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| 37 | Explaining South-Asian mama boy's culture and how it effects the women and the men caught in itOP I have to call you out on some of the misinformation here. As much as I agree with the gist of it and south Asian men are very toxic, you’ve mentioned things here that simply do not happen. Ignorance affects all, south Asian men and women. Spreading ignorance can cause problems for all of us and I am tired of the racism in this sub at this point. Not all marriages are arranged in South Asia, there’s so many different cultures and each has its own traditions and systems. The groom and the brid… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 12:18 AM |
| 154 | Turkish woman marries boyfriend who threw acid in her face. Nope, just nope.“Speaking about the wedding, Berfin's father, Yasar Ozek, said: 'She married without our knowing. I've fought for her for years, and now all of this has been in vain.'” Her dad tried but no success. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 01:39 PM |
| 20 | They always tell on themselves on Twitter … VileThis man is raising is a son. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 03:46 AM |
| 12 | FDS approved TV-shows?Grace and Frankie. I just started watching it and omg it's amazinnnnng | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 12:47 PM |
| 17 | A TERRORIST murdered five people in the UK. Women should learn a lesson. (Context in comments)All men have a hand in this. Either they enable or they keep silent even when they have the power to call these things out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 02:59 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-InI thought I was imagining it but this is true. The long shirt short jorts combo is not a look why is it popular here? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 01:51 PM |
| 51 | 'Spiritual'/hippie menThese guys also contribute to sex trafficking in India. On another note I am an Indian woman and always wished to bike around the country. How was your experience? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 03:53 AM |
| 69 | This reminds me of the slug storyQUEEEEEENNNNNN! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 10:30 AM |
| 3 | The delusion, the audacity 🤡😂I have never seen a woman laugh at a guy's face. Any guy can instantly try and physically rough you if you do that. Where do these incels get their delusions from? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 04:13 AM |
| 278 | Beware of the Men Who Want to 'Find Their Pam,' This Could Be Your Future.That guy paid a thousand bucks at an auction for a hug from his own wife. That's what every woman deserves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 10:05 AM |
| 553 | Beware of the Men Who Want to 'Find Their Pam,' This Could Be Your Future.I don't want to be the pam to anyone's jim. I want to be the Phyllis to someone's Bob Vance | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 05:06 AM |
| 50 | OopsI'd like to give some context. The lady in the picture is honeypreet insaan. She was born to parents who followed a new age Indian guru. The guru introduced her to the son of a high ranking politician and matched them. As an adult woman, she was adopted by the guru and she became his favorite daughter. She worked as a director, producer and other roles for the wacky Guru's wacky projects. The guru was then arrested for raping to of his young female followers. Honeypreet came to the limelight aft… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 02:19 AM |
| 34 | NVM's wife raised the kids and managed their home for nearly two decades yet he resents her for not working? Feels like an abuse victim?? He has the option to retire early and live a comfortable life together but comments he rather have her work a cashier job "for the principle"Can you imagine giving up your life and body to build a family with a man and this is what he thinks about you. It's disgusting. They are disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 08:37 AM |
| 61 | No Neck Ed is a great example on how LVM use playing stupid and pity to get away with sh!tLet's not forget how he asked her to shave her legs for sex. And how he lied to his mom about how the relationship fell. And how he ignored his daughter but then reaches out to her when he needs female validation. He is back on TV now and is even worse. Courting an even younger girl and it's disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 11:25 PM |
| 9 | TradWife Twitter is Like Watching A Slow Moving TrainwreckI don't know why you were downvoted. Fds needs to learn to listen the woc in here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 05:36 AM |
| 16 | SmhNah this ain't it sis. Laying a boundary can be done without disrespect and threats. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 01:03 AM |
| 13 | Just Do It!I need his eyeshadow tutorial. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 03:00 AM |
| 9 | I've done something big only because of FDS. I started my YouTube channel for young Indian working woman because of you ladies!Sis pm me the link. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 03:31 PM |
| 4 | Do not coddle men!Why is this the hardest lesson to learn though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 03:20 PM |
| 17 | Way too accurate to be totally fakeMy fight or flight response was triggered. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 12:47 AM |
| 19 | [Movie recommendation] Y’all there’s this Bollywood film called “Thappad” that’s basically just FDS ideology but as a movie 💁🏽♀️Thappad is actually amazing ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 10:01 PM |
| 81 | This is a fresh look compared to the horrendous bios written by LVM’s.She used the parks and recs reference I see. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 09:44 AM |
| 2 | Some of these men are absolutely repulsive.Hello police? Yes this man right here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 08:51 AM |
| 12 | Ladies y’all need to be grateful to go to the SOUP KITCHEN! 🥴😩You're forgetting 'shitting in the alley' dates sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 08:48 AM |
| 40 | QueenBig mood. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 08:45 AM |
| 328 | "My incel friend told my wife he'd r*pe her if he could and I did nothing. Now she's upset for some reason! What have I done wrong?"I am not jealous, i was called names. I, I, I. Congrats wifey, you married a loser who doesn't care about you AND he knows you can do better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 01:25 PM |
| 8 | Thoughts on this?? I feel like he could’ve easily went to a bathroom at a restaurant, store, or gas station? People in the replies say she should give him a chance.I'm confused. Why is pooping an issue here? Edit: I am no longer confused. I thought he used a public restroom. I see I was too naive to give a scrote that benefit of the doubt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 06:12 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts on Subtle Asian Dating?I joined subtle curry dating.... And left in 20 minutes. Nope. Nada. Nope nope nope. Even pickme me wouldn't be that desperate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 03:00 AM |
| 9 | He has no job, doesn't help with the house, nor parents... Why bother???She got a squatter. An emotional, sexual, financial squatter. That's all the man is. Sis if you are seeing this.. Kick him out!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 11:50 PM |
| 22 | Preach it!This is an existential crisis I have everyday now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 11:45 PM |
| 31 | Boyfriend doesn’t like when tables turn on him and he doesn’t get to finish after months of not caring if his girlfriend does! Also confused why it’s considered a high standard for her to expect him to want her to enjoy sex too?Sis me too. What even is reddit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 02:16 PM |
| 85 | SCROTES join violence against women forum on Zoom — and masturbate and play porn.My biggest beef is that I NEVER see other men take the intiaitive to stabd up to it. NEVER. Never offer to help, never talk about these things. On the other hand women have always listened to men's issues. Rihanna launched underwear that is body positive for men, women are bending backwards to raise awareness for male mental health. I know maybe three men (not personally) who are actively fighting against violence against women. How am I not supposed to be critical of the other gender when this … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 03:32 AM |
| 171 | Scrote vs King...and is trying to cover it up with extremely arrogant body language. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 02:02 AM |
| 211 | Scrote vs KingNotice the difference in the bodylanguage of both guys. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 01:45 AM |
| 10 | In one of our Negotiations classes, our professor made us read this story, and asked us one question: Among the four characters, who is to be blamed for the girl's death? I initially thought the old man was responsible, but now I feel it was the guy's fault. Btw, 75% of our class blamed the girl.It says right at the bottom "Taken from Star Crossed Lovers - Shakespeare Play". Obviously only one of them was star crossed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 01:06 PM |
| 15 | I see your pickme who 'helps' married men and raise you one I found in the wild. She has other posts about how much she cherishes that someone else's man chooses her.Well I did go through some history and she has a picture of her (as part of a screenshot). I thought it was bs male fantasy too but I was unfortunately wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 03:50 PM |
| 7 | The most handmaiden bullshit I've ever readThe woman claiming it should be seen as abuse thinks of herself as a feminist. I come from a country where marital rape stille exists. So yeah this new abuse will be the best thing ever to hapoen to men because nwo women will be obligated to put out. She can go to hell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 01:15 PM |
| 12 | Lovebombing, money laundering, gaslighting, obsessiveness, and classic narcissism. These LV men will rob you blind and literally destroy your life if you let them.Indian culture. Wife was probably shit scared because society will chew her up for her man's behavior and leaving him means endless stigma and struggles. It's hell | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 12:59 PM |
| 3 | In which universe are flowers and dinner equivalent to blowjobs??Nope. I'm out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 12:55 PM |
| 11 | I think I found the queen of pickmesNot to be competitive but I recently found apickme who is someone's cheating partner and that is a rabbit hole none of you wanna see. These women will drag themselves and us down if they could. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 12:42 PM |
| 16 | Coming from r/rheumatoid - Issues W SOYou're very strong for being brave in the face of this all. I won't comment on your so. I will leave it to the more knowledgeable members. But I want you to know you are amazing and I hope and pray that you will come out of this adversity stronger and better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 03:40 PM |
| 9 | r/AgainstHateSubreddits plunges further into hatred and misogyny, calls women "scum" and "piece of shit", says we deserve to be paid less than men and are unsuitable for management, implies women should be used as incubators by low income men to keep the birth rate highThat can't be, we're all incels here /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 12:26 AM |
| 17 | r/AgainstHateSubreddits plunges further into hatred and misogyny, calls women "scum" and "piece of shit", says we deserve to be paid less than men and are unsuitable for management, implies women should be used as incubators by low income men to keep the birth rate highI don't want to abuse men. I want to stay away from them lmao. The problem is even if I do they come chasing me and then try to make it seem like I am abusing men. For examole just today a scrote who had reached out to me after a post about suicide went berserk because he read another commemt where I pointed out how some men have saviour complex. Neither posts or comments were related to him but he went berserk and said "Fuck you, people like you ruined my life. I was going to convert to islam f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 12:23 AM |
| 3 | This is what indian women deal with. Then these guys wonder why the world thinks so low of them.He'll probably get an arranged marriage and ruin soem poor woman's life. I hope underwear karma gets him though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 11:31 PM |
| 257 | How To Shut Down Woke Bros Who Think Women Exercising our FREE SEXUAL CHOICE is a hate crimeI started this convo but I won't engage in it because you're not high value... Take that fdswomen. Lmao he really thought he did something. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 05:04 AM |
| 7 | Thank youSis stop giving me business ideas now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 03:47 AM |
| 24 | This is what indian women deal with. Then these guys wonder why the world thinks so low of them.Women are valued sis. When we break the glass ceilings. But only the ways the scrotes see fit i. e join the military or become a spy or run a large corporation. And even then we begter not say shit about the culutre. And better not think too much of ourselves. And better not get with men from other races because that's the reason these indian scrotes are so devalued by society not their shitty behaviour. We better not generalise and better worry about men's suicide and mental health. And feminis… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 03:46 AM |
| 8 | Thank youAsking the real questions | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 01:35 AM |
| 95 | This is what indian women deal with. Then these guys wonder why the world thinks so low of them.The women who work as domestic help are underpaid and provide cheap labour because indian women in households provide labour for free. The indian women who provide labour for free are seen as replaceable because of availability of cheap domestic help. It's a vicious cycle. Indian men don't even wash their own underwears 😫. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 01:32 AM |
| 46 | Hell to the NOI almost downvoted because i was so mad lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 01:24 AM |
| 36 | Found one ya’lls boyfriend, time to make him an ex.Pro tip: When you implement fds, use your actions not your words. Stop telling people to be high value.... Be with them if they are, leave if they aren't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 08:20 AM |
| 30 | The way society comes for "manipulative women"...The same reason they hate Amber Heard, the same reason Indian scrotes are passing around a picture claiming a fake rape case led to a suicide (it didn't make it to court, it was part of boys locker room and the girl in the oicture wasn't even involved). They get a chance to say "Look, women equally bad" Hypocrites. Scrotes are subhuman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 08:15 AM |
| 3 | India will have its own 4B movementWe should start our own all female communes away from the men. But let's be honest. They will physically attack us. Edit: Scrotes mad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 02:18 AM |
| 22 | Scrote trying to move in with HVW.Someone send the fds rescue team | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 01:52 AM |
| 27 | Aww poor baby is insecureShe should get rid of it. The boyfriend, not the toy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 01:49 AM |
| 5 | It was my birthday yesterday. Treated myself by making a romantic red velvet cake from scratch😊 it was a quarantine birthday but being self-partnered was the best thing that could have happened.Happy birthday. The cake looks AMAZING!! 💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 09:35 AM |
| 2 | It’s really not that hard for him to treat you wellMe too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 04:10 AM |
| 16 | What in the pickmesha? Are we supposed to be okay with men prioritizing work over us, blowing up our plans and not spending time together so he can be a slave to the capitalism? Of course goals are important but there should be a limit to that.How do you slap someone through the internet | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 02:21 AM |
| 44 | I ain’t never seen a case THIS bad 😭😭I wish I could hug her. This is just sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 04:35 AM |
| 6 | Porn continues to ruin everything and continues to exploit and objectify women’s bodiesTake my eyes.. I have had enough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 01:45 AM |
| 15 | This poor girl.I have been one of those girls who used to post nudes here (with an alt account and when I hadn't found fds). I Wish I could explain to her everything I saw and people's behaviour online. She needs to level up because nothing justifies what her boyfriend is doing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 01:42 AM |
| 6 | "No one cares about men's feelings :'("As a woman with mental health issues, trust me no one cares about women either unless its to degrade them, exploit them or feel like a savior. You are not allowed to have issues and standards together. You are not allowed to have opinions because you're just 'hysterical'. Your experience is invalid and uncommon. Except when I talk to other women they empathise and tell me their own similar experience . So boo fucking whoo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 04:18 PM |
| 4 | Female SpacesI don't know why you got downvoted. Culture definitely plays a part in it. Some cultures know how to deal with it. For them it's normal. For others it will be another avenue to harass women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 03:49 PM |
| 4 | Female SpacesThe best times of my life were in a single sex school But I hated the stereotypes people had about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 03:46 PM |
| 4 | The disappointment of heterosexual intercourseBig mood sis. The D is a better concept in theory than practice. The more I grow the more I realise that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 03:41 PM |
| 7 | Can’t get through to “cool girlfriend” sisterMan i can't wait to introduce fds to my younger sister in a couple of months. I hope she never has to go through the trauma of dealing with men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 03:35 PM |
| 85 | I was reading the comments on this video and I came across this!!Because you won't give a blowjob to a guy after engaging in intellectual conversation at a coffee shop where you pay half and take the lead and go with him to a shallot field he so carefully and meticulously found you virgin slut female incel 😡😣 /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 03:23 PM |
| 14 | We create life and they mock us for the marks resulting from itWhere do they get such confidence and audacity someone please point it out because I need some too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 03:16 PM |
| 9 | The “Arrangement” 🤣Is this some kind of copypasta? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 10:41 PM |
| 45 | Chile The AccuracyThis!!! Never again am I falling for guys offering 'help'. It's a trap. It's a scam. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 10:27 PM |
| 4 | It's the little things that are huge.No | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 08:12 AM |
| 66 | Lawsuit against pornography company, Girls Do Porn, concerning over 20 counts of sexual coercion. Massive r/leopardsatemyface vibes in the comments. If only there were a group of people, who tried to warn people who view porn, that coercion/rape is almost always the case made by “girls” or not!! /sThat last guy needs to go extinct. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 01:02 AM |
| 2 | Let's discuss this exchange. What are your thoughts?The comments are full of people shaming her and bringing up her age. Bruh i can't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 10:35 AM |
| 2 | Wife gives him a sex coupon and the first thoughts that cross his mind are abuse and humiliation.First time doing his and already thinking about clamps and watersports. Holy shit. Then they claim bdsm is all about safe and consensual. Stupid kinkmeisha. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 02:30 AM |
| 8 | “iT’s JuST pRimAL” I guess we’re all going against our very nature by not leering at strangers!If he isn't bringing home the squid, dump him 😤. /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 01:19 AM |
| 9 | “iT’s JuST pRimAL” I guess we’re all going against our very nature by not leering at strangers!Where are my testicles, Summer? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 01:13 AM |
| 19 | A pick me at my university replying to someone saying they're not comfortable with their partner watching pornIs it bad that I am just desensitised to pickmes bullshit by now. They don't help anyone and they don't let anyone help others. She is outright shaming the girl for having a standard. Sorry but she's patriarchy's little pet at this point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 01:00 AM |
| 24 | NO, We Don’t. 🙄 🤦🏻♀️And then what. I have done this multiple times and guess what? They will like the excitement at first and two months they will start being cold on you and won't even have the guts to break up with you. Typical loser male Redditor here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 02:26 PM |
| 12 | You love to see itCan't wait to reach this stage. step one done...now step two. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 02:05 PM |
| 8 | But if I say "respect me and don't watch porn" my standards are too high 🙄🙄If this guy was a dog he would have been put down by now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 10:40 AM |
| 18 | my mom used to get up early and make me and my siblings cooked breakfast every day before school at 6 am. women have BEEN doing the most and STAY doing the most for others. where’s the praise?They didn't even taste good. Society can go fuck itself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 11:54 PM |
| 28 | We need to teach our children about the dangers of hookup cultureSo true. Hookup culture is low quality sex where women are mostly just providing. I had the urge to look for fwbs but remembered the heartbreak and hurt men dish out on a normal basis. I'd rather invest in some nice sex toys. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 08:53 AM |
| 1 | This ain't prose..it's a cry for help.. Don't write that book sis.Thanks for the wishes. And yeah. Wattpad gave us that stupid After series and movie. It was cursed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 03:32 AM |
| 10 | This ain't prose..it's a cry for help.. Don't write that book sis.Wattpad flashbacks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 02:48 PM |
| 22 | Men using women on Tinder for emotional therapy. Comments are from another man doing the same thing. Women are not service animals, go and seek help!Bruh everyday men just disappoint me more and more. DO HVMs exist? Tell me now so that I can save myself from heartbreak when it turns out they are a mythical creature. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 02:44 PM |
| 26 | It’s the colorism, misogyny, ageism,and blatant disrespect for me. Black men are taking a full on L for this one.Actually it's better if he doesn't date anyone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 03:37 AM |
| 5 | I Tried Femdom And It Was Nowhere Near As "Empowering" As The BDSM Community Would Have You BelieveAmen. I went through a very similar journey and being a femdom was the most emotionally exhausting thing with nothing in return. I went through one hard patch, vented a little to my play partner and got ghosted. The slightest variation from their fantasy and they leave. Thank god I found this place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 04:03 PM |
| 2 | The Worst Advice I Have Ever HeardMy parents have been married for 26 years now. Last month my father slapped my mom after she had a mental breakdown and started hallucinating. So yeah, sitting in it is shit advice and at this point, women need to just stop dealing with men and leave them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 03:25 AM |
| 49 | Don't EVER move abroad for a man.The amount of women on bumble BFF who moved states or countries for their boyfriend is staggering. I was talking to a guy about it and he said he has one mate who did it for his wife but to Hong Kong. That is also because the guy could build a good lifestyle there for himself as well. I can't believe men just refuse to acknowledge these differences. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 03:21 AM |
| 42 | More reasons why casual sex sucks (particularly for darkskinned black women). Be careful out there ladies.You wouldn't find the good Indian men anywhere cause they are busy focussing on their own relationships and not being insecure on Reddit. These dudes need to understand the problem really is them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 12:46 PM |
| 31 | More reasons why casual sex sucks (particularly for darkskinned black women). Be careful out there ladies.Same sis. Another Indian chiming in | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 12:44 PM |
| 44 | Men can’t make women orgasm because they don’t “cOmMUniCatE”Why would he expose himself like this? He wants communication every two minutes. Just acknowledge you can't make a woman orgasm and move on why expose yourself on Reddit lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 11:11 AM |
| 31 | Marmoset dads >>> human dadsI saw that and laughed so hard. How pathetic do you have to be to get pressed about an animal and it's nature. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 05:56 AM |
| 34 | Pickmeshas be likeFuckity fuck fuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 08:42 AM |
| 3 | About my STBE-husband's tendency to "debate" with me... Lovely Ladies of FDS, please help me explain this phenomenon :\Well starting with books is best. People here aren't perfect and the advice you get can be from newbies so going to the source is the best idea. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 02:47 AM |
| 2 | Can't even mention this sub to my guy friends...People also say it in twoxchromosomes. Like great. Thanks for invalidating everything the reddittors here discuss including abuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 02:37 AM |
| 39 | The 'funny' ways in which men hurt women. 'It's just a joke!'Holy shit. This triggered a repressed memory in my mind. I have always hated being tickled. When I was young even the movement would make my body freeze and I would just stop breathing. My dad did it ro me when I was four and I started crying. So my mom came to me to console me and my dad got so pissed. He threw a full tantrum and I remember feeling so guilty after. Even today I tell people it's a dealbreaker. I have to emphasize it because if I say I don't like being tickled they will still mos… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 02:23 AM |
| 2 | About my STBE-husband's tendency to "debate" with me... Lovely Ladies of FDS, please help me explain this phenomenon :\Ok that's a great first step and I am proud of you for that. As for translating him.... You can do that once you have secured yourself. Try and give him very less to no amount of time, even mentally. Read the handbook. And read the fds approved books. Lots of information. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 02:03 AM |
| 2 | About my STBE-husband's tendency to "debate" with me... Lovely Ladies of FDS, please help me explain this phenomenon :\Have you cut him off? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 01:56 AM |
| 43 | I really hope every female on this planet discover this community soon. I wish my aunt found this community ..Praying for her. I'm so sorry this is happening. The damage this world does to women is too deep | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 01:54 AM |
| 103 | What posts do you enjoy seeing on FDS and what would you like to see more of?More HVM content. Less of male lurker stuff. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 01:45 AM |
| 5 | About my STBE-husband's tendency to "debate" with me... Lovely Ladies of FDS, please help me explain this phenomenon :\Girl 😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 01:44 AM |
| 12 | I'm at a loss.Someone please save that poor woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 01:46 AM |
| 8 | I hope she got pickedPickmes deserve the hate when they think putting other women in harms way is cool. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 01:41 AM |
| 56 | Adult man has a sad because even the literal child that he’s been screwing knows that he sucks in bed.I think the world would just go apeshit if most women came clean about when they actually orgasmed and when they faked it. Relationships would fall apart and I am pretty sure marriage as an institution in the west would simply stop existing because of hurt egos. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 03:14 PM |
| 5 | 🙄🙄Why don't other men see men behave this way? Are we not browsing on the same internet. Why do other men only come out of the woodwork to tell us notallmen when we call out this behaviour. Holy shit! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 02:54 PM |
| 20 | Shower thought about the term gold diggers....I think someone called them soul diggers once. Cause they dig through women's souls and leave them empty. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 02:40 PM |
| 32 | This story is really the most amazing woman to woman support I have read in awhileThis was amazing. I hope the girlfriend realised her worth after all this. Making her walk, leaving her stranded, and enjoying humiliating her with hus buddies....forgiveness shouldn't even be an option here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 05:49 AM |
| 47 | (Repost to blur handles) "No LTRs for me" from a guy who never had one. Deeply insecure men are not diamonds in the rough, they will accuse you of shit left and right and expect you to put up with it or you "don't love them."Women on reddit need to stop soothing these losers egos. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 03:50 AM |
| 72 | How many men have actually given you orgasms?None. And i don't believe men anymore when they claim they can make women cum. Ask the women they've been with and they will tell a different story. If all women stopped faking it and telling men to their faces that they didn't cum, men will realise how useless they are in bed. But i understand why they don't. Fear and conditioning. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 04:10 PM |
| 12 | Should I leave him or can we work it out?RUN | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 04:08 PM |
| 5 | How did you guys feel when your ex treated the next better than he treated you?THIS!!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 02:11 AM |
| 2 | Being poly is just another excuse for men to cheatOh my god. I want to you to know you'll get through this stronger and you're not an idiot. You deserve the best of the world nd your husband and former bestfriend belong in the trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 12:51 PM |
| 52 | "You have no control over your body because my "hotdog" is more important than you as a person". Absolutely disgusting.I know. I just can't help but feel despair for that woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 06:05 AM |
| 60 | Post complaining about women wanting 6 figures, 6” d, 6 pack. I initially thought it was an FDSer setting him straight but, it’s a man 😂Is that a pickme I smell in the last comment? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 01:59 AM |
| 92 | I’ve released the scarcity mindset & I can’t turn backYes queen! Good luck with everything. Remember when the going gets tough that you are all you need and you have a community behind you and you can get through it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 02:14 AM |
| 2 | To love & to obey? Nah, sisWell she also supported her daughter on another reality show where her daughter had basically slept with a a barely legal man who she knew as a teen. It's more than grace. She's definitely toxic and I hate how she flirted with shitbag colt as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 01:58 PM |
| 84 | Why do men think this is funny?? Imagine if a woman pulled this she'd get dragged to the floorIf a guy i knew even suggested a threesome involving my sister, he'll be six foot under the ground. Incestous porn sick pigs. This is their humour? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 05:05 AM |
| 7 | Ladies, don't treat your boyfriend like he's your husbandSince moving to a new country, I decided to make new friends through Bumble. So many girls moved from other states and countries for their boyfriends. Like I am sure they are amazing women but nah sis. You know he would never do that for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 01:51 AM |
| 11 | To love & to obey? Nah, sisShe might be headstrong but she's also a liar and yells at her man for things she shouldn't. Michael is actually one of the most decent guys on the show. Some would even call him an hvm. But she lied about having kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 01:38 AM |
| 30 | 🤡*Circus music slowly gets louder*🤡She thought she did something. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 01:31 AM |
| 45 | Indian scrote asks advice to stalk and harrasss an accomplished surgeon, for a 'coffee date'. Doesn't believe in rejection or consent.Someone redirect this guy to the police | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 04:53 AM |
| 21 | Indian scrote asks advice to stalk and harrasss an accomplished surgeon, for a 'coffee date'. Doesn't believe in rejection or consent.It's too huge a country to tell. Like it's possible but also not possible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Went on my first date and got groped.You replied to my comment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 01:40 AM |
| 6 | Went on my first date and got groped.Send the matrimonial guys chat screenshots to his mother. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 01:10 AM |
| 63 | Went on my first date and got groped.Not your fault. I am an Indian girl too and although I grew up in a more liberal setup and dated in India, I know how social conditioning tells indian women to be 'prudes'by scaring us with threats of death and rape and honor killing and how Indian men then expect indian women to turn around and be more open. They really do want it all. I used to moderate r4rindia and there used to be a post everyday about how the men are ao depressed because of ghosting and unfair dating system. And in the sme … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 09:37 AM |
| 40 | This is why you should never date a man who does steroids. Juicy meathead sub be like "FDS is MiSrEpRuHsEnTiNg us!!!" Also juicy meathead sub:What the fuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 07:41 AM |
| 21 | I’m dying....Dude really thinks a lesbian wants to have a threesome with him, lesbian tricks him into just letting her bang the girlfriend insteadTrue! It is like he does not even see the irony here even though he typed it out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 10:22 AM |
| 18 | I’m dying....Dude really thinks a lesbian wants to have a threesome with him, lesbian tricks him into just letting her bang the girlfriend insteadMy girl Tomi finally getting some real orgasms and her useless man is salty. I love it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 10:19 AM |
| 4 | Found this gem on Tinder. The entitlement is real.I wheezed when I saw the second slide 😂 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 08:55 AM |
| 15 | I'm fuming. Why is he reviewing her like an object!!!I vomitted in my mouth when he said I taught her how to heel. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 11:27 PM |
| 9 | Do you think men notice how these two things are treated differently online by men? And why we are tired of it?She didn't cheat. In the interview Will himself saod he was "Done" with her and at the time didn't even entertain the thoughts of "taking her back" . And she started a relationship a while after he kicked her away. She didn't even break any ethical boundary of their relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 04:26 PM |
| 21 | My relationship with my misogynistic and narcissistic father has caused me to be completely out of touch with myself/a pickmeishaHugs.. You're not alone. I have had a similar upbringing (other than commenting on random women because we are from a conservative culture) and healing is hard but worth it. I wish you well on this journey sister. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Big oof 😑This has been posted here several times now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 06:29 AM |
| 5 | High value men in movies/tv?That's a fair analysis. I change my mind then. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 04:30 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on how to shut down inappropriate colleague?Is the guy Indian as well? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 04:30 AM |
| 2 | My experience with living with a platonic NVM and an update to my last post about the extravagant date😦😧😨😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 02:30 AM |
| 1 | High value men in movies/tv?Didn't he ignore the indian girl that he had feelings for when the white colonial chick came into the scene. He's hardly an HVM sis. Also he did that with the deer because he wanted to do what little he could to annoy the british who were sucking them dry with lagaan. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 01:50 AM |
| 12 | Women Describe What Happened When They Took Their Husbands Back After They Were Separated because he got a new girlfriend. So much FDS Motivational Fuel.There was a post on relationship advice about a woman who divorced her husband because he cheated on ehr. And had a second marriage and divorced that guy too. And the first husband and her became good friends to coparent the kids. And recently he had been very ncie to ehr, told her he wants her back, sexed her up good nd how hapoy and elated she is and the kids are happy he is moving back in. Sis, this world really caters to men... And they really know how to play with our feelings. It's just sa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 03:11 PM |
| 34 | looks like she agreed to a walk date and the LVM implies the dog is mad when she is there. imagine settling then being made a joke of online. DON'T do walk dates!Plot twist: It's her dog and it liked the guy when they first met but then the dog discovered fds and realised it's owner choose an lvm but can't tell the owner about it because it's a dog. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 03:06 PM |
| 65 | Saw this post.....how about you don’t do that?Ewww no. Men need to stop fucking spreading this propaganda. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 06:22 AM |
| 13 | Where are all my girlfriends now who used the tell me to get a man asap, because "how are you going to survive without a man?"Well looks like they are in certain other subs where they ban fds women sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 05:18 PM |
| 21 | Saw this on my fb feed this morning. Had a good laugh and thought I’d share.Unlike those girls who can't get a man, I am one of the guys. Bet you cant steal this sweaty 😜😜😘💁 /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 04:45 PM |
| 2 | Any HVMs in India?So we live in Australia but grew up India. Their views on feminism are still developing and they do a great job of research and listening to feminist voices. Anti-porn and working on becoming HVMs by lurking here. Edit : As for HV, They have till now displayed good behaviour but your girl never lets her guard down sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 11:10 AM |
| 45 | This is disgusting. She's blatantly lying about the reality of having OnlyFans. Most women will be degrading themselves for tiny amounts of money. It's not "empowering" at all!Yeah that didn't happen. Onlyfans doesn't make you that much money. The lies.. Ufff | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 02:16 AM |
| 17 | Someone posted the aita in a Facebook group, and I found a wild Pickme getting rightfully shamedBoom! Roasted | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 02:12 AM |
| 79 | If he says that nothing happened and that he was just attracted, they did anal.I can't with the audacity. They think women's bodies are disposable and replaceable and things you can rate. Sick | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 02:08 AM |
| 43 | It appears we are now titled "the bad guys" for simply wanting PEACE.It's definitely the second one. Even the most pickme girls don't fuck with this type of shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 08:14 AM |
| 15 | My ex 🤮... I don’t know what went over me, ladies!He had a diaper fetish?😳😳😳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 07:21 AM |
| 13 | The text message of an ex "out of the blue". I translate in the commentsYeah sis this ain't it. Sorry | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 07:20 AM |
| 102 | It appears we are now titled "the bad guys" for simply wanting PEACE.The fucking apocalypse cannot come fast enough . I'm tired of sharing this planet with males | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 07:18 AM |
| 8 | LVM shows his true colors, pickmeishas are in the comments blaming his reaction on women🙄The second pickme ewww. There's no epidemic of women using men for free. Food. Issa myth sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 02:46 AM |
| 40 | yOu wiLL DiE alOne witH cATs anD BoX wiNEWtf is wromg with the first guy. He didn't even get rejected by her. He got rejected by her parents. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 02:42 AM |
| 67 | JFCDid the commenters type out in super dum dum lingo to help him understand. Because it seems like he needs it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 02:31 AM |
| 33 | Why is there a rumor circling around that FDS women are ugly?Giirl. All these men gave me awards in my pickme days because I had a reddit account for posting nudes. I had guys contact me after long intervals if I didn't post for a while because they were missing me. I am not ashamed of my past, I have seen the error of my ways and I am growing. I have successfully got rid of those habits and images and cut off porn and kink entirely. But... Let me tell ya... These scrotes are Projecting. They know we aren't ugly. They have lusted over our bodies when we h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 06:11 PM |
| 14 | Beyond the peen: what are your physical preferences when it comes to men's appearances?So one of the most blatant ones I remember is from a reddit porn sub. I gave up porn a month ago itself when I found fds. He had red and blue design all over his body and that included his tiny peen. He's pretty famous on a specific sub. Another one was more like a tramp stamp but for males with some kinky 'daddy' quote. Even the past kinkmeisha in me hated it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 05:54 PM |
| 44 | If you ever feel bad about having "high" standards, go to r/breakingmom and remember why you should vet menI was about to make a post similar to this. I saw that sub today and obviously lurked. I went through all stages of grief acceptance and realised if I hadn't found fds i would have been one of them. Not to victim blame, the conditioning and culture is against women's equality and benefit, but I'm glad I found fds before I reached an age and point in life where I marry a man and have his kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 05:52 PM |
| 21 | Beyond the peen: what are your physical preferences when it comes to men's appearances?Sis.. I've seen things 😳😳. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 05:46 PM |
| 29 | Beyond the peen: what are your physical preferences when it comes to men's appearances?I know... It's so sad. Also on another note this is the first time I have felt safe and secure in expressing my wants. I have always been scared of being called a hypocrite or being denied respect and equality if I wasn't considerate of certain male sentiments. Yeah fuck that. I gave my all to subpar looking males for them to be indiferrent to my needs. I am fucking done. I want that hot guy with v shaped thingy under his abs now. And I am not a diva for liking such aesthetics on the opposite ge… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 04:45 PM |
| 8 | In a land far far away where queens are banished our long lost sisters suffer. At least they are talking to each other about it. So close and yet so far...You are welcome to ask here! Even if we aren’t welcome there.I lurked that sub and holy shiiiiittttttt wtffffff wtf jfc wtf. Why are these women banning us... Imagine if they had the same energy towards the lvms and nvms in their lives ufffff. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 04:28 PM |
| 75 | Hates porn because…muh penis!Sisters please let me say this Men are disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 04:25 PM |
| 18 | I spent WEEKS chatting with this scrote only for him to drop this bomb. Time to unmatch and move on.Yeah... I'm glad you chucked him in the trash sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 03:19 PM |
| 84 | Beyond the peen: what are your physical preferences when it comes to men's appearances?Sister... Colty isn't pear shaped. He's more bag-full-of-dog-poop shaped. But I was the kind of girl who would always be like 'I have no type'. Pickme me was very careful of other people's sentiments and always going above and beyond to make them feel secure and happy. Which is good, but the people I did it for didn't deserve it at all. So now I want a tall guy. Taller than me. Anywhere between 5'8 to 6'3. Fit - I want a fit guy period. I don't care what excuses people give me. My body is beauti… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 03:18 PM |
| 22 | I spent WEEKS chatting with this scrote only for him to drop this bomb. Time to unmatch and move on.Lol the audacity | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 03:09 PM |
| 116 | So I made a collage of a modern desi girl's worst nightmares..to remind myself of the kind of toxicity that's ready to suck me in if I don't run fastSis where's the dowry? And the cricket matches. And his stupid friends coming over and calling you bhabhi and negging you as sign of 'love and affection' for their new bhabhi while you slave around for them? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 03:37 AM |
| 29 | How is it ethical from any perspective?The 'Asian' perspective is the worst one. I am south asian and it's a great tool for patriarchy to impose its rule on women. Just read Mahabharata. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 11:38 AM |
| 48 | Check out the comment section of this youtube video. The guy invited her out for drinks but after she said no to a second date, he got mad and demanded that she pay half🙄🙄😡The pickmes in the comments sheesh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 06:11 AM |
| 27 | What is this trash? Sorry but guys don’t need to be protected like that. Any guy with a mother like this, IMO should he avoided. The reviews made me roll my eyes.That's a lot of words for "I failed to raise a healthy human adult and might also want to fuck my own offspring" . Anyway it reminds me of this one guy from the trash I watch (90 day fiance) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 01:55 AM |
| 2 | Women having standards make them SO mad! The level of reach in this post is comical. We want men to level up, not ‘go die in war’ 🙄I know sis. I've noticed it too. Honestly, I've got my own little rule. Not going to date a redditor or if I do I need to know about and see his reddit. Obviously I know they can be sneaky so this isn't a boundary I'll ever vocalky admit, but always have my eyes open for. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 01:27 AM |
| 12 | Found out I’m pregnant last nightCongratulations sis.. So happy for you and your partner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 05:49 PM |
| 10 | Women having standards make them SO mad! The level of reach in this post is comical. We want men to level up, not ‘go die in war’ 🙄I wish these people did actual research and put real effort into critiquing this sub. That way we can work on ensuring it's not an echo chamber. But nooo... Fds is female mgtow... Because other redditor said so. Fuck off. Either break down and debate the theory logically or acknowledge your privelege. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 05:47 PM |
| 2 | Things you wish you could tell your 18 year old self?Because sex is consodered taboo, 18 year olds gravitate a lot towarda libfem forms of sexual relations to feel liberated but its a very unfair and risky system for the women and the men won't even stand up for them if anything goes down. Not worth it at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 05:16 PM |
| 21 | Things you wish you could tell your 18 year old self?Hello. I am a south asian too. I went to uni In Delhi. I am now 23 and live in Aus. Things I would tell my 18 year old self. Smoking won't make you cool. All the cool guys and girls around you who go to parties, hookup and have cool cliques aren't better or happier than you. Don't waste your energy on people, espexially men who will never even try to udnerstand their privilege. Learn to love yourself and set high standards for yourself. All those other girls achieving their goals, scoring well a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 04:48 PM |
| 98 | My comment on an r/sex post about a woman who's male "friend" tried to guilt her into having sex with him because she's had sex with other people and these are the responses. The post was locked before I could respond but why even bother 🤣🤣Men have mastered the art of invalidating women and their experiences. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 04:42 PM |
| 16 | Who’s gonna tell them?...Bringing each other down? Guess me performing better at work, achieving my goals and gaining more confidence was just you ladies bringing me down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 04:00 PM |
| 13 | Incel Finally Realized that He Doesn't Want To Be Incel Anymore. (This is all good but something deep down in me is scared to date an ex incel, who knows when his old self will come out🤡).Good for him. But this is still bout him. All about him. He isn't an hvm or anything. He's just found the space all men are already in and is now a part of the dating scene. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 03:58 PM |
| 15 | How to navigate a guy who says he doesn’t have time for a relationship right now because other priorities?Ok here's the thing. If he wants you, he will put in the effort. If law school is a problem, then it's his problem. He can come back later. But it's not your job to wait for him or make decisions around it. Have you ever imagined how powerful you'd be if you invested the same amount of emotions in yourself. Currently, you are processing these emotions of loss, and that's human. But remember your life is precious and men like him are abundant. So move on and focus on yourself. He's not a bad guy … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 02:28 PM |
| 2 | Resisting the urge to send a final text to my exThat is fair. I had two of my journals read by my pick me narc mom and if it wasn't for the fact that I live by myself in a foreign country i wouldn't journal. I also plan on burning it once I am done. I don't reread my thought journal. I have a separate one for productivity and stuff. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 02:18 PM |
| 14 | This, from a 38 year old European male... He's no virgin eitherEwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww..... Sis Ewwwwwwwwwwwwww | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 11:43 AM |
| 15 | Resisting the urge to send a final text to my exJournaling. Journaling has helped me so much. Write down your thoughts. Forget about aesthetic, spelling, grammar, just write them down. It has given me another superpower. Over time I have learnt which battles to pick and which ones to leave. I don't waste my time on most people anymore because I know my communication with them will go in vain. I journal my frustrations and separate myself from them (I'm talking everyday randos, clients, scrotes, acquaintances) . This reserves my energy only fo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 11:42 AM |
| 13 | Meredith Grey, the OG PickMe 😂Ewwwwwwwwwww | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 03:33 AM |
| 18 | On a post where a woman looking for a subreddit for supporting her mother who wanted to leave her narcissistic, abusive husband.From personal experience, they are also the first ones to throw you under the bus. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 03:32 AM |
| 43 | On a post where a woman looking for a subreddit for supporting her mother who wanted to leave her narcissistic, abusive husband.People really have double standards.. It's even worse when other women do it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 03:25 AM |
| 25 | Madagascar had it right😊Knowing men they'll call him a simp. Melman is a true HVM. not only for Gloria but for his friends as well. He pushed his comfort zone, stayed true to himself and did not act out of vengeance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 02:38 AM |
| 22 | Love her content so much! It really is putting all those level up lessons into words. Wonderful viewpoint from a wonderful woman!Her voice, her face, her style. I'm in love | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 02:33 AM |
| 52 | Does this excuse grown men staring at young teenage girls too?Women are also visual creatures. Ugly men should not complain when women refuse to look at them. If they want to be looked at hey can go put effort in looking better. Goes both ways buddy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 02:27 AM |
| 153 | Wannabe tradwives aren’t respected by the men they worshipDates are just prostitution for men, with extra steps. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 02:25 AM |
| 30 | Leftist men are mentally ill. Whataboutism much?People who claim 16 year olds are adult to justify their crimes are also the same people who want to lower the bar of consent and don't have a problem with 18 year olds dating 25 year olds . So not only is this guy using whataboutism, he is also using it incorrectly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 02:35 PM |
| 23 | LVM and NVM specifically target women with low self esteemHe got them creepy 'insecure and psychotic' eyes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 01:23 PM |
| 196 | Men trying to get with you when they know you're in a relationship isn't flattery, it's an insult.A lot of 'critics' of fds claim we use men, are narcissists who want to normalise gold -digging, are bitches who can't work to sustain ourselves etc. They cannot fathom that we as women just want to have the same standards imposed on men that men have for women. They cannot fathom we want to build healthy relationships by looking at our own conditioning as well as that of men. Because they themselves cannot imagine doing that sort of work. You did the right thing sis, and you're roght. It isn't … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 01:19 PM |
| 136 | UPDATE: We are changing our policy on polyamory!Finally. My time to shine. Lol on a serious note :Fuck em poly losers and their fake world of empowerment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 05:53 AM |
| 12 | If a guy ever posted about me like this I would divorce himY'all need context before you get pressed about it. It's a discussion on colorism in South asian communities. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 03:37 AM |
| 8 | My LVM sent me this mestoday after weeks of no contact. 4 years on and off, lived together, and I moved out a few months ago after I grew tired of playing wife and not getting my needs met. Leave these LVM the fuck behind sis, it’ll have him questioning his whole existence.I, i, i, i, me, me, me, I'm sorry. That's not how you apologise lol. Block him. Move on. Level up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 03:25 AM |
| 79 | SIS.. trust me when I say absolutely NOBODY wants your LVM. Embarrassing.Is she ok. What the fuck even is this supposed to prove. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 07:59 AM |
| 1 | Are alpha females and alpha males compatibleNo one's excluding you lol. We don't spoonfeed people here. Go open the wiki and educate yourself. Also with the amount of ignorant stuff you've said today you sound more like a guy trolling us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 06:46 AM |
| 2 | Are alpha females and alpha males compatibleFDS doesn't even use the terminology. If you gotta troll atleast put some effort in it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 06:43 AM |
| 1 | Are alpha females and alpha males compatibleYou need to start with the handbook. And then come back and ask questions. Also the flair is wrong. This is the opposite of queen shit. You have a problem with the sub, an exclusive space because it is imperfect and your first instinct was to criticise that. You didn't put any effort in studying the context. Also I would love to see this Alpha beta comparison. Fds uses hvm and lvm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 06:00 AM |
| 23 | Scrote want to have sex with a prostitute because his wife refuses to submit to a painful sex act. DIVORCE HIM.Some times I wish I could hug people through the screen. It must be heartbreaking to find out about this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 05:54 AM |
| 9 | Are alpha females and alpha males compatibleI don't think this alpha beta thing actually exists. If you have certain qualities you consider to be strengths, name them. If there are certain qualities you desire in a partner, name them. Without naming them you cannot set boundaries or standards. Fds is not about female ego stroking. It is about empowerment and healing and seeing through the social conditioning that has taught women to cater to men. Your compatibility cannot be based on being 'alpha'. That's pseudoscience. You need to do the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 05:39 AM |
| 19 | Remembering the Montreal Massacre - are men as brave as they say?Feminist theory in international relations specifically looks at the gendered nature of violence. Unfortunately human security, which challeneges, traditional security, has not really taken it up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 03:44 AM |
| 23 | I know FDS generally doesn’t approve of Bumble but here’s a little workaround.To be fair it was done to give women more agency. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 02:44 AM |
| 1 | I guess true love really can existWhat's going on. I'm confused. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 02:34 AM |
| 17 | Hundreds of comments defending a rapist and telling OP she shouldn't have dumped himAll the awards... To the comments of rape apologists who are empathising with the man because he was 'carrying the weight of it' and had the 'courage to share'. Just take me god! Edit: I wish I hadn't read it. Second edit: This one fucked me up good sisters. I need therapy. Don't know who else to tell this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 05:31 PM |
| 100 | Fake Pick-me friendSo you need new friends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 02:50 PM |
| 25 | Disappointed in a women’s advice to this woman. Facebooks X only women thread. I see too much pickme validating this guy.Yikes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 12:15 PM |
| 18 | My biggest takeaway from FDS...I empathise a lot with this. I have been on fds for almost three weeks now and still undergoing the changes. I haven't slipped up and tbh some of the mindset doesn't apply to my case (different culture and context where it just doesn't apply) , but fds has helped me personally develop so much. I dropped toxic friends, toxic workplace (i was volunterring and being used for full time work), toxic habits and just been working hard on myself. People around me who truly care have noticed it and have … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 09:03 AM |
| 5 | I just got banned from r/Feminism and this was the last thing I commented:It used to be radical feminist sub but was banned on grounds of being anti-trans. Although, it is impeotant to note many anti-women sub are still in effect and they are just as anti trans. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 02:59 PM |
| 9 | Looking for FDS Friendly Song Recommendations to Add to My PlaylistCassie - Long way 2 go. It's the fds handbook in song form. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 04:05 AM |
| 16 | I just got banned from r/Feminism and this was the last thing I commented:They probably don't like fds people. I joined three weeks ago and apparently it was transphobic before that (which I don't support so win-win for me). And i guess the mods are still justifying it that way.... It's unfair in any case. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 03:35 PM |
| 274 | I just got banned from r/Feminism and this was the last thing I commented:Holy shit! Really? So women aren't allowed to have opinions on feminism anymore? Great! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 03:30 PM |
| 24 | 🤡 CRINGE PICKME 🤡 normalizes women doing all mental labor, housework and child-raising while pretending to be wokeThis woman DOES have it all. The pick-me attitude towards her husband , the karen mom who thinks parents are discriminated against everytime a person without kids does something unrelated to them, the shitty writer who gets space on some second grade website (They described the cureent Aus-China standoff as cold war 'vibes'), but just vomits out words on a page...oh and the millenial critic... Because their generation was soooooo great 🙄. She's carrying our whole society on her back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 03:14 PM |
| 64 | The ending was so refreshing.I saw another post in her history . It was an AITA post where her boyfriend promised to oay a deposit on their shared resident so that she can take a trip with her own money, and after she had booked the trip and paid for expenses he asked her to split the deposit. He's a scrote and she levelled up finally. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 02:27 AM |
| 49 | The ending was so refreshing.Yep. Not a single bashful comment towards her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 01:19 AM |
| 10 | That's word diarrhea if I've ever seen itCorrect me If I'm wromg but is this the same guy who bought onlyfans nudes of women and sent them to their parents to teachhose women a 'lesson'. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 12:09 AM |
| 15 | HvM or LVM?He seems like he put in a lot of effort and is waiting for his date to come out to open the door for her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Alexandra Beth is a QUEENI love her but some of her hair removal and diy advice isn't the best for a desi girl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 10:52 AM |
| 2 | 50/50?!Ok here's my take. A man wrote this. And put it on the image and posted it on social media. And the pickmes did what pickmes do. They picked it up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 03:50 PM |
| 9 | This is what I had sent my ex husband after I found he cheated. My growth from then to now is in the commentsUmm excuse me.... You dropped this... 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 01:24 PM |
| 2 | Woman staying with her pedophile boyfriend, still hasn’t gone to the police.I found evidence, i confronted him, he deleted evidence... What do i do now? This idiot needs to face consequences for being complicit in literal abuse of children | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 06:40 AM |
| 6 | Part of me feels guiltySecond this. Guilt is one of the strongest weapons society uses against us to keep us submissive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 02:54 AM |
| 10 | Finally left my LVM bfYou're strong and I am proud of you. It's ok to be scared but we got your back! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 02:53 AM |
| 2 | And I’m done with this planet: no one gives a fuck about women’s sex crimes but women. Also, this is what OLD and Porn cultivates....you have males like Kavanaugh and Brock Turner getting off with slaps on the wrists. LADIES be careful out there, no one is watching out for us, only us.One of the victims lives where i used to 6 months ago. One of my 'male firends' (dropped him now), bought the choking justification the lawyer is giving. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 06:24 PM |
| 6 | Famous women who left LVMs and thrived (examples)Backed by a rich, powerful psycho cult..... He's transcended lvm status, he's a danger to the people around him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 04:19 AM |
| 11 | HVM in media done right, David is a HVM and all the rest, in my opinion, LVMGenie needed fds..... He was trapped and had to cater to the needs of an lvm because of it. 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 04:18 AM |
| 3 | I kinda want to know the most insane/funny stuff a score has ever said to you!True! Thank you so much. I'm glad I found this sub. Even though I sometimes find some aspects hard to accept, it has truly given me a lot of knowledge to heal and level up! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 02:00 PM |
| 270 | HVM in media done right, David is a HVM and all the rest, in my opinion, LVMAlladin is a scrote. Change my mind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 10:13 AM |
| 7 | I kinda want to know the most insane/funny stuff a score has ever said to you!😭😭😭 finally someone who understands. Wish I had friends like you around me. All I have are pickmes and guys. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 09:05 AM |
| 2 | Problems with fiance making comments and gaslightingHe's going to read the comments? Great. This one is for him. Do better you idiot! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 08:48 AM |
| 1 | She liked him so she sacrificed her comfort, and paid a price she regrettedThe comments in the video are depressing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 08:24 AM |
| 13 | I kinda want to know the most insane/funny stuff a score has ever said to you!I'm an Indian in aus too. Our dating pool is terrible desi scrotes who take you out on two dates and make you their maid after that in the name of a relationship or aussie scrotes who think "Your english is very good" is a compliment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 08:04 AM |
| 10 | I kinda want to know the most insane/funny stuff a score has ever said to you!Ah the no neck eds of the world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 08:00 AM |
| 28 | Famous women who left LVMs and thrived (examples)There's a picture of Nicole shouting with happiness at the staircase of the courthouse after her divorce was finalised. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 07:39 AM |
| 20 | Male posts on r/sex about why people (women) should do sexual acts for their partner even if they don't like it. Multiple awards and 3k up votes.The whole thread gave me ptsd. It brought back horrible memories. That guy is sick and I hope karma is a real thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 07:37 AM |
| 5 | I love my therapistAre you me 😮. I do the same thing atleast did till I found this sub. And I always knew deep down there was something exhausting about my behavior but its only when I read it written out in this sub that I feel it full force. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 07:26 AM |
| 16 | I—????????????Desi pickmes can be manipulated and sold the 'empowerment' dream but not negged. He doesn't know any Indian women beyond the one he sees on his screen. On another note I was 16 when I found return of kings and this is an old article. I have always hated the people here. The Indian MRA movemebt has direct connections with Paul Elam. All these scrotes and parasites have a network | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 08:09 AM |
| 6 | I think 90% of men on this earth should make an appology like this lmaoJoke aside his pledge actually made me very emotional. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 01:45 PM |
| 247 | The amount of upvotes & awards this has is terrifying.Anything to shift the responsibility of putting in the effort on the woman....anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 01:39 PM |
| 9 | Stumbled across this exchange.. typical LVM reacting to a rejection 😂D E S I boisssss | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 04:36 AM |
| 15 | Ladies! Here I present psycho fiancé version 3.5.8 who tried to cut his future wife’s birth control insert out of her arm using Box cutters while she was fast asleep.Someone please get me off this planet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 02:32 PM |
| 4 | Any HVMs in India?Hello. Desi girl here. Know two desi HVMs but both taken. One of them regularly lurks here. To learn more (never comments or fights just curious to learn) and the other isn't on reddit but is an HVM in every way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 11:49 AM |
| 1 | What I have done since my separationHello. I just want to say I don't know you but I'm proud of you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 09:46 AM |
| 82 | Stupid sarcastic pickme shames a woman for wanting gifts from her boyfriend, implies shes a prostitute, and tells her “he shouldn’t need to spend money on you, his love should be enough to make you happy”Quora pickmes are a class apart. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 09:23 AM |
| 2 | The bar is lower than low for men.I am looking forward to your post. I am talking to a dutch guy who I think is an HVM but I would love to have more context of the culture. I'm indian myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 06:00 PM |
| 2 | I have a problem with Indian men.Briwn 23 F. I was a huge pickme and still working on changing. But I too have given up. I'm punjabi and it's just worse in my case. My eye opening moment was when I was 9 years old and my parents. Came back from the gurudwara and they were fighting. My mom came up to me and said I hope one day you marry a guy like your dad so he knows what it feels like when a woman he loves is mistreated. I have alsoo gone to therapy over narc parents and stuff but I find it lacking. A lot of my views are dimin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 11:43 AM |
| 1 | No.. just no🤒🤒🤒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Dating app match asks me to help with his work after two days of chatting. Even after I already told him I’m busy. Even after already knowing consultation is work for me and he shouldn’t be asking for free consultation. They ruin everything before even meeting.Nice to see a fellow brown girl here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 08:17 AM |
| 31 | Grab some popcorn, An entire thread of men in disbelief of expected typical male behavior so much so they’re gaslighting each other. Cognitive dissonance at its finest. 👌Nah. The place he rescues girls from have a very dangerous mafia he constantly stands up to. To go through all that risk to find your victims makes no sense. He is a genuinely good guy. I have met him at a seminar and he is very firm and vocal about his determination to fix this issue even if the men don't like it. Even in the seminar guys were either putting him on a pedestal or questioning his intentions (to get into politics/ to get a prize) and he shut it down pretty quick and pointed out th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 03:44 AM |
| 2 | The only kind of men that deserve to have children.My dad, has a lot of faults, but one thing I grew up with is that he never gave us pocket money. If I wanted something I could ask and I would get it. Ofcourse most things I asked for were reasonable. But I never had to worry about handling and saving money as a child and living on a budegt. Despite this I am very frugal and my dad hates me for it. He thinks I overdo it and shouldn't compromise on quality which I do sometimes. The most money he has spent on is my education (we are indians) and h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 05:58 PM |
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