What are you doing this weekend?Ask her out and find out champ :) | /r/askTRP | 30/04/21 03:17 AM |
| 1 | Girl I fucked once 2 years ago wants exclusivityUpdate: I told her the truth. She still wanted to come over. Wants to still know if I’ll be exclusive, I’m just using amused mastery to cut that nonsense out now. Honesty was the much better move, because it also lets her be aware that I have options | /r/askTRP | 27/04/21 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Girl I fucked once 2 years ago wants exclusivityBet. Yeah I don’t want any unnecessary drama and I don’t want to lose my main plate over foolishness. I have lied to girl about exclusivity before but that was when I knew the girl has no potential to actually become something I wanted. This girl does have potential and could end up being a long term plate so it is better to keep shit all the way honest from the get go. I appreciate the wisdom and the different opinion | /r/askTRP | 26/04/21 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Girl I fucked once 2 years ago wants exclusivityFacts , ima hit it once and then be like yo I can’t do this exclusive thing. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/21 11:42 AM |
| 2 | Girl I fucked once 2 years ago wants exclusivityYessir !!! Yeah bro I told her I’m down, but I’m def gonna be piping others | /r/askTRP | 25/04/21 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Trying to control sexThe girl might have bpd bro. I want to continue fucking, but idk if my heart can take it long term. I am still moving in a couple months so that can be my escape route but still, a lot of mental damage can be done in some months. Idk. I need more options, this shit wouldn’t be on my Mind if I had more. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/21 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Trying to control sexGood answer homie. Thank you. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/21 12:56 AM |
| 1 | Trying to control sexFacts stupid ass bitch needs to be grateful. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/21 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Trying to control sexI tried to make her my girlfriend because I like her and want to see where things can go. She doesn’t want to be my gf, maybe it’s a trust issue thing or she wants to be free so idk what to say really. How much more comfort can I give. All I do is comfort, shit is getting mad annoying. I do option A a lot and tell her that I really just have no control. We do, do option B bro. I don’t just fuck and kick her out. We spend a lot of time nonsexual but to make up for it I fuck her a lot. We both get… | /r/askTRP | 21/04/21 09:23 PM |
| 2 | Trying to control sexI appreciate the advice, but here’s the real interesting thing. I offered her the girlfriend position and she declined. It’s like she wants girlfriend benefits without being my girlfriend though. Shit is very annoying. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/21 07:36 PM |
| 2 | Trying to control sexFacts bro. That’s what i offer. She wants to just do things with no sex sometimes. That shit sounds Ed to me. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/21 04:53 PM |
| 4 | Ltr going out insteadBro idk. If it’s a year anniversary. I’d cancel the dinner and say let’s do it another time. I’d hate if my gf did some shit like that on our 1 year. Fuck the modesty, she should know better. Don’t hide your disappointment. My ex didn’t even realize that it was our one year when it came. I didn’t let it slide. Idgaf | /r/askTRP | 17/04/21 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Getting to the next levelYo homie I messaged you. Thank you for the input, I was really only look to teach just so I have an excuse to get into the country. If I don’t need an excuse I’d much rather just go visit and live my life for a bit and get my perspective that way. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 06:26 PM |
| 3 | Soft-Nexted LTR, now she's demanding an apologyNah bro. Time is very valuable. What are you going to do? Not fuck for a week? If that’s your style okay. Me I like to kill shit quickly and fuck the next day. I have a high sex drive and am not into the waiting a week thing. At most a day or two max. But that’s also because if I’m being honest I have anxiety as well when situations arise. I don’t want to lose girls that bring value to me. If they are girls I really don’t care about than okay, but I’m not gonna be autistic and not text for a wee… | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 05:09 PM |
| 9 | Soft-Nexted LTR, now she's demanding an apologyWhenever girls give me drama like this, I am noticeably different in my demeanor with the texting and tell them I’d like to have a talk with them in person at some point in time when it’s convenient for me. They usually want to talk right then and there since they fear I am about to end things or something. Within that talk anything can happen, but for the most part, I get them to lay in bed or sit on the bed with me and we talk about the issue but in a smart way, I don’t bitch about the issue, … | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 04:45 PM |
| 2 | LTR got asked out by her classmate while next to meYeah true. Can’t have everything I guess. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 04:03 PM |
| 2 | LTR got asked out by her classmate while next to meYeah bro I feel you. I be doing that too when I don’t know what to do as well. Always good to consult the guys from an outside perspective. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 03:49 PM |
| 379 | LTR got asked out by her classmate while next to meLeave it alone. Don’t ever mention it. Mate guarding directly is an L. LTR for 2 years, you should be good. Your girl will get hit on. It is her job to not entertain men. She said no. She did her job. Do your job and continue being that guy. Good luck bro | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 03:43 PM |
| 2 | For those who have been in LTRs for years. How has TRP helped you maintain your relationship/marriage?Yeah bro don’t do it. I was really in the feels and just trying to not feel the pain of moving on. Also not trying to hurt her. Shit is just a dub. Focus on yourself please and see her when you can. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 01:22 PM |
| 3 | She still has tinder after saying she deletedIt’s to rack up followers on Instagram. Girls are going to be girls. They want bumass attention from as many dudes as possible. Trust me I feel you. I hate this shit and I would be tight af too. Bro trp would call this a low quality girl. Only you know if she is worth your time. If she continues to disrespect your time then you know what to do. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 12:53 PM |
| 5 | She still has tinder after saying she deletedYo she may have deleted the app but not the profile Homie. Don’t stress. It shows you on there for a while still. Unless you delete delete your account. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 12:46 PM |
| 2 | When should you use cologne?Versace Eros. Thank me later | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 03:59 AM |
| 1 | For those who have been in LTRs for years. How has TRP helped you maintain your relationship/marriage?How do you know if she cheats tho bro? That’s the thing. No one is going to tell you they cheated, especially if they know you’ll walk. I don’t know bro. I like being nurturing to the girls I date, I like boosting their self esteem and caring about them. I guess lovey dovey is the wrong way to say it but you know what I mean. Just nice to them. Yeah bro, but tbh I might just be dating the wrong girl right now wishing she was the right one. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 02:18 AM |
| 1 | For those who have been in LTRs for years. How has TRP helped you maintain your relationship/marriage?Honestly bro. It wasn’t lit. FaceTime dates are nice and sweet and warm but I never got to fuck her, I would spend a lot of time on my phone texting her, trying to keep her updated on my life and she would do the same. It caused us to become codependent on each other. She was a lame shy girl in her home country - Ireland. And I was an American frat boy. I was the prize tbh. Then she moved to Canada because I thought it would be better for us to have her closer. Next thing you know she is getting… | /r/askTRP | 12/04/21 02:15 AM |
| 3 | For those who have been in LTRs for years. How has TRP helped you maintain your relationship/marriage?Yo unfortunately the only way to minimize the anxiety is to not play the game and get emotionally attached to women when you’re with them, which is also pretty impossible for me. It also does depend tho. My first gf I knew was loyal so I actually never worried about being cheated on until I saw changes in her patterns and felt a vibe like I was holding her back from something - we were in a long distance relationship for the majority of our relationship - another one of my blue pill L’s. You can… | /r/askTRP | 11/04/21 06:40 PM |
| 33 | For those who have been in LTRs for years. How has TRP helped you maintain your relationship/marriage?It’s rough tbh. Due to trp I know not to foolishly go into relationships thinking that it will last forever but there is melancholy and anxiety knowing that i can’t trust them and that they may cheat. It makes me not want to fall for girls anymore and it’s kind of wack. I can’t be my genuine lovey dovey (blue pill) self and have to hold it back sometimes out of fear of being cucked or cheated on. While I’m in them I just do my best to lead from a captain/first mate perspective and enjoy the mome… | /r/askTRP | 11/04/21 03:36 PM |
| 7 | That "guy"He has a small wiener bro, dw about him. If you are introverted, learn how to use your strengths instead of pretending to be someone you’re not. It is exhausting and not genuine. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/21 01:39 PM |
| 9 | Is it a thing, girls ghosting bc they catch feelings and get afraid of being hurt?My plate lowkey wanted to stop seeing each other so much because she was afraid of the feelings she was catching. It’s a self defense mechanism aka comfort test imo. With this don’t just say bye, give a little bs comfort and ensure that you aren’t here to hurt her. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/21 12:56 AM |
| 4 | 2 Days Back to Back?Bro i literally just saw my plate like 5 or 6 days back to back and then left to a different state for the weekend to balance things out. See her whenever you want, especially a 6 month one. Your value won’t decrease too much from more exposure. She may start pushing for a relationship more tho. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/21 12:54 AM |
| 3 | Incredibly frustrated with women, will take any advice no matter how uncomfortableText the woman you spoke to tomorrow. Just say something like hey it was nice to meet you yesterday Gauge her response and go from there boss. I understand your resentment. I think we all can. You seem to have some deeper rooted issues tho, no offense. Some therapy might be needed. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/21 04:43 AM |
| 1 | Am I still holding on to blue pill? Are AWLT?Father abandoned her when she was little so there’s that, her last ex opened the relationship they had and I think it fucked her up, she recently contacted her ex and started some drama with him, is still speaking to a long term fwb she has, not really working rn, just living at home and looking for things to do with her time. A lot of red flags bro. She wants commitment. I am willing to keep her as plate but her extracurricular activities are starting to effect me mentally partly because I am c… | /r/askTRP | 29/03/21 03:40 AM |
| 2 | Left the ball in her court and she asked when I’m free.. surely too early to lockdown a date for next week?Yo if you want to see her and she wants to see you, see her bro. This is a toolbox, don’t forget. Just watch yourself and your feelings. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/21 04:50 PM |
| 7 | [Need Advice] How to cope with being short and having male pattern baldness?Dress well, smell nice always , and lift and eat like your life depends on it. Wear contacts if you have glasses. Read about body language. Keep your shoulders back and your chest slightly puffed out naturally. Like others have said, stop giving a fuck. You won’t be able to fuck everyone but you’ll have your girls. Do some traveling and invest in yourself - get massages and go to the sauna. Just give a fuck about yourself | /r/askTRP | 25/03/21 11:50 AM |
| 5 | Women look at Chads multiple times per day on their phone. So how can some average looking guy with thinning hair make her horny?Other comments are good. You need to get contacts, sneakers and joggers bro. Always make sure when you step out of your house , you are looking fly. No offense but it’s just something “average” people have to do. Keep going | /r/askTRP | 23/03/21 03:49 AM |
| 1 | How beta is it living at home at 26+?Do you want to stay home or no ? | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 04:56 AM |
| 1 | How beta is it living at home at 26+?Do you give back ? Pay a bill from time to time. Do some grocery shopping? I’ve been paying the heat bill and it’s been good. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 04:04 AM |
| 1 | LTR- how did I handle?Never bring up guys after the talk is done. Once and then never again. Unless necessary | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 04:01 AM |
| 5 | How beta is it living at home at 26+?To be honest my parents and family want me around. I think the idea of me leaving lowkey depresses them already , as I plan to move to Thailand for 6 months in 6 months. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 03:45 AM |
| 28 | How beta is it living at home at 26+?I’m 24 right now and I don’t really see myself moving out until I’m ready to do so. In my parents basement, working, saving money. I have no desire to pay 1.5k rent a month. Off that entirely. I’m in no rush. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/21 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Bad behavior trainingYeah. It’s just wack. I don’t want her to play these childish games. I ignored her message last night when it finally came and I ignored her good morning message today. Literally, 10 minutes later cause she can see im active on other socials, she calls me. The games aren’t necessary. She can be promoted but she needs to learn to just chill and let things happen naturally when I’m ready. The manipulation is Ed edd and eddy and makes me wary. I’m so happy i have trp yo. Imagine playing this game w… | /r/askTRP | 19/03/21 05:17 PM |
| 5 | Bad behavior trainingThat’s what I was thinking bro. But I hate being petty/passive aggressive. Looking for a more mature way to deal with this | /r/askTRP | 19/03/21 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Male birth controlJust edited the post. I want kids one day , but not yet. I should be allowed to pause sperm production when I want, just as easy they can stop ovulation | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 12:45 PM |
| 2 | LTR never arranges datesSo you only have sex once a week? Are you okay with that? Any time you want to have sex , invite her over to fuck. Women aren’t people of action unless it’s necessary , they very passive sometimes. Just make sure you get what you want out of it. I’d hate to see my ltr once a week. I like to smash everyday or at least every other day. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 12:42 PM |
| 0 | Girl is trying to manipulate me into commitmentSo what are you thinking then? Is there a way I can calm down her worries without offering commitment for now (need a couple more months at least). I am not ignoring her statement, it is definitely noted. I am just not ready to commit and if I do commit under duress than it’s just gonna be obligated desire which won’t be genuine. I don’t need her right now since I am trying to explore and build options, she right now is just an option, but she is the best option. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/21 01:26 PM |
| 4 | Plate wants an apology?Don’t not respond for a day or 2. That’s a bit too much. This girl is asking for more comfort. It’s up to you how you want to provide it. I would text her this afternoon that you’d like to talk to her on Saturday. Either she will make herself available to you or not. Roll with the punches, my plates are starting to get wobbly rn as well. One week we can be up, next week we can be down. Just focus on your mental and your life. Go workout and do what you like to do in the meantime. Enjoy your date… | /r/askTRP | 16/03/21 01:19 PM |
| 6 | Plate wants an apology?Don’t text this. Don’t respond for a bit. And then tell her you would like to talk to her on whatever day. Get her to meet in person and do this face to face - depending on your frame you should be able to move passed this. She is clearly thinking about you. Focus on other plates if you have at the moment | /r/askTRP | 16/03/21 12:01 PM |
| 2 | I’ve come to hate society after fully becoming redpill and reject it.Yes sir !!!! Planning on moving in September to get a new outlook on life / society. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/21 09:26 AM |
| 1 | Plate looked at my phonePhone is locked , the text just popped up and I forgot to turn off notifications for the app smh. Mistake I won’t let happen again | /r/askTRP | 15/03/21 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Plate looked at my phoneNah the text just happens to pop up as I was gone. Didn’t expect to receive a text of that nature so randomly. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/21 12:41 PM |
| 5 | LTR cheatedFacts. You gonna feel defeated for a little bit, but long term you’ve just been set free. Give it some time and definitely try to land in some new strange soon. Friends, gym, massages, saunas and traveling helps a lot. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/21 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Plate seems off out of nowhereWe haven’t really had “the talk” yet, she’s been treating me like a boyfriend tho. Tells me I’m moving up in her book and that she’s been thinking about me a lot more though. She just asked to talk when I get back from vacay and I said sure, so yeah bro I’m gonna cut the texts and shit and wait till Monday. I like the girl though man. If I lose her I’ve been telling myself that I WILL find another girl and will have sex again loll, trying to build up my abundance mentality. I had a feeling week … | /r/askTRP | 05/03/21 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Plate seems off out of nowherePotential ltr. Plate is probably the wrong word. I’m an overthinker as well. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/21 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Do girlfriends get more comfortable and less submissive in LTRs regardless of SMV?What does friendly battle of wills mean | /r/askTRP | 05/03/21 02:08 PM |
| 2 | Girl I thought wanted LTR doesn't want to be exclusiveYo homie. If you want to see her for a talk, sex, whatever reach out and get your answer. What are you waiting weeks for? You know how long a week is? Live in the moment a little more. If you really want to take some time and think about things for yourself then don’t contact for a bit. Let her miss you and figure things out too. Write a letter on paper to her saying how you feel. Just write and write. Be a complete alpha or pussy in the letter. When you’re done, do not send or show her it thoug… | /r/askTRP | 02/03/21 10:20 AM |
| 2 | Self esteem issue?Facts it’s always in the back of my head somewhere now. Ima just enjoy my turn and hope for the best for myself afterwards | /r/askTRP | 27/02/21 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Self esteem issue?Aye aye captain. Thank you | /r/askTRP | 27/02/21 04:09 PM |
| 0 | Dates with no sex?? What does that mean homie? I’m willing to be more aggressive or try whatever. I’m not afraid to lose the girl, just want some direction before this becomes the norm | /r/askTRP | 24/02/21 04:48 AM |
| 0 | Dates with no sexTook her on three dates. She lets me fuck the third date. Take her on three dates again. She lets me fuck the third date. Today was the seventh date and I didn’t fuck. Don’t know if she is just baiting and switching like someone else mentioned to me in a previous post or if she is actually interested. She does other shit. It’s not all about the sex but I’m horny and do want sex so .. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/21 04:34 AM |
| 1 | A huge fight over something with ltrLet her hit you up first if it’s one of those situations. If she doesn’t hit you up in 3 days then hit her up ash her to talk | /r/askTRP | 23/02/21 08:43 PM |
| 8 | A huge fight over something with ltrNah it’s not simping to consider an option from your girl. As long as YOU come to the decision that that’s the best option. Just tell her hey I thought it about it and you are right, the second option is not the best. Let’s do option 1 or whatever. Don’t worry about being in her frame. Make sure that you are enjoying your time. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/21 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Sex on commandShe closes up a bit and tries to get me to focus on whatever activity we are doing. Like if we’re watching a movie she’s like “we gotta the movie” or a puzzle “we gotta get back to the puzzle”. This girl has been hurt a bit by her past guy, so definitely not tryna force myself onto her if she doesn’t want it. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/21 04:07 AM |
| 1 | A girl I’m dating thinks that I don’t like herFacts thank you. Definitely need to properly vet | /r/askTRP | 20/02/21 10:21 PM |
| 1 | A girl I’m dating thinks that I don’t like herYeah homie | /r/askTRP | 20/02/21 08:37 PM |
| 2 | Girl asked me to rate herThank you for the accurate response. I just needed some confirming on what was really happening. I knew something was wrong when she didn’t want to have sex. She even tried to say I hope you don’t think every time I come here we’re gonna have sex. In my head I was like this bitch really must be goofy if she thinks I’m just gonna take her on dates and shit without sex. I don’t really know how to make her see me as alpha. I’m not really interested in being her little beta with sex being dangled in… | /r/askTRP | 18/02/21 04:11 PM |
| 1 | I might have a girl over this weekend. How do i do things right?Yeah homie. Don’t be tooo eager to hook up. Make sure she is comfortable, grab some snacks , some waters, some alc if you can get your hands on your parents stash lol. If she is comfortable coming over once she will come over a second time and a third time. If she comes and you make her uncomfortable she will most likely not come back. Escalate and see the vibes. Just look at her during the movie and be like yo you’re really distracting me with your beauty or whatever. Say slick shit in a slick … | /r/askTRP | 17/02/21 04:39 PM |
| 9 | In my own head too much to dirty talk.Read Sex God Method, And breathe and thrusting is good too bro if that’s what you want to do. Just immerse yourself in the experience and go at it. Don’t let the pressure of talking fuck up your experience | /r/askTRP | 06/02/21 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone had experience with excessive ambition leading to a neglection of health?I’ve been working a lot recently trying to save and make more money. 16 hour work days with like 5-6 hours of sleep due to a 2-2.5 hour round trip commute. No lie homie, just today it was all catching up to me. Had to cancel the overtime shift and go home and rest and I’m happy I did. Push yourself to the limit but MAKE SURE YOU KNOW YOUR LIMIT. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/21 04:55 AM |
| 1 | Inherited 20k from grandpa at 18 - What do I do next?Hold it for now. The smart idea would be too throw 6k into a Vanguard Roth and the next into a mutual funds. But for now your 18, maybe you’ll want to go away for school or maybe you’ll want to take 5 grand and travel south east Asia in 2 years for a year. I wouldn’t pressure myself into doing anything with it yet. 20k is good to have. Throw 15k into a savings until you know what you want to do and hold 5k in your debit so you’re comfortable. Don’t go buying designer shit with your grandfathers … | /r/askTRP | 06/02/21 04:19 AM |
| 2 | Do you use emojis?Bro just use them when necessary 😅 | /r/askTRP | 06/02/21 04:15 AM |
| 1 | Best country to spend a semester abroad in?I went to Ireland and had a good time but it’s probably dead there right now. I am going to Thailand for a bit, people seem to love it there. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/21 10:35 AM |
| 1 | Which habits and pitfalls to avoid on your path to success ?Do you pay for tinder? | /r/askTRP | 02/02/21 05:04 AM |
| 1 | What are some good habits/ things to know for a person who is going to move away to college and live by themselves?Join the best frat | /r/askTRP | 02/02/21 05:02 AM |
| 1 | Have women always been whores to this degree, or has social media completely extrapolated hypergamy?Gg | /r/askTRP | 01/02/21 08:01 AM |
| 7 | Free lunch womenThinking too hard my guy. This is a quick let me see who this person is real quick and if I like this person we can move forward. This is also your chance to see if you even like her my guy. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/21 09:22 PM |
| 2 | How to respond to “why are you being so quiet “ or “you seem like you’re not having a good time”Me too bro. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/21 01:56 PM |
| 4 | What would you consider a productive day?Yeah bro I know. I feel like that’s the catch 22 with trp. I always feel like there is something more I could be doing. I honestly have constant anxiety that I’m not using my time to the best of its ability. Enjoy what you enjoy tbh. I like to smoke weed and have a beer at the end of my day or when I’m chilling with my mom watching tv before I go to sleep. Something productive I also do personally is go get massages and go to this sauna spa place I like. It’s a treat for me and it is also really… | /r/askTRP | 26/01/21 08:12 PM |
| 7 | What would you consider a productive day?Right now I am working my 7-: 3:30 shift. During my lunch break I hit the gym. I play (practice) my chess. I try to eat as much as I can to ensure I am reaping all The rewards from my lifting. As long as I had a good day I’m good. I try to shoot for 8 hours of sleep as well. I read a lot of trp, but I need to make sure I get back into my reading the books I set out to read. Other than that I’ve had a good day. It would Be nice to be bust a nut in a girl at the end of my day too but currently not… | /r/askTRP | 26/01/21 07:58 PM |
| 7 | Struggling with a breakup in a time of vulnerability (i fucked up bad)It’s gonna take time boss. Months, maybe even a year. Just continue grieving and doing what you have to do. Focus on your health. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/21 08:54 PM |
| 22 | Movies or TV shows that depict male redpill tendencies?Aren’t we all emotional wrecks lowkey? Don always did his best to hold frame and would only break down in private. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/21 12:30 PM |
| 7 | Movies or TV shows that depict male redpill tendencies?Elite show. Tommy is definitely a go getter. Every man should try and incorporate some of his traits in their lives. Unbreakable frame. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/21 12:28 PM |
| 2 | Why does a high body count create neuroticism in women and not men?Lmfaoo facts | /r/askTRP | 10/01/21 02:05 PM |
| 3 | Stuffed up with a girl and have had oneitis over it for a long time, what's the best way to make up for it?Best way to make up for it is to not waste anymore opportunities. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/21 01:02 PM |
| 3 | Long term gf of three years wants to move in and when we do i should speak to my parents only once a week.Yeah bro. Your girlfriend loves you. Remember women love opportunistically. You are Providing her an escape from her life in India. She loves you for what you are doing for her. She probably thinks you’re going to get married. Your mom knows best to be honest. Just understand that internally and move forward how you want. Don’t let her bitch you, call your parents. That’s a very stupid request to be honest and sounds manipulative. Good Parents are a blessing and shouldn’t be taken for granted. D… | /r/askTRP | 09/01/21 10:47 AM |
| 6 | How to Deal With a Break Up?Find a new purpose - save so and so amount of money, lose weight, whatever. Block her on the social media. Legit, out of sight , out of mind. It works yo. I wish I did this exactly as my breakup happens a year ago. Would’ve saved me a lot of grief and time. No funny shit. Block. Move on and work on meeting new girls when you have healed up a bit. Don’t have to fuck, but understand that your girl isn’t the only one. This was big for me. Due to my oneitis and making her my mission for real, I was … | /r/askTRP | 09/01/21 10:38 AM |
| 2 | My partner is redpill and i am struggling to understand him. Any advice appreciated.Yeah this mans sounds like a jerk. I’m not gonna tell you what to do, but do what’s best for you. Handle it and then leave him out. You got a lot of life left to live. Be smart. Good luck for real. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/21 08:26 PM |
| 2 | My partner is redpill and i am struggling to understand him. Any advice appreciated.No funny shit. He doesn’t want to be in a relationship with you. I’m sorry, but that’s life sometimes. He is being a retard about the situation though. I’m not saying he is supposed to jump to your aid and I think you know that, but he could handle the situation with some care. A pregnancy is not a game and he should be taking responsibility for his unborn child. I would just ask him if he wants to be apart of the baby’s life if you are going to have it. Or ask him what he wants to do. Abort it?… | /r/askTRP | 07/01/21 06:18 PM |
| 2 | Second chance?Good looks my guy. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/21 12:47 AM |
| 2 | Second chance?It’s cold outside :/ | /r/askTRP | 06/01/21 09:45 PM |
| 2 | Second chance?Facts lmao. She brought up the sex because I pushed for it physically when we were together and she wouldn’t budge. Got hit with an insane amount of lmr | /r/askTRP | 06/01/21 07:57 PM |
| 3 | Second chance?Facts thank you. I didn’t mean to overtly speak about it. She just hit me with the friendzone and said she didn’t want to have to sex with me, so I was like word I’m not interested in this relationship without sex. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/21 07:49 PM |
| 4 | Second chance?Okay gangster. Sorry for the trouble. Really. I feel bad. How can I make it up to you ? | /r/askTRP | 06/01/21 07:46 PM |
| 2 | Second chance?Yeah bro. I had her in my bed the last time I saw her, she just wouldn’t let me pull down her panties. It was the second date. Either she was un attracted or just didn’t want to seem easy. She had mentioned “we are not having sex today” and “something about next time”. I only spoke to her overtly about sex because she was trying to friendzone me and say no sex and I told her I wasn’t interested. I’ll see what I can do and if nothing happens I’m off her | /r/askTRP | 06/01/21 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Second chance?Facts. I’m assuming she just wants to work out but maybe I can finesse, no big deal if not | /r/askTRP | 06/01/21 07:39 PM |
| 2 | Second chance?Yeah exactly, I’m not going in with expectations. But I hope she smart enough to know I’m gonna escalate. If she doesn’t reciprocate than yeah, have a nice day. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/21 06:51 PM |
| 2 | I’m thinking of ending it all. I can’t do this anymore.Yo bro. What the fuck. If dentist is not for you then fuck dentist. Pick a different path. You definitely have drive. When I started school I was doing Mechanical Engineering because I wanted to make paper. Little did I know I was not fucking meant to be no engineer. I got kicked out of the engineering school actually my second year , I appealed and said yo let me just switch majors and I’ll fuck off. I switched my major to public health and was able to do well and graduated. Now employed and do… | /r/askTRP | 05/01/21 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Accessories and stuffWhat is a Tevos, just checked online and all I see is a character from a video game | /r/askTRP | 05/01/21 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Accessories and stuffhttps://www.goat.com/sneakers/yeezy-boost-350-v2-black-yzy-350-v2-blk Looking for these. I’ll take a look. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/21 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Accessories and stuffJust checked out GOAT. Found the shoes for less than 500$. Good looks my guy | /r/askTRP | 04/01/21 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Accessories and stuffGot it ;) | /r/askTRP | 04/01/21 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Accessories and stuffWhat gear do you have ? | /r/askTRP | 04/01/21 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Accessories and stuffOh nah that’s lit. And yeah I felt it was too much. Probably just a reseller tryna make a come up. So it goes | /r/askTRP | 04/01/21 08:33 PM |
| 3 | Mixed signals from girl that reaches out consistently and has slept with me.Medium is the message | /r/askTRP | 04/01/21 08:15 PM |
| 3 | Would you date/LTR a girl who is a HB9 with make-up but a HB6 without make-up?I mean. Is she cool to date and fuck? If she is tolerable to look at in the mornings then you are Gucci bro. Be totally okay with her without make up tho. Her personality is gonna have to up there. When you take her out and she puts on makeup, it’ll be like a treat lmao. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/21 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Accessories and stuffI saw a fire pair that I liked bro, the dude told me I’d have to drop 1000 or so on it. I don’t have it in me to do that yet. That’s like 2 round trip trips to Miami if I wanted. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/21 08:12 PM |
| 28 | Approaching made me feel even more insecureFirst things first, fuck the results of the approaches. Good shit on getting to a 100+ approaches. Keep grinding. I’m 23 and still got a long way to go. You’re 20. Imagine the shit you’ll be doing 5 years if you keep doing what you’re doing. Don’t stress. It’s a numbers game | /r/askTRP | 04/01/21 07:54 PM |
| 2 | Accessories and stuffFacts keeping it calm , but still making a statement. I see you | /r/askTRP | 04/01/21 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Accessories and stuffWord thank you for the dimension recommendations, I didn’t know any of that stuff | /r/askTRP | 04/01/21 07:50 PM |
| 4 | 2020 a Year in Reflection - Share your greatest lessons of the year.5 is elite. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/21 07:37 PM |
| 61 | 2020 a Year in Reflection - Share your greatest lessons of the year.Don’t accept anything less than what you want. Say not to platonic friendships. She’s not yours, it’s just your turn. Always escalate. Don’t react to things emotionally in the moment , give yourself some to think about it if it’s a serious issue. Trust your gut more. The medium is the message. Seriously. Put yourself first! She is not gonna be your savior. Don’t make her your mission and relax. You are alone in your head. People come and go. Swallow this. The sooner the better. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/21 07:32 PM |
| 3 | Does the effort worth bodylifting?No breaks . If gyms are still closed get yourself a pull up bar and do your pushups and sit ups. At least. No excuses. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/21 04:51 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with losing a great girlfriend?Yeah bro if you don’t change your mindset you will hold an L. Women will sense it. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/21 02:20 AM |
| 7 | Girlfriend called me out for having asked my dad for advice, who told me to not see her for a few days. Did I do the right thing?Good shit. Always be willing to walk | /r/askTRP | 04/01/21 01:58 AM |
| 2 | How do you deal with losing a great girlfriend?Facts bro. I feel you. A lot of us are in the same boat and some have never even had a gf. I saw a guy earlier say he lost his virginity at 26. Can you imagine ? Yo real talk, I can bitch all day about my ex too and I did for a couple months but you gotta realize that you are doing yourself a disservice. Literally there are millions of bitches better than your ex Who will do all of that shot you described and more. Give it time. I don’t know if you’re trolling yo but if you’re not, try and calm … | /r/askTRP | 04/01/21 01:56 AM |
| 8 | LTR trouble?Bro just relax. Let the orbiters gas her head up. You continue to be the man she comes over and fucks. If she walks, let her walk. Until then tho, don’t stress it too much. No reason too tbh | /r/askTRP | 04/01/21 01:50 AM |
| 4 | How do you deal with losing a great girlfriend?Homie, you just keep moving forward. No lie you are starting to get annoying. We are all going through shit and don’t need the reminders. Seriously homie fuck off with the weak shit. Your ex girl was honestly not that great | /r/askTRP | 04/01/21 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Can a woman be truly happy with a non alpha/semi-good looking guy?It’s like winning 3rd place pretty much | /r/askTRP | 03/01/21 10:01 PM |
| 9 | Can a woman be truly happy with a non alpha/semi-good looking guy?The alpha guy was prob too much for her and hurt her. The new guy is nice and non threatening. I wanna fuck models endlessly but catching them and holding onto them is gonna be work. A sweet average girl however may be work but not as much. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/21 07:24 PM |
| 6 | Why do 0 trp guides mention how sex is hard and kinda boringLmfaoo pussy is gassed up tbh. I felt the same way my first couple times. But the body craves it, that’s the thing. And to me in the beginning it was the ultimate validation if I could get a girl to let me fuck. Nowadays, I still just wanna fuck constantly because I love busting nuts. You gotta find what positions you like. I personally like it when the girl rides me or I pound her from the bottom. I like intimate sex. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/21 06:06 PM |
| 60 | Girlfriend texted me saying she feels like I never show her like i care or have genuine feelings for her. Is this a comfort test?Facts bro LTR requires some comfort and affection bro. You can cuddle a bit and kiss her on the forehead from time to time when you’re with her. You can send the occasional how you doing text Don’t gotta be stone cold all the time. A little push, a little pull is key. For the most part I think you are doing good since she wants more of you. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/21 12:55 PM |
| 2 | I live in East Asia surrounded by mostly Chinese women to whom South Asian men are invisible. How to cope?I would try an online dating Muslim app. Don’t know if it will work big time over there in HK, but worth a try. Good luck yo. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/21 12:46 PM |
| 1 | A girl I've been dating for the past few months moved away across to country. How do I get her to miss me to the point of realizing that was a mistake? Dread game?Yessir. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/21 12:43 PM |
| 1 | What are your views on porn and masturbation?Just before bed and maybe once in the mornings on weekends to kick start the day. Don’t be going on hour long sessions. Just release the rocks and keep shit moving. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/21 09:05 PM |
| 3 | Using social isolation to my advantage?Damn. I’m sorry bro. I don’t know how severe it is but definitely take care of your mental health. I wouldn’t just roll over and die though. Keep breaking your limits. Good lucks. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/21 06:26 PM |
| 5 | Is it a red flag if your LTR stops taking your advice on stuff?Nah she has a habit bro of letting her phone get to low battery before she charges it, don’t sweat it too much. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/21 05:22 PM |
| 3 | Using social isolation to my advantage?What do you mean severe mental illness? If you can lift and type this post why can’t you make friends at least? | /r/askTRP | 02/01/21 05:20 PM |
| 2 | A girl I've been dating for the past few months moved away across to country. How do I get her to miss me to the point of realizing that was a mistake? Dread game?Yo just let it go and be distant. Let her miss her. LDR is very painful and not worth it. While you’re texting and making her feel good, she will be inviting guys over some nights (not all) to release the sexual tension you are building up in her. It is a lose lose for you and win win or maybe a win lose for her. Just end it before she ends it so you can pick it back up later if the logistics change. Hey, you’re a great girl but this long distance thing isn’t working for me. Right now we can’t b… | /r/askTRP | 02/01/21 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Guidance for a youngster?Maybe money will be the big equalizer for you one day, attracting models | /r/MGTOW2 | 02/01/21 05:44 AM |
| 3 | MGTOW MONEYYY enjoying my VA 100% pay for my anxiety skull fracture arthritis in my back sleep issues no kids no wife no debt and making 50k or more per year from my sales job fuck the world get yours my brothersYessir! Collect your bread. All 2021 | /r/MGTOW2 | 02/01/21 05:43 AM |
| 8 | How to chill with girls when my home situation right now doesn't allow me to?Hotels, Airbnb’s, your car | /r/askTRP | 02/01/21 05:31 AM |
| 12 | Ascending from the redpill’s delusional false hope: The Illusion of controlBro what the fuck. You are not a piece of shit. Relax. Women aren’t the end all be all. Dude just save a ridiculous amount of money and move to Thailand. Over there bitches don’t care how you look, they are into the mula. Just go “support” a girl and she will be your girlfriend for as long as you can support her, no games. Or just bang thots on the street. Bro literally 33 bucks. Don’t let societal standards and western women dictate your life. Shit sucks yes and shit is unfair yes, but you have… | /r/askTRP | 02/01/21 05:20 AM |
| 9 | Ascending from the redpill’s delusional false hope: The Illusion of controlLmfaooooo my son gives no fucks // how are you not bagging bitches | /r/askTRP | 02/01/21 05:06 AM |
| 1 | Did i fuck up?So you’re gucc. So leave her alone | /r/askTRP | 02/01/21 02:04 AM |
| 2 | Gents I need adviceNah you’re Gucci bro. She hit you up early in the morning. It wasn’t last minute like An hour before. And she offered a new day. See what happens Tuesday and go from there. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/21 01:54 AM |
| 3 | Did i fuck up?Yo just hit her up and be like: Yo let’s smoke | /r/askTRP | 02/01/21 01:49 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with gfs simpsYeah bro don’t say anything to her about it directly. Just ignore it. If you can’t ignore it then like someone else said say you don’t date girls with a lot of guy friends and see what she has to say about it- either she leaves or stays. Don’t simp for her if she leaves. Tbh bro. Just don’t care, fuck the girl and take care of your business, get into a dope college and move forward. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/21 11:37 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with gfs simpsYessir | /r/askTRP | 01/01/21 11:34 PM |
| 10 | She sends me nude videos etc. i ignore she now sent me thisTell her she doesn’t need to do anything to phase you. I don’t really like to text too much. I’d rather see you in person and show you how interested I am ;) | /r/askTRP | 01/01/21 11:33 PM |
| 2 | Have you had Oneitis you afterwards dated?Yes and no. It’s fun to finally get what you want but after you’ve played with it long enough , it gets boring. Once you lose it though then you want it again and the cycle may repeat itself, depending on how much you like the girl. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/21 09:44 PM |
| 18 | Hey brothers i need your adviceNah homie. Don’t think too much. She just didn’t delete your number. Not a lot of people delete numbers. Some people even keep chat threads because of memories. Just work on moving on homie. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/21 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Got Stubble?Facts, you are better off just doing these things. It starts off for women, but then you realize it’s good for you and people respond better to attractive people, simultaneously making you respond better to yourself as well | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/21 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Got Stubble?How often would you use the Minoxidil for the year? Once in the morning and once in the night. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/21 07:59 PM |
| 7 | I can’t get over the fact that while I’m sitting here thinking about her non-stop, she’s at a party and hasn’t thought about me once.Yeah bro. It’s rough. Best bet is to really block her on the social media. Do it for yourself. Not gonna lie. I did it 3 weeks ago and it’s been helping. I used to constantly check her IG, it became an insane habit. Now I still get the urges and even talking about it now makes me want to check but ehh, there’s really nothing for me on that page now big time. Even though it doesn’t matter. Don’t think she isn’t thinking about you homie, she probably wonders what you’re doing sometimes and gets in… | /r/askTRP | 01/01/21 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Just took the biggest L of my fuckin lifeGo to sleep. Wake up. Forget about it and move forward brother. Delete this post. It never happened. You paid $250 for a lesson. No more porn and hopefully no more escorts. Happy New Year boss | /r/askTRP | 01/01/21 05:24 AM |
| 2 | Red pill and fragrancesI picked up the Tom Ford tobacco vanille instead. Spice bomb was elite tho | /r/askTRP | 31/12/20 09:38 PM |
| 2 | Red pill and fragrancesVersace Eros , Dior Sauvage , Bleu de Chanel are the colognes I’ve worn. Thinking about going to pick up one called Spicebomb soon. It was recommended in a similar question couple days ago | /r/askTRP | 31/12/20 02:55 PM |
| 4 | If a girl comes back from holidays but doesn’t come see you as first thing when she’s back.Give her a day to rest up from travels. Ask how the trip was and then invite her over. She wants to drop her bags off at her house and shower and sleep. It’s normal, don’t stress or complain or you’ll come off as needy. Don’t let her think all you did while she was away was wait for her to get back. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/20 12:39 PM |
| 6 | Want to go monk mode butLmfaoooo I’m 23 and I feel you bro. No lie , shit is a big drought rn , so you’re not alone. I’ve been trying to become content without poon, but it’s hard on the mental at times. I had this thought today. I can’t place my happiness on the external as in I need to take care of ALL of my needs one way or another. If I feel lonely or horny I need to find a way to take care of that. Don’t judge yourself too hard. Keep grinding. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/20 05:01 AM |
| 1 | PerfumeYessir | /r/askTRP | 30/12/20 05:19 AM |
| 1 | PerfumeYessir | /r/askTRP | 30/12/20 05:19 AM |
| 1 | PerfumeYessir | /r/askTRP | 30/12/20 05:19 AM |
| 0 | Anyway to forgive a girl without getting cucked?Yeah bro. Don’t lose a good thing over something like that, unless it really is a big big deal for you. I haven’t been in a situation like that, but there are worse things, trust me. And loll checked my post history, thank you for the advice. I am thinking about doing a year there, first couple months definitely Bangkok and then I’ll see if I want a quieter place. Thank you for the advice. We may have to talk some more about that offline homie | /r/askTRP | 30/12/20 12:54 AM |
| 0 | Anyway to forgive a girl without getting cucked?If that’s what you want. I recommend taking your girl back soon if you’d like to be back with her. Don’t make it seem like a hey omg I miss you. Make it seem like a okay I thought about it and I accept your apology. Let’s try again. This time she will listen to your authority. Second chance kind of thing. Girls can get over guys quick, they have options. To prevent further heartbreak I wouldn’t fuck around if I was you. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/20 12:37 AM |
| 0 | Anyway to forgive a girl without getting cucked?Bro, she got lip fillers. That shit is hot. Maybe she had a lifelong insecurity. You can’t control your girl. If you wanted to take steroids and she said don’t I won’t find you attractive anymore, what would you do. I hope you would do what you want. Just accept the apology. Invite her over, don’t have a big talk about what you guys are. Fuck her and see how you feel. You’re not a tyrant. If she is really less attractive to you then idk what to say. It’s over, but bro personally I thought that w… | /r/askTRP | 29/12/20 09:52 PM |
| 3 | Could you potentially turn a dom girl to a sub?That’s lit | /r/askTRP | 29/12/20 04:14 PM |
| 2 | What to say/do in a date when I take my shoe lifts off?Yo bro. Risk it all and just tell her you don’t want to ice skate. Covid and everything or whatever. Ask her if she’s down to just pull up to your place for some wine and movies instead. Keep it real, you’re gonna have to dickmotize her in order for her to forget your faults. Once she knows what you’re packing, height won’t matter. Also next outside in person date you should not wear the lifts. It’s about your frame tbh. You’re gonna have to be confident tho. Like legit unbothered. Idk if she wi… | /r/askTRP | 29/12/20 01:20 PM |
| 0 | Moving to a better dating market: SF to NYCNyc is trash for dating. I wouldn’t come here. I heard Austin is lit. If you got millions Bro, go to Colombia or Thailand and be a king | /r/askTRP | 29/12/20 05:41 AM |
| 6 | You guys were right.My gym closed down too. They had everything bro, sauna steam room and hot tub. I would have mad self care days. I had to look for alternative options and found a spot that charges $50 for 4 hours. Russian banya spa they call it. I’m actually going today with a homie to destress as well. I got girl issues too homie. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/20 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Where can I go to use a sauna?If you live in nyc, I can point you in 2 directions. I feel you tho. I was tweaking earlier in the year trying to find one myself. My gym went bankrupt and they had the sauna that I used. Heartbreaking things. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/20 06:36 PM |
| 1 | If a girl took 2 days to respond, how long should I wait to text back?She wasn’t busy bro. She didn’t want to talk to you and now that it’s morning and she has to go to work she is responding because she is bored. I wouldn’t respond, unless you already have some form of relationship with her. Anyways if you do respond, do it later | /r/seduction | 28/12/20 02:45 PM |
| 8 | You guys were right.Yeah bro. Do yourself a favor and block off IG or whatever social media you mainly use. Worth it in the LONG run. You gotta put your self respect first now. No more thinking about what’s good for her vs you. Go home and take care of yourself boss. Make sure to continue eating, sleeping and doing any activities that make you feel good. I like massages, saunas, hot tubs, etc. Take it easy on yourself and don’t judge yourself for how you may feel in the next couple of weeks or months, it’s okay and… | /r/askTRP | 28/12/20 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Quitting a destructive weed habit.The withdrawal will go away. Don’t think about it too much. If you get the urge, do some quick push ups. You have to replace the bad habit with a good one. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/20 05:24 AM |
| 2 | Why don’t girls care about looks?Yeah homie. Gold Standard Doubke Rich Chocolate. Just started doing 2 scoops | /r/askTRP | 28/12/20 12:46 AM |
| 4 | Why don’t girls care about looks?Lmfao. Keep working on yourself champ. Mass gainer and the bench | /r/askTRP | 27/12/20 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Regret sending a risky textShe’ll respond at night. Girls get horny and lonely at night | /r/askTRP | 27/12/20 11:36 PM |
| 2 | Can we please just be friends ?Bro she was so boring on the phone. Never would I want to really speak to her and that’s it. And yeah bro she told me on the phone an old friend of mine confessed to her that he liked her and wanted more but she didn’t want more. She hit him up recently as well and offered friendship. That friend agreed and pursued her and she let it fall off she told me. I wasn’t going to fall for that trap. It was interesting but it was not the move. I’d rather no communication than torturing my mental and low… | /r/askTRP | 27/12/20 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Can we please just be friends ?What’s a switch and backfire? | /r/askTRP | 27/12/20 05:00 PM |
| 1 | If asked about your past, is "i'm a late bloomer" a good response?Yeah make it seem like a weird thing to do, but beware she might be like ... yeah I have like this many , how many do you think you have ? That’s when you pretend to think about it and be like I lost count after 50 and laugh. Or real talk be like tbh you really don’t know. Or say you don’t like to kiss and tell. That information is private. Enforce your boundary. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/20 04:18 PM |
| 2 | How to ask for forgiveness or did I mess up good?Bro go home. Apologize. Being homeless will do more damage to you. Real talk. You aren’t in the posi upon he to move out. Go home. My dad found my weed, it was awkward but that’s life. People adapt and get used to things. 2 years later my bong is literally next to my bedroom counter and my mom and dad just accept it. As long as you’re not a burden and doing the right thing, a little weed and booze won’t kill you. But for real homie. Go home, be a man, face the music and MOVE FORWARD. Leaving hom… | /r/askTRP | 27/12/20 04:07 PM |
| 4 | If asked about your past, is "i'm a late bloomer" a good response?Just say you lost count or you don’t even remember anymore tbh. Or be like pressure flip and be like ... you count your sexual partners ? | /r/askTRP | 27/12/20 04:00 PM |
| 4 | Can we please just be friends ?Yeah bro. Drop that. Another player on here pmo to this term called Operation Scorched Earth. You go out with the girl and you make your moves , if she denies that’s it. End of relationship. Better to be rid of a parasite than have it lurking. Shit becomes annoying. Pfft .. seasons greetings my ass | /r/askTRP | 27/12/20 04:57 AM |
| 3 | Can we please just be friends ?Facts bro. She wanted all the benefits of a relationship but no sex. No lie my bitch ass does get lonely these days but i want to fuck the shit out of this girl and I was not willing to accept less. Sad, but proud of myself. Once you respect yourself, it’s hard to fall back into old patterns. Grateful. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/20 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Can we please just be friends ?I don’t know brother. In my head if I accepted her friendship offer I knew I would want to make my moves on her if we linked. Don’t know if I could handle accepting friendship. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/20 04:20 AM |
| 1 | What's life after losing virginity?I wouldn’t go to a whore. It’s always nice to earn yours. It’s a little more difficult nowadays though. Good luck | /r/askTRP | 26/12/20 11:33 PM |
| 60 | Well fuck it finally happened...Bro make some money and make some videos. What you complaining about. Don’t use real name and don’t include face. Make sure you run the account tho, so when the split happens, it’s you collecting the bread. It’s just your turn , might as well | /r/askTRP | 26/12/20 10:53 PM |
| 2 | LTR says I don't call or text her enoughDamn. This shit sounds rough. I’m still suffering from the effects of an LDR. It’s an emotional roller coaster. Not fun. When I was in my LDR bro. I texted my girl a lot. I read somewhere that communication is key in LDRs. Both partners want to be with the other more than anything else type of shit. Honestly LDRs are not healthy. They can lead to codependency. I wish i knew that. I don’t know what you’re gonna do, but my honest advice is end the relationship maturely and say that you will pick t… | /r/askTRP | 26/12/20 03:40 AM |
| 3 | Wearing a shirt that says danger extremely horny?Never | /r/askTRP | 26/12/20 03:26 AM |
| 5 | LTR says I don't call or text her enoughHow long is the relationship going to be LDR. If for a long time , idk bro. Best to move forward until You can be together again in person. Don’t burn the bridge though. If it is for a short time then yeah bro your girl needs your attention because she is maybe rejecting the attention of orbiters for you. She needs her attention and she will get it one way or another. Ideally she wants yours but attention is attention. Get back to her timely. Don’t be a dick. LTRs are different from plates. Your… | /r/askTRP | 26/12/20 03:26 AM |
| 2 | Why would she(23f) say to me(23m) that she can’t wait to see me, I wanna be little spoon etc just to cancel on all the dates ?Don’t tolerate her disrespect anymore. You are awarding bad behavior. You made plans, she cancelled without giving you a heads up and would do it last minute. There could be many reasons, but bro don’t look to deep into it. Girls lie. They lie or they don’t give you all the truth. They do this with ease. I don’t know bro. I don’t like to lie so I don’t know bro. She is enjoying the attention. You want to make plans with her to get to know her, seduce her, have sex with her. She knows you care ab… | /r/askTRP | 26/12/20 03:03 AM |
| 4 | Should I go to college to meet more girls?Don’t go to college for just girls. But if you are going to go to college and can afford yes go away to a university or a state school. However, make sure when you go that you are aware of the dynamics at that school. Also make sure you are on point. Start lifting, dressing better and keeping yourself looking good. Universities can be very superficial places. I joined a frat because every time I went to the bar the girls would ask me what frat I’m in. And when I told them I wasn’t in one, they w… | /r/askTRP | 26/12/20 02:26 AM |
| 9 | 22, never had to work for anything in life, have zero ambition and feel dead insideLeave home. Go live in a different country teaching English. Give back to their community. Don’t take advantage of them. Do good and become your own man | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 11:08 PM |
| 2 | GF that i dumped a week ago texted me saying she wanna talkSame rules apply | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 09:47 PM |
| 17 | GF that i dumped a week ago texted me saying she wanna talkDon’t engage. Don’t think about it too much. This is what they do. Emotional manipulation. She baited you to see if you were really done. Can we talk? You said sure, when? Now no response......... It will have you thinking fuck what did she want to talk about, I have to know. Now she is living rent free in your head, which is what she wants. Don’t engage. Do not text to see what’s up and don’t wait homie. Keep doing whatever it is you’re doing and just write her off. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 08:10 PM |
| 3 | How do you guys feel about dating women with high n-counts, when you have high n-count yourself?Women and men don’t have similar sex drives. Testosterone vs estrogen. We want sex alll the time. They want sex if their in the mood. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 05:42 PM |
| 5 | Merry ChristmasMerry Christmas | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 04:29 PM |
| 1 | It's crazy how many guys are sexually inactive ugly slobsBro it’s like I’m looking into a mirror. I blocked my ex just 2 weeks ago for the long haul. Girls are a different breed. I know it hurts but no funny shit you are on your own. You mentioned you lift, make money and are saving. Good shit boss. How is your emotional fitness? I learned about this term just a couple of hours ago but I don’t think it’s spoken enough about here or any where tbh. You bench squat and deadlift a good amount I bet, but how long can you meditate for? How do you speak to y… | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 06:09 AM |
| 1 | It's crazy how many guys are sexually inactive ugly slobsCut the contact. It’s only poison and it will kill you slowly if you let it. And take the mans advice about approaching women. Ass is not going to come to you all the time. You aren’t that elite yet. Shooters shoot. If you do not shoot, you will not kill | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 05:20 AM |
| 1 | It's crazy how many guys are sexually inactive ugly slobsI feel this whole comment 1000% brother. Every word | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 05:15 AM |
| 2 | I'm not sure if I can EVER get into top 20% of men in looksYou’re alright man. Just get into the gym. You should’ve been in the gym since you were 18. Life goes on. Either you work and reap the rewards or you sit and let life pass you. In the next 3 months you should be stronger. In the next 6 months you should be even stronger. A year from now you should be even stronger. See where I’m going with this bro? If you don’t have access to the gym, get on your knees and do 200-300 push-ups a day. Work until you can do that. If you only manage 100 your first … | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 04:52 AM |
| 1 | I'm not sure if I can EVER get into top 20% of men in looksHow old are you as well? | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 04:33 AM |
| 2 | I'm not sure if I can EVER get into top 20% of men in looksThen get after them boss | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 04:31 AM |
| 2 | I'm not sure if I can EVER get into top 20% of men in looksOne day boss man, you will be a 7/8. If you are as rich as you claim to be, then one day you will be a 10 to a lot of women. Just remember they (your future lovers) don’t love you for you, they love you for what you can do for them, once your services are no longer needed - you will be no longer needed. Power resides with the person who needs the other the least. What country are you from ? | /r/askTRP | 25/12/20 04:09 AM |
| 17 | I'm not sure if I can EVER get into top 20% of men in looksHomie, delete this picture and send us a picture of you at your best so we can accurately judge. If I get up out of bed and take a pic I am immediately a 5. If I get up dress well and groom and try I can reach 7. You’re rich, show us one of your fancy suits and not a bum ass white tee. Throw on your elite watch, some of your cologne and stand strong for the pic. Also you will forever have to lift, go online and search ways to strengthen your jaw Travel, yes and so mad cool activities, hike, para… | /r/askTRP | 24/12/20 04:33 PM |
| 5 | Interesting situation, how would you handle this?Go in for the kiss next time champ. You got this! | /r/askTRP | 24/12/20 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Why should I pursue a higher SMV?Facts at the last paragraph | /r/askTRP | 24/12/20 03:13 AM |
| 1 | How to get over ex when i cant be with other womenLegend for this | /r/askTRP | 24/12/20 02:49 AM |
| 3 | Can a 22 years old virgin become player?Online dating or in person approach ? | /r/askTRP | 23/12/20 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Spend idle time to work out who you are and what you wantYo I feel I am a rake. It’s an interesting type | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/20 06:50 AM |
| 2 | I turned down a ONS / Abundance vs scarcityBro if she was a dime, you’d be fucking her instead of writing to us. Or Maybe you know it’s not worth it. A ONS isn’t really all it’s cracked up to be. Maybe you want something more and the way she is presenting herself to you turns you off. That’s good- you don’t like easy women. I don’t like easy women either, but I like it when they are easy for me, you see? Idk what type of girl you have on your hands, but either fuck soon or the opportunity will slip between your fingers and you may regret… | /r/askTRP | 23/12/20 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Remember: you are constantly pressured to have sex and relationships.Facts | /r/MGTOW2 | 23/12/20 02:08 AM |
| 1 | What is happiness? Happiness is just a moment before you need more happiness.Wanna help a newbie make some bread? I’d like to have the option of living in a mud hut for 10 years. Right now I’d only be able to do it for a half a year. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/20 04:48 AM |
| 1 | What is happiness? Happiness is just a moment before you need more happiness.What do you mean when you say you have reached beyond what anybody needs materially? | /r/askTRP | 22/12/20 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Escorts/ProstitutionHow did it do this for you? I’ve had my some sex and yes it doesn’t really matter, I still crave it. And when that craving becomes need, it’s just not a good time | /r/askTRP | 22/12/20 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Escorts/ProstitutionHow old are you now? | /r/askTRP | 22/12/20 01:09 AM |
| 3 | Escorts/ProstitutionLol touché I felt hollow after the majority of my one night stands tbh | /r/askTRP | 22/12/20 12:58 AM |
| 3 | Escorts/ProstitutionI would never pay for 5 dinners tho boss. The only times I ever paid for dinner on a date was the girl I lost my virginity it too and my ex after we had been acquainted for a while. Don’t ever do dinners. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/20 12:09 AM |
| 8 | Escorts/ProstitutionThank you for your words and the honesty boss. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/20 12:03 AM |
| 3 | Escorts/ProstitutionI’ve got a couple bodies under my belt. But yeah exactly I can see it being fun in the moment but after they leave your stuck there with yourself feeling hollow. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/20 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Escorts/ProstitutionFacts, I’m aware. Just wanted to hear the opinions of others. On the main sub I argued it wasn’t worth it and someone argued that once you’re have your endeavors settled that, you won’t have time to be taking bitches out and playing their stupid games and escorts are less of a headache. I wanted to hear from others. But yes homie I agree. 200$ an hour is the stupidest shit I ever heard. Your pussy is worth 20-40$ max, don’t even play yourself, it’s just a wet hole. Who do these girls think they … | /r/askTRP | 21/12/20 10:37 PM |
| 7 | Escorts/ProstitutionDude why are you being such a try hard? I’m not the one on the internet telling strangers they suck. Alpha heads don’t put other people down who they think are below them. If you feel the need to put me down, I may just be better than you or you’re insecure yourself and get a little ego boost from shit talking strangers on the internet. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/20 08:44 PM |
| -4 | Escorts/ProstitutionPlus my guy I am talking to the men who pay for it. I wanna see from their perspective .. not whoever you are Mr. Alpha. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/20 08:39 PM |
| 4 | Escorts/Prostitution?? You’re saying I feel it is wrong to fuck prostitutes because I am not alpha enough to fuck girls on my own? Homie you misunderstood me, I feel it is wrong because I feel I shouldn’t have to pay for sex because i know it’s not worth it. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/20 08:38 PM |
| 3 | Do I tell LTR that I started seeing a psychologist?Yeah homie. There is no benefit to telling her that shit. Just get better. Kudos to you for the self care. Therapy is very important regardless of mental illness. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/20 06:17 PM |
| 4 | Love is real but it's meaninglessBro I have never dropped 300-400 within 3 dates. 200$ for pussy is just insane to me. I can go and get a hour massage, go to a 4 hour spa, eat and drink well and smoke weed in a day for 200. Having unemotional sex for an hour just to bust a little nut is not worth the bread. Granted I’ve only had one gf (who I eventually had to spend money for) and 10 hookups. I’m only 23. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/20 05:39 PM |
| 2 | what more steps do I take to increase SMV and attain success at 18Enjoy University. If your school is lit, I’d join a fraternity and things will be different when you’re 22-23. Go study abroad as well homie, twice if you can. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/20 08:06 AM |
| 3 | How do you keep your head up in the toughest moments?Yo my guy. Look into one of those teach English in Thailand programs. Low covid risk and everything. I am currently going to go over there and do my thing for a bit while this lockdown persists because if I stay here bro, I know depression will creep in and shit won’t be pretty. Get your affairs in your order and change your life. Get some experiences and you’ll know what’s up. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/20 06:16 AM |
| 11 | Love is real but it's meaninglessHookers are expensive bro. $200 for an hour. Comedy. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/20 05:07 AM |
| 1 | Self perception - when will I SEE myself as the guy that should be fucking 8s ,9s and 10sBro that 2 plates is such a bitch on its own lmao, how much you squatting ? | /r/askTRP | 15/12/20 07:57 PM |
| -1 | Self perception - when will I SEE myself as the guy that should be fucking 8s ,9s and 10sOkay guy | /r/askTRP | 15/12/20 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Self perception - when will I SEE myself as the guy that should be fucking 8s ,9s and 10sLmfao I hate doing legs bro tbh. No lie, I just started hitting them again. The summer was spent doing straight upper body calisthenics due to the gyms being closed. I’m gonna keep at it, maybe it’ll drive me to the next level How’d you know I was slacking? | /r/askTRP | 15/12/20 07:44 PM |
| -3 | Self perception - when will I SEE myself as the guy that should be fucking 8s ,9s and 10sBro no one is salivating .. tf? I’m just saying I want to improve in order to fuck them. You didn’t even answer the question dickhead | /r/askTRP | 15/12/20 07:32 PM |
| 5 | Confront thot gf about her lies or just silently move on?Yeah bro but she lied to him and he checked. What if he never checked. He’d still be under her spell. I agree if you have to check a girls phone then the relationship should honestly be put to an end, but sometimes girls lie and do shit on the low. Is ignorance really bliss? | /r/askTRP | 14/12/20 06:03 PM |
| 7 | LTR following other guys on InstagramJust don’t mention the other guys bro. If you don’t trust her then you should get out of the exclusive relationship. Shit can drive you crazy sometimes. Shit is hard bro. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/20 09:55 AM |
| 77 | anyone feel trapped?Travel if you have the money. Go hiking, go get a “massage” or an actual massage. Go to a sauna place and sweat a bit. Take care of yourself. Life is difficult right now | /r/askTRP | 14/12/20 01:45 AM |
| 1 | How do I make feeling uncomfortable my aim?Start off with goals like approach 5 women a day, then 10, then 15, then 25. You can never be fully prepared. Same way I didn’t know I’d be typing this to you this very second, you never know who you’re gonna run into and everything. Just self improve (lift, clothes, perfume, body language, socializing) and work on yourself. You’ll catch W’s and you’ll catch L’s. You can never be prepared for both, sometimes things just happen. Take it easy on your mental, no pressure, but push yourself when the… | /r/askTRP | 13/12/20 03:50 PM |
| 1 | M 21. I may have misread the whole point of trp cus most of the posts I see on here are I deem as misplaced prioritiesIt’s a sexual strategy subreddit. The sexual strategy is self improvement though - increasing your total smv so that way you can just attract girls without tooo much effort | /r/askTRP | 13/12/20 05:08 AM |
| 2 | Not sure why?Bet. Yeah I just gotta get comfortable. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/20 05:33 PM |
| 3 | How to cope with most girls being sluts and thotsYo it’s not easy bro. Mans is 23 and realizing this now more than ever. There are NO unicorns. Learn this shit now and you’ll prosper. She is NOT YOURS, it is your TURN. Try not to invest too much of yourself in any girl no matter how precious she may become to you. Focus on yourself. Never limit yourself for a woman. If you are offered something better do NOT think “oh my I wonder how she’ll feel about me doing this or that”. Just do what you want. Work out work out work out work out work out. … | /r/askTRP | 12/12/20 04:48 PM |
| 3 | Not sure why?Word good looks bro. Needed a second opinion. Sometimes I feel dumb for just having the new clothes sitting around the closet doing nothing. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/20 04:27 PM |
| -1 | Did I dump my LTR prematurely?Nothing to do now but hold frame boss. You’re right for being annoyed. I hate shit like this too. Not gonna lie to you though, you admitted to us and her about being needy and admitted to being jealous. It’s not your fault entirely, she was doing shady shit and you’re not stupid, so obviously your gonna feel some way. But next time, just withdraw without giving a girl that satisfaction. Don’t second guess yourself, these are red flags. It’s up to you now what you want to do. Take some time for y… | /r/askTRP | 11/12/20 04:45 AM |
| 1 | A little shook tbhNever heard of it , I’ll check it out. Good looks | /r/askTRP | 09/12/20 02:13 AM |
| 3 | Does not having any women in your life make you miss ex's / ex plates more?Lmfaoooo yikes | /r/askTRP | 09/12/20 02:12 AM |
| 1 | A little shook tbhWord good looks for the advice | /r/askTRP | 09/12/20 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Does not having any women in your life make you miss ex's / ex plates more?Facts. It happens bro. You’ll fall in love again. Just know the shit won’t last. Everything temporary | /r/askTRP | 09/12/20 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Does not having any women in your life make you miss ex's / ex plates more?I know bro. I miss my ex too. We used to talk and shit here and there but then she told me she fucked another man. That shit hurt like a bitch. Be careful dealing with feelings like that | /r/askTRP | 09/12/20 12:53 AM |
| 0 | A little shook tbhI’m asking a question but not in question form bro. Just asking for some advice. I just approached a jawn in the gym that was staring at me and asked for her insta , she said no. No biggie, but I feel like I could’ve did something different. I’m a shy guy tbh , not much of a talker | /r/askTRP | 09/12/20 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Does not having any women in your life make you miss ex's / ex plates more?It’s okay to miss her bro. Accept it and move on | /r/askTRP | 09/12/20 12:18 AM |
| 7 | Natty lifting is a jokeBro stfu 225 at 14? Come on. 385 at 17? Pics or it didn’t happen | /r/askTRP | 08/12/20 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Dating a hoe (girl with high n count) ruined my confidenceReally. Don’t worry about girls cumming | /r/askTRP | 07/12/20 06:35 AM |
| 7 | Had my first kiss today - how to proceed from here?Having wine helps his smv as well. Doesn’t cost much to ask an older dude for a favor. Weed May make them anxious, maybe roll a small joint. Weed and wine go hand in hand tho | /r/askTRP | 06/12/20 03:55 AM |
| 1 | The 'you are the prize' mindsetDo you pay for it or nah? | /r/askTRP | 06/12/20 03:53 AM |
| 62 | Had my first kiss today - how to proceed from here?Bro it’s okay. You’re making progress. Don’t be too needy. See her on Monday. Have 2-3 condoms. Idk what the plan is but having wine doesn’t hurt, helps calm the nerves of you both. When you see her again, kiss her when you find a chance. Take off her shirt and then take off your shirt. Girls like a guy who is dominant. So take the lead and be in control of things. Make out with her, touch her body, take your hands and start touching her down there, lick your fingers and rub her down there. You … | /r/askTRP | 06/12/20 02:00 AM |
| 3 | Had my first kiss today - how to proceed from here?This is too much. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/20 02:00 AM |
| 4 | The 'you are the prize' mindsetMe too bro. Legit 1s and 2s. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/20 01:42 AM |
| 4 | Meaning behind textLmfaooooo not laughing at you OP, but the way he formatted this. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/20 10:06 PM |
| 2 | Going To Be The Best Man At My Best Friends Wedding, He’s Marrying A Woman I Despise, WTF Do I Do?Yo no lie. Your boy is going to do what he wants. Mans is on a mission and he does not want to fail. Sunk cost fallacy and everything. Yo all you can do is ask him to postpone the wedding until he is sure sure or tell him you don’t want to be the best man at the wedding. You don’t agree with what he is doing. It’s like your friend asking you to buy them something you know they shouldn’t have - like crack Take him on a boys trip to Thailand or to Colombia and show him what the world really has to… | /r/askTRP | 05/12/20 03:56 PM |
| 7 | What Would You DoJust be beta and have her break up with you | /r/askTRP | 05/12/20 02:01 AM |
| 2 | LTR is depressed and gaining weightBro none of that shit sounds lit. I know you love her and want the best for her but sometimes love can be poisoning. I personally would start some dread. You’re probably the last good thing in her life. Make her work for you. If she fails to put up a fight then clip the relationship and ask to be “friends” | /r/askTRP | 04/12/20 07:03 PM |
| 21 | Why do most young females insist "I'm happy" when their behavior suggests otherwise?Facts | /r/askTRP | 02/12/20 01:27 AM |
| 3 | Becoming the best I can beAlso what place did you like more Vietnam or Thailand. I will probably end up PM’ing you at some point too sir. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/20 11:09 PM |
| 3 | Becoming the best I can beHelped big time. Thank you sir. I am a 23 year black kid from Brooklyn, NY. Pretty attractive I’d say. I’ve heard a lot of people choose Chiang Mai for their homes for the school year. I’m not only going for the women but I’d like to have my options after work. I also like to hike, get massages and go to saunas. I’d also probably want easy access to buses or an airport just in case I choose to frequent different counties or islands on the weekends. Do you think Bangkok would be a better place fo… | /r/askTRP | 30/11/20 11:08 PM |
| -1 | What do you do on the following dates after sex?Loll | /r/seduction | 30/11/20 04:21 PM |
| 1 | What do you do on the following dates after sex?Bro, when you’re fucking, focus on the sex and enjoy yourself. Don’t worry if she cums. Make sure you’re having a good time and you cum. Don’t listen to these heads talking about making sure she cums. It’s her responsibility to cum. It takes a lot sometimes for a girl to cum. Read “The Sex God Method”. But regardless enjoy and be in the moment during sex. Don’t think about her climax, just enjoy your winnings. | /r/seduction | 30/11/20 03:43 AM |
| 1 | Dread Game adviceWhat I would do is leave and don’t say anything, this let’s them experience the fear and the wonder of what you’re doing. When you get back tho it is your choice whether you want to keep that fear going or you want to be truthful and just say oh I went to this and that, it was calm. She’s already experienced the dread you wanted to instill maybe, no need to push it any further depending on the case. It’s what girls do when you text them late at night and they don’t respond and then in the mornin… | /r/askTRP | 30/11/20 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Giving up on women because I can't get a girl like my ex girlfriend what should I do?Yeah every girl is going to be different I know what you mean. Just keep going though. Life will surprise you maybe | /r/askTRP | 30/11/20 02:56 AM |
| 3 | Becoming the best I can beYo can I pm you about Thailand. I’m about to do one of those teach English in Thailand programs and I’d love some insight | /r/askTRP | 30/11/20 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Giving up on women because I can't get a girl like my ex girlfriend what should I do?She will never fuck like your ex. But you create your own relationship with her. Do you like when a girl swallows. Tell her and make it a normal thing. Do you like your girl on top. Put her on top and tell her to ride. Keep at it and with time and repetition she’ll get better. Do you like doggy, put her in doggy and tell her to arch her back more for you, whatever bro. Stop being a bitch and tame your women. You’re a man. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/20 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Giving up on women because I can't get a girl like my ex girlfriend what should I do?Forget your ex. Onto the next bro. Someone taught your ex how to fuck like that. Find your good girl and teach her what you like (which you now know). Practice practice practice. If the girl likes you enough, she’ll do a lot for you | /r/askTRP | 30/11/20 01:17 AM |
| 9 | How to bring up STD’s without killing the vibe?Right before you put your penis in her , you ask like a quick thought “ oh by any chance you don’t have any stds right?” Like it’s just something you ask before you get down to business. Ask casually, not like seriously where it ruins the whole mood | /r/askTRP | 29/11/20 10:04 PM |
| 2 | In 20 years, you have one book your future son can read.What’s the Roissy work? | /r/askTRP | 29/11/20 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Where i should travel to in DEC or JAN?I’m planning on doing Colombia in Jan. Don’t know what it will be like, but it’s a place I want to see. If you want safety , nature and women potentially, maybe go to Thailand or Vietnam | /r/askTRP | 29/11/20 08:44 PM |
| 0 | I miss being singleI told my girl that I wanted to take a break. We were long distance anyways and it had been 3 months since I had sex. I was able to get her back whenever I wanted because I was her best option and I chose to become exclusive again after 3 months, but it took a lot of encouraging and care to get back to what we were. Long distance is a bitch tho and stopped me from doing what I wanted with this girl and it still stops me to this day. I needed the break to understand what I had tho. I was taking h… | /r/askTRP | 29/11/20 08:39 PM |
| 5 | I miss being singleYeah bro I was in this position. Once you end the relationship, shit changes and shifts. Even if it’s just a break. It can’t really be repaired long term, so if you do break up and want her back or whatever down the line just understand that there will be some damage done. You may get her back and shit , but the frame will shift. Be careful. The grass isn’t always greener, but at the same time you only have one life. Having sex with random girls isn’t worth it. It’s a quick ego boost and a relea… | /r/askTRP | 29/11/20 08:25 PM |
| 6 | How to make girl suck you off and swallow?Yeah bro. Literally during sex, I would just tell her in her ear I want her to swallow. And then when I’m about to cum I tell her I’m cumming and she would rush to swallow. When you’re getting head, and you’re about to cum just tell her I want you to swallow. These girls aren’t saints | /r/askTRP | 29/11/20 02:46 AM |
| 1 | If you are in my situation what you will choose between this plate.Bro. I don’t know the girls. You know best to be honest. Just pick the one you think you can spend the most time with. Vacations like these usually bond ppl more. You will both emotionally invest a bit. Be careful as to who you choose for this. I think girl as is better | /r/askTRP | 28/11/20 02:45 PM |
| 5 | If you are in my situation what you will choose between this plate.Bring the one that you think you can keep for longer. Invest your valuable time in things that have returns. If you know girl b will drop you soon after a vacation, it isn’t worth it. Plus you’ll be spending extra money. I’d tell girl b you’re taking girl a tho and either let the plate or let her compete for your attention. I’d stick with girl a tho. On a vacation she may open up more to you and be willing to drink and be freakier. Play it right | /r/askTRP | 28/11/20 02:15 PM |
| 11 | Plates/FWBs sends me pics of them as a child/younger. Why?Yeah bro they are. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/20 01:10 PM |
| -5 | Girl posts snap grinding with her “friend”Yo just because she was dancing with a guy doesn’t mean he piped. It’s up to you what you want to do. Make her your gf and she possibly won’t be doing shit like that anymore. Or just keep fucking until the plate breaks. Don’t stress too much. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/20 02:39 PM |
| 1 | How can I eliminate this beta ness starting to creep back in for feeling bad for not seeing my girlfriend and being more alpha with her?You’re applying a good amount of dread imo. Definitely don’t go see her at her job when you have actual stuff to do, but stopping by for a quick coffee when you have time is nice. definitely fuck her whenever you want. 80% alpha 20% beta. You don’t want her getting lonely and then hitting up others. Spin this shit until it breaks. Good luck | /r/askTRP | 27/11/20 01:29 AM |
| 2 | Sorry for the weak questionFacts thank you for the clear answer. Sometimes just need an outside perspective. When you’re the one in the mix and shit. It’s hard to let go. I’m 23 and still trying to let go of the blue pill fantasies | /r/askTRP | 26/11/20 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Sorry for the weak questionWhatever guy. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/20 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Sorry for the weak questionI have been overthinking a lot to be honest. It’s not healthy. I just want to be secure in my relationships. If she lies that’s okay. Then it will be her conscious that eats her up. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/20 05:40 PM |
| 6 | Proposed a date a week ago, she reschedule for Friday, what now?Nah be like , what kind of wine or type of snack do you like? When she says why just be like Wanna be prepared for tm. You could come thru at like 7. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/20 04:39 PM |
| 7 | What makes girls fall in love?80% alpha 20% beta. For bitches to fall in love with you , you have to get them emotionally invested. They need to have experiences with you that they can look back on. You also need to create a fantasy with them. They need to feel like they are in a Disney movie if you want “love”. Like you are there prince and they are your princess. Don’t be needy and jealous but hold her hand, stare at her and be like you’re so beautiful and shit, but not in a weak way. Like bf shit. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/20 01:31 PM |
| 1 | How to Respond to Girls that have no Intention of Long Term Dating?No girl is worth it like that. Be careful. What if she stops talking to you and you now have herpes. Was it worth it bro? | /r/askTRP | 26/11/20 06:22 AM |
| 1 | How to Respond to Girls that have no Intention of Long Term Dating?You should not have even dipped. Do not do that again. What the fuck bro. If you had gotten it you would’ve make your dating life hard forever. Protect yourself at all costs. What the actual fuck | /r/askTRP | 26/11/20 03:26 AM |
| 14 | Did I pass the shit test?Yikes | /r/askTRP | 25/11/20 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Is my turn up?Yo just ping her and be like How did the covid tests go. When she says she’s negative say that’s dope and try to set up a plan. If you get rejected then gg. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/20 10:34 PM |
| 5 | Long term fwb, should I cut her off?Open LTR. She is exclusive to you , but you can pipe other chicks. Try it out. Tell her you enjoy her but are not ready for a relationship. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/20 10:28 PM |
| 4 | LTR omits any type of information regarding other menBro I know what you mean. Girls omit info that can harm them but they’ll tell you just enough. It’s annoying. You want to relax and trust her bro but you never know. Don’t be insecure. Just be ready to be let down one day. LTR shit is hard tbh. Good luck | /r/askTRP | 24/11/20 01:47 AM |
| 28 | I left my girl and feel dogshit now.Yo stop defending yourself in the comments. It’s gonna suck tho. You’re used to having her around. The mind and body doesn’t like change. You changed your shit up. She’s probably feeling like shit too. Go meet new girls or go chill with your homies or go get a massage or go to a sauna. Take care of yourself and keep going. Damn though. Life. | /r/askTRP | 23/11/20 11:31 PM |
| 29 | How do you deal with loneliness?Call a friend and have a nice quick chat if you can. Other than that homie, shit is rough. I’m 23 and shit is rough. Can’t imagine 32. | /r/askTRP | 23/11/20 11:26 PM |
| 1 | If lovebombing is beta, why is it so effective when used by Narcissists?I do this. Even from a distance this shit works. | /r/askTRP | 23/11/20 01:26 AM |
| 1 | Ltr of 2 months wants my name tattooed on herDo it for the future giggles | /r/askTRP | 23/11/20 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Can someone give me a comprehensive argument that me being 5’3, having a messed up hairline and having a sub-par face doesn’t matter?Lmfao post a pic of yourself so we can all laugh with you. good luck bro. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/20 07:09 PM |
| 5 | Girl flaked last night. Pissed tf off. What should I do?Yo don’t text her how you feel. Drink a beer. Eat some food you like and Go get a full hour body massage from one of those places if it’s available. You feel like shit now but understand you won’t feel this way in a week. Feel your feelings, it’s natural and you can’t just stop feeling what you’re feeling. It’s your brain or body? telling you something. Do not engage with girl 1 anymore because tbh that was very rude. Girls like that are scum and are powerless at the end of the day. One day she … | /r/askTRP | 22/11/20 05:53 PM |
| 5 | How did you guys get over the fear of STDs?Bitches can lie. Anyone can lie. It’s embarrassing | /r/askTRP | 22/11/20 03:52 PM |
| 3 | Can someone give me a comprehensive argument that me being 5’3, having a messed up hairline and having a sub-par face doesn’t matter?Okay boss 100-90%= 10% Go get them. Or move to a location where you’re alpha for being what you are instead of what you look like. Again dickhead how old are you? | /r/askTRP | 22/11/20 03:45 PM |
| 1 | AnxietyPlease give bro | /r/askTRP | 22/11/20 03:19 PM |
| 3 | Can porn fuck you up that fast?Facts | /r/askTRP | 22/11/20 03:07 PM |
| 0 | Can porn fuck you up that fast?Lmfaoo facts | /r/askTRP | 22/11/20 03:07 PM |
| 3 | Can someone give me a comprehensive argument that me being 5’3, having a messed up hairline and having a sub-par face doesn’t matter?How many muscle ups can you do? How much do gi deadlift and bench? How old are you? What countries have you travelled too? You think you’ve done enough, but truth be told. We can always do more. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/20 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Need to go on a masculine trip - ColombiaYeah we’re thinking about Medellin heavy. Have you been to Bogota or San Gil? San Gil has apparently all the cool adventurous activities. How worth it is Cartenga. People are usually split between Medellin and Cartenga, but I feel like they both must be a must see then | /r/askTRP | 22/11/20 03:02 PM |
| 5 | Can someone give me a comprehensive argument that me being 5’3, having a messed up hairline and having a sub-par face doesn’t matter?Yo stop being a ducking bitch and trying to get sympathy for being unattractive. Work your ass off until you get pussy. Almost everything is transactional. If you want to give up, then fuck escorts for the rest of your life. Regardless, you have to play the game whether you like it not. So keep grinding | /r/askTRP | 22/11/20 05:21 AM |
| 3 | Need to go on a masculine trip - ColombiaYeah I’m from Brooklyn , so I got a bit of street smarts. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/20 09:57 PM |
| 1 | How to cope after you really realize she’s not yours and you’re genuinely alone in this world?Homie i dropped bread already on a spot and everything. So I don’t know, at this point the sex to me is about to just be transactional. She is my ex girl, she was a good girl when we were together but now that it’s non exclusive it’s a free for all. Shit was just a shock that she was able to talk to me and still fuck other men. It woke me up fr, still Healing tbh. But I’d rather not let my bread go to waste. Ima just pipe and hopefully I’ll have the strength to cut contact after. This is more of… | /r/askTRP | 21/11/20 08:53 PM |
| 5 | How to cope after you really realize she’s not yours and you’re genuinely alone in this world?Facts bro. Came back for this | /r/askTRP | 19/11/20 03:00 AM |
| 1 | How to cope after you really realize she’s not yours and you’re genuinely alone in this world?How do they love? | /r/askTRP | 19/11/20 02:23 AM |
| 2 | How to cope after you really realize she’s not yours and you’re genuinely alone in this world?How do they love ? | /r/askTRP | 19/11/20 02:23 AM |
| 10 | Do you guys trust your LTRS?Facts good looks for spelling it out. Gonna go lift. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/20 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys trust your LTRS?Loll bro I’m aware I shouldn’t tell her. Was just asking a question to buff out some of my edges. Just wanted to make sure. Still transitioning over to the red. Thank you for the response | /r/askTRP | 19/11/20 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys trust your LTRS?Also yo should you tell an ltr you don’t trust her if you really don’t. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/20 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys trust your LTRS?Should you tell an ltr you don’t trust her | /r/askTRP | 18/11/20 11:31 PM |
| 2 | Do you guys trust your LTRS?I don’t think so :/ | /r/askTRP | 18/11/20 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys trust your LTRS?Enjoy it homie | /r/askTRP | 18/11/20 10:48 PM |
| 3 | To Dread or Not To Dread (LTR)Facts, dread. Keep lifting just in case shit ends. Definitely do not speak about the lack of sex. Initiate more and if she isn’t with it, then withdraw attention or be like iight ima go do this. No ultimatums. Maybe buy a new sex toy or some lingerie with her to spice things up again. If all else fails, bro then sadly you know what to do. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/20 12:55 AM |
| 17 | How to cope after you really realize she’s not yours and you’re genuinely alone in this world?You’re right. That guy was available. She isn’t stupid for denying easy sex. It’s just wack. I want her to only want me in her, which is i guess impossible but shit gets me tight. I want to learn to plate women without having the feelings get in the way. I haven’t written her off yet. She’s supposed to come visit in 2 weeks and I’m gonna fuck her silly, but now I just know she isn’t mine and I need to scrap that shit out of my head. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/20 12:29 AM |
| 3 | How to cope after you really realize she’s not yours and you’re genuinely alone in this world?That’s the thing. It’s genuine female companionship that we probably desire. I also desire the pussy, but still. They go hand in hand. Too young to get a dog, living at home and jacking off works for short term. Shit is lonely bro. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/20 12:07 AM |
| 5 | Fucked 21 girls since last LTR. Still obsessed about ex. Help.Very elite comment. He’s giving you the tough love/ truth you need. It happens bro. It’s hard to accept that a girl can love you so much in the beginning and then shit starts to slip. I did the same shit. Broke up to invoke a response. Little did I know my girl kind of wanted the relationship to end in the end. It’s only after we lose shit that we want it back sometimes tho, so I see what you were doing. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/20 01:14 PM |
| 1 | What are good methods to improve your social status with social media?Travel to different places and take pics of you doing cool shit. Animals, fishing, hiking, biking, clubbing, landmarks, etc. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/20 06:43 AM |
| 5 | Fucked 21 girls since last LTR. Still obsessed about ex. Help.Yo first things first. I understand you. I am dealing with the same thing as well. It’s been 10 months and I think about her everyday. You have to stop being reactive. You said that you were calling her out - don’t ever do this. Guaranteed bro she is not 100p over you too. She may have had some hesitancy meeting up. You could’ve said I understand, take your time with it and let me know. Instead you pointed fingers, which was correct but don’t forget you’re dealing with a girl - they’re never wro… | /r/askTRP | 12/11/20 06:32 AM |
| 1 | BPD ex fucked my shit. I’m successful, why isn’t it enough?Interested too. Make sure to return to this | /r/askTRP | 11/11/20 04:46 PM |
| 5 | LTR of 3 years left me 3 months ago and I’m more depressed and anxious than ever before5g’s? I don’t know about that one boss. Start with 1g with someone you trust. Make sure you have a safe place to go to just in case you start bugging out. Bro chill don’t tell ppl to do 5g’s in the middle of nowhere | /r/askTRP | 10/11/20 07:27 AM |
| 6 | LTR of 3 years left me 3 months ago and I’m more depressed and anxious than ever beforeNah bro fuck your list. Google rationale male pdf tbh. Read the table of contents and just start reading whatever interests you. Eventually you’ll realize the book is golden. I would just start reading it now. Don’t wait. Also no lie bro you are going to be in a rough patch for a while. I can’t give you too much advice because I think about my ex everyday too and we are still in contact. Apparently she can’t get over me too emotionally, but at the end of the day I don’t know who or if she’s fuck… | /r/askTRP | 10/11/20 07:25 AM |
| 1 | Let it slide or soft next?Bro relax. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/20 02:21 PM |
| 3 | How to accept plates fucking other guys?She didn’t tell me but I can put two and two tg. I don’t know I just feel weird bro. I don’t think I like sharing a girl. | /r/askTRP | 06/11/20 08:33 PM |
| 1 | “You a man right, make me cum”Read sex god method. Sometimes girls cum and sometimes they don’t. Find the girl that cares more about pleasing you then cumming | /r/askTRP | 04/11/20 08:19 PM |
| 7 | Flirting with a girl over text. Which response is betterB is you shooting your shot. If she likes you she will respond. If not then you will know. Shooters shoot. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/20 10:46 PM |
| 17 | Does a woman lose respect for you if you don’t have sex?They will get it elsewhere if you’re not interested. Just know that boss. Also since sex is banned that will make it more exciting - doing something you both know you shouldn’t be doing. Be the guy who girls are gossiping about. Also that is your body, your school can’t tell you not to drill bitches. That’s your personal business. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/20 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Was I too harsh?How do you get this mentality? I feel like dishing out pain is not good. But some people really get pleasure from it. Can you point me in the right direction? | /r/askTRP | 28/10/20 10:54 AM |
| 3 | Is NYC still a good place to live?Don’t come here. Lift and stay in Miami | /r/askTRP | 27/10/20 11:19 PM |
| 1 | How would you like your birthday gift?Send the man 2 sets of extra special nudes and you gotta give him a special show over ft. Get a butt plug | /r/askTRP | 25/10/20 04:21 PM |
| 3 | How often are heads actually getting laidBro no lie. I lost my virginity at 19. I joined a frat at my school, was already lifting mad hard. And she wasn’t anything too crazy. I’m no where near I want to be. I’m sure you have a lot of work to do as well. You found a good place. The only advice I can really give too is lift and actually transform yourself. If you’re playing video games rn, actually cut it out. It’s better you watch Mad Men, Game of Thrones and Breaking Bad. Those shows are good for frame control and showing you what powe… | /r/askTRP | 23/10/20 06:51 PM |
| 1 | How often are heads actually getting laidIm just curious. My life is abundant in many ways but Getting laid is something I want to have more of in my life. Curious as to what others here are going through in that pursuit since this is a sexual strategy forum. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/20 04:03 PM |
| 1 | How often are heads actually getting laidWhat do you mean a gram of test? Extra testosterone? Is that safe? Also I’ve been trying to grow my beard out, been using minoxidil 2x a day for a couple days for now. Ik it’s gonna be a process tho | /r/askTRP | 23/10/20 03:17 PM |
| 1 | How often are heads actually getting laidGoofy is one of my slang words lmaooo. I love that word. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/20 03:08 PM |
| 1 | How often are heads actually getting laidFacts | /r/askTRP | 23/10/20 03:07 PM |
| 3 | How often are heads actually getting laidAlways in monk mode, but I still shoot my shots, cause you never know. It is a numbers hand fr. Rejection hurts, learning to make it an everyday thing | /r/askTRP | 23/10/20 03:05 PM |
| 0 | How often are heads actually getting laidLol it’s a slang word for people. I’m from nyc , we have so many slang words | /r/askTRP | 23/10/20 03:03 PM |
| 2 | How often are heads actually getting laidWord word lmao | /r/askTRP | 23/10/20 08:18 AM |
| 1 | How often are heads actually getting laidThat’s the goal | /r/askTRP | 23/10/20 07:39 AM |
| 3 | How often are heads actually getting laidSmd, I’m not writing a college essay here | /r/askTRP | 23/10/20 07:33 AM |
| 15 | How often are heads actually getting laidFacts appreciate the words bro. I hate getting flaked on. It’s like your almost there. Yesterday I slid in the this girls dms that I met at a party over the weekend. She left me on seen once I brought up getting coffee. Ego hit central. I travel pretty often and throw it up on IG when I do. Heads think I am living lavish but it’s really not that big of a deal. Growing up I never thought it would be this difficult to get laid. I guess this is the reality. I don’t mind working harder for it but I … | /r/askTRP | 22/10/20 10:50 PM |
| 3 | Big Bang Theory, biggest beta simp tv series ?Lmao fake tv shit to make herbs think they have a shot at hot women. If you want a slightly more realistic show, check out Mad Men | /r/askTRP | 22/10/20 12:29 AM |
| 15 | How to regain Leverage in an LTRPull back. Pull back. Pull back. When you see your girl taking a while to do stuff like get back to you or starting to not appreciate you as much. It’s best for you to stop reaching out as much and have her being the one that gets anxious that you’re not getting back to her. Also, if you haven’t, spice things up. Plan a trip to a different location with her so you two can be away from mundane life, that’ll keep things fresh and boost your image in her head. Plus it’ll give her something to brag … | /r/askTRP | 21/10/20 08:52 PM |
| 2 | advice on ltrNah homie relax and enjoy your relationship. There are heads dealing with different types of tests. This isn’t one of them. Don’t worry. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/20 07:07 PM |
| 34 | Lost my frame. How would you have handled this situation better?Rough situation. Sometimes girls put you in situations where you can’t win. There’s a shit test and then there’s disrespect. You did good by not tolerating the respect. Heads are gonna say you broke frame but to be honest when a girl fucks up like that - I think it’s good that you call them on their shit and let them feel bad for what they’ve done. It will cost you the girl, but there will be others. Just continue to accept that. | /r/askTRP | 18/10/20 08:05 PM |
| 16 | Feeling insecure about not giving my girlfriend orgasmsDon’t worry about it too much. Keep fucking her good and being that guy. They get their pleasure from pleasuring you. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/20 04:04 PM |
| 2 | Struggling with seeing my Ex move on (need help)....Yo this shit is not easy bro and will haunt you for a while. It’s very shocking bro. You are going to have to live with this pain and keep going. It will come in waves, but know that the feelings with pass at some point until they come back again. For now, feel your pain deeply, cry it out, get angry, distract yourself with happy moments but to be honest bro you have no choice but to endure. Work out, do your hobbies, chill with your friends and keep going. There is not much else you can do. If … | /r/askTRP | 17/10/20 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Huge disrespect or shit test?She is trying to make you an orbiter. Next time you’re with her if ever escalate physically boss. Get some wine and drink that shit outside or on a date. And make out with her. Let her know this isn’t 3 years afo | /r/askTRP | 17/10/20 01:15 AM |
| 13 | How do I maintain frame, while not leading into controlling/possessive territory?Yo bro my ex did this shit twice right before we broke up. I haven’t beaten the situation. All I can say right now is she is pulling back, you need to pull back as well. Legit this may be the end of your relationship, unless you really hold frame right now. Frame like that guy said is self control. Ik the silent treatment shit is probably giving you mad anxiety and it’s frustrating, but do not apologize, do not reach out, let it rock. Honestly it’s the weekend bro, make sure tomorrow you are doi… | /r/askTRP | 16/10/20 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Costa Rica vs. ThailandWow that’s crazy bro | /r/askTRP | 16/10/20 09:53 AM |
| 10 | Want to hear your thoughts of My gf's pasta.Bro she has daddy issues , takes depression pills and has a n count of 35. My last girl had the same things but her n count was 10 before me. 10 was a bit too much for me but I swallowed it because she is coming from a culture where the drinking age starts at 16 (Ireland) and she was good to me. I was also inexperienced and cuffed the only girl that showed me genuine desire - mistake on my part. An n count of 35 is nasty to me tho bro. Her ability to pair bond is probably clipped. I don’t know h… | /r/askTRP | 13/10/20 02:20 PM |
| 1 | I don't feel I have any sort of "mission" in life, nothing to aspire to, other than wanting to be happier with myselfTravel the world a bit | /r/askTRP | 11/10/20 01:39 AM |
| 7 | I cheated on my gf's 2x. I need advice.Yo bro to be honest. Don’t say anything. Keep it to yourself. Your relationship will end one day, don’t be a dickhead and quicken things up, just enjoy your turn and move forward. However, if you do tell her than just keep your frame. Sit her down , tell her you need to talk to her, and then get ready for the aftermath. You are an attractive man with options. You indulged in one of your options. You didn’t do anything wrong. Girls emotionally cheat everyday and get away it like it’s nothing. Men… | /r/askTRP | 06/10/20 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Black/Africa Male late 20s, 5,6ft, Failing in Asian World.Yo fr what country are you in bro ? | /r/askTRP | 04/10/20 10:21 PM |
| 1 | A woman talking to me off and on for half a year ghosted me?Multiple things bro. First it’s going to hurt. Second there will never be a warning. Honesty you haven’t met this girl in person and you got emotionally attached to the validation she was giving you over the phone. She probably liked getting attention from a foreign person. The relationship was kind of beneficial but you expected sex when you visited. Now she is with a man who is there with her in Morocco and you can not capitalize on your investment. TRP says do not do long distance relationshi… | /r/askTRP | 27/09/20 01:03 PM |
| 5 | jealous and envious?By taking your new girls out on dates and going balls deep in them. She should be jealous about you taking bitches on dates. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/20 12:46 AM |
| 0 | Need HelpText in 2 days. Hey how you doing or hey how’s it going (like on your lunch break.) she responds , you say you’re doing great and that you wanted to see her again. Go at your own pace. Maybe invite her to a bar near your place where you can lead her back to yours. Or if you have your own spot maybe suggest dinner at your spot n you guys cook something light together. Regardless dont be afraid. Continue to look out for and try to meet more girls. | /r/seduction | 18/09/20 01:38 AM |
| 1 | Where to Vacation in USA for a 23 year old?Go to Alaska. Get a Airbnb in Denali. They got mad cool nature shit to do there boss. Depending on how long you have and what resources you have (drivers license). You will need to rent a car and have a good amount of money for this trip | /r/askTRP | 14/09/20 05:17 PM |
| 17 | Girl used to like me and now I’m friend zonedYo homie I hate to say this shit because I keep on getting caught up in my feels about “one” girl. Even today a girl who feigned high interest is playing games today and I am kind of tight. Your best bet homie is to just ignore this shit and stop giving it any of your attention. Also stop FaceTiming and texting nonsense. To be really honest , at most maybe some minimal texting that will lead to you making plans with her to hang out which will allow you to fuck her sooner rather than later. Go do… | /r/askTRP | 14/09/20 05:03 PM |
| 4 | I need drugs to have funDamn. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/20 07:26 AM |
| 1 | I need drugs to have funWhat kind of drugs? | /r/askTRP | 13/09/20 07:02 AM |
| 1 | Can't get over her?Curious as to why this would work? Won’t it only make you want her more? | /r/MGTOW2 | 12/09/20 11:12 PM |
| 3 | Can't get over her?Facts bro. It be like this for real. | /r/MGTOW2 | 12/09/20 10:23 PM |
| 5 | I'm taking a break. I've made conclusions that I need to stop dating. Mgtow is onto something and this last date was the last straw.Hiking is so lit bro. Good shit | /r/MGTOW2 | 30/08/20 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Responding to rejection when you make a move?When you’re in the moment. Agree and keep moving fucking forward in time. Ignore the shit tests. Bitches don’t know what they want until you make them. If they really aren’t about it , then just hold your L honorably and end the date. There will be another chick down the road. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/20 12:29 AM |
| 1 | My girlfriend reinstalled and reopened instagram after a year and after she got into university. Time to fly?Having IG is okay. She is going to follow all of her new fiends and shit. Take pics , make it seem like she is living her best life , etc Just try not to care. Don’t take pics for her , make sure you’re in the flicks if you do take any for her. Make sure you continue lifting and doing cool shit. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/20 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Texting after first datesVery helpful | /r/askTRP | 25/08/20 05:17 AM |
| 1 | Stop a girl from using certain nicknameNah just chill, it’s a good thing luv | /r/askTRP | 24/08/20 03:04 PM |
| 2 | Ex sleeping around, how to stop thinking about it?Yo I bet if she found out you were fucking other girls she wouldn’t be too thrilled either. It’s a normal feeling man. I know it’s fucking with you for a fact. I don’t have the experience to help you get through this, but yeah bro you should start mingling with some new women and it may help you to not think about it. I empathize with you tho bro. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/20 02:11 AM |
| 1 | I acted needy, and honestly wanted to harm a girl that disrespected me. Is there anything else I need to do to get better?Girls that you don’t know well or haven’t been on a date with can and will do this to you. But in your case I understand why you’re mad that a girl that you’ve been seeing casually will just flake on your plans without a word. It’s disrespectful to be honest, but now you know that they are this type of person. You let it slide once, okay. A second time .. now it’s time to soft next and let her come running back to you or you just hard next. Don’t let it attack your ego for too long. Yes it sucks… | /r/askTRP | 30/07/20 01:17 PM |
| 3 | Im gonna tell a girl that I like her.Don’t tell her with your words boss. Show her some way. | /r/seduction | 27/07/20 01:39 AM |
| 25 | My ltr is testing my frameShe lives in a house with a lot of people. There are 4 girls total in the house and like 4 guys. Not much I can do about that one. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/20 03:04 AM |
| 1 | How do I stay an "asshole"In the beginning. Pete Campbell is an asshole but at the end of the day he is just another man. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/20 12:20 PM |
| 5 | Advice for a young man going to collegeThis is very true. Your first month matters. Bring alcohol to school, get your hands on a fake ID. Dress and look the part, start lifting hard now, rush a fraternity. Make sure you ask older heads which frats are the best, etc. keep your eyes open and observe what feats deal with what sororities. If you join Greek life the frat you’re in matters and can have a huge impact on your pre selection. Don’t say no to anything, and try to get heads to go and do shit. Let’s go play ball, let’s go check o… | /r/askTRP | 24/07/20 02:36 AM |
| 1 | LTR pulling away for the first time because I fucked up a jealousy test.Yeah. Pretend your single on the trip too. Mack onnnew girls and shit when you can. You’ll come back knowing that if you wanted you can dip your girl and be able to get new ones, it helps with the general confidence and it changes how you move around her. You’re the prize after all. Aren’t you ? | /r/askTRP | 23/07/20 11:58 AM |
| 1 | Recommended tips for smell-good products that drive women wild?My personal favorite. My ex loved this in me. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/20 01:51 AM |
| 3 | LTR pulling away for the first time because I fucked up a jealousy test.Damn. Make sure you are laying the pipe very well and no more bitch shit. I hope she doesn’t cheat on you while you’re out of town. Make sure to throw cool shit up on social media as well or send her pics of all the cool shit you’re doing, don’t text her too much while you’re on the trip. Make her miss you. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/20 01:50 AM |
| -1 | LTR pulling away for the first time because I fucked up a jealousy test.Yeah for real homie, enjoy dinner , tell her it was really good, “that’s that wifey shit that I like” and fuck her well bro. Space is not the move. Space is when you are out actively instilling dread. If she sees you on the computer , then that isn’t really dread. She needs to think omg what is he doing? Is he talking to new girls? Shit like that. No more sleeping in spare room. Go out and get some lingerie for her to try on and shit. Cop some new lube you want to try. Bro come on. Get creative | /r/askTRP | 23/07/20 12:20 AM |
| 22 | I’m seeing more and more men initiating breakupsWhat do you marry for then ? Edit: It was a rhetorical question. Marriage is clearly not ideal for men. | /r/MGTOW2 | 22/07/20 02:15 PM |
| 3 | Should you wear a mask when picking up girls?It’ll probably make them more comfortable bro. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/20 04:56 PM |
| 3 | Where did you go wrong in your last LTR?This is very important. Control your reactions | /r/askTRP | 17/07/20 11:53 AM |
| 5 | OrbitersYeah one hundred percent fucked up before. Not gonna make same mistake. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/20 02:18 PM |
| 2 | OrbitersThat’s cool. What exactly is the proper frame though. To not care and ignore it? | /r/askTRP | 16/07/20 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Break up with my girlfriendLmfao. To each is own. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/20 11:50 AM |
| 7 | What makes a man Physically unattractiveShoulders comfortably back, don’t be stiff, spread out and take up space when you’re sitting and shit. Let it look natural and not like your trying hard. It will become natural. It helps if you feel elite as well inside already. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/20 09:39 PM |
| 5 | When to end things with ltr?Don’t bring up the party unless you can go. If you can’t go then it’s up to you what you want to do. I wouldn’t tell her she can’t go or anything like that. If she goes , she goes and you have to make a decision - the confident one where you don’t give a fuck because you know you’re elite and she can’t do better or the bitch boy one where you’re scared she is gonna cheat on you. Regardless, continue to do your thing. Display high value. Hold frame. Continue to game her. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/20 09:37 PM |
| 29 | Break up with my girlfriendGrass isn’t always greener. Random hookups are not that fulfilling- it’s just a quick ego boost. If that’s what you want then by all means. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/20 09:19 PM |
| 9 | When to end things with ltr?Yo I know you feel weird and shit, but just hold frame. Don’t do anything extra to appease her. No apologies, no more chasing. She needs to be chasing you. She needs to be afraid of losing you , if you become extra available out of fear of losing her then it’s clipped. Keep cool. When you do see her , have fun and fuck her well. She ain’t your whole life, even though it may feel like it. Don’t skip your class. I would even personally throw it up on social media - ig story or whatever that you’re… | /r/askTRP | 13/07/20 09:16 PM |
| 1 | What are your top one or two lifting exercises that you always do, even if short for time?Yup | /r/askTRP | 13/07/20 03:31 PM |
| 6 | Is my ex-LTR trying to thirst trap me?Bro , she just said her pussy is hair less to you. Shoot the shot and keep it moving. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/20 03:09 AM |
| 5 | Need an opinion on who f***ed up.Some people work better under pressure. So I don’t know bro. Just focus on yourself. If you’re planning on marrying this girl I understand your concern - you clearly don’t want her to fuck up her life by failing. But this is the shit that kills attraction lowkey bro. You shouldn’t be worried about if she is doing her homework. You should be worried about if she is swallowing and supporting you and your goals. What she does with her life unless it is disrespectful to you shouldn’t matter too much… | /r/askTRP | 11/07/20 12:12 PM |
| 2 | Need an opinion on who f***ed up.Yo if she really wasn’t going to get the thesis done then you potentially did the right thing. When someone you really care for is fucking up their life , you help them in any way you can. In the long run , you tried to help her. Once she is done with her tantrum and her emotions calm down , she will hopefully appreciate and understand what you did. But for now you are fucked in the short term. Keep your distance and hold frame. Do not say sorry. Let her reach out to you. You should work out whe… | /r/askTRP | 11/07/20 11:57 AM |
| 3 | Feeding scraps/Meaningless complimentsThose are shit tests. Gotta find ways to pass those. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/20 07:01 PM |
| 4 | Feeding scraps/Meaningless complimentsFeed scraps. No over the top shit, but be smooth when you can. Best to reward good behavior. If they didn’t earn the compliment then it’s just free validation. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/20 06:57 PM |
| -1 | Can trp and self improvement have the opposite affect?6 figures. What do you do ? | /r/askTRP | 08/07/20 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Difference between IDGAF attitude vs being an assholeDon’t do that again. | /r/askTRP | 07/07/20 07:54 AM |
| 5 | How to keep up with women that are not in your rotation yet when overseas for about a month?Nah just post cool shit on social media while you’re away. They’ll be home, bored doing their regular shit. While you were away being lit. Forget about them for now. When you get back hit them up. But to maximize this it would be good to use social media - posting stuff on IG stories, 1 new IG post every week. Follow new girls, it would be dope if you had girls in your story or in your pics. I don’t know how old you are but vacations and traveling is great for displaying high value. Regardless t… | /r/askTRP | 06/07/20 06:44 PM |
| 2 | Self-improvement and inspiring movies/ shows/ documentariesMad men | /r/askTRP | 06/07/20 02:34 PM |
| 17 | Is it realistic going after older women?Shoot your shot boss. Start lifting soon. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/20 01:47 AM |
| 1 | How many of you dated someone long term and explicitly told them that marriage is off the table?Yeah I said it. It’s best to keep quiet tbh. Don’t let them know. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/20 01:22 PM |
| 1 | How would you raise your son to become the best version of himself?Yeah raising is hard. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/20 01:20 PM |
| 1 | How would you raise your son to become the best version of himself?Yo you need to put him onto things. Make sure he gets involved with sports , fill his room with good books and educational toys, take him to ballroom dance classes so he gets used to leading girls early. Make sure he is active and not just playing video games Help him with his schoolwork so he excels Shit isn’t hard | /r/askTRP | 05/07/20 03:20 AM |
| 1 | What would you do if a longtime friend told you he was transitioning to a woman?No dickhead , he’s saying his plate noticed that he only hangs with alphas. | /r/askTRP | 04/07/20 06:23 PM |
| 1 | What would you do if a longtime friend told you he was transitioning to a woman?Lmfao wild | /r/askTRP | 04/07/20 06:16 PM |
| 8 | Help I’m in LoveYo you can drop your plates and focus on this girl and enjoy the ride. Have fun and do your thing. Just make sure you are her best option and she knows that you can have other girls whenever you want. Read up about dread. Just understand she is not your possession. She can leave you whenever she wants and you will need to prepare for that day. That’s the only con about love and dropping plates. You fall head over heels, emotionally invest and then when it ends you can’t turn it off like how girl… | /r/askTRP | 04/07/20 12:59 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend planning trip with a friend group without telling meI would take it easy bro. Plan to go drinking and dancing with your friends as well. But regardless good luck. | /r/askTRP | 04/07/20 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend planning trip with a friend group without telling meBro, obviously she thinks it’s cool if she booked it. If you don’t like it then you should dip without saying anything. No reason to give her ammo to blame you for the breakup. She’ll know what she did wrong. Honestly tho yo, she is just going to see a group of friends, i doubt she will be sleeping with any of them. Don’t be a dickhead. If you like her , just let her go on the trip. If you really don’t care then by all means try it. Girls are for sex, companionship and babies. She is fucking you… | /r/askTRP | 03/07/20 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend planning trip with a friend group without telling meI know you think you should tell her but bro. You are going to expose that you are insecure about something. If it bothers you that much then you should just dip. Either that or Hold frame. Just cause you say you are uncomfortable with it doesn’t mean anything. “What are you scared of? It’s just a girls trip? I haven’t seen my friends in months. Why are you being controlling and unfair.” Think about it, she is going to tell her friends that her bf doesn’t want her to go. What does this really sa… | /r/askTRP | 03/07/20 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Whenever I talk to women I don’t even think of relationships with them I just think of fucking them.It’s bittersweet for a young man to be honest. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/20 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend planning trip with a friend group without telling meYo if you’re not comfortable with it and you don’t mind losing her then cut the relationship. If you want to keep her , hold frame and let her go. Don’t say any pussy shit about how it makes you uncomfortable or anything. When you get a gf I know it feels like you own her and she is yours but yo she is not your property. I had to learn this the hard way. She has a life outside of you. You should have one outside of her. Imagine if you were going on a trip with your boys. Would you invite your gi… | /r/askTRP | 03/07/20 07:00 PM |
| 2 | FR - Breaking and fixing your shit.The kids need a place to grow still. 20 and 18. They are not dead beat losers and they are not leeches. They are her children. And if she’s smart she’ll choose them over you. If she doesn’t then I don’t know why you would even want her. The kids are not YOUR problem. Which is good that you realize , but don’t expect her to drop them out of her life, especially the 13 year old. It’s her job to raise him, which will take precedence over you. To be honest this sounds likes way too much stress. I ha… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/07/20 01:53 PM |
| 6 | A huge part of maturing as a man is learning to master your emotions. Here's my experience of how this worked out.I’ve come back to this post a couple time over the past week. It is a good one. So I thank you. I’m 23 , have been a couple months out of a relationship. Although I did love her and care for her dearly. I was codependent and loved her validation as it did make me feel like I was finally worth something to someone who didn’t need to love me like family. Now that she is gone, I feel low and alone. I don’t just want any woman , of course I’ll take a woman and fuck her but I won’t want to open up ag… | /r/MGTOW2 | 03/07/20 12:36 PM |
| 5 | Elite tinder openersMy guy, I’m not saying I’m trying to come off as elite. I’m saying do you have an opener that is elite. Stop trying to put heads down and post comments of substance | /r/askTRP | 30/06/20 09:56 PM |
| 5 | Injured, lost my job, my oneitis, and some of my family. Need help.Gotta survive. Other heads are gonna tell you to start macking on other girls as well. If it wasn’t for this whole covid thing I would personally tell you to go take a trip out of the country with a friend or even by yourself to go see some shit you’ve never seen. I’m in the same boat pretty much when it comes to broke up with my girl and think about her everyday. Shit is crazy. I heard that time eases the pains and the thoughts ease as well. But still. Just keep improving and carry that pain wi… | /r/askTRP | 30/06/20 06:41 PM |
| 3 | When you do find yourself in an unfamiliar situation, what are some keys to still presenting yourself with confidenceGotta be human also in sales. Selling the product is the goal but you also gotta learn to read the person you’re selling it to. They have to like you as well almost. Just be calm | /r/askTRP | 30/06/20 06:35 PM |
| 1 | One of Rollo’s rules: Power (LTRs)I broke up with the girl ** but I did it because shit was starting to slip. Doesn’t mean I didn’t want to keep her, just had to respect myself in the moment. To me in a way , I still feel like I lost. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/20 04:02 PM |
| 1 | How to have that healthy mix of being alpha and a showing “beta” in a LTR ?Important shit right here tbh | /r/askTRP | 29/06/20 09:54 AM |
| 6 | Ex Messaging MeDo what you want with no expectations, but to be honest bro sometimes TRP really does know what’s up. You should maybe just keep moving on. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/20 11:47 PM |
| 5 | Do you kiss girls after blowjob and after you came in her mouth?I would kiss because it’s whatever. It seems nasty but what are you gonna do. If she kisses you , kiss her. If you don’t want to kiss then don’t initiate a kiss | /r/askTRP | 28/06/20 10:52 PM |
| 8 | Got flaked on boysI feel you homie. Girls aren’t the type to really initiate dates so she won’t hit you up if that’s what you’re waiting for. I would leave it alone until tomorrow or even the next day and try to make plans for this upcoming Saturday night. Don’t make her your only plan , have a back up so you’re not sitting like a duck if she flakes again. Since she double texted , I think she actually was at some shit and you can’t really leave family events sometimes to go link friends let alone a stranger. Bal… | /r/askTRP | 28/06/20 02:36 PM |
| 9 | Got flaked on boysYou’re good. Next time you engage her, play it cool, calm and collective. Set something up next week. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/20 02:24 PM |
| 1 | How do you react when a new girl tries to change a hookup into an outing/date?Yo maybe she just wants plausible Deniability. Instead of going straight to your place, just grab drinks at whatever spot she takes you too or wherever you take her , be like I ate earlier. Drink , relax and build more rapport, kiss her some more. And then at the end of the date try and bring her to your place in your own way. Or even be like sure , come over , I’ll cook for us. Make some spaghetti with her or make something you like to make , crack open a bottle of wine and break bread with the… | /r/askTRP | 28/06/20 02:19 PM |
| 2 | How do you guys handle girls on their period?And you’re immature bro. I’m not saying eat the pussy out. It’s just a little blood , shit isn’t going to kill you. Be a man. There was one time I fucked her and we both didn’t even know she was on her period. I nutted in her and it was all bloody on the paper. We laughed cause it meant we passed another month of her not getting pregnant. It was a joyous moment. Don’t be immature , it’s just a little blood boss. Unless she is a heavy bleeder then nah. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/20 12:58 PM |
| -1 | How do you guys handle girls on their period?I don’t mind fucking on period. It’s whatever bro. My girl wasn’t a heavy bleeder tho. At first I wasn’t with the shits but my boy told me he didn’t care so I was like fuck it and it really isn’t that big of a deal. If she is comfortable with it you’re golden, you can even nut inside lmao | /r/askTRP | 28/06/20 12:23 PM |
| 1 | I am going to meet with a woman I barely know tomorrowHave a plan for the date though. Be prepared | /r/askTRP | 28/06/20 11:39 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on posting myself fucking plates on my social media?Yo people are telling you not to do it. I understand why you want to do it. She did you dirty and now she has a new boyfriend and you are probably hurting a lot or a little inside potentially. I feel you bro. I get hurt even when my ex follows a new guy on IG. Idk what I’d do if she gets into a new LTR. Around month 3 I posted a story on IG that involved a new girl and my ex deleted all of our pics off her IG and told me to log out of her Netflix. So yes I “won” in getting an emotional reaction … | /r/askTRP | 28/06/20 11:03 AM |
| 1 | She apologized for not textin back?Something of this nature | /r/askTRP | 28/06/20 12:30 AM |
| 1 | How Is It Possible That in Our Society, Female Privilege is Never Discussed?Needed to hear this | /r/askTRP | 28/06/20 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Is being the dumper good for the soul?We’re talking LTRs not plates | /r/askTRP | 27/06/20 10:58 PM |
| 1 | What to do when she doesn’t come thru ?Good shit | /r/askTRP | 27/06/20 08:31 PM |
| 4 | What to do when she doesn’t come thru ?Tell her No worries. Hope everything is okay. And then leave it alone for a couple days , try and reschedule. If you get dubbed you now know whatsup with her | /r/askTRP | 27/06/20 08:31 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to this on hinge? I have a ban on guys your name? Should I even bother?I would send my number and if she is with the shits , she’ll text you. If not , it’s whatever. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/20 08:29 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to this on hinge? I have a ban on guys your name? Should I even bother?Yeah it was way to early to text. It’s either you leave it alone or you give her your number and put the ball in her court. I would just be like: Xxx-xxx-xxxx text me | /r/askTRP | 27/06/20 06:20 PM |
| 7 | Your favorite colognesMad heads fuck with this Dior shit. Ima have to cop soon and see what’s good. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/20 01:17 PM |
| 6 | Is being the dumper good for the soul?Don’t actively try to dump the girl bro. Don’t go around wasting peoples time. Enjoy the time until it’s over. If you don’t want the relationship to end then continue being her best option. If you realize at some point she is not the best then you just have to make a choice. Sometimes the grass is not greener on the other side and you should just water your grass. It usually is bruised ego. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/20 01:17 PM |
| 1 | What is the best investment you've ever made?Yeah tbh 400$ on cologne is a little odee. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/20 12:55 PM |
| 2 | What is the best investment you've ever made?Lmfaoo I feel you. Search up those 3 I sent you on google and see what you can find. I’d go in person to a store to make sure you get a quality product and so you could smell it for yourself or get it from the actual site itself or amazon. Im not sure how long the scents last, but I used to throw it on before my girl came over or before I went to go see her. I throw it on in the mornings before work or before going out to bars or places. Couple sprays on the neck and on the inner wrists should d… | /r/askTRP | 27/06/20 11:16 AM |
| 4 | What is the best investment you've ever made?All I know is my ex loved Versace - Eros on me. Right now I wear Bleu de Chanel , it’s alright couple compliments. I know I want Creed Aventus , but it’s expensive. This is the goal for me. For watches , I only have one, it’s a rose gold Nixon watch , it’s flashy. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/20 10:39 AM |
| 1 | How to respond to this on hinge? I have a ban on guys your name? Should I even bother?Send her your number and tell her to text you (at a reasonable time) | /r/askTRP | 27/06/20 10:33 AM |
| 0 | I want to be a better version of myself. Throw me all your practical advice and ill work on them.Work out. Get a job. Love yourself | /r/askTRP | 27/06/20 12:11 AM |
| 4 | What is the best investment you've ever made?Ayyy | /r/askTRP | 26/06/20 09:47 PM |
| 10 | How to respond to this on hinge? I have a ban on guys your name? Should I even bother?I feel you. But to be honest bro. What else are you gonna say ? That is a shit test you are going to have to use AA for. See what others say but I think this is the best one depending on the type of rapport you two have. Good luck | /r/askTRP | 26/06/20 09:26 PM |
| 11 | How to respond to this on hinge? I have a ban on guys your name? Should I even bother?No biggie , you can call me daddy | /r/askTRP | 26/06/20 09:19 PM |
| 22 | Ltr just posted a bikini pic on ig, what should I do?Tell her to come over and fuck her and cum in her mouth. Do not be a bitch about the IG. It’s not as serious as you think. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/20 09:13 PM |
| 7 | Can one trust birth control pills for condomless sex? Do you?Yeah I do. If she is not your girlfriend do not do it. I wouldn’t go raw in a girl just because she is submissive. Only if I see a potential future with this girl and I think she would be a good mom IF it was to happen. This is just me though | /r/askTRP | 26/06/20 08:55 PM |
| 31 | What is the best investment you've ever made?Definitely my gym membership when I was 17. (23 now) Going to a 4 year private school (had to take out loans :/ ) but the investment has has already helped a ton. Recently upgraded the wardrobe and got a nice watch. Bitches and people notice this shit in general. Doesn’t have to be the latest designer shit, but get some clothes that look good. Mix and match shirts with pants, get some nice leather shoes and boots. Cologne Traveling abroad - if you are young you should def study abroad. If you ar… | /r/askTRP | 26/06/20 08:45 PM |
| 11 | Can one trust birth control pills for condomless sex? Do you?It’s a risk but it worked for me. You have to ask yourself if you were to get this girl pregnant could you see yourself with her or dealing with her for the long term. // Things can change overnight though very fast. All in all it’s a risk. That’s the only way I’ll do condomless sex. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/20 08:41 PM |
| 2 | For those that begged or pleaded after a breakup how did you bounce back and recover your ego ? Did your ex that you pleaded for ever come back after your improvement ?It happens to the best of us. If you don’t want her back then it’s best to just move on calmly. Grieve for a while, go no contact, go on a couple new trips, meet some new people, do new things. I don’t know about the ex part coming back after the improvement. But girls feelings can change in a snap. Improve of course because regardless it will be in your favor. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/20 05:35 AM |
| 2 | Should you express feelings over text or call?Don’t say are you able to talk? Tell her you’d like to talk , are you free later or are you free at 8:00? | /r/seduction | 26/06/20 05:24 AM |
| 2 | Should you express feelings over text or call?Nah , not yet. Try to set up a nice date somewhere where too many people won’t be. A nice park or something bro. “Hey I had fun last time. Let’s go out again or meet again” “I’ll be free this Saturday after 5 wanna come over or I know this beautiful spot in town , wanna hang/chill/ whatever you say.” Make out and hold her hand and shit and make her feel nice you know. If you don’t want to take her on a date then invite her to your spot to make a small dinner, have a bottle of wine ready or somet… | /r/seduction | 25/06/20 10:10 PM |
| 13 | Is it ok to "shoot my shot"?Yo who gives a fuck bro. Send a DM or wait for them to drop some shit on their story. You could reply to it and start a convo. You may get dubbed, you may not. Shoot the shot. Just try not to have any expectations going in so your ego doesn’t take a hit if you get dubbed. Shooters shoot, heads on the bench watch others play | /r/askTRP | 25/06/20 09:57 PM |
| 2 | Feel lonely without a woman, don't want this feeling. How many of you guys get this?It’s a very wack feeling but it is the reality. When you’re with the girl you feel this sense of security. For the moment it is real , but when she is gone then the sense of security is gone as well. Shit is very very wack bro. Try to get used to the feeling. I don’t know long it takes cause I still feel weird without my girl, but we’re humans and we’re supposed to be able to adapt right? | /r/askTRP | 25/06/20 03:09 AM |
| 2 | Is this worth punishing or I'm just overreacting?Nah, if anything she is trying to make it known that she is desirable or trying to make you jealous. Keep your cool. And proceed normally. Just continue to be the best | /r/askTRP | 24/06/20 10:21 AM |
| 1 | What are some principles to live by for someone who is in his 20s?How long have you been taking the red pill ? | /r/askTRP | 23/06/20 06:24 PM |
| 3 | How To Stick To CondomsSex is cool bro. Raw sex is elite. Having sex is nice and alpha. It’s just the pros vs the cons of raw sex. The 10-15 minutes of wet wet for a potential baby and poten to al stds. That’s the problem. Monogamy is good for stuff like that. At least a bit safer. When you’re spinning plates and fucking randoms who are also fucking randoms. It’s lit but it’s risky. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/20 05:12 PM |
| 6 | Women are attracted to a Man's Hands like we are to her BreastsCan confirm my ex did love my hands. Rough from lifting but still soft. I liked her hands too :( | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/20 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Being alone and okayYeah I got close friends to talk to about real real shit and my mom. I don’t have anything severe I wanna talk about at the moment. I’m just talking about like daily wins and daily small struggles. Someone to shoot the shit with. I just miss the female companionship. It takes a while to build that shit with a girl. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/20 03:44 PM |
| 2 | How To Stick To CondomsIf you’re down for that by all means. I personally don’t really want anyone doing any surgery on me at all. Especially no where near my balls. Can’t even imagine. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/20 03:06 PM |
| 3 | How To Stick To CondomsYou may want kids down the line. See if it’s reversible. If not bro I don’t know. My ex was on the pill n I nutted inside. No pregnancy. Very blessed for that. Big risk , not worth it tho to be honest. The short term pleasure was lit but if she had gotten pregnant. I don’t know yo. It would’ve been GG | /r/askTRP | 23/06/20 02:40 PM |
| 2 | Why has my gf (20F) not had sex with me (20M) after a year of being together?Bro you’ve been with this girl for a year and haven’t fucked ? You’re young so I understand why you think it’s acceptable to be with a girl and not have sex and just date and make out and be with her , but if you want sex then you need to just go get it. You need to detach yourself from this girl because you want something she isn’t willing to give you and that’s just not the move bro. It won’t be easy because I have a feeling you are codependent on this girl for how you feel and stuff. But you … | /r/askTRP | 23/06/20 01:55 PM |
| 5 | Ex LTR messages after 3 months to check inLet her chase. Don’t let her think you’re in her pocket pining for her. Continue to do your thing with other girls. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/20 01:46 PM |
| 1 | ConfusedFacts , have you been approaching or just looking from the sidelines? I want bitches to be in their knees for me as well but I can’t lie , I do not approach random girls on the street , but I really am going to have to start. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/20 01:11 AM |
| 51 | Post taken from relationship_adviceLmfao facts bro that shit is crazy. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/20 12:12 AM |
| 0 | Anyone else have this happen?Just make sure that you keep back up girls. Always be doing shit without her, don’t make her your life boss. Continue to have a life outside of her that she rarely gets to see. This is how you keep the mystery. I read something on married trp that said the woman’s unconscious goal is now to betaize you. So that way she can keep you but in doing that she will Lose attraction for you. Just enjoy yourself. Fuck her every time like it’s your last. Do everything you want to do. Get it out of your sys… | /r/askTRP | 22/06/20 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Admitting mistakesThanks yo. The problem has been taken care of. We broke up, I just wanted to know for the future the best way to handle shit like this. And yeah yo actions speak louder than words. Next time just need to be aware and not afraid to cut ties once things start going backwards. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/20 07:44 PM |
| 10 | Earning RESPECT as a manLegit post. Self esteem has always been a hard one for me. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/20 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Ready to move onYeah it should’ve been done with. On some blue pill shit I thought some distance would be good. People sometimes don’t know what they have until it’s gone. So I figured I’d shoot a shot. The breakup has forced me to grow in many ways and I am a better man for it honestly. I just wanted to share that man with her. It really is her loss, but so it goes. Thanks for the advice | /r/askTRP | 22/06/20 08:47 AM |
| 2 | How to handle male attention when going out with a 10?Fair | /r/askTRP | 22/06/20 07:17 AM |
| 1 | Will never, ever get over this past breakup. Part of me is dead foreverYo bro , i FEEL YOU. I’ve been pining for my ex as well for months. Literally today I reached out to talk to her and she said no (in a nice girl way). I feel like shit of course and will probably continue to feel like shit for months if I’m being really honest with myself. But I am happy at the same time. Now I don’t have to improve myself for her or wait for her to reach out or hope that we’ll get back together. I got my answer and she said no. In the LONG run I’ll be better off for it. I know … | /r/askTRP | 22/06/20 04:14 AM |
| 2 | Social Anxiety, Low Self-Esteem and DatingThat’s good shit bro. Happy you went in and did your thing. My girl flaked on the date, shitty excuse. No biggie. On to the next thing I guess. Just stay confident | /r/askTRP | 22/06/20 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Admitting mistakesInsecure and controlling behavior | /r/askTRP | 21/06/20 08:38 PM |
| 41 | How to handle male attention when going out with a 10?Don’t ever show insecurity or mention the men. She is with you right now because she wants to be with you. She likes you, do not start doing extra shit to keep her attention. She should be pining for your attention. The game is set to very hard now but continue to be the best she can do and boom. Learn how to dread her a bit here and there as well. As for the guys in public just pay them no mind and wink at them type shit. Keep your arm around her and shit. She is your girl | /r/askTRP | 21/06/20 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Flake ?It’s a very wack joke for some of us yo. Wish you the best in your marriage. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/20 05:06 PM |
| 4 | How to handle LTR guy friend?You are her boyfriend. These are her friends. That’s it. Just play the part and play it well. Dress well and engage. Do not mateguard or show insecurity. Do things well. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/20 05:02 PM |
| 13 | Another month delay for the gym reopen >[Miss the gym ode bro. To be honest , I would’ve been such a beast if it hadn’t closed in March. Was at peak performance before the shut downs. I WILL get back up there of course , but damn. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/20 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Flake ?Don’t forget we in the middle of a pandemic homie , That’s that pre covid energy | /r/askTRP | 21/06/20 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Flake ?Yeah I don’t like it to be honest. Ima wait till 3:30 to respond | /r/askTRP | 20/06/20 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Flake ?What would you respond ? | /r/askTRP | 20/06/20 06:34 PM |
| 2 | Flake ?At 4 (16:00). Right now where I am it is 2:30 (14:30) | /r/askTRP | 20/06/20 06:29 PM |
| 10 | Ex reaching out, how to "flex"?To be honest , don’t play stupid games with women because you’ll win stupid prizes which is something I have learned from trying to make girls jealous. If you want to have sex with your ex make sure to just set up a soft date near your place or something and be like it’s been a while let’s grab a drink or a coffee and catch up. While on the date, dress well, hopefully you’ve gained some size or improved your fashion / scent / mannerisms. And then just escalate normally. Or you could just move on… | /r/askTRP | 20/06/20 06:28 PM |
| 2 | Though situation between two girls. Need advice.My situation was different. I’m from Brooklyn and I was abroad in Dublin. Found a cute quiet girl who was very submissive, essentially fell in love, but i was only gonna be there for one more month , so logically idk y I asked her to be my gf, but in the moment I was very very happy and feeling all types of love (of course after sex). I just let it slip , will you be my gf. She agreed and then boom. Had to cut off all my plates and i could only fuck her. Which wasn’t a problem untillllll my ass … | /r/askTRP | 20/06/20 12:31 PM |
| 3 | Though situation between two girls. Need advice.Keep doing what you’re doing. You feeling bad is because you feel like you’re doing something wrong but you didn’t establish exclusivity so YOU’RE NOT DOING ANYTHING WRONG. Enjoy both girls. Best way to not fall tooo hard for one, cause trust me you don’t want to do that. I had a girl liked a lot and I slept with a new girl and felt bad too, I was wondering y I was doing this when I have her and she is great. Then I went exclusive with her and I knew the day after I made a mistake. Use your head… | /r/askTRP | 20/06/20 11:27 AM |
| 3 | Rational male or no more mr nice guy?Rationale male | /r/askTRP | 20/06/20 01:40 AM |
| 2 | Social Anxiety, Low Self-Esteem and DatingYeah , it’s rough, sometimes you just gotta read the signs and flow of the date. Don’t push for sex unless she is in your crib already , if you’re outside then just focus on having fun, making out and leaving her want more. Don’t stress too hard. Hit her up like next week and try to set up date 2, if it’s a no then it’s a no. No time lost. Don’t expect anything from anyone. This is the hard part for some because then they take it personal when their expectations aren’t fulfilled Good look on you… | /r/askTRP | 19/06/20 05:03 PM |
| 10 | Would you tolerate porn use by your LTR?Let her watch her porn bro. Come on. What’s next ? Telling her to not watch her Netflix shows ? Cop some sex toys and get kinky with her. Watch porn with her. Enjoy yourself. | /r/askTRP | 19/06/20 04:05 PM |
| 5 | How do you deal with job rejection?Yeah bro I feel you. Right now I’m 23 and I’m in some job that isn’t really for the bills cause I live at home but I know that i can’t get too comfortable here cause the salary just isn’t enough. I wish you the best in your success journey | /r/askTRP | 19/06/20 12:50 PM |
| 5 | How do you deal with job rejection?You got a couple options: Either think to yourself that that job wasn’t meant for you. You just don’t qualify for the job or the company already knew who they wanted (connections, etc). Don’t take it personal. Keep your head down and keep applying. For now while you’re in between jobs I’d do some amazon work , Uber Eats , etc. Coronavirus knocked a lot of heads off track. At 26 I know you’re definitely feeling some pressure, just keep moving forward | /r/askTRP | 19/06/20 12:30 PM |
| 5 | Just got with the “you really think it’s wise to meet in the middle of a pandemic?” Shit test. Any suggestions on how to tackle this guys?Too much text. You aren’t bargaining with her. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/20 05:07 PM |
| 15 | What does genuine desire from women look like?This is the one boys. If you’ve never had any of these things listed then you haven’t known genuine desire from a woman. It’s nice. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/20 12:01 PM |
| 3 | Social Anxiety, Low Self-Esteem and DatingYo I got a potential date on Saturday too. I’ve been broken up with my girl for 4 months and finally am Getting back out there. I am afraid lowkey that I might not be enough for this girl , but I’m going to go in there and try to make shit work bro. Don’t go into the dates with an already defeated mindset. Try to go in thinking that this girl is BLESSED that you’re spending time with her when you can be doing a 100 other things with your time. Bring a bottle of wine and some cups to each date so… | /r/askTRP | 18/06/20 01:37 AM |
| 1 | Unfollowing ex and removing her from following me on social media, no need to orbit her there or have her anyway.Good shit bro,‘I’ve been wanting to do this for a while but I haven’t done it. I keep her there cause she views all my stories , every single one, I just don’t look at her stuff. I don’t know what im accomplishing to be honest but I’m not ready to let go. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/20 01:19 AM |
| 4 | Social Anxiety, Low Self-Esteem and DatingNah homie, push for fun but definitely also push for at least the kiss toward the end of the date. Your ex was wrong for cheating. Hope you recover well , but 3 dates in one weekend bro .. that’s some elite shit. Have fun. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/20 01:17 AM |
| 14 | Girls who continue texting after setting a dateShe might just be trying to get comfortable with you before meeting a stranger for a date. My ex did this before our date and as long as she is the one initiating and chasing then it should be all good. Just be flirty and use amused mastery in your responses, space them out as you should be busy , etc. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/20 05:32 PM |
| 1 | found a girl for first tieLoll lead her to your place - don’t say come let’s fuck, say let’s chill or come have a drink with me here. maybe have a drink or two , kiss her , touch her, bring her to your room (grab her hand and walk to your room), kiss her , take off her clothes , kiss her and her body ... Do what you want. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/20 02:57 PM |
| 1 | found a girl for first tieFirst things first relax. Shes just a girl, she can’t kill you or do any serious damage to you. So don’t be scared. If she is down to hang with you , then I’m gonna assume she likes you. Just play it cool. There are good first date tips in the sidebar or if you just search in the search bar first date , you’ll prob be able to find some advice. If you want to smash then make sure wherever you take her is close to your place so you can transition back to your spot. - gotta say some slick shit like… | /r/askTRP | 17/06/20 02:48 PM |
| 1 | A good plate vented a shopping list of red flags to me and I can't quite come to terms with how easy it was for her to withhold it all in the first place..Lmfaoooo odee | /r/askTRP | 17/06/20 01:35 PM |
| 1 | 2 plates, they know each other we end up at the same party. Not down for threesome and ask who I'm going home with. WTF to do?Fire | /r/askTRP | 17/06/20 12:54 AM |
| 6 | A good plate vented a shopping list of red flags to me and I can't quite come to terms with how easy it was for her to withhold it all in the first place..Imagine if you had LTR’d her 2 months in. This is WHY vetting for months is very very important. I made a mistake of LTRing in 2 months and found out in 6 that my ex girl was diagnosed with depression and anxiety and was taking pills for it. Already emotionally invested :/ Good shit | /r/askTRP | 17/06/20 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Is it normal to think about your ex everyday even though you don’t want her back?Word. I know my ex isn’t really anything special. She’s lowkey just damaged goods. To be honest , I kind of dodged a bullet. My only mistake was improper vetting and emotionally investing. If it wasn’t for that I wouldn’t care | /r/askTRP | 16/06/20 11:33 PM |
| 4 | Is it normal to think about your ex everyday even though you don’t want her back?It’s not that. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/20 10:38 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with LTR make friend?Just don’t show weakness. Play nice at dinner. Do whatever you want, but don’t fear losing your girl, she ain’t going anywhere. Once you start fearing , shit will be GG. Don’t mateguard. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/20 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Is it normal to think about your ex everyday even though you don’t want her back?Just hopped onto to trp to see if I could find the answer to this. For the last 4 months I’ve lowkey wanted to just hit up my ex and work things out and my boys have only just recently gave me the idea to hit her up and see what’s good. But now that I’m thinking about it, I don’t really know what hitting her up will do for me. If we got back together I don’t think it would make me happy long term. Maybe for the short term ego boost but besides that. I think about her a lot and obsess about her ,… | /r/askTRP | 16/06/20 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Calling a girlWord. I care about this girl so I can’t relate to 1 even though I essentially only do want one thing lmao But I like 2 a lot. I don’t want to give her the chance to wait like 3-4 hours to respond or anything like that or even potentially leave me on seen. Ik I gotta be outcome independent and have no expectations but that shit stings. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/20 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Calling a girlSo you wouldn’t even bother with the hey how are you text ? Nice username by the way - that scene had me so shook | /r/askTRP | 16/06/20 04:03 PM |
| 29 | Deep height insecuritiesI’m 5’8... I stand tall and could care less about my height. I made the average at least and am taller than most women. My father is like 6’ something and my little Brother is taller than me. I couldn’t care less. I work on my body and demeanor. And let that speak for itself. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/20 08:07 PM |
| 2 | how to go about this shit test(?) with girlfriend..Do not try to change her. You just got what you wanted. You used dread well and have her worrying about you. Listen to the other commenters for the response. My ex rarely showed affection through text and it got me tight on the regular, you can’t change her, if it gets you mad then just dip. It’s just you being needy, you’re over valuing her in your head and you want your ego stroked. Bad place to be, I know from experience. Fuck your ego , just continue to get your dick stroked tbh. Implement m… | /r/askTRP | 15/06/20 07:16 PM |
| 3 | Insecurity in a relationship is asking to be broken up with.How do you recover from this ? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/20 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Feeling hopefulI wanted to react on my own terms though. Instead of a negative reaction , I turned it positive (hopefully). You’re right tho bro, every where I turn people are saying its best to just move on from exes. I’m aware that I have the potential to do “better” and live a better lifestyle, but I wanted to take her along for the ride. It sucks , I feel like I’m not moving on , I’m just giving up. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/20 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Is this shit fact?And what do you think she wants from me ? | /r/askTRP | 15/06/20 03:56 AM |
| 1 | i don't love myself and i don't want to love myself. how do i want to love myself? i know how to love myself but i don't know how to want to love myself (no homo)Therapy might be the way for this bro. I love myself but there are times I feel not worthy of love. It’s weird. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/20 03:42 AM |
| 13 | What things would be the most damaging to a girls ego?Yeah not being able to cum during sex. They think it’s them. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/20 12:46 AM |
| 16 | Can being too hard on yourself to be successful cause depression?Feel it often bro. All I want to do is be the best version of myself that I feel a 24/7 pressure to be doing something productive. Makes me a bit depressed. I feel like I have to be perfect even though that’s not really possible. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/20 12:36 AM |
| 2 | I feel like I’m bound in chains to my current reality. What can I do?Patience is a virtue. Good shit on having plans. Some of us are out here clueless. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/20 11:54 PM |
| 1 | I feel like I’m bound in chains to my current reality. What can I do?What do you think would make you happy? | /r/askTRP | 14/06/20 11:50 PM |
| 3 | Really struggling after ending it with my LTR of two years...Facts bro , men have feelings too. Idgaf how “alpha” you are. This shit is not fun. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/20 11:31 PM |
| 1 | Really struggling after ending it with my LTR of two years...Your situation is better than mine. I think I showed way too much weakness in the end. She started drinking with her coworkers and adding them on social media and stuff. Because we were in a LDR I wasn’t comfortable with all of that and tried to explain that to her. She called me controlling and got real mad. Then she asked for a step back, trp says when a girl does this the relationship is over essentially. So I had to just break up with her when she reached out, but I had a feeling she might’v… | /r/askTRP | 14/06/20 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Really struggling after ending it with my LTR of two years...Struggling too bro. I don’t have any advice cause I honestly don’t know what to say. To be honest, I’ve really been playing with the idea of going back to my ex. I know that, that isn’t advised, but to be honest. I was a lot more happier and content with my partner than how I am now. Regardless of self improvement. I don’t know. Grass is ALWAYS greener. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/20 11:07 PM |
| 3 | How do you guys move on from post relationship regret?Emotional connection sex will always be 100 percent better than emotionless sex with random women to some degree in my opinion. When I was with my ex , I took a break after a while to pipe new girls , I piped 2 and although I had an I’ll ego boost i was not happy because those girls were not my girl and I genuinely cared for my girl. When you fuck your favorite plate or ltr i think it’s just a better high / experience. It’s the oxy, dopamine and extra serotonin at once. That’s y you keep compari… | /r/askTRP | 14/06/20 02:36 AM |
| 2 | How do you guys move on from post relationship regret?Then you drive your shitty car until you can afford the latest model. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/20 02:30 AM |
| 24 | What’s the most beta shit you’ve ever done/said to a girl?Lmao , I could never bro | /r/askTRP | 13/06/20 08:15 PM |
| 2 | How the hell can I still be kind and at the same time be dispassionate towards bitches?!Yo bro it’s best to just be that cool guy they know than purposely friend zoning yourself. Just in case you change your mind | /r/askTRP | 12/06/20 05:08 PM |
| 1 | What would you guys actually do if you financially "made it"?This is it | /r/askTRP | 12/06/20 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Having hard time getting over relationshipSorry this had to happen to you bro. It’s gonna hurt for a while if you genuinely cared about your girl. If you’re new to the red pill check out the light switch effect article - you can search for it in the search bar and it is also on the asktrp sidebar which you should now probably read. It sucks homie to be honest. Grieve and take the time. Keep finessing new girls, if that helps. Keep distracted. Write your feelings out in a journal, cry and let it out. The feelings pass , they come and go.… | /r/askTRP | 10/06/20 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Tinder openingsNah bro got left on delivered lmao | /r/askTRP | 09/06/20 01:50 PM |
| -1 | She won't cook?Bro , cop a carton of eggs and some bacon and make breakfast with her. Teach her how to make something simple and see where it goes from there. But yeah don’t ltr | /r/askTRP | 09/06/20 02:11 AM |
| 1 | Is it normal to start out your rotation with not so cute plates, only options i have right now is chubby girls or 5s to 7s max. Is this normal to start out like this?What ever gets the ball rolling | /r/askTRP | 08/06/20 06:29 PM |
| 13 | What I wish I knew: An Open Letter to Our Teenage AudienceYou’re a young man now boss. Definitely not a teenager. Get to it. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/20 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Can you marry a former prostitute who did prostitution to give money to her poor family and sick father even tho she hated it Or she gets the same treatment as the average western girl who ride the CC with their own will and choice despite that there is no need for them to do that?Then that’s good. If you are sure that is the only reason that you are doing it. You made it seem like you were doing it for her love from your post. She isn’t garbage, she is a human being. I can’t explain it to you. You have to read the sidebar and read the rationale male to see why everyone is being harsh. I don’t know the girl and I don’t know the circumstances bro. You gave us a little info and we are just telling you what we think. You have to form your own opinions. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/20 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Can you marry a former prostitute who did prostitution to give money to her poor family and sick father even tho she hated it Or she gets the same treatment as the average western girl who ride the CC with their own will and choice despite that there is no need for them to do that?Word at least the pops is real. Anyways though bro. I know you want to have purpose in your life and save this girl but again I don’t know if this is a good deal long term. Sometimes we have to do things we don’t want to in order to grow. It’s not your job to pay for this. It’s your job to take care of yourself and your future family. What would you and how would you feel if once her father is well , she left you ? | /r/askTRP | 08/06/20 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Can you marry a former prostitute who did prostitution to give money to her poor family and sick father even tho she hated it Or she gets the same treatment as the average western girl who ride the CC with their own will and choice despite that there is no need for them to do that?Just spoke to my boy about this, he wants to know if you have even met her father ? | /r/askTRP | 08/06/20 02:18 PM |
| 3 | What to do when ex-LTR is blowing up my phone?People don’t know what they have until it’s gone. It’s a very real statement. And yeah bro if you have broken up before this as wel. It might be time to call it quits. Life is complicated. I’m 23 and just out of my First relationship and tbh Young people aren’t ready for commitment. It’s a lot and times have changed so much. Shit is rough. Good luck. Let her down easy I guess. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/20 02:07 PM |
| 7 | Can you marry a former prostitute who did prostitution to give money to her poor family and sick father even tho she hated it Or she gets the same treatment as the average western girl who ride the CC with their own will and choice despite that there is no need for them to do that?Not even from a red pill lens bro. From a psychological lens as well, it will prob be tough to pair bond with you. I don’t think this is a good deal. Read the rationale male when you have some time over the next couple of days. You are a young man , who is getting better every month and every year. She is a 27 year old woman who’s looks will fade in time. Bro she may not have wanted to do the prostitution and that sucks ode bro. But I don’t think this is a good deal. I can speak from an outside … | /r/askTRP | 08/06/20 02:02 PM |
| 4 | Ex porn addicts, how did you quit porn?I like this | /r/askTRP | 08/06/20 01:41 PM |
| 12 | Can you marry a former prostitute who did prostitution to give money to her poor family and sick father even tho she hated it Or she gets the same treatment as the average western girl who ride the CC with their own will and choice despite that there is no need for them to do that?Your mistake was falling in love deeply. It happens to the best of us so it’s okay, especially since you’re so young. But boss, this girl was literally a cum dumpster for money. You not uncomfortable actually kissing this girl. Guys make the mistake of forgiving girls waay to often for their pasts - my ex girl deadass told me she was just looking for love when I displayed that I was a little disgusted with some of her history. In my head I was like I guess, but it’s still a red flag. This should… | /r/askTRP | 08/06/20 01:37 PM |
| 4 | What to do when ex-LTR is blowing up my phone?What do you want to do ? Take her back and give it another go or say nah I’m good and continue doing whatever it is that you are doing now ? | /r/askTRP | 08/06/20 01:28 PM |
| 7 | Can you be “somebody” without social media these days? I don’t like following herds and using SM to show off and compare myself with othersIt’s addictive and wack to be honest. The ill time waster, but it’s addictive. Just post your stuff and delete the app from your phone if you must. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/20 03:25 PM |
| 3 | Cut or uncut?Don’t cut it. Most of the pleasure you get it from your sensitive foreskin. Make sure to keep things clean tho | /r/askTRP | 07/06/20 03:23 PM |
| 1 | How to be more lowkeyWhy y’all lowkey on his dick. If the mans want to be mysterious why not just put him on. Being lowkey means just that bro. Don’t be an open book. Keep your interactions short and purposeful. Continue to go to the gym and improve but don’t be a butterfly with the shits, keep it hidden and then shine when you’re ready to show it off. Like during the winters for example , you wear layers and no one can see anyone’s goods , but then when summer pulls up you show your new body and shit and people are… | /r/askTRP | 07/06/20 12:29 AM |
| 0 | LTR cancelled hang out but still went to protest in her hometownHonestly bro. I think everyone is bugging out. She said she wasn’t feeling good. Probably a way to get out of driving an hour to you or as a way to go to the protest to take pics with her friends and post on social media and be there too creating change. She probably called to check in and let you know what she did before she posted anything just in case cause you’d obviously be tight af that she cancelled the plans for this. So now that you know , you technically can’t get mad. Regardless , I d… | /r/askTRP | 06/06/20 11:38 PM |
| 1 | LTR cancelled hang out but still went to protest in her hometownI don’t know about break up entirely, but a good soft next to get her chasing after you is the move | /r/askTRP | 06/06/20 11:23 PM |
| 1 | How to cope with this?Don’t compare yourself to a woman. They automatically have abundance. You have to work earn the sex you get by taking action. I’ve gotten lucky sometimes but I’ve always had to initiate and take action. If you’re short, you’re gonna have to lift. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/20 10:30 PM |
| 2 | What is some key advice you would offer a 17 year old?Study and finesse the fuck out of your SATs. Do NOT slack on that test. It is very important to get into a good college. Start working out from now, either wake up early and get to the gym before school and eat throughout the day or eat throughout the day and make sure you go to the gym afterschool. THE GYM IS IMPORTANT FOR A YOUNG MAN, you will thank yourself in the years to come. If you have any crushes or anything like that, shoot your shot, its the last year of high school. Once you're out, … | /r/askTRP | 06/06/20 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Massive sudden increase in SMV, but can't quite adapt mentallyWhere did you go and where are you from ? | /r/askTRP | 06/06/20 03:56 AM |
| 1 | Taking pussy off the pedestalFacts bro. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/20 03:53 AM |
| 1 | Why am I so jealous in LTR?Yeah she has no choice but to perform and rock your world, cause If she doesn’t you will obviously leave OR she thinks you will leave. Would you leave if she started getting wack? Cause the longer you stay , the more that shit can trap you. You’re addicted to the feelings and maybe even like being needed. Maybe this girl and her son is now your purpose. It’s up to you how you want to live bro. I’m just giving you the trp perspective cause we’re on trp. Just be careful with your heart and don’t b… | /r/askTRP | 06/06/20 02:15 AM |
| 1 | Severe oneitis about ex. I've taken huge steps to recover super quickly and the feeling is not going away. Just becoming worse.Yup bro , she isn’t yours , it was just your turn. - the roughest trp principle for me to swallow, but at the end of the day. This sums it up. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/20 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Why am I so jealous in LTR?Even more manipulation. Bro when my ex cried I always ended up apologizing for something I felt strong about. The tears and weak woman shit is how they got their dads to stop at McDonald’s and get them ice cream back in the day. Now they do it to men. It isn’t easy in the moment cause I fell for that shit a couple times but for real. When shit starts to hit the fan or gets too serious. You put yourself first. You don’t get a trophy For putting her and/or her son ahead of you. Society tells men t… | /r/askTRP | 06/06/20 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Why am I so jealous in LTR?This is the problem. If she was up front from the very very beginning about the kid then okay. My girl didn’t tell till 6 months later that she had anxiety and depression and was taking pills for it. They get you attached first and then drop the biggest red flag but by then it’s like ... nah I like her , I can do this because you are already emotionally invested. Logic > heart Be careful could you end up getting used very harsh. Do not marry, cause the kid can potentially become yours in the cou… | /r/askTRP | 06/06/20 01:54 AM |
| 3 | Severe oneitis about ex. I've taken huge steps to recover super quickly and the feeling is not going away. Just becoming worse.I feel you on this shit heavy. Giving your girls value and then they think they are the shit because you helped them get up there , when in reality their lives are wack af. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/20 01:39 AM |
| 2 | Severe oneitis about ex. I've taken huge steps to recover super quickly and the feeling is not going away. Just becoming worse.Yeah bro highkey, if you hop on social media and show off your new girls and how much you’re enjoying your new life without her that may make her reach out. But it’s not worth it to be honest. Being ghosted is a very wack way to end a relationship. I know you may love her and stuff but idk if I could forgive something like that. | /r/askTRP | 06/06/20 12:18 AM |
| 4 | Severe oneitis about ex. I've taken huge steps to recover super quickly and the feeling is not going away. Just becoming worse.Loll it depends on how much you emotionally invested to be honest. Plus being okay giving up the investment. I was with her for 1.5 years and 1 year of it was long distance where we would plan trips to see each other. We FaceTimed and texted a lot. MY MISTAKE, but I genuinely liked the girl and when we got together it was very good. I looked forward to the visits as well. It was a big oxytocin and dopamine comfort relationship. I still miss the comfort, she was like my best friend. I just turned… | /r/askTRP | 06/06/20 12:08 AM |
| 5 | Severe oneitis about ex. I've taken huge steps to recover super quickly and the feeling is not going away. Just becoming worse.This is facts. I idealize my ex even to this day and it is very unhealthy because in reality IT IS IN FACT an illusion. We also tend to want what we can’t have. For now and maybe forever just use your brain instead of your heart. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/20 11:42 PM |
| 17 | Severe oneitis about ex. I've taken huge steps to recover super quickly and the feeling is not going away. Just becoming worse.It’s gonna take a while. Broke up with my ex 4 months ago, the harsh feelings faze out with time but some thoughts linger. Good shit with the plates. I Haven’t been able to finesse for a while. You’re doing good, give it time , don’t make same mistake. Meaningless sex is meaningless. Emotional sex however is crack | /r/askTRP | 05/06/20 11:25 PM |
| 2 | Taking pussy off the pedestalSure, I won't live and die for puusy. But I would like some pussy bro lmao. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/20 09:08 PM |
| 2 | Did I lose frame ?Bro relax. If she throws up a story of you on IG its not the end of the world. She's showing you off. Its a very good thing. Keep doing what you're doing. Cuddling after sex is nice. Enjoy the warm moments. Just don't start thinking she's your mom or friend and confiding in her on some bitch shit. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/20 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Do you call LTR when she’s distant ?When they pull away, it is best to pull away as well and let them come back to you. If you start trying to reel her in then it is only going to make her leave more. It's rough, go do something interesting/high value to take your mind off it. Like hiking or some shit. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/20 06:50 PM |
| 2 | I said fuck trp and decided to go with the flow of life. Now I’m in a weird position with slight oneitis.You weren’t afraid to lose her and you had an older woman in the apt who wanted you. You were viewed very well. Now you let her go and be free and woman automatically have abundance, you’re still her alpha and maybe she is an alpha widow now, but that shit can change if you start ACTNG beta. Just keep an abundance mindset to be honest. I know it’s easier said than done but don’t ever show insecurity to her again. Don’t ever bring up any guy she is seeing and what they are doing. It’s only just y… | /r/askTRP | 05/06/20 11:52 AM |
| 1 | What’s your favorite fictional character?Don Draper | /r/askTRP | 05/06/20 01:07 AM |
| 2 | Getting over "crazy hot pussy" [serious]this is the illest facts bro. shit really is the wackest thing when you get attached to them. | /r/askTRP | 04/06/20 07:33 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop being a drunktard?I'm 23 too homie. I feel you heavy on the drinking and jerking off. Although I don't recommend those things I do crack open a tall boy from time to time and bust a nut before i sleep. IF you're gonna continue to do those things just also make sure you work out and eat well to before you start your drinking. Just get as many self improvement things done before you start | /r/askTRP | 04/06/20 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Need a little encouragementFacts, it didn't end that well. And I've been in very little contact with her after the break up. The last contact we had was when I posted a story on IG about a month ago that included a plate that I had. I was still using her netflix at the time and she sent a text later that specific night telling me to log off her family's netflix. I didn't respond because I felt as if she was trying to hurt me because she was clearly hurt from seeing the IG story (she also deleted most of our couple pics of… | /r/askTRP | 04/06/20 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Need a little encouragementYou're right though as well, reaching out will set me back a bit. I need to let the emotions pass and not give in. Shit is just so fucking wack. What makes you think she forgot about me? | /r/askTRP | 04/06/20 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Why did I have to be born so ugly to the point where I can’t get any women?How bad do you want it? | /r/askTRP | 04/06/20 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Why did I have to be born so ugly to the point where I can’t get any women?Yo bro to be honest, I know one kid who is actually mad ugly. And he owns that shit and makes it his brand. He’s had his fair share of lays and has had a couple girlfriends. It really is about confidence and frame. The “ugliness” may not get you IOIs or your foot in the door but if you push yourself hard athletically and get your fashion up. Get some good cologne and all that. You could do decent. My boy is also mad tall so that may have something to do with it but still go hard. What choice do … | /r/askTRP | 04/06/20 02:19 AM |
| 1 | When plates start guilt tripping I always fold .Yeah and just stay strong and be willing to lose girls. Outcome independence >> | /r/askTRP | 03/06/20 02:02 AM |
| 2 | When plates start guilt tripping I always fold .I don’t have too much advice cause I had this stupid ass moment of weakness when I was like I don’t want meaningless sex and then I ltr’d my favorite plate. It was fun for a while but with the feelings shit turned into a constant game of holding onto her and being alpha, until eventually you fuck up. If you truly want to keep going with the plates then just know in your heart not to accept any form of exclusivity and be willing to lose any girl. Be selfish, they are only thinking about themselve… | /r/askTRP | 03/06/20 01:45 AM |
| 1 | When plates start guilt tripping I always fold .Was just curious. I’m 23 also. | /r/askTRP | 03/06/20 01:42 AM |
| 1 | When plates start guilt tripping I always fold .How old are you | /r/askTRP | 03/06/20 01:13 AM |
| 2 | Tinder openingsWe’ll see if she responds. I just kept it a buck and opened with: You look like the type of girl id take acid with | /r/askTRP | 03/06/20 01:00 AM |
| 9 | Is it ok to lose v to an not so attractive girl?Just don’t get a std. smash whoever | /r/askTRP | 03/06/20 12:29 AM |
| 3 | LTR sometimes doesn't text for whole day?You need her more than she needs you. Switch the dynamic n be the one that doesn’t text. | /r/askTRP | 03/06/20 12:29 AM |
| 5 | Most epic rejection stories4 years ago I once took a 2 hour train ride to ask my high school oneitis to be my gf. We haven’t even had sex or anything and it would’ve been long distance cause I was also just on a short vacation from school. She said no and I was so hurt. Now I understand why she said no and she was right to say no. But in the moment I was very very hurt yo. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/20 11:14 PM |
| 8 | FWB wants to go exclusive. Need help deciding what to doIt’s rough. Here’s the thing homie. If you are her BEST option she will be exclusive to you without you saying anything or establishing anything. So like someone else said , fuck her well, lift and always be improving and flexing on her. Don’t ever act weak, always be doing cool shit, etc. and most important , keep your other girls and treat them alll the same. Oneitis is very wack bro. It’s hard to not catch but it’s in you to have self control. Enjoy yourself but don’t become tooo attached. Or… | /r/askTRP | 02/06/20 10:35 PM |
| 19 | FWB wants to go exclusive. Need help deciding what to doDon’t become exclusive unless you want to. Don’t let her dictate anything and don’t be afraid to lose her, that is how you keep her. No funny shit. Be careful who you give your heart too. That exclusive shit is how oneitis starts. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/20 09:41 PM |
| 3 | How to deal with LTRs male friend ?No matter what you do just DO NOT mateguard or your relationship is clipped. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/20 08:59 PM |
| 5 | Being much weaker than the 20 year olds at my gym is making me really want to quit. What should I do?Alot of people in the comments already are telling you to stop comparing yourself to others. Just use that shit as motivation and be happy for them. Fuck yeah, they are lifting more weight, be proud of the men around you that are grinding in the gym. When you're at the gym in between sets its normal to look around and see what everyone else is doing, but those heads dont really matter, they all got their own journeys and shit. You gotta look yourself in the eye in the mirror and lift that weight… | /r/askTRP | 02/06/20 02:42 PM |
| 77 | Girlfriend of a year and a half broke up with me over text, started hoeing around immediatelySadly OP. Uncle Vas is spitting the facts. You’re gonna hurt a lot and it sucks. But you need to FOCUS on your self and stop worrying about her. It’s rough but you have no choice but to move forward now. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/20 03:18 AM |
| 2 | can you ever ignore red flags?Wow, that’s a very analogy | /r/askTRP | 02/06/20 03:02 AM |
| 1 | People who lost their V in their 20s, what all did you do for self improvement and how's your life now?I don’t do as much as I should , but right now i have this st Ives green tea face scrub I use to wash my face when I shower and before I go to sleep sometimes. Then I use these pads and toner that my ex showed me that closes the pores that i opened up from Washing and cleaning my face. / you could also just use cold water to close your pores if you don’t want to use toner. Then I moisturize my face using this neutrogena face cream. It’s a little something to keep my face clean and free of acne s… | /r/askTRP | 01/06/20 07:52 PM |
| 5 | I'm a fat fuck and I cant fucking keep my mouth shut. [21M;186cm;93kg]Bro it doesn’t matter what program you do. Cut your daily calories down to 1200 and get your ass to work. You’re a young man. You should be on your athletic shit. Start jogging around your block, get a jump rope and get to work until the gyms are open. Today is the first day of the rest of your life. Turn off the tv, put down the sprite and get to work homie. You’re a man. Don’t waste this opportunity. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/20 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Best Way to Handle Music Festival?Where is this music festival? | /r/askTRP | 01/06/20 06:38 PM |
| 20 | People who lost their V in their 20s, what all did you do for self improvement and how's your life now?Work out hard from here on out, take care of your skin, get your clothes on point. Always dress for the occasion well. Get some nice cologne. When you catch negative thoughts just dismiss them - it’s just you thinking that. Practice positive affirmations. Success won’t come over night , you have to enjoy the little W’s here and there. Just enjoy yourself no matter what. Don’t waste too much time in self pity. If you’re in college , join a frat or a sport - kickboxing. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/20 03:39 PM |
| 2 | why should I even work: need adviceYou get one life to be your definition of great. At least try. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/20 02:00 PM |
| 0 | What are some red pill truths that even most trp'ers won't swallowSo how do we win? | /r/askTRP | 01/06/20 08:03 AM |
| 1 | What are some red pill truths that even most trp'ers won't swallowWhat do you mean? | /r/askTRP | 01/06/20 04:35 AM |
| 2 | How to answer booty call text that I missed ?This is an elite post. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/20 05:13 PM |
| 1 | How toThank you bro for real, for the advice and the coaching. I’d like to think I’ve internalized red pill thinking but there definitely is a bit (a lot) of blue pill in there. The switch up really is not overnight. Appreciate it heavy. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/20 04:47 PM |
| 2 | How toLoll facts bro | /r/askTRP | 31/05/20 04:30 PM |
| 1 | How toFacts you’re right bro, walks and food is how she can get her attention and then can just dip home without putting out. And yeah no bf vibes. What if I’ve taken her on “dates”’before, do you think that I’m 100p locked in as orbiter now, even though I smashed like once last year. I’m 23 and she is 20. Yeah I’m thinking about taking your advice and telling her I’m going to get the hotel room just so she knows what can happen. Instead of the hotel room being a surprise, I’ll be like I have a differ… | /r/askTRP | 31/05/20 04:26 PM |
| 3 | I broke up with LTR now she’s contacting me again and I feel guiltyThese feelings are normal. Best to just not respond and leave it alone for now if you are done. But just know that women change their minds fast. If you truly don’t want her back then leave it alone, but if you want to try to salvage it, you can try but it is going to be rough and idk how worth it. I’m pretty sure she understands what happens now if she doesn’t comply. I don’t have the experience with this to give you concrete advice tho. Regardless she was not yours, it was just your turn. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/20 11:09 AM |
| 1 | How toFacts bro. I’m gonna have to be 100p confident in these actions. Thank you for the words and the direction. I was gonna take her for a walk, maybe get some food before the hotel and then be like i got the surprise ready. But it probably is just a better idea to do the hotel first and get business done first. I told her it would be a surprise, probably not my best move. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/20 10:47 AM |
| 1 | How toIf she isn’t feeling it then, I honestly have no idea what to say. The only thing that could stop it really is the boyfriend - which is why I’m wondering what the move is. I know I need to get her to feel really good. I was gonna play it like we can chill in the hotel room, smoke, drink and chill calmly without any pressure. And you know , if I end up with my dick in her , things just happened. Want to give her plausible deniability. Going to try to get the cash in hand before I reserve it. Gonn… | /r/askTRP | 31/05/20 04:38 AM |
| 9 | “Do you always text dry like this”Don’t respond | /r/askTRP | 31/05/20 04:31 AM |
| 1 | How toThe plan is a “surprise” at the moment. I am going to take her to a hotel (that we are going to split) and see what the vibes are. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/20 04:24 AM |
| 1 | How toYou’re right | /r/askTRP | 31/05/20 02:23 AM |
| 1 | How toGood looks. Will refrain from bf talk, any idea what to do if she brings him up? Should I just ignore and immediately change subject? Def gonna need to hold frame. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/20 02:15 AM |
| 1 | How toI don’t. I want to make it so that way in the moment she doesn’t as well. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/20 02:14 AM |
| 1 | How toBecause we have a little history, her bf is now long distance and I made plans with her. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/20 02:09 AM |
| 1 | How toWhat sidebar material ? I’ve been rereading it. Frame? Shit tests? Or is there actually a how to smash a girl with a bf article ? | /r/askTRP | 31/05/20 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Carefree lifestyle... is that just a fantasy?Elite. I hope you get to travel bro | /r/askTRP | 31/05/20 01:39 AM |
| 2 | Tinder GoldWord, good looks for the heads up. Happy to hear you’re doing good homie. Keep going | /r/askTRP | 30/05/20 11:40 PM |
| 6 | Girls says she can’t hangout tomorrow. I ask why. Her response: because I won’t talk to her.No don’t explain anything to her. It may be a shit test or comfort test. Just something along the lines of ... I’m busy. (I be busy) Make her feel weird for needing your attention so badly. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/20 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Is the whole "then she never loved you in the first place" thing true?Hope you recover well boss | /r/askTRP | 30/05/20 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Difference being masculine and nice vs beta and getting pushed aroundI like this. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/20 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Is your fate predetermined by your genetics/environment?Is that book a good book? How did it help you? | /r/askTRP | 30/05/20 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Any recommended RP tv show?This is the best one. Rewatched it like 5 times. It’s a beautiful show | /r/askTRP | 30/05/20 12:42 AM |
| 0 | Where did I fuck up?Yo to be honest I am not sure how you’re gonna finesse that. She may see you as a friend or an orbiter. If you haven’t already You can leave that text alone for like 2 days and then return to it. Don’t acknowledge that message. Just start a new convo and try to get her out on a second date. Hey How you doing I’m taking dog out to the beach again or dog park , come keep my company. Make your move on the beach. Don’t agree to friendship tho or the game is over. Game May already be over. It’s no bi… | /r/askTRP | 30/05/20 12:36 AM |
| 2 | It's very complicated to find a HIGH QUALITY girl with no red flags ?Sounds a lot like me ex. BUT your missing a couple flags - my ex has anxiety and depression and was taking pills for it. It was an alright time, but not the best time . | /r/askTRP | 29/05/20 11:52 PM |
| 3 | question: first night of sexFacts @ Don’t get attached ^ | /r/askTRP | 29/05/20 11:44 PM |
| 3 | question: first night of sexYou’re chilling bro. Just see where it goes. Enjoy your turn. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/20 11:43 PM |
| 5 | Where did I fuck up?Damn bro, you hesitated and didn’t take action. You know where you fucked up. You could held her hand on the beach walk. You could’ve also just kissed her mouth when she was in your crib or you could’ve kiss her mouth when you dropped her off. There is no magical moment for these things l, they have to be spontaneous and with intent. If a girl ever enters a room alone with you or is in your crib , you need to create a setting where you are face to face and you just put your index finger under ch… | /r/askTRP | 29/05/20 11:37 PM |
| 3 | Oneitis coming backThis is good stuff | /r/askTRP | 28/05/20 04:50 AM |
| -5 | How to respond to this ?“I don’t think about you at all” -Don Draper | /r/askTRP | 28/05/20 03:30 AM |
| 2 | In your experience, how has the pandemic been affecting marriages and relationships? For positive or negative?Yup LTRs and all the emotions really do be blinding. Good luck. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/20 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Severe oneitis, can't seem to focus on my hobbies and can't game other girls because of lockdownBro she just deleted the app to help her mental health. Take this time to work on yourself and chill. When she gets back on the app (maybe). You’ll have to something to talk about instead of OMG I missed you so much, don’t leave me again. Homie it is one hundred percent normal to feel like shit , but make sure you feel like shit and put yourself to work. Don’t just be sad and not do anything. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/20 01:20 AM |
| 1 | Help with a responseNah don’t explain why you didn’t reply. Just say “there was nothing for me to say”. Or what the EC said, must’ve forgetten. Just treat her like she’s weird for sending that weird text. Anyways, I’m a big believer now of “play stupid games , win stupid prizes”. She played a very stupid game bringing that guy to the event and sending that text. Just finesse bro, handle it well. Also just because she said you two won’t fuck again , doesn’t mean shit. If the logistics are right, you can make it happ… | /r/askTRP | 27/05/20 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Help with a responseIt’s better to deal with it in person and be like it’s no big deal. Just do not respond to that text. You have to know when not to. It’s a very important lesson. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/20 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Help with a responseNah bro , don’t text. Take some time to think about that one for real. Just soft next for now. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/20 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Bitched out todayFacts I even pictured/visualized how I would look if I got up and start talking to them as I was sitting there... but I still didn’t get up. I just didn’t want to be judged or rejected tbh. It’s been a while , I now remember how much regret stings. Not gonna let it happen again. I’m gonna try this next time. Thanks | /r/askTRP | 27/05/20 12:14 AM |
| 1 | I'm meeting with an ex-plate this weekMeet her near her crib , have some wine in plastic cups near some nature or some shit and then try to invite yourself in. “Can I use your bathroom” | /r/askTRP | 26/05/20 03:40 AM |
| 3 | How do you accept defeat?Accept what happened: you broke up with you gf. Don’t idealize it though and say you were defeated boss. It’s highkey about the mindset you have, try to change some of your thoughts - you won , now that (non perfect) girl is his problem, hope he enjoys MY left overs and the taste of my cum. You also gotta stop focusing on her and focus on yourself and how you’re gonna level up and bag a bitch that’s badder than her. In 10 years she’ll be ehh and you’ll still be bagging badder bitches then her IF… | /r/askTRP | 26/05/20 03:36 AM |
| 2 | Find my way in lifeYou’re doing great. Congrats on the first year. And you could pick up a basic sales job to start off for the summer or you could get your personal training license so you could train heads during the summer and during the semester as well. I’m 23 and out of school just last year and have my first job, but yeah I’m still looking for my way in life. Been thinking about getting a personal training licenses, however, I’m doing a little too much thinking and not enough getting. Loll Keep going. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/20 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Plate is losing interest. Hasn’t reached out to me in over a week. Should I call or text her to ask her why she is being dry?Of course she responds to those guys, it’s free attention and validation. Regret is worse then rejection. Do what you want bro. You know her best. If she likes you you’ll be fine | /r/askTRP | 25/05/20 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Plate is losing interest. Hasn’t reached out to me in over a week. Should I call or text her to ask her why she is being dry?You don’t have anything to lose. Just know that if she doesn’t respond you’re gonna wish you just didn’t text her, but you’ll get over that too. If she does respond then maybe you could get a meet or you give her free attention. At the end of the day it doesn’t matter. Just make sure that by the end of today you do 200-300 push-ups. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/20 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Plate is losing interest. Hasn’t reached out to me in over a week. Should I call or text her to ask her why she is being dry?Delete your tinder account and make a new one. Chase new girls. Definitely back off and let her come back to you maybe. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/20 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Men in your 40s - if you can turn back time, what do you wish you knew in your 30s?I like this list a lot. Especially H | /r/askTRP | 25/05/20 07:05 PM |
| 1 | I’m stuck please help me, this thought has been running through my head.Word. That’s calm. Yeah bro just enjoy yourself, continue being a player. Listen to the other guys too, let her ask for the exclusiveness. Definitely read a lot of the sidebar. It’s important. Read Women in Love and Men in Love. Read stuff about mateguarding, push/pull, etc. Good luck | /r/askTRP | 25/05/20 04:30 PM |
| 1 | I’m stuck please help me, this thought has been running through my head.My ex girl was on the pill and wasn’t a heavy bleeder so I fucked her while on period, I didn’t care. It’s up to you two tbh. She can always blow you if you don’t want to have sex if she is a heavy bleeder. How old are you? | /r/askTRP | 25/05/20 04:25 PM |
| 1 | I’m stuck please help me, this thought has been running through my head.Yeah homie. Then she will be what is a called friend with benefits, which is a step up from a plate. If she’s earned it in your head then boom. Definitely check out the sidebar a little more. Give it a good read - there’s a post called managing your bitches and mad other shit. Make sure to sleep with your other plates from time to time though, seriously don’t just give them up. This will keep you from really catching oneitis - it sounds like your starting to already get it. Be careful. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/20 04:20 PM |
| 3 | I’m stuck please help me, this thought has been running through my head.It’s cool, just try to stay a little detached. Enjoy the sex and the bonding of course, but don’t make this woman your mission or anything. Don’t be needy or any extra shit. Treat her like any other plate. Sleeping over can lead to morning sex, you can shower with her, make breakfast together - ENJOY yourself. But understand that she has every right to leave and never come back, be in control of your emotions always. (this could be next week or one year) | /r/askTRP | 25/05/20 04:14 PM |
| 5 | I’m stuck please help me, this thought has been running through my head.Dont go exclusive yet. Give it another 3 months. Enjoy what you have. Continue being her best option. If you give up your options now, she’ll be the only pussy you have n you will catch more than feelings. You’ll catch dependency. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/20 04:09 PM |
| 3 | I’m stuck please help me, this thought has been running through my head.How long have you known her? | /r/askTRP | 25/05/20 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Need advice, am an absolute wreck over LTR ignoring me.When you say LTR, what do you mean? Is this your exclusive girlfriend or a plate that you just really like? | /r/askTRP | 25/05/20 04:01 PM |
| 2 | Some good words of adviceTHIS. | /r/seduction | 25/05/20 03:47 PM |
| 2 | How did you find your purpose?This is a really good way to visualize what you really want to do. Thank you | /r/askTRP | 25/05/20 02:49 AM |
| 3 | Purpose - What is it?Big facts on the purpose changing over time. There was a time when I was in high school and my purpose was to win all the trophies in a video game and get something called a platinum on my ps3. Not to brag but I got like 10 platinums 8) Loll now whenever I can’t even look at a video game. Crazy how things change. Thanks for the response. I don’t think purpose is spoken about enough. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/05/20 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Tips on Choking someone during sex?Don’t choke the front of their neck, just squeeze the sides of their neck, don’t squeeze dumb hard like a dick head and not for too long. Read about it on google. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/20 10:07 PM |
| 6 | SquattingSquats is the most painful exercise for me. No funny shit I’d rather deadlift 2 plates than squat 1 plate lmao. You gotta keep doing them consistently (2-3x a week) and then they won’t feel as bad, cause you’ll be used to it. All in all thought yes bro They definitely are the hardest shit. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/20 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Why do I have this desire to know what my ex is doing with her life still?I wish I could accept that one bro , but for some reason I want to stay connected on it. I was literally just looking at that shit hard. Had to delete the apps off my phone to stop. It’s kind of clipped for me to be honest. I love that girl for now (or I am very addicted to the image I have of her in my head). If I delete her off social media and block I feel like I’d feel good for 10 minutes, like im in “control” and then I’d regret it hard. It’s sad man. There is no fooling myself lmao this is… | /r/askTRP | 24/05/20 06:16 PM |
| 2 | How Expensive is One KidI’m an early 20s dude as well. Not making near as much as you. I don’t know what it’s like to actually have a child in the world, but you gotta ask yourself for real. What the point of having a child in the world if you’re not going to be there to take care of it mentally physically emotionally. Visiting your child on the weekends. Really? I can’t tell you what to do but it doesn’t sound like the move. What if you lose your job or your ex finds a new bf she becomes addicted too and doesn’t want … | /r/askTRP | 24/05/20 02:54 PM |
| 2 | So there is this chick...I don’t like those words she said. It kind of implies that she was with someone else this afternoon (idk if they fucked or whatever) but she was with another man. Shit test or not, if you two agreed to be exclusive for quarantine it is not cool and you were right to tell her to leave. Idk how it’s going to affect the relationship, if anything let her reach out and apologize. She may not but that’s life. Oneitis is a bitch , you might have some rough times, now you gotta back up your big boy word… | /r/askTRP | 24/05/20 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Why do I have this desire to know what my ex is doing with her life still?You should follow throwaways comment, but yo bro. Me and my girl broke up almost 4 months ago and I still check her social media on the regular. I 100p have oneitis and I think I am addicted to her. Call it love or infatuation, whatever. She was my first love and I what’s went all in. Same thing as you bro, pure genuine love, care and affection. I wonder if she thinks about me the same way I think about her as well and it bothers me that I may never know. Of course she thinks of me, but I wonder… | /r/askTRP | 24/05/20 01:21 PM |
| 1 | I just realized a girl I've been seeing for 4 month has been interacting with her ex onlineWhatever you do , just hold frame and don’t show any weakness or insecurity. This is the most important thing I have to say to you. There’s a chance you’re over thinking it. It’s just likes on social media content. I know it feels like signaling, bro I know, but it is probably meaningless. If she is texting him and meeting with him then that’s a problem. I know the liking and social media shit stresses you out and gives you anxiety but you are doing the most right now. All of this snooping and d… | /r/askTRP | 24/05/20 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Do you have a ONS story you'll never forget?Loll good shit | /r/askTRP | 23/05/20 11:08 PM |
| 20 | Getting over how blue pilled I was?Write a letter to your old “blue pilled” self saying sorry. After that , read it multiple times and try to forgive yourself. Now that you know what to do, just don’t do it again. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/20 11:06 PM |
| 21 | No questions In this post, just a reminder about AWALT, especially if you’re in denial.Yikes bro. Hope you recover soon and well. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/20 10:45 PM |
| 7 | Should I dump my LTR?You’re thinking too much, this shit is in the past. Let it stay there. She probably thought they could remain friends but that dude obviously wanted more, so she cut it off out of respect. That is good. Enjoy your turn and relax. Don’t do any insecure shit or show any weakness. Keep being elite until the end. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/20 10:31 PM |
| 8 | How to get over an ex?Big facts on the love yourself. Work out hard at the crib. Drink your protein. Just improve. Right now you are on a specific level , the way to get over her is to level up to the point where she is no longer on your level. New girls help , but that only pauses the inner problem. You really have to find a way to LOVE yourself. I am working on this as well. Its not easy for me, but hopefully you can finesse. Don’t look at her social media either , don’t like posts don’t watch the story. Just try t… | /r/askTRP | 23/05/20 08:34 PM |
| 5 | So what's your take on Steroids?Feel you homie , most of us are definitely gonna be a little weaker, but we’ll get back up to where we were 2 months max. Muscle memory is real. For now just find a way to do some pull ups and if you haven’t been. Do some advanced push ups - how many one hand push ups can you do vs clapping push ups? | /r/askTRP | 23/05/20 07:59 PM |
| 10 | So what's your take on Steroids?No steroids. Work hard , eat , drink protein and at most take creatine. No steroids tho homie, especially not at 19. Take your time getting stronger, there is no rush. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/20 07:50 PM |
| 3 | Some food for thoughtGirls are insecure. I noticed girls literally look down until I pass them and then they look up after we cross paths using my peripheral vision. Probably afraid of eye contact. They sneak their glances when they think you aren’t looking if you are attractive. Don’t read too much into this tho. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/20 07:13 PM |
| 7 | AdviceTell her it’ll be our little secret | /r/askTRP | 23/05/20 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Tinder GoldGrow up | /r/askTRP | 23/05/20 01:09 AM |
| 0 | Tinder GoldYikes lol, thanks for letting me know. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/20 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Tinder GoldFacts whenever shit goes stale , I just make a new account for the boost. Seems like the best way to restart their algorithm. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/20 11:13 PM |
| 5 | Tinder GoldAnd you’re on an app trying to get “upvotes” and feel good about yourself while talking down on another man. Who’s really the bitch ? | /r/askTRP | 22/05/20 11:11 PM |
| 7 | Wife shops alone?Damn , I hated going shopping with my girl. She had her own style that I was just attracted too. When she goes clothes shopping just let her go alone and tell her to cop something sexy , like lingerie, while she’s out looking for lingerie she might even be like let me get some sexier outfits for him as well. Who knows. Keep lifting and improving your smv though. Good shit with the 5:30 am lifts | /r/askTRP | 22/05/20 11:07 PM |
| 6 | Break upI broke up my with girl through text and although I regret not doing it over the phone. It doesn’t really matter, the result is the same. Maybe finish your trip and enjoy yourself first cause if you break up with her during the trip you might feel Bad and you may second guess your decision, ultimately fucking up your trip. Regardless enjoy yourself and deal with the ltr shit as it comes | /r/askTRP | 22/05/20 11:04 PM |
| 2 | Has your opinion on today's music changed after discovering TRP?They’re all calm , gonna have run through his old albums | /r/askTRP | 22/05/20 10:31 PM |
| 2 | Has your opinion on today's music changed after discovering TRP?I’ll check em out and report back homie , good looks | /r/askTRP | 22/05/20 10:21 PM |
| 9 | How should I handle telling a girl I’m a plumber?I could see why you wouldn't want to say plumber. But being a plumber is a very elite trade in my opinion. You still got to go to school and learn that shit. Not everyone can do it. If you don't want to say plumber, just say you work with your hands, fixing and repairing water pipes and leave it at that. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/20 04:27 PM |
| 1 | What is the best action to take when a girl in your life who is otherwise chill and considerate constantly makes broad judgments and attacks on your character to suit their agenda?My ex tried to call me controlling. And that shit really got to me. But you gotta look inward and realize that what she says is her opinion and that shit is useless. What do you think? If you think she is full of shit then boom you have your answer. Sometimes we value other people's opinions over our own, but at the end of the day for real, for real. You gotta make up your mind about yourself and who you are. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/20 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Tell me why I shouldn’t get back with my ex.Good analogy. Needed this. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/20 04:03 PM |
| 4 | Has your opinion on today's music changed after discovering TRP?My boy put me on to superman - eminem after a recent break up. Shit is a lullaby to me | /r/askTRP | 22/05/20 03:57 PM |
| 2 | How do I increase my drive to be the bestNot to be corny, but just do it bro. Don't try, actually do that shit. Every day at least 1 - 3 improvements every day. No matter how small. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/20 03:52 PM |
| 3 | Couple of hours until I have an interview, how should I play it?Look them in the eye, smell good , look good. Smile. When they ask you questions, answer and then try to ask them similar questions as well, get them to open up. They have to be able to work with you which means they need to like you. Bring a music resume, if you actually have to play for them, make sure you bring your equipment and things are set up so you dont have to fidget too much while preparing. Ask them how long they have been apart of the band. Do they like it? What kind of events do th… | /r/askTRP | 22/05/20 01:36 PM |
| 1 | Realization 5 months post breakupFeel you bro. It’s wild. Hope you recover well. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/20 02:16 AM |
| 1 | Serious question: How do I go in for the kiss when she's wearing a face mask?Yo just say something slick like “can I see your mask for a second?” When she takes it off and hands it to you , kiss her. Be creative my guy. Come on | /r/askTRP | 22/05/20 12:05 AM |
| 1 | At 28 I feel somewhat cringe asking this, mainly because I see it has been already asked by many people. But what are some strategies to overcome existential thoughts when life stagnates?When COVID is over, grab a friend or two and go on a trip somewhere. All types of shit in the world, people doing all types of different things. If you know how to swim, learn how to surf, go scuba diving, go horseback riding in a foreign country. Just think of something and go do it. Someone on trp told me that life has no meaning and id drive myself crazy looking for meaning. He said i am on rock in space that has been around for millions of year and i'll be on it for like 70-100 years. Don't … | /r/askTRP | 21/05/20 09:09 PM |
| 1 | It is my Ex's birthday tomorrow.Everyone is being a major dick head in the comments bro. But their advice still is the truth. Yo to be honest I could understand why you would want to send happy birthday, its an excuse to hit her up and maybe have a conversation and maybe rekindle things or at least be friends or something. I feel you, even though you guys aren't in each others lives anymore, she will probably be hoping you send her it. I don't know how close you two were when you were tg, but the fact that you don't send it wi… | /r/askTRP | 21/05/20 08:53 PM |
| 2 | How do you know if you are over a girl? are there some girls you never really get over?Big facts on the I'm sure that next time history will NOT repeat itself. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/20 07:50 PM |
| 1 | How do you know if you are over a girl? are there some girls you never really get over?I don't know to be honest bro. I am just letting you know that it is okay to feel this way. Some girls really just change your life and its rough to just eject them out of your mind like that. I am still working on my mental and letting go of m ex girl of 3 months. It is torture lowkey at this point, can't imagine how it is for you. Just keep going to be honest. I wish there was something I could say, but thats really all i got. Don't stalk her on social media, when a thought of her comes into y… | /r/askTRP | 21/05/20 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Soft NextAt this point, keep it calm. Schedule a date with her and try to continue as normal. Don't say sorry or any foolishness like that. Just try to get passed this and leave it in the past. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/20 07:42 PM |
| 1 | How have you changed since you learned about the red pill?It works, but you gotta put in the effort. I still got a long way to go though. I have done alot of stuff I am proud of, but I still feel like i haven't done anything. TRP has given me the resources to build the life that I work for. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/20 06:04 PM |
| 5 | Soft NextYikes lol was honestly all you needed to say. If you wanted to make her feel insecure about it , you could've also said: yikes lol thats gross, i don't wanna hear that. There is not really any reason to say why is that the first message i receive - did you tell her what you want to hear in the mornings? like good morning? how are you? - thats the type of shit you have to train her to say by saying it first and seeing if she says it back and making that the norm. However, some girls just wont rec… | /r/askTRP | 21/05/20 04:50 PM |
| 1 | What is the most valuable/important self virtue for men who found red pill?Yeah if you can, can speak more about what Jung materials would be good to dip into. Definitely interested. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/20 04:33 PM |
| 1 | LTR doesn't want to give blowjobs, did I do the right thing?How do you successfully demote a girlfriend? The best way I can think to do this is to ask her for a break. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/20 01:51 PM |
| 2 | How many of you guys are in LTRs?Also wanted to add bro. I had some of my best moments in life with my ex, but I ALSO have neverrr been hurt this much in my life. When you become exclusive with a girl and start to really emotionally invest in a girl (and you ignore some of the trp principles because you think you found a unicorn), its the little things that she does that can cause alot of harm to your heart. -Always be willing to SHOW her you can walk away (in good and in bad times) and walk if you must. -She really isn't yours… | /r/askTRP | 21/05/20 01:36 PM |
| 2 | How many of you guys are in LTRs?Yeah for real , vetting is always constant. New circumstances can change everything. People change quarter monthly. Don’t ever get tooo comfortable. Your whole life can change in one morning or one night. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/20 12:18 PM |
| 2 | How many of you guys are in LTRs?Loll yeah my girl was a nerd. She liked to read, had really good manners when dealing with cashiers and bus drivers and workers of that nature instead of just passing by them like they were less. She likes to learn and actually wanted to go back to school for her PhD. She was a bit socially awkward, like she was never one of the cool girls. That’s the shit I lowkey like. I don’t know I’ll find another girl like her or better than her. Just sucks tbh, I wish I knew that after everything was said … | /r/askTRP | 21/05/20 12:16 PM |
| 1 | How many of you guys are in LTRs?Homie I wish I knew. My oneitis honestly is fucking with me right now. I guess when we get new girls to focus on that are better or get us “higher” we’ll move on. Shit really does suck tho. Give it time tho, I’ve had girls i used to crush on hard and I don’t even think about them anymore. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/20 08:03 AM |
| 3 | How many of you guys are in LTRs?Facts thank you for the wisdom my guy. Take care | /r/askTRP | 21/05/20 02:49 AM |
| 2 | How many of you guys are in LTRs?Damn facts, had to let her go. That clock is ticking shit really is wild when you’re aware of it. I know there are mad posts on it already (and I’ve read most of them) but what advice would you give a early 20s dude? Also where does YOUR self value and self worth come from? I know I’m not supposed to but I lowkey still use women to base my worth and since I lost my girl and have no girls right now, sometimes i feel pretty shitty even though I am doing pretty good for myself life wise. Just for c… | /r/askTRP | 21/05/20 02:37 AM |
| 3 | How many of you guys are in LTRs?Wow 32, I assumed you were younger. I would ask why you didn’t move in with your ltr but I’m gonna assume you knew not to shack up due to the loss of dread and loss of privacy. You didn’t want to marry her eventually? Or you also off the whole idea of marriage, which I am kind of off now too tbh. And yeah some of the advice on here is a little too cold, I mix in a little warm ness here and there. For the most part trp has been good to me though. I was very blue pilled growing up, it’s insane how… | /r/askTRP | 21/05/20 02:21 AM |
| 2 | How many of you guys are in LTRs?Yeah have no choice but to keep moving forward. The moves I’ve made since the break up are already groundbreaking for me that I wouldn’t have done if I was still with her so for the most part I made sure I blessed myself. I’m 23, got loads of times and yeah this was my first gf / first love type of thing. So she’s got her spot in my head, that’s life I guess. How old are you ? | /r/askTRP | 21/05/20 02:13 AM |
| 3 | How many of you guys are in LTRs?Damn that’s a rough one. Yeah, once you move in you already know. I’ve been broken up almost 4 months and my Ltr was only 1.5 years. I’m not crippled depressed but I’m definitely still fucked and probably am gonna be for a while - I lost frame. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/20 02:07 AM |
| 3 | How many of you guys are in LTRs?You seem like you’re taking it in a strong way. How you handling it emotionally? | /r/askTRP | 21/05/20 01:58 AM |
| 14 | How many of you guys are in LTRs?Most of us. LTRs can be very rewarding and very tragic in the end if you mess up. Oneitis is a different beast though. Very rough mental situation if you catch it. Its normal though. | /r/askTRP | 20/05/20 02:28 PM |
| 3 | Finishing too FastGo multiple rounds. | /r/askTRP | 20/05/20 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Asking advice to not mate guardJust keep doing what you/r doing. Do not mateguard under any circumstances, you have nothing to prove to anyone. Let creeps be creeps. | /r/askTRP | 20/05/20 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Abundance MentalityFacts. Thank you for the reassurance. Gots some work to do | /r/askTRP | 20/05/20 12:49 PM |
| 2 | GainsYou’re just jealous | /r/askTRP | 20/05/20 06:38 AM |
| 2 | Feeling uncomfortable all the time.I feel you. I don’t know what it is but it’s a weird feeling. People don’t care about your movements as much as you think they do. I understand trying to get every word and move “right” but at the end of the day life goes on and no one will remember everything. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/20 10:51 PM |
| 2 | Abundance MentalityFacts it isn’t a good idea to have my mental health dependent on a woman; that’s what got me here in the first place. Shit sucks to be honest but so it goes. And yeah bro definitely don’t want that. Oneitis and unreciprocated feelings are an L and a half. Gonna keep looking for new ways to be content by myself for now. Just looking for new ideas. Thank you for the comment. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/20 10:24 PM |
| 1 | How do you sit down and workFacts swing the .epub please. And I feel you OP. It is very easy to just not move and be idle. What gets me moving though is I have this weird signal in my brain that tells me I SHOULD be doing something that is moving me forward. I get very uncomfortable when I am just sitting watching tv. You just need some direction. I can't be the one to give it to you, fuck I am still looking for my mission as well, but for now. Just make sure you do push ups and pull ups and eat a good amount of calories i… | /r/askTRP | 19/05/20 06:15 PM |
| 2 | Girl ive been seeing for 3 months goes back to her ex / tells me i didnt give her a indication that i wanted somthing serious? Did i play it wrong ? If i did show her i wanted somthing serious would the outcome of been different?Yeah yo your 3 months to his 3 years, sunk cost fallacy, don't stress it too much. Just keep improving yourself and she MAY try to come back to you. Don't hope for it though. Just be happy you didn't spend 6 months with her and he came back. Summer is coming up. Be ready, | /r/askTRP | 19/05/20 01:59 PM |
| 3 | Girl ive been seeing for 3 months goes back to her ex / tells me i didnt give her a indication that i wanted somthing serious? Did i play it wrong ? If i did show her i wanted somthing serious would the outcome of been different?Bro don’t take it personally, she probably had a lot of history with the old bf. And he may have alpha widowed her or left her for someone else. It doesn’t matter though, just keep going. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/20 12:44 PM |
| 1 | What does heartbreak feel like for you?Heartache sucks bro. Shit makes all the good times not worth it at all when you are going through it. I don’t know how I’ll feel after get through this but bro it feels like random papercuts to the heart every time I think of her or something reminds me of her. Having someone “love” you and be there for you and then poof it’s gone is rough as fuck. Don’t give your heart fully to just anyone, always have one foot out. That woman is not your soulmate so there is absolutely no reason to be giving 1… | /r/askTRP | 19/05/20 02:09 AM |
| 3 | Best friend in a LTR with single-mom. They’ve had their second big fight and he is sleeping on my couch atm. How to handle?Yo for real. It’s his choice but that shit is next level. If he gets married to her eventually he will be responsible for those kids and if they divorce he will still owe child support for them. Real talk tell your boy that he CAN live a different life. It will suck to leave this one behind but those are not his kids and he doesn’t have to save her. Seriously find some red pill articles and swing them to him before he goes. Pussy and emotions are blinding. Tell him to take a month or two away to… | /r/askTRP | 19/05/20 01:59 AM |
| 2 | LTR seems to be testing or probably doesn’t care anymore.Don’t outright say you’re done with her. Let it fizzle out while you acquire new plates and shit. Maybe shit will respark in time. It’s also a very boring and different time bro. Next time you see her, spice it up, bring some wine over, eat her out silly and fuck her. She’s clearly stressed about the phone shit. Let her orbiters do the talking and attention thing, you do the wining and dining and fucking. Good luck. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/20 01:52 AM |
| 14 | Does weed lower testosterone ?It’s a fun thing to do when you’re young but long term it is a waste of money and the effects aren’t worth it. If you do use it just make sure you lift and eat good meals so you get stronger and reach your calories. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/20 01:49 AM |
| 6 | I can't get over my cheating ex.Your situation is a lot worse then mine so I can’t imagine how you must be feeling. I broke up with my ex little over 3 months ago also and I still think about her every day. I don’t know why the brain defaults to it but it really does suck. I’ve been doing the same shit, improving constantly and all this and yeah it’s harder during quarantine. To keep it real , I don’t have any advice for you really, but to just keep living. When a thought of her comes in my mind, I try to catch it sometimes an… | /r/askTRP | 18/05/20 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Best way to respond to this comfort/shit test?You still got my address ? Come over ___ | /r/askTRP | 18/05/20 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Why do I (26M) want to text my ex? Has this ever worked to get someone back?Day by day man. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/20 02:22 PM |
| 3 | Why do I (26M) want to text my ex? Has this ever worked to get someone back?I wanna hit up the ex too but I know I should not. Same way we know soda , alc and drugs aren’t good for us, but we want it sometimes. It’s rough, keep pushing forward tho. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/20 01:50 PM |
| 4 | I have two wishes to use from my wife. I can demand anything. Have no idea (erotic life)Word. Bro I’m not gonna tell you to leave or anything too wild. But I do want you to start working out at home for now since no gym and taking care of yourself more. Definitely do not put kids in her anytime soon. Read The Rationale Male, look it up on your phone (free pdf), It reads like TRP articles , push through the beginning and that’s where you will find the gold. If you want to spice things up a bit , I would get a wand (vibrator) for her and tell her that you just got this and you want t… | /r/askTRP | 18/05/20 01:27 PM |
| 1 | I have two wishes to use from my wife. I can demand anything. Have no idea (erotic life)How old are you? And how old is she? Kids ? | /r/askTRP | 18/05/20 01:00 PM |
| 7 | If her friends don't like me then she's not going to get with me.Flirt with the friend. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/20 12:55 PM |
| 8 | My LTR of 6 months has a male "best" friend. She hasn't told him about me. They text daily . She has commented that he used to be "obsessed" with her. She has announced that she is meeting him for a walk tomorrow . Immediate hard next ?I feel you bro. I hated it so fucking much. My girl wasn’t the best girl , but she was a good girl. I tried to speak to her about the coworkers nonsense and she deadass told me “she can’t live a life without male friends” and started gaslighting me. Bruh, so disappointing. It was my first love , first relationship so I took it pretty hard and am still going through the emotions now. I wish I was stronger. The reason why I’m opening up to you is so that way maybe this experience can help you beco… | /r/askTRP | 18/05/20 03:34 AM |
| 16 | My LTR of 6 months has a male "best" friend. She hasn't told him about me. They text daily . She has commented that he used to be "obsessed" with her. She has announced that she is meeting him for a walk tomorrow . Immediate hard next ?If the “male best friend” was there before you, then she obviously won’t let go of him, they have history (doesn’t have to be sex, maybe it is sex, it doesn’t really matter.) Listen, when it comes to this specific situation you don’t need to hard next or demote unless YOU are genuinely bothered by it. They are going on a walk where she will talk and complain and get free attention from him. A walk doesn’t have to mean sex. You do what you do. Work, lift, eat, chill with the boys, whatever you wa… | /r/askTRP | 18/05/20 03:21 AM |
| 4 | How are you supposed to cope if no girl seems as good as your ex?I feel you bro, to be honest there isn’t much you can do except push forward. When quarantine is over you start gaming jawns (8-10s) and you find better. Just keep pushing, you know you’ll find better. If that doesn’t work then you can emotionally invest in one of your 5s and then your mind will play tricks on you and she will become a 9 to you. Loll don’t do that last one, I was joking, but for real, just keep grinding and keep going. One day your 8 ex will be a 6 max and you’ll be macking I’m … | /r/askTRP | 18/05/20 03:09 AM |
| 5 | Clubbing after 3 years of LTRThe ultimatum might have been a mistake. If you want to keep your girl you gotta hold frame for now and hope she doesn’t go. Anyways it’s Quarantine rn what club is she going to?? All this drama over a potential future situation. Real talk though, just don’t be insecure or say anything weak when you talk to her next. I hope you handled that shit with authority and not from a I don’t want you talking to guys perspective. It’s a rough situation but sometimes you gotta trust your girl and let her d… | /r/askTRP | 18/05/20 12:54 AM |
| 1 | constant shit tests from plates about fucking other girls - nonstopHow do you not care? | /r/askTRP | 18/05/20 12:46 AM |
| 8 | Girlfriend and got drunk and broke up, then wants me back the next day. Leave or stay?Lmfaooooo that’s the word for it bro. GOOFY | /r/askTRP | 17/05/20 11:19 PM |
| 2 | New hobbies and skills to learnWhat’s your language source bro? i just started with Pimsleur, but if there is something better, I’m down to check it out. Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/20 08:56 PM |
| 3 | My fiancé embarrassed me in front of my friends. We had a small disagreement and now we're not talkingSounds like she learned her lesson. If she continues with the BS then you know you may have to drop it even though it will hurt. Don’t hold a grudge though. She probably didn’t know you’d get that tight. When you genuinely forgive her, let her know you forgive her and Let her make it up to you and continue as usual if you can. Good luck boss. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/20 12:27 AM |
| 3 | How To Deal With and Make The Most Of Leaving The NestYo to keep it real. Leaving the house at 21 sounds wild. I’m 23 right now and still am home. I am only a year out of college and have been working to pay off some of my student debt and stuff. Since you actually have to dip your parents crib I would say focus on making sure you have your money right when you’re out on your own. Also, I’m not sure what traveling is like in the west but you will probably need a car. You got some real growing up to do and you’re gonna have to do it fast. Try to fin… | /r/askTRP | 17/05/20 12:22 AM |
| 3 | Questions about behavior of women in publicLmao well being 6’2 and lean is better then being the opposite of that. Keep working on it and try not to overthink. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/20 05:30 PM |
| 8 | Questions about behavior of women in publicBeing attractive is gonna come with extra attention. Learn to make it work for you and own it. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/20 05:19 PM |
| 2 | The Perfect InstagramYeah bro for real you’re lit rn. Definitely throw some of that cash in a Roth IRA or mutual funds account. So you’re set for life. And take the other and start traveling once this Corona virus thing is over. Until then, just lift , get some good clothes - you don’t gotta go overboard but make sure you have a nice watch and shoes. Some elite Cologne is good - I really want a bottle of Creed Aventus but it’s like $300-400. Dude for real , get a nice ass camera. Travel and take pics from time to ti… | /r/askTRP | 16/05/20 03:21 PM |
| 2 | Pull-ups for the disciplined mindBig facts bro. When the gyms reopen I’m gonna get myself a belt where I can attach weights and start getting serious. A couple years back I used to be able to do a plate for 4 sets of 8. I wonder if I still could. Regardless ima work my way back. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/05/20 03:06 PM |
| 2 | How to hold frame around women who talk excessivelyJust stare at her blankly and tell her she talks too much. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/20 01:46 AM |
| 2 | Ex sent me a photo of her wearing makeup?Just fucking new girls isn’t going to make you genuinely happy. You’ll enjoy the chase and your nut but that happiness is not gonna last. If you want to feel happiness with a new girl you’re going to have to emotionally invest a bit with a girl and do fun shit with them, like creating memories. This will help you forget about your ex since you’ll be thinking about a new person. But just be careful this new person doesn’t become the person you’re next stuck on. When it comes to the Snapchat shit.… | /r/askTRP | 15/05/20 06:13 PM |
| 5 | Help - My oneitis is preventing me from unpluggingBro ima be real, you are going to have to ditch this girl cold turkey for your own mental health. Having oneitis for a girl is already a problem (I have it too, don’t worry, it’s common). But having oneitis for a girl you haven’t fucked is another problem all in itself (I HAD it too, don’t worry, it’s common, but very unhealthy). The best thing to do would be to just focus on different girls with the knowledge that you have now and let this one go. I let go of my high school oneitis, fucked new … | /r/askTRP | 15/05/20 06:09 PM |
| 1 | What do I reply to increase sexual tension or put myself on a higher place in her mind?You can make it up to me by inviting me over for some Maggi | /r/askTRP | 15/05/20 02:20 PM |
| 5 | How do you forgive yourself?Thank you | /r/askTRP | 15/05/20 12:46 AM |
| 1 | TravelingWhy Nepal? Is it the nature? I wanna go check out Asia so bad. But form now I haven’t found any work visa places that offer Asia countries. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/20 03:55 AM |
| 12 | Pull-ups for the disciplined mindUpdate: just completed 200 pull ups , it took me a full hour. A lot of excuses were popping in my head at times to stop, but I persisted and I feel good. Definitely looking forward to making this the new norm. Thanks for the challenge. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/05/20 03:38 AM |
| 2 | I need advice from wiser men.Yeah bro sounds like a finesse. Seriously though, stacking bread is a good idea while young. Opens many doors and opportunities. Travel a bit once this whole Covid thing is over. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/20 04:39 PM |
| 5 | I need advice from wiser men.I’m 23 and have been living in nyc all my life. I live at home so I don’t pay rent so idk what the rent situation is looking like in nyc but you can find a cheap place to start in Brooklyn. It’s easy to get to Manhattan by train. Regardless, do what you need to right now and enjoy your last couple months at home. When it is time for you to go to nyc. Find a roommate so you won’t be “alone”, get a cat, work your job and stack your fucking bread. At least try it out for a year and see what it’s li… | /r/askTRP | 13/05/20 04:20 PM |
| 2 | Pull-ups for the disciplined mindI can probably already get to 200 , I’ve been doing 150 lately. I just don’t want to over work my back and potentially snap my shit up. I’ll report back soon | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/20 01:45 PM |
| 29 | Pull-ups for the disciplined mindBeing able to do 100 pull ups as a workout is already an above average accomplishment - probably not for a lot of us ;) Imagine doing 200 in a workout. I accept your challenge. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/05/20 03:10 AM |
| 5 | How to tell if LTR is cheatingDon’t confront her, don’t say anything. If you say something she is going to think you are a freak keeping tabs on her. Jealousy and fear is unattractive. Bro fr get that shit out of your head. Your girl is your girl until she isn’t. That’s all you need to know. Don’t let a little outside drama mess up your relationship, it isn’t worth it. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/20 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Guys i Just can't seem to shake oneitis. It's ruining me.I know bro. I know. I am having trouble shaking my oneitis as well. It’s crazy the power a woman can have on your mental. Real talk though. I’m only 3 months out of the relationship... to hear you’re a year out and still in the claws of oneitis worries me, but it’s all good. Some of the things that have helped me is journaling. Write down everything, why you feel like you fucked up. There must’ve been a reason. Forgive yourself and tell yourself it’s okay. Fine one year not over it, maybe next y… | /r/askTRP | 13/05/20 01:21 AM |
| 1 | Girl is asking why she has to drive to me?I don’t know if I have the best reply but I’d be like , “lmao I’ll go to yours next time.” And then just not go next time. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/20 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Work EthicYoung man.* | /r/askTRP | 12/05/20 10:19 PM |
| 9 | Why are woman so repulsed by men like T-bag and Littlefinger?Bro Littlefinger owned a brothel and was teaching bitches how to fuck better and seduce their clients. Littlefinger knew what he was doing , but he had deep oneitis for Cat. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/20 07:33 PM |
| 2 | Oneitis during lockdown is actually doing my head in. I can’t even go find plates🤷♀️ what the hell can I do 😅Whatsup. I live in NYC. So all I did was type in google Brazilian Ju-Jitsu schools and my school popped up. I called them and pulled up when they had a class going on. Continued to keep going. Just google and go to the websites to see what you can afford. Sometimes they have free trials so you can see if you like the pLace. I’m at a very friendly place right now, they get the work done, but I feel like it’s not enough work. The classes are 45 minutes - they do like 20 minutes of cardio , 20 minu… | /r/askTRP | 12/05/20 06:52 PM |
| 28 | Father died, girlfriend left me shortly afterI’m sorry. Not gonna sugar coat it and say it’s easy. But for real just take it easy and grieve. You can get back to self improvement and stoicism later when you’re ready. Just survive. The emotions will one day not be as strong as they are, until one day they are gone completely, one minute, hour and day at a time. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/20 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Work EthicFacts, I have some ideas of what I want to do but they are risky. I’ve been thinking about getting a personal training certification so that way I have a skill I could take with me no matter where I go in the country or even beyond. The problem is I’ve been doing too much thinking and not enough doing I admit. I also want to become a therapist but I know I’ll have to go back to school for that and potentially take up More student loan debt, so right now I am a little hesitant cause I really do n… | /r/askTRP | 12/05/20 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Work EthicBeen thinking about starting a Roth IRA, but right now I have a good amount of student loan debt I want to get rid of. I am not sure what should take precedent. I have been attacking the loan a lot more aggressively as of late because of the no interest benefits due to the virus. When you say index fund or mutual fund is that the same as a Roth or IRA? Or is that an entirely new source of income. Although I don’t know my purpose right now, I do want to be smart with the little money is that comi… | /r/askTRP | 12/05/20 03:09 PM |
| 2 | Is it ever okay to tell a girl you miss her?I made a post about about 2 days ago, telling the community I wanted to tell my ex I loved her and wanted her which essentially means I means I miss her. They gave me some pretty good advice on why it wasn’t a good idea. Yeah bro tbh if you miss her then just invite her out somewhere or to your place. If you’re in quarantine heavily and can’t do that then just wait until you can. Keep the I miss you to yourself. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/20 01:08 PM |
| 22 | How can I talk around the fact that I just wanna fuck her ?Don’t say that. Just lead with your actions. Invite her over, have a couple drinks or get a bottle of wine, touch and seduce her (kino), make the kiss move and escalate forward. Pass the shit tests and last minute resistance. Actions not words. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/20 12:21 PM |
| 1 | How much you love her is of little importance. How much she loves you is what matters.This is very important stuff | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/20 04:12 AM |
| 33 | Mate guarding is not a solutionThis topic isn’t spoken about enough. Mate guarding really is something guys think they should do, little do they know they are shooting themselves in the foot. Never again :/ | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/20 02:37 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys spend your time on a daily basis?The Alchemist is a good one. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/20 08:47 PM |
| 4 | "How I see dating, girls, COVID-19, and the quarantines, right now"That shit is thirst trap central, literally women of all ages just getting mad free validation off heads for showing their pussies and tits. If you’re doing nofap, be careful going there. It’s insane the world we live in. Imagine if I could take a pic of my cock and have bitches saying “I’ll suck that shit dry daddy”. How did it get like this? | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/20 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Tell her how I feelThanks for taking the time to check my post history to get a more accurate take on it. Yeah It’s best to just keep moving forward. This is a new feeling for me and it’s not the funnest shit, especially with the quarantine. I’m going to get better girls though, just a matter of time. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/20 03:29 PM |
| 2 | Tell her how I feelThank you everyone. I am honestly just going to leave it alone then and heal. I appreciate the wake up call. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/20 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Tell her how I feelI doubt she cheated , maybe branch swinged but I doubt it tho. Facts bro , I got off Easy I guess. Shit is just wack. I read rationale male and enjoyed it. I understand all the concepts I’m just hoping that I may be a special case cause my SMV actually is way higher than hers loll, and I really am the prize. I’m gonna have to give it another read and really internalize it this time. Damn man. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/20 05:59 AM |
| 1 | Tell her how I feelYou’re right. It’s probably best I just move on. Shit is wack bro | /r/askTRP | 11/05/20 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Tell her how I feelBoys for real I made a very bad decision when I was angry and wasn’t thinking properly fr. It was a mistake and I’m so tight i can’t take it back. Is there not much that I can really do? I gotta give her up for life just because of that. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/20 05:14 AM |
| 1 | Tell her how I feelDamn bro. I hate not being able to do anything at all. I feel mad powerless. Smh | /r/askTRP | 11/05/20 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Tell her how I feelReally? Telling her I love her and want her back is gonna kill frame ? | /r/askTRP | 11/05/20 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Tell her how I feelWhy? | /r/askTRP | 11/05/20 04:29 AM |
| 5 | Do you ever wish you were gay so wouldn’t have to deal with women?That’s the goal bro | /r/askTRP | 11/05/20 04:26 AM |
| 4 | How in the world do I get that bitch out of my mind.I feel you bro. Always thinking about her as well. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/20 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Oneitis during lockdown is actually doing my head in. I can’t even go find plates🤷♀️ what the hell can I do 😅I feel you on the little comforting. Yo if you guys are still together , just try not to think too much. It’s those thoughts that will cause you’re behavior to be beta and needy without trying. Just don’t fuck up and be beta. Don’t show weakness. And try to fuck her well and have fun. Seriously be careful with those thoughts. Good luck. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/20 07:54 PM |
| 3 | My LTR almost never says she loves, should I be worried?My girl had trouble doing this too, it bothered me a lot. Just because they don’t say it doesn’t mean they don’t feel it. Just let it rock, I know you want confirmation and validation but girls are different. They affirm their kids with words. They affirm you in other ways. Don’t bring it up and just enjoy your time. Also don’t expect anything from her, what you do is what you do. I had a lot of expectations from my girl and she did not meet a lot of them, which isn’t her fault. It was my fault … | /r/askTRP | 10/05/20 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Has anybody felt a loss of purpose and were able to regain it back?Is chasing women a good internal mission? All my life I’ve been chasing women, it keeps me focused on something but then there are times I feel that it is not a good mission so I look for other missions, but I always come back to the chasing women mission. I know you probably can’t answer that for me, but i could use your opinion on the matter. I don’t find anything else more satisfying than learning how to get women and trying to be a guy that gets women. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/20 04:16 PM |
| 0 | I want my ex back, should I lie?Nah bro , don’t lie. I don’t have any concrete advice on getting an ex back. You have two choices: Move on and hope she comes back on her own. Or Continue to do what you’re doing but you’re going to have to WORK your way back up in her head. This is going to have to be done with a lot of comfort and persistence, while still maintaining attraction. There aren’t a lot of tips on this, but you gotta keep frame. Instead of saying sorry, just be like you admit you made a mistake and that you want to … | /r/askTRP | 10/05/20 03:45 PM |
| 3 | Can you fix oneitis without involving other women?Going through it too buddy. Same deal 1.5 years , broken up for 3 months. It’s torture. She’s on my mind any time I’m idle. Shits insane. What was working for me was meditating, stretching , working out, jump rope, journaling and reading/listening to audio book I haven’t beaten this so I don’t have any advice to move on once and for all but for now, just try to minimize the damage. Don’t look at her social media anymore - this is my biggest problem. It’s gonna take discipline. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/20 01:31 PM |
| -1 | AdviceI’ve read that, that is what you’re supposed to do, but I didn’t think that’s really necessary. I feel like blocking someone is extra. Like I really am so insecure I gotta block you? I’ve been thinking about it recently though and understand why they recommend that. It’s not for her, it’s literally for my mental health. I just think if I blocked her , one day I’d probably regret that. I don’t know y. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/20 04:24 AM |
| 6 | Me and my ex smashed againWhenever you have sex with her , just fuck like it’s the last time. Don’t be needy , let her chase. Increase smv, make her a bit jealous. Or Go no contact and heal your wound. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/20 02:25 AM |
| 7 | Plates card got declined at pet shop?Don’t overthink. She’ll get you back | /r/askTRP | 10/05/20 12:13 AM |
| 2 | What do you think is the best use for money (lets say £5000) in your 20s?If you still live at home. Go on the trip and have fun. At least you have a place to come back home too. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/20 08:20 PM |
| 4 | Girl I‘ve been seeing starting to post selfies on her snapchat storyDon’t just say thank you, I hope you really don’t say shit. If you do then this will be the beginning of the end. Seriously. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/20 03:17 PM |
| 1 | How to stop feeling bad about dumping a girl?Keep doing what you’re doing. She will get over it and if she doesn’t, then you’ll be in luck when/if you want her back. Just improve and continue to flex. Better yourself. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/20 03:11 PM |
| 8 | Girl I‘ve been seeing starting to post selfies on her snapchat storyDon’t say shit. Deal with your feelings by yourself. Do not project them onto her. If she can’t post selfies, what are you going to do when she starts doing shit with other guy “friends”? Seriously , just leave it alone, breathe and meditate for 5 minutes and you’ll realize that you’re overthinking and it doesn’t matter. Cause a stupid selfie for some quick dopamine doesn’t matter. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/20 03:08 PM |
| 6 | Just got dumped minutes ago by LTR. How to respond?It’s done. She made her choice. Now she is asking if she can still be your friend and get support from you without fucking. Again, leave that alone as well. It’s better to leave a relationship with balls than being a coward. Don’t take her up on the offer of friendship right now, go through your feelings. It’s gonna hurt, just survive this and hopefully you’ll be a better man for it. I’m sorry yo. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/20 02:56 PM |
| 4 | Just got dumped minutes ago by LTR. How to respond?Still no response for now. Let her hamster continue to spin. Just leave it alone | /r/askTRP | 09/05/20 02:50 PM |
| 2 | Just got dumped minutes ago by LTR. How to respond?Yo I know it doesn’t seem like it but right now. No response is the best response. Don’t confirm shit. Just play it cool. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/20 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Need help getting back on track after seeing ex with someone elseMissing my ex too boss, hope you’re doing good. Just looking through the comments for some guidance on how to deal with this situation as well. It’s eating me alive. | /r/askTRP | 09/05/20 01:36 PM |
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