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[–]Stuffnthings1840FDS Newbie98 points99 points100 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I would also ask him when he was gonna go to the grocery, cook my meals, watch my kid so I could go to the gym, wash my clothes, pay my gym membership, and shut the fuck up.
[–][deleted] 138 points139 points140 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
He hates her.
He just needs a reason to hit the divorce button, and she knows it too.
Edit: she needs to leave him (or let him leave her) and THEN lose the weight. In. That. Order.
[–]blessedwiththreeFDS Newbie168 points169 points170 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Here's my reply nowadays:
Actually, disregard my former reply, I'm losing 200 lbs right now. Come pack your shit and you should probably let your parents know you will be moving in again !!
[–]MadamLeFayFDS Apprentice106 points107 points108 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It's glaringly obvious why she gained 110 pounds while being married to that jackass. I wonder if she knows she can easily lose about 180 if she leaves him?
[–]autumnxo92FDS Newbie56 points57 points58 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Knowing the hypocrisy of scrotes, probably more like 250.
[–]Stuffnthings1840FDS Newbie30 points31 points32 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I would tell him to pack up. I never existed to please his eyes and if he can do better he is free to do so. Don't let the door hit you on the way out.
[–]Splatzy19FDS Newbie22 points23 points24 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Posting without reading but here it goes - DUMP HIM!
I'll check if I'm correct...
[–]Splatzy19FDS Newbie25 points26 points27 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Yep. I was correct. Also saw a really interesting video from a male personal trainer talking about women's menstrual cycles and dieting and training. I'll try find a link because I wanted to save it anyways, he basically said women have times in their cycle when it is possible that dieting and training is useless due to hormone fluctuations, cravings, water retention, testosterone drops (and that's not factoring in the nightmare that is hormonal birth control) and we should just have a nice maintenance week or two. I have seen other science based videos and articles that explain similar issues and so when men are pressuring women to lose weight in the same way men do they are literally putting the women's health and happiness at risk for their own perceptions of beauty and health. This lady may be in the phase of her menstrual cycle where it's not ideal to be starting a diet or routine. I call this my 'fuck it, you can all eat a bag of dicks' phase.
[–]Unlikely-MarzipanRuthless Strategist2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I’ve seen that! Is it Michael someone? He’s with a lady called Martha? They were on a show called married at first sight. He seems to really dote on her from what I’ve seen.
Of course it could be completely different PT, as it’s maybe something common knowledge in that area I’m not sure.
[–]Splatzy19FDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I haven't seen that one, the one I saw was a Facebook suggested and I didn't take the name of the dude or save the video. Blonde guy? I'm sure he will pop up again.
[–]SoftFortune64FDS Newbie16 points17 points18 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
File for fucking divorce! What an absolute asshat!
[–]ASeaOfQuotesFDS Apprentice53 points54 points55 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
“What would you do?”
Dump his ass.
[–]Suspicious-Leg-1407FDS Apprentice26 points27 points28 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yikes
There is no such thing as a diet only one of you are on. When you cook and share meals, dieting is a family affair.
[–]SamuelaTheThriftyFDS Newbie10 points11 points12 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I bet this man has already given himself permission to cheat. “If she isn’t thin in six months....”
[–]Unlikely-MarzipanRuthless Strategist2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yep. They always give themselves permission in some way or another. If it wasn’t her weight, it’d be something else.
[–]med10crityFDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"the possibility of losing your husband" promise??
how is that at all a threat?
[–]theingenueloverFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Please tell me this is not fr. I refuse to believe this is fr. I wanna unread.
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[–]EspionagessFDS Apprentice31 points32 points33 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
If this was a screenshot of a woman saying to a scrote that if he doesn't lose weight he's going to lose a wife, can you IMAGINE the absolute meltdown scrotes would have and what they would say about her?
No scrote would be arguing that yeah he might be a bit overweight. I'm in good shape (dancing classes are awesome) but I don't see the point in giving scrotes leniency they would NEVER give us.
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[–]EspionagessFDS Apprentice17 points18 points19 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Each to their own, if you disagree then no problem do whatever works for you.
Personally, I think it's useful to understand the nature of men because you wise up to their antics and see the hypocrisy for what it is.
[–]sleepykittnFDS Newbie16 points17 points18 points 5 years ago* (14 children) | Copy Link
She is not a couch creature. Lack of motivation is a chemical imbalance, which I could believe she may have depression with a scrote talking to her like that demanding more after she said she would do chores etc 'nothing major', just care taking for an ungrateful man child.
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[–]burntbpdFDS Newbie15 points16 points17 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Nah this ain't it sis. Laying a boundary can be done without disrespect and threats.
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[–]SeraphinxFDS Newbie-1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
I have. I'm pretty sure "Know what your standards are and stick to them. Don't settle for less" is very near the top 🤔
I'm not into overweight guys. I'm harsh with this standard so honestly, I can't say I think it's unfair of guys to be either. No double standards from me.
Aren't double standards something we complain about scrotes having?
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[–]SeraphinxFDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
either you're a PickMe or just have a lot of internalized misogyny. You need to do some feminist reading to understand why what you just said is wrong.
I think this is a bit condescending, we are ALL varying levels of recovering pick me and at different stages of shaking off our internalised misogyny. There are very few women who can say that they haven't suffered from patriarchal socialisation in some way.
I've done a lot of feminist reading, but I think I missed the movement where women have literally zero personal responsibility over their diet and exercise.
I agree this is not about looks. What's worse than the disrespect he's giving her is the disrespect she's showing her own health.
I'd be interested in what you'd recommend in terms of specific authors or articles, rather than just a blase 'do some feminist reading'. Because the FDS booklist actually contains almost zero serious feminist scholars.
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[–]SeraphinxFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks for the links!
[–]sleepykittnFDS Newbie7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It was off topic, all he shouldve said was thank you and offer a favor in return for her doing both their responsibility.
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