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Male POVs like this come from such a place of privilege. Imagine thinking waiting up in a chair worrying about your children and husband arriving home safely because they're still out there in the world somewhere interacting on the roadways or with problematic people who could be hurting/ murdering them. Or slaving over elaborate meals or thankless domestic chores cause everyone else in the house is too strategically stupid/incompetent at doing them. Doing a lion's share of worrying for the whol…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/22 03:33 AM
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Fucking gross, and the AUDACITY/ ENTITLEMENT! 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/22 09:10 PM
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Wants to still play the field and bullshit around until that premature baldness or other development hits to make him settle down. I LiKe To pArTy!1! Loser needs to grow up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/22 12:27 AM
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You literally have to learn how to suppress your natural gag reflex to not throw up on a body part that doesn't even physiologically belong wedged down your throat. Then you arch your back until you feel like a steamrolled/curled up Tex avery or Tom while he's back there pounding the lower half of your body like a screen door in a category 5. Then he might want to make your ass hurt/bleed doing stupid shit like assplay that takes him even further away from your orgasm. It's pretty hard to make m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 09:06 PM
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In order to make a shift like that, he'd have to be entirely ready to accept accountability for his fuck ups in life and reject the "me vs the world/they just want to keep a man down" worldview alot of n/z/lvm internalize. Like, a complete mental rewiring away from "wamen bad except for bottom half I can use for sex". Alot of times low value goes hand in hand with like nihilism or one of those other schools of thought around which Broskis love to predicate their personalities. You ever meet a l/…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 11:00 AM
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the end game doesn't need to be an orgasm Yes it does. Otherwise what's the point of having nonprocreational sex? Reason why I'm celibate 💁🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/22 01:24 AM
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Tell him to keep that same energy if a woman fitting those (dis)qualifiers should ever pursue him..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 12:17 AM
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I don't understand how any of this could ever be perceived as empowering. No power ever came from letting LV men have MORE access to you. Why are there so many people who look down on workaday, menial labor? Was there some memo I didn't see about how gross and undignified it is to enter data, flip burgers, or run meal carts down halls in nursing homes?/s. Sometimes I wish these people would just get a grip. The SWs on SWU had alot of experiences I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy..none empowering…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 03:47 PM
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Lmao first thought upon seeing it was 'what is this chicken scratch?'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 06:44 AM
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Sorry but the words "packed bowl", the dramatization of "being left alone to face her wrath", and the "Me and the boys can't do anything right 😥" is throwing me off.. Alot of times, a woman (me at least) will channel high functioning anxiety or perfectionism or some other mental illness into making the sections/environments we work in immaculate. This spills over into the manner and quality in which we complete the work, as well. They probably did a shit job, a shit job as any person who thinks …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 01:23 AM
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What a loser. To waste your time on earth like this, smh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 10:57 PM
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Sounds exactly like the dumb argument people use on childfree women/men: wHaT iF yOuR sOuLmATe wAnTs kIdS? Then they're not your "soulmate". The one for you is the one who matches you, naturally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 02:54 PM
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Exactly. Guys are all "buried in reflective thought" "cold/calculating" "no nonsense" blahs blah. I have my own problems and existential crises, can't be smiling like a usuable ditz 24/7. Gotta take a break.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 02:33 PM
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A lot of times, both men AND women who say the 'unapproachable' thing really mean unworkable. Users need to be able to identify who they can "work". They want to identify a person's utility and pliability from afar or upon first meeting. It sounds paranoid or far fetched or whatever, but that's all I interpret when I hear a person say 'she seems stuck up/unapproachable'. You don't want to be cute and amicable to alot of people because they wanna see what boundaries they can push while you determ…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 02:29 PM
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Lmao reminds me of that insane asylum(?) test about how to remove the water from the bathtub..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/22 01:37 AM
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Can't stand women who bring their bfs/husbands other women. Why would you help them in their dehumanizing, dysfunctional pursuits? Why would you bring another woman to experience your sexual dissatisfaction? Lolz
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 02:58 AM
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Go to the reddit care page and block it. Blockception lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 06:17 AM
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lied to their whole lives about what matters Does the idiot not realize that it's the reversal— having the ideas of all consuming, sacrificial maternity and performative femininity promulgated at you constantly from birth to bridal to burial? Swear they need to just shut the hell up and stop speaking to what women should be prioritizing. 🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 06:02 AM
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Y e s .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 05:54 AM
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This shit has to be fake
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 05:07 AM
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It's not even a crime that he damaged the condom? His ass should have face some kind of charge, as happy as you may be with your daughter's conception.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 04:56 AM
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You can't even baby trap a dude. He can literally get a vasectomy, bring reliable condoms, or not cum in you. I got so tired of hearing that expression over at the CF and regret subs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 04:31 AM
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It's better just to extricate yourself from contact/the relationship from the first moment a guy has you fucked up. The very first moment you feel disrespected or he illogically lies or embellishes even the most insignificant thing—leave. I hate people like that, from the very first mask slip all attraction is gone🙅🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 02:43 AM
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It's not always driven by heroism. Sometimes a person never or rarely receives those things and they're dumbfounded when they receive anything. I've had art teachers and employers watch my face not change after being told I've earned some reward or raise in pay. Like "alright, thanks I guess". It's sort of like a cave allegory situation--if you're a person who's cut off from some experiences in life, you don't know what's going on outside your reality and what you do experience is normalcy for y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 01:18 PM
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I mean, even if domestic "gifts" like this were acceptable--I can maybe see it on Christmas among other thoughtful supporting gifts. Not on a day reserved for romance..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 01:00 PM
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What makes you hate half of the human population like that? Women have the valid reasoning to hate men for all the wars, ruin, depraved crimes against humanity, head games, and the committed societal/patriarchal establishment that women can never be seen foremost for their actual talents or elevate themselves to the same reverence as their male counterparts. But, yeah, totally valid to hate someone for not giving you the time of day to use their body like a fleshlight../s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 12:30 PM
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Agreed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 02:43 AM
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This poor lady got involved with a crazy ass apple AND the tree from which it fell. 🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 02:09 AM
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Yeah, I felt kind of sorry if some of the comments are from women. Like, you have to have alot of trauma to equate any of that to love. Especially when the main goal during the Holocaust was to survive, though you may have nothing afterwards (family, possessions, purpose, will to live).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 01:36 AM
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Lol you know he's about to come out looking like handsome Squidward 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 11:30 PM
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You should read the stupid comments underneath the MovieClip of the Amon Goeth and Helen Hirsch/Schindler's List scene on YT. You'd be surprised at all the idiots trying to relate violence from a conflicted Nazi man directed at a woman he feels beneath him...with love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 11:27 PM
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If you hold resentment and contempt then perish.. Jk, but seriously just leave women alone, then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 11:23 PM
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Lmao I read that last part in Russel Crowe's german psychologist voice from that one SNL sketch.😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 04:26 PM
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Everybody else here is right, OP. You're just chilling at home in your woman cave and your "friend" is out there splashing your face and information around for any nasty, soon to be dangerously obsessive nut job to see and do with as he pleases. Like she's doing you some favor by exposing you to "suitors" you don't even want. I've always known there are people who lack common sense and self awareness, but this business of exposing your friends to circumstances that could easily not transpire is …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 05:21 AM
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I don't know the answer to the question you seek, but I know her poor daughters and yourself should grey rock her and stay away from her pick me self. However tragic her life has been leading up to the person she is now is immaterial. I don't like women like the one you've described here, she got her conceptions completely mixed up between the sexes 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 02:56 AM
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Isn't being "in between jobs" whilst pursuing dating a red flag? Like, a sign a person doesn't have their shit handled before bringing another person into their poorly managed life..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 10:50 PM
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🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 01:33 AM
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Sunken, soulless eyes. How could she not see how evil he looks? Like one of the contemptuous characters from Da Vinci's grotesque heads painting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 11:27 PM
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They'll literally blame the mother for a serial killer's crimes against humanity. And women saying "no, thanks" politely to delusional guys' romantic/sexual interests in them warrants mass or targeted killings..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 11:13 PM
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It works on the pickmes, that's why.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 01:08 AM
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Absolutely disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 06:56 PM
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Nasty fuckers think every hole needs to be penetrated, even the ones attached to literal children. I can never truly process this it just makes me mad or numb inside.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 04:27 AM
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Because you need a fucking scapegoat to hate while you're marring the surface of the Earth- raping, pillaging, murdering, maiming, setting everything alight with your poorly managed anger.🤷🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 01:35 AM
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Any dude who thinks like this would be a half breed/ abomination if his mother isn't human...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 01:05 AM
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Now you know she doesn't have female friends "they're too much drama/catty, so all [her] friends are guys".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 12:56 AM
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Right?-and society protects them or treats them like cheeky sitcom characters ("Gaaaa-ry!" folds arms and shakes head at Gary's shenanigans). Like you have whole ass women hyperventilating because they saw the shape of some sex guided freak moving in their peripheral and it's cute/brave/a compliment in everyone else's eyes that the guy worked up the drive to unnerve another human being. Women are out here developing these evolutionary pindrop alert reflexes and attention to detail. Anticipatory …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 12:52 AM
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Rolled my eyes reading the question/title, alone. I feel bad for the women shopping or minding their business and he's creepily tailing them..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 09:50 PM
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found people who felt the way I have all my life Same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 03:49 AM
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these women are ugly and can’t get a guy, and think that they deserve a 10/10, without doing anything to change themselves.” ✨ Holy projection, Batman!✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 03:46 AM
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Ew. And against a sea of odds and adversities, those brave men swam to some sex. I truly despise pickmes and libfems.🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 06:48 PM
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"Hi, I'm ethically non-monogamous" "You're a slut, aren't you, William?" e-e
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 02:45 AM
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ethically non monogamous Getting tired of PC word salad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 05:31 PM
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Lol funny how housework is a daily and recurring effort, whereas flat tires happen every once in a while. And he could pick the cheapest places/specials on meals (a meal can technically be a damn hot pocket and a solo™️ cup of water). You could already tell that manipulative jackass sought to get more out of his relationship transaction with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 05:11 PM
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Boop. Exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 05:04 PM
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Clueless morons, take those checkmarks out and put: ▪️ concerts/tix ▪️girls days/hangouts ▪️clean living spaces/nice furnishings ▪️books ▪️S A N I T Y ▪️shopping for a bunch of ish that Target/Walmart told us we need ▪️ gifts for loved ones b/c consideration and emotional intelligence ▪️money (from not being lady simps) ▪️shit ton of thermal pjs, fluffy socks/throws cuz I'm always cold 🥶 ▪️more cats than that bish
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 03:37 AM
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Those girls aren't coming back to you. Lol the boy may grow to understand your urges/side of the story, but those opposite sex children are not coming back to absolve you, dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 02:43 AM
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Glad you got away from that ring of pedos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 02:35 AM
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Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 02:17 AM
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🤮 nasty reproductive abusers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 03:38 PM
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It's always disgusting how bold they are even with the woman who brought you into the world at your side 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 08:23 PM
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Your tl;dr is far better than his..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 07:53 PM
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The fact that he was also frustrated that she didn't show sincere enthusiasm about having her butt boarded (a place even further situated away from her clit). Why would she be excited to not get hers, then give him his in the most painful/pointless of ways?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 07:30 PM
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Your entire entry was chef's kiss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 07:26 PM
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Learn to make her orgasm and the switch would flip on. No one wants to bang someone who can't get them off for all the mental preoccupation with sex they tote. I'd be angry if I entered a relationship with a dude that thought sex would be like "in the porno/movies" even when I'm in my own dark place mentally. I mean comparing inaccessibility to sex to being a malnourished prisoner?? Lmao When you can't make someone orgasm, they start to associate you with that inability even before y'all sit dow…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 07:15 PM
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Alot of women are trying to break through to gain their flairs/membership, as well. It takes time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 04:38 PM
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The thing I hate about this constant self questioning is that a guy would not do this for YOU if he finds out you're defective/failing him in some way. Women are too nice and extend to many chances to persons who mean harm. You waste so much time, the most non-replenishable of resources on Earth, on a man because of some cheesy or codependent ideal you've internalized about love or struggle. I wish all my sisters could skip all these stages and just cut off at the first sign of dysfunction (or n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 04:35 PM
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My mother did handy work with two different Hotepian/Oedipusian guys at differing times. I never saw her among the clapping parents at those elementary honor roll ceremonies and I balled up programs and flyers for events I knew we'd never attend with our emotionally avoidant family dynamic. They'd always insert themselves in some capacity, disrupting our parent-child/mother-daughter bond with some "black-man-headofhousehold-I come first bullshit". One instance I remember, the second guy interjec…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 03:30 AM
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The ones who say "we're pregnant"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 03:01 AM
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and they gossiped more than any women. They usually do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 08:15 PM
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Now she’s playing mommy to some other woman’s kids when she never wanted any herself. A CF woman's truest nightmare..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 11:46 PM
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You got me going :v Mf, we talm'bout colorin' ಠ_ಠ
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 03:33 PM
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Yup, and there'll always be more money, they make more everyday (to quote the grandfather from WW&the 🍫 factory). I hate seeing an old guy waste a woman's youth, what's wrong with dating your own age? People outside my agemate make me physically and mentally tired with all that ear grating grumbling about societal changes they can't tolerate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 01:15 AM
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Ironic and cosmically comedic coming from "people" (can you really consider them human) who refer to women as "plates". Prettty sure they're gettin' sex, infatuation, labor/support, and free dinners off those "plates".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 01:09 PM
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Came to say this, there's always a tell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/22 02:39 AM
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That one was good, she even wore a dress he damaged on purpose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 10:24 PM
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Lazy bitch couldn't even stretch that little strip of fabric (a throw?) across the bed or smooth the wrinkles 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 04:57 PM
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If you leave your inbox open/unblocked, that person can send you any manner of things. They could send a spiteful pic of themselves in a Santa's hat with their thumbs up banging other people and the words 'Wish you were here' inscribed in postcard font across it. Why would you leave your life open to people who moved funny/evil against you? It's the principle of it. That sounds like some easily avoidable shit (block, delete), stop trying to be stoic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 10:03 AM
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How noble to dog walk a woman right through stroke inducing temperatures all the way to his bedroom for some presumably one sided, disappointing sex. 🙄 I don't understand why they just don't write "want sex" in their bios to save wasted time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 01:52 AM
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Kicker is that dude was probably the one adamant about having legacies kids and a wife 🙄.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 09:21 PM
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All these dudes want their fellow bro to get his dick wet so bad, they'll tell this goofy "mother" anydamn thing. Stop asking men for advice on how to take sex/benefits away from one of their own they're not going to be forthright with you, you're playing on opposing teams 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 10:01 PM
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Reason why I can't immerse myself in my other subs. I always have to lurk because you never know which one of your comments on a cat, candy, sitcom appreciation, or horror sub will attract nosies to your profile. I don't feel like doing the whole alt account schtick because I'm not ashamed of my/our entries here. Anyone with half a brain knows we're right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 08:10 PM
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Lol that voice drop and height increase though 😂 Téa knew what was up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 07:28 AM
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As a woman, I think it helps not to have been exposed to media that perpetuates the 'men are visual, women are accommodating' spiel. I remember checking out the entire Mars manga from my local library, all 16 volumes by Fuyumi Soryo just because Rei was such an ethereally beautiful man (yes I realize he's fictitious and a drawing 😂). Same thing with all the male characters from Yugioh, characters from Crime shows, or select members of my favorite bands. Even the audiologist in my fave earwax/squ…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 06:57 PM
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He even made comments about white men using WOC prostitutes. Yes, he's white (she is too). And yes I'm a WOC. Spongebob hands clasped 'Boi'.gif Also, I would've garnished my every quick tongued retort with an "old man" harder than Dewey's. "I think your gf knows what I'm trying to say, ooold maaan/timer."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 04:28 PM
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Society just let's them be as shallow as they want 🤦🏾‍♀️ dump this dude, tired of seeing these dumb questions these women already know the answer to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/22 04:11 PM
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MeN aRe ViSuAl cReaTurEs Shit, better call me Bob, then lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 05:04 AM
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I am a fellow man. You don't belong here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/21 05:52 PM
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Even the brothel owner was appalled. I'm sorry, this made me lmao. Even this debaucherous, skeevy brothel owner was disgusted and morally opposed. 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 04:02 AM
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I saw a post today with a woman saying she wanted to be a lady of leisure housewife who doesn’t work and the title was something like “FDS mentality”. That pisses me off, outsiders don't even bother to READ the content here. They all just parrot one another with their bitter asses 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 01:34 AM
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With all his whining he still said he will rather sleep with a real woman than a robot 😂😂 Lmao that part though, all that dumb ass bloviating and empty threatening just to say he likes working for pussy and won't "upgrade" to robots. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 10:22 PM
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Not to mention the cold resolve of him wanting to roll over and worry about tomorrow, no cuddling or bonding. Like why would someone want to engage sexually and intimately with a creature that drops their mask immediately after the one-sided act? Might as well just stay home with your 10 speed/rhythm bullet..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 10:19 PM
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Already semi- replaced y'all with vibrators and our own fingers..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 10:14 PM
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McChickens 😆 Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 10:05 PM
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He was probably hoping to go Montezuma all over the freaking earth, never taking care of any of his offspring because MuH lEgACy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 02:39 PM
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That just sounds creepy, I'm sorry you had to be on a dangerous incline with that weirdo. Where did he even get the audacity or starting point to start talking about that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 11:16 PM
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Sounds like the same hyper aware dudes that are constantly reminding you what's attractive and what's not: "you shouldn't swear, it's not attractive from a girl" " y'all drink like your uncles/tios, that's not attractive in a girl" "I like sundresses on girls 😬". Nobody asked..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 02:45 AM
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This one doesn't. I didn't clean it up (passive aggressively mopped my section floor, all but the cereal he dropped, clocked out and went home), so him and whoever is there now with him in my section hopefully picked that shit up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 06:04 PM
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With this sorry state of affairs, it's a wonder how women even want to go out anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 04:23 PM
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That imagery, though 🤢. He should've just used disposable cups, daily. Can't even imagine pouring new coffee on top of the old film.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 01:00 PM
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I saw a screenshot of an AITA here once about a woman who went along with her bfs charade. She wore a dress he ruined feigning incompetence at laundry and served meals on soiled dishes he halfassedly washed. The feeling here at fds is resoundingly one that you shouldn't stoop to LV games, but I'm sorry I left the kitchen after selectively cleaning and preparing all the shit I usually do, and if I go back to the kitchen after this break and they're still on the floor, I'm gonna have to let his si…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 10:07 PM
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If you want women/sex from women, why would you use physical harm to alienate them away from recreational spaces you'd meet them? They are so stupid and evil..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 04:58 PM
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True. They don't want to see actually oppressed persons protecting themselves, raising the boot off their necks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 11:47 PM
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Just glad they got/will be put down like dogs. Never thought I'd hear such a disgusting motive to victimize a child. Any damn excuse to steal sexual gratification off a woman/child and then blame the victim for their weak resolve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 11:45 PM
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Jesus, I followed your link to another link to the rapists' interviews. If those are the sentiments of the majority of men in India, I'd deem that whole place a fucking cesspool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 06:42 PM
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When rape is inevitable, blow the rapist away with a gun. Finally starting to see what all these pro gun women have been saying tbh :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 04:51 PM
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For anyone wanting to read the article
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 07:04 PM
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Boys will be boys /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 05:16 AM
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People like this are exactly why I feel Hanlon's razor is a crock of shit lol. He's doing this purposely, doesn't want to spend any money or thought on her. I mean 2.5 years, ffs. Pretty sure you've seen a bottle of BR540 or By the Fireplace that's on its last drop on her vanity (apart of the frag collection she's procured by hobby). If you know she likes art, get her some supplies or a print of her fave piece. You know she eats the little Lindt Lindor truffles instead of Hershey's, get her some…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 04:58 AM
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So many reports on the daily of children being beaten to death for minuscule things like crying or soiling themselves-things society deems women level-headed enough to deal with- at the hands of the boyfriend or father who just couldn't handle. Saw a report that a 13 year old boy had beaten a toddler to death over a thrown toy. He turned all the lights off in the home so that the mother would not immediately examine his crime upon entering the home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 04:32 AM
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Typical. Angry that "struggle love" ain't as tantalizing a prospect as it used to be lol it never was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 03:32 AM
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lose track of time, to have no motivation, to tell the same stupid stories over and over, to do the bare minimum in life Lmao sounds like the guys at work. Reason why we start meal services so late..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 03:04 AM
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Right? Like tell your boys to find healthier activities to stimulate and occupy their minds away from constant lust, tf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 03:01 AM
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That idiot should be ashamed of herself. I've heard reports of boys as young as 8 watching that shit and trying to hurt/practice on girls their age mate. Saw a report on the news once wherein a group of young boys had sexually assaulted a 20 something year old woman after she got off her bus. I hear about all these nasty little boys to grown men acting on the simian urges that porn stirs up in their feeble, unaccountable minds. You'd have to be a willful fool not to see the damage it's done to t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 02:43 AM
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No. SAH positions aren't quantifiable, there's no time clock for you to punch in to document how long you worked all day with domestic duties. The dude could come home, start a fight about how he 'does everything and what do you even do all day'? You should always be ready for misfortune and never sacrifice your income or mobility. Scariest thing I'm reading in these comments is about the women who've been out of the workforce so long, their skillsets and advantages are obsolete against all the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 02:25 AM
1

🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 01:11 AM
56

"Boy you ugly, you yo daddy son" lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 12:41 AM
50

You'll be asked to be their third when a man needs a "birthday treat" and all other forms of scrotery. Revolting. (Pickme) women have to stop sacrificing their own, I wish more (read:all) women knew just how hated we are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 05:05 PM
22

I hesitate in seeing them as a ‘prize’ as they don’t remotely match me in character, personality, depth, humour or emotional capacity That part, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 04:50 PM
26

It's an (mostly unspoken) assumption that Asian women are submissive. I don't know about other races of women or whether this pertains to OP, but that's one misconception I've heard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/21 01:21 PM
68

Alternatively, when they mention another woman "that's where you need to be, then" is always a good reply.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/21 07:34 AM
73

Also - my brothers have even rejected the women who have approached them. Maybe not more traditional, probably just always wanted the chance at power of selectivity that most women have. I think that's why they get mad more women don't approach. They never get to exercise sadistic rejection or humiliation over a woman the way they think women do with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 07:10 PM
37

This. Lmao imagine being this tone deaf and hypocritical. Like yeah dude, switch the sexes and you'll see what a bummer it is 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 07:02 PM
6

I like how guys like this don't even confess any of this stuff to the wife and 🎇 c o m m u n i c a t e 🎇. He skips around behind her back trying to immobilize an army (an Amy) to hate on his cool wife with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 07:41 PM
22

True, it's such a depressing reality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 10:57 PM
9

😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 10:55 PM
27

This is a masterpiece.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 08:38 PM
77

She doesn't realize the LVM have already made up their minds about her and all other women. Don't know why she'd try to appeal or pander to them. They probably hijacked her comments to exchange golddigger encounters with one another and completely ignore her original post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 08:26 PM
42

..if a woman does the reverse and pays for a mans meal does that obligate him to go down on her? Where's the logic?? Wouldn't be the same, most guys cum every time from their ill-gotten sex. The dude would just fail to make her cum and then she's still out the money she paid for his meal..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 08:19 PM
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So what are you more likely to get from a man who contributes less financially? The delusional belief that his talentless dick makes up for all that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 08:09 PM
3

I have also noticed men are afraid of death itself way more than women do. Probably cause they know the sweet, patriarchal setup they had earthside is expired. Look at how they try to cling to youth and relevance by getting barely legal women and sports cars to distract from aging and the big sleep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 10:52 PM
8

Lol right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 04:43 PM
27

'What if' what? Like I'm assuming (as we've never met) you know how to cook, clean, launder your own clothes, stimulate your own orgasms, and buy yourself self care gifts/necessities. Like I'm curious to know what "what ifs" that dude could've POSSIBLY broached. Like do any of them even know they're competing with a woman's own solitude and work/effort ethic?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 04:34 PM
55

"Wahhhh, women won't let me use them for stuff, wahhh"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 04:26 PM
74

The 'you'll die alone' line is comical, as well. Most people on earth will die alone, the sexes are disportionate to one another. In order for everyone to be "taken" women would have to partner with sociopaths/family annihilators, incels, players, and other undesirables (not to sound like Hitler). Also, married couples don't always leave the world in one another's embrace. I can't think of a single person I've met that I'd permanently want installed in my life, so far, especially not this curren…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 04:25 PM
26

Dude really thought he was sayin' something to women who don't want losers installed in their lives 🤦
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 04:15 PM
8

Reminds me of an FDS comment I once saw about how because of all the female infanticide in China, the care for elders would be diminished..because which sex is forced into the caretaker role?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/21 01:27 AM
19

Alright, then - no sex with them. That's the consequence They'll just steal it in the form of rape or drug induced coercion. They're not above that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 08:37 PM
34

Yup, scrote I work with tells the other coworkers he's friends with (we don't speak directly to one another) that he saw 'fine hos/bitches' at a different place each time he comes back from a night out before: •Academy Sporting Goods •A movie theater •The club •A cracker barrel •A grocery store •Etc, etc Dude's obsessed with spotting women who don't even know he exists, like George Costanza. "Jerry, they say the bookstore is THE place to meet girls!" Women can never just coexist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 01:39 AM
13

I just googled him in his youth..d-zamn!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 07:58 PM
36

Smh how do you put emphasis and commendation on a woman's low maintenance then in the same breath seek to take away the ONE care product she allows herself? I can't be the only one who picked up on that..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 06:16 AM
25

I realize that I was never actually romantically attracted to men, but I am sexually attracted to them and want them to act the way I like. I want male company yes, I want to be "romanced", I want physical touch, but all of it is for me and about me. This. Part of the reason I am celibate is because I can notice when a man in my vicinity is attractive/fitting my type, no problem. But it's easy to discard or let fade your infatuation with a guy when you realize he's only doing the right moves in …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 07:00 PM
3

Sometimes not believing you're fucking entitled to someone's time goes a long way. Also, if she had smiled and said thank you, dude would've taken that as a green light to further impose himself in her life. They really need to just say they don't care if women die and go, I hope they came for the scrote in the comments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 09:36 PM
10

That's what it is, no? Some other people here have said it sounds like she has narc tendencies. You usually gray rock narcs because they'll never change/realize how they sound.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 01:51 AM
19

No offense to you, but your mom sounds like the perfect candidate for the gray rock method I'm always hearing about :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/21 01:37 AM
12

Thank You! Enough with the infantilization. Everything they speak, every action they execute is deliberate and instigatory.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 07:43 PM
4

Shit, I've got a dark, nihilistic sense of humor. Would've accidently let an 'any day, now/you made it another Thanksgiving' joke slip since he's elderly. 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 05:30 PM
28

Think of it from their POV: they get an appliance that provides them domestic labor, love/emotional labor, offspring, maintenance sex, and status enhancement that makes them look like established adult men. It's about the benefits. They marry the appliance then cheat on it from a place of comfort with another model (all women are appliances to this type of man).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 05:19 PM
18

What a piece of shit, you have to be some kind of socio- or psychopath to abandon your own offspring and keep on creating more to abandon. They call that reproductive abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/21 05:08 PM
23

Could you please be so kind and give me some tips on how to not be fooled by older men? For starters, keep everything business all the time. Even if you start to feel your Ohana/La Familia-whatever-ass coworkers resent you for darting out of there after completing the terms of your wage enslavement job at your company, just remember you're there to work and get paid and leave. I work with dudes and they spend whole shifts barking and bloviating about car parts, shoes and debasing women. I can fe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 12:49 AM
5

Lol they'll message you on Draw Something, ask how I know..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 04:15 AM
6

THANK🙌YOU🙌! It's even more annoying when this is being said by other women (pickmes, cool girls, libfems). Hardly anybody is just fucking out here blaming innocent, eunuch men who never had so much as a single impure thought about a woman. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 01:30 AM
41

Hotepian ones are the worst culprits. Urkle lookin' guy I work with never ceases in his declarations that he only like hispanic/white girls. He says he'll fuck with black girls but wouldn't be with one and that generally they're ugly and whatever other derogative shit he feels. No one even has to provoke these preference announcements (such is the case with a lot of black/machismo hispanic dudes...always announcing what wasn't questioned).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 08:02 PM
312

No greater colorists than black guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 01:55 AM
40

I didn't turn the sound on, but dude gives me "Howard Walowitz sexually harassing Penny" vibes. Not at all endearing..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 06:28 PM
31

That's such a psychotic thing to say, probably tried to get away with whatever he wanted and expected you to accept it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 04:08 AM
37

"tHeRe'S No pRiNcE ChArmInG/nO oNe'S pErFeCt!" No one's asking for 🎇perfect🎇 but go off, I guess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 03:51 AM
10

He then blames women for the reason he cannot get help, and the reason he hates himself. But you on a dating sub, though...to be with women.🤦
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 01:41 AM
4

Oh yeah? Some of the men who brush their teeth are serial k%llers! Therefore you would be ok with dating one! laughs in Richard Ramirez
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 01:39 AM
53

Did this creepy mf really think he was coming off endearing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/21 01:24 PM
268

Probably the mechanic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 11:25 PM
281

Why are they so fucking audacious and simultaneously so mediocre? I wish I could somehow harness this level of audacity for my OWN desires in life. Meh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 11:18 PM
124

A friend and I were once on campus together. Knew her my whole life from grade school to the college we were both at when this took place. One day, she tells me she's going to break up or say her closing words to this guy she was with at the time that worked in the athletic building on campus. This takes awhile and I waited outside the building. Some time later she comes out visibly frustrated, teary eyed. She told me this dude told her, I guess in reply to some critical words she imparted to hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/21 12:31 AM
111

Probably nothing, there aren't a lot of decent dudes on OLD. They use it as a sex delivery service ¯_(ツ)_/¯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 06:45 PM
133

his belly is big and bloated and when he tries to touch me I am disgusted by his touch I mean yeah, you're a human being. Can't fault you for not wanting to climb atop his swollen, feculent gut and go for a ride. Just divorce him, let others think what they will they don't live with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 03:26 PM
142

Nah, he'd probably leave the bowl full and festering because "what's the point of cleaning it when I'll be using it again in a few minutes". I used to wonder how the restrooms in those biohazard/trauma cleanup episodes were piled up with human waste, fresh on top of old, but I have a clue now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 03:17 PM
92

That's just to fool the women they want to sleep with or be seen with in the public eye. He doesn't value ANY women at all if he's gauging when to show human decency by looks.. A nice dinner or present isn't even equivalent exchange for attention/sex/love/anything from a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 07:00 PM
3

No rp sympathizer "recognizes misogyny" at any point, though. Once a man has made up his mind about something, there's no piece of evidence or statistic/source that he'll believe is anything but fake news. Please don't make the mistake of believing there's any difference from old or new rp supporters. That would require empathy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 01:37 PM
30

Wow, imagine making conscious effort to give someone a hard time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 10:57 PM
49

Lol "huh" can also interchange with "do what, now?" If you know, you know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 08:28 PM
13

I like how they tried to justify their betrayals of their daughters by saying they were so desperate, couldn't come up with the money to sustain the rest of the family's lifestyle. Boo hoo, their asses know exactly the disgusting hell those undeveloped, innocent little girls are going to experience at the hands of those buyers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 05:15 PM
6

Facts!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 05:05 PM
16

Evidently not, don't know what the creator's plans are or whether or not the people that traffick that site would escalate to violence (see Jake Davison, Elliot Rodgers). Reason I think it's dangerous for them to have platforms, but I guess it would violate their rights if they couldn't convene. Still...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 02:55 PM
22

Yeah, I didn't know what to make of it, but agree wholeheartedly. Some other weird results popped up, so I'd urge anyone who wants to go down that rabbithole to search their u/. I got the idea after seeing another fds post about googling yourself then moved on from there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 02:03 PM
47

Obligatory not trying to fear monger, just thought it was weird/creepy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 09:51 AM
2

A lot of the classic rock stars engaged in pedophilic/predatory relationships. Finished watching some exposing scandals people forgot about tiktoks via YouTube, and most of the list were classic rock figures. Among the list were David Bowie, Elvis (obviously), Jimmy Page, Peter Townsend, Rick Springfield, some members from Rolling Stones, Rick James, Iggy Pop, Anthony Kiedis, and on and on. Pretty sickening how many of them were sexually or maritally involved with girls as young as 13. Hollywood…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 02:31 AM
46

Fact
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 07:12 PM
5

Men are raised up to play offense, women to play defense. They're constantly attacking and pursuing new opportunities and chances to prove themselves capable, whereas women need to keep their safety in the back of their heads even when they're attending the same events or pursuing the same opportunities. A dude in Hollywood just needs to forge his way as a renown, in demand actor. A woman attempting the same feat has to also dodge (play defense) disgusting faux ambushes meetings by guys like Wei…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 10:09 PM
21

This was awesome, he reminds me of Kurtis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 09:15 PM
14

"5 Lasko fans tall" lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 12:29 AM
25

Okay, Dudebro™.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 12:16 AM
29

it's just us three ladies living peacefully now 😌 Lmao that's adorable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 02:11 PM
1

Yes, thank you! It's just so frustrating to constantly hear communicate and you already know how it will play out. Lol and thank you, rock on 🤟
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 02:48 PM
2

That's what I'm saying though, the original commentor made it seem as if it's a communication issue but alot of women just don't or won't cum like her. This was under a collection of women all saying that they unanimously weren't having orgasms with the common insert penis and jackhammer/in and out sex . I wasn't meaning to sound like libfem sex polizzi, it's just a complex experience that communication and guiding your partner isn't always going to fix.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 02:40 PM
17

Another reason why you just block: If you cave and submit passionate paragraph, they end up zoning in on a single, insignificant part of it. "Thanks for wasting all my time, treating me like crap, siffoning money and emotional labor from me and leaving mountains of fucking Sprite bottles around the place." "I DoN't eVeN dRinK sPriTe". Stupid shit like that. Just block'em.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 04:15 AM
162

Wrong hole! OOpS, iT wAs DaRk, mY mIsTaKe 😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 02:23 AM
29

Y'all remember that scene from Seinfeld when elaine explains that the female body is like a work of art while the male form is simian (apeish), utilitarian, and for getting around like jeep? 😂 lmao Somebody should make this guys weird neg into a They Don't Know meme. Whole time every well adjusted person is going about their day and this weirdo is standing across the street from beautiful women in a party hat saying "they don't know their anuses are to close to their vaginas, thus invalidating t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 02:19 AM
105

I’m a black woman and what I even have to say about this dude might get me banned from this thread. 😐 Mood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/21 01:58 AM
1

Men impregnate coma patients Those stories sickened me. Disgusting fucks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 03:43 PM
4

Of course dudes are gonna encourage a woman to stay and keep supplying their brother in scrotery regular sex and other benefits. Never ask men how to deal with one of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 12:36 AM
59

He knows there are women who would accept him. They cast their net far and catch pickmes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 08:30 PM
31

Jessica was really proud of this drivel she wrote. 🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 10:45 PM
37

You tried intellius or Spokeo? I've paid like 95¢-$1 at most and canceled shortly after getting the results.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 07:32 PM
8

u/savevideo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 02:59 PM
47

Yup, my sentiments exactly. Lol ya got greedy, scrote- namely on the part where she longs to be 20something again instead of 35 to get leered at by what are probably a bunch of receding harilines and no necks. I rolled my eyes in several places while reading this..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 08:48 PM
2

This.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 04:56 PM
5

WoUlD YoU pReFer I gIvE HiM uP tO cHiLd sErvIcEs?? Nah, just stop seeking praise for fulfilling the expectations of childcare.. Moms do this without acknowledgement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 04:28 PM
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It turns you pretty cold hearted, I close my ears to a lot of this stuff because I found this sub on my own and figured so can they, once they get tired of this shit. I tend to stay away from this drama though, to keep peace of mind. 💯 on not being a spokeswoman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 10:39 PM
1

I say naive because they assume some fabricated hot bot wants them, that a "Hi, QT" message from them is genuine . You're right there's definitely another word that evades me for their interactions with these fake accounts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 10:21 PM
42

I'm sorry, I know we're supposed to maintain compassion and not victim blame and whatnot, but I'm really starting to hate these women.. Why are you seeking counsel from the internet when you already know in your heart what your damn boundaries and tolerances are? Just throw the disrespectful bastard away and stop treating this like some philosophical conundrum. Why are people so afraid to be alone?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 10:16 PM
13

"You're so much better at doing the work I don't want to do, being the person I dont want to be." Lolz (ᵕωᵕ )
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 05:11 PM
14

Probably wants her to "meet with an accident".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 04:58 PM
1

They'd shoot up the place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 11:57 PM
82

Women actually hate them for valid reasons. They hate you because you don't look or act the way they want you to, because you're not "background character"-ing the right way. I go street blocks and averted eyes out of my way to avoid them like the plague (you never know which ones gonna say some stupid shit to you), but they giggle and high five each other for every negative engagement they made with a woman, that week.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 11:29 PM
3

Tomato is like a word people put in their profile to make sure you read it. Either a real woman had it in her profile and he's indicating that he read what she had to say, or one of those bot thots that trap naive lvms had it in a fake profile and he copy/pasted the beautiful message unknowingly with the ending to bot on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 09:53 PM
29

Hateful sack of shit took his wife and the children I can't believe anyone would allow him to sire to the same woods where he disposed of Sarah. Hope he burns in hell and he's probably done this before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 09:44 PM
11

Same. Ick, to people who think this realization is cute.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 08:51 PM
15

That's true, definitely more agency.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 04:56 AM
169

destroying Apt word usage. I'm a millennial, but I feel bad for my generation and all the budding ones after us. It's all fucked if this is normalcy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 04:43 AM
45

Yikes, is there a way to disown a parent? lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 08:39 PM
30

iT KwInDa hUrTs MwHy fWeEliNgS Bitch, she doesn't want any kids or diseases by you, fuck what you want. My god.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 06:48 PM
10

Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 03:32 PM
60

Lmao at Gayle's face the entire time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 09:03 PM
6

Wow. It's amazing the level of delusion they operate on, isn't it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 10:47 PM
17

Why are these creatures soo afraid of losing money, but they waste upwards of $300 (scrotey coworker was regaling his friend and I overheard) to posture at strip clubs and other seedy places?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 08:39 PM
20

Most "fun" people I met have been narcissists, and always, always flipped the second things don't go their very specific way. This. I know exactly of the ones you speak. Definitely have coworkers like this, they are very social battery draining/emotionally exhausting people that never let the room fall peacefully silent long enough to hear the machinery purr or the thoughts in your head. When they're not "fun" and blathering away, they're getting mad at slight inconveniences, bad mouthing absent…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 03:28 AM
5

Lmao at the "hell mother fucking yeah" bit 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 12:24 AM
10

Hit rock bottom then grabbed his shovel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 10:49 PM
52

Everything that is oppressive/degrading in third world countries is explorative and empowering to libfems. Like those hipsters that want to try poor people experiences as a trend 🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 07:24 PM
82

That phrasage has always made me cringe 😖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 04:08 PM
129

"Overestimating their market value", as they say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 05:38 AM
20

Exactly. Always a team of women sprinkled throughout their lives to help them reach their quests/desires, then they're supposed to fade away in the background.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 06:41 PM
25

That bald ass leech Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 03:35 PM
99

This is why men LOVE pick me moms They don't even love them, though, just the services they perform for them like with any other woman. Reason why they're always so irritated even when the PM mom sings their praises and brings pizza rolls down to their basement nest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 03:14 PM
35

Imagine whining for sex disease or a pregnancy you'll dodge out on but are partly responsible for. It won't stop until pick mes start telling them it's a no on the rawdogging.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 11:35 PM
87

if his FWB became pregnant and kept the baby, he would not be involved at all. Guessing he has an aversion to condoms..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/21 07:39 PM
19

Wow, what lack of self awareness. Just goes to show how foreign a concept being high value is if he thinks bothering someone in their DMs and saying something spiteful is any indication.🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 09:43 PM
32

BugsBunnyNO.jpg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 08:24 PM
30

Lmao I'd love to see it perpetuated among women. A whole network of women from all walks of life finally saying what they're thinking and making coddled dumbasses uncomfortable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 08:20 PM
60

Yeah, there's totally salvation for men that believe it's their right to tear the underdeveloped bodies of innocent kids and infants if they get horny enough. Glad he's your ex, too. Can't stand people like that, they never think from the victims' perspectives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 10:16 PM
67

Lol whenever a guy mentions his crazy ex or someone from his past that slighted him, it's always fun to say "you probably made her that way with the mind games y'all play🙄" "they probably didn't do shit to you". It's most likely true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 02:33 AM
110

So gross, an old dude wanting to waste a girl's "one/first chance".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 10:02 PM
428

Part of it is they didn't grow past High school. Either it was the best time of their lives and they miss raking in girls or it was the worst time of their lives and they're making up for lost time they didn't rake in 17 year olds when they were 17. All about that Peter Pan complex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 10:01 PM
100

Morgan Freeman voice: He did, in fact, want sex and money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 02:37 PM
3

But then they want to be treated like kings lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 12:37 AM
2

Well said, it's like "at least I'm a bitch who can worry about herself and not have to make you cozy". Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 12:35 AM
387

The goal is psychological warfare. Always being made to believe you're mistreating them, asking too much of them, or slighting them in some way. Not giving a shit is the best weapon for things like this. The day you wake up and decide you don't give a shit if the world thinks you're a goldigger, an architect of drama for some defenseless dude, or some other shebeast is the day nobody can touch you. I realize this sounds dramatic but it's true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 02:46 AM
47

Put them in her vibrator or foot/deep tissue massagers. Far better use.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 10:07 PM
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There's like tons of hookup sites, how much sex does one need? People have been having it for centuries and you've still got people building their whole personality out of it. This is exactly why decriminalizing prostitution wouldn't do shit, because people want sexual gratification and reaction off people that don't want them in that way. Imagine seeing "looking for a serious relationship" and thinking challenge accepted. Reminds me of those guys that summon you to their car windows for "direct…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 03:06 PM
11

The depravity Hub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 09:50 AM
10

That's true, they're fucked up through and through. Never truly wanted to GTOW, I guess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 09:49 AM
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I'm not proud to know this, but these dudes probably have PH accounts that are equipped with chat capabilities and like/add system much like any other social media platform. Why don't they just use that site for hookups if that's their sole goal. Like stay on sex/hookup sites stop bothering women on relationship sites...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 01:29 AM
12

Lol dude should've gotten snipped or acquainted with a box of condoms. Takes two to tango.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 09:30 PM
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So irritating lol. Heck yeah, that would be cool if it were like half fds half cf principles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 06:30 PM
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No doubt there are libfems that back them in the comments, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 05:40 PM
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u/Moira_Spice I don't know if you're a fixture in the r child free sub, but if you are you've no doubt noticed the amount of people who fucking cape for CF dudes 1) claiming discomfort and disdain for wearing condoms and 2) claiming guys can be baby trapped or that losing money( in the form of child support ) is the same as whatever physical freedoms women lose with unwanted pregnancy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/21 05:34 PM
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Lmao It's never who you want to be polyamorous who's polyamorous!🎶🎶
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 09:21 PM
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Mine was just a hookup buddy/fwb I met when I first started at my job. He was maintenance, not coworker adjacent but we started messing around on and off workgrounds. I initially thought it was safe because I'd see him perched on ladders around the place actually doing the whole olde Yankee workshop, manly schtick around the place. Figured he was hardworking and the type of green light guy a woman wants. He started treating me funny for what we were, acting all uncaring and negging me during rea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 08:38 PM
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Acting that way in front of and in spite of children, ffs. He obviously wasn't a provider.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 08:06 PM
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What a sack of shit, all those things would literally fit in one little grocery bag and take less than 5mins to pop in and out of the store for. Glad you cut him loose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/21 06:25 PM
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IF mEn oF GoD DonT sTanD Up Here we go again with this victim shit, always diligently fighting the forces of evil 😩. Nobody's coercing or subjecting you to stare at their succubian forms. Why don't you take accountability for how weak you are, stop putting it on young women you nasty bastard. I hope his daughter there got a preview of what not to look for in a man/friends/people she socializes with when she's older. I'd be so embarrassed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 06:19 AM
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Dude stood there long enough, chastising them so he could get a longer look. And why would you bring your kids/wife (whoever those people were next to him) closer to also gawk and intrude in those womens' business. All of this was cringe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 06:08 AM
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I hear this a lot from older PM women who observe you doing something that they perceive is wrong. It's really irritating because their husbands/men from their particular generation have "I hate my wife boomer humor" after all the things these women do for them. Almost like it doesn't matter how much ass kissing/worship you do for them, they hare you anyway. Lmao how's that dumb expression go? "even the most beautiful woman has a man tired of her shit". So what's the point if ignoramus hates you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 12:35 AM
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People who think like this always insert these ideologies in the most arbitrary places/conversations, don't they? You're having a business meeting, not a speed dating session. What an idiot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 12:17 AM
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𝕻𝖗𝖊𝖕𝖆𝖗𝖊 𝖙𝖔 𝖉𝖎𝖊, 𝕸'𝖑𝖆𝖉𝖎𝖊𝖘. 🎩👌 ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 02:55 PM
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I'll lose interest. Boy, bye. Stop acting like you're this irreplaceable resource sought after far and wide by women. Dude really thought you were going to be like "yes, sir! 😰" lmfaoo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 01:49 AM
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I just ignore, move on, or say no. This.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 12:57 AM
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men don’t need women but women need them, men are the default and superior sex etc. and that wgtow would never work because apparently women can’t leave men alone. All women think about is men and how to ruin their lives. And being raised Christian, I even heard that “If a woman is by herself, she will think evil thoughts’ Jesus, talk about projection and complete delusional reversal 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 09:11 PM
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I want to but it's hard to tell whether the women will be pickmes/pushovers who are flattered or something. I don't wanna give scrotey a meet cute opportunity 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 12:35 AM
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Lol yeah, I'm a pretty expressive person who cant hide the expression when I know the possibility of them saying something stupid on approach.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 12:20 AM
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They never tire of making posts like "women are lucky, if you're a guy you don't have wigs and makeup you're just fucked". I'm like what's stopping you from becoming better looking for women/society or wearing those things..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 07:54 PM
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Why are all these men aiming for me? It's because redpill, pua, misogynist influencers, and their own friends gas them up. I work with men and see them constantly hyping up the black woman hating Urkel looking one in the group to go talk to the new hire Latina/white nurse. I really wish I could warn these women an ugly, delusional scrote their way walks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 07:52 PM
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Don't forget Ryan Destiny, off the top of my head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 07:42 PM
14

Meanwhile, Genny's consulting her own subs to figure out how she can protect herself from a creep who's obsessed with her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 07:28 PM
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Don't forget that revenge porn, deepfakes, and those sites where you can post a women's pictures/address are all very much real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 07:22 PM
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They're very egomaniacal and presumptuous. Being nice to them means you want them, in their eyes. They see an "in".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 02:24 PM
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I don't know why these people keep bloviating, they admit themselves they see childbirth/ creation as a punishment. I also see no mention of forcing the father's stay or how they abhor/neglect their duty to the children who are already earthside.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 10:38 AM
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Well I hope those same Republicans are ready to hear their mantra of "gun positivity/Come and take it" parroted back at them when a shit ton of women start arming themselves and subsequently blowing the pardoned rapists away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 01:42 AM
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What do they want Refer to handmaids tale: there are dutiful wives at home, and a mezzanine for all the irredeemable women in Gilead where the pigs can let lose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 01:34 AM
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I don't know why men would be so pissed off if women stopped having sex with them in protest. Also, they're not entitled to it. I think I saw the thin veil of the illusion that we have autonomy around them slip when that "Dr." made that tweet about mandating women to incels like chattel. It was scary how on board they are with just stealing sexual gratification off someone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 01:31 AM
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Preach, peaches lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 12:59 AM
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I've noticed the opposite. As a single, childfree young woman it's hard to find people of like mind or lifestyle. You're surrounded by incompatible/wornout friendships that should've dissolved of their own volitions long ago but you didn't want to hurt any feelings. Friends who are enthused about the idea of you meeting their mini mes (and subsequently feigning interest because you're awkward with kids or have no maternal instinct), making you cool aunt (a.k.a the A.T.M). or outsourcing childcar…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 07:32 PM
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"Nah, I'm priming myself to flee from old creeps like you 😬" I'm sorry he ruined your gym experience, the lack of self awareness. Smh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 03:43 PM
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Have you ever noticed that screencap that was going around social media that said something along the lines of "you're not savage/telling it like it is, sweetie, you're just a rude bitch". I never see any call outs for guys and their the ones most guilty of being "blunt" or "real". I've never even met any women like that in real life, been around plenty guys like that, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 03:09 AM
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Don’t come to me asking me dumb shit when I told you before what to do. This💯. There's a certain point where emotional labor/pain becomes physical, those people give me migraines.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 08:20 PM
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I really wish we didn't have these stupid preconceived notions about how much to expect from either sex. If they get to step out everytime things get tough, there should be no problem when women do it. I never hear anybody piping up to keep or guilt trip them in the lives of the children they cocreate, or keep them from half assing/using weaponized incompetence, or telling them not to outsource (via women) their duties to themselves to get therapy, learn to cook/clean, or be good looking for the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 04:51 PM
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The world is backwards as fuck and this sub is a refreshing haven from that shitshow. I wish all women would wake up and become more ruthless in who they keep around them (much to society's chagrin).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 03:58 PM
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Your friend should know that staying through something major like his relapse is pretty much locking herself into his life. I had a friend who's father passed and that pretty much locked in the irritating guy she was with, at the time. People are less urgent or thoughtful about leaving someone who experienced a tremendous setback with them. It's like enduring a house fire and becoming traumatically attached to the only item that survived the ravaging flames: a soot cover teddy bear. It's like be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 08:53 AM
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When they reach a western country can’t they get their families over? If the Taliban has their wives and children, they probably won't want them back. Not to sound ignorant or obtusely ethnocentric, but middle eastern cultures have been known for discarding women who are perceived to be "tainted" in some way. I watched this doc about a young woman named Banaz who was honor killed by her male relatives for falling in love with someone outside her abusive arranged marriage. A London detective was …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 11:01 PM
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Those receding hairlines are putting the fire under their asses to tie her down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 05:49 PM
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my grandma died, he said “oh sorry to hear. So we still on for tonight?” Regarding a date we had planned. And when I lost both my precious pups within a week of each other, he got annoyed at me after two weeks and said “get over it already, they’re just dogs!” Dude sounds like a psycho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 02:55 PM
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At least he remembered, don’t you love him? The fact that those people ask that shows they themselves have only ever had no or low value people in their lives. Celebrating the bare minimum like that dude just lost the mental faculties that allow him to memorize and store a shit ton of information...as long as it's not about his SO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 08:59 PM
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you make her sound like an intelligent pack mule. "Have ya met my sturdy plough horse of a wife, Rebecca? 😃"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 08:50 PM
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I was at work the other day, standing 4ft away from a male co worker who was going on and on about how he missed all the things this one nurse on the floor used to do for him. Not even her but the rides, food, half hearted sex he wanted with women he desired rather than her. Once he and another male co worker laughed about how she'd bought the former an expensive order of wings and he and the other guy ate them right up! She even bought him a belt to hold up his pants; she wrapped it around his …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 08:44 PM
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So sad, all the countless victims.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 04:51 PM
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"Nothing, for you"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 04:47 PM
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Older man is just experienced enough to conceal the toddler to get what he wants from the younger, pretty damsel. You think old dudes are actually appreciating you as a human being with ideas & insights to bounce off of? They literally just like the attention of being with a hot young woman that distracts them from the clock ticking them towards the grave..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 04:34 PM
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as a younger woman who primarily dates older men Present tense? Dude, no. I don't understand this, even for money/gifts. You have nothing in common, that's why there's that dating over 50(?) commercial with the conventionally attractive older guy talking about how he wants to walk through the nuances with someone his agemate. You sitting there listening to him shout at that cloud about how a burger used to be a nickel and sexual misconduct was endearing. If a guy is older he was already exposed,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 04:29 PM
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Pickmeism is dangerous. They'll betray their own children and other women for men. Think of those girlfriends complicit in serial killings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 01:34 PM
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This is not cute, she needs to just be alone. Why pay someone to do what you (and millions of other adults) do naturally? How do you get wet/affectionate for somebody you infantilize? :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 01:14 PM
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because he sabotaged himself with amphetamine abuse over the course of his education These ride or dies have a knack for trivializing really harmful character flaws.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 12:21 PM
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Harsh, but true. Alot of women still giving the benefit of the doubt to calculating, opportunistic perverts. It's exhausting, like wake up already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 12:09 PM
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And also men have no one to blame but themselves for creating a culture of masculinity that thinks its weak for men to cry/have emotions other than anger, and responds best to aggression and insults not compassion They might have time to quell one another's feelings if they weren't calling each other gay/pussies. 🙄 Their mental health is not women's issue, I scream internally or self reflect and then get back to work. They can do the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 09:16 PM
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Reddit guys: "HaVe YoU TrIeD UsInG YoUr BiG GiRl WoRdS??1?" nose boop Oh, the condescension of it all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 09:03 PM
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Jesus Christ, dude. Sounds like you got a front row breakroom seat with self aware wolves. Taking solace in being a piece of shit and never getting someone a gift to show appreciation for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 08:25 PM
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I feel so bad for women back then :/ I pencil in personal "scream into pillow/bitch, you live like this" breakdowns everyday (intertwined with selfcare, of course). Don't have time for this nonsense, this shit sounds like borderline worship.😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 04:42 PM
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This is all so offputting, especially after watching Hostel last night. Such soulless and/or self serving smiles and eyes. No different than the ones on the faces of the murderous bidders in the movie 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 01:02 AM
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Reminds me of that quip about the dog that actually catches up to the car: what's he gonna do with it? He caught the big house he aimed for, but doesn't even know how to stock/upholster it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 09:53 PM
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no effort = no entry Badass tattoo idea lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 08:53 PM
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I mean, I'm not really religious but if you are refer to Luke 23:29. Shit's gonna get much worse across the board, but especially with men and women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 08:38 PM
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Nah, they're worse than golddiggers. Money is material and abundant, if you lose some it's no great loss (just like the grandpa from Charlie and the chocolate factory said 'there'll always be money they make more everyday). They dig emotional labor, sex, and a whole lot of other shit that mentally and physically tires you out. When they came down on Cardi B about having drugged guys in the past for monetary gain, they tried to liken her actions to men that drug women for sex. They tried to liken…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 07:51 PM
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Imagine being so fucking miserly that you forego food, furniture, and toiletries. The hell does he even need the big house for, just pitch a tent underneath a bridge at that point.🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 04:23 PM
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he buys his buddies stuff yet wants you to do 50/50 In addition, still expects sex, clean dishes/clothes, and her initiative to find furniture and shit to make that hole a home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 04:19 PM
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Old boy thought he was the prize lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 02:28 AM
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True, I completely discounted those points. Thank you for the insights!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 07:06 PM
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If you asked men this question they'd hands down say no. I think they'd say yes because they're delusional about the qualities they possess and also because they think they'd be really hot chicks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 06:40 PM
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Simian specimen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 04:03 PM
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u/eightbornunicorn yikes "anal play" go enjoy yourself lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 10:51 PM
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u/eightbornunicorn dumbo, go join a childfree or regret sub and see how many thousands of people literally claim they created human life to appease their parents/inlaws, society, or a guy they're seeing. You'd be astonished how many people are out there living for others, ffs 🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 09:58 PM
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Lol oh I hadn't even noticed, I was just agreeing wholeheartedly with your statement
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 10:28 PM
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Reminds me of Oscar the Grouch yelling for someone to close his trashcan lid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 07:42 PM
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no sane woman would not want to date someone who calls her ‘mate’ ‘bro’ ‘bruh’ ‘dude’. That part, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 07:33 PM
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I do not fucking get it. How do women not see how much men hate us lol They just want to believe in something, reality is a bitch for some people to grasp. Or damn, maybe their relationships are so much more worse that this looks like goals. 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 07:23 PM
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I always see this losers' lamentation circling around Facebook lol. Gimme a break, every creature installed in another creature's life is literally only there because of some entertainment factor/capital they're providing. Every one and thing can be cast aside at a moments notice. People get pets to give themselves something to dutifully busy themselves, to keep them company and because they're cute. The pet gets food, shelter from the elements and pets from you. Every person and thing on earth …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 01:01 AM
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Fact. When I heard about the Vegas shooter, people kept bringing up his girlfriend for some reason. Then, obviously there's all the blame on the negligent or absent mothers of serial killers/rapists. I hear that women have no power or influence, yet miraculously their moms had such formidable influence they turned their sons into soulless murderers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 12:40 AM
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Why do they always put it on women to not be shallow? Males in nature are literally goddamn beautiful lmao. I can't help but admire androgynous men or the ones in paintings with dualistic bodies that possess the sinew/muscularity of men but the delicate beauty/grace of women. Preferences differ from woman to woman but they're not up for negotiation or debate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 09:41 PM
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Lots of women do it to appease their peers a d society at large. I don't know why, but I agree with you. You only get one life, appease yourself and stop trying to be mother Theresa or the ugly whisperer or whatever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 07:51 PM
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Those poor women. I think they resonate with rapists because they know what it's like to crave sexual gratification to the point of rationalizing stealing it. They can't empathize with women because they think it's a compliment to be desired and entered by dudes left and right. They think women have more opportunities at pleasure, but really it's just more opportunity to be hurt and ruined by pigs who don't deny themselves. Alot of women are left incontinent or with other disabilities because ra…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 07:29 PM
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This. What a privileged damn POV to have. The other day, I was reading about the bus massacres that the LZ cartel carried out on migrant workers travelling by bus on a certain stretch of highway in Mexico. The buses were made to stop and all the people were taken hostage by the armed men. Naturally the female passengers were raped before their next stop at a mass unmarked grave. The men were made to fight each other gladiator style to the death, the victors' fates to be temps to carry out future…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 06:58 PM
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It's the internalization of always having to humble yourself. Society doesn't tell them to get rid of that entitlement and complacency that let's them get away with literal murder and manifesto composition. women have the humanity to not go on mass murders and rampages Same thing with ending their own lives as violently, usually with pills or carbon monoxide, something their families won't have to scrub away vigorously while they're still processing the loss.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 02:47 PM
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True, women suffer the worst fates in wartimes. I see all these dumb, coddlesome conversations about how all the people are new generation Afghani and all of them deserve equal chance at escape so "stop bringing up the scarcity of women and children on the jet, I circled all 16 out of 6-800 for you🙄". Like dude, the only thing that hasn't changed no matter what generation or war you're examining is the manner in which women are tortured in war/conquests. The punishments are disproportionate, but…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 02:33 PM
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I find it morbidly comical (perhaps that's insensitive compared to the word that evades me right now) that a lot of men would take lives for sex and a lot of women would rather end/risk their own than endure it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 02:13 PM
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I wish those jets could be filled predominantly with women and girl children. I didn't see many in the photos I've seen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 02:07 PM
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I'd rather have some options than no options. Nah, bro, you wouldn't. You would not want to link up with some female serial killer or family annihilator. You wouldn't want some STD factory. You'd not want to be with one who calls members of your entire sex "plates" and doesn't even remotely hide that she keeps you in opportunistic rotation. You'd not want a slob with whatever the female version of smegma is caked in her nethers and the underside of her protruding, unwashed panniculus. You'd not …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 03:04 AM
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Guy: y'all get all these messages and attention and don't even have to try The message waiting in a woman's inbox on OLD: Jeff says🗣: "123456ahsdjfhffjffnfndnddnfnfjtfj... ho"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 02:17 AM
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here's the awful part Pam...the whole gotdang thing was awful, ffs. 🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 08:48 PM
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I'm not defending Tamara, but if the father was as bitter and skillful at deceit as OP recounts, how does she know it's not him messaging her from Tamara's account? The message seems like some narcissistic, conniving shit you type up in Gmail as the computer bathes you and your anime style reflective glasses in blue light. It would make more sense being from him because narcs don't ever want to be forgotten. This woman was chilling at su casa, and "Tamara" just decided to remind her ex illegitim…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 09:29 AM
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Got my hopes up thinking Tamara was messaging to tell her that she resonated with her in a way she couldn't as a kid and it took her growing up to see the LV of her father...not so lol I would have been pissed to get her little dusty message after forgetting all of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 08:54 AM
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Reminds me of what happened to that reporter, Lara Logan.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 04:36 PM
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Every sentence of this was 🤡 shoes lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 02:46 PM
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What happens when a psycho kills his mandated support women? Is he issued another? A refund? We need answers, Doc, elaborate!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 12:31 AM
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Right, but if I said we should impale fat, ugly guys on a rotisserie spit, complete with the apple in their mouths and roast them alive, I'd be condemned or institutionalized.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 08:52 PM
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This guy sucked at having hand over the conversation, why would you mention having torn/pulled something in the past? Where does admitting your frailty come into play in this animal kingdom/biology argument they make? 😐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 10:02 PM
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They sort of set it all off and set the trends for the modern day lvm. They made a big deal about fat asses, now even the Kyles that never SEEN an ass are squawking about fat asses. They make up all the peacockish dances that trend on SM, the rest follow. They put waves and fades in their hair, the other races of men start appropriating those styles. They build whole personalities around negging, being lazy, taking fist/index & thumb under chin pics, playing games, using Ebonics (all the others …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 05:28 PM
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Gotta hit'em with the "dammmn, that's crazy/hope you figure something out and [whatever problem they're confiding] blows over". I swear they look at you the way Caesar looked at Brutus lol like yeah bro, time's up on the free therapy sessions, I'm in this break room to escape you and eat these pop chips.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 12:19 PM
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Yeah, it's pretty easy to deduce that's what they'd use it for, it's like the end all be all. And that's weird that coworkers would cross the line and emotionally belabor you while you're already physically belabored by a paying job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 12:11 PM
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my brother made clear those were not options he would accept Okay, then be single you crotchety, miserly AH. Lol stop trying to get somebody else to subsidize your "champagne tastes" 😂 I got an image in my mind's eye of this guy sitting toes up in a lavish bubble bath with the bubble dollop ☁ on his head 🛀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 04:11 AM
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Liberal feminists let men exploit their emotional labour all day everyday. And think that’s ‘empowering’ Fact. Someone needs to teach them how to grey rock these narcissistic ne'er do wells. Stop trying to peer inside them, there's nothing there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 03:16 AM
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It's really annoying when you give a sex fascinated by the dynamics of war and how to master any trade/other person's will..emotional strategies of conquest, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 02:09 AM
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If men weren't taught to be angry in too many circumstances I just think it's innate, their anger and hatred that is. Forgive my cynism, but I came from a video of a 100+ manned mob of men beating, stoning, defenestrating, and finally burning a woman to her death over a lie made by a male religious consultant. I try not to go down this rabbit hole of thinking but, it just seems like they bring evil into whatever they practice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 02:04 AM
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These are the dudes that finally get pity laid and turn around and laugh with his friends about how she had an ugly moan or stretch marks or some shit. They don't deserve anything from a woman but her censure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 01:54 AM
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I feel bad for all the women who actually read what he wrote and take it to heart/internalize it (if there are any). I'm afraid for women who try to think outside themselves and give men like this a chance. Sometimes, as macabre as it is, I imagine all these women laying and rotting in fields somewhere unbeknownst to their loved ones. Unseeing glazed eyes. Awaiting someone to find their bodies and retire the hopeful search efforts made on their behalves. It pisses me off that dudes get to be so …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 01:13 AM
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teach men that crying is okay Teach them to weaponize tears, that's a good idea. So now they can cry and share their feelings that they're so backed up and blue balled it makes them feel sad and undesired.. Meanwhile, women have real problems and fears.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 12:55 AM
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You should have given him some pity sloppy toppy, if you cared so much, Alan Freestone. You doomed us all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 12:52 AM
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Whatever's free. Lol whatever the innately guilty pm woman entertains, followed by a chaser of NSA sex for the miserly, no doubt neg-equipped gentleman. ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 12:11 AM
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Hell yeah, didn't you get the memo, sweaty? So is hauling ass on a walk date where his legs are longer than yours, sitting at home with your gf marathoning the office/anime, or parking in a deserted parking lot to watch a movie on his phone screen./s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 09:17 PM
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I think it's a sympathy pandering tactic, tbh. Like, something you say about a woman so the audience is like "aww, that mean old bitch didn't want to be this man's idealized muse 😢". It's what a guy told me once as he was using me for free therapy/fwb. " I loved that girl (his ex with whom he had a toxic, age gaped, self admitted DD/lg yet somehow still 50/50 relationship) and she broke my heart". Gimme a break, even the old ride or die/cool girl me rolled her eyes lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 09:06 PM
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He sounds like a serial killer! lol that's what it was. Like, if you've ever seen the movie Creep, when Joseph/Aaron/whatever his real name is tells Aaron, posthumously, that he is his favorite 'of them all' (it cuts to a big vhs/bookcase lined with videos labeled with his victims names).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 06:52 PM
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Bunch of Uncle Ricos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 06:45 PM
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Lol and he recaps it so well, doesn't even perceive that any of that amounted to one of the worse ways a date could've gone for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 05:56 PM
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Your "favorite" (something's off about being described this way, I can't yet put words to it) match but you still didn't have anything better for her that put her above the rest..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 05:21 PM
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When will they realize fixing other people ain't their problem?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 02:18 PM
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Ew lol what a deludanoid. They really think they're the prize in this age of Pickme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 11:24 PM
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🤣 I hope that guy has since improved himself, wherever he is. That must have been embarasing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 11:05 PM
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sometimes they resent you if you don't play into it? Yeah, and also if you show visible signs of "racing to finish your work to get the fuck away from them and clock out". It's funny how dudes are like: we're not mind readers, we can't pick up on y'alls womanly passive aggressions. The fuck they can't lmao women and men know when they despise one another and they know when women want to escape their one track minded conversations. Invent him, do what you gotta do. Distance yourself also, make su…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 11:00 PM
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Yeah, disassociation is usually the way I go. It sounds like that guy in your case was a dissenter, at least it wasn't the whole damn table of them...yet. I don't think it was personal unless a) you've had him hit on (a be subsequently rejected by) you or b) he doesn't like you for some other reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 10:38 PM
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do you think they are doing this specifically to make you, the sole female, uncomfortable? or are they so selfish that they don't give a F you are there and may be offended? (this where i am leaning, doesn't make it ok). They forget you're there and that there's professionalism to uphold. I work with men too (and 2 older women, 1 being our supervisor) but not in STEM. It's like an elder care center and we're kitchen staff. Our dishwasher never shuts the absolute fuck up with the debasement of wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 10:13 PM
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Lol I didn't want to use flock, herd or gaggle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 09:15 PM
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My thing is it's always the people who deserve a partner least--psychos who are capable of taking lives or using manipulation/self-esteem lowering tactics in dating--who are most adamant about finding someone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 09:13 PM
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gets mad seeing a sub post content criticizing a certain brand of dangerous, regressive guy a woman should never aspire to date goes on to become that certain brand of guy and murders innocent people Sub just calls a spade a spade, dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 08:59 PM
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Lol FDS is literally don't date or screw nutjobs from those other 2, I don't understand the hate for this sub. The hate for women who aren't mass murdering, but embracing the selectivity that any human has the right to, ffs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 08:50 PM
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most basic displays of empathy, self reflection, and human decency Effort and hygiene, also
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 07:21 PM
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Sounds like one of those RHCP Jason Mraz bumpin, wherever I am is home bums
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 07:09 PM
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What a motherless dog, have a bear hug.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 04:44 PM
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obsessed with not being attractive to women. When have we ever gone and done anything like that! Not obsessed enough to become attractive to them, I guess. Women, as another fds'er put it, turn their anger inward. Introspection and improvement usually follow. Also a lot of women follow the path of cosmetic surgery or other physical change. I don't condone that, but that's leagues better than murdering other human beings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 04:30 PM
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Reproductive abuser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 04:08 PM
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Yup, definitely too much time spent self indulgently. Every moment has to equate to pleasure and if they don't get what (who) they want they have these entitled meltdowns.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 03:24 PM
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Someone on another UK thread just asked if legalising prostitution would help ffs Give unstable, hate filled, murderous, resentful-because-they-cant-have-the-cost-free-woman-they-desire guys punching bags prostitutes. Why is there always someone trying to mount a campaign to give sacrificial lambs to evil forces instead of getting rid of those forces? Guess all those people would rather hear (or not hear) about dead prostitutes instead of human beings/s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 01:24 PM
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Imagine living in a world that caters to you and you still can't handle it. Given every advantage/head start and STILL fail.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 01:17 PM
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I heard somewhere that they never need help, input, etc from women virtually ever(they'd get all their authentic interactions from other males), so when they even talk to you, give you a small project/task to complete for them (like watching their things) they already have it in their minds to impart themselves in your life. It's not accidental. Personally, I would have beened pissed going to my fave hangout place to unwind and being given a project and proposition. 24/7 is hunt/sex time for the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 11:48 AM
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Their "I'm not fit but I'm okay" isn't the same as ours. I've seen a bloat of overweight guys convince each other they're average. Also, note on OLD when a guy's profile says average body type but the picture...doesn't add up. 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 10:29 PM
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Okay Google, play Save Yourself by Stabbing Westward.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 10:17 PM
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Shows up in sweatpants and slides
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 09:13 PM
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He should've apologized for that sorry ass homebody coffee date and going George Costanza on the bathroom garbage can.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 09:08 PM
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I mean, just yesterday I read that sickening post that basically exposed just how many pedophilic fathers or men in general there are harboring depraved thoughts about their own and their friends' daughters. So...nah dawg lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 08:54 PM
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I think I once read a book on Alchemy that touched on this. Distillation, women's involvement in brewing or Alchemy. Man, they won't let us have anything cool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 04:16 PM
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Same. Only I went looking for 'leaves' on Ancestry™️, got in contact with a bunch of distant cousins. Hadn't heard anything more because I stopped logging on after it lost it's cool "I'm made up of all these things' novelty. Years later, these cousins and people who know my half brothers (because of the rolling stone deadbeat's partiality for rawdoggin') start to find and add me on FB. One very involved, boundary issue having SIL (I think, she could just be a fling to my brother, I have no clue …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 01:17 AM
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Pickup artists? You don't need to say pretty words or learn machiavellian machinations to entice a guy to bang you, you just have to breathe and have lady parts :/. Also, it's been said time and time again, women have more skin in the game and losses in relationships/ marriages. Lol pickup artist for a day to play the role of the back broken mother/wife/girlfriend for life. What a prize.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 10:10 PM
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Congratulations! I genuinely didn't know there were people who'd even gaslight devout women into believing they're asking to much when they ask for a good, consistently faithful man :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 03:58 PM
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These are the women who don't cum and "don't like sex". To let someone use your body as a masturbatory tool while you disassociate is a fate I hope other women and myself escape(d).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 01:38 AM
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This is why I hate that pickmes give them every benefit of the doubt or do the introspective work for or on behalf of them (blaming his environment or some other factor for his character flaws). I wish they could read and absorb thus shit and realize how cold, calculating, and dehumanizing they can be for 9 seconds (however long they last) of sweaty grunting. It's really sad to live like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 10:27 PM
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Yes, to everything you just said. chef's kiss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 09:52 PM
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Lol noticed this whenever those couples send messages on OLD. The guy is always the dogface and you're just like: I'm not a lesbian or experienced with bisexuality, but I'll take the woman. You can sit in a chair in the corner and face the wall.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 09:47 PM
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If you tried to peacock about your preferences, you'd have a gaggle of them running to tell you to 'humble yourself'. Rules for thee but not for me, as they say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/21 03:07 AM
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separate the art from the artist" This never made sense to me. An artist sings or paints of freedom, but then they turn out to hate women. One would deduce they wouldn't care about women's freedoms..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 08:03 PM
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The women listening are "cool girls", all the b_tches and h_s don't pertain to them, they're just flipping bricks in their heads. Imagine making a fortune off hating women. Then, imagine glamorizing the ravagement of your own communities via drug trafficking/dependence and inspiring your young to die in the streets, like dogs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 07:53 PM
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I knew there was a reason I hated those stupid memes (see: Princess Peach & Luigi) of women not being afraid to get vocal about "hEr MaN'z" order. Like, bro, just tell them you wanted curly fries not regular, gfs that encourage mothering their partners 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 07:35 PM
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that shouldn't be your problem you have to live ur life I once got an overdramatic "are you gonna live like a nun all your life (or something in that family)?" Like bro..it's just sex, I'm not sneaking out past my mother for you. They always come up with this shit when they want you to run to their beck and call.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 07:19 PM
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They do more than sneak peeks. I've read about the necros in the morbid reality sub. Can't even let women have their dignity/peace in death.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 06:33 PM
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He should've gouged his own eyes out with the knife, then. He wouldn't have had to see them..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 08:52 PM
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He'll probably steal it and present it as his own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 08:35 PM
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Jesus I had no idea. I wonder about the perspectives of the actresses that undergo these roles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 10:34 AM
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I think the reason men may appear worse than women currently is largely due to the fact that bad behavior in men is encouraged and enabled. A man who, to a normal person (the kind that's less and less normal nowadays) appears very very selfish with a huge ego is now considered "real and blunt" and "knows what he brings to the table" when in reality nothing could be further from the truth. And when inevitably the dating market lets him down, he'll become bitter, because nobody is allowed to tell …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 04:03 AM
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This is one of the ones they successfully tricked into thinking "he can't understand the command input". Like so you really think your husband starts afresh each day with a wiped memory that you have to ingrain a store diagram into. The pictures and prices were one thing, but that damn map with the "You are here ★" marker. I bet he knows exactly which sections to go to in an Adam & Eve or Game Stop lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 03:33 AM
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Our other friend (the 3rd girl) was driving. She footed the downtown parking fee because I paid for our 3 tix days before. He was never in the budget lol it's all in the past but it still haunts me a 3AM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 03:28 AM
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This was definitely something I've experienced in my early twenties. Funny how they resign to a passive/quiet in the backseat state when it comes time for the payment of her man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 03:18 AM
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In retrospect, she was/is most likely one of those chicks that thinks their guy is like comfort food, the corner of a blanket, or a fidget spinner you can take with you everywhere when you get anxious. Like maybe he alleviates YOUR discomfort at prediscussed outings, but he gives me a migraine..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 03:15 AM
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Lmao the single serving of ziploc'd bacon sent me 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 02:35 AM
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Try watching one of those cheesy action movies like Law Abiding Citizen where a guy's entire female part of the family is violently raped and wiped out by street scum, which gives him the background to be the badass that hunts them down one by one. The female characters are only purposed to die/suffer so he can go all Rambo, good man fights the forces of evil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 01:56 AM
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The girls are always blind to the 🚩, too. They try to make their bfs character flaws sound all endearing and dismissable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 01:50 AM
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Yess. It's worse when you have a gf that says it'll be a girl's day between y'all and another one of your friends. Instead of just 3 girls, she pulls up with her bf in tow and you end up enduring him for every event the whole day. When night falls and it's time to cap it off with the concert experience you wanted to introduce the other 2 girls to, you end up paying for the bf's ticket for some reason even after the gf half heartedly insisted that he'd find a way back or go his own way elsewhere …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 01:41 AM
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This.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 01:33 AM
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What holds the world together, as I have learned from bitter experience, is sexual intercourse. Henry Miller, a dude That's all they think about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 01:29 AM
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First guy gives so much credit to those 600+ men, but he himself (like many man) complain about how many times they strike out in the number game of dating before they finally get a bite from someone with low self esteem... Also, it's really disturbing how they fixate on this shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 09:14 PM
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No bro, they say that because the PIV you want will most likely only serve you and, gaining nothing from it themselves, the women will ultimately be used as masturbatory tools in one sided sex. All the objects you just listed are not connected to a human being whose time you're wasting. Disdain for the 'sex object' derogation also stems from having society reduce you to nothing but your appearance as you try to break into high powered positions or speak on important topics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 03:43 PM
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Someone said he rushed to clean up because he heard his wife or kids (?) stirring around in the other room. Probably misinformation, but imagine someone wed that and allowed him to sire her kids 🙁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 02:48 PM
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Why try to reel him back in and play mind games? Right? I'm so happy when certain people leave me alone and fall out of correspondence. I don't know what she's doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 02:39 PM
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Lmao maybe their points will become valid when I hear news of a violent FDSer writing a bloviated manifesto before gunning down a shit ton of guys at the stripclub, the old folks home, or auto zone or some shit. Wherever scrotes go to unwind from living life on "manipulators mode ".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 12:29 PM
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There's something cosmically hilarious about being warned away by someone who chomps depravedly on contaminated 'infectionaries' and then blends in with well-adjusted humans of the general population.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 09:59 AM
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Have you ever thought of getting involved in his hobby? Y'all need an activity to do together to rekindle that lost flame, dang 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 12:49 AM
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Yeah, they really love that love language bullshit. They know they can starve or deny you the others if you pick the one. And even the one you pick, they'd probably just find a way to weasel out of acknowledging it. Guessing his is touch though and it's terms are indisputable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 05:42 PM
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Dude sounds gross, like "if I put a quarter in a gumball machine, I get a gumball; if I do x, I'll get y". He reminds me of a cheese driven lab rat in one of those mazes, deadset on that cheese.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 01:08 PM
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Damn, he went on this whole soul searching analytical journey for some sex. It's such a powerful motivator for them. 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 01:00 PM
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What kind of idiot would want/need a woman to build him up- is he incompetent or something?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 01:44 AM
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Demeter Black Pepper Have you ever tried the Comme des Garcon Black Pepper? I try to research as much as I can especially on fragrantica because I love smoky, mysterious frags, but some are a bust.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 08:56 PM
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from now on you should remove yourself from the area when he shows up. That's unfair to you, though. Like having to uproot yourself and constantly be vigilante of where he is/what he's doing in the room. You should confront him, be like" the fuck's wrong with you, you got a staring problem, or something? If you have no real business to conduct here today, you need to leave the premises". Society does nothing but make them comfortable enough to leer at women in places these women once felt safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 08:15 PM
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combined with the pathologization and stigma around WOC expressing anger sHe hAs An AtTiTuDe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 07:15 PM
2

This.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 06:52 PM
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mentioned somewhere she's a doctor and Stanford grad, and not to say this woman can't be an intelligent and academic oriented person, she probably is for all I know. What's extremely concerning here is the trauma she has. Also concerning is the unquestioned credibility that would come from her being a doctor with academic esteem. Women who see this poem will think because of her position they should do as she does. Bad example for what other women should endure and accept in their lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 06:49 PM
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It's sickening how far out of their own ways they go to follow and strike fear in women. Imagine sex (that they won't even get off you) being the most important quest for them. How can anyone live like that? 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 04:25 PM
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Dude's probably ugly as sin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 05:22 AM
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Lol and yet the son still ends up ignoring, hating or killing her for all that. Mommymartyrs, gotta love 'em.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 04:54 AM
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FDS: Teaches women how not to waste their youths and trap themselves in a guy's life as a forever girlfriend or sentient fleshlight. Nor a relationship that garners no equal benefits/tradeoffs, but rather bestows the dude with husband privileges without the commitment or effort on his part. FDS also reprograms/reframes your thinking to see how much some of the men you may have dealt with really fucking hated or resented you, but still didn't dispose of you outright because they couldn't load a d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 04:36 AM
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They want women they can bloviate to that won't call them out on how much bs they're spouting. Like teaching someone who's wet behind the ears "new" things and watching their eyes light up. Older women know they're losers which is why they didn't want them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 01:33 AM
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Ok, grandpa, what are you offering? Probably a position to transcribe his old-man-shouts-at-cloud/'you know what really grinds my gears?' rantings lol. A lot of old men are regressives and have horrible beliefs, don't know why they'd think young modern women would want anything to do with the shit their boomer/traditionalist moms experienced.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 01:29 AM
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I work alongside a staff of men in the kitchen and can confirm they're back biting little bitches. If a guy who calls in often does his thing on a day I'm working, I hear the others calling him sorry and talking shit about him. They talk shit about everyone under the roof of the place, all the new and veteran nurses. All the drama and hookups that go/went on interdepartmentally between nurses and housekeepers or cooks and custodians. They never stop teeheeing in their little corners of the kitch…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 10:57 PM
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Lol if this were my mom, I'd be giving her and this nasty ass chart the side-eyeing-Chloe.gif face and do everything in my power to not not grow up like her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 10:09 PM
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Dude's face says: I'm just in this for the blowjobs 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 09:57 PM
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hopefully she finds us one day. Hopefully her daughter(s) will, so they know this ain't it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 09:48 PM
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For real, ugly ass Brad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 07:41 AM
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My now ex-friend gave me a look of disgust before going on a rant about how much harder it was for women who didn’t have looks on their side and how maybe I should take their advances as a compliment and who knows maybe giving the physical side of things a chance first would make them get that out of their system and see me for who I am. BIIIIIITCHH first of all, I'm not some jaw dropping ethereal beauty myself, but why would that idiot want first rights/effortless access to L/ZVM? Yeah, you sho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 01:09 AM
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Nah, you're not. They don't even bother reading clearcut profiles on OLD. Don't even care if their life goals or hobbies match up with yours. It's really irritating so no one here can fault you for being exhausted/irritated about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 11:21 PM
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Yeah, it sucks working hard and punctiliously to prove yourself in a hateful society dominated and tailored by whites and then turn around to get hate from BM, as well. An institution like slavery or discrimination breaks them down and makes them feel like crap, so they turn right around and treat BW like crap to be in control of something too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 08:44 PM
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Must be nice for them to be able to feel no imminent danger of living on the streets that they can turn away help and job offers. Lol I just walked 8-10 minutes down from where I work to catch the awaiting bus and was accosted by a couple dudes in a navy blue/indigo asking if I wanted a ride. They looked like characters from an infamous cartel or trafficking video, I noped the fuck outta that offer and they sped off saying something (I had halfway had my headphones on cause I thought they'd leav…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/21 01:16 AM
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are you ever going to care about anyone other than yourself? Um, how is that even her business? Where do these people get all this audacity?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 08:35 PM
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Exactly. Like, with pickmes they also seek to put the friends they've acquired in their life away from you with you and have one big friendapolooza whether or not you even vibe or consent to be with those people. I hate that they think they have to make all the people and experiences in their lives come full circle, like I don't want to mutually befriend or date the losers you've met along the way. That part pissed me off. Receding hairline is far more objectionable than big nose, plus George ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 08:06 PM
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Right? I didn't know it was a possibility outside a Seinfeld episode. Lmao like being set up with George Costanza who says thick lustrous hair is important to him, despite not having his own. Where do all these idiots friends even get the idea they're honorary matchmakers, anyway?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 07:34 PM
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I feel like other women pull this crap as a female form of negging. Like, trying to make you doubt yourself and all those good things you listed about yourself by recommending life's rejects. Sort of like if someone came over to you at a 5 ★and said 'I'd think you be more comfortable at Denny's (͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 06:45 PM
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SO TELL ME WHY my friend, is she a friend? Is there hope to come back from this???? wanted to put me with my tall, works out, multi-gifted, post-grad degree having, pretty self and pair it to one of the most unremarkable people I can remember meeting in recent months? I kinda stopped reading here and bit my fist in solidarity because I've sat there and questioned whether or not my two girlfriends came together over mutual spite/momentary anger with me in suggesting the most detestable pairing fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 06:28 PM
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They (homeless men)think they're above certain jobs and assistance/resources. Alot of women ask for help and are in touch with intuition that allows them to know who they can ask (people who don't want disgusting favors back). Women produce more detail oriented and presentable work. Women have more of an I owe you sort of guilt as they traverse through life. If I were crashing at at friends place that shielded me from homelessness, I'd have a guilty fire under my ass to always be helping or supp…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 03:10 AM
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he deserved the chance to "make his case," Smh, as if you're in court. Like dude you move funny and disrespect me, I don't want you in my life anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 09:17 PM
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This is so stupid, why would you even want/argue a woman who doesn't want you. It's like those single dads that argue with CF women who just want CF suitors. Why would you want someone who doesn't like/want your kids or who resents your shortness/ unattractiveness. Go after women who want you, stop telling off the ones happy they didn't know you existed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 06:37 PM
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If you meet a man who appeals to you, don’t let his lack of social skills dissuade you from showing you’re interested in him…You may even end up having to do the asking, but it might be worthwhile: These “diamonds in the rough” Wtf lol author sounds completely clueless, and you can bet that they'd never instruct their daughters to pursue these defective types.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 06:39 AM
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I think these guys just desperately WANT to believe that everything a woman does revolves around men Because everything they do revolves around women and the gratification of leering/grabbing at them. They'd die horrible deaths of vehicular entanglement to catch a distracted, roadview glimpse of a nipple in a dark strip club that might be a light switch (okay, fine I got this scenario from an episode of King of Queens). Alot of them fuck off their whole empires/image to sexually assault an inter…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 03:35 AM
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I did the same for the guys I was dating (3 diff times this happened) I was always met with “you’re crazy, needy, you’re too much” Ungrateful bastards, gift giving is infectious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 05:53 PM
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Unscrupulous car salesman voice: "What do I have to do to put you in a bed with me tonight?" Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 08:34 PM
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Puppy dog eyes from an ugly pug (guy) when it's done something wrong lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 08:20 PM
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People seemed not to get it and were telling me their life stories. Probably crab mentality. They want the same worn down and defeated acceptance to fall upon you. That's what they chose for themselves and misery loves company. Women need to start framing things from a "would a man accept/be told this" POV. You ever hear society or other dudes telling a guy to settle and not use whatever devices (RP/PUA deceptions, stolen jokes, etc) are at his disposal to make sure he doesn't end up with an ugg…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 04:34 PM
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Every day I see women who tell me they spent years of their lives in relationships with men they weren’t attracted to Never understood this. Like, it's YOUR life and time you're wasting. Why would you work against the only person whose intentions you really know (yourself) to appease society? Pick who YOU want and live for yourself, before they lay you down in that pine box. If anyone ever told me any of those things, I'd rage and say "how the hell do you know and why do you care? Go live your o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 03:00 PM
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Main reason is agency. I don't know a single person, relative or stranger, who hasn't run down my social battery and ended up on the end of a "oh, hey you're still here 😅". Something about being in a quiet, kept, Tahitian vanilla-scented home and killing a whole day (life) ensconced in hobbies and selfcare. Not a single lazboy perching scrote or prolaspe/PPD causing infant in sight. It sounds harsh, but it's human to want to etch out a space and time for yourself. Funny how they make all these s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 09:12 PM
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For real, like if you had the choice between your own company doing things you love, and some person hanging around long after your social clock runs out (and on top of that the person gets horny/hungry and that's somehow your responsibility), what would you choose? What irritates me is this dude will probably turn around and buy himself a $1000+ gaming setup, but he won't waste a high maintenance cent on someone he's keeping from better options.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 07:16 PM
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Reminds me of the 'weed and sink water' meme lol he probably has some off brand pizza rolls they can thaw (͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 07:09 PM
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All this time I've been laying on my ass at home, marathoning Seinfeld or horror movies I've been gasp dating myself?? No but forreal, how is doing something you'd do in your alone time a date?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 06:58 PM
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I don't know what those chicks are talking about, when I don't/can't finish it pisses me off as much as it would those brutes lol. You know they'd be mad if they couldn't finish. There's no forum where 2 dudes are just cogitating on the esoteric beauty of foregoing orgasms. Only a dispirited woman could write this bs, lmao. Everyone on earth wants the work/action they put in to be rewarded, otherwise there's no point in doing it. Furthermore, I laughed my ass off at this he's great at [The] sex!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 06:42 PM
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I cringed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 06:15 PM
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Lmao dumb bastard was probably rubbing his hands together like a fruit flie, ready to receive something for nothing. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 11:54 PM
80

Always loved Khaled's work. I really thought something would save Mariam at the last moment and her and Laila would escape that shit life with that ZVM, together. 😣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 08:19 PM
108

That's fucking disgusting, I'm sorry she didn't protect you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 04:27 PM
21

What is wrong with these people, man. How deeply ensconced in a relationship can you be? "My boyfriend holds his hand over flames until there's visible blistering and he says the only meaningful moments in life are spent suffering...should I stay with him and take our relationship to the next level?" Hell. No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 04:25 PM
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I wanted to have sex so much because I wasn't getting anything out of it. That part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 03:53 AM
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That's absolutely vile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 08:10 PM
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Other bonuses are that you're safe in the comfort of your own home near snacks, your bed, cat/dog. You also don't have to seethe over the fact that someone got off using your body. I used to shave and go the whole mile, going as far as using the leg/body cover foundation because I didn't like my legs. Truth is, they can't tell a girl's barefaced/'natural' makeup look from an actual bareface. Prep is wasted on them and their hairy chests/sacks 🤮.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 06:26 PM
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You get home after the event of having your cervix pounded to mincemeat (as another fds commentor accurately put it), wherein he was the only one who came and you wonder what is was all for. It's not that women have lower libidos (I'm horny damn near all the time), it's just that you have the foresight to know a guy isn't going to move the right way and it's just gonna be an all-penetrative-no-swirl/grind self serving performance with them so you completely abstain. Better to just stimulate your…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 05:43 PM
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Girl's gotta keep it pushin' 😎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 03:19 AM
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kinda how I feel about Jesse He lost a lot of his luster Same for Ben Burnley of Breaking Benjamin
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 04:45 AM
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and men become more desirable I'm sorry to say this, but with age the face loses definition e.g- where there was once buccal fat. The face becomes more gaunt, longish, and horse like. This...looks terrible on men lmao. Like, the face of an older man becomes more textured, rugged, leathery and gaunt. Basically skin and muscle stretched taut over harsh cheekbones and bone structure is what they claim women like. When I look at the faces of male rockstars, authors, singers, actors I once obsessed o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 08:31 PM
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Taken people that do this are so weird and fundamentally damaged. Society really needs to get back to it's shaming glory, you got people taking up space and time in a relationship while they get off on people who don't even know they exist. They probably mentally paste the model's image over the human fleshlight doting girlfriend during disappointing, one sided sex. This sub really drives home how many things in society are normalized that are just depraved and senseless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 03:41 PM
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They don't mature faster, they have to acquaint themselves with suffering/depravity sooner. A little boy has his whole childhood to get scuffed up, your childhood fun ends the day blood is running down your shorts and you think you're dying. If you're a young girl who develops VERY early, then you also have to acquaint yourself of the knowledge that there's adult men creeping in trucks behind you your whole walk from school. A whole world of optimism is cut off from girls sooner because people a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 08:33 PM
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Gosh, the respect of a sex crazed manipulative psychopath-what an honor! Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 08:55 PM
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No I'm not creepily watching them, I'm fairly focused on what I'm doing literally creepily watches their every reaction and location instead of just minding his own business like a well adjusted individual
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 08:35 PM
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Fact
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 06:18 PM
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I think it's because, biologically, it would be the only way to mate the ugly out of his gene pool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 03:52 AM
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My mother and I work at the same place, in healthcare. On my day off, she tells me the big guy from another dept. asked about my "situation". I don't understand why guys build these possibilities in their heads with women who are just nice/helpful to them lol. Why would you think I, a 125 lbs woman, would just automatically be down for a partnership/fling with somebody out of my weight class?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 02:28 AM
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Why would you even WANT to fix someone. Like, you make it through your own life picking up on context clues, making inferences/deductions, acquiring knowledge, investing in self care, developing self awareness etc. You meet a person who isn't grown enough to do all those things for themselves that you had to learn and you want them in your life?...um, no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 01:44 AM
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You shouldn’t be allowing porn sick disturbed creeps into bdsm / incest around your kids or moving in men fast. I see this alot, single mothers who want to get back out there into dating because they can't stand to be alone. Anyone thinking of this should look up Vitaly Molchanov. You are so right about giving PMs tough love, this is your life (and your kids') you're gambling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 03:27 PM
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men lamenting that ‘feminine’ women no longer exist…mocking modern women that display masculine traits like being career driven. etc. They forget that women have their own human problems. I've met women who kept themselves in check- hands folded in laps, vintage/cutesy dresses, always consciously worried about sitting like ladies, not spitting or exerting any hard labor that would take them out of their image. It's exhausting, just the thought of enslaving yourself like that. I'm not even consis…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 09:46 PM
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Tash proudly showed off her bruised chest that her husband gave her during sex. But did he give her an orgasm? I always found it equal parts comical and annoying that people strive for these Cirque du Soleil routines in the bedroom -all this circus trapeze shit that goes nowhere and does nothing to stimulate pleasure- instead of just actually achieving orgasm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 09:16 PM
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Why are men allowed to state their preferences without shame You have to belt your preferences and simian beliefs loud enough to drown out the deafening reminders of your own inadequacies. Another woman in this sub said it perfectly in another post: between the swiping/rolodex nature of OLD interfaces, all the tabs/categories of porn, and women who are desperate for rings or a warm body next to them, they convince themselves they have options and that they can be the hypergamous reachers. I've a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 04:56 PM
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He was probably giving you both barrels: negging and projection of his own insecurities. Dudes fear for their mortality far more than women, that's where all the sports cars and other ridiculous purchases come in to play. Just trying to buy shiny toys and women to distract themselves from the fact that the next stop is the grave lol. Bunch of Peter Pans/Uncle Ricos that don't want to let go of the past.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 03:34 PM
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I've also striven to be invisible my whole life so I could move out in public without being noticed Mood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 03:25 PM
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Her personal insults cut you to the core but not enough to change the objectionable physical and mental flaws about yourself, huh? 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 08:51 PM
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Fucking disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 05:19 PM
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Liberal feminists aren’t only stupid, tone deaf to class differences and highly ignorant, the effects of their retarded logic in real life is extremely DANGEROUS to women’s status / future and current safety. Idiot libfems literally don't understand that pornography has already fried its depraved consumers' brains to the point where they think every nonsexual real life situation involving a woman (seeing one alone with her head down in a book, having one simply smile at/address them, plumbing gi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 02:17 AM
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Lazy evil men, profiting off the suffering of women. What else is fucking new?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 08:14 PM
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As Judge Lynn Toller of Divorce Court would say: Stop having this man's kids (with no ring or foundation).🤦🏾‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 08:35 PM
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Upvoted your headline before I even opened your post lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 02:45 PM
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Preach!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 11:34 PM
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This dumbass thinks inconsiderate, repetitive jackhammering on a healing body is akin to inserting a NECESSARY product and leaving it stationary. I- 𝗯𝗶𝘁𝗲𝘀 𝗳𝗶𝘀𝘁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 08:15 PM
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more horrifying detail Mothers and society at large gloss over that part with such rosy retrospection. Like it's all worth ripping the delicate vaginal mucosa, enduring one of the most profound pains known to (wo)mankind, to end up being the hated responsible parent who's organs are prolapsed long after the birth and expensive delivery bill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 07:36 AM
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Mental/physical health issues No maternal instinct (or desire) Life/existential experience to know better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 07:24 AM
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Never thought I'd see my own ideologies resonated and articulated so unapologetically in a forum. I knew I was right to censure them, with all the dumbass things they say about/to us. This truly is a great sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 06:36 AM
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