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ronmexico8/r/askTRP02/02/18 07:19 PM
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Red Pill Theoryronmexico8/r/TheRedPill24/02/18 07:33 PM
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ronmexico8/r/askTRP31/01/18 06:13 AM
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Agreed. The overall message is good but there are too many generalizations with the players. It's like that askReddit post yesterday about slutty behavior - everyone assumes the persons telling their stories are attractive. For the most part, I don't want anything to do with the first girl in this post. Even though AWALT and are capable of fucking some loser in the woods, this girl does not meet any minimum threshold of sanity or sanitization. Don't stick your dick in crazy. If you sleep on some…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/18 10:13 PM
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You're kind of asking two different questions. Don't smoke pot if you don't want to. Iron sharpens iron. Hang out with people better than you. If your friendships revolve around smoking joints, then reassess your friends.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 03:19 AM
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I'm pro-military for OP. I served as an officer and it's his best bet for getting a swift kick in the ass with much needed masculine presence. It'll probably suck, but drastic life changes are needed to shake this victim mentality. If you decide to join, you don't tell them shit about your depression.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 03:03 AM
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You can either grow up and be a man who doesn't put up with unnecessary shit, or you can stay a boy. What do I do should I let this slide and tell her not to do it again or should I just somehow try it move on? She's already moved on. Why haven't you?
/r/askTRP01/05/18 03:05 AM
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Never be the bearer of bad news. Keep the texts, block the chick. Let her find some other way to fuck up the relationship. Right or wrong, the friend will associate OP with his cheating girlfriend.
/r/askTRP01/05/18 02:58 AM
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I said nothing. She got her refund and then turned to me and smiled and said "Have a nice day." I did nothing. Then she is waiting in her car in the parking lot. I did nothing. I leave the parking lot after her. We stop at a stop light. I do nothing. Relax dude. You're living inside your own head. For in person interactions, just focus on starting small talk. Extroversion is a good trait if you're looking to cold approach. Audible "How to Win Friends and Influence People" and "The Like Switch." …
/r/askTRP29/04/18 05:20 AM
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Women are not good with rejection, both giving and receiving. It was easier for her to say she had a boyfriend over text. Majority of women you approach are going to say no or flake. It's just part of the deal. Just keep flirting with her if you're still interested. The only mistake you can make is showing that it bothers you.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 05:07 AM
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Yeah it's expected they're going to flake. Just say, "All good, some other time." Hit her up in a few days for another hang out if you want. Have backup plans in case.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 01:08 AM
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Arnold's Mass Blueprint doesn't work for me because it only has 1 rest day a week. My body cannot take that kind of abuse without heavy supplements and 12 hours of sleep. Do what works for you. I use this guide and plug it into my own schedule: http://neverfearfailure.com/2015/10/arnold-schwarzeneggers-workout/
/r/askTRP15/04/18 09:27 PM
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Ghost. Girl is a head case.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 05:25 PM
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I gave up drinking years ago and it was the best decision I've ever made. That being said, I had a blast in my drinking days. Going out 3-4 nights a week will fly in college, but once you hit the real world, it's unsustainable.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 05:13 PM
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Strike while the iron is hot. Set up something in the next few days. This also works to your benefit because you have an excuse to keep the first date short. You don't have to take her to pound-town on night 1, just have something fun in mind and escalate when appropriate.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 04:10 PM
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Depending on the quality of the plate, I'd approach it as three-strikes and you're out. Less for lower quality.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 04:37 AM
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If you want to fuck her, then you set up a hangout quickly. Within the first couple texts. "Hey its wellington from yesterday. I'm thinking we get drinks tomorrow night. How about 8pm?" or some variant. Pickups are a numbers game. Don't be surprised if she flakes - she could wake up tomorrow with a pimple and cancel her entire months plans. Some flake, some don't. You'll find longterm success as long as you keep approaching.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 04:27 AM
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You fucked up by going out, getting injured, and missing the lunch. Relationships have ended because of less. She doesn't care that your drink was spiked, nor that you've now got a limp, because you said you were going to do something and didn't - which is one of the tenets of being a man. Your SMV lowered by getting hurt, in addition, which made things worse. Briffault's Law - Past benefit provided by the male does not provide for continued or future association. As far as her behavior post-apo…
/r/askTRP15/04/18 04:07 AM
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Escalation is moving from regular banter towards hanging out - setting plans and establishing yourself as a sexual being. Read the sidebar and top EC posts. There is an understanding here that you've done your research before posting. Then ask questions for clarification.
/r/askTRP14/04/18 09:40 PM
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Looks are only a factor in SMV. Men of high status and wealth, even when fat and balding, are going to attract beautiful women. Especially when these women are from historically poorer regions.
/r/askTRP14/04/18 08:03 PM
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Too much texting. If she's giving you one word responses, or not asking you questions in return, it's your sign that her attraction is going/is gone. Either escalate or remove attention.
/r/askTRP14/04/18 04:28 PM
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From your sister's uterus.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 02:53 AM
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Good luck. It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 08:11 PM
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Endure. Or find another job. I worked in the food service growing up and as a cashier in college. These jobs are stepping stones to ensure that you never work them again. The skills you learn will translate later - small talk, for example.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 12:20 AM
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Agreed. People will go to great lengths to protect their egos. If she wrote this post, it'd say that you gave up on improving yourself and wanting to provide for her. In reality, now that she has access to white-collar dick, you're beneath her SMV and thus invisible. Welcome to TRP.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 11:48 PM
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Yes - as a high SMV man you do not need to send needy texts or let some girl live rent free in your head.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 11:35 PM
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Your problem is not with this girl, it's with yourself through a lack of abundance. Punking out with this girl through a needy message is not going to help you in the long-run.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 11:22 PM
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Yeah but I don’t really wanna wait around for a month wondering if she’s gonna reach out. She's probably not going to respond and you're still going to be waiting around for a month wondering if she's going to reach out. This is a good opportunity to improve yourself - instead of being needy beta, be an abundant alpha. If she says I’m wrong and she wants to see me, then I’ll give her another shot. Your message has 0 chance of making you more attractive. It's a cry for attention.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 10:58 PM
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Majority of AskTRP posts about social life are from college dudes. In college, unless you're established in an organization where you have status (fraternity, student government, band), you're more than likely not going to slay pussy. College is another version of high school. As long as you're taking care of your business and enjoying your hobbies, don't worry about things too much. The best thing you can do if you want random hookups is join a club, lift weights, and go to parties. However, th…
/r/askTRP11/04/18 10:55 PM
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Any message you send about shelving yall's arrangement just comes off as butthurt and needy. ABC - Always Be Cool. Just move on and if she wants to hang out again she can reach out.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 10:47 PM
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Audible "How to Win Friends and Influence People" and "The Like Switch." It becomes easy with practice but no one is going to wait for you to muster up the courage to engage and interact. Start with those books and you'll have a foundation to build upon.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 10:24 PM
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Following TRP is more-so realizing what you've already seen, which is that life sucks when you're overweight, low SMV, and in toxic relationships. The world doesn't care how nice of a guy you are on the inside. Keep working on yourself and your outlook will improve. Don't worry so much about spinning plates when you're 21 with an uphill battle - there's a foundation of self esteem that you first need to set. Things will start happening that confirm the work you've done: more stable and attractiv…
/r/askTRP11/04/18 07:29 PM
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Remove your attention and focus on spinning plates. She'll get the memo and either join in on the fun or she'll find a new orbiter.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 03:29 PM
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"I like him" as a provider. She is going to test his commitment level before giving him the sex he wants.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 03:34 AM
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Sounds like you're going to say yes and get used.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 03:26 AM
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I'm locked out of FB for another day and a half due to violations What?
/r/askTRP11/04/18 03:25 AM
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Download Arnold Schwarzenegger's "The New Encyclopedia of Modern Bodybuilding." That will answer most of your early questions regarding muscle building. Lifts like 5x5 and maxing will help you build a strong foundation. Lifts of 8-12 reps to failure are going to grow your muscles once that foundation is set.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 03:24 AM
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You're living in her frame. Invest in someone else. We skype on evenings and visit each others houses feels the need to be single so she can get her sexual thirst out of her system She has you for commitment while she rides the cock carousel. Now I'm wondering if there's any point is sustaining what we have which might develop long term Plate her at best. You'll never have her respect as "the guy who waited for her."
/r/askTRP11/04/18 03:09 AM
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Totes
/r/askTRP11/04/18 03:00 AM
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baby she just had with some one night stand who isn't in her life any more Ellen is not a stable woman. You do not need Ellen in your life as a romantic interest. Her behavior is not going to follow any normal patterns because her life is not following normal patterns.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 02:56 AM
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Send her a low-effort text at best. If she wants to come over and suck your dick then cool. If not, she's already proven herself unworthy of a relationship.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 02:48 AM
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She basically admitted she loves me but is so nervous or afraid of being rejected she sometimes won’t chase. Sounds like you've answered your own question. If you want to see her, you'll have to reach out.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 08:06 PM
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A lot of the advice here is to prompt men into stopping needy behavior - constant texting, over emotional, passive-aggressiveness, etc. However, you're still the leader and need to establish the frame of each relationship. Your first job is to create the world where women would chase you, which is your status, physique, and confidence, among other traits. From there, most of your quality plates are going to be because you opened. Once you've hung out a couple times by your initiation, had sex, a…
/r/askTRP10/04/18 07:41 PM
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It's always your responsibility to reach out. That's part of being the leader.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 07:21 PM
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You're probably experiencing a mixture of burnout and let-down. You've worked your ass off to get where you are and now it's not what you imagined. The pay-off of being a doctor doesn't happen in your twenties. You're playing the long-game - the benefits come later when you're financially set, engaged at work, and able to date/plate girls who, in their minds, are competing to wed a doctor. I remember working my ass off in college/law school and thinking to myself, "why the hell am I doing this?"…
/r/askTRP10/04/18 04:45 PM
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Need more context
/r/askTRP10/04/18 04:23 AM
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What is your question?
/r/askTRP10/04/18 04:21 AM
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If you meet a bitch in the morning, you met a bitch. If you meet bitches all day, you're the bitch.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 02:10 AM
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Leave her blocked, forget about her forever. The opposite of love is indifference. A scathing message would stroke her ego and show you care. Worst case scenario - you try and rekindle the spark, she leads you on, and then shuts you down like a chump. That's better than sex for women.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 12:12 AM
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She's found someone else.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 03:05 AM
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Hooyah
/r/askTRP31/03/18 03:35 PM
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Lifting weights, hanging with your friends, and completing a degree or some investment in yourself.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 02:34 AM
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Meet with a financial advisor. Pay down your credit card/student loan students immediately. Those are the best investments you can make. Since you live with your parents the idea of a 6 month emergency fund isn't as pressing - the $10k you'd put into a savings account would just start getting eaten by inflation. Once you move out, this becomes more important. I max out my Roth IRA each year ($5,500, taxed going in) and then put whatever I can into a taxable investment account. Depending on your …
/r/askTRP28/03/18 02:31 AM
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Agreed. Knocking out college and possibly graduate school early is key. Not many people can just mentally and physically commit to 8 years of schooling at age 25.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 04:03 AM
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A few million is not as much as you think. Meet with a financial planner, max your IRA, and invest the rest into the market. Take out what you need to complete your education and pay rent. Real estate investments are also a solid option with the ability to pay in cash. I'm not sure your parents thought process once this money was made available to you. Setting you up with long-term planning and mentoring on how to invest wisely is worth its weight in gold.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 04:00 AM
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Work out, save up money, and get the fuck out of your hometown.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 04:04 AM
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She's trying to lock down her BB - her SMV is plummeting as she approaches the wall, especially with a kid. Enjoy it while it lasts.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 04:01 AM
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You're playing with fire - LTR and date the illness, or plate her and get guilt tripped the entire time.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 03:57 AM
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What the fuck did I just read
/r/askTRP26/03/18 03:44 AM
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Audible "The Like Switch" by Jack Schafer. FBI agent wrote it and answers your question.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 02:23 AM
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You’re an idiot for commenting. You stood to gain nothing.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 02:04 PM
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Spec ops training broke some of the best athletes I've ever met. If you're serious about it then you need to get the fuck off the internet and head straight to a gymnasium.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 12:47 AM
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Good call.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 09:47 PM
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I recommend pursuing a much higher paying career if you plan on getting married. You'd effectively be living off 25k a year if divorced. That's flirting with the poverty line.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/18 05:04 AM
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Officers don't live on base unless you want to. Your social circle will be your Navy buddies, so find cool ones at supply school. I also found there was plenty of time to go out and crush Tinder, but you'll be on the move for your career. I was a tank driver.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 04:57 AM
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By not touching yourself at night.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/18 04:50 AM
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Building desire is primarily done in person. Texting will contribute to friendship, which does not necessarily translate to sexual attraction. Find a way to see her in person and flirt.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/18 04:48 AM
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Download Arnold's "The New Encyclopedia of Modern Bodybuilding." He will answer most of your questions. I've never done a 5x5 program. It is more for strength, whereas sets of 8-12 will be more for muscle growth.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/18 04:46 AM
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Yes. Girls live the Disney princess fairytale until their world gets shattered. Most women you'll date have already had their fairytales blown apart, which is why they'll have no problem destroying your world.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/18 04:43 AM
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You say you stay busy and away from your phone but you're monitoring them on social media. Who cares about their digital conversations. Social media serves a single purpose, which is providing women with free attention. Your attention is not free.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/18 04:41 AM
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Plates will inherently push for exclusivity. If she's stonewalling you, such as demanding a relationship before you even have sex, then she's probably not worth the effort.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/18 04:37 AM
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Take what you want from here, but remember that this place exists for a reason - that life you want no longer exists. Women are empowered to sleep-around until they find their provider, and then take your wealth and children when they decide they no longer love you. 50% divorce rate, 70% of divorces initiated by women, half your school teacher salary dedicated to paying your ex-wife, not including at least half of your kids time. Sound good to you?
/r/TheRedPill21/03/18 04:32 AM
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Bait her into admitting she lied over text if you can't get a snapshot of her Tinder age.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 04:09 AM
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This is a joke right
/r/askTRP21/03/18 03:57 AM
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Been a military officer - I loved it. Some of my buddies are supply and they seem to enjoy it. If you're serious about a lat-transfer to SEALs then your scores better be through the roof - <8:00 swim, 100, 100, 25, <9:00 run. There are very few transfer spots at BUD/S.
/r/askTRP21/03/18 03:50 AM
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Only go Poly Sci if you plan on going to law school. Other than that it's useless.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 11:55 PM
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Download the PDF for Arnold Schwarzenegger's "The New Encyclopedia of Modern Bodybuilding." It's nearly 900 pages and will answer most of the questions you'll have when you start lifting.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 11:48 PM
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This. It's to protect their ego in case of rejection - they can tell themselves/others "I wasn't interested anyway."
/r/askTRP19/03/18 11:41 PM
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Self talk is the positive or negative inner-dialogue you have with yourself - the difference between thinking “fuck fuck fuck” vs. “you got this” when you’re on the line for the game winning free-throws. You’re not going to get some secret boost of alpha male mojo just by walking around your apartment talking to yourself. Ex-Navy SEAL Thom Shea does a good presentation on the power of positive thinking.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 05:57 PM
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I gave up reading halfway. Seems like you're answering your own questions. Whatever else you have can be answered in the sidebar and reading top posts and EC comments.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 03:15 AM
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I'm living in a small city infested with twenty-something single mothers. They are not worth the effort.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/18 09:55 PM
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Join your sophomore year if you're interested in greek life. I was president of my fraternity - it was a great ride.
/r/askTRP18/03/18 06:06 PM
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he had been lying about getting clients, thus I now have no income This is your ex-gf. Have some self respect.
/r/askTRP18/03/18 04:19 PM
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and that you shouldn't accept anything else but a pleasant woman around you. Many guys come to TRP and struggle with trying to reshape their relationship dynamic after their woman has settled into her comfort zone. Whether it's scarcity or the sunk-cost fallacy, they are afraid to start fresh with someone new.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/18 05:01 AM
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You've taken an article that suggests this: "This study found it (egalitarianism) may positively impact sexual desire in long-term relationships, where more egalitarian relationships were related to higher levels of sexual desire from both partners (Brezsnyak & Whisman, 2004)" And turned it into this: "This paper suggests egalitarianism in a relationship is essential to maintaining sexual desire." When in reality, the research the article was citing stated this: "Results indicated that marital s…
/r/askTRP18/03/18 04:40 AM
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However when I checked her phone later Come on dude.
/r/askTRP18/03/18 04:27 AM
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Download Arnold's "The New Encyclopedia of Modern Bodybuilding." He covers a number of topics that could apply to your question, such as amount of reps per set, exercising to failure, and stretching between sets.
/r/askTRP18/03/18 04:24 AM
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If your girlfriend doesn't care how you feel when she hangs out this guy, do you think she'll care how you feel when she goes down on him? She saved his name in her phone as a girls name. Look at the writing on the wall.
/r/askTRP18/03/18 04:13 AM
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It's not your job to get rid of him. It's hers.
/r/askTRP18/03/18 04:07 AM
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Step 1: Get the fuck off your phone.
/r/askTRP17/03/18 07:32 PM
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Audible "How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie and "The Like Switch" by Jack Schafer. Both touch on it. Your body language is a driver for starting conversations. People know before you open your mouth if they want to talk to you. Head up, shoulders back, smiling, confident and open posture, send out signals to others that you're worth their time. The world is a balance between meritocracy and the "old boys' club." Meaning, work your ass off and you'll open doors - but develo…
/r/askTRP16/03/18 04:22 PM
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You're preaching the feminization of men. Try crying around your girl next time to demonstrate your empathy. The dude asked why his plate split when he told her liked her. The hard truth is that the less he cared about her, the less emotion he gave her, the more she would be attracted.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 04:11 PM
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It shows emotion. Women looking for alphas are not attracted to emotion - they want material. Her attraction to you was that, in her eyes, you were a solid wall of muscle and grit. That leaves her to dance in the flowers while you carry the weight of the world.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 05:25 AM
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but this girl really loves me and would love me forever and she would clearly take care of me have my kids and family life. You need to date this girl for years before you make this kind of determination, not 3 months.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 05:14 AM
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TRP is not anti-LTR, as long as you're taking care of yourself and your interests. The wisdom you'll find here advises you to vet potential LTRs for at least 6 months, to not live together, and forget marriage altogether. There are specific reasons for each of those. Be aware that the grass is not always greener - 18 year old girls are emotional nightmares, and you'll likely be pulling yourself down in a LTR at the cost of regular sex. Unless you're a stud with his priorities in order, which you…
/r/askTRP16/03/18 04:58 AM
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Outcome independence. Your baseline goal is to have fun with your interactions. Enjoy yourself, lead the conversations, and let your instincts take over.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 04:31 AM
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Outcome independence. Your baseline goal is to have fun in your interactions. Enjoy yourself, lead the conversations, and let your instincts take over.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 04:31 AM
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I'm guessing ya'll are in highschool. You're in her frame because she's talking to you like one of her girlfriends, but it's exciting for her because you're a guy. You need to cut the snapchat out and escalate to hanging out. If you're not leading her around, squeezing her ass, showing her off in public, then you're living in her world. If she's not down, then you have all your answers.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 04:26 AM
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Your goal is to be someone that people want to talk to and interact. Your conversations need to be fun and enjoyable.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 04:23 AM
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Audible "How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie and "The Like Switch" by Jack Schafer.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 04:18 AM
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You snapping her back and forth is not making her attracted to you. The shit test is that you've been responding.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 04:15 AM
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If you're not a troll and your post history is genuine, then you need to get off anonymous internet forums and get into a therapist's office.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 04:01 AM
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Apologies mean nothing. If she apologizes again in the morning say it's no problem. Next until she initiates a hang out.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 01:54 AM
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Yes.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 01:51 AM
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Yeah man. Keep those shoulders tight to the body.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 01:50 AM
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Who cares. Teenage girls are the most emotional unstable humans in existence.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 01:46 AM
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I'm tall and have had shoulder issues. The best thing to do is lift light at first and do constant prehab with resistance bands. I also do my best to avoid exercises that excessively flare my shoulders - meaning you'll narrow your grip on pull-ups, pull-down, bench, dumbbell press (I even go palms-in sometimes), upright row, etc.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 08:32 PM
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True statement.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 03:44 PM
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Comes with experience. Read the suggested books and keep putting yourself out there. Eventually it becomes second nature.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 03:41 PM
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Unmatch. Some girls just want to fuel their egos by opening the app to see how dudes have messaged them.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 04:06 AM
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Two strikes and she's out. Since she didn't give an alternate day you can ask when she's free. If she's vague or unresponsive = strike two, she's out. Also - plates get weeknights, girlfriends get weekends.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 03:57 AM
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Calling her a hoe probably wasn't the best move. Tinder is also best used for quickly setting up hangouts. If you insist on creating banter and your interactions aren't going anywhere you can use the nuclear option. Just call her boring. Tell her she is not interesting and get her worked up. Once she is at her angriest, tell her that you want to hang out. That fries their minds.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 03:45 AM
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Download the PDF for Arnold's "The New Encyclopedia of Modern Bodybuilding"
/r/askTRP15/03/18 03:36 AM
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Probably too pushy. Once you reach the high-water-mark for that moment, which is where you'll encounter resistance, I either give it once more try or start winding down whatever we're doing and move on. Sometimes, just by showing that you don't care, they will re-escalate the scenario. The first night with one of my current plates I hit resistance when unbuttoning her pants. I was tired so I got things set up for bed, and within a few minutes of the lights being out she maneuvered herself to get…
/r/askTRP15/03/18 03:29 AM
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She’ll abort until she sees it as a “gift from God.”
/r/askTRP14/03/18 11:31 PM
2

Kind of like that money golf shot that keeps you coming back.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 05:10 PM
2

Audible “How to Win Friends and Influence People” and “The Like Switch.” Listen to them while you’re going to bed.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 04:13 PM
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I’m going to respond to all of these the same way: I’m living in a small city for the first time in my life and keep wondering where all these 20 year old single mothers come from. This is where they come from.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 04:11 PM
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Ghost both.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 04:06 PM
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Finish the semester strong and then evaluate where you are and what you want. Being a young man in school is a stressful time. The most important thing is how you feel about your life.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 04:35 AM
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Talk to a therapist.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 03:52 AM
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Wear a condom.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 02:34 AM
3

The definition of don't shit where you eat. Get your shit together. You shouldn't be relying on other people to do work in a group project.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 02:30 AM
7

And I addressed your concern in my reply. You don't have to become a competitor. You can literally just learn technique from a trainer and work the heavy/speed bags.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 09:09 PM
4

Boxing. You don't need to become a competitor to gain its benefits - just sign up for a couple months of training and your confidence will skyrocket.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 09:02 PM
2

Fight or flight response. Your body overreacted to the confrontation - kind of like how young lawyers get too worked up or talk too fast in court. The more it happens the less you'll react.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 08:55 PM
2

This is a good skill to have but won't necessarily make women more attracted to you. If it helps you gain confidence in interacting with women then there's no harm in it, but remember that you won't be able to compliment a woman into your bed. For long-term goals, you essentially want women to drop their guard - to make them vulnerable. Compliments can do this initially but too many comes off as insincere or demonstrates low value. Being confident (smiling, having open posture, head up, eye cont…
/r/askTRP13/03/18 08:42 PM
1

Me when I walk into the club
/r/askTRP13/03/18 08:03 PM
3

You’re going to have the opposite effect that you want. Scolding a woman for being a woman will not make her more attracted to you.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 04:50 PM
5

Normal. You’ve been conditioned to believe that if you’re getting punched it’s because you’re wrong or a wimp. Now that you’re training in combat sports this mental response will phase out fast.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 04:21 PM
5

"Ok good luck" Don't beg or bargain. If you she wants to fuck you again she'll let you know. Open new prospects.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 05:20 AM
18

Women primarily sense by movement. If you stand very still they won't know you're there.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 05:16 AM
2

The biggest losers are those who blame others for their misfortune. Start everyday with the mindset that you are in complete control of your life.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 05:04 AM
1

For fuck's sake man. Hang out with your friends.
/r/askTRP13/03/18 05:02 AM
6

This is too much to process in a single conversation. Your most basic principle should be the same for everyone - if you want people to like you, make them feel good about themselves. Don't be a kiss-ass, don't be a dickhead. Sometimes just being a high SMV male and starting the conversation is enough of a compliment to a woman. Be fun to talk to, don't be a try-hard. Get comfortable being engaging with outcome independence. Once you have that baseline, implement some of the above principles. Yo…
/r/askTRP12/03/18 09:27 PM
2

These are good problems to have. Prioritize your time - if you need to drop a plate, or all, then that's what you need to do. However, a healthy balance of work and pleasure is the best long-term play. I do my best to work and rest on weekends. Plates get week nights.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 06:45 PM
6

Women who are wholly invested in you do not behave this way. The problem is LDR - the solution is demotion. If she acts this way in front of you, what do you think she's doing when you're 3 hours away?
/r/askTRP12/03/18 06:33 PM
2

You hurt her feelings and now she's shields up. She doesn't care about the why. Move on. If she's interested again she'll let you know, which is usually after seeing you game other women. The liking photos is just a low-effort attempt to keep you as an orbiter.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 06:06 PM
1

What would be the answer that wins the scholarship?
/r/askTRP12/03/18 06:28 AM
2

Chicks have girlfriends to chat with over text. Your purpose for sending her a message is to escalate into meeting. It can be quick as "Hey, it was great meeting you last night. I want us to hang out sometime. How about we get a drink tomorrow at 8?" If you need to butter her up, open with a question or joke that she would understand. Maybe a reference to one of her posts. Within a few lines you need to be escalating.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 06:19 AM
1

Audible "The Like Switch" by Jack Schafer.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 04:53 AM
1

Aunt? Uncle? You haven't had sex with her and ya'll are playing these games? Next.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 04:47 AM
1

Wait a week then ask her if she's free for coffee on ____. If she doesn't reply with a yes or an alternate day, then you move on.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 04:03 AM
1

Listen to the audible of "The Like Switch" by Jack Schafer. It will help with flirting and overall relationship building. Crush Tinder and Bumble - just start going on dates and gain experience.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 03:55 AM
2

What are your goals in life?
/r/askTRP12/03/18 02:33 AM
1

Download the PDF for Arnold Schwarzenegger's "The New Encyclopedia of Modern Bodybuilding." He will answer a good chunk of the early questions you have regarding gyms, routines, diet, etc.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 02:20 AM
1

Another variation is called the "urban scowl." Basically, are you sending friend or foe signals? Communication is mostly body language. Smile at everyone you pass on the street. Genuinely be happy to meet them. Be the first to introduce yourself. Be comfortable saying, "Hey, how's it going? Nice watch." If you want people to like you, make them feel good about themselves.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 02:17 AM
1

4 years sober. Best decision of my life. Your game will change if you go that route - less pulling from bars and more from everyday life.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 02:09 AM
2

Do all the leg work up front and then have fun. Talk to everyone and lead the charge.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 02:06 AM
3

If you run into an asshole in the morning, you ran into an asshole. If you run into assholes all day, you're the asshole.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 01:54 AM
0

You either creeped her out or she's a bitch. If you are at zero risk of seeing her in the future, as in no mutual friends, then you can go nuclear option. Basically, tell her that she wasn't interesting so you needed to keep yourself occupied around her. Insult her to the point that she is furious. Then ask her to hang out. It works better than you'd think.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 01:31 AM
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If you want to fuck her then forget she exists and establish a steady rotation of plates. Your interactions with her are friendly but shallow, like someone on the bus. She either notices your high value and reaches out to join your rotation, or you're too busy banging other chicks to care anyway.
/r/askTRP09/03/18 11:10 PM
2

There was probably amphetamine stored in your body somewhere that was used like a reserve stock. Or your brain worked overtime to replicate the drug. A chemist would know better.
/r/askTRP09/03/18 09:04 PM
7

Ignore her beauty. Women dress provocatively because their looks are their greatest asset.
/r/askTRP09/03/18 09:00 PM
2

You're having withdrawals - mood swings, weight gain, cravings. Goes to show you how dependent the brain can become. Depending on how long you took adderall, it could be months before you stabilize. Let your body even out then make your decision regarding medication.
/r/askTRP09/03/18 07:58 PM
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If you want the easiest aspect of TRP to swallow then start with self-improvement. Successful, fit, and confident men are valued. Without ever having a network male friends and unsure of how to even start building one, how do I make friends and get invited to social events? Read or audible "How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie and "The Like Switch" by Jack Schafer. Social skills are just that - skills.
/r/askTRP09/03/18 06:20 AM
7

Because they are all sluts. Christian good-girls don’t want to admit that tasty forearms were all it took to become her soul-mate. You’re trying to break this down like you’re writing your college thesis. Don’t. It’s all to protect their ego, so they don’t have to admit that they are a warm hole looking for the tastiest cock.
/r/askTRP09/03/18 05:54 AM
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Your focus is 100% on what's next and what's best - don't beat yourself up over "mistakes" you've think you've made. 18 hour days will lead anyone to a break down. I'm a lawyer and my dad is a lawyer - I've seen people burn out and break down all throughout my life from the stress of work. Some overdose, some spiral out into arrests, most get divorced. I would schedule therapy sessions immediately - voicing what's on your mind is a big step. I would talk to your mentor about preparing your resum…
/r/askTRP09/03/18 05:26 AM
4

Yeah - most of social media is about validation. Women hold onto the fairytale fantasy, so their script gets muddied when they have to admit that they were swept off their feet by an Instagram DM.
/r/askTRP09/03/18 05:11 AM
2

You are over-analyzing this. Christian good-girl virgins look for XYZ physical traits to decide who becomes their "soul-mate." 9's fuck 9's, 8's fuck 8's..
/r/askTRP09/03/18 05:01 AM
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ASD
/r/askTRP09/03/18 03:15 AM
12

Young girls live in a Disney fairytale, where true love sparks when opposites attract. You should fuck her friend just to blow up the situation.
/r/askTRP09/03/18 03:10 AM
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How can I stop looking for validation from this girl? You're looking for shortcuts on how to be a high value man, one who doesn't care about a single rejection. Your self-confidence and anger issues are apparent - channel them into your mission. Once you stop caring about what women think is when they start caring.
/r/askTRP09/03/18 02:35 AM
1

This girl sounds like a pain in the ass. Lower your expectations.
/r/askTRP09/03/18 02:17 AM
5

What do I do next? What should I have done? How do I get better? How do I game other women? Sidebar
/r/askTRP09/03/18 02:08 AM
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Talk to girls however you like but realize who gets their attraction - the dudes excelling at their hobbies (sports, band, throwing parties). Highschool girls want guys at the top of the hierarchy. They don't give a fuck about your common interests unless her besties also think you're cute. The best highschool advice is to focus on hanging out with your buddies, enjoying your hobbies, lifting weights, and taking care of your schoolwork. The dudes who are wrapped up in relationships in highschool…
/r/askTRP08/03/18 10:18 PM
1

There is absolutely zero benefit to you in being in a group chat with women.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 04:46 PM
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Relationships over. You set a boundary and she crossed. Demote to plate. If you look back and consider this petty, then don’t helicopter over your next SO. There will be bigger red flags if dread/next is needed from similiar type issues, such as her turning down sex. You should be too busy to be checking on who’s liking what on Instagram.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 04:14 PM
4

Plates get weeknights. Girlfriends get weekends.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 05:09 AM
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"Just the cute ones." Establish that you're a sexual person then be on your way. Let her spend the rest of ya'lls interactions chasing that next compliment.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 04:03 AM
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No - understanding the AF/BB dynamic will answer questions that will inevitably arise. For example, why is she making me wait for sex? Alpha/beta are behaviors on a spectrum. Things like dread and comfort are used to establish enough of a balance of alpha and beta behaviors to keep a relationship going. For OP, this girl is looking at him as a provider. He's going to need to work on exhibiting alpha characteristics to get the best sex possible.
/r/askTRP07/03/18 12:49 AM
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Yup. OP, you think this is abuse? If you can’t take this, how can you take the abuse you get when she nags you about being more like her ex?
/r/askTRP06/03/18 07:12 PM
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You are her Beta Bux. Get what you want out of her but understand that you’re not going to be this girls Alpha.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 06:09 PM
2

I’ve been living in small cities for the first time in my life and have been wondering where all these 20 year old single mothers come from. This is where they come from.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 05:15 PM
2

Tell it to your priest. Not your gf.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 04:12 AM
2

This will be an "atta boy" if this is the last contact you ever give her. She is not a "mature young adult."
/r/askTRP06/03/18 04:07 AM
0

A sip of ZzzQuil, 5 mg melatonin, and a Primitive Technology video on YouTube. You will be out in minutes.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 03:48 AM
1

You don't know confidence until you walk into a bar as a trained boxer.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 03:39 AM
1

Damaged goods.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 03:33 AM
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The most trustworthy method is to get drinks or something low effort for date 1 and then proceed from there. Unless she's leaving town the next day, you're not going to get many girls to come straight over. Anecdotal, but the hottest girl I've pulled from Tinder drove an hour to come over and get fucked. She was on the last night of her family beach vacation so that was a rarity. The invitation was to come "hang out."
/r/askTRP06/03/18 03:14 AM
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https://www.trp.red/p/mattyanon/260 Any woman who insists that you DM her on her instagram instead of giving you her phone number is an attention whore and not worth your time.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 02:32 AM
1

Better yet, don't reply at all. Hang out with your guy friends. Women want to fuck men, not gay friends.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 06:24 AM
3

Don't ever tell a woman about your fetish unless you're comfortable with the whole world knowing.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 06:17 AM
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Yes. The first reason would be if you need it for self-improvement - monk mode. The second reason would be if you need it for self-fulfillment - your shot at glory. You can live an imbalanced life when you're young. Dedicate yourself fully to a goal - become a doctor, travel the world, make it as a musician. These are things that may take all your time. Once you've reached your goals, or in between them, add plates for sexual gratification. Find the balance when you need it.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 06:07 AM
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Time to break up. You are essentially her girlfriend.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 05:49 AM
1

Christ dude, I can't read all that. If you fucked her good, then everything is right in the world. Most of your questions are splitting hairs - should I have/have not kissed her at this exact moment? The correct answer is to trust your instincts. Act without hesitation. Also, buy condoms in bulk.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 04:30 AM
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You treat them like your bratty little sister. It's never serious and always to get under their skin. They love it. A plate picked me up last week and parked in a handicapped spot while I was coming out. I immediately started ragging on her - with my palms up is disbelief, "Ohhh my good what are you thinking?? Do you always block handicapped people from their spots??" If they don't know you're joking, you tell them you're just kidding and slap their ass or squeeze the back of their neck. Pull th…
/r/askTRP05/03/18 04:10 AM
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Dissolve as in dedicate yourself to your goal. Things like going out and having a girlfriend get put on the back burner. It's an extreme example, such as if you were training for the special forces or studying for the CPA, but the point is that you understand your priorities.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 01:11 AM
2

"The Like Switch" by Jack Schafer. FBI negotiator breaks down how to get people to like you.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 12:05 AM
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I have a mentor who has a president's resume - Rhodes scholar, special forces, doctor - and I called him up recently. I told him that I had accomplished my latest goal but that I was exhausted, and had to dissolve my life in order to succeed. He told me "I dissolved my life too. Work, athletics, women - pick two." Like fnordsnord said, you prioritize.
/r/askTRP04/03/18 11:44 PM
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TRP is not a religion - do what you want. I was president of my fraternity.
/r/askTRP04/03/18 07:42 AM
2

If your problem is "there is this one girl," you're doing it wrong.
/r/askTRP04/03/18 07:17 AM
0

If your problem is "there is this one girl," you're doing it wrong.
/r/askTRP04/03/18 07:04 AM
1

This girl is your girlfriend. Do whatever you want but understand that you are now in a relationship. The availability you have given her will be the expectation if you want to continue to have sex regularly. If this is truly a fwb situation, then be prepared that this will burn out quickly. Don't get your feelings hurt if she's been getting pounded by her ex on the side because you haven't vetted her, nor has your relationship been defined. The rules you have mentioned work on MOST women to est…
/r/askTRP04/03/18 06:53 AM
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Two things significantly changed my life: Dedication to lifting - 4 days a week. You say you're lifting but 1-2 days a week won't grow muscles. 6'1 155lbs is skinny. You should be 6'1 200lbs. Add creatine into your diet if you want the extra girth. Relentless pursuit of leadership positions - college has endless opportunities to rise to the top of clubs. I did this in both undergrad and law school. Confidence comes from experience. Experience comes from putting yourself in uncomfortable position…
/r/askTRP03/03/18 07:44 PM
1

Bahaha
/r/askTRP03/03/18 08:02 AM
1

It's hard to tell. This one was eager to hang out on the first date but shut me down during the initial escalation to sex. After a soft next she got the message.
/r/askTRP03/03/18 07:52 AM
6

Keep the plate a plate. Whether you want to stay in your relationship is another story.
/r/askTRP03/03/18 07:29 AM
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Don't be so hard on yourself. You've worked on your appearance, you're in college, and you're working. These are major accomplishments. Keep it up. People will rarely, if at all, give out compliments. The single best advice I can give you, aside from continuing to lift weights (which is the secret to receiving unsolicited compliments) is to download and listen to the audio book "The Like Switch" by Jack Schafer. Basically, he's an FBI negotiator who breaks down the science of getting people to l…
/r/askTRP03/03/18 06:03 AM
7

Taking boxing lessons. Or MMA.
/r/askTRP03/03/18 05:45 AM
1

In my experience, bad boy pics work better in the summer and decent pics work better in the winter.
/r/askTRP03/03/18 05:41 AM
1

Ya'll are planning Christmas in March?
/r/askTRP03/03/18 05:37 AM
3

This is an unforeseen circumstance that may be legit. Lower your expectations but throw her an olive branch in a few days. A low effort text like "Hey hope everythings ok" will tell you everything you want to know. If no response, ghost confirmed. If warm reception, build slowly back up to hanging out.
/r/askTRP03/03/18 05:26 AM
2

It's either a "fuck yes" or "no." She re-directed the conversation. This is a no - don't bother responding. If she wants to hang out again, let her bring it up.
/r/askTRP03/03/18 05:14 AM
3

Talk to a therapist. Porn is probably the root cause. More sex is probably the solution. I hate the smell of latex so if I haven't had sex in awhile it bothers me. Once I started getting laid regularly again, the bother goes away.
/r/askTRP03/03/18 04:37 AM
8

Is there a question here? I'm guessing you're about 18. You're arguing with a girl on Tinder. C'mon dude.
/r/askTRP03/03/18 04:26 AM
1

Girls swallow their own version of TRP. In many ways, being Alpha Widowed is a slap in the face by reality - they learn the hard way that they aren't all Disney princesses destined for true love, and that Prince Charming really just wanted to nut on her tits. I remember taking this girl's virginity and breaking her heart. I don't think she's recovered to this day. Those females who do get it can be seen in Michael's Story. They understand the sexual market place, play their hand, then settle for…
/r/askTRP03/03/18 02:00 AM
1

It's all on a spectrum - some women are sex addicts and some don't care. Same for men. By and large, however, men crave sex more regularly. Just look at the demand for strip clubs, prostitutes, and female porn stars. The market for the male versions don't compare. It makes sense biologically. Men can impregnate a different woman every day. A woman get can pregnant once and then gestate for nine months. That being said, a thirsty woman is a sight to behold. A plate I have now sends me texts multi…
/r/askTRP03/03/18 01:39 AM
1

To use Tinder as a hook up app, you've got to be setting up a hangout within the first day of chatting. Some guys on here say within the first 5 messages, but like you said, it varies. The "flow" of things is usually finding something that catches her attention (like talking about her being a fitness freak), which makes her feel good about herself, and then escalating to getting drinks/dinner. You're guiding the conversation so you create the flow. With the sporty girl: Me: "Hey _____, what's go…
/r/askTRP02/03/18 05:25 PM
1

I chalked it up to never seeing her again, which probably drove her to want me more. Be aloof, indifferent, respond to her texts but always be escalating. The "I miss you, I need you" is a little clingy which you can't really escalate from, so redirect those into something sexual - "I also need you, to be in my bed." If she brings up visiting you again, have a good weekend ready to fire back. "I'm free June 23rd-24th, come on down."
/r/askTRP02/03/18 05:16 PM
1

I've had girlfriends call me out for behaviors that had them worried. Like, "Baby, I noticed you did XYZ, are we ok?"; "Yeah Sugar Tits, we're good."; "Ok baby, thank you." Completely acceptable. Women need to be comforted to a degree. That's normal. If that comfort turns to snooping or spying, that's a sign of either a guilty conscious or serious trust issues. Either of those are major red flags.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 05:10 PM
3

"Cute like a big dicked freak of nature? Ok, cool." Either escalate or be her penpal.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 07:08 AM
6

Do you want her to visit? I hooked up with a girl in a city a few hours away. She was turned on enough by the encounter that she drove to my city a few weekends later to get fucked all weekend and do things that I wanted to do, like go to a boxing event. If this girl is legitimately sane and just wants more of your juice, string her along. Let her buy the plane ticket though.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 07:06 AM
1

You need to get involved on campus. I was in a fraternity and on the lacrosse team, which made for a great college experience. And lift and go to class.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 06:55 AM
3

It varies woman to woman. Best advice: be water, my friend. Go with the flow. Match your escalation to the context of the conversation. For example, I was talking to sporty girl on Tinder tonight, so I felt comfortable allowing her to fill in the blanks. Me: "What's your schedule like after this weekend? I want us to get drinks" Her: "Just gym and work, but we can get oysters and happy hour Monday at blah blah blah.." I'm ok with putting as much out there as needed for her to pick up the rest. E…
/r/askTRP02/03/18 06:49 AM
14

Tinder Pro-Tip: The girl's last photo is usually the most accurate. It's like they need to absolve their guilt by sneaking in a real one at the end.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 06:44 AM
24

You pull out your Men In Black Neuralyzer and forget this ever happened.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 06:40 AM
1

Agreed. Overanalyzing the situation. There's no single act, like asking a favor, that will convince her to like you. She either does or doesn't. If she does think of you sexually, her getting butthurt about a comment you made is not a dealbreaker as much as a minor inconvenience. Either ask her out or stash her away in the spank bank.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 06:37 AM
1

What is the dynamic of ya'lls relationship - dating, fwb? What is her objective SMV compared to yours? Shit testing is a way for a woman to confirm a man's frame. If she's happily living within your frame, following your lead, then there's no need to rock the boat when it's smooth sailing. It's also not needed if you are well above her in SMV, or ya'lls interaction doesn't require it, like bootycalls at 2am.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 06:34 AM
3

Your agenda. Everyone has an agenda. Do you want to fuck her again or make her feel good about herself. She wants a penpal. That sounds pretty gay to me. If you want to be nice but shut her down, just say something aloof like "Thanks for the message. I've been well. Hope everythings good with you" If you want to set things up sexually for next time, escalate.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 06:25 AM
3

Yall's relationship has progressed to sex, which makes her uncomfortable. Probably a virgin, probably wants to save herself for marriage like her parents did. You're not doing anything wrong. Remove attention for at least a few days and then initiate. If it's more of the same, then you've got all you can from her.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 06:21 AM
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Projection of a guilty conscious. She's either cheated, is talking to someone, or is thinking about it. Or she's jealous and insecure. Either way, this is not a healthy relationship. Call her out and see what you can get. Regardless of the answer, time to look elsewhere.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 06:18 AM
1

How old are ya'll? If you're in high school, just ignore it because 18 year old girls will find any and all ways to show off their newly grown tits. If you're older, break up with this slut. If I noticed my girlfriend sending body pics to a guy late at night, I'd tell her to get the fuck out of my house.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 06:15 AM
1

Sucking at something is just the first step towards becoming sorta good at something. You've just got to keep trying, reading, learning. Your emotions will get in check as you get more experience.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 06:08 AM
1

Any motivation is good motivation. Though, when you really need to pull from the reserves, it has to be about you. Think about the dudes going through BUD/S. If they are there just to prove a girl wrong, they won't make it. Think about what you really want.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 06:04 AM
1

Not married/never have been. The high expectations are what stuck out to me in this comment, which I agree. Ya'll both enjoy the chatting, feeling out. However, too much talk beforehand might be enough of an experience for her. Maybe take a day or two off to get her head spinning, make her miss you.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 04:10 AM
3

There's a great book about social skills by an FBI negotiator called "The Like Switch." His advice on getting people to like you, whether you're recruiting a foreign-national or picking up women at a bar, is to make them feel good about themselves. It also has to be sincere. I was talking to a Tinderella and she said she was teaching a spin class. I asked if she had always been fit (compliment) and she said that she had started a few years ago, and now has lost 40 lbs. I gave her an atta girl. I…
/r/askTRP02/03/18 03:27 AM
8

That's where she keeps the nugget porn. Probably has something to hide. Or could be pics of her putting things in her butt. Either way, if she's not your gf, who cares. If she is, prepare that she might not be anymore. Might not of been a pic. Might be a text she's expecting from that guy.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 02:46 AM
1

I've got "boys for life" as gay as it sounds. Dudes I went to school with from elementary through high school. Nicknames, dirt, that shit doesn't go away. You just need to spin it back around. That's how the game works. Like vandaalen said, call your buddy "Good Luck Cuck" or something ridiculous whenever he brings up the story. You can basically make a charade of the whole situation. Announcing to the group that your cousins new nickname is Good Luck Cuck for being the spark that led your tiny …
/r/askTRP02/03/18 01:03 AM
1

It's even more important to cement your reputation in the military because people won't necessarily get "fired" if you have a legitimate beef with them. All you can do is build your status as a guy's guy and trust that if someone's pissing you off, your superiors will side with you. You'll have to be prepared to meet with all parties and voice your concerns. You need to be rock solid in those moments. In the civilian world, you can be more snake-like. For example, making anonymous complaints to …
/r/askTRP01/03/18 04:48 PM
1

Side bar. Rule Zero. No one gives a fuck about your political agenda.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 06:40 AM
2

Two thoughts: If you're aiming high right now, then you're going to be lonely. I talked to a mentor recently who has achieved alot - Rhodes Scholar, lawyer, etc. I told him I had to dissolve my life to accomplish my latest endeavor, and asked him how he found so much success as a young man. He told me that he had to dissolve his life too - work, sports, girls. Pick two. If you are comfortable with where you're at, then remember that work isn't everything. Work on your social skills and enjoy you…
/r/askTRP01/03/18 06:28 AM
1

I'm glad that TRP was not around when I was in high school because most of these lessons just need to be learned the hard way. The learned lesson with a oneitis is to finally have them. Then you realize that they are just a person and having sex with them gets old after a few times.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 04:42 AM
1

Schedule a couple sessions with a therapist. This isn't because there's anything wrong with you. You're just a normal dude who got his heart ripped out. Your typing all that out was probably liberating, as much as I hate when TRP becomes a diary. It will be even more beneficial to vocalize what you're thinking - that you want to be on your own, to be the main actor in your life. Discussing it, with a male pscyhologist preferably, will be a big step in making your wants a reality.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 04:35 AM
6

This is what happens when you go on a 6 hr first date. You didn't do any one thing wrong. You're overanalyzing it. You both wanted to get laid and it happened. Be proud of yourself. However, she doesn't want to go through another 6 hour ordeal to get laid again. Don't beat yourself up. I've made the same mistake with women when the hangout was fun. There's almost never a second date. It's just too must of an emotional investment for women, especially when they are just wanting to ride some dick.…
/r/askTRP01/03/18 04:24 AM
5

I've been a military officer. TRP is mostly about masculine self-improvement and understanding bio-psychology. You can do both of those in the military. The culture of the military does away with a lot of the sensitivity and passiveness that is prevalent in society, which allows men to be men. TRP is not necessarily about being the biggest swinging dick in the room at all times. If being given orders comes off as taking shit from someone, that might either be your personality or a failure of lea…
/r/askTRP01/03/18 03:14 AM
1

Read the title.. Then the first thing I saw was this: I ended up texting her back with a cute joke Then I stopped reading.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 02:58 AM
2

Good answer.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 02:47 AM
2

Fate whispers to the warrior, “You cannot withstand this gorilla.” The warrior whispers back, “I am the gorilla.”
/r/askTRP27/02/18 07:13 PM
3

How old are ya'll?
/r/askTRP27/02/18 06:10 AM
1

Yeah man. You'll be good skipping all the chapters on the history of bodybuilding, competition, and poses. Go straight to Arnold's explanations of why muscles grow, the different strategies for weightlifting, and his designed beginner/intermediate workouts. That'll allow you to commit to what you're doing without second guessing things. If you're looking for a good guide on how much food it takes to get jacked, check out the articles on Michael B. Jordan's diet for Black Panther. I can't find th…
/r/askTRP26/02/18 02:34 AM
19

I remember a dude posting about inviting girls over to play Mario Kart. You can really use whatever. When I lived next door to a bar it was usually, "You should come check out my place. We'll throw on a movie."
/r/askTRP26/02/18 02:31 AM
6

I would of clocked him.
/r/askTRP26/02/18 12:30 AM
1

Join organizations. Get involved with a variety of clubs on campus. There are dudes and chicks on your campus doing things that you'll enjoy. You will make lifelong friends this way. Find one that you'd like to be in charge of and make that your goal. Lift 3-4 days a week. Download Arnold's "The New Encyclopedia of Modern Bodybuilding." In a year, if you lift regularly, your outlook on life will be completely different. Don't beat yourself up because you're not Chad Thundercock as a college fres…
/r/askTRP25/02/18 05:19 AM
3

I do squats, curls/extensions, and sometimes walking lunges for legs. Row, pull-down, shrugs for back. Abs and lower back get targeted body weight exercises. Deadlift will get everything but I find the pull on my shoulders and strain on my lower back is too risky. If you keep the weight low and dial in your form, then you should be ok. I wouldn't max often, if at all.
/r/askTRP25/02/18 04:29 AM
6

Haha yeah wot? I can never tell if these are troll posts. Plate has a specific meaning. Just say "female" if she is not currently in your fuck-buddy rotation.
/r/askTRP25/02/18 12:31 AM
9

Your body is probably telling you that it needs rest. Listen to it. Could be minor muscles are feeling fatigued. Dead lift is one of the most dangerous lifts. I don't even do them anymore after watching my last roommate wreck his back. Take a couple weeks off from dead lift. Unless you're in a strong-man competition, don't get hyper focused on your max. Otherwise, you'll just keep pushing yourself until you literally break.
/r/askTRP24/02/18 06:58 PM
11

Read up on the D.E.N.N.I.S. system. You're at the "Separate Entirely" step. But in all seriousness, this shit happens. You either tell her straight up that it's getting too real and save yourself the headache, or you start to increase distance to take advantage of the situation. The latter is done by minimal texting, hanging once a week max, and then enjoying the intense bjs and anal sex before she has a meltdown and makes you break it off.
/r/askTRP24/02/18 05:54 PM
1

This isn't about where or not you have reason to trust her. If you didn't trust her then, hopefully, you would have dumped her by now. It's about the fact that you are closely monitoring her behavior. If you want to stay in this relationship, you should not be bringing this up to her. Hell, I've lost attraction to you based on this post.
/r/askTRP24/02/18 05:32 PM
22

If you really want a girlfriend, they are out there. Only problem is that they are going to be several notches lower than your SMV. The girls you want to date are aware of their timelines - they have X amount of years before they hit the wall, and therefore need to ride the hottest dick bicycles they can before they are forced to settle for Billy Beta. I'd just lift and focus on getting through school. When you stop looking for a relationship is when it usually comes.
/r/askTRP24/02/18 07:21 AM
3

How old are you? If you're in high school, fucking a girl may not be on the table. Be prepared that she will "like" you this week and then no longer care for you by the time the concert rolls around. 17 year old girls are like that. Have a buddy on backup that is down to go. If you're older and the concert is next month, try and fuck her before then. Go for the kiss in the parking lot the next time ya'll go on a date. By the third date, you should be inviting her over. If ya'll haven't fucked an…
/r/askTRP24/02/18 06:14 AM
3

Yeah, I’m in my late twenties and everyone uses Snapchat. Bigger issues at play here, mainly trust issues. The fact that you are monitoring her Snapchat score is a big red flag for yourself. That’s not healthy. Next thing you know you’ll be grilling her at parties about who she was talking to. Think hard on if you can handle a relationship.
/r/askTRP24/02/18 05:56 AM
4

Start slowly into a lifting regiment. 45 minute sessions max for the first few months. You're building a foundation for a lifetime of lifting, not just trying to get shredded for summer. The latter way of thinking is how you hurt yourself. Download Arnold's "The New Encyclopedia of Modern Bodybuilding." That'll introduce you to the different sects of lifting. Basically, you can lift for pure strength (1 rep max), or shape your physique like Arnold. Both are going to get you jacked, it's just dif…
/r/askTRP24/02/18 01:50 AM
1

Dude, nobody cares. This isn't your diary and we aren't your pen pals. Your question has been answered: if "there's this one girl" then you're doing it wrong. Further, and seriously, look for positive male role models. I stopped reading at "she asks me to buy her $800 heels." Where is your spine? Why is a woman that isn't your wife asking you to buy her expensive gifts? This chick sounds psycho and the fact that you're in this situation tells me that you need to find mentors.
/r/askTRP24/02/18 01:36 AM
3

Totes
/r/askTRP24/02/18 01:26 AM
3

I am against prostitutes because you're running a big risk of getting arrested. If you're in Nevada, Amsterdam, etc. then go right ahead. Everywhere else, a solicitation charge is going to haunt you for a long time. Sites like Backpage and Craigslist are crawling with police. They post fake ads and arrest 10 dudes in a night. Cops also scope out known sleazy hotels and corners. Prostitutes are not worth it just to get your stinger wet.
/r/askTRP24/02/18 01:23 AM
10

Only one way to find out.
/r/askTRP24/02/18 12:16 AM
4

You need to get your shit together dude. I'm not talking about getting drunk. I'm talking about your mindset is all wrong. I could make a whole post about why giving up drinking was the best decision of my life. The simple explanation is that things were precisely what you're talking about. Everything was better when I was drunk. The only problem is that it's all in your head. It's an addict's mindset. Ask my dead cousin why he liked heroin so much. The answer to your question is to fake it unti…
/r/askTRP24/02/18 12:07 AM
1

Ironic you posted this today. I was about to respond to the "Law of Large Numbers" with a poker analogy.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 11:32 PM
7

Yeah man. Read up. Pre-screening will avoid these dilemmas and still afford you the sex of a woman trying to curry favor. This relationship is beginning to end. If this was a mild case of "Baby, I had a bad dream that you were dating Stacey's mom.. tell me everything's ok"; "Everything's ok, Sugar Tits"; "Ok baby, thanks" then I'd say that'd be normal and acceptable, since your SMV is through the roof and she knows it. Hanging up, staying mad, creating drama... not normal nor acceptable. Start l…
/r/askTRP23/02/18 07:16 PM
1

My thoughts exactly. Women don't want to be plates. They are going to Inception your ass by planting the idea that you are, in fact, in a relationship.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 06:53 PM
1

10 beta.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 06:29 PM
1

Depends on the context. You don't need hard and fast rules for these situations. If she cheated on you and threatened your family, turn and walk the other way. Otherwise, be a normal guy. I dated a girl after college and it ended amicably. I ran into her at a pre-game and she's dating a dude I know. Chatted it up with them for a few mins then on my way. If I saw her in passing, I'd wave and continue with whatever I was doing.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 03:33 AM
6

You're kind of an idiot dude.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 03:18 AM
2

Yeah that's the trend: "I won't respond here but add me on ______ or _______"
/r/askTRP22/02/18 03:17 AM
1

18-22 girls on Tinder are basically children. They are getting a lot of validation for little work. If one of them wants to fuck you, they will make it abundantly clear. That being said, just chalk it up to the way things are and keep casting the net.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 03:15 AM
1

I don't care what you want from cycling. You asked "why are women paying attention to me."
/r/askTRP22/02/18 02:49 AM
10

"We dated for a bit over a month..." How old are you? She probably got followed by a celebrity on SnapChat and wants to see her chances. Or you're blowing up her phone everyday and she's lost attraction. Or 1000 other things because there isn't much info you're giving us.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 02:43 AM
3

She wants to get laid. Set up drinks at a place convenient for you and feel her out. I wouldn't invest much in her, or show that you care that she disappeared.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 02:41 AM
3

If it works for you and makes you happy, and endures, then more power to you. It, unfortunately, does not for the majority. Men are hit the hardest by divorce laws, and are often ruined financially.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/18 02:33 AM
1

I bet he gets pussy thrown at him.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 02:17 AM
1

These kinds of posts always baffle me. You answered your own question. People want to have fun and be challenged. Treat women like bratty little sisters - tease them, lead them around, have fun with them. No one wants to hang out with an asshole.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 02:15 AM
2

Yeah.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 01:21 AM
1

Got a source?
/r/askTRP21/02/18 11:48 PM
2

Yeah what? There is no scientific scale for SMV. Generally speaking, if you're a 6'8 ripped dude you are going to be ok. If you are 7'0 and look like BFG, probably not so much.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 11:38 PM
2

Thread.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 11:31 PM
1

Yeah, don't fucking lift twice a day. Unless you're a competitive bodybuilder, you are not going to eat and sleep enough for your body to endure this. Take it slooooow. This is a marathon, not a sprint.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 07:17 PM
1

Nope.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 07:14 PM
1

I gave up drinking after college and it was the best decision of my life. The only thing I “lost” was waking up to random fattys after blacking out at the bars. The cost/benefit was a no brainer for me. Everything in my life improved, including quality of women. If you still want to go out, order NA beers.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 06:21 PM
1

Dude, you’ve got to grow up. Not trying to sound patronizing. You’re in college and you’re worried about a highshool slut. Why are you plugged into hometown high school drama?? If you want to fuck her when you’re home, great. That’s what winter/summer breaks are for. Otherwise, grow up.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 06:02 PM
2

That was the point dipshit.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/18 02:21 PM
6

"Hey you should come over"
/r/askTRP21/02/18 04:04 AM
2

"Gave her a stern talking to" sounds like a good strategy to repel women.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/18 03:52 AM
53

"Money isn't important to me. I want true love." Marries richest dude she can.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 03:22 AM
5

Your grammar tells me that you're not gettin' no paper.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/18 03:08 AM
6

Lawyer here. I went to law school to make lots of money and fuck high class bitches.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/18 02:52 AM
3

"Everything in the world is about sex. Except sex. Sex is about power."
/r/TheRedPill21/02/18 02:44 AM
35

Yeah dude, this is my thought.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/18 02:42 AM
6

If you're not fucking her this week, someone else will.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 04:49 AM
1

This is borderline "don't shit where you eat." Are these your family friends? Unless you're trying to go Benjamin Braddock on this situation, I'd store her away in the spank bank. Maybe add her on Facebook and giver her a like just for shits and giggles. If you are hell-bent on fucking her, then you ask someone for her number and text her about hanging out. Throw in that you weren't sure if she was separated for plausible deniability. She'll give you your answer.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 04:42 AM
1

Yeah. You sit down with them and tell them the truth. There is no secret RP mojo to sprinkle on this. Be a man about it.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 04:34 AM
4

If she wants a fuck-buddy, be her fuck-buddy. Best plates are the ones you never have to wine and dine. Invite her over tonight. If she responds with anything less than a "be right over" then reassess. If you get a weak excuse or morning response like, "oh sorry, just saw this!" then you wait a few days and invite her to dinner. Drunk words are sober thoughts. She wants a pounding. Be prepared that sober her might need to be treated before taking off her panties. Also know that tonight is your s…
/r/askTRP20/02/18 04:27 AM
1

First things first, they are bringing up their exes because you are turning into their girlfriend. Chatting it up on Tinder isn't going to get you laid. You need to be setting up a hangout within a few messages. For example, this is the Tinder convo I had yesterday, which led to hanging out tonight: Me: Hey ____, what's going on? Her: blah blah blah, you? Me: Not much over here. We should get dinner this week Her: Sounds like a plan, just let me know when Me: I'm free tomorrow. Let's go to ____ …
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 04:12 AM
2

I'd look at yourself from the third person - if you were reading the story of your life, what would you want to happen next? Watch or re-watch American Beauty. It's thought provoking enough for your situation. "It's never too late to get it all back."
/r/askTRP20/02/18 04:04 AM
5

More context needed - was she wasted? was it made as a joke? are you sure she's not a tranny? Girls don't say that shit often so I'd roll with it. I'd send her a text along the lines of, "hey you should come over tonight." Either she does and it's cool, or she says "whoa there cowboy you've got to wine and dine me first" which is acceptable, or you never hear from her again and laugh about it.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 03:56 AM
1

I disagree that the lesson here should be that kissing on the first date is a must. Every situation is different. I've had LTRs with girls I brought home the first night and plates I kissed on the third date. I've also blown opportunities by being too aggressive. You play the ball as it lies - some chicks respond differently. A conservative but trustworthy timeline is light kino on first date, kiss second, bang third/fourth/fifth..
/r/askTRP20/02/18 03:44 AM
2

She says hes not her boyfriend, they just really enjoy the sex. This is the weirdest comment I've ever heard a father make about his daughter. If this is in fact a real scenario, I would tell this guy that you'll kick his ass if he's ever in your basement again. Stop referring to him as your friend you spineless fuck.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 03:37 AM
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This one has run its course. Next. Respond "Ok." If she wants to hang out again, you look for her to reach out in several days with an apology. Whatever lessons are to be learned depend on the context - how long she's been a plate, how you did with care, etc.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 03:33 AM
1

If ya'll are in highschool then this is just an example of nonsensical shit people do when they like someone and have no frame of reference for what is appropriate or actually matters. If ya'll are older, then the dude who messaged you is a total loser and it still means nothing. Women will shit talk every ex-partner to protect their image. There is nothing more insulting for a woman than to be discarded.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 01:32 AM
8

Sure, except when you account for the volume of text you're covering in law or medical schools. 100+ pages of dense reading a day into hand written notes is beyond fatiguing. If you're into memorization, read Moonwalking with Einstein. When time permits, handwritten, in colors, visualizing, etc. will always translate better to long-term memory.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/18 07:58 PM
8

Good post, though it needs a disclaimer: you must already be out working your competition. Going through law school and other curve-based competitions, the top 20% simply out work everyone else. Basically, there are no shortcuts. But you can maximize your time. The 80/20 rule applies from that baseline. For example, you and your study partner are burning the candle at both ends, smoking the competition. But you want to be #1. Well, he takes notes by hand. You realize that if you type directly fr…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/18 06:12 PM
4

This is a joke right? In case this isn't a troll post - don't beg a girl to talk on the phone after they text you that they are not interested. Your response is "Ok. Best of luck." Then they will either reach out a few days later saying "I thought about it and blah blah blah," or bump into them in person and re-spark, or you never see them again. Most virgins or low count women have no problem giving blow jobs. To get your mind right, she was most likely going down on some dude while she heard y…
/r/askTRP19/02/18 05:34 AM
1

Can ya'll please use good grammar?
/r/askTRP18/02/18 05:42 AM
1

Haha yeah that was a quick read.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 05:41 AM
1

If you want her to look up to you then you've got to crush life. Start setting and achieving goals.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 05:41 AM
4

I agree that you're points are good jumpstarts to understanding femininity. The female essence is to look after the camp, interact with the children. When the boys are old enough, they'll pick up their bow and join the hunt. Strive to get past the anger phase. Start finding the brand of female that you prefer with those baselines.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 07:26 PM
1

What kind or surgery?
/r/askTRP17/02/18 07:19 PM
5

“I’ve had a lot of worries in my life. Most of which have never happened.”
/r/askTRP17/02/18 07:05 PM
2

Yeah this is not a diary.
/r/askTRP17/02/18 04:33 AM
6

I’m taking golf lessons. The instructor points out something I’m doing wrong each lesson - grips too tight, posture coming up, leading with the hands, etc. I asked him if there’s anything he thinks about during his swing to stay calibrated. He told me, “Nothing. It’s all second nature now.”
/r/askTRP17/02/18 02:12 AM
1

Pretty good RP 101
/r/askTRP17/02/18 12:51 AM
2

Yeah that’s a RP truth. Your relationship was likely doomed the moment your heart started acting up. She is finding a squirrelly way to end this relationship, which is by forcing you to end it. Time to move on.
/r/askTRP17/02/18 12:46 AM
1

Did you write this on a potato?
/r/askTRP17/02/18 12:36 AM
1

If y’all were dating, then it’s no question. Exclusive means exclusive.
/r/askTRP17/02/18 12:28 AM
1

I think part of swallowing the pill is being ok with the fact that she probably did fuck a dude while y’all were felling each other out. There are no unicorns. It also depends on the relationship context. I upgraded a plate once after college when going to bars and parties was our social life. I was banging other girls and wouldn’t of been surprised if she had slept around too. During law school I had a relationship where it was clear from Day 1 of us talking that we were building towards dating…
/r/askTRP16/02/18 11:41 PM
1

I see. Read it wrong. Tough call man. Depends on the context of y'all's relationship. Was she trying to make you jealous? Or were y'all talking openly about your sexual histories (being in the trust tree)? Her saying this casually sounds like a bad sign. Without knowing much, I'd start looking for plates and let this relationship die.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 10:39 PM
1

Thread.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 10:09 PM
1

Wait, what? Are you asking if you should stay with her? Dude. C'mon.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 10:01 PM
1

Haha yeah man. We like to figure out women but can't forget about the man in the mirror.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 09:50 PM
7

^ My thoughts are the same on the matter. High school is not real life. Most important things you can do aside for handling your business (making good grades and staying out of trouble) are lift weights and enjoy hanging out with your buddies.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 09:40 PM
2

Heat is my all time favorite movie.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 04:29 PM
52

I think every man has the 1 girl that burned them bad enough that the mental scar won’t heal. The red pill is realizing that true love doesn’t exist, and that all women are capable of announcing their next fuck-buddy as they walk out for the last time. So you’re there. I don’t have any how-to’s on what to do next. But at least you know the truth. Remember how shitty the “real world” was compared to the Matrix? Same thing. You get to eat the bowl of snot now but you’re still free. Find your missi…
/r/askTRP16/02/18 04:21 PM
2

I hate cardio so I’d personally just lift and jog to warm up unless there’s a medical reason for their recommendation. First step for you is to decide what you want out of lifting - pure strength or physique? Both will get you big, but have different methods. Download the PDF for Arnold’s “New Encyclopedia of Bodybuilding” and start thinking about it. Most importantly I’d say is to take it slow. Make a schedule and stick to it, but seriously, take it slow. If you’re trying to do Arnold’s workout…
/r/askTRP16/02/18 04:11 PM
3

Being supported by your parents in college is like having a cheat code. You are allowed to do nothing but focus on school. Enjoy it because it won't last. Get good grades and lift weights. Play video games if you have extra time. Don't be so hard on yourself. You're about to have 40 years in the workforce for that.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 06:51 AM
2

Check out "Wherever You Go, There You Are" if you're into meditation. It's all about living in the present. But honestly, you're worrying too much man. Meditation is high level stuff and Rome wasn't built in a day. Lift, hang out with your buddies, and keep reading things that interest you. Don't put too much pressure on yourself. I started taking golf lessons recently. 50% of my swings are catastrophes. Can't get pissed though - it's a process. Just stay humble and keep building the foundation.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 06:31 AM
10

Women are train wrecks. I wouldn't go near her again unless she shows up to your house with sex on her mind. And to answer your question - because you hurt her feelings and now she has the liquid courage to confront you. But she's also experiencing 30 other emotions simultaneously. A woman who isn't desired has no value, and this is what happens when the female ego takes a hit.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 06:16 AM
2

Some of the most successful people I know are outgoing and charismatic. If that's new territory for you, then you need to be invulnerable to peoples' tendencies to make situations awkward. Just laugh it off.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 06:13 AM
2

You got to get into the gymnasium and start lifting. Join a club to occupy your free time. People peak at different times. The hottest girl in 8th grade was unattractive by the time college came. The blandest girl from high school is now a smokeshow. Don't compare yourself to people who are peaking now because that will change. By reading this stuff and MOST IMPORTANTLY starting to build muscle (which builds confidence), you'll settle into the groove that you're seeking.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 06:06 AM
2

Need more info. How old are ya'll? What is your goal with her? If you're in highschool - sounds like a normal high school fling: going on boring dates (sorry), fool around a little, text constantly, then fizzle out. If you're older - you got to fuck her man, because this sounds like some high school fling. Apply dread, stop texting her. Ask to hang out in a few days if she doesn't initiate. If she's cold: next.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 05:57 AM
3

Good read man. Was a Utah Ute. Glad you saw the light.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 05:48 AM
2

Haha thanks man https://imgur.com/gallery/wd8UydF
/r/askTRP16/02/18 04:06 AM
2

Sounds like a hoe. Nice. Like the other responder, I’d say don’t mention Tinder. Your SMV goes up by not caring about it - you don’t need it. A girl with that in her profile is likely using Tinder to satisfy all her sexual cravings right now. In the sense that she probably doesn’t have time to ride the CC with regularity, so she gets off at night sexting with the boyz. If you want to step up to the plate as her #1 dong, play it cool. Show that you’re into her in person but also focused on school…
/r/askTRP16/02/18 01:49 AM
2

Yeah I’m not reading that.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 01:36 AM
1

Plates broke quicker when I was younger. Young girls have dicks literally being thrown at them. They get off on commitment, so it may be that they are finding offers they don’t want to pass up.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 11:44 PM
3

Mapping out what you want to accomplish this year. I'm also a planner.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 11:01 PM
2

I know what you're saying but I'd look at things differently. Aiming higher can turn into a never-ending pursuit of "what's next?" - what about a third house, what about a newer car, etc. There will never be enough to fill me up. I'd say to recalibrate his aim. Aim towards being fulfilled, day in and day out.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 10:43 PM
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Read some of the Book of Ecclesiastes. It's the writings of an unidentified King of Jerusalem. Basically, the King has everything yet he feels empty. In the end, his realization is that the meaning of life is to enjoy the little things. Find what you enjoy and go for it. Selling cars wasn't it. Training others in the gym might be. If nothing else, define a life that is 100% yours.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 10:36 PM
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High school is 99% about status. Everyone knows everyone. The beauty is that you’re encouraged to be the best at whatever you’re doing. Want the slutty cheerleaders? Get ripped and be the big dick athlete. Want the slutty band geeks? Play the shit out of your flute. Want to bone the party chicks? Throw sick parties. Find what you like to do and work on your craft. Enjoy the gym, hanging out with your buddies, and the chicks will come. The cheat code for high school is big muscles btw. All the sl…
/r/askTRP15/02/18 10:10 PM
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High school isn’t the real world. Best advice: hit the gym hard and enjoy your social life. If they want to bone they will make it abundantly clear.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 09:16 PM
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Almost stopped reading after “I haven’t met her yet in person but..” Not saying that Tinder and Bumble don’t work. In my experience, if things don’t seamlessly flow towards hanging out, then you’re going to get stuck in the “battle of who could care less.” Basically a power struggle. Don’t give this one much thought. Invite her to hang, gage her reaction, if she’s not 100% then on to the next.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 05:20 PM
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Don’t bother dude. If you want to hang out with her on the side, do stuff that you enjoy doing. You are who you surround yourself with, and stoners are literally just numbing themselves.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 05:13 PM
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Lol wot. Is there a question?
/r/askTRP15/02/18 04:51 PM
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I’m genuinely curious who has this much motivation to write a 5 paragraph essay for a troll post. Tell us etoile
/r/TheRedPill14/02/18 04:52 PM
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Sorry your feelings got hurt. Try getting raked through the coals in a 3 yr divorce proceeding to lose your life’s work and then see how you feel.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/18 04:25 PM
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Matterhorn by Karl Malantes
/r/askTRP11/02/18 06:34 PM
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"I like my men how I like my laundry.. two loads at a time"
/r/askTRP10/02/18 10:08 PM
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Thanks for posting this man. Sounds like you're in a good place - it's only when we've lost everything that we're free to do anything. Looking back, would you of wished that you did something different so that your marriage was saved? If so, what would you have done?
/r/TheRedPill09/02/18 05:33 AM
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Dude, you’ve got to expand on your divorce story. That’s what’s bringing a lot of people here, to learn from.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 01:20 PM
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Yeah man, this is a tough one. Unless you're shit-hot and noticeably higher SMV than her, a cold-approach based on the hot-tub encounter is hard to pull off. My best advice would be look for casual interactions where you isolate her and flirt confidently. This could be by the water-fountain. For example, "You think you could turn me into the next Michael Phelps?" followed by flirty banter. Then if she sticks around for the conversation, ask her out. I had a dental appt this week and a fairly att…
/r/askTRP08/02/18 03:42 AM
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Lawyer here. You need to know what you're talking about to begin. If you're jammed full of information, then talking is easy. If you need practice talking, then find someone who is talkative and stay in contact with them. Can be a mentor, friend, neighbor, etc. Leading the conversation is great, but can be exhausting if the person is a blow-hard. Staying calm and confident is knowing what you're going to say and saying it. If the conversation becomes one-sided and the other person is ranting (wh…
/r/askTRP08/02/18 03:22 AM
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Be talkative and fun. You don't need to be Joe Cool and convince her to drop her panties an hour into ya'lls trip. The most important aspect of this day is that YOU are enjoying yourself. If you are, and are leading the charge, then chances are she is too. If you find her interesting enough to date after that = bonus.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 03:18 AM
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Dude, you're in a men's sexual strategy forum. Beating weakness out of you is the point of this place. If you want answers involving vulnerability and fragility of identity, then you're better off in AskMen, AskWomen, Relationships, etc.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 05:15 AM
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I mean, it's different because I screen out the fattys beforehand now. Back in the day I would swipe right until my thumbs bled. Out of the gazillion that would come back as matches, there were only so many quality ones. The amount of quality chicks is roughly the same now but with overall less matches. A week back into the Tinder game is hard to judge things. 18-22 y/o's are back in school, its winter, etc. Also, a ton of dudes are now aware of Tinder, so the market gets crowded.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 05:04 AM
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I'm in a beach town so that's probably why. Either way, things come in waves. Sometimes it's just a down turn. Every few weeks/months, reinstall and start swiping.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 04:30 AM
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Have used Tinder for years. I noticed the winter months have lower/worse results. Gym pics crush during the summer. Girls in town for travel, want a fling, etc. During the winter, classier photos result in more matches and dates.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 04:24 AM
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It's really apparent on Tinder/Bumble. Straight up advertisements - "I won't respond here but follow me on ____"
/r/askTRP05/02/18 04:17 AM
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Yeah chick took my favorite shirt. I want my goddamn shirt back
/r/askTRP03/02/18 12:06 AM
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Its a risk/reward decision that only you can know based on what you want for your future. Not sure how things are in Sweden, but in the US you need a college degree to do certain jobs. Being a lawyer, for example, requires an undergraduate degree. Same with being a military officer. The risk is that your gap year never ends. I've got buddies like that. Some express regret, some knew they didn't want to be go down the professional route. It's always easier to knock things out when you're younger.…
/r/askTRP02/02/18 03:29 AM
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Tell her to fuck off.
/r/askTRP02/02/18 12:31 AM
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Made a post earlier about plating single moms. I guess this answers my question.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 07:33 PM
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Hydration.
/r/askTRP31/01/18 07:22 PM
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Talk to yourself in the mirror. Keep good eye contact. You’ll train yourself to say fightin-words as just words.
/r/askTRP31/01/18 02:19 PM
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Download Arnold's "New Encyclopedia of Modern Bodybuilding"
/r/askTRP27/01/18 10:51 PM
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I made the choice to stop drinking during law school. Best decision I've ever made. After a few years, I added in NA beers to the mix. Debatable about whether this counts as true sobriety, but the occasional O'Douhls makes going to bars more enjoyable. Once you hit a year or so of sobriety and know that you are 100% committed, maybe consider the NA beers.
/r/askTRP22/01/18 12:27 AM
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^ this is how advice/critique/criticism should be taken. I cannot stand when people ask for TRP advice and then responds aggressively when someone gives their 2 cents.
/r/askTRP21/01/18 09:29 PM
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Haha yeah "Can't You See" gets obnoxious in the same way that "Take It To The Limit" by the Eagles does. Marshall Tucker Band has steadily become a favorite. Rock and roll with jazz flute. "Take The Highway" is a good one to start with.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/18 07:33 PM
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Preface by saying good work, but slow your roll dude. Lifting every single day is going to wreck your body. Tendonitis is no joke. Give yourself time to recover. Don't rob from Peter to pay Paul. Two days on, day off, two days on, two days off, repeat. This works well. Believe me when I say that once you start overworking your tendons and ligaments, you'll be forced to take 6+ months off or your body is going to fall apart.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/18 06:00 PM
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Giving up drinking was the best decision I ever made. My life improved dramatically - performance in work and law school, relationships, fitness, long-term planning. After a few years I was comfortable drinking NA beers - O'Douls, St. Pauli Girl. Say what you want about whether this counts as true sobriety, but it works for me and eliminates the desire for hard drinking. I can go to social functions and never have to worry about being hungover, embarrassing myself, getting a DUI. For anyone who'…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/18 05:31 PM
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Yeah this is the first priority when moving. Go to your interests - intramural sports, book clubs, even the local bar. Read "The Like Switch" by Jack Schafer. He's a former FBI agent who talks about the FBI's analysis of what makes people like one another. For example, go to where your interests are and put yourself out there... ask questions, make people feel good about themselves.
/r/seduction01/01/18 05:20 PM
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Honestly man, don't sweat it. Focus on finding a good crew to hang out with. Dudes that share similar interests, whether it be at the recording studio, gym, etc. Be the guy who invites someone to record a song or see a show. The invitations will become reciprocal - people are naturally social. Not only is this good for growing as a man but also a solid plan for seduction. I've never bought heavily into cold approaches. Majority of the time I'd wake up from a night out at the bars with a whale in…
/r/seduction01/01/18 05:16 PM
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Yeah if she doesn't sign then I'd say they're done. The more I thought on this, the more it bothered me that more details weren't given. If the post-nup was heavily favored for her but carved out his business shares as untouchable, then it would be no big deal at all. She is taken care of in the exact way she would be, and his business is free to grow without threat of takeover from the divorce. Her post is premature.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/18 04:38 PM
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TRP's greatest mistake is promoting absolutes. There's great wisdom here and OP said it best in the comments - rules are for rookies. Everything comes with experience, and you've got to find out what works and doesn't work for yourself. These will always vary relationship to relationship. For example, a girl I'm seeing now needs dread game to stay tethered. In my mid-20's, I dated a brazilian nanny and it was the complete opposite, but that's how their culture works. She treated me like a king, …
/r/TheRedPill31/12/17 02:35 PM
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The core idea is good but the execution could be better. There's a balance between "greed is good" and "pigs get fat, hogs get slaughtered." Basically, you can be an alpha male without being a complete sociopath. An unyielding personality will get you laid but the rest of your life will suffer, which is not a long-term solution. Things don't happen in a vacuum.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/17 04:19 AM
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Going to go against the grain. We know that women are emotional creatures - ignore what they say and watch what they do - so there's really no point in getting analytical about what she wrote in a panicked reddit post. Her ramblings aren't going to tell us much one way or the other. If the roles we're reversed, we'd say she's already cheating and for him to take his cut and bounce. That could be the situation here and the dude is covering his ass - smart move. The engineer fucked up by getting m…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/17 10:09 PM
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