Opening a new discussion after seeing a post on here previously about the plight of Indian women.

So I’m an Indian woman (23) and I have lost hope in the advent of finding a good brown guy in the last couple years. I purposely avoid dating them. They either seems to be workaholics, narcissists, mommies-boys, cheapskates or just plain abusive.

My dad is a great example of a narc and my mom regrets her marriage everyday. She even told me herself to stay away from indian guys. She is totally fine with me dating outside our race and religion. She is planning on a divorce and I do believe she is leveling up after 25 awful years of an arranged marriage. She gave up everything to marry the trash that is my father, including a house she bought herself and a potential life-long career.

My brown friends also complain about brown guys and it makes me upset that they can just abuse us like this. My brother lived with a ton of male Indian roommates and they left the apartment disgusting and unlivable, with rotted food all around, so clearly they don’t have any hygiene and think their moms/sisters should do the cleaning, not them. My brother is not exactly clean himself, but he had to clean up after all of them.

I have completely given up on them and I am wondering if any of you have had any hope or know of success stories with brown men. They honestly disgust me.

Edit: I got a hate dm from a brown guy who just posts dick pics on his profile - thus proving my point!!