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| 1 | How can I be successful as a very short (4'10), balding, Asian guy?Communicating through emojis, poor grammar, and deflection. All signs of someone that spends all day sitting in front of a computer sad, depressed, and hopeless instead of interacting with people in the real world and accomplishing their goals. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/21 06:48 PM |
| 1 | How can I be successful as a very short (4'10), balding, Asian guy?You would be a much happier person if you loved yourself enough to fix your own life instead of going on the internet and telling people they have no hope as a coping mechanism for dealing with the poor choices you've made to end up as the irrelevant, unsuccessful, depressed, insecure crab in a bucket that you are. Pulling other people down doesn't help you up. You are not here to help anyone, you are being selfish. You are incapable of making good choices in your life so you try to convince oth… | /r/askTRP | 24/05/21 06:00 PM |
| 1 | How can I be successful as a very short (4'10), balding, Asian guy?Your problem is you identify as a "4'10, bald (with a weird shaped head), Asian-American, and have a micropenis (less than 2 inches) as well. I'm 38 and still a kissless virgin." You base your whole perception of yourself on your physical characteristics and your somewhat successful career. You don't have passion behind your words, you don't have fire in your eyes, you aren't projecting any masculine energy into the world. These are the things women are attracted to because it is impossible for … | /r/askTRP | 24/05/21 05:46 PM |
| 1 | How can I be successful as a very short (4'10), balding, Asian guy?I'm not attacking you I'm stating your reality...which is so genuinely pathetic it just seems like attacking when someone spells it out without sugar coating it. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/21 05:37 PM |
| 8 | How can I be successful as a very short (4'10), balding, Asian guy?/u/1948e8q0wir I looked through the guy above me's post history and he is a suicidal broke college student that is insecure about wanting to fuck sex dolls, yet somehow thinks he knows your potential in life or has anything to offer when he has absolutely none of his own shit together.. Do not take advice from people like this. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/21 04:03 PM |
| 6 | The blackppill?Instagram Railroad | /r/askTRP | 11/12/20 06:25 AM |
| 4 | The blackppill?The first Black Friday was actually invented when TJ and Andrew Jackson met up at Tubman's once a year for happy hour | /r/askTRP | 11/12/20 05:52 AM |
| 1 | Follow up on my post about a girl at Uni I was having trouble with (fairly long)I'm going in hiatus from here for a while so i'll leave this as my last comment for a while because rape allegations are my one thing that hits close to home because of some of my friends. Find other girls. Girls that want to have sex with you, will have sex with you. Think about it like this. She got her tits played with, she got her body rubbed. You got blue balls. You're both supposed to be giving. Here's the two ways you fucked up. First with LMR, you're supposed to put the ball in her court… | /r/askTRP | 02/11/19 09:29 PM |
| 3 | Any beige phillip fans?You have to reinvent the wheel because nobody else is driving your body and your mind. Those what if questions get answered by failing and seeing what your creative mind thinks about how to fix it. TRP teaches you how to hold a tennis racket and you have to decide if you want to use one hand or two hand on backhand shots, a slice or flat serve on particular opponents, or drop shots vs base line shots. You get better with practice. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/19 08:37 PM |
| 2 | Any beige phillip fans?He started preaching honesty after Patrice passed. They did an episode where Patrice breaks down his line of thought vs Dante's. In multiple episodes of Black Phillip Dante says lie 3 years in advance so that you're not caught if you want to get away with it. The snake necklace thing was one episode where he pretends to one of the female guests on Black Phillip. Now that i'm thinking of it, I got tired of Beige Phillip because it's so obvious that it's Dante trying to be Patrice. Everything is a… | /r/askTRP | 01/11/19 08:31 PM |
| 3 | Any beige phillip fans?I just dont even know who to follow as role models. Follow your gut. Follow yourself. You know what you want out of life. Don't be scared to reach for it. The endorsed guys on here are pretty solid even though there's no physical image of them. Real role models are men you meet whom you admire that are willing to teach without taking advantage of you. Take EVERYTHING with a grain of salt. | /r/askTRP | 01/11/19 08:18 PM |
| 3 | Any beige phillip fans?Patrice taught me to embrace my anger, figure out what makes me angry, fix it on my terms, and be happy I put myself first which eventually brings me to a calm and makes me a stronger person in the long run that understands myself better. Dante tried to teach me to buy a fake necklace with a snake on it and lie that my grandfather wrestled snakes and that was the last thing he ever gave me. Patrice had hotter girls because he was honest about who he was in voice and in action. Can't trust a man … | /r/askTRP | 01/11/19 07:57 PM |
| 7 | Any beige phillip fans?Even on TRP we tell you to take all advice given with a grain of salt. Patrice O Neal is the reason I found some happiness in life, but he's also a bad example to ask about losing weight. I used to watch Beige Philip but stopped pretty quickly for 3 reasons. If you've seen all 13 Black Phillip episodes, nothing in Beige Phillip will surprise you. 99% of it, even the jokes Dante says are verbatim stolen from Patrice without credit being given. As someone who highly respects standup, this is inexc… | /r/askTRP | 01/11/19 07:49 PM |
| 1 | What advise do you have for someone who understands RP, but is still discouraged with life?TRP is a TOOLBOX to get what YOU want out of life and you're using it to get ENDS without thinking of the MEANS. Here's something I recently learned. Nobody enjoys doing anything until they're good at it. Your purpose is to imagine the guy you wish you were and work at it until you can enjoy BEING him. Nobody likes playing basix shitty music on an instrument until they get good at a hard song. Nobody enjoys talking to girls until they get good at being witty. Nobody likes negotiating until they … | /r/askTRP | 31/10/19 11:59 AM |
| 6 | The woman is reflection of a man she is with. Agree?She both loves and hates the fact that you're better than her. Half the time her brain is thinking "I love this man I can't even open this pickle jar without him in my life." And the other half she's thinking "fuck this guy for thinking he's hot shit he's nothing i'm better than him." Prove to her and the world that you're better than her and the first line of thought overpowers the second. Prove that she's better than you and the second line of thought wins and she'll begin her very public exit… | /r/askTRP | 31/10/19 11:49 AM |
| 1 | Could it be this whole time that it's been my own self-belief and approach anxiety that's been fucking me over? I need to take action and I feel stuck. How have you guys with REALLY bad AA forced yourselves to approach?I didn't read the post because the length of it shows you're overthinking things. Your goal is to approach without thinking and you'll get better at it over time because you'll give less of a shit each time you do it. Don't psychoanalyze yourself over girls that can't even tell what they want to eat for lunch. | /r/askTRP | 31/10/19 11:42 AM |
| 1 | How to get organized?It's a matter of discipline. Clean your spaces up and then have the discipline to put everything back in the place you set for it once you use it. With that said, you're too old to be hand held through cleaning up after yourself. | /r/askTRP | 31/10/19 01:29 AM |
| 5 | Need advice on how to proceedIf she's letting you feel her up I wouldn't say you're in the friend zone, but I would say you're on your way if you keep letting her come over without escalating. The friend zone is a trap you put yourself in by being scared she won't come back. To do what? Waste more of your time by blue balling you? She knows what you want and she knows what she's doing, but you're too eager. If you want to give it one more shot invite her over and escalate. Get physical if she's sitting in your lap and letti… | /r/askTRP | 31/10/19 01:05 AM |
| -1 | Had sex with my best friend (at the time) ex girlfriend. Was this fucked up or no?Eh. EVERY 'friend' i've EVER had has fucked EVERY girl I was interested in at EVERY point in my life since middle school and I just graduated college. I realized it's because nobody has respected me enough not to fuck the girl I was into, and I was a total bluepill all my life. Nobody I know has openly told me they fucked my tall jacked masculine attitude and financially successful friend's girls because they know their might be conflict with him. You obviously don't respect the guy or you would… | /r/askTRP | 29/10/19 11:53 AM |
| 2 | Meet The Endorsed Contributors: VasiliyZaitzevThank you for such a well thought out response. I'll read those posts of yours. Not sure how you are going to balance it. I always had an office or a private place I could use, but unless you do (for calls) you are going to have to figure something out. I actually do have a private office, but it's literally 3 feet from my boss's office and adjacent to my coworker's. The good thing is my boss encourages breaks throughout the day and i usually don't have to take all of them, so my lunch break is … | /r/TheRedPill | 27/10/19 11:10 PM |
| 5 | Meet The Endorsed Contributors: VasiliyZaitzevHi Uncle V, thanks for all of the knowledge you've given on here. I'm still pretty retarded when it comes to women and being an asshole instead of a nice guy, but i've been approaching and working on my career. I've been staying at work until 5:30 doing stuff after my boss and coworkers leave at 4 or earlier like you told me and you were right, it's taught me a lot about the industry in the one week i've done it. I have 3 basic questions though. What are some good psychology readings for further… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/19 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Advice on losing weight? I know how to do it, its just the dedication part that is killing me.Best advice I ever got was find healthy food you like to eat. It's so fucking simple. I can eat eggs all day every day for months without getting tired. I love oatmeal with 0 calorie sugar substitutes, drop of vanilla extract, and milk. Lots of well seasoned chicken, sweet potato, whatever vegetables for dinner. Those are my main 2 meals during the day. Snacking I eat bananas, apples, rxBars, peanut butter, sugar free crackers. Only a few a day. I love sweet stuff so I found all the healthy swee… | /r/askTRP | 24/10/19 04:11 AM |
| 70 | Real talk, does anybody else feel like a fish out of water trying to approach girls in person?Just go up to her and say hi or something. Don't signal for her to come over. Just go say something. I lived in a foreign country with friends where we didn't speak the language. Still pulled because girls dgaf what you say just if you're confident enough in saying something. Literally go up and say anything. It's not hard or complicated. It gets easier if you keep trying. The first one is the hardest and after that it's way easier. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/19 06:45 PM |
| 3 | I recently signed up as a sugar daddy, I learnt some things.To me it makes sense because he has a child and an intese job so he doesn't have time to constantly approach. But it made me realize if you just don't have a kid you don't have to do this. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/19 10:00 PM |
| 24 | I recently signed up as a sugar daddy, I learnt some things.These are the posts that remind me why /u/mattyanon and /u/vasiliyzaitzev pretty much never online on the weekends. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/19 01:25 PM |
| 11 | Where the heck do you guys meet these HB7+?A few months ago I went to the beach one morning to practice sunrise photography. I got there around 6AM. At around 7, I noticed two girls show up. They looked like they just turned 18. One was a 7 and the other was a 3 at best. I thought they'd relax or just chat while getting a tan, but these girls were all business. The 7 stripped to her two piece bikini and put on some hat and began posing. The 3 was doing all sorts of gymnastics and stretching to get different angles with her iphone. She we… | /r/askTRP | 20/10/19 04:13 AM |
| 2 | Any guides for getting clothes that fit properly?I physically can only read this sentence in Borat's accent. | /r/askTRP | 18/10/19 08:12 PM |
| 1 | The One Red Pill I Can See You Still Haven't SwallowedWhat's your height? And where are you based? I'm 5'4 PM me and we can figure this out together | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/19 04:23 PM |
| 3 | If frame is so important then why do I succeedOP's the type of dude to see a fish suffocating out of water and ask "Why doesn't it just breathe?" | /r/askTRP | 17/10/19 03:14 AM |
| 1 | How do you overcome scarcity of quality?You need to go out more. I had your exact same thoughts until I made an effort to go out more and I literally can't go a 3 days without seeing a subjective 9 somewhere. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/19 03:03 AM |
| 1 | The term 'red pill' comes from the film The Matrix. BOTH of the men behind it later transitioned into women. Do you think that Red Pill type thinking makes you 'that way'?I think this question should be in one of the movie subreddits. You know this subreddit isn't about movies right? It's completely unrelated. 2nd or 3rd sentence in Rule Zero: "TRP's mission is to increase men's sexual power and options. " | /r/askTRP | 17/10/19 02:57 AM |
| 1 | The One Red Pill I Can See You Still Haven't SwallowedWell no shit but that's so retarded to spend time thinking about. In the time it takes to formulate that I could have solved a problem at work or developed a new ad campaign. Think about it once but move on and do something that makes you happy with who you are despite how much better this fictional taller version of you would do with girls without putting in the work | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/19 11:39 PM |
| 0 | The One Red Pill I Can See You Still Haven't SwallowedFucking thank you. I don't know why people here believe everything is a social construct and we've been lied to except for the height situation. I'm 5'4 and yeah it's not the same as being 6'4 but who cares there's plenty of 5'2 HB9s and taller girls that will date a shorter guy if he's worth it | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/19 09:59 PM |
| 7 | I feel everything it’s pointlessGoogle a PDF of the book 60 Seconds and You're Hired. I went from no offers in 5 months of unemployment to multiple offers 2 weeks after reading it. You should read it too. It'll help your side business. I recommend anyone wanting to advance in life to read that book. If you want to help people, invest in them but dont pay for their life. You don't have to live with your mom to support her and she wants to see you succeed on your own. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/19 01:31 AM |
| 5 | I feel everything it’s pointlessAre you the rock of your house emotionally or financially? If it's only emotionally and your mother and sister can support themselves, you need a break from something to develop a sense of outcome independence. You're 23 and you should not be working yourself to death in a profession you hate. If they can't support themselves financially but it's not for reasons that they are disabled or prevented from working, you need to set boundaries and have a plan to get out of the situation. This situatio… | /r/askTRP | 15/10/19 11:53 PM |
| 2 | Am I supposed to force my way into friendly social/business groups, or are people supposed to accept or invite me?Fuck this is genius. I think my plan for now then will be starting my job and finding a studio i can rent, and save for some equipment with my new job. Then it's just going out and finding girls I can do photo shoots for. I think strip clubs could be a good start, also finding girls off the street could be just walking up to any girl that looks good and saying i'm a photographer to invite her to a shoot. It'd be amazing practice also. At that point it's just learning game and trying to escalate … | /r/askTRP | 13/10/19 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Am I supposed to force my way into friendly social/business groups, or are people supposed to accept or invite me?Thank you so much. I appreciate this info. I'm not sure if the girls i'm into are hanging with photographers(I like thick black and latina girls with huge asses which isn't the conventional model look, MeganTheeStallion) but I do enjoy photography as an art form. It brings me joy when I get a great photo and can make art with it. I mostly do landscapes or industrial stuff but I can look into model shoots and try and offer things to the people there. Where did you go about finding girls to throw … | /r/askTRP | 13/10/19 03:52 PM |
| 2 | Condom Broke on her PeriodI believe him. When I switched to better condoms it completely changed the feel of sex for me. I had never gone raw before, and when I finally did once it was so disappointing because of how exaggerated the feeling is talked about. For me Skyn Large feels almost exactly the same as raw so I have no desire to go raw. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/19 05:09 PM |
| 3 | so women will spend their youth fucking the most muscular men possible and then settle down with some normal dude once they hit their 30s?The fact that i'm not a virgin is proof that girl's don't only care about looks | /r/askTRP | 12/10/19 04:29 AM |
| 1 | Could DeepFake technology enable fake social proof like never beforeIt might be lucrative to sell to idiots. I find it hard to believe that the market of anyone regularly banging 6s is dumb enough for this to be an extravagant success. You'd have to convince people already successful with women that their sexual strategy is wrong. To regularly bang 6s you have to be a solid 8. Telling an 8 that the only reason they're not banging 9s is because they haven't deep faked their life for $99 each month is a stretch. The only people this could sell to are the people th… | /r/askTRP | 11/10/19 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Could DeepFake technology enable fake social proof like never beforeYou're advertising to the wrong market. TRP is about being a guy that gets a lot of pussy. If you want positive criticism go ask The Black Pill or incel subs where they think it's impossible to get laid if you're not born perfect. This is marketing 101. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/19 12:44 PM |
| 8 | How can I give a more sexual vibe?My thought pattern is don't stare but she knows why she's wearing that shirt. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 09:03 PM |
| 3 | Did this girl think I was gay?She ended up not being interested. Oh well. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 11:50 PM |
| 0 | Did this girl think I was gay?Good idea. Probably getting too into thought again after being so rusty. Thanks for the tip | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Did this girl think I was gay?Yeah it's my favorite book recommended from TRP. Why? | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 07:35 PM |
| 2 | Did this girl think I was gay?Yeah you're right. I'll update the post later. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 07:24 PM |
| 4 | Redpill is making me mentally insaneYou have to use your knowledge to find your own happiness in life. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 02:09 AM |
| 10 | The biggest red pill I've ever facedThe posts of /u/VasiliyZeitzev /u/mattyanon /u/fereallyRed /u/itiswr1tten , and /u/whisper are why i'm currently employed, why i'm learning to be a part of my community socially, why i'm fit enough to deadlift 365 lbs while running and winning 5Ks, and a bit less scared of approaching girls 6+ inches taller than me even though I haven't gotten a date from one yet. I'm the only person in my family that isn't obese anymore, and the only one that's lived outside continent on two extended periods an… | /r/askTRP | 05/10/19 05:35 PM |
| 1 | I just dont know, what am I just missing?? (Long rant)An iron rule of tomassi is to let her decide why she doesn't want to fuck you. Don't make up things for her. You're not going to ruin your reputation by getting rejected. Look at it this way you're either the virgin that isn't trying or the virgin that is trying. I'd kill to be in your position financially and socially and physically. Get off the fence and embrace your natural gifts and the success you've achieved. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/19 05:25 PM |
| 2 | I just dont know, what am I just missing?? (Long rant)But if I need to stop being scared and gain some balls, how can I do that? This is what i've been struggling.. The scared doesn't go away you literally have to be scared and do it anyway. I just got back into approaching and i've been rejected 10 times in a row now not even getting a phone number but i'm still going to go ask out every tall girl with a huge ass I see even though i'm 5'4. I like tall girls with huge asses, I want one, so i'm going to keep improving my approach until I can do it. … | /r/askTRP | 05/10/19 03:18 PM |
| 4 | I just dont know, what am I just missing?? (Long rant)Post like this are the ones i don't understand. Hot girls calling you hot, dating 7/10 for 7 months and she didn't get bored of you not taking action, in shape, makes lots of money, dresses well, owns property yet the kid says he doesn't get pussy. You're getting tons of pussy, you just don't take it because you're scared. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/19 02:23 PM |
| 28 | The biggest red pill I've ever facedWhen it comes to job interviews the outshine the master idea gets a pass for me. If he's interviewing me I want someone leading me that is both confident in his abilities and recognizes his own position ad the leader enough to not feel threatened. You can't outshine a master in an interview because it's in their frame, but once you're actually working if you do things that make him look bad and make you look good, that's when he has something to prove. Plus, if the outshine the master effect doe… | /r/askTRP | 05/10/19 02:19 PM |
| 17 | Which type of condom is best based off your experience?Skyn Large from Target. Cheap and don't feel tight at all. /u/itiswr1tten is right on loss of sensation from tight condoms. | /r/askTRP | 04/10/19 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Why women are so attracted to criminals/bullies?Your car breaks down in the middle of the highway on your way home from work. Your bank account has $5 in it. You have no family to call on, you've been nursing a thigh injury, and your rent is due in 3 days. Take a deep breath, get out of the car, assess the situation, and find a solution. Any solution. Extreme example but that's the idea. Pull over to side of the road | /r/askTRP | 04/10/19 12:49 AM |
| 2 | Why women are so attracted to criminals/bullies?They mean EVERYTHING. She needs to see you as an unbreakable impenetrable wall of man. Anything less will be used as an opening to weaken you. Their whole job is to keep you on your toes. It's like signing up for a karate class and being able to land a solid hit on the master sensei. You immediately lose respect for him if he doesn't block it and flip you upside down in one move. You have to do this mentally to everything they bring to you, and you have to make it look effortless. You also have … | /r/askTRP | 03/10/19 06:43 PM |
| 2 | Can someone tell me why "Just have confidence (bro)" isn't a complete lie.Confidence comes from within after accomplishing external goals. I'm confident as fuck that I can squat 225 or deadlift 315 cause i've done it a billion times. I'm confident I can talk to a girl because I try to talk to everyone i see. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/19 06:34 PM |
| 2 | Cannot get myself up again, totally broken for more than 3 years... Please helpI mean dude you're 30 and broke and living with your parents. Can't you sell the business, find ANY job, and use your experience turning this business around into material for your resume when applying to better positions? I just don't see how this makes sense when your mental health is suffering to the point where your not running on all cylinders with a difficult to manage business | /r/askTRP | 28/09/19 10:45 PM |
| 2 | Cannot get myself up again, totally broken for more than 3 years... Please helpWhat type of business do you own? Could you potentially find another job to get another income stream since you're broke anyway? If the business is taking all of your time and your family isn't healthy to be around the mental security might be worth it. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/19 08:07 PM |
| 7 | How do I DM a girl on IG with while having low amount of followers?Social media isn't social. It's a hiearchy with social classes. Celebs follow nobody and only respond to other celebrities. The hot girl with 50k followers only responds to people with more. Etc. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/19 07:55 PM |
| 2 | Should I stop approaching girls for some time and focus on working towards my dream/career?You're supposed to be building your dream and approach girls you see on the journey. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/19 01:38 AM |
| 10 | What are the best RP resources on money and career?Corporateland on the sidebar. Helped me get my first job out of college. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/19 08:09 PM |
| 5 | I'm a Beta in LDR with Filipina, Life in ShamblesLDRs don't work. You are unhappy and have the capacity to change it. Stop talking to her, work on yourself, find closer girls. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/19 04:51 PM |
| 1 | What do you do after you've "made it"Maximize your free time while maintaining income. Set a higher goal and reach for it. If I was in your position i'd spend every moment outside of work improving at photography or music. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/19 02:35 PM |
| 3 | How I do be taken more seriouslyThe school system would punish the boy for fighting and the bullies would not get in trouble for taking his money. Great opportunity for teaching the challenging of authority based on your own beliefs. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/19 11:25 PM |
| 101 | If I'm single at 70-something, will I be lonely ...or having lots of divorced/widowed women bugging the hell out of me?I'd rather be alone at 70 than stuck in the same room for the rest of my life with a 70 year old woman who does nothing but complain. Women today complain about everything imaginable and are having careers while only eating processed foods. What makes you think at 70 they're going to be warm inviting people that sing to animals and bake delicious pumpkin pies? | /r/askTRP | 26/09/19 04:12 PM |
| 7 | HS Senior manlet going to HOCO with really hot girl, need advice on how to smash afterDon't focus on what to do after. Focus on being someone she wants to bang before and during. If she wants to bang at the end she'll make it happen. With that said does she already see you as the prize? You seem too excited. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/19 12:20 AM |
| 39 | Are all women more proficient than men in doing subconscious kino?Nobody tells women to stop touching them. People sue men for their entire net worth and threaten jail for touching them, or get disciplined some way else when younger. Growing up in two different environments will cause different outcomes. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/19 08:12 PM |
| 2 | Why is it always sex before a relationship? Shouldn’t it be the opposite?I think you should do whatever you want based on your experiences and your decisions. You shouldn't care what society does or doesn't do because you're an individual person with their own desires and needs. You make yourself happy not society. | /r/askTRP | 23/09/19 03:17 AM |
| 1 | teeth whiteningHow long has it been since you stopped? Do you think they'll always be sensitive? | /r/askTRP | 22/09/19 09:04 PM |
| 5 | teeth whiteningI thought this damaged teeth | /r/askTRP | 22/09/19 07:07 PM |
| 3 | teeth whiteningThis worked for you? | /r/askTRP | 22/09/19 07:06 PM |
| 2 | FWB got a new potential boyfriend and I walked away, did I do the right thing?Unless, like OP, you get butthurt when it breaks. ("I honestly felt like shit when she told me this.") Everyone likes to think that when their ex gets someone else they won't have any feelings about it... until it happens. Just hard next and find someone else so you don't have to deal with the "consequences" of thinking she'd be trying to get you back forever instead of realizing it was your turn and it's over now. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/19 02:06 PM |
| 3 | U.S Dating market from a Latino perspectiveIt's totally reality but i'm 5'5 and a minority and if I believed this I would be a virgin. My N count is still only 3 because I haven't done an approach in months, but this about it's pointless to try if you're not Brad Pitt is just retarded. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/19 01:46 AM |
| 8 | U.S Dating market from a Latino perspectiveI read posts like these and think it's somewhat defeatist. Only being here a few weeks isn't enough to say it's pointless to try if you're not Brad Pitt. I'd say focus on making yourself the best man possible and approach girls you find attractive. Practice game and don't give up on your dreams. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/19 11:18 PM |
| 9 | Parents want me educated so badly, but I don't want to.Get some scholarships, go study software dev in the UK while doing your guitar stuff and building your network. Graduate and get a remote software dev job. Work software dev a couple hours 3 or 4 days a week for a livable wage. By this time you should be getting paid something for your music production or gigs also. Now you're in a position to travel anywhere you want while making a livable income in a job with massive growth potential while focusing on a music career. All this experience will b… | /r/askTRP | 18/09/19 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Can't lift because of shoulder pain and I don't know what to do about itadditional benefit for the rotator cuff muscle It's the most important undertrained muscle. It's almost impossible to overtrain because of how much more chest dominant the body is. Look up face pulls and do body rows(I have to start rows myself) also other rotator cuff workouts. If you neglect a healthy rotator cuff, it could cause serious injury and you'll be doing nothing but leg day for a long time. Can't stress this enough. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/19 10:09 PM |
| 1 | How to get a more defined jaw line and tighter cheeks??I tried it and it wasn't any better or worse than general caloric restrictions with healthy foods. For my body all I know is no matter how hard I go with weights I can't lost fat quickly without cardio regularly. No idea what's up with my body but it's just like that. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 07:01 PM |
| 4 | How to get a more defined jaw line and tighter cheeks??So all of the control groups ate exactly the same amount of and types of food and did the same amount of exercise over the testing periods? | /r/askTRP | 16/09/19 09:31 PM |
| 8 | How to go from approach to sexThe whole point of the coffee or drinks date is plausible deniability for the inevitable sex. If you want to go straight from approach to sex, go clubbing and see who'll have sex in the bathroom I guess. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/19 03:49 AM |
| 5 | why can't you go back and forth between someone being a plate and ltr? why can't you get back together with someone?It seems to me what I have going ATM is pretty good. Then stop looking for reasons to break up with her and just be with her. The biggest flaw I see in all of this is the fact that you're acting like you're better than she is for taking her back, and you're looking on TRP for a reason to get rid of her. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/19 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Is being short the worst card to be dealtHow did you learn this mindset and get into amogging? I'm still young enough to learn. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/19 01:02 PM |
| 4 | wtf to talk about?Do more interesting things in your life and let people do most of the talking anyway. With that said you should be figuring out how to beat those other 40 people at whatever you're doing and be the best one. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/19 10:06 PM |
| 3 | Just quit my job. Was it worth it?Better option would be to keep the income stream until the next step is ready to move onto. Never put all your eggs in one basket. With that said you're already knee deep so get to grinding. Set achievable measureable goals and make sure you're being true to yourself. You'll be fine. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/19 03:47 AM |
| 2 | Should I have said something?Exactly. I was thinking that same thing. Last thing I want to do is make him do anything like that so I treated her as pleasantly as possible. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/19 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Man jailed for 28 years because she "dreamed" that he raped herNow I get where you're coming from. I always had trouble manipulating people because of how I was raised. I'm still learning because i'm not great with building social circles. I have to try and get out there more as i'm currently having a hard time finding a job and have no friends to hang out with. Building power is where I need to improve. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/19 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Man jailed for 28 years because she "dreamed" that he raped herI agree with everything you say. I must be way past the point of believing women lies and society's pressure on women to take action because I took that as a given. I'm not trying to say whether she lied or not. Everything you said was obvious to me the second I read the headline and I didn't need the article to know she probably lied and convinced people. I don't care if the dream happened or not. My comment isn't about the woman at all. It's about a jury so retarded that she literally said "it… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/19 03:40 PM |
| 2 | Man jailed for 28 years because she "dreamed" that he raped herYour comment does have merit. There's a ton of good stuff in it which is why I didn't comment on the rest involving lawyering up, stigma, reputation, and supporters avoiding the public. In regards to the actual case decision, a man was convicted after cross examination in which no evidence was found on the convicted man, but blood was found of someone other than the convicted person. How do you cross examine someone based on a dream? WHY would you cross examine someone based on a dream? "In his … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/19 10:45 PM |
| 14 | Man jailed for 28 years because she "dreamed" that he raped herThe man wasn't convicted "based off a dream". Like the DA said, she was cross-examined and a jury believed her. "The victim first told police it was too dark to identify her attacker, then said it was one of the three men. A day and a half later, she said it came to her in a dream that the assailant was her neighbor, Clarence Moses-El. Based on that, Moses-El, who said he was innocent, was convicted of rape and assault." If that isn't convicted based off of a dream, I don't know what is. Wakes u… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/19 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Plate fucked some other dude behind meI genuinely don't know where people find the time to go through other people's phones | /r/askTRP | 02/09/19 03:26 PM |
| 8 | If a LTR says she wants to take a break and it’s not cuz of “us” “just needs to clear her head” what should I think of this?Woooosh | /r/askTRP | 01/09/19 03:36 PM |
| 5 | Bad at sex holding me backWhile that is true, the only thing holding you back is your brain. That book changed my life about 1 session after I read it. I say read that book 2-3 times at first and skim once a year. Never had a problem since and I was just like you with only 3 or so times under my belt prior. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/19 01:48 AM |
| 5 | Why do some girls have fewer followers?Followers can never be created nor destroyed. The first law of thermhoedynamics. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/19 11:46 PM |
| 1 | First time since redpill a girl is playing super hard to get. She is playing with my (m28) head and I don't know if I really like her or just want to fuck her...?You shoulda stopped the hookup when she denied too many times and went on your phone to check your emails. Then she would be like what's wrong. Then you're like nothing just not feeling it anymore. No worries. Then she's like are you mad at me? Then you're like no problem at all. And just stop paying attention to her until she either unzips your pants or leaves. She invites me over, cooks for me all the time, always free to meet up, is interested in my hobbies, buys me gifts randomly. You're spe… | /r/askTRP | 26/08/19 11:42 PM |
| 1 | "Can you make up my shopping money today?"I'm inclined to be generous because she comes from a poor background and struggles (single mom). Get this out of your head as soon as fucking possible. Did this with a LTR who "loved me" from a single mom household who "loved me" and there is absolutely 0 appreciation or thankfulness. Plus don't think this improves your chances of sex in any way. The second a better provider comes along you are trash. You'll feel like a dumbass every time you pay for something and you'll feel fucking retarded wh… | /r/askTRP | 24/08/19 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Met plate's friend and I'm totally into her.I don't sense any oneitis in what you're saying, but I do sense that you're forgetting it's only your turn. There's risk in this that you can only minimize but nothing is a sure fire way of getting this other girl without potentially breaking the plate. If you're tired of current plate alright but she's not special. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/19 08:29 PM |
| 11 | Seeing and talking to past Oneitis brings me back downStop spending time with her. Every minute you spend with her is one day deeper into orbiter status. I made a move on a past oneitis and pretty much ended the friendship in one foul swoop. Best decision I ever made in the 9 years I was pining over her. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/19 05:32 PM |
| 5 | Met plate's friend and I'm totally into her.You've already got preselection going for you because you were with your plate. Chances are they've already talked about you being good in bed since the plate likes you enough to take you out with those friends. Did you already establish with your plate that you are dating other girls? Was the friend receptive and reciprocating interest while you were out with them? Does the plate know her place or is she pushing for a relationship? I'd say go out with them all again at some point and find commo… | /r/askTRP | 23/08/19 05:25 PM |
| 5 | Which gaming books are good practical guides?The Book of Pook is the best gaming book | /r/askTRP | 20/08/19 10:50 PM |
| 3 | Can someone help a young man with a question regarding condoms?For me Skyn Lifestyles Large changed the game. The regulars were too tight but I didn't realize until i tried the large and it just rolled on easily. Plus they feel the best to me and haven't broken yet(knock on wood). Also never buy from CVS. They mark up the price like 300%. Buy from Target or Walmart. CVS will sell you a $6 box for $18. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/19 01:56 PM |
| 5 | Isn't Dan Bilzerian TRP end goal?But how do these people not realize that everyone around him is with him for the money and that most of the girls are paid to be there? 95% of social media accounts exist for getting dopamine from likes. Bilzerian has ass in his pictures, always has his shirt off, and never looks like he's working hard at anything except the occasional gym video. He's the peak of what people on social media want to be when they have nothing going on. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/19 09:46 PM |
| 4 | Isn't Dan Bilzerian TRP end goal?I used to make videos for a living. Never vlogs or things of that nature, but in between editing and actually getting the content, it takes a LOT of time. I have no doubt Bilzerian is constantly surrounded by beautiful women who want to be around him. I also know that keeping those girls around him costs him way much more time than money. Bilzerian is what happens when any rich stoner inherits more money than he can spend. Goes to military to prove he's tough, never actually gets deployed, comes… | /r/askTRP | 17/08/19 03:16 PM |
| 12 | Isn't Dan Bilzerian TRP end goal?Look up how he got kicked out of SEAL training, look up how the other SEALS feel about him. Besides, until you're actually deployed all he did was use up the military's money to train him and make it go to waste by being an asshole. Also, about the poker. I'm not calling him a liar, but anything you look up about his poker is "Dan Bilzerian said he won 50m in x year." And there's no proof anywhere because "he doesn't play professionals and all of his games are cash deals." Smells like grade A bu… | /r/askTRP | 17/08/19 03:07 PM |
| 35 | Isn't Dan Bilzerian TRP end goal?Dan Bilzerian is the personification of low self-esteem. Inherited tons of cash so he never had to work hard if he didn't want to, hangs out with fitness dudes 10-15 years younger than him, pays a hoard of girls to be around him constantly for his own validation, shoots guns all day because "it's cool" and goes on podcasts talking about "x happened in vegas when I was high as fuck just finished banging this chick. Also buy my weed products." I'm not telling him or anybody how to live their life,… | /r/askTRP | 17/08/19 02:46 PM |
| 38 | LTR asked if it would bother me if she went for dinner with an old friendI read through all of your responses to this and here's what I got. The bad news: The break up is probably gonna hurt you more than it hurts her. The good news(even though right now it doesn't feel like this at all): you're better off without her, you're gonna find someone with a better ass who likes you a lot more and respects your opinion after this heartbreak begins to turn you into a stronger and more capable man. Diamonds are made under pressure. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/19 05:03 AM |
| 5 | Does anyone have any theory or predictions about Red Pill Awareness surfacing on Social Media platforms like Facebook?One of the laws of power. Think as you like but act like the crowd. Social media is not the place to be active at all. Post some things that raise your smv if you have the content, use it to build your business. Other than that it's a waste of time for impressing people that don't care about you. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/19 11:42 PM |
| 4 | How to differentiate between a woman flirting for validation and a woman actually interestedThank you sincerely for giving your point of view, I'm still waiting for the gem. See that's your problem. You can't wait on what you want in this life. Go out and get what you want. The sidebar is that 10% extra help you're looking for. As for getting tired of giving attention, no I don't get tired of it. Because I don't go to anything with the intention of meeting girls. I go for business, to have fun, or to make myself a better person, or to improve skills. If a girl rejects you it shouldn't … | /r/askTRP | 16/08/19 03:23 AM |
| 2 | How to differentiate between a woman flirting for validation and a woman actually interestedWhat if I didn't write the suggestion was from a woman? I bet the discussion would be different, but it's too late. The advice is crap regardless of the mouth, but since you insist, i'll make an analogy for you. If you're going to learn the basics of how to drive a car, and your only options are a driving instructor with 15 years of experience, or someone who has never seen a car in their life, who are you going to pick? If your toilet stops working, are you going to call a plumber, or a full ti… | /r/askTRP | 16/08/19 02:44 AM |
| 11 | How to differentiate between a woman flirting for validation and a woman actually interestedThe reason the don't take advice from women thing is said around here is because the advice is emotional instead of logical. Instead of answering your one point of confusion, she split it into two and now you're trying to gauge her level of flirtiness with other people while also watching her "anxiety levels" and decide if she's self-confident yada yada yada. You're scared of rejection that's the main point of this post. Want to know why she's flirting? Ask her out and try to get alone with her.… | /r/askTRP | 16/08/19 01:04 AM |
| 2 | Lost in the knowledge of TRPIt all resolves to this. Be your ideal man. Eat healthy and exercise to get a fit and in shape body. Build your finances and skills so you can take care of yourself and finance the life you desire. Learn to communicate by putting yourself in situations where you can communicate by people and learn(approach girls facing rejection and go to social events that involve your hobbies). Do those 3 things and consciously work to improve at the parts your not good at. Eventually you'll be the man you wan… | /r/askTRP | 15/08/19 03:09 AM |
| 2 | Coming to terms with being attractiveheight means getting your foot in the door then getting kicked out when you have no game. Part of game is not dressing like a hipster faggot and being 25% bodyfat. I never said YOU were always attractive. You had no game and were physically awful. Now you're fine physically with still awful game, hence why you called yourself a lonely retard at the end of your post. I'm just going to stop commenting on here because if people don't read the sidebar, why would they thoroughly read a response to th… | /r/askTRP | 13/08/19 02:56 PM |
| 4 | Coming to terms with being attractiveI get why endorsed contributors don't respond to questions like these. The second I read the title I knew the answer to the question. So much basic stuff that could be learned from one read of the sidebar and a bit of self confidence. It gets me angry because dude has so much potential and it's being wasted because at some point someone told him he wasn't worth anything when he was younger without telling him he could be the man he always wanted to be. It gets me angry because you have all of th… | /r/askTRP | 13/08/19 03:00 AM |
| 4 | Coming to terms with being attractiveMost are receptive when I talk to them but you’re acting like all I have to do is exist to get laid without any effort That's not what I said at all. I'm saying that when people have always been attractive and they're so used to people being overly friendly they think people treat every other person like that. I used height as a simple example to frame what I was saying. OP has girls introducing themselves to him for whatever reason, and he's not getting anywhere because he has no drive to go af… | /r/askTRP | 13/08/19 02:49 AM |
| -12 | Coming to terms with being attractivePlease add something to the discussion that the OP created the post for. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/19 11:01 PM |
| 39 | Coming to terms with being attractiveYeah dude 2 girls tried to fuck you and you said no thanks i'm a lonely retard and posted about it on reddit. This is the shit why people over 6'2 have to explain to short people like me why having height means getting your foot in the door then getting kicked out when you have no game. At the same time it's the fishbowl analogy where tall attractive people that have been that their whole life think shit like this is just people being friendly. Until I got attractive and started improving my dre… | /r/askTRP | 12/08/19 10:19 PM |
| 3 | Girl I haven't fucked yet invited me to her place to smoke with her roommatesI was in your exact situation except she lived with 4 other girls in the same place and I was able to close that night. I say go for it with the intention of having fun. Worst case scenario free smoke sesh. Everyone knows why you're there. Just make sure you're being you and not trying to be one of the girls. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/19 01:59 AM |
| 2 | Can you be red pilled and still your SO would leave you?There's always a bigger fish. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/18 03:06 PM |
| 3 | Back to square 1. What’s a fella to do next?Stop wishing more men were successful and start becoming a woman deserving of a successful man. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/18 07:21 AM |
| 5 | Back to square 1. What’s a fella to do next?Are you joking? It pays off every single day of my life when I look in the mirror and see someone better than yesterday. Like I give a damn what redpillwomen thinks or when they decide I have enough resources for them to extract. You have no idea what I've been through. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/18 11:46 PM |
| 16 | Back to square 1. What’s a fella to do next?Get a job and strictly follow a lifting program. You are exactly me from 3 years ago. Don't take her back in a few months. DO NOT take her back. DO NOT. Lift like your life depends on it and get a job. Shit get 2 jobs if you can handle it. Save your money and DON'T spend it all when college gets back in session. Think about a club you want to start or get on e-board with because it means something to you for when you get back to college. Start thinking about internships for next summer NOW. Or e… | /r/askTRP | 24/04/18 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Does getting past the anger phase just mean you start getting laid regularly?Alright. Thank you very much. I'll see who I can talk to at my current job and see what I can do. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/18 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Does getting past the anger phase just mean you start getting laid regularly?Oh...well that's somewhat disheartening. I'm still proud of myself for learning though and I've already used it to communicate in France when some people didn't know English. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/18 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Does getting past the anger phase just mean you start getting laid regularly?At first i wanted to learn just to be able to talk to my friends back home that I played soccer with. But with the increasing spanish population in the US it's just a good skill to have in general | /r/askTRP | 23/04/18 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Does getting past the anger phase just mean you start getting laid regularly?Okay. So get a shitty job and work at it until they teach me more stuff. I guys that's where internships come in. As of now I've shown value at my current internship. Is there any way to transfer that to other businesses even if I Have to lie a little bit. I work my ass off there | /r/askTRP | 23/04/18 04:52 PM |
| 2 | Does getting past the anger phase just mean you start getting laid regularly?Some folks go to school to learn skills. Some folks get shitty low paying jobs to learn skills. I prefer shitty low paying jobs -- learn skills on someone else's dime and then find an employer who appreciates those skills. Right now I know I'm good at math. When given formulas and a few hours of practice I can memorize almost anything. When it comes to numbers I'm damn good. I'm also a good writer and communicator. I was thinking of aiming to be a stockbroker because it would be a good job in sa… | /r/askTRP | 23/04/18 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Does getting past the anger phase just mean you start getting laid regularly?I fucked 2 girls. One was an ex that I finally got to put out and the other we had sex very regularly but I can't classify as a plate since she was the only girl I was fucking at the time. I left to study abroad also so that broke. I can re-read the sidebar and keep working on getting rid of my self-hate. I think the self-hate will go away if I can secure myself financially right now and for the coming years. College debt that I didn't find scholarships for etc. I don't have a secure job for whe… | /r/askTRP | 23/04/18 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Does getting past the anger phase just mean you start getting laid regularly?I wanted to see the world and learn Spanish so I went to study abroad and I'm the first person in my family to live outside America. I lift to get a better body and I'm currently cutting because regardless of size I'm unhappy with my fat level. I'm looking for jobs and learning how to find a job(Way harder than I thought.) I taught myself a skill and started a club that ended up failing but I tried my best with it + I am decent at the skill now now. I'm getting better and communicating with peop… | /r/askTRP | 23/04/18 03:22 PM |
| 4 | The Red Pill has wrecked me completely.Lol...I gotto rewatch this movie now. I had no idea the importance of Cipher until now that I'm older. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/18 05:41 PM |
| 1 | I've put myself in a "Fake Chad" situationok | /r/askTRP | 19/04/18 08:51 PM |
| 1 | I've put myself in a "Fake Chad" situationDude how is your comment helping or hurting anyone. You look like an internet troll with nothing going on in his life. If you're gonna post like that then do it where the person OBVIOUSLY hasn't even considered reading the sidebar. Not someone with an informed and genuine question. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/18 07:30 PM |
| 2 | Should tell a WILLING friend about TRP?Show him some black phillip podcasts with Patrice O Neal so he's laughing while Patrice explains the concepts without time to rationalize why they're wrong. If he enjoys those and listens to all 13 he'll be ahead of most men. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 08:38 PM |
| 3 | Best martial arts for self defense?Do not waste money on Udemy self defense or any online self defense course. You need hand to hand sparring practice in a gym/ dojo. No decent basketball player has zero practice on the field. No decent climber has zero hands on practice. You can not learn to defend yourself solely from a book or video. You have to get on the mat and practice against a controlled attacker. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/18 10:59 AM |
| 1 | 40+ year old father gets laid like a warlord and here's howHow long did you plate her before entering a LTR and how long did you LTR before marriage? | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/18 10:42 AM |
| 1 | How did I do with this girl I went for coffee and drinks with?Oh no i didn't plan on kinoing and escalating to making out. I legit meant just touching her arm during the part of the conversation directly about making out in the park, but you're right. No point in building that tension with no chance of sex right then. Ill think of places to fuck but my options are really limited. Park is possible but the logistics of getting there would be difficult. I've never done anything in public before and idk how dangerous the park would be at night. My friend fucke… | /r/askTRP | 10/04/18 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Accidentally friend zoned myself..what to do now?How to get out of the friendzone: Stop spending time with her, contacting her, giving her your attention. How to get multiple girls to casually hook up with: Say hi to enough girls that make your dick hard until you meet enough that let you meat them. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/18 09:11 PM |
| 1 | How did I do with this girl I went for coffee and drinks with?The whole thing was an hour to an hour and a half. I invited her for coffee to relax because I was going to do that either way and i think she's attractive so I figured I'd give her a shot at being fun/ entertaining me. The dance thing is a few days from now where I said I'd let her know if it works out. We are gonna get drinks and go dancing and if she flakes ill meet my good friends at the club 5 minutes away. I enjoyed myself the whole time and got back early to make it to my job and eat. So … | /r/askTRP | 10/04/18 08:49 PM |
| 1 | How did I do with this girl I went for coffee and drinks with?I didn't do most of the kino until the end but she seemed fine with what I did. Thank you very much for your time. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/18 07:58 PM |
| 2 | How did I do with this girl I went for coffee and drinks with?Because we're both studying abroad and live with host families. Plus I had to go eat lunch at the time and get ready to go to my post class job here and then the gym. Because I knew I wasn't bringing her back now earlier in the talk I specifically steered the conversation towards PDA in this country such as parks people to go to make out and basically have sex at, and how people need to get airbnbs or hotel rooms to have sex and how that's not possible in every country to see how she would handl… | /r/askTRP | 10/04/18 07:56 PM |
| 2 | I'm 28, matched with a 18y old on Tinder. Not quite sure of my feelings here.Pretty sure this is canon to Rational Male | /r/askTRP | 10/04/18 06:26 PM |
| 12 | Asked a girl out twice for brunch and she flakedYeah that's the point. When a girl is into you, you might as well be Brad Pitt because they'll go to great lengths for your time, affection, and dick. When they're not they'll 'sleep in' on someone else's dick. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/18 09:10 PM |
| 3 | Am I gay? (serious thread) What can I do if I like anal sex but dont like men?Nofap isn't the important one. No porn is. I think occasionally masturbating without porn is fine. If what you're saying is accurate you just chill and watch tranny porn without even masturbating then like it's TV or something. That will really mess up your head. Watch Your Brain on Porn on YouTube and then refrain from porn for 2 months. Really give it a shot without just saying nothing will change. When I cut porn out a ton of fetishes I thought I had disappeared but i realized that I had just… | /r/askTRP | 04/04/18 09:42 PM |
| 10 | Am I gay? (serious thread) What can I do if I like anal sex but dont like men?My best advice is to go porn and masturbation free for 2 months and see if you still have these fetishes. I'm not a nofap person but this is so out there that you should at least try before trying to find this. From my experience women love switching to be the dominant role occasionally. Just for the psychology of it. If you go nofap and no porn and still have these desires, you do the exact same thing trp tells you and then legit just buy her a strap on and tell her what you want during sex. Sh… | /r/askTRP | 04/04/18 09:15 PM |
| 0 | How do I know if I’m good-looking enough?I'm 5'5 and my working bench set is 205, my working squat is 255 and my working OHP is 125, and I'm still bulking. My bodyfat is higher than I'd like but what I'm saying is you're way too skinny. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/18 11:47 AM |
| 6 | Male Behavioral ArchetypesGayLubeOil said very recently that men have a borderline autistic drive to find patterns through analysis of information. This comment attempting to distill the information in the previous, directly under the great wall of text in the post above it about behavioral traits is hilarious to me. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/18 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Update on the girl I fucked 15 seconds then stopped me. I developed oneitis for heryou right | /r/askTRP | 02/04/18 10:30 PM |
| 5 | Update on the girl I fucked 15 seconds then stopped me. I developed oneitis for herAlways use a condom. Don't be a fucking idiot | /r/askTRP | 02/04/18 09:50 PM |
| 2 | Did I dodge a bullet or lose out?How you get them is how you lose them. She cheated on him to be with you. Now she's cheating on you to be with him. You dodged a bullet. Essentially you're missing out on a local farm giving away free bags of cow shit. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/18 05:13 PM |
| 82 | Don't Get Alphaed by Red Pi AlphasI genuinely can't tell if this is serious or not. I love this subreddit. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/18 10:25 PM |
| 0 | LTR after plating themYou're complaining that girls find other men attractive. They can't go against their nature. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/18 10:01 AM |
| 1 | It really works, where to do go from here?Tell her to come over and act like nothing happened. Enjoy yourself and fuck her. If she tries to talk about it at any point amused mastery. She is a plate not a LTR. You shouldn't be having any emotional discussions with her. How often do you talk to your dinner plate after eating dinner? it took a while for me to learn this but you really don't have to care about their problems at all. If they like you then nothing is your fault if you act with confidence. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/18 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Exclusive But Not Committed? Translation RequestHow long have you been seeing her? Potential LTR begins at minimum 6 months of uncommitted plate status. This is a challenge to you. She's looking to see if you'll give up other pussy to keep her around. Exclusive but not committed is some straight up bullshit. Here's how you handle it. Act like she never said anything and go fuck other chicks. Maintain amused mastery. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/18 11:53 PM |
| 3 | Why so much focus on lifting?I lift because I want to be strong and have the body of the sculpture of Hercules presented in the Lourve Museum. I only get one body and I want it to be the best it can be. I also love soccer so I have to work on agility, speed, balance, and body control. But that's not the reason lifting is advice number one. It's advice number one because happiness comes from self discipline and looking at the effort you've put into becoming the man you imagined yourself to be since you were young. A strong m… | /r/askTRP | 30/03/18 01:22 PM |
| 3 | I think I am being pursued by the Tchetchen mafia because of my gf.Bro I nexted a girl because she got a nose ring. As far as you're concerned you don't know who this girl is anymore. | /r/askTRP | 24/03/18 09:23 AM |
| 1 | Drinking water is ruining my sleep.No supplements at all | /r/askTRP | 23/03/18 09:52 AM |
| 1 | Drinking water is ruining my sleep.Okay I'll find a doctor as soon as possible. Thank you for the comparison. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/18 09:38 AM |
| 1 | Drinking water is ruining my sleep.No I have only been having water for about a year now but upped my intake recently because I realized I wasn't having enough. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/18 09:38 AM |
| 2 | Drinking water is ruining my sleep.Okay | /r/askTRP | 23/03/18 09:09 AM |
| 1 | Drinking water is ruining my sleep.Yeah this is pretty much every night. I'm only 21 and pretty athletic so i figured it was the water but I'll see a doctor. Unfortunately I'm in a foreign country right now so it'll be somewhat difficult | /r/askTRP | 23/03/18 09:09 AM |
| 3 | Drinking water is ruining my sleep.I've just been having many more glasses throughout the day. At night one or two with dinner. I eat late. Ill try to avoid this though. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/18 07:33 AM |
| 4 | Is it possible to have a healthy relationship with porn?Use to jackoff 5 times a day and lay in a puddle of my cum calling myself a loser. I hope one day when I am finally spinning plates I can have a healthy relationship with it. Yeah that's gonna be a no for me fam. Just stop. It's only porn. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/18 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Does it make any sense to be intimidated by a females looks? It seems hard not to but maybe I'm still in the beta phaseI'll definitely work on all of this. Thank you very much for your time. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/18 08:07 AM |
| 4 | I can’t get over being really ugly, making me too damn nervous to approach.I'm intrigued | /r/askTRP | 21/03/18 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Does it make any sense to be intimidated by a females looks? It seems hard not to but maybe I'm still in the beta phaseIf you really want to make a woman crazy for you, focus on her flaws but never mention it. If she has a big nose, focus more on her nose. If she has a big ass, when you touch her back and stroke down make sure to immediately pull your hand away from her ass. It's pure comedy. Don't even point out her flaws, just make sure she notices you noticing them. Your sex life changes for the better. Please note that advertisers and most of the wealthy lords of industry make sure to focus on people's weakn… | /r/askTRP | 21/03/18 10:58 PM |
| 3 | Does it make any sense to be intimidated by a females looks? It seems hard not to but maybe I'm still in the beta phaseThis legitimately might change how I see the world. I always keep an eye out for your posts but this one struck me. I've been approaching 5 people (girls and guys but minimum one attractive girl) every day for a week now but I'm going to keep an eye out now with this thought in mind. Same with your ones on saving and investing as I'm really trying to find work for summer right now. I have one job set up at a grocery store with good tips but I don't see how that will help advance any career. I'm … | /r/askTRP | 21/03/18 10:25 PM |
| 7 | Does it make any sense to be intimidated by a females looks? It seems hard not to but maybe I'm still in the beta phaseWomen are generally uglier than men, but men are easily duped by fake beauty. I swear TRP makes me realize something new every day. I've seen so many pictures of women without makeup and they've been ugly as fuck after. I've seen women in person without makeup and I've thought the same. Yet it wasn't until now I realized that men are naturally more facially attractive in general. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/18 10:08 PM |
| 2 | Is it dumb to break up with LTR for not sucking my penis?Be dominant during sex and tell her what you want while moving to do it as if she already had been begging for it. Don't discuss it outside of sex because she won't be thinking in the moment and it'll feel like a chore for her. Just do it during. If she responds well then alright. If everything else is good then she'll most likely be more than happy to do it. If not then continue with something else dominant like nothing happened and try again another time. If it doesn't work again then reevalua… | /r/askTRP | 21/03/18 08:00 AM |
| 1 | Is fighting ever justified?If your ego is that fragile then that's on you. Letting someone walk over you is putting up with bullshit and disrespect just to maintain a relationship with them. Walking away from someone trying to antagonize you is something to keep your head high about. Walking away from anything comes from a place of power and restraint because you don't need it in your life. Let's say someone is calling you racial slurs, calling you a bitch, saying your mom is a cunt who raised a pussy and your dad should … | /r/askTRP | 21/03/18 07:45 AM |
| 10 | How much should you tell your friends?I apply the never kiss and tell amused mastery dynamic to both girls and guys with this. Make your accomplishments seem effortless. Making jokes anywhere in between "who's she?" To "what nah I'm gay" because they both work for my frame. Plus it's impossible for her to not tell her friends all of the sex details. Let her run her mouth and stay quiet about everything since you're busy living your life. Don't be surprised when other girls try to figure out what sex with a 'natural' is like since sh… | /r/askTRP | 21/03/18 12:26 AM |
| 5 | Do college age girls hate real dates? Study abroad logistics for sex?SMV it is then. Lift more be more successful gain respect. Got it. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/18 07:24 AM |
| 1 | Do college age girls hate real dates? Study abroad logistics for sex?I mean I'm in Spain. I have mostly been trying to get with u.s. girls but Spanish girls seem really easy for the right guy. I've already met a cuckolding girl trying to threeway my 2 friends while her boyfriend stays home on weekends. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/18 07:22 AM |
| 52 | Is fighting ever justified?Dead and 10 years in prison vs people who he barely knows thinking less of him for not fighting an obviously ignorant and insecure racist. Nobody of value approves of physical violence. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/18 07:03 AM |
| 2 | Goodlooking MateIf it was easy everybody would be jacked and shredded. I've come to terms with the fact that I'm skinny and will be looking skinnyfat for a while before I get reasonable numbers and arms and chest that I'm proud of. Do it or don't. Personally, I'm 5'5 and would fucking KILL to be 5'11. Fucking kill. I weigh more than you already. It's one of those things that you don't realize how lucky you are because it's how you've lived your whole life. I'm not using it as an excuse for not getting pussy bec… | /r/askTRP | 18/03/18 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Goodlooking MateMore protein and fat. Less carbs. Eat for the body you want not the body you have. You want to be 200 lbs lean? Eat 200g of protein per pound of body weight. Build on that. You're 145 lbs because you're eating enough protein for a 145lb person. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/18 11:14 PM |
| 5 | What do women on Tinder do when they realize there aren't enough Chads to go around?Good bot. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/18 04:39 PM |
| 2 | What do women on Tinder do when they realize there aren't enough Chads to go around?Women (as a whole) are less obese, work out more, eat better and take better care of their skin/hair/teeth. Basic maintenance of your body isn't much self improvement. The hottest girls I have ever met know what a deadlift is and know what progressive overload is. On top of that, I know men that have read fucking philosophy books and memoirs of successful men attempting to learn the keys on how to fuck a girl. No girl needs philosophy to get dick. And when top guys just feel like fucking somethi… | /r/askTRP | 17/03/18 04:37 PM |
| 29 | What do women on Tinder do when they realize there aren't enough Chads to go around?Women don't go without sex they go without relationships. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/18 02:50 PM |
| 87 | Smartest girl I ever met is happiest when she is multibillionaire’s loverAWALT. AWALT. AWALT. AWALT. AWALT. AWALT. But what a- AWALT. She's so innocen- AWALT. I texted her but she responds really late and -AWALT. She could have been busy with- AWALT. She said maybe we could be something in the fut- AWALT. She just wants a guy who treats her right and really cares for h- AWALT. You all say she isn't mine it's just my turn, but she is so different and said she wants to be together fo- AWALT. She danced with me and made out with me but left with my frie- AWALT. But she … | /r/askTRP | 16/03/18 10:19 AM |
| 1 | Am I wrong for wanting an LTR in college?Get 2 fwb and cycle 1 plate. Should be simple as hell for you. A LTR isn't worth it at your age. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/18 10:01 AM |
| 1 | "Hey :) sorry i didn't respond to your text yesterday I was quite busy..." next or?Alright. Delete phone number and game more. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/18 07:02 PM |
| 2 | Why do I always become unattracted to women once they're into me?Contrary to AWALT, not all women are equal. This is more parallel to AWALT rather than contrary. AWALT is in regards to basic biological and instinctual nature but there's definitely hotter women who behave differently for different men and are mentally comfortable with submissiveness. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/18 08:08 PM |
| 3 | How do you guys handle the "Don't pay for her food" deal?Okay | /r/askTRP | 13/03/18 02:29 PM |
| 2 | How do you guys handle the "Don't pay for her food" deal?"I can't go because I've failed at life and have no money" are the last thing I want to illicit. Just offer to buy and avoid all possibility if that. The financially capable will do the same back to you next time. It's about making things NOT about the money. It took me a while but you gotta learn to stop overthinking bro. That's a pretty harsh thing to assume someone would think. In that event I'd just get my bro a drink or food or whatever if he couldn't at the moment but I wanted to see the d… | /r/askTRP | 13/03/18 01:09 PM |
| 6 | How do you guys handle the "Don't pay for her food" deal?. If I'm the one pressuring because I want to go out, then you better believe I'm picking up the check. A female date is no different. Your problem is you're pressuring people to go out. Why not just spend time with people(men and women) who want to spend time with you and are more than happy to cover the expenses. They can say no if they don't want to do it. This goes beyond money to just being around people who enjoy your company. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/18 11:37 AM |
| 2 | My FWB from home just called me and said she might report one of my friends for 'basically raping' her friend.She's not my fwb anymore. She is a girl I know that would potentially report rape behind someone's back. Fuck even plate status. Things were fine before this with her. But I don't fuck with that. Not leaving this man hanging can easily turn into a fuck ton of other unnecessary shit that I'd have to deal with. I'm not throwing my dude under the bus but if he needs me specifically he'll find me. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/18 08:49 AM |
| 2 | My FWB from home just called me and said she might report one of my friends for 'basically raping' her friend.it just feels wrong TRP taught me a WHOLE lotta shit. The best thing so far has been that just because something FEELS right or wrong, doesn't mean shit. Following that feeling is acting like an irrational woman. Worst case scenario even if he was my best friend since grade school of me getting involved is me somehow getting hit with a rape case from my FWB(who instantly got mentally demoted to plate when she tells me this). Not to mention he could straight up not believe me. Worst case scenario… | /r/askTRP | 13/03/18 08:00 AM |
| 8 | Advice needed: Using 'What's your price' online datingHe's 100% right and you getting mad and saying fuck you is part of swallowing the pill. This is good. That fuck you will turn into thank you very soon. Girls do what you said this girl did absolutely for free. And then they fuck the guy on the first date. And then they let him fuck her whenever they want. And they cook you dinner and bring you food and sit in your lap and offer to fold your clothes. You have to become a man women want to do this for the moment you walk into a room. And you don't… | /r/askTRP | 13/03/18 07:52 AM |
| 2 | My FWB from home just called me and said she might report one of my friends for 'basically raping' her friend.I don't know shit. I dont know if he has a rape case or not. I don't know what this girl is actually gonna do. I didn't say shit telling her to report him. Me telling him is just as retarded as her getting involved with her friend's business. I dont know shit, not assuming anything, and I'm gonna get on with my life. The dude is my friend but it's no childhood friend shit and he's not family. And no way in hell he'd go out of his way for me. He's s good dude but no fucking way I'm getting a pote… | /r/askTRP | 13/03/18 07:43 AM |
| 1 | My FWB from home just called me and said she might report one of my friends for 'basically raping' her friend.Got it. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/18 07:38 AM |
| 1 | My FWB from home just called me and said she might report one of my friends for 'basically raping' her friend.You should’ve told your FWB to not get involved beyond supporting her friend if her friend decides to report it. It’s not your FWB’s place to be reporting this. After I hung up I immediately realized I fucked up hard by not saying this. It came out of nowhere and I had no idea how to react. I feel like calling her back and telling her this might cause her to want to do it even more and might get me more involved than I want to be. Is there anything I can do? This shit has me fucking scared for m… | /r/askTRP | 12/03/18 11:54 PM |
| 3 | Is the road to redemption a pipe dream?Read the sidebar and learn about abundance mentality. There are 3,999,999,980 other women that you can try out what you learn from this subreddit. It's always a better investment to create new relationships than attempt to fix old ones. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/18 11:20 PM |
| 31 | Just recently I got access to my GF's phoneWho cares what she does or doesn't understand. She definitely doesn't and didn't give a fuck if he understood why she was messaging other guys for dick. You do it by not giving her any attention, not responding to her messages, and meeting other girls who deserve your attention. Increase SMV and move on. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/18 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Talking with my dad is mentally excruciating and exhausting. How do I fix this?For years | /r/askTRP | 11/03/18 08:00 AM |
| 1 | Talking with my dad is mentally excruciating and exhausting. How do I fix this?You misunderstood the tone of my post. I included all of those things because he's doing everything he knows how to do and I KNOW it shouldn't feel this way to talk to him. I don't experience this feeling with anybody else and it's been like this for a decade. It's not something I can turn on and off. My dad worked his whole life to provide a great life for me despite how hard life has been to him. I'm incredibly lucky to have a father like him. That's why I'm asking this. I want to be able to b… | /r/askTRP | 10/03/18 07:27 PM |
| 4 | askTRP Megathread March 07I mean I'd hate to use my height as an excuse for not getting pussy. In the end it's a numbers game that I'm not hitting enough numbers on. I made peace with my height or at least I think I have. It's better for some plays in soccer plus I have a big personality. Girls that don't want to fuck are literally missing out on some of the best sex they can have considering I understand that when girl's starfish they're basically saying use me. Plus my body isn't maxed out yet. I one day might have gir… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/18 11:43 PM |
| 2 | askTRP Megathread March 07I definitely could try more. I'm 5'5. I weigh about 155. Not sure my bodyfat% but it DEFINITELY could be lower because I can't see my abs(recently cut out eating anything between meals to avoid extra calories to see how it works out). I can post a body picture. Bench max about 225, squat 250x5, deadlift 315x5, ohp 135x1. I usually ask out a girl a week since my college campus was so small and word would get around fast for literally everything. Technically I've been on dates with 2 girls and my … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/18 10:44 PM |
| 2 | askTRP Megathread March 07The girl I met said earlier this week said she likes going to bars and I do too as long as its with fun people. I don't like going alone because really I like conversation. I guess I could meet other people if she flakes. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/18 10:29 PM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread March 07Okay. I was going to ask friday morning because she mentioned having to study for an exam or something at some point this week, but if I ask tomorrow and she can't then maybe reschedule for Friday instead. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/18 10:03 PM |
| 2 | askTRP Megathread March 07Makes a ton of sense. Thank you for all of your help. I'll message them tomorrow afternoon then. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/18 10:01 PM |
| 3 | askTRP Megathread March 07Do you always ask the same day you're going? | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/18 08:53 PM |
| 7 | askTRP Megathread March 07I haven't been on a date ever. I've always gotten rejected for dates or flaked on. I could do it without phone but I'm usually on my way somewhere I can't just get drinks right there | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/18 06:31 PM |
| 3 | askTRP Megathread March 07Always the second one except I've been saying come with me. Ill try the you should join me instead | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/18 06:28 PM |
| 16 | askTRP Megathread March 07I've never been able to set up a date through phone number. I have two numbers right now for girls I'm gonna ask out on Friday. Is it really as simple as hey...-3 texts banter-... lets get drinks tonight at x at x time. Because I've always gotten flakes even on girls that seemed really interested. And now I've seen that post from an endorsed saying his dad said to completely ignore girls to get them interested. Not to talk to them etc. I don't know why I keep getting flakes | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/18 04:33 PM |
| 2 | A Red Pill Haven; Black Barbershops.This is exactly my life from middle school to college. I was severely fucked before TRP. You all saved my life. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/03/18 12:40 AM |
| 2 | The man in the mirror.It doesn't matter how much you make, it's how you spend it that matters. Work towards being a free man. Break your shackles. All the money in the world couldn't buy what my dad needed then: a man who had freedom and the strength to make sure they stayed that way. All of this rings true. Every day is an opportunity to be better than before. These financial shackles are the only thing holding me back from being able to be confident in myself right now. I will get a good job. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/18 02:29 AM |
| 2 | The man in the mirror.You posted this on my birthday but I'm just seeing it. I am currently a student studying abroad in Spain so that I could learn Spanish. A few hours ago I got back to my host house after seeing Barcelona play. I vowed that I would see Messi, Iniesta, and Busquets play once in my life before they retired, and my parents gifted me a trip to the city to watch the game. I worked hard enough to get my grades up to be able to study abroad, I took the plunge to move away from family and friends, and I l… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/18 02:06 AM |
| 11 | my ex hit me up on fb after no contact for two years. i broke up with her by cucking her. is she trying to fuck?Y'all are both fucking insane | /r/askTRP | 02/03/18 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Not sure about TRP, Messaged my ex, some perspective?Good luck. We can't help you. | /r/askTRP | 02/03/18 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Not sure about TRP, Messaged my ex, some perspective?I don't like being treated this way so I told her that Words mean nothing to women and you can't negotiate desire. The correct thing to do is withdraw attention and show her you dont like being treated that way by gaming women that treat you the way you want to be treated. I'm just gonna tell her that I didn't wanna end things on a bad note. knowing that I will be in her country in the next year and she will visit mine regularly every year, I'm gonna keep her as an option for some fun when she's… | /r/askTRP | 02/03/18 09:35 AM |
| 2 | askTRP Megathread February 28I just read a thread about how getting hit on by gay guys means you're getting somewhere and that's been happening occasionally especially in clubs. So I'm headed kind of in the right way. I'm gonna read a bit more and then head to bed. Thank You again for all the advice I'm gonna implement as soon as I can | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/18 02:11 AM |
| 3 | Not sure about TRP, Messaged my ex, some perspective?The best thing TRP can teach you is the fact that there are PLENTY more girls out there. This one messaged you because she wants a tour guide for her vacation in a new country and possibly a place to stay for free. Please look at the comment /u/Blackhawk2479 made and repeat it to yourself many times. You are doing fantastic in life in every way besides with this girl. You need to get out and socialize more just to see that other girls exist. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/18 12:53 PM |
| 1 | If ya ugly, how do you prevent being black pilled?Sloth is a fictional character designed by humans to be as ugly as possible based on human standards. They gave him the name Sloths ffs. If you actually look like freakin Sloth then you are the 0% | /r/askTRP | 01/03/18 11:12 AM |
| 16 | If ya ugly, how do you prevent being black pilled?I have no sympathy for men that don't lift. Especially genetically gifted tall men. If you're tall and you're not lifting I just laugh at you. in 2 months of serious lifting and healthy diet you would look more masculine than 95%of shorter guys. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/18 06:20 AM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread February 28From your own perspective it might seem that don’t get as much leeway as other guys but the reality is you probably aren’t cognizant of how many fuck ups you make or you haven’t raised your smv enough. I need to stop asking girls to hang more than once... I've been flaked on everything I've told girls to come withi me to and it's been really disheartening. I know my SMV isn't good yet because I get one ioi a month from girls I don't know and the girls that I do know make out with other guys in f… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/18 06:14 AM |
| 1 | Long-time lurker...how do I fix my one-itis and put the focus back on myself?You're ignoring the rest of my post. Sex has no value in itself. You can't have a relationship with a woman who you like more than she likes you because she has to see you as the prize. She already has thousands of current and potential men who see her as the prize, but she wants the guy who doesn't want her as much as she wants him. If she isn't pushing to keep you then you're just her plate. Plus if she's gone away in Europe, thats a relationship without sex. Even when she comes back she'll us… | /r/askTRP | 28/02/18 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Long-time lurker...how do I fix my one-itis and put the focus back on myself?Imagine feeding a sick 3 year old cough syrup with a spoon. It will make them feel better but they turn their head away because of the temporary bitterness seems insurmountable. They're old enough to talk and tell you all the reasons why them taking the medicine would be a bad thing. You hold the spoon there until they stop resisting and eventually they take it. One day they keep refusing and you're sick of trying so they feel the full effects of their sickness. After the pain of the full sickne… | /r/askTRP | 28/02/18 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Scared of the consequences?This is exactly how I feel and I had no idea how to write it out. I'm worried ill do something and just get ostracized for it on top of things perhaps getting out of hand. Yet I've seen friends grind on each other right in front of me. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/18 09:30 PM |
| 4 | askTRP Megathread February 28Last night I went out with some friends. I have been interested in one girl for a while. Whenever we are walking somewhere as a group she slides up to me and we have really good conversation with me being cocky funny and stuff like that. She laughs at every joke I make and often does that "you're an asshole :)" slap on my chest to me. When we're in the dancing venue she never gives me an opening to dance with her though. I text her to do something with me outside of these times and she never com… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/18 06:22 PM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread February 21I've noticed that lots of girls hang around girls similar or exactly the same to each other. If a girl hangs with fat chicks she eventually becomes a fat chick, girls with certain attitudes etc. Like as if they would disagree on anything they wouldn't spend any time together. Can someone help me on this thought. Become friends with a girl you don't mind being around with a body you really like, and meet and fuck her friends. Can someone let me know what they think of this? I could see it backfir… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/18 07:03 PM |
| 1 | My homestay family just kicked me out because I wasn't integrating enough. How do I make friends and be a good person to be around?I definitely think so. I'm just surprised because they went through the whole process of transferring me without even telling me their concerns. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/18 11:27 PM |
| 1 | My homestay family just kicked me out because I wasn't integrating enough. How do I make friends and be a good person to be around?Not in the new country, but the last thing I want is to add a therapy expense to my time and money right now. Simply cannot afford it. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/18 09:15 PM |
| 1 | My homestay family just kicked me out because I wasn't integrating enough. How do I make friends and be a good person to be around?Will look into it. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/18 07:54 PM |
| 3 | My homestay family just kicked me out because I wasn't integrating enough. How do I make friends and be a good person to be around?I'm gonna do exactly that. I'm going to a bar tonight with my laptop to just write out everything so I remember it all. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/18 07:54 PM |
| 2 | My homestay family just kicked me out because I wasn't integrating enough. How do I make friends and be a good person to be around?Well not kicked me to the streets. I randomly received an email today saying that on Monday I'm going to meet new host families with my program because my current one expressed that it would be better for both of us if I didn't live there anymore. I had no warning. Last week they asked me if everything was alright with me and I said that I was fine just having a tiring day. They never said anything was wrong with the situation on their end and I thought things were alright but apparently that wa… | /r/askTRP | 23/02/18 07:53 PM |
| 1 | My homestay family just kicked me out because I wasn't integrating enough. How do I make friends and be a good person to be around?I was thinking the same thing. It's not perfect but I figured there would be cultural compromise and that there would be somethings I would just have to deal with out of respect for them and their household. I'll stay optimistic about my next host family and try to learn what I did wrong in this one. Thank you for your advice. | /r/askTRP | 23/02/18 07:48 PM |
| 1 | My homestay family just kicked me out because I wasn't integrating enough. How do I make friends and be a good person to be around?I have had lots of therapy in the past but it doesn't really help me. 99% of the time the result is "nothing is wrong with you, you just need to look at the situation a different way." In the past there has definitely been stuff wrong with me. I asked here because the advice I've gotten on TRP is 100x better than any therapist I've ever been to. TRP is why I beat depression. I'm not self actualized yet of course but therapists have really just been a better place to vent frustration than really … | /r/askTRP | 23/02/18 07:15 PM |
| 1 | My homestay family just kicked me out because I wasn't integrating enough. How do I make friends and be a good person to be around?I don't think I'm describing their side of the story well enough because they really aren't bad people. I know I can't do everything they wanted but I feel as though I must have been very unpleasant to be around because I couldn't imagine telling a kid to leave because I'm not spending enough time with them. I feel like they're saying it this way to safe face and even after explaining the situation with how I grew up isolated from my family and I didn't know they would want to be around me so mu… | /r/askTRP | 23/02/18 07:07 PM |
| 2 | My homestay family just kicked me out because I wasn't integrating enough. How do I make friends and be a good person to be around?Spain. I really think it's my fault. They really care about lunch and stuff | /r/askTRP | 23/02/18 06:05 PM |
| 1 | My homestay family just kicked me out because I wasn't integrating enough. How do I make friends and be a good person to be around?Your best strategy to make people like you is to keep them talking about their life, experiences and opinions. You may notice they tend to be shallow and dumb, but resist the urge to correct or teach them anything. Act as if you were taught by them even if it's an utter lie. I have been doing this but I find it so hard to accomplish. My host dad and I saw for over an hour just talking about his photography and I had such a good time. He showed me photos he took from years ago. I watched him butc… | /r/askTRP | 23/02/18 05:44 PM |
| 1 | My homestay family just kicked me out because I wasn't integrating enough. How do I make friends and be a good person to be around?I haven't been able to eat with them every day for the past 2 to 3 weeks because I've had a ton of scheduling issues with my classes and the internship i got. And I've been going out some weeknights friends. Plus on weekendd my host fam has gone to visit their families. They just left for the day to a birthday party for a friend of their 3 year old. They said they expected the student they got to eat at least one meal every day and they wanted me to help improve their and their baby's English by… | /r/askTRP | 23/02/18 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Study abroad vs stay in home country to find job?I'm studying accounting and finance but i dont love them. I just see them as decent starting income outside of school with opportunity to advance. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/18 12:06 PM |
| 4 | I ghosted my cheating girlfriend of 3 years. Now she is calling me repeatedly. Should I talk to her?No. Expect to send chocolates and a 30 page letter of apology to a woman you're not banging every time you breath in a way that bothers her. Plus she won't stop fucking other guys. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/18 08:35 AM |
| 1 | Soft nexting my LTR (8 years)Do you guys have experience with those situations? Tomorrow we actually wanted to go out with some friends. Should I blow it off or have a good time and afterwards ignore her ass again? This sounds more like she wants to go and you said sure. If it was something I wanted to do I'd go regardless of her opinion or attitude and have a great time. Sounds like you'd be doing it to make her happy(by being a supplicating beta). Go have fun somewhere else with people who enjoy conversation with you and … | /r/askTRP | 18/02/18 10:57 PM |
| 3 | Why do girls I know not want to help me or just straight up sabotage my chances?You already got your answers from someone else, so I just want to back up the guy telling you to spend the year reading the sidebar. I'm about to turn 21 and I feel like I wasted prime years of my life by not reading it earlier even though I'm still young. The year of reading and implementing what you learn will get you so much pussy afterwards you literally won't have enough time to fuck all of it. Also, never ask a girl to introduce you to her friends. Introduce yourself. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/18 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Need help with a girl situation, Shes coming over tonight and it's decision time."The best relationships are the one where the girl loves the man and the man likes the girl." - Patrice O' Neal. You can't enter a relationship with a girl who you're more interested in than she is in you. Don't do #2 because that will completely kill what you have now on terms you don't want. You have oneitis. Keep fucking her or leave her. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/18 09:56 PM |
| 1 | How often do you guys get stood up?She told me she was going to a club in her neighborhood instead and told me to come. I can't tell if I'm either retarded or just fed up but I said I'm going to where I had planned because it's closer to me and she just said ok. Dont know if I missed out because she was trying to make it easier for me or not but fuck it I'm not gonna jump through hoops when other guys get pussy thrown at them. My gut said waste of time and I followed it | /r/askTRP | 17/02/18 12:07 AM |
| 1 | How often do you guys get stood up?I made plans to meet her at a metro station and then walk to get drinks then go dance at a club. I'll play the "you can sleep over since your place is further" card afterwards | /r/askTRP | 16/02/18 05:08 PM |
| 2 | How often do you guys get stood up?I'll try that and see how it works out | /r/askTRP | 16/02/18 01:48 PM |
| 1 | How often do you guys get stood up?Alright. I'll invite her out tonight if i don't f close the girl I'm seeing a movie with later and see where it goes. | /r/askTRP | 16/02/18 01:48 PM |
| 1 | How often do you guys get stood up?I guess I've been tagging them along. Everything I've read on here far said state where you're going to be and when but make sure it's something fun so you don't mind if they don't show up | /r/askTRP | 16/02/18 01:46 PM |
| 1 | How often do you guys get stood up?I guess everybody starts with a cold streak. Thanks. She actually just messaged asking why I wasnt at a club last night where I first met her and if i had things to do(2 days after inviting her to the bar). I don't know where to go from here because I'd still be down to fuck. | /r/askTRP | 16/02/18 11:12 AM |
| 1 | How often do you guys get stood up?I said I was going to a bar or something and said to come and they said sure and asked where and when and confirmed and then just didn't show up | /r/askTRP | 16/02/18 11:09 AM |
| 13 | How lifting changed my lifeHey there /u/short_incel_throw , I'm /u/MusicSports and I'm just gonna piggie back on your comment to help any short people that are reading this. I'm also 5'5 with an average face and my N count is currently 2. I'm 20 and I found the red pill 11 months ago. Both of my first lays happened after trp. I'm currently living in a different country than my home country and tomorrow I have a date planned with a girl who doesn't speak English. I have a fwb back home and another girl here who is dtf and … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/18 04:11 PM |
| 15 | How to Pick Up Women; as in, How to Lift Them Up, during the actThe part where he tells us his genius move that not even porn stars know because he's so good at sex that Zeus and Odin themselves came down from different realms of heaven and Eiffel Tower'd one of his girls and let him watch so he could learn a new move that he must protect with his life. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/18 05:34 AM |
| 3 | How to be more decisive in your lifeDo whatever adds the most value and also what you may not be able to do again for a long time. Yesterday I ditched my entire friend group in the middle of a festival in a country I've never been to in a city I'd been in for one hour. My friends were boring me and I wanted to have fun. Met random locals and ended up having a 5 hour adventure and one of the best days of my life. Things I learned: If you're bored and want to have fun. Go find it. Nothing is 100% safe, but keep your wits about you a… | /r/askTRP | 11/02/18 03:32 PM |
| 1 | I torment this girl and she keeps coming back - why? Does being evil make girls attracted?1 Month update please? | /r/askTRP | 10/02/18 02:47 PM |
| 1 | February 09 - Weekly Improvement & Progress ThreadPROS Getting better at dancing every day. 135 lb ohp at 151 lb bodyweight (5'5) Got my first ever internship. Unpaid but it's a start. Got my first club girl's number 2 days ago. Haven't texted yet as I have been too busy with stuff but will text tomorrow to get drinks during the week. Attempted to hook up with some other girls. No successes but lots of learning. Working on text game as well. Applied to a ton of internships for summer and trying to generate profit from my photography. Considerin… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/02/18 12:36 PM |
| 3 | girls who took your number then ignores youLmfao good luck. I can't wait to see your anger phase. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/18 06:11 PM |
| 28 | Frame for Dummies. What it is and ways to build (and keep) it.This is incredibly basic sidebar knowledge. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/18 07:56 AM |
| 1 | Will girls always confirm if you set a meet up time?That's smart as hell | /r/askTRP | 07/02/18 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Will girls always confirm if you set a meet up time?Yeah she didnt show up I'm already headed home. I'll learn from this | /r/askTRP | 07/02/18 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Will girls always confirm if you set a meet up time?She said yes when I asked and even though i didn't really fulfill any deal I promised I can't expect her to follow through. Either way i picked my favorite place where I know the owner so worst case scenario I buy a beer and have a good night there then go home to some good dinner | /r/askTRP | 07/02/18 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Will girls always confirm if you set a meet up time?Okay that's what I did. | /r/askTRP | 07/02/18 07:55 PM |
| 1 | How to actually not give a fuck? Need situational advice.Anytime. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/18 11:09 PM |
| 3 | How to actually not give a fuck? Need situational advice.No friends and no females? Dgaf because tomorrow you're gonna do something you've never done before(literally anything, eat something you've never had on a menu somewhere, walk somewhere you've never been, go try a new exercise), and you'll have fun doing it! Got hurt doing something new? Dgaf because now you've got a great story to tell when you make some friends. Plus you faced a fear and did something new. There is a little headstart for you :) Dgaf is so easy when you break it down logistica… | /r/askTRP | 06/02/18 11:03 PM |
| 4 | How to actually not give a fuck? Need situational advice.The hardest part of ngaf is the mental switch. FEW people can do this on whim, so the masses have to do it artificially. How? Create abundance. In any manner. You have two investments. One generates $5000 profit, the other generates -$100. Idgaf about the loss because I made so much profit elsewhere. 10th girl in a row rejects you, but you already were spinning 3 plates. Idgaf because I've got pussy on tap. Don't have pussy on tap? Dgaf because you hopefully were rejected during your day filled … | /r/askTRP | 06/02/18 10:50 PM |
| 2 | Why do girls dance with me but then move away when I try to escalate?Thanks for the words of advice bro! I appreciate your concern :). The best way to learn to dance is to just type in "(style of dance) moves." Or if you're trying to learn something cool you saw somewhere the exact name of the move. Every dancer has their own style so if you find a tutorial that is the right move but not doesnt look like how you want it, there's often plenty more. Eventually you'll find your own style and unique flairs so don't rush it. Look up and learn a simple 8 count routine … | /r/askTRP | 06/02/18 10:36 PM |
| 16 | Dealing with smart girls - help?Lol stop pedalizing them. All of them got railed by Chad on the way to getting those degrees. Just because a girl understands quantum physics doesn't mean she knows why Chad won't call her back and why his muscles make her feel like a tingly little girl. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/18 02:54 PM |
| 6 | How to not be jealous of other men?She's not yours, it's just your turn. She's not his, its just his turn. You're in control of your own life. Make it one you enjoy instead of wishing you lived someone else's. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/18 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls dance with me but then move away when I try to escalate?Hip hop and tango classes + self taught from YouTube and occasional advice from friends. I played piano for 13+ years so i understood tempo way before I could dance. Either way I'm having the time of my life and i was dancing when I was shit at it, so I know the difference from how people react to it. And even if I still look like shit, I'd rather be the guy who looks like shit and is learning to dance rather than the one standing there going "lol that guy looks like he's having fun." There's al… | /r/askTRP | 04/02/18 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls dance with me but then move away when I try to escalate?Amen | /r/askTRP | 04/02/18 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls dance with me but then move away when I try to escalate?You should have been doing this all along. Never do anything with the express purpose of picking up women. That's a sure fire way not to enjoy it. That's the thing. I LOVE to dance in clubs. I go for the music and get hype and dance my ass off regardless of who sees, watches, or even if they think I suck. I Just have fun with it. It attracts attention to the point where girls approach me dancing into my field of view to get my attention. When i start dancing with them it's fine but then i put my… | /r/askTRP | 04/02/18 11:24 AM |
| 2 | Observation about girls and liftingWell in my case I've never had extremely visible musculature. Even now it's not great at all. I'm just so used to always looking at the mirror and saying FAT that I'm happy i look and don't feel disgusted at myself. Fuck waiting until college I'm gonna get back into protein powder and start bulking now. Ill track my macros and try to gain a pound each week. I always seemed to gain fat way more than muscle. I'm currently studying abroad so I'm gonna have to get eggs and cook for myself more often… | /r/askTRP | 04/02/18 10:29 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls dance with me but then move away when I try to escalate?I've done this and it never works for me. I think it's because I'm not big enough to be incredibly physically attractive so even though i have the club status no girls give a fuck. I'm gonna go back to dancing just to have fun and bulk until I'm massive. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/18 10:24 AM |
| 2 | Why do girls dance with me but then move away when I try to escalate?I guess i put the cart before the horse on this one. Learning to dance before getting a body that gets looks for just looking good. I'm glad I can dance now though. Thanks you. Gonna bulk my ass off for a year. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/18 10:22 AM |
| 2 | Observation about girls and liftingThank you. I have one year left in college on the unlimited meal plan. I think I'll just bulk my ass off for the entire year while the food is readily available. I hate being fat because I was obese through middle and high school, and I've been scared to gain fat again because my self image was awful. I still feel fat even though I can easily see my top 4 abs right now. My legs are still fatty and that lower ab fat is still there. But I guess the worse that can happen from a year bulk is I get s… | /r/askTRP | 04/02/18 04:46 AM |
| 3 | Observation about girls and liftingI'm 5'5, 150 lbs. DL 315 for 5 reps, bench 185 for 3, squat 245 for 5. How would 200 lbs even look on a 5'5 dude? Is 200 lbs realistic? | /r/askTRP | 04/02/18 04:01 AM |
| 1 | What is the best thing to say to pull a girl home?Google it then read the sidebar. I can't help you at your stage | /r/askTRP | 03/02/18 10:28 PM |
| 1 | What is the best thing to say to pull a girl home?Dude I've had a girl walk through half a mile of snow in the middle of winter come over for a booty call after texting her "come over at 9 tonight." You're putting the cart before the horse. Make her attracted and she will come over no matter what you say. I don't know how else to state this. Channing Tatum said "My name is Jeff" in a pussy ass voice and girls across the nation nearly drowned in their wet panties. | /r/askTRP | 03/02/18 09:57 PM |
| 1 | What is the best thing to say to pull a girl home?If you've been "hanging out" with her regularly, and she is unenthusiastic to be around you in a private setting, then you're already an orbiter. This is why TRP tells you to physically escalate early and with confidence so that you know her views on you and you don't waste time on her. Find another girl to game. I understand why you're asking this question now. There is no optimal combination of perfect words to get your oneitis to come over. She's fucking someone else, you've spent too much ti… | /r/askTRP | 03/02/18 08:32 PM |
| 1 | What is the best thing to say to pull a girl home?But I still wonder what optimal "verbals" are. Just talk. Game comes from within. I don't agree with this. In our culture, women are averse to making a move. The man must make the move. This is already implied. The difference is this: a woman that wants to fuck you will tell you "Yes ill come over and watch Netflix." A woman that doesn't will say "omg i totally would but I'm busy with all these plans I made for the exact time and future times you wanted me to come over :(" | /r/askTRP | 03/02/18 08:07 PM |
| 1 | What is the best thing to say to pull a girl home?You're thinking too hard. No combination of words will get her wetter or not if she's already into sex with you. A girl who wants to fuck you WILL find a way to do it if you don't royally fuck it up. It's not specific at all. | /r/askTRP | 03/02/18 07:57 PM |
| 1 | What is the best thing to say to pull a girl home?Let's get out of here works fine because if you did everything right already, and she's horny and ready to go back home with you, you could literally point/nod to the door and start walking and she'd follow you. | /r/askTRP | 03/02/18 06:59 PM |
| 3 | February 02 - Weekly Improvement & Progress ThreadBeen going out clubbing a lot recently. I have no more fear of dancing my ass off and people say I'm really good at it. Even the guy that everyone said can really dance came up to me and said "i'm just faking it till I make it but you can REALLY dance!" I feel pretty good about it because clubbing is fun now and I don't feel like I'm just there to meet girls. I'm finding that girls like to be around me when I dance but when I try to escalate by putting my arm around them or on their hip they mov… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/18 03:30 PM |
| 2 | Can I become Chad Thundercock at 36 years old?Women put on makeup to avoid going to the gym. Men go to the gym to be better men. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/18 11:20 AM |
| 4 | My ex saw me on a date last night and now she's angry at me. Keep ignoring her?Then this morning I did a dumb thing and texted her back saying "You looked good last night". Fucking savage. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/18 03:34 AM |
| 7 | Girl I'm trying to fuck keeps talking about other sexual experiences with me?I've got a better one, go out and meet some girl at the book store. Stop wasting time on a girl who damn well knows you want to fuck her but instead uses your precious time to tell you about how many other guys get to enjoy her pussy. It's always better to start fresh than to keep working on the past. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/18 03:38 PM |
| 17 | Girl I'm trying to fuck keeps talking about other sexual experiences with me?It's all the same dude. She's talking about 'not you' fucking her. You know about all the guys she's fucked. You know about how she will do crazy things for them. You know that she is a girl capable of fucking a LOT. Yet you're not fucking her. You don't have to be in the friend zone if you don't want to be. All you gotta do is leave | /r/askTRP | 27/01/18 02:59 PM |
| 36 | Girl I'm trying to fuck keeps talking about other sexual experiences with me?You're her orbiter. You hang out with her regularly and aren't fucking, but she's telling you all about who she's fucking. I was in your EXACT position with a girl I had known since high school. The BEST thing you can do right now is never hit her up again to hang. Erase her from your mind, and realize she isn't even attractive. My situation was with a fat stoner who did nothing but eat and get fucked by guys that knew she was worthless. I just couldn't give up until I accepted enough was enough… | /r/askTRP | 27/01/18 02:54 PM |
| 2 | 750+ approaches, next to zero results or improvementHeya. I'm not OP but I read your post and it really helped me. I've been going out to clubs 5 times a week dancing the past 2 weeks, and I'm a much better dancer despite no practice, and it's easier to just go up to groups of girls and start moving my body. I'm getting more smiles and stuff too when I just start moving. I'm gonna make it a goal to say hi to more of them now and ask where they learned to dance. Thanks again for writing this. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/18 03:47 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean when girls of afraid of catching feelings after hooking up?In my experience it means she can't wait to fuck you again. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/18 11:23 AM |
| 12 | Being a pussy about escalating has fucked me over again, how do i stop being a pussy?Just a reminder that you're not alone. Few days ago dancing and sexual tension with a girl. Literally telling me how horny she was and how the music was making her hornier. Grinding on me after a little bit. Puppy dog eyes. Couldn't bring myself to move the 3 inches with my lips to seal the deal. She ended up flirting with and texting my friend by the end of the night. Still feel like a dumbass actually aching inside. Thank you so much for posting this. | /r/askTRP | 20/01/18 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Why do I keep getting shadow banned from the main page?Because if you were someone who posts helpful material you wouldn't care if you were shadow banned. You'd get on with your life and get off of reddit more often. | /r/askTRP | 16/01/18 11:15 PM |
| 8 | I am a 25yo virgin probably going to have sex next week, advice please.Step 1: Read Sex God Method. Step 2: Don't be disappointed when sex is nothing like you imagined. Step 3: Have more sex that gets a little better every time. Step 4: Repeat Step 3. | /r/askTRP | 16/01/18 04:40 PM |
| 3 | If men swoon over tall hot blondes, what appearance do women swoon over in men from your experience?The ones who are fucking someone else | /r/askTRP | 15/01/18 12:45 AM |
| 3 | Can you explain "There is no greater agency for a woman than to know beyond doubt that she is the only source of a man’s need for sex and intimacy"If a woman is on a pedestal, and she knows that you're not fucking anyone else and that you can't, she has complete power and control over your sexual world. Thus meaning she doesn't give a fuck about how horny you are, she doesn't give a fuck that you don't want her to fuck the hot guy at work, she doesn't give a fuck that it's not your baby, she doesn't give a fuck that you want to see your friends, she doesn't give a fuck about you besides what you can provide for her. You aren't having any p… | /r/askTRP | 14/01/18 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Why is there very little or no game advice for women?Yes I have read the book of pook but not its entirety.I must admit.. You've read parts of it. Read it fully. Start from the beginning. I picked it up and stopped also but i picked it up again months later and started again. Incredible resource for TRP. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/18 03:21 PM |
| 10 | How to message a FWB after a month of vacation?You: Hey Her: Hey/ Hey! [How was your break?] You: [it was good.] I'm back in town Wednesday. Come over at -time- Her: Ok. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/18 12:51 PM |
| 9 | Why is there very little or no game advice for women?Your asking why lions have to eat meat instead of grass like a cow. It's just nature. You're questioning this at all because you're a man that communicates overtly. You don't think women question it because we can't comprehend how they get through life with no overt communicating, yet they somehow do it. Think back to when you were 5 years old on the playground. Did you question why the girls were sitting their talking instead of climbing the slides and building forts? No you just did what felt … | /r/askTRP | 14/01/18 12:45 PM |
| 6 | Why is there very little or no game advice for women?I can tell you haven't even touched the sidebar. Start with The Rational Male book. It answers all of this. Why should I hide certain aspects of my masculinity in order to fit the tolerances of women? You shouldn't. This is a girl's advice. Name one proud man who will tell you to hide your masculinity. Women want men to be men so that they can feel like women and submit. They don't want a woman. Shit tests like pretending they want you to hide your masculinity are for weeding out the weak men wh… | /r/askTRP | 14/01/18 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Shaking off sexual shamePractice conversation and kino with EVERYONE. I'm doing it now and not a single person has been bothered by me touching them. I realized switching my mindset to assume attraction makes me immune to anything. Even rejection is easy. If someone doesn't respond in the way i like to a hand on their thigh and a question, it's probably because they were just nervous. It'll be very easy to spot as well. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/18 12:09 PM |
| 0 | Girl got depressed immediately after sexI wanted to get a new caramel popcorn afterwards so I didn't walk with her home. I think they gave you caramel because that's what you asked for? But it was good though? I'm sorry what's the question? | /r/askTRP | 12/01/18 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Back to Basics : Hypergamy doesn't care... about women either.Every race has their own version of where have all the good men gone. It's up to us to realise that good men are just men that are too good to be attainable | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/18 02:25 AM |
| 1 | Why do men who contemplate suicide due to toxic relationships / false rape accusation / other not do something about it?Oh also, I NEED to see Messi play in person once in my life. Their next game at Sevilla is 4/1. Best way to switch USD for Euros and get tickets? | /r/askTRP | 12/01/18 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Why do men who contemplate suicide due to toxic relationships / false rape accusation / other not do something about it?I am a curious guy. I just saw your post about living in Sevilla for a semester. I'm from Spain, although now I don't live in the South of Spain, I've lived there for most of my life. Ask me anything you need to know. Wow thank you!!! I just got here 2 days ago and I ADORE it. My family is great and I'm practicing as much Spanish with them as I can so hopefully I can be good before I leave. My main concern right now is finding a good gym with weights, joining a local futbol league to play in and… | /r/askTRP | 12/01/18 01:55 AM |
| 5 | Back to Basics : Hypergamy doesn't care... about women either.How do you think black males got the reputation as walk away dads? Do you believe they possess innate characteristics that would encourage such a thing? Or do you find the hypothesis more believable that black women adopting a protector over provider mindset inspired the culture they have? It all started at "these hoes aint loyal" figuratively speaking IMO. As a black man I have to say that you're somewhat right and somewhat wrong. What I've noticed is the black men that actually get girls usual… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/18 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Why do men who contemplate suicide due to toxic relationships / false rape accusation / other not do something about it?I'm still pretty young so no LTR in sight for me at all. I don't plan on getting married ever and right now I don't see myself having kids until I am able to game tall girls so that they have genes to be taller than me. I just wanna get my career going and finish college right now. Make some decent cash doing something I like and keep having as much fun as I can. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/18 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Why do men who contemplate suicide due to toxic relationships / false rape accusation / other not do something about it?I don't see what you mean. If she suddenly doesn't want kids, she'll be gone. If she tries to make me marry her suddenly, she'll be gone. No ultimatums. It's not really more about ultimatums. It's more her changing her mind after the fact. If she wants kids when you meet but decides she doesn't want you raising her kids after they are born, high chance she will get the custody. This is one example but you get the idea. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/18 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Advice on starting a relationship?You need to get better at sex. Low investment in a platw +the BEST sex she can get anywhere works. To escale further you need to do more than JUST sex though. Like date shit with sex at the end. Then eventually date shit but sex later on. With that said, girls should be qualifying themselves to you. Not the other way around. Sex isn't worth the commitment a LTR requires. I'd shoot for fwb if I were you. No commitment except the occasional hang out that always ends in sex. If you think there's a … | /r/askTRP | 12/01/18 12:37 AM |
| 2 | Why do men who contemplate suicide due to toxic relationships / false rape accusation / other not do something about it?Find a white chick that's alright with not getting married but having lots of kids and living the way Flaws in this i see is the law of being legally married if you cohabitate for the the length of time where you're legally married by the court. Plus she might change. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/18 12:29 AM |
| 19 | Why do men who contemplate suicide due to toxic relationships / false rape accusation / other not do something about it?I'm... gonna call my dad... | /r/askTRP | 12/01/18 12:25 AM |
| 1 | How to increase emotional investment?That makes tons of sense man but I'm still at the point before i can even get sex from one girl. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/18 12:23 AM |
| 1 | How to increase emotional investment?I think like that and I'm getting better. Its weird it seems so easy to invest so little with some girls and it's the complete opposite with others. I'm doing kino but I'm not getting any physical IOIs back yet | /r/askTRP | 12/01/18 12:21 AM |
| 1 | How to increase emotional investment?I think like that and I'm getting better. Its weird it seems so easy to invest so little with some girls and it's the complete opposite with others. I'm doing kino but I'm not getting any physical IOIs back yet | /r/askTRP | 12/01/18 12:21 AM |
| 1 | How to increase emotional investment?I am doing my best to improve my behavior to generate more attraction. I'm obviously lifting already but i have to REALLY compensate with personality because I'm 5'5. What are the other ones you are talking about? I'd love to learn. I finally isolated and tried to build comfort for the first time tonight with this sensory thing i was bullshitting on the spot to see what happened. It was fun. But I'm interested in what you mentioned | /r/askTRP | 12/01/18 12:16 AM |
| 3 | Frustrated with the state of life...Whenever I feel like giving up I remember a pep talk given to 50 year old deciding if he should go to law school at such a late age. "You'll either be 55 with a law degree, or 55 doing the same shit you hate." | /r/askTRP | 10/01/18 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Literal white knight game?Please be a troll | /r/askTRP | 09/01/18 08:30 PM |
| 7 | Literal white knight game?Both of those situations have hotter girls around that don't need saving that might be attracted to you. Why the fuck do you want to fuck the drunk girl on the middle of the floor getting yelled at by some abusive dude. If things get out of hand call the police to help. Don't ever put yourself in physical danger for some hoe sitting on a hairy fish. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/18 08:03 AM |
| 2 | Cheated on LTR, she found out and ended it, getting her backIf you want to win her back you have to be a better option than every other guy she can get. No contact. Dgaf, go out and win at life. Lift, do awesome at your job. Diet properly. Worst case scenario you end up getting back with a girl you felt the need to cheat on while having an awesome life. Best case scenario you get a hotter and better girlfriend while having an awesome life. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/18 07:57 AM |
| 4 | Are you a fat ass in denial?Holdmyfries isn't as good as fph but it's pretty close. Good luck man | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/18 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Should i Cuff my only plate?Cuffing a girl you have oneitis for is the opposite of gaining a steady supply of pussy. You're literally saying her pussy controls you. Always be willing to walk away. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/18 05:38 AM |
| 2 | Weirdly rejected kiss on first date but coming over in 1h - what the hell?MY FUCKING MAN | /r/askTRP | 07/01/18 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Question about an old crushNo they're rational. Don't hate the player. Don't hate the game. Learn how to win. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/18 09:12 PM |
| 3 | Question about an old crush/u/vandaalen is saying everything that you need. She doesn't find you attractive. She finds your money attainable | /r/askTRP | 07/01/18 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Weirdly rejected kiss on first date but coming over in 1h - what the hell?RemindMe! 7 hours. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/18 05:24 PM |
| 3 | Cold Hands - A Sign Of Weakness?It's a sign of having cold hands. Your friend is a wimp because he complained instead of suffering in silence. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/18 06:27 PM |
| 3 | I’m [26F] in a LTR with a (probably) RP’d guy [33M]The thing is you already know that there's truth to it, that's why you're hoping it's not true rather than saying it's not true. That's why you're asking these questions if it is salvageable. When you were in his frame you were confident in everything. You said it was like gravity. Now he's in your frame. This uncertainty doesn't leave. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/18 08:59 AM |
| 5 | I’m [26F] in a LTR with a (probably) RP’d guy [33M]This isn't the right place for you, and I'm not sure if you will see this through my eyes the same way I see it considering I'm a man, but I learned this through experience of myself and many others. If someone isn't sure about if a relationship will work, but they say that they want it to work, they actually don't want it to work and they just aren't ready to hurt their partner's feelings yet. Once a man breaks frame you will always see him as the man that broke frame rather than the man you wi… | /r/askTRP | 06/01/18 08:23 AM |
| 5 | Does suffering in silence ever make you snap?Replace huge tits with huge ass and this is my story. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/18 08:24 PM |
| 2 | Keeping a plate interested while awayThat's a female cop out insult you're using to deny the reality of your situation and avoid taking responsibility. "/u/Musicsports must be jaded and fucked up because I'm not asking for advice I just want people to tell me I'm doing things right." I don't hate girls. I'm rational. Nowadays looking at things as they are without giving a girl the benefit of the doubt is seen as misogyny. Of course you're allowed to ask anything. I'm trying to educate you. A plate is a girl you've already fucked at… | /r/askTRP | 05/01/18 06:20 PM |
| -7 | Making myself less available / fiancé-left me/u/fnordsnord said everything you need to do in order to get through this. The only thing I want to add is never say I love you to a girl first, and don't say it if you don't mean it. Saying it just to return it is living in her frame. Second, fuck girls like you hate them while sprinkling in a bit of caring every now and then(e.g. fucking the shit out of her missionary for 5 minutes, stopping and saying she looks great in this lighting with a smile/smirk, and then immediately going back to rail… | /r/askTRP | 05/01/18 04:47 PM |
| 2 | How do you feel about transgender men?They're human beings who can do whatever they want. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/18 04:35 PM |
| 4 | Keeping a plate interested while awayYou haven't fucked her. She isn't a plate. She's a girl that's fucking the shit out of somebody else right now and begging for them to cum on her face and in her mouth so she can swallow it, while also trying to get pregant with their kids without them knowing. If you had other plates you wouldn't care. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/18 04:32 PM |
| 2 | Tall Chad born in 2000 brutally redpilled me ( 29 )Your first mistake was giving a shit about anything an 18 year old said. Second was thinking that females should be anything other than aquaintances if you're not fucking them(this didn't make sense to me at first but I can explain further after reading The Rational Male). I'm 5'5 and heard the exact same thing from tall guys and already proved them all wrong. In terms of suggestions, read the sidebar on here and on the main subreddit while fixing your diet. Second, start lifting weights. Third … | /r/askTRP | 05/01/18 04:27 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with people telling you to 'calm down' if you are passionate about something?Stoicism goes both ways. Towards both positive and negative. Talk about stuff you're passionate about as if it's nothing difficult and people begin to think you're a genius for accomplishing that kind of stuff with 'no effort.' Nobody really gives a shit what you want to do with your life so don't try to impress anyone and you'll end up impressing everyone. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/18 02:22 PM |
| 8 | How do you request to split the bill with a girl when you order shared stuff?Males everywhere are weirded out by it and you not following makes you different and assertive. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/18 02:17 PM |
| 1 | HB9 Punishing Me For Withdrawal"Ok" is better than "lol ok" | /r/askTRP | 05/01/18 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Mothers will do all they can took keep you betaMy issue is getting her to realize she needs to see a psychiatrist. I'll keep trying. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/18 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Mothers will do all they can took keep you betaShe goes as far as accusing me and other people. She almost crashed her car because she swore she saw someone monitoring her at an intersection. I don't give a fuck if she's right or wrong. This could escalate to the point of killing her. I give a fuck about her health and wellness and my relationship with her. Dont tell me how to care for my mother | /r/askTRP | 04/01/18 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Mothers will do all they can took keep you betaYeah exactly and I'm trying to prevent that. I don't know why people are saying do nothing | /r/askTRP | 04/01/18 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Mothers will do all they can took keep you betaExactly and I'm trying to prevent that in my own mother. People here saying just do nothing have no idea what we're going through and I want to prevent that. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/18 05:54 PM |
| 2 | Mothers will do all they can took keep you betaNo she literally needs to see a psychologist. She has illusions that people are constantly watching and monitoring her and its becoming detrimental to her life to the point where she will go into rants about it. She has no evidence and refuses to listen to what anybody has to say no matter how you propose any opposition or even plain curiosity towards it. I don't want to control her I just want her to get mental help before it's too late and this consumes her life. Unless I should just understan… | /r/askTRP | 04/01/18 07:00 AM |
| 1 | Was pointed here, looking for adviceIts not about the money. Its about her realizing she bears a responsibility to raise the kids. Right now she is living care-free getting piped down by Chad while laughing at you, while you're over here trying to understand what happened, asking for advice on reddit. And i gurantee you the day she starts watching the kids more, she will hit your ass with child support. All she needs for child support is to watch those kids 50%. Thats it. If you make more i gurantee the courts will demand you pay … | /r/askTRP | 04/01/18 06:18 AM |
| 4 | Mothers will do all they can took keep you betaHow the fuck do I do this? I really really want to help my mom with some things that would greatly improve her life but no matter how I try I feel like me being her son ruins any attempt at me trying to get through to her with knowledge. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/18 04:55 AM |
| 6 | Developing IDGAF attitudeIDGAF comes from creating multiple options. You can learn to fake it but it's so much easier to just set up DGAF situations. Girl you invited over cancelled? Idgaf because I'll just call over one of my established plates. Girl didn't show up to date? Idgaf because the date I planned is fun for me without her. Let's get this rock climbing going. Investment failed? Idgaf because my other investments still probably might pull through! Car broke down? Idgaf because my job allows me to afford uber fo… | /r/askTRP | 02/01/18 06:15 AM |
| 2 | Did i make the right choice ? dealing with regret and fomoTRP tells you to live the life you want to live and do the things you want to do. Everything has an opportunity cost, and hindsight is 20/20. You missed out on something you didn't want to go to and enjoyed yourself doing something you wanted to do. A New Years party at a club is the exact same as any party at any club any day of the year. If he's enough of a bro to the point where you'd rather miss a party to hang with him then I'm sure you had a damn good time. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/18 05:55 AM |
| 18 | Remember the female Assistant District Attorney who got fired for harassing a male Uber driver? Here is her satisfying apology.What do you mean not working? She's already got other job offers lol | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/17 03:11 AM |
| 5 | Advice needed! I have pulled a high value woman, how do I keep her?You see that link at the top of the sidebar titled "There's this one girl...?" It was written by /u/Mattyanon just for people like you and me. Read it. If you're that deep into the rabbit hole, you'd know that you have oneitis and are way too young to be thinking of a LTR or kids. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/17 03:00 AM |
| 9 | I need more basic help than TRP. Where can I learn about basic human social interaction?People are gonna call you autistic but really you're just thinking WAYYYY too much. You don't invite people to be friends. Nobody is gonna be offended if you want to hang with them. If you enjoy people's company ask if they want to do something together. It's way more natural than you're letting it be. Find a hobby or something social that YOU like to do. Go to it and you'll meet people who also like that thing. Keep going and you'll bond and then you'll do other things those people like and mee… | /r/askTRP | 28/12/17 09:43 PM |
| 57 | Rejected 9/10 and she raged and spilled her drink at meThis was the funniest thing I've read today | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/17 09:34 PM |
| 4 | I torment this girl and she keeps coming back - why? Does being evil make girls attracted?RemindMe! 1 Month. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/17 09:05 PM |
| 1 | I'm having trouble visualizing the man I want to be.Thank you for such a detailed response. It makes a bunch of sense. I'm in school for entrepreneurshio right now and I'm learning about running restaurants, but I'm so back and forth with if i want to do this that I'm scared of failing at something I end up hating. Plus it takes so long to open a first restaurant that I'd basically be putting 15+ years on the line for a pipe dream that barely pays money that whole time | /r/askTRP | 28/12/17 08:48 PM |
| 2 | I'm having trouble visualizing the man I want to be.Can you please describe soul crushing and what that means to you? I hear that phrase used so much with jobs people don't enjoy and it's starting to lose it's value with me | /r/askTRP | 28/12/17 03:28 PM |
| 3 | I'm having trouble visualizing the man I want to be.I'm 20 with like 400 dollars to my name dude i can't do this | /r/askTRP | 28/12/17 03:13 PM |
| 5 | I'm having trouble visualizing the man I want to be.I promised i wouldn't eat candy today and that was good. And the only thing I've drank all week is water | /r/askTRP | 28/12/17 07:36 AM |
| 45 | FWB wants to cut ties because she says she will catch feelingsShe already caught feelings. She's saying she doesn't want to catch them because it's a shit test to make you commit and validate her. Let her go and she'll stay even harder next time she's around. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/17 06:55 AM |
| -3 | Wife's husband makes millions, he asks for a post-nup to protect his assets, but she's "confused" and doesn't feel the need for a post-nup because she would never hurt him.6 years is nothing when it comes to relationships. And on top of that, if she is so loyal and a good wife then what's her reasoning for not signing it? If she's so good she would sign it and continue being the great wife that she is so he has no reason to leave. She knows he wants out and she has probably been talking about his money like it's both of theirs. Women will never give the full story. They say whatever makes them look good and deny anything they can't flip into making them look good | /r/TheRedPill | 26/12/17 09:55 PM |
| 1 | How to eventually pull a girl back?Exactly. I'm not dropping game for a second because all of the shit tests have been obvious so far. Plus she will never be LTR material because she's told me she cheated in the past. So much for her I love yous. Thank you | /r/askTRP | 26/12/17 01:30 PM |
| 9 | Girlfriend texting another guy"My girlfriend drunk texted a guy at 3AM and she initiated the conversation. He is intimate with her enough to be saying goodnight over text. How do I rationalize this so that it's less than obvious what's going on?" Come on dude who the hell is texting have pleasant dreams to a girl at 3AM. Girls don't even say goodnight to their best friends at midnight. Minimum soft next for the majority of the week. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/17 07:28 AM |
| 11 | How to eventually pull a girl back?I'll give you my current situation. I had a 2 year LTR with an ex. She was barely fun to be around. She was extremely jealous despite me getting no other girls and it was annoying. I cared for her and her family and pets beyond my own exhaustion. I got really close to them to where I felt like family. She didn't do anything for my family. She would get distant and rude over bullshit reasons and often made me feel like shit for causing it even though she caused it. I did everything i could to mak… | /r/askTRP | 26/12/17 07:11 AM |
| -1 | Why is it okay that Rollo Tomassi doesnt lift?Okay | /r/askTRP | 26/12/17 02:46 AM |
| -1 | Why is it okay that Rollo Tomassi doesnt lift?You sound like the kind of person who believes in superfruits | /r/askTRP | 26/12/17 01:53 AM |
| 0 | Why is it okay that Rollo Tomassi doesnt lift?Will do. The funny thing was I didn't even approach her. It was a weird situation all around. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/17 11:14 PM |
| 0 | Why is it okay that Rollo Tomassi doesnt lift?Will do. Got my first plate a few months ago that turned into a fwb. One success so far with many more to come I'm working at. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/17 10:57 PM |
| -2 | Why is it okay that Rollo Tomassi doesnt lift?Man i just wanna get hoes too | /r/askTRP | 25/12/17 09:13 PM |
| 15 | Why is it okay that Rollo Tomassi doesnt lift?LMFAO. Health is the most important thing in your life. Lifting and physical fitness should be as natural as brushing your teeth. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/17 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Why is the soulmate myth so deeply embedded in our pychs?You definitely can mold her into anything you want if your smv is high enough and your self confidence is strong enough. I just wouldn't want to be the guy dating the girl that my friends 4 wayed. if other people did idc but the girl that everyone in my group fucked? Lol no thanks | /r/askTRP | 25/12/17 08:34 PM |
| 1 | How do i go about getting in contact with someone i met through a friend?I'd say stop focusing on women and start focusing on men. You are the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with and right now the person you spend the most time with is a lesbian. Of course you're gonna have a hard time getting women if you act like a girl. I changed my friend group and stopped hanging out with girls. I moved into a suite at my school with 5 guys who i respected and considered men and knew got laid. My aggressiveness, masculinity, and testosterone shot up by just bein… | /r/askTRP | 25/12/17 08:29 PM |
| 7 | Is it unreasonable to expect an LTR to have sex every time I want it?Holy fuck dude break up with her and go monk mode. You legit scared me with this you need time to yourself. There's PLENTY of better women out there | /r/askTRP | 25/12/17 06:57 PM |
| 2 | How do i go about getting in contact with someone i met through a friend?Do you have male friends? | /r/askTRP | 25/12/17 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Why is the soulmate myth so deeply embedded in our pychs?It's alpha to have better options than her. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/17 06:45 PM |
| 1 | I'm too nice. Is it time I look out for #1?Everything in trp is a suggestion. I'm not telling him how to live his life. I'm telling him what's worked for me so far. He can do whatever he wants with it. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/17 06:44 PM |
| 1 | How do i go about getting in contact with someone i met through a friend?Height, weight, bf%, squat, bench, DL, OHP numbers? | /r/askTRP | 25/12/17 08:23 AM |
| 0 | What should my goal weight be to appeal to men?Fat ass small waist. Big tits are nice but I honestly idgaf about tits if the ass is big and bouncy and the waist is slim. I love thick thighs too. Basically every guy is different and someone will want to fuck you if you're in decent shape. Get fit to a body that you like and be a feminine woman to attract a masculine guy. Sex is the wheels on a car. It's important and absolutely necessary but it's not special. My friend (6'2 basketball player who lifts a lot, has charisma, A student, etc.) can… | /r/askTRP | 25/12/17 08:21 AM |
| 3 | How do i go about getting in contact with someone i met through a friend?Honestly if your SMV was reasonably high you'd be fucking someone else instead of trying to get some girl's number that you haven't seen in 2 months. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/17 08:12 AM |
| 6 | Why is the soulmate myth so deeply embedded in our pychs?What I've realized is that one man's LTR is another man's party slut. Really you make girls into the LTR you want and if she goes with it then she's LTR material. This even goes for the sluts that get railed every night by an entire frat in college for 4 years. Some beta picks her up because he doesn't care about her past and is willing to put up with anything for the drop of pussy she might imply he might eventually get. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/17 07:22 AM |
| 13 | How do you answer "Why do you like/love me?" or statements such as "You could do better than me" in LTR?I just say righteous stuff that doesn't take it too seriously. "Loving yourself is what matters. But honestly, dat asssssss." "You're such an asshole :)" I can pull this off because I believe it with full conviction and it comes out of my mouth that way. You probably need to personalize it to your own vocabulary, cadence, etc. But you get the idea. Don't take it seriously and over invest but don't make her feel like shit either. In the case of "you could be doing better," the answer is self impr… | /r/askTRP | 25/12/17 01:37 AM |
| 5 | I'm too nice. Is it time I look out for #1?Order of importance in life. My happiness, my self improvement, sanity, health, me. Parents that love you and act that way. Career Pets. Friends, women, frivolity etc. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/17 11:33 PM |
| 2 | The ending of The Game by Neil Strauss. Did Neil trade his addiction of pickup for an addiction to Lisa?Even though he managed to get any girl he could want, he never was able to find his internal happiness and confidence, therefore he pedalized this one girl who got hit on so much she knew all the tricks. So really he never felt he was worthy of any of the girls he got, until they slept with him, but in sleeping with him he felt that they were just as trash as he felt about himself. This one girl basically confirmed that he was trash and he just went with it, whereas if he had the internal confid… | /r/askTRP | 24/12/17 09:31 PM |
| 1 | The ending of The Game by Neil Strauss. Did Neil trade his addiction of pickup for an addiction to Lisa?So he gave up his quest for development of internal value for an external source that gave him the external valuation without the work, at a steep price which made him feel inadequate. Interesting. Thank you. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/17 09:26 PM |
| 2 | The ending of The Game by Neil Strauss. Did Neil trade his addiction of pickup for an addiction to Lisa?Makes sense. I've read Models in the past but ill read it again now that I have a better understanding of frame and all that after reading The Book of Pook. Thank you. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/17 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Settling..It's in the 'getting over a breakup' link. Please read the entire sidebar though. It will change your life for the better. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/17 04:24 AM |
| 10 | I implemented TRP doctrine for two years. Here is the results.Based on my 30 seconds of thinking about this, I think it might be because she is at one of her highest possible emotional states, and since any emotion for women is good, we instinctively know that if we fucked them right there it'd blow both of our minds? | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/17 04:21 AM |
| 1 | I fucked up.k | /r/askTRP | 23/12/17 01:27 AM |
| 1 | I fucked up.Or just not do anything because they're both dumbass high schoolers and he probably wouldn't go to the police anyway. "I asked his underage sister for nudes and he blackmailed me so I found more underage nudes on the internet and sent them to him instead of reporting the website i found those extra illegal nudes." Judges aren't retards. If nudes just start showing up on the other dudes phone right after this situation it's obvious what happened. How old are you? You sound like a high schooler wh… | /r/askTRP | 23/12/17 12:10 AM |
| 1 | I fucked up.This is one of those things where the backfire from fucking up would be worse than not doing anything | /r/askTRP | 22/12/17 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Settling..It's more that when I tell her I've had enough and I'm out, that's when she'll admit to her behaviour, promise to get better etc. She'll only leave you when she's positive that she's destroyed you mentally and emotionally. She can't handle the possibility of leaving you and seeing you go "ok." You gotta read about "fuck yeah" vs any other response. It's on the sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/17 11:23 PM |
| 10 | Guys with big dicks, how big are you and how have women 18-24 reacted?Are you a virgin? I realized most guys that wonder about this are usually virgins or very sexually inexperienced so there is insecurity. Unless you have a micropenis size honestly doesn't matter when she's getting fucked by a MAN. Read Sex God Method and understand it and you'll be fine. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/17 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Settling..Loyalty just means she hasn't found a better option yet. No matter how much she pisses me off, she wont let me go How is this a good thing? You should let yourself go if you're unhappy. That's like a POW getting tortured and being thankful they keep him in a cage to prevent him from leaving. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/17 12:38 AM |
| 2 | What is a difference between becoming an orbiter and a guy who is completely ignored?I don't talk to people in my free time. I go to museums, continue teaching myself guitar and viola, play soccer or basketball, read, or go somewhere fun with friends(guys). | /r/askTRP | 21/12/17 12:22 AM |
| 3 | What is a difference between becoming an orbiter and a guy who is completely ignored?You're acting like a girl. You should be busy DOING rather than TALKING about things. I used to be like you until I realised I'd rather be fucking these girls than talking to them. | /r/askTRP | 21/12/17 12:05 AM |
| 1 | How do I find a job for 20 days?Okay | /r/askTRP | 19/12/17 04:22 AM |
| 1 | How do I find a job for 20 days?Are there any repercussion of this that you have faced? I'm willing to cashier and stock shelves. Anything really. Are those easy to train jobs? | /r/askTRP | 18/12/17 09:12 PM |
| 2 | Why dont EC's care anymore?Nobody who would ask a question like that would consider reading the rules. If they really want to improve the entire red pill is about taking action to do things instead of being spoonfed the information. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/17 12:50 AM |
| 10 | This is the most Horrific Dead Bedrooms story, I read it a month ago, amazed it hasn't been posted here.A girl at my college fucked half the male student body on campus then made a post on Instagram about how the people who "made up stories about her being a slut" are awful people. It got tons of female support. A man trying to smear a girl on social media might be even more impossible than doing it in person. He'd just get buried in pussy beam copyright Patrice O'Neal. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/17 08:18 PM |
| 1 | What exactly is the 'dgaf' attitude?"Ok." Then walk away and talk to someone who matters. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/17 07:33 AM |
| 1 | I believe in TRP and AWALT but she's not acting the way TRP says she should. Can you explain?Good luck man | /r/askTRP | 13/12/17 04:01 AM |
| 2 | I believe in TRP and AWALT but she's not acting the way TRP says she should. Can you explain?You know when you dangle yarn in front of a cat they will be anxious to play for it, but the second you drop the yarn and they have it, they play with it for a second and then lose interest? If you are a high smv man that breaks up with a girl but then goes back to her, you have dropped the yarn. The exact amount of time that she saw you as alpha is the amount of time she will play with and enjoy this bitched up version of you until she gets bored and goes to a man she sees herself as lesser val… | /r/askTRP | 13/12/17 02:40 AM |
| 7 | The 'do i look fat?' questionI just do what Patrice O'Neal did. "Well what do you think?" "I feel fat." "Well there you go." She knows that she's getting fat even if you don't notice it. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/17 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Should I bring my Xbox when I study abroad in Spain?Thank you | /r/askTRP | 05/12/17 05:37 PM |
| 4 | You'll Probably Settlemen are the idealists & romantics and that's what screws up so many of us. Men are the romantics. Women are the idealists. Who's more romantic: the person that plans the magical sparkling tingling date that's memorable for years, or the person that sits through it and says "wow this is all for me this is so cool." Who's idealist: the person that says relationships are hard work and require compromise and sacrifice to keep together, or the person that says "sell your dream car or else I'm leaving… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/17 11:32 AM |
| 1 | Stop giving power to ordinary people!Can you ELI5 for me please? | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/17 02:57 PM |
| 2 | Why do older women try to boost the confidence of young menYou're right. Young girls definitely open. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/17 08:15 AM |
| 76 | Why do older women try to boost the confidence of young menWomen never learn how to get or keep a man on their own. They sit on their hairy fish and decide which one of the men trying to fuck them they will fuck. Once they pass the wall and no men approach them anymore they realize they need to open men now. This creates a combination of not knowing how the fuck to approach or interact with someone they are interested in while simultaneously feeling no responsibility or desire for self improvement due to being treated like a god by betas their whole lif… | /r/askTRP | 22/11/17 07:49 AM |
| 1 | good compliments?In my opinion if it isn't broken don't fix it. But good luck to you. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/17 02:17 AM |
| 2 | good compliments?You don't need to compliment them. "I approve." "Bad lighting." Something that doesn't discourage it but also doesnt make you sound like it turned you on. Patrice said it best. "Why complement something that willingly boils itself down to a series of holes. Girls say they keep men with sex. None will learn how to play xbox for a man." | /r/askTRP | 21/11/17 04:19 PM |
| 4 | good compliments?You don't need to compliment them. "I approve." "Bad lighting." Something that doesn't discourage it but also doesnt make you sound like it turned you on. Patrice said it best. "Why complement something that willingly boils itself down to a series of holes. Girls say they keep men with sex. None will learn how to play xbox for a man." | /r/askTRP | 21/11/17 04:19 PM |
| 2 | Am I better off acting like I've always been in shape?It depends. If i know it's someone who understands the effort getting in shape takes and i can actually have a decent conversation with them, I am honest. If i know they've never worked out a day in their life and are trying to get sympathy for being a lazy sack I say some shit about how all I eat is pizza and that I guess I'm just lucky. I'm not gonna help someone that can't help themselves. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/17 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Study: Women prefer muscular, dominant, wealthy menLol he's racist as fuck. People don't go around saying nigger even on the internet without being racist. There's definitely a mix between objective and subjective opinion in his post but the subjectivity is definitely racist and fueled by fabricated confirmation bias. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/17 05:39 AM |
| 14 | How do you guys cope or get over missing out on your college years after hearing what you hear on TRP and in real life?The best time to plant a tree was yesterday. The second best time is today. Be grateful that you're not 55, balding, divorce raped with 2 kids who you can't see, never worked out, and also still completely oblivious to TRP and it's concepts. Your ex-wife is getting railed every night by college guys or guys from work and you're living out of your car wondering what you did to lose such an angel. The only angel who ever found you attractive. You're in the anger phase right now but learn to accept… | /r/askTRP | 21/11/17 12:03 AM |
| 5 | Field Report: Ex gf came over today to pick up belongingsThe ideas expressed here are excellent advice for someone who wants to be a playboy for the rest of his life. But if your end goal is to be in a happy, loving relationship, these kinds of ideas are doing much more harm than good. You simply cannot expect to hide part of your character/personality from your SO for the rest of your life. You don't understand what this thread is about. You have to handle negative events with stoicism. Don't break down and attempt to use women as a crutch for hard t… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/17 04:21 AM |
| 2 | Do introverts/shy guys stand a chance?and in rare cases fame/riches, which makes any guy the equivalent of a 10 girl You've got this all backwards. Fame and riches do not make a man attractive. They show he is capable of supporting others financially and capable of generating tons of attention for the people he associates with. He's fucked by a dude stronger than him wanting to fight him. You need to read the sidebar. You can be introverted and assertive. The difference is that some introverts use it as a scapegoat to hide their fea… | /r/askTRP | 18/11/17 06:52 AM |
| 1 | What are Dark Triad/Machiavellian ways of getting someone fired?I'm trying to put you in his shoes. Not your own shoes. If he's too much of a punk that he gets mad at you for getting a girl he wanted, etc | /r/askTRP | 16/11/17 10:41 PM |
| 3 | What are Dark Triad/Machiavellian ways of getting someone fired?If you were a dude who still got oneitis and you saw Ronnie Coleman flirting with your girl, would you get up in his face aggressively and actively try to get him fired? Or would you mind your own business | /r/askTRP | 16/11/17 09:38 PM |
| 2 | Fucked but no BJ. "Blow" her off?Reading Sex God Method helped me with this. Firstly, don't talk about introducing your new sex wants outside of actually having sex. And she isn't doing you a favor. They will rationalize it too much and get caught up in too much thinking. During sex you literally just say "suck my dick" dominantly with no question of her possibly refusing. If you've established dominance properly she will do it without question. I'd highly recommend reading the entire book. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/17 09:30 PM |
| 1 | I am a well-known Hollywood actor who has been closeted Red Pill for some years now. AMA!Very damn true. Thank you so much for your time. Ill figure the rest out on my own. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/17 02:16 AM |
| 1 | I am a well-known Hollywood actor who has been closeted Red Pill for some years now. AMA!Tis' better to be rich and powerful without fame than to be all of that with fame. Just acquire capital by any means. Thank you very much. My issue with jobs like Anthony Bourdain, Bobby Flay, rappers, or actors is the fame that almost has to come with it since you're always on a screen, but i dont want that to deter me from my goals.. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/17 02:10 AM |
| 1 | I am a well-known Hollywood actor who has been closeted Red Pill for some years now. AMA!Thank you for your responses. You've been very helpful. I know the chances of me ever becoming famous are next to non-existent, so this is more of a curiosity question. Should I be fearful of becoming famous? Are the benefits better than the negatives? And lastly, how do you plan on dealing with the decline of fame? Kanye West has very mixed feelings on this in his music and was just hoping for another perspective. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/17 01:59 AM |
| 3 | I am a well-known Hollywood actor who has been closeted Red Pill for some years now. AMA!Trusting your gut. I've only gotten one plate in my life, but my gut is telling me to stay away from her right now. It's hard as I have mental abundance right now as opposed to actual abundance, but I know that things are going in a negative way. Im sure Tiger Woods and Harvey Weinstein went against their gut on multiple occasions. There's too many women in the world to put more trust in one rather than yourself. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/17 01:53 AM |
| 1 | I am a well-known Hollywood actor who has been closeted Red Pill for some years now. AMA!Entrepreneurship sounds like a good option for you to be honest. I'm actually in school for that. I'm a really creative person and I love art, specifically rap music and cinema, but idk if those lifestyles would fit me with having to appear at parties and stuff like that. But i honesty would rather live like that instead of going to meetings about a dumb product my business would be selling. I love wearing casual clothes and I hate wearing suits. I don't want a massive house. I just want to trav… | /r/askTRP | 15/11/17 01:48 AM |
| 2 | I am a well-known Hollywood actor who has been closeted Red Pill for some years now. AMA!I found TRP because it was the first place that told me that I have complete control over everything in my life, and was honest that I would have to be selfish at times. It told me that Anthony Bourdain's job wasn't unattainable, and in fact was a possibility. Yet at times I still have doubts as to what I want out of life. I'm a college student struggling with figuring out what I want to do in life, and I'm terrified of being stuck in a cubicle all day working for a company. I know that in a sen… | /r/askTRP | 15/11/17 01:32 AM |
| 3 | I am a well-known Hollywood actor who has been closeted Red Pill for some years now. AMA!That's where the abundance mentality comes in. In his position why pick the 10 who ruins his career when he could pick the 10 that doesn't ruin it. | /r/askTRP | 15/11/17 01:20 AM |
| 1 | How to Tell a Girl We're Going OutIt means deleting her because she wasn't initiating contact in the first place | /r/askTRP | 13/11/17 12:49 AM |
| 6 | How to Tell a Girl We're Going OutShoulda hard nexted after the second no response. Stop trying to make sense out of nonsense. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/17 08:18 AM |
| 1 | Should I break up w a girl if I don't know if I can do better?Make yourself worth better. But the real thing is if you're indecisive about breaking things off you should have a while ago | /r/askTRP | 12/11/17 02:45 AM |
| 6 | How much money do you have to make to make up for being short?I'm 5'5 and I can tell that I'm happier than you. Get out of your own head and you'll realize that the only reason your money will ever matter to other people is when they want to take it from you. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/17 08:24 AM |
| 1 | Hydrogen Peroxide and Whitening Teeth.Has this actually worked for you? | /r/askTRP | 08/11/17 08:16 AM |
| 1 | What type of stuff do you do to stand out among men when it comes to appearances?You don't stand out from lifting at a reasonable rate. You stand out from having numbers high enough to make your physique stand out. To stand out in an interaction that's different and requires frame. But just to do it without any type of interacting the easiet way is higher lifting numbers. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/17 05:35 AM |
| 3 | What type of stuff do you do to stand out among men when it comes to appearances?I'd be a solid 5'7 | /r/askTRP | 06/11/17 08:27 PM |
| 2 | How do you handle not coming off as a wannabe-PUA/tryhard/etc.?Part of them believing anything you say includes the truth. It's just a matter of how you want to deal with things. Beta: Wow he's so creepy now that I know he can't even handle social situations without advice from books. I'm going to leave before this gets weirder. Chad: Omg he's so smart and intelligent. | /r/askTRP | 06/11/17 05:09 PM |
| 3 | What type of stuff do you do to stand out among men when it comes to appearances?Lift harder. We both know that the guy you know that gets the most pussy wears clothes that match but couldn't fit into a size small if he tried. | /r/askTRP | 06/11/17 05:03 PM |
| 1 | How do you handle not coming off as a wannabe-PUA/tryhard/etc.?If your bookshelf is the thing that drives her away then your frame wasn't strong enough in the first place. "Yeah I used to read those books but then I realized i didn't care about getting people to like me." You can say anything to these girls confidently and they'll believe you if they want dick. Just don't be a retard about what you say and keep your sentences curt and vague. Don't react to them. /u/redpilledroaster is right. | /r/askTRP | 06/11/17 04:59 PM |
| 2 | What's the most valuable information you've gained from the SideBar?I know. I was just hoping he'd have some sort of response. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/17 10:10 AM |
| 1 | What's the most valuable information you've gained from the SideBar?How is it bullshit? | /r/askTRP | 26/10/17 06:32 AM |
| 1 | The change in how people treat you once you get fit/bulky is real, and one of the best things that happened to me. Thanks TRPJust wanted update you. Just hit 205 lb bench while maintaining the abs I cut down to. 5'5 150 lbs. Thank you for the tough love. | /r/askTRP | 21/10/17 08:56 PM |
| 3 | Girlfriend cut herself after I soft nexted her?I beg anyone who reads this comment to follow this man's advice. Please save yourself the pain. | /r/askTRP | 21/10/17 09:30 AM |
| 34 | Redpill Comedians?Patrice O Neal. He's my favorite comedian of all time and he taught me more about happiness than anyone else I've ever learned from. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/17 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Did 4 approaches and lost motivationSMV is not an acronym for status money value. It's an acronym for social market value. That encompasses everything that could possibly be of value to people. Which includes looks and the ability to protect with physical strength. Please read the sidebar. Nobody cares about how unfortunate you feel you are. You're not special. You're average. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/17 04:57 AM |
| 6 | How to handle someone not being interested in you or "out of your league"?/r/redpillwomen ask there | /r/askTRP | 17/10/17 04:45 AM |
| 1 | So do I have to be an asshole and flex my low agreeableness with the girl I'm trying to get to or just to the people around us so she can see I'm not beta?Don't do shit for her. She definitely doesn't give a fuck about you. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/17 10:41 AM |
| 2 | How to eat out a girl? (NSFW)Just figure out a technique you like that applies light pressure to the clit and keep rhythm. The most important thing is keeping rhythm. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/17 08:14 PM |
| 1 | "Dont shit where you eat" applies to college campus?It's all a learning process. I still have my demons as well. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/17 03:41 PM |
| 1 | "Dont shit where you eat" applies to college campus?There's your problem. Girls don't even begin to show their true colors until 3 months. She set the bait and you took it. Don't give advice on what not to do when your own mistake could have easily been prevented. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/17 03:14 PM |
| 1 | "Dont shit where you eat" applies to college campus?Did you plate her for a minimum 6 months as the normal vetting process? | /r/askTRP | 05/10/17 03:10 PM |
| 1 | "Dont shit where you eat" applies to college campus?Or just don't LTR girls who don't see you as the prize | /r/askTRP | 05/10/17 03:02 PM |
| 25 | Is TRP compatible with men uninterested in casual sex?You know how the guy on campus with the biggest muscles, largest social network, most charisma, and most potential for success has the hottest, if not one of the hottest girls on campus as his main girl or his fuckbuddy? TRP teaches you that she isn't 'the one' for him and he isn't 'the one' for her. They're just each other's best options at the moment. For those guys that have no options, TRP teaches you that you can gain them with direct work towards improving those characteristics in yourself… | /r/askTRP | 04/10/17 01:25 AM |
| 1 | My wife left me...ended up hereI already monk moded all summer. I'm pretty confident in who I am now. That doesn't translate to social skills and seduction though | /r/askTRP | 30/09/17 11:59 PM |
| 1 | My wife left me...ended up hereWhat do I do if me not trying comes off as almost asexual? Recently when it comes to girls i just make light fun of them in conversations now and that's been positive but still no results I've seen of building attraction, but I never think to bring up sex talk natutally. And kino feels so unnatural to me because physical contact is so foreign to me. Natual kino is also what I'm having tons of issues with. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/17 11:15 PM |
| 3 | My wife left me...ended up herewomen decide if they're going to have sex with you within five minutes of meeting you This is my most difficult thing to learn. I'm in the process of learning how to be fun enough in that first 5 minutes while also kind of being sexual. But I've been doing it by asking questions that kind of relate to the situation but aren't truly relevant so it's funny that i asked at all | /r/askTRP | 30/09/17 10:51 PM |
| 1 | My relationships tend to start going south when I begin calling girls out on their misbehavior...What I'm saying is the risk you face in actually throwing a punch back is astronomical if you aren't a celebrity. Why did you LTR someone who makes you have to physically defend yourself? If some random bar girl tries throwing punches there's tons of ways to de escalate without facing an assault charge. If you aren't strong enough to use retraint as a first resort on some girl punching you then you need more time in the gym. All of you quick to pull the trigger on brute physical blunt force are … | /r/askTRP | 28/09/17 02:34 PM |
| 2 | My relationships tend to start going south when I begin calling girls out on their misbehavior...You seem to have things figured out so best of luck | /r/askTRP | 28/09/17 08:00 AM |
| 3 | My relationships tend to start going south when I begin calling girls out on their misbehavior...maybe you enjoy when your woman is beating you. If your girl was beating you in the first place then you're an even bigger pussy by solving it by punching harder. If you have to resort to pure physicality to get your girl to listen to you then you're mentally too slow to understand how pathetic you are. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/17 07:02 AM |
| 9 | My relationships tend to start going south when I begin calling girls out on their misbehavior...they get beat up Dude what the hell | /r/askTRP | 27/09/17 09:47 PM |
| 1 | This is so frustrating, why can't I get these girls to want to send nudes, etc.Stop pulling teeth. Make them think their nudes are worthless by not caring about them. You're taking the chase away. But /u/1pink1stink is right. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/17 05:55 AM |
| 15 | Someone in this sub said "you'll know when she wants to branch swing/wants to dump you", so my question, what are some telltale signs that she is gonna do it?Her orbiters are asexual to her. That's why creepy guys exist. If someone is making her feel sexual she wants to have sex with them. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/17 04:14 PM |
| 9 | How is it that a few girls still date manginas?Fat girl with a nose ring, and he has to lie to keep things going. SMV 1 dating an SMV 2. Beggars can't be choosers, but scraps are lying around everywhere. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/17 01:15 PM |
| 12 | Sidebar completed. What is TRP REALLY besides respecting yourself?Good job actually reading the sidebar. You're ahead of way more men than you realize. TRP is what you make of it. Some people(myself) had no idea how much work respecting yourself actually is. If much of it was obvious to you, be thankful. Some people learn other things. If self respect is what you got from the sidebar then great. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/17 03:44 AM |
| 9 | I'm 15, am I too young to bone a fit piece of flap who is 19?Dylan these right fucks here just don't know how much 1337 swag you swing on the daily. Nandos sounds perfect just make sure to cover her mouth with your free hand so the moans don't make everyone else there jealous of you mate! | /r/askTRP | 20/09/17 02:11 AM |
| 2 | For the love of God can someone please explain to an autistic more about frame?It shouldn't be letting go. It should be being too busy with your own life to care about the miniscule details in hers. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/17 08:45 PM |
| 2 | For the love of God can someone please explain to an autistic more about frame?You can get to know her by seeing if she's someone that wants to have fun with you and dance. If she doesn't dance with you she should be more than happy to chat afterwards. If it's important enough it can wait till after your fun. You want to dance, she wants to talk. If you shift your frame to talking just because she wanted to, then you're entering her frame. Just being hot isn't enough reason for you to shift your focus from what you were doing. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/17 07:32 PM |
| 17 | For the love of God can someone please explain to an autistic more about frame?Your frame is how you want to conduct yourself. Holding frame is not changing that to accommodate the people around you. For example if you're at a party and you are dancing and a girl comes up to you and tries to talk to you. Losing your frame would be stopping your dancing to have a conversation with her. Holding frame would be saying "you talk too much" with a smile and counting to dance. Holding frame is outcome independent because you do exactly what you want to do regardless of how people … | /r/askTRP | 18/09/17 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Senior fucking freshman in high school?Not worth the hassle when she catches feelings. When I- my cousin did it, it backfired HARD. Stay off the freshman as a senior. There's PLENTY more better options in your current class and college is bountiful. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/17 05:02 PM |
| 1 | My parents were never married, now separating after 30 years. How can I help?Damn i wish i was home instead of away for the next few months. Thank you. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/17 03:22 AM |
| 3 | Ah, so being overweight truly is being sexually invisible to most women?No I don't lol. But I know the most muscular guy at the parties on campus who does. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/17 05:14 PM |
| 1 | I've never been denied sex by my gf, yet she never initiates it.It's a place for discussion but part of that is telling someone they're thinking too hard. I solved your exact question by just telling my girl what I wanted. You think it ruins the fantasy but it doesn't because she will naturally do it the next time without you expecting it. Just tell her what you want. The reason she would do it for a Chader dude is because he would tell her what he wants while you're trying to philosophize about whether or not she would do it for a Chader guy whatever that e… | /r/askTRP | 06/09/17 11:26 PM |
| 1 | I've never been denied sex by my gf, yet she never initiates it.Holy fuck dude how much time do you spend reading this subreddit every day you need to stop thinking so hard. Tell her what you want and enjoy when she does it without a prompt next time. She's literally begging you for sex it's not that hard. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/17 10:26 PM |
| 1 | This girl told me to come by, i think i went by too early. She changed her mind. What do i do?Still man I don't wanna pay for sex right now. That's a lot of money out of what I have at the moment. I'd rather just keep gaming girls on campus | /r/askTRP | 03/09/17 09:39 PM |
| 1 | This girl told me to come by, i think i went by too early. She changed her mind. What do i do?Yeah she kissed me a bit and told me to come by as she left the party we threw. It was about 2:40. I went over about 2:45 so i rounded to 3AM. When i opened the door she was awake sitting in a chair but told me she was gonna sleep instead so i just left. Looking back more soberly i shoulda just said okay goodnight when she didn't want to just stay at my room and let her go instead of going to hers afterwards. I was probably screwed the second i agreed to that. I learned 2 things from last night … | /r/askTRP | 03/09/17 03:54 PM |
| 2 | This girl told me to come by, i think i went by too early. She changed her mind. What do i do?I mean I'm not a virgin but I've only been with 1 girl about 9 months ago. Plus 150 dollars for 30 minutes of vagina bothers me. That's 17 hours of work at my summer job for 30 minutes of something she was born with. And guys get it free everyday. I'd rather get new clothes that fit better and Jack off than pay 150 for dry pussy | /r/askTRP | 03/09/17 02:53 PM |
| 1 | any tips on being a smooth talker???RemindMe! 3 hours. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/17 02:35 PM |
| 1 | This girl told me to come by, i think i went by too early. She changed her mind. What do i do?Yeah I've got about a thousand dollars. Why? | /r/askTRP | 03/09/17 02:17 PM |
| 5 | This girl told me to come by, i think i went by too early. She changed her mind. What do i do?Thank you I'm very drunk and horny | /r/askTRP | 03/09/17 07:10 AM |
| 1 | This girl told me to come by, i think i went by too early. She changed her mind. What do i do?Yeah you're right. I'm just desperate. Ill get out of here. Its not a pedestal thing it wad more holy shit any pussy kind of thing. But ill go to sleep or jack off idk one of the two. It's just pussy in the end. I'm back to my room now ill sleep. I didn't knock on her door again i just left. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/17 07:06 AM |
| 1 | This girl told me to come by, i think i went by too early. She changed her mind. What do i do?Eh its 3AM. No other girls. I'll probably go to sleepb if i don't knock on her door for the second time. Ill jack off tomorrow i guess | /r/askTRP | 03/09/17 06:59 AM |
| 2 | How do I improve my social skills in college group conversations?Thank you that gives me something to build on. I appreciate it | /r/askTRP | 02/09/17 04:24 AM |
| 2 | I don't "get what I want" in lifeThank you so much for your wisdom. Everyone here at TRP has been such a great help to me that you've already flipped my life, but this is my next step. I've got to start making some mistakes and pushing myself past my self imposed limits. Typing this I discovered a memory of something that has been eating at me since 6th grade after journalism. I completely blocked that out of my mind and now that I'm remembering it I think it's the only really EMBARRASSING rejection I've ever had. I didn't talk… | /r/askTRP | 31/08/17 05:15 AM |
| 1 | I don't "get what I want" in lifeThank you for your time and effort in your response. I have this toolbox that you all at TRP provided. With a lot of things in it. I haven't gotten any girls so far. Mainly because I haven't made the push to fail. But if I'm hearing you right, along with Jordan Peterson saying that women want a wild man that is civilized, I need to be willing to too loudly or annoyingly open girls and show that I'm attracted to them with the chance of rejection in the back of my mind because I haven't developed … | /r/askTRP | 31/08/17 03:12 AM |
| 2 | In your opinion, who is the epitome of The Red Pill?The man you see yourself as when you work towards your goals | /r/askTRP | 30/08/17 09:00 PM |
| 1 | HB 9 texted 18yr noob after ghosting him. How to proceed?Approaching in itself is idgaf because it's saying fuck whatever you're doing I'm here now. Never wait on a girl for anything. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/17 12:42 PM |
| 2 | I don't "get what I want" in lifeI'm not OP, but I've been struggling with this. Do you try to get into anything related to it and keep trying things until something works? | /r/askTRP | 30/08/17 02:32 AM |
| 2 | Should a man get angry and raise his voice at his wife? Is having a short temper a bad thing?Believe in everything you say and avoid argument whenever possible. Be stupidly confident without arrogance. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/17 04:33 AM |
| 2 | Should a man get angry and raise his voice at his wife? Is having a short temper a bad thing?With that said, the man did 16 years of stand up comedy and human behavioral studies while on stage. He could tell the way your father affected your childhood by the way you place your legs if a cold breeze comes in from the East. I'd practice a ton on other people before going in on your wife | /r/askTRP | 28/08/17 04:25 AM |
| 1 | Should a man get angry and raise his voice at his wife? Is having a short temper a bad thing?Patrice O' Neal figured it out. His advice is to be retardedly confident in what you say and it comes out right. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/17 04:21 AM |
| 1 | Huge increase in sex with LTR due to TRP??Hey there buddy. As someone who has been through this exact situation with the same girl twice when i was a pathetic loser(not saying you are at all), I'd start looking for other girls ASAP. Doesn't matter how above the other guys you know you are. All she cares about are her feels. In my situation I couldn't take the headache anymore and broke up with her. Less than 24 hours later facebook update with her in a relationship with the 'friend.' | /r/askTRP | 28/08/17 04:17 AM |
| 2 | How do you guys find the time to do all these activities?inb4 boxing fitness classes are for fags Never self-deprecate. If someone criticizes you, try to understand why and see if it is helpful to you. If someone just says something to insult you for selfish reasons. Ignore it, it doesn't matter, they don't matter, and they have nothing going on in their lives that makes them understand the purpose of discipline towards something. Only explain yourself if you feel the honest criticism deserves it, and to place your point of view in that persons mind t… | /r/askTRP | 28/08/17 12:06 AM |
| 1 | How to trickle truth something out of a plate?Yeah I play and practice viola daily(Currently working on a concerto to perform at open mics), very amateur photographer just starting out with enough I saved over summer to buy a camera, play soccer any opportunity I get to stay in shape and improve(currently nursing a torn muscle), love cooking and always trying to learn new recipes and make new things when I can afford it. Those are the things I do pretty much daily. Also lift 5 and do cardio 5 days a week which I love but I don't consider a … | /r/askTRP | 27/08/17 10:20 PM |
| 1 | How to trickle truth something out of a plate?Thank you. Still searching for that thing but I'm getting closer. Worked my ass off as a sous chef this summer. Last day was today before going back to college tomorrow. Loved it but not sure if I loved it enough for it to be my main income. Will keep at it. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/17 09:41 PM |
| 1 | How to trickle truth something out of a plate?Just piggybacking off of this, could you possibly give a few tips on kickstarting a business? I'm 20 going into my third year of college and I want to get started now. I only have a couple hundred dollars saved but I own my own camera that I want to monetize soon. I don't think i'd start a photography business but I'd appreciate any tips you could give in general on kickstarting one. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/17 09:06 PM |
| 3 | How to trickle truth something out of a plate?If she didn't keep her hypergamy on a leash - fuck promoting her. It's not her job to keep her hypergamy on a leash. It's yours. You have to be better than other guys. Women do not cheat and fuck around maliciously. It's purely an unconscious emotional reaction to your conscious behavior. I can't really be outcome-independent since the promotion and my allocation of resources to other girls depend on this. She will show it when she wants a promotion. Asking things like "so what are we?" You don'… | /r/askTRP | 27/08/17 08:40 PM |
| 14 | I am demotivated to do this stuff.Don't have any videos but here's a link to what happens when a bluepill guy doesn't have any direction in life. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/17 05:50 PM |
| 2 | How much would you pay a matchmaking service to find a loyal loving spouse?You're putting the cart before the horse. The only men that would use the service are men that wouldn't be able to maintain the dream you're selling. Women will still be just as picky and the men will be just as incapable of keeping themselves happy. That's only my opinion though. Good luck and don't listen to people like me telling you that it can't be done because of my own thoughts. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/17 05:47 PM |
| 4 | My Seduction Journey #46Great job man. Keep it up. Glad to see things are improving for you. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/17 05:34 AM |
| -1 | Where can I go that is just like TRP but not about pussy, only about becoming something worth a fuck?/r/MGTOW | /r/askTRP | 25/08/17 06:04 PM |
| 4 | Holding a frame when she says gut wrenching thingsBut when you have some sort of respect for the girl for whatever reason and she says that stuff... AWALT. Expect nothing from anyone and you'll never be surprised. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/17 05:53 PM |
| 1 | How to care more about myself?You lift and take cold showers because you should. Not because of endorphins. It's not supposed to feel good | /r/askTRP | 25/08/17 12:17 AM |
| 2 | How to care more about myself?You can force yourself you just don't. Nothing is stopping you from going to the gym right now other than your decision not to. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/17 12:16 AM |
| 2 | Suiciding young, really a tragedy?I'm going to write a post on beating clinical depression one day. As for now you need to know that clinical depression comes from the actions you take in your daily life. I've gone through some hell in terms of family relationships but what helped me escape that was changing the way i live so that I would be happy regardless of the shit they brought into my life. E.g. I went out and played soccer every day for months despite their vehement objection. I got a job with a long commute despite their… | /r/askTRP | 24/08/17 07:11 PM |
| 1 | "Beware of the easy lay" from online dating. Need advice.Ok thank you. I Was just trying to follow the guide i read exactly to the word. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/17 12:24 AM |
| 1 | "Beware of the easy lay" from online dating. Need advice.I mean you can't raise your SMV from texting only lower it so I've been keeping stuff short. I planned on picking her up and taking her out for ice cream and we could talk during that and have a real conversation in person. I get what you're saying though. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/17 12:14 AM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread August 23Hey guys. I'm mostly unsuccessful with online dating currently but I'm working on it through /u/omlala 's guide on how to do it. I managed to get one girl's phone number within about 4 messages off of POF recently but it feels like a beware of the easy lay situation. I'm not sure because it's my first time ever getting this far with a girl online. Here's the full transcript of our texts. 1 2 3 I haven't contacted her since the address. I googled it and it was a single family home from street vie… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/17 12:05 AM |
| 5 | The oneI don't understand how guys can say a girl is 'perfect' just because they like 2 artists you like and went to college. She plays videogames. So does everyone. There's guys out there who are relaxing in bed to cool down from a threesome after fucking their main chick and side chick who know about each other. One is in his kitchen right now cooking dinner for them. The other isn't bothering him with bullshit. And you're on here saying this girl is 'the one' because she wears jeans, listens to song… | /r/askTRP | 23/08/17 12:53 PM |
| 4 | Stop focussing on getting laid, start focussing on everything else that will result in getting you laid.Anything you can recommend reading on improving one's tone of voice? | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/17 04:55 AM |
| 1 | Anyone start out as Blue Pill PUA?Yeah I tried hard as hell and couldn't get any girls. Decided to learn how to be happy without them since i couldn't get them. Worked on things i valued, beat clinical depression. Became happy being me. Now girls want me. Go figure. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/17 05:49 AM |
| 1 | How can a guy build his status and eventually become a high status man that gets hot girls?Good job generic male. Proud of you. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/17 04:27 AM |
| 1 | How can a guy build his status and eventually become a high status man that gets hot girls?Good luck surviving the bullshit of the real world you sensitive snowflake The definition of irony personified. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/17 04:17 AM |
| 2 | How can a guy build his status and eventually become a high status man that gets hot girls?Well I tried. Good luck buddy. You're gonna need it. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/17 04:16 AM |
| 2 | How can a guy build his status and eventually become a high status man that gets hot girls?The fact that you have the time to get offended by and insult some random dude back on the internet shows you aren't devoting enough time to yourself and your own improvement. I'm writing this in the middle of practicing a viola concerto I'm learning on my own while my arm rests a bit. He was aggresive and abrasive but it's completely obvious you haven't read the sidebar on any redpill subreddit based on your question. The simplest way to put it is you build value by doing things you view as val… | /r/askTRP | 22/08/17 04:01 AM |
| 5 | recommended readings on how to act in social situations with other guys?How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie. Be yourself, dont be an unrighteous asshole. Just be likeable and interested in what makes them tick. Involve yourself in conversation, ask questions about things you don't understand, and learn from them. Making friends and seduction are two completely different things. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/17 03:06 AM |
| 3 | How to approach women at the gymI just don't approach at the gym. I just use it to work on my conversational skills with dudes there while also sometimes potentially get invited to athletic events outside of the gym (where you can meet athletic girls not at your gym.) Even if I felt it was a sure thing I don't approach because I don't need to have any of the inevitable and eventual drama that will occur with someone I see regularly at a place I go to clear my head. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/17 03:00 AM |
| 13 | If it's just your turn then is there any point in having an ltr in the first place?When a girl you're fucking starts desiring a LTR with you and has to keep proving herself as worthy of your attention, she cleans your house when you tell her, she sucks your dick on a 10 minute drive to the store when you tell her, she stays in shape to keep you sexually attracted, she gives you space when you want it and shows up to things you want her company with, anything that you tell her will make you happy she will do. With all that, you still don't give a fuck because you'd be fine with… | /r/askTRP | 22/08/17 02:55 AM |
| 1 | The red pill gives ugly guys false hopeIt does work. It's just 17 year olds have had such little time to develop themselves through their own volition it's as if it depends more on how they were raised rather than their own efforts towards improvement. He can be THE DUDE on campus in 1 year whereas if he were just finding TRP at 35 it'd take longer simply because a larger percentage of men have devoted themselves to self improvement. You know what can completely change in a year? Looks. Gym and lifting. In HS you just need to be pres… | /r/askTRP | 22/08/17 02:42 AM |
| 2 | How many days are required to read all the redpill related articles and books?In 6 months you should be living better than you currently are. In 24 hours you should be living better than you currently are now. Just reading wont help | /r/askTRP | 22/08/17 01:25 AM |
| 12 | The red pill gives ugly guys false hopeHow many clubs have you founded at your high school? How many songs have you learned on the instrument you practice daily? What sports teams are you a starter on or captain? What job do you have? What books do you read? Where do you spend weekends? What connections do you have? | /r/askTRP | 22/08/17 01:19 AM |
| 2 | Is TRP's goal to make a man into a misanthrope that gets laid, makes money, but has no friends or social acquaintances? Is this the ideal life for your 30s that TRP preaches about?A HUGE part of this entire thing is about creating better social status. The only way to do that is to meet people. I know more people now than ever before TRP | /r/askTRP | 21/08/17 04:59 AM |
| 1 | What do you think about the highschool sweetheart scenario?This is 100% correct for anyone reading. Take this man's advice. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/17 01:25 AM |
| 3 | How the fuck am i supposed game anyone if they just assume i'm some old ass man?You: "Just warning you I'm ugly as fuck so please tell me it doesn't matter just like mommy does when i feel bad about myself" Her: "Aw poor baby it's okay you're fine" (Haha totally gamed her) I'm not trying to be a dick but you're not gaming anything if you're telling them what you think is fucked up about it. "Buy this house there's mold all over the interior" "No" | /r/askTRP | 20/08/17 06:46 AM |
| 1 | Envy level reaching heavenThey just don't want you to see them as worth little because the money that they have is worth little. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/17 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Envy level reaching heavenThey say you are superficial when you care about money but to be honest I think everyone would like to have as much money as possible. As someone who is poor and working on it, they're saying that in regards to how you view them, not in how you should view yourself. They are also probably poor. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/17 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Older guys, what do relationships and the whole social game in general look like after 30? Especially if you remain single and follow what TRP says?Damn... I gotto keep improving... | /r/askTRP | 20/08/17 01:05 AM |
| 3 | Waiting to fuck this girl for a month now. How do I not blow my load as soon as I put it in?Was in a LTR for 2 years with a girl that I got a boner from in passing and was omega to the point where she was my whole life. Didn't get head for the first 9 months to a year. Didn't have sex until nearing the end of the second year shortly before we broke up. The blowjobs felt like nothing and I'd end up jacking off while she kissed me and I didn't cum from sex the first 3 times out of the 5 times we did sex. I have no other girl to compare her to since I'm nowhere near high enough SMV to get… | /r/askTRP | 18/08/17 01:18 PM |
| 3 | To the man shooting 3's in the gym todayAt 28 you need to be doing financially and socially better than most guys. He probably isn't there yet. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/17 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Im 19 where do i start?Yeah. That quote showed me i haven't put in the work yet because I'm not a winner yet. Made it really simple | /r/askTRP | 18/08/17 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Im 19 where do i start?Don't read the sidebar and think to yourself oh wow now I can go get a girl. This shit is hard work and it is not going to happen overnight. "If I'm a winner, a girl will snatch me up." - Patrice O' Neal | /r/askTRP | 17/08/17 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Losing virginity to a hooker vs. Losing virginity from a one night standI'd work on getting a job first tbh. Sorry about your leg | /r/askTRP | 16/08/17 05:04 PM |
| 2 | New to Asktrp What's up with this whole Alpha Male thing?The other guys answered pretty well, but I wanted to chime in a bit. The stickied post on here says read the sidebar first for this reason. The majority of people on here have no idea what TRP is actually about and just read self posts written by people who were also too lazy to read the sidebar. I highly recommend pretending all the self/link post no longer exist until you finish the entire sidebar on asktrp and theredpill. Nobody on here who understands TRP says that you should be a dick. What… | /r/askTRP | 14/08/17 05:45 AM |
| 1 | How do you actually browse TRP sub?You should go outside and practice more often. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/17 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Are push ups really the best exercise that you could do in a small amount of time?2 hours is more than enough time to get to a gym and back. Even moreso with the beginner programs you'd be on. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/17 12:15 PM |
| 1 | How old is too old to start?I'm young but tons of people get her and start after a divorce in their 40s. You have plenty of time. You're young too. | /r/askTRP | 07/08/17 11:47 AM |
| 1 | On a brink of suicideI don't have much to say other than you're not alone. It gets better if you keep pushing. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/17 12:52 PM |
| 3 | On a brink of suicideJust because a woman wants to reap the benefits of your status, doesn't mean you aren't walking alone on that path. Cheerleaders don't go to football practice, but they show up for the big game. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/17 12:51 PM |
| 1 | Head-swiveling, prolonged stares, and commenting/liking/PMing women's social media is a demonstration of low value and fucks up the SMP.Thank you I'll get those ASAP | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/17 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to improve yourself without going to the gym?Get in the fucking gym or spend the later 50% of your life in constant pain with minimal mobility and strength. Eventually live your life in the cage that is your bed restrained by the shackles called your frail legs. Only using them occasionally to barely make it to the fridge. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/17 05:07 AM |
| 10 | How does a short brown dude get laid?Get off of /r/rateme and /r/amiugly and /r/firstimpressions and start reading the sidebar. This post and your post history reeks of free time and insecurity. A year of consistent lifting is average time to see improvement. You shouldn't have time to rate other people on reddit's facial appearance. What hobbies do you regularly partake in? What is your income like? Where are your future prospects? What instrument can you play? What are your life goals? What are you good enough at to say you're be… | /r/askTRP | 05/08/17 05:01 AM |
| 1 | Head-swiveling, prolonged stares, and commenting/liking/PMing women's social media is a demonstration of low value and fucks up the SMP.Are those body language and tells in the sidebar? I've read it but can't remember those parts. I've been trying to learn about male and female body language that I can implement but I can't find the right things to read. Is it somewhere in the rational male? | /r/TheRedPill | 05/08/17 04:36 AM |
| 3 | BREAKING: Michelle Carter Sentenced To 2.5 Years In Texting Suicide CaseI can't even imagine someone texting me they were feeling suicidal and replying "do it." She sent dozens of messages and probably discussed it in person or on the phone with him regularly. These people want me to feel sorry and empathetic for a girl who fucking convinced someone to kill themselves. If you can be an accessory to a murder by knowing who killed someone but not telling anybody, you sure as hell can be an accessory to a suicide for consciously convincing them to go through with it. S… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 04/08/17 04:07 AM |
| 11 | BREAKING: Michelle Carter Sentenced To 2.5 Years In Texting Suicide CaseI honestly doubt this will come close to happening. The way so many people are giving her the benefit of the doubt and saying "she will finally get the help she needs," I feel like a company somewhere will find a way to turn this into a success story of "how companies are no longer discriminating against criminals, one brave company takes a chance on a fully rehabilitated young lady who has been through 6 months of hardship on house arrest." If this were a 17 year old boy with 3 weeks to go unti… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 04/08/17 03:57 AM |
| 2 | askTRP Megathread August 02I'm 20 and learning my classical string instrument again. I go to college. How can i maximize my use of my viola? I love playing and improving but how can i put my efforts to good use in the world around me? | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/17 03:57 AM |
| 1 | Should i drop a girl if i notice shes beginning to control my lifeWell since becoming 'whipped' is directly derived from how slave masters violently lashed their slaves into submission to break their free will and force them to obey their every command, I think there might be some similarity in how those things are related. Not sure though I'd have to run some tests. | /r/askTRP | 03/08/17 12:49 AM |
| 12 | Should i drop a girl if i notice shes beginning to control my lifeYou should drop anything if that thought even slightly enters your mind in relation to that thing. It's like asking if you should stop pushing a knife into your chest because the tip hurt but it might get better if you keep pushing. | /r/askTRP | 03/08/17 12:26 AM |
| 4 | Should I live life if I am fat and floppy?In 4 months, you'll wish you'd have started today. If you start today, in 4 months you'll be 4 months closer to your goals. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/17 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Tinder girl just wanted to cuddle, weirdest date I've ever had.Anytime. Good luck to you soldier. | /r/askTRP | 01/08/17 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Tinder girl just wanted to cuddle, weirdest date I've ever had.Thank you very much. My first pic is just a shirtless pic of me at home at the moment. I should get a decent face picture one | /r/askTRP | 01/08/17 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Tinder girl just wanted to cuddle, weirdest date I've ever had.Do you mind DMing me your profile? I've gotten 0 matches on tinder I'm trying to improve | /r/askTRP | 01/08/17 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Tinder girl just wanted to cuddle, weirdest date I've ever had.True. Just trying to learn though | /r/askTRP | 01/08/17 04:03 AM |
| 1 | I have decided no gym will ever deserve my hard earned money. What workout routine will get me strong enough to kill someone with my bare hands?Did you get hurt at the gym or something? Was your form bad? | /r/askTRP | 01/08/17 03:36 AM |
| 2 | Tinder girl just wanted to cuddle, weirdest date I've ever had.Right I understand that, but i feel as though she wouldn't have had to play hard to get and pretend to be a good girl if she didn't feel like she initiated the sexual situation. In my opinion it came off as needy and desperate to immediately switch your suggestion to hers, whereas had you stayed with the mall, she could have had her deniability date and then be able to say the netflix and chill "just happened" if you invited her over after doing the kino in the mall. There might still have been … | /r/askTRP | 01/08/17 03:33 AM |
| 2 | My Seduction Journey #45Do you have any hobbies besides reading and lifting? I find that I NEED to make time for other physical hobbies where i either create something or socialize. Nothing turns a shitty day around for me like a good game of soccer. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/17 02:39 AM |
| 1 | Tinder girl just wanted to cuddle, weirdest date I've ever had./u/GayLubeOil can you chime in on this please? I have a theory that the reason she put up all that LMR was because he left his frame by changing the date from the mall to the house with her obviously sexual suggestion, thus taking away the plausable deniability of meeting him for something other than sex. If he had stayed firm with going to the mall with ice cream, did some light kino, and then suggested going back to his place for the movie while at the mall, could he have sealed the deal? Or w… | /r/askTRP | 01/08/17 02:35 AM |
| 2 | I feel like minorities make a way bigger deal about race than white people do in social interactions, any other ethnic guys with similar experiences?Remember this is one minority's thoughts from one school in one area. Go to the meetings and make your own decisions. | /r/askTRP | 31/07/17 11:38 AM |
| 1 | How to read more often?Oh no it's an entire 4 week completey free course on learning how to learn. Improving learning skills. In week 1 they discuss pomodoro a bunch and then reference it every week at some point. Really great course overall. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/17 09:18 PM |
| 1 | How to read more often?Did you do the coursea course too? | /r/askTRP | 30/07/17 08:20 PM |
| 2 | I feel like minorities make a way bigger deal about race than white people do in social interactions, any other ethnic guys with similar experiences?I stopped going to the racially focused cultural clubs at my school. I realised that their intentions for trying to incentivise people of other races to attend meetings was to make those people feel the claustrophobic and oppressive forces of being a minority, rather than to educate other races of those forces. No one except a masochist will willingly place themseleves in a mentally uncomfortable position, and even if they do, it's purely for entertainment and not learning. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/17 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Asking a girl you don't never talked out.Yeah you really need to get into more abundance mindset by approaching more girls or even just getting out of the house. You have to experience how many hot girls are out there everywhere around you. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/17 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Asking a girl you don't never talked out.If you added her on social media without talking to her in person you kinda lost already. I learned the hard way. Give it a shot if you want to learn | /r/askTRP | 30/07/17 04:43 PM |
| 3 | LTR 'break' UPDATE - you were rightSorry this happened to you bud, but it's one of those things everybody has to learn the hard way. If someone is unsure about whether you should get back together the answer will always be no, regardless of anything else they say surrounding it at the time they say that. Cut contact and move on. You'll feel better eventually. Don't make the same mistake twice and get back with her either if she comes around one day. That's one of the things you can learn the hard way if you choose but it's really… | /r/askTRP | 30/07/17 01:49 PM |
| 6 | I thought these were strong IOIs, but she has a BF. Am I crazy?Thank you for posting this so I further remember the importance of confidence in always assuming interest and to take action. Honestly not sure how more obvious someone can be | /r/askTRP | 30/07/17 01:43 PM |
| 2 | How do I get myself to take action towards my goals?You just gotta start. There is no fire to light under your ass. Set a time tomorrow, pick up the phone, and call. | /r/askTRP | 28/07/17 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Took girl out on a date. She wants to Netflix and Chill tonight at her place. I have no sexual experience. Help.RemindMe! 1 day. | /r/askTRP | 28/07/17 02:35 AM |
| 1 | 5'7" manlet here. Lacking facial aesthetics but lifting hard. Do I have any chance?My career path has nothing to do with my instrument. I'm putting in hours with it on top of work hours. You definitely need to reevaluate your career though. You shouldn't be doing anything that means jack shit. I've gotta focus on my music now though so I'm going to let you go. I tried to help all i could within reason. Idk if you're willing to accept any help or if you're willing to help yourself but that's all on you. Best of luck | /r/askTRP | 27/07/17 04:01 AM |
| 1 | 5'7" manlet here. Lacking facial aesthetics but lifting hard. Do I have any chance?Having the genes to live long doesn't mean anything if you don't make your life worth living bro. Having the genes to be ok- looking doesn't mean anything if you don't make your life worth living. You're the one choosing to live painfully. Not your genes. I'm replying to you in the middle of practicing my instrument. It makes me happy to see myself improve and i have a piece I'm working on and hearing myself play a little better each time feels wonderful. I'm adding value to my life as i type th… | /r/askTRP | 27/07/17 03:53 AM |
| 4 | 5'7" manlet here. Lacking facial aesthetics but lifting hard. Do I have any chance?Having the genes to live long doesn't mean anything if you don't make your life worth living bro. Having the genes to be ok- looking doesn't mean anything if you don't make your life worth living. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/17 03:36 AM |
| 17 | 5'7" manlet here. Lacking facial aesthetics but lifting hard. Do I have any chance?I didn't see a quesion mark. I don't have amazing facial aesthetics. In middle school a kid once literally spit on me and said "you're ugly" in front of an entire class of other kids. Another time on a bus ride home from school a girl was getting asked if she would date random guys on the bus. I had no idea what was happening when someone called my name so I'd turn around and she could see me. She pretended to vomit and literally the entire bus erupted in laughter. I was mortified. I knew few pe… | /r/askTRP | 27/07/17 03:15 AM |
| 17 | 5'7" manlet here. Lacking facial aesthetics but lifting hard. Do I have any chance?Yeah i also make excuses about my shortcomings all day and wish i was someone else | /r/askTRP | 27/07/17 02:48 AM |
| 13 | 5'7" manlet here. Lacking facial aesthetics but lifting hard. Do I have any chance?Then don't believe it. Your life choices not mine. | /r/askTRP | 27/07/17 02:28 AM |
| 18 | 5'7" manlet here. Lacking facial aesthetics but lifting hard. Do I have any chance?Yep. Now go improve yourself. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/17 11:05 PM |
| 3 | My Seduction Journey #41Proud of you man. Glad you're doing alright. I still haven't gotten laid yet either but 2 days ago i got complemented on my abs from a girl for the first time in my life. I used to be morbidly obese to the point where i couldn't look down and see my dick. I'm also approaching daily and work on my game with every human i get a chance to. Just gotta keep putting in the work and we will get laid eventually. Keep it up man. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/17 07:55 PM |
| 28 | 5'7" manlet here. Lacking facial aesthetics but lifting hard. Do I have any chance?5'4 manlet here. Yes. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/17 07:47 PM |
| 9 | Is easily getting hot girls in a third world countries an option if you aren't a white guy?Do you seriously have nothing better to do than make alt accounts to keep making posts about indians? | /r/askTRP | 26/07/17 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Replacing one day of high rep bench with ohp in phul?Ahh alrighty thank you. I can add in rows on my first leg day of the week since it's already a pretty short workout and the day after that is high rep low weight upper body | /r/askTRP | 25/07/17 11:11 PM |
| 7 | If female hypergamy is true, how can you ever get in an LTR?If one day you decide you're only eating filet mignon with a side of truffles and asparagus for the rest of your life, you might be eating healthy, but you're eventually going to starve to death. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/17 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Replacing one day of high rep bench with ohp in phul?Already have those in with dumbells | /r/askTRP | 23/07/17 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Replacing one day of high rep bench with ohp in phul?Thanks for your help man | /r/askTRP | 23/07/17 04:47 PM |
| 5 | Replacing one day of high rep bench with ohp in phul?Jesus christ... | /r/askTRP | 23/07/17 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Replacing one day of high rep bench with ohp in phul?3 to 4 months | /r/askTRP | 23/07/17 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Replacing one day of high rep bench with ohp in phul?Okay thanks | /r/askTRP | 23/07/17 03:31 PM |
| 61 | Why do girls love pop singers with beta male blue-pilled lyrics like Shawn Mendes?They're rich and famous. Girls go crazy about the guy who's social circle is positive across 2 frat houses. Imagine dating the guy who's social circle stretches across the entire planet and who has a voice people consciously choose to listen to in their spare time. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/17 01:44 PM |
| 1 | How do I get my guy back?I was a mess but im not anymore. I live alone and have spent the last 2 months talking to my dog. School doesn't start for 2 more months. I just cant think.straight now but what is more i don't have anything to look forward too. Nothing else i do alone makes me happy. Ive been getying really suicidal but i haven't told anyone because i dont want to be that fucked up.person that says love me or ill kill myself. I dont want to die or anything i just wish for it to be night all the time so i can sl… | /r/askTRP | 22/07/17 03:42 AM |
| 1 | How do I get my guy back?If you keep making these excuses for yourself you'll get nowhere. If you didn't think he was higher value than you then you'd already have realized you can do better. Quit making excuses for him and yourself. You're starving yourself, you have no friends, no hobbies, you're a grown ass MOTHER getting yelled at by the mom of a college boy for stalking him to his house, and you're a shut in. Get yourself in order. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/17 03:19 AM |
| 2 | Only post you need to read...Ever.While I understand where you're coming from, there are many more times when something beneficial to you will seem awful and daunting rather than times it will seem fun. We are human and we can't go into 100% of everything excited as fuck. In the end discipline is more important than just having fun, because discipline can be moulded into fun. Today i didn't want to go to the gym in the slightest. My body was sore, I'd worked a long shift at work, my feet were killing me, and i just wanted to nap… | /r/askTRP | 22/07/17 03:13 AM |
| 1 | How do I get my guy back?You don't miss him, you miss feeling attractive because a guy who was higher SMV than you was sneaking out on his girlfriend to cheat with you, and you felt like the girl he really wanted to be with. Listen to "The Weekend" by SZA. That's how you felt. If he came back to you at this point, after a few months or even weeks you'd see him as a punk and start taking advantage of him. You'd feel like he realized he was better off with you than without you and think you were worth more than him. You'd… | /r/askTRP | 22/07/17 03:02 AM |
| 3 | Would it be wise to ask my plates why their attracted to me?Asking a woman what your attractive strengths are is like asking a dog how you got good at throwing the stick in fetch. Whatever you're doing is working and making them happy. Don't ruin the fun. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/17 03:50 AM |
| 1 | RP has made me depressed over time.Yeah man your life sounds like agony. Hope somebody gives a shit some day. Best of luck | /r/askTRP | 17/07/17 11:35 PM |
| 2 | Advice neededBullshit. You would have put that in your main post if it was even slightly true. Now you feel like a self absorbed idiot and are trying to make up something to improve your insecure self image in the eyes of people on the internet. I don't know what special olympics mental gymnastics you're trying to pull right now but you're not convincing anybody that you're not a piece of shit. This addition to the lie at this man's expense proves it. Fuck off. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/17 06:00 AM |
| 1 | AdviceWhat else do you do besides school and job prospects? Do you lift? | /r/askTRP | 17/07/17 05:47 AM |
| 2 | Advice needed14 year old is interested in chess and joins a club to meet other people. Seeing as there is an older person in the group at the following get-together at Starbucks, she tries to meet him and perhaps learn something about chess from a more experienced player. Crazy jealous bitch feels threatened by a 14 year old so she walks up to them, accuses the man of being a sexually charged pedophile, and tells the girl to leave so she doesn't learn anything about the game of chess she wants to improve at,… | /r/askTRP | 17/07/17 05:25 AM |
| 3 | How do you swallow the red pill? What do you need to do?Well if you're THAT good that you can take down someone that much bigger than you then kudos, but for the average fighter 30 lbs is basically a loss. You don't have to get massive to have good musculature. I'm a soccer player but i lift a lot and i make sure i run every day to keep up endurance. my muscles arent massive but I'm a lot stronger than a lot of people i play with and it makes it much easier to shield the ball. I'm sure the same translates to boxing. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/17 03:41 AM |
| 5 | How do you swallow the red pill? What do you need to do?You're doing a great job taking that info you asked for! You'll have the pill swallowed in no time bro. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/17 03:15 AM |
| 2 | How do you swallow the red pill? What do you need to do?You'll lose to any person 30 lbs heavier than you no matter how good you are. Start lifting. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/17 03:10 AM |
| 2 | Open relationship?!?You have a LTR and plates on the side. That literally is an open relationship. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/17 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Is it bluepill to crave intimacy?A thing i learned recently on here is you can't negotiate attraction. Basically if she wanted to be initimate she already would be. Is she the only girl you're fucking? Maybe If you get another the preselection will cause her to want to be better than the other girl and be more intimate. Regardless, you shouldn't be annoyed or bothered that you aren't receiving intimacy from her. Find it elsewhere. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/17 11:37 PM |
| 6 | 7-8/10 male, never had a woman meet up from tinderYeah you're not big enough. I'm 5'5 and my lifts are close to that. Tinder isn't for attractive guys it's for the BEST guys. You might be attractive in general and in person but you're not > infinite supply of easy to obtain dick attractive. Keep up lifting you'll be fine in a few months to a year bro. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/17 05:56 PM |
| 0 | 7-8/10 male, never had a woman meet up from tinderWhat is your bench squat deadlift and ohp | /r/askTRP | 16/07/17 05:42 PM |
| 1 | 7-8/10 male, never had a woman meet up from tinderAre you jacked fit or 5k runner fit? | /r/askTRP | 16/07/17 05:37 PM |
| 7 | Got asked to help a couple.No. Find another 10 to fuck. There's wayyyyy too many possible situations where someone could fuck you over for this down the road. Not to mention your own mental capabilities of handling this once it actually comes to fruition. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/17 04:54 PM |
| 8 | Am overly scary/needy/possessive with girl I have oneitis for... help.You never had any frame. The fact that you talked on the phone with her for hours multiple times and have known her this long without anything happening shows that. The shit tests you got after blowing up at her moved you out of the friend zone into the pathetic asshole zone. Not the attractive zone. You have serious ONEITIS and no matter how you try to rationalize it in your mind the answer is to ghost her, stop all contact, and meet other girls. Read the sidebar learn and take action. The part… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/17 04:33 PM |
| 1 | How many cold approaches does it take to start succeeding?Just keep going and improving on it | /r/askTRP | 16/07/17 12:30 AM |
| 3 | July 14 - Weekly Improvement & Progress ThreadReally proud of myself. Finally locked down a summer job. Which was one of my last goals on a list i made some months ago. Since i finally feel sorted i worked up the courage to get my ass out to approach for the first time in months. Approached 6 girls and even had a full conversation in Spanish to buy some bracelets from a street vendor. I feel really good right now and even though i didn't get to ask for any nunbers i don't feel pathetic for not trying at all | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/17 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Games up, but I wanna win...The only way to win is not to play. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/17 04:18 PM |
| 3 | Better to be lean or big?Hmm yeah makes sense. Because anyone trying to teach you anything must actually be a pathetic piece of shit for sharing information that's ' helped ' them. Damn no wonder you and i both probably hated school. Not because it was hard work but because we were probably already smarter than those dumbass teachers trying to teach us and we couldn't handle It haha | /r/askTRP | 14/07/17 12:47 PM |
| 3 | Better to be lean or big?You know what man, you're totally right! Learning is fucking stupid how could I not see it before??? Thanks for the wakeup call | /r/askTRP | 14/07/17 12:41 PM |
| 7 | Keep getting depressed that i wont be "that guy"Step 1: Rent a violin. Practice your ass off for a year. Get private lessons if you can afford it. Learn a concerto for the next 6 months. Throughout this lift and lower your body fat so you're in the best shape of your life. Work on your financial situation so that you are as stable as you can be. Find a gig in a college town to play your concerto perfectly in front of the croud. Dress your best for the performance. Play your heart out with confidence while feeling the emotions, pain, lonliness… | /r/askTRP | 14/07/17 01:25 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop having these dreams?How do clothes show all of that... I don't get it. I feel good when I wear clothes that I think look good...I don't know what they say about me though. I just usually buy things that I think looks good | /r/askTRP | 13/07/17 12:12 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop having these dreams?I read models and NMMNG and some of 48 laws. I haven't read daybang. I can get it | /r/askTRP | 12/07/17 11:01 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop having these dreams?Never thought of it that way...how do I find a style then? Like how do I find certain pieces of clothes? I tried malefashionadvice once but it seems like everyone on there wears the exact same outfit of jeans a t shirt or button up shirt and bland sneakers. I'll read more Greene. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/17 10:59 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop having these dreams?Yeah when i recently started practicing opening with just saying hi it's felt a lot easier to meet people. I still have to learn how to go from hi to working on making people endeared to me(men or women). | /r/askTRP | 12/07/17 10:26 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop having these dreams?My style changes a lot. I really like fashion so I'll do streetwear some days, casual others, business casual some days, winter earth tones other days. Changes based on geography as well. I've been holding off of buying new clothes until I feel comfortable with my bf% though. I need to work on game. It keeps coming back to me not working on game and approaching. I just have to accept that. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/17 10:24 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop having these dreams?So I'm having no progress because I'm using self improvement as a shield for avoiding rejection. It's good that I'm doing all those things to improve myself, but I won't improve with girls until I put effort into improving with approach and game. I need to find the time to practicing approach while ALSO doing all that stuff to improve myself. I can game talk to cashiers all I want but it won't get me any further with girls. My body isn't top percentage but that doesn't matter if my game is good … | /r/askTRP | 12/07/17 10:20 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop having these dreams?I don't know. It's moreso girls are so dismissive of me in general I didn't see a point in trying until something changes. To put things in perspective I rarely even get eye contact from people. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/17 10:08 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop having these dreams?I have no game. My college is really small and approaching a lot would ruin my social status, so i only approached 1 or 2 girls a day. I planned on working on it when I got home, but i realized i should be doing more with my summer than approaching girls. So I've been working my ass off to find a job and I just got one starting tomorrow. Unfortunately where I live there's barely any places to meet people at 20 years old so my only option is a mall 30 minutes away or the beach an hour drive away.… | /r/askTRP | 12/07/17 09:59 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop having these dreams?I honestly think i am that fucked up... I'm working a lot to be a better person now because in the past I've been disrespected and ignored by girls all my life. That's why i got oneitis for my ex so hard and literally worked my ass off to make her happy in any way I could. My mentality has shifted miles in perspective since our breakup and me disciplining myself, but I haven't gotten closer to any dates or interest from girls. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/17 09:50 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop having these dreams?Yeah I'd really appreciate that. I'm trying to learn everything I can. DM me. I can't right this minute because I want to practice my instrument a bit and maybe hang with a friend after but maybe after that. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/17 08:48 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop having these dreams?Lifting regularly for about 2 years. Here and there been working on stuff harder about 5 months. About 2 months been super disciplined about it not missing a day to self improve. I guess I need to be on that grind a solid year before I should hope for some feelings of self improvement or interest from girls. Thank you for putting it in perspective. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/17 08:33 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop having these dreams?I'm trying so hard to integrate them man. I'm working out every single day. I just grinded through my workout scheduled for today 2.5 hours because my day has been awful and I'm trying to keep my stoic discipline. I am learning an instrument practicing every day, I am working on future prospects for jobs and stuff. I'm trying to smile and open everybody I see even if it's just hi. My fashion is decent. I'm learning photography and saving to buy a camera so I can start a club at my college in 2 m… | /r/askTRP | 12/07/17 08:22 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop having these dreams?Either nothing or clementine oranges. I'm on a cut | /r/askTRP | 12/07/17 07:10 PM |
| 2 | How do I stop having these dreams?Well my ex straight up told me she thought i was gay at first and was trying to make me her gay best friend. I had no interest from any girl so i thought she liked me. I tried getting physical and she realized i wasn't and she got interested but I was a complete beta in the relationship and we didn't have sex for 2 years. Didnt kiss for the first 6 months. I was just really bad. I guess you're right though. Thank you. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/17 11:57 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop having these dreams?Haven't met as in haven't had any success. I've straight up met a lot though. All my life I've been the nice short fat kid so I'm working my ass off to improve myself in every way i can before I go back to school. Rejections from every girl I've ever showed interest in all my life. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/17 11:35 AM |
| 5 | How do I create a lifestyle where I can pursue my goals? It's the summer and I'm bored as fuck.It doesn't sound like you're trying at all to me. Watching youtube isn't going to improve you without you taking action. Learn how to get a job. I wish I learned when I was 16. I'm 20 now but it was MUCH harder than I thought. I persevered and I start tomorrow morning. It doesn't have to be high paying. Just something to do and make some money (save as much as you can) while providing good life experience. Why can't you lift? GO LIFT NOW. I cannot emphasize this enough. Oh god how I wish I could… | /r/askTRP | 12/07/17 02:41 AM |
| 1 | [M24] Thinking about losing my virginity to an escort, but I'm terrified of HPV and genital herpes. I need The Red Pill perspective on this dillemaWhat's t shirt test | /r/askTRP | 10/07/17 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Returning to educationI'm only 20 now but i have a distinct memory from when I was extremely young. I asked my cousin how old he was and he said he was 16. I thought it was absolutely unbelievable how old that could be. I try to learn a lot from older people because their experience is priceless. Any tips you could give me? I already messed up and got myself in a lot of debt from college but I'm doing my best to work on it. Any other advice? | /r/askTRP | 10/07/17 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Returning to educationThanks for using that idiom! I googled Methuselah to learn who he is because my parents say it a lot. Turns out he is referenced in the bible and Torah as the oldest person to have ever lived. All texts agree he died close to the occurrence of the great flood but only the Samaritan text states that he died at 720 years old. All other say he died at 969 years old. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/17 05:13 PM |
| 2 | What am I doing wrong?My man | /r/askTRP | 09/07/17 03:57 AM |
| 1 | 33, never married, no kids. My standards in a woman are too high for my SMV. Starting to get scared.Do you travel to other countries or continents? If possible I think a bit of traveling would be good for you right now | /r/askTRP | 09/07/17 03:47 AM |
| 1 | I want to maximize my last months in college, bootcamp time motherfucker!No advice for you because you are already ahead of me, but may I ask how i can use my resources to further myself in photography when I save enough for a camera? | /r/askTRP | 08/07/17 04:23 PM |
| 14 | If a girl will only suck my knob if I eat the minge should I decline?Ha MATE you've got her by the tits if you ask me. Tell you what. Since you seem like a fucking ledge I know the bitches must always be after you so you've gotta make sure to SELECTA the right ones amIrite mate? Here's what you do go ahead and give her a quick text like you said but don't hit the bed yet. The trick is to get her to suck your knob first, and then give a little show about "warming her up first with your fingers." The moment you get one finger in there shut them eyelids faster than … | /r/askTRP | 07/07/17 10:28 PM |
| 21 | Tinder: Cop-out or Genius Seduction Tool?"Alright guys remember to SMASH that like button, favorite, comment, and subscribe!" | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/17 01:22 PM |
| 15 | Moved to NA from eastern EuropeWhat language are you developing in? | /r/askTRP | 07/07/17 01:17 PM |
| 3 | Should I try to burn my ex on our mutual scene?You shouldn't care about her reputation whether it be good or bad. Even less you shouldn't care what other people think her reputation is. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/17 06:40 PM |
| 1 | 35 years old. How do I stop being bitter and angry?As childish as it sounds, I need fun and enjoyment in my life now. There aren't enough things in my life that I enjoy doing that don't cause me any extra frustration. This is perfectly human and important to a healthy life. By the way, I actually got my ex girlfriend when I was in a very deep self-hating phase. Pretty much after our first kiss the anger was gone. It just dissolved away because I had nothing more to be angry about. I got mine when I was I a very similar phase. I started reading i… | /r/askTRP | 03/07/17 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Women find me physically attractive but I don't know how to handle it.Sidebar and improve your personality. You're bland to be around for them | /r/askTRP | 03/07/17 06:25 PM |
| 4 | “Day by day, what you choose, what you think and what you do is who you become.” - HeraclitusWhoever had enough time to copy and paste this shit is broke as fuck | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/17 06:10 PM |
| 2 | What book helped/taught you the most? And why?No more Mr. Nice Guy | /r/askTRP | 03/07/17 06:04 PM |
| 1 | 35 years old. How do I stop being bitter and angry?It was pretty hard to pick up my viola again but it's worth it. Get another guitar. Don't let the outside world determine your passions. Setbacks are a part of life. The hardest part is to start but life is about maintaining positive momentum in your actions. I've only dated one girl. It was basically two 6 month periods in between she found either other beta guys or road the CC for a bit. I was EXTREMELY beta. I'm ashamed I let it get that far. Of course i still have feelings for her but I'm a … | /r/askTRP | 03/07/17 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Dimples show whenever I smile; am I fucked in terms of facial attractiveness?Congrats on being low enough bodyfat to have dimples show. Congrats on having girls flirt with your natural face features. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/17 05:49 PM |
| 1 | One date and now asking for money.Hard next | /r/askTRP | 03/07/17 05:44 PM |
| 7 | 35 years old. How do I stop being bitter and angry?The best advice i can offer as a fellow short guy (5'5)is to find a hobby and get good at it. This will remove your self hatred.The guy that said start small said it best. Aim to spend your next $3000 on a beginner musical instrument rental/ purchase + private lessons, or the equivalent of that in a different area. Stay disciplined and practice. I had many years of music lessons as a child and it felt awful that i wasted that time not practicing during the week, but I've picked it up again and s… | /r/askTRP | 03/07/17 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Always looking for validationThis is the book. You get out of it what you put in. Do the exercises. This is correct. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/17 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Wishing my ex a happy birthday in 2 weeks?I'll do my best. Just gotto practice escalation and actually learn how to get girls to spend time with me but that shouldn't be impossible once I get lean on the cut I'm on. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/17 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Wishing my ex a happy birthday in 2 weeks?Any tips you can give me on knowing more people? I'm worried about finding a job after graduation | /r/askTRP | 03/07/17 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Wishing my ex a happy birthday in 2 weeks?This isn't until fall semester. I'm home in from summer break basically monk mode. I'm trying to do that next semester. I have 2 years left of college to get laid there lol | /r/askTRP | 03/07/17 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Wishing my ex a happy birthday in 2 weeks?No like he's living in the suite with us. He doesn't give a fuck about RA shit. He Literally got it just so that he could get higher possibility of being in a suite for his junior year instead of senior year. He's literally the most alpha guy on campus and has girls all over him and everyone knows him. I did my best to try and get closer to him and learn from him when i learned about the red pill and we went with the other guys in rhe suite to puerto rico and had tons of fun. Now he's a pretty g… | /r/askTRP | 03/07/17 01:19 AM |
| 2 | Wishing my ex a happy birthday in 2 weeks?I'm not in a frat but I'm gonna be in a fantastic suite with 5 other guys who are some of the most well known people on campus this next semester. Have my own room there and my friend is the RA. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/17 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Wishing my ex a happy birthday in 2 weeks?Only 20 at the moment... need another year | /r/askTRP | 03/07/17 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Wishing my ex a happy birthday in 2 weeks?Oh yeah i know the dudes are super nice. Every day i go i try to meet a new person. Met 2 today. That's how I'm improving my social skills. Even if it's just a hi can i use these 10 lbs? I'm /u/musicsports what's your name? It's the girls I'm worried about. I've been embarrassed by a lot of girls in the past just trying to say hi and I'm trying to keep the gym a happy place for me. So i haven't approached any girls even though there's a lot I'd like to meet because they're so hot to me. But i do… | /r/askTRP | 03/07/17 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Wishing my ex a happy birthday in 2 weeks?I know... I am kinda pissed I even posted it. I don't have abundance mentality yet... i haven't approached any girls because of how bad things were for me and I never felt confident. I figured I'd just work on my body and life as hard as i could for the summer and it's going well so far. Lately I've quit porn. I want to approach more but it's so hard where I live. The gym i want to approach and even though i know at least one person in there every time I go I'm scared to shit where I eat. It's h… | /r/askTRP | 03/07/17 12:53 AM |
| 1 | The change in how people treat you once you get fit/bulky is real, and one of the best things that happened to me. Thanks TRPThanks man | /r/askTRP | 03/07/17 12:27 AM |
| 2 | The change in how people treat you once you get fit/bulky is real, and one of the best things that happened to me. Thanks TRPExactly! I've seen how differently people treat lean guys vs fat guys. The last few months have been awful due to me handling shit improperly and I gained 20 lbs and eas at 170.4. This morning i found weighed and I'm 155.8. I'm incredibly proud of myself and I'm going to keep at it until I hit my goal once and for all. | /r/askTRP | 02/07/17 11:52 PM |
| 1 | The change in how people treat you once you get fit/bulky is real, and one of the best things that happened to me. Thanks TRPI'm not really a beginner. I've added 100 lbs to my bench since I started lifting. A little more with my squat and deadlift. I'm only 5'5. 160 lbs is fat on me. I'm trying to be happy with how I look because I'm tired of feeling fat. The newbie gains will still be there afterwards. | /r/askTRP | 02/07/17 11:44 PM |
| 1 | The change in how people treat you once you get fit/bulky is real, and one of the best things that happened to me. Thanks TRPYou've got this man!!! Keep it going! | /r/askTRP | 02/07/17 06:29 PM |
| 3 | The change in how people treat you once you get fit/bulky is real, and one of the best things that happened to me. Thanks TRPI'm gonna send you a picture of me when i get home. | /r/askTRP | 02/07/17 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Should I ask this girl I've orbited for years to hang out todayI know this is real life I've lived it for 20 years | /r/askTRP | 01/07/17 11:36 PM |
| 5 | The change in how people treat you once you get fit/bulky is real, and one of the best things that happened to me. Thanks TRPIs it seriously better to be fat and bench 225 than skinny but toned and working my way up to that? I have man tits. Basically no definition. I'm 5'5. Extra fat looks terrible on me extremely quickly. I was reading and it said once you're under 15% body fat you start to store food more as muscle and it's more difficult to gain fat. I was trying to get to that point... | /r/askTRP | 01/07/17 11:35 PM |
| 3 | The change in how people treat you once you get fit/bulky is real, and one of the best things that happened to me. Thanks TRPI'm 5'5 and I weigh 160 and but only bench 170 for 2 reps. I'm fat. I'll just be fat again if i bulk now with nothing to show. I'd rather get skinny before adding 30 lbs to my bench. | /r/askTRP | 01/07/17 11:22 PM |
| 13 | The change in how people treat you once you get fit/bulky is real, and one of the best things that happened to me. Thanks TRPI can't wait to start bulking again. I'm cutting down to abs first but once I hit that point I'm non stop bulking until my bench hits 200. | /r/askTRP | 01/07/17 10:41 PM |
| 2 | Should I ask this girl I've orbited for years to hang out todayI'm on day 3 of not fapping + no porn. The no porn is the harder part. I normally wouldn't fap 5 times a day though. It was like once a day or once every other day. But I guess that's still too much. I hope its true. | /r/askTRP | 01/07/17 10:38 PM |
| 0 | Should I ask this girl I've orbited for years to hang out todayI guess ill just Google political parties in the area and see if i can find anything. Thanks | /r/askTRP | 01/07/17 07:50 PM |
| -1 | Should I ask this girl I've orbited for years to hang out todayCool. did you find it on meetup.com | /r/askTRP | 01/07/17 07:45 PM |
| 2 | Should I ask this girl I've orbited for years to hang out todayHow old are you? | /r/askTRP | 01/07/17 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Should I ask this girl I've orbited for years to hang out todayI paraphrased. I don't say hang out I say like go to the beach or the city to try something new or go to a park or ride bikes or something. I spend my weekdays working on a business, applying for any summer job i can get at this point, learning coding, learning about music, reading or practicing with an orchestra. I'm exhausted from my weekdays and on weekends i just want to have fun but it gets lonely having nobody to do it with. | /r/askTRP | 01/07/17 07:39 PM |
| 1 | How are the lives of successful guys who stay single past the age of 30 like?I guess I'm at a point where I'm not over my neediness to want to have friends to be around. I haven't thought about dating in months because I don't even want to buy a drink for a girl. | /r/askTRP | 01/07/17 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Should I ask this girl I've orbited for years to hang out todayThere are people at the gym. I've tried to meet a new guy every day I go. That doesnt mean any want to hang out with me. I haven't approached a girl in months because I dont remember the last positive outcome I receieved from trying that. Guys at least smile when you say hi or make eye contact. Girls seem to actively avert their eyes anytime I'm around. I'm sick of reading new material that all of it comes back to nobody giving a shit about me or what I do. It's depressing as fuck. | /r/askTRP | 01/07/17 07:03 PM |
| 1 | How are the lives of successful guys who stay single past the age of 30 like?Lives by himself, goes out on the weekends, works because he wants to, and brings back almost any girl he wants. The dude takes care of himself by eating well, working out and taking suppliments. Still looks like he's in his later 30s/early 40s. How is he doing all of this but still lonely. I'm 20 and lonely from having no friends that stick around. People seem to avoid me and nobody even makes eye contact with me in public. How does changing your ideals help when you just want to be a good pers… | /r/askTRP | 01/07/17 06:57 PM |
| 6 | How are the lives of successful guys who stay single past the age of 30 like?I'm 20 and I'm scared this is going to be me except broke | /r/askTRP | 01/07/17 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Do i feel like shit because of porn withdrawal?I don't think waking up tired is a food thing. It happens often. | /r/askTRP | 01/07/17 03:42 PM |
| 2 | Do i feel like shit because of porn withdrawal?I think you're right. I've been eating at a deficit for now to cut as well and i wake up exhausted. The amount of work ahead is terrifying | /r/askTRP | 01/07/17 02:21 PM |
| 1 | I feel like my youth is being sucked from my body. How do I enjoy it?I've been here 2 years and have significantly improved my life since. I'm still working my ass off but every day I learn there's something I'm not doing well enough or even on par to be successful. Right now it's my loan situation and possibly dropping out + i need to find a fall internship + my summer job starts in a few days + my business with my friend I'm starting + my dad wants me to start a business with him + I need to get my grades higher. I'm in the best shape of my life as well. With t… | /r/askTRP | 30/06/17 01:58 PM |
| 1 | I feel like my youth is being sucked from my body. How do I enjoy it?I've read a ton of it and actively apply it daily. Also in the process of reading NMMNG. I'm living every day attempting to improve. My problem is I've been up to 3AM plus the past week either reading or working on coding or learning to start businesses and still feel like it's not enough | /r/askTRP | 30/06/17 01:39 PM |
| 2 | I feel like my youth is being sucked from my body. How do I enjoy it?I fucked up... massive loan for business school... it's a ton every year. 40k per year... My dad said I'd be fine and he'd pay it off with me because he really wanted ne to go to that school. He stopped paying for anything after the first year so my mom and i had to take out loans. I'm going into my third year in 2 months | /r/askTRP | 30/06/17 11:58 AM |
| 3 | advice on how to proceed or exit LDRA huge part of the attraction in a LDR is the fact that you both being so far away makes you both literally unavailable to each other. Once you have daily access that changes. Think about that with the other responses here. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/17 04:58 AM |
| 6 | I bonded with my exes bf at a party last night.Congrats? | /r/askTRP | 30/06/17 02:51 AM |
| 2 | Why Is she fucking me up so bad?I think it's more about thinking they wont be able to get the mental connection with someone as hot since it's so hard for low SMV guys to be even acknowledged by hot girls. So yes they want more than hotness but I'm sure there's some ugly disgusting girls they know that are willing to give them that. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/17 04:24 AM |
| 1 | I'm reading NMMNG and I realized how much I've been orbiting this girl I've known for 5 years.Doing the exercises really helps me think about how I interact with others. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/17 04:06 AM |
| 1 | I'm reading NMMNG and I realized how much I've been orbiting this girl I've known for 5 years.I kinda feel like i never left right now | /r/askTRP | 29/06/17 01:56 AM |
| 2 | Why Is she fucking me up so bad?Im not op but can i pm you. I'm going through the same thing. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/17 01:39 AM |
| 0 | I'm reading NMMNG and I realized how much I've been orbiting this girl I've known for 5 years.Not asking anything. Just showing how nmmng is helping in case anyone is deciding on reading it. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/17 01:33 AM |
| 1 | I'm reading NMMNG and I realized how much I've been orbiting this girl I've known for 5 years.Look at the bolded part of the post lol. I ghosted her weeks ago. I'm not asking any questions about her at all. It's more of a rant/ realization post about myself still being in an anger phase and how the book changed what I've been focusing on. I appreciate your attempt to help though. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/17 11:06 PM |
| 1 | I'm reading NMMNG and I realized how much I've been orbiting this girl I've known for 5 years.Did you read the whole post? | /r/askTRP | 28/06/17 10:47 PM |
| 1 | My Seduction Journey #37Oh wow. Total opposite of suburban Florida | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/17 03:35 PM |
| 1 | 48 laws of power or no more mr nice guy first?Im only 20 and home from summer living with parents. Most of my interactions are with old friends or cashiers. There's few people just chilling by themselves where i am | /r/askTRP | 28/06/17 01:08 PM |
| 1 | How do I quit an mmorpg?Nah I hated RC up until then. After runespan came out I hopped on it and grinded all the way to 99 without stopping because it was so OP on first release I knew it'd get nerfed. I did however get 99 agility as my first 99 which is what I was most proud of. Used barbarian course but still. I miss that untrimmed cape so much! Wish I could have keepsaked it but those didn't exist at the time. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/17 05:09 AM |
| 3 | 48 laws of power or no more mr nice guy first?Thank you. My main issue has been nutrition but I'm being extremely strict with my calorie count and I'm seeing solid fat loss results. Keeping it up untilI see my abs and am under 15% bodyfat. I'm already pretty damn athletic but I never realized how fucking fast i run when i have less fat on my body. As of now I think since the 48 laws are everywhere ill look at 3 each day or so but buy No more mr nice guy asap and focus on that. Thank you very much | /r/askTRP | 28/06/17 02:46 AM |
| 1 | My Seduction Journey #37Can i just ask where the hell you're meeting these girls? Or seeing this many by themselves? Like what kind of place is this? | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/17 02:12 AM |
| 2 | How do I quit an mmorpg?I was addicted to runescape for years. I'll never forget the day I quit. I was logged in and literally one day just thought "wow I'm bored as fuck doing this" and literally quit instantly after years of playing. Now when I try to log on i get bored again to death in SECONDS. Just think if chopping that log or killing that boss for the 50th time is better than learning how to code or learning something new or reading a book in that same time. Your character gets stronger every second with no dete… | /r/askTRP | 27/06/17 11:23 PM |
| 2 | I can't stand being short and I have been lifting for 6 years now..Dude I'm 5'5. I have a friend that's 5'1. Both of us are killing at life. He has a girlfriend and I'm doing my best to improve myself and feel good about myself. The further I get the better I feel and the less I give a shit about my height. You're taller than WAY more girls than I am. Stop worrying about your height and worry about your confidence as a man. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/17 11:20 PM |
| 1 | What's TRP's thoughts on soulmates?I'm so curious to know where you're from lmao | /r/askTRP | 27/06/17 09:08 PM |
| 1 | What's TRP's thoughts on soulmates?Where I'm from black guys are really into the generally attractive kind of girls. Slim waist, big hips, athletic. Strange that that type of guy exists though. If you have ever seen the show "The Boondocks" There's this racist character named uncle ruckus that genuinely praises all white people and talks about them as if they are the superior race with confidence and belief in his voice, while he's a black person himself. Part of this is him thinking any white woman is a beautiful angel regardles… | /r/askTRP | 27/06/17 07:44 PM |
| 1 | What's TRP's thoughts on soulmates?Must be that. I was always confused by that specific stereotype because growing up I never saw proof of it outside of the gross fetish porn, and after 20 years I feel like I would have seen it enough by now. I'm a black dude that never wanted fat white women as well so there's that. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/17 07:32 PM |
| 1 | What's TRP's thoughts on soulmates?Yes and I've watched countless black men going for the same hot girls that people want to get with. What I've also noticed is there's simultaneously a countless amount of fat white girls who believe in the stereotypes and throw themselves at these black men thinking it'd be an easy lay, and then get pissed when they're rejected. I've watched black men reject these girls more than I've seen any black man actually getting with one. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/17 06:21 PM |
| 2 | Message from an ex wife. We were on good terms(not in my life, we don't speak, no legal ties). She gets a jealous boyfriend, blocks me, I'm ok with it. 4 months later this-I can't offer any advice because I'm too young and don't know the intricacies of things with marriage, but you know not to respond, just take your time needed to deal with how it rattled you, and you'll be fine. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/17 06:08 PM |
| 1 | What's TRP's thoughts on soulmates?We're not talking about my intentions behind my posts. We're talking about how your viewpoints on black men are based on no actual interaction with black people, but interactions with white people who chose to speak for those black people. I've already told you based on my own experiences talking with other black people people that your sterotypes are based completely on assumptions with nothing behind them. If you'd rather talk about my intentions behind these posts then go ahead but I'm not in… | /r/askTRP | 27/06/17 05:32 PM |
| 1 | What's TRP's thoughts on soulmates?You literally just said all the people you have talked to are either white women or white men while observing black men from afar because you most likely don't interact with them. How many have you asked? "Dat white pussy yo" is exactly what a white man running on sterotypes think black men sound like. Have You talked to any? The black dude at your job. Did You talk to him? Obviously not because who wants to get involved in cheating drama. What are the white women who fucked them going to say? "… | /r/askTRP | 27/06/17 02:45 PM |
| 1 | What's TRP's thoughts on soulmates?This just isn't true. You seem to have interactions with absolutely no people with these races and are basing your knowledge on stereotypes you see perpetuated throughout media, porn, and conversation with other white people. Black people with fat white women is purely a fetishised concept that originated out of white people not understanding early hip hop culture which approves of girls with big asses and small waists. White people took that and to mean black men are obsessed with girls with bi… | /r/askTRP | 27/06/17 01:39 PM |
| 1 | What's TRP's thoughts on soulmates?But then there are always black men out there ready and waiting to scoop up the nastiest of nasty white chicks... As if there aren't the exact same amount of pathetic white, asian, or latin guys out there doing the exact same thing. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/17 03:26 AM |
| 1 | Tips on my first job working in a restaurant kitchen?Alright I'll keep this in mind. Thank you | /r/askTRP | 26/06/17 02:07 PM |
| 1 | What Is My SMV?For what it's worth i agree. Fine as hell | /r/askTRP | 26/06/17 08:29 AM |
| 3 | After reading TRP and actually seeing it work in real life I am very confused about what do women add to our life except unnecessary drama along with prospect of reproduction?Very wrong. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/17 03:16 AM |
| 6 | My Seduction Journey #32I want to be the best version of myself but I feel like I'm stuck in this loop. It's great approaching but I feel hollow on the inside, pretending and making up stories to try to sleep with these women. I've been reading all of your posts since you started and this stuck out to me. I haven't approached a single girl since I decided to go monk mode, but I have been trying new things every single day in an effort to seriously find something that sticks. I feel hollow as fuck. I thought I'd feel be… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/06/17 02:46 AM |
| 2 | I'm so fucking aloneI want to start something because I'm still young and I'd like to work for myself rather than a company. Have you done anything like that? | /r/askTRP | 18/06/17 04:55 PM |
| 2 | I'm so fucking aloneWant to start a business with me? | /r/askTRP | 18/06/17 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Does having a good physique while being short make short dudes look like we're compensating to women or is that just a tagline used by taller guys to shit on us?No idea. I'm in the process of losing a lot of weight too. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/17 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Does having a good physique while being short make short dudes look like we're compensating to women or is that just a tagline used by taller guys to shit on us?There you go | /r/askTRP | 17/06/17 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Does having a good physique while being short make short dudes look like we're compensating to women or is that just a tagline used by taller guys to shit on us?No one said good relationships don't exist. What I'm trying to get you to understand is that good relationships come from 2 happy people meeting each other, getting to know how happy each of them are, and then being happy together. 2 sad people who get into a relationship is a disaster because both will be pissed at the other for not making them happy. One happy person and one sad person is a disaster because the happy one will either move on or be torn down into sadness by the sad person. A rel… | /r/askTRP | 17/06/17 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Does having a good physique while being short make short dudes look like we're compensating to women or is that just a tagline used by taller guys to shit on us?What do you define as an actual relationship | /r/askTRP | 17/06/17 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Flaked 3 times but offered reschedule every time and apologized profusely.I guess then just keep doing what you're doing but do a quick soft next and focus on some other stuff for a bit. You don't seem too invested so i don't think there's anything to worry about. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/17 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Does having a good physique while being short make short dudes look like we're compensating to women or is that just a tagline used by taller guys to shit on us?Of course they'll be making you happy with their words and actions. If a girl said "YES ill date you and be in a relationship with you! My only conditions are we never hang out, we never talk, you're not allowed to tell anyome we are dating, and we never have sex. Also ill be fucking guys on the side. But we are 100% in a relationship!" Would be happy with that? | /r/askTRP | 17/06/17 08:14 PM |
| 6 | Does having a good physique while being short make short dudes look like we're compensating to women or is that just a tagline used by taller guys to shit on us?You've definitely not read the sidebar... look man girls don't want to make you happy. They want to date a happy person. If your source of happiness comes from being in something as fragile as a relationship, you will be in deep shit when it eventuallly falls apart from your dependence on it. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/17 07:51 PM |
| 2 | Flaked 3 times but offered reschedule every time and apologized profusely.I've started to look at things this way like, "if i had 3 girls I was dating and the 4th kept flaking, would it really bother me that much?" Just don't get too invested. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/17 07:46 PM |
| 3 | Does having a good physique while being short make short dudes look like we're compensating to women or is that just a tagline used by taller guys to shit on us?I didn't say that. Girls that are into me touch all over me the same way girls that are into fat guys touch all over them. The point of it is to do what you want. Stop caring about girls so much and make yourself happy | /r/askTRP | 17/06/17 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Flaked 3 times but offered reschedule every time and apologized profusely.Have you been going on dates with other girls in between? | /r/askTRP | 17/06/17 07:35 PM |
| 4 | Does having a good physique while being short make short dudes look like we're compensating to women or is that just a tagline used by taller guys to shit on us?It helps me feel good enough about my body to get through the day. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/17 07:33 PM |
| 2 | Does having a good physique while being short make short dudes look like we're compensating to women or is that just a tagline used by taller guys to shit on us?5'4 dude here who lifts 5 days a week and runs 7 days a week. Been going for years. I'm stronger than ever. I feel great looking at my short swole ass in the mirror. My shirt comes off without hesitating at the beach and pool. I feel good. Go lift if you want that. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/17 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Game?It's not about being in the position of Hugh hefner is working towards finding your own version of happiness whatever that may be. I wouldn't be happy in his position. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/17 03:53 PM |
| 2 | When you think you found a unicorn.Anf off to bed i go. Got a long day planned! Just so you know, I'm 20 and also getting over my oneitis of my ex that got distant from me a few months ago because i didn't know how to handle my depression at the time. I still think about her daily as she's the only girl who has ever been into me. But I've changed so much over the past few months that my crying stopped, I'm more intelligent and confident than ever in my life, best shape of my life, and weekly going on new adventures and meeting ne… | /r/askTRP | 17/06/17 06:33 AM |
| 2 | When you think you found a unicorn.Why are you upset? You should have other things in your mind more interesting to you than her affections. No one is saying not to have those emotions but you should have enough options to know that her affections don't matter much. And those options don't have to be girls. They can just be something you're excited to do later. You have oneitis. Read the sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/17 06:20 AM |
| 3 | Game?Nobody said looks don't matter. I'm not saying you have to be as successful as him, but Hugh Hefner is a happy 91 year old man because of what he accomplished. Not because he's fucking his 31 year old wife while also fucking playmates on the regular. Are you a happy man based on your accomplishments? | /r/askTRP | 17/06/17 06:15 AM |
| 4 | When you think you found a unicorn.Yeah just read the sidebar man. Everyone thinks the first girl they're really into is a unicorn. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/17 06:10 AM |
| 1 | When you think you found a unicorn.If you don't mind me asking, how old are you? | /r/askTRP | 17/06/17 06:02 AM |
| 2 | When you think you found a unicorn.No you don't get it. This has nothing to do with hypergamy. She is 'just some random girl' to everybody in the world besides you. The fact that you're trying to get commitment from girls and her specifically by asking "what are we" shows that you don't value your commitment as a guy. You are the prize. She is not the prize. Women are the gatekeepers of sex and men are the gatekeepers of commitment. Stop thinking of things to say to get through to her and try and figure out how to get through to … | /r/askTRP | 17/06/17 05:55 AM |
| 7 | When you think you found a unicorn.You haven't read the sidebar. Literally the first thing on it is what to do if you think "There's this one girl..." Read more. You'll understand why I'm saying this when you've read enough. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/17 05:47 AM |
| 1 | How do make new friends that are single and cool?I don't know what 'cool' means to you but I'm seeing it as you'll feel you're around cool people if you go do something you think is cool, and there's other people there doing it. You're enjoying yourself because you're doing something you enjoy doing. Not because you're surrounded by 'cool' people. What do you think is cool? Do you think all the cool people are out clubbing an dancing? Go clubbing and dancing then and meet those people. Do you think they're in the gym working out? Go work out. … | /r/askTRP | 17/06/17 05:44 AM |
| 2 | My Seduction Journey #26Keep it up man. Keep it up. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/17 05:30 AM |
| 1 | hate myself for the way i am, how do i changeYou're not getting what I'm saying. She doesn't care if you're dominant or submissive in bed. She wants to be with a man regardless. It has nothing to do with illusion. You have to become confident enough to the point where you are dominant. What I'm saying is you have to be one hell of a man to be able to confidently say "I want you to fuck me in the ass" and have her want to do it. Be submissive as you want. The point is you have to be a man about your sexual submissiveness. You're not fucked … | /r/askTRP | 17/06/17 05:22 AM |
| 3 | What is a 'fuckboy' to TRP?Me! | /r/askTRP | 17/06/17 05:11 AM |
| 2 | Going out when I'm home from school?Boy if you don't stop | /r/askTRP | 17/06/17 05:09 AM |
| 2 | Going out when I'm home from school?Holy shit are you me?20, sophomore year, South Florida and everything. Probably a little further south than you though. Been trying to find an answer to this as well haha. RemindMe! 1 day. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/17 05:08 AM |
| 2 | What is a 'fuckboy' to TRP?I was trying to come up with my own opinion of the word based on how I've seen girls use it but midway through I remembered the "don't look at words look at actions" advice on here and realized that I've seen way too many different actions to 'fuckboys' from girls and realized that your response is the correct answer. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/17 05:04 AM |
| 2 | hate myself for the way i am, how do i changeIt's not about praying about instincts taking over. It's hard work. Read the ENTIRE sidebar on both redpill main subreddits. You have to be a dominating as fuck dude to turn on a woman enough to want to plow you in the ass. Don't look at it as a weakness. Reading the sidebar will help you understand that you can do anything sexual you want if you own it and be proud of it. Also take a break from the porn. You shouldn't be crying yourself to sleep because of your fetish. You should be working tow… | /r/askTRP | 17/06/17 04:56 AM |
| 7 | How to be 'Red Pill' as musician?Read the sidebar. You won't understand why people tell you this until you read it and understand it. After I did I don't even need to read past 20 percent of the posts on here to know this will be the answer by the time I finish reading it. Your music doesn't determine anything about redpill. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/17 04:42 AM |
| 3 | How do make new friends that are single and cool?What cool stuff do you do? Find group activities involving those things. Meet people at those group events. Gain rapport with them. Become friends. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/17 03:35 AM |
| 5 | Should I stop being on total monk mode?Research places to travel to and find time to go | /r/askTRP | 17/06/17 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Approaching girls at 20? I went to the mall today and failed.Thank you this is much better than your first reply. The reason i tell myself I'm invisible is because I'm treated like nobody 99 percent of the time and people forget or ignore me after meeting me. I'm trying to do better and be more memorable. It's hard to lighten up when even on Reddit I'm talked down to for not knowing how to be on top of my shit already. I'm sorry if this is coming off aggresively. You struck a nerve with me because I hate asking questions on here specifically because how p… | /r/askTRP | 16/06/17 05:04 AM |
| 1 | Dancing: Salsa or Bachata?I'm saving up to take one of these classes right now. Leaning towards salsa. Either way you'll learn how to dance and have fun doing it. I'd say pick whichever you like the music more or find more appeal in the dance. Great job taking a step to something new. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/17 04:49 AM |
| 1 | Approaching girls at 20? I went to the mall today and failed.I get what you're saying but why did you have to say that first part as if I'm on some high horse while asking a question on how to improve. I'm here trying to learn just like you are. I thought IOIs was like smiling when eye contact happens. Or not looking away instantly all the time. Or eye contact at all from anyone. Or anything I dont know. I'm still invisible I get that already. I'm not sorry for trying to learn. The rest of your post was fine. Thanks i guess. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/17 04:43 AM |
| 1 | My friend's soon to be wife invites me out to drink with herRemindMe! 2 days. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/17 03:39 AM |
| 3 | Where/How to start?Wish I had more advice but I'm gonna add you as a friend to see how you're doing because we're literally in the EXACT same position. I'm 20, home from college in FL, trying to learn coding to see if I can make some money even though I have no income right now, while also trying to explore my creative side with other stuff. Lifting but focusing on cutting at the moment. Not sure what to do at all. Signed up to meetup yesterday. Never gone crazy. Nervous about intimacy. Couple of high school frien… | /r/askTRP | 15/06/17 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Approaching girls at 20? I went to the mall today and failed.I'm not at college for the next few months. I'm at home in my home state. I can't go to parties | /r/askTRP | 15/06/17 02:40 AM |
| 5 | How to Develop a Rock-Solid Frame That Magnetically Attracts WomenI'd say work on both at the same time if possible. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/17 03:31 AM |
| 4 | How is TRP any different than other PUA bullcrap?If you actually read the sidebar instead of self posts by the average person who hasn't read it, you'll think that. The sidebar is all about becoming a better man and how to make sure you're doing your best to make your own life worth living regardless of whether women are involved or not. Read the sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/17 02:22 AM |
| 10 | 18 YO - Rich but beta afRead the entire sidebar dude. No point in asking for tips from people at your point. You've got a long way to go. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/17 06:45 PM |
| 2 | Words of caution: followed TRP advice, dumped my LTR who loved me, ended up alone and suicidalI'm so proud of you too! Keep it up! One step at a time. You've got this! Is there any chance we've spoken before? Your username seems familiar | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/17 12:35 AM |
| 3 | Words of caution: followed TRP advice, dumped my LTR who loved me, ended up alone and suicidalHey man. I know what you're going through right now. I am only 20 so i know i have a level of optimism and opportunity that seems more promising right out of the gate, but I'd like to help since I've been in the suicidal situation after breaking up with the only girl who loved me so far. It's been a long while since we broke up and I still miss her every day, but i can tell you with honesty that this subreddit saved my life. My advice is to stop reading self posts and read the sidebar in its ent… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/17 05:57 PM |
| 3 | askTRP Megathread May 31It definitely is. When my ex and I broke up I cut all ties and stopped initiating any contact with her things got much much easier. You'll be just fine. Don't worry about the heartache. It's natural. You WILL pass it by eventually. Just keep walking and you'll be ahead of it soon. The pain of heartbreak gets a headstart but it can never outpace you even if you have to crawl to keep moving. You've got this. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/17 05:55 AM |
| 2 | askTRP Megathread May 31Don't pursue her because she already made up her mind. Get it into your head that no direct action from you can make her go "i love him again!" Don't call her crazy but break ties if you want to. If she wants you back she'll figure out how you get to you. What you SHOULD do is start focusing on yourself and work to make yourself happy to the point where this situation means nothing to you. I didn't understand this until recently. When people on TRP sat have a DGAF attitude they explain it terrib… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/17 07:30 PM |
| 1 | I need some basic help with a shit testI really appreciate that man. Unfortunately right now I don't have anyone like that so i have to rely on myself even though i know pretty much nothing. Anywhere you know I can meet girls as a 20 year old home from college? | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/17 01:04 PM |
| 1 | I need some basic help with a shit testGuess I'll just keep working my ass off then. Hopefully something turns up soon. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/17 06:19 PM |
| 1 | I need some basic help with a shit testAlright. I'll keep looking but not stress too much about it. I looked up some places that I can call and I'll do that on a reasonable amount of effort and time in the next few weeks | /r/TheRedPill | 29/05/17 01:11 AM |
| 1 | I need some basic help with a shit testThank You i really appreciate it | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/17 01:04 AM |
| 1 | I need some basic help with a shit testI'm 20 and in South Florida. I'm great with customer service, accounting, basic finance, business development, and finance. I need a job because I'm on Summer break from college without an internship and little work experience so I'm behind others. I wake up feeling like a failure every morning for not doing something. Any job would be great for the next 3 months. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/17 12:53 AM |
| 1 | I need some basic help with a shit testI keep overthinking. I just want to get a job for the next 3 months now that I'm back home. I've looked so many places but no offers yet. I think I started trying to code and do music production because I felt like if it's so hard to get a basic job I might as well try somethings I could self employ with...I'm not in a good mental spot right now...it's really getting to me that I don't have a job or internship right now...I feel like I'm wasting this summer...I have to stop overthinking and just… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/17 08:13 PM |
| 1 | I need some basic help with a shit testI guess I could look around for singing lessons or something. I have been wanting to do that lately. Not sure where else because I'm not much of a club person. I've been constantly in Barnes and Noble because it helps me study and just being out in public makes me feel good about myself. I think I'm looking at the no room for error thing in such a locked down way because of the little success I've had getting from even zero to 1 in terms of generating interest from girls. I think once I have the… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/17 08:00 PM |
| 1 | I need some basic help with a shit testThis is good that you can apply yourself to these things and get good at them. Now apply that same dedication and inherent interest to getting good with girls. It's so hard to tread the line of this while also not caring what people think. I've felt really lonely the past few years even when I was in the relationship and I'm just getting to the point of being great at being my own company. I want to meet girls but it's so hard to just go out and do that when they often travel in groups to places… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/17 03:59 AM |
| 1 | I need some basic help with a shit testHow to be an attractive man: fundamentally you need to do something that works. To be effective at anything. Skilled, talented, hard working, etc. Get on your mission. Get good, get paid, be successful, get the confidence that goes with that journey. This is my issue. I am decent at a lot of things but I'm not the best at anything. If you need something done why would anyone ask me? This really got me thinking. Like I can't think of many things I'm really confident in myself in other than analys… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/17 08:31 PM |
| 1 | I need some basic help with a shit testI'm 5'4 and I weigh 162 lbs. I shower every day. If I exercise I shower again. I take care of my hair and stuff. Idk if people want to be around me. I don't think people want to be around me but I've been trying to change that. I play soccer, and basketball regularly. I went out to parties on campus, go to as many clubs as I could to meet people and attempted to participate effectively while learning in the process. I took up acting and was in a play. I work out 4-5 times a week, but I'm being m… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/17 08:21 PM |
| 3 | I need some basic help with a shit testThank you for such a detailed response again. I really appreciate it. Fundamentally though, your problem is one of attraction and opportunity rather than technique. You probably know this. You need opportunities to meet women, and to be attractive to them. This stuck out to me the most from your response. I have no idea how to do this. Literally no idea. I'm in college and even though I'm constantly around women, none are attracted to me. I don't know what it means to be attractive because I've … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/17 07:42 PM |
| 1 | I need some basic help with a shit testI say that because of the way women act and react to me, along with the way I feel about myself. In terms of how I feel about myself. I have clinical depression and have been receiving help for years. It is working and I have made more progress than I ever though I would but I'm still far from feeling good about myself. Although I have learned that feeling good about yourself comes from working towards being the person you want to be. After VERY recently applying that I've felt much better than … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/17 07:28 PM |
| 1 | I need some basic help with a shit testI'll check those examples out thank you for them. Strangely enough with what you said about not overcompensating because I'm not getting the reaction I wanted just showed itself to be true. I never responded about the apple thing and about an hour later she texted me again saying the mutual friend messaged her saying she was doing something else so she is coming to play with us tonight. I'll keep up the work. Do you mind if I update you on what I learn occasionally? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/17 07:03 PM |
| 4 | I need some basic help with a shit testI've been really overthinking stuff mainly because I've had zero success with girls in my life and I've been used a lot by girls who have used me to talk about guys they are fucking or want to fuck or be with so I'm very jaded. I'm trying to fix myself though. If she shows up at soccer tonight I'll ask her out because I've had 0% success with asking a girl out over text. I can't do alcoholic stuff because I'm underage and a fake won't help because my face looks like 14. thank you for your respon… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/17 05:53 PM |
| 1 | I need some basic help with a shit testI guess my SMV is still shitty then. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/17 05:47 PM |
| 2 | I need some basic help with a shit testIt's probably my low SMV but I'm still learning how to get to the point to get texted or called first. I've never been called or texted first so I think I just need to keep working on myself. After I said to just do what she feels like doing and her friend would either text her or call her she texted me something about an apple not being good. Idk how to respond to that so I'm not going to. Just going to keep on with my day and working on some stuff I need to get done. It's just hard to keep try… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/17 05:47 PM |
| 3 | I need some basic help with a shit testAlright. I'll just not message either anymore and see if they show | /r/TheRedPill | 26/05/17 04:46 PM |
| 1 | My girlfriend is a sexual abuse victim and won't have sex with me.I'm too short to get gym girls? But gym girls are attractive to me | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/17 03:30 AM |
| 2 | My girlfriend is a sexual abuse victim and won't have sex with me.I'm probably going to end it. I don't want to be in a sexless relationship | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/17 02:14 AM |
| 1 | My girlfriend is a sexual abuse victim and won't have sex with me.I'm in it because we have a lot in common and being around her is extremely fun. I feel great around her and her family accepted me with open arms. She's got goals for herself. She's physically attractive and wants to have a nice life. The problem is she won't fuck me anymore and that's essential for a happy relationship for me. She fucked me a bit and things were good but she straight up said she doesn't want to fuck me anymore and said she doesn't see regular sex as a necessary part of the rel… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/17 01:47 AM |
| 2 | My girlfriend is a sexual abuse victim and won't have sex with me.I never thought about it like that but it makes perfect sense | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/17 11:48 PM |
| 3 | My girlfriend is a sexual abuse victim and won't have sex with me.Thank you so much. I understand why I'm fucking so sad all of the time now. It's not that I'm not fucking anyone, it's because there's nothing about me that makes me feel confident in who I am. I don't excel at anything. I'm just normal and boring. I need to change that about myself | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/17 10:40 PM |
| 2 | My girlfriend is a sexual abuse victim and won't have sex with me.Thanks man I appreciate it | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/17 10:28 PM |
| 3 | My girlfriend is a sexual abuse victim and won't have sex with me.I didn't think it was a thing that caused someone to be completely unworthy of a relationship...i still don't...i thought it was possible to work through | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/17 09:52 PM |
| 11 | My girlfriend is a sexual abuse victim and won't have sex with me.Fuck you man I'm here looking for help. Yeah I don't have skill and yeah I've had a shitty time with girls in the past but I'm realizing all this shit I'm dealing with with her might not be worth it. You don't have to fucking call me a loser because I'm not a loser I'm doing fucking well for myself with or without this bitch in my life and I'm here seeing if people can help me figure out how to work on shit without just dumping her and her family because I seriously want to get better with her b… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/17 07:55 PM |
| 1 | My girlfriend is a sexual abuse victim and won't have sex with me.Aw man... thank you though... | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/17 07:42 PM |
| 1 | My girlfriend is a sexual abuse victim and won't have sex with me.Thank you. I'm going to the gym now. I'll take everything you said to heart. One day at a time. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/17 07:29 PM |
| 3 | My girlfriend is a sexual abuse victim and won't have sex with me.Okay interesting. I'll try to find that switch when I'm with her. I think I'm understanding why people are saying I should be upset if she's fucking someone else because I'm providing all of what I can for her but she's not providing what she can for me. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/17 06:20 PM |
| 1 | My girlfriend is a sexual abuse victim and won't have sex with me.Okay I'm going to get out there and try to fuck. That's what I want to do so I will. Thanks man. Is the gym a good place to pick up girls? I'm there very often | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/17 06:16 PM |
| 2 | My girlfriend is a sexual abuse victim and won't have sex with me.The thing is I'm like 5'4 or 5'5 depending on my shoes :( I love fashion and I lift already but I just don't know what I need to change to make girls even remotely attractive to me. I know that girls want a guy who's better than them but I don't know how to show that | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/17 06:15 PM |
| 3 | My girlfriend is a sexual abuse victim and won't have sex with me.I ended it once a year ago because I was unhappy with how things were and i felt like if I was in college I should be going out trying to get laid. I got really sad and missed having her company because I kept getting rejected and I'm worried about falling back into that. I got her back and I'm really nervous about that situation. Can we please talk in private messages or something I came here for help and I really need it. I don't know what to do | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/17 06:07 PM |
| 0 | My girlfriend is a sexual abuse victim and won't have sex with me.Yeah I do. I started a while ago but I'm working on it. Right now my deadlift is 265x 5, squat is 205-210 x5, bench is 145-155 x 3, Ohp 100x5. I'm 5'4 and 150 lbs. I know the numbers aren't crazy and I need to keep working on it but I'm doing my best. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/17 05:48 PM |
| 1 | My girlfriend is a sexual abuse victim and won't have sex with me.It's the path of least resistance yeah but it's not really what I want to do. I want to get out and meet other girls while keeping her around until I find one that's a winner | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/17 05:46 PM |
| 0 | My girlfriend is a sexual abuse victim and won't have sex with me.Yeah I'm new lol. I'm gonna try and pick up girls. The gym? | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/17 05:44 PM |
| 1 | My girlfriend is a sexual abuse victim and won't have sex with me.Alright. I'm going to start looking for other girls. I need to work on myself and my ability at attracting other girls because I've never had much success in my past, but I'm only 19 so there's time. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/17 05:43 PM |
| 0 | My girlfriend is a sexual abuse victim and won't have sex with me.I don't feel guilty about it because I have my needs and I want to satisfy them. As of right now I'm looking for another girl and broadening my horizons but I'm trying to fix what I have already if that's even possible. Maybe my aura will change if she can sense I'm out there fucking other girls and so might she, but if not I'm doing what I can to make myself happy at the moment. I don't get any matches on Tinder at the moment so how can I improve my profile? | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/17 05:36 PM |
| 0 | My girlfriend is a sexual abuse victim and won't have sex with me.I felt like I was putting myself first by going out and trying to fuck other girls but not giving up on the relationship because I care about her. I don't know how this will affect my happiness but it's something I never tried before. I think it would make me happy to be with other girls but be dating her, but if it doesn't I'll just leave her. I'm trying something new in my personal life and people are calling me an idiot for it | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/17 05:34 PM |
| -1 | My girlfriend is a sexual abuse victim and won't have sex with me.I don't see it as a cuckold thing. I seriously don't give a fuck if she fucks someone else because I'll just leave her in that case, but right now I don't have proof about it. She has given me a ton of emotional support and her family is wonderful to me. Literally the only part of the relationship that isn't satisfactory to me is our sexual frequency and I'd rather work on that then just throw everything out. She's a great girl who I'm proud to be with, and since she won't work on this part of t… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/17 05:31 PM |
| 3 | My girlfriend is a sexual abuse victim and won't have sex with me.Can you please elaborate? I want her to get counseling on it | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/17 05:22 PM |
| 2 | My girlfriend is a sexual abuse victim and won't have sex with me.Okay I understand. What I'm thinking of doing is not providing the emotional part of the relationship that she wants while also going out and looking for what I want from other girls. I want to go to the mall and try to pick up girls. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/17 05:19 PM |
| -11 | My girlfriend is a sexual abuse victim and won't have sex with me.What she wants is for me to provide everything emotionally for her while not giving me what I want from the relationship, so I'll find what I want elsewhere, and I'll break up with her if I can get what I want else where. I don't care if she's fucking Chad on the side she can fuck whoever she wants. It's her body not mine. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/17 05:16 PM |
| -5 | My girlfriend is a sexual abuse victim and won't have sex with me.Yeah it's been hard for the past 2 years but I'm not going to break up with her over this. I love her and if she wants to break up with me she can but I'm not going to. I'll use this time to both work on fixing our relationship while improving my pick up game with other girls. A win win to me since I won't even be around her to have sex with her the next few months. I don't want advice saying break up with her. That's not what I'm looking for. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/17 05:05 PM |
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