Came across this while doing research...

FluffandRainclouds · 2021-08-30T03:12:14+00:00

NSFW tag added due to triggering/violent content.

peaches88888 · 2021-08-30T00:22:21+00:00

The title mostly draws attention to the mother, not the monster.

AyemHerself · 2021-08-30T00:37:07+00:00

Do you have a link to the article? I'm curious where that "too eager" quote came from. Was it her confession, the prosecution's opening remarks, some rando commenting to a reporter, or elsewhere?

bombas- · 2021-08-30T00:03:23+00:00

This is horrifying.

And I also think it’s important to keep the outrage focused on the monster who beat a child to death.

Even though the temptation is to focus on the mother for not stopping it, and I’m horrified that she didn’t, she was surely afraid for her life too— because a man decided to be a murderer.

ceramicunicorn · 2021-08-30T01:21:34+00:00

I don’t see the article, but I imagine she’s still criminally liable as being complicit in the murder. So she’ll likely do jail time.

Wouldn’t it be great if there wasn’t so much bullshit surrounding FDS with low value “but what about me” men myopically zooming in on the horrific practice of paying for dates, their too freely given sexuality, and women having standards/venting when it’s SO hard to find anyone who meets them (which often simply amounts to basic decency)?

And that there was a better focus on the overarching message that we’re looking to uplift women into having agency and make good decisions, to not make these huge sacrifices (in this case, a life) to comply with the lie that a woman needs a man, at any cost?

Because if FDS had better P/R, and thus became accepted practice, imagine the world of good it could do for women like this, while they’re locked up (and yeah, I do think she has to be for a time...the idea of being so far gone to where you can just watch a kid get beaten to death and have no justice served there is tough for me to swallow), not just sitting there and wallowing behind bars, but actually having an FDS therapist get right down to the root of this with her. So she doesn’t get out in the world and make further terrible (not necessarily criminal, but harmful to herself and/or others) decisions based on a worldview that never changed.

fireforestfairy · 2021-08-30T00:24:10+00:00

This is so sad.

creamtart_ · 2021-08-30T00:41:10+00:00

Somebody send this article headline to Jane Gilmore to fix. She’ll sort out the mess and reframe it to be a more accurate reflection of the situation.

blackmetalbetty · 2021-08-30T13:34:29+00:00

Pickmeism is dangerous. They'll betray their own children and other women for men. Think of those girlfriends complicit in serial killings.

Adventurous_River_64 · 2021-08-30T01:20:28+00:00

This is horrible and headlines like this are awful. This mother lost her child and you know she’s going to be attacked so much for this instead of focusing the anger and outrage on the man who did it.

Fetia_ · 2021-08-30T02:37:43+00:00

Wow Woman most likely also abused losses her son to the abuse of a violent monster Wonderfully worded

anotherdamnloser · 2021-08-30T05:27:37+00:00

This sickens me, I saw it earlier.

Equal-Ear2312 · 2021-08-30T19:22:28+00:00

I hope she's tried as an accomplice. they both deserve life in prison.

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camille_san · 2021-08-30T01:15:35+00:00

Title	Came across this while doing research...
Author	emmgdac
Upvotes	431
Comments	40
Date	August 29, 2021 11:34 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/pe6ekx/came_across_this_while_doing_research/
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