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sqerl/r/ThankTRP03/12/15 05:34 PM
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Field Reportsqerl/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 07:51 PM
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Well said OP. I came from a similar background. The journey was difficult, but well worth the deep dive into oneself. Now growth continues with a greater sense of purpose. For the guys still figuring it out, notice OP isn't spewing anger. When you've internalized the message and have come to terms TRP, you're in a place of acceptance. If you're in the anger phase, use it to self-improve. When you're on the other side, keep improving and thrive without the anger.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/19 05:38 PM
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Similarly, in the UK, they asked people on the street if they would help a migrant by giving them a place to stay (in their home). A large majority said they would. The questioner then brought a migrant over and asked if they would give this guy a place to stay, now. Nearly all gave some BS excuse to deny the request. Media focuses on the extreme because it triggers people. Which equates to ad revenue. Mix that with soy and you have SJWs
/r/TheRedPill18/06/19 11:42 AM
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Happening today: "The Good Censor" Google bans free speech because Trump won. https://www.breitbart.com/tech/2018/10/09/the-good-censor-leaked-google-briefing-admits-abandonment-of-free-speech-for-safety-and-civility/ This is why it's all political. In an effort to demonize an anti-establishment president, Google (and probably all main stream social media), want to curb "free speech" for safety and civility. Which we all know is a crock of shit when politicians and media incite violence with the…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 12:03 PM
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GoldmundUnleash on Twitter has a book about Photography Game. Check it out.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 01:53 AM
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It's a pattern. Kavanaugh and "Russian Collusion" follow the same pattern. The public is being gaslighted.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/18 03:46 PM
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The reason TRP was censored is not for the reasons you were given. They won't tell the truth. They'll go down fighting while protecting every shred of evidence that says otherwise.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/18 10:22 PM
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You'd think it would be obvious but so many people don't see it that way. They get caught up in their emotions and reason goes out the window. Schools teach the kids shit, parents are absent, so how are they to know they're being screwed?
/r/TheRedPill04/10/18 10:06 PM
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Yep. And once you break down their arguement, you reach the point where its no longer rational, you find the emotional hamstering. Reelz vs feels.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/18 04:35 PM
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Good job calling out the hypocrisy. Something tells me we're not dealing with due process, but rather appealing to an emotional ratioalization which someone said, "I'll be the one to take them down" for some internet points.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/18 04:32 PM
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1) Make outlandish accusation 2) Watch target have emotional reaction 3) Make outlandish claims about the reaction 4) Watch target get more emotional 5) Claim you were right all along and using emotions from (4) as "proof" I totally agree with you. Channel the anger though. They're using very effective persuasion tactics. Think Gaslighting as the atomic level. Keep in mind, you're being played. We all are. They Trigger the emotions and then cry "victim" when the target fights back. It's very eff…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/18 04:20 PM
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They are fighting. And it's ok for us to express ourselves about it. The anger (fight) phase is real. Guys need to work thru it. Once they see the source, they can take the necessary steps to improve. Telling guys to not express emotion is akin to "man up". As far as I've come in the past several years, there are all new guys that haven't even started. Guys that have learned need not to repeat the same behaviours that led them down the wrong path.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/18 02:52 PM
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What do you make of Russia's links to The_Donald? Define "links"... the troll farm? 900+ accounts banned connected to it and yet, T_D continues to hum along doing what it does, a 24/7 Trump rally. I think the impact on T_D was insignificant at best. I think anti-trumpers make a bigger deal about it because it makes them feel good about the supposed Russian meddling. It's my opinion that the politics sub being litterally bought out by the left has had far more influence. Thus, the "russian" conne…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/18 11:13 AM
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Also I was under the impression that TRP was neither left nor right.. One thing I like about TRP is that I see people from all layers of society and political affiliation. As a praxeology, TRP is neither. However, the 2016 US Presidential Election brought new behaviors to observe and new strategies to develop. Ideally, it would remain apolitical. During the 2016 election cycle there was a seismic change in how the major social media players were utilized to influence the populace. The changes we…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/18 01:00 PM
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Something about a community hitting 300K subscribers. Maybe it's the critical mass point... the longer we're here as a grass-roots, no advertising community, the greater our influence. People come for the novelty and stay because it works. 300K are not simultaneously wrong.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/18 01:28 AM
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Guys need to wield power. Too many fuckwits with their virtue signaling are afraid of their shadow. They need mom (or some other female to protect) to trigger them into action. Learning how to game chicks is a major part of attaining power. Look at Weinstein... says directly: traded sex for roles. How many chicks willingly kept going back to that fat fuck for fame? Find the cheat codes, learn the cheat codes, use the cheat codes.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 01:30 PM
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There is a "breakpoint" for everyone, whether they are rioter or reveler. Everyone has a price. Best to prepare for the worst and hope for the best. Example: guy gets oneitus and then over invests emotionally, only to discover his unicorn is a mule. AWALT is the stop gap between stimulus and action; a filter to interrupt your lizard brain from going over the ledge. Stay in control of your behaviour.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/18 05:43 PM
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Women are sex objects Men are success objects Men spending time cultivating the latter attracts the former. For women, the former attracts the latter. Spend your time accordingly.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 11:02 AM
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sex between ostensibly consenting but intoxicated adults in Iceland amounts to mutual rape. According to Iceland Review, the offence carries maximum penalty of 16 years of imprisonment. "Mutual rape"... let's all watch the guy serve his 16 years and the woman walk free after an enthusiastic sex session with the prosecutor.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 10:56 PM
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All I see here is a role model for when I turn 43. Guys over 40 should thank Leo and Mel. Those 20 yo thots will want a 40 yo accessory for themselves. Cause if Camila can do it, they'll have to do it too.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/18 06:20 PM
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In new news, sugardaddies and escorts sub have both been banned from Reddit. This is due to the recent legislation banning digital solicitation of sex. Reddit doesn't want to be held liable neither does Craigslist so they dropped the personels section. Given the Hitler dog fiasco, Citibank's gun regulation decision, and some other bannings, it's only a matter of time before SJWs force the closure of any sub that makes people feel bad.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/18 06:31 PM
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Caught a thread in Best Of talking about the banning of subreddits: / r /announcements/comments/863xcj/new_addition_to_sitewide_rules_regarding_the_use General gist, and which I agree, Reddit will embrace the advertising model and will remove any sub that tarnishes the "reddit" brand. Notice that many banned subs are selling products. Given the gun rights fervor lately, it's no wonder as they don't want any liability associated with it. Simultaneously, they can't have Hanes advertising on a pant…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/18 10:34 PM
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Great episode...
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 11:24 PM
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Don't get comfortable and complacent. This was a recent life-lesson as well. When you're on point, you have an edge (e.g. motivation, inspiration, purpose). That edge got you what you wanted... in this case, pussy (e.g. sex, companionship, relationship, etc). During this pussy acquisition time, the pussy saw you as stimulating (e.g. exciting, take charge, exotic, alpha). Fast forward a little bit and you discover life comes at you fast. Maybe it's a death in the family. Maybe it's job insecurity…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 06:56 PM
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Dude, your bias is showing. You know full well all those social science degrees have to be put to good use. So why not fabricate a hidden bias found in all men which is totally at fault for repressing women. Nevermind the wage gap is a myth, or that it's only prevalent in the number of female CEOs, or that women don't really want to work. Let consumerism continue to pander to the "female imperative"TM and market it for the virtue signaling, identity politics, feel good crapfest it's designed to …
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 11:41 PM
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All your bans are belong to us. For great justice!
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 01:32 PM
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Chad wouldn’t make mistakes :( Chad makes mistakes. Chad owns his mistakes. Chad doesn't turn into an emotional fucktard.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 03:21 PM
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I never believed in it and thought that I couldn't fuck it up, but due to being too comfortable, I managed to make her question my self-confidence (and probably the relationship as a whole). You felt comfortable, you opened up, she sees that as weak, she can't justify being with a weak, effeminate man-child. Your relationship will last until some new dude makes a move on her and she's "suddenly confused" / "needs a break" / <insert lots of emotional hamstering> / ends your sex life with her. You…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 03:19 PM
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Let's not forget the CNN video about The Red Pill. Complete with hidden identity: We suck so bad, CNN did a video to tell everyone how suck we are. https://youtu.be/CEhW3YxwXSo Edit: Link to article
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 06:27 PM
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Mother nature is a cruel mistress. AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/18 02:22 AM
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It was a crazy feeling, having girls my old self would have seen as "out of my league" telling me I could do whatever I wanted to them in bed. Glad you flipped the script. "Normal" is girls saying do whatever you want. "Crazy" is thinking any chick is out of your league. I was already casually seeing another girl who wanted to be in a relationship with me, so I cut it off with her to be in a relationship with B. Silly boy. Why would you cut off your nose to spite your face? Reducing your options…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 02:34 PM
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Haliteniña? Haliteniño? Halitosis? Welcome to the jungle...
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 02:07 PM
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There's tons of resources here and around the 'net. Seek and ye shall find. Pro-tip: if you're not meditating, start. To directly answer your question: Take 5 minutes and unplug from everything. Sit on the floor. Close your eyes and breathe. Be aware of your breathing. Don't think about work, schools, relationships, TV, politics, money, family, car, troubles, games, etc. That's it. 5 minutes. Unplug. Breathe. It's ok to be human.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/18 05:10 PM
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to grow a set of balls is more complicated then you think.... No, I know how complicated it is. But I also know that growing into a man is your destiny. Your future self thanks you for the effort to make it happen.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/18 01:45 PM
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Instead of a post-holiday let down, I chose to spend time in meditation for the purpose of clearing my head and focusing on a productive year. In no order of importance, my chosen steps for a prosperous year are: Fitness - healthy diet & exercise Financial - examine spending habits and prioritize spending on needs Friends - reacquaint with old friends; build network of new, quality friends Family - build my pillar within the family Fucking - my life; my terms. Don't like what I'm offering? Bye F…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/18 01:41 PM
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even when your mother wanted you to behave in some kind of manner when you were a kid she used this same tactic. make you bad, to evoke in you the desire to be good. Little boys never grow up into men until they move on from their mother's tit. Special snowflakes requiring mother's approval have nothing more than an Oedipus complex driven by their need for mom's approval... which was bred by mom having abandonment issues passed into the child. When the man-child hits the dating scene looking for…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/18 01:04 PM
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Being a real man nowadays is a crime No, pretending to be a real man is a crime against the female imperative. If they give it up, and you're a beta in disguise, their constant shit tests will out you as a fraud. Then your entire relationship will be redfined as regret-rape.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/18 10:25 PM
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An entire culture whose only power is the weaponization of sex. Take the most significant aspect of life (reproduction), then use every ounce of energy to find new ways to prevent men from enjoying what they're born to do. On one hand, it's an effective method to force incels, spergs, and shitholes from propagating the species. On the other, they found a way to recycle all the useless soyboys into a product the other useless soyboys can use. And if you think sex robots will save you, just wait u…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/18 07:13 PM
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If you're spinning multiple plates, think of it as a soft harem. If one of them steps out, you don't know what they're introducing to the dynamic. Also, their behaviour becomes erratic as they struggle to play the new guy while holding on to you.... and you should not be tolerant of that behaviour at all. You eject them, let them learn the hard way, then enjoy them when they come crawling back. But never let them return to their previous status in full. There's a guide to bitch management that's…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 12:52 PM
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There is only one reason a female wants a "break". Yep. Same here. Plate wanted more, I wouldn't budge. She had a doting beta waiting for her. She's back, with less "commitment", and fucks even better. Fuck them well lads, fuck them well.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 12:41 PM
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Script flipped - check New perspective - check Confirmed TRP observations - check Now build yourself into the guy women seek because you're the prize; not because they're desperate.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 08:33 PM
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Don't ask a fish how to catch fish.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 08:26 PM
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Live with purpose. Embrace the suck.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 07:21 PM
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In the end, the most important male character of the franchise is cerimonially sacrificed, symbolically ending the Era of Penis and signalling the beginning of the Age of Vagina, which will surely be the object of the next film in the franchise. The most important male character also exiled himself to a far away land, never to interact with penis or vagina. /#MGTOW Don't forget, the dashing testosterone hero was admired by the women even when he was unconscious. He might have to file a claim of …
/r/TheRedPill19/12/17 08:55 PM
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Today's social marketing climate allows for the dissemination of unvetted ideas which are only meant to trigger feelings, thus thoughts and behaviours. SJW/feminists can spew their rage, but truth inevitably wins out in the end. In other words, by the very nature of feelings-first, when their feelings change, so will winds of the social climate. The path forward isn't easy; it's never easy. But being a man is never easy. Embrace the suck, lift, and work towards your purpose. Raise your SMV to at…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/17 12:31 PM
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TRP has.... Exactly. TRP has a target on its back. Every chode with a personal vendetta against TRP due to an inability to swallow the pill brings them out. Human behaviour (i.e. sexual strategies) has been around for ages and the sidebar is a collection of material to help understand that behaviour.... Then develop the skills to use it to your advantage. People forget/don't realize/ignore that the comment section isn't the sidebar. It's good for the daily masses to get their dose of dopamine/ou…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 03:36 PM
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I've had men describe and women flat out tell me about "flipping the switch".... that moment when a woman's feelings turn off (for you). When that happens, it's a fools errand to switch it back on. It's why men always need to be ready to walk away.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 01:42 PM
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Fast forward a few years, we're living together in a nice place, which I pay for as she has decided working in lowly retail jobs is beneath her. I let this go as she cooks, cleans, regular sex, all is well with the world. Soon however, she starts pressuring me for a ring. Just a form of legal prostitution, no? Months of pressure later things are much worse, she's going out to meet friends without me and we're barely on speaking terms but still living together on my dime. I explain again that I l…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 02:56 PM
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One of my plates is going thru a divorce. Hubby offered to stop divorce proceedings..... She said, "no way!"
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 02:43 PM
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Pick your women well and they'll be good to you and for you. Guys will need to get thru a lot of basic bitches until they learn to get pussy off the pedestal.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 04:59 PM
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Exactly. It's very rare for a woman to reach out to you after ghosting her, because she has tons of other dudes at her disposal. Especially if she's really hot. Really hot sluts might not give a shit about you. Hot conservative types (i.e. less slutty than hot sluts), aren't completely broken. If you're a man of status, wealth, power, then you're in the top 20% and thus, shiny. Women won't reach out to basic boys cause they're a dime a dozen. Currently being on the receiving end of attraction, m…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 04:57 PM
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Shhhh, you'll ruin their special snowflake status #reeee
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 03:52 PM
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This is akin to a babel fish translation between what they say and what they do. Leveraging the MSM talking points shows the masking to cover up the hamstering (media needs to keep them feeling good for ad revenue). Juxtaposing current events against TRP tenets hopefully wakes a few people up so they can see the bullshit you're fed by the media and hamsters-at-large.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 06:38 PM
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From a practical side, take action on raising T naturally. Red meats, lifting, sleep, etc. While doing that, it's time to go hunting. Start calling other endo's and find someone willing to prescribe. While doing that, revisit your doc and tell him you'll get androgel off the dark web and he can either prescribe it so you're safe or you'll self medicate and he can pick up the pieces. It's best to work on the delivery of that message so he doesn't think you're threatening him. Continue to read up …
/r/TheRedPill14/11/17 12:33 PM
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I don't understand why so many men rush into relationships. o.0 is this a real question? For the sake of my own amusement, I'll assume it is. Wendy is Charming , fun , reasonably intelligent , and fun to look at What every guy wants. but she's also slutty Also, what every guy wants. unhinged, has the thousand cock stare , and is desperate for validation and attention. If a woman does the 1st two steps well enough, BP guys are hypnotized not to see this part. In fact, those guys are so juiced up …
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 08:05 PM
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No, the problem is that 50% of 1st marriages end in divorce and that % goes up even higher for 2nd, 3rd + divorces. A more recent study identified that financially stable relationships have a lower rate of divorce and financially unstable relationships (i.e. poor) have a higher divorce rate (exceeding 50% if memory serves). A woman that can attract a man of higher value will dump the chump and branch swing to the better provider i.e. hypergamy Go read the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 06:59 PM
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Is there no room in TRP for positive, enriching LTRs? Your entire viewpoint of TRP is wrong and you should feel bad. I also have examples of LTR's in my family that are the exception and not the rule. TRP is about observing behaviours, identifying trends, and developing a strategy to manage it all. When divorce rates are over 50% and of those, 80% are initiated by women, people look at behaviours to understand why. Plenty of guys come here asking WTF happened? With redpilled lens we can explain …
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 06:39 PM
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Endocrinologist's also are wary of prescribing TRT for quality of life improvements citing the same risks as your physician. Finding a doctor or endo that will prescribe it are rare indeed YMMV. They commonly state that you're within a "normal" range (~250-1200) and repeat the concerns even if you're willing to accept the risks. Frustrating to say the least. Living near a large city should provide more options and favorable outcome unless you're fortunate to have an agreeable doc/endo.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/17 06:17 PM
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Other than some angry vitrol when dudes wake up going through the anger phase, what's the problem with TRP? Lift, read, mindset, understanding, strategy, sidebar.... Making little snowflakes uncomfortable isn't a banable offence...
/r/TheRedPill08/11/17 03:23 PM
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Too bad the title is lacking as your message should resonate with the boys trying to be men around here. All the platitudes in the world regarding safe sex don't mean a thing when a woman will intentionally lie, cheat, and deceive to ensure her survivability (and her brood). As much as a man has desire to have sex, a woman's desire to have a baby is as strong. In this scenario, you got to experience the full gammut of the female imperitive: AF/BB, hypergamy, manipulation, shaming tactics, etc. H…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/17 12:58 PM
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An 11 minute commercial for TRP. Did.... did TRP just go mainstream? Fake edit: Hi mom!
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 08:24 PM
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Moderation is key. people's desire to jump to the extremes without realizing that moderation and well roundedness is the key. The key here is mindset. “If you shoot for the stars and hit the moon, it's OK. But you've got to shoot for something. A lot of people don't even shoot.” If you enter a contract where you've already prepared to compromise, you've lost your edge. TRP, as a whole, is more about promoting the edge of the blade and the continuous sharpening. Striving always for the best. If T…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 06:30 PM
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Use the search feature and sort by top posts. Game starts with a self improvement mindset then practical human psychology... Game manifests itself as you better understand and improve yourself. Part of figuring it out is figuring yourself out - high energy? high ambition? discipline? will power? Only you have those answers. Before you solve the puzzle, you need to know the pieces. Have you read the sidebar? There's a seduction subreddit if you just want button pressing tactics... But even they p…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 05:33 PM
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In all I think my main issue is having too much faith in women lol This. Women make you feel good, right? Well don't project that feeling onto them as a representation of their worth. That good feeling is totally inside you, completely normal, and does not fully represent their capabilities. In fact, women will use that mechanism to extract resources from you. As a woman will mold her behaviours to fit the container, she will change to match the man if you present yourself as a successful, stron…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 04:24 PM
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Sass and attitude is the emotional persuasion women use to make themselves feel better which may feel like an attack on you. "Less is better" because when you focus on the actual task at hand, it's simple once you filter out the emotional component. Keeping frame and not allowing their manipulation to get to you is key. Reacting to it shows you're susceptible to them - meaning they have power over you. Practice IDGAF, frame control, and lift.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 04:06 PM
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<gets popcorn and earplugs> Let the screeching commence... reeeeeeeeeeee
/r/TheRedPill30/10/17 11:17 AM
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Exactly. I'd say most industries, and especially for the people that control those industries, are self serving at all costs. The image is sold to the public that it's all a wonderful fairy tale, but that's to prevent emotional triggering. At all ends of the spectrum, sexual behaviours underpin the human experience: money, status, power. Once seen at the micro level, it's clear as day at the macro level. Call it degenerate, but it's influence is unmistakably a part of society. There is no riddin…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 04:00 PM
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I've noticed the Biggest hurdles for me personally people in general are: acting happy when you're not, not dwelling in the past, and having true confidence by getting rid of anxiety, shame and doubt. Would love for OP or someone to expand with any further wisdom on these. That's an astute observation and part of the human experience for many. It's what TRP may call "being a little bitch." Here's the cure: read the sidebar, lift, become outcome independent, develop rock solid frame, and stay in …
/r/TheRedPill25/10/17 11:27 AM
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I am not sure if this can be generalized, it is just another sample for the trp compilation. My buddy hooked up with a chick who was pretty chill (and hot). She needed help with her computer one day. He stumbled across an excel file that ranked all her lovers across a spectrum of traits. He was happy since he was in the top 5... but he noped the fuck out due to the triple digit n-count. It's more common than you want to believe.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 09:48 PM
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because I had a big dick and a nice body. It absolutely sucks for women when their baby hamsters start running and their personal "dick" won't give them their baby. Then they settle for a beta, become miserable, get divorced, and hop back on the carousel til old age sets in or a slightly better beta comes along. Oh, the things they do for a good dick.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 09:45 PM
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spit a little game at a chick who's literally moaning for attention. If he gives attention, it's toxic masculinity. If he doesn't, it's toxic masculinity. Treats her like a human being/customer, yep, it's toxic. Obviously the only proper response was for him to get on bended knee and offer the sweet princess whatever fancied her interest..... And had he gotten into the sweet princess' pants, he better have fucked her real good otherwise regret would have set in and she'd have to cry about #metoo…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/17 03:07 PM
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So sick of this shit. <snipped> Couldn't agree more. The amount of noise out there drowns out the real perps. Classifying every sexually charged encounter as harrassment is fucking ridiculous. Knowing real victims aren't virtue signaling portrays the entire "me too" movement as a massive, social media drama festival. Sorry to hear about your experience. Keep up the good fight.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 11:04 AM
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Everybody should have come together much earlier to push this guy out of Hollywood. This guy is just one guy in all of Hollywood. From mainstream players to the little producers on the side, to anyone that is gaming the system (e.g. amateur or semi-professional photographers). They're all in it because sex sells (e.g. girls gone wild). Sex, the SMP, your SMV, money, status, power... to stop the Harvey's of the world means to stop all sexuality on TV, in movies, and advertising. That will never h…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 10:47 AM
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"I fucked that really hot guy at the bar" "Me too" "I fucked my boss" "Me too" "He left me because I'm a shrieking harpy" "Me too" "I'm a special snowflake" "Me too" I use my vagina to pull money and status from men then use sympathy and attention to make myself feel better for poor life choices, like being a neo-prostitute, then cry myself thru a biased court system because that's so much easier than being a worthwhile human being, but hey, I got to bang the entire frat last night so I got that…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 10:32 AM
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hot women give up the goods to rich and powerful men who could possibly better their lives. Watched this happen when a hot co-worker saw an opportunity with a producer. She threw her pussy at him but she never got the payday she wanted. 6 months later she was back, a depressed and broken woman. Some captain save-a-ho will give her the life she so richly deserves.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/17 04:58 PM
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I was okay with being casual And she then send me messages saying "I'm constantly thinking about you" Are not related in any way. It does not mean she wanted a committed relationship. She trusted you well enough to have sex with you but didn't want the emotional investment of a LTR. Being casual is about having sex, still being able to play the field, and having fun. Sharing your troubles is like telling your girl "I need you" - instant attraction killer. But I agree that I also wanted it and ki…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 02:21 PM
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And..... It's gone.... Good, it read like a "just be yourself!" shitpost.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 06:59 PM
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Click on the click baity title; stay for the top rated comment. Well said.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/17 01:30 PM
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LOL! yes, feel the anger course through your veins.... wondering if a creative use of cunt would be better suited. Why not go with your same style when posting on MRP? Are you writing you speech/talk now?
/r/TheRedPill27/09/17 05:14 PM
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Working title: MRP - Stone's Odyssy Male Navigation in Relationships Building a personal brand off of your online persona is an interesting challenge. A coming of age.... you're a speaker there for good reasons, you'll do great 👍
/r/TheRedPill27/09/17 04:26 PM
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... if I had a something to show off. Post history and EC tag? Throw them in a PDF & offer it on Amazon, and add 'best selling author' to the list.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/17 03:31 PM
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The "Just Be Yourself" crowd absolutely adores the idea of that special someone stumbling across your couch laden carcass while you're eating Cheetos with your permanently dyed orange fingers. There's a special snowflake for everyone! Or... learn game, lift, and self improve... while sucking on special snowflake icepops made from tears of their fears topped with your conquered demon sprinkles.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/17 08:33 PM
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much of the red pill seems to be women-hate but I feel that the subreddit always ends up going towards the we hate women angle. Moralize much? Do you feel better now that you've clearly identified your problem with TRP? You should start a thread which identifies the cause-effect of taking the pill and women-hate. There's other subreddits for you to shed your wisdom upon.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/17 01:05 PM
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Women hate stepping on each other's toes, at least not directly. Very true. Spinning a couple plates and they know each other exists. They buy gifts for each other. Learn to maximize their instincts for your benefit.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/17 04:22 PM
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You would be correct. Let them go to lock down someone else.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/17 11:20 PM
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The pendulum swings one side to the other. Balance between the two is not achieved by hanging in the middle. Choose your side and live accordingly.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/17 01:42 PM
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There's a difference between 'removing a popular post that doesn't fit the guidelines' and 'turning off voting'. Sort TRP by top posts ever and read the best ones.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/17 01:34 PM
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going back to your ex is always going to be a recipe for disaster Totally. Because you're playing by her sexual rules, never yours. The first time around, she submitted to you. The 2nd time around, she's getting you to submit to hers. Even if you think you have the power in the relationship, you don't. She's an ex for a reason. Keep her there.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/17 01:29 PM
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What's wrong is /u/JustHornyLoser 's argument being that the branch swinging act does not mean that guy #1 has suddenly become a "beta bucks". Except he kinda did, since the thought experiment was that guy #1 was a "boyfriend of 1.5 years" and therefore committed to providing. EC /u/MattyAnon pointed it out clearly but he got only 14 points for this.. And once again, science to the rescue!! Here's an article which talks about a woman's fading desire after about 1.5 years (LTR). Basic tl;dr if ar…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/17 01:23 PM
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Be reasonably average, find some success. Actually put work into yourself, find lots of success. Such a simple fucking formula which is why you're rewarded for putting in the effort.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 08:29 PM
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This. The average man is 5'9, 190 pounds and a 39-40 inch waist. Holy fat fucks. Without even trying, a scrawny/fat basement dweller could potentially be chad in < 6 months hitting the weights. The average income is 30k a year, and the average savings is <$2000. Da fuq? The IT nerd that finally hit the weights and got a tan is making bank. The bar to failure is so laughably low, it should be shameful to be on or below it. Just be slightly better than average and you're doing well. Guys here shou…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/17 07:23 PM
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Good mindset here. If the bitch cheats, dump her. Reengaging as a plate is fine, as long as it's on your terms.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 07:15 PM
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I had just lost my father and my job, and was at my lowest at the time. This is an important lesson. When you're at your lowest, misery does love company and it's when you're most vulnerable. Desiring a mother's comforting touch in a time of need is a programmed response for many men. It's also a potential pitfall as you appear weak to your woman. While she may show you her comforting side, she is secretly repulsed by you, doesn't have the tingles for you, and pursues a 'real man'. Having been i…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 06:59 PM
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Your journey is the same journey so many men have discovered. TRP helps men become aware of this journey then identify ways to maximize it's potential. It's not a power complex as the author opines, it's accepting and seeing reality for what it is. Welcome to the red pill.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 04:53 PM
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The narratives created by TRP, in my opinion, are myths to enable its users to justify face rejection, overcome a lack of self-confidence and are the result of a crippling discover inner power in a complex sexual marketplace. The author almost understood TRP. Like so many here, they just a little bit of help in seeing it thru.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/17 04:46 PM
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A world full of hermaphrodites would solve so many issues...
/r/TheRedPill11/08/17 12:07 AM
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For a man it's Game. (fluid, manipulative, deceptive) For a woman it's finding her Rock to submit to. (rigid, literal, honest) Woman recently told me that she's met her match. She needs to push me but needs me to be immovable. I don't give into her whims and remind her that in my life, it's my rules. Once a man acquires money, status, looks and ties it together with game, the world is a different place. The SMP makes far more sense, women become easier to manage, and building power becomes a man…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 04:09 PM
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Lately, things have been great. We've both been eating healthy, routinely exercising, and having epic sex. We've been spending tons of time together. Now, I'll be the first to admit - I'm completely exhausted - but I keep pushing forward because I love my family and I know they need me. Then yesterday, she has a meltdown over something incredibly petty. Something doesn't seem right. If you're having epic sex, and everything is going well, she wouldn't be making a mountain out of a molehill. she'…
/r/askTRP07/08/17 09:42 PM
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Yep. Made 'em bleed. They like it.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/17 07:22 PM
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Thank you Rollo. I've read your book, keep a hard copy on me for casual reading, and have gifted it to friends and loved ones. You've brought much needed clarity to a challenging topic for many. Wishing you much success and future prosperity.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/17 01:16 AM
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Short version: Had a plate with no boundaries. Finally had enough and walked away. Months later, met new girl while out with large group of mutual friends. Old plate proceeded to trash talk me, behind my back, to the potential new girl. Blocked old plate across social media, txt'ing, and phone. Told new potential girl, "you can choose to hang with her, but it was nice knowing you." New girl blocked old plate and never looked back. Lesson learned: chicks don't care who you're fucking. If your SMV…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 09:13 PM
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Clearly, women do radiate signals and reading them correctly allows for escalation. The book "What Every Body is Saying" is a good primer on reading body language. While focusing efforts on understanding women is a good initial motivator, expanding the view to understand all body language promotes better social interactions across the board. Much like a military sniper who can read an entire room to find the potential threat, guys can learn the same tricks to identify the woman to focus his effo…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 05:31 PM
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Try CBT (cognitive behavioural therapy). There's a workbook out there that walks you thru getting your thoughts and feelings out so it's easier to see and identify them. Just starting is good for you. John Gottman wrote some books based on CBT therapies as well. The trouble with any sort of DIY therapy is the lack of an outsiders perspective. Biggest problem is finding a male therapist that's good for you.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/17 02:44 PM
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Have you ever been so hurt that you shut up shop, locked it away but knew you had to get it out? And if so, how did you do it? Monk mode. Search TRP for the term. Lots of good information about it. Essentially, your experience didn't match expectations. Monk mode is a time to reevaluate your view of reality, learn the truth, and approach life again with the new world view. While doing so, you lift and focus on yourself. When you're ready, you'll open up shop again. So go ahead and nuke blue pill…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/17 02:28 PM
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^ This is actually better read than OP. Sorry OP, but this guy got it. What's your point? OP made a solid FR and recognizes his behaviour. Of course someone else has a different, better, pussy wetting followup. Let's not shit on the guys that finally have a breakthru.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/17 02:03 PM
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We'll put and definitely worth noting this dynamic... especially: The average female (not SMV-wise) is vapid - zero interest in things concerning anything but hedonism and attention and even in hedonism they have no passion. Your interests become her interests. Your interests become her hedonistic thoughts and activities. This is part of why women invade male spaces... to get that male attention away from your work and have it redirected toward them. Could be fun for a while, but less fun if aft…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/17 01:59 PM
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Wow. I thought I was the only one who went through times that shitty. A man is forged by the defining response to shitty times. The immediate depression from loss is normal. The growth born from those shitty times is not. You didn't choose those events, but you did choose to define yourself. Also, viewing life events through the TRP lens gives you the ability to see human behaviour dynamics - even our own. Allowing emotions to define you is to accept victimhood as a way of life. Choosing growth …
/r/TheRedPill17/07/17 11:31 AM
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A year and a half ago I was feeling lower than snake shit. I lost my dad and my LTR of 6 years left me on the morning of my mother's surgery for a brain tumor. I got laid off from a really good job. I gained about 40 lbs because of the depression. This all happened in the span of about 3 months, but the weight gain was more of a gradual thing. Fuckin' A man... you're a brother from another mother. Lost one parent, lost a job, other parent diagnosed w/ terminal cancer and the GF walks out... All …
/r/TheRedPill17/07/17 03:32 AM
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I feel like unless you grew up under a rock or were completely obvious If you were raised in any semblance of a strict religious household, away from large population centers, and controlling parents, a person (especially young boys) may be completely oblivious to inter gender dynamics. you had to instinctually feel how the natures of men and women interplay. Given the above scenario, those young boys would have been trained to ignore those instincts or taught that they're 'bad', inappropriate, …
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 12:44 PM
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Not even a mention of the fact that men might not be really interested in an almost fully depreciated married 40 year old ex-asset, and that she should be thankful she did snag a husband. FTFY Clueless bitch hit the wall, married, and still wants to be the town bicycle princess.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 11:34 AM
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There was just an entire bus load of people banned for saying this. Use the report function and the mods will tidy up crap posts.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/17 07:28 PM
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She has hundreds of providers at her disposal, won't select one because she needs $$$$ - not love. And you think this is a challenge? She's looking to milk resources from the highest guy she can get while keeping tons of white knights on stand by. Dude, seriously, move on. Met a chick, sounded similar in nature, tons of orbiters, just wanted to have "fun". Situation seemed screwy, left the next morning and never looked back. Save yourself the drama and don't do it.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/17 01:13 PM
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Dude did a social experiment by creating 10 accounts on OKCupid. 5 female profiles in ascending levels of attractiveness 5 dudes doing the same. The numbers are the messages received over the course of a week.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 05:11 PM
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I read NNMNG 1st, then Manipulated Man. The 2 compliment each other but I do agree MM 1st would've made NNMNG a faster read.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/17 09:32 PM
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Explains why most of what you say makes no sense. The information you give us is not the truth, it's "hints". It's the way it must be. For you to hear and believe the truth without knowing and experiencing the truth, does not make you stronger or better in your life. The vast amount of information and nuance cannot be read, experienced, and internalized in one session. Some may already live a RP life while others believe it to be fantasy. The journey is unique and personal to all. Once you have …
/r/TheRedPill07/07/17 09:30 PM
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...and if you give into their manipulation, they know you're weak. It's why frame is so important.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/17 09:22 PM
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Nietzsche once said something along the lines of "they muddy the waters on purpose, for the waters to appear deeper". "They muddy the water, to make it seem deep." - Nietzsche Another good one from him: "There are no facts, only interpretations"
/r/TheRedPill07/07/17 09:16 PM
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Good post. Others have commented well enough on the basics of looking good. i.e. rule #1 be attractive Wanting to use psychological hocus pocus to manipulate womens' brain matter and biological urges is a bitter man's fantasy. It borders on the insane. Get that notion out of your head because it ain't happening. Guys.... worry about your frame, your mental state, and feel good about yourself. Spending time being a manipulative fuck should happen as a by-product of experiencing TRP in the wild. S…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/17 06:21 PM
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I've come to realize (at 45, waaaay too late).... Fuck you. NOT too late. Be thankful you've realized now and you still have time. Your perception is skewed by the oneitis. Knowing you have monk mode is probably saving your ass. Knowing you have resources here will save your ass. Read the sidebar, Rational Male, lift, etc.. You will pull yourself up by your bootstraps and reclaim your masculinity. The bitch doesn't win, you do.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/17 03:18 PM
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Globalization is a both a boon and a curse. Great for those that have the infrastructure to benefit and a curse for those impacted by jobs transferred out of the country. Within the past decade, the GDP of the G8 is less than that of the emerging economies. This transfer of wealth has had a significant impact on the middle class. Carrier is a good example of hundreds of jobs being lost to globalization as those jobs are being transferred to Mexico. The NY Nurses Association had this to say about…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/17 10:42 AM
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IOW your Natural Law heroes were for globalization. That's a plot twist right there. He didn't say they weren't for some globalization. There's a balance between globalization which benefits and destroys. Does that mean TRP is for globalization? Help me understand this binary "if not A then only B mindset. I thought he was clear on his thought. That's called transfer of capital. It's an unavoidable consequence of capitalism unregulated by state. The GDP of the G8 is now less than that of the eme…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/17 10:27 AM
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I prefer my coffee black..like my soul. I cringed my socks off For some reason, this shit works, even if it makes you cringe. Case in point: Her: dark or milk (chocolate)? Her: nevermind, I'm getting you dark Me: Oh yes, dark...like my coffee Me: And my humor Me: And the bottom of my soul Her: I like your darkness So whatever, the point is, say some shit and have fun with it. I've said some cringeworthy shit over the years. If they're into you, it doesn't matter what you say.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/17 11:36 PM
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1) chick is rationalizing poor behaviour and using her PTSD as her excuse. Why? Because it's working for her. She has no agency, and women manipulate. Be happy to see the truth and adapt accordingly. 2) Really happy to hear you're proactively getting professional help. A family friend committed suicide on Friday and it sucks. 3) Also know people that have suffered at the hands of others as you. You're not alone. Keep up the good fight for yourself. They don't define you, you define you; live acc…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/17 02:57 PM
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3rd crucial thing: - don't stick it in the pink after it's been in the stink... great way for her to get a yeast infection/ UTI. Save the butt play for last.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/17 03:47 PM
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Just finished txt'ing a new girl. Convinced her nuru gel FTW. Will let you know how it goes....
/r/TheRedPill30/06/17 11:43 PM
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While TRP continues to grow it's subscriber base, the core message stays the same. The sidebar material is the starting point, previous threads hold years of shared knowledge, and everyday there's a tidbit of insight which connects one more dot for a redpiller on their journey. In many ways, TRP is a virtual father figure providing guidance across a broad spectrum of topics which are fundamental for solid development. The father figure has lived a full life and experienced more than the child. H…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 08:46 PM
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Come for the knowledge, stay for the growth, and leave the nest when you're ready to explore. The door is open unless you're a douche, then you're banned. Have a great day.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/17 06:01 PM
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Read all the books you want, but remember to go out and apply/experience what you've read.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/17 11:30 AM
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This sub has gone bad. I hope you continue to post here ~in spite of this sub going bad~ For the newcomers, virtue signalers, wannabes, and regulars.... read the fucking sidebar. Instead of posting "oh my wet panties, this sub sucks!", go lift, learn game, make coin, and live life. Come back and post a field report about what part of TRP helped you become a man. If you need constant fresh posts, you are a slave to media and Reddit format as a whole. Of course there's shit posts... so don't fucki…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 10:54 PM
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Looks like the great banning didn't ban enough.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 10:42 PM
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Yes. Stoic is what allows you to sense other people manipulations. If you're elated (or depressed) that emotional state can leave you vulnerable to manipulation. It's how bloopers get sucked into a harlots trap.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/17 06:43 PM
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If you really woke up you would see how tragic the big picture is these days. Stoic doesn't mean happy... it means being real... is this guy real? I get what you're saying, but I too find myself wearing a smile more often than not. When I think of how degenerate society has become, I smile because I'm aware. When I meet yet another slut, I smile because I know. When I see a guy making a move on a girl that's with me, I laugh because I understand the dynamics. When an idea comes to fruition after…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/17 01:58 PM
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If you complained that the content here is getting worse.... No buts about it... thankful to see this shit go. Got nothing to contribute? Then STFU.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 06:12 PM
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So how could I make this happen? Frame, MFers. Going thru this now. R1 was pretty confident as she knew she was the primary and knew P1 (plate) was being discarded for continued infractions. R2 appears and suddenly (but not surprisingly) R1's confidence is shaken. When denied exclusivity and an open relationship (on her side), she tried to leave. Told her to sit down and stay. She listened, stayed, and now understands. Their security is found through your frame, confidence, and leadership. Own i…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 02:49 PM
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Automation over the next 10 years will change many aspects of working environments, jobs, and human interaction. Dating apps are nothing more than automated bots interacting with humans for profit. Applying that to the dating game from the other side? Nice. As it's been said before, men are being gamed for market research to keep these apps afloat. TRP also endorses working out and not being a slave to pussy. Taking the time to develop this and rolling it out via open source will be a boon for m…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 02:33 PM
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women are the ones who talk about how guys will pump and dump, yet women do it a lot. They're projecting; accuse men of doing what they're doing all the time. It's like the lying kid that accuses the other person of lying first... plausible deniability.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 03:51 PM
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Seriously, TRP is like a dynamite. It can be deadly if.... Social shaming is not death. Fear of social shaming is your death. TRP is a toolkit. If you need dynamite to make changes in your life, then make that drastic change. Otherwise tweak your life to make subtle, yet steady improvement.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/17 03:22 PM
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A lot of irreparable damage can be done in the beginning. How so? Any specific examples? Guys naturally doing RP aren't doing anything different. Guys that were soft pussies and got walked all over before trying RP are finally pushing back and standing up for themselves. Be bold, take action. We don't advocate violence so what damage is irreparable? It's definitely a good idea to quit video games and porn right away Agreed. but when it comes to dealing with women, you should definitely read and …
/r/TheRedPill02/06/17 11:14 AM
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It's weird to actively want to fuck a girl who's fucking other people. Ya know.... said another way: it's awesome to have a girl that actively wants you to fuck other people Be mindful of who controls the power dynamic. But it's really what I want.....not some stupid cuck fantasy, but instead, you know, high quality younger women who fuck me between boyfriends or while looking for a husband. This is a sweet spot and why spinning plates is possible. You fulfill their sexual needs while they're in…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/17 10:59 AM
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If I were in this situation I'd manipulate persuade her... FTFY Also you're a fucking idiot for cumming into a plate. FTFY2
/r/askTRP26/05/17 06:07 PM
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He will be obligated for child support and expenses until the kid is emancipated. 18-24 years. Assuming US laws.
/r/askTRP26/05/17 06:04 PM
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That's my favorite section as it's well written and clearly stated. My message is to the new comers who don't visit other aspects of TRP or haven't become fully aware of mating duality or guys that were fed the "be yourself" lie. To maximize your sexual strategy means to develop strong, masculine, alpha traits and build the best genetic version of yourself.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 02:01 PM
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Dual-mating: why we use the definitions we use: Alpha traits are, by definition, those traits that engender sexual attraction, i.e. traits that make a woman want to have sex with you. Beta traits are, by definition, those traits that engender relationship attraction TRP at it's core is sexual strategy, not relationship strategy. Read enough field reports or peruse asktrp and get an idea of the consistent pain points in men's lives. Then you'll understand why promoting alpha traits is the primary…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 12:51 PM
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Most importantly you have to love yourself unconditional no one else is going to do that. Yes. The only way to do that is to constantly fight and argue every negative emotion that comes through into something good. No. You'll eventually get to a place where this conflict either doesn't exist or you've created a mindset that swats that shit away instantly. You don't want to be in a constant state of fighting and arguing with yourself. However, while meditating and becoming stoic, you'll be aware …
/r/TheRedPill22/05/17 12:00 PM
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Settle down sparky. It's also possible he's in touch with his plebian side. Then again, I just spelled penis wrong.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 08:24 PM
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Some may even offer you some company while your life burns down around you I'll bring the marshmallows
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 08:16 PM
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regular non-famous guys with bad facial aesthetics are doing on TRP. Difference between famous and non-famous guys with bad facial aesthetics? Mindset. Meditate, check those thoughts and paradigms. Work out your body all you want; get your head in the game. TRP advice is mental fortitude. Gotta own what you got and rock the confidence.
/r/askTRP19/05/17 09:22 AM
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She's got a hard on to make a point about being a slut
/r/askTRP17/05/17 12:57 AM
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Ah there it is. Even on TRP you can still find the old "just be yourself" chestnut. Remember, a woman walks out the door in a sundress and a tiny bit of makeup. She's "being herself." She'll get laid no problem, all the time. You do not get that luxury. If you're a lazy fuck, the women you attract will be damaged, desperate, and fucked up. If you create yourself into a man, you will attract all types of women, but more importantly, better women (but they're still fucking nuts). Recap: be yoursel…
/r/askTRP17/05/17 12:49 AM
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Holy crap. Another "TRP sucks due to all the shit posts" Here's some tips to get value from TRP: 1) Read the side bar and recommended reading material 2) Sort by Top posts for best material 3) Some posts have many comments; usually an indicator of a decent discussion 4) Ignore the shit that provides you no value Some other helpful notes: 1) Generally speaking: younger crowd is vocal; older crowd less so. 2) The issues identified have existed since a subscriber count of 200 (we're at 200K now) 3)…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 12:24 PM
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giving that look girls from the movies always shoot when they're trying and failing at being subtle about wanting you. You know the one. Sadly, no, not everyone knows this look. Either they've never received the look or got the look without picking up the queues to recognize it. These people continue to live in a fantasy world where it doesn't exist. Meanwhile, TRP exists to shed light on these aspects so others may know to be aware and why it's important to raise your SMV.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 11:59 AM
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Bottom line, its your aversion to the "get over it" feeling that bothers you the most. Telling someone to just "get over it" won't work. I know this, you know this. WHY can they not "get over it"? (Specifically when the source of pain falls within the realm of relationships and/or sexual strategy.) Because they don't know HOW. Enter TRP, the Rational Male, NMMNG, sidebar, asktrp, MRP, CBT, meditation, lifting.... The AFC now has knowledge they never had before. They open their eyes and have a vi…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 12:43 AM
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I recommend reading the DSM5 to get a full review of the psychological disorder spectrum. How many guys come here with NO practical understanding of psychology. Guys need to wake up to the reality of mental disorders and learn what is out there. I don't advocate everyone becoming an armchair psychologist, but I strongly support anyone's search for knowledge and understanding. There have been previous threads discussing mental disorders and people should use the search feature to find them.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/17 02:37 PM
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While I do agree with your premise, I disagree with your disagreement. Here's why: TRP is about accepting reality, not coddling whichever emotions are stirred up today. Yes, PTSD and other extreme feelings are the outliers, but for a vast majority of readers, they need a swift kick in the ass to get on the train of self-commitment and improvement. Those born from weak leadership or feminine "feelz before realz" need a solid dose of masculinity, never-say-die, and "it's time to kick ass" motivati…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/17 01:33 PM
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Great message as we continue to build and lay the groundwork for future men to carry on.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 01:43 AM
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1) Come to TRP 2) See posts about AWALT 3) Wonder WTF is wrong with people 4) Read OP about Evo sexual strategy 5) Epiphany stage 6) Teach others 7) Never Marry
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 03:21 PM
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Thanks for your post. It's a truthful evaluation of your life and reality. It's also devoid of anger which drives many contentious posts. Really, it's a field report spanning an entire life. Great stuff! Much of what TRP has to offer is a review of life from the end and bringing it to the forefront of life. Many people say they wish they knew TRP when they were 16. You appear to be a fortunate one that had the alpha trait from the beginning. Guys that come here hurt from a relationship get the p…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 02:31 PM
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Simply put: why does a dog hump your leg? You might say, "bad dog", but the dog isn't "bad", he's just doing its dog-thing or what comes naturally. Understanding why people do what they do first involves understanding why living creatures do what they do. This does not excuse poor behaviour by a GF, nor does it give them a pussypass. It's merely the 1st step in understanding and getting thru the anger phase. This topic is covered in the sidebar material. If you haven't read it yet, give it a sho…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 11:57 PM
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Remember, sexual strategy is amoral. All animals do it. You're not dealing with rational thought, it's instinctual. Good that you finally recognized the red flags and got out before a whoops baby or losing your sanity. Lift, sidebar, etc...
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 10:38 PM
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All the girls start gravitating around him and men submit to him because of his status. Went on a cruise and met a top college NBA prospect. Chicks whore themselves out willingly for the chance at a life of leisure like they see on TV.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 05:29 PM
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"the past is the past why can't we move on?" It's simple, we as humans are prone to recognizing patterns, this includes patterns of behaviors. Unless of course you're a Republican government official with alleged ties to a particular sub-reddit. Then your past matters a whole fucking hell of a lot because feminist hypocrisy. Watch what they do, not what they say.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 03:20 PM
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Many believe that cheating on carnival isn't really cheating and especially not on said thursday since it is "their" day and they get a pass for everything. Carnival is other countries and throughout the carribean is a whole new world. Anything goes, then they take several weeks off afterwards which they treat as a cleansing. It quiet literally doesn't count in their minds. Anyone who still thinks their special snowflake doesn't have a dirty, raunchy side is just fucking delusional.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 01:29 PM
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As /u/clubfugginfooted said: spend it on self-improvement: clean up your diet, lift, meditate Really. Devote time to improving yourself. Once you're exercising and eating healthy, you'll feel much better. But you have to give it time. Commit yourself to 3 months to focusing on the diet and exercise improvements. Keep a journal, sleep well, and meditate. Be patient with yourself and give yourself time to adjust to a new lifestyle.
/r/askTRP19/04/17 01:15 PM
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Former co-worker shared a taxi with a cute little latina woman. They got frisky in the cab, then he discovered her 'secret'. He actually dated 'her' for a while too and brought her to work one day. We heard about the story after they broke up. To each their own...
/r/askTRP19/04/17 01:11 PM
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Holy wall of text, assumptions, and triggering. Your method of persuasion is horrible: The sidebar references, beta/bluepill name calling, and 'grow up'? It's ok man, you're just trying to help out. It's all good. But anyway, back to the OP's situation... OP says that his fiancee is wonderful. It's everything it needs to be... EXCEPT: she went apeshit on me, screaming at me she went full on Pyscho Scream scream scream. Bitchy bitchy bitchy. I do agree that OP has a part in this and revolve aroun…
/r/askTRP19/04/17 01:05 PM
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She's insecure about marrying you because she doesn't know (really feel) that you care about her. Her behaviour is over the top. If this is truly her problem, then talking about it rationally would be in her best interest. No amount of "feeling that he cares" will fix her emotional outbursts. When you try to "be redpill" without being a normal person... you're like a computer that thinks in terms of algorithms and tricks to apply to women in order to have the upper hand, not listening to her emo…
/r/askTRP19/04/17 10:46 AM
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What do you mean normal chicks don't say that? Let's put this in context: My RedPill Goggles have been Smudged. Smudged? No. Blinded. Possibly wifed up an Alpha widow?? You married this chick or just LTR'd? She really does seem to understand herself a lot more than other girls I've been with. From the sounds of it, better than you know yourself. She's a little bit red-pilled when it comes to fucking and what not. She's completely aware of her sexual strategy. I will admit, I seem to have been bl…
/r/askTRP19/04/17 10:24 AM
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Some specs on this girl: She's had crazy ass sex. She learned somewhere. She tells me 9 people but I suspect at least 18. Multiply by 3, not 2. And it sounds like that's low. I'm talking role playing, public sex, tasers, light bondage etc... She says that the people she had sex with were just for pleasure, like an scratch to an itch Dude. Normal chicks don't say this. she hasn't done anything too crazy with me No, because LUCKY YOU! She sees you as relationship material, not fuck you for fun mat…
/r/askTRP19/04/17 01:30 AM
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Old me = WTF! TRP me = LOL! Work it baby!
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 12:50 AM
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There's more than one way to look at that. True. I just wanted extra salt with my misogyny. I am still in touch with some of the women I used to fuck -- not date, not GF, just fuck. This is a crucial distinction. I know the guys they are married to ...and I know they aren't doing that now. Do the guys know their past? It is possible to maintain that. Totally, 100% agree. For the uninitiated, this entire scenario is the cause of many breakups. The doting boyfriend with occasional missionary sex t…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 06:32 PM
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All the carousel nonsense you've read on here is wrapping your mind and causing you to misinterpret this quite good quote. "Carousel nonsense" is womyn-speak for "I'm a slut but I'm not like that anymore". It means womyn are doing exactly as what was promoted in the book: for womyn to slut it up with the bad boys then find some beta bucks provider. But them fucking around makes them unsuitable for anything more than being a DNA repository. Throughout time, whores and sluts are adored for their s…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 12:42 PM
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By the way, one of the reasons for the Sandberg strategy is that there aren't enough alphas to go around Another strategy if for her to regurgitate/rebrand TRP styled lessons to sell to the womyn empowerment society. Which is great in theory, but as the antifa chick learned, it don't work that way.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 11:40 AM
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You cracked the code for your biological imperative. Congrats, not all people/men get there. Since you're not Ghengis Khan: slaughtering villages and raping your way through the countryside is shunned these days. Your next step is to find your purpose; your own self actualization. Are you as fit as you can be? rich? successful? Point being, you've plateaued. Keep the gains and build yourself up for the next challenge. It's like being poor then winning the lottery. Once you get used to all the mo…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 11:58 AM
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That reminds me to peruse the sidebar material again. It's good to have a refresher. Having it on PDF helps too.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 07:37 PM
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A leader of men and brave til the end. Those are big shoes to fill and a legacy to build. His words and persona have left an indelible mark within me. Losing him is similar to when I lost my father. A strong masculine personality which we all can learn from and carry with us. Condolences to his family. Godspeed Andrew.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 02:14 PM
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How do you know Listen to your gut... she tried making me feel crazy Normal girls dont intentionally try to do this to you I was always the problem. This too. Normal, healthy girls will actually try to talk with you and figure it out Edit: Pretty sure I have a severe case of ONEITIS from her. Probably. Crazy chicks, sex, and the constant emotional roller coaster will do that to you. But every time I try to move on or go no contact, she always seems to come back. You not being there causes her se…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 02:33 AM
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Its been incredibly frustrating trying to find one who matches my level at all. It's like, I have so much to offer how the hell are you going to add to my life at all? Think about this..... Its been incredibly frustrating trying to find one who matches my level at all. Previously you mentioned all the things you have: PhD, house, car, salary, hobbies, etc... I have so much to offer how the hell are you going to add to my life at all. If you find your "equal", what do you have to offer each other…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 04:16 PM
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but I can't work up the courage to approach them. Chatting with female friend last night: "I swear, everywhere I go, guys hit on me. Now, the cute doctor I don't mind, but it's everywhere." She mentions the gym, the store, the park, the movies, kids sporting events.... Once you understand that your feelings are normal, the approach is normal, chatting them up is normal, and they really don't give a fuck (because it's part of being a woman), you need to accept your feelings as normal. Of course m…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 03:56 PM
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You're in college? Get out of your head and just ask her out. She'll be getting offers on a daily basis. She won't give a shit about the male hamstering you had to conquer to get the balls to say something. Go be bold and just do it.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 11:41 AM
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Every once in a while I find myself having depressing and negative thoughts This is normal. Seriously. Don't dwell on the negative thoughts. This is part of frame control too. Read up on CBT. Any advice? I will gladly answer to comments asking for more info. You're building your life through lifting and education. Be patient with yourself but continue to grow.
/r/askTRP04/04/17 11:39 AM
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Read this series and enjoyed your other business posts a few months back. Good stuff dude... thank you!
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 11:09 AM
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I finally worked up the guts to give a girl my number Yes, this is a great start. The downside is that it puts her in charge of reaching out. Keep practicing! Anecdotal story: Met a woman a couple weeks ago while out with friends. She pulled her phone out the same moment my friend asked a question. In that brief minute my attention was elsewhere, another guy started chatting her up. When I turned around, I simply took her phone, dialed my number, hung up, and gave the phone back. Before she real…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 06:48 PM
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I would have PAID to see the look on her face.... "I'm pregnant, it's yours" = "Hold on a sec..." (turns on webcam, starts streaming...) "OK, ready..." Hmmmm, maybe those Snapchat glasses really do have a purpose.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 06:28 PM
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to guys like me... The Nice Guy. Go read the sidebar in between lifting. Read No More Mr Nice Guy. Lift. Come back in 3 months with an update.
/r/askTRP30/03/17 09:00 PM
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It's fun reading all the assumptions and emotional "it feels good" comments. Sure, this could be a real life Disney love story where you fill in the blanks with whatever characterizations you wish. The story was written to elicite those exact emotions. The nice phone and his good grooming tells me he's not impoverished. Not owning a car or flat is a status symbol, not a sign of poverty. Nothing is mentioned what the girl did for a job. A Russian girl I knew traveled to a foreign land, barely spo…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 08:56 PM
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Without a stream of healthily adjusted recruits... We don't get a stream of "healthily adjusted recruits"... A lot of these people are frustrated and angry because they've have had experiences they can't rationalise. Considering TRP is a collection of 1,000's of experiences, you're right. How could a single person have enough experiences (or proper upbringing) to make sense out of their experience? So they seek help. See first point above. Truth be told most of them should only be angry at thems…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 05:46 PM
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Oooh, we'll get masks too and do an "Eyes Wide Shut" themed party...
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 05:13 PM
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Don't we all :) Keep it up!
/r/askTRP29/03/17 05:15 PM
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Oh, you missed the original post. It was a doozy. Started off with TRP being out of the CIA handbook of manipulation. Then it was all downhill from there. Then the comments! Well, you can read through them.... There's been a couple threads recently with 0 votes but 50+ comments. There's some gold in these posts.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 05:14 PM
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Awesome. Read some of your post history. Younger guys need to see older guys doing well. You're doing great!
/r/askTRP29/03/17 02:56 PM
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No, 30 is not too late to start. Seeing the support from the guys in this thread and the up votes they get is your sign that it's never too late.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 02:51 PM
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I think it might be worthwhile to reinstate it to see what other men have to say. Of course you do. If other men valued your post, it would have been upvoted. It had ZERO votes. Most likely, the majority of this sub isn't aware that these psychological tactics are derivative of Cold War strategies from the CIA. And what of it? In fact, if the CIA does have a manual, and it's even better at intentional manipulation, we'll have you to thank for making us even better. Thank you! Unless, you think m…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 11:30 AM
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I am pointing out parallels between existing texts (CIA manual of sabotage) vs. popular self-help books (TRP, fast seduction) that utilizes the original source. Cite one relevant fact or parallel from your "original source". Your post was one assumption after another. There was no fact-based observations in your post. From another perspective, psychology is psychology. Humans are wired similarly with variations across a spectrum. If you read the DSM5, you'll find psych-profiles and recommended w…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 11:18 AM
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Stuff you have control over (diet, exercise, excellence is school/work, self care, skills, hobbies, your behaviour, your behaviour in a relationship, etc) is your fault. All of that is under your control. When a woman blames you and says it's your fault, it's because women have no agency. This is covered in the sidebar and some great posts exist too. Basically, if a man blames you, you probably fucked up. If a woman blames you, it's because she fucked up. Oversimplified, but yea. Learn to see th…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 07:42 PM
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Definitely concern trolling. It's also a female perspective which was obvious. It's why I posted what I did to Maty. Bottom line, TRP makes them feel bad, therefore they attack it. Usually it would have been deleted by now but the discourse is entertaining.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 06:58 PM
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2nd time this week I find myself reading about Frankfurt School. Did you want the conspiracy theory version or non?
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 06:54 PM
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Pretty much. It's your fault if any strong woman leaves you. It's your fault if she divorce rapes you. It's your fault if she cheats, becomes a whore, has someone else's kid. It's your fault if she's not happy. It's your fault. It's all your fault. But don't be a victim. Be a survivor. Go build civilizations and great things... but when a woman destroys it all, don't be a victim, just remember its your fault.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 06:52 PM
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Every now and then it's worth airing out a discussion. Good to see the points and counter points. Makes a good example.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 06:43 PM
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Her contribution ended after the 1st paragraph. The rest is riddled with assumptions, opinions, fantasy, and insults. The more she's questioned, the more insults are used.... which is manipulation to save face. The point of her post is to dismantle TRP and tell us all how delusional we all are.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 06:42 PM
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False narrative - check Assumptions based on false narrative - check Fabricates an entire post based on over-generalizations made in false narrative - check Walks like a duck, looks like a duck, sounds like a duck - it's a duck Check post history - confirms, it's a duck (edit: you beat me to the point-to-point counter argument :)
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 11:07 AM
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businessinsider . com/ tinder-secret-success-rate-photos-right-swipe-percentage-2017-3 Remove the spaces... TRP won't let me post links. :/ The study about okcupid data: jonmillward . com/blog/attraction-dating/cupid-on-trial-a-4-month-online-dating-experiment/#references
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 06:28 PM
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Tinder has a secret success rate. There was an article about it on Business Insider. Highlights from the article: female photos had an average success rate of 52% homosexual men have an average success rate of 35% heterosexual men had an average success rate of 16% Quote from the article: There's a big gap between the average success rates of women and men Analysis by Rentify engineers showed an average success rate for different types of profiles. Heterosexual female photos had an average succe…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 05:26 PM
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I have to ask you, why do we not talk about TRP Before TRP was ever called TRP, you'd probably talk to a wise old man for these truths. Younger people (and women) would giggle at him and call him the crazy old guy or he'd be a respected elder. Guys that were players, celebrities, handsome, or rich, have first hand knowledge about the behaviours of women. But you'd have to be one of them to understand what they'd talk about. If you weren't one of them, you were blind to the dynamics. Then one day…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 02:58 PM
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This would be better served in AskTRP That being said, take a deep breath and relax. You're 16. Take some time to read, practice a few things you've learned, and enjoy the process of maturing. Without a rock solid frame and understanding of the principals you're learning, a teacher (with an agenda) will happily school you. Your classmates have shown their colors because they believe what they're told at face value. Check out the short video about the 48 Laws of Power. Especially Law 38: think as…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 02:34 PM
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Thank you, I feel like this place has started to soften up recently. WTF is up with the concern trolling? The sidebar hasn't changed. Many topics have been looked at in depth. The more subscribers, the greater the variance. Ignore what you don't like, up vote the good posts. Mods will prune the rest. TRP has been "soft" since it hit 100 subscribers - it's part of the dynamics of being an open forum. That being said, I enjoyed your post. Well done looking at relationship dynamics.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 12:59 PM
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But I figured if I posted anything I'd get ripped to shreds for being in love with her and be told she's been cheating on me since day 1 of college. You're not wrong. But... you'll also be told that being in a relationship with a woman that adds value to your life is awesome. Personally, I'd like to see every guy that comes across TRP to ultimately find themselves in a relationship which brings them happiness. Since you're here, you know the pitfalls... but being RP and in a relationship... you …
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 02:17 AM
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This is a low quality post. Your previous post on the matter explains in better detail what you endured. However, here's a suggestion for a better post and would be beneficial to you: Read the DSM 5 and identify your ex's traits. One set of traits will stand out above all others. Read up on Lucifers Daughter and see if that applies. (Search TRP for previous threads). I think Rollo did an article on it too. Lift. Seriously. Release the emotional turmoil into physical exertion. Accept your role in…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 10:11 AM
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I would have spent more time with the stripper and less time with the good, Catholic girl. Fucking is better than getting fucked. As others have said, take care of yourself. Work out a bit more. Spend time learning a skill. Find something useful that interests you (not endless hours of TV, games, etc...). Do anything that keeps you active and fit. It's easier to build it than it is to prevent yourself from losing anymore. If you have anxiety, do anything you can to get that shit fixed. And given…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 10:52 PM
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I have to love it or else I'm a scum. :p Welcome to parenthood. That's why marriage is TRP on hard mode =D
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 03:29 PM
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IMO, lifting is the process of leading yourself. You lead yourself into uncomfortableness, effort, motivation, and discipline. Your wife has pregnancy and now your child to focus energy. Lead yourself to be the man your child will model themselves after. Demonstrate through action what it means to be a man. Rise about lethargy, weakness, and feelings. You're self aware. You know what you need to do. Regardless of where you live, you are man. Own it. Be it. Thrive in it.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 02:32 PM
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but I litteraly hate taking initiatives and picking up activities This is why she feels trapped, keeps shitting on you, and threatens to leave. Neither of you have the balls to do anything. So, as a man posting in TRP, what do you think you should do? Think about it... .... .... .... Hopefully you've been around long enough to come up with these timeless ideas: - eat healthy - lift - find a hobby/skill to enjoy (Dieting and exercise is a good place to start) - Date your wife (take her out to eat…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 10:50 AM
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And this is why "it's just your turn"...
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 04:39 PM
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How do I pass this shit test? My answer is usually "go on, leave, now, good luck" or something of the sort... :p Pretty much. At this point, it's a race to the bottom. Who can illicit more anxiety, jealousy, fear. By saying, "bye bye" you call her bluff. Just be prepared for the day she goes all in and calls the bluff. On the flip side, have you 2 done anything exciting with each other? Surprise her with a night out, dancing, or <insert awesome date idea here>. If wife is playing games, maybe th…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 04:31 PM
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Hang in there dude. You got this.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 04:25 AM
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Of course. We all achieve better results the more we master our chosen skill. However, we can't be perfect at everything. Choose your poison and own it. Sounds like you put yourself out there and do well. Keep it up!
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 04:10 AM
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Thank you and welcome. It's been discussed here previously how salsa (and dancing in general) is a great way to raise your SMV. This is a great nuanced view of the dynamics involved. Without getting all theory-ladened, the bottom line is the man leads with impeccable frame. Show any weakness and women will not engage.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 12:09 AM
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There are seminars called "Get the Guy" and "Sugar Daddy School" too.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/17 02:41 PM
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There are seminars called "Get the Guy" and "Sugar Daddy School" too.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/17 02:37 PM
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The karma sutra chick won out. Her youth and skills were unassailable for the post-wall MILF. Watching RP truths playout real-time was highly entertaining. Good post reminding us of the importance of power in the SMP.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/17 01:56 PM
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Muscles, money, artist, being in a band, drug dealer, teacher, cop, doctor, religious leader etc all equal power. This is basically a recap of my St Patty's Day experience. Hanging at the local dive bar with a couple plates, their friends would swing by the table with one story after another of their "man problems". These men were: - Young, charismatic cop - Member of popular, local band - Member of local chapter of Hell's Angels - Successful, investment bank professional Now, these women expres…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/17 01:27 PM
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the sex just blindsided me Same thing happened to me. Then I learned about the past and I had nothing for her. Beta tendencies tend to creep in the more attractive the women. It's important to keep practicing and get used to your feelings.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 09:19 PM
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TRP provides the entire scope of female behaviour. There are nuances throughout the spectrum as well. It's also about understanding your nature as a man and not projecting those feelings onto the 1st hot chick that spreads her legs for you. Even the caricature painted above is a poor representation of reality. How about the professional woman that has kids, is in great shape, has a degree or 2, but enjoys random hooks ups every weekend. Or the travel sales women that has a couple hookups in citi…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 09:07 PM
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funny how the slut side killed it Men get shamed for this, but it's the truth. Let the guys that want to marry a slut have 'em. Enjoy your turn for what it is. Besides, if she's learned to get the biggest dopamine hit from any random guy, she's gonna miss that feeling. It's easy for her. Why should she not do something that's so easy and feels so good? Obviously that would be your fault, you misogynist pig. Ever listen to a bunch of post wall sluts reminisce about their past? LOL. The dutiful, p…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 08:49 PM
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Don't think much of it. Using a celebrity example helps get the point across. Besides, half the shit they say is for their public persona and empowering the victimized group of the day for brownie points.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 01:59 PM
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I've seen it before, but when a chick says, "get your shit together", she's judging you against an ideal personification of a male (her dad or another alpha male), and basically telling you, 'you're not good enough, but I'm willing to hang around because I keep getting dumped by better men than you." Women (well, some anyway) grow up with a dad they adore. They see him as a superman and infallible. This imprinting carries over into dating life and want the "good guy that loves them" or "has thei…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 11:52 AM
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That was my initial thought too. This is straight up "the perfect guys fuck and dump me, but dad bod guys give me commitment." Tale as old as time.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 11:39 AM
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They do. As do women. This is the plight of man. Its also why you train to accept and thrive in the struggle. Do not whine about it, go forge yourself into a man and embrace your masculinity.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 12:31 PM
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Ah yes. A crush, limerence, unrequited love. You associate the massive dopamine spike to a single person. i.e. Oneitis As others have said, chill the fuck out, go lift, put your big boy panties on. If it was meant to be, you'd be smashing her right now; not wallowing in misery a year after your unicorn moved on from a non-sexual, long- distance relationship. Men love idealistically. Women love opportunistically. You recover by accepting reality and putting the energy into yourself. This applies …
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 12:06 PM
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Tough spot. Careful w/hookers. If you get caught and they're illegal where you're at, custody will become an issue. Take care of yourself physically. Finding somone that's ok with 4 kids isn't impossible. You'll have to make sure you have a sitter unless older kids can take care of younger.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 03:54 AM
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LOL. There's only 206 of me. Edit: Apparently I need to be more selective. 454K women meeting my general criteria. Edit2: revised my settings. Only 18 of me. Edit3: being more selective gave me 210k options. Edit4: put in a range for my demographic. There's 14K of me once you factor in variations of height, income, religion. Funny that boils down to only 18 with one variable per selection. Edit5: here's the website: http://www.iwonderifyouareoutthere.com/
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 03:47 AM
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Thanks for the clarification. A successful (by any measure) business woman I know, was the one that said it to me. The ones that have found success (that I know) think the movement is silly. It's not just me saying it. But you're right... it does generate news which means advertising dollars. I do suspect some of the effort is being inflamed for the ad revenue.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 12:12 AM
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The problem here is that you ignored my statement: "The successful business woman...." ...and continued with your narritive as though it was never said. This is the problem with the entire movement. It discredits itself as nothing more than a tantrum when in fact, women have contributed to advancing business, science, arts, etc. But they continue to perpetuate perceived inequalities because they're on some sort of validation seeeking emotional tirade. There are countless women recognizing the eq…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 07:57 PM
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The #heforshe is another liberal-tastic feel-good motivational pom-pom shaking look-at-me movement that is an utter waste of time. The successful business woman doesn't need or want this bullshit to artificially raise the self-importance of low-energy walking pink tacos. The imagry of a defiant little girl is powerful yet we know is unrealistic. Women know they can influence a beast through female charm and feminine ways. Yet, when masculine imperative kicks in, they know they don't stand a snow…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/17 12:52 PM
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It's like asking a coke addict to stop cold turkey. It's just not gonna happen. Enjoy your turn while you have it, and be prepared for the LTR pressure. Your ability to parry those inquisitions and maintain her as a sex partner is a skill worth developing.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 08:39 PM
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(I've noticed few men that seem to be cool with it, not sure why but they seem to be the exception not the rule, or they might just be lying). My working theory: These guys prioritize getting sex above all else. As long as they're getting it, girl's past doesn't matter. And really, this is true (to a point). Assume she's a slut (AWALT) and keep your emotions to yourself. Like you mentioned, playing it cool, is amused mastery. One guy said, "she's had the rest, now she has the best!" He says his …
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 08:35 PM
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Exactly. The "sex is fun" crowd has a weakened pair bond so the disconnect happens faster (if it ever existed). The good girl will last longer if the man maintains his status. Unemployment, dad bod, and other displays of weakness weakens the bond. However, post-partum depression, influence from bad-girl friends, and general AWALT can turn a good girl sour. Stay manly my friends.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 12:16 PM
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Your introductory tale is not far from the truth. My grandma & grandpa, uncle (and his wife), and a couple other family members all mated for life. They were each other's firsts, lasts, and only's. While life wasn't always puppy dogs and roses, they stayed with each other through thick and thin, active members of the community, large family gatherings, and their loss sent ripples through the family tree. These have been the patriarchs and matriarchs of the family and their loss is still felt. Ju…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/17 02:46 PM
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...He wanted more sex, blowjobs, anal, etc. but she's holding back, so his grief is she's holding back sex from her husband who provides for her while she easily gave it up to strangers in her past. Rollo talks about a similar case here She's not "holding back" as it implies she has desire but isn't acting on it. Reality is that she has no desire. She had that desire for her ONS, fuck buddies, and all the others that made up her slut past. Those guys wouldn't commit/provide so she found a beta t…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/17 01:04 AM
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Quality content even for the not-so-newbie. If the Red Pill is a seed, this is the fertile soil from which it grows. Understanding how attraction works and even the nuances behind how the theory came to be provides invaluable insight. In fact, I googled "lekking" (from the video) then found an article studying humans from a behavioral ecological perspective. The guy is spot on in his analysis. Gonna miss him.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 09:03 PM
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She says you have no idea about women. You have no clue what they'll do to lock down a man like him. I say what do you mean? She says she'll make him fall in love with her. A woman will do anything. Trust me. I know girls. She sips her tea. If a smile, a wink, a BJ, some sex, and acting coy doesn't work, they'll intentionally get pregnant. As psychology is our tool, sex is theirs. She knows a young, financially well off stud will get plenty of offers. He gets choice unless the woman forces him i…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 01:56 PM
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Wow. I heard about the cancer but didn't realize it went terminal. He's definitely one of the best in the manosphere. A straightforward, WYSIWYG, pillar of the community. God speed Private Man. Thank you for being a compass, a rock, and beacon of light for myself and so many others. May we take up the torch and carry it forward with the same strength and dignity as you have done for us.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 12:23 PM
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The only way a woman will remain faithful to you is if she believes that her well-being depends upon your sticking around. I'll have to let that sink in, thanks for sharing this powerful quote man For those contemplating marriage or ultimately having a kid, remember: "no fault divorce" The day she decides not to be faithful anymore, the law is in her favor to ensure you're on the hook for her well-being.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 10:47 PM
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https://youtu.be/QUmJHIPMkA0?t=10m49s Updated link
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 01:37 AM
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Not having an ounce to give is blue pill. She fucked your life, yea, been there. You have 3 kids. You asked various questions for different scenarios. My vote is simply to get that equal time and make the most of it. You'll have you time when they're not there. When they're older, they'll be out with friends and spend less time with you anyway. They might be fucked but at least be there while you can, in the capacity you can. I know guys that have been fucked and haven't seen their kids in years…
/r/askTRP25/01/17 01:22 AM
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Sexual strategy is amoral. Yes. But even in the animal kingdom, young ones are raised under the protection of the heard. And yes, some abandon their eggs to be raised by others. So I do understand that strategy is amoral. In my worldview, I believe it's our nature to be involved in the rearing of our offspring. Separately, laws have been passed to ensure the care of children through child support. So whether you choose to raise your child (natures law) or forced to (society's law), there is a du…
/r/askTRP24/01/17 05:46 PM
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3 kids and you'll consider starting another family? Dude. Seriously. Think long and hard about that. Regardless of the ex, fight for those kids, and be in their life. You made them, take care of them. If the mother is shit, don't make it worse by being a shit dad and disappear. You'll start over, for yourself. Don't think starting over means finding another partner to make more kids. Maybe you live in a 3rd world country with no child support or you're independently wealthy so the cost of kids m…
/r/askTRP24/01/17 02:01 PM
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Any trick to shut up for good my this voice in my head that reeks low confidence? This is the reason meditation is recommended. Take the time to listen to the voice, realize that's it's involuntary, psychological "game" with yourself and let your rational mind dominate it. Refocus the "low confidence" thoughts into useful energy to reach a personal best in lifting, to squeeze out one more rep, to strive for a higher grade in a school, etc. Also take time to give yourself credit for your achievem…
/r/askTRP24/01/17 01:48 PM
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I won't go on making the same mistakes! Nope, you'll make all new ones! Success comes from experience; experience comes from failure. Now go fail! ;)
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 06:51 PM
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You're correct that she wasn't into him at all. You're also correct that there are scary guys out there. In OP's case, his oneitis told a friend she's ready for the next level which implies OP is not scary, just beta. Sounds like she was done playing the field and ready to settle for a beta (for now) until scary jacked Chad waltzed in a whisked her away. Leaving OP's tears mixing with his girl's pussy juice flowing down the drain of missed opportunity. OP could stand to be scarier.. in a jacked,…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 05:44 PM
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some people do get to know these things through personal experiences(fucking up a lot of times and learning through these fuck-ups) Exactly. You gained experience from being in a relationship. whereas TRP offers this knowledge beforehand(holding frame, flirting, etc). Yep, giving language, definitions, and context to the experience of being in a relationship. Some guys are coming here failing at even getting that far. Other guys are only learning after divorce rape. Bottom line, once you learn s…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 05:07 PM
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Just remember /u/jaaydogg, a woman is "too scared" to let you down but she'll fuck a total stranger. (or she was too nice/scared to let you down by saying she wasn't into you) Acta non verba
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 03:57 PM
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Just some observations and experience. ...abundance mentality Not all of us are smooth with women in the start, and we learn from our fuckups. You just learnt about how women usually operate. That's how the world works. Doesn't take Red Pill to know this tbh. Everything you just identified is the red pill. A collection of observations and experiences on sexual strategy with a male focus. Women socialize and pick up these social queues much faster, deeper, sooner than many men. TRP exists to shar…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 03:24 PM
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I feel that I'm always subconsciously thinking about it (women) Of course you are, this is natural, part of being human/male. as the end goal of my improvement. Ahhh, this is detrimental. Once you realize how cheap pussy is, you'll realize your health, fitness, and success are far more important. Let the drive guide you, don't let it rule you.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 02:05 PM
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Thank you for not shooting me down. No problem. Realize that you were a male slut for your HB9. Yes, that's right, a slut. You gave emotional commitment away for nothing in return. Well, nothing, but you got to keep the company of an HB9 (and how that made you feel). If you reverse the roles, she'd be your slut if you recieved all the sex you wanted from her just so she could be around you. Another way of looking at it: She's objectively high in SMV but low in RMV. You're objectively high in RMV…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 01:04 PM
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Eventually all women show their true colors.... I remember being at a bar over 10 years ago before knowing TRP. Met this cute blonde and we hit it off. Thought it was going to be a great night until she mentions her BF. Later that night while filling in for the shot-girl, she gets to this guy that looks like Vin Diesel. 30 seconds later she fills her mouth with whipped cream and makes out with him for a while. Later I drive her home and didn't escalate. Another dude from the bar was blowing up h…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 04:11 AM
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I don't know your relationship dynamics to provide an insightful opinion. But, I totally support you going with your gut. Learn to trust it and make decisions based on that trust. It'll serve you well. Besides, you can always take her later if she seems open to the idea after you see it. My friend has been around for ages and hates todays feminist movement. My gut told me she'd appreciate the movie. Enjoy the movie!
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 01:29 AM
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Oh, agreed. My post wasn't clear... divorce laws punish men so men continue to work and support their exes. Which is better than the gov't paying for their shit.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/16 11:45 PM
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Some girls are just damaged and others might have ridiculously high standards. When you find one that's "both", God help you. Good writeup... and kids, remember to make a plan for yourself: Learn, lift, explore, and excel... if you're doing that, then you have a great start.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 06:24 PM
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For some perspective, there's an entire radfem thought experiment which says ALL piv sex is rape: https://web.archive.org/web/20131221123431/http://witchwind.wordpress.com/2013/12/15/piv-is-always-rape-ok I'm willing to hear this one to its conclusion.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 05:15 PM
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Is there really something wrong with her or is her nature just more pronounced in the AF/BB spectrum. Some may want chad and get it. Some want the relationship guy and get it. Some want both but settle on taking Chad for a night and convincing BB she's a f'n prize.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 04:56 PM
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I get a little salty when reading about women that have it all and still manage to fuck it up because they're bored or whatever the fuck they hamsterize in their heads. Thanks for breaking it down though. I agree with your viewpoint. Also, the surprise visit idea is great. Seeing a genuinely surprised and happy woman is great. If your woman appears to be faking, she probably is. Having watched an ex look thru my phone then nonchalantly hide her behaviour when I made my presence known.... yea, I'…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 04:41 PM
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From the husbands perspective, correct. It's impossible to be a 24x7x365 tingle provider. Especially to a low RMV woman. From the other dudes perspective, he still got laid.... despite the woman "with it all". My comment was from this perspective. I've seen a similar situation with a born again Christian wife, married to the lead singer of a locally famous band, with the big house in the burbs, big family, always involved with friends and neighbors, great job, etc.... GNO? Yea, she cheated too. …
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 12:30 PM
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We're saying the same thing :) I grew up believing divorce laws were for the protection of precious snowflakes because the bad man couldn't keep his dick in his pants and left his good wife and children to fend for themselves. That bastard. Now I see that some smart people realized women have an innate inability to stay faithful and by maximizing the penalty against man, guaranteed the money is put back into the system which supports (what is now) a gov't sponsored prostitute.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 05:07 AM
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I've had an Eiffel tower threesome AKA spit roast + high five (TIL) Further in the comments of the original thread, out came the pro-non-monogamous, group-sex-positive, open-relationship comments. Basically 'pro-hedonistic' lifestyles. While nothing inherently wrong with the lifestyle, (IMO) most guys discovering their precious snowflake was happily guzzling multiple cocks but won't do more than missionary because "they're not like that anymore", just makes for bad relationships later on. Next o…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 04:55 AM
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What a great lesson for this sub. Another less subtle lesson: Even a chick with "everything" will still put out for the tingles. "Be the tingles"
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 04:07 AM
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Our problem started when I got bored. Can't be said enough. Look at a shoe store: Men's section is a couple rows. Woman's section takes up an entire floor. There's not enough options to keep them happy. Kids, PTA, Alpha husband.... still not enough. Even the alpha husband needs to work and provide. Which is time not spent with her. Then the wife has GNO (girls night out) which is really just a covert way of saying, "let's see if my milkshake stills brings boys to the yard". And if it does, and s…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 04:02 AM
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Women are so fucking ruthless it's mind blowing. Maybe this is why divorce laws are so penalizing towards men. Some smart dude realized that if left unregulated, women would bankrupt a country by their ruthless, shitty behaviour.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 03:35 AM
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She's banging a D1 player with NBA potential which means $$$ and fame. He's got all the options in the world. If she can't have him, she'll destroy him. Too bad Disney doesn't remake Beauty and the Beast with a spin.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/16 02:41 PM
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I understand what you're saying, but the premise is off which led you down the wrong path. Red Pill, for all its bluster about not giving a fuck, gives too much of a fuck about women, and doing the things specifically that women will be attracted to. From an evolutionary standpoint, we all give a fuck about breeding. Every living creature has a way to propogate the species. Central tenants of RP theory speaks of amoral sexual behaviour. When that is clouded by religions, society, and cultural no…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 05:52 PM
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Nature vs Nurture Men are forged by iron, conflict, perseverance. Mental frame and physique are the tells a man has overcome. A boy is born unto the world. Weak at its very nature. While some are genetically gifted, men are born through their own nurturing. No one can lift or learn for you.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 04:20 PM
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TL;DR new guy decides to post this stupid shit post mission accomplished
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 01:21 PM
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.1. What's the point here? Use search and most likely there's an in depth TRP-post about nearly every topic. Working knowledge is sufficient to make a point. .2. The core of TRP is in the side bar. Practically every facet has its own dedicated thread. Responses in those threads and most new posts are nuances of the core concepts. .3. Whats the point here? The anger phase is real. Guys have this space to vent, see their emotions in words, and receive feedback on how to work through it. Some guys …
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 12:20 PM
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Nah. She likes men is a healthy way. Hates bitches that shit on men. She makes a good RP woman.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 11:20 PM
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Either she sat there and formulated a response or totally faked the, "Holy shit, that really happened?" immediately following the section (in the movie) about the guy w/the overweight daughter. Having known my friend for a decade, it was a genuine response. Yes, there are some facets of women that make them AWALT, but not every woman has every trait that makes them worthless fuck holes.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 11:16 PM
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I too saw the movie and a female friend accompanied me. She said, "I had no fucking clue" when discussing what the men described in the movie. She admitted some of her male friends described similar situations but never realized the extent of the male systematic abuse done through the court systems. Even she wanted to punch the feminists in the face for their rhetoric. May the awaking continue. Stay diligent.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 05:39 PM
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When I speak to people, mentioning "The Red Pill" is about the movie. I still do not openly speak about reddit/TRP unless it's with a guy and he's carefully vetted. In fact, the movie helps directing conversation to Reddit/TRP because it gets a brief mention at the end of the movie. IMO, reddit/TRP is for us. It's our foundation. The Red Pill movie is for the masses. It gets a point across. Those that want more information need to seek it out. Then they'll find us and hopefully with an open mind…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 05:34 PM
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yes, in one way, it's the female invading the male space for attention. However, men have gotten attention for serious issues. More akin to a Trojan horse. The anti-male narritive is changing thanks to this documentary. The more feminists protest it, the more attention it'll receive and greater viewership. See the bigger picture and benefits. In the meantime, enjoy TRP, better yourself, and help other men see the truth.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 05:28 PM
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learning of a woman's past abuse will trigger your natural protective instinct, but don't succumb to it. This is important for guys to understand. Its natural to have empathy; its natural to have the protective instinct. But do not suddenly become white-knight-save-a-ho.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 04:27 PM
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Take it a little further, and read the DSM-5 There's a section at the end which gives general traits for each disorder and how to approach. At the very least, you'll have an idea of the spectrum of issues you could encounter.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 04:22 PM
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First off, thank you. Your books are entertaining, insightful, and have improved my life. I'm very grateful for your work. Second, I know a young man (16) that reminds me of myself at that age. I gave him Rational Male, and told him to reach out anytime with questions. Do you have any age appropriate tips I would share?
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 07:19 PM
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Did you see the movie? Other than name, it's not obvious the movie has much to do with this sub until the passing mention towards the end. In fact, the guys in the theater didn't pick up on the mention of us because it's not the main focus. I agree with previous posters that the Streisand effect will bring us more traffic than the people seeing the movie. Let them ban it, watch the reaction to more censorship, watch the Google searches for TRP go up... and with it, our viewership. Grab your popc…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 10:31 AM
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I created my twitter account because of the election and I wanted to spread my wings beyond TRP. There are some guys from here and other guys that are solid. Scott Adams is fun to read and his periscopes are informative. His book (How to fail at almost everything and still win big) is a good read too. The idea of influence is powerful. Like anything in life, some are naturals, some have to learn. If you followed the election for the past month, you could see the change in both campaigns. For exa…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 03:00 AM
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Totally agree... the leaks are a blueprint to the depth of manipulation. For example: The 3rd debate was all about creating imagery with emotional provocation. Watch the debate again and listen everytime Clinton brought up the subject of a child or mentioned a negative and immediately linked the emotion to Donald in the next sentence. Both are intended to manipulate into feeling disgust towards donald. Also as mentioned, the leaks will show the depth of corruption and how it was done. The new in…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/16 05:27 PM
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+1 for the over 30 crowd. Thanks to a high rate of divorce and more "independent" women, there's plenty of fun to be had. Here's the catch: Eat well, exercise, and have confidence. Men's SMV is higher later in life and you'll still attract the occasional young one.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/16 05:19 PM
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Found this on GLO twitter feed. Debate was rigged. Fuck this election. https://youtu.be/3XSuG5aCFGs
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 12:23 PM
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"Fucked up"???? I missed the part where you got her pregnant, you got a STD, married her anyway, then divorced, and you lost all your business, and custody. Suck it up buttercup, you'll be fine. Only thing that broke was your expectations... and those bruises? That's your ego. No worries, back to lifting, making $$$, and move on. Your goals in life are long term... her's are short term... she found a flake with short term spontaneity... get back on your mission. There'll be plenty of futures 'on…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 05:59 PM
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Just watched it... narrator says "She had to leave the tribe".... guy was "humiliated" and one of the other wives knew what happened.... no mention of how decision was made ...... oh, and the female that cheated was a single mom.... just sayin
/r/TheRedPill22/09/16 03:18 AM
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Asian markets are amazing. 20 different types of mushrooms, more seafood than an aquarium, and a wide selection of stuff you've never seen before.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 02:51 PM
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Yes, they do remove the behaviour and why you should too. A stable social order is paramount for a village's success. Without consequences for poor behaviour, it will negatively impact the village as a whole. Strive to be the village warrior, then the village elder as you transform your life. Also, as the guy said, he would have killed the other man but it was his brother. Bros before hoes. Maintain frame, the glass is already broken, and lift (embrace challenges) like your life depends on it - …
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 12:10 PM
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A Polish market by me has some of the best meats I've seen. Excellent selection, and especially around holidays when they load up for increased demand. Very fresh.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 11:50 AM
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Supermarket Hypergamy I hear the Ukrainian market has great looking produce that keeps being put on the shelf. The Russian market has produce but only for lease. Top notch American produce is for rent only. Any advice on which market to browse for best results (bang for the buck)?
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 11:37 AM
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Don't trick yourself into thinking you're perfectly able to spot a damaged woman. You're underestimating them, and that's the perfect target for a woman. This is why guys have that "gut feeling" We're programmed to know without knowing why. Living a clean life (food, exercise, sleep) keeps us in tune with our bodies. In the end, trust your gut.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 11:29 AM
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...and there is nothing you can do about that. Right, but look at the consequences: she was kicked out of the village. We call this a hard next. Respect yourself, don't take what they do personally, and don't mate guard. Give her enough rope to hang herself. When she does, kick her out of your village.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 11:09 AM
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I read IV and most familiar with it.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 04:43 AM
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Read through DSM IV. Helpful to put behaviours into context.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/16 11:31 PM
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Exactly. If OP had higher SMV, game, etc, she wouldn't have left his side. Band guy cock-blocked. Other thoughts.... Maybe it was a shit test and he failed. Maybe OP should have hopped on stage himself. Maybe OP's game was too stereotypical and she played along. Besides, if people don't want the TRP stamp, then go read a non-TRP forum. doh!
/r/TheRedPill04/09/16 10:49 PM
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Dude. While the OP is a low quality post, it's still the same principle. The guy thought he had something going, another opportunity popped up for the gal, she jumped on it. Hypergamy. Usually hypergamy discussion is reserved for the guys that have been divorced raped and there's a little more at stake, but same principle applies. Back to the OP, chances are he's new to RP, did some reading, went out and made moves on a girl, thought all was going well, then poof! He's an after thought. Hopefull…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/16 03:09 PM
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LOL. Nice try binary dude. One day you'll understand. Until then, keep reading the side bar... or at least start.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/16 02:21 PM
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Because chicks love guys in bands, guys in bands know this and play to women, it's entertaining, and it gets them laid. Source: know guys in bands and watched them do it. Source 2: know a slut that admits to this too
/r/TheRedPill04/09/16 12:49 PM
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Hypergamy is seeking a man of higher social status. For a moment, I thought you understood.... Going on stage because.... And this is where you fall off the wagon.... she likes to play an instrument is not hypergamy. Shes with a guy. Shes dancing with the guy. Shes getting physical with the guy. Shes about to have drinks with the guy....... For many guys, these are good signs she's into you.... but she bails on the guy because the dude in the band pulls her up on stage to be the Ms Validation/Ce…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/16 12:45 PM
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Hmmm story of O .... a good girl that becomes a fuck toy which becomes her life.... Mormon girl becomes fuck toy which gives some sob story to a beta cuck then lives happily ever after thanks to some religious hamstering. The only difference is the Mormon guy didn't escape the religious BP indoctrination which allowed the whore to manipulate him with his dick. Even if he discovered TRP today, he's in alimony / child support hell. Poor sap.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/16 12:31 PM
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Explains why they have so many pairs of shoes
/r/TheRedPill04/09/16 11:50 AM
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That morman girl story.... Sound like the story of "O" It's recommended TRP reading.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/16 11:28 AM
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It reminds me of this OkCupid article Love OK Cupid for data like this. Forget the shit on random blog sites as that's what they say. The data is what they do.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/16 10:58 PM
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Women think their "sexual freedom" impresses chad and will gain his interest, however it mostly grosses them out and makes them think she's a pump and dump. Bingo. without realizing most guys on the alpha side think "so this girl doesn't bathe regularly, probably sucks at cooking, and parties every weekend and expects her boyfriends to just be cool with that" and is a pump and dump. FTFY. Plenty of them keep themselves looking good to ride the CC for as long as possible.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 03:26 PM
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My mentality was hard next before I happened to run into her again... You're taking a lot of heat in this post but it's a valuable lesson for the uninitiated. Realizing how a woman's looks are enough to manipulate is an important 1st step. Learning to override the feeling is hard. While she may have just been toying with you for validation, you knew something wasn't right. Good for you to take the 1st steps. Read the sidebar and enjoy the ride. Welcome :)
/r/TheRedPill19/08/16 11:26 AM
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So... Once I move to NYC, where do I find...? ..... the balls to improve yourself? or ..... all the hot model types? You'll need the 1st to do the 2nd. If you've done the work for the first, the 2nd is easy because in a city of millions, they're everywhere. But if you're to stand out as a guy, you better be improving yourself or have rock solid confidence.... if you have both, the questions in your mind stop and you'll pursue what you want.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/16 11:28 AM
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You did learn.... you set a really high bar for yourself and found it. But you didn't know about woman's hypergamy. Why the fuck would your woman need all that surgery to raise her SMV if she was married? You practically need a masters in psychology to understand woman's behaviour. So don't be too hard on yourself. Now keep working out and getting better. Beat the shit out of that cancer, lose the weight, and better yourself. The previous post about borderlines is good too. Want to beat oneitis?…
/r/askTRP16/07/16 11:32 AM
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Yep. This isnt about the kid, this is about the woman having a kid with a rich and famous musician. The kid will be given plenty to have a full life. The mother will not be left wanting. And in 10 years, she'll have a new BF, a 10yo, an unlimited trust fund and no worries. Nearly any woman would probably love this scenario.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 03:28 PM
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Considering the therapist is a school counselor, they're probably hyper anti-sex (you know, rape culture and all that). Your woman caught you in a shitty situation. Own it. You were caught but you weren't caught cheating. There's a difference. You were embarrassed, yes. (Your fight-or-flight reflex kicked in; you went with flight you big sissy lol). If you're each other's first, of course there's feelings involved. Own it and tell her. But her telling you that sex is now over changes the dynamic…
/r/askTRP15/07/16 03:46 AM
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So I should make her food tomorrow to "prove I care" and go a year without sex to prove the relationship isnt based on sex? Or is there an obvious better way to go about it. The better way is to walk away. You're not married, don't have kids, and not living together. Of course sex is part of the relationship. As much as she's trying to condition you out of sex, don't do it. You won't be happy, she won't be happy, and it'll just get worse. If she wants kids and marriage, then let her go find that…
/r/askTRP14/07/16 09:40 PM
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The Story of O and The Manipulated Man
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 11:56 AM
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EDIT 2: Found the video This is why TRP exists. Women have men figured out. They invade male spaces and separate us to prevent us from becoming aware. Their game is short. If too many people find out, thier lives are harder. Too bad there's so many blind men that will give their lives for female company.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/16 12:53 AM
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Had a big meeting today. One of the first questions wasn't about the health of the company (which was what the meeting was about) but rather why the new CEO didn't have more women on the executive committee. So nevermind skills or qualifications, there should be more women because vagina.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/16 08:58 PM
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The problem started much much earlier. The moment your woman wants to go on vacation without you is the moment to overthink your relationship. Absolutely. That was a tough lesson to learn. I only wish I had found TRP years ago. It's the only place I've found that discusses this shit.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/16 12:53 AM
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For a German it sounds pretty ridiculous to connect being nude at the beach with sexuality and frankly said your American puritanism amuses me. While I agree, context is important. Having been on a European vacation where nudity and toplessness was the norm, it was sexless. Meaning, i saw naked women (and men), without it having any sexual connotation. However, it becomes sexual when some dude hits on a woman (your wife/gf/SO). This is where the context changes and where behaviour changes. Now t…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/16 03:41 PM
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she could more than likely continue these antics until she finds a man that will put up with it. The definition of crazy: do things the same way and expecting different results.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/16 01:15 AM
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I met her at work AT work? Or do you work WITH her? Remember - don't shit where you eat. i.e. don't date co-workers
/r/TheRedPill14/06/16 10:21 AM
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Many girls in her position will try to get knocked up as a way to keep you. This is worth repeating....
/r/askTRP13/06/16 07:50 PM
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“What the pupil must learn, if he learns anything at all, is that the world will do most of the work for you, provided you cooperate with it by identifying how it really works and aligning with those realities. If we do not let the world teach us, it teaches us a lesson.” — Joseph Tussman TRP is sexual strategy. Another way to say it.... TRP is observing and understanding the inherent evolutionary behaviours that make us human. It's observing the laws of nature and understanding how they work. M…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 12:09 PM
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This brings back memories. Especially how your wife and police (family or not) will actively conspire to manipulate for her gain. The intentional pushing of emotional buttons through words and actions to elicite a repose from you. Only to have that response used against you through the full force of police intervention and subsequently, the family court system. It's awful how this wilfull bastardization of legal intent is not admissible. Sorry for your pain. Hang in there. I wouldn't post docume…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/16 10:02 AM
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And this example gentlemen, demonstrates the pussy pass. How many more of us will suffer this fate. I'm willing to bet she gloated to her friends about locking down her beta bux provider and relished the Chad she found at college. Women know how men act around them. They know what they can get away with due to their looks. Ever since 2nd grade when little Suzie dropped her book and little Tommy rushed to get it for her. "How cute!" parents exclaim. But we know it's the indoctrination to the puss…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/16 02:36 AM
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"these are the years I can do anything and later say I was young and stupid and get a pass from society. shitlordsGentlemen, this is why you do not marry. You fucktards scholars don't have the balls courage to enforce standards. Society gives them a pass (as do spineless, desperate BP'ers), but you do not. Plate, next, and never marry.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/16 04:59 AM
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How to regain her attraction Find a new her
/r/askTRP02/06/16 01:55 PM
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Not all of us are over 6' and 10% bf w/ ripping muscles... I can't fix the height, but the 10% and muscles are possible.... gain some confidence and game to offset any perceived shortcomings in height (no pun intended). My buddy was 5'4" and did very well with game and muscles. He always talked shit about being short... but he maximized what he has.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 04:07 PM
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Remove the filter on your brain when you speak. 99% of the time the results will be fantastic. Went to a BBQ where I only knew the host. All day long it was one filterless sexual innuendo after another. DGAF was the mindset and the results were fantastic. Told one chick she was crazy with her BF right there. Instead of getting mad, she laughed and agreed. Got another woman to open up about her online dating adventures and admitted to her FWB. She told me "I love when adults can speak their mind …
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 03:27 PM
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If you want a good girl then take her defense as a red flag and move on. If you just want sex then ride it out. Its a simple game my friend. This is the simplest explanation. You ask, she answers. Women know the score. Don't let your attraction away you from the truth. The more attractive, the more opportunity she's had. The more experience dealing with this questions, the answers, and the subversion to manipulate you from seeking answers. It's all part of their strategy. Ours is not caring, nev…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 01:58 AM
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If the number gets high enough then that is sort of it's own context, treating men in general as disposable. Agreed. Also, what guy wouldn't want to be with an attractive women? If the guys won't commit and she cycles through a countless number, what's happening in her head to push them away. So yes, n count is just a way to evaluate the mental health. It's all contextual.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 01:47 AM
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Exactly. It's taken me a while to deprogram from needing or wanting to know about her past. As its been said, she'll lie and hamster it away anyway. The important part is no marriage and no long term commitment. n count will only matter when women realize they could have a happier LTR if they weren't slutting it up. I know a few women with partner counts in the 30,40,50+ range. They're all perpetually single and don't understand why their relationships fail. It was fun while they were single, bu…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 01:39 AM
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Histrionic Personality Disorder Thank you. TIL #PRAISEME And this explains an ex to a T
/r/TheRedPill27/05/16 03:27 PM
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Do the work necessary to gain muscle mass? Same is true for "money mass". Use natural laws to demonstrate male privilege. There's a reason why they're angry. Now get out there and prove it.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/16 03:20 PM
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In fact, feminism roots come from the rebellion against Victorian era morality. Sex outside marriage was deemed immoral. Women have been fighting for thier freedom/independence since the 1st wave of feminism. Along with this freedom was the freedom to pursue thier own sexual path. That effort has seemingly gained more traction lately although I'm sure it could be argued it happened during the freelove period of the 60's. I think some women are wired to maintain a low count and would prefer sex w…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 06:26 PM
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ps:I smell troll, so I will disengage. Agreed. When someone asks for change, you'd expect an openness to other viewpoints. When all opinion is subsequently dismissed without any obvious reasonableness or consideration, they're: trolling, beyond help, insincere, or have another mental deficientcy preventing them from rational thought. Similar to how a woman's hamster justifies their poor behaviour.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 12:06 PM
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I bet I'll push that person away. Maybe you will, maybe you won't. If they have something of value to offer you, then your behaviour towards them would be different. Maybe you'll realize you have something to offer them. Friends are for the weak. Says who? You? TRP? Bullshit. Eventually they'll hurt you, get wives, betray your trust, and just cause grief. How are these thoughts linked? I'm wondering why there is no obvious effort at seeing a positive aspect to suggestions being offered. If you w…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 11:40 AM
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My best friend, wherever he is, has thought/is thinking/will be thinking this same exact thought. No, not exact. Similar. Your cage is your language. So many hobbies and developing skills that demand precision yet social interaction is more fluid. More akin to a jam session as opposed to sheet music. One day, someone who conceptually understands you will appear; you'll feel that they understand you exactly, but you'll have to allow for the fluid dynamics of a relationship to play out.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 11:04 AM
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Your logic that goes from High count to turning potential children into betas/sluts is a tad silly and extreme - way too presumptuous and fantastical. Disagree. It's these women that got tired of being used that they teach their boys how to be a good boy. Or they teach their daughters sexual liberation. Unfortunately, I've seen both.... and it's sad.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 10:07 PM
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Lousy story. The Russian I knew had at least 8 partners within 18 months of becoming sexually active, moved to the US, had a few more, got married, divorced, a few more, married, divorced, a few more, then a whole bunch more, then tried to settle down, but every relationship ending in absolute failure. Then tried to be a good girl and only occasionally having ONS, FWB w/neighbor while constantly moving as she uses up her local dating pool as her reputation follows her. While many other traits we…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 09:59 PM
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Little Jimmy gets the sluts that want to have kids after they've hit the wall. Trouble is, he doesnt get all 8. He gets 1, she gets pregnant, he gets a kid, and she's back with you on girls night out.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 09:16 PM
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Not a dick move. If he gets hired because of you and he fucks up, it's partially on you. If you help him by giving him the number for HR or where to submit an application, then good on you. If he gets hired through his own efforts, then he still thinks you've helped and his performance isn't on you.
/r/askTRP23/05/16 07:33 PM
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"Dating tinder single mom" Thoughts? Yea, don't fucking do it.
/r/askTRP23/05/16 01:58 PM
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Bmer92 and fnord are both correct. If you're living life on your terms, you really don't give a shit about what your chick has done. Also, if you've done the same thing and have extensive experience, you won't care. Problem is, she's sent you the "love you long time" vibe and you're conflicted over "my chick has fucked 2 dudes at the same time", "I haven't", and "She wants my babies". You know marriage isnt an option. So enjoy your time, have a 3some with her, and go be happy. Otherwise, have yo…
/r/askTRP23/05/16 01:46 PM
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Seriously think about the thoughts and feelings that RP-you demand in a relationship. Reread the part of your post that talks about what composes your current LTR. Compare 1 vs 2 Take accountability for the gaps that you have control. Fix them. Focus on lifting, eating healthy, career, improving yourself Read about various attachment theories. Sounds like you're in an insecure attachment relationship Go read the sidebar, NMMNG, and more sidebar. Stop being pathetic tl;dr 1,2,8
/r/askTRP23/05/16 01:18 PM
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The newer generations don't have the religious grounding, no role models, greater narcissism, and the new sexual liberation. It's a cycle and it spiraling down.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/16 01:03 AM
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Hmm nah she def loved being a mother... You're among the lucky ones. Mine did too. Met a few single mom's that harbor resentment and only enjoyed being a mother until the thrill wore off. It's those mothers that changing diapers is akin to doing nothing.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/16 04:30 PM
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Isn't this obvious to 99% of the people here? Obvious to 99% of people that swallowed the pill. 0% obvious to people that see a precious little buttercup fallen to the unrelenting pressures of a cruel cruel world. Besides, 99% of 150k still leaves 1,500 in the dark.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/16 01:36 PM
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my mother's day basically seemed like a full time job. One I would never want. You answered your own question. "Nothing to do" isn't about being busy, it's the type of work. Imagine washing dishes, changing diapers, vacuuming the floor. Now imagine doing it every day for years. Bored yet? Unless they wanted to be a housewife from day 1, they will not be wired to receive the positive feedback loop, the positive affirmations, the reward cycle which enables them to see past the drudgery and allow i…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/16 01:08 PM
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Society is changing and that's changing the enforcement of the laws. With more same-sex couples, there's more same-sex divorces. This leads to more men getting custody and more women losing custody. But adding or subtracting one from each side of the equation keeps statistics about the same but the underlying problem still exists. So yea... no marriage. I don't know how the laws could change to make it better.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/16 06:56 PM
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Exactly. It's what they want now. And the resentment comes later... spot on analysis...
/r/TheRedPill20/05/16 06:37 PM
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What kind of person encourages a father to spend less time with family? My ex Edit: Listen up all you shitlords in training. What /u/archwinger has so eloquently described can happen. While your partner may want to stop working for very honorable reasons, the fact remains that you're fucked when that path is chosen. So before the wall of hate appears for these manipulative whores, keep in mind they were living for the moment. The feeling of trying to be the best for you, the kid, the home. Its a…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/16 06:08 PM
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so when i got a bad grade cuz school was fucking mind numbing she'd blame me for her moods cuz supposedly being a bad student means trouble at work for her, while good grades meant she'd buy me shit and not harass me for a while Well yea. Parents want kids to do well in school. School can be boring as shit. When parents are worried about their kids, it affects their mood and could impact work. How that gets expressed to the kids is where the trouble brews. both equally toxic in their own way the…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/16 02:34 PM
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When I think about my mom, I don't recall her ever giving my dad "shit tests". Even now, in her older years, she sounds the same as when she was younger. There's only a couple women I know that are even remotely like her in that way. That being said, I like your phrasing of the situation and think its spot on. ....that's broken goods or she's a manipulative liar, in either case you don't want her Exactly.... thanks for the response... good stuff
/r/TheRedPill20/05/16 01:35 PM
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awalt Agreed. AWALT. Even with all the traits many men would find amazing, the constant shit tests, n-count (thus pair bonding), and attention (issues of perceived mate-guarding/branch swinging) still exist. "I can't believe it's not AWALT" might go thru your head, but no. AWALT. I'm not russian, but I dated one. Everything outlined in the above posts is spot on.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/16 11:16 AM
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And with the state being comprised of feminists, white nights, and BPs.... Fuck. The pendulum must be swung the other way.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 01:34 PM
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Q: How many different ways can we frame the exact same concepts? A: However many times it takes to click with those looking for the red pill This belongs in the TRP FAQ.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 01:29 PM
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Cupid... I wasn't lying either... but that was my problem. I even "told the truth" on my profile. Meanwhile, I met women who blatantly used misleading pictures, left out important facts, and were only looking for the best looking guy. One woman even said, "I just keep browsing until I find someone that has good pictures, then I actually look at the profile. Why bother with anything less?" This was before tinder took hold. Now it's blatant. I say go for it... Being a guy that was upfront with my …
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 08:53 PM
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This is part theory fact Online dating with a picture wearing a whitecoat felt like replaying a difficult game with cheat codes. The only thing that's changed is my social value Years ago I made one change to an online profile which made a huge difference. - salary The number of women that initiated contact after the change amazed me. At first, I was flattered then it hit me. Money, status, looks. Bottom line, that's what matters. Not the BP "Be yourself!" It's utter bullshit. Years later, the d…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/16 10:57 AM
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Why does it seem like that a psychopath's tactic - love bombing - means putting the woman on a pedestal which is clearly something TRP advises against? 1) WordPress blog spam 2) The entire post should be deleted 3) Nice attempt at linking TRP & psychopaths
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 04:38 PM
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NMMNG is for you. As for the GF: You can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink. Knew a woman with the tendancies described. No matter how much I tried to help her move forward, she resisted, made a weak attempt, and eventually branch swung to some dude that was willing to give her everything she wanted and didn't expect her to move past her insecurities. She took the easy way out. My advice: lead by example. Lift, eat healthy, pursue your goals. She may: - follow suit and improve - r…
/r/askTRP17/05/16 03:26 PM
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It's covered in the sidebar and other posts on TRP. Feel free to search and read if you're not familiar with the concept.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 01:48 PM
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Lots of good responses here. Key takeaway is the sidebar and top posts of all time. Some stuff is rehashed and it's good when a link is provided to an other post that discussed it ad nauseum. There's been a growth recently so an increase in angry posts as well as nay sayers. As others have said, once you're past the anger phase, visit TRP less. Focus on physical, social, and financial improvement. Your personal growth will help auto filter the useless info and get back to the core.
/r/askTRP17/05/16 01:42 PM
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Probably started about the same time men were being emasculated and the metro sexual was born. A lightly feminized man created a lightly masculine woman..... and it's just gotten worse.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 01:41 AM
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not working to move our lives forward together... You had me at blame shifting. So here's the rub.... if you're moving your life forward, she's along for the ride. If you're not actively giving her tingles along the way, she'll fuck a ton of guys just for the fuck of it. So here's the choice: get married while building a life for you, her, and whatever she wants.... or have fun fucking all the sorry ass brats that blame thier man for their problems.... thus making them even less of a partner, an…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 09:45 PM
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Simply, they're directional arrows, indicating flow, process, hierarchy, or chain of command. Men love women > Women love children > children love puppies Human > Woman > Hillary Suzie ONS > Plate > LTR Actions > Habits > Character A > B > C 1 > 2 > 3
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 03:46 PM
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No. 3 is spot on. Took me a while to discover the truth.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 11:42 AM
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My solution depends on the desired outcome. In my situation above, my ex is an ex because I walked away from the the relationship. Dreading got better results than talking but the inherent issues persisted. It became unacceptable which led to next! Another way of saying it: if your lady is into you, this scenario doesn't happen. Once I was at a party and didn't know anyone except my GF at the time. The OP's scenario never happened because my GF had impeccable manners. She got roped aside by a co…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 11:35 AM
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Really it just sounds like you need to communicate more with your girlfriend and set your boundaries straight. Excellent thought... I was thinking the same. I know that's not very RP, but playing childish games to make up for your insecurities is never a good idea. FTFY.... seriously though, I hear that line all the time. How many stories have we heard around here where GF is left unattended, so she got bored, someone started hitting on her, and next thing you know, she's fucking someone else. T…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/16 11:02 PM
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If she is the one putting herself into a situation where she expects you to mate-guard as a shit test.... Using OP as an example; your premise assumes she intentionally put herself in that situation. In other words, she got chatting with those guys with the purpose to cause a reaction. Or, is it reasonable to assume she emptied the clam in the can, saw a bunch of friends, got chatting, and lost track of time. If the 1st scenario is the case, OP should hard next upon arrival cause that's shitty b…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/16 10:50 PM
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Good rule of thumb: Think monkeys This goes back to the idea of human > woman > (woman's name) Whether the analogy is dogs, horses, monkeys, or humans; bottom line, there's an innate set of behaviours common throughout the species. They've been around forever and we see them in most lifeforms. Making the conscious decision to learn and apply them is a worthwhile endeavor. Should help you feel more human. No?
/r/TheRedPill15/05/16 10:34 PM
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Wasn't sure if to make the donation in memory of all the men that got divorced raped or in honor of the men trying to make a level playing field. Regardless, donation made.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/16 10:30 AM
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At least she's up for sex LOL
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 07:21 PM
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The A in AWALT doesn't imply all women will cheat. I've known a few that never have, nor did they sleep around. They have other behaviours that justifies the A, but not all cheat. Many have the opportunity, but not all follow thru. I've also known a few good women that have made amazing contributions to business and society. Just saying I get the point of your posts, but also saying that the more you insist on All for Everything, you come across as irrational. As you mature, your frame will beco…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 06:45 PM
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I scrolled through looking for the word freedom :) To reframe the issue: it's not what to do about loneliness... it's what can I do with my freedom?! The answer is: ~find your purpose~
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 06:25 PM
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LOL.... Twin brother of Chad anyone other than you. But this is what so many men were told: Live a good life, have a stable job, be a nice guy, and you'll make a great husband. All of that is spot on advice. What they neglected to teach you (or you didnt read the fine print), was that Western women will fuck everyone but you. They didnt mention waiting until women hit the wall so you can raise Chad's kid and having that perfect life. They conveniently left out many details. Had you known them ah…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 06:21 PM
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the hard part is finding one that's made it this far, yet is still an 8+. Dated a gal a few years older than me w/ n-count of 2. Looks were fading but body was holding up well. One of the sweetest people I've ever met. Thought: There are good women out there. TRP is about giving you knowledge to help make sense of the everyday world - not a noose to hang every woman you encounter. (Yea! I'm finally moving past the anger phase :)
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 05:07 PM
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Maybe she's a lying whore. Maybe she's one of the good ones. If phoenix_md is happy, then so be it. We say AWALT but it's not meant to be a witch hunt where none is needed.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 05:00 PM
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You can't really control a woman, she acts how she wants to. But now men tolerate this ^ This. How many times has it been said here. Stop rewarding women for shitty behaviour. Women want to fuck everything? Great! I'll get in line. Oh? What's that? You want commitment? Sweetie, you didn't want/get commitment from the 50 previous guys, try again with the 52nd. Like grandma said, "men are easy"... this is true. But if a woman wants commitment, keeping herself in check would give her what she wants…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 03:33 PM
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pussy makes people blind. IMO this is the biggest male hamster. Otherwise reasonable men are blinded by their desire for pussy. This is why TRP, SMV, and the wealth of information on TRP is so valuable. The male hamster is a one eyed beast that will make excuses for everything. TRP overwhelms the impulse until you're a rational thinking male. Some guys have this shit together naturally (alpha), guys that were programmed to ignore it (beta) need more help.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 02:11 PM
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Meanwhile, she is sexing Chad the bouncer. For. a. decade. Think about that. Chad the bouncer, Chad the bartender, Chad the gym rat, Chad the player, Chad the married guy cheating on his wife, Chad the guy with game, Chad the one night stand, Chad the why the fuck not, Chad the rebound, Chad the available guy while I was drunk, Chad the vacation hook up, Chad the unambitious, Chad the abuser, Chad anyone other than you. For. A. Decade. (While on birth control too....) Then she finds you, the guy…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/16 02:00 PM
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You just have to be different. Exactly. That's all it takes for a guy to grab a woman's attention. Over time she gets comfortable (i.e. bored) then it's off on the next adventure (Chad). Live your life, make the best for youself, and be happy. Lift, read, and be the best guy you can be. If you want a LTR, vet her until you're convinced you can invest. If you're not willing to make that effort, then plate only with no commitment.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 08:13 PM
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This is not the same deal men once had. And it's not at all a good one. Maybe this is the true reasoning behind feminism... "we took advantage of the free ride for too long.... now we'll have to actually work? Oh no! Better create some drama to hide behind until this blows over." Leave it to women to gaslight an entire movement.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 07:27 PM
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Forget sperm donors... you buy an egg off instagram from one of the many "models".... it arrives in a 'plug-n-play" uterus designed for your sex robot... you copulate, your test-tube kid is raised and birthed from the sex robot. Which is actually a high tech at-home incubator.... pooof... you're a single dad without divorce, child support, alimony, or any other shit. Then you get a shot to close your sperm ducts then you're back to shagging tinderella babysitters. Maybe the future is bright :)
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 05:12 PM
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And the ones that aren't obese enjoy a metric shit ton of attention.... if they're good women, they're taken off the market quickly. If they're still on the shelf after many test rides, they're a lemon. And squirrelcuisine? Hopefully username doesn't check out....
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 05:06 PM
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Isn't it France where it's semi-socially acceptable for the wife to have a lover after the kids are older? I think it was China where it was acceptable for the guy to have his wife and kids but the mistress on the side as a monetary exchange of services to keep stress down.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 05:01 PM
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LOL you must have a down vote brigade following you. One of the biggest sluts I knew was the daughter of a church leader. She'd go to parties then tell her BFF (my then wife) about how she was fucking some dude she just met at a party. Then another dude walked in and poof! She was fucking both. This was one of many stories of this empowered, libererated, "you go girl", new-aged woman. I don't know if the chubby beta she married ever found out.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 04:56 PM
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Sweetie, the language of your post suggested we think all women as "evil" and we're divisive at our own peril. Which part of that is directed to the good men here? Thank you for the support. We certainly don't want to drive away people that see feminism for what it is. But your post also reinforced some of the general ideologies around here. Here's a pro tip: don't walk into a bar professing your love of men then casually dismiss half the patrons because you're female. I don't give a fuck about …
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 05:00 PM
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I believe, as men, we are destined to be a rock. It is part of our mission. With kids, without kids, married, divorced, living with a partner, or spinning plates... our mission as men is to fulfill our genetic potential. Having kids means being responsible for another life (lives) besides our own; passing on lessons learned and demonstrating to children what it means to be present in their lives and a force to be reckoned with. A co-parenting relationship will force a boy to grow-up if he didn't…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 02:07 PM
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it sounds like every woman in the world is evil the word "evil" is only found in your post. and (every woman) out to get you no matter what they do and it's just people looking out for their own interests Exactly, it is what it is... Feminism is a continuation of getting more without consequence and you're here with the same purpose which proves the point of the OP. every person is unique Yes, everyone is their own special snowflake, all deserving of a trophy just because they exist... oh wait, …
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 01:49 PM
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There was a story shared recently where we learned the wife of potential new CEO was part of the interview process.... why? Because by keeping her spending habits at a slightly higher rate than his earning kept him working hard. Nice, right? Fuck that shit.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 04:29 AM
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But, as you said, if people started talking about the qualities a woman should have to be "marriage material", a good 80 fucking percent of women would be considered completely un-marriageable. Actually, this is probably the reason a lot of guys are here in TRP. It's not just the dating market... it was the fall out from the marriage market.... and it's the result of society going to shit... and yes, men thru the ages have learned of these traps but there wasnt an effective means to share the in…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 04:26 AM
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This is gold. Thanks for putting it to words.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/16 04:35 PM
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One caveat: She should be able to be content on her own, and not rely on you for entertainment at all. Her form of entertainment when you're not around should not be other men...
/r/TheRedPill09/05/16 04:32 PM
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Is she always bored and constantly wants to do or buy something new? Oh, is this one a doozy.... There is no keeping this woman happy. Just a constant need for something or someplace new... If not new, then only the expensive will do. Anything else is beneath her and the contempt (another bullet point above) just oozes from her. Does she shut down attempts from other men when she's with you? When she's not with you? Now couple the "always bored" then learn that she doesn't shut down requests fro…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/16 04:30 PM
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Those who want to be the Rock are welcome to do so. Exactly. If women want it all with no consequence for behaviour, how is a man to be a rock for an uncontrollable storm of emotions? Now, as the captain of a ship? Maybe. But it's my ship, not hers.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/16 05:21 PM
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I would argue that the main difference is TRP is counter-reaction to feminism. Reading this made me cringe. TRP is not a counter-reaction. if both feminism and TRP would have gone "mainstream" the downwards social spiral.... You haven't been here long. Society has already been going down hill, quickly. I see TRP as guidebook for the "anger" phase, still plenty of options for "traditional" life after some time. This confirms that you're new here. Traditional is more akin to TRP. Unless you're BP.…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/16 04:56 PM
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but with her skill set and mine, financial troubles will never be an issue for either of us. Never say never dude! Example: I know 2 doctors that got married. She stayed home to take care of the kids. Kids got older, she slept with the drum instructor. Hubby found out... He's using all his wealth to punish her to all ends of the earth. She was out for so long, she can't back to practicing. If the roles were reversed he's still be on the hook for child support and alimony that he would never be a…
/r/askTRP06/05/16 04:11 PM
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It's a community closer that it appears. Even I noticed your comments tend to be extreme (to me)..... Sometimes I agree, sometimes I don't... am I going to tell you to tone it down? naaaa... let it rip bro!
/r/askTRP06/05/16 04:03 PM
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Dear SoRedSuchAlpha, (not sure why we're so formal with the greetings, but that's ok :) I'll expand a little on the thoughts we're discussing for clarity and bring it back to OP's situation so as not to derail the thread too far. Besides, this is a sensitive topic and good to have an open discussion. I didn't expect it to get so long... You're right in that dating a survivor is (generally speaking) not a big deal. Observe behavior and proceed as normal. Not so obvious is the psychological impact…
/r/askTRP06/05/16 03:38 PM
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I'm this close to fucking that kid up "Fucking up" your GF's brother isn't RP. Sure, you're angry because you perceive he might fuck up your sexy times with the GF. Relax. Are you going to LTR this chick? If so, then be happy he's concerned for her. Be a "good guy" and befriend him.
/r/askTRP05/05/16 03:16 PM
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We have got to them before they can fuck it up for themselves like you have. They need to open their eyes. And I've heard this term before in religion as well. But here it's different. TRP is looking at reality; the legal system, hypergamy, covert behaviours. Religion and feminism says to ignore that noise. TRP says listen, learn. I hope he fucks it up majestically. Oh yea, that I have. But those of us that have, are not dead. We are behind an 8 ball; with struggles, trials, and tribulations whi…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 02:39 PM
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"the red pill" from outside of reddit originated in finance. Curious.... how so?
/r/askTRP05/05/16 12:42 PM
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Dude, she said she's not playing but obviously she is. Probably looking for the most she can get from the guy she finds most attractive. You are not that guy.... yet.... she's playing the field. Watch what she does, not what she says. If you really have a million options, your time is better served elsewhere.
/r/askTRP05/05/16 12:39 PM
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I've dated some rape survivors (and been close friends with others); it's really not a big deal. Depends on how to classify "not really a big deal" Some were very casual about sex, some were very cautious Most of the common challenges are things you probably would have noticed by now if they were a big deal. Depression, anxiety, disordered eating, and self-harm are really common. But if you know her well, you already have a sense of who she is and how functional she is, overall. This misses a vi…
/r/askTRP05/05/16 12:32 PM
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Come to think of it, it's quite possible the "ooops, I left my BC at home" ploy is to provide a false sense of security. They're aware to some degree. Some more than others. Some manipulate more than others too.
/r/askTRP05/05/16 12:17 PM
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assuming that every woman is just waiting for the right moment to fuck you over. I agree with /u/thenextprince on this one. It's not that women are waiting for the right moment. It's knowing that given the right moment, the right circumstances, that things just happen because feelz over realz. OP's GF is popping a molly while on the other side of the world? Cool. With who? Why? Oh that's right, we're not allowed to ask because that makes us controlling and maybe making her accountable for her be…
/r/askTRP05/05/16 12:01 PM
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the close friend of previous LTR was a prolific cheater. The friend spoke openly about bedding a new guy every week but she's married. I sort of accepted this "friend" in my ex's life because she lived far enough away that it wasn't an issue.... until my ex went on vacation to visit her... some strange shit went down, I questioned it, and was told, "if you wanted to know exactly what happened, you should have come." That was the last straw and she was nexted. Anyway, it's been said that you're a…
/r/askTRP05/05/16 11:40 AM
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Hey baby, Netflix and chill in my iron lung? My denture cup is big enough for both of us....
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 03:10 PM
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She must be 70+, not easy to snag a man at that age, and only 4 months ? She must be quite a woman. Or, they adjust their requirements accordingly.... got a pulse? Yea? You'll do. Having spent some time around the elderly, you'd be sickened amazed at what happens in those nursing homes. Apparently herpes and the like are quite common. The CC ends in death.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/16 11:56 AM
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It is a long uphill slog. It is painful and not for the weak and undetermined. I wonder how many butt-hurt weak and undetermined boys come to TRP. Once they internalize that it's all a long uphill slog, the sooner they take control of their life. They'll have to step away from instant gratification and shift to planning and execution, gains and plateaus.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/16 04:12 PM
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No one says you have to take it. Helps to know what other guys are potentially doing. Cater your interaction appropriately... i.e if it's not for you, nor do you want a girl that's into it, you can use this info to help vet your date thru conversation.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 11:46 AM
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When I first came across TRP several years ago, I didn't swallow. Then a series of life events led me back. I read the entire side bar, the book recommendations, and the top rated posts. I went from lurking to contributing as I tried to make sense of it all. Fast forward a few months/year... I walked away from a toxic relationship. I dropped from 18+% to 13% bf. I hit a lifting personal best a couple weeks ago. I've taken up a couple new hobbies, have a new job, and have a clue about how to hand…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/16 12:57 AM
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Amused Mastery The same way an adult should see how a child cries, throws a tantrum, or pouts to get their way.... An adult should understand the child's attempt manipulation. If the adult sees it for what it is, they don't react, they just deal with the child appropriately. Likewise, a man should see women's behaviour in the same light. Know what you want, know your boundries, and hold firm. Children learn. If your woman doesn't... next.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 08:57 PM
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If a beta enters a relationship then tries to flip the script.... it might work... or, once the woman realizes she's lost control, she flips the fuck out. Once a beta, always a beta (in her eyes). If a woman has been with too many alphas and is done being dumped (or has some massive insecurity which makes her a control freak), she'll find a beta to control the way she's been controlled. When the dude breaks from that control, there's hell to pay. Similarly, that's why mate guarding is useless. I…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 08:50 PM
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Best friend of many years. Scrawny shit bag prior to college. Went to college and started lifting, got a tan, and made money. Fucker got laid all the time. Wifed up a few years ago. His wife hates all his stories but he was quite the stud. Don't let height hold you back. Only you hold you back.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 07:01 PM
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Yes. I'll introduce you to my ex... and a couple others I know. Post-wall isn't a destination they bought a ticket to. It's a realization which hits hard long after the fact.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 06:58 PM
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Dude. If she's attractive and picking guys up at the gym, she KNOWS that you're into her. She thinks it's cute. She probably even tells her friends how "cute" it is. How adorable that a grown man is willing to give her so much time and energy (the only 2 things you have) for absolutely fucking nothing except her mere existence. Wake the fuck up! Go work out, eat healthy, get in shape, take some training. Put all that energy you're feeling into YOURSELF. Go find a woman that will reciprocate. Not…
/r/TheRedPill19/04/16 01:12 AM
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Truth. Thanks to the ideas I've learned here and personal observations etc. I now tell men (especially vulnerable guys): If she's single at that age, there's a reason why. So far experience has verified this pretty much every time. Add me to the list. I remember asking my ex, "Why is an intelligent, attractive, successful woman at your age, single?" I got a coy little shoulder shrug, a cute smile, the eyes that look innocently away and she says, "I don't know...." Everything entropy said happene…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 07:20 PM
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You just described the ex who sent me spiraling toward epiphany. Me too. Took me many months to see how the ex continued to pursue her tingles when I wasn't around. She really had her act cleaned up. Hid all vestiges of her past.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 07:09 PM
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I could subconsciously feel something was not right and your points help me see clear now. Me too. My gut was telling me something was off. It took alot of TRP to put the pieces in place. Then it all became clear. Good job listening to your gut. I tried to suppress it and it nearly cost me. <fist bump>
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 07:02 PM
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But I do wish that, when I was younger, someone had said to me "it doesnt matter how smart or successful you get, guys just want someone hot so get super hot." And not said "focus more on being a bad ass in your career. Men love driven women." I dated the successful career woman that was seemingly a unicorn. She was super hot (especially when younger). Her hubby divorced her after 25 years for a younger model. So perhaps, had you focused on "super hot", you 1) wouldn't have your career and 2) yo…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/16 11:02 AM
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Well said... Marrying the logical side with our emotional side seems to be tough business. Improving oneself (logical) and not giving commitment (emotional) are 2 ways to protect ourselves. Vet the shit out of your women before giving commitment and don't lose sight of your own goals.
/r/askTRP12/04/16 01:10 PM
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TRP sidebar lists many good books. It's about being self-aware, mindfullness, etc. It doesn't happen overnight. Take some time to understand why you emotionally react the way you do. Acknowledging the emotions (internally) is good, reacting to your emotions (anger, then lashing out physically) isn't good. Channeling your emotions (anger - then hitting the gym to get ripped) is good. It's not about suppressing emotions, but rather use them to guide you.
/r/askTRP11/04/16 05:48 PM
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To add to Meatcurtainrod.... (BTW: nice name :) Defining oneself through another person: When you're dating, you only do her hobbies, interests, and activities. She likes skating? Now you like skating. She likes shopping? Now you like shopping. She wants to go for a ride? You want to go for a ride. You want to watch a football game? She says "no" and you don't go. You want to go for a hike? She says "no" so you don't go. In other words, you have no life but to live her life with her. She becomes…
/r/askTRP11/04/16 05:42 PM
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There are plenty lacking common sense and thus why they get away with it... the post-wall attractive ones have a slew of BB still willing to pay for the GF experience.
/r/askTRP11/04/16 03:14 PM
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I recently spoke with the Ex that TRP helped me get the power to walk away from. I asked her, now that things much more subdued, what do you want from a relationship? She said, "excitement and entertainment." Then i asked, "What do you offer in return?" Crickets.... she may have mumbled "me" in there somewhere, but she sure as shit wasn't offering much. Some women know that men are willing to pay just to have their company - AKA BB. Can't thank TRP enough for making sense out of this crap.
/r/askTRP11/04/16 03:11 PM
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So there's 2 sides to this.... on one hand there's "leave". Just fucking walk away. Let her mental instability be her problem, not yours. You didn't make her like that, she's just like that. She's been through the same shit before and she'll do it some more until she either takes responsibility for herself, hits the wall (her hormones change), or medicates herself with some more servings of the carousel. How the fuck do you expect to be her psychotherapist when she doesn't want you to save her? …
/r/TheRedPill09/04/16 04:36 PM
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I'm finding its hard to find professionals that have much to say other than "leave." If you're not married, it is good advice. What I've been looking for is exit strategies, emotional maintenance etc. Exit strategy? Leave. Emotional maintenance? Welcome to the world of being self-aware, support groups, reading, etc. I don't know your definition of emotional maintenance. To me, it means emotional intelligence. Really understanding yourself. Why you believe what you believe, how it affects your th…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 05:00 PM
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Few posts strike a chord like BPD. Read thru the responses and it's obvious how many men found themselves in the painful situation of a BPD relationship. The nightmare of cognitive dissonance is painful, confusing, and soul eating. Thankfully, sharing these stories helps realize we are not alone and find better ways to handle ourselves and relationships. This is why TRP is so valuable for men that come here confused, lost, and broken. Asserting yourself, holding frame, and strengthening yourself…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 02:24 PM
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One day men will realise that women will be unwilling prostitutes in order to keep commitment, resources and security. This is a tough lesson to learn for guys that have grown up BB. They are heavily conditioned not to see the truth. I think there's some old posts which try to get this point across. They could probably use some updating too.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/16 01:19 PM
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I didn't get much sleep last night because my over-worked, and stressed-out brain didn't allow me to sleep. But this! This complete reversal in TRP theory! You glorious bastard. I feel like a new man! It all makes so much sense and suddenly I am alive!!! There is so much to do now. First, I must tell my ex wife that she was right all along. That I had no business telling her to stop fucking the local cop and to get a job. I should have been working 2, no, 3!! jobs to afford the house and lifesty…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 05:20 PM
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Exactly. It annoyed me too, but why not? I'll be TRP's Expert Nut Collector. Then again, I should probably find something a little more exotic...
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 02:41 PM
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To expand this thought..... so this is why women like the alpha guy... or the guy that's making a life for himself. He's chasing his own highs... he's setting that bar and striving for it. He has the vision of "better" and is constantly striving for it. She's happy to be a part of his trip. In a good relationship, she supports him while he goes for it. The two of them working together makes a great pair... but he's captain, she's first mate. Both are happy... when the woman leads, she's not (as)…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/16 01:20 PM
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LOL. I hear you... once I moved beyond the torture, I started to understand psychology. Then it's less about them, and more about me and how this knowledge can work for me.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/16 12:31 AM
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....Alpha Widowed...... wires creating emotional extremes. I was hoping to see more about this in here. The lightswitch is faulty. A woman gets with a high SMV guy and now the extreme upper level is hit. Then insert years of the CC, abuse, religion, high n-count, being dumped too many times... i.e. the low end of the range. Now she hits the wall.... now she wants her beta. The guy that accepts her "as is" but pays new car prices. But she's never really happy because the flicker in the lightswitc…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 09:22 PM
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It's not you, I didn't recognize it either when I read it. In a nut shell, CBT is how you think and behave. Gottman's book is about how you think and act in a relationship. So, IMO, it's better to understand yourself before entering a marriage, thus CBT. In essence, isn't that what TRP is about? 1st - make you the best 'you' can be which involves physical (lifting), intellectual (career, hobbies), and emotional (stoic, mindfullness). Then enter relationships (sexual strategy) knowing your limita…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 07:53 PM
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Find and start a new hobby that you can think about instead. This. Understand how your reward system works - dopamine. Right now, your reward system is still aligned to the ex. A new hobby will provide a new source of reward. e.g. lifting. Conversely, this is also explains why a woman with no hobbies is a red flag. Either 1) they're boring as fuck. Or 2) MEN are their hobby (as defined by the 1st bullet point in the types of cheating women in the OP).
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 11:22 AM
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Boy, oh boy. The "Always" and "Never" statements are powerful indicators something is afoot. Nothing good comes from dealing in "absolutes". As it's been said, they are powerful indicators. Reasonable people don't deal in absolutes. They're polarizing to force a narrative in a specific direction. A good book on some of this is John Gottman's The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work. Yes, I know it's a marriage focused book, but it covers some of this stuff. Agreed. That was the first book t…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 11:03 AM
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Thanks :) ..... yea, it wasn't pretty, but I walked away. She was fun to be with but not with the constant BS games. I'm getting better at drawing and enforcing boundries..
/r/TheRedPill27/03/16 01:39 AM
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Had that... I thought it would be as you described. Once the job did come, there was an expectation that they would be "reimbursed" for their "commitment" while you were down. Before the first day on the job even started, I was asked told: kids, cohabitation, new car, and more commitment. What I wanted was to maintain the status quo until I was more secure in the role. So then she started the "if you like it, put a ring on it game" which included blatant hypergamy (i.e. welcoming other suitors).
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 12:54 PM
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Unicorns used to live in our mother's times No, it was just in their best interests to pretend to be... Even Saint Jerome knew AWALT in 328 A.D.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/16 03:37 PM
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I think from fathers and grandfathers. I for example didnt live with father so I lack TRP knowledge My dad, in hindsight, was classic red pill. His actions were red pill; his ability to convey 'why he did what he did' was missing. It's taken this community to help me draw the lines. So although my dad was there, it's only as an adult that i perceive his actions speak louder than words. Now you have access to the words, and it's up to you to take action.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/16 06:06 PM
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Every now and then there's a zinger that makes all the sense in the world. This is one of them. Edit:especially considering the OP. Which is about how betas and white knights treat women different. Being red means treating them like equals. Not being susceptible to the standard female "charm" and thus maintaining stoicism.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/16 05:25 PM
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I'm much more inclined to lean towards this being a social epidemic as opposed to a genetic one. It also makes for a PC method of controlling birth rates in 1st world countries.... Edit: I'll leave this comment, but others have gone into more eloquent details below.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 11:55 PM
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Something that men have been brainwashed into not seeing. Or, some men can't see it because they don't elicite that feeling from their woman... Put another way, would this little girl react the same way after seeing the same guy do the trick a 2nd time? 3rd? 10th? What happens when she gets older and now she goes off to college and some upper classman shows her the trick. She may react the same way. What happens after the 20th dude in her first year of college shows her the same trick. Eventuall…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 11:48 PM
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Actually, the dude in the background reacted like a little boy. Totally susceptible to his feelings. Only the ice cream guy was in control. He was smiling becuase he knew what he was doing...... Edit: the guys that get "it" understand the correlation. The ones that don't have reacted like the dude in the background... totally susceptible to their feelings....
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 11:25 PM
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Awesome response. Thank you for sharing your experience. I am on a different path than the younger folk that have found TRP. I know my dad would have been defined as red pill (if the term existed then) but my path was shaded blue. Having finally taken the blinkers off, I find myself on the older end of the spectrum but still plenty of fitness and health to keep me going. I value the insight gained from experiences such as yours and appreciate the openness. Thank you!
/r/TheRedPill22/03/16 01:22 AM
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There's always mention of n-count.... Any correlation in your experience?
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 06:44 PM
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I am an old goat.... ...you can finesse and find a quality woman, if you are willing to pay attention. Would you share a tip or 2 to identify quality? Thx!
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 01:57 PM
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when you're 18, you're just naive. But when you're 25, yea..... I don't have anyone to blame but myself.... but not everyone gets the short path to enlightenment.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 01:41 PM
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Read the sidebar :) Seriously though, read up on cognitive behavioral therapy. Understand that what you're feeling is normal. Look, at the end of the day, we're a biochemical reaction. How you associate those reactions with people, your environment, and in yourself is what defines you. If you have one girl on your life that you assign all these feelings, then you're limiting yourself. Go discover how you can make yourself feel good then invite someone else in as part of your journey on this big …
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 11:36 AM
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Ex was a single mother of 1 with a successful career and took good care of herself. Most guys would think themselves lucky to be with an attractive successful woman.... But everything I've ever read of TRP applied to her. n count too numerous to count, inability to be compassionate or empathetic. She stopped dating (i.e. ONS and FWB) and settled for a big, fat, BB... but even he left her. Of course, i wasn't aware of all this until she started pushing for having kids, buying a house, and minglin…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 03:19 PM
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if she's not, she'll bring it up, and you can go from there. Unless you're dating a bitch that doesn't tell guys she has a boyfriend cause she loves the attention. ....just sayin' :)
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 09:00 PM
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I'd down vote you but I won't. A recent article spoke about infidelity in french society. Some how, it was socially acceptable and understood that a married person would eventually take on a lover for the sake of the marriage. If I find it, I'll post it. I do think OP should inform his dad. My own kids told me stuff about an ex after the fact. I was like, guys!!!! Why didn't you tell me sooner??? http://www.businessinsider.com/study-says-french-most-likely-to-cheat-and-forgive-a-cheater-2015-6 o…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 12:33 PM
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Nature vs. Nurture. 1) Competition Avoidance: Alpha dad, old brother was bigger, taller, got the alpha gene. Growing up losing to a superior physical force had a huge, negative influence. Manifested itself in school and was constantly bullied. 2) Frame Interference: Always tried to be "fair" and "equal". This was the strategy to avoid conflict and be accepted. Mom was the only one that understood, even if she didn't know the whole story. Work became identity but avoided the spot light since that…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 12:08 PM
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men are diminished to sperm donor while betas become the non biological father figure Excellent points... however.... A former family man, that was reduced to a sperm donor while a beta raises his kids, has the time to spend in monk mode and improve himself. His name/legacy/prodigy has endured. He now has the opportunity to improve, lead, and become the man he may have not otherwise become had he stayed in patriarchy mode. The number of men that will fall into this category will continue to grow…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 04:20 PM
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I actually took the time to read the wall of text. In the end, my anger and oneitis diminished and internalizing of TRP truths improved. Concepts like mate guarding make more sense as does the hypergamy/polygamy dynamic. The difficulty in finding a good mate is apparent... and why monk mode isn't a self-imposed punishment. Rather, it's the greatest freedom a man can give himself. Try monk mode when you're married with kids. HA! Thank you for such an inspiring post. Perhaps those of us that were …
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 10:44 AM
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Thank god am still 23 :) Fuck you. LOL. I WISH i learned this shit at 23. I wouldn't be where I am today. You have a whole life ahead of you. Be thankful and lift!
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 10:44 PM
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Tl;dr : I learned my lesson and never again. Only time will tell... I got pissed at a point for all the lying and cheating. I decided to cheat too. I banged an ex. A tip for others: if you find out that other guys before you did the same thing, it's either becuase she chooses shit men or the men like her for the sex but not for the personality. Something is amiss. #RedFlag. she wore a thong (very rarely wore them for me as it was supposedly uncomfortable for her) Yep. Been there dude. told me on…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 07:06 PM
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Devious, coy, and, lies by omission was my experience.... wanting to lock down a guy on her terms while wanting the alpha she can't lock down whenever one showed up. YMMV
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 06:33 PM
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"My #1 issue right now is I give off boyfriend vibe, so girls want to date me instead of fucking me. How do I change that?" this... getting a date? No problem. Girls like me? No problem. Hey, wanna fuck? Problem. Sigh. I'd appreciate guidance on how to change that....
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 12:56 AM
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Victim mentality prevents the learning of lessons and becoming worth more than a plate. Or the narcissism is so strong, that quality relationship values like empathy and compassion are nonexistent. Or, their mating stretgy is more akin to an alpha male and not a woman. Either way, a headcase.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 11:32 AM
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Yes, I did mean "more partners" = "higher n count".... The higher the n count, the greater the manipulation (either overtly or covertly). As you've said, they initially come across as the woman they want to be, but it doesn't take long before you discover why they've been dumped so many times. Then you understand why they were single when you got to them. Case in point: Last GF came across as a sweet, Eastern European unicorn that everyone raves about. Great shape, healthy eating habits, likes t…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/16 05:46 PM
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Many women above a certain age aren't going to outright cheat or branch swing if you have your ducks in a row in terms of manhood. Only because after a certain age, they cannot risk a man leaving, because their ability to just find another has dropped. ...and quality men won't be the last horse on the carousel.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/16 01:20 PM
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... be prepared that she may terminate her role without notice. 2 weeks notice is a professional guideline that doesn't get the same respect in relationships.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/16 01:11 PM
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she clearly doesn't care or value you enough to not cause these feelings in you. There's (at least) two parts to consider.... 1) if she did something to trigger the feelings, she may not have been aware. So it's reasonable to address the situation and address the feelings in yourself. Thus, act reasonably to understand the situation. 2) she intentionally did something, it triggers the feelings and you accept this is her nature and then drop her becuase you don't need that shit in your life. Mani…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/16 01:02 PM
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Welcome to the club. Lift, read the sidebar, and enjoy the decline.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/16 12:47 PM
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Dude, you're not alone. Shit happens to us and our journey is to fight and conquer the demon. Along the way we meet other people that are also hurt. I think we subconsciously allow ourselves to be attracted to these other hurt people. Thinking and hoping they have compassion for our plight. But really, they're just looking to mask their own pain with someone that will tolerate their shit. And until we take the time to resolve the duality inside us, we will have partners with duality as well. Onc…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 11:08 AM
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Wow. This sounds like what I walked away from. It's not easy, but if you've got other plates, don't go back. Shit, if you had no one, dont go back. A fucked up psyche is a bitch. You either get a PHd in psychology so you understand how to change your mental gears in a heartbeat, or you stay away. Future you will thank you for it.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 02:40 AM
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Have a nut. Good post.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/16 12:15 PM
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A high partner count is usually a symptom of something more troubling about the person. The aforementioned traits that you insist are more important, and myself adding to the list, such as abuse, neglect, antisocial and personality disorders, or addiction have a tendency to represent themselves in a person by means of strong risk taking behavior, one of which is excessive promiscuity. Sex is linked to the dopamine reward structures, and dopamine helps mask residual psychological trauma. A person…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/16 09:44 PM
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But I wouldn't specifically say no just because she is/was a sex worker. Most of them are damaged goods from my experience but there are always exceptions Thank you for saying this.... While the general theme of this thread goes for a black&white answer, the truth is, we all value things differently, and there's always an exception to the rule (or stereotype). It's helpful to know what's out there and to make decisions based on your individual needs/wants/limitations/boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/16 01:40 AM
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I think, bottom line, it's how you're treated. For me, there were a few too many times where I learned a woman's hobby was just have sex. Later on, it really seemed that sex wasn't a bonding experience and just something they did. Sex meant far more to me than it did to them. So having something that I believe should be an intimate part of a relationship was nothing more than a duty to them. The women that didn't sleep around were far more intimate and connected to me. It's a feeling that makes …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/16 01:32 AM
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Also, contrary to popular belief, not everyone uses facebook. Why the downvote! Seriously, last gal I dated wasnt on facebook... either that or she hid it very well... then again, she didn't have a lot of anything online... quite secretive. .considers herself a nomad. Any girl Ive dated recently have all told me "they looked me up online".... so "facebook stalking" is quite normal - even acceptable it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/16 01:19 AM
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Speaking from personal experience, the women that I knew that didn't bond well with either me or their previous partners, had many sexual partners. The women I know with only a few partners had much longer and better quality relationships. I can only say that my "gut" was telling me something was off when with the more sexually active women. They can present themselves any way they want, but after some time, the truth tends to come out.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/16 01:14 AM
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Playing devils advocate here... so you find someone you'd like to marry and somehow you learn that she's a former (or current) sex worker. You'd still go through with tying the knot?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/16 01:02 AM
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if she's STD free, I don't give a shit what her n count is. Follow up question: you don't care about N count as far as... FWB? Dating? LTR? Possibly even marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/16 11:13 PM
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There are lots of examples throughout TRP. After you read enough of them, you see the same repetitive behavior and you see you place in the world. Then you get angry. Then you start the journey..... then the hard work begins.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 01:14 AM
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Past month or so... Dropped the girl, started keto, lost 9 lbs, bought a weight bench, protein, meats, lifting, planned a trip... there's a definite difference. It just takes time. Don't forget to work on the mental game. Mine is challenging at the moment but I'm not giving in to my hamster. Just go for it. As a previous posted mentioned, do it for future you. Future me needs me. Future you needs you.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/16 08:39 PM
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I honestly feel a bit bad about posting all these x-posts Don't feel bad.... I learned something from this post and the responses. I needed this information actually... thank you for sharing. edit: my ex had a narrative of her past and did much the same to me. She handled all conflicts the same. Its was always her view vs. the truth... and I upheld the truth which was in conflict with her narrative. It was ugly.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 03:40 AM
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Take care guys, women can be a dangerous drug and once you treat them like a drug, you'll be more mindful of what drugs to ingest.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 03:35 AM
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Actually, the tale you've told I have heard before. So no, I wasn't joking. Thus why this "law" could have serious consequences on us "disposables"
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 12:12 AM
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Controlling what they do, where they go, who they can see, what they wear.... Where you going? On vacation... Where? Florida With who? To visit my friend... The one that's been cheating on her husband with a new guy every week for the past 2 years? Yea... what of it? What else you going to do... Lay on the beach, get hit on by guys, let them buy me drinks, take my picture, hang out with them, not tell you what I'm actually doing, and I'll start birth control again while I'm on vacation but I'm d…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 07:48 PM
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Move the fuck away to another country. That was my exact thought too. Always wanted to see the world.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 02:36 PM
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Controlling what they do, where they go, who they can see, what they wear.... Welcome to the legalization of hypergamy... don't want your wife cheating on you? That's DV & 5 years in jail... now she can do it anyway... and you'll be forced to pay child support (if you have kids), which you can't cause you're in jail, and now you're stuck in an infinite loop of failure...
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 12:55 PM
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My hamster spins wildly out of control and I cannot control myself. I said some things I shouldn't have. No. You said what your gut told you to say. That's the shit women want you to keep repressed. It's about time you let your voice be heard. Next time, listen to your gut first and take action before you let it go like that again. Then I say, "I can't believe I agreed to be a cuckold either it's pretty pathetic" At least you woke up to the truth. It's alright, some girls are far sneakier and wo…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 03:18 PM
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Not a monster yet. Working through years of skinny fat. Another 5 lbs and we'll reevaluate. My ex can kiss my ass. I allowed her to tear my self confidence apart. She definitely had the higher SMV and used it. Now, using the anger phase to fuel gains. 1 month strong and looking forward to hitting the iron when I get home. My plate noticed the difference and asked me if I'm looking for perfection. Told her 'yes'. No more excuses. It's time to get shit done.
/r/ThankTRP16/02/16 07:36 PM
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Her emotional crap really isn't worth the effort. And she really doesn't put much effort into sex either. So quite frankly, it's not worth it. I'd like a honeymoon phase where they're eager, but I've got one consistent plate for now. I've just finished a month of keto, dropped 8 lbs, and been working out. Goal is 10% body fat (cureently around 13-15%) and no excuses for looking good. Working hard to put myself at the top. Done being walked over.
/r/ThankTRP16/02/16 04:27 PM
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No. We have spoken since the break up. Hooked up a couple times too. But each time we hung out, she'd turn into an emotional wreck, suddenly remember how much she hurt from what I said, then she'd shut down and be useless. I walked out on her after spending time talking with her, only to have her still act poorly. Of course, after hours of this behaviour, I got frustrated and it degenerated into an arguement. At which point I'd walk out. She texted me on Valentine's day to say happy Vday honey. …
/r/ThankTRP16/02/16 03:27 PM
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LOL as someone who grew up with zero religion this all sounds more and more insane every time i hear it. As someone that grew up with 100% religion, yes - It is insane. But RP truths still hold true. Never make a ho a housewife.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/16 04:27 PM
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OMG. this was me. Including the 500mg TRP for the cure. It was said in NMMNG that you should tell your SO when you're reading the book becuase it will change the relationship dynamics. But as its been said here, once a woman has you as her BB, she will not let that go. She KNOWS that she is getting EVERYTHING you're giving her because of her sex/presence/pedestal. She's not doing a damn thing to get what you're giving her other than she agrees to be in your presence. And THAT is what TRP teaches…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 04:56 PM
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Oh god. This whole thread reminds me of me... and yes, as soon as I got a little alpha, I dumped her... fuck. It was a helluva lot easier nexting in alpha mode. Breaking up is so beta :)
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 04:25 PM
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Where the fuck were your when I needed this advice 10 years ago.... on the bright side, thanks for helping out OP. This advice is a fuckton better than what I did.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 03:34 PM
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...girlfriend is capable of handling her own shit, simply by calling out other guys. If she doesn't do it herself, you can bet your ass she is allowing it to happen. this^ this is the shit you should be watching. It's a covert way to have her cake and eat it too. And sends the message that you aren't giving her the tingles.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 03:02 PM
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Describes my ex... my problem was staying longer than your standard alpha. On the bright side, I left too.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 02:58 PM
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However you fucked up long before, in particular when you made your decision to promote this girl to commited relationship, if she is behaving like this. This^ when I got involved with her, it was at the lowest point in my life. i.e. thirty beta. Then NMMNG and TRP got my full attention. The whole relationship blew up as I tried to switch the power dynamic only to realize I had no business being involved with her as anything more than a plate. Lesson learned; monk mode..... thanks for the feedba…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 02:17 PM
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Dropping a girl for flirting and being charming is an idiot move and screams insecurity as loud as mate-guarding. Words do mean nothing. Actions do. The correct response for if she is flirting with the “wrong“ guy is some dread and not going nuclear. I dunno man. I disagree. As someone else mentioned: Jealousy and mate-guarding are just more signs that she has you. And once she has you, you get relegated to the back of the mind, and she, in one way or another, seeks someone new to stimulate and …
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 11:59 AM
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you don't appear frustrated or resentful I fucking hate women right now LOL (edit: I don't "hate" women per se, I hate the emotional manipulation, the entitlement, the belittling, attitude, and overall poor behavior. I was raised to be an upstanding individual and have been screwed over too many times. I can only shut them out until I have reprogrammed myself to be anti-fragile and developed myself into a stronger, better person. Albeit, one with better boundaries and the willpower to enforce th…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 08:47 PM
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Happy to indulge on this topic, as I still have some cognitive dissonance around it. studies show that it's only around 10% of women with high numbers of partners. Citation? Not being a troll, its just that I would love to think this is true. I know a number of women with "high numbers". As in, 40, 50+.... I knew one that stopped counting after 100... I also know a couple 45yo with 3 total lifetime partners. 20+ partners is common... so, what constitutes "high"? I dunno. I just remember a study …
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 03:44 PM
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everything she told me was such a turn off. My regular plate opened up about her recent dating experiences and it turned me off. The thought of having sex with her just isn't worth it anymore. Once I got my ex to open up, it was the same situation. Totally turned off to their solipsism. There's a lot of entitled crazy out there.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 03:08 PM
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Her Social Media is full of revealing pictures - If a girl has her tits out, and so on (abundance of bikini pics) this doesn't necessarily mean shes a whore. It means shes an "attention whore." You attention is never enough. Ex liked to wear a bikini that left nothing to the imagination. No social media presence at all. Said she didn't like the attention but knew what she was doing. Tried to call it a cultural thing. End result: my attention was never enough.... then again, it would be as long a…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 06:57 PM
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There was a highly up voted post recently titled "The 3 Most Powerful Words" tl;dr Yes, No, Why. It seems we get these occasional contradictions. Would be good to see a compare/contrast between the two posts to bring them back to a contextual singularity. I'll see what I can do when I'm behind a PC.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 02:21 PM
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You are trying to say that any tard can start ordering women around and that gets them turned on. No, I'm not saying that at all. I only know what I personally experienced. It doesn't work like that. I didn't say it did. They are attracted to the confidence and ability. I agree. But going back to Objectification, one of my female friends just yesterday was gushing over a guy because he has money to spend and was telling her how he would spend it on her. She said she wasn't attracted to the guy b…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 12:22 PM
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Do guys not realize that becoming a gym rat with a new car and a nice house is becoming an object as well? I realize it. I grew up blue pill and thought "being me" was enough. Now that I have a house, car, gym, etc. I don't want to be loved for what I have. I want to be wanted for who I am. Women aren't attracted to being ordered around. Last few women I dated would disagree. They don't want to make decisions. They want the man to being control. It's not an exact 1-1 match (ordered around vs. Be…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 05:01 AM
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Don't dare attempt being the last penis. This. They will use all their years of experience to manipulate you in ways you didn't know were possible - so that you think being the last penis is something special. They have nothing left to give. You can't be the first for anything, so now they want to sell you the last. Thankfully TRP saved me from myself and helped me make sense of what was happening.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 04:26 AM
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I get what you're saying but disagree that OP is saying submissive = useless. Chase the smart girls guys. Chase the successful girls. Chase the girls that have self esteem. I had a smart girl. Got her CPA. Moving up in the world. Makes 6 digits. Plenty of outward self-esteem. Fucking submissive starfish in bed, alpha widowed numerous times, some level of entitlement that made my head spin, and an N count that easily was 20+ and possibly much higher. For me, OP was about the sexual side of the re…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 04:16 AM
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I stayed with one of these longer than I should have. I stayed because I knew I was learning. I nearly succumbed to the manipulation and pressure. Then one day it all hit me and I saw it all.... and I called her out on hit.... went no contact for a while. She reached out. I decided to see if she learned a lesson. Nope. And it was glorious to call her out on her BS again.... then I walked out again. It was ugly. She became ugly before my eyes. Then I felt something snap inside me. Whatever bond I…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 04:01 AM
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I must suffer, because that's what I deserve. Bullshit. And fuck you too. Go see a therpist. Work on your brain chemistry. You're only 23. In a couple years you will be a new man. Don't fucking wait to be 40 something. Go start working on yourself NOW.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/16 06:28 PM
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Lift. Seriously. Build your physical stature... or develop a skill that makes you stand out. Practice the 30 day challenges. Talk to people. You could jump in with both feet or engage 1 person at a time. Get comfortable in your own skin.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/16 06:23 PM
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I wish I had this wisdom 20 years ago. Happy to have it now. I appreciate all the comments here. Thx all.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/16 06:19 PM
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I've grown over the years and my kids do so much more than I ever did. I'm proud of them. They have their life, I encourage them but getting them to stop acting on impulse is like herding cats. They have limits but they also push boundries. Celebrate the positives even if it hurts (e.g. they did something wrong, but told me the truth). I was angry, but thankful for their honestly. It's tough, but worthwhile.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/16 12:16 AM
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Thanks for the post and the link. I need a resource like this.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/16 12:07 AM
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The sluttier you see she is, the less of your resources you will give her. That means, no money, no attention unless it's for sex, and no emotional investment. This is in case she demonstrates slut traits. I did it bckwards. Future cases will be done properly. I went from giving so much to cutting everything off once I learned some truth. It wasn't even something I consciously did.... it just seemed natural to shut her down.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/16 12:04 AM
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My reading of the situation - unbelievable update You must be new here. After you read enough posts (definitely check out /asktrp), you'll realize that your situation is totally believable and, quite frankly, expected. And yes, you're angry. Welcome to the angry phase where you'll soon discover this shit happens all the time and you'll only have yourself to blame for falling for it. A wink of an eye, a coy little smile, and a shake of the hips - then BLAM! Oh look, you think you found a unicorn.…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/16 06:00 PM
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I regret not listening to the advice myself.... if someone had told me, I may have listened... I too learned the hard way. Twice. At least the 2nd time was cut off before it destroyed me.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/16 03:28 PM
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TRUST ME. tl;dr '+ don't touch the fire. - why not? '+ it's hot. - owww! '+ told you so.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/16 03:19 PM
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By definition this is not internalizing, this is imitating. I suggest reading up on the applications of "internalizing" Philosophy in general before moving forward. I'm guilty of the same thing OP does. I'd like to internalize better, so I appreciate the suggestion.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 11:25 PM
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I use Whisper to get plates. Holy shit, me too LOL. Responded to some generic post, got into a convo, knew it was a chick, she agreed to meetup. No pic, totally blind "date". Of course she has a "BF" but he's still married lol... tried out my RP training and voila! Plate. Lost any remaining respect for women... tl;dr used whisper; lost pedestal
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 07:53 PM
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When you meet a girl with a similar experience and mindset, they're a royal pain in the ass.... I think they're referred to as Travel Widows... akin to alpha widow for similar reasons.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 12:35 AM
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This topic matters to me and so I share with you my thoughts... First, what do you want? If you're looking to have sex, don't bother talking about it. If it does comes up, you celebrate the ever-living fuck out of it. You just became the fucking pope of sluts because nothing is hotter to you than a girl that likes to fuck. You don't shame them at all unless you do it sarcastically. e.g. give them a high-5 for their stories. They'll open up like a cheap can of tuna fish. If you're looking for a r…
/r/askTRP29/01/16 06:47 PM
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If you're ever in NYC, let me know! Don't live there but can there easily enough :)
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 03:09 AM
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Dude. OMG. This is why I'm so glad this forum exists. The shit we've tolerated for stupid reasons. I could go on, but I know you've experienced what I have too.... if you lived around me, I'd buy you a drink!
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 11:38 PM
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Thanks. Regarding the 3 green flags you mentioned, I thought about my recent ex. She had a photo album when she was younger, before coming to the states. It was mostly pics of guys and few females. When I questioned if they were all boyfriends, she just put them all away. After knowing her for a while, it seems that from 18-35 is was just one guy after another with only a couple LTRs in there and none of them were good. She worked herself out of major debt but most of her progress came in the la…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 09:43 PM
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How about her 'past' as it relates to sex and LTR consideration? Any key ref/green flags for you? Or is it about personality?
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 08:57 PM
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I thoughts cats would be worse than dogs.... How about the top 3 green flags for LTR? I'm at a stage of re-evaluation and plan on extensive dating in the future with no plans to enter a LTR without serious vetting. Appreciate the guidance from someone that has most likely seen enough to know. Thank you!
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 07:21 PM
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I've gone out with 500-1000 women in my years Given your experience; what are your top 3 traits for LTR & Red Flags?
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 07:07 PM
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Experienced a few triggers reading this post: getting cuckolded is the same as death - you don't reproduce Never thought of it that way... How f'n true. if a woman is good at "it" she can get her kids great genes AND resources from the top beta "IT" being defined as manipulation (guilt, shame, coy, a wink-smile-shake-of-the-hips) to have her cake and eat it too... to an extent that 99% of men will never face.... Yea! I'm a 1%'er ...you will immediately doubt yourself and your instincts. Its ofte…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/16 06:46 PM
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I've never had a problem with establishing rapport. The problem is this turns into "love" on their side and they become evermore demanding of my time and resources. If you need emotional validation from a woman its because you're weak. Everyone is weak sometimes, but you're playing a dangerous game relying on a woman for support like that. This is one of the polarizing aspects of being here. On one end is the "Fuck for fucks sake" vs "a quality relationship/connection". I do believe a man's biol…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 01:06 PM
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Alpha game rewards you greatly but requires allot of you. As you mentioned, alphas have these traits. For whatever reasons, I chose not to internalize them when younger. Internalizing these concepts now will only benefit me, and others, in relationships, business, and other aspects of life. That being said, there's value in your post ... i.e. experiencing the lust of a woman vs. being her sure thing. Dangerous/exciting vs. comfortable. Being her addiction vs. Her provider... these polarizing emo…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 12:57 PM
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If you keep getting cheated on, maybe there's something up with you. You may think all is well or maybe the sex is in your head and fogging it up preventing you from seeing clearly..... OR.... your gut is telling you something is wrong because subconsciously it's detecting a pattern that you haven't consciously become aware of. Spend some time meditating. Clear your mind. You'll eventually listen to yourself.
/r/askTRP25/01/16 09:05 PM
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You're suffering from 'mate guarding'. It's why the previous response mentioned oneitis. You're into her, you don't know if she's into you the same way. If you have yourself on top of your game, you worry a little less since you know you can pick up someone new(abundance). Bottom line, if she wants to hide something from you, she will. As mentioned elsewhere, screen for a different type of girl if you want no worries AND get your SMV high.
/r/askTRP25/01/16 08:48 PM
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I specifically said REgret the past and not worry about the future. Actually, your original post is the exact opposite: Owning the now; not regretting the past or worrying about the future, totally owning the now. My confusion comes from knowing a woman with a long history, saying she regrets nothing, made some really bad mistakes, and yet continues to make poor decisions but trying to make better. It just seemed like she was owning the "now" with no regard for past or future. I'm done trying to…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 12:13 PM
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Either you forgot a decimal place or need to drop the % :)
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 11:09 AM
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There will also be the men indoctrinated into marriage as the only solution. These men will only be awoken after the divorce rape. They will stay involved with their kids becuase they are good men. Once thier decades of slavery end, expect a revolt against their former overlords or covertly thru the children. There is hope, albeit not one many people know about.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 11:07 AM
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...with acquaintances across the globe. Any suggestions on how to acquire these acquaintances prior to traveling to a foreign land? I plan to enjoy the decline like there is no tomorrow. Embrace the chaos. After being a slave for years, I am breaking free and taking the steps to enjoy my freedom. See you on the road bro.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 10:55 AM
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We chastise women for overemphasizing the externally focused NOW lifestyle and underemphasizing the introspective learning and planning. Both are important, but, out of balance, one breeds hedonistic excess and the other anxiety and depression. Cool, thanks. This makes sense too. Gal I knew was heavily based on NOW and any attempt to say thing about being too impulsive was met with defiance. Not a quality trait by any means.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 03:50 AM
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If you live life in the moment then lie about it, then that's different. Ahhh yes. Good point. It's one thing to do something, it's another to outright lie about it. Thanks for the reasoning.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 03:48 AM
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Owning the now; not regretting the past or worrying about the future, totally owning the now. Isn't that what women do and we chastise them for doing it? In fact, don't we expect them to do it? confused
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 02:43 AM
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You already know the reasons not to text her: I don't want her back. I am not a priority in her life. I'm seeing someone exclusively. So WTF dude? You got male hamster-itis. Go lift then bang your chick. Stop wasting energy on her.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 05:30 PM
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There's some good stuff on there. Although, I just found this little gem that I thought was funny..... There's a thread about the number of partners you've had. One of the responses was something like "whatever feels good." Which seemed out of line since most of the other posts were being reasonable. I looked at the poster's profile, and she admits to being a prostitute. So yes, good insight, just be mindful of the source.
/r/askTRP18/01/16 01:51 PM
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one of you dipshits probably thought it was a fine time to chime in about this TRP thing you just found. Read stickies you fucks. I digress. Spot-on assessment. Seriously people, stop being a beta-fied "red knight". Read, internalize, and get back to lifting. Not jerking off with misguided self-righteousness.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 12:55 PM
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Conclusions: LIFT, become assertive and learn to speak with a proper voice. Or if you're the beta/The Blue Pill, keep orbiting. She'll choose you to raise Chad's kid when she's done with Chad when he's done with her. Obvious edit.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 10:45 PM
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In the BP world, most men will take a post wall women who is very attractive... loose vagina (not literally, just easy to get)...attractive post wall women that many men might consider a great catch with high SMV. Yep, she loved that CC. Yes. Guilty as charged. Since I swallowed the pill, I've had a couple encounters with very attractive women. RP teaches you how to see red flags in a girl from day one. I wish i had Red Pill when i was younger. Red Flag? Whats that? :( Is she a good cook? What i…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 11:28 AM
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I'd argue that they know exactly what they're doing. They wont tear you down with logic, but they can emotionally.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 09:39 PM
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Thank you. Your comments have hammered home the concept of frame. It explains why women like dominant, aloof, bad guys, assholes, etc. They're not assholes, they're just not giving into her manipulation. Nice guys give into the manipulation. Tangently, frame is also why its important for men to constantly improve.... becuase we can, and we must.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 06:00 PM
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Women will try and weaponize their emotional state to manipulate you. This I understand far too well. ...you're assigning motive and agency to something that they can't actually control. I've read this but it didn't make much sense. They can't stop feeling/acting this way, any more than a child can control their emotions. The emotions just happen, and different emotions happen according to the circumstances. Everyone is like this, but it's particularly stark with women who solipsistically feel t…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 04:04 PM
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...and this sort of advice really should be coming to you from your Dad or uncle or older brother and not us here on the internet, but... No one ever gave me advice like I find here. Thankfully this forum exists. So many brainwashed dudes out there.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 11:21 AM
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Keep an eye on your feelings and remember that your long term commitment to yourself is the best relationship you'll have. The short term boosts from dating sites and casual encounters are exactly that - brief. It's external validation vs internal. A little external to get over the hump is alright; don't let it turn into a habit. Otherwise, you're chasing the fee fees and not your potential. Personally, I detect a lot of emotion inside you even though you're saying the right things. You're on th…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/16 03:06 PM
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I've been in your shoes. Great girl; sketchy past. She's into sex - great! Not into sex with you - bad. Simply AF/BB. You are the BB. Withholding sex now will set the tone that sex with her is a prize/goal and failing to meet her needs (which will change at random) will get you cut off. You are lured into her web of seduction (frame) and not yours. You're happy now because sexy girl is sexy and into you with the hope of sex. If you had other options, you'd plate her and find another (abundance).…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/16 12:07 PM
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You've mentioned "damaging" her multiple times. Just stop thinking that. If anything, she's already "damaged". You sound too much of a nice guy to "damage". If anything, she feels she's run around with the bad boys and now wants her "nice guy". PFFFT. when even the nice guy turns down the nympho, then they begin to realize they made some shitty life choices. That ain't your fault.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/16 03:17 AM
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By "settle"... I mean you may be the best thing to ever happen to her - right now. Of course she doesn't want to lose you cause she's putting in quite the effort. But is she putting in the effort because she's that into you or because she wants off the CC. Also, if her past is still on your mind, you'll need to figure out if keeping her as a plate will be worthwhile or will you cast it aside because she makes you feel good.... until something comes up which triggers these thoughts again. That de…
/r/askTRP11/01/16 10:16 PM
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Monk Mode for you! Search for it on here... Take some time for yourself. Everything you're saying? Been there. Just stop. Monk Mode.
/r/askTRP11/01/16 08:34 PM
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Not a good idea to see an ex. They're an ex for a reason. If you start doing for her to justify you wanting sex, then you're still BP. Put your energy into yourself.
/r/askTRP11/01/16 06:43 PM
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5 years of negativity sucked the life out of you. Now do for you. Eat clean, lift, read, and meditate. Be proactive with your time. It'll take some time for the brain to stop associating thoughts > feelings but the meditation and reading should help identify what's happening there (CBT). And get out of the house. It's good for you.
/r/askTRP11/01/16 06:41 PM
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Follow your gut. I was in a similar situation and was told she dated 2 guys in the past 5 years. Sounded good to me! Got trickle-truth over time to realize the n-count got higher and higher. I allowed myself to get emotionally guilted into staying. I got to the point of wanting to know why all these guys kept dumping her. Anyway, 8 months later and more trickle-truth and the feeling in my gut not going away, I learned she's an alpha-widow, BPD, and settling for me. Finally told her "there's no f…
/r/askTRP11/01/16 05:44 PM
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Something that was told to me... you were seduced by her body and your natural instincts. Nothing will replace the feelings she gets from constant male attention. By threatening to leave, you employed the dread game and she will respond accordingly. The feelings it invokes in her will only last a short while. Stop being angry towards her. Accept her behaviour as you would a dog's desire to eat steak off your table. Now figure out exactly what you want from her and make it happen. Under no circum…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/16 05:32 PM
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I let a girl put rules on our relationship. I've always let girls give me boundaries. If she doesn't give you what you want, you don't have to give her what she wants. Ever. This is a lesson and transformation I went thru as well. Makes me happy you're learning this so young..... and as others have said, you're not weak, just learning :)
/r/TheRedPill03/01/16 06:58 PM
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put yourself out there earlier. I understand the message but this is shit. The post may help make sense of their past, but telling them them they should have done it differently is retarded. How about: Understand your past, make corrections, learn, improve yourself, and make a better future.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 05:30 PM
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A RP guide to "where to travel" would be a good post. Time for me to get some plane tickets.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 01:44 PM
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NOOOOOOO! Never would I do that. She leaves him alone enough as it is. Blah.
/r/ThankTRP25/12/15 02:58 AM
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Even the most BP guys are able to understand how valuable it is Yes, even BP guys have that "gut" feeling... and women use all the tricks possible to shame men into ignoring it. Men should hold onto commitment like their lives depend on it.... because it does.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/15 03:15 PM
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Any pointers? wrap your junk. have fun avoid one-itis you will be shit-tested constantly You're fucking delusional. Why? Because these 2 statements are not interchangeable: I don't care if she's a former CC rider as long as she's monogamous with me She may be more of a serial monogamist. You'll have to convince her you're more involved to get the "hot piece mostly for on-call sex." i.e. Women fake orgasms; men fake relationships. You're reall fucking delusional. Why? > too poor for short-term di…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/15 03:04 PM
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Agreed. I see her as a gypsy. She'll continue to roam from guy to guy and use her charm to extract as many resources as possible - then move on when the well dries up or her game is discovered. There is no containing it.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/15 02:55 PM
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the oneitis is killing you Story of my life. My life didn't make much sense until I found TRP. Now, I'm free. Thank you!
/r/TheRedPill23/12/15 02:53 PM
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Only fellow men will be there when you are down This is why I appreciate TRP
/r/TheRedPill23/12/15 02:50 PM
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Oh geez. I am not alone! Thank you for sharing. I'm thankful for TRP and everyone that contributes. Also, that was a former LTR, that says something too :)
/r/TheRedPill23/12/15 01:37 AM
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Thank you. She has good parents and a good mom. I think her curse is being in this country by herself trying to make things happen without her parents local. Makes for too much free-wheeling.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 10:10 PM
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oh my god. thank you. I read your 1st paragraph and it hit me. That's exactly what happened. By dread game, I meant walking away. Once I started to do that, her reaction was quick. She did not want to lose her provider and her behavior changed. I remember reading one fellow's story here where he got involved with a beautiful Asian girl. He was practically homeless but she took him in while he got back on his feet. It was only after he got his confidence back that he found out she was not the per…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 09:40 PM
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Exactly. If I felt desired, it would be OK. But knowing how impulsive she is, I think she has to have the ONS or cheap thrill to get excited anymore. It hurts but at least I see what it is and don't take it personally (anymore).
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 09:02 PM
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I never heard of it put that way: the negative emotion-powered vortex of mate guarding This explains abundance mentality so you don't try to hold on needlessly. I didn't want to lose my bicycle ride because I wasn't done yet. Dread game was the only tactic that started to restore my sanity. Thank you!
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 08:38 PM
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Well... when she came back to "tell me her story"... I told her that if she wanted a relationship, then I needed to have 2 other girls on the side or to have one 20yo with us on occasion. She said, "That's not fair, does that mean I get to have someone else on the side too?".. I said, "Nope! Life isn't fair. You want emotional intimacy and I want sex and experience. I'll give you all the sex you want and a relationship, but I want a regular threesome".... She didn't walk out on me and looked at …
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 08:26 PM
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Keep in the mind, the quote was... I wish I met you 10... no, 5 years ago... Turns out, 5 years ago is when she met her true alpha fucks. The one guy that all other men compare to. She wished she met me after her divorce but then remembered that one guy and suddenly she was happier having that experience. Doesn't feel good at all knowing she would have rather have had a bunch of failed relationships just to have that one alpha fucks.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 04:15 PM
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sadly, i am learning the hard way.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 04:12 PM
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I've been down the western girl path, I thought the European woman experience would have been better..... I'll give a field report on the relationship...
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 04:11 PM
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Just a few more for consideration... It's a shame men have egos I wish I met you 10... no, 5 years ago... On the same day I got a new job - "So, what brand car you going to buy? only soon to be followed by Great! Now you have 9 months to get ready... My friend gave me a high-5 for NOT sleeping with you on the first date Note: these were all from a Russian gal... so either get them fresh off the boat or they'll spoil with the rest of western civilization. and I whole-heartily agree with the trave…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/15 03:26 PM
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proprioceptive afferent myelinated nerves. TIL
/r/askTRP08/12/15 03:21 PM
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There is so much more to the entire relationship. The more I digested TRP, the harder it was to stay in the relationship. So many red flags that I never knew existed. Now I know why being a blue pill is so powerful for women.
/r/ThankTRP06/12/15 09:01 PM
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You know how she is TODAY.... don't project that into 5 or 10 years down the road. Another recent post talks about his "perfect woman" but even she got bored and moved on 10 years into the relationship. AWALT for a reason. TRP is about setting yourself up for success, not looking for excuses to say, "but this one is different." Again, take care of yourself first.... and maybe the woman in your life is a good one. So go! Enjoy! But if the argument in your head doesn't settle down, then either go …
/r/askTRP06/12/15 06:24 PM
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Guessing it has to do with the human wiring.... we want companionship.... but we get screwed by it too. Pick a path to adventure... looking forward to OPs response.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/15 02:59 PM
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I'm sure there are specific subreddits that answer this, but I'd also appreciate an insiders experience.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/15 02:57 PM
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So let's see.... One one hand, here is a seemingly good woman that you enjoy being around. Take the time to get to know her and enjoy her company. The initial phases of the relationship are the strongest and we're basically wired to enjoy this time the most. Keep your eyes, ears, and feelings open. Listen to what she does, not what she says... enjoy the ride. On the other hand, why must you be in a relationship with only this woman? What is she doing for you that you can't find elsewhere? Why in…
/r/askTRP06/12/15 02:32 PM
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Well if that isn't the final nail in the coffin.... I think that's what my gut has been telling me all along.... see my \r\ThankTRP post for back ground.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/15 11:51 PM
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Agreed. OP - you are further ahead in your quest because you already came here and opened up. As part of your upbringing, you may find yourself needing external valudation. Tell yourself that you are taking the steps to unravel the past and rebuild your future as YOU want it. This is the journey all men take. This is your life. You must validate yourself to yourself. Lift, meditate, eat healthy, achieve purpose. If you get angry, GOOD! Use that anger to lift harder, get leaner, and focus. It tak…
/r/askTRP05/12/15 01:07 PM
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You said it well. And to the OP... 47? You're not dead yet! I hooked up with a 48 yo milf that kept herself in fine shape. Earn that confidence and you'll be happy cause those hamsters are still running out there. When you're not acting like the other desperate guys out there, you'll be an oasis to the women that are sick of them. Side bar, books, lift!
/r/TheRedPill16/10/15 01:24 AM
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being a "family man" is now no longer a winning reproductive strategy in the West.....nor a permanent state of affairs (divorce-rape incoming!)..... Mid-40's PUA are shit? No. Thanks to divorce rape, there are plenty of guys out there that need PUA. And while searching for a new family may be engrained in their heads, redpill will break them of that strangle hold and free them for higher pursuits. Of course, pairing off is still desirable, but at least those men will have a fighting chance to fi…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 09:50 PM
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I concur. I wish I had this resource 20 years ago. Growing up with the blue pill mentality really fucked my life. Makes me happy to see a new generation find it sooner. There is hope.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 07:15 PM
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How? Embrace TRP. Read the sidebar. Lift. Go out and experience life and women. Once you lose the anger, you see the world differently. You'll appreciate women for being women....in all their emotionally driven irrationality, and you'll maintain frame because you'll finally get it. "It" takes time and effort. Dedicate yourself to relearning what you thought you knew.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/15 01:48 PM
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This is true (IMO). However, tread carefully. As also noted, once a woman has been in the US a number of years, they too will want their cake and eat it too. Once they hit the wall however, they are slightly better positioned to resume their pre-cc days and exhibit the traits many men would enjoy. So if you're a BB, you'll have a great woman with the constant reminder that you're just the last in line.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/15 01:24 PM
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My god. It's full of stars.... dude, you just described 90% of my current experience minus the cohabitation and bahavior towards my kids. But holy crap. Gentleman, this is reality for many of us. I shall write a [fr] myself one day. Until then, do not get married, do not cohabitate and don't get her pregnant. If you can handle that, you're golden as they have no power over you.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 07:10 PM
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Ditto. It was more than one strike for me, but I finally wised up and deemed the behavior intolerable. They want commitment but are willing to put themselves in questionable situations? Congrats, they just earned themselves the no commitment solution. Too bad they're too blind to see.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/15 05:33 AM
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Dating an Eastern European isn't what it's cracked up to be. While she had treated me great, she also had an n count of "countless" (her words, not mine). Everything else on your list checked out... I think you need to add 'victims of abuse/assault' to the list. That comes with another set of issues on its own.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 03:02 AM
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Thanks. For some of us that are still swallowing or have swallowed the pill, this post hurts. It's a reminder of naïveté, stupidness and/or blindness that defined life. Those of you are are quick to point out the anger or uselessness of this advice, I now understand your position...but... this post is a harsh reminder of where I was. I nearly succumbed to the manipulative ways of a CC'er. As OP said, these types of questions come from BP'ers that struggle to understand themselves. We (I) need th…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 03:44 PM
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You know what? Fuck you. It's only going to get worse??? How can it get worse? The worst has already happened! And you have this forum, this bastion of men, that have walked in your shoes, that have poured their lives into the material you read here, so that you can have a better life! Do not disrespect the men that have endured pain worse than you so that you can wallow in misery. Do not let that woman have any more power in your life! Embrace your manhood squarely by the balls and just fucking…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 08:02 PM
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Seriously, fuck all of you. Where were you 20 years ago when I should have learned about this crap? I hate the role of BB as it was so eloquently ingrained into my head. I thought I had done a good job digesting and reprogramming in recent years. Then I discovered TRP and I've had a perpetual headache ever since. Looking forward when it's so 2nd nature that my headache subsides. Thanks to everyone and especially the dialogue in every thread.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 08:49 PM
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Why would you do anything different? BECAUSE YOU WILL BECOME A MAN!! Swallowing the pill has been life changing for me. I have had to fight through thoughts very similar to what you have eloquently described. I still struggle. I still cringe. But I am vastly better now that I was before. I will continue to get better and I support you in your efforts. It's hard. But as it's been said here, iron is forged. You are not alone in your quest. Continue on your journey making progress and improvement. …
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 02:27 AM
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You know what's sickening funny? That's the way she used to be (lazy). She even said, "I've been lazy" when referring to sex. I got so fucking mad.... I really started reading the side bar.... Also read No More Mr Nice Guy, Why do I feel guilty when I say No, The Way of the Superior Man, other recommended books and the countless stories here.... I then stopped doing anything and everything for her. I stopped initiating txt'ing, calling, helping around the house... all of it... I just stopped. Th…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 11:27 PM
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you just have to know its limitations... By limitations, do you mean that it's good while it's good but don't let it become co-habitation/marriage/get her preggo? The more I've read the required reading, some of the recommended books and the constant stream of FR, I have finally realized and accepted that I was a severe BB and I am in an LTR with a 'former' CC'er. While we do have lots of fun together, I know that one day we'll call it quits because she wants the commitment to which I've already…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 05:37 PM
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Regardless if she rode the cock carousel or not, you have to respect the woman she is once she got off Would you expand on this thought? I'm probably reading more into it as RP is still new to me. My initial knee-jerk thought was your statement runs counter to the LTR equation (i.e. it's been said adnauseum that low N count = favorable for LTR and the CC lowers SMV and that once they're off the CC its because they're looking for BB). In an effort to understand, OP gets one-itis over a supposedly…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 02:51 PM
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Awesome. Thank you.
/r/seduction03/06/13 07:10 PM
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