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I'm confused about the nail situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 02:47 AM
8

The mini golf date just reminds me of Adam Sandler movies. Yuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 02:38 AM
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I know-I was obsessed with him for a while because he seemed like a good guy but then I started to get interested in his political views and...yeesh is all I can say. He has a song called 'Race War' by Carnivore that he is the sole writer on. I heard people say this was satire but I'm not so sure given his views about people on welfare as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 12:35 AM
8

Uh Peter Steele was a virulent racist so thats no for me. Check out the songs he wrote when he was in the band Carnivore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 01:36 PM
32

This seems to be a new vetting strategy. Ask a man what he thinks about this awful situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 12:18 PM
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I think there has been studies that confirm the higher a woman's education is, the less attractive she becomes to men. So really, you are just weeding out the bad ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 11:42 AM
35

The second one happened to me. Got a new job with higher pay and my ex commented-"That's about as much as I make" and from then on it was just a sliding scale of bullshit passive aggressive comments until the eventual break up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 11:40 AM
43

This was my absolute favorite episode thus far. First off, how the heck did you guys pull off getting her for an interview!!? Also, I loved the segment about the stripclub and her son. It was so cute. Her advice at the end was sage. You all did a fantastic job on this one!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 09:47 AM
6

Can this please be a reoccurring series?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 11:49 PM
10

This is incredble and so so valuable. Thank you for your comments
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 10:56 PM
50

Right-they will lie until their end goal too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 08:03 AM
40

I think its more that they're lazy. Dating/cheating requires effort-particulary if they want a certain type of women they feel entitled to. All they need is proximity and an opportunity (and one 'yes').
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 09:31 PM
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This was beautifully shot and made my blood pressure go up. Children having children. For men who are sick pedo abusers who end up leaving them as soon as the girl get pregnant. Its so selfish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 11:47 AM
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It's when women are at their most vulnerable. Cheating is also at an all high time during pregnancy too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 06:59 AM
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You can see this on a certain sub that shall remain nameless. Many of the mothers there say that their husbands either insinuate or outright tell them they dont do much around the house despite being the chef, maid , and personal assistant to the household.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 02:18 AM
3

This is basically Yara and Jovie in 90day fiance
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 01:37 AM
16

Yeaah, I've experienced skid mark laundry and it is a clamkiller🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 02:56 PM
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I actually find it easy to smooze with them because they are simple to read. Finance bro? Talk about stocks. Gaming dude? Videogames. Fitness guy? Talk about gym crap. They get easily impressed when women talk about subjects they falsely believe only other men like. As far as on dating apps, I get so bored engaging with men. It always comes down to sex and their sexual needs. Porn has dumbed down the modern man to where it seems he relates anything/everything to sex and almost nothing else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 02:31 PM
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Which is why I refuse to touch trad/conservative men because many of them have this other side to their sexuality that is in complete denial and cognitive dissonance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 11:52 PM
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How did men survive before porn?? Would someone PLEASE think of the men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 12:55 PM
29

Shhh, you're ruining the fantasy/s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 12:49 PM
50

This post is basically a metaphor for the FDS sub. Insecure man child denigrates that which he secretly desires.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 06:31 AM
3

The nails! I might have to borrow that design! And the ring is so dainty and pretty!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 11:35 PM
83

Not dating a woman but my good friend planned THREE different birthday itineraries that I could choose from--i'm talking dessert cafes,aquarium, botanical garden and fancy lunches that she's drivng me to. I feel spoiled in our friendship and its awesome not feeling pressured to have sex just because someone took you out for a nice dinner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 11:13 PM
26

Was I the only one genuinely looking for a dishwasher and was really confused? I only got it until I read 'how much is the dishwasher?'-then I got sad :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 10:47 PM
121

I suspect this is also why lots of men want kids. To project a likeable family man image, to seem good and well rounded. Of course, without doing most of the dirty work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 03:38 AM
15

This is basically Garrick and Danielle on Seeking Sister Wives
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 10:48 PM
6

Ugh-same thing if you work at record stores. They don't want you to recommend music to them but if they're told the same recommendation by a man, it's totally legit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 01:35 AM
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This is why I'm so picky about the anime I watch now! I have friends who want to discuss lots of various anime but I love slice of life, female focused anime like Nana, Sailor Moon, Studio Ghible stuff, Arte, and Carole & Tuesday. I can't do most of the gross stuff that is super popular nowadays.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 01:32 AM
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Or worse yet- Plates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 06:12 AM
2

And his wife is the talented/harp genius Joanna Newsom. I feel like he scored big marrying her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 07:04 AM
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I have soft spot for him too. He seems somewhat unproblematic (but who really knows)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 07:02 AM
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The first guy had a graduate degree and still had so many spelling errors. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 09:20 PM
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I know Lilith was joking around but when she was explaning the sugar baby part, I could tell it was hard for her to talk about. Thanks to you three for being so honest about your experieces and opinions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 06:51 AM
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Annndd that's why, despite the men that many other men look up to (the players/casanovas/forever bachelor's) many of those types are bitter and can't pair bond with women anymore. They think sleeping around and getting that validation is what will make them happy when really-its meaningful relationships that are fulfilling in our lives-not mindless hookups where you become emotionally cold trying to guard your heart. Not even just romantically, men have issues having platonic friendships for thi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 07:20 AM
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Not the sunscreen 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 12:39 AM
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Also, if one sits next you you while you're minding your business-unless it's a packed area and there is no where else to sit or stand-immediately get up like you have to leave or your stop is coming so that you don't have to suffer through any annoying unwanted small talk engagement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 08:44 AM
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Me too. It makes me feel good! But I really respect other womens decision not to wear it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 10:39 PM
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Thats sounds amazing! Thanks for the recipe tip!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 08:11 AM
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This is a lowkey one, but I would say if you bring up an emotional topic, gauge his reaction to it~could be indicative of his empathy levels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 07:59 AM
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I think this is somewhat true. All the decent sexual interactions I've had with men that don't have a problem with period stuff have been good in the sack and generally respectful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 07:56 AM
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I think this is also why men think of every interaction with a woman as a potential relationship. Platonic 'friendships' arent real to them (esp if you're conventionally attractive) because they are constantly evaluating women as potential partners/mommys/bangmaids etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 10:50 PM
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Not so fun fact-those giant African snails can carry parasitic worms-never handle ANY snails without proper arm gear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 09:39 AM
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My friend at 15/16 was dating or fooling around with a 25 year old. At the time I thought she was so cool. His family knew and didnt do anything but our friend group never met him. I would see him waiting for her in his car. Now that I'm older I can recognise how freaking gross and predatory the situation was and that it was completely normalized!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 12:13 AM
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For me, its not painful unless its really skinny, then it feels like a stab. If its really small I just feel nothing. The bigger and thicker ones feel amazing for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 12:03 AM
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There is a decent movie about this with Dakota Fanning if you're interested!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 11:50 PM
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I tuned out as soon as I read 'real women' in her reply. Yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 07:09 AM
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I have some recommendations if you like avantgarde, 'out there' music
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 09:30 PM
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I had one do it at lunch in front of my coworkers who agreed with him. He is a conservative married Christian who chastized me for not praying before a meal. But its totally fine to comment on my body and say its sexy. Logic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 09:28 PM
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Derrick Jaxn has entered the chat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 09:23 PM
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Also helps she has her own career and isn't depending on him. That's why self reliance/financial independence is so important as a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 06:58 AM
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Missing out on what exactly? The dating world survived before and will survive after the apps. If anything, it's been a relief.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 02:39 PM
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Hmm interesting. I've heard rumor's he's a cheater but I can't verify those claims.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 07:07 AM
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This should be stickied and basically sums up the gist of this sub/movement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 01:56 AM
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This is why many men suffer from lonliness and deaths of despair. When you view companionship through this lense, you make very little space for people who arent like you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 09:33 AM
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This reminds me of the Tim Burton movie "Big Eyes".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 03:00 AM
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I especially struggle with being overtly agreeable-I try to be liked so hard and it doesn't pay off. That's not even just concerning romantic relationships. There is a balance to being nice yet not a pushover. People take advantage of overt kindness so establishing boundaries and sticking to them has been my goal this year and it's been really paying off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 01:46 AM
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I was waiting for the update where he gets rid of the claw machine. I'm glad she beat him to it and decided to keep it and get ride of him first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 06:25 AM
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This is exactly what that loser Brandon said to Julia on 90dayfiance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 09:18 AM
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So, I regularly look at a cute sub called rrealbeesfaketophats and the whole gag of the sub is just pics of bees with top hats. Most of the titles call the bees 'dapper gentlemen' and reference the dandy men of the 1800s (Oscar Wilde stuff). Anyway, I didnt know this abour bees so most of the bees on the reddit are female and the general assumption is that the bees are male. I now think of that sub completely diferently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 09:12 AM
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This is so cool!!! I love hearing the different opinions in real time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 08:57 AM
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What I'm finding increasingly alarming is that any space on the internet that suggests the criticism of men is targeted by both men and male identified women. I think saying that fds is a hate sub is hyperbolic. A lot of the time-what I see is that this sub is more of a reaction to a stifling and dangerous patriarchy. Women here arent deliberately advocating for violence against men. I stopped reading after a certain term came up that painted this sub with a broad stroke. Is demanding decency fr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 02:05 AM
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Do any of them even consider finding an egg donor/surrogate and having and raising a child alone if they want a kid so bad? Nope, they want a built in caregiver so that they dont have to deal with the 'icky'parts of child raising and home maintaining.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 10:32 AM
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Phew, reading this comment both enrages me and makes me feel lucky that I nearly avoided the possibility of this fate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 10:28 AM
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Yes! To add to those: The Japanese House, Joanna Newsom, and Snail Mail. I've been on an indie kick the last couple months.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 10:59 PM
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Do ya'll remember that pick up artist named Mystery with the eyeliner and giant hats on vh1? Whenever I hear 'PUA' I think of that d-bag. He used most of these tactics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 10:56 PM
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I made some spicy curry on ricw with fresh tomatoes. Delicious!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 07:45 AM
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I had an ex say to me, 'atleast I have hobbies.'. Excuse me, my vinyl collecting isnt a hobby? My drawing/writing/painting isnt a hobby? He just never paid attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 09:35 AM
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A perfect example of this is during the 2016 inauguration of Donald Trump, upon arriving to meet the Obamas-Trump gets out first and doesn't even think to wait for Melania. Here is the video of it:
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 12:20 PM
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Which is pricesely the mindset when they defend 'complicated men in history'-Picasso, Jfk, Jimmy Page, etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 11:28 PM
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I would be honored to!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 11:03 PM
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You can see this in subs like public freakout. Just today there is a tik tok video of a woman who parked underneath a burst pipe in Texas that froze over so her car is frozen. The comments were bizzarly misogynistic and dismissive. There were comments that doubted it was her car. Bullied her for using a filter. Questioned her crying and then worst of all-the top comment was about how she MUST have done done something to deserve this karma and they were happy to see her upset. Many men enjoy seei…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 11:49 PM
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Yesssss!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 10:45 PM
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I also feel like men get angry if a woman is dating a man "out of her league", or someone they perceive as more attractive than she is. The bully the woman and chastize the man for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 10:38 PM
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bling on the butt. I know the exact type of jeans you're talking about. This took me out lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 06:33 AM
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This was posted in a Christian marriage sub so that might provide more context.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 01:31 AM
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I don't think it's a solution to a broader problem in our community. I've read comments on various manosphere blogs/reddit/etc that many men (esp. white men) think that we are desperate and will treat them like a 'god' because they're white. And don't get me started on the other poc minorities that hold us in contempt as well. I think black women, probably moreso than most women, have to vet ruthlessly. Do regular fds vetting in addition to extra vetting to make sure you have a high value guy. I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 03:51 AM
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That guy in this screenshot got SO ANGRY when a different woman rating his attractiveness said he wasn't as hot as he thinks he is. Lemme find that video... Here it is!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 01:53 AM
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You're not even safe from the men in your own family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 01:25 AM
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Its taken me until almost 30 to understand this! People dont respect kindness, they take advantage of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 09:31 PM
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I always make a point to say this on the 'askredditafterdark' sub and I get downvoted a lot. People don't want women's honesty-they want their egos stroked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 02:22 AM
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With all the unpaid labor women are most likely to do in the course of a marriage, the LEAST men can do is pay for a ring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 10:29 PM
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Thank you. Your comment really touched me. My self worth really took a tumble. I understand children are a non negotiable so I tried to compromise and told him I was open to adoption-but he didnt want to 'raise someone else's kid'. I then said I would have ONE kid (even though I didnt want to, but I wouldve for him)-but he insisted he wanted more than one. So, years of trust, solid communication and love thrown away so that he could find another incubator. I hope in the long run its a blessing i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 09:58 PM
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Yep. I had what I thought was a solid high value relationship with someone who dumped me because all his friends and coworkers were having kids and he wanted kids asap no matter what I wanted. He didnt even consider marriage, just kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 09:44 AM
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This is basically the breaking mom sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 03:31 AM
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The way they go on about this-you think they'd be describing Guantanamo or a gulag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 10:40 AM
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Never trust a man with two first names.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 11:33 AM
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I'm looking for more of a set it and forget it while adding money over time investing. I consistently hear good things about Charles Schwab so that might be what I'm looking for. I will take your advice about roboadvisors until I learn the ropes a little more. Thanks for your input.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 02:00 AM
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Thank you! (please bear with me if this is a silly question) I am curious about brokerage accounts (cash or margin?) and which online account would be best for a beginner. Etrade or Ameritrade seem okay because there are no account minimums but I don't mind putting in an initial deposit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 01:19 AM
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This is why my ex and I broke up. He already would play videogames a lot and he had a friend with a baby he spoke to gaming online. We could always hear the baby crying in the background and the friend just kept playing games. I thought to myself-is that my future?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 12:53 AM
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I would be very much interested in getting my feet wet investing. I've only been poking around Investopedia but this year I'm thinking about starting after doing some research.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 12:37 AM
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I still believe an ex of mine threw away my creeper shoes because he thought they were ugly. They were one of the last things I moved and I remember loading them in his car then in the craziness of the move they suddenly disappeared. I denied it even until we broke up but I always believed that he threw them away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 01:50 AM
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This is terrifying and precisely why you should have your walls up and reinforced. If you need to talk to someone about past trauma-get a therapist and be vague about it with everyone else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 11:34 PM
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I feel like 90DayFiance is the epitome of this. All these men vying for beautiful international brides but have nothing in common with them, dont respect them or their culture, or put up with disrespect to have hot arm candy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 11:12 PM
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Having goals implies that your focus isnt entirely on them🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 08:41 PM
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He used to walk his daughter to the park and then leave her alone while she wAs asleep to fuck his side piece in the bushes. Excuse me-what!? Is this true!!? I know that he didn't go to this daughters 6th b day party and skipped Thanksgiving last year with his family. He is awful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 01:34 AM
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Can we throw Korean men in that category as well?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 07:22 PM
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Why am I imagining him listening to Enya's 'Only Time, ugh!'🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 01:43 AM
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It's also statistically the time when most men are susceptible to cheat on their partners. It's a very vulnerable time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 06:59 AM
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Dirty Fingernails.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 08:56 AM
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Right?? Who's paying for the damn groceries??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 08:26 AM
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How do people allow themselves to get into these arrangements?? The audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 08:25 AM
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It gets better! The most important part is going no contact and getting therapy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 08:19 AM
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Unfortunately, the effects of European global imperialism has cased Eurocentric beauty standards to persist in places that would not have originally had this-and sometimes with dire consequences. i.e. The Rwandan ethnic genocide or the 90s and the phrenological roots of that particular massacre.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 12:08 AM
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I'm not a music expert but I collect vinyl as a hobby and am into the process of making records-as well as general music history/theory. I love different genres but I grew up listening to heavy metal and now I really love folk music and prog metal. Anyway- going into record stores is always amusing because men will constantly question my interest in the music I like (metal heads are the worst) and then the gatekeeping/grilling starts of the assumptions that there MUST be men in my life that intr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 11:57 PM
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You see this ALL the time on reddit-any video or meme of a woman who knows she's attractive and men will come out of the swamp to comment that 'she's not even that hot", etc. Sometimes, it just an attractive women in a video that has NOTHING to do with her being attractive and someone will point out she's good looking then suddenly all these swamp dwellers start chiming in about her flaws when we all know that they would drag themselves through glass to be in the same room as her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 11:42 PM
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So any fds lawyers here? What can and can't she do legally?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 01:21 AM
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Other people are jealous of people in relationships-I'm jealous of women who buy cars and houses on their own! Goals!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 12:45 AM
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It's the last low hanging fruit they have (besides physical name calling of course)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 12:39 AM
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Isn't that what the fdssuperfans sub is for? I agee with you. It's a waste of time otherwise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 12:35 AM
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Manic pixie dream girl trope-a young beautiful woman will suddenly solve all the issues that only a trained medical professional could but they don't want to go to a therapist so instead they will put the emotional labor on a girl that will provide sex as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 04:39 AM
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Male family members can be just as bad. I remember when I was 16 I got pneumonia and was bed ridden in my upstairs room. I was down to 115 lbs and could barely walk. My parents weren't home at the time and I begged my older brother to get me some juice from the store. He yelled at me and huffed and puffed-walked to the store, then put the juice at the bottom of the stairs and told me he wouldn't walk up the stairs to give it to me. So I basically had to crawl down the stairs to get hydrated. Awf…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 04:25 AM
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Ohh thanks for the introduction to this brand. I might have to get one myself!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 03:24 AM
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There are SO many examples of this with Youtube couples channels. The more popular the channel gets, the more arrogant the husbands/bfs get and then you find out they cheated. Get divorced and the ex husband is gross and miserable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 03:13 PM
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I believe you-you wont find me defending him lol. I didnt watch all the videos so I'm sure there could be some shadiness I missed 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 01:48 AM
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She is usually dripping in Chanel too! Her style icon was her deceased aunt apparantly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 09:20 PM
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The grandson is actually somewhat HV. In a different video he interviews her about her ex husbands and says that he wants to be a good man because of the lack of good male rolemodels in the family that caused pain to the grandma/mother. Who knows if he will stick to that but I hope he does. Check out her other videos! This lady is awesome!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 09:19 PM
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This is very true and very interesting. If you have more insights-please share!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 12:10 PM
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Lord-sometimes I need to take a break from this sub because my blood pressure raises reading some of these stories on here that ARE FREQUENT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 02:24 AM
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Girl SAME. I can't get there without the right size.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 02:22 AM
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Um, I would love to be that tall! Clothes look better on you, weight gain looks better, and people give you their attention because they look up to you most of the time, not over you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 04:50 AM
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It doesn't even have to be that. I like to listen to GWA (gone wild audio) and there is certain male performer I love to listen to because his scripts are amazing and he has great voice. I had an ex that had a problem with me even listening to scripted erotica -_-.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 12:41 PM
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From a 3 YEAR relationship. Ladies, its a war zone out here, Jesus.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 01:59 AM
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Dont forget the "Nth" room scandal with boys as young as 10 partaking in abuse. Its sickening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 01:21 AM
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Thank you so much for this! I live in Korea and just scanned my apartment (just in case).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 01:19 AM
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Damn, I'm sold!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 07:52 AM
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Sis graveyard dust??🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 12:43 AM
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I remember a study some years ago that basically said that the amount of money that a man spends on an engagement ring correlates to how much he values his partner (unfortunately this is due to women being objectified). So basically if the ring is cheap, it might not just be because he is broke (he could save if it really mattered), it's because that's how he sees you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 02:03 PM
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I hate how you immediately get labeled a man hater if you call out men on their behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 04:54 AM
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This is inaccurate. Where is the dusty game console?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 01:30 AM
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PSA-Dont date band dudes. They still think the dream is alive after 30 and that they will strike it big one day. Also, all their money goes to 'the band' and act like you should be grateful you get to be at the shows. *caveat-unless they are established musicians. You then have to deal with them going on tour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 01:29 AM
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What behavior-if you don't mind sharing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 03:46 PM
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Zendaya was abused and/or cheated on? Shes only what 18? Also, I agree with the overall message
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 01:59 AM
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You forgot 'teh gym'.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 06:33 AM
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I just saw this and I was pissed off! So, I made a post previously on fds about a compilation of men ruining their female partners belongings but I also might make one of the medical/health neglect that can happen in intimate relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 04:49 AM
31

They want to be chased by what they deem is a "10"-any woman asking out a guy outside of the slim and fickle zone of what they find attractive is at worst an insult in their mind and at best a fwb/fuck buddy used for sex. No thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 03:36 AM
3

This totally made me think of this issue in a different way-I was leaning originally more toward lib fem ideas of legalizing prostitution but now I see how it ultimately isnt able to benefit anyone in this capitalist patriarchal society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 08:28 AM
61

This is the worst on reddit. Completely unrelated to anything sexual but if there is a woman (doesn't matter if she is 'attractive or unattractive')-there will be some scrote sexualizing her and making a disgusting comment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 03:36 AM
34

Aww this is awesome! I'm so happy you're here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 03:34 AM
3

It's because it doesn't 'seem' that way. It is! I read in a sociology book about how men are more likely to cheat on their partners during pregnancy than at any other time in a relationship. I wish I could find the source but that was from a couple of years back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 02:40 AM
5

/thread.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 04:42 AM
10

Whoa-if anyone can find the link please post it! I'm already angry reading your description.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 02:09 AM
2

This is my current mantra lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 09:07 AM
23

I still havent gotten over that plant one. There was also one where a guy ruined his gf's painting she was really proud of as a 'joke'. They live to destroy joy. Edit: Also the 7 year bonsai tree guy. Wtf, I might compile a list.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 11:25 AM
27

Yes!! I stick up more for women-especially in front of men this is very important. I had a date try and tell me "I just dont like women from x culture. I dont get them." Thinking I would just gobble that up since he assumed I had low self esteem. Then I told him women from that culture are beautiful and strong and he was wrong. I know he was full of shit because he should be so lucky if ANY woman paid him attention. Blocked his arse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 05:22 AM
52

They want a goth gf for a month or two and then go back to their regular comfortable 'normal' preference.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 04:57 AM
27

I have also encountered a tall and calm well endowed man. They have nothing to prove so they come off as lowkey confident without the machismo bravado.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 07:55 PM
14

This infuriates me. I'm so sorry you dealt with that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 06:33 AM
8

I read a similar one about a guy in India who killed his mother or grandmother because she wouldn't make him dinner. Insanity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 03:52 AM
13

Remember that they can remember the names of pornstars, the titles of their videos, the dates they were released but can't manage to remember your birthday or the names of your parents or siblings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 06:53 AM
6

Oh god, I'm a lady soft boy😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 08:50 AM
5

Geesh-I wish I could have read this earlier this year because I just about made a clown of myself. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 10:28 AM
6

Ugh-I had an experience with a guy friend who ended up falling for me. He told me that he liked big breasted blondes and I am the literal opposite of that. Later on he confesses that he likes me. When I rejected him (rather kindly if I may add) he yells at me that I'm an emotional vampire and no one will ever love me. I never was attracted to him but I thought I was in the clear for a platonic friendship due to being opposite his 'type' (which is information HE volunteered. I never asked him).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 09:53 AM
6

If I see a fds-y comment in the wild, I usually show my support by upvoting and cosigning it. I tend to not engage with trolls who try to provoke a response.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 08:10 AM
29

They think one size fits all when it comes to women. Some people dont like these overt displays of affection, especially at work. I know its a surprise but he could've discussed with her at some point prior if sending roses to her workplace was appropriate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 11:30 PM
5

This is basically half of r/collapse in a nutshell. So many 'preppers' who think stockpiling canned food, imodium pills, and guns will give them 'hero' status in the impeding dystopia.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 11:53 AM
2

Just wave it away and say, "I don't talk about that stuff in public but I don't mind if you do." Puts pressure off you and makes them feel like they aren't offending you by asking (even if they are). If they push-be more firm or just stop hanging out with that group entirely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 02:09 AM
10

Ya'll warned me but I shouldn't have read those comments. I'm so angry and disgusted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 01:58 AM
3

I seriously needed to read that today. Thanks OP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 11:15 AM
25

He used to be a gaming addict-playing Wow. I'm not surprised he is a creep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 10:06 AM
6

If I was in a better position to, I would offer to tag along with you! I hope you find a (safe) hiking buddy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 12:18 AM
49

This is a goal of mine-to hike either the AT or the PCT. It sucks womem cant even pursue goals like this without being harrased. It shows you how entitled mem feel to the attention/space of women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 09:41 PM
5

I'll have to steal that response.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 09:23 PM
128

So instead of addressing a very real and serious problem we're just going to label it as 'negative' and ban talking about it? It's as if porn addiction is climate change. Jesus, make it make sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 08:13 AM
6

Yep-met an Australian tour guide in Japan whose wife is Japanese. Married for 12 years with kids and doesn't know a lick of Japanese-can barely communicate with his own children-make it make sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 03:40 AM
5

This should be in the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 07:24 AM
5

Not exactly the same but I had ex's get mad I wasnt crying when they would leave for a job/etc. They would act like I'm heartless if I wasnt bawling at the airport. I've had to force myself to become emotional occasionally just so I seem more "ladylike."🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 06:03 AM
23

This makes me so mad!!! I'm just thinking of that happening to me and my Neverwinter account. I'm sorry that happened to you, getting all that fancy equipment takes so much time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 06:00 AM
4

2 out of > 10. SAD!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 09:08 PM
10

Its the same sort of people who still are fans of Jeffree Star despite his despicable past racism/misogyny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 06:58 AM
12

This looks so nourishing and healthy! 😭 Cooking takes so much prep and effort and its so dissapointing when someone cant appreciate that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 02:27 AM
9

I'm pro-science and am agnostic but as a hobby I love all that crystal stuff. Shiny rocks are pretty and astrology is something I do for fun but I dont take it seriously. Like, I wouldnt not befriend/date prople with an incompatible sign-thats ridiculous. Nor do I believe in the healing power of rocks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 11:50 PM
9

Yet many of the top Youtube MUA gurus are men (who especially contribute to the beauty business drama).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 11:47 PM
11

When I was younger and I found out that 'Fantasy football' isnt literally about wizards or goblins playing football, I was genuinely disappointed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 11:46 PM
5

Oh my God haha. This is accurate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 11:39 PM
4

This makes me feel so much better, I'm in the same situation. Maybe fds can have a online NYE/Christmas celebration. Also, sometimes I find I feel worse in large groups than alone. Even with my best friend who lives in a different country we dont always see eye to eye .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 11:23 PM
13

I'm not Asian but this reminds me of my Mom pestering me to 'fix my (ex) man a plate' during Thanksgiving🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 10:59 AM
3

Which is why I would never disclose how much money I have to future partners.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 10:40 AM
35

I think a lot of men are more sexually fluid then they would like to admit and this internal struggle manifests in toxic masculinity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 10:39 AM
3

Aiden Turner is a total bae but Poldark is THE WORST and Demelza should've left him ages ago. You should finish it! The ending was really bittersweet. But yes, Dwight is a total HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 11:32 PM
10

I agree. I'm far from being a prude but I wish she had said it a different way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 11:11 PM
20

This is actually one of the things I use early on to see if I'm talking to a hvm. If he wants to be with me while on my period and doesnt push me for anything sexual, thats a green flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 11:04 AM
2

Any Poldark fans here? George Warleggen (hear me out before you come at me) and Elizabeth. Even though George is an absolute villain, he loved Elizabeth HARD, gave her whatever she wanted, and even took care of her illegitimate kid (that he hated but still). Oh and Dwight Enys of course (ptsd episode not withstanding).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 10:57 AM
2

This is amazing!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 10:26 AM
11

I'll do you one better: block him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 03:33 AM
3

Can this be on a t-shirt? This is 100% the energy I'm exuding for the rest of the year into 2021 and beyond.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 10:20 AM
3

I've lost friend irl for this reason. Ridiculous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 09:51 AM
6

I wish this could be a flair haha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 03:16 AM
8

The title of this post HAHA. Made me almost spill my soda water. They do-just not American (and some European) men lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 06:05 AM
2

Yeeaahh as an adult woman its horrifying thinking back on this stuff. I used to be in awe in highschool when my friends dated older men but now that I realize it, we were 15 and 16 and 25+ year old creeps were messing around with us. Its sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 01:22 PM
6

Its only 2 days a week.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 01:09 PM
25

Its like this was written by the Onion🤣. Are one of you trolling?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 12:52 PM
112

One time I didnt want to deal with the shitty attitude and moping when I refused so I gave in and starfished. He finished but he cried after because he knew and never bothered me for refusing again. It sucks when you have to make a point with your body how you feel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 03:16 PM
18

LOL-with the picture of the poster child of emotional Fuckbois-R-US.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 02:26 AM
11

As a 5'1 girl-I would love to be a tall woman (I know, it's easy to say that etc). Towering over people. Ya'll get paid more. Clothes look better on you (in my opinion). Also, you can eat more without it immediately showing on you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 02:20 AM
11

The educated woman isn't for him to actually interact with or respect. It's to impress other men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 02:13 AM
24

I was just going to say-this goober with wide hips has the scrotacity!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 02:04 AM
6

Add Lauren Southern to that list.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 02:32 AM
32

Don't forget couches, balloons, and mattresses
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 01:45 AM
3

I learned that lesson recently, yuck!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 01:43 AM
6

I just want to counter with a different narrative than the other poster that I definetly don't feel undesirable and havent been treated as such. I'm not taking away from this womans experience but I just wanted it out there that not all black women feel that way, despite what the media and studies say.👸🏾
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 10:22 AM
16

It's so annoying that they think anything women wear is automatically done for their visual pleasure. Sometimes, I wanna wear leggings leggings tight jeans suck and restrict movement and I want to be warm and comfy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 02:46 AM
32

This is precisely why I shit test them upon meeting to see how they react. Nothing is more attractive then when a guy calmly reacts to something he disagrees with. I've had exes fly off the handle. It's particularly scary when they're the ones driving. They drive erratically or punch the steering wheel. It's scary. All because you said something that they don't like. While women are told to do everything possible to sit there and be docile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 09:38 AM
19

I've experienced this and it was one of the reasons I hated going down on a former partner. My tongue could feel the little papules and my mind would scream. I suggested he remove them with surgery once and he got SUPER offended.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 08:44 AM
35

Size queen here! Anything less than 7 inches disappoints me and I LOVE a girthy fellow because it's like a challenge to me. But in my opinion-excellent foreplay can make up a lot of things. To me it's more important a man knows how to kiss, be sensual without vulgarity, and go down on a woman. For some guys, it's just intuitive. A lot of men don't do foreplay correctly so it leave so many women unsatisfied.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 08:43 AM
8

They don't even have to be short. I think 5'8 or 5'9 is the American average height for a man and dudes 5'11-5'8 will STILL think of themselves as short then make YOU feel bad about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 08:17 AM
2

I miss that sub dearly but atleast we have this one now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 07:55 AM
36

This gave me flashbacks of the thread where a womans bf tried to cut her bc implant out of her arm and impregnate her b/c he hated her son that she had from a previous relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 08:33 AM
3

You think you have a HVM then BAM, he says stuff like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 08:01 AM
20

I'm really annoyed by the current posts on reddit about suicide. I'm not one for oppresion olympics but on the post about female murders in France/female suicide-so many dudes came out screaming 'what about men???' etc. On the post about male suicides- I didn't see a single 'what about women' post. And further more, men were STILL complaining that male suicides get no attention and aren't taken seriously. It's just so tiring sometimes. Both are terrible things and both need to be addressed equal…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 01:28 AM
4

Sometimes it's entirely location. Before moving to where I am now, I would constantly get dates/interested men but now I'm in a country where the beauty standard is completely different and I felt really gross for a while until i opened tinder and talked to men from other parts of the world and my home country and immediately got dates and attention. It was a reminder that sometimes you aren't unattractive you're just in the wrong place at the wrong time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 01:25 AM
4

Exactly! Alot of my white friends here get asked if they are 'Russian' for one reason only. They tend to think most foreign women are prostitutes here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 01:17 AM
24

I think many Asian men do tend to take care of themselves and it's refreshing being in Korea and seeing men being comfortable in their sexuality in terms of wearing purses, wearing makeup, etc. BUT-I wish people wouldn't romanticize any culture based on appearances. There are so many problems with misogyny, pedo stuff, and rape culture here. The men may look better but inside-they are the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 01:15 AM
12

What is with them comparing FDS to incels or the holocaust. It's both offensive and hilariously dramatic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 01:10 AM
11

Dont forget a deadbeat dad according to Pax!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 10:40 AM
12

Over 100 men. None of them helped her. I'm sorry but if thats a sample size and we know that there are other similarly horrific cases in various parts of the world- what is the common theme here?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 04:38 AM
102

Aren't children of single mothers more at risk to be abused? Yikes this is gross and he should be ashamed of himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 04:28 AM
21

Me too! I was so angry haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 04:19 AM
2

Same thing happened to me...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 10:25 PM
16

I got an ex pissed when I told him I wasn't his therapist after he was yelling and sobbing at me. Venting? Sure. Telling me about complex issues from you childhood and how it affects your ability to be functioning adult? How the hell am I supposed to help you with that? And THEN to scoff when I suggest therapy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 10:24 PM
14

So I'm reading The Gift of Fear and one of the red flags of a potential abuser is 'dark humor' and I have to say in my experience I agree with that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 10:21 PM
19

BOOM. I love this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 10:12 PM
3

Yes! The whole coming to you for sympathy thing but not showing it in reverse pisses me off! We dated for three years and I ignored him 6 months post breakup until he sent a text saying he might have cancer (Of course he didn't) but I reached out. My friend warned me not to respond but I did anyway. After that, covid and the protests happened and I wanted to see if he was okay but i get no response. The expected emotional labor that women give for free is never appreciated and rarely returned. N…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 08:45 PM
3

I unfortunately did the reverse of this. I think I sent three messages (I know) before taking the hint from a guy that dumped me-I wish I could erase those messages now 🙄. He never responded and it's a blessing in disguise now that I think about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 01:48 PM
3

Think of it as relationship insurance. It's a 'just in case' mindset.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 09:33 PM
2

I don't trust adults that use 'lol' too much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 06:15 AM
16

Excellent taste. Both in flowers and meat!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 01:19 AM
3

Yeeppp. Some men also insult women (poc) that they think is attractive but they feel uncomfortable admitting it. Like negging. So, to cope they insult her to make themselves feel better. It's really gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 01:11 AM
33

Dating musicians. Yes, it's a romantic notion to be a 'muse' for someone but what really happens is that the man will spend all his money and resources 'on the band' and then act like your so lucky that he allows you to go to shows and sell shitty merch for him all while banging groupies behind your back. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 08:48 AM
10

The gate keeping in 'masculine hobbies' is so annoying. I don't remember ever hearing women gate keeping about 'feminine' hobbies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 05:51 AM
2

Same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 06:01 AM
3

Read the Gift of Fear. Always trust your intuition.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 02:40 AM
3

I had a friend who went to her unwilling baby daddies house after she got pregnant to talk. He refused to let her in the house and then when she asked for a drink of water after standing in the hot ass sun talking to him he offered her the hose out back. More reasons to be childfree imo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 02:24 AM
6

This type is either a mountain dew incel or a finance bro. No inbetween.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 07:56 PM
15

This reminds me of a clip from the show 90dayfiance where two girls are fighting over a wife beating felon and how smuggly he looks while they verbally fight. Here is a link if you want to watch. I was so mad watching it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 03:21 AM
13

Whoa-I bet those flowers smell like good credit and accountability!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 02:12 AM
3

I go to a few subreddits for this reason . Being on reddit has been an education for sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 07:33 AM
14

However, they believe they are entitled to it from a woman on their selfish terms. I think they will become angry that sex robots can't give more, and then be like "well if all women weren't bitches we wouldn't need sex robots, it's their fault I don't have a real girlfriend!" We need to quote this and in 30-50 years if robowives become a thing-refer back to this because I think you nailed it. If modern dating has taught me anything, it's that most men are never satisfied.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 10:01 AM
7

Right? Regular dudes acting like they got Leonardo DiCaprio options.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 09:19 PM
19

Um, you sound amazing! Don't settle for less.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 06:19 AM
22

Ohhh, I'd be interested in reading the c.s lewis take. Do you have a title in mind?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 08:42 AM
5

Not makeup necessarily but I've been working out like crazy. My arms look badass right now. I feel good and look good. That's whats most important I think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 01:10 AM
3

I do know. I can send you a link to a different thread on another website where they discuss this family and the ensuing drama.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 01:24 AM
192

This exact scenario happened to a Youtube couple family vloggers I used to watch. The Nivenulls if anyone is interested in the drama filled saga. To make a loonngg story short-husband divorces wife who he cheated on twice with, moves to CA to pursue a career in entertainment and chase young women. Ends up broke and single, moving back to the Midwest. Continues to manipulate young women, sleeps with them, then abandons them. Currently overweight and unemployed. The wife? Continued the youtube cha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 06:09 AM
37

That first mention of, "Just don't make a habit" is bad enough but maybe permissible as a joke but the underlying implied soft threat in 'I'm a patient man up to a certain point' is a huge red flag. I don't know if this is the first time you've refused him but either way-his ass should've ended the conversation at 'No worries'. Block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 05:32 AM
2

YES! I had an ex that knew I had a problem with a mutual friend of ours-he invited her over to play with our dog and she proceeds to ignore me to his amusement. I was pissed after the fact that I didn't even get a warning about her coming over and that he seemed giddy about her disrespect of me in our place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 05:27 AM
12

The trick is to find men who are into fitness AND videogames. Fitness can be indicative of having discipline. It's a visual notifier that they are invested in their bodies and may even get up and go out to gyms or eat healthy. Usually they game but they also won't fuss if you want to do something active (outside) together. They also have better self esteem. If I do date gamers-it's only fit men who game.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 02:46 AM
3

Right? And HDZ is owned by Nestle!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 12:57 AM
5

My best friend literally cant function without being in a relationship. The father of her child doesn't claim their child and left her for an older sugar Mama who he had a 'legitimate' child with. So she goes on tinder constantly, dated men from weeks to months who end up dissapointing her in some way or she sleeps with random men without protection. If she is not getting male validation she gets severely depressed. She criticized another friend of ours that is childfree (which, I havent told he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 12:18 AM
12

Gentleman callers sounds very badass, like you are a Duchess or something. I dig it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 07:51 AM
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