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Solid response. I hate when people talk about doing manufactured "ghosting" or "waiting to text back." If you are actually busy because you choose to have an actual life, that is where you want to be. Its more organic and prevents you from looking desperate as if all the time in the world you reserved for just one girl. Texting should be to make plans, not "have deep text-versations." Save those for the actual dates so there is still things to actually talk about in person
/r/seduction19/06/25 11:17 PM
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Of course it will feel "weird" to say out loud. The goal is to make a lot of this autopilot. It's just theory and framework, and you make the rest of it your own based off your personality. "Strategizing" it is the weird part because it looks desperate like you need to "set the right traps and rely on the right timing." The reality is when you talk to girls you can only impact so many variables. Just be cool-calm-collected and entertain yourself by making jokes out of the situations and conversa…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/24 07:16 PM
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This. The problem with PUA's is their methods work but it requires absolute destruction of their self respect by being clowns 24/7 around these broads. Its like learning how to make a carburetor for a car and actually challenging fuel injection users that their way is wrong because the carburetor guy's car got from point A to B at some point.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/23 01:20 PM
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Cramming trp lingo? You're trying too hard. Rightfully pissed about someone wrongfully put in jail?? The only thing that sOuNdS gOoFy is some clown appalled that Tate might go to jail for doing things he has already snitched on himself over. Who said I was more informed than his lawyers? Just read the case and his history, it doesn't look good, though I am sure he has the money to pull a few strings like he did in UK. That said, this isn't the kind of guy TRP needs to idolize or protect. That's …
/r/TheRedPill13/01/23 09:19 PM
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The only thing weird in all of this is how you probably replaced the unicorn on your pedestal with Tate. There are 4 girls pressing charges. There are literal videos of him describing how to do these trafficking pyramid stunts equivalent to what Epstein did with Maxwell, and self snitching in chat logs that have the authorities gitty as they ask the judge for an extended detainment period because they are confident they have something but yeah no big deal ... This is why TRP stresses no idols. L…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/23 03:15 AM
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Correct, take the good he did and appreciate that, but that's it. This is why we don't want this awkward incel fandom showing up on the sub. The fact that all this gets downvoted shows how much the forum has fell off a cliff with incels. We are lucky to only be quarantined. Supporting people with the kind of baggage Tate brings could be this place's final nail. If people hold him to this pedestal, all they did is replace their "one and only" on there with him. We haven't removed the bad behavior…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/23 02:22 PM
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You mean successfully getting caught for human trafficking? Read that again and explain to everyone why that's your ideal alpha male. They're banning this shit for optics and for the reality that he's just another figure out in public breaking rule 1 of fight club. Have no idols. It's about appreciating the good he has done and move on. Its good people got to see a shredded guy be successful with women while mouthing off a few truths. That said, he's more baggage than some net positive, further …
/r/TheRedPill08/01/23 05:48 PM
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Tate was intro-level RP. If you think he was some ideal gospel of truth, read the sidebar to see the difference. He's just some regular dude mouthing off, breaking rule 1 of "fight club." As for his fans, we don't want a fan base of 15 year olds telling us 2+2=4, prancing around about the 101's on TRP that everyone already knows while championing a human trafficker. Why is this so hard for people to understand. Its why the mods don't care about the down votes or addressing it. I have free time, …
/r/TheRedPill08/01/23 05:37 PM
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Perfect case study of a guy with the right tools but does not know what to do with them. You're clearly in a "rack up tail" state. If that is the case, do that. I agree with everyone else on here you're throwing away a good thing, but you are stuck between a rock and a hard place. Don't let anyone shame you on your decision though. If it doesn't feel right, it doesn't matter how much of a "good girl" everyone thinks she is. You will grow to resent her if she doesn't feel right and then you will …
/r/TheRedPill01/12/22 01:50 PM
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Wonderful advice! Last year, I was unconsciously using visualization while going to the gym when I was in a rut with a girl and group of friends. It helped me see the end goal. I feel like I began to attain it, get a bit ripped, 9% body fat, got the girl, then slowly started becoming complacent since. She is still around, but I hate that the motivation is gone because all these "chip on shoulder" issues with this group are resolved so now I am just trying to find motivation. This helped a lot. A…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/22 01:47 PM
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You destroyed a fairly decent write up by making "treat women like 45 year old slobs" as the crux of the piece. You actually do the opposite. Keep your banter on all the time. Make your flirtatiousness/playfulness just seem like its apart of your personality. This is what naturally improves your game, that it is something that kicks into gear automatically. That said, this should have been against putting down other guys around you, which would have been a much better subject to hang the write u…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/22 11:33 AM
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Yup. It's just reality. My position isn't "more shorter guys should be dating taller girls." It's that being 5'7 is about an "average" in the states, and yet they act like their life is over. Most women are 5'4 and shorter, so most guys in that 5'6-5'7 range still have plenty of options. I'd be lying to you if I could say I am as optimistic for any guy that is like 5'5 and below. Getting laid and dating are obviously two different things here. A guy that is 5'7 wouldn't want to date a girl that …
/r/askTRP10/04/22 07:25 PM
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Is it a cope? Write out the number 1 billion. The problem is a limiting belief. I've been in your shoes. Its easy to try something a couple of times and struggle and just say "maybe not me." Women are easier than you think, we just make it harder than it has to be because of subconsciously conflating years of conditioning to think one way while trying to incorporate some of the ideas we pick up here. Half the battle is the lack of in-moment experience. "It never works like that with asking out. …
/r/TheRedPill27/12/21 11:43 AM
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This is the limiting belief setup we try to kill off here. Think about what you just said: "Every rejection also reduces your pool of potential plates. Finding a decent woman is hard enough, then you fail and strike her off the list, then you go back and wait for another one." There are literally billions of women on this planet. Its not time wasted, because you're going out and doing it, getting practice through the experience. People come on this forum to read some edgy ideas, feel great about…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/21 04:17 AM
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Hey Mods! Can we use this as proof "AskTRP" needs to be reactivated yet?
/r/TheRedPill26/12/21 02:58 PM
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Very insightful! Will trial some of this myself
/r/TheRedPill12/12/21 03:02 PM
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I personally don't want a kid, but I see why people do. You get to raise a little you. Almost like a chance to pass on and educate to your child what may feel like it took you ages to learn. It's a "giving back" and hope "they have a better life" feel that I think people get wrapped up in.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/21 01:39 AM
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Damaged goods can be subjective, but primarily stressed for men looking for LTR's. If you're just hooking up, who cares about damaged goods. Its simply implying there are issues with her, yes, but a lot of what you point out are still girls you can slip it into.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/21 01:36 AM
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Think about where you are now, and where you want to be 5-8 years from now. Consider subjects like your job, where you live, hobbies, go down ideas for a 'bucket list' and use all this to give you more clarity on where you are and where you want to be. This exercise helps me think far enough into the future to start getting ideas, but no so far into where I just drop the subject because of the "oh that's so long from now I have time" excuse.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/21 01:30 AM
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Its similar to the philosophical idea of the "Village Idiot" from a course I took in college. Is it better to be the simple-minded village idiot that knows nothing and experiences nothing, simply staying put in his little village, oblivious to real responsibilities and real world problems? Or is it better being someone who has been through a lot, knows a lot, and has truly experienced a range of events and emotions?
/r/TheRedPill26/11/21 01:13 AM
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Disappointed OP, as an EC, attempts to criticize the overwhelming Black Pill wave by pulling up a dump truck of black pills to dump all over the place. Men come here to learn how to get laid and how to improve their overall life. This doesn't help. It reinforces what we already know, and contributes almost nothing to the forum. Just another post to reinforce to people this place is dying out. I guess i'll go tell my 5'7 jacked friend who has already fucked 8 girls since the start of the summer t…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/21 03:12 PM
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I remember critiquing one of your first pieces and thinking you have great potential. 9 parts in, I think you're the last of a dying breed of quality "non" IC writers. Looking forward to more of this stuff.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/21 01:48 AM
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If you're a handyman, the market has to be golden, right? A ton of millennials with no do-it-yourself skills just bought homes. Plus college keeps taking in admissions as kids have not fully bought into the "trade school" route. As for women, its the same anywhere. Women have options. Its a hard pill to swallow but not all women are as bad as TRP makes them out to be. This is primarily because TRP emphasizes women in their 20's, their prime age. It's like a place trying to explain to you why you…
/r/askTRP29/06/21 11:55 AM
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A lot of this is general behavioral psychology so it only makes sense. We subconsciously respond to external cues not associated with the conversation, and in not reading those additional cues we fail to respond to the situation accordingly. You can give guys this advice, but it is a different monster when they are in the situation and can't slow down to remind themselves "walk away like a bad ass." There is simply too much going on in the moment for them. This is why it is important to stress m…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/21 11:41 AM
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By throwing away the current one. Like the post says, act as if you have to be some where, or as if you are about to pick food up at the bar and can only talk for a few minutes. Key thing is don't act rushed. Your body language is key. Women "feeling" you walking away isn't some magic sensory ability they have. Our subconscious brain reads our environments constantly for us in the background to detect for danger or important information. It is why when someone fake punches you, you flinch. It al…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/21 11:38 AM
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Of course there were other guys, there always is. I gave a brief snippet of my history with this girl to simplify the answer for OP. In between and after, she wanted more than just sex. And when we caught up at that party, I had brought a date which absolutely crushed her. It wasn't as simple as "she moved on from you bro." The point is this is how low self-esteem girls operate. They have options around them, and when they want to commit to one, they back out once they sense (look for) "danger" …
/r/askTRP20/06/21 12:05 PM
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Just know LTR's have an expiration date. It doesn't mean you can't do them, just know they come with risks and are ephemeral. It's like buying a car, its eventually going to get old and give you problems. You don't buy a car with the intention of expecting it to last you your life. Actually the longer you keep a bad car, the more financial ruin and headaches it gives you. It's actually a perfect analogy to a crap relationship most guys stay in out of comfort. Eventually the next purchase will ha…
/r/askTRP20/06/21 02:22 AM
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This is basically the analogy I use when people bring up LTR's: As human beings, we naturally, innately appreciate variability. Let's say I asked you what your favorite food was. Lets say its steak. If I challenged you to only eat steak for breakfast, lunch, and dinner for a whole month, you would soon experience and interesting dilemma. By the end of that month, would steak still be your favorite food? Probably not. As a matter of fact by the end of that month you could go grocery shopping and …
/r/askTRP20/06/21 12:40 AM
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You will never have an "open book" interaction with girls. You have to read between the lines. They push-pull just like we do. Trust and respond to in-person interactions. Stop relying on, or "deciphering," a text message. If you get chances to be around her, take advantage of those "in-person" moments and make a move!
/r/askTRP19/06/21 10:51 PM
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When you have low self-esteem, you don't feel like you deserve anything. You feel beneath the things you have or receive. You also become prone to feelings of "screwing good things" up. It eventually becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. I'll give you an example with this one girl I was with for a brief bit. I met her through friends at a bar. Huge IOI's we danced, hooked up. During making out and grinding, she would seem guilty and say things like "you can totally find someone better than me, Im …
/r/askTRP19/06/21 10:46 PM
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Experience. It's like anything. Just continue to be aware. No one is perfect right out of the gate with this stuff. Your brain has a subconscious piece that is designed to take in large swaths of vital information as you go about your day. It adapts to situations as well for you. This is felt through the "gut feelings" you have when making decisions. Your brain will guide you to the right decision. It's like if an intimidating biker looking guy is walking down the street in your direction. You f…
/r/askTRP19/06/21 10:37 PM
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Got a new job a couple of months back and all my coworkers are married or in relationships. It's always funny to me how they treat me like "oh we will find you someone too don't worry," but then want to vicariously live through me during co-worker nights out when dancing with other girls. "I'll get you this girl's number, oh wait, no hit on that one over there . . ." Really makes you wonder how happy they are with their lack of variability now that they've found their "one"
/r/TheRedPill16/06/21 11:09 AM
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You're used to being in a certain position in life, and that position tends to gravitate similar people. When you climb up higher out of that position, you hope to find like minded people as well. If you're around people not doing as well off, you feel guilty because they are stuck in the same spot while you are climbing ladders. For example, if you're a dead beat and have dead beat friends, it's only natural as you move up in life, your dead beat friends wont like that. You will feel off becaus…
/r/askTRP13/06/21 09:38 PM
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Go to the TRP reddit and search bar "Rules for Paying on Dates" by user name linkofinsanity19. Between the post itself and the contributing comments, its probably the best stuff I have read under this topic.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 02:35 PM
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At 5'9, I generally have a preference (if we're talking height) that she isn't taller than 5'7, especially once the heels come on. As for your situation, that is tricky. I think a lot of it is how you can handle her in bed. Most women like the idea of a "manly" man but what does that mean? It means in bed you can pin her down, show her she is no where near as strong as you. Depending on if she is into rougher stuff, you play into that card. Of course it also depends on what you're comfortable wi…
/r/askTRP03/06/21 03:55 PM
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Yeah but remember that height isn't just an abnormal male insecurity. Most girls north of 5'8 become insecure they are too tall. Being taller than like 5'10 isn't exactly common among men, and so tall women feel like they are the abnormal ones. I've hooked up with plenty of girls a little taller than me, no relationships obviously because of the optics there, but they have no problems with ONS's. On a side note, I don't know why a 5'7 guy would want to date a 5'10 girl. Height is as much an issu…
/r/askTRP03/06/21 12:31 PM
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Muscles get you noticed, without a doubt. I think the best way I could put this is to get you to imagine a solid looking dude. Imagine a solid 8, maybe 6'2, decent build, the whole 9. Women respond to his "look," his physique, because at a *subconscious* level it conveys a form of dominance or confidence. Its not that *he* is confidant, but his look is typically associated with other guys who look like him that are typically "confidant, strong, good frame, dom" ect. Her subconscious mind is attr…
/r/askTRP01/06/21 03:55 PM
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lol whoops didn't realize you weren't OP. Yeah women are always painted out to be the "relationship-needy" types but that isn't true. Just like men, women love sex for the sake of sex too. It's just an added benefit if you guys are together, in love, AND the sex is good. Otherwise never correlate good sex to "she will fall in love with me eventually." If its getting boring, and you don't see signs of this turning into what you want, just move on. If the sex is good, sure keep going. Just don't t…
/r/askTRP01/06/21 03:40 PM
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Well that depends on you. You are apart of the "option tree." When I say that's on you, are you happy driving/commuting all the way out there to her just to have some sex? If you knew she could never have real feelings for you again, would you be okay just going out there for the lay? Know that while she has options, the LTR itself is done. Just because you guys have good sex doesn't mean she's in love with you. It just means you guys have good sex. You are a change up from the other options so …
/r/askTRP01/06/21 01:12 PM
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We forget they live a completely different "dating" life from us. Most incels and debbie downers interpret this as "girls are sooooo lucky, they could be 5's and a much higher SMV dude would jump head over heels to get in bed with them. Being a guy is so hard." The problem is this is an overly simplistic, "grass is greener on the other side" view of what women go through. If you're a girl, you start off grade school hoping a guy will hit on you. After going through some crazy high school relatio…
/r/askTRP31/05/21 07:37 PM
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That's so crazy, like are you stuck to her? Did she handcuff herself and your wallet to her? Dude that sucks! Yeah, all they want to do is go out and have fun. Yes. That is what most normal people do. This is why "focus on your mission" comes off as "obvious" advice but advice that needs to be stressed here. I "focus on my mission" and if there is time and money, I hit up friends to go out and then hit on girls. A good plate who you fuck well won't care if you aren't going out to the bar with he…
/r/askTRP31/05/21 04:14 PM
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I would have thought I would become more stoic as I aged, but nothing really changed. Its not like women go "ew are you trying to lay 24-year old game on me even though you're clearly 33?" What is "game?" It's just your interactions with a girl. It's the same crap. Mix in relatable, in the moment jokes from your surroundings, follow up with some corny jokes, change the subject to get to know her. Its basic shit that doesn't really change. Also don't fall for the "oh no I am the only single guy i…
/r/askTRP31/05/21 04:10 PM
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A lot of gymcels ( incels who lift and are jacked ) complain that their physiques don't matter cuz they are on short bodies. These are guys excusing themselves to death to avoid pussy because they are scared. I have a buddy who is 5'7 and is fairly muscly who went through a crazy getting-laid period. He is naturally social and funny. He had a girl who cheated on him and they broke up. After he got over it, he started to adapt his game. Became very good, unshakeable frame because he could turn an…
/r/askTRP31/05/21 04:03 PM
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First think about what you find interesting to do. Money can be made from a myriad of ways, so don't always put money first. Do you know how many people make 6 figures easily but they are miserable because they hate their jobs? These are people who would easily exchange the extra cash for a less stressful life. So focus on what "doesn't feel like work and is something you're interested in." After that, we would need way more information about you to get you in the right direction because this qu…
/r/askTRP31/05/21 03:57 PM
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You've got your trusted safety net and some other groups divided or? Yeah thats everyone. Your social groups are all like that. You have people you have known a while that you can call and trust, you got the "lets go out and get f*cked up" group, the group that likes to try diffrent things. Not everyone is going to confide to you and vise versa. Especially as you get older, the groups naturally shrink as work and other responsibilities get in the way. As for "using RP" in groups, you have to be …
/r/askTRP31/05/21 03:55 PM
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Focusing on your physique is a great start. As for your personality, open up more. You obviously get positive responses for your sense of humor . . . you know when you actually start talking. I've been there. Don't be afraid to say things. Try practicing just talking to people more and joking around. One classic trick is to look up some old Cary Grant movies, this guy was like the original smooth James Bond. He was a part of a lot of classic stuff, but the way he goes about his interactions migh…
/r/askTRP31/05/21 03:50 PM
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Part of it is natural and part of it is ego. When I first started to have plates, I went through this too. When you get good at it, you're not 'attached' anymore in the sense of being a "latch onto anything that talks to you" simp. You now start to get attached instead because you start to think you're hot shit and that no girl would dare leave someone that is hot shit. "Im a bad MF RP'd dude. Chicks need me, not the other way around." The ego inflation is ironically BP. It's part of the balanci…
/r/askTRP31/05/21 03:45 PM
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It's a shame a lot of good content just whizzed over the head of a lot of readers that only took from this "wow this is dumb, gay game is for gay sub-reddits bro, we bang chicks here man." Read it again. He's bisexual and does a great job correlating a lot of the masculine/feminine dynamics that are required in these interactions. This dichotomy exists regardless of what sexes are involved. A lot of this write-up does a great job allowing a guy to see "the other side" perspective on why their ga…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/21 05:23 AM
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Solid write up. I wouldn't take it personally as my default joke to my self is it was probably some dude with a massive BBC. I've been decent at keeping plates around so those kinds of thoughts were never coming from a place of self deprecation, but just a passing joke before deleting the number. When you consider how social norms work with how guys are the approach-ers, and girls are the ones getting approached, it just made sense. I never thought girls ghosted to stick it to you, but rather sh…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/21 01:03 AM
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The great irony is that anyone who reads the side bar and Rational Male material instantly feel a hatred that we stress not to hold onto. This becomes easier to get rid of as you interact with women and develop a more foundational understanding of WHY they are the way they are. Its like anything. If your car doesn't work, you hate it. But when you learn the intricacies of the engine and how it functions, you know WHY there is a problem and how to fix it. All of a sudden cars are much cooler and …
/r/TheRedPill25/04/21 09:55 PM
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Couple of things that will be food for thought. --- You went to a swingers club to pick this girl up? I can't imagine the amount of times she has been dicked down. Why is that important? Orgasm is like any other high we chase. Maybe when she was 18-22 she could get off to basic missionary. As we get older and add a lot of experience, we get tired of the same old stuff, so we explore more fetishes, tools, ect to seek a better "high." At 30, you can't do the same things to her that she has been us…
/r/askTRP25/04/21 12:23 PM
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Youtube some clips of Cary Grant. That man was the original red pill. The fact that for that era it worked so well shows you how timeless and congruent across generations the ideas at these forums are. Maintain a deep but calm and gentle voice. You're only an ass if you're loud. Vocal tonality can convey how you want to be viewed. Keeping it deep draws attention because we associate deep voices with leadership and importance. The difference is being calm and relaxed with it conveys you are simpl…
/r/askTRP25/04/21 12:10 PM
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As much as we want to throw around accusations of future cat ownership and solitude misery, as long as a woman can provide for herself financially and isn't some kind of emotional train wreck, she can get along quite nicely with a rotating set of young men, eager to drop on by, pump and dump, and everyone moves on with their lives. I see this a lot and its infuriating. Its a massive cope for guys who checked-out of the game, went MGTOW, and started patting themselves on the back as if they can't…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/21 01:31 PM
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Solid write up and I hope it gets pinned up at the top of the forum because it is needed. I think a lot of new comers read the sidebar and get overwhelmed by the dramatic shift of what they are reading vs. how they thought the world worked. The end result will look familiar to anyone who has been here or askTRP: People with a warped sense of reality, blaming everything on "AWALT" without knowing what is going on, using the lingo of the place flippantly. Once they have absorbed the reading materi…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/21 01:04 PM
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It is because these men marry their vision with action. The take home message. One of the greatest issues with TRP are men not going out and actually hitting on women. Ironically enough, this isn't just a "getting laid" problem as it is more of an over encompassing issue that explains their lives in a nutshell. You can connect a LOT of reasons to why men struggle as a whole simply to inaction. Our brains are geared to conserve energy, which is why when we have ideas or want to do things, we tend…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/21 05:46 PM
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Its no problem. The biggest mentor is "experience." Actually "doing" it and screwing up. You ALWAYS learn when you actually live out the moment of something. I always tell people its like learning to drive. You can read the manual and ask around about tips and tricks, but the reality is none of that stuff means jack crap when you're behind the wheel. That's when you are getting REAL feedback at how good you are at judging how much pressure to put on the pedal, the feel for spacial awareness in a…
/r/askTRP17/03/21 05:56 PM
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No, that would be worse. She changed her mind about you. Find other girls, this is actually a very important part of the process. Being able to get used to talking to other girls. If you latch onto the one girl you talk to every time, you will get comfortable with only her, build one-itis, and you won't refine your social skills when talking to other women. Its like anything in life. You get good at the things you practice over and over. Women become less scary to talk to, and you get your mind …
/r/askTRP13/03/21 02:26 AM
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That's fair
/r/askTRP12/03/21 04:12 PM
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Weird, hasn't failed me yet. Lol do you think its too much
/r/askTRP12/03/21 03:59 PM
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I have actually been toying with this but I tend to forget to do it. Journaling I think helps you see how well you are doing in the actual moment. If you write down your day and it comes of bland or unproductive, that helps light a fire under your rear. "Wow, all I did today was watch youtube and lift. How am I going to get my personal training career on its way with this level of unproductivity." It can help discourage you from taking it too easy. I think it is also a good way to look back at f…
/r/askTRP12/03/21 03:02 PM
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Move on. You're lucky she was transparent and said that. Believe it or not, there are literally billions of girls on the planet.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 02:57 PM
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"Relax, have fun, some friends just got back to me to hang out later so its all good." Give her a week, if she texts back you're good. Otherwise soft next. Some points to note here: - She has friends, why is that a problem? Is your ego so fragile that you NEED to be #1 in every girl's life? - She is offering to reschedule and hang out with you if things dont go as planned, she didn't have to say that. One plate I had, I could read her interest level by text. When I planned a day and time, she ot…
/r/askTRP12/03/21 02:54 PM
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It's sad this kind of post has to come up every couple of months or years. No one understands the magnitude of the shift in thinking required to understand this place. Focus on you, improve you, get good at getting girls. If your friends ask how you do it, you let it slip out in INCREMENTS! Nobody wants to hear about some "forum where guys talk about how to get sex." That's absolutely stupid. If there interest is not peaked on their own, you can't explain this place to them. It needs an open min…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/21 02:44 PM
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We live in the information age where these new BP's should be grateful they can access this information. Do you know how expensive learning this stuff "the hard way" is? Just look into the average cost of divorce on the guy's part. Oh no, everything I ever learned is wrong and I don't know what to do about it other than to freak out on askTRP. Growing up, my dad used to tell me: "Don't panic. You can waste time panicking, crying over spilled milk, or you can use that time to assess the situation…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/21 02:46 PM
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That's solid. Don't take any of my questions personally, I am just going down some of my usual suspect red flags with most people that post on here. You sound like you have a level head on most of this, but I understand it feels good to get approval from outsiders not emotionally invested in the situation
/r/askTRP26/02/21 09:46 PM
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You did fine. A lot of guys forget to keep this up after an LTR is formed
/r/askTRP26/02/21 05:42 PM
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The question was more rhetorical, I expected you to know which was better. I also asked about moving fast because you made no mention of how long you have been seeing her. I notice the pandemic as spurred a large question focus on more LTR-related topics here. I know for a lot of guys that does not bold well. My goal has been to encourage guys to look for more women if possible, because most guys are down to one girl anyway. If I were in your shoes, I would first start by assessing if you even h…
/r/askTRP26/02/21 05:40 PM
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Ignore the "trend" itself. Somewhere rooted "within" it are the things that drive girls wild. Its young and mildly transgressive. It's flirtatious. Its "dark and mysterious." I bet he barely says anything to them aside from snide sarcastic remarks. It all comes back to him "holding frame" and viewing himself as the prize still. Regardless of what you think of a lot of these "trends" or strange personalities/groups you see these guys adopt, it is never this trend itself. Its is ALWAYS, at its ROO…
/r/askTRP26/02/21 05:27 PM
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This is more ideal than a concern. Relationships mainly start to fall apart when guys "stop" doing the things girls initially found appealing. This means "taking charge" on your end better remain a 'habit' than just something you give yourself brownie points for doing because "TRP says it works." I will say don't let things like She also mentioned going on a cruise NEXT YEAR with her family and wanting to bring me, as her sister would likely bring her boyfriend. Girls can get away with this, but…
/r/askTRP26/02/21 05:22 PM
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Its only as desperate as you make it out to be. Regardless of if someone just saw a girl for 10 days straight, tell me, which of these two statements looks desperate: "Hey I miss you, that was a great road trip, lets get together." "Saw this awesome bar my friend recommended, lets go there tonight, 8pm." If you feel it is too soon and want to put some distance back, then wait. If you want to see her, go for it. Women come and go for whatever reason. It is not as simple as "well her 'we have seen…
/r/askTRP26/02/21 05:17 PM
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We're caught at interesting crossroads with philosophy, especially when discussing morals. It is some of the tremendous work of most philosophers that facilitates are ability to think beyond the surface about life, situations, and people. You look at life differently, you become more aware of things, you challenge things more. As you note, most philosophers try to find a consistent framework for their morals, and I think this is where things get interesting. It is sold as if by having a consiste…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/21 02:37 PM
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I wouldn't say there is an "agenda," but in trying to make the world a more fair place, this has been the end result.
/r/askTRP25/02/21 01:51 AM
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What does RP teach about work concerns? Nothing too over-arching. The big misconception about this place is that it's "another self-help/motivation" forum. It's not, or at least more as a tertiary concern. Everything in the sidebar is to explain that guys who hold frame, lift, ect, get girls and get laid along with the why. Its a section of reddit designed to help guys get laid and really thats it. People contribute assistance and advice, along with some help for these specific things, but beyon…
/r/askTRP22/02/21 02:42 AM
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The actual TRP forum has a great post on this and you should go over there and read it. Otherwise, first dates should be limited to coffee/drinks. When the time comes, if she wants to pay, you let her. If you end up paying, at least it was something cheap. Rule of thumb, don't be a sucker and plan some big dinner date within the first few meet ups, especially if you didn't get laid.
/r/askTRP20/02/21 03:05 AM
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We would need more details on the specific tasks requested of you. I find it concerning you didn't go into detail on the task specifically, and makes me wonder if the task is truly dangerous or you're simply afraid of the criticism you will receive here. If the task has a realistic "multi-task" component that most people on the job handle and you're just scared, the onus is on you to improve. If they are demanding more risky behavior of you and essentially throwing you to the wolves, especially …
/r/askTRP20/02/21 03:03 AM
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I get so sick of the "no one texts me to hang out or invites me to things, I have fake friends" bull crap! The reason I get invited to things and have plenty of good things is because I make the effort to reach out to others and invite THEM to things first. We live in such a "take" mentality after college and just assume people will get in touch with US first. They act like its the end of the world if no one is texting or contacting them. How about giving "value" and "worth" instead of praying o…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/21 08:02 PM
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Yeah man. I meant to add in some hacks but felt I had already thrown out a lot. I would say to make things easier, first focus on body language. Imagine a string attached to the top of your head propping you up, work to achieve that functional erect posture. That is what conveys confidence at a subconscious level. It does two wonderful things: first women are more likely to notice you because this body language stands out compared to all more common and insecure body language of being slouched o…
/r/askTRP18/02/21 04:11 PM
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I still have trouble actually initiating. I have the knowledge but I feel so helpless when it comes to actually doing something with it. I’m not the most social person This is literally everyone when it comes to hitting on girls at first. To understand why, you need to realize how our brains works. We adapt to doing things and going through experiences. After the first couple of times through an experience, you start to understand how things work and "what to do better next time." While you get …
/r/askTRP18/02/21 02:07 PM
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"There is no physical evidence to say that today is Thursday, we all just have to trust that someone has kept count since the first one ever." It's from a showerthoughts thread, but I keep nonsense like this in the back pocket of my brain when these kind of questions arrive. "Ask a stupid question, get a stupid answer" should be the theme when she does this to you going forward. Just have fun with it. The game of dating a girl should be "how little about myself can I tell her over a prolonged pe…
/r/askTRP18/02/21 01:48 PM
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... I am sure you did. Maybe start with a more believable lie next time. The guy is contributing an interesting hack and rather than looking into its benefits, everyone's first response is "omg lol that is so weird, that will never work." Its not like he is saying "remove all the furniture in your apartment so she has to lie down on the floor right next to you." It's a way of her just looking for the closest thing to sit on, which is a couch. Something you both can sit on and comes off completel…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/21 09:00 PM
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I would say that rule is reserved for LTR's. Plates are just plates. Its not like she is stopping you from seeing other women, right?
/r/askTRP17/02/21 07:50 PM
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The finances of moving to a big city sucks. Live close enough, and then have a hotel ready if you plan to bring a girl back. She doesn't have to know you live 30-45 mins away, you could be "in on vacation." That said, the "grass is always greener on the other side" and you will get tired of it . . . I personally noticed this living not too far from NYC. When you first visit NYC, your mind hyper-focuses on the towering buildings that block out the sky, the lights, the noise, the overall "energy" …
/r/askTRP17/02/21 07:47 PM
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"Ghosting is for cowards" is something only people with low SMV that get ghosted say. Its just the way things are today. You can complain about it, but all that crying doesnt bring these people back from the dead. If she gave you a lot of shit, and ghosting was easier than going back to that horrendous amalgamation of complications, then who cares.
/r/askTRP17/02/21 07:34 PM
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If this is a real interest of yours, go for it. Work hard, study, date, really go balls to the wall. You'll be shocked at how much learning you will undergo throughout this. I think its a great thing to go after, especially now more than ever. I would just temper expectstions if you think you will be good at it by only 17. There is a LOT of hard work you will have to go through first. Yes being a 17 year old coach won't do much at first. People will naturally not take you seriously. I couldn't e…
/r/askTRP17/02/21 07:13 PM
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Monk mode it. Write up a list of things that actually make your happy. Maybe its hobbies like certain sports, archery, hiking, reading, whatever. Make an effort to incorporate those things into your day. Look at any goals you have. Do you want to do anything with the lifting you do? Be a personal trainer? Is there a job you want to go into, buisness plan you have, or do you just want to buy up houses and rent to people? Go deep inside and think about what you want out of life. Imagine for one se…
/r/askTRP17/02/21 07:05 PM
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People love to be together and have fun at events and get togethers. To start, when you talk to people, you want to ask them about themselves. People naturally hold conversations better with you when you take an interest in them. "What do you want to do with your life? What hobbies or things do you do on your off time?" Ask them questions that make them talk about themselves. They will naturally feel more comfortable around you. Try to bring people together also. People love knowing there is som…
/r/askTRP17/02/21 07:01 PM
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You'll hear the same old "society tricked you" crap on here, but the reality is there is more to it. To get people to like us, we adapted to the fact at a young age that we just need to be nice to people. Our parents taught us to be nice, and we made friends with people and maintained those relationships by being nice. When we wanted to get something from someone, being nice to them removed most of the obstacles that would come between us to get what we wanted. Unfortunately we tend to just assu…
/r/askTRP17/02/21 06:55 PM
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The fact that you acted and did the things you did was great. Keep this up. See where it goes with her, but don't stress her. Do this more. Guys are bad at talking to girls because they don't talk to girls. Our minds are designed to adapt to the things we put them through. Think of something you are a natural at, and think about the journey you took to become a natural at it. The most relatable one I come across is thinking about the first time you got in a car and drove it vs now. You probably …
/r/askTRP17/02/21 06:49 PM
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I overheard other guys said that they would have knocked her out Are you really going to let some fake tough guys make you rethink your response? No, they WOULDN'T have decked her. No one would have. If you laughed it off and played off how crazy of a response that was, that's all you need. You're SMV didn't tank. Also, because I no this is typically the bigger concern: No other girls at that bar are thinking "I can't believe he didn't deck her, my pussy is so dry right now from how he handled t…
/r/askTRP17/02/21 06:42 PM
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The responses you are getting make me concerned for the future of this place. Most people who lurk this forum aren't actually going out and hitting on girls or getting laid. If they were, you wouldn't get such awkward and inexperienced opposition to these points. Solid list. Don't let the recent incel wave of skeptics who just found this place convince you that you're the crazy one.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/21 06:37 PM
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THIS is the difference between "do'ers" and "sidebar/TRP Forum lurkers." One goes out and actually gets laid realizing certain props are in the way. He then brings back information to contribute to the forum. The other just assumes doing anything outside of the norm is a risk and the "girl will think I am a weirdo." It is the "do'ers" that built the foundation of this place and contribute. They are why we have these "ah-ha" moments and help us understand why "doing things the NoRmAl way without …
/r/TheRedPill17/02/21 06:34 PM
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Right, they will. That's fine, keep on joking until they drop it. They need to 'earn' the deeper you, and the serious deep you shouldn't be so easily revealed when pressured on something as innocuous as "how good at you at picking up tinder chicks." Most men reveal too much right out of the gate. We have an innate need to put them at ease in order to earn their trust and prove we're not the creeps they see online. Unfortunately in doing so, you also risk being too transparent, and of course bori…
/r/askTRP15/02/21 06:30 PM
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CSD isn't monotone, so if you think you sound "boring" I would go on YT and check out guys who actually talk like this and understand what they do right. It is also about context, like what you are saying and when. I save stressing it more during actual making out and actual sex. During normal conversation, unless you are naturally more bass/deep voice, dont try to have conversations in this state. Its just weird at that point, especially if you can't naturally adjust voice pitch and you sound m…
/r/askTRP15/02/21 03:37 PM
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She's texting me "I love you, we have a good connection", "I've been thinking about you" 3 am texts etc. followed by I decided to demote her to plate until then. I want you to read the above over, and over, and over again until it sinks in how stupid this all sounds. Really let it sink in. Why do you want to put yourself through this nonsense. Grow a pair and move on. She's not a plate, she's someone who needs to understand "it is over." The ONLY time, and I truly understand this is one of those…
/r/askTRP15/02/21 03:33 PM
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Have him look over videos of women and other people's responses on youtube, or even articles, to these "revenge" tendencies by ex's. Let it sink in to him how pathetic and lame he looks planning the things he does. He needs to see the aftermath through someone else's lens to really digest how embarrassing his actions are. If he's too far gone from that, he will need to seek professional help, which is another monster in itself as HE needs to want to go to a professional. Only so much bread crumb…
/r/askTRP15/02/21 03:28 PM
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There is no "age" to it, just experience. Mine was 25, but that was also a period when I had a lot of plates and access to women from college parties. It was a combination of things that put me in a situation where I had a lot of girls around me, and naturally adapted from the constant experience. Most guys will get this in college, some guys might not get this until late 20's when they are more situated and have time to throw themselves into the lion's den of women. Hell most guys spend their e…
/r/askTRP15/02/21 03:26 PM
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If you feel you are being shit-tested, then respond with nonsense. Don't overthink or analyze the situation. "I don't know, I get a lot of success, but I think they are bots because they keep trying to give me special offers on some clothing line and bars of soap." It's not about coming up with the wittiest or funniest line. It's about coming up with a line that is just ridiculous and doesn't take the question seriously. This type of thinking will help you stop taking these scenarios where you t…
/r/askTRP15/02/21 03:21 PM
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If a 8/10 girl walked up to you right now and was down to go at it in this moment, you wouldn't care about this neighbor for a second. We like to imagine when we meet someone that we become the apple of their eye, and nothing could interfere with that. It's some weird ego trip where we imagine no other guy could ever come between the level of attraction she feels for you. Reality hits like a ton of bricks though, and you experienced reality hitting the side of your wall via her bed. Its nothing …
/r/askTRP15/02/21 03:09 PM
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Reminds me of a night back in college when I went out with a bunch of friends in Vegas. There was a mix of girls in our group too. One of them got hit on by this total chad, cool dude to everyone, and they were gone within 10 minutes. She comes back down from her room at the hotel to regroup with us 20 minutes later. She kept complaining about how it all went down so fast and how much "he sucked" because he finished and never finished her, just got up and left the room. Me and a buddy burst out …
/r/TheRedPill13/02/21 11:30 AM
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You'll get a lot of heat for this but you're not wrong. If you're looking for an ONS that you don't plan to call back, yeah just finish. If its a plate or LTR, that's different and there should be a growing expansion of the things you can do with them.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/21 04:39 PM
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Thank you for your life hacks TedTalk. I actually like this one a lot
/r/TheRedPill12/02/21 04:27 PM
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The best teacher for you will simply be the actual constant acts of sex. You will naturally begin to mentally log what turns a girl on and what gets her to cum. Advice will be hard to give as you seem to have a good understanding of what you have read based on the actions you have taken. No amount of advice you read will ever compare to actually just having sex and having some screw ups along the way. Remember some of the greatest chads before 2013 didn't have TRP to help them understand why wha…
/r/askTRP09/02/21 09:12 AM
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Thanks, lol that's actually not the first time I made that mistake, but oh well, the overall message should hit and that's the goal.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 12:27 AM
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You did great and for the most part a natural. It is only "weird" to you because you just started down this path. You will see in college that these "weird" moments become non-existent. She will only be as "weird" about it as you are so you did a good job playing it off like "meh whatever, we knew this wouldn't end with a movie." I will say this, DONT use emoji's, especially ending the "im sure it won't" with a winky face one . . . I would say don't over think it. Obviously the elephant in the r…
/r/askTRP08/02/21 09:59 PM
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1.) I want you to go on youtube and watch videos of people who are made fun of for getting "angry" when messed with or picked on. Why? I want you to ingrain a pride in NOT being that guy through uncomfortable reinforcement. This is why becoming stolid is very important. You become less reactional by practicing becoming less easily agitated. It's like a muscle you develop with time. Manson's "How to stop giving a f*ck" is an EXCELLENT book that really dives in on why its stupid to care about ever…
/r/askTRP08/02/21 09:49 PM
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Too many factors. His genes, his diet, is workout regimen, is he on gear, too many parts of the equation. We are not all created equal, which is why most of us have to work harder than others to get to the goal. Don't beat yourself up over, you take pride in the fact that you adapt to being a driven and hard worker
/r/askTRP08/02/21 09:32 PM
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Dance around it and go back to your original tease. "Listen you gotta fix the lighting, I don't see shit."
/r/askTRP08/02/21 09:30 PM
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This is so broad, the bigger problem is we have no understanding of you or your game. You can't just say "young women are challenging, what am I doing wrong and what do you guys do in my shoes" if we don't actually know what you "do" to begin with
/r/askTRP08/02/21 09:28 PM
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Well I don't have the strongest take on "daddy" and "daddy issue" girls. In bed I will work a taking control angle, but I rarely feed into the whole "call me daddy" thing. It's just not me, and I think if I were to pretend I can go along with it, she would read how uncomfortable I am and how unnatural it would go. I am not playing with fire if I don't have to, I know what my strengths are when it comes to girls. I think the whole dad thing goes back to the idea that she innately wants to be arou…
/r/askTRP05/02/21 06:24 AM
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Don't over think things. You are doing well already by the sounds of things. What I present is nothing more then an "understanding" of why you're doing well. You like my comments because I provide insight into "why" what you are doing is working and why you are on the right path. I don't know enough about you to critique you beyond that, but who cares, I also don't think there is much more I could offer you that the sidebar hasn't already. Keep "doing" you. The biggest problem I have with this c…
/r/askTRP05/02/21 01:22 AM
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Well I wanted to give an alternative explanation for why they are easier rather than just the age thing. As for your main question, remember that we are innately attracted to young, submissive "girly" type women. Adversely so, women are naturally attracted to the more strong, domineering energy of men. This is why gender roles are important. Most guys who are considered attractive that are in their teens into their young 20's tend to look more like they are in pop band. The baby face types. Thin…
/r/askTRP05/02/21 12:30 AM
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I don't think the "women just like older men" trope is true on just its face. You're referencing a hyper-specific age group that is sexually experimenting (18-20 y/o). Think of it like this: Sex is supposed to be a taboo subject at a young age. Once women lose their virginity in high school, they want to keep experimenting. The main drivers of this are: It IS a taboo subject so it's naturally exciting. They barely have any experience so it's new and fun. Sex in general is an exhilarating experie…
/r/askTRP04/02/21 10:30 PM
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Yeah man its natural. As you become more aware of social dynamics and "power," you realize how it can be played out at a subconscious level. When you take in new information, you're naturally more prone to going to the extremes to make sure you're doing it right. Its like how the first time you drive, you might floor it on the gas pedal before you actually start adapting to a balance and the appropriate amount of pressure to place. That said, I wouldn't go too crazy with this. You will get a gut…
/r/askTRP03/02/21 12:18 AM
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What? Oh yeah someone takes my parking space I just pour gas on it. Someone takes my seat I just light them on fire. Stop worrying about stupid shit to be "concerned with" incase they are "challenging my masculinity." If someone cuts in line, you get back in front of them. Invading my personal space? I just make a funny, but mildly scathing comment that makes them feel uncomfortable and calls them out, but at least there is a joke in there so I don't come off as a raging controlling lunatic like…
/r/askTRP02/02/21 01:47 PM
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Its not about being late, it's about her shit testing you and you failing miserably about "oh babe, really I try not to be late." You flip it on her. "Sorry, had to clean the ole dragon. Sorry, got distracted by these beautiful women walking down the street. Sorry, I thought you meant 8pm mountain time." A million different playful banter responses, or even A&A. Also, don't EVER pour your drama out into public. Even worse, you did it in a "passive aggressive" way by making a poll. Oh you guys ha…
/r/askTRP02/02/21 01:43 PM
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Women are just as likely, if not more likely to respond to a guys ability to hold frame, demonstrate confidence, and being a man of action. I have plenty of friends that get laid that can maybe pass as a 6. You could physically be a 10/10, but be an awkward fuck and then what? All physical appearance does is makes her notice you, that's it. Plenty of good looking guys make a girl dry up fast than a desert because they don't have game or a personality in general. It's everything after she notices…
/r/askTRP02/02/21 01:39 PM
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Maybe its drawn out here, but its a simple matter of looking at something to joke about in order to give plausible deniability to the re-connection. Everyone on here can post "dude bro just say hi." The irony is this is the exact response that a girl won't respond to because every guy in her phone is also giving it. You need to give her something to work with or you're just wasting her time
/r/askTRP02/02/21 01:34 PM
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Totally normal, its called dating. When you date, you SHOULD be talking to multiple women, and going on multiple dates. Thats how you confirm if there is a specific one you want to LTR with. Rule of thumb is if its not officially an LTR, you guys can keep talking to who ever you want. You're young, go back to the sidebar, and read up on plates. Honestly, plate spinning is the best thing for the younger guys. It gives you a chance to see why women appreciate variability
/r/askTRP02/02/21 01:31 PM
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Your brain is geared to adapt to "patterns" and stores "constants" or statements/ideas it will deem to be true forever. Our brains are not geared to adapting constantly to new information that challenges old information. Its too energy-consuming on the brain to worry about challenges to ideas it believes are constant truths. For example, if a news report came out saying 2+2=5, your mental stress would go through the roof. This is why it is such a challenge to change bad habits, and understand ne…
/r/askTRP02/02/21 01:26 PM
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Rule of thumb is to actually AVOID doing this as it could appear strange/desperate. Your best move would be to act like you just dealt with something that reminded you of her from some relatable, inside-joke kind of way. I did this once with a girl when I got a new job and went to an orientation. There actually was a girl there that looked like her, so I naturally opened up a playful text conversation about "what are you doing at my new job's orientation" and if she is "stalking me." Things like…
/r/askTRP01/02/21 06:37 PM
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These terms are not new, nor did TRP coin them. These concepts have been going on for a while. I would even argue the original founders of TRP borrowed these concepts as well since TRP started around 2013. These concepts of "alpha/beta, neg, ect" along with the self-help aspects of searching for a purpose are all things that have been around since the "pick up artist" communities took off in the early to mid 2000's. People from RSD and guys like "Mystery" brought a lot of these concepts to the "…
/r/askTRP01/02/21 06:31 PM
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Yeah man we have all been there, but one of the toughest pills to swallow is the "She's not yours, it's just your turn" trope. You not being there to keep texting her won't change the fact that she will be hit on by other guys regardless of if you're healthy or in surgery. Unlike us, societal norms have allowed women to grow so accustomed to being the sex that is hit on that they freely entertain their options. We have to actually be the overt sex that hits on women, risking rejection, which is …
/r/askTRP01/02/21 01:10 PM
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Classic "I need to keep interacting with them or they will leave me" thought process trap. If you're afraid of your plates leaving you, you will always be prone to one-itis. Go cold turkey for a few weeks, who cares. This may even help them reset a little bit and develop more attraction. The mystery of you being gone or too busy for them will get their hamster upstairs running. Worst case you have to go hunting again. Who cares, plates always come and go. You can NEVER be afraid of plates breaki…
/r/askTRP01/02/21 01:24 AM
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Yeah its always a risk in the process. Obviously we spin plates because if you are banging multiple girls, its hard to invest in just one and "ideally" helps avoid oneitis. I would assess more into why you "feel bad" banging some random tinder date. On one hand you tell us you don't want an LTR, yet you "care" too much that it affects your ability to find new plates. Explore that more so you can come to what you really want. Even if it turns LTR-ish, there are no laws that state you can't break …
/r/askTRP01/02/21 01:21 AM
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Between TRP and personal experience, I stopped caring about their relationship status and respond more to their actions. If a girl is hitting on me back and there is something to work with, I'll go after her regardless if relationship status. Why? Because a girl who is willing to cheat on her BF is going to cheat on her BF. Simply put if you don't bang her, the next guy will. Its not too common that girls who cheat need a 10/10 chad to do it. They are bored of their BF and want something differe…
/r/askTRP01/02/21 01:15 AM
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Everyone has different focuses and interests spending time on politics, tribal support of a sports team, in a band, art. The first bit of essential information is to cut back on this crap. Social media will create non-existent boogymen regardless of your political beliefs, sports team, ect. We literally follow that crap like women follow "novellas" and other mood-swing inducing non-sense. The best piece of advice is to focus on yourself and life experiences. My favorite content to go back to is …
/r/askTRP23/01/21 06:59 PM
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The problem with this community is everyone responds to these kinds of questions with a brief, mundane, 5 word answer that you could copy and paste from the side bar. The purpose of this specific "ask" TRP sub is we assume the OP read the side bar and is still lost, or wants to seek out additional supporting answers on a specific topic. If you don't actually break it down further with analogies, examples, and additional relatable concepts, you're just wasting OP's time.
/r/askTRP17/01/21 10:52 PM
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You're insecure you will come off inauthentic, but that comes with the territory. Stop thinking about being inauthentic. You know what is inauthentic? Pretending there is a way you can talk to girls and covertly get in their pants. Just talk to girls and put together a fun persona. If you are not this, be it. Be more positive, let go, stop caring. Actually, if you can even still find video on these guys, Tyler/Owen from RSD as "infield" footage you can probably find on youtube where he basically…
/r/askTRP17/01/21 09:59 PM
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You are self-aware so this is good. Understanding TRP is challenging in that we learn certain aspects of the theory, and attempt to overshoot or overcompensate in order to meet the material. Like a guy who feels like now he needs to be "alpha" so he just starts punching everyone he meets in the face to establish dominance and prove he's "no bitch." Yes you're pushing, and the problem with this is it comes off unnatural. Your responses are very out of place, and warrant being blocked. You are cle…
/r/askTRP17/01/21 09:38 PM
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I've noticed an interesting dynamic with girls that is similar to the problems we face. We use the term "beta" very freely to describe when a guy is not acting "masculine." We talk about feminine behavior like talking with a high pitched voice and question-mark up-slip vs a deeper voice with a level ending to your speak. We talk about how men are decisive, not malleable and too agreeable. They have confidence and leadership capabilities, they hold frame, they don't get emotional. We notice when …
/r/askTRP17/01/21 09:23 PM
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I hate that you want to start with the negatives, because this already tells me a bit about where your pitfalls are. I would say some of my big turn offs when it comes to people are people who talk too much/dominate the conversation. This one is big because there are plenty of studies out there that show people enjoy a conversation more when someone is fundamentally listening to them rather than them having to listen. I wish I could remember the one main study I am thinking about, but in a nutsh…
/r/askTRP17/01/21 09:14 PM
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Thanks. Yes the number one problem with most guys who connect with this community is they are brought here because they are not getting laid. We glorify sex, so we assume we are faulty if we are not getting a lot. Its funny after going through a few girls, it goes from this desperate mission to just something you do for fun. After a couple of lays, you really start to appreciate life as a whole, because you are more focused on what is actually important. The reality is having sex doesn't give yo…
/r/askTRP16/01/21 09:37 PM
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Yup, this, perfect summary to my over the top explanation lmao
/r/askTRP16/01/21 09:25 PM
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I feel like her being mad about that kinda works in my favor too in terms of keeping her attraction up, so maybe I just play into that a little more? THIS type of dangerous thinking is why you need to stop talking to her and actually go out and be single. People don't "stay" attracted to each other. If you have read any previous responses I have given, my favorite analogy on this is when you think about stuff you "like" or is your "favorite" of something. Lets say your favorite food is steak. If…
/r/askTRP16/01/21 09:24 PM
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Yeah man, I didn't want to be too harsh, but I have lived out your scenario in college a couple of times, and it really took a dose of reality, and of course a hard-to-swallow Red Pill. That is the point behind this place. We call it the Red Pill because it is not an easily digestible reality, we need to understand this or all we continue to be left with are moments of confusion like this.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 09:00 PM
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Most people think monk mode literally means to just be a hemit and talk to no one while you 180 your diet and lifting habits. Monk mode means to make sure you diet, workout habits, and understanding of TRP come first. If you need to go to the gym at 5pm on Friday, but thats when you have to hang out with your friends, the gym then comes first. If you are invited to a party, you drink the bare minimum if you are focus on getting abs. Use your free time on TRP reading material, slowly finding ways…
/r/askTRP16/01/21 03:11 AM
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I've been here before. You need to make an ultimate decision, because you are beating around the bush. I would say move on. This isnt fair to either of you. I think you need to go out and hit on girls, have fun, actually experience that life that you only dream about while reading the sidebar material. You are treating each other like backup plans. She doesn't want an LTR with you because of the distance and potential options. Her thinking is "I haven't found new guys yet and he's still fun at l…
/r/askTRP16/01/21 03:08 AM
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I personally think it becomes inevitable depending on the girl, but yes. If you stop holding frame, compromising and small things, and overall show beta-like signs, her innate response is what you listed. Its just nature, all happening at a subconscious level. So she is not "intentionally" fighting you back and being less submissive because of frame loss, its just a subconscious process. Think about the innate ways in which you behave around people you are above in your circles, vs the leaders i…
/r/askTRP16/01/21 02:53 AM
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There's a couple of things to touch on here I want to address He’s a huge player who’s into the whole “hit and quit” lifestyle, so I assumed they were done. Weirdly, she started pulling away and getting distant with me. I was confused because I hadn’t done anything wrong(I maintained frame etc). So he's a high SMV chad who you think just bars girls from his life after the first hit. The idea that a guy just kicks girls to the side is more something out of movies or these fantasy tales. If a girl…
/r/askTRP16/01/21 02:48 AM
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Girls have it much easier now than in the past. Tinder brings guys right to their door step, and because their is such a large pool of desperate losers, she doesn't have to put "the work" in anymore to stay in shape. This is also why guys are worse off today, less in shape, still digesting BP beliefs. Its just an all around shit show.
/r/askTRP10/01/21 03:56 PM
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You guys were never in an official LTR which means it's free game, I never understand how this just goes over most guys heads. She's feeling things out with multiple dates because THATS WHAT YOU'RE SUPPOSED TO DO. This is why we say talk to multiple girls. If you were car shopping, would you just buy the first car you test drove, or would you make a concentrated effort to go through all the cars to make sure the specific one is for you? Dating is the same. This was months ago when I should've st…
/r/askTRP10/01/21 01:56 PM
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What a waste of a post. We need DETAILS, otherwise you come off as a whiney girl looking to be consoled because the cool kids didn't want you at their party. Start with explaining your work place dynamics. Are you even friends with, or do you even talk to your co-workers? Are you new and barely have any connections with them? We need details
/r/askTRP10/01/21 01:43 PM
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Put together some functional habits. First thing I do is make my bed, clean room, then do my exercise routine. I wake up early enough to fit that all in before work. Eat clean, read, I mean you have most of it down. As for LTR's and AWALT, I just start reading about diverse rapes and the statistics that back them
/r/askTRP10/01/21 01:41 PM
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Choking, man that one is up there with like every regardless if I have been with a freak or the quiet book worm type, and it looks way better if you initiate it in bed before she pulls your hand and shoves it on her throat. Ironically a more violent nature in bed is a massive turn on, but do it within reasonable bounds.
/r/askTRP10/01/21 01:38 PM
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I don't know how many times this needs to be said if not read in the sidebar, but TRP is not "moral." My go to response is "yeah thats fine, lets see where this goes." This is a classic line by girls. In all honesty guys get nervous if they are not in a relationship mentality, but the reality is you DONT KNOW THIS GIRL. Why is that important? You need to go on some dates with her and even see if you two would connect. So this isn't a lie you are telling her. Who is she to think you guys will "ju…
/r/askTRP10/01/21 01:37 PM
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Well what is the root concern? It's that if you are not the tallest person, you're no longer cool? Hit on girls, go on some dates. This is the quickest way to get rid of most insecurities. This is because you may ultimately be afraid you are not tall enough to date girls. Once you break that weird insecurity, your brain starts to back off those feelings because girls are going out on dates with you and interacting with you.
/r/askTRP10/01/21 01:33 PM
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Would highly recommend David Goggin's new "Can't Hurt Me" book that covers this stuff well. You need to look at your goals, and remind yourself WHY you're doing what you are doing. This should help reinvigorate the energy. Snowball effects is good too: When you are bored, do something productive like clean your desk and it will snowball into other projects. Finally, limit obstacles, that is the biggest killer or productivity and staying the course. This one psychologist I was listening to talk a…
/r/askTRP10/01/21 01:31 PM
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Because men are championed for high N count, they wear it like a badge of honor. By 30, you won't care about your count. Its more an insecure college/late 20's thing where you feel like you will be checked by some other guy about if "you even f*ck bro" crap. As for women, having sex is just having sex. They don't care, and even the stigma of a high N count isn't that big a deal. I think you're trying to establish a correlation that isn't that analogous to be honest. We look at sex as this "aweso…
/r/askTRP10/01/21 01:25 PM
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Just from a "learn from your errors" stand point. I don't really care about past screw ups, and I really need to think back when people ask me about brutal rejections. I honestly think back to them with laughter. I still remember a time in college when I was talking to this girl, got her number, invited to some frat party I went to. Her friends wanted to leave early and I went for a make out and she gave me a brutal side head duck as she walked past me. Most guys would have shrunk after that, me…
/r/askTRP10/01/21 01:19 PM
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We honestly need to stop with this awkward "well her level 9 physical appearance may be too high based off the calculations for me to even be within 6.34 feet of her, but if I adjust my hair flap at a 32 degree angle, I can honestly increase my chances by 27% , what do you guys think" crap. Women respond to your confidence, personality, and ability to hold frame. Physical appearance is not the end all be all. We encourage exercise and dieting to improve your physical appearance yes, but that is …
/r/askTRP10/01/21 01:14 PM
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No problem. I think TRP has done a wonderful job developing the abstractions in the sidebar that help make sense of the realities guys deal with. I just think they could do a better job elaborating on things like this, so thats why I like to fill in the holes with these analogies.
/r/askTRP06/01/21 07:53 PM
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You are definitely overthinking this. I have two friends, one 5'5 and the other 5'7 that have probably banged at least around 20 girls last year combined. Women won't reject you for your height, if you are getting rejected it is because of your overall lack of confidence that permeates out into your body language and actions.
/r/askTRP06/01/21 06:07 PM
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Obviously it is. A classic one too. You could take multiple avenues. Just have fun with it, setup a joke three-some but have her send a pick so you can "grade" him if he's worth bringing along. Agree and amplify is basically spelled out. "Woah he's like the hottest prof I have ever seen, I bet he's hung like a horse." "His wife probably isn't even that tough, I bet you could take her if she caught you two in bed and got violent."
/r/askTRP06/01/21 06:05 PM
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Excellent question that I agree needs more explained on the side bar. I'll start with saying that first, there are no rules to an LTR truly. If I end up in an LTR, its not because I kept planning perfect dates and circling on the calendar when I would let my balls drop and just ask the question. LTR's should not be a planned moment. They should form organically as the time and connection between you two develops. Let her hint if that is the direction she wants to go, and slowly enter it with cal…
/r/askTRP06/01/21 05:58 PM
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If she is overweight and physically unattractive, yet acts as if most guys are not good enough for her and displays more "tom boy" like traits. Unfiltered in speech, open with the idea of being able to fart or burp around her LTR. These things are all poor signs of a woman who has significantly overinflated her worth with nothing to offer without realizing the repercussions. It's basically the opposite of the low SMV male. The more she tends to have more "tom boy," masculine traits in her, the l…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/21 05:37 PM
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Look into concept of "psychological space." They will be much closer than what is "socially acceptable" or "normal" between two people. They will find more excuses to be close enough to touch you. They will make it come off as something harmless or innocuous. I work in healthcare, so I will have patients or my tech who was like this. Jokingly physically moving me out the way, looking over the schedule with me while being so close our arms are touching and holding that (more aloof or unaware guys…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/21 05:31 PM
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be attached to the work, not the results Golden! People don't realize their moment of pride in their accomplishments is always the journey, not the ephemeral high of attaining some reward.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/21 03:29 PM
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The lesson driven home to me was that women don't change. They just get older. Put that one in bold and on caps for the naive newer members who hope "the wall" is a chance for some easier lower quality hole. My job involves all sorts of women of varying ages and you can tell which ones have a higher N count by how they act around you, regardless of age.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/21 03:27 PM
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It's not what you know, it's who: I am working toward going back to grad school in a very competitive environment. Fortunately for me, there are big people in my field that helped me with advice and connections, all of which obliterated doors I was barely crow-baring down with my personal successes and accomplishments in the field. We all are suffering from a terminal disease called "being alive." You could die at any day, at any moment, or at some point from the general break down of the body. …
/r/TheRedPill06/01/21 03:23 PM
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Human behavior is not logical. We grow up with our subconscious minds fed continuous "constants" that our brain stores. These turn into deeply rooted beliefs. Despite how we act, we always default to these beliefs. If women grow up learning they are princesses and that guys just hit them up, and they have options, those are constants that become deeply rooted. Then she is fed the notion of the one true love who will keep her "feels" alive forever. The reality is we are all bound to screw up beca…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/20 05:02 PM
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Certain activities can draw betas by the numbers, but that doesn't mean guys involved in it are beta. Card games, video games, comic con's, these are all things where you will see a lot of them. That said, you can still attend or enjoy these activities/events. Its not the activity or the event, its about you.
/r/askTRP25/12/20 06:29 PM
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Don't overthink it. You have aspirations in digital marketing and are (at least it sounds this way) working on making strides to improve it. I would say to challenge yourself and see how to get there faster. Are there any goals you have with that? Where do you see yourself in 5-8 years <<--- Really reflect on this question, and answer in DETAIL. This will help give you clarity if you are staying busy in a functional way that will lead to what you actually want. Make sure you enjoy this process. …
/r/askTRP25/12/20 06:25 PM
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Don't worry about age. I am going back to a grad school program that half the people applying and getting in are like 30+ years old. Just know there is no perfect job. If it pays a lot, there is a reason. If you go blue collar trade school, that shit will hit your body hard down the line. If you go back to Uni, be careful of the tuition and debt you could go into.
/r/askTRP25/12/20 06:18 PM
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Its another form of shit testing. Of course it works, lol why do you think this community is so big? You remain unfazed by it when she brings it up, or joke about including him next time but only if he's hung like a horse.
/r/askTRP25/12/20 06:15 PM
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Its not about having them, its about controlling them.
/r/askTRP25/12/20 06:08 PM
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There's already a lot of good responses, but I want to also add body language. Look into that and it is eye opening. For example, if you are talking to someone, there is a good chance both of you are facing each other with your bodies. Imagine if midway through a conversation, this person turned their body away from you. You would feel off, like you lost their attention and even interest. This is all subconscious, and our brains are geared to pick up on this kind of stuff. This is why women will…
/r/askTRP25/12/20 12:19 AM
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Its good you want to improve and learn more skills, but pay attention to what is going on. This isn't something spurred by your natural interest in any of those skills, you are operating from HER frame and trying to find ways to IMPRESS her. That said, go out and learn those things if it is what YOU (NOT HER) want to do. Who cares if you don't know how to do any of that. Make a date to go out to a shooting range and just have fun together. Make a date night where you two try out a recipe on some…
/r/askTRP25/12/20 12:08 AM
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Monk mode isn't designed to make you a hermit. It simply means you set aside time to organize a diet, weight lifting routine, and work on your passions and goals. You use this time to lay out what you want in life and then attack that. Use tricks like thinking where you want to be 5-8 years from now. What kind of job, do you want to be manager, own your own company, have multiple side hustles? Then you organize your diet and sleep habits. Then you supplement that with lifting weights, or some fo…
/r/askTRP25/12/20 12:03 AM
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The point is that you can't negotiate desire. Harp in on that. His point is you can't "logically explain" to a girl why she should be into you. She other is or isn't, which are variables you can influence. Imagine if an male 8 walked up to a female 7, and he had to explain to her how good looking he is and lay out to her why she should sleep with him. Do you think this would work? No. Of course it would come off awkward and maladapaptive. People's behaviors are influenced by their feelings, rath…
/r/askTRP24/12/20 11:50 PM
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The main one was realizing how I look to the outside parties around me. Watch some videos of guys just going off and getting angry, and just internalize how pathetic they look. Acknowledge how they are laughed at instead of found to be intimidating. I also think of people who are so good at taking advantage of hot heads by using their emotions against them and to manipulate them. There is a reason coming off as a hot head is truly beta. Digest that as a way of negative reinforcement. Slow your b…
/r/askTRP24/12/20 11:45 PM
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You just forget them with time and as more partners or even LTR's come along. I couldnt even begin to tell you who my first oneitis was because of a combination of time and other women. Even the ones I remember, the sting is gone, so its more on par with remembering some old friend from like pre-school. This is why this community stresses plates and just going out and having fun with it.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 11:43 PM
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The wall is more a concept for single women in their 30's who have hit a point where they realize they are not as attractive as they were in their 20's. They continue searching for a guy to lock up, but reality has set in they need to get a guy quick before their physical appeal continues to wane. They realize they need to put in more work, or even *gasp* have to look into a lower SMV region. The reason your post comes off as more a cope than informative, is that all you did was realize women be…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/20 04:48 PM
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Golden write up! The key take away is to stop bitching about people not inviting you out, and that you need to be the one to cast the first invite or plan things out. We are naturally creatures of habit. If your habits have been of just sitting around in front of a computer waiting for someone to text you, you need to make serious changes. People are already committed to the friends they hang out with and talk to now not out of just some blind loyalty, but out of habit. If you make active attemp…
/r/TheRedPill24/12/20 04:37 PM
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SOLID write up. Been a while since I read something this insightful on what has been a slow year at TRP
/r/TheRedPill24/12/20 03:49 PM
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I get the angle you "wanted" to push, but you didn't achieve it. I can't tell if you genuinely don't know why your are wrong about mystery, or you tend to lose out to this type of guy and felt a need to write up an insecure post about it. First of all being "dark and mysterious" is completely different from being some introverted wall flower incel who goes to clubs and clutches his drink tightly against his chest without interacting hoping he looks cool. You cannot interchange these two, because…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/20 10:00 PM
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Whisper!
/r/TheRedPill12/12/20 12:19 AM
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Yup. Exactly my point too. Women have legitimate reasons to trust their gut when they think a guy is "being creepy."
/r/TheRedPill08/11/20 12:44 PM
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”don’t you think this is kinda creepy??!” then put them on the floor. I told her not to be to harsh on the dude as he was trying to impress her. Its funny how most guys will think women are being very cocky or pompous when they start going on about how creepy or "not the right fit" some nice guy is. Its once you ask if she is being too harsh that they avalanche out a myriad of supporting stories after. Women live a different life from us. If a guy were to say this, he might be trying to humble b…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/20 12:06 PM
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I love these phrases the community has come up with, but they become hijacked by incels and doomer MGTOW types, changing the real meaning behind them. They interpret them in the most negative light, so I am glad you got a real understanding of that phrase just now. "She's not yours, it's just your turn." It simply means you are the apple of her eye for now until you become boring. That's not because women are fickle, evil beasts. Societal norms have just cursed them in a different way. Getting m…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/20 10:39 PM
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Depends on what an LTR is to you. If it is something you expect to lead to a successful marriage, yes, save the money. I am not opposed to LTR's, I am opposed of the idea you can have a powerful enough influence in maintaining that kind of relationship over the course of years. Marriage is a sham, because it legally binds you to her, and if a divorse happens, women typically win around 90%+ cases. They typically take everything from you at that point. But I digress, lets not talk about marriage.…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/20 12:26 AM
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Of course not. That said, nothing really is. People desperately cling to this notion that one day they will read a post on here that will help their LTR become bullet proof. Its not a matter of what large array of TRP carnival tricks you can do to make it last, it's a matter of when will it end. I doubt OP's buddy plans to buy this chick a ring anytime soon, lets be honest here.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/20 12:36 PM
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That's the point. Its practically tacit here that LTR's are truly short-term. This is nothing more than an attempt at power grab/shifting things back to neutral. Most relationships don't last past 7 years, so OP's buddy got his miles in.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/20 12:33 PM
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Been saying this for years. A lot of the "lurk, but don't actually try and talk to girls" crowd on here will give you shit, but fuck em because at the end of the day you're getting laid and they are not.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/20 12:17 PM
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This would be great! I never grew up acknowledging the "white picket fence by the Jones" future. I think this saved me the thought "I am missing something" if I don't get married and have kids. Half the time I don't even understand how middle class families can afford these little guys. I partially feel content using my money toward grad school and a new car than imagine how much kids would cost. I think I read the US average is 13k~ a year and only goes up with time.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/20 01:57 PM
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Solid reinforcement of "just shut up, go out, and talk to women." Praxis. Ironically the best advice you can give any lurker on this forum is to stay off it, grow an actual pair, and just do it. Actually USE the information in the sidebar and talk to women. No one got laid because they could rock a "TRP Standardized Test." Its always about putting yourself in position to learn by actually doing it.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/20 10:27 AM
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I am not here to codemn you for getting back into an LTR, it's your life, if thats what you want to do then do it. You're right, I don't know anything about that relationship which is why my point to this specific poster was to explain why it will ruffle the feathers of the more "orthodox" types of the community. The mods already agreed this was an excellent story as long as the salient point taken was "keep fighting, never settle for mediocrity."
/r/TheRedPill09/08/20 01:13 PM
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You don't have to ask, it's in the story. He stresses the notion that spinning plates is pointless and then goes on to end the story about how he went back to an ex. The problem isn't the story, it's a wonderful one on his own journey and growth. That said, the concern would be if someone were to read this and interpret it as, "oh man, finally, the guy DOES get the girl in the end. He just had to spin plates and THEN it was okay to have oneitis. I did a lot of reading, and thought there was no h…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/20 01:23 AM
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Bro, clean this up, too many autists here. They need to be held by the hand before they can understand the point of this post. Don't let these "duuurrrr what was the point" responses be taken seriously. Probably should not have left it open-ended because now the "he's a beta, you put questions in askTRP" mob is going to show up and blast you to help them move on from their miserable lives and feel better about showing someone up on the internet . . .
/r/TheRedPill01/08/20 12:56 PM
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To bring it to another extreme for the "yo gimme a sexy pick up line" types at askTRP: Imagine being this way during the caveman times. Cavemen literally were like "ooga booga" and just went at it. I remember a guy that Dante Nero from "Beige Phillip" had on who talked about an awkward time he brought back some chick to his car. It was weird, dis-interested conversation and her constantly looking away. Then he stopped trying to talk and just shifted gears and just started hooking up with her and…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/20 12:39 PM
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did that really happen? Maybe it did, maybe it didn't. It doesn't matter. You want to believe it, and you come back for more because you enjoy the excitement. This is the salient piece before the "hey that's not moral, only a beta would lie" crowd bum rushes in. Women, and people in general, want someone who can tell a story and put them throw a ride. Maybe something cathartic, suspenseful, who cares, they are enjoying the moment. Story telling is a huge plus. The way you draw people in with a t…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/20 04:24 AM
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You almost get it. Frame is a massive part of winning over women, but it does not keep them a permanant fixture in your life. We get tired of people and things, period. No amount of frame will overcome her just simply getting tired of you, if you don't get tired of her first.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/20 03:40 PM
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This is nonsense. People need to stop acting like there are magical ways to prevent bad things from happening to you. Cheating happens, whatever, get over it. There's an old saying about "show me a beautiful woman, and I'll show you a guy who's tired of fucking her." The SAME rings true the other way. It's an innate part of us to get tired of things, including people. It's the reason your favorite food might be steak until you've decided to eat steak for breakfast, lunch, and dinner. We crave va…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/20 03:38 PM
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Are you implying that everyone comes up with a different purpose of their own which is shaped by their childhood and current situation? Possibly. Wouldn't people who want approval of the group have more altruistic goals which benefit the community? They tend to. When we say to find your purpose here, it's simply more along the lines of finding the thing, or things, that you love to do that are productive in life and keep you focused to avoid putting women on a pedastal. The goal behind TRP pushi…
/r/askTRP28/06/20 05:53 PM
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There is no "purpose" or "meaning of life." It's just discussion people love to throw their hot takes on because no one wants to just accept that we are here and a natural part of the universe. The way our minds are wired, we are drawn to "our purpose" for emotional reasons. Remember that we have a conscious brain and a subconscious one. The subconscious one operates in the background and takes in over a million (if not more) bits times more information than our conscious brain. It's primary goa…
/r/askTRP27/06/20 08:36 PM
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Probably exercising her other options or just busy. Who cares. As long as you guys are still hanging out and fucking, this is ideal. If you are actually trying to LTR her, well . . .
/r/askTRP27/06/20 02:07 PM
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-blablabla -but this, that, the other (me making valid logical point) -since when are you so smart/talkative? - Since birth - since before you learned to pivot from my point Learn to "banter" and have fun with the response. Read the side bar, those responses to shit tests aren't just for women. This person gave up on arguing a point with you the second they switched to "since when are you so smart/talkative?" At this point its not an argument, they are just fuming you made a good point. Take the…
/r/askTRP27/06/20 02:05 PM
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Its called actually going out and doing it. Nothing you "read" will translate to a perfect scenario. He knows that his experiences and OP's will differ, whether it be due to body language, vocal tonality, additional factors like their physical appearnance and personality, ect. If he were to delineate everything he does, OP would probably get stuck memorizing his lines instead of learning the process. It's like teaching someone to drive, and instead they just try and remember how long you were le…
/r/askTRP27/06/20 02:01 PM
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Don't "dump" for the sake of proving you can do it and some "soul cleaning karma." If the relationship is falling apartment and seems unsalvagable, then yeah you dump. Unless you enjoy the constant ego bruise for sticking around until she ends it because you want to be "nice." Looking out for yourself and treating yourself good first isn't a mentality to adopt because "you have to stick it to women and be mad alpha, yo!" It's for you. It's so you can actually be a man and make "decisions." You s…
/r/askTRP27/06/20 01:56 PM
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You are actually not doing that bad in the grand scheme of things. Drugs aside, you workout and keep your body in shape for military and a future in fighting, so you are putting in the work. It sounds to me you are stuck waiting for the opportunity to come, whether it is waiting out your service time to persue fighting, or finding an opportunity in fighting that will get you into more serious companies like MMA? I wouldn't say you sound lost per say and I think that is why you are bored
/r/askTRP26/06/20 12:39 PM
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No problem. Cant stress enough to actively do it. I can make as much sense in the world to you, but you wont truly feel what i mean until you actually go through the process.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 12:36 PM
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It’s not a problem of abundance, I have the proof that I could get girls, I just can’t get the one I want. Abundance mentality isn't "oh some girls think I am cute so I matter lol." It's literally, physically hitting those girls up and hooking up. That's like saying "well I really LOVE streak, but I also have some broccoli in the fridge, chips in the shelf, and bread on the counter so even though I am hungry, it's okay because I have options. I am still really hungry and want the steak though, d…
/r/askTRP26/06/20 11:59 AM
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You know the answer, you just want us to confirm it. End it on good terms. Why torture yourself
/r/askTRP26/06/20 11:49 AM
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Obviousl the drugs aren't good, but otherwise it depends on what kind of path you are trying to go down. The military is great for reference in the future. I would say forge a plan. Do you plan to be in the military and once you have served your time you will be harping for MMA?
/r/askTRP26/06/20 11:48 AM
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"When hunting deer you never ask the deer for advice, you ask the hunter. The deer is being the deer. It doesn't know how else to be." - Dante Nero This is a massive reason that women are TERRIBLE for dating advice. They are as clueless on how to please a women than most men. This may sound counterintuitive but it is reality. Want to know why? Because women never have been in the shoes of a man physically doing what it takes to actually turn her on. She literally has NO physical, practical exper…
/r/askTRP26/06/20 11:43 AM
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Its treading a new frontier. It's not an easy answer, don't think to many of the EC's have developed any articles on how to slay during a plague, right? Like I said I think it ultimately depends on how you both feel about this virus. I am of the belief the virus has mutated and become weaker. My sister is a nurse and her more recent experiences at work compared to 2 months ago further supports this. I would act as if nothing is diffrent. The mask will be fun to make inside jokes with too. Just b…
/r/askTRP26/06/20 01:28 AM
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Okay you know what, I will actually try and work you through this. Ask yourself how would you actually go about convincing her what she is doing is wrong? How do you think that conversation is going to go? Do you think it is fair she is doing something that makes you want to vomit? Have you even had this discussion with her? My point is simple. She is not going to stop what she is doing. If she thought it was as disgusting as you do, she would have stopped. If you attempt to confront her in any …
/r/askTRP26/06/20 01:23 AM
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Yeah, don't get too lost in the TRP lingo and theory. As you physically go out and talk to women and hook up with more girls, you naturally start to understand what to say. It makes sense because you are throwing your mind into the reality. It's like someone asking you how do you drive a car as they get ready to get behind the wheels for the first time: "when do you hit the break, how much should I tap the gas pedal?" You can give good advice, but honestly it is not something you can explain. Yo…
/r/askTRP26/06/20 01:14 AM
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There is always more than one way to skin a cat. I have friends that are nutrionists and they honestly are sick of fad diets. Their rule of thumb is pull up a "If It Fits Your Macros" iifym.com style diet. It allows you a more untethered diet where you can eat whatever you want without rules as long as you stick to your appropriate macros. Just make sure of all your macros, you are getting a heavy dose of protein to help build metabolism-jacking muscles. Protein also requires more calories to bu…
/r/askTRP26/06/20 01:08 AM
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Do you like computers? If so, just keep getting good at diffrent things and round yourself out. Take pride in the good you do for others with computers. Maybe even get to a point where you can climb the company ladder or start your own buisness. This is how you should be looking at this. Or maybe you have a duel passion and something else can supplement all of this if you need a break from computers. You're doing great. Just don't fall into the "oh no, this one specific niche thing in computers …
/r/askTRP25/06/20 01:53 AM
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Do 5x5. Everyone has abs, they are only visible after you body fat is low enough. Ab workouts dont actually give you abs. Worse, if you do ab workouts, you can potentially look fatter as putting on ab muscle will push out the belly fat further out. Strength training jacks up your metabolism, this will help with fatburning/weight loss. Don't hyperfocus on the scale, people will go to the gym and put on muscle but get upset if the scale says they are the same or heavier. Remember muscle is heavy s…
/r/askTRP24/06/20 10:08 PM
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Go for it, who cares if she interferes. If they like you, they wont care about how she feels. They may be more inclinded to fuck you if she advises against it. Its amazing how much of a non-factor her friends can be.
/r/askTRP24/06/20 10:00 PM
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IF you guys are close enough to where you will feel guilty, especially if youlose hi as a friend, I wouldnt. There are simply way too many girls out there for that BS. If he is just some aquaintance, then act unfazed and keep gaming her. Whatever. Is she going to rat you out?
/r/askTRP24/06/20 09:58 PM
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It just means you understand women at a more realistic level. To me it means I understand women as a consensus prefer men who are stable, confidant, and primarily unfazed by what life has to throw at them. They look for leadership qualities, take charge men who don't waver, and have a sense of purpose/things going on greater than a woman. Understand women are "human." When we say AWALT, its to remind people that women are human and are prone to human realities. Women have options, as societal ru…
/r/askTRP24/06/20 09:53 PM
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Not to beat a dead horse, but avoid the friendship. Don't be nasty about it either. You response to her is "hey listen, I think we should both go our ways. I want time to move on. I don't hate you or anything, I just don't think its right to be friends right now. It's been though, good luck with everything." Just vanish after that. It's a geat way to exit with your head held high. You don't want to attack her or end on bad terms, its the classic "drinking poison but expecting the other person to…
/r/askTRP24/06/20 09:43 PM
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Find out where things started to fall apart. We rely on habit loops all the time. We become successful because our brains adopt a new habit loop for us and make it easier to follow as we repeat it more often. Like when you wake up at a certain time, or when you drive to wok on auto-pilot by day dreaming the whole drive and you just appear there. The first step is identifying you are in a rut, which you have. Now, make a conscious effort to repeat the patterns that allowed you to "kill it" for th…
/r/askTRP24/06/20 09:34 PM
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What are you some "white knight?" Who cares, let her do what she wants. Why is this your problem? If you dont like it, find another friend.
/r/askTRP24/06/20 09:28 PM
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First, cut it with the "find your passion and you will never work a day in your life" crap. Its garbage thinking that is becoming outdated. If you actually like working with computers and you are good at it, you are WELL on your way. NOTHING in life will ever excite you forever, humans are simply wired to appreciate variety, not the mundane and repetitive nature of life. A purpose doesn't have to be a single thing, it can be multiple things. I actually fit that camp. I work in physical therapy a…
/r/askTRP24/06/20 09:25 PM
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Frame 100%. I honestly don't believe in using the L word, simply has way too much weight. As for the question, being able to effectively keep them on their toes is almost inextricable to holding frame. BP betas "keep girls on their toes" all the time with corny jokes and low-level cringe negging. They can even be funny. The big diffrence between these guys is one is going to get shit tested and crumble like a house of cards, and the other will be ready with another witty response. One is wearing…
/r/askTRP24/06/20 09:08 PM
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I am down to one plate and have not looked into others. I think it really depends where you are. For example I live on the east coast region where we basially have it under control and cases are going down. There is slowly becoming a more liberal attitude to it, where its almost like people act as if this isn't happening anymore. Going to a party in another 2 weeks where they will everyone will keep their same cup, there is sanitizing supplies, ect. I don't know how it will go down, but we will …
/r/askTRP24/06/20 08:51 PM
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Anything can be a good story. The problem is the ability to tell stories. Go on youtube and look at elements that contribute to good story telling. There ae probably popular youtubers out there with a ton of subs that are popular because they are entertaining. Think of some of your favorites, and how they would go about telling a story. Think about the added affects, expanded vocabulary, and additonal banter that could go into making a bland story about going to the store to buy eggs a lot more …
/r/askTRP24/06/20 03:40 PM
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So basically you tend to talk too much about your future plans and this leads to too many people wanting to chime in with their hot takes? I would say this sounds like something that is inevitable. Try an exercise where you envision how some of these outcomes would have been "diffrent" had you not brough tup these topics. What would you say instead to fill the dead air? This doesn't sound like too much of a problem. I think it becomes a problem when you're too open to the point where there is no…
/r/askTRP23/06/20 10:23 PM
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The problem is a comfort test is more of something that gets thrown your way because the relationship is going stale. If things are perfect and boring, a comfort test is thrown in to spice things up. This sounds too much of her basically doing her own female version of a monk mode. Nothing is wrong with liking plates, sometimes it is inevitable. I just wanted to make sure he has his head on straight and didn't get unconsciously attatched to her from all the now hyperfocused concern with "what ki…
/r/askTRP23/06/20 10:17 PM
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Not everything that she says is a "shit test." Her emotions are in shambles right now from a break up and she's just trying to press the reset button. Let her go, don't overthink it, and if she returns well thats cool. You don't have control of this situation. If you try to hit her up over this or kill yourself trying to find the "mOsT aLpHa rEsPoNcE," your mind will actually begin to attatch to her. Like Jay Z said, "on to the next one."
/r/askTRP23/06/20 12:11 PM
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I think this is a lot more rough on extraverts than introverts. I think we need more information so we can attack more specific events. What do you mean by "leaking plans?" Is this a problem with just women or in general?
/r/askTRP23/06/20 12:06 PM
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Female friends are great to have at uni because of pre-selection, this is a good call. I loved this because they typically brought girls to partys as well and most of the time they were just "friends from class and we are not really that close." As for plates, it's easy. Find a girl, whether at a bar, party, whatever. Chat her up, get her number. Plan something at the end of the week to go out for drinks or another party. The goal is short, small, banter text game that leads to logistics. If you…
/r/askTRP18/06/20 10:15 PM
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The same way you game a girl who doesn't have a boyfriend. Don't acknowledge him. Just game her like it's normal. If she's into you, it doesn't matter who she's dating, she will still sleep with you. The title of a boyfriend doesn't really matter to like 2/3'rds of the girls out there to begin with and thats probably a conservative estimate
/r/askTRP18/06/20 10:01 PM
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You realize every member of TRP is laughing their ass off at that title, right? What you should have done was never sent out pics. Is this a Tinder chick? She should already have you face, so why are you slinging out face pics like dick pics??
/r/askTRP18/06/20 09:54 PM
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If she doesn't fuck you, she'll fuck someone else. She's not in love with the guy, she is just saying this because she doesn't want to look bad. They've been together for 7 years, it's done. People need to understand we as humans simply get tired of having the same thing around. There isn't a single thing you have as much love/appreciation from day one to 7 years later. Just absolutely impossible. The same song that was your favorite 7 years ago is definitely not you favorite song of today, same…
/r/askTRP18/06/20 09:52 PM
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Is this a joke? No, you ignore. Don't even respond or open. Don't look salty by blocking either though.
/r/askTRP18/06/20 09:47 PM
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She didn't. She was trying to justify to herself why it was okay, and wanted to come off as the victim being forced into sex by the other guy, "and then YoU kNoW, tHiNgS jUsT hApPeNeD" . . . sound familiar?
/r/askTRP18/06/20 09:45 PM
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One plate doesn't care and its not like she has been socializing so that has been at least working for me. I think people as a whole are over this, but I also think it depends where you live. For example I am on the east coast of the states, so we already overcame our "curve" and are in the middle of our re-opening phases. We are already Covid-19'd out. If you are in states where new spikes are happening, it might be diffrent.
/r/askTRP18/06/20 09:42 PM
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I reread the statement and I think I was quick to jump to "worst case" scenario. I think it was more of a shit/comfort test passing as a joke. That said don't be quick to assume there are never other guys in the picture. There could be co-workers, it could be guys on dating apps you are unaware of, it could be guys that just pass by and make comments. This isn't a comment that comes out of the blue, she wouldn't be talking about "being the better looking one" without something that has augmented…
/r/askTRP18/06/20 09:39 PM
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1 - Finishing up grad school 2 - My finances 3 - My health (diet/work out) 4 - My Friends and Family 5 - Girls compete with the remainderof my priorties
/r/askTRP18/06/20 05:20 PM
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Get this incel crap off of here
/r/askTRP18/06/20 05:16 PM
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You have a couple of options. You may want to find/make other friends that are on the more reserved side when going out and hitting on women. Doesn't mean you have to abandon these friends. As far as they go, this might not be the worst thing for you. If you guys are all talking to a group of women, they will sense you are the least "needy/thirsty" one and will be more drawn to you in that regard in comparison to your friends. Doesn't mean you just stand there and expet to beworshipped because y…
/r/askTRP18/06/20 05:16 PM
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Anyone can "jokingly" say this. When you add the context of her hinting she could just go after other guys, and then layer it with "plus you know this is true because I am better looking than you," then yes you should be concerned. That is a diffrent ball game. You might not be able to salvage this depending on how little you know of her "other guys" situation, but I would start distancing from her. Maybe hang out with other "female friends" to add dread. Ultimately she feels like she is the pow…
/r/askTRP18/06/20 05:13 PM
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Stay busy. Period. If you're not working, you're working out, reading a book, anything productive helps. Don't feel guilty for playing a video game or whatever. Emotional investment comes when you keep staring at your phone and waiting for something to happen. "OMG did she text me??? Did she call????" The biggest problem guys have is the FOMO aspect, like if you don't text her back in time she might go fuck someone else or some BS. Reengage and reassess what you want. What I mean by this is ther…
/r/askTRP18/06/20 05:09 PM
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She seems to dictate their whole life and my brother, at times, looks physically exhausted and stressed out because after work he still has to do her every bidding. He paid the full rent for their flat even as it was to her name, as well as all the bills. She also demands extravagant restaurant visits that he has to pay and which is why he ends up in huge debt at the end of every month. The list of utter retardation is endless. I am not even your brother and the fact that women like this exist, …
/r/TheRedPill14/06/20 12:35 AM
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It's good to remember that women are biologically hard wired to get sexually bored with their partner. THIS. Hands down the number one reason a lot of askTRP newbies are so perplexed by the idea of a woman just leaving them is rooted in some of the most basic, innate, human instincts. This is intrinsic in all aspects of life, yet we completely ignore it in the dating world. If your favorite food is pizza, and you were challenged to eat pizza 24/7 for a week, your favorite food will no longer be …
/r/TheRedPill06/06/20 06:28 PM
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His style of comedy, and the atmosphere he was surrounded by, all helped create the frame and quick wit he had. Bill Burr goes on to talk about how they all ripped on each other and had to learn to adapt to this. Patrice was excellent at just talking shit and being funny, this is huge for game. If you're funny, you can't come off spiteful.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/20 01:08 AM
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Bring a few wingmen along and pretend to be a radical faction. Don’t accept any other male protesters as they are probably employees of the state. This guy gets it
/r/TheRedPill04/06/20 12:57 AM
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You NEVER turn and ex into a plate, this is some TRP 101 shit. Too much nonsense and future drama. Grow a pair and actually plate "new" girls.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 01:57 AM
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I miss when Peterson would actually talk about these social dynamics and actual psychology. Glad his partisan career went down the toilet.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/20 01:39 AM
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You want to end it first in that they are left hanging. This is if a full blown conversation starts. Lets say a small conversation occurs, you don't want to deviate from the fact that you ultimately were non-chalant because you were on your way to do something. This gives the impression to her that you are too busy for her time, but more importantly this should be your intention anyway. You have things to do. Normalize that. If she sees you just stop and drop everything you are doing to have a n…
/r/askTRP22/05/20 09:46 PM
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Don't overcomplicate it. It's like anything you do that is initially foreign to you. If you have seen any responses I have given in the past, I always go back to the time we first learned to drive a car because it is very relatable. The first time you turned the key, the engine roars to life, you don't know how much pressure to put on the gas or break, remembering specific traffic laws at the traffic lights and stop signs. We all do it subconsciously now, on autopilot, while day dreaming, then l…
/r/askTRP22/05/20 12:24 PM
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There are INNUMEROUS reasons that have been beaten to death exhaustively over this and why it is simply a bad idea. When a woman breaks up with you, it wasn't some "spur of the moment" decision that just happened overnight. It's from months if not years of a slow breakdown in her view of you that amalgamated into genuine disdaine or contempt. It's like if you have worked for a terrible boss and you stuck out the job for like 2 years because you needed the money, and then when you quit, your boss…
/r/askTRP22/05/20 12:17 PM
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This isn't really a TRP thing, this is actually pretty common. I would say since women are typically more submissive and can be open minded when you present such intense topics in a philosophical manner that they will digest it. I have done this with plenty of people, including women around me. I think most people are too caught up in their constructed life habit loops that discussions on things that range from politics to self improvement add a little more zest and interest. You can unearth a l…
/r/askTRP22/05/20 12:06 PM
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Partially. Some of my best success has been from this, but if they are actually some friend, it will backfire. I have bantered with girls at bars this way. I'll joke with them in the opening and form inside jokes with them from within the bar. I inevitably lead it to games likes asking her to be my wingwomen for some girls. If they don't get jealous from the attention they are getting me from other girls, I at least get with the new girls so it's win-win. As for long-term attraction, you are pla…
/r/askTRP22/05/20 01:22 AM
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You act like nothing is wrong or out of the ordinary! You treat them like you would some aquaintance. You acknowledge them, "hey what's up" and go back to what you were doing, whether walking back to your locker or class or whatever. Women don't want a stage 5 clinger or someone who emotionally reacts to people who don't text back or whatever. This is frame, being able to keep a hold of your emotions and act unphased by perceived sleights from women. If you see her and freak out she didn't text …
/r/askTRP22/05/20 01:16 AM
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I love how much you just get it. People on askTRP don't understand what it means to just have fun. They treat women like some food recipe that needs to be followed to a T. If the chick ghosts them, well obviously they put too much of some ingredient, or just outright forgot an ingredient. Just fucking around with girls and messing with them is probably one of the best ways to learn this shit in general.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/20 01:11 AM
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just ignore her stupid game and treat her as normal when she contacts? Yeah. Your frame is when you act normal throughout everything and are unphased by changes. If you try to call it out or play additional games, it will just turn into a shit show. If anything you take it as a strong notion she is really into you. Continue EVERYTHING like this little blip on the radar situation never happened
/r/askTRP18/05/20 11:03 PM
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You sound like you generally get it, most of my explanation was filler and not to be directly at you. Most people that justify what comes off as BB or incel-like phrasing ( ie. "Im a buisnessman she can't do this to me. The wall is comng for her, oh she will pay) tend to try justify their beta actions as actually red pill so I over explain to get my point across instead of being misunderstood. Let met address some salient points though: ---- " Look, I get that my frame is a weak one and that she…
/r/askTRP18/05/20 10:58 PM
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-----"but that doesn't mean that she can do whatever the fuck she wants and I remain unreactive?" She is not "doing whatever the fuck she wants." You are making her out to be some untamed beast that needs to be put in its place. Lets come back to reality. She made an edgy joke, and your frame shattered before it. Now thanks to the fact that you finally added context, I get why you are upset. I also want to take some time to say sorry for your loss, seriously. I lost my mother 2 years ago, it suc…
/r/askTRP18/05/20 03:21 AM
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Remember this is a reason TRP tries to avoid politics. TRP is what it is, a tool box of inforation to have a better understanding of why girls are the way they are. There is an edge to TRP content, or content similar, so it is prone to getting banned on YouTube. There has been waves of PUA's that have been purged. Is this good for society? Probably not. That said, fighting against censorship has been going on for years, especially now more than ever. What solutions are there? At the end of the d…
/r/askTRP18/05/20 02:58 AM
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This is why women don't want Mr Fix-It, but rather a man who will just listen, pat them on the proverbial head, and tell them everything will be ok. I've always been like this, never knew how to respond to these emotional states and would just let them vent without reaction. How could I? I had a joke or general banter ready for her typical states but not a melt down. I thought this was me being too lazy to address her problems, but never cared enough to make an effort to provide solutions. Now I…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/20 01:58 AM
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Its a learning experience. Who cares. Have fucking fun with it, that's your mentality. You are a cool, calm, collected, dude just having fun who radiates this and "unaffected." What if she ghosts you? What if she ghosts you right now? Is that it? Is that the last girl that will ever talk to you? You have plenty of women to hit on and probably fuck it up with. That's WAY better than trying to desperately cling to one, without understanding why it didn't work out. Your experiences will slowly allo…
/r/askTRP17/05/20 12:43 AM
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She's not fucking other guys, bc have kept it non-exclusive and she told me recently she was gonna withdraw from seeing other ppl AHAHAHAHAHAHAHA First of all, women fuck way more than us because of societal norms. It is simply expected that men initiate the overt moments, so women are typically hit on and see a ton of options by being present and alive. Sex is fun, and we have slowly conditioned a more liberating sexual society. Think about how we shame slut-shamers now, and have things like ti…
/r/askTRP17/05/20 12:34 AM
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This is why it is important to challenge yourself to be more social with strangers. You want to condition your subconscious mind to the feel of communicating with strangers so that you equip yourself with experience. You don't learn to drive a car by studying and mastering the drivers manual. You do it by getting in the fucking car and putting some miles on it. Next thing you know, you auto-pilot from home to work not even remembering the turns you took, the speed you went, or whatever.
/r/askTRP17/05/20 12:27 AM
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My friends left and I straight on told her that what she said at the table was very inappropriate and she should watch her tongue when she makes jokes next time. (This has never happened before). She said how much of a pussy I am for not taking a joke and I told her to gtfo of my apartment because I'm driving her home. When you're too direct about how uncomfortable you are about something with a girl, it can have terrible consequences. Women see men as rocks. If the rock has a moment where it cr…
/r/askTRP17/05/20 12:25 AM
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First thing is this sounds genuine for the most part. How do I know? The texts actually have detail to them. I would cut back on all the "hahahahaha I know right, lolololololol" crap. Keep a composed type of banter, witty responses, its good you're playful, but not to the extent of a teenage boy. As for "conversations are usually more involved than this," they shouldn't be. Don't fall in love with the text messages. This is how guys unknowingly make ghosting painful. The majority of your interea…
/r/askTRP17/05/20 12:14 AM
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iifym.com It will help you organize you macro intake. Can get fairly good results quick and more consistantly because it simplifies the diet to macro restrictions. You'll have more variety compared to some clown diet about how you "can only eat like 5 grams of carbs, and only drink celery water for like 5 years." It's a good supplement to a 5x5 program. Going to assume your gym might be closed so stick to a consistant HIIT or calisthenics program. Consistany is how you lose fat. Don't expect a l…
/r/askTRP16/05/20 11:59 PM
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"Yeah, I know"
/r/askTRP16/05/20 11:56 PM
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I don't know, I think facebook deterring you from whining on there about hypergamy is probably the most based and redpilled thing they could have done. "First rule of fight club: you don't talk about fight club."
/r/askTRP16/05/20 11:55 PM
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Remember that women are people too. It may be her first time doing this, and she's nervous a stranger from this app is actually with her in person. Are you escalating and building up any sexual tension or were you just trying to go in for the kill
/r/askTRP12/05/20 12:11 AM
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Honestly this is just one of those things you have to dive into head first and keep testing things out. I like using the metaphor of learing how to drive a car because it has the appropriate amount general diffculty to understand some of the humps we are trying to overcome here. Im sure there are plenty of people that gave you advice on how to drive a car before the first time you got in. I bet that shit went out the window the second you turned the key and had to figure out gears and levels of …
/r/askTRP12/05/20 12:07 AM
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I think this is one of those basic accepted cliches that are typical on a man card. When you live on your own, there are just some basic things you should be able to do that shows signs of a functioning adult that has not outright accepted the comforts and ease of microaveable mac 'N cheese. The fact that you are on here asking this question and sound so repulsed by the general subject is evidence that even you know this is something most guys should be able to do. That said, no one is expecting…
/r/askTRP12/05/20 12:03 AM
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Create playful banter and inside joke related to any of her photos or anything related to her bio. Create a playful text enviroment that progresses to something a little more covertly sexual. The goal is to be able to do these kind of things in record time. You think the girls on tinder that are actually horny want to spend time drying up their hole while you guys talk about her pet rabit? The goal is to get her to give you her number and then create logistics. Women are not some "insert coin an…
/r/askTRP11/05/20 11:52 PM
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If you're implying is it possible to be 6'2 and ugly, of course. There are a handful of tall, 6' guys that are flat out ugly. Being 6' something alone does not activate some waterfall at some girls plow box. Sure being 6' something and having a universally accepted physiognomy is a big advantage, but it can be mere fractions in comparison to a guy that has the concensus of things explained in the sidebar. Im 5'9, but could carry myself WAY better than a lot of friends I had that were taller than…
/r/askTRP11/05/20 11:46 PM
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You can go buy a bad ass looking luxury car that would make you the envy of everyone you know, but if it doesn't start or doesn't even have an engine, then what good is it? Think of it like this. Being "physically" attractive is an advantage, not the end all be all. That is it. When women simply look around, its only natural their attention first goes to guys who look good and have some height to them. And then . . . that's it. Think about that. Physical appearance does nothing more than make a …
/r/askTRP11/05/20 05:08 PM
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I would have just said "ok" or even "that's fine, it wasn't really working for me either and I didn't know how to tell you." Then just slowly fade away. Delayed responses to texts, then eventual no responses. Move on. Don't play the "now how do I make her jealous" game. It will just backfire on you because you will invest more mental energy in her and possibly make you more attatched to her. Remember the opposite of love is not hate, it's indiffrence. The greatest revenge you can get is simply m…
/r/askTRP09/05/20 03:51 PM
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I bring music with me. I load up a playlist with shit that gets the blood pumping. Another thingI would do is organize your workout. Tell yourself in advance I am going to do x,y, and z today, 5 sets 5 reps. If you have a plan, you are more likely to stick to it. I also try to make myself feel like a bitch if I can't even stay in the gym for 1 hour.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 03:43 PM
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It's not permanent, we've all been there. Shit happens. Don't torture yourself like that, she is bound to find another guy
/r/askTRP09/05/20 03:41 PM
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Look into books on your Subconscious mind. The research in psychology for this has been exploding over the last 2-3 decades, and is becoming used more and more with advertisement and buisness as well. Your brain is wired to strategize primarily around keeping you alive and helping you to conserve energy. I'll focus more on the "conservation of energy" route for your problems here. Think about something like 2+2=4. It's universal. Imagine if your brain had to deal with a valid news report on how …
/r/askTRP09/05/20 03:40 PM
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My god, why does EVERY guy on here feel the need to "talk to her about it" or "confront" her on behaviors they don't like?! Does no one read the side bar anymore? Do you people play poker with your hand showing on the table too?? Sorry OP, it just needs to be vented. The fact that your gut already tells you you might "come off insecure" is really all you need to know. You can't control or force women to do things. It has to be changed by them organically because it is in line with them other fea…
/r/askTRP09/05/20 03:24 PM
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I agree with the replying poster, plan your exit strategy. This is a losing situation. When in an LTR or even in the forming phase of one, whenever a woman "complains" of an ex contacting her, it's always a red flag. Why? Women love to brag about the attention they are getting, it's like an "ugh I have this problem where I am just sought after that might ex wants me back." Now it does act as a partial shit test. You did well to avoid reacting, but a better bet in the future it to belittle it wit…
/r/askTRP09/05/20 03:50 AM
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Dont downgrade LTR's to plates. If you guys were truly in an LTR, especially with how much you were affected by her talking to and placing another guy before you, you still have emotions still sitting there. You will most likely trick yourself down the line into thinking she is LTR material again. Its not that you're mentally weak or anything, its just a general comforting default most guys will fall into. The fact that you confronted her about this means nothing will return anyway. I would just…
/r/askTRP09/05/20 03:42 AM
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You handled this terribly. You never let a girl sense your jealousy. You don't be jealous either. You need to appear in control and unphased by potential competition. If she find outs you confronted him, it makes you look weak and desperate for her. She'll instantly lose attraction for you. So what if he hits on her? She's not yours, you're just talking to her. Even if you guys were in an LTR, it looks weak and pathetic if you try and confront every guy that has the hots for your girl. It makes …
/r/askTRP09/05/20 03:34 AM
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Don't take it too literally. Obviously you need to initiate conversations with girls. What "don't chase" means, is don't do all the work and go overboard. If you talk to a girl at a bar, start with general banter, and make sure you and her have some back and forth that can lead to more physical escalation. Chasing is when you put the girl before everything. It means you are always the first to text her, you're always checking up on her, you reinitiate everything always. She needs to feel you mig…
/r/askTRP08/05/20 02:53 AM
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You need to understand that once you hit up a girl, you are on borrowed time the longer you are not physically appearing before her. It amazes me people still think they can keep a girl hooked through texts and snap chats, stop it, this is "simp" behavior. There needs to be a balance of physical presense and sexual activity, or at least physical escalation when you are talking to a girl. She can't get wet or have increased attraction for you if you try to keep her attention with goofy texts and …
/r/askTRP05/05/20 03:50 PM
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Anything repetitively done becomes mundane. Going out to drink Friday nights isn't bad, it's if it is every friday. Change things up, stay in home for "me" time on Fridays. Suggest diffrent things, diffrent restaurants. Do diffrent things. Hiking, gun range, camping, archery, bowling. Something DIFFRENT
/r/askTRP05/05/20 03:27 PM
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Wrong forum, this isn't "tellTRP." If you want to help people, save this post as a reply for questions surrounding your topic, or post this on more "motivation" based subreddits.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 03:22 PM
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Why do you think this is an appropriate question for this forum? This is TRP 101 stuff, you don't TRY to get your ex back. If it happens, it will happen organially from you becoming a better man and doing your own thing hitting on other women. You DONT want to get your ex back, you have to learn to be better at getting new women. You still live in a false reality if you think TRP specializes in this, or if this is even a feasible goal
/r/askTRP05/05/20 03:08 PM
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You're doing fine. The problem is you're doing something with the expectation of seeing immediate rewards, you're very outcome dependant. You're only forcing yourself to socialize more to be more social and hope to get productive conversations going. The problem is because you are so outcome-dependant, you are LOOKING for things, hoping people will talk to you back, hoping you will probably get numbers from female coworkers or invites and respect from male coworkers. These are all my assumptions…
/r/askTRP05/05/20 03:05 PM
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No problem, I re-read my response and god knows I need to clean up some of the spelling and grammer, but it essentially hits home the main point. Our lives, our reality, is shaped by our experiences. The more you push past comfort zones, the more you awaken your mind to what you CAN do rather than what you CANT. Remember that I said your subconscious mind PROTECTs you and CONSERVES ENERGY. This is why fear plays a large limiting role in our lives. You other feel too mentally tired to do somethin…
/r/askTRP05/05/20 02:57 PM
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Understand the diffrence between your conscious and subconscious brain. Your conscious brain is everything you are aware of. Your conscious brain deals primarily with tangible things, things you are aware of in the moment. "The room is warm, the wall in front of me has blue paint, ects..." Your subconsious mind works in the background and you are pratically unaware of it. It stores information in the background you don't pay attention to and uses that information in ways that other protect you o…
/r/askTRP03/05/20 12:21 AM
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Its easier than exclusive dating actually. You just hang out and escalate. Girls are typically afraid to bring up the "what are we" question, so you just hang out and bang like whatever. As a matter of fact, I would argue it's more a societal pressure thing to put labels on these things. What I mean is, especially NOW more than ever, most girls and guys just want to hang out and fuck anyway without the titles. The titles actually add a diffrent, more pressure-enducing awkwardness that girls and …
/r/askTRP03/05/20 12:04 AM
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Good looking women? Your game, frame, and confidance have to be A+ to pull that off. It can be done, I know overweight guys that have pulled. That said, there are WAAYYY too many barriers to pull it off. Incase you are looking for a short cut, I can tell you right now if you have to ask this on ask TRP, then you most likely DONT have the inner game down to bang good looking girls, or even average for that matter. No short cuts, don't be a pussy, organize your diet and start exercising.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 11:55 PM
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This is so broad. Who cares. Are people calling you out for it? Whatever, people joke and goof. I mean I don't even know what you mean is so bad that it is placed in a diffrent category? Ultimately it depends on your view of it. What I mean is, do you do something selfdecrecating and then act unbothered by it like it is no big deal? Or are you doing goofy shit, and then letting people walk over you about it and just owning it like your just some klutz?
/r/askTRP02/05/20 11:47 PM
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I text "Don't worry about it, shit happens." After that, it's her move. If she wants to keep seeing you, then she will text first. If there are cracks in the plate, any evidence she is getting ready to move on, then she won't text you back. And that's okay. You don't get vindictive. You just move on to the other plates. The reason she has to text first is NOT because it is a "punishment." It will instead give you an idea of how much she is invested in you. You don't want to directly or indirectl…
/r/askTRP02/05/20 11:40 PM
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Where the hell did you hear this nonsense. This is the problem with TRP. Angry butt-hurt incels come in with these preconceived notions like "x people are stupid" and then make assumptions and ponder this shit. This hurts TRP, because these low IQ beta cucks end up hurting the image of the place and we get a quarentined forum. Women hold important roles for a reason. You will see this primarily in social jobs where they need to gauge people (customer service, marketing) because they are good at …
/r/askTRP02/05/20 11:04 PM
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Indiffrent. You act indiffrent. Who cares. In my experience, half the time this happens, she using it to hide the fact that she's into you so will pretend there is some other guy in the picture. Your indifference is a great way to pass a shit test she used probably unintentionally and defensibly to not show her hand.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 11:01 PM
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Look into after school clubs and see what is there
/r/askTRP02/05/20 10:58 PM
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Think of it like this: Think about the people who "want to lose weight so they swear they are never eating junk food again." All it takes is a stressed out day, or a moment where they are starving and the only thing around is a McDonald's. What inextricably happens? Women don't cheat because they are these "hell born liars," they are human and respond to their feelings/emotions in that moment. I thought I could be a pure and loyal guy but Ive cheated before too. Dont EVER assume anyone is beyond…
/r/askTRP30/04/20 12:50 PM
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Now, I understand that she is playing some sort of game like any other girl because no one can be that busy and so I don’t engage with her anymore. You have a LOT of learning to do. A LOT. When I actually had a good number of plates a 2 years ago, I was also more social and going out a lot every weekend. When texts come in, you can only reply to so many at a time. I have sympathy with the idea that women do get bombarded with texts, because they live an entirely diffrent social world than us. I …
/r/askTRP30/04/20 12:46 PM
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Stop caring. If they are not your friends, and she is your ex, you are just wasting mental energy on bull shit. You said it yourself, they are a bunch of pussies that would never say it to your face so they have to say it to your ex while you are not there. Who cares if they "get away with it." The actions speak louder. It's like getting mad your local grocery store is charging you 5 cents more on the chicken you usually buy. They are "gEtTiNg aWaY wItH iT" right? At the end of the day, I assume…
/r/askTRP30/04/20 12:40 PM
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This is just a classic case of overthinking. When people take on new abstractions or learn new things, they tend to apply the knowledge at the extremes first. For example, the first time you drove a car, you may have slammed on the breaks before you began to realize it needs to be gradually pushed down. Same with nice guys and women, they assume they have to be over-the-top nice, to an abohrent degree. At TRP, it manifests as guys who think they need to kill a bear with one hand in front of a wo…
/r/askTRP30/04/20 12:36 PM
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"Well I am talking to some girls, but I don't really do relationships, I am not good at them. I get bored easily with people. Not to mention I already have a lot going on. Then I just let them bicker about how "oh you will find someone, just look at you" and then the subject changes. This is actually the truth. Even before TRP, relationships just always seemed like a lot of work. Then after TRP, you read how marriage as an end game never ends well for men. Then you see guys around you, especiall…
/r/askTRP21/04/20 12:09 AM
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Depending on what she "did to embarass you when you guys were a thing," this sounds like it is being blown out of preportion. If you can't move on from girls and make peace with the game itself, you will ALWAYS be hurt and miserable. Do you want to know why people come to TRP and vent? Because the game isn't fun anymore. The game, as it turns out, has these "tough" moments. Surprisingly it ain't all rainbows and sunshine. Things happen. The amount of mental strain you put on taking the game too …
/r/askTRP21/04/20 12:05 AM
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It's not just a construct of the mind, it's variable so you wont always feel "cool" or "uncool." Look up the book "Subliminal" my Leonard Mlodinow. Basically to summarize some interesting research in psychology that has been going on the last few decades, we have a subconscious and conscious mind. Our conscious mind is everything you are aware of. Your subconscious sits in the background and quietly observes while taking information. I think the numbers were like a million bits times more inform…
/r/askTRP20/04/20 11:39 PM
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If you want to see my answer played out through examples, look up in-field footage from RSD Tyler. If you're lucky, its not all kicked off YouTube by now. He basically has a near ideal personality for going out. He pumps himself up with positive energy before he goes out, and just takes a relaxed approach to pick up. He basically just has fun with it, and radiates outcome independance, because he doesn't care if they say yes or no. Some of his footage from way back was the spark that made a lot …
/r/askTRP20/04/20 11:24 PM
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Your physiognomy and outer appearance overall is half the battle. If you feel more confidant and your attitude has changed, your body language can also adapt and women respond to that too.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 03:22 AM
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Outcome independance. The irony behind jealousy is that in being so invested in her, you give off "no don't leave me you're all I have and my well disguised, held together with duck tape and paper clips frame will shatter before you every time you even look at another guy." Outcome independance isn't just some edgy take how to be James Bond around women. Your mentality should be "if she leaves, she leaves. Whatever. Her loss. What else do we have here?" This is because having this attitude proje…
/r/askTRP20/04/20 03:19 AM
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That's awesome! Just keep it light, it helps prevent you from getting too invested. Goal is to always remember there are a ton of girls out there.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 01:31 AM
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I mean you might think it's an LTR. I don't know too many girls that would feel comfortable making an "only fans" account despite being in a loving relationship. All I am saying is something might be off here
/r/askTRP20/04/20 01:26 AM
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I haven’t seen her in weeks since the lockdown You're not in an LTR. Let her do what she wants and you go talk to other girls. Who cares if your friends get on you for that, did you smash? If so then you already hit it while they are probably paying to just stare at her.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 10:34 PM
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You need to really ask yourself if you want to be in an LTR. It sounds more like the Covid-19 situation is dictating your actions. Personally I think there couldn't be a worse time for an LTR. Our current situation limits any type of social gathering, which means less to do. If you date someone now, there may be an eventual resentment period due to the monotonicty of quarentine we have to deal with for a while. Think of "cuffing season" when people settle down for the winter before leaving their…
/r/askTRP19/04/20 10:30 PM
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You're doing fine, it may be starting to come natural to you. This is where you want to be, where you just do things and it works out right because you're trusting your gut. Your gut is a response to input from your subconscious mind. Your subconscious mind stores a fuck load of information that you consciously are not aware of to allow for more seamless and effortless work to be done. The science on this stuff is nuts, but in a nutshell, this is why we master things. Like driving a car, the fir…
/r/askTRP19/04/20 10:26 PM
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You sound like you're just starting out. Don't even worry about the "should I upgrade her past plate?" Focus on getting a couple of plates first to hang out with and fuck. You will get a better idea subconsciously what red flags look and feel like. Don't jump to "I need to date this chick, but oh no she does *insert profession or hobby here* so obviously she's some dirty slut that will cheat on me."
/r/askTRP19/04/20 10:06 PM
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That's annoying, get more or diffrent friends to hang out with. Why hang out with a bunch of guys that have to make some of the dumbest things a competition just to have a "dance monkey, dance!" show in front of girls? That's embarrassing. Obviously your value won't stand out there, trying to out perform clowns. Don't even bother stressing the need to hit on girls in that kind of situation, if they come to you they come to you. Otherwise go to your own parties and events and hit on girls without…
/r/askTRP19/04/20 10:03 PM
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You're at the perfect time for this. Join sports teams and school clubs. Be loose with people. Go look up "banter" and and casual conversations on youtube. The sidebar probably has great material on this as well. Once you get in contact with people, start inviting them out to things and planning social events. Get people together for pick up sports. Get people over your house to do something like play "card against humanity" or video games. The best way to improve your social life isn't just to …
/r/askTRP19/04/20 09:59 PM
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This! OP, you can't create an affinity affect from tinder texts. This only works with in-person game because there is more going on. When you see someone in person, she can assess your physiognomy. She subconsciously reacts to your body language, vocal tonality, touch, ect. It's an organic interaction. Tinder just shows images, and then she is probably juggling between your messages and the other dudes hitting her up too
/r/askTRP19/04/20 09:55 PM
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All green flags, don't get too carried away with TRP abstractions. Keep doing what you are doing. She's mad she is not the center of attention, that is all. She'll get over it. What is she going to do? Leave you? This is where logical thought conflicts with her emotions. The typical part where she goes to her girls to vent, they say "leave him," she does the opposite because she is dictated by her feels.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 09:50 PM
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Yeah. Women in relationship are easier because they've been tied down to the same dick for a while. The mystery of the guy is probably gone, and he is already most likely fucking it up and operating in her frame. If they are together, the game is over, she already won him and knows he has strong feelings for her. I love the analogy of if you were to eat your favorite food for a week straight, breakfast, lunch, and dinner. It's awesome at first, but then you get tired and want variety again. Peop…
/r/askTRP19/04/20 09:46 PM
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A week later after that I contacted her for us to meet on that particular day but she replied the next day and said she was busy that day and I said I will be the one who is busy the following days. She said we should see each other at our mutual friend's birthday. Here my red pilled blood kicks in and I stopped contacting her. I don't know if it is red flag that she did not replied on the same day I texted her but tried to reschedule our meet up. Also our mutual friend did not throw a party sin…
/r/askTRP19/04/20 09:41 PM
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This is all conditioned thinking. AWALT. They all get men that approach them and want to fuck them so obviously they have higher standards as a basic result. You can say she's not that attractive, but that conflicts with her results in the SMP. Its just like market forces. You can say "X car is ugly and doesn't even have that many good features, and people keep buying it at $30,000. I don't get it." So if her pussy is "$30,000" in value and has been picked up before at that value, why would she …
/r/TheRedPill14/03/20 02:29 PM
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Reminds me of Unit 731
/r/TheRedPill22/02/20 04:13 PM
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I was fortunate I really only absorbed Josh Pelicer and the RSD guys. They actually lead more to me going after goals, inner game, and just overal deveopment as a person. I would say my results from them made TRP extremely easier to digest compared to the average lurker stumbling upon this place. I've seen people like Mystery before and it blew me away how lower tier that stuff was.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/20 02:11 AM
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He's been on Reddit and it is obvious he used to roam the forums a bit based off some of his terminology, but he ultimately is in the opposite boat. He would view TRP as "degenerate." We would view him a typical blue pilled cuck. He thinks he can revive a boomer paradise 50's-60's era that doesn't exist anymore. This includes the naive idea of saving virginity for marriage and being "moral"
/r/TheRedPill15/01/20 04:14 AM
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This is 100% the most spot on take of the guy. He's been on a stream with the reformed Roosh V so I could see why some of his followers may have ended up here.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/20 04:11 AM
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This is the third time I've read this article by you, but you seem to improve it with every time you re-post it. A lot of Trump supporters who can't see he hasn't followed up on a single campaign promise will dismiss this as if you're losing your touch. This is the problem with politics, both sides suck, completely. This is also why I hate seeing political discussion here, people typically speak from received opionions in echo chambers, than from deep and critical thought.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/20 04:08 AM
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Men will come here and vent about how "good" women have it, but honestly you can't blame women for the cards they are dealt. They grow up with different experiences than us. They develop, then thanks to societal norms they are hit on by guys so don't have to put in the work there. They have different sources of validation. It's not until 30 when their looks start to fade that reality starts to hit. It's like being born in a very rich family and you have 30 years to lock down a successful life, a…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/19 02:03 AM
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This is the most absurd thing I have ever read. The light-switch effect is nothing more than the moment of "the straw that broke the camel's back." He's probably done an array of BP shit and that was other her last straw or what she hamstered as the reason she lost attraction to him. The light-switch effect is such a misleading term, it creates the notion that if you accidentally do something BP just even ONCE like hold the door for her, every ounce of man in you just dies in her eyes because of…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/19 01:48 AM
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No where near the ease of access and expediency of today
/r/TheRedPill29/12/19 06:13 AM
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lmao always reminds me of a bit in Tosh.0 when Tosh is talking to some virgin and goes on to explain after nutting how you couldn't give to shits about her. "She could get hit by a bus right now and you couldn't care less."
/r/askTRP29/12/19 12:25 AM
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Right, but it's inevitable. This isn't your first LTR is it?
/r/askTRP29/12/19 12:21 AM
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A regular comment shouldn't get to you unless there may be some truth to it. It's good you could take the positive out of this. On top of that, who cares some boss makes you look at work, are you afraid you can't fuck your co-workers now? No harm no foul.
/r/askTRP29/12/19 12:20 AM
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Well that's adorable. How would you, King, have handled this wench 2-3 levels above you?
/r/askTRP29/12/19 12:18 AM
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If you don't actually want her to tie you up, she will sense this in a variety of ways. You may not get hard during the ordeal and then you have to deal with the emotional wreck of "OMG am I not good enough for you!" and all that other crap and now the mood went from new things in the bed to crying and depression for the night. She may even turn it into something to dig into you in a future shit test/fight.
/r/askTRP29/12/19 12:05 AM
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Then stop talking. One of the most ridiculous things about guys is they don't know sometimes when to just shut the fuck up. When you escalate with her, talk with your body and body language. When it looks ready, go for the kiss, it's something you should be able to sense because of the way she will look at you and your lips, including getting closer to your body. Let your body take over. You think when cave men fucked, they kept going on about cringe lord shit until they got their dick inside? O…
/r/askTRP29/12/19 12:01 AM
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It's natural. Imagine you had a true loser in your group of friends, just a real goofy goober. Then one day, he's got a little more muscle, the girls in your group eye him, he is acting out of line of what you expect of him (maybe making more slick come backs, innocent jokes that you take offense of even though you shouldn't). This is what you do to people when you improve. They are used to you being a certain way, so they are uncomfortable with the change because it is new, and more importantly…
/r/askTRP28/12/19 11:56 PM
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Don't overthink it. Women are the less dominant gender and prefer to be dominated. You can't be dominated by a lankey, broke, submissive twat. The guy you describe above I can picture probably having a "strong frame." This means when you talk to him, he essentially has a subconscious control of the interaction. You will most likely feel like you can't convince him to do something you want to do, he is going to do his own thing. If he wants to go to another bar and you and your friends want to st…
/r/askTRP28/12/19 11:52 PM
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The "in-person" interaction is the biggest part of all this. I think you already know the outcome if you keep "playing games and just face-timing" her. She messages you, and she is upset you are not giving her attention. The second you guys face time or play a game, she will feel content again until she wants your attention. It's like a drug, you provide the itching need for the drug by not responding to her so she feels the "withdrawl" and NEEDS the attention again. It's like her brain is sayin…
/r/askTRP28/12/19 11:48 PM
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Go into more interactions with a "lets just see how this goes," or a "whatever" mentality. This will properly frame your mind. Abundance mentality just means you feel okay just talking to random girls because you have done it so many times its "just talking to girls." We encourage it because we want her to feel the reality that this is just some normal interaction for you. It's not some "OMG a girl, I need to impress her with my jokes, my accomplishments, and my big words." Most guys fuck up bec…
/r/askTRP28/12/19 11:40 PM
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Can we get this"LeFt wInG vS rIgHt wInG" bull shit off here . . .
/r/TheRedPill28/12/19 12:28 PM
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Neither. It's a sub defined as a metaphorical tool box: you take what you need, you leave what you don't. If you find you are motivated by the Pareto Principle, good on you . I don't care. If that gets you laid, great. The overall point is these numbers and theories are just that, someone's take on the SMP. When we throw all of this information at people, it's just mental masturbation, time spent away from going out and hitting on women. Your game should be structured around you, not analyzing i…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/19 12:09 PM
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This 100%. Pornography kills sex drive, so it doesn't surprise me the current youth is actually getting laid less than previous generations. Also to expand on your piece about guidance: Another thing I found interesting is that over the last year, Youtube has began cleaning house on most PUAs. RSD is barely up, and most of their work has been deleted. Their "free tour" channel was temporarily down, and when it came back up it was missing a lot of old content. I found it strange that with the flo…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/19 11:54 AM
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Lets shift this back to a discussion. Why do you think the system is rigged. You're clearly getting attacked because you are making claim, but refusing to further support it. I agree with you in that there are some problems with the "system," and I don't care much for that because as even CainPrice has said, we can overcome it. What exact problems do you have with the system
/r/TheRedPill28/12/19 11:50 AM
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Jonathan Heidt has done a lot of research on this and I think you would find him to be very interesting on the whole "how social media affects those who grew up with it" discussion. His view makes it out in a way where women were most affected by because in terms of bullying, girls bully psychologically while boys bully physically. This went on to explain a big portion of younger female suicides. This is an interesting take from how the boys are doing with social media.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/19 11:43 AM
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This is the number one thing I hate about this place, most people here can't read between the lines. Just because you don't check off every TRP check box doesn't mean you won't get laid. Maintaining frame, creating emotional magic, and knowing game are still much larger weighed factors in the end for the average guy that doesn't look like Ryan Gosling. Just know these probably aren't high-pitched voice compliments coming from a place of desperation from billy beta, dude is probably using a lot o…
/r/TheRedPill26/12/19 01:28 AM
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Watch your words. I think more men today are other going MGTOW or Incel, that's it. TRP is not as known but we get thrown in with them for general criticisms of dating and marriage. Unless you can show me the large crowd of chads walking around bragging about their plates, what we have now are more men who simply don't have the time to date or cant afford marriage, or cant find suitable marriage partners thanks to massive changes in the dating world (online dating, tinder, ect). Most men may be …
/r/TheRedPill15/12/19 04:15 PM
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Can you link the pew research on mgtow, I cant find that
/r/TheRedPill15/12/19 04:02 PM
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He never meant you need to log in 7 hours with her. This 7 hours concept is based off the idea that you need to make her feel like she has known you for a while despite you guys only have been flirting and gaming for maybe an hour or 2 at the bar. Time here is a perception only, you're trying instead to instigate a more comfortable feeling so she doesn't feel like she is just being picked up by some random stranger. This is why back in the day you had PUA's that would pull her from a bar and tak…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/19 11:22 AM
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I don't get this at all. Why is this here. Is this supposed to be breaking news? Some chick lent her apartment out to her friend t fuck some dude, gets mad they actually fucked on her bed, and she's just frustrated after she sees the end result. No TRP insight.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/19 03:52 AM
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Just classical reminders you need to grind it out for what you want and to enjoy life. This kind of message may not be new, but a constant needed reminder for when times get tough! Thank you for this
/r/TheRedPill01/12/19 01:24 PM
4

Dangerous place. Nothing is worse than an Nihilistic echo chamber. Your mind will adapt and feed into anything it is reading or taught repetitively.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/19 01:26 PM
1

There is always more than one way to skin a cat, solid response. Don't take it personal, everyone has had different experiences that trigger their brain to act in a different manner to the same scenarios. Ignore the algorithmic goons who will over analyze what happened despite not being there, and then try and predict the future. Laughable.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/19 01:23 PM
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People need to be VERY careful with the wording of a "diet." Studies CONSISTENTLY show that people who go on diets inevitably regain the weight not long after. The idea behind a diet is that you are confined to a specific routine and thus will inevitably derail off of it with terrible externalities. We are already seeing studies where the body will actually make it more and more difficult for you to burn fat every time you go on a diet, off of one, and then go back on one again. It's better to s…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/19 01:06 PM
4

It could have been worse. You could have married the bitch. Let this experience allow you to make more rational decisions in the future. It will be good PTSD if you ever consider marriage.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/19 03:20 AM
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He does this on purpose. I like it. If he's going to convince you of his point, he'd rather it be from substance than a possible unintentional appeal from authority. Why should someone just "assume" someone else is right because of a title. If you need your authority to win people over that you wouldn't be able to without, other you have no good points or the person taking the information in and attempting to discredit it doesn't deserve the new bit of insight they just received.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/19 11:31 AM
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You can "not agree with it" all you want but there is a boat load of research that supports how much we are influenced more by our subconscious minds. Is posing and the whole 9 excessive, sure, but if that is what helps reinforce his brain to autopilot to the gym, it works. Point blank. He's not jerking himself off here, he is offering a variety of advice that helped him in hopes that it will get others back in the gym.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/19 11:04 AM
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Don't forget you are reading OP's piece from an extreme situation where it's heavily female dominated. I don't think it is so much women that are the problem, but when women are the significantly larger majority that have the approval of management/leadership at all times.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/19 01:11 AM
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I don't think anyone disagrees with your assessment, but your view of the world comes off as unrealistic or inexperienced. He never said HE would shoot someone who wins a verbal sparring with him. He is referencing people in general. No one ultimately cares what you think is "bitch behavior" or unjust. You go to 'his neck of the woods' and "win a verbal sparring," don't get upset when there are bullet holes in your gut.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 09:42 AM
2

Depends. If it is in public, you act indifferent and go one with your day. Whether to you that is going out to find other girls or whatever you are now doing with your time. Its obviously over so you ignore any attempt at apologies and you don't respond to contact, you act as if the break up occurred right there and that this person does not exist anymore. Obviously you may need to come with more energy if it is happening at your place where you will have to demand they leave and she pack her sh…
/r/askTRP30/10/19 09:35 AM
1

Probably depends if you asked her in a teasing manner or were stone cold serious about it. Otherwise can't even begin to figure how you gave her a second date.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 09:27 AM
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That's brutal. I worked a part time job where this one co-worker I knew, lets just say the lights were on but the house was missing some people. He used dating apps through his phone and would show me this girl he was talking to. She was the size of a planet and he told me he was struggling so this was the only one talking to him. They just talked through text/messenger for like a month. Guy was down when she stopped talking to him after she admitted she was just trying to prove to her boyfriend…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/19 03:35 AM
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Can none of these text messages about her breaking up with him be used against her in claiming his shit?
/r/TheRedPill24/10/19 09:05 PM
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Yeah man it's a solid ice breaker!
/r/TheRedPill23/10/19 12:35 AM
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Your subconscious mind plays a massive role in how you respond to things. Your body langue and actions told his subconscious mind "he is below you so treat him how you like," and he responded accordingly. You changed gears and made it clear through your actions that that is not the case. This is why I personally am very neutral with people. I joke around with people and have a fun atmosphere at my job with my patients. I don't delve too deep into people's personal lives unless they want to, and …
/r/TheRedPill18/10/19 08:13 PM
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"Don't talk about Fight Club" as the rule here isn't because you can't just Red Pill people. Its properly designed to DISCOURAGE people from doing it for a reason. That reason is the vast majority of people suck at it outright. Every one of these posts that newer member write up about "how I learned the hard way to not red pill people" is always written up the same like OP here (not to dunk on you OP just saying). They just come out of left field, guns blazing, like "Bro, CHECK THIS OUT AND READ…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/19 11:41 PM
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I am taking a different route here and will explain where YOU easily fucked up. Now while I naturally advocate NEVER speaking of TRP, I think there are people you can properly bread crumb to it. First you are dealing with a guy who is comfortable with his situation with 40-y/o women, but also understands marriage is a losing battle. All you had to do was bread crumb him where your views align, and then pick out pieces from the side bar you can reference as to how you came about this knowledge. I…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/19 04:01 PM
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You're going to get eaten alive for that title and how you went about it. That said, I think the overall take home point was that if you want to LTR, you're literally competing with guys who will fly from another part of the country (if not another country) just to fuck your girl, not just some guys in town. It's 2019 so its an interesting angle to put out there. Side note, is your Tinder distance set to "anything within a continent radius of me"
/r/TheRedPill05/10/19 04:20 PM
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Get a load of these bullet points! Did anyone get a load of these bullet points? Sugar babies join Seeking Arrangement for a number of reasons, including student debt, rent, or even in the hopes of finding a serious relationship or husband. "I think of it as more of a gift from someone you're dating rather than a sexual transaction, even though that is part of it," explains a 24-year-old sugar baby named Katelin. According to Seeking Arrangement's stats, the average sugar daddy is 38 and makes $…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/19 12:53 PM
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Gotta say it just to get it out of the way, if you have to present your situation and end it with questions, this isn't a field report, its a post that should have gone to the "askTRP" subreddit. Second, I would say your response (or maybe lack of there of) of girl 2's "negging" did you no favors for girl 1. She essentially shit tested you for both herself and girl 1. No banter or witty comebacks, just stayed silent? There is also a lot of missing information, like after ignoring girl 2 how you …
/r/TheRedPill22/09/19 03:03 PM
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Correct. All of this was just a background on how psychopaths are perceived and operate, mixed with a ton of overthinking. Women don't "love psychopaths" specifically, psychopaths typically just maintain frame and confidence. Can we stop re-inventing the wheel already . . .
/r/TheRedPill22/09/19 02:54 PM
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I am simply speaking in terms of behavior and response to typical situations. Those people you speak of are scenarios that require more effort to mask your true intentions or out-wit others. They will still most likely have some of the same fears and bad habits that more intelligent opposition will use against them successfully
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 09:02 PM
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To say we have an immense power over it is a stretch. It's why fat people stay fat. It's why this won't be the last time the broad in OP's post will be venting about dudes pumping and dumping her. Where you are right is that it takes a lot of hard work and effort. It starts with actually understanding your patterns or habits are an actual problem. This can be hard if you have no understanding of how to fix the problem, or how it even came to be a problem. Take financially illiterate people who a…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/19 03:08 AM
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It's a shame you're not an EC. This essentially nails it. It's good and refreshing to actually see a quality post that isn't "WoMaN DiVoRcEs GuY, ChoPs DicK oFf; He StiLL goEs to JaiL, STAY AWAY from WoManZ" where the incels can gather and talk about how no one is ever good enough to fuck even a 6 ever and if you are, it's because you're "probably some millionaire with 6'4 with a thousand pack, but she will leave you so you might as well just give up anyway."
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 03:49 PM
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Just behavior rationalization. We're human. It's like how fat people know they are fat, know they shouldn't eat shit food, but do it anyway. Then when they go to rant about their weight, they make sure to put in these "contradictions" as a way to make sure you "already know that they know they shouldn't eat bad food but they couldn't help themselves." It's funny. We like to believe we have free will, autonomy over our decisions. "We are individuals and we can prove we are different from everybod…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 03:37 PM
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This. Actually going out and talking to girls has more power because the limitations are gone. Your personality and frame are in the moment so its more than just looking at your face and making a snap judgement. Getting in your openers, bantering, pass "in the moment shit tests," it's a different situation. You're not "waiting in line" behind a bunch of other guys with the same washed up tinder openers.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/19 07:50 PM
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Ahh, caught bits and pieces. It just started reading off like someone who just finished reading the side bar a week ago so that makes more sense
/r/TheRedPill09/09/19 07:26 PM
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It's almost never about friendship with the genders. This is just placing an emphasis on how women avoid weakness and an inability to reproduce like the plague. They can feel he's not a "male" rat as he does not act up to it regardless of having a dick. Friendship goes out the window too. Most women don't actually want male friends, they keep them around as people to talk to, but at some deep rooted level still have some natural disgust for his inability to "man up." Women respond to confidence,…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/19 03:07 PM
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Solipsism, hypergamy, AND the wall . . . blows my mind that we STILL get people here who think you can go around and OVERTLY explain these concepts to the general population so flippantly. OF COURSE there will be blow back. The concepts explained here are on par with trying to explain to someone how "yeah I know you think 2+2=4, but actually it's not 4, it's 5. You have to look at it like this and factor in all this other stuff!" You're forcing someone to challenge their deeply routed subconscio…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/19 02:52 PM
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I figured it was just an over-exaggeration boosted by recent personal success. It's like when you do well on a test, so you tell everyone else around you "oh that test was easy, you don't even have to study as much," ignoring the amount of work you put in to prepare for it. You basically sum it up well. The irony I find with this forum is it is designed to educate men on how women work to improve their sexual success, and when they are hit with the reality of how women can be, they over think ev…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/19 02:22 PM
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You partially get it. Just be prepared for all the incels and cucks who think they have to be in monk mode until they all of a sudden look like panty soaking movie star in his prime. get to a 5/10 or 6/10 looks, then learn solid game (charisma and frame and the mechanics of interacting with women). and you are officially in the top 5% of men. This is where things go off the rails. No, you will NOT be able to look like a 6/10 and just game your way into the 5% club. This sets he kind of unrealist…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/19 12:21 PM
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Part 1 is over-dramatized. Women ultimately respond to frame and game. I can't imagine the amount of physical 10/10's that get rejected because they are outright socially awkward and have an inability to make concrete decisions
/r/TheRedPill07/09/19 08:23 PM
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Set your boundaries. Break it off with her from an angle of "I am setting you free" or she will just pout and give you shit for "breaking up with her for chasing her dreams" kind of nonsense. Anyone with half a brain knows the relationship is essentially dead going forward.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 10:04 AM
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The most difficult thing to overcome is our natural "creature of habit" instincts. We got the girl(s), so we lower our guard to let our subconscious mind take over back to doing what it has been more accustomed to for years in comparison to what we may have tried to practice in TRP the last few years. I am not talking the gym, or dressing sharp or any of that. I mean the fundamentals. Your brain combating "if I don't respond to her or how she likes, she will leave me." It sounds so logical and r…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/19 10:02 AM
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Of course he sounds angry. He's low SMV, he's looking at what he considers to be his pick of the litter or "SMV" range, and he knows as bad as these women are that they would most likely swipe left on this guy. In his mind, these are the only girls he can dance like a monkey for to get his dick wet.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/19 10:51 PM
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Not going to lie. I read the term "post wall" a lot and think "whatever, they can't be that bad," but man, this horrifies me for when I get older. It's one of those things you can't mentally digest when you're at a bar hitting on just 20-somethings.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/19 10:43 PM
1

That's really all you need. The bigger problem is a lot of the newer members get a number and a date with some chick and are all like "I got a plate." It's not a plate until you guys have fucked at least twice and there is still a continuation going.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 07:11 PM
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No, most girls keep 5'10-6ft a "safe height" kind of range. If a girl is giving you shit about your height when you are taller than her, or at least 5'8, she's not the kind of broad you want to dance like a monkey for to hopefully get laid.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 01:18 AM
1

Who cares about your age, you're not marrying any of these broads. Don't tell them your age, and if they ask, you're 21. Obviously this means you can't go out with the group of guys that call you "old man" or you will be dealing with an absurd amount of cock block. Now that we got the basics out of the way, being creepy is a "feel" from girls. Girls read into our body language subconsciously. Be cognizant of this. That means don't give her too much open body language at first with your chest fac…
/r/askTRP22/08/19 01:15 AM
1

"It's pretty packed. Lets do X day at X time."
/r/askTRP22/08/19 01:10 AM
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Unless you are some type of promoter or someone who does something that still allows them to have a lot of free time on their hands, I don't know how anyone can keep more than 4 without putting their head through a fucking wall. The variety is nice as some will do things in bed others won't, but the others might be more quality at something. In exchange you rotate and keep conversations alive. I was lucky I had some girls who could deal with no text exchange for like a month.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 01:08 AM
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So many people here don't understand this, and this would honestly eliminate like 80% of the questions asked here and at askTRP. We could sticky this, but it will go over everyone's head like it ALWAYS does because it comes back to the reality that most lurkers only read instead of putting themselves into the experience. No one became a better driver reading the driving manual in driver's ed 24/7. They went out, started up the car, and put a ton of miles on it!
/r/TheRedPill20/08/19 12:27 PM
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It's not really a "choice" if you think about it. Humans are VERY complex beings. We're inconsistent and we're contradictions. We still don't truly understand how the brain wholly works. We can be frugal one day, then giving the next. One thing that is for sure is we see hierarchy all the time, even if you are unaware of it, your subconscious mind is. You'll find all the answers to your questions in Robert Greene's more recent book Laws of Human Nature Your mentality if good, being a hater is be…
/r/askTRP20/08/19 12:22 PM
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So if its the first, I'll start by saying don't take it to heart and here is why. Our brains adapt to constants. Patterns. When someone doesn't text us back after a history/pattern of doing so and timely, we freak out because it has broke pattern. I would say give it a week, and randomly text her a feeler text. Something involving an inside joke like you saw her clone at some place and tie it into how that inspired the text. If you get nothing again, hard next. You just move on to another girl. …
/r/askTRP20/08/19 12:39 AM
2

It's no big deal. You're adding to your pool of experience. It's like when you miss a shot in basketball."How do you deal with it? Well I am sure Kobe Bryant used to show up to practice 2 hours early to get extra practice time and shots in. He didn't make every shot in the basket, but his chances of making them in games sureley improved. Do you see where I am going with this?
/r/askTRP20/08/19 12:25 AM
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Women shit test you to understand where you fit and if you have back bone. Men shit test you to other keep you in place or see what you're made of. We use silly terms like "shit test" for something that is a natural part social dynamics. The idea that we're in trouble is ridiculous, these situations have been going on for years. You can actually thank feminism for arguably making it "easier" to climb up the totem pole of society. Normalizing the feminization of men means more betas and less comp…
/r/askTRP20/08/19 12:23 AM
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Joe Rogan had on Naval Ravikat who had an interesting take on your question. He argues a lot of the machinery inside the cells in our body do so much that isn't accounted for in these discussions. Then you expand to the brain which we still have very little understanding of how it works. These discussions alone would make it impossible at this time to create the general intelligence AI would need before it displaces all jobs. It will be a LONG time before robots can replace us in tasks that are …
/r/TheRedPill20/08/19 12:19 AM
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Organize this a bit for me. Are you saying she normally always texts back immediately but she outright hasn't texted you back since your most recent reply? Or are you saying she didn't reply back, but then replied back later? If she is not texting you back, your default is a soft next no matter what. You go and find other girls.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 12:10 AM
1

You mean you text her and you guys just fuck, but you also get the benefit of she doesn't bother you or blow up your phone by texting you at in-opportune times? Where can I find one of those?!
/r/askTRP17/08/19 10:50 PM
3

What do you get out of this? I have had female friends in that position and I just stop talking to them because they are not giving back. The best way to drop her is to act like you are always busy. If she texts you to hang out, "working, maybe some other time. "Working on a big school project, can't." Just keep going on and on. She will just get tired of hitting you up if her mind develops the idea that there will be a reasoned decline of the invite every time and just move on
/r/askTRP17/08/19 10:47 PM
1

You're going through a lot right now so its understandable, make time for yourself right now. Look out for number one. As for the girl, if you guys are not official, don't let her push you around on this "you're cheating" idea. You need to counter with the reality that you guys are not together. If thats a problem for her, let her go. It's easy to see this from the outside looking in, but I'd imagine between your personal dealings and her emotional comfort that this is not easy. This does not ju…
/r/askTRP17/08/19 10:43 PM
1

Yeah and this can be a lot of things with women. This sums up why "push-pull" and not being too available work. She needs to miss you, feel like maybe there is someone else. Its almost like a game to her. The sense that she could lose you makes her feel different around you because most guys are available, transparent, predictable, and overall as a result: BORING.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 10:38 PM
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Define not working. People need to stop treating women like they are some computer program. "I inserted this code, and the computer didn't do what I wanted. What malfunctioned?" You shouldn't be over thinking the situation. You treat the remark flippantly and forget you even said it. She could possibly have sensed it came out forced like you were storing it in your back pocket with an intention rather than some fun remark out of the blue. Ignore the situation. Just keep acting as if things are n…
/r/askTRP17/08/19 10:35 PM
1

Where did you read that, couldnt be farther from the truth. Want a tattoo, get a damn tattoo
/r/askTRP17/08/19 10:28 PM
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They never had to work on it. By college, every average looking girl has been hit on so much that there wasn't this momentary lapse in thought that she is a plain Jane boring loser that needs to work on herself to get male attraction. Guys also just "want to be her friend because they are always talking to her" in her mind, and she hamsters this as okay because girls can be "judgmental and mean so guys are better."
/r/askTRP17/08/19 10:26 PM
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The top 20% are typically guys with natural gifts. 6"+ height, facial symmetries, ect. We promote the 3 things you put in this topic as ways to get INTO the top 20. Work first on your confidence and frame, they are the vast majority of what gets you laid. Lifting and taking care of yourself is next. Money for the purpose of women is good if you enjoy being Beta Bux. Place frame, game, and lifting above all. That is what will generally make you attractive. We basically have science and years of f…
/r/askTRP17/08/19 10:24 PM
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Of course she is. Women want a text that says "Come over at "x" o'clock on "x" day." They HATE making the call, and their interest in you takes a nose dive when you push her to schedule the meet up (or almost ANYTHING for that matter)
/r/askTRP17/08/19 10:19 PM
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If you expect to stay with her, there will be a moment where you two are expected to move in together. It takes a LOT of rewiring of bad habits to get someone to change. Digest that as you hyperventilate from seeing clutter around the apartment. You're going to have to get more serious with your concern of the clutter. If it irritates you this much, this is most likely a strong boundary you don't want crossed that she is consistently crossing. You can sit here hoping someone will give you some m…
/r/askTRP17/08/19 10:17 PM
1

Comfort. One thing I notice is girls acknowledge they have options per online dating apps, but you don't know these guys. She is always willing to roll the dice on a top tier 9+ guy, but they are not exactly common. So if she's horny, she can scroll the large ocean of betas and strangers, try her luck and hope she doesn't catch something, or fuck dick that she gets off from and is familiar with.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 03:18 AM
2

Ever since the quarantine, I would argue this place has become well hidden for now. I don't think you will see much on social media that is actually TRP related unless its some type of agreeing overlap in beliefs with more mainstream PUA's and Entrepreneurs. For example all 3 would agree not to put a woman on a pedestal. I would be a little more shocked if you started seeing more beliefs that are only unique to TRP such as branch swinging, "it's just your turn," and hypergamy.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 03:15 AM
1

I picture how ridiculous I look and clown-able it is. I feel more empowered in taking pride in being cool, calm, and collected.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 02:58 AM
2

There is no such thing as "bro loyalty" with chicks, or more importantly there "shouldn't" be. It's not natural at all. My experience with with this is even when guys do this and try to help you out, the social pressure of getting her with you even by isolating you two out of "loyalty" is VERY VERY palpable to her. It's forced so it feels unnatural and will kill anything she feels for you. That said, lets move on to your situation. He's trying to hit on her. So what? Who cares? Now YOU lay down …
/r/askTRP17/08/19 02:56 AM
5

I've yet to see a way to increase a mans neuroplasticity and get into learning new mental models, other than experiencing some sort of trauma. Just make it quick and non-permanent if you can. This is hands down one of the biggest things in the world to me. I have needed to do and learn so much in person before I learn anything. I honestly check the forum out of motivation than learning these days. I learn way more just actually going out and socializing at bars/parties/events
/r/TheRedPill08/08/19 01:31 PM
3

What are you talking about? The bar for being masculine is so low in today's society. You act as if there are so many Dwayne Johnson-esque muscle heads walking over the planet that you need to hurry up and order your next shipment of steroids before all the pussy is gone.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 04:06 AM
5

You're reading too much into extremes. Frame is the key component to most of this. Maintain your frame, your confidence, and overall game skills and you'll be fine. How often do you see fights in today's day and age? Unless you expect to get jumped and your ass whooped every time you go to take a girl out, this really shouldn't affect you, nor should you look at it like some shocking revelation. This is ultimately the problem with most people on this forum. They read everything on the forum and …
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 04:03 AM
3

There are NO success stories to downgrading a GF to a plate. Plates are FWB that understand the dynamic. You're literally putting yourself in a fucked up mental position if you pretend you guys will be cool as plates. The second she's fucking another guy, you're not going to feel the same. You may think you will, but when it is "actually" happening is a different monster. Don't put yourself in that mental grief for the "safety" and convenience of pussy you already have been slaying and feel comf…
/r/askTRP04/08/19 02:39 AM
1

Pick up books on the "Subconscious Mind" and things will make sense. In a nutshell, we have the conscious mind (that me and you are aware of, the things you learn, the things you are conscious of) and the subconscious minds (things recorded by our brain in the background). The subonscious mind is designed to take in large bits of information, research says over 1 million bits times more as our conscious mind can. It stores patterns and constants that we experience, and this is what leads to "gut…
/r/askTRP04/08/19 02:31 AM
5

In comparing men and women, most newer member will read this and reawaken more of the "anger" phase. This is because men have to put in work for women as per societal norms. They have to have things going for them, they have to open the conversation, they lead the interaction, typically the escalation, hold frame. As this becomes more "natural" from practice, it isn't some much work anymore. Once you have had these phases where you have had plates, you truly appreciate "the game" as much as wome…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/19 01:01 PM
5

it would lead to a lot of confusion, heartbreak and misplaced anger. Why? Because this advice given to someone with little to no understanding of game will go right over their head. Without the context of information from the side bar, or just a genuine understanding of game, they will predictably interpret it in a manner of "Ohh, I just have to pretend I am too cool for school, like James Bond." Then you'll see these same guys at the bar or venue placed up against the wall, like they are holdin…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/19 04:28 AM
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I'll take a stab. Referring to someone as an "8" is very broad. It could mean they physically have the appearance of an 8, however they could have nothing else going for them. There are physical appearance "caps," but ultimately what good is a pussy of an 8 if the 5 or 6 can slay. An "experienced" TRP man understands the general concepts and is more effective with interactions. He can read social situations better, more effective with banter and deeper conversations, holds frame well, and ultima…
/r/TheRedPill22/07/19 04:16 AM
10

Ironic isn't it? They spend years acting like men to attract men. We spend out time here deprogramming our BP selves which essentially involved some learning to be more feminine one way or another. Like some sick joke society played
/r/TheRedPill09/07/19 11:48 AM
1

haha or maybe Im just having fun with this topic as a whole because its been constantly brought up and debated for years here. I could care less what people are doing with their free time. I just love pulling in some popcorn to read the predictable rage-fueled exchanges from both sides.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/19 11:03 AM
1

Oh maaannnn here comes the "ThErE'S NoThInG BluE PiLLeD aBoUt mY HoBbIeS aNd WhaT I dO wiTh mY FreE TiME!!!!" posts . . .
/r/TheRedPill07/07/19 11:54 AM
9

The website is just another loser trying to cash in very late on the "dating gurus/pua" scene. Ex's don't play mind games. They leave because it's over and lost interest in you. Any "games" you "think" she is playing are the ones created by your own weakened mind and bruised ego that are also feeding into your insecurities.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/19 09:46 PM
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How this needs to be repeated blows my mind. "Don't talk about Fight Club" isnt some "edgy" rule. It's for a reason. It's like being that jackass magician that goes around explaining how magic tricks work. The red pill is for you to swallow, whole. Don't go breaking it up into pieces to share like some kind and giving junky! It shows how little of a piece you saved for only yourself when you go around talking about how you "digested" it
/r/TheRedPill01/07/19 10:52 AM
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Man could you imagine if this guy was as dedicated to fixing himself and hitting the gym as he is to making sure every word in a text starts with a capital letter and can properly time his ". . ." to emphasize a moment of silence and reflection
/r/TheRedPill28/06/19 10:43 AM
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So you mean more from the angle of bad nights when we over think and talk too much to compensate for being off our actual game when we should be escalating in other ways
/r/TheRedPill28/06/19 01:27 AM
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Yeah, but there is a difference between using banter to clown stereotypical well known PUA tricks and actually trying to impress a girl by pretending you actually know what she wants because "I read this side bar and . . . "
/r/TheRedPill28/06/19 01:24 AM
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Are their actually morons out there that go "man if I explain TRP to a women, she'll think Im so smart and edgy and go full waterfall with her pussy for me" I've never seen anyone win a game of poker by playing with their hand showing . . .
/r/TheRedPill26/06/19 10:32 AM
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My point isn't to be fat and smelly and just roll game. Anyone on par with this guy with a legitimately good body would blow this kid out of the water. My point is most people on this forum are perpetually stuck in Monk Mode: Lifting until their arms fall off. Eating only the best food. Digesting only the best edgy one-liner movies/tv shows for their banter supply box. Reading only the most dark triad, Machiavellian, self-help/actualization books ever. All for what? So they can criticize the fla…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/19 04:49 PM
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Prepare to take heat from butt hurt lurkers who don't actually practice this stuff. The ones who absorb the sidebar like a sponge, but then can't drop their balls to talk to girls in real life. So in their ideal reality where only Christiano Rinaldo-looking mother fuckers can get laid, the idea of a smelly fat fuck getting laid shatters their world. They won't be able to comprehend that your buddy held frame, was authentic, and simply laid out a solid DGAF attitude while escalating. Solid story.…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/19 10:24 PM
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PUA to a degree is under the TRP umbrella.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/19 10:21 PM
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Most average men are already basically fat chicks
/r/TheRedPill13/06/19 12:07 AM
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A+ Move to think of the newer members. When I first got on TRP 2 years ago, I hated how someone could post a rookie field report or post with quality take on more basic stuff, but everyone would rail on them for "you should have done that" or "yeah, well you got lucky, but next time do this or it's straight BP." After a while I got numb to it and started becoming that critic. As a matter of a fact I almost came in ready to slam the guy for using emoji's in his text. It's like a creature of habit…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/19 11:23 AM
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Feminists have turned society upside down. The irony is out of control. Men are typically attracted to the typical quiet, submissive, bookworm girl. Feminism tells women instead to go out and get jobs, be leaders, show less emotion and show the world "girl power" instead. Women are typically attracted to confidant men who are in control of their emotions, who lead, who maintain frame, and go after what they want. Feminism instead tells men to be more submissive, emotional, go out of their way to…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/19 08:39 PM
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We need more of this. The reality that Frame and Game is the majority of what you're aiming to improve. Your overall attitude. The lifting adds discipline, for health benefits, and improved physical appearance. It should be viewed as much a bonus to your frame/game, not the necessity.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/19 08:06 PM
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lmao I am sure he had some easy lays in there but most of the ones I saw him pull were mainly 7's and 8's. Thanks for proving my point though
/r/TheRedPill30/05/19 01:48 AM
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Try again and follow through this time. Part of the problem with TRP is NO ONE IS GOING OUT AND GETTING EXPERIENCE. They take basic shit like "you have to be 6'2, have a giant dick, 6 pack, muscles, and make 6 figures, otherwise she hates you" and magnify it beyond belief. Like there is no middle ground. My friend lifts, has good mass on his arms, fucked like 20 girls in the span of 8 months and he is only 5'7. The more you wrap your mind around these physical limitations, the more it PERMEATES …
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 12:13 AM
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First thing I was thinking while reading this. Not just that. Feminism is also the first to also push for men to be more feminine. It's like some sick joke by the mainstream liberal media. Force men and women to flip their gender roles, and then watch chaos ensue as both sides turn on each other.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/19 02:08 AM
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Dude has a solid podcast out right now. Rebranded from beige phillip to Man school 2.0
/r/TheRedPill27/05/19 08:20 PM
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Good write up, its reality-hitting food for thought and I play with it from time to time. I am in an LTR that seems content without serious labels or marriage. I think down the line this is the best kind of gal to nab. If a woman steps on my heart, whatever, I pick up the peices and its just more fuel for when I go back into the gym. I have no problem stomaching that. Losing half my shit, her taking the kids, the whole 9, yeah I have a problem with that. Have a buddy right now who's been dating …
/r/TheRedPill26/05/19 12:31 PM
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Wanted to give her benefit of the doubt until I saw the profile pic. That broad could be 35 or 53 and I'd believe both
/r/TheRedPill23/05/19 07:05 PM
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It's the same tradcon nonsense we hear over and over again. "If you just be a rich and successful chad 24/7, no chick would ever want to leave you." TRP practically disavows marriage not because "its impossible," but because it's an extremely stacked game where when you lose, you lose BAD, and you lose literally a LOT. I hope your marriage goes well, I truly hope yours lives out and works, but there is a reason this is one of the most controversial topics on TRP. First of all, relationships get …
/r/TheRedPill23/05/19 06:29 PM
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If you are leading the group of girls in, no way. If the girl or girls are leading you in and you follow like a lapdog, yeah cats out of the bag from the beginning. After the few minutes you are there, they break down things from your body language and your interactions. I take advantage of this a lot. Half the battle is not being some sucker who's there to talk to those girls the whole time because you love your comfort zone. I typically would go out with a group of girls with some friends, hav…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/19 01:33 AM
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Wrong. Girls don't know you or the girl(s) you are with, so they have no idea about what kind of relationship is going on between you and the girls. As a result, this is the farthest thing from "reverse pre selection." The reason guys fuck it up after that is because they dont have anything else going for them. Remember pre selection doesn't get you laid, it just draws attention to you and gives you potential options. That's it. Anything after that is STILL on the guy to have good game, frame, t…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/19 09:39 PM
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2, 3, and 4 are not talked about enough. The amount of shaming toward female frienships when not used properly is ridiculous. I do agree though it is better if you just randomly talk to girls you don't know as a way to gas the socializing engine. There also isn't enough emphasis on body language and what it can subconsciously not say but 'scream' at people.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/19 12:45 AM
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Hilarious. This sums it up right here: So, what on earth is going on with these results? Some results suggest that women’s masculinity preferences are stronger in countries where sickness is more common, others where sickness is less common, some where violence is more common, and others where economic conditions are more favorable. It’s possible that women in wealthier, more industrialized countries are less interested in a caring, sharing partner. Indeed, Marcinkowska and colleagues found that…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/19 12:04 PM
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Been following her for a while, very interesting and educated. She's going to be dangerous for the establishment going forward. She's 14, still learning and already is nearing 1 million followers
/r/TheRedPill16/05/19 12:21 AM
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I practically knew you were going to re-invent the wheel just by reading the title. Decided to read it just for the confirmation
/r/TheRedPill15/05/19 01:49 AM
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Thank god for rationalism. I thought I was the only one turned off by this guy and couldn't help but roll my eyes that this was a headline on TRP. I've heard he used to be a big figure head in he manosphere, but I had only listened to pieces of him from more recent podcasts/streams. I figured if this was the direction TRP was going, then this place has truly become a dumpster fire compared to its former self. This makes a lot of sense now.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/19 02:24 PM
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Dont sweat the small stuff like emojis. You're on the right track. Organize your diet and learn some of the key lifts in "Strong Lifts 5x5" as a good starting point. Protect your body, if you feel your back is a little sore, "am I tightening my stomach/abdominal area wen I lift?," check in with yourself as you lift. If you need, hell get a personal trainer to watch your movements. Don't worry about what you are now, prepare for what you want to be. Don't get tangled in "what's alpha? What's Beta…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/19 09:01 PM
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I mean just imagine your guy friends sending you emoji's, are they more likely coming from a more serious guy friend who lifts, or would you expect it more from one of your more beta-esque friends?
/r/TheRedPill08/05/19 08:49 PM
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No matter how much of this material people read, most can't help themselves when they feel they are with a "good girl" and can't help but ask the age old question of LTR's. Pardon the negativity but I don't believe it is truly possible to maintain a long lasting LTR, it is simply not "natural." What Keffir gets right is that on your end, you must essentially have the experience in classic alpha male mentality/personality (leader, charismatic, confident), while being excellent at holding frame an…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/19 08:39 PM
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A couple of things. To begin: if she was dating you, and you guys broke up, then shes dating someone else the next day, there is a strong chance she had been around this new guy WAY longer than that 1 day. So she is always looking at other options, always combating FOMO and making sure she has someone with her until she finds the next best thing.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/19 08:16 PM
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You're in for some disappointment if you think it's about delayed gratification. If you treat it as such, I'll finish out these scenarios for you, we get a response post about how you're now their BFF's with maybe reaching only first base on a lucky drunk night. IDGAF attitude radiates you have no "need" for things, and as such have the freedom to do what you want regardless of other's thoughts or opinions. You don't let the thoughts of others or the outcome of a situation bust your frame, becau…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/19 05:49 PM
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Of course. It's typically frowned upon because it comes off too 'friendly,' which for the the friend zone occupants know we're trying to avoid this. Emoji's are for girls and her gay guy friends to send to her. I think too many guys are too focused on making the text look safe that they add the emoji as a way to appear non-threatening. Problem with that is when you act non-threatening, you will be treated as such. Now I am not saying an emoji is the fastest way to dry her up, but all OP did was …
/r/TheRedPill06/05/19 05:44 PM
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I think the most challenging thing about Frame is you deal with two kinds of people. You have confrontational people and you have non-confrontational people. When frame battle occurs, non-confrontational types won't take long to bow out, especially if done at a subconscious level where if you give them a way out within the invisible battle field, they will take it and will be grateful as it won't be out in the open that they ceded ground to you (at least to people not paying attention). Confront…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/19 03:58 PM
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Podcasts would be nice but I haven't looked into them. I highly recommend "Subliminal" by Leonard Mlodinow, very impressive book that sums it up. Blink by Malcolm Gladwell is another great read on this subject
/r/TheRedPill04/05/19 02:02 PM
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Exactly. Frame and Game are my personal response to why people question how averaging looking guys who get laid consistently can do it despite not having the physique or other superficial attributes. Looking forward to it
/r/TheRedPill03/05/19 04:18 PM
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I don't think the subconscious mind is talked about enough on this sub so I though this was a good read. We tell people to maintain Frame all the time, but there is no root understanding of what this truly means. I actually remember back when I followed Josh Pellicer's Tao of Badass stuff, my biggest take aways were his discussions on the subconscious mind. He has a lot of basic PUA stuff, but the man truly understood behavioral psychology and did a phenomenal job explaining it's importance in s…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/19 01:10 PM
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Well written piece on a subject (subconscious mind) that isn't brought up enough to help others better understand and strengthen frame and social awareness. That said, this idea "you're at war all the time" is over the top. When you have readers take it from this angle, you encourage more defensive thinking. People are now more on edge with their social interactions which conflicts with their ability to hold frame and have normal conversations. I think it's important to acknowledge and be cogniz…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/19 01:04 PM
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That bit is over a decade old. It's impressive how bad the stats were then. I think when you consider Jonathan Haidt's research on people who grew up during the inception of social media, I couldn't even begin to imagine how marriage can hold up for the next generation.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/19 12:01 PM
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I think you need to step back and actually see where I am coming from and what I am saying. We had a basic discussion where all I am doing is explaining the benefits of lifting, and then you come out of left field about "white despair, mail entitlement, worshiping pussy, racism," and all this other political/religious comparison-like BS. I agree with the assertion there are too many people here who push too much non-related sexual strategy content. I am personally in the camp of "frame/game abov…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/19 02:56 PM
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You're missing the whole point. Again this isn't about just "being in shape," it's about everything from your mentality, improved cognition, improved discipline, the list goes on. If you are doing well with women on just general exercise and a good diet, stick with it. I don't care, clearly that works for you. I can go fuck myself if the way you're going about your life involves managing so many plates that they are stuffing and falling out of the cabinet. My point is the benefits that come with…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/19 02:35 PM
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Of course just saying "go lift heavy shit" isn't what we're about here. If you read the side bar, it's loaded with information on lifting, and the Strong Lifts are a great way to get started. Even then, I still would personally recommend a trainer for a bit to watch over you. As for acting like lifting isn't for everybody, that's absolute nonsense. Lifting provides a myriad of benefits outside "just putting on pounds of muscle." It's become arguably the best way to get in shape. It provides plen…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/19 01:54 PM
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Lifting can't be stressed enough so I guess I'll be one of the first to through that important cliche up. Between improving looks and making you look stronger, lifting improves your mood, prevents injury, gives you more energy, builds up your T levels, the list simply goes on and on. ​ For the most part you're on the right track. One of the most challenging things I'v noticed are users who permanently lurk on here rather than go out and actually implement what they read and learn. You don't know…
/r/TheRedPill27/04/19 05:15 PM
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Well written. My favorite thing about the main forum is that it is primarily generally thought provoking, and even most replies tend to be genuine. Not as much internet-debate free fall of people one-upping each other on who's right and their N counts so the mods are doing a good job. I am actually genuinely surprised at how more thought out EC-types are in their replies. They drop their nuggets and leave, not too much sperging arguments with people not worth their time. I think a lot of it just…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/19 02:37 PM
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Frame is probably one of the most challenging concepts to absorb and then implement in reality for those who don't have it. It's so easily overlooked, and it shows on askTRP. ​ I am going to yell this one far out back for even the "TRP forum experts" who think they have the concepts down pat, but wouldn't dare cold approach a chick in real life: You can read for days on end about TRP and frame and think "pfff, easy, so just don't let anyone walk all over me." Then situations unfold in real time …
/r/TheRedPill21/04/19 10:11 PM
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That's fair, but this is more about engaging in opinions to see how someone would respond to this.
/r/askTRP20/04/19 05:07 PM
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The classic fake FR to get some up votes and good feels. Hey Mods can we wrap this one up? Love the easy response by the girl and the "I sent kissy emoji's for escalation", along with no explanation of the journey on how you restored your confidence tells me you're beyond full of shit.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/19 04:42 PM
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Probably using his arms to block the guy's attempts to push him
/r/TheRedPill13/04/19 01:07 PM
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Don't overthink the "macho" shit. Just talk to random girls and HAVE FUN with it. Practice more bantering. Girls will feed off your light-hearted fun, banter, and wit. People read what it takes to be "alpha" on this forum and because TRP doesn't exactly have the best reference-able examples, their minds immediately think they have to be this psycho cold-hearted James Bond who's "too cool" for the world. You're putting a lot of mental luggage in your head. Your head is too busy worrying about kee…
/r/askTRP13/04/19 05:36 AM
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RSD is one of the closest things to visibly show what TRP wants. Owen and co. aren't fully there, they still like to pretend the "looks" aspect can be brushed off and are BP on relationships, but most of their content does well in aligning with TRP philosophy. Their "Be the Wolf, not the Sheep" video is a must check, insightful on why we are prone to calling it quits early why we typically strive to find people to lead us instead of the other way around.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/19 11:30 PM
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Blows my mind the direction society is headed. A friend of mine was talking to an old highschool coach the other day. A true man's coach who would neg the fuck out of his players and have fun, just being a real locker room dude about it. Coached well, discipline, the whole 9, winning teams. He says now the coach is stuck with a bunch of bench-warmer level losers. Their sports teams are getting less and less populated. You used to be able to have to compete for a spot everyday, the second you sta…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/19 11:52 PM
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I wondered why I resonated with this write up so much. At the end, a big portion of this goes back to seeing all these guys on AskTRP with the same BS questions. "I lifted this much today, I ate a steak, and I totally passed this one chick's shit test by waiting like 5 minutes before texting her back. Why isn't she sucking my dick?" There seems to be this hilarious idea that if you "raise" your SMV, women just come to you. Nope. You still have to do the heavy lifting, you have to be the one who …
/r/TheRedPill03/04/19 12:34 AM
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I think I follow. You place a larger emphasis on 'take action' qualities like DNGAF as something that is apart of the 'loser' alpha's repertoire, and that because it still comes from the frame of someone who is trying to get laid without playing beta games, he is still alpha. It differs from a more functional alpha like a drill sergeant or cold CEO, someone with functional skill sets such as leadership, drive, and confidence. In the end it doesn't matter because an alpha strategy is still about …
/r/TheRedPill03/04/19 12:21 AM
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Like I did in my response. You don't have to be Alpha to generate tingles. If you are good at manipulating emotions and can really do a number with Push/Pull concepts, you can get girls. Maybe my definition of an alpha and your definition differ. I see an alpha as a strong ripped man who has control of his frame and life. He doesn't care about what others are thinking, has a classic DNGAF attitude, and generally does things his own way. I see people like drug addicts as those who are good with D…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/19 12:55 AM
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These labels are out of control. While I agree there are "loser" alphas, some of the described characters are out-right not alphas. For example drug addicts are not alpha, they are bony degenerates who clearly would not qualify under the definition of "physically" desirable that you laid out. What they can do is generate feelz and incite a lot of push/pull. This should not be mistaken for alphas, as I don't know too many people that would respect and rally around the leadership or a drug addict.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/19 08:27 PM
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They can pick up on body language and the way you present yourself, these are all things we typically have poor control over because these are subconscious things we do. These are the things they "feel" and pick up on, I never said they were mind readers so these benefits are only so far reaching. ​ This is no different than if you were to see a man with a knife and an evil look on his face approach you. You may have never met this man before, so who are you to judge him or his intentions. That …
/r/askTRP27/03/19 09:44 AM
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perfect answer. You're most likely going to hear "you make decisions all the time, what about me" as a response to leading when she actually HAS an answer or KNOWS what she wants to eat for dinner.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/19 01:00 PM
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This truly explains the #metoo movement. No Chad/Ares was involved in that mass call out. Just a bunch of Hepaestus, smart and successful people admired in society, but with physical attributes/SMV so bad that no women would ever truly want to fuck without that respect from society. It was a venting outlet for being "tricked" into those sexual encounters.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/19 12:56 PM
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Very enlightening. The inevitable outcome is the realization that it truly is about being yourself. Being yourself doesn't mean some of the mediocre and overplayed analytics of just doing whatever you want. It comes from the reality of truly being comfortable in your own skin. When you own that, people like you because you embody what they want to be capable of. Same way you fell in love with how to be Chad, people love others that go unhinged and just act and say as they like. We have these ala…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/19 04:04 PM
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You mean she is only entitled to those "settlements" so long as she remains "divorced," but once re-married she loses them I am guessing
/r/TheRedPill08/03/19 09:22 PM
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You only have it half down. You lift, you diet, and you set goals all for YOURSELF. You treat women secondary. That's the simple point. You don't play these over-compensatory thought process of "ohh wow look at my muscles, I won a wrestling trophy in the 4th grade too!" What you DO get right is that women are just there, and they are welcome to come along for the ride. "I am the prize" is essentially what you have explained to a certain degree in this post, so you never debunked it, you simply p…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/19 09:18 PM
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Yeah man! Good luck!
/r/askTRP01/03/19 01:12 AM
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Honestly the problem isn't "oh no, I hurt her feelings after she dropped me like a dime." Your friends won't hate you because you are moving on, that is nonsense. SHE is the one "creating" the drama. In framing this as if its your fault, thats the equivalent to if you were a parent and blaming yourself for your child crying because you had to discipline them for doing something wrong. The relationship is over, she has no right being upset that you are moving on. She can feel this way, that's nat…
/r/askTRP27/02/19 03:39 PM
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It's like anything else in life. The more you do it, the more you get better at it and really start to see EVERYTHING going on. Like when you learned to drive a car and hit the gas or breaks to hard or early, and now you probably just day dream through most trips. ​ The apology is key. This is me theorizing so please don't over think it too much, but Joe Rogan had a big time social psychologist on named Jonathan Heidt a while back. He noted through research how women born in '95 and on have had …
/r/askTRP25/02/19 11:06 PM
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Your situation is actually pretty status quo, almost typical example of the kinds of guys that end up here. When you guys dated, she was into you, simple enough. Somewhere down the relationship, you other became complacent or stopped giving her "tingles." Maybe you showed moments of weakness, maybe you wren't decisive, or more likely broke frame a lot. Maybe you even operated more into her frame, failing shit tests, and you then became boring. I could go down the list as I don't know the kind of…
/r/askTRP25/02/19 10:56 PM
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Hate being the text rules nazi but start with taking emoji's out of your texts. One piece that sticks out to me is you invite her to some place, then when she asks "no one else??" , and then you include your friends. If she was looking to get laid, inclusion of your friends may have set that back. ​ As far as she goes, if she responds back with interest "oh I can't get a text back," its not a red light yet, but the fact that she only apologized w/o an explanation would raise question marks. If s…
/r/askTRP25/02/19 10:44 PM
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Exactly. You fix those "insecurities." I am not advocating if you walk around looking like garbage that you just "be okay" with that. What I am saying is if your mental make up is "I look good then I should have girls just crawling on me without me having to lift a finger," then you have a lot of learning to do. The big misconception around here is if you don't have the looks, you're nothing. I have seen plenty of average and below average looking guys pull girls because of their confidence and …
/r/askTRP25/02/19 08:48 PM
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Looks matter, but can be fixed with lifting and dieting. Even then, there will be a ceiling for most men as genetics and other factors come into play to be a 10/10. When you tie yourself to your looks, you make things worse. You're confidence needs to come from YOU, not because you have a six pack or muscles, those things are just a bonus.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 07:19 PM
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Yes the basics. Spinning more plates is the one to key in on as far as women go. You want to get comfortable talking to more women. It's like anything else. When you first learned to drive a car, you were probably tapping the breaks too hard, too suddenly, you felt uncomfortable with turns and how little you could see around the car when maneuvering. You can probably do it now with long periods of day dreaming or brain storming and then just end up at your next destination without remembering wh…
/r/askTRP25/02/19 03:51 AM
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It starts with getting more dates, you have to be okay with potentially losing this girl. That's not some edgy, pompous statement I am trying to cram down your throat to fit in. You REALLY have to set your mind that you could text her right now, and that she will not only NOT return the message, but will NEVER respond to you again. I'll tell you right now if you have not done any "plating," or ANY form of seeing more than one girl at once, then you're not getting a true "taste" of the red pill, …
/r/askTRP24/02/19 04:58 AM
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Line up other girls, and stay busy. You ONLY develop "one-itis" when you focus too much on her. When you intentionally torture yourself by thinking about her, future plans you want to make, what games to play, all that mental energy in "invested" energy you are gearing toward her, so you subconsciously make a lot of head space for her. Your panic causes your brain to think "well shit this particular thing is important, practically to our survival with how much he is focusing on her, we need to m…
/r/askTRP23/02/19 11:54 PM
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In all honesty it depends on what you mean by alpha. You don't honestly want too many in your group depending on what you're looking for. Alphas have a subconscious view of a hierarchy, where they sit at the top and control most of the "group's" plans, thoughts, and inner workings. So you could make some alpha friends, then come to find they are making you go to things you are not into, or doing things you don't want to do. Alpha's are more natural at leading, but expect to be followed. What I m…
/r/askTRP23/02/19 01:45 PM
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Of course I do, yet again its impact is immensely overblown. That commercial does nothing but rally the BP's, the betas, and the white knights. Again, enjoy the decline. Just makes it easier on those of us here. Maybe I am confused, what was your solution for saving the west again . . .
/r/TheRedPill22/02/19 09:34 PM
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Most of this is you taking my points to out of control extremes. if it was true then in case i was poor and id feel fine with that then all women will pick up on that and change from gold diggers to humble hardworking creatures who dont care about ur money . . . well they do . . . if you hold frame and have confidence. If being poor bothers you, she can sense that. If you don't give a shit about being poor but you can hold frame and have personality, of course you can get laid. ​ if im ugly and …
/r/askTRP22/02/19 12:48 AM
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A lot of this added detail helps us understand your situation better, and give you better answers. Hilariously enough, it sounds like you answered a lot of your own questions with some self-realizations. That's big and an important process in all of this. As far as she goes, women always respond to the push and pull. I would take her out for a night, don't be lame and make it coffee unless you 2 are not of drinking age. On a side note, I would quit that job. There are a million reasons to not "s…
/r/askTRP21/02/19 01:16 AM
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https://stronglifts.com/5x5/#gref ​ Essentially the workout program of TRP for the rookies. Gets you strong fast, and emphasizes some of the most important exercises ever.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 12:51 AM
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Re-train your brain and thinking. Re-work your mentality. You can do it, but you let your mind get in the way. I would start reading into some books like "Subliminal" by Leonard Mldinow, gives you a better idea of how your mind works and how to start overcoming your insecurities. You'll also resonate with guys like Mark Manson. Even look into David Goggins. " I keep telling myself that I don't have much sexual experience and it'll be embarrassing " This is why you are holding back. Hit up a broa…
/r/askTRP21/02/19 12:50 AM
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She got very attached to me and we have decent emotional connection and a good ammount of investment by her. ​ You have a LOT of learning to do. If she rejected you TWICE, you move on. The fact that you are still waiting around begging for scraps is pathetic, and she can sense it, her interest in you falling like a bad stock the more you keep trying to pursue at this point. She is not the one attached. If she still talks to you, its just as "work buddies," not a romantic interest. ​ If a women i…
/r/askTRP21/02/19 12:45 AM
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Women don't just "pick up on everything." Their minds are geared to read body language and understand non-verbal cues. They are very empathetic, so they instead "FEEL" when something is off, because their subconscious mind places more value in the ladder things discussed when dealing in social situations. ​ What this means is she only cares about how much of a "loser with no friends" you are ONLY as much as YOU do. If YOU think it is a big deal, a big insecurity of yours, that you have no friend…
/r/askTRP21/02/19 12:18 AM
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They "lack abundance." They don't naturally have the skill set yet to just hit on women and have different women. Here's and example that might hit on the money: Imagine growing up a poor child. All you could ever afford is bread every once in a while. Sometimes you probably had to steal it. Maybe due to these circumstances, thats the only thing you ever ate. Now imagine your fortunes turned around, you or some family members got the right job, started making more money and able to elevate your …
/r/TheRedPill18/02/19 11:21 PM
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She felt some type of way because your response came from a weak place of comfort. "I had a bad week, I could get used to this me 'complaining while you massage me' stuff." So now her "radar" goes off to see if that is really what you think, or if you're just talking shit. If you respond apologetically, her "radar" pierces through a typical beta's facade and she loses interest fast. If you hold frame and clown, you're fine. It's ALWAYS about your frame. Even if you retort with something lame, ho…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/19 01:13 PM
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It amazes me despite all the research that we get confirming the need to lift on this forum, that there are still devil's advocates that like to pretend muscle bulk and looking in shape is "overrated, and all you need is GAME."
/r/TheRedPill17/02/19 01:06 PM
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My problem with this "black pill" is I've seen plenty of guys overcome "unattractive-ness" with gym work and muscle build. Women judge you based on your strength and fitness. Having good looks is a supplement to this, not the rule.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/19 01:03 PM
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Yeah I kind of rambled a bit to throw in some foundational knowledge on human interactions. I know it came off messy but to my first point, if you ask somebody questions about themselves, they will like you and find you more interesting because you are taking an interest in them and they get a chance to talk about themselves. But yeah, girls you approach will be more receptive because it is spontaneous. It comes out of left field. It hits the "oh wow who is this guy" buttons. It also gives her s…
/r/askTRP14/02/19 01:08 PM
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Most "college-aged" groups form from . . . you guessed it . . . college. Studies consistently show most people are friends with others because they run into these same people all the time other from school, work, or social gatherings they consistently attend. It comes from "safeness and familiarity." One of my favorite ways to make friends is to go out, have a fun time, and just talk to people at the bars. You need to have something going on though. Like if I am just some quiet fuck at the bar h…
/r/askTRP13/02/19 02:37 PM
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Practice being more decisive. Not in high risk situations of course, but with general things. Whether picking food, what to watch, plans to make. People respond to decisiveness because it is something they lack. They respond to decision makers, because they themselves hate the pressure of making decisions. The funny thing is there are plenty of leaders who get shit on for "wrong decisions." They still have plenty of followers and people who trust in them because at the end of the day they get re…
/r/askTRP13/02/19 02:31 PM
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We live in a society where being social in person is becoming more rare. I believe the more introverted types and the beta types are more appreciative when you talk to them because they are used to their small boring circle of friends. They don't branch out, because they are scared and don't know how to meet new people themselves. Same with most women. One thing I remember from a psych study was on conversation quality. They had one person ask another person questions about themselves the whole …
/r/askTRP13/02/19 02:27 PM
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Watch some David Goggins videos. His message is straight forward. Calus the mind so you can avoid these ruts. Truly look at your state, ask yourself if you are happy with this, and use that to fuel your productivity. For all you know, other factors could be at play as well. How's your eating habits? How's your SLEEP?
/r/askTRP13/02/19 02:05 PM
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My main point was to stop blaming yourself, or even get mad at her. She can't control her feelings, you can't justify aimed anger at something she can't even choose. This is why most women let men down easily, and after years of it start hitting the "fuck it I'll just ghost" button. Don't create such an "the end is the end" ultimate mentality. You get your mind way more locked in on her and cause yourself pointless pain. The "dating" relationship is over, if you guys talk or stay friends, whatev…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 02:47 AM
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It just sucks that one slip up might have fucked over years of work. The most nauseating thing to hear on this sub without a doubt is this idea that "ooohhh man, I fucked up. If only my biceps were another two centimeters girthy, if only I treated her more like shit like an alpha, oh man the shit tests." Wrong. Women get tired of men. They have options. It's like if you have a favorite food. You could win a lifetime supply of like the most delicious high quality steak for morning, lunch, and din…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 02:36 AM
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Video Games do NOTHING but get the "Subconscious Reward System" and "Dopamine Hit" going. When you play a video game, you "win" things, you "win" small battles, the storyline "progresses," your team "wins." All the dopamine from these "WINS" create the illusion that you're being "PRODUCTIVE." Your mind thinks things are going well. It thinks you're the hero in the game, and you're makng the most of your life, saving these imaginary creatures from the bad guy. It thinks you're that MVP QB finally…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 01:02 AM
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The weight that comes off your back once you start setting goals and living a productive and interesting life for YOURSELF is amazing. I don't plan on being in an LTR any time soon, in my late 20's, and plan to do some PRN work for PT. Most guys set their life goals around what would "impress a woman," so they are stuck in the mud, dying every day inside.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/19 12:35 PM
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I fundamentally don't get the outrage over the Gillette commercial here. Just more white noise to me honestly. "Think as you like, but behave like others." Let the BP machine grow, keep cutting down the competition, enjoy the decline. No one has chopped off my dick yet because of this commercial, it clearly has no direct attack on my life, I am going to save my time being "outraged" and spend it on something more important. Maybe they're right, if this commecial offends you, YoU MuSt Be gUiLtY o…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/19 12:32 PM
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Well done. I had a plate break after about 4 years of fucking maybe only 3-4x a year (busy with grad school, and grad girls). I could sense it was dwindling down, probably found a guy that would settle for her. Would setup logistics, very strait forward, and she would respond to that. I started noticing a different demeanor in her texts last year, like telling me how she's busy that night, but not the usual "sorry can't" or an attempt to reschedule. In the past, she would respond to soft nexting…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/19 12:23 PM
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Of course, looking for something to start with. I've essentially been doing things my own way at the gym the last 2 years, but want to start trying more organized programs to test the results.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 11:41 PM
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​ What do you typically eat during you 8 hour window, and do you consume anything after working out even if it's not in the window
/r/askTRP10/02/19 06:47 PM
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am I better off cutting, then transitioning to IIFYM? If that's the case, what's the best workout plan to supplement IF with? High interval?
/r/askTRP10/02/19 04:12 PM
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WAY too much stimulation going on at a club compared to randomly on the street. The lights, the music,the large crowd of people. Of course you won't get eye contact back. Women go to clubs to get lost in the music, and when they grind on someone they hope it isn't some ugly creep. Different type of game at the club. All you can do there is get on the dance floor, have fun, then test your luck with grinding on girls. That's it. There is no witty, funny, or intellectual gaming/discussion with eye …
/r/askTRP10/02/19 04:10 PM
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Reference or create an inside joke pertaining to any topic you guys discussed in person. Just saying "hi" is lazy and comes off annoying to her because she now has to other "start" a conversation out of the blue with you, or just say "hi" back.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 04:07 PM
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I use the example of "your favorite song" or "your favorite food." Lets say your favorite food is steak: The idea of eating steak everyday would probably delight you. Breakfast, lunch, and dinner, just looking forward to it. Realistically, you may start to get tired of steak though. I bet 2 weeks in, you're already craving variety. So in this example you can see how Steak can over stay its welcome, yet for some reason men can't understand how "I am so much hotter than these (fresh and new) betas…
/r/askTRP10/02/19 04:03 PM
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Just because women tend to want to "aim higher" when dating/fucking, doesn't mean they just throw themselves at your because you look like Ryan Reynolds or Gosling. I've noticed when I am more social, but reserved in my "approval" of girls, they will talk to me. Part of it is indeed how you are perceived. If you have good looks, but you look serious or just socially awkward, you're nothing to them. You have to realize looks are not your SMV, the WHOLE PACKAGE of you is your SMV. Revisit a lot of…
/r/askTRP10/02/19 03:54 PM
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Stronglifts, they seem to be the most recommended workout plan by TRP
/r/askTRP10/02/19 03:48 PM
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Remember that most of what you will read on TRP are simply "tools," just pieces of advice in a sense. "Take what you need, and leave what you don't." Not everything you read will cater toward your issues or your goals. That said, the "sense of purpose" is really no different than any other idea. Just make sure you have your shit together. Make sure you make a decent living and doing the best for you. Lifting, eating right, the whole 9. Its your life, if you just want to have fun, have fun. Maybe…
/r/askTRP10/02/19 03:46 PM
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You played it off well. It only becomes as big a deal as YOU make it. If she presses you on it later, you act aloof and keep joking with her. Don't address it. She will use it to test your frame. Again, you played it off perfect. It is only as big a deal as YOU make it. That won't be the reason she stops fucking you.
/r/askTRP02/02/19 02:51 AM
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In 2019, I doubt it. It's one thing if its your parents but not on your own. I would be more concerned if the only place he can crash is the couch, basically taking a major portion of your place if it's a 1BR. That might catch people off guard.
/r/askTRP02/02/19 02:46 AM
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Be direct and simple with closing. Maybe a bit into the next conversation, propose something to the affect of "Let's hang out Friday, 6pm." You CANNOT ask a girl when she is free, because you put the ball in her court, women HATE when the ball is in their court to make a decision. That's mentally stressful, you don't want her to relate you with mental stress and anxiety. Men make direct decisions. No more of this "Well gee golly, when are YOU free so YOU can control MY time and I don't DARE impe…
/r/askTRP29/01/19 04:47 AM
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There's a good chance some friends came over with the classic "bottle of wine get together," some shit talking about how you're an ass or whatever, and how she's been vowing to put you on hold out of anger. So I wouldn't be surprised if part of her rejections were to also not look like a slut in front of her friends that night too. Women will put together an ego on men as well, especially when their friends back up the support to not see you. Doesn't mean she won't come back. You made the right …
/r/askTRP29/01/19 04:40 AM
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3 Years. She came from money so I'll miss a lot of the free stuff like not paying for drinks or transportation. Oh well
/r/askTRP29/01/19 04:35 AM
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You handled it fine. Confrontation is a LAST resort. There is a reason "trying" to start a fight is seen as "Beta," and why the community prefers holding frame while using banter and wit first and foremost. There is nothing wrong with defending yourself if it gets to that point though so don't get me wrong. You also need to use common sense. Who gives a shit about "should I have punched him" when it sounds like you don't even know these people and, more importantly, it's 3 Vs 1. NO ONE is lookin…
/r/askTRP29/01/19 04:31 AM
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I always grew up not really ingesting any "life plan"-based discussions with my folks, no "birds and bees" talks, my parents simply made sure I did okay in school and had goals for a decent profession. I as very unaware of a lot. A very hands-off childhood where I had to teach myself a lot, which is tough when you have a "daydreamer, not too involved in reality of thinking of the Jones' and their white picket fence" kind of brain. Thank god for my first semester in college when I ran into a "Lou…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/19 12:16 AM
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Another good post to help the over-compensatory types. "Oh shit I've been a beta 'follower' instead of a alpha 'leader' this whole time, what am I doing?!? I got to start bossing people around and disrespecting the "the man" right away!" Hold your frame, and be competent in what you do. I don't envision a TRP alpha in a "lower" half of some hierarchy as some guy taking shit from his boss. I envision him as someone the boss can count on, even lean on for help and sometimes guidance. He's a guy wh…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/19 11:44 PM
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It's a good start. Why? You need to "normalize" talking to girls. That way it becomes a moment where the mental barriers that would freak you out are gone. Its like being afraid of doing anything because its your first time, but then being able to do it because you have done it so many times. Start now practicing phrasing the conversation about paying attention to her. This means ask her questions about herself. "What do you do for fun?" "Have you vacationed anywhere cool?" Find ways to ask her …
/r/askTRP26/01/19 12:18 PM
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Yeah definitely. - Subliminal by Leonard Mldinow really paints the picture on how your subconscious mind works. Powerful stuff in there. In a nutshell, we have a conscious mind that takes in the basics, like what you see, what color the wall in front of you is, the basic things you have "control" of in terms of your thought process. Then you have the subconscious mind. This part of your brain takes in like 1 million bits more information, essentially scanning the enviroment, looking for "pattern…
/r/askTRP26/01/19 01:14 AM
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Mentally, you have a lot of unwinding and restructuring to do with this topic. First thing, just talk to women. Start small. Talk to some girl at your bus stop. Maybe girls in class. I don't know your situation so that may help if you elaborate. Get comfortable with the idea of talking to girls first. You have to realize this is the number one fear of all guys. As a result, women are not hit on as much as you'd think, so they get excited when guys talk to them. The only catch being, don't be awk…
/r/askTRP25/01/19 11:02 PM
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Get comfortable being "uncomfortable." Try travel, see another part of the world. Do different, adventurous stuff. As you experience more things in life, it may channel something in you, maybe you might find something you want to study or do with your life
/r/askTRP25/01/19 10:59 PM
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Imagine you are on your death bed. Maybe you were diagnosed with something terminal. Can you look back on things you never got to do? I mean the first thing I would recommend is TRAVEL. Gain EXPERIENCES in life. Go see other countries. Add new adventurous hobbies. If all you have going for you is you make money, your life sounds terrifyingly boring. You get one life. Don't spend it feeling comfortable.
/r/askTRP25/01/19 10:57 PM
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you don't "start running" it, it should be a default. I don't mean "intentional." I mean go out and hang out with whoever you want. Do you. Lift more. Hang out with your friends more. Hang out with her less. The more you two hang around each other, the more bored you two will get of each other. She may even branch swing, but at least you will be improving and doing something with your life. Beats you two dating in the same boring manner and you learn the hard way from a "light switch effect" mom…
/r/askTRP25/01/19 10:53 PM
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Right before entering college, Josh Pellicer from Tao of Badass flipped my world upside down. A LOT of what he taught on basic human behavioral psychology had me dive down the world of the "subconscious mind." I learned REAL behavioral psychology and how the human mind ACTUALLY works. The kind of stuff you WISH you learned when you took Psych 101 for the fuck of it. Once you dive down that path, you realize how many people around you live on "auto-pilot." You learn to talk to people's subconscio…
/r/askTRP25/01/19 10:48 PM
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Don't even think of it like you have to do these crazy resisted ab work outs. Just simply be more cognizant of tightening your abs when you are doing things like Dead Lifts and Squats. You're essentially trying more to TEACH your core to fire at the right time, like creating a muscle memory habit.
/r/askTRP24/01/19 02:10 AM
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If you have back problems, working your abs is cruicial. PT here so this isn't coming from some bro science blog post workout rat. The idea behind working out your abs is you are teaching them to fire and function. This is IMPORTANT because your abs STABILIZE your spine. If they are weak, your spine loses the foundation that protects it, so then your L/S (back) muscles do more work and end up in more pain and stiffen up. If you lift heavy with poor core strength and stability, you run the risk o…
/r/askTRP23/01/19 02:50 PM
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"Cool, see you Friday" It shows you don't care for her frame, it's you are seeing her or not. She will most likely respect this response than anything else "goofy" or "edgy banter try hard." From here, she doesn't exist unless she actually agrees. You set up another date Friday with another girl too. You would rather be in the position of turning a girl down last second than her turning you down last second.
/r/askTRP23/01/19 02:46 PM
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Default to a relaxed state an make sure you are social, even talking to other women. Most "tricks" don't work because women are very socially aware of everything going on, they can sense when you are faking because they can pick up on "unnatural" habits that deter from how you act most of the time around them.
/r/askTRP23/01/19 02:41 PM
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Ask her open-ended questions, and focus on her. Shy women are just introverts that can't start conversations. They are still human, if you find an interesting topic, they will topic. It has to be something they can relate to, which is why you need to ask about them
/r/askTRP23/01/19 02:37 PM
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Love it. Less new comers pulling the rookie mistake of asking questions there. Less non-sense garbage posts that mods have to clean up and take down. This was NEEDED. Think of it as a filter
/r/askTRP23/01/19 02:36 PM
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First of all don't listen to any of the clowns that are going to connect this to "TRP Concepts and IOI's." Whether she is into you or not doesn't matter in this situation, you guys work together. You've SEEN the cultural and political climate of this. You acted appropriately. When she switches over to this lunatic idea that it is about "jealousy" over the REALITY that she is inviting strangers to YOUR house to bang on YOUR couch, you CALL THAT SHIT OUT. This is no gender issue, this is a respect…
/r/askTRP23/01/19 02:34 PM
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First of all this isn't normal, and my first two suspects for this are - Low T levels (get that checked with a doc, are you lifting?). - The other being too much PORN, especially hardcore stuff. I don't care what your opinions on "NoFap" are, I am no devout cult follower of it. That said, what I HAVE noticed is a fairly congruent correlation at this time with men who are struggling to get it up and find interest in women, and the advancements in technology going from porn magazines, to porn onli…
/r/askTRP23/01/19 02:28 PM
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"She's not yours. It was just your turn." Turns up. Once that change in behavior occurs (the lack of texting), you have to realize she is losing interest and moving on. It's not you, things just finally went. Think of it like this: When you have a new favorite song, you play that shit 24/7, then something happens. The newness is gone, 3 weeks later, you play it a couple of times, then a month later, you are listening to a brand new playlist. Well gee, what did the song do wrong? Over stayed his …
/r/askTRP21/01/19 01:05 AM
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You're just entering the game, just in HS. It is VERY natural to feel this way. All your life, you were fed the idea that you need to GF to turn into a wife and then start a family. Keep dating, you will eventually "experience" it all. It's a lot more difficult to understand TRP without seeing it first hand.
/r/askTRP21/01/19 12:49 AM
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You lack "abundance mentality." This basically means you need to be OKAY with girls leaving your for another guy. Part of it is to continue fighting it until your brain naturally realizes you don't need these women that you can continue to hit on new women and have new flings.
/r/askTRP21/01/19 12:46 AM
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Why does that matter, this sounds like a ridiculous thing to care about.
/r/askTRP21/01/19 12:42 AM
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Reading self help becomes counterproductive when you realize you are JUST reading and NOT actually IMPLEMENTING the advice. What good is a book that tells you "eat better, get good sleep, exercise, plan your future, ect" if you are not actually DOING ANY of that? ​ Make reading a hobby, don't stop. Just make sure you are putting the accrued knowledge to good use. Challenge yourself to DO even ONE thing you learned from a book once each week.
/r/askTRP21/01/19 12:40 AM
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Societal roles and norms. Women are just now truly being fed the mentality they should be doing something with their lives and working. Think about it: Men naturally begin to realize they need to go to college or trade school to major in something and get a good paying job to support a family. Think about how weird that would sound if you swapped out "men" with "women" in that last sentence. Feminist try to push for equality but women truly view feminists as much a joke as men do. Again there is…
/r/askTRP21/01/19 12:37 AM
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The issue is the suggested content which does a fairly stellar job finding the kind of stuff you want to keep watching. Maybe watch on video from your favorite channel, set an alarm to conk out of it, and then switch to something productive.
/r/askTRP21/01/19 12:30 AM
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Well, I have always liked to cycle, and by joining this club I am hoping to make new friends who share the same interests, and maybe if possible find a girl who likes to cycle too! Law 38: "Think as you like, but behave like others" Don't be so overt on these kinds of things. If you happen to meet a girl in the club you want, you talk to her and get to know her, escalate, ect. Why are you going around making these intentions known? What was your expected response? "Oh really? Well geee I hope yo…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/19 12:14 AM
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Just got this book in the mail a few minutes ago. Have you finished? This one looks promising too.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/19 12:08 AM
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It depends on your definition of "masculine." You don't have to yell at some girl and make a scene while showing off your ripped lumber-jack physique (you could though). Simply have an air of mystery, but firm frame. Be playful, but not goofy. Don't hang around people that will "try to stop you being a man." They are not worth your time, and most do it to keep you in the form they are most comfortable with you being, the friend they remember who can't stand up for himself.
/r/askTRP12/01/19 02:58 AM
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I am not trying to clown you or psychology. I am not sitting here thinking "oh a psych major, must have loose screws." I've made that clear. I am simply talking about women who you can sense something isn't right, and then they tell you they major in psychology, and then you hang around them more and start connecting the dots. I am not going off some "hunch" or "rumor." I have seen patterns of this over and over and over and over and over and over again. Not some one time thing, I don't know too…
/r/askTRP12/01/19 02:53 AM
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Right. But specifically in regards to his question, the ones that happen to be red flags that major in psych, well they typically are the ones dealing with inner problems or mental illness. I am not saying "you major in psychology, therefor you are crazy." I am saying people with these kinds of problems will be drawn to this field to hope to figure out what is going on with themselves.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 10:45 AM
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" since Americans stop making new friends after college. " ​ Absolute BS. College is "easy" because you literally "live" with a bunch of people in your age range. After 25, use "meet up" type social media stuff. Find sports rec leagues. There are so many social things you can do to meet people and build on your social circle. People only "think" it is impossible because they don't want to put in the effort, after years of being in environments where you were forced to socialize with people.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 04:11 AM
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Best bang for your buck would be ATL, but NYC has more variety to it. To say "NYC" is very broad. The burrows outside of Manhattan are also getting the "growth" affect. Look up how Brooklyn is doing for example, "House of Yes" has a great girl to guy ratio too.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 04:07 AM
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You slowly drift away. Stop initiating text. Act busy. Because if you don't, well then you're more likely to be another victim of "Crab Bucket Theory" “You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with.” - Jim Rohn Then you start making new friends. Really simple as that. People get the hint when you can't be around, and it becomes nothing personal. They end up finding other people to fill the vacuum you leave. Misery loves company
/r/askTRP11/01/19 03:56 AM
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Why are you caring about weight?? Get a fat% reader, THAT is your indicator. If you pack on muscle (which is heavier) while burning fat, you can only expect to "lose" so much "weight."
/r/askTRP11/01/19 03:50 AM
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They get to learn about themselves. Going into a major like that, they hope to fix themselves and understand people better. I've gotten this genuine answer from psych majors
/r/askTRP11/01/19 03:45 AM
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Most social events from highschool and on involve alcohol, so that is just part of the equation. The other is the lowering on inhibition. Shit Testing is a subconscious move by women to defend themselves from the potential advances of a weaker/beta type. With alcohol in them, they are much less likely to go into that defense system where they need to shut everyone down with shit tests that only RP/Alpha types will handle. Remember that playing to your gender role is one of the KEY things that se…
/r/askTRP11/01/19 03:43 AM
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The issue is that as with all TRP mantras, and all mantras for that matter, the point of a mantra to simplify a complex idea into a short, easily-remembered statement comes with the trade-off that you lose the very precious unambiguity of the original, full idea, which unfortunately opens up the door for possible misinterpretations. NAILED IT! The biggest issues I have with some of these posts are how people take these mantras and try and re-invent the wheel by acting as if the wheel was actuall…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/19 11:14 AM
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You're looking at it wrong. My response was specifically based off the fact he is hitting on girls online. Those chicks can't help themselves. How is she supposed to feel some type of connection or anything from you through an online app and some text messages.
/r/askTRP05/01/19 03:44 AM
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She just wanted attention and validation. Trying to hit on girls online who you have never met in person is challenging. They primarily use it for validation and attention. That's typically it. If she plays this kind of game with you, that's all it is.
/r/askTRP04/01/19 02:31 AM
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Now a rookie might read that and think "shit, I am not giving her attention, that might lower my SMV." The main important piece to this is "feel" like the center of the universe. Part of charm is creating these feelings that allow her to feel special, without you having to say upfront goofy BP shit like "I think you're so special and the center of my world" or buying her a ton of shit. This is powerful in "push-pull" concepts. You give her the kind of attention she wants, but you take it away wh…
/r/askTRP03/01/19 01:21 AM
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The problem with this whole situation is she is the only "friend" you have right now. This is a HUGE problem. Your situation does not warrant this "pfff, I can just turn her into a plate, no big deal" attitude. You are going to catch feelings for her if you guys just fuck and chill. You're human, it's a part of the process. Even if you think you don't like her like that, you seem to be isolating her into your only main social life option. Again this is bound to lead to feelings no matter how muc…
/r/askTRP03/01/19 01:13 AM
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no, next, it's done
/r/askTRP02/01/19 01:40 AM
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You can't treat game like anything else. There are WAY too many variable at play, not to mention the randomness of a human being. Imagine if some of the best baseball players got WAY too inside their head during a slump. Mike Trout is one of the best hitters in all of baseball, could you imagine if he went out to practice freaking out why his batting average is only .337 instead of 1.00? Even Poker is just as good an example. Do the best poker players lose? Yeah but probably at a much LESSER rat…
/r/askTRP02/01/19 01:37 AM
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Your mind is working from the subconscious, where you know her and feel "safe" just talking to her. You don't know what a stranger is capable of, and it is that mystery that strays most guys away from cold approach. The "#metoo era is not helping newbies either
/r/askTRP02/01/19 01:29 AM
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I have to say I am sorry for your situation. Normally I recommend complete ghost, checking out. The kid makes things a lot more difficult. It IS done for the record no matter what. You guys can only stay acquaintances for the kid. I say start by rebuilding. First, the common sense TRP stuff: - Get into a gym and start lifting 3-4x a week. - Clean up your diet. - Then start looking at your life: Where are you? Do you have the job you want, or at least making the money you need to make. What are y…
/r/askTRP02/01/19 01:26 AM
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A+ stuff. You can lie to the festering remainder of incels that frequent this place, looking for more back up excuses as to why they are not getting laid, but you can't lie to that person in the mirror.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/19 08:02 PM
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You don't "wait" for magical moments, you create them. When you hug her, if she's into it, that's when you look her in the eyes and go in for the kiss. Her talk of "a boring night" were her ways of trying to kill the dead air while hoping for something from you. Maybe this will help. Dante Nero has a podcast called "Beige Philip." The first time I ever listened in, the guest they had on basically nailed it with these kind of moments. He had been flirting with some girl, he brings he back to his …
/r/TheRedPill29/12/18 06:21 PM
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The demonetization of "game" and "PUA's" in this community tends to reach absurd levels. Game isn't some "trick a girl into shit" concept for fakes and betas. You're being taught a skill set that SUPPLEMENTS being a "high value male." Tyler at RSD has made strides in "inner game" concepts, but he still has some ways to go before he were to actually RP himself. To ignore this means all you have done with most PUA's is carbon copy their style without listening to any of their messages or seeing an…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/18 06:13 PM
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I like this. You touch on some strong points that are a part of what made these accomplishments so worth it. The fight and struggle along the way. The man who put himself through hell to attain something will appreciate it way more than the man who walked through the process without a scratch.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/18 11:31 AM
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Amen. The feeling of "I am living it, I did it" can sometimes be nothing more than a dangling carrot on a stick. It is probably the feeling that most people chase than the actual "calling"/"job"
/r/TheRedPill28/12/18 11:29 AM
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Prior to TRP, though I acknowledged a lot of PUA content, one that stuck out to me was Josh Pelicer's Tao of Badass. Very corny name, but the guy produced solid content and well thought out, in-depth ideas. Most of what I've seen from new PUA's or whatever, I had already a basic root level understanding from ToB. TRP and the sidebar did help smooth out a lot of things I was still unaware of. Getting to my point, Josh had a concept about gender roles like a balance scale, emphasizing the importan…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/18 01:43 AM
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Well done write up. "Find your passion and you will never work a day in your life" is probably a big reason why the student loan debt situation is the way it is int he US. People don't understand "finding your passion/calling" is such a BS thought process because it gives you this idea if you are not doing something crazy productive or if you are not in love with what you do 100%, you haven't found the right passion. ​ I remember watching that "Dominos" commercial where you have this guy who is …
/r/TheRedPill28/12/18 01:30 AM
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If you hit on a girl, and she is going over the top with shit tests, and not putting out, you know for a fact if you asked about her here everyone would tell you to 'next' her. Roles are just flipped here. Why wouldn't a women 'next' a guy for the same reason . . .
/r/askTRP25/12/18 01:55 PM
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Solid post, wish it could have been more clean and organized for an insightful piece in the main forum. People get to wrapped up in aesthetics and lifting. We generally go this route because it is easy to reinforce looks, and to improve someone by getting them to lift and eat right. I think TRP falls short when they start to bash PUA's and I notice more experienced posters act like the superficial stuff is way more important. In reality you just breed more incel BS that way
/r/askTRP25/12/18 01:50 PM
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You don't have to be a complete condescending robot in your interactions. All they did was define their intent. Were the 100% BP the whole time, or did they show comfortable body language and lead the interaction. Just because you compliment a girl the first time you see her, doesn't mean she instantly goes "ewww BETA." There is a lot going on in an interaction.
/r/askTRP24/12/18 08:53 PM
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Mark's general point is people look at things very "black" and "white." They take advice to some extreme. Like if we were in a car and I told you "hey we are going a little slow, speed it up" and you instead slam on the gas and do 200mph. People will read the sidebar and think "well shit, I can only get laid if I look exactly like: (insert unattainable physical appearance male idol)!" In that example, you breed incels because they can't imagine the idea of a 7 or below even falling into pussy ou…
/r/askTRP24/12/18 08:44 PM
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I don't follow. Do you become nervous and stutter around these people? Don't put people on a pedestal, even if you have respect for them. I truly do my best to talk to everyone as if they are on the same level. I am no different to an idol than I would be to a homeless person. The more you act as if someone is above you, the more you weird them out
/r/askTRP24/12/18 08:36 PM
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Love how you waited like 8 months to remake the same post with the insight this time to acknowledge the BS that is politics as a whole instead of coming off like some triggered snowflake libtard. Love it!
/r/TheRedPill20/12/18 07:31 PM
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Wow, in her 30's? Just in time. Good for her! Take that, you skeptical and concerned family and friends that are always telling her to clean her fucking self up and act like a goddamn proper lady.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/18 03:58 AM
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A lot of these truths are out there, some in the sidebar. A lot of these "truths" come more from realizing what is going on. Take the massive student loan debt crisis. Prior to that, you were fed the notion you have to go to college to "become someone." Think about the impact and magnitude of that statement on a naive mind. Be skeptical, constantly ask if this is right or if something works. Can it be done better? What are people who play devil's advocate saying about popular things and norms.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 09:25 PM
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Look up David Goggins. Best mentality in the world. Reality is you will have your off days. No one is perfect, and you're forcing your mind to adapt to a change it isn't ready for. When you create dicipline, and you force yourself to do hard work, that uses up energy. Your brain naturally wants comfort and to conserve energy. You have to learn to fight laziness and fear.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 09:22 PM
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Any of Cary Grants characters, hands down. Before you go down this rabit hole, acknowledge these are all just fictional people who you could never truly learn from. Their situations that allow their witty banter to hit, and for them to gain this absurd amount of courage to face ridiculous tasks are artificial.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 09:15 PM
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That or set straight the record of what went on. If you guys hang out, pretend it was nothing but typical "boys being boys." If he wants to act weird about it, let him. Whatever. I am going to go in more detail about the importance of being social: People refer to a "main friend group" all the time and don't even realize that friendship is built off the convenience of things like: you guys just happen to sit next to each other in class, lived in the same neighborhood, worked at the same job, ect…
/r/askTRP18/12/18 05:17 PM
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See, but that's the point. The fact that you listed "having kids" as an example of spending money on "DUMB THINGS" indicates that in your mind they both fall under the same umbrella of "poor financial planning". Which they don't. Having kids can make a long term difference either way. Swiping your Debit card for some popcorn at the movies won't, and doesn't require "financial planning". If you are poor, and are barely getting by, it is a "dumb thing" to decide to have kids along the way. That in…
/r/askTRP16/12/18 06:02 PM
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Start looking around for other options now. Go to a party over the weekend, hit on some new girls. Just even talk to girls in class. Gradually lead up to "hey this isn't working out for me, we can still be friends." Then gradually stop responding to texts too, complete ghosting once classes are done
/r/askTRP16/12/18 04:16 PM
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Regardless of if he is intentionally jumping in to take your girl or not, it's a trend, and it has to stop. First things first, GET RID OF THE "I am a type B, just being an opener is my FaTe" BS. Go out with other friends, keep opening girls and then working on the post-open. Take into consideration what is going on with you, not so much your friend now. Is your body language sagged over and looks like "you're just happy to be here," or do you have good straight relaxed posture? Keep your drink …
/r/askTRP16/12/18 02:42 PM
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Unless she has brought up this guy as some orbiter, I would just ghost her. Is this an official LTR, or are you guys just hooking up and leading into it? Either way, next, you really don't need us to explain this one, you know the answer. ​ If you confront her about it, that makes things worse. Your jealousy then destroys your frame, and makes her think much much less of you. Even if she eases you mind by saying "he's just a friend" (and to be nice lets assume that IS the case), again the realit…
/r/askTRP16/12/18 02:31 PM
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Ignore her, absolute headcase here, possible BPD. You're going to naturally want to waste your time "figuring out why" and making head space for her. That is why you are on here asking us about this. Once you do that, oneitis sets in. Stop, it's done with. Find another girl, or you will end up wasting your time and torturing yourself
/r/askTRP16/12/18 02:30 PM
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No apologizing. He lost frame and had to shove you. You apologize, you are handing him his frame back over BS. Unless he is willing to meet half way or apologize first, you're done with this person.
/r/askTRP16/12/18 02:27 PM
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"Having kids isn't the same as spending money on dumb shit. It's disingenuous to equate the two." Obviously. I am simply throwing out examples as to the kind of poor financial planning that happens that is significantly different from people who have money. "That said, the difference between living well and penny pinching is like 3k a year." Right, $3000, I know, chump change. Hey can you spot me 3k since we're talking shekles, I am real down in the dumps . . . "That crap about Kevin O'Leary not…
/r/askTRP16/12/18 02:08 PM
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Alpha and Beta are actually, in my opinion, overused terms. I'll use them to get my point across as most people immediately resonate with it. Alpha has nothing to do with "understanding TRP." Alpha simply is a way to describe a man who lifts and is strong, leads, has his confidence and self esteem together, and maintains a strong "frame" with his interactions. Hopefully most men that come to mind are guys like Jocko Willink, David Goggins, most of Vin Diesel and Bruce Willis' characters in movie…
/r/askTRP16/12/18 01:49 PM
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Most people are rich and do well primarily because they SAVE and don't spend money on DUMB THINGS. They are financially responsible. For example, one thing that bothers me to no end is that there are people in poverty that will go and have like 3 or 4 kids. WHY?! A kid on average COSTS 13k a year in the US on the first year, and only goes up from there. You could be saving some of that money and setting your financial situation straight, wait to have kids. Don't bring them into your fucked up fi…
/r/askTRP15/12/18 08:38 PM
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Don't overthink it. TRP is basic: "These are the truth's we have found, interpret how you will, you can take some of this advice and these theories and use them how you need." I guarantee you even Rollo and most EC's are stumped by SOME things, and STILL trying to discover more truths, some which may even at some point contradict what we believe now. People need to stop looking at this stuff like "Woah, it's crazy how when you think about it, women are useless aside from their pussy. Women are s…
/r/askTRP15/12/18 08:32 PM
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A variety of reasons. First you have to acknowledge that this isn't some "I figured it out by looking at the real world" shit. You had to find this forum, read through the concepts, and digest them. Not only is this difficult information to initially understand, if promoted it would create MASSIVE backlash. We've ALWAYS supported men in going out, getting a good paying job, and you will be rewarded with the women (no matter how ugly, beta, short, disabled, ect). The idea that you can do it! That…
/r/askTRP15/12/18 05:28 PM
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Friendship is very subjective. If you want better relationships, make more friends. You're only friends with these guys out of comfort and the fact that you've known them for so long. You're in college, go out to parties and make more friends. Keep these other guys in your outter circle, and if they only hit you up for BS stuff like shoes, ignore the text. If they confront you about it, play dumb and act like you've been busy and forgot to respond, they eventually get the hint and stop hitting y…
/r/askTRP15/12/18 05:23 PM
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The "bad" that you listed with her does not correlate well with the "good heart-ed submissive" personality you initially tried to paint. Naturally "good hearted submissive" women are not going around pouring gasoline on arguments, taking the cheap shots of "cheating" every chance she gets. Checking your phone, hinting to you guys check her out (rich old guy), feeling the need to talk about nude beaches, then qualify "oh no one was there though." Just her background with a kid, married to a drug …
/r/askTRP13/12/18 09:46 PM
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This is exactly what happened. You have to get comfortable with the reality she will tend to have her own plates. I would take her up and try again next week. If she says "sorry can't maybe next week again?" Don't respond, hard next. Means you're no where near "priority" status and should just find another chick instead of wasting time and getting mentally attatched to her to the point that you keep asking TRP more questions you know the answer to
/r/askTRP13/12/18 07:55 PM
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Ask yourself this. If she told you her N count was 400, would you "all of a sudden" just be "outright offended" and next her? Or keep getting the head? Why is this such a big deal to people?
/r/askTRP13/12/18 07:52 PM
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She's all over the place. The fact that she uses the kiss with the girl as justification to pound you down in arguments is a big red flag. Everything after that also reinforced that most of what she does is an act. She is manipulative. Women are very smart in social situations, and read men so well. She KNOWS a man wants the submissive and "heart of gold" type, so she shows you that side. Then the mask cracks a little and you get this vindictive monster that is jealous and manipulative. I don't …
/r/askTRP13/12/18 07:50 PM
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Abundance doesn't just create attraction, it typically SUPPLEMENTS it. A lot of TRP success comes in waves, from momentum. It's easier to have abundance mentality when you . . . well . . . actually HAVE abundance. Hitting on girls and acquiring plates. If there was no real attraction in the first place, she probably just gave you a number, or somewhere things fizzled out with how you guys talked/texted. Text game also is a part of the equation. When setting up logistics, open up a text with an i…
/r/askTRP13/12/18 07:35 PM
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Perfect response Problem is I feel the need to get a LTR to travel and see this world with as my income allows it. My guess is you're so bored of your current situation, you look online and see the image of couples going away on vacation and feel like this is the next step on the "keeping up with the Jones." I would go out and find new girls. Go away on your on for vacation and find new girls in some other state or country.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 01:53 AM
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What solution? Haven't you heard the TRP slogan? "Enjoy the decline" This is hands down the big riddle guys like Rollo and a lot of the modern day EC's still ponder and play with. There are a few threads on maintaining an LTR with good content, but at the end of the day, they conflict with some of the major staple theories such as "AWALT," "The Light Switch Effect," and (of course as our poor OP here just experienced) "It was just your turn."
/r/askTRP09/12/18 06:02 PM
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Most guys take a while to truly understand why women drop them like a dime, and then need to compare themselves to the next thing she took. To better help you understand this, I'll use some metaphors. Lets start with food. What is your favorite food? Let's say steak for the example. What if I told you for the rest of your life, you're now ONLY allowed to eat steak. Steak for breakfast, lunch, dinner. At first this sounds like a steak-lover's dream. I mean, it's your favorite food, why wouldn't t…
/r/askTRP09/12/18 06:10 AM
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Women shit test all the time. They are testing (at a subconscious level) to see how you react to BS. If you're easily rattled by these tests/comments, you're essentially as pathetic and fun to laugh at as the hot headed kid on the play ground everyone else makes fun of when he is mad. It shows you are a child and can't control your emotions, so why would she bother fucking you let alone want to be around you. A&A allows for a perfect response. It 'sarcastically' allows you to agree with her absu…
/r/askTRP09/12/18 05:58 AM
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I don't mean for endurance, I mean in general. By the last few reps of a set, if you still have good form, you need to up your weight, not pat yourself on the back for "having great form." If you have a problem with his Pull Up count, go consult the people who put his 4k pull ups in the record books . . .
/r/askTRP08/12/18 01:15 PM
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Its allowed me to truly focus on my goals and personal situation. I am at the age where all my friends are getting engaged. Would probably be busy wasting my time being afraid of not being married yet, or even caring about keeping up with the Jones
/r/askTRP07/12/18 09:46 PM
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You're kidding, right? Someone who knows good form won't always have it working out because the goal isn't to look pristine and perfect when you workout, it's to push and challenge yourself. If you're able to maintain good form the whole session, well then congratulations on only doing the bare minimum.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 09:44 PM
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I am not easily inspired, and I am not a huge "that's my idol" kind of person. That said, very impressive and inspiring story, and I use his quotes and keep his Joe Rogan pod cast appearance as referance on how to live. Closest thing to an "idol" I have
/r/askTRP07/12/18 09:40 PM
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Thats awesome. As long as you look out for you first.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 10:43 AM
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That's fine, metoo era changes things, but there is a difference between a text like that compared to one that is already planning ecstatically for the future.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 10:42 AM
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Stop responding to everything, pick your texts to respond to. The panic will set in and she will realize at a subconscious level she is being too much and will slow it down. If that doesn't work, well, you're stuck withe ever classic stage 5.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 04:33 AM
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"It was nice meeting you. I'll be seeing ya, eh?" First off, no "oh boy golly gee can't wait to see you again!!" texts. Take a weekend off from here, but if she texts you, cool. See if you can setup logistics. If she doesn't, go out and hit on more girls and get another. The thing keeping her a plate instead of one-itis is that you will keep adding more plates to the cabinet. This allows you to remain in "abundance" mentality. The thought that you could drop them or don't care about losing them,…
/r/askTRP07/12/18 04:29 AM
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Like AA, it's good to check in with others on this kind of stuff. Remember women are generally temporary and a compliment to your life. It's like anything. Like how you can buy an awesome car you're in love with for 3 years, but it will only run for 7 years before you trade it in from being tired of it or it just breaks down and goes. I have nothing against LTR's, just as long as you are aware they are unfortunately temporary. Someone is going to get tired of the other person, same way you are b…
/r/askTRP06/12/18 01:44 PM
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What's your favorite song at the moment? The one you just found and play constantly? How long before you get tired of it like every other "favorite song"? How about food? What's your favorite food? If I challenged you to eat only that thing for the next year, how long before you get tired of it? Are you catching on yet? She's just the flavor of the month. The song at the current time you have on repeat on your iPod. That new tv show that you're currently hooked on and need to find other people t…
/r/askTRP06/12/18 01:47 AM
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On top of that - I still have that tiny bit of the most bitter part of TRP unswallowed - every time i see someone I know getting engaged or married (happening a lot now at 30) - I feel more and more like I am being left behind If you've read the side bar, you already know how that horror movie is going to go. "If your friends wants to jump off a bridge, would you do it too?" So you're in student loan debt, but now you want to date a chick to end up in "engagement ring" debt, "wedding costs" debt…
/r/askTRP06/12/18 01:41 AM
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Take a look at the results of every sucker nice guy that gets walked on by the winners of the world. Your subconscious has been so hard wired with positive affirmation from doing nice things. The problem is we live in a cold and harsh world whether you like it or not. People WILL take advantage of you if you keep it up. It may take getting screwed over real bad before you learn.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 02:06 AM
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" Right now I'm trying to text only for logistics and when she sends some stupid shit I don't respond or keep it to 1 word responses. " ^ Good ^ Surprised no one brought this up yet, but one of the main golden rules is NEVER use emojis, not even with your own guy friends. Another trick I remember reading about here that has helped a bit is no question marks or exclamation marks, keeps the messages looking laid back and smooth. Now here is personally how I would have responded, but by no means is…
/r/askTRP02/12/18 02:04 AM
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Not much you can truly take from this. Everything is so forced, on camera, the interactions felt forced and awkward. Nothing natural. To put it into perspective, would you ever take a chick out into a bright white room with nothing to do but sit in a chair and stair at each other while forcing conversation? Of course this all went sour.
/r/askTRP02/12/18 01:44 AM
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I think we can all agree you handled it pretty well. I'll jump in real quick and explain the "pain" felt. Our brains are designed to get used to patterns and "constants." What I mean by this is imagine one day we hear some crazy story breaking out in the math world about how from now on 2+2=5. You'd go crazy having to digest that. 2+2 always = 4. Now it's 5???? The subconscious mind (and you should read about this, try books like "Blink" by Gladwell or "Subliminal" by Mlowdinow, VERY interesting…
/r/askTRP02/12/18 01:33 AM
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You're overthinking a lot here. First of all the golden rule is if you text a girl, if she ignores you, its done. SHE GOT THE TEXT, you don't call afterwards to get smacked down again, you just WORSEN your image to her ("I ghosted him, how pathetic, he didn't get the hint and now he's CALLING me, ugggh"). You're going to want to read up on "the Light Switch Effect" from the sidebar if you haven't already . . . Women operate in their emotional states. Take for example how if you are angry, you're…
/r/askTRP01/12/18 01:49 PM
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Depends on the girl. I would say if you have to keep going through all that work to keep her in a submissive state, I would next. There are girls out there that are just not worth the headache. Say you are together around friends, especially if she has to go through great lengths to make you look bad in public for the sake of a shit test. For all you know, it may have been just an image to test you. That does not mean the tests will end of course. Only way to know for sure is feel her out. If yo…
/r/askTRP01/12/18 01:40 PM
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It is both. With age comes experience, right? Older women also realize they don't live in a college dorm surrounded by dudes they can go over to, bang, and then walk back. On top of that, everyone is working after college and become busier. What kind of 27+ year old chick is at college house parties? They are preparing to take what they can get in the shift of the new playing field (Bars, social get-togethers, weddings, and of course the Tinder apps of our day).
/r/askTRP01/12/18 01:24 PM
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Baring a natural responsibility where the guy is about to physically or sexually assault her for denying his advances, mate-guarding is never acceptable. The main reason is it is a zero sum game. If your SMV is high and she wants you, she will tell the other guys to go kick rocks. If you lose out on her, your "turn" is up and it is now "his turn." That simple. If anything, mate guarding will always make you look bad. TRP promotes the idea of holding a strong frame that gives the impression you a…
/r/askTRP01/12/18 01:19 PM
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"Yeah I know I was waiting for him to take you but . . . well, ughh . . . here you are . . . back already. Did he get tired of you too?"
/r/askTRP01/12/18 01:11 PM
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Read this without looking at the username and thought "wow that was some EC-level stuff," then I looked up and so uncle Vasa and thought "yeah that figures."
/r/askTRP01/12/18 01:03 PM
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These kinds of trends are going on around the world because of a variety of issues, mainly economic ones. None of these groups of people or their marriage and population issues have anything to go with men being "Red-Pilled" enough to say "screw marriage until women stop being whores." The main issue in these groups are men who don't have the finances to support a marriage or family. Men would rather invest in their financial future and plan more effectively than commit to a marriage knowing ful…
/r/askTRP27/11/18 01:33 AM
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no problem, I've lived this out so I have learned the hard way. TRP was reasonable to me when I picked it up because I had already learned a lot of the hard lessons so a lot of what they teach just made sense. TRP just puts clarity and explanation to things I have been through so it becomes easy to spot when someone else is going to make the same mistake
/r/askTRP27/11/18 01:03 AM
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Body langauge and how you present yourself are MASSIVE pieces of game. You may want to look into this topic on youtube. Women are empathetic and very good at reading people. They can read how you feel, and are empathetic enough to feel it themselves. So if you approach a chick and you're nervous because you don't want to screw up or sound dumb, guess what, they essentially feel your uncomfortability too, almost like they are dealing with it themselves. As you can imagine, it is hard to get a gir…
/r/askTRP26/11/18 06:06 AM
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What you're asking for is not realistic. First of all, keeping in touch with them by sending random messages every once in a while when you guys are NOT fucking won't do anything, if anything they will get tired of you faster. You're way better off not talking to them until you can finally see them again. The other problem is how attached you are to these girls if you need to desperately stay in contact specifically with these girls. You're bound to catch a vicious case of one-itis, or at least …
/r/askTRP26/11/18 05:56 AM
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Give her credit though. 9 times out of 10 they say nothing and you're getting ghosted if you setup that third date. She was nice enough to text you point blank that she's essentially fucking someone else.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 05:41 AM
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Beige Philip, pretty funny and informative podcast. It's ran by Dante Nero, an old friend of Patrice O'Neal. They used to talk about this stuff all the time before Patrice passed away. He runs it with a co-host named Harry, and an intern named Andre. It's good as Dante gets the basics of TRP. Dude was also a male stripper and basically slept with all of Brooklyn and Queens from how his stories seem to pan out.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 05:39 AM
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Worried and have suicidal thoughts? Is this some incel fantasy scenario? ​ Honestly, I think there will always be some BP sap that will take them, and be non the wiser while she secretly sleeps around. She will have her ring to prove to society she is not some loser tramp who can't hold down a man, but will still be able to manage her sexual urges per Tinder or any other sex app on the market. ​ Marriage is so deeply embedded in society that it has been etched onto the "life" check list: "finish…
/r/askTRP26/11/18 05:35 AM
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I agree with this, I was trailing more along the general lines of physical appearance overall. You can tell me Vin can pull more than Brad Pitt, but you'll never convince me any amount of "personality, confidence, and dose of fun" would allow Pitt to be outdone by a Jonah Hill.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 05:00 AM
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They other make good money, or 'used' to look good and took it easy while married. Most women won't even marry a guy for their looks, personality ect, it can be because the "wall" is coming and they need to be like their friends, with a ring on the finger. Don't be jealous of these "overweight betas," because they are probably getting cheated on or cucked on the regular.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 02:51 AM
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Imagine a string attached to to the top of your head pulling you up. Stand up straight with the guidance of how you could imagine this string pulling you up. Relax your shoulders, look up. Keep this going, until it feels natural. I have been doing this since 2012, I dont even realize I do it anymore, but I get plenty of compliments about it. Try not to over-do the "chest out shoulders back" mentality as it does not look natural and people will call you out on it. If you remain relaxed while keep…
/r/askTRP25/11/18 02:29 AM
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David Goggins. His life story on Joe Rogan's poscast was ridiculously inspiring, and I do NOT inspire easily.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 02:24 AM
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Honestly, despite a lot of the experience I had and what I took from some of the best PUAs in the business, I came to this forum thinking "pff, what POSSIBLY separates this place from an RSD, Tao of Badass, or Mystery, ect..." ​ The side bar was a brutal push through, I think the article "The misandry bubble" was when the pill began to hit the digestion system. All the concepts addressed in there essentially were the toughest pieces for me to stomach. How marriage is a sham, how women have zero …
/r/askTRP25/11/18 02:20 AM
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1.) AWALT: Really stomaching in the reality women are approached all the time which makes it easy for them to jump ship / "branch swing." Cheating or browsing the "market" to them is thus never off the table 2.) How expendable you are as a man / aka it was "just your turn," so dont take it personal 3.) Plate concepts - this is something I have always felt, but TRP was the first time I felt justified in juggling plates. 4.) LTR's are damn near worthless, goes double for the thought of marriage. 5…
/r/askTRP25/11/18 02:01 AM
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With social media, tinder, anything you can think of, women literally have their pick of the litter. They are used to men approaching them or at least validating them on these platforms (likes, sliding in DM, ect). When someone disappears on them, this conflicts with the notion that they are "desirable," as now someone does not want them anymore and there is no explanation why.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 01:56 AM
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You're over thinking this. It is possible to express an issue/weakness while holding frame. Think of it like if someone just lost everything, but when you talk to them about it, they can handle the reality and just have a discussion with you on it. While claiming to have depression creates this mindset to people that you might be overly whiny and sad, in reality "depressed" people have a down but very blank aura around them. They don't show much emotion, just very monotone in that moment. People…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/18 09:52 PM
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Christ this reminds me when I was in physical therapy school and this girl I had been chatting up wanted me to work on her back. Absolute cringe city, just brought me back to that point in time. The reality is as the guy, you HAVE to make that move, or at least start slow to test the waters. What is important is that you understood where things went sour.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/18 04:29 PM
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While there are dangers to these things (STD's, #MeToo highjakers, ect), the way he came out of it is the way you want most men to come out of it. Most guys go from one girl to just another girl. It's really only college where most guys have that chance to sleep around with a couple of women in a set period of time. Sleeping around is that first nip of realizing women are just women, there are no unicorns. Sex with multiple women shows you that reality that people and things are expendable. You …
/r/TheRedPill20/10/18 12:44 AM
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TRP is very unorthodoxed, very radical thinking to the average person. It questions societal norms. Realize part of what motivates men to do what they do is just as much about attaining a mate. If you flip it upside down on them, of course they will throw a fit. The fact that they know you read these books is disturbing as well. Don't talk about TRP. If you need to, you have to do it VERY gradually.
/r/askTRP03/10/18 02:14 AM
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VERY well written. ​ I say it a lot, AWALT is simply a term that shouldn't be so easily thrown around the newer members who simply don't truly get it. They instead lazily rationalize that they cant keep women because they are untrustworthy assholes that men should view as sub-human. ​ You have to realize the difference between most women and men is options. The men who "get it" understand that they have options and women have options, so to vilify a women for not wasting the rest of her life wit…
/r/TheRedPill13/09/18 12:33 PM
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There is a MASSIVE difference between being the guy friend who is straight BP, and being someone who is literally just friends with girls because the friendships just work out / they get some FWB shit from it. One of the biggest indicators: When they walk into the bar, is the guy in front of the pack of girls, or following behind? ​ I get what you are saying, but if you spend too much time on this sub reddit, you convince yourself WAY more guys read TRP than you think. We still haven't broken 30…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/18 02:03 AM
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Not to be that guy, but first of all these kinds of posts NEED to go to Ask TRP. I don't think this post will be up in another hour or two as it will probably be deleted by the mods. ​ Anyway, on to your post. Having women friends is fine, ONLY if you can handle it. ​ If you are still a one-itis / very monogamous type, I don't recommend it at all. If you find yourself in moments where you tend to see women in your group as potential partners, again this is not for you. You need to understand MOS…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/18 11:46 PM
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Ahh, a good ole' fashioned "turkey dump"
/r/TheRedPill07/09/18 01:47 AM
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Glad this is coming to light. My biggest issue with everyone yelling "AWALT" is it comes off like women alone are the disloyal heathens. They simply benefit from the societal norms of us having to approach them. We would have an easier time putting more plates in the cabinet if plates just walked up to us all the time too. Everything about AWALT is fairly what guys would be like if we didn't have to work at approach and everything else
/r/TheRedPill07/09/18 01:40 AM
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This strikes as too much "TRP RAH RAH RAH ALPHA." Recent studies even show loneliness to be linked to one of the leading causes to an early death, beyond even such commonly assumed culprits as obesity. Being social and outgoing are more RP, and just in general mentally healthy. I do agree this needs to come from a place of strength (ie developing a habit of being interested in people, talking and just BS'ing), than weakness (i.e "oh no I have no friends or GF, I need to talk to people, I am so l…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/18 01:11 AM
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Had a similar situation a few years ago. What made things worse was a friend worked with her so the idea she would ghost knowing we had mutual friends was off putting. Fast forward 2 months later, I am already seeing someone else. I bring my plate to my friend's big get together for his bday. He invited her and her friends, and I came with my plate. We had a group of female friends show up too. Funny thing was our female friends talked to this girl and said something along the lines about how I …
/r/TheRedPill02/09/18 02:59 AM
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You're missing that guy's point. Simply that you can be so high SMV, that you literally max out almost every box, and she will still find someone else to pick over you. Think of it like food. You could have tasted the most amazing steak ever at some high class restaurant, and choose to go there to enjoy it when you get the chance as it is now your most favorite food. If you were to eat that steak every day for every meal, you would eventually get tired of it. You would then eventually eat someth…
/r/TheRedPill28/08/18 12:57 AM
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How long do you fast, and how do you get your needed protein consumption in?
/r/askTRP19/08/18 02:13 PM
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Watch for anything that triggers inflamation, constantly test what you consume. I fought moderate acne for like 2-3 years before realizing Splenda in my coffee was the root problem. Think about how clean my diet was getting and how much product I was using before finally, something as stupid as a sweetener was the cause of it all.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/18 06:03 PM
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Very good point, I am guessing this rules out a cary Grant as well? Out of curiosity, what kind of well known character or person out there would you fit into a best role model situation of TRP?
/r/TheRedPill12/08/18 05:50 PM
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I like this. From time to time, I like to think of a person or character that best fits the type of person I can see as an ideal RP. I know Jame Bond comes to mind a lot, but this is hands down where he would fail.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/18 05:13 PM
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He ran a 100 mile race when his body checked out at mile 70. He's not some social media whore trying to sell something other than instilling drive and discipline in people. I don't get where you see this "he's trying to sell something" idea. He's a former SEAL who pushed his body to the limits. His whole story is what people love about the "rags to riches" theme. I simply love the fact that it was hardship after hardship and not some "final break through for all the hard work I put in" BS Grew u…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/18 12:54 AM
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Funny how everyone has a million different views of 'chad.' Chad to me is the natural that was born with the right genes (5'10-6'2 / symetrical, ect), worked out, and just talked to girls without giving a shit. Maybe he had a personality, maybe he just relief on his looks like a douche. Chad still lacks discipline, ambition, and goals to do something big with his life. He's just the PUA you wish you were before you found this place. Don't be Chad. Be the best you.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/18 01:10 AM
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Cue a David Goggins motivational youtube video about how "YOU DONT WORK HARD ENOUGH, MUTHAFUCKA!"
/r/TheRedPill05/08/18 12:09 PM
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GREAT write up. One thing I will say is this. Despite all the AWALT notions and "most guys are betas so we just end up alone because there is no loyalty anymore" is a bunch of nonsense. Loyalty to a T is nonsense and unrealistic thinking people tend to bunch with the idea of "being woke to TRP." Let's be real for a second. It's 2018. Between how much faster society moves now, and the the amount of people and things we are exposed to now, it's difficult to have permanent relationships. This isn't…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/18 12:00 PM
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In addition, the wife's lover does not seem alpha what so ever That "doesn't seem so alpha" guy has your "apex alpha" in a relaxed lock while he's wailing about "WhY aRe YoU TaKiNg My wIfE???" The video even goes on to say he found evidence of her trying to cheat when he messaged the guy back about how shes married and to stop contacting her. He never appeared to confront or leave her about this. Terrible take all around. Re-read the side bar
/r/TheRedPill03/08/18 03:25 AM
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The ONLY way to go about this is with: A VERY open minded individual that trusts you. You follow Law 45 to a T! Otherwise it's not only a waste of time, you create unneeded competition for the sake of "good feelz" for your "edgy, radical, but awesome new take on life, bro!"
/r/TheRedPill29/07/18 01:16 PM
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I've always sensed friendships are maintained in this manner after college is over and everyone is working. It's important to live a fulfilling life with aspiration and adventure in it, not just for yourself, not just to bring something to the table with women, but people in general. If you have nothing to bring to the table, you are useless. BB is a big concept even in friendship. To throw money and material things at people to keep them around shows you're a one trick pony that they will happi…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/18 01:12 PM
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"You credit is your life." My much older brother used to say this a lot. I have student loans, car payments, ect with pretty good interest rates thanks to this notion. So unless you plan on winning the lottery, owning a fortune 500 business, or inventing the next biggest thing, I think it goes without saying that building credit is important.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/18 09:16 PM
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Shocked the concept of "Cash Back" Credit Cards were not addressed. A must for someone building credit and who doesn't mind free money. Ive net an easy $300-500 a year the last 4 years. Just treat it like your money/debit card and pay it back IMMEDIATELY
/r/TheRedPill21/07/18 09:13 PM
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Even if that night didn't go well, losing a chick to a Magician is some pretty literal LOL type stuff you just move on from anyway. You kept frame and she responded. Good stuff
/r/seduction16/07/18 01:37 AM
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Plate material at best. You saw the red flags and probably only wanted a plate Id bet too and things just unraveled instead. I think guys like to test TRP on women when the timing looks right and get caught into BP "aw" of how well it works (if I just hold frame, she'll calm down and this is just ONE drunk episode, who cares, the sex will probably so amazing because I am not reacting right now. Golly gee can't wait!). Once a girl becomes a TRP project to most guys, they don't see an unfixable re…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/18 07:50 PM
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MGTOW's at least put in effort to self improve. Incels just call it quits for every aspect of life. To sit here and say incels are a step better is stupid. Regardless, both are defeatist mindsets that shouldn't have time wasted discussing them here
/r/TheRedPill12/07/18 12:30 AM
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Its from somewhere else, but I couldn't remember where . . . so I just left it without a name but kept the quotes like a douche
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 12:23 AM
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"Be like the duck. On the surface he's calm, but under the water he's paddling like hell!"
/r/TheRedPill10/07/18 12:25 AM
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This can't be emphasized enough. One-itis isn't about that girl you can't stop thinking about, it's your body's "check engine" light when you start to take it easy and start throwing away plates.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/18 01:54 PM
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That's nonsense. You have to have something you're generally good and and need to start feeling comfortable in your own skin. Women respond to confidence and a guy who is just feeling comfortable in the moment. I had knew some fat friends in college, last guys you thought would get laid, but they owned it and didn't care. Women are generally turned off by guys who just come off awkward or unsure.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/18 12:31 AM
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Classic rookie mistake. You don't talk about TRP in public, like it's some "cool new edgy shit I need to tell me broz," ever. It's simply too radical of a set of ideas for people who have never red the side bar. No one RP's people, they come here on their own. There is a reason we treat this place like "Fight Club."
/r/TheRedPill29/06/18 11:38 AM
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They have to be the equivalent to the "nice guy," knowing subconsciously where they are on the totem pole and must then feel the need to go way beyond to please the other person.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 01:24 PM
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Books like "Subliminal: How Your Unconscious Mind Rules Your Behavior" by Mldinow and "Beyond the Power of Your Subconsious Mind" by Jensen are VERY insightful and wake you up to a lot of how and why people do what they do.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 04:28 PM
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My argument would be is he is "perceived" as one. This "comparing in the stock market" metaphor at the top of the comments really just hit home for me. A lot of the more semi-alpha types post how they check off all the boxes but got dumped over some brutal stuff. One post I read about a guy got emotional over his sick mother, and the girl then booked it due to that shatter in frame. I think when women then see this "massive (cock)stock" male where the line is trending up and consistent, but then…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/18 01:48 AM
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I knew it had something to do with the idea that your improving yourself so that "other" people approve, but couldn't nail it like this. I was reading research before on how people who talked about their goals to others instead of keeping them a secret never actually met their goals because they were already given the dopamine hit of someone saying "good job" for just telling them their plan. I must have combined that idea along with that article when I couldn't remember some of the better expla…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 01:00 AM
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This quote its very misinterpreted. Tyler is probably talking about people who "talk" about self improvement instead of living it. Notice when you start talking to people about how you plan to do x,y, and z for yourself. You feel good. Then you plan it out and you feel a little better. Nothing actually happened. You just made a plan and imagined how it would go. Then most people at this point go back to doing BS because the instant gratification of planning and talking about your goals and how y…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/18 02:22 AM
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I think the idea of this "painful" reality is nonsense. We can yell "AWALT" up the wazoo, but any guy successfully spinning plates knows he's done this thing back to women. I know I have. Once you start spinning plates, you have an array of girls you have to play your song and dance to as well. You will have a plate you treat well, she treats you well, and you think maybe she's the one . . . you know while you're fucking and treating another plate the same way. When you're hot into abundance men…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/18 01:29 AM
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David Goggins is BIG on this. Joe Rogan had him on his podcast. I don't inspire as easily anymore, but man I replay that pod cast on my way to the gym now
/r/TheRedPill12/06/18 02:02 AM
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Its pathetic the work this guy goes through to keep at this with you. 1000% chance you banged like both his ex wives and his mom. Literally no other explanation.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 01:54 PM
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It wasn't reasonable to blow it and I'll explain. She used you for attention. It's only fair you use her as an in-field experience on how women work. Test TRP on her. The guys at the top of the comments explain it perfectly. Stop with this beta "meh I have feelings for you so I CANT hang out." Of COURSE she wont "pursue" you and keep treating you like a beta. She is getting mixed signals from your stoic nature, but then you say something stupid like that. Begin changing it to "I've been busy" or…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/18 01:40 PM
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From time to time, I thought about all the "one" - ituses I've had, it makes it easier once you realize your mental hyper-focus is the common denominator, not them
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 09:41 PM
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Once you see the reality of how much dick they all take in droves, it should become so much easier to move on. Guys need to stop worrying about "getting better and showing her up on 'what she missed' after I am this man now" BS. You're crazy if you feel the need to protect your ego since you think they'll remember those BP moments of "yours" specifically. Do most one-itus remember you 2 years later to care if you're still "that chode guy" or something? Why care? Do you plan to run for office and…
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 09:39 PM
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Of course. I found it strange an EC would still be in college "trying things out from what I read on reddit." With some of the trash thats been on here, it was needed
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 09:13 PM
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By the time I got to the end, I didn't want, I NEEDED her to be in a relationship or this story would have been ruined for me.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 09:12 PM
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“You are the average of the five people you spend the most time with.” – Jim Rohn Good on you for leaving them. Nothing sucks worse than realize how much time you wasted hanging out with losers that are quick to throw you under the bus because you have a point and they don't see it. Go find some winners to spend time with. Guys that: Challenge you Make you want to find a passion and work into it Support you Give you shit when you're being shit
/r/TheRedPill08/06/18 01:10 AM
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Even at 54, a woman shutting down a guy, this one could possibly be a thread to sticky to drill home how far TRP concepts extend with women. She's not "quite the riddle." Remember to read the sidebar, its for a reason. Problem Number 1: She seems to be inviting you everywhere, and you jump with joy like a trained dog to go. Think about that. Women respond to guys who take charge, not guys who follow when she takes charge. Half the battle understanding your situation is you're not manning up and …
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 07:20 PM
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For some reason you equate Beta Bux = ALWAYS your turn. TRP is not a disadvantage, it is nothing more then a pair of glasses that allows you to see the real world. You think there is long game in Beta Bux book of poon? Go ahead then. Be Beta Bux. Don't get mad when you open the door to the bedroom one day and see me and your purchase together as I gather my clothes for the exit to avoid the inevitable anger blow up of how this incident is still somehow completely all your fault. This type of lon…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/18 11:26 PM
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What number, she "never saved it." Then he went out of his way to check her phone (they just met) and moan about "heeey you never saved it." Where were you setting the bar for this guy? Were you simply proud he didn't throw up on her?
/r/TheRedPill29/05/18 06:56 PM
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Guys don't stand out anymore. Everyone is the same. They all treat her like a queen, until someone changes things and makes her work for the status people gave her. I remember chatting up a girl at this big bar, I remember doing stuff like getting other guys to buy drinks for us by tricking them into thinking we were related and it was our birthdays. Just teasing and BS game. It didn't take long before her butt hurt orbiters kept trying to pry her away from me. I hadn't found TRP yet, so I went …
/r/TheRedPill29/05/18 05:12 PM
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See! That's why you're the EC and I am over here choking trying to find water to chase this shit down with
/r/TheRedPill29/05/18 04:05 AM
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I fully get this, I just want to know at this point to just stay the course and act as if everything is fine with them, or would I be better of saying something different?
/r/TheRedPill29/05/18 01:48 AM
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I've had a lot of female friends reach out harder, Ive kept the same stance of acting fine and emphasizing the "he's in a better place." Anything different or stay the course? I tend to change topics to something more positive before just dropping the text or conversation.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/18 01:30 AM
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What's the take on the opposite. Father just passed and I've been a stone to people in person about it. I fundamentally believe in "suffer in silence" as you shift a heavy emotional burden on people with such topics. I want them to know I am doing fine so they don't feel the added obligation to "cheer me up." Even through texts, I remind them I am taking it day by day and doing fine knowing he's in a better place. I try not to come off sociopathic about it so it's been a strange juggling act. "s…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/18 05:50 PM
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Cheating is an absolute deal breaker. NEVER let your "feelz" put this up for negotiation. You did EXACTLY what any guy with an once of self-respect would have done. Once she cheats, you're gone. She does NOT deserve an explanation. She's knows what she did was wrong. She still CHOSE to do it. If you cheated on her, do you think she would "give you the benefit of the doubt" and take you back? If a chick ever cheats and you find out, that's it. Don't even give her the breakup talk, she can find ou…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/18 05:44 PM
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I hate when this topic is brought up, like some forbidden fruit was just approved to be eaten. Incels always complain it is a waste of time. No. It's a waste of time if you go all out and full blown into it with the weekly meet ups for lattes and talk about TMZ shit. The occasional lunch or meet up for drinks is fine to keep some legitimacy of the friendship alive. Then you guys go out, enter the club/bar, let the pre-selection take over and everyone disperses and has a great time. The sad reali…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/18 01:43 PM
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Believe it or not . . . wait for it . . . it's in the sidebar
/r/TheRedPill26/05/18 01:20 PM
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I didn't mean to come off as some aggressive push to this point or "win" some senseless internet debate. I've just seen enough people in life grow up from that past. Not all people starting off with criminal backgrounds continue to be career criminals. When you hit a certain age and look around you, you realize you have to grow up. I agree a good portion also live stuck off welfare programs because nothing about them screamed "I am going to reach my potential." The ones that at least have an oun…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 03:25 PM
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My problem with your answer is you explain to me "guys at 20, and then WAY into their 'young' 20's were ONLY making 25-35k." And what do you think most guys regardless of background make in that age range? My point is I have met enough "men" who have had his kind of "past," but ended up doing fine because they were selfish, confident, and had that DGAF attitude this kid seems to have. That is a BIG factor in why I am playing devil's advocate on this. Those guys didn't live a life like the pilot …
/r/TheRedPill24/05/18 10:55 PM
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He's in his early 20's without a college degree, 30k at that point is 'decent.' Were we supposed to be disappointed a tatted up bad boy with a criminal past isn't making 6 figures at like 23? Construction work is an umbrella term for a variety of jobs and skill sets. The potential for upward mobility is also VERY much there, I never said it was some comfortable lap of luxury job, so yes it is 'decent' for what it is and what the worker can do with it. Now criminal records can be cleared with tim…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/18 12:18 PM
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I agree to a certain extent, but the fact that he works a decent job and lifts tells me there is still something left in the tank. If his criminal records were that bad, I don't think his construction job would have hired him as these tend to be red flags most employers immediately jump on and toss the application. On top of that, OP painted him as someone with a criminal past, not someone continuing in that path. "spends his time smoking weed, going to the club and working out." Say what you wi…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 06:51 PM
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I tell people I have female friends and they look at me funny sometimes because this kind of thinking goes right over their heads. Just because we're friends, you think I hit them up 24/7 and discuss sports and politics or "what that skanky slut Connie was wearing" the other day? I keep it at just going out with them for preselection, we have our inside jokes, we disperse and have fun for the night. Every one in a while I'll grab lunch with them. This poisonous "no girls allowed" mentality is wh…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 01:57 PM
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People like to look at a 'Chazz' and assume "he'll get his." Reality is, judging by how he carries himself, when he matures he will probably start holding more leadership positions and progress in life. It's not like he's in the dumps. Construction pays well and he appears to have a "take no shit" lifestyle. It would be easy for him to self improve once he becomes more aware. Most people who go to the gym consistently have more self control (or at least potential of) than you want to realize. We…
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 01:47 PM
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Amen. You get to worked up on party lifestyle and women that you forget that shit ends. Remember to keep up with your future like if you will find a job with what you're studying, making good income out of school (most loans are like 300-900 a month depending on how much you took out, plus rent as anywhere from 700-1800 depending on where you live plus all the other shit you didn't have to worry about in college). Just even following the basics of the side bar will get you though college.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/18 01:40 PM
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Giver an taker in a sense used interchangeably.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/18 08:20 PM
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He's specifically addressing a kid who apparently is near autistic levels of understanding social dynamics. This means the kid will take a lot of those laws and examples too literally and for bad use. He even follows up the explanation of not wanting to create a power-obsessed sociopath.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/18 08:19 PM
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You didn't apply dread, you went hardcore BP trying to "prove" to her you have options. Dread isn't "boom in your face I see other girls," it's a subtle hint that sits in the back of her head that you have options. You did a good job rationalizing why it went south, but stop making these rules for "how long until this and that." That is subconscious over-investing. Otherwise the rest of the post was well done, including reinforcing the lesson
/r/TheRedPill19/05/18 12:18 AM
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AMEN. I had a girl a few years ago I fucked ask me that night why I didn't do it that same night I met her. It makes sense though. It becomes a drawn out process for her. "Oh great when is he going to text, oh good he's texting. Nothing sexual yet just lame cat jokes and memes . . . wow he really sucks. Wow really? 5 days later and now I have to go to a movie with him and everything?"
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 12:16 AM
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I believe the best course of action to take is to simply let them hate. I can't do anything about that and as much as i wanna share this feeling inside me, not everyone is going to want to see you change. It is the best course of action. We all react to each other on subconscious levels. So if someone hates you, those around you don't immediately hate you, they just becomes curious of you. "Woah, why does guy A hate guy B so much?" Then as humans, I believe we have a natural tendency to want to …
/r/TheRedPill06/05/18 11:51 AM
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I imagine he means if a woman was watching you in that moment, not so much doing it for a specific girl. Men go the extra mile not to fall on their face in front of women.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/18 02:14 AM
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TRY it and see what happens! What's the worst that could happen? Seriously? Are you just such a wank-a-holic that you need every excuse in the book to not, god-forbid, go one week without jerking it and assess the results? EVERYONE understands the purpose of a study or research, but do you know how often studies contradict each other? Do you know most studies attempt to come to a conclusion only because a "large enough" amount of people in the study were proving a certain result. We could easily…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/18 02:11 AM
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"shit went awry... I ended up drinking a bit too much that night and I passed out for like half an hour," I've been monk mode-ing it the last year working full time and taking courses for grad school. I get to go out in blocks of like once a month. It's all I need to forget "hey asshole, you're not in college anymore, put that 6th jack and coke down, get some water, and clean your fucking self up." 2-3 drink maximum. Stop trying to get fucked up at a bar
/r/TheRedPill24/04/18 01:44 AM
1

Look up and start with Chin Tucks. This is a great neck exercise I give my patients w/ bad necks and terrible posture
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 01:49 AM
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"And now the beauty is that the anticipation has got her so giddy, she's just texted me first again today. This is the 3rd day in a row now. This girl is fucked and she doesn't even know it. This is the way you make a girl become slightly obsessed with you" We get it, you're new to this, but I can tell this is going to end horribly just by your mentality. "Oh man I SOOO got her guys! She is so obsessed with me!!" This is the point where guys fuck up, they just melt away. They think "well shit sh…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/18 09:58 PM
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So if she was an HB9, it would have been okay to stay and get scammed? The big problem wasn't even so much her physical appearance at this point. It was that she ordered drinks and then proceeded to create this illusion to the bar that immediately he was going to pay for what she ordered. Did OP ever specifically tell her "order what you want, it's on me."? All she said was "I have no money" and the bartender looked at him with the "PAY UP" face.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 11:20 AM
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I generally test as INFP my self, but have pulled INTP a couple of times. While the testing can be somewhat accurate, do NOT let these "personality types" results define you! It's good to see where you are now, and what your weaknesses are to improve on, but that's the ONLY good aspect of Myers Briggs testing. You grow as a person, and I can imagine some of these letters change over time. I would imagine I/E remains, but the other 3 can easily switch up. I say this because its as if in this post…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/18 07:06 PM
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Solid, but I disagree with the "ask a question" theory. It's only too direct if you angle it that way. "What did you have in mind?" -> "Let's get drinks at (insert bar) at 8." Its a direct suggestion that comes off more powerful than a question, and it doesn't come off like "DRINKS AT 8 DONT BE LATE!!!!!"
/r/askTRP05/04/18 01:35 PM
2

Reading this post, I don't think you actually know what MGTOW is. You sound like you're confusing them with incels. I view MGTOW as going into almost a permanent monk mode. MGTOW doesn't just call it quits. They are all about every aspect of TRP except interactions with women. They believe in self improvement, lifting, owning a buisness/building their own shit, ect. They just do it with the actual mentality of it being for them and no women. I am no advocate of MGTOW, as I believe it is in itsel…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/18 11:51 PM
3

Congrats! Your journey is just starting though. You're only 35, you still have a lot you can accomplish with life and pussy to rail
/r/TheRedPill03/04/18 02:49 PM
2

Solid post, one that actually hits home. Went out with a friend and two girls. Apparently we got stocked by these dudes w/ knives because one didn't like the way my friend phrased something to them on the way out from the bar. It was something stupid. The biggest difference being me and my boy vs 3 guys, at least one with a knife. Things didn't escalate much past a shove and unphasing sucker punch to my friend (if not for the knife, I would have had no problem doing terrible things to stick stic…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/18 08:45 PM
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1.) You haven't swallowed the pill, you only found out it exists. You realize truths, but your body is anywhere near digesting it let alone in your mouth. Maybe you tasted it a bit, like it, but then spit it out the second your girl began emasculating you again for liking it. 2.) DUMP her. You are rationalizing staying with her because you're comfortable right now. "Oh no, I don't want to FEEL bad for kicking her to the curb even though she rips me in half, emasculates me, and cheats on me!" Do …
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 07:03 PM
1

Yup. They know how "the process" works. Guys approach girls. She is going to get plenty of guys trying to talk to her. Her brain/vag are looking for alpha traits. If you talk to her, she has to assume there is some confidence/alpha in you for going up to a stranger and starting a conversation. Now she needs to know if this is just an act so far and you're just winging it, or if you're the real deal. She gives you some jabs/tests. If you react with anger/act offended, this tells her you were a fa…
/r/askTRP24/03/18 08:43 PM
1

Watch improv shows. Listen to more comedians. You have to enjoy the process. Not liking responding to shit tests while trying to get some action, is like wanting to play football without getting hit. It's apart of the process. Shit tests are designed to TEST your frame, how do you test something that folds up and walks away, probably wasn't a very strong frame then was it?
/r/askTRP24/03/18 08:29 PM
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Go out at night. There's something awkward about daytime dates. You really need to know your shit if you're going to be doing day time dates.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 08:26 PM
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You're asking a girl to drive and hour and a half away for dick. Be honest with yourself here. If roles were reversed and you were a chick who could get dick anywhere withing 10-15 mins of your location, why would you go and waste gas and put miles on your car for some stranger?
/r/askTRP24/03/18 08:20 PM
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Brutal read, sorry you had to go through that. Honestly, I got caught up with Joe Rogan's Podcast. If you haven't already, DEFINITELY listen to his David Goggins one. Goggins really hammers in on this topic w/ no remorse. Top 5 episode for sure, I played it again on my way to the gym today for motivation.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 04:04 AM
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Girl's night out. If she goes out with friends and a strong presence male takes a liking to her, she's cheating if she has a weak personality and easily influenced. A guy WILL go after this type as we are naturally more attracted to "feminine" traits such as showing submission, innocence, and weakness.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 10:04 PM
1

I would imagine they are more likely to cheat. A weak personality who's easily influenced? GNO could easily go wrong I would imagine.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 03:53 AM
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Ignore and move on. She doesn't exist anymore, next in line. Got it?No notification of break up either, if she doesn't need to tell you what her "surprise thank you" is to her ex, you don't need to tell her you broke up with her and are currently fucking your other options. She's probably a smart girl, she can figure it out for herself when you keep not responding to her messages.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 03:33 AM
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You're saying the right things, but I am not 100% convinced you live it. What I mean by that is you've read up and have lifting and psychology tricks down. I would love to see what your interaction with a women would look like. Right now the post reeks of someone who is trying to get as much pussy as possible before it's "too late." "Times running out." It comes off like you're in some weird, insecure rush for pussy or you might die tomorrow. The post reads like some weird 180 where you have the…
/r/askTRP23/03/18 03:24 AM
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You have to let things unfold. Some people need to think they've hit the bottom, then fall through even that, before they finally see the ladder to get them out of that pit. You can already tell this is the reality and you know we have no better answers. Do you think guys that are willing to take back a chick with her resume of "Cons" just wake up one day and resonate with these kind of concepts? If you guys are good enough friends, all you can do is be there to catch him once the storm washes o…
/r/askTRP23/03/18 02:56 AM
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You didn't break the first rule of Fight Club, but a lot of us are slowly learning you need to ease in RP idea's slowly to fit PC culture if you have any plans (you really shouldn't) to start bringing up these truths.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/18 01:36 PM
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Laughing way too hard at the thought of someone mis-reading OP's piece as if he just slapped her across the face just to show up and piss off Billy
/r/TheRedPill20/03/18 04:25 AM
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This idea of who to be friends with or not is nonsense. If not females, who? The beta's that have no problem stabbing you in the back behind their pussy behavior? Maintaining your frame around other alphas? I've have 1-2 women friends that are WAY more trustful/dependable than my other male friends. Do I get I might have more of an outlier "anecdotal" situation, definitely! Its not always the gender, its the person. One thing is for sure, don't let them treat you like the emotional dump or like …
/r/TheRedPill13/03/18 11:46 PM
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While I am all for equality among the sexes, it's almost horrifying to know that feminism and PC culture has gotten so big, even such a region that has held Sharia Law in such high regard is even crumbling to these movements. The middle east is hands down one of the first places people think of when it comes to gender inequality.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/18 09:03 PM
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Very much needed! Got tired of posts utilizing these with one as an insult, and the other as a goal. You need balance, but it is always better to make sure the scale is leaning more alpha heavy
/r/TheRedPill11/01/18 02:23 AM
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Yeah after a while I started being more direct with questions. You can't convey how you're presenting information in text the way you would in person. I think this gives a more "all buisness than beta" view of your message. It's one thing when you do something that works, it's more mind blowing when there is reasoning and rational behind it
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 06:42 PM
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I always assumed emojis for a guy was a no-no, but that removal of the question mark angle is something I have to start doing.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 05:08 PM
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" Even though we are far simpler than they are. They will try to wing it everytime and it will result in disappointment, pain and heartache" This just makes me think of every woman stereotype. I remember reading Barstool Sports back in the day when they ran a segment called "Today in Women" which was loaded with GIFs of them screwing up basic things and vids like the 20 min youtube vids of chicks trying to park a car
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 05:02 PM
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You missed the point if all you got out of this was "wanting to be in the friend zone is a good thing." You have an article written by a female attacking betas/orbiters because it has just gotten that bad out there.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 04:39 PM
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What a load of bull! I hate that "I need that friend who will be there for me through thick and thin!" mentality! People have lives, they can't just drop everything for you to potentially fuck up what they are dealing with themselves. Yeah there are shitty friends who are flaky and self-centered, ect, you drop them. By human nature, we are all naturally selfish. This is true, and is why I agree it is hard to find best friends, at least by what your definition of one is. You don't sound like some…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/17 01:46 AM
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Buy "48 Laws of Power," Read law 38 "Think as you like, but behave like others" section until your eyes bleed.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 01:43 AM
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What kind of consequences have gone on? Do they move on from you? Do they bring it up all the time in bitch fits?
/r/askTRP25/12/17 10:52 PM
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At the end of the day, just remember, "she's not your's, it is just your turn." Say what you will about dread, I would distance myself from her more. See if she senses it. If no reaction, begin giving out branches for other girls to grab. You need to put yourself in the mentality it could be done.
/r/askTRP25/12/17 10:02 PM
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Dread is temporary. I went through this. It lasted maybe 6 months, unintentional dread. Guys complain about how women get all the attention and other guys coming to them. This is one of those moments it plays in your favor though.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/17 06:08 AM
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Yeah it's called being a human 101. If you actually do that, more props to you
/r/TheRedPill15/12/17 12:43 PM
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Evolution is having a tough time displacing BP'ed bread winners
/r/TheRedPill15/12/17 12:42 PM
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Truth bombed the shit out of this post. Thank you for clearing this up!
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 12:08 AM
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Personally I think they can, but it comes down to the other "alpha." You have alphas who are generally good and stern guys, then you have faux alphas that are guys who are overly competitive and come off as bullies. The faux are insecure and feel they have to be the toughest guy in the room no matter what because anything else is just being weak. Again if you hold frame to these guys (which may get tough if they want to get physical), it makes you look good and most women see through the faux al…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 06:38 AM
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Look at it more of being in control of yourself and your emotions. Think of a guy talking to a girl. Think about how nervous he is and jittering. He stumbles over his words. She, on the other hand, is calm or maybe mildly uncomfortable with how this guy is acting. She has the power in this interaction, because this guy is way too invested in impressing her. She is under no pressure to impress him back. She is free to speak and say whatever is on her mind. She owns the frame, mainly because the g…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/17 05:17 AM
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Don't sacrifice the good stuff you have goin over this girl. The key thing to remember about "one-itis" is that we are forcing our ego to adapt to the concept that this girl is gone. The reality is we don't fall in love with the girl, we fall in love with this grand vision we make up about her, then in our mind plan out the grand vision of what we will do with her and where life will go. Most girls are nothing special, we just get attached to the fact that there was mutual attraction, then our i…
/r/askTRP03/12/17 06:57 PM
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Do you have larger goals, like a certain profession you want to attain? Do you want to own a company? This is huge. Passion helps give you something to focus on so your thoughts are not just about women. I would go on a vacation somewhere and try and hit on girls, bring some back to a hotel. You need a change of scenery for a bit if anything. Something to shake up the habit loop you're in because I would imagine certain things in that habit loop trigger thoughts of your ex. Try to find some upli…
/r/askTRP03/12/17 05:07 PM
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Both, she needs to know there is wit up there. Its not like it's always planned canning. It's like when you cold approach and you just start saying some "neg"/douche-funny stuff to her. You don't plan it, you create a flow to the conversation to be funny and show some confidance/wit. We do it at a subconscious levels or its a boring conversation. She needs to know you're not some socially awkward fuck. She in turn has to play this tug of war to test if you are real or not. Imagine how awkward or…
/r/askTRP03/12/17 04:59 PM
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First thing, give HR a bit of a warning for protection. If he sits in your chair and does the legs thing, give him a warning to get up. If he doesn't, push the top of the chair back so he falls back. If he complains, starting making "crying face" impersonations of him and laugh. Don't look vindictive, look insincere. Also, counter all of his insults. Practice being witty, this is huge.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 04:55 PM
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Can people at least pretend they read the side bar? Read 48 Laws of Power by Greene. Body Language books also promote the "upright posture." You imagine your head is attatched to a string and propping you up. Your shoulders are down and you are looking straight ahead chin up, never down. You learn to look people in the eyes! That is huge too!
/r/askTRP03/12/17 04:46 PM
1

A lot of this comes from within. There are PLENTY of guys who had extra weight I hung out with in college. They made friends because they were fun and funny as hell. I want to stress "fun" here because at the end of the day, we are only hanging out with people that ADD to our lives, we don't want to hang out with the pity party because this TAKES from us mentally. Keep focusing on your weight loss goals and overall goals to be better. No matter what, "Everything is going great!" Remember this! W…
/r/askTRP03/12/17 04:42 PM
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No different then if she were to lose some weight and gain male attention while you go "I don't like you socializing with other men." Deep down it has as little to do with respect as insecurity creeping up. We love out comfort zones, part of TRP is learning to free ourselves. That is part of what makes a man a man, being battle tested. You think that's hard? Imagine being a woman who is just used to the silver platter, now having to shift gears. That is your wife in this moment
/r/askTRP03/12/17 04:35 PM
2

RSD is an interesting outlier, because at least Tyler/Owen goes out of his way to address self improvement/inner game, at least from a mental stance. That aside, not as much on physical appearance and of course he flaunts this with his jokes of being a short ginger.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 02:42 PM
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Solid observation. Living this now right now unfortunately.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/17 02:25 PM
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I have never been cheated on, but I can't imagine how people go back . I have played out the scenario in my head as to what I would do. It is done. If you know, and she doesn't know you know, you ghost. Let her figure out on her own that the relationship is over. If she admits it, you say "okay" and you walk away from it.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 05:47 PM
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LMAO I was just about to post this myself. That wasn't Chad. That was his retarded little brother Billy. Like really?? "Hey man put those back or I am going to tell on you!! Wahhh!!!"
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 01:49 PM
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Mark Manson's book "Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck" really goes in on this. ANYONE a fan of metal music is probably familiar with the band Megadeth. A lot of people don't know this, but Dave Mustaine used to play in Metallica. People dont know this because the band gave him the ole' boot just before they hit it big. Mustaine then set out to give it his all to make a band that would out-do Metallica. Now again to all the metal fans out there (or anyone who just knows music), he didn't meet that …
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 01:45 PM
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The problem here is she was probably a big part of your life seeing as she is family. Your ego developed a stronger hold of the notion that this is more AWALT to you since you were repeatedly exposed to it. Almost like a form of indoctrination, like if you grew up home-schooled to believe 2+2 = 5. It's easy to learn real math later and acknowledge 2+2=4, but you're ego and brain are so conditioned 2+2=5 because of what you were repeatedly exposed to. It's a rough transition.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 01:29 PM
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Who cares about the "homeless" angle, its just obvious clickbait. OP's point is this guy is cold approaching and showing what he can do despite what most people would be "insecure" about. This isn't some "hey if a homeless guy can do it, so can you." The message is the power behind a DGAF attitude. I am all on board this guy isnt homeless.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/17 02:00 PM
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Thank you that was very refreshing and clearing
/r/askTRP13/11/17 03:13 AM
1

The whole "I told the guy about the girl" piece made me cringe. I get it, sounds great, saving some dude from some POS chick. Reality is, you're interfering with a form of "natural selection." You don't know that guy. Oh good, you saved him from "learning the hard way," right? Come on man ...
/r/TheRedPill11/11/17 01:41 AM
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You'll hate this obvious fact but you're playing with fire if you're trying to LTR hot college chicks. Surrounded by guys in their prime, it's got to be the hardest time in a guy's life to keep a chick only focused on him in college. If you think things are getting too shady, start talking to other girls and start pulling away from the relationship.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 03:59 AM
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Good post, I know people complain about the "this shit works" posts, but there are new members all the time and it's always good to read these stories for everything on the news or internet that would continue to push a BP mindset.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 01:26 PM
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Thanks this was huge. I am 28 so of course social media and social discussions start going about "who is married and who has kids." I still don't find marriage enticing, but everyone has trouble avoiding that "Keeping up with the Jones'!" mentality. Bill Burr had a GREAT bit on this: "Doesn't anyone check the stats?? What's it like at least half of all marriages are going down the shitter?! People, if you were going skydiving and they told you half of the parachutes weren't going to open, you'd …
/r/TheRedPill29/10/17 03:44 PM
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My first question is about working the "emotional roller coaster." I know I hear a lot about how getting a woman to feel a range of emotions keeps her locked in. What kind of process have you guys used? I am not a natural fan of texting, I try to keep conversations in person which I notice helps with "mystery," but I am also an over-explainer which tends to ruin the mystery as well. Also, at home still, saving up to go back to grad school. Obviously the idea of bringing a girl back to your paren…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/17 06:55 PM
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I took it as talking about guys in general. There is so little drive in today's world that it is scary. Most guys (BP'ers) will hate on their lives and figure if they had a woman in it, they would be so much happier. They sit there are think about "if only I had this, this, and that . . ." Half the battle of being a great man is just having shit going on. You have your goals, your priorities straight, surrounded by quality friends, ect. This is what allows you to wake up and do something, have a…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/17 02:48 PM
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He's making a fairly correct observation, using a title grabber. So many guys complain about problems in their lives and come up with every excuse in the book WHY it is a problem instead of fixing it. He's spot on.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/17 08:44 PM
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Own the moment. You WILL know what to do. The basics are just start making out. Then use slow caressing hand motions on her. Start slow on her back, turn it into a bit of a massage. Just progress, see what you can get away with, because in that moment, it will be a lot. She wants you to take charge. Just own the moment. Trust me, you will know what to do. Just escalate. Tell her "take your clothes off" in a calm but strong tone. Keep a modest smirk on your face that says "I am going to dominate …
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 12:41 AM
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We do this kind of stuff all the time and laugh about it. A chick posts her list and everyone is all of a sudden taken back? Really? How do you know she's not just trying to backwards rationalize to keep her confidence and self worth up? Also she's 23! If I were a 23 year old chick, I would do the same things too. Play to the benefits of your gender! Get free shit from loser betas! Just looking at this rationally
/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 01:18 PM
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Damn! Just got KO'ed with the concrete brick of reality! Solid post!
/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 01:05 PM
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Ruthless reduction in birth years! Chicks usually dig guys that age well so thats good though
/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 12:55 PM
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A+ relate-able stuff there. Amazing how the second you go through a rough period and feel the need to search out your friends, you come off overbearing. I've noticed moments where men and women are the same in that someone who seeks them out excessively is a turn off no matter what the reason. I also like your point on summing up a lot of how women function is based off insecurity and emotion.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 12:49 PM
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I agree with allrandom, I have some core girls I used to hang out with from college to a bit after. The new friends they would bring around always sized me up and checked me out. Even the power of social proof at a bar is real when you show up with female friends. The problem with the idea of female friends are guys usually fall into 2 camps: The actual beta that is hoping this friendship will blossom, or the alpha who is too "alpha" to have female friends. If you exhibit beta tendencies with fe…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 12:43 PM
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There are random bits of gold aside from the classics you mentioned. I used to get pumped up for the gym with LL Cool J's "Ripper Strikes Back"
/r/TheRedPill18/10/17 04:50 AM
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You seem to be correlating a guy's emotional stability to his ability to make a woman feel emotions, but that makes no sense. I agree emotions are a huge part of connection, but that is based on the experience you give her. You can show some emotions, but the bigger message was that this guy "appeared" to never let his work deter him. He appeared under control despite working in a job that involved a lot of mental stress. This is similar to a James Bond personality. How often was that guy on a r…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/17 04:35 AM
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The point is revenge is stupid. Revenge is just for people who are so mentally weak, they can't control how their ego reacts to things. They need to feel like they leveled the playing field and that she will remember this forever and suffer. News flash, chicks have a worse memory than us since so many guys come up to them. It's a tough balance because the point of the ego is to store constants. To balance the thought of "I am the shit, all girls want me" and "she left me, but it's okay I'll find…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/17 03:27 PM
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Solid post! My favorites are the classic guy who needs to "get revenge on that bitch" beta. It's easy to have that "be an asshole" breakthrough, but then to actually use it and care about exes or girls who left you is pathetic. You only torture yourself, and you know those guys are back to thinking about those chicks once their "badass TRP story" is posted and they log off. Frame is huge, you don't just maintain it like a mask just because the chick is present so you can take it off and brag lat…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/17 02:14 PM
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Some encounters probably are fake, they've been running that empire for years. The big take away that none of the fans seem to get out of this is it IS a numbers game. Tyler says this a LOT. Santa is out here TELLING you he isn't real, and all his followers keep responding to this with "where are the free presents?" Don't spend money on this, RSD does a lot of free material that points you in the direction to improve your chances but that is it. At the same time, these guys know you know they ge…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/17 03:01 PM
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