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| 6 | Do you think that men actually want to have children?Why not both? I know people who never wanted kids and then met the person that flipped their switch. I knew people that became step parents and had no interest but then wanted one of their own. I personally always felt like having kids was part of life. But then when I actually had them? It was fucking awesome. So we had more. It certainly can be both at different points. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/24 08:46 PM |
| 0 | Men Who Want To Hookup Are Ruining Modern DatingNever said it was. See that's a typical blue pill woman take, "it's not our fault that men get thirst when one in one thousand women acts like a ho!" But you also forgot to blame our thirst for men rejected women who've been run through like a turnpike toll booth. That's our thirst also huh? Take responsibility for poor quality women, and I'll take responsibility for poor quality men, mmkay? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 12:09 AM |
| 0 | Men Who Want To Hookup Are Ruining Modern DatingWell maybe women need to accept some responsibility in it also? If all I had to do to get some random strange is swipe 100x or 1000x, then it's not unreasonable to sit on the john take a shit, and swipe a few extra minutes. It's the one slutty girl that makes it hard for everyone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/24 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Question For Men, Which Of These Women Would You Rather Get Into A Relationship With?Meh... I'd spin them all as plates (although the low libido virgin would probably be first to fall). None are perfect so none deserve upgrade to wife status. But casual fling? Why not until someone replaces them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 07:16 PM |
| – | Women in their 20s usually like guys our/their own ageSo let me get this right. You as a self professed alt girl who sounds still single in her 40s are here to tell us you speak for all women? Yeah OK, sounds legit. Fwiw I was going to punk shows before you even knew what the teletubbies were. But I stopped wearing COC and Suicidal tendencies shirts, got a job and didn't date punk girls for a reason. You do you though. Google says the average age difference in men and women is 2.3 years. But it does shrink with education. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 04:09 PM |
| 9 | Do men or women experience more violent crime in America?Not people. Almost universally Young Men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 07:14 PM |
| -2 | Question For Red Pill: How would you feel/think about a woman from 28-35 who said she is a virgin? Let’s say, she is not lying.First a little bit of background. What everyone get's wrong with "redpill" is they think all Redpill men advocate for tradwife virgin types. Hardly. The first rule of redpill is rule zero, get the sex you want. From this comes things like, "Don't be surprised if you wife up a ho and she acts like a ho." The corollary to this is judge a woman by her actions. She is the sum of her decisions. So take two scenarios. 1st one is dating a woman who is 27 and a virgin. But she's a recovering anorexic wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 02:15 PM |
| 2 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realityIt's a generalization, for sure. I would add the caveat that people are the sum of their actions. Some actions are better predictors than others. Can a "good girl" from a good family suddenly become a heroin addict? Absolutely. But if she's standing next to someone who's an actual recovered addict and you want to take bets on who's gonna do smack first? I'm going with history. There's always risk, but risk can be managed. If I wife up a former stripper who's covered in Tattoos and did some light… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 07:25 PM |
| 3 | The idea of men wanting traditional pure wives is false in realityI think the flaw in your argument is a pretty common logical fallacy. You posit that it has to be either or. You leave out the possibility of "both", "neither" and any myriad of options. I dated a party girl in college. It was a blast. She did things that would make farm animals blush. I married a pretty traditional girl, with a low body count, a distaste for club life and a clear desire for a traditional marriage. She was a SAHM for years and raised our kids. As older GenXers, motherhood has pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 05:48 PM |
| 5 | Who do so many men follow the ideology that leads to loneliness and suffering?Red pill is teaching men they have no chance with women and instead fills their minds with hatred rhetoric about women I would tell you to first ask a serious question. Your begging the question right off the bat. Does Redpill teach them this? Does it teach "hatred [sic] rhetoric" about women? Or could it be possible that you're a victim of your own bias perceptions? You only notice toxic failures who espouse radical positions? How do you know that the examples you are giving are the represented… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 06:05 PM |
| 3 | Am i wrong?The judges would have also accepted a pressure flip, "Wait? What, give me a reason to be with you!" | /r/askMRP | 01/04/24 05:28 PM |
| 2 | Why should women take advice from people who loathe them?You've missed a key point. Redpill men don't advise women on any of that. The advice is, don't be surprised. You go around making poor decisions, and end up looking back and wondering where it all went wrong? Don't be surprised. Being redpill is a praxeology, not ideology. It's not offering advice, but a framework on how people behave, and execute their own self interests. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Why do women on dating apps ask what men do for work?Men and women are given different tools. Women hold the keys to physical intimacy, men hold the keys to commitment. So who cares if they gold dig like that? You can vet that out. Just like she'll decide if you can get physical with her, you decide how and when you spend resources on her. Meet for coffee. Go dutch. Do things that are low cost. Do try to sell your means as a measure of attraction, as that's a sure way to become a beta-bux. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 07:54 PM |
| 9 | Why do women on dating apps ask what men do for work?A thing many women do on dating apps is drop the ultimate "What do you do for work?" question Man you're reading way too much into this. I can't tell you how many times I've gone out with my wife and her work mates, and met another husband and asked them "what do you do for work?" I'm not interviewing them to see if I can mooch off them. It's part of peoples identity. I mean if you're afraid of gold diggers just cage your response. Maybe some women don't want to date military or cops? Give 'em e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 05:03 PM |
| 20 | Adventress LSE womanOh there's so many red flags here. They are all yours. Why do you want to fix a broken chick? What's your end game here? You ever hear the manager that tells you that you need to work on your weaknesses? That's corporate bullshit, and it's still true here. Why work on your weaknesses when you can perfect your strengths? Go read War Brides again by Rollo. Maybe you're making progress with this chick, or maybe she's reverting back to when daddy diddled her, and now she has a bunch of therapy to go… | /r/askMRP | 12/03/24 06:54 PM |
| -1 | Why do some men feel the need to “test” you when you state your interests?So the one thing all three of these guys have in common....you? Maybe its the company you keep, not men. Turn it into a feature, not a bug. It sounds like a good filter to eject annoying people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 06:44 PM |
| 2 | Do most people get married just to get married?I mean people are young and still growning? I'm a little older than my wife. She was first to marry in her friend group. Now married 20+ years with 3 kids. I saw or overheard a bunch of her friend group do all the stuff you've said. They've all got kids and long term marriages. A few I can't believe are still married and a few divorced I never expected. But looking back at it with the eyes of someone older and hopefully wiser? What do I know. People are messy and complicated. Long term love is o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/24 08:19 PM |
| 23 | Would you give an attractive ex-pornstar a shot if she quit porn and was aggressively pursuing you?I'm sorry but is everyone going to ignore the part where she said she had a husband? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/24 05:09 PM |
| 5 | Mandatory paternity testing - a redpill dream law almost became a reality in one stateWhen they stopped asking women if they had venereal diseases and instead assumed every woman had Chlamydia, child hood blindness was almost irridicated. See when a baby is born the wipe an antibacterial salve in their eyes as a matter of course. No more blindness. My thoughts are if you make it a standard thing all of the shenanigans will go away. We've all heard of that friend or buddy who's girl thought he might be the dad. Or that husband who's wife hid a kid from him. Added bonus you'd be ab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: How would you feel if your SO regularly watched pr0n?Would I care if she read the Communist Manifesto? Would I care if she was watching House Hunter Lottery addition? Nope. These are just consuming information. It's what she does that matters. Is she regularly sexually intimate with me and meeting my needs? Fine. If she's denying herself sexual intimacy with me, but flicking the bean all the time? Well it's time to make a change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/24 02:58 PM |
| 10 | What's the best strategy for betabuxxers?There is no betabux strategy. See Harvey Weinstein. The problem with your question is you want the cheat code. "how can I enter into a transactional relationship with a woman, but not suffer the consequences when she ends the transaction" Being Alpha isn't about being some gym Bro who AMOGs everyone around them and slays the ladies. It's about understanding how people interact with each other and not ignoring that people often act in their own best interest and irrationally from your viewpoint. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 04:33 PM |
| 3 | Wife met another guy for coffeeIt's different between subs because there's not a lot to the story. I'm not going to comb through your history to get the sub text. Me a 20 year veteran gives this story... It's different. But then again, this isn't an issue I have. Are you fat? Are you a drunk Captain? Is she fat? Is she a broken chick you're trying to fix? etc. We're only hearing one minor outcome of a bunch of shit. What was the path to get to this point? | /r/askMRP | 19/02/24 03:30 PM |
| 14 | Wife met another guy for coffeeThe two week rule always applies. If you were vibing with a girl and had been going out for 2 weeks and she springs "Oh I had a coffee date with a guy.." How would you react? This is a boundary only you can set for yourself. What would you have said to two week chick if she did it? The long of it is, we don't listen to a woman's words. Watch her actions instead. So why did she go to coffee, wear somewhat risque clothes, have a bad outcome, and then come running back to you to let you know? What … | /r/askMRP | 19/02/24 03:05 PM |
| 0 | If the game itself is not fair, does it justify not playing fair to get what you want?My oldest was an up and coming little leaguer. He played well enough to get called up and play with the big boys even as a 9 year old. He had a pretty sweet swing and could steal on anyone. he'd sit and wait for a perfect pitch or take the inevitable walk that came, then steal his way home. One day he was sitting in the box waiting for his pitch when the kid pitching him threw a pitch so low you actually saw dirt fly up in front of the plate. "Strike!" 2 more pitches later, he struck out. Pissed… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 03:53 PM |
| – | Why do science says that married men live longer when marriages are stressful and full of hassles?Old single men have a very high rate of suicide. Where women in the same age cohort don't. Why is that? Women are better at building social networks, even when they've lost a husband or are divorced. Men tend to rely on the networks their wives built. If you want to live to a ripe old age? Have kids, and grandkids, and do things with your family and extended family. Men with a purpose have a reason to live. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 09:58 PM |
| 1 | If paternity tests were to become mandatory, we would also need a database with every man's DNA to compare them to.Big government aside the benefit to society as a whole could be huge. I could imagine that if you had an an opt out option at birth where they did a DNA mapping, and somehow encrypted it against a national identity map? Diseases and afflictions like Tsacs and BRCA could be eliminated. Incentify it so that maybe you get a higher quality of Medicare or that you can't have preexisting limits. Give the database a court all it's own that protects it and make the government go through hoops to see dat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Setting up my business, wife suddenly bitchyThe stay plan is the go plan. You need to ask you're why you're waiting for things to change or get better. Wait till someday is now. | /r/askMRP | 21/01/24 06:34 PM |
| 0 | Blue pill: "We are equal", Red pill: "We are different", Purple pill: "We are different, but we have to treat each other equally at least some of the time"The whole meme came from the fact that when you become Redpilled you accept reality and it's ugly truths. Bluepills refuse to accept it. Don't be surprised by human nature is all it really is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 03:07 PM |
| 4 | Why do men crave a stay at home wife so much?My wife was a SAHM. It made simple financial sense. We would pay all of her salary to cover day care and then she'd still have to take days off for sick kids or what not. It was a sacrifice for sure. But our kids are thriving in school now and she went back to school and got a degree she's really interested in. Before her I dated a woman with an advanced degree. In some ways our careers were going to come in conflict, and her values on family changed once she started working. She told me she wan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Does the Destiny situation prove that redpill is right?Except Jeff Bezos would be labeled "Beta Bucks". Jason Momoa is now divorced. Russel Wilson marrying Ciara doesn't say shit about the Redpill, only about Russel Wilson. What you and everyone else are missing, is that the Redpill is pragmatic. Jeff Bezo's wife is clearly marrying up, and the Redpill would say it demonstrates hypergamy. Jason Momoa ditched Lisa Bonet and is now dating a significantly younger Mexican pop singer. Russel Wilson? Same thing. At the time he was one of the NFL's most el… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/24 06:30 PM |
| – | Debate A Man should be allowed to opt out being a father if he says it enough early in a pregnancy.Could it be that the government is more protecting itself than protecting a child with forcing fathers to pay for children they don't love? The government has said time and time again, that it is protecting its own interests not the fathers or mothers. Just google how many stories there are on men who are forced to pay child support for kids that aren't theirs just because a woman took a guess at who the sperm doner was. Or men that find out years after that 'their' kids aren't really theirs. Do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/24 06:57 PM |
| 15 | Helping My Ex Out OccassionallyGive freely because you can, and that you expect nothing in return. As u/SteelSharpensSteel suggests, do not give to her because you have some sort of moral obligation because she is your baby momma. I'll also offer my perspective as older man, who grew up with divorced parents. You will make your childs life a million times better if you maintain an amicable relationship with your soon to be ex. My parents were a unified front to me, and I never once heard from either what the cause of the divo… | /r/askMRP | 05/01/24 01:56 PM |
| 2 | How to breakup with long term gf when we live together"hey this isn't working" Why are you so concerned that she'd fail as a person without you? Quit being captain Sav a ho. Check local tenancy laws. You likely owe her 30 days written notice of she's not on the lease. If I were you I'd politely offer her a move and to help her out. Make it seem like it's her idea of your smart | /r/askMRP | 11/12/23 11:12 PM |
| 8 | Do You Think It’s A Good Idea, To Split The Gym By Gender?Maybe they're just narcissists? I'll leave this here... https://youtube.com/shorts/0c9tKlDa4Nw?si=McUoGw9BQHj-M-T0 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/23 10:57 PM |
| 0 | Why do women never blame Married women for their persistent support of the GOP and the Pro Life Movement like they do sexless/dateless men?You dont see laws controlling mens sperm and how many babies they have or dont have but they sure want to control women's. Yet countless men have been saddled with child support for kids that aren't theirs through deceit or omission. When it comes to legal-light the state says "but the kids". So a man is forced to pay for someone else's kid or get locked in a cage. He has to use his body to provide labor, or lose his body and choice. Don't even get me started on the draft. My body, my choice? Le… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/23 12:21 PM |
| 2 | it makes more biological sense for an older woman to date younger men than vice versaI think women are becoming what they find attractive, instead of becoming what men find attractive. The numbers are true what you say, but I suspect quality men will still date women they want, and more women will sit out instead of marrying. That's already occurring. I'm older than most redditors I imagine. I also never dated a single woman that made less money than me (STEM), so I never had to even encounter that discussion. Frankly there were women who I broke up with that didn't support my c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 09:03 PM |
| 1 | it makes more biological sense for an older woman to date younger men than vice versaI think that's just a misunderstanding about development. Men and women develop differently. To me, their paths don't overlap until later. Certainly watching my kids develop, a daughter and two boys, they definitely have different priorities. My sons value achievement and comradery, where my daughter values inclusion and social cohesion. Physically my kids all started puberty roughly the same time. My sons have changed the most. My oldest went from 110lbs to 200lbs and probably grew a foot (he's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 01:56 PM |
| 1 | it makes more biological sense for an older woman to date younger men than vice versaOr..... Women date men who more readily have their shit together because resource attainment and stability are critical factors in starting a family. This typically is about 3+ years for males. Women also tend to be able to build better social networks later in life and rely on them for support if and when they don't have a spouse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 12:20 PM |
| 26 | Do you think different politics will keep men and women from dating each other?Been there done that. "I won't date a guy who owns guns" "That's funny, you have been for like 2 months" Watch the mental gymnastics go across her face.... "Well, you're not like the ones I'm talking about." Maybe you never would, but then again, maybe you didn't know you were. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/23 04:24 PM |
| – | The age limit for porn performers should be 21People keep saying "you can't drink!" is a legal misconception. Most states you can drink at any age, but you can't purchase alcohol nor possess it without a parents permission. There is nothing illegal about me giving my son a beer at dinner even though he's 16. Just like most states make exceptions for sexual activity below the age of "consent" when the involved persons are nearly or the same age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/23 12:24 PM |
| 12 | FR : Getting out the door system and getting bad behaviorIn management there's an oft repeated mantra, "Lead people, manage things". In your life and home you need to build systems that automate the typical task. Come home from being out for the day with the kiddos? Take their go-bags, replenish what ever is gone and put it by the door. Now it's ready for next time. Next you need to lead your wife. "Hun, I notice you're really frazzled just before you leave the house. We have everything ready, but you're still in panic mode. What tools do you need tha… | /r/askMRP | 30/10/23 03:02 PM |
| 6 | Would you be willing to take on the dirty jobs men do?My body my choice, am right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 11:19 AM |
| 22 | Walking out and leaving for the nightYeah man in the US you can't lock your spouse out, so don't be stupid. | /r/askMRP | 04/10/23 11:18 AM |
| 2 | What does TRP make of the fact that so many women selflessly take care of their Ill and disabled husbands?I've never said that. There's plenty of room for compassion, people aren't meat-puppets. You could even make an argument that compassion comes from self-interest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 01:50 PM |
| 1 | What does TRP make of the fact that so many women selflessly take care of their Ill and disabled husbands?Who is they? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 01:13 PM |
| 3 | What does TRP make of the fact that so many women selflessly take care of their Ill and disabled husbands?I think most people miss the point like you are. Even guys choking down the pill for the first time. It's don't be surprised when it happens. All people are ego driven. Don't be surprised when a woman or a man makes a decision that they feel is in their best interest, even when it's not in your or their actual best interest. I would say Emma is making that decision, even though I may not think it's right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/23 12:18 PM |
| 3 | Is it true that almost every average couple has a dead bedroom?It sounds trite but, be attractive. I see guys in DBs complain that they aren't getting sex the way they did when they first got together with their woman but when you dig into it? He's put on 20lbs. He doesn't dress as nice. He's needy or validation seeking.... the list goes on. The problem is they go into the relationship as a 7 and devolve into a 5. There's more to it, but that's the baseline. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 11:37 AM |
| 2 | An ex-wife that enthusiastically followed?A woman's reputation to her friends and family is huge. Use it to your advantage. Does it make more sense now? | /r/askMRP | 12/09/23 05:31 PM |
| 3 | An ex-wife that enthusiastically followed?So given that how do her actions now look? Making dinner just seems par for the course? What. does she gain from here? | /r/askMRP | 12/09/23 05:20 PM |
| 2 | An ex-wife that enthusiastically followed?Search here for "killing the puppy". Plenty of reference material. Then get back to me on her sketchy shit. | /r/askMRP | 12/09/23 02:26 PM |
| 4 | An ex-wife that enthusiastically followed?I think most people fundamentally miss other people's ego for their own. You're too worried about "why is she doing this for me?" when you should ask, "why is she doing this for her?" When someone says they want closure it's not to better understand you, its to feel better about themselves. I once had a girl who became an utter bitch the last two months of our relationship. When I finally broke up with her, she was elated. Her reasons were simple "you were too good of a guy to simply break up wi… | /r/askMRP | 12/09/23 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Jobs that are dealbreakers (for me )...what about you?The more tattoos or blue hair? The bigger the shit show. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Men cause their own lonelinessSo it is mens fault that they are lonely when they try and pursue casual sex which is self serving. You're guilty of the "Either or" fallacy. There has to be two options. But the reality is redpill is about one thing, rule zero. Rule zero is, get the sex you want. The rest? It's all superfulous. Do men engage in behaviors that ultimately leave them socially isolated? Sure. But one can be a Chad, and also be socially fulfilled. Certainly there are plenty of socially connected men who are sexually… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/23 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: What are your thoughts on childfree women and infertile women?I don't think people are honest with themselves frankly. My wife has a good friend who's hubby has made it clear, "no kids". She's screaming towards 50 but up until a few years ago would mention every once in awhile "he might change". She is a really sweet person and really wanted kids from all that my wife said. I genuinely think the woman I mentioned was deeply conflicted. She felt like she should want kids but couldn't get past that she didn't. I think she felt like because I wanted kids she … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Assuming traditional gender norms in dating, what do women offer in the initial dating stages?You should give freely with no expectations in return. Maybe that friend has other values they bring to the table? I have a friend who has never visited me, in spite me visiting him on and off for nearly 30 years. But he's not my "we visit each other" friend either. But when I had a death in the family? He was right there no questions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 04:50 PM |
| 7 | Q4M: What are your thoughts on childfree women and infertile women?I broke up with a woman because she kept moving the goal posts on kids (other reasons too but that was huge). One minute it was just one kid only, the next it was later when her career was going well, then it was she didn't want to be pregnant but would adopt, etc (a no-go for me). Finally in a moment of deep conversation she let it slip she didn't want kids but was affraid it would cause us to break up. Well yeah it did. If she would've put it out there from the beginning I would have saved us … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 04:45 PM |
| 2 | Is a woman having a job a bad thing?My wife was a stay at home mom for years. It made financial sense for our family. That was her job. Even she'll tell you it was a pain and not one of her fondest memories. Once the kids went to school she went back to college, and now she has a career that is meaningful to her. We still have some traditional rolls, she handles the laundry and house stuff, I do the cooking, finances and outside. My career has taken priority. Mainly because I've always earned way more than her. So we've made finan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 11:56 AM |
| 5 | Wife is sexual but doesn’t actually want sex?Her actions say she's not sexual, because you know she doesn't fuck? Watch her actions. | /r/askMRP | 17/08/23 10:38 PM |
| 1 | How to handle a disrespectful daughterGive her choices. Do you want to want to disrespect your mother and loose your phone or be respectful and keep it? Your choice. Then reinforce the choice when she makes it. Every kid has a thumbscrew, find out what it is. Secondly, is she ADHD? This kind of behavior in girls can be indicative of ADHD. My daughter is very much 0-100 because of it. "You need to go somewhere else until you calm down. I don't care if you yell and scream but you need to do it somewhere else." Nothing in life is free,… | /r/askMRP | 15/08/23 08:51 PM |
| 6 | Nuclear shit test exampleSome boundaries need to be discussed. Some are unspoken. A high value man values his time most of all. Educating some thot on the fact that she crossed an unspoken boundary is not a good way to spend your time. Why teach her a lesson that will not benefit you? The lesson for our hero is to be better at ho management. If you've vetted her as a high value woman correctly, she wouldn't be putting herself in these situations to begin with. In the end she vetted herself for you, so chalk it up to lea… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/08/23 02:26 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Ladies, I think we're doing ourselves a disservice by giving men dating advice (nuanced take)No one asks the fish how to catch fish. A woman's job in dating is to figure out that the guy is not a psychopath (in the extreme). A mans is to figure out that she's loyal. A woman might give advice that tells a man to hide or mask psychopathy traits, but in doing so an average joe might mask his traits that show he's a capable male. She's advising him on her interests, not his. Guys friendzone themselves by doing this. "Oh look I'm a nice guy! I'm not violent. I communicate feelings. I do what… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/23 02:58 PM |
| 2 | Q4M - an average looking girl is DESPERATE to date you. How do you feel about it?Hell I think no tats, face piercings no blue hair and a healthy BMI would make her stand out above average from the start. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 01:07 PM |
| 1 | So how exactly do men "deceive" women into sex?Or you convinced yourself against your better judgment and values he was serious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/23 12:41 PM |
| 16 | Do you know any red pillers in real life? Are they sexually successful?My dad was a natural. Super confident, comfortable around women, could game and flirt. He was also married and divorced 3 times. He'd fall into bad habits and then his player instinct would kick in and he'd blow it all up. TRP is just men in the locker room comparing notes. Some are better than others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 04:20 PM |
| 14 | What do you hope to gain from the red pill?Redpill Rule Zero: To get and have the sex life you want. That's it. Some guys try to live bluepill lives with redpill glasses. Some guys "choke" on the pill. But it's really not complicated shit. Me? I love women. They make me happy, and are fun to be around. Feminine energy is amazing. But I'm under no illusions that my wife, or past girlfriends think the same way I do, or have the same goals and communication styles I do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/23 01:57 PM |
| 3 | Is there a time when it's ok to DEER in a reasonable situation? (Explain)Tl:dr.... No. Don't know what you wrote but no. | /r/askMRP | 26/07/23 10:17 PM |
| 5 | How do you guys deal with a woman who is cheating and wont admit it. Gaslighting is real badI doubt they have them then. I literally had to attest that I was ok with my kids getting passports, See item #7. https://travel.state.gov/content/travel/en/passports/need-passport/under-16.html Go fill out the link I posted then, ASAP. | /r/askMRP | 21/07/23 01:45 PM |
| 10 | How do you guys deal with a woman who is cheating and wont admit it. Gaslighting is real badDo your children have passports? If not one parent cannot obtain passports alone. She would need a signed affidavit to get them passports. You can file with the State Dept to be notified of any passport application. Your best bet is to file for divorce ASAP. Move to get a custody agreement in place so that you have legal backing and a custody agreement. No custody agreement in place makes it hard to stop her from leaving the country without permission. At this point you need to be pragmatic. "De… | /r/askMRP | 21/07/23 01:12 PM |
| 6 | Why don't women compliment and approach men?I think OP is the problem not women. I'm an older guy and have had plenty of women compliment me. My wife initiated talking to me but it wasn't as direct as I would be. I get it. It's way more risky for her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 04:46 PM |
| 5 | How would you feel about your gf losing weight/having a glow up while with you?Good for her. She needs to keep up, and getting fitter will help with that goal. If you're already in good shape and your girl gets in good shape to mirror you, that's a positive for everyone. If you're a fat fuck and she gets in good shape? Well more times than not, it can be bad for everyone. So many of my buddies who were lazy fucks sitting around home glad their wife accepted them "just they way they are!" were quite surprised when she got in good shape and fucked around or left him. Color m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 04:44 PM |
| 3 | Feelings vs factsLove this.... this space reserved for when I can add a reply. | /r/askMRP | 13/07/23 06:06 PM |
| 22 | Feelings vs factsIt's oft talked about but it's their mode of communication. Women deliver emotion, men deliver content. But its also misunderstood that women won't deliver content. Typically you need to go through the first to get to the second. The book WISNIFG deals with this pretty well. Ultimately you need to get her to own her feelings. Way back I had an encounter that went like this: wife, "You ruined the whole weekend with what you said" Me, "I had a great time, so not ruined for me" Her, "What you said … | /r/askMRP | 12/07/23 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Should I let my woman win at board and video games?It's actually the right thing to do. If you want her to feel better because you don't beat her at board games, that's taking responsibility for her feelings. It wreaks of validation seeking behavior. In the long run it can turn into codependency and go from being caregiver behavior to caretaker behavior. My wife is competitive, but over the long run there's very few board games she can beat me at. If she's upset that she lost it's healthy to let her have her feelings. If she's upset that she nev… | /r/askMRP | 12/07/23 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Should I let my woman win at board and video games?So oneitis? Go find someone who does. If she sucks that's her problem. | /r/askMRP | 10/07/23 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Should I let my woman win at board and video games?Why do you feel you need to manager her feelings? | /r/askMRP | 08/07/23 04:52 PM |
| 8 | "A new law puts an end to permanent alimony in Florida "It creates a perverse incentive. I watch it with my own MIL. She had a few opportunities to date, and instead claimed "My kids are my focus". Meanwhile any time Ex-hubby had something good go in his life, she took him to court. New wife gets a new job? Lets' go to court. New wife gets a new car? Lets go to court. She had a few chances to get great jobs, but refused and instead took shitty jobs that paid under the table. All so she didn't jeopardize her precious permanent alimony. She was so trau… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 02:26 PM |
| 37 | Caught her in a liePlates spin, plates fall. Calling her out on a transgression is sort of like rubbing a puppies nose in the poo. It might make you feel better but it's too late because there's shit on the floor. In the long term it makes her go underground instead. If you want to maintain the plate, tell her she crossed a boundary. But give her a place to land, so that in the future she feels like she can fess up. My personal opinion is I don't lend money to friends or family. Give freely because you can, and be… | /r/askMRP | 29/06/23 04:08 PM |
| 12 | Advice/Tips on safeguarding RP LitI get not wanting to deal with the grief and neuroticism of a wife on the content of these kinds of books, but in the end? Own it. When you become a fully integrated man these kinds of discussions are easy to have. "I read all kinds of things. I'm always looking to improve myself dear." Make it about you, not her. Here's a lesson, if she finds it, pressure flip. "Huh, why does it make you nervous that I read these books?" The first rule of fight club is for your benefit, not hers. Bluepill guys … | /r/askMRP | 23/06/23 02:25 PM |
| 2 | Where did the idea of a woman's SMV originate from? To the point where it has become a hot topic for PurplePill and Redpill Reddit?It's a timeless concept. Hell they even had a movie in 1979 called 10, where Dudley more obsesses over Bo Derek and unattainable beauty, and he ironically gets turned off when she offers him casual sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 11:28 AM |
| – | 'Liberal Woman' Goes Viral On TikTok For Saying It's Hard To Find 'Masculine' Man Who's Not ConservativeCertainly validation seeking via Tiktok is a red flag. But maybe she's been vetted a few times and now she realizes it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 12:52 PM |
| 16 | 'Liberal Woman' Goes Viral On TikTok For Saying It's Hard To Find 'Masculine' Man Who's Not ConservativeI have a good friend who can fix any car. Fabricate just about anything. He works out and is fit (he's a runner though, not a meat head). Generally tends to be a flannel wearing dude with jeans type guy. Him and I have fished in Alaska, hunted in Montana, worked on cars, etc. He's a life long liberal, and identifies with 99% of the liberal agenda (hunting and guns aside), and even calls himself a feminist. I'd venture to say that those guys are out there. Plenty of his friend group are similar t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 02:56 PM |
| 11 | To Move Out or Not Move OutI've read through a few of your comments and your main question. Here's what you don't realize. You have power. If she wants to go to a shelter, fucking A let her go. Not for nothing she'll be back in an hour after leaving your cushy nice apartment. You are constantly helping her and keeping her safe from moving on. First step, read and internalize When I Say No I Feel Guilty. She has behaviors that try to force you to take responsibility for her feelings. And you do. She wants sushi? Why is tha… | /r/askMRP | 08/06/23 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Its hypocritical of men to criticize promiscious women, when those men want to engage in casual sex.High value is relative of course, and relative to your point in life. Besides you're begging the question of course. When I was in my 20's I met plenty of women that were high value and a few that weren't of course. I'm STEM educated and plenty of those women wanted and valued the same things I did, without having had some crazy horrible past life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Its hypocritical of men to criticize promiscious women, when those men want to engage in casual sex.but it doesn't mean that she can't keep her mouth shut and drive 2 hours and fuck half of city. I mean vetting people is a thing. Women failed to vet Ted Bundy. I can't help that people would lie to me. I'm older than most redditors, and while I've misjudged a few people initially, over time people always show their true colors. People are a sum of their decisions, and my experience is poor decisions don't tend to be hidden to just one attribute. But I don't think women see mens sluttiness the s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 01:32 PM |
| 2 | Its hypocritical of men to criticize promiscious women, when those men want to engage in casual sex.But I can be rich, successful and slutty and still be a high value man. There's more than one thing that brings value to a man. It's hard to undo a woman's sluttiness with the same things a man brings to the table. Life choices are valued differently in the opposite sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 08:50 PM |
| 2 | Its hypocritical of men to criticize promiscious women, when those men want to engage in casual sex.A high value man isn't the same thing as a high value woman. As such their defining traits are different. Showing preference for those values isn't hypocritical. I love hamburgers, and I love dry aged porterhouse, but I don't have to pretend they both have the same value or utility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 08:28 PM |
| – | Do you think that the main way for men to view women in a healthy way is a healthy relationship considering porn & repression are the only other 2 practical options that often can distort reality?I have a healthy relationship with my mom, my sister, my daughter, women I work with.... There's more than sexual examples. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 04:22 PM |
| 1 | How many people on this sub actually want casual sex?I've noticed that a few women want to hook-up, but the thought of jumping through hoops, drinking and partying until 3AM, just for the "chance" of having terrible sex with a drunk Women does not appeal to me. It seems to me that maybe your definition of casual sex is what's got you thrown off a bit? You're setting yourself up for a covert contract. Read what you said, "I do X, then Y and then she sleeps with me..." If you want a sexual relationship with a woman, make your intentions known. Now y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 03:14 PM |
| 1 | What is your opinion of incels?Well see that's a different approach. Swinging your dick around attempting to lure me into a pissing match is a failure of your ego. If you let your ego go, and listened to some of the points I have, would you accept it as a valid argument? I don't need to explain anything to you, but if you're open for an intellectually honest debate? Sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 04:57 PM |
| 1 | What is your opinion of incels?Seems kind of a silly hill to die on. At the very least you know the internet is a thing? Google and WebMD are free. Then I'd post it, and you'd worry about why you think you're maybe becoming an incel; that being one is a higher cause that's misunderstood. You're overly self important and ego centric view of the world wouldn't let you see what the definition is. I'd point out some more definitions and you'd blather on and on about how that effects you but it's not really true. You'd keep going … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 12:32 PM |
| 0 | What is your opinion of incels?What do I need a shitty car for? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 11:19 PM |
| 0 | What is your opinion of incels?Incels are. narcissists. It's pretty simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 04:34 PM |
| 16 | The SILENCE Here is DEAFENINGIt's not a bug, it's a feature. People often equate us to a support group, and that's where they go wrong. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/06/23 12:34 PM |
| 3 | Study show that straight women are disproportionaly more likely to search porn with violence against women and where they are being raped abused and endure physical violence, than straight men do.My dad was married and divorced 3 times. You know what all those women had in common with him? My dad Beware of survivorship bias. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 01:43 PM |
| 6 | Don't fall for it: Tradcons are trying to lure young men again into their bubble as antifeminism trends again in right wing circlejerks for the first time in 5 years or so, this is them trying to get your vote, do not take the baitWhat's the difference between Captain-sav-a-ho and Captain-sav-a-bro? Not much buddy. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/05/23 06:54 PM |
| 50 | Once the Old Generation is gone...Have you read Don Quixote? Literally the whole point of the story is the main character is lamenting the loss of the old ways. Instead of tilting at windmills and looking for monsters that aren't there embrace abundance and live your life the way you want. I have kids and a wife. We have a nice traditional family and they are thriving. Nothing to stop you from doing the same. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/23 03:26 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most men are totally okay with waiting to have sex, but they're scared of being friendzoned so they feel pressured to make moves on datesShould I expect the same treatment immediately, simply because he did do those things in the past? If a dude was a time-slut his whole life and then all of the sudden saw the light with one chick, she should question his value. Being a high value person, is not turning on a sudden light switch. It's a lifetime of discipline and dedication. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/23 08:06 PM |
| 4 | ILYBINILWY speechYet another guy unable to be vulnerable or in touch with his emotions experiences a relationship failure. There's room in MRP for emotions, but it comes from understanding them and using them for personal growth and as always rule zero. I don't know what message you've received. But I will tell you, you're borderline concern trolling. So knock that shit off. YOU ARE WARNED. Now if you want to discuss the merits of emotional control or possibly the treatises of Deida and his works maybe you'd hav… | /r/askMRP | 03/05/23 05:29 PM |
| 25 | MRP Starter PackI have failed. I am divorced Start with reframing this. Bad decisions can't be made with good info. So look back at the path that got you here. Did you ignore good information? Did you discount it? MRP isn't about saving the marriage, its about fixing the man. This is only one of many paths. If five years from now you have a smoking hot girlfriend and your ex is long forgotten will it still look like failure or a learning experience to get to a better point? | /r/askMRP | 21/04/23 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Low SMV women have the same mentality as Beta malesThis is just the ladder theory of women. There's an archive version of it out there. Women youd fuck are on your ladder, the lower below you the quicker they jump. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/23 11:07 AM |
| 12 | Is this the beginning of the end? (34, M, US)"The stay plan is the go plan" What I feel like going on here is you are choking on the pill. You've failed to internalize it for what ever reason. You blame your wife's strong frame on her intelligence instead of looking internally. Smart girls are fun; amused mastery, agree and amplify, etc. can all be used to get their intellect to do the heavy lifting for you. Women love emotion, they live for conflict, so give her what she craves. It doesn't have to be drama, make it fun. In the long run, a… | /r/askMRP | 19/04/23 01:33 PM |
| -1 | Q4women Does saying guys should work on themselves first to find dating success make any sense when it's women deciding what men should become?At first I wanted to improve myself for her, but it hasn’t really taken me anywhere Because its disingenuous. Its a covert contract. "If i get interesting again she'll fuck me".... Except she doesn't know she not passing the test. Remember when you first started dating and attracted her? First step, be attractive again. Second step, stop being unattractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/23 08:41 PM |
| 7 | If you're a guy with a girlfriend, part of your "job" is to keep her from being bored.Your approaching life as a zero sum game. I give = I lose. It's not. If I build my life where I'm living my purpose and it's fun and interesting and a girl comes along and she finds it fun and interesting and also brings something to the table? The two make more than they do alone, aka synergy. This is a hard fast rule for anyone in your life. If they provide less value than they generate? They should be ejected. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 01:18 PM |
| 6 | Can most men really afford to cut off women who don't reciprocate their effort?Ten or twenty women who go out on a date with you and they all seem to be boring, uninvolved or passive? Seems they all have one thing in common. You. Maybe it's your filter criteria, or maybe its where you are meeting them? OLD replaced in person meets like bars and social events, for sure, but it didn't eliminate one key aspect. Back in the day if I'm at a party and start talking to an attractive person and then.... it just fizzles, I move on to something else with my time. Conversely what ene… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 01:22 PM |
| 5 | CMV: The fact that Red Pillers still want their daughters to be educated girlbosses is hypocriticalRedpill is a sexual strategy, plain and simple. If dudes got out of their own way, got in shape, and set up their life so they could have all the choices they want, then that strategy is maximized. It's not that complicated. Getting married is problematic. I've always wanted kids, and raising them in a nuclear family is the best chance for them to be successful. I'm under no illusions though that if I got divorced, I would get the worst of it from a legal standpoint. I wouldn't make that choice … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 08:10 PM |
| 5 | CMV: The fact that Red Pillers still want their daughters to be educated girlbosses is hypocriticalI put my wife through college again (after the kids were done with school) and if my daughter wants to, she'll go also. What does that say? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 04:11 PM |
| 4 | Why not look for a woman with a career?I never cared. I dated a PharmD, plenty of corporate ladder climbers and a few blue collar girls. I happened to marry my wife because she had the same family goals as me. I'm STEM and have never dated a woman who made more than me. The PharmD was the one who made close to me (although likely not now) but she had so much invested in her career we started to have disagreements about family, namely she was waffling on kids. The income was nice, but I wanted kids. Reality was I broke up with all the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 08:32 PM |
| 5 | Why being in a relationship or accidentally impregnating a black women is a terrible ideaDated an AME preachers daughter when I was just out of college. Good people, with excellent values. I moved for a job, but she's doing well in life since me, and has a nice little family. I was looked at suspiciously for being a white/Italian guy from the north, but then I was welcomed because she introduced me. Never underestimate a persons family background when it comes to personal values. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/23 02:41 PM |
| 1 | “Whoever invites pays” is just a way for women to get out of saying “men should pay” (first dates)When I was in college I had no money. So you made due with what you could. Free things, house parties, football games, etc. It kind of gave me a good tool set that the fun was the event, not the outlay of money. When I started dating my now wife dinner was often an after thought. I lived near an Ivy league campus, parks, historic sites etc. So most of our dates were just going to interesting places. I just think people are unimaginative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 04:57 PM |
| 2 | Does the fact that a guy friend would bang his female friend if given the chance mean he's not really her friend?It's called "The ladder Theory". You're on your ladder. People you'd sleep with are also on your ladder if given the opportunity. Those above you, you are more willing than they are, below you vise versa. People on the other ladder are those you wouldn't sleep with. Maybe they don't know they are on the other ladder. Obvious people are female relatives, less obvious are platonic friends that you'd never consider but maybe they don't know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 11:46 AM |
| 1 | Q4Men: How do you feel about taking male birth control?Having dated my share of women who were on hormonal birth control, including my wife, the issue with your theory is simple. All those symptoms were present with or without the BC. As a point of information, the FDA requires that any condition that occurred during validation of a medicine be listed as a possible side effect. Since these are already typical everyday occurrences with women? No shit it's a side effect. The reality is they're using hormones that are already present in a womans body i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 01:19 PM |
| 3 | Things that women support the most are about avoiding the responsibility that women being equal implyBut I can't drop my half off can I? A woman can omit the father off the birth certificate and poof, no more kid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 05:41 PM |
| 4 | Things that women support the most are about avoiding the responsibility that women being equal implyPaper abortions are about post conception choice, which men don't have. "My body my choice!" But you know as a man they will lock you up in a cage under threats of violence if you try to opt out of fatherhood. But a single mom can drop a baby off at a fire station in many jurisdictions. The state might go after the dad even then. In particularly egregious cases the state has made men pay for kids that aren't theirs. I just want equal opportunity. My body, my choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 05:29 PM |
| 8 | Age gaps don't matter. Attraction does.Im older and have a 6 year age gap between my wife and I. I have a daughter and expect to have vetting conversations. But I also realize that Romeo and Juliet is a trope for a reason. As a parent you work to instill good values in your kids, and if they come home with someone you disapprove of, you failed in teaching. At the point of having a conversation I'm really making a decision about my time, not hers (or my two sons for that matter) I would never disown my kids or forbid them to date some… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Had a glow up and the difference is shockingHitting the gym is about discipline first. Muscles are an after effect. You can't go to the gym and after 2 weeks go, "yep thats good". Dedication and discipline only payoff in the long run. You can't fake it. You can't cheat. I tell fat fucks to hit the gym because it changes their focus, not because they're fat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 05:57 PM |
| 1 | The best thing any man can do is to stop dating, and to also forget about marriage.if they're narcissists, sure. But OP was talking about incels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 11:58 AM |
| 1 | The best thing any man can do is to stop dating, and to also forget about marriage.Nope, not my theory. https://www.cambridge.org/core/journals/bjpsych-advances/article/incels-violence-and-mental-disorder-a-narrative-review-with-recommendations-for-best-practice-in-risk-assessment-and-clinical-intervention/6A934637D21AEE4C1D90FAF5FB63D769 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/23 03:38 PM |
| 7 | NMMNG: Read with her? Or no?The big reason, Nice Guys can turn it into a covert contract. "See honey? I'm doing this great stuff...." | /r/askMRP | 01/03/23 12:47 PM |
| -2 | The best thing any man can do is to stop dating, and to also forget about marriage.Because of their worldview. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/23 12:35 PM |
| 0 | The best thing any man can do is to stop dating, and to also forget about marriage.Let's call it an insult with intent. But they are narcissists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/23 12:35 PM |
| -3 | The best thing any man can do is to stop dating, and to also forget about marriage.Calling someone an Incel isn't an insult, its merely pointing out mental illness. Incels are just another version of narcissists. They tick all or most of the checkmarks of narcissism. Its futile because when has a narcissist ever admitted they are a narcissist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/23 12:04 PM |
| 3 | Could "baby trapping" be underreported and much more common than we think?Anecdotal, but still pertinent I have more than a few relatives that had kids that had all the makings of baby trapping. One relative for years told her baby daddy she was on BC, she wasn't but had problems conceiving. Another thought one more kid would make him want to stay, it didn't. The other 2 wanted second kids and outright lied. The common theme unfortunately is they are all lower class, service industry types with no education. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 02:48 PM |
| 5 | Proper reaction to sexual rejection in a marriage.Well let's look at Elijah Woods. Or how about Jack Black? Are they incredibly talented and outliers? Of course they are. But they provide an example of what charisma, and talent can make up for. Or take the story of the English Soccer team. Minor improvements in certain areas of your life can elevate your social status (and attractiveness) and give you the ability to play in different social strata. I have a friend who's a complete social retard. He's physically utterly average. He has a history… | /r/askMRP | 14/01/23 03:24 PM |
| 6 | Proper reaction to sexual rejection in a marriage.Congrats. You're beta bucks. She's been clear to you what your purpose is. Now what do you want? Even ugly dudes can bang fat chicks. A nice wardrobe, get swole, and you'd be surprised how well you can do. | /r/askMRP | 14/01/23 02:00 PM |
| 9 | Proper reaction to sexual rejection in a marriage.I get rejected all the time. She claims she has a “low sex drive” for me and only wants it once a week/ once every 2 weeks from me. So, following that schedule, on Saturday she would initiate that passionless “duty” sex with me, yet whenever I suggest it I get shot down regardless of how long it’s been. Normally, after getting rejected I cut all my affection towards her - no hugging , kissing, no compliments, etc. it’s my natural reaction, but now that I think about it- isn’t that showing her th… | /r/askMRP | 13/01/23 06:17 PM |
| 8 | STFU conundrumThe problem is, and most guys don't internalize this until much later, you're playing chess and she's painting water lilies. Guys DEER because they think "If I could only get her to see my way". Meanwhile your girl is roiling through emotions. Patrice was right. Her bullshit is just her inner monolog on display, her feelings are driving that monolog. If you're in a heated argument with your wife instead of using facts to frame your argument, instead use feelings. The surest way to get a woman to… | /r/askMRP | 11/01/23 06:40 PM |
| 58 | STFU conundrumGo look through the archives for stuff on shit tests and DEER. STFU doesn't mean go all aspy on her and stare into the abyss. It means quit trying to change her feelings by explaining your way away (and drying up her vagina in the process). STFU should be zen-like. It's contemplative, not a reaction. Look at her and imagine her with pigtails and child like, then think of how you would react. Do you explain your way to a fussing 10 year old? Do you defend your actions to a yammering 6 year old? N… | /r/askMRP | 10/01/23 08:34 PM |
| 3 | Looking for advice from veteransHe's not wrong, he's just an asshole.... and so are you. The stay plan is the go plan. Build your life so that your wife is immaterial; she's an accessory. We all heard what her baggage is, but if she left you tomorrow this argument wouldn't change. So the stay plan is the go plan. What's your plan? | /r/askMRP | 10/01/23 05:32 PM |
| 2 | Getting fed up with constant gaming / affection and no results1: It's promoting hate based on identity or vulnerability Somebody fucking hates you and is rage stalking you.... Man I guess you hit a nerve. | /r/askMRP | 06/01/23 02:46 PM |
| 4 | Giving ultimatums - ever effective?You know it's a joke, cause the dog will always go fishing... | /r/askMRP | 05/01/23 12:20 PM |
| 3 | Open Marriage VS Moving Wife To A PlateWe're here to get the sex we want. Everything else follows. | /r/askMRP | 05/01/23 12:01 PM |
| 2 | Open Marriage VS Moving Wife To A PlateReported for promoting hate... | /r/askMRP | 05/01/23 11:59 AM |
| 10 | Open Marriage VS Moving Wife To A PlateRule ZERO is paramount. Always start from there. Ask yourself how does any of that get you the sex you want? Research on here, or more likely r/marriedredpill because there are dudes who have done it in both forms. But occasionally you get a dude who wants to do it because he's trying to live bluepill ideals through redpill sunglasses. "Oh if I just open my marriage I will slay pussy, rule zero amright?" Then they get obliterated by bots and sugar baby's while wifey goes and easily bangs randos. | /r/askMRP | 04/01/23 08:46 PM |
| 0 | What do men mean when they want a “submissive” wife?Sure, but first a few things. Obviously context is everything. Me? I'm the major bread winner, by a lot. I always have been. I also have higher degrees, and have run organizations. In that context I'd take the info into consideration. If the math worked, than I'd have no problem with it, assuming I like the house and saw them as interchangeable. But and this is a big but, I'd have to see it that way. I'm a planner and very good with numbers. My wife has often labeled "convenience" as the cheaper… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 04:32 PM |
| 3 | What do men mean when they want a “submissive” wife?I don't just mean in this particular case, in general. No way you can talk through everything that will potentially come up in decades time. And even if you discus goals, you can disagree on the best way to reach those goals. What do you do? There's a few ideas at play here. Leadership, management, and mission. They're all related, but not the same. OP is talking about his mission, financial independence. Management is how you accomplish that. Leadership is how you set direction to accomplish th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/23 02:54 PM |
| 16 | Dating is much more difficult for men if they aren't willing to date trashy womenYou reap what you sow. I've been around long enough to observe that there's a lid for every pot. If you're a high value man, or woman, you'll pair pretty consistently with people in your demo. If you're white trash, you'll stick with white trash. Having worked in the corporate world for now nearly 30 years, I can almost tell you what kind of wife or husband a person might have in my coworkers. I'm an Engineer, and most my coworkers have STEM, teacher, or medical related SO's. Meanwhile my kids f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/23 08:06 PM |
| 2 | Childfree ConundrumReported for hate speech, you must be triggering the bluepills.... | /r/askMRP | 26/12/22 03:10 PM |
| 31 | She has a habit of sleeping on the couchShe has had a hard year— her father passed away 8 months ago— and has been grieving for a long time. An unfortunate habit has come of this though, where she will stay up late and drink, and then fall asleep on the couch. She says sometimes she’s depressed and being in front of the TV helps her fall asleep. Boundary crossed? You tell me. Use the 2 week rule. Is this the kind of behavior you'd tolerate in week 2 of a relationship? I’m not sure of the best move here. My instinct is to confront an… | /r/askMRP | 21/12/22 01:18 PM |
| 6 | OYS 12 (posting here for OPSec purposes)I heard reddit let's you have more than one account. Its a thing. | /r/askMRP | 07/12/22 12:48 PM |
| 11 | Do the men in here that struggle to get laid not have any women in there social circles?Every CrossFit place I've ever been to is a singles paradise. As the old married guy I had a hard time keeping track of who was dating who. It seemed to change often. I have season passes for skiing. My oldest is in high school, but he's there with a ski club also. There's a ton of girls that he skis with. All the local Colleges have clubs too, and always people looking to carpool and what not. I'm a film photographer. There's a few clubs in the area, and they put on an annual exposition and gal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/22 08:00 PM |
| 24 | Wife wants a divorceEarly in my career I met with a big multi-national company. We started talking and the next thing you know I'm in the midst of a deep negotiation with them. Fuck if I don't land the biggest sale of my career. I didn't realize it, but we cut things pretty tight to get the sale. Margin was low, but we're still looking at a $5MM in a single sale. When we finally delivered it was still the biggest single purchase in company history, but man if they didn't torture us with change requests, redesigns a… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/12/22 07:35 PM |
| 11 | Nah This StaysEvery one of the side bar rules was forged in fire from the comment section. It's amazing how poorly equipped dudes are to face their own bad behavior. That bad behavior leaches into the comments. u/HypnoticVib3 your post is right out of rule 1. "Well fellas shouldn't we be kinder and gentler?" Nope. The reason for rule one, is manipulative guys use language to control the message. There's no new ideas. There's only getting people to realize what's already out there. Sometimes dudes need to be b… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/12/22 03:02 PM |
| 2 | Need help on STFU.u/dipping_toes has already said most of what I would say. So I'll dive into the deep end from here. Good assessment DT. What this stems from is pretty clear. There's a lack of leadership in your house. This is the thousand foot rope and your still turning the ship, while she's going in another direction because there's slack in the rope. You eliminate slack with leadership. I’ve laid out exceptions in the past and it turns into her making excuses for her laziness The management paradigm of lead … | /r/askMRP | 28/11/22 07:11 PM |
| 0 | How do we "choose better partners"?So many people talking about what to look for in the man, but missing the forest for the trees. Start with yourself. There's always two fucked up people in a shitty relationship and you can only unfuck one of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/22 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Arnold or Rambo?To answer McGill, about me being afraid? You bet your ass I feel apprehension about where I am at right now. I like where I live, almost all of my life is awesome. You need to live in that fear. Embrace it. Ruminate around on it and ask what it would be like. See what divorce would be like. Where would you live? Who would get the kids and when? Talk to a divorce lawyer and see what the outcome would be. Get papers drawn up. Fear often comes from the unknown. But the way to get past fear is from … | /r/askMRP | 21/11/22 02:57 PM |
| 17 | Open Relationships, how?There's been a few who have. Rule zero is paramount, of course. The real risk is pretty simple, dick is free. Go on some of the boards on reddit that practice this and you'll see pretty quickly what the typical result is. The woman gets dicked down almost instantly, while the man struggles to even land a date. Women hold the keys to intimacy, while men hold the keys to commitment. What commitment do you have to offer a side piece? Now from a Redpill standpoint there's a few that manage it, Vasil… | /r/askMRP | 18/11/22 02:26 PM |
| 13 | You should bartend at least once in your lifeI agree, but sometimes the spergs tend to overgeneralize and start to tilt at windmills, you know? It means that they are no longer approaching things with a clear vision. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/22 08:47 PM |
| 33 | You should bartend at least once in your life"Fucking women are nothing but whores..." as explained by the guy that only worked at whore houses. Maybe you should read up on survivorship bias a little? Color me surprised you dont find church girls outside of church. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/22 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Advice neededtake it to r/Askmrp | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/11/22 11:37 AM |
| 1 | Men love to complain about women looking fake but consistently go for the fakest looking womenYou ever watch "My 600lb life"? There's some giant woman and a man fawning over her. Peoole have varied tastes and sometimes its unexplainable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/22 12:10 PM |
| 12 | Boundary RepercussionsFunny, I'll I heard was you spewing words. “When you speak to me like that it’s not ok with me.” is not a boundary, it's a statement. “I'll talk to you when you've stopped being a cunt"...hero walks away, is a boundary. "If you drink, I don't want you around me." is a boundary. Boundaries only occur when you back up words with actions. | /r/askMRP | 04/11/22 03:37 PM |
| 27 | new hereIn spite of what you may think this wasn't busting a shit test. You set a boundary, you enforced a boundary. In the end, she came home and moved on with life. In the future the boundary is clear, you can become a leader and set the tone. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 01/11/22 01:35 PM |
| 7 | 2 things I've been struggling withI'm a proponent of the book WISNIFG, and probably was the first to recommend it years ago. The reason is simple, people don't realize when they are being manipulated. It's simple, if you can go through life and internalize, "I'm the only person that can judge my actions" then you don't need the book. Otherwise, take it in small doses. What's a good example of someone trying to get your to judge yourself? "you only really want sex" | /r/askMRP | 31/10/22 01:06 PM |
| 1 | CMV: the only thing two people need to have in common to date each other is the desire to date each otherYour kind of being motherly with her about her concern of being overly motherly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 04:33 PM |
| 1 | CMV: the only thing two people need to have in common to date each other is the desire to date each otherI can't help but find this comment ironic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 04:02 PM |
| 2 | CMV: the only thing two people need to have in common to date each other is the desire to date each otherBut talking to a 18 year old is like I'm instantly dropping into mom mode. Why is that? It was your need to fix him, not his want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/22 11:20 AM |
| 6 | Mental illnessIf I could go back in time and find the red pill before I never would have gotten into this mess in the first place. I think you answered your own question. Why would now be any different. We use the term "the stay plan is the go plan" often, but the inverse still applies, would you have gone with her to begin with if you are an integrated man? The corollary to this rule is the two week dating rule. Would you put up with this behavior from a woman after only dating her for 2 weeks? I know my ans… | /r/askMRP | 19/10/22 04:25 PM |
| 6 | Progress + question about frame/IDGAF with destructive behavior from wifeAre you 100% ready willing and able to leave her? Until then you aren't ready. "Are you telling me I can dodge bullets?" "No, Neo. I'm trying to tell you that when you're ready, you won't have to." You know why we get chubbies over this? Because it's true. It's the redpill for a reason. | /r/askMRP | 12/10/22 07:56 PM |
| 3 | Manosphere icons like Patrice O’Neal and Andrew tate are highly overratedPatrice O'Neil is fucking hilarious. He resonates with the Redpill because his whole schtick is pointing out how people bullshit themselves and other people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/22 05:03 PM |
| 8 | About that wife who "lost her mind"Yeah that guy is in a full blown manic episode. He was a chimp on the branch slinging shit and hoping that something, anything stuck. Nothing said would be heard. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/09/22 01:07 PM |
| – | Wife has lost her mind. I'm new to this sub. Please grill me on what to do. I still love her but she left me.Ok, folks. Guy is on Suicide watch, nothing more for us here. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/09/22 01:19 PM |
| 1 | What are the reasons groups for males and boys always seem to end up eventually infiltrated by women and girls?Meh. What obligation does my private organization have to cater to making people feel better about themselves? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 05:35 PM |
| 4 | What are the reasons groups for males and boys always seem to end up eventually infiltrated by women and girls?I'll give you a few personal examples. Maybe at the adult level, things run a little better, but boys and girls behave very differently in group dynamics. Allowing girls into the Boy Scouts fundamentally changed them. Women approach social cohesion from an "inclusive" standpoint. My oldest son when he was 7 or 8 was hanging around with a group of friends and one of the girls came running up to the parents complaining, "They are ignoring us! They won't let us play with them!" My wife got in a tiz… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/22 04:25 PM |
| 1 | I’m tired of this idea that men don’t know how to communicate, both men and women don’t.I've been navigating corporate America long enough to figure out that people have different styles, and suck at recognizing other styles. My wife is Expressive. Words come out of her mouth while she is thinking about them. So sometimes those ideas aren't coherent yet. I can be extremely analytical, but early on in our relationship she interpreted that as disinterest or even condescending. Both types need to move closer to the others style to get things done. Over the years we've come to an under… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/22 01:22 PM |
| 14 | The Book I wish was on the sidebar.I know there's some rumblings about whether the new crop of men are better than the old crop. I can't say, you're more than welcome to opine though. I've said it to you but it bears repeating. The story is the same, it's just the names of the characters that change. We are only here to chaperone our piece, but the story will go on without us regardless. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/09/22 01:14 PM |
| 5 | What would you say to a man who didn’t DNA test his kids because he trusted his wife and she still cheated on him?This is the real answer. There're state sanctioned incentives to legally enshrine a paternity fraud when it does occur. You can do a quick google and find more than enough case law where the state says it's in the best interest of the child to continue with said fraud. Of course with todays DNA technology there could be a public health benefit from doing testing at birth just like they do for blood type and Bilirubin, etc. but there are some big brother implications that I'm not comfortable with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 12:30 PM |
| 6 | RulesSometimes its funny to watch retards fight. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/08/22 11:50 AM |
| 1 | What rules your FWB out from being your actual partner?Listen, you are getting outside of the rules here, and starting to get less than civil. So I'm not going to engage with this anymore. But a word of advice, if someone, anyone kills themselves and you think that you were the cause? Well there's some deeply flawed things going on there. A person who takes their own life has some very deep emotional issues. Good luck, I hope you find life easier eventually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 06:28 PM |
| 0 | What rules your FWB out from being your actual partner?That experience has scarred me for life that I can never forget making me lose years of my life physically and mentally. That's a you problem, not a me problem. Maybe you should consider where your perspective is coming from. It's like saying, "I know someone who died on the planes in 9/11, you should never fly!" Your personal sense of justice and experiences are influencing your beliefs on how everyone else should act. But the fact is, every situation is unique. I can come up with a bunch of sc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 05:39 PM |
| 1 | What rules your FWB out from being your actual partner?It can destroy your life if you share significant trust, assets, and family with someone... That's a very naive way to think. You'd need to get a divorce and she'd be taking all your money, kids lives can get destroyed also etc Well she was a college girl so there's a lot of leaps of faith there. Something tells me you don't know much about me at all. You jump right into character attacks. For the record, I'm happily married and have been for 20 years. But if my wife stepped out on me? My life w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 04:56 PM |
| 0 | What rules your FWB out from being your actual partner?I have no obligation to save this dude, or this chick from themselves. The facts are simple. She was batshit crazy and he was engaged in an LDR with a crazy chick. It's a pretty easy assumption that he has his own issues in life. You should ask yourself why you feel the need to white knight for this dude. Would I want to be cheated on? Of course not. Would it destroy my life? Hardly. If you're fixated on that fact, I think maybe you need to reassess how you approach things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/22 01:33 PM |
| 1 | What do you think would be some underrated dating advice?I disagree with the dirty jokes bit. Valid advice, thanks KombuchaEnema | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 06:37 PM |
| 2 | What rules your FWB out from being your actual partner?Why would you do that ...that's fucked Sure, I'll play along. Why is it fucked? Do you know her background or his background? Maybe he was a really shitty person and kicked puppies? Would that make you feel better? Maybe she was the Virgin Mary herself and will give birth to the second coming of Jesus. Or maybe because she was a slut who liked to fuck because I was in college? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/22 12:42 PM |
| 14 | What rules your FWB out from being your actual partner?I felt nothing honestly. I knew she was kind of intense going into it. Later I confirmed she was crazy. He chose his own path in life, so why should I care? When I saw her at the party, I was actually fine. Like I said, I knew what it was. I'd met so many chicks at college who had a "Boyfriend" and different area codes didn't count. I was just trying to keep my options open. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 04:40 PM |
| 25 | What rules your FWB out from being your actual partner?It wasn't far off from what I said. She was like "I've been thinking about it, and I'm going to break up with my boyfriend so we can be official." I tried to be diplomatic, and when I said to her "Let's not be hasty, I'm not looking for that...." She pushed and I had to lay it out clearly for her. I was younger and more optimistic then, and the really telling thing to me was, she didn't break up with him first. She got pretty stalkery for a few days after that, so I had to put her on the ignore … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 04:27 PM |
| 62 | What rules your FWB out from being your actual partner?I had a FWB relationship with a chick in college. She was cute, feisty, a complete firecracker in bed, basically a whole lot of fun. She also had the dutiful boyfriend at home. Well one weekend he came to visit, so she made it clear not to cause any trouble. Cool with me, I like the situation, so I had no intention of rocking that boat. I went to a party, and she happened to be there with her boyfriend. By the end of the night I found someone and left to hook up with them. Later in the week she … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/22 02:56 PM |
| 3 | So. I made a thing some people might find useful. Is this the right place for it?The Red pill provider is the pinacle of father hood. I think Roll coined that. | /r/askMRP | 29/07/22 08:20 PM |
| 13 | So. I made a thing some people might find useful. Is this the right place for it?Yes, r/redpillfatherhood is a thing. But it's been dead for years. Officially I'll allow it. As a kinder gentler man than u/SBIII (you fucking savage, we can always count on you!). I'll offer this advice. Your failure in any of this is you are trying to prepare to communicate reason and facts to your daughter. Presumably she started out with a vagina, and from that she has been imbued with all that a woman is gifted with. She communicates through feelings and approaches her social position and h… | /r/askMRP | 29/07/22 07:46 PM |
| 8 | What’s a low paying job for men that is so “cool” people don’t realize you’re broke?In the early 90's I met the local evening drive Radio DJ and he was a smooth talking fella, who was plain busted. Drove a raggedy old car and shared an apartment in a pretty affordable town. But he slayed the ladies... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/22 05:37 PM |
| 8 | Generational differences in hotness standardsMost ugly people who are successful in the mating game were a lot more attractive when they did breed. Ha that's hilarious. Nope. Plenty of ugly people started ugly and bred ugly. Ive been around long enough in life to see ugly friends get married and now they got ugly kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 03:05 PM |
| 3 | Advice needed: Separate bedrooms ? Snoring problem.Put my own needs for sleep in the foreground and continue to sleep in the master bedroom ? The first need is the mission. Where your wife sleeps or doesn't is immaterial. How does snoring affect your mission? Is it interfering with intimacy? Is it affecting parenting? Conversely is your wife a helicopter mom? Is it really a necessity that she have 100% contact with a sleeping toddler? (I've got 3 kids.. Its not) Some times shit needs to get done, diapers changed, etc. Sometimes kids need to cry … | /r/askMRP | 12/07/22 03:41 PM |
| – | The gentleman's guide to 21st century datingFuck you and your spam | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/06/22 03:31 PM |
| 27 | Wife just walked outThe stay plan is also the go plan. Your wife's actions should have nothing to do with that. I don't know you, and I'm not going to look up where you've been, but you should be building your life so that she is trying out for the team. You're putting together a high performance team and players who don't live up to standards? They get replaced. Everyman should talk to a lawyer at least once, if not on a regular basis. Don't ignore things because you are afraid. Embrace your fears, and all possibl… | /r/askMRP | 07/06/22 03:39 PM |
| 1 | GSA (genetic sexual attraction) is so weird and seems to be against what evolution intended for us.Add to this, until recently paternity was hardly guaranteed. Without significant effort you only had a womans word. Even now look at all the 23 and me stories where A finds out his Dad and his siblings Dad arent the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/22 09:35 PM |
| 15 | Fucking some other guys girlfriendI do admit I am surprised, because nothing in our interactions had suggested she was like this You sure about that? She goes away with you for a week. Has her mom vet you. Then rawdogs it the whole time? Maybe a few hints you missed? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/06/22 11:12 AM |
| 13 | Family drama - wife says I didn't defend herSo your brother is calling your wife to play referee between a cat fight? He sounds like a pussy too. The real issue here is you let drama into your house. I would have made fun of my brother for being pussy whipped. | /r/askMRP | 27/05/22 01:43 PM |
| 7 | Is this an unreasonable amount of shit tests? And was my response valid?Build your life so that your wife is an accessory. Some of this shit is simple logistics. Get out front and lead. Start adopting the Captain/First officer mentality. My wife has been out of town ...., it's expected I will help out. Do you think Bull Halsey would have gotten shit from his first officer about milk, and needing to get to the train etc? Do you think his commanding officer "expects help". Fuck no man. Leaders lead. Everyone else follows. Your wife is leading from below. Now, I don't … | /r/askMRP | 26/05/22 07:07 PM |
| 9 | Alpha F*cks/Beta Bucks SituationsG-eazy concert, his security team invited her backstage, and she ended up fucking g-eazy, she threw away a 5 year relationship to spend 20 minutes fucking a celebrity G-eazy did him a favor. These are not the actions of a high value woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 06:09 PM |
| 4 | 60 DoD '22 Week 7: CareerWhat mindset should I have as a team leader? Would you choose being a senior specialist or team leader in that field? Robert Kiyosaki in his seminal book, "Rich Dad Poor Dad" put it best, even the best self-employed are still working for their money. You can be a very highly paid gun for hire or you can be the guy that leases out those guns for hire. If you want to make good money remotely from the US via eastern Europe, leverage those strengths. Don't sell Americans your skills, sell them your … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 23/05/22 08:03 PM |
| 1 | When touch is not an optionBut that’s not in my control. Her being attracted to you is. It's not a cowardly shield. It's a disgust shield. I've been around enough Jewish women, conservative and otherwise, and it's a great Jewish tradition to henpeck their husbands. Are you a leader? You've gotten fat as others have pointed out. Did you defer to her in other areas? What responsibilities have you given over to her? Women are the same. My Catholic wife, your Jewish wife. They all have the same wants and desires, just a diffe… | /r/askMRP | 18/05/22 07:49 PM |
| 3 | When touch is not an optionIt was automodded. | /r/askMRP | 18/05/22 12:55 AM |
| 5 | When touch is not an optionI used to fuck an orthodox jew in the ass because she didnt want to get pregnant by a gentile. It's amazing how conservative religious women will use the sheild of orthodoxy to justify having or not habing sex. But heh she wore white on her wedding. | /r/askMRP | 18/05/22 12:54 AM |
| 1 | How many women here are actually in shape?There's balance of course, but there is some science to having muscle mass, especially men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 09:07 PM |
| 2 | How many women here are actually in shape?My 15 year old would smash you to pieces if you lined up against him on the other side of a football. You might run away from him once or twice, but you get worn down eventually and then be done for. You'd run away from him on a bike for sure, but in his area of play you'd be dead meat. His cardio is pretty dam good for what he needs to do. But like I said, there's a baseline, and what you do with it after is key. He trains for that kind of play. My best friend is a distance runner. He can run 7… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 07:47 PM |
| 6 | How many women here are actually in shape?I'm a regular gym goer and I'd call you in shape. I also know plenty of cardio-bunnies that aren't in shape. Hell, there's a woman in my neighborhood that probably is a compulsive exerciser, and she's in horrible shape. Your deadlift and weight class putting you at nearly 2x on your deadlift would certainly put you in shape. I think being in shape is about some basic benchmarks, and then being able to do the things you want with ease. I train for strength. That's not conducive to marathon runnin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 03:27 PM |
| 11 | What do you think of single men who used surrogacy to have children without a wife?I'm the first to say that a 2 parent household is preferred, but I recognize that it's a matter of resources and time that makes it preferred. Christiano Ronaldo going out and having kids because he's fucking loaded and didn't want to wait is not going to create a new generation of strippers or school shooters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/22 01:01 PM |
| 15 | What's your thoughts on the idea of a financial abortion? Also kevin Samuel's is dead, thoughts?Being locked up for nonpayment of child support does what to your mental health? Ask the guys who are forced to pay for kids that aren't theirs if they doing well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/22 12:13 PM |
| 1 | What questions to ask before you think of marrying a HVM?Discussions are fun and all. Like "What would you do if you won the lottery?". They have insight about what a persons' wants are. The real judge of a man is what do his actions say about him? Does he go to the gym without fault? Does he have a long term plan? Does he appease your emotions or does he let you have them without being swayed himself? Does he do difficult things because they are the right things to do? The list is long, but the signs should be clear. Words are for LARPers. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/04/22 02:57 PM |
| 2 | Dating in 30s as a woman?If that same woman lived in Dubuque, Iowa Like a Scranton 7 or NYC 7? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/22 07:36 PM |
| 5 | Dating in 30s as a woman?It's pretty common academic knowledge that more education, means later commitment and family raising. Cities also tend to concentrate college educated professionals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/22 02:11 PM |
| 3 | Despite advances in birth control technology, the unintended pregnancy rate has remained steady in the US over the past 40 yearsWe have a saying with the systems I build and sell. Make it idiot proof and the universe builds a better idiot. This is no different. When humans are involved, nothing is infallible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/22 07:29 PM |
| 1 | What are some examples of female privilege?Sure it is. People have boundaries. You have boundaries. You either enforce those boundaries or you alow them to be ignored. This is clearly someone not enforcing boundaries. My wife being home as a SAHM and then not sitting around after the kids have gone to school is boundary worth enforcing. Those men that put up with it have shitty boundaries. So they get a fat lazy wife and they are slaves to a job for her. Fuck that. That's a failure in leadership. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/22 12:21 AM |
| 0 | What are some examples of female privilege?I see it as a failure of leadership. If you let her sit around and she's a lazy fat fuck for the past 5 years it's your fault not hers. Oh and doubling down on the divorce fallacy? Even though you earn all the money the kind of guy who accepts his wife being fat and lazy probably isn't that good with his money anyway. At least with divorce he might have a chance at being in control of 50% of it, instead of being married and in control of none of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 06:02 PM |
| 2 | CMV: No fault divorce makes marriage pointlessI think you're missing the point. Contract timelines are not the point. Terms change regardless of timing. Contracts can become unenforceable during their contract period, regardless of the length of the contract. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 05:52 PM |
| 6 | CMV: No fault divorce makes marriage pointlessIf the basis for your comment is contract law, I'd say there's a flaw in your premise. Contracts get broken all the time. Underlying facts were misunderstood, situations change, economic situations change. The US legal system is fundamentally built as an adversarial system, we expect people to interpret things differently, and the law is there to interpret that. You sign up for a mortgage, lose your job, the answer isn't "Well you shouldn't have gotten a mortgage if you thought you might lose yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/22 02:10 PM |
| 2 | Struggling to find reasons to carry onHey man, I'm gonna tell you that life will suck sometimes. It may seem overwhelming, or like there is no end to the suck. All things are temporary. Call someone near you. A friend, a brother, anyone. We can't give you the help you need right now, but you can get the help you need from someone. The internet and impersonality of it, is not the place for help like this. | /r/askMRP | 13/04/22 05:57 PM |
| 7 | Trust and the need to be informed of wife's movementsyes | /r/askMRP | 09/04/22 12:05 PM |
| 1 | Isolation with traditional wants in feminist spacesDo you know black people too and does that qualify you to discuss their issues with racism? Or maybe you have a gay friend so you know what that plight is about? You're uniquely, not qualified still. Your parent adjacent. Maybe your choice in friends sucks? You don't know what it's like to build a life and have happy adjusted kids. You also don't know that some days, you can put in more hours on one thing and then another, and still have a higher priority for the overall mission of raising great… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Isolation with traditional wants in feminist spacesI’ve chosen not to have children right now because my career is for now more important. Ah, so I'm going to be a gatekeeper now. Not a parent. Strike one. Fill in for someone else who chooses to delegate away parental responsibility strike two. There's a whole lot of bias going on here. You're not qualified to judge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Isolation with traditional wants in feminist spacesyou are gatekeeping. Family OR career. You can have both. There are plenty of hours in the day. You can delegate or hire away trivial tasks. You can be flexible in your job or career. I traveled a lot. I also worked from home. So one week I might be in a foreign country, but yet I never missed a recital, a game, or a teacher conference. I coached all my kids. And because I made a fuckton of money? They had no worries about clothes, housing, or extracurricular things. They went to preschool for e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 07:41 PM |
| 3 | Isolation with traditional wants in feminist spacesI'm curious about your gatekeeping qualifications. I'd also say I'm great at both and could give several benchmarks that support that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 07:29 PM |
| 3 | Isolation with traditional wants in feminist spacesThese relationships also mean fathers focus their time on working and not building relationships with their children Is this a firm belief from you? Or just some relationships? My experience is completely the opposite. My wife was better at the baby thing, while I'm good at the big picture stuff. We did very well at delegating to strengths, and I never lacked at being with my kids or in their life, in spite of a heavy travel based career. I mean if both parents are working versus just one, someo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/22 07:22 PM |
| 24 | Trust and the need to be informed of wife's movementsWhat kind of value do you bring to your life by spending all this energy mate guarding. Knowing would give me some kind of reassurance that trust is being rebuilt, demonstrate comnitment [sic] and I am safe/not threatened Here's your problem right here. You are risk adverse. Instead you need to embrace abundance. Instead of worrying she might leave you need to build your life without her. She's a piece to fill in, not a foundation to build on. Build your life so that someday if any woman fucks u… | /r/askMRP | 07/04/22 02:11 PM |
| 14 | Orbiters attempt to sabotage relationship and how it backfiredSo you were explaining your reasons to her huh? | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/22 04:53 PM |
| 39 | Orbiters attempt to sabotage relationship and how it backfiredAs the night goes on and I also get pretty drunk, it gets a bit weird between me and her for whatever reason and she is blatantly ignoring me Maybe you should put 2 and 2 together: Got there about 3/4h late because I was watching the Rugby with the boys in the afternoon. This was your woman's showcase moment. She was holding her own birthday party, so you know she wanted to show you off to all her friends right? I make no editorial about whether it was the right move or not, as that's for you to… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/22 03:48 PM |
| 18 | Are all threats honored?There's a bunch of people who espouse negotiating "win-win". It's a bullshit term meant to make shitty negotiators feel good about themselves. You are negotiating win-win here. You got a lot of good advice in that thread. Take it. Don't let your future ex-wife get your daughter a passport to some third world stink hole. It's an excellent piece of leverage. "Well let's just see how the co-parenting goes and then we can talk about that at a later date." Use that shit as a carrot to dangle in front… | /r/askMRP | 28/03/22 01:19 PM |
| – | I am 22F.. married to a 36M.This is the boys locker room. Take it to r/redpillwomen | /r/MarriedRedPill | 27/03/22 09:42 PM |
| 18 | dealing with past shit bringing upYou're playing checkers, your wife is playing chess. She doesn't give a fuck about the wedding planner and some shit you didn't do 2 years ago, she's fucking complaining about how she feels right now. You're a man who lacks boundaries. When my wife gets to be a cunty harpie, and wants to drag up shit from a decade ago you know what I do? I fucking leave. I've up and left and she was bitching and moaning and didn't even notice I was gone. I get a text, "I was talking to myself for like 15 minutes… | /r/askMRP | 27/03/22 04:38 PM |
| 17 | Any advice on going about sexually repressed chicks?Any anecdotal (or otherwise) advice from you guys about how you went about solving this issue if you have had to face this or were to face this? Thanks. Fuck other chicks. You're pedestalizing her and making excuses for her behavior. Sure you can go Sex God Method, but if she doesn't respond? Not your Whore house, not your ho. and a brief but significant history of sexual assault. Don't be captain-sav-ho. | /r/askMRP | 17/03/22 12:27 PM |
| 41 | The Ukraine situation shows how equality of the sexes is a facade and incapable of being upheld through harsh situations.One point of information. The Supreme Court did not rule against the draft In 2021 the US Supreme Court struck down a challenge to the male only draft There's an important distinction that it wasn't granted Certiorari. A ruling against it would mean that there's active case law that enshrines in the law of the land that a male only draft is constitutional. This means it's still essentially undecided. The supreme court punted. They chose not to hear a case, in part because the Executive asked the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/22 02:55 PM |
| 1 | How many of you would become stepparents?I have both a step-dad and stepmom. I'm in my late 40s and both were in nearly most of my life. They're good people, not without faults, but generally better than worse. I was never abused or anything, and their respective family accepted me like I was their bio kid. Would I ever be a step dad? Nope. No way. I have 3 kids. I don't know if I was lucky or if it was a testament to my parents character but the whole step thing is a major pain in the ass. Sure they were good people but they weren't m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/22 01:39 PM |
| 0 | Q4Men: Do you have any positive platonic female friendships? Does it affect how you view women? What do you learn from your female friends? What do you like about those friendships vs male friendships?I have had many platonic friendships with women. I have female relatives that I have quite a good relationship with, and I'm friends with them despite the fact that we are related (I don't give people a pass because we have people that fucked in common). Over the course of my career I've made quite a few professional relationships with women also. I subscribe to the ladder theory of men and women. I've seen it played out many times over the years. I've had platonic friends who were women, who we… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/22 02:30 PM |
| 9 | What's the best action when you slip?I've apologized so much in my life Apologies are generally hollow. Use action to define who you are. | /r/askMRP | 09/03/22 03:30 PM |
| 35 | What's the best action when you slip?Ownership. Is she acting like a cunt and you call her a cunt? Own it. "Did you just call me a cunt?" "Are you acting like one?" Was it too much and maybe undeserved? Own it. "Hey, I'm frustrated and it was over the top. Won't happen again." Notice I didn't say I was sorry? I just gave a plan of action on how I'd correct it. Then reset. Wake up the next day and start fresh. Integrated men aren't infallible. They own their mistakes, correct them, and move forward. | /r/askMRP | 09/03/22 03:13 PM |
| 1 | New to RP, Wanted to see if I'm getting the correct mental point of view.Take it to r/askMRP | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/03/22 01:22 PM |
| 11 | “My wallet my choice” should be a real thing when it comes to reproductive rights for menBut seems to me if society really didn't want them running around.... it would not let them run around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 03:55 PM |
| 49 | “My wallet my choice” should be a real thing when it comes to reproductive rights for menBecause at the end of the day, whether it’s fair or not, society doesn’t want a whole bunch of bastard kids running around starving in the streets causing chaos If this was the case why aren't their permitting systems then? I mean the State of NY sees fit that it has an overall interest in how I own firearms for the benefit of the society of NY at large. I have to undergo a background check, and for the "Privilidge" of owning a handgun I need to find four people to vouch for my moral character. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/22 03:16 PM |
| 3 | CMV: FDS and Red Pill want the other sex to be traditional while they are unboundI regularly have to remind Redpill dudes of this and it's often lost in the argument. Rule Zero is paramount. Rule zero is get the sex you want. If you want to bang strippers and spin plates so be it. If you want a traditional first officer and kids so be it. But always Rule Zero. The rest? It's about nuances and outcomes. Don't be surprised if you bang strippers and wakeup robbed and broke. If you marry that tradcon girl and get fat and lazy don't be surprised when she looses attraction instead… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/22 12:57 PM |
| 7 | Reminder- Never make her your focusMy heart goes out to this dude. Why? You think he's an innocent victim? The real question you should ask yourself is why you should feel anything. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/22 03:29 PM |
| -2 | If you desire a traditional man or woman, you better be traditional yourselfIf you're a man who wants a traditional woman you better be the breadwinner, you better be paying for all of the bills, you better be taking her out and looking after her financially, you get broken into during the night you better be the one going out there to stop them, you better take on that strong masculine leadership role, you better be treating her to shit like a good husband. The Alpha Provider, all except the last part. It wreaks of a covert contract. No one owes anyone anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Purple Pill Debate Is NOT Balanced or Fairthe Red Pill actively teaches men to gaslight and manipulate women into sleeping with them Are women incapable of making their own decisions and should we protect their fragile nature? Seems to me we don't talk about white-Knighting enough... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/22 12:51 PM |
| 1 | Q4M What are your physical preferences and what are your physical requirements?Most men get rejected a lot and when you don’t have many options it’s easier to be happy with someone who meets those 2 basic requirements rather than finding someone who meets the requirements and your preferences. I'd ask how you came about that world view. Because some quick duckduckfoo shows, the average man will have about 7 relationships before getting married, go on less than 10 dates, and have about as many sexual partners. That's not "a lot" by my measure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 07:06 PM |
| 2 | Q4M What are your physical preferences and what are your physical requirements?For most average men I would assume the requirements would be loyal and not morbidly obese Why is that? I had a buddy who is below average in looks, balding etc. He always loved big boobs. His wife? Below average but she has big boobs. Theres lots of range even when your not dating 7's and higher. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Are there any women that really believe they attract the wrong kind of men?Did anybody actually get to the part where she says "I have a life, I got kids"? Seems to me there's more to the story here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 01:10 PM |
| 2 | It's too risky for a woman to be with a Red Pilll man.High value women keep high value friends. The social matrix is a strong reinforcement of that. People are judged on their actions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/22 06:30 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 15, 2022The next day was Friday, and I told her I was taking her out for V Day lunch on Friday. I took the afternoon off work, made sure we had plenty of time after lunch and before the kids got home to fuck. I thought I was at a point where I can plan a time, have everything set and of course I would get laid. We got home from lunch and my advance was brushed off like dust on her shoulder, she went and laid down on the couch and took a nap You tried to prostitute her like pretty woman. Set yourself up … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/02/22 05:48 PM |
| 1 | What should be the consequence of false paternityYou're stuck on it being "rather rare". What is "common" otherwise to you? But I'll go one further. More aptly put, your statement is only correct if you say "....that it's a rather rare occurrence, at 23andme, that someone calls back" Don't forget, you're only getting phone calls from people who want to know. People who want to know if it's a false-positive. How many people actually just accept it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 03:48 PM |
| 4 | What should be the consequence of false paternityPaternity fraud is probably a looot [sic] rarer in today's society than you think. Well in today's day and age of big data, it should be easy to find out. It's frequent enough the 23 and me has a whole training section on it. Even a modest rate of 2-3% would indicate millions of Americans were lied to or defrauded. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 01:00 PM |
| 2 | How many of you actually love your partners?I love my wife. We have 3 awesome kids. I've seen some shit, and we made it out together. We both have similar values about kids, family and life. She's funny, can be silly and sometimes a little bratty. I like having her around, because she adds to my life in a complementary way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 02:39 PM |
| 5 | Until feminine attributes are no longer connected with inferiority and being under a man, more women are going to reject traditional femininityWell yea men live life on easy mode Historically speaking? Not a chance. Men have long been the cannon fodder for the elite for one. In the modern age, men overwhelmingly occupy the top 25 most dangerous jobs and die at a much higher rate on the job (10x). And what do men have to show for all of this? Genetically speaking, for every one woman there is one woman who proceeded her. For every 2 men, there is one man who proceeded him. We live less, we die more frequently in a a violent manner, and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 03:08 PM |
| 1 | The monthly fight before peroid timeAlright, so what's the consequence of breaking said boundary? Without a consequence, it's not a boundary. | /r/askMRP | 14/02/22 06:36 PM |
| 1 | The monthly fight before peroid timealso have you ever been a sleep deprived parent of an infant? Now you're making excuses for her, again going back to the Captain-sav-a-ho mentality. Yes. I have a 14 year old and 11 year old twins. So ask me again how to conduct my business. You didn't answer the question. What is your boundary? | /r/askMRP | 14/02/22 05:54 PM |
| 3 | The monthly fight before peroid timeWhat u/SnooPets7004 is getting at is pretty simple. You have a boundary issue. Notice no one at work has that issue? Because it simply wouldn't be tolerated. They would fire her. You also notice they aren't trying to fix her? Has her boss asked her to go the the doc to get her lady bits checked cause she's a raging cunt? What is a boundary if you're not willing to enforce it. What is your boundary here? | /r/askMRP | 14/02/22 04:25 PM |
| 2 | When did bpp get do hated and should i continue reading his book?Nope. | /r/askMRP | 14/02/22 01:38 PM |
| 2 | Would you be in a relationship with a man that didn't want to get married?but why would you have to change your name just cause you got married? I dated a woman who got her doctoral degree while we were dating and she wouldn't have changed her name professionally, when I did get married my wife took my name. Its not a perfect reason but it certainly makes it way easier with kids. So many appointments and school events where my kids having my last name (dad) just makes it go smoother. I have friends that aren't married and the woman just signs everything school related… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/22 01:09 PM |
| 3 | TRP and FDS are dishonest about how vulnerable they are, and about how pain and personal experience are more important to their ideology than logic or reason.You're begging the question. It's not an ideology, but instead it is a praxeology. There's a critical difference. Ideology has a belief system that is partly or wholly not based on knowing or having evidence. Religious zealots are ideologues, for example they may say "God hates you because you're a lesbian, so therefore lesbians are bad!" Obviously you don't know if there is a god. It takes an act of faith; there is a clear lack of evidence. Praxeology is about human conduct, and simply meant to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/22 07:57 PM |
| – | Gangster rappers/musicians/producersWhat is everybody’s take on the worth of gangster rappers or musicians who contribute bangers to society in contradiction to being a peaceful bringer of value to society and humanity. as a musician i am in cognitive dissonance about my contribution to society, where as i can be stable and luxurious internally and also externally, but then have a need to play the role as a good human rather than express internalized negatives in which others agree upon and feel connected to. this is because i loo… | /r/askMRP | 07/02/22 03:45 PM |
| 3 | Got In Trouble for Affair with CoworkerThe CEO I reported to crashed his career by banging the marketing intern, and just like this chick? The strange was not worth it. I love when these guys play denial. This marketing intern comes up to me and asks for what amounted to days worth of work. I told her no. She huffs off, and 2 minutes later my CEO walks over and explains the project to me, and expects my data shortly. Later I found out he went to a key customer without me, a major no-no and violation of operating agreements, oh and he… | /r/askMRP | 04/02/22 03:58 PM |
| 20 | Got In Trouble for Affair with CoworkerOwn it. There's really only one option. Your not a victim, the world is not against you, although it probably doesn't think about you. You need to accept reality for what it is. Get out in front and set the pace so that decisions aren't made for you. Then Embrace the suck, because brother, it's going to suck. Game it out in your head all the worst possible shit. then figure out how you would recover from there. Once that is in place? The rest is easy. Don't do anything rash until you have all th… | /r/askMRP | 02/02/22 10:52 PM |
| 32 | Older Men And Younger Women, Part IV: There are Fifteen Good Years to be a Woman.This is because the fundamental lie that Feminists are selling young women on is that they are equals to men; the sold them on the lie to ignore their feminine nature. Go on any of the subs for women dating and they all think the same traits are true, "I have a degree, I have my own place, I have a good job! I want a partner!". To a large extent, men are even falling for the lie. But a mans lizard brain? It's thinking "Can she have kids?" Charlize Theron's problem is she's achieved Alpha Male st… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/22 06:04 PM |
| 23 | Older Men And Younger Women, Part IV: There are Fifteen Good Years to be a Woman.I think there are truly fucked up people in the world. Certainly Gender dysmorphia is a thing. But you know what else is a thing? Munchausen Syndrome by Proxy. Add a little mass hysteria to the mix (remember when we had all those satanic daycare centers?) and now you have the new explosion in transgender kids. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/22 05:35 PM |
| 4 | Responding to getting asked for favors with hints for sexYou need to change the frame of sex to her. Get it out of her head that its a result of something and not something that is going to happen. Classic example is fuck first. "Hey babe, the kids are going to grandmas on Friday at 4pm. We have dinner rezs at 8pm, I'll meet you in the red neglige at 5 in the bedroom. Does that give you enough time to get ready after?" Notice I didn't ask if she wanted to fuck, I assumed it. I asked if she had enough time after fucking. | /r/askMRP | 01/02/22 04:59 PM |
| 7 | Should I Stay or Should I GoBuild your life the way you want it. Your wife should be an accessory to that, not the mission goal. Imagine your life as awesome as you want it. Jacked, car that you want, really cool kid, nice house. You can build all of those. If your wife is with you great! If not? Someone else can be. Stay plan is the go plan. | /r/askMRP | 01/02/22 03:31 PM |
| 18 | Responding to getting asked for favors with hints for sex"Tell you what, let's fuck now and I'll make us both Latte's to sip on in the afterglow!" | /r/askMRP | 01/02/22 02:14 PM |
| 5 | How long do you remove your time, affection, attention for boundary enforcement?First, I asked what the OP would consider as a fix. Still waiting to hear what is he is willing to live with. If we take a high level approach, you have your own "Waterline" rules. What's a waterline rule? We go back to the analogy of you being the Captain, and her as the First Officer. She may make a mistake, a "tactical" one as you put it, that maybe changes the course of the ship and now your a few days behind to your destination. Conversely, she may make a decision as first officer that puts… | /r/askMRP | 31/01/22 05:07 PM |
| 14 | How long do you remove your time, affection, attention for boundary enforcement?Anybody who comes to you bearing bad news, kids, wife, reports, etc. If you have a tendency to get angry and react to them when they do, they will bury the bad news. Now I don't know if you have a habit of doing this, but your wife does have a habit of trying to deceive you. Why is that? Only you can answer. I'm surprised no one has said anything but I'll put it out there. A wife who has not only come home once but twice driving drunk and risking 10s of thousands of dollars does not have her shi… | /r/askMRP | 30/01/22 06:41 PM |
| 18 | How long do you remove your time, affection, attention for boundary enforcement?Your boundary is only as good as what you are willing to enforce. What are you willing to enforce? I suspect part of the problem here is your wife is naturally deceitful. I have a standing rule with my wife, and her with me, if you get in too deep, call. I made that rule very early in our marriage and made it clear to her that I wouldn't shoot the messenger, but there would be appropriate consequences. In the short term? This cannot go without consequences. What are you willing to lose? That's y… | /r/askMRP | 30/01/22 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Keep it simple, stupidVery good way to explain the praexology. Excellent. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 29/01/22 02:05 PM |
| 4 | Q4ALL: Am I supposed to assume every nice thing a guy does for me is to get in my pants? It feels wrongIt's called a covert contract and nice guys are horrible with it. "if I do x she'll do y back". He even hinted at it to you. It can lead to some shitty behavior. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 12:10 PM |
| 14 | Lessons Learned from walking through HellShe turned into a little girl after she lost my step-dad. Just the oldest teenager in the house. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/22 08:50 PM |
| 6 | Lessons Learned from walking through HellTo my knowledge? No. She was married to my Step Dad most my life. My Dad on the other hand.... | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/22 08:46 PM |
| 49 | Lessons Learned from walking through HellI'm a little older in life, and one thing I can say... AWALT. My mom is on a paper a great woman. Old school, old country, submissive to her man, etc. But man when shit hit the fan and she lost her husband.... Fucking AWALT. You are born alone, and you'll probably die alone. When you're standing at the gates of hell don't expect to look next to you and see your woman ready to do battle. They might be waiting for you at the finish line, but they certainly won't go through it with you. Too many me… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/22 06:11 PM |
| 22 | Keep it simple, stupidSo many people want to push it as ideology. Guys who espouse Redpill. People who hate it. People who envy it. But until you embrace it simply as Praxeology, you're doomed to ideology. Forever forced into purity tests and answer to the True Scotsman.... Rule zero. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/01/22 03:13 PM |
| 2 | Can no longer cope with an aggressive 2nd officerGood old ctrl + short cuts... ctrl+F | /r/askMRP | 17/01/22 08:10 PM |
| 1 | What would you do in this situation with your MIL?I think you are seeking to soothe your wife and your MIL's feelings when they are grown ass women who made grown as decisions. Your wife's behavior is now affecting you because of your MIL's behavior. Your problem is with boundaries with your wife, not your MIL. | /r/askMRP | 06/01/22 04:30 PM |
| 3 | FDS, and by extension, TRP, is a cult that traps you into alt-right thinking patterns. That's the thought terminating cliche they use to couch learning critical thinking skills.And when I say Incel, I mean relationships, not sex. Any woman can get laid because they’re in charge of sex and men will fuck almost anything once. However, men are in charge of relationships. These women are unable to get a relationship. If you're flipping channels and see my 600 lb life, there's always some skinny dude waiting in the wings to fuck the hippo main character. I have a theory that men and women face the same barriers, and your idea about women being realtionship-incels is spot on… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/01/22 06:48 PM |
| 4 | How much time do you spend playing with 3yr boy?Father of 3 kids; 14 and 11 years old. Google the stats if you want to feel good about yourself, but no other generation of kids and parents have spent more time together than the current one. Your job as his father is to get him to be a functional adult capable of doing adult things. Sometimes as Dads we get to be cool as fuck and do fun shit. Sometimes we have to be a dictator and enforce the whoop ass. You need to be able to make your kids do uncomfortable things sometimes not because you're … | /r/RedPillParenting | 03/01/22 08:03 PM |
| 4 | Men need to stop explaining themselves to women on forums like this and expecting any sort of validation.Ive tried so hard to explain my experience and struggles to multiple women on forums and private chats Maybe because they see through you bullshitting yourself and find it wholey unattractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Pulling the plug - Christmas edition"lift, sidebar, stfu, post in OYS" The bot should be called Sisyphus. It's an unending task with no reward. | /r/askMRP | 27/12/21 08:58 PM |
| 5 | On the topic of safetyLet's talk poker. You can be a 4:1 dog but the pot odds are giving you 7:1 payoff on your money. Is that risky? Nope. You take that bet everytime. Life isn't about risk or safety, it's about arbitrage. You make decisions based on managing the risk and hedging your bets. Learn how to manage risk in your life and you become a man with options. The occasional bad beat will come along but in the long run you end up ahead. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/21 07:06 PM |
| 1 | A floor in the thinkingThere's a whole lot of logical flaws in all this. Why can't you just fuck married women on the side for one? I like steak. To me a pinnacle of civilized society is a dry aged steak cooked very rare. I'd like it served with a glass of Rye, neat. I personally don't give a fuck about the sides. Sometimes though, I'll run into a neighborhood bar and grab a greasy hamburger. But again, the end of the world is coming? I'll take that dry aged steak. A dry aged steak is hand selected, and then aged unde… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/21 05:41 PM |
| 3 | How will the dating scene be different in 20 years?Young boys are seeing women boast about manipulation, hoe phases amongst other things. Things it took my age group years to grasp. I've got a 14 year old and we talk a lot about social media. I don't think much has changed. He gets it. He see girls on tik tok.... And while the girls are accelerating so are the boys. Its always an arms races that ebs and flows. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/21 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Do women really date “gross” and “unkempt men?Fixed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/21 09:38 PM |
| 12 | I can't stop laughing in my wifes face when she's mad AND she keeps increasing the stakes in arguments until I cave inIt's gotten to the point where she once brought up divorce and just quitting our infertility treatments. Wow talk about burying the lead. "What we have here, is a failure to communicate, some men you just can't reach. So you get what we had here last week. Which is the way he wants it. Well, he gets it. And I don't like it more than you men." The Warden, Cool Hand Luke. Your wife and you are in the midst of probably one of the most stressful times in a marriage, and your wife is reacting to he… | /r/askMRP | 17/12/21 02:45 PM |
| 2 | How do you feel about men who “upgrade” to better girlfriends once they become successful and leave the old one?If I run a hard race and she's not right beside me, but instead decides to show up at the finish line and party with the winners? What obligation do I owe her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/21 12:52 AM |
| 51 | Advice from some more experienced MRP dudes?It's time to be frank. There's some serious red flags here. Life changing experience "ME and my girls!" type freedom Wants to now move out of town See's you as a roommate (You got the ILYBINILWY speech) So what do we suggest? I don't know what you want out of this. But I will tell you this, your path has been tread a million times, and if it was my son and he asked me? Prepare to leave. My gut instinct when I see this kind of thing? She got dicked by someone else or came awful close to it (Oh I … | /r/askMRP | 11/12/21 03:16 PM |
| 12 | Found proof of old cheating and some questionable activityI think most people are missing the point here. Your old lady is clearly spitting out red flags like a Chinese communist party rally. She has a history of poor behavior, and is clearly demonstrating lack of respect for established boundaries. Then while in bed you got the "ILYBINILWY" speech. You should read or re-read the Kill the Puppy post. Let's get something straight. Your past extracurricular adventures? They have no bearing on this. A woman would gladly share a man she perceived as higher… | /r/askMRP | 01/12/21 01:48 PM |
| 3 | FDS really isn't that badI don't really think so It doesn't matter what you think. There's no True Scotsman, nor a true mission of Redpill. Rule zero is paramount. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/21 09:01 PM |
| 1 | FDS really isn't that badBut by definition it's pretty damn clear. Again begging the question. It's not clear. You're using circular logic to defend your position. "I say it's Ideology", defines Ideology, then declares "SEE I told you!" But you don't have the definition correct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/21 08:58 PM |
| 1 | FDS really isn't that badThere's a subtle difference. Ideology, the things you are espousing, might tell you the why behind peoples behavior, praxeology simply tells you the how. You are trying to assign peoples ultimate motive. If we take the old wives tale, of the frog and the scorpion. The Ideolog might lament the purpose of the scorpion, or he might ascribe to the scorpion an intent based on years of predatory nature, etc. An Ideolog might theorize how frogs and scorpions could exist together, or maybe if the scorpi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/21 08:48 PM |
| 4 | FDS really isn't that badIt's a praxeology. Ideology connotes a higher purpose and possible unknown reasoning, but praxeology? It's practical a methodology, and assumes behavior can be observed and is predictable and generally understood with out first hand evidence because people follow typical behavior patterns. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/21 07:37 PM |
| 2 | FDS really isn't that badThere's a whole lot of begging the question here. I can't speak for FDS, but the redpill is not an ideology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/21 06:41 PM |
| 13 | FDS really isn't that badEven when it's wrong, the mission of true TRP is to reunite the genders on what it believes are balanced and complementary terms. Yeah... no. At it's core, TRP is about Rule zero. Getting the sex you want as a male. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/21 06:39 PM |
| 3 | How to handle this situationAs a former NJ resident, yes they suck. | /r/askMRP | 18/11/21 03:09 PM |
| 5 | How to handle this situationYes. Check your local laws of course, and I'm not a lawyer. In my jurisdiction, he'd be a 'month to month' renter. In NY where I live, you'd have to serve him, and go to court, get an eviction order, and then have the sheriff evict him. But the judge could also say, "He has 6 months to get on his feet". I know landlords who pay deadbeats to leave as it's a better deal. | /r/askMRP | 18/11/21 02:03 PM |
| 4 | How to handle this situationHe's now a tenant. Check with a lawyer about evictions. | /r/askMRP | 18/11/21 11:55 AM |
| 16 | How should I have handled fightShe says she was hurt and has taken it as me having physically attacked her. I mean ya did? What's to debate here? The real issue is neither of you have boundaries. You on the other hand are way stronger than her by virtue of being a man, and that comes with responsibilities she doesn't have. Could I have handled things better? If so, how? You were in her frame the whole time. Her orgasm is her responsibility, not yours. Fuck the way you want to fuck. She's a big girl and can tell you how she wa… | /r/askMRP | 17/11/21 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Majority of men don't show up for child support hearings.I'm affraid you maybe suffering from confirmation bias. 75% of cases don't show up to court. What percentage of total cases does that represent? How many settle out of court through arbitration? I'm doing great in life. If I got divorced tomorrow, most of that stuff would be handled by lawyers in conference rooms. The state of NY has guidelines based on total kids and income up to a certain point. So for everyones benefit we shouldn't go to court. Conversely NY has minimum amount for low income … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/21 01:15 PM |
| 1 | What's wrong with the age gap really? Older, successful women can not get the men they want, because men chose younger women, and don't care about their success.It's very paternalistic don't you think? Young men are more than capable of being forced against their will to go off and die on foreign soil, but we have to protect legal aged women from themselves and dirty old men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 05:50 PM |
| 1 | What's wrong with the age gap really? Older, successful women can not get the men they want, because men chose younger women, and don't care about their success.It's the same logic they use in Saudi.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/21 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Qs4W: Do you hold negative perceptions of men with high n-counts?Yeah I went to a big state school that was near 5 or 6 other colleges and universities. It wasn't hard to get laid if you weren't completely inept. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/21 12:06 PM |
| 3 | Is this low birth rate something that should be concerning?The next world population centers are expected to come from sub-Saharan Africa. Projections expect Nigeria to become the third most populous country in the world with some estimates of nearly a billion people by 2100. https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2019/06/17/worlds-population-is-projected-to-nearly-stop-growing-by-the-end-of-the-century/ But after that? Global birth rates are expected to plummet all around. Some people think the final stable population will be around 2 billion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 12:43 PM |
| 3 | If MGOTW was rebranded as 'Permanent Bachelors' would people still have the negative view of it?I think you're conflating MGTOW as the modern example of those ant bachelor examples you listed. Those are probably just straight up homophobic and anti-gay laws. Bachelors in the "old days" had a much different connotation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 01:38 PM |
| 2 | Hypergamy by the numbersThere's probably some truth to it, but not for the reason you think. Educated men and women tend to marry each other. Upper quintiles of wealth have grown too, and those cohorts are significantly more well off than the lowest quintiles. Wealth begets wealth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/21 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Update on my previous post about OneitisSorry fellas I'm shutting this down. User has been banned. | /r/askMRP | 07/10/21 05:21 PM |
| 9 | Coping with fear and attachmentSo my direct question would be: How do you manage the fear of betrayal without giving a fuck? Especially if you might not know you're being betrayed, cheated on, cucked, living a lie Abundance my friend. She may cheat, lie, or leave you in a moments notice, but if you are an Integrated Man, someone who has his shit together? It's her loss not yours. Work out, get your career together and work on being attractive. Even as a married man you'll notice you get hit on and flirted with. Don't avoid fe… | /r/askMRP | 30/09/21 05:38 PM |
| 5 | When a Tall/Rich/Highly Educated Woman says: "Men don't like to date us" that means, Men who are: "taller than them, richer than them, more educationally qualified than them". They don't see Men who are lesser qualified than them anywhere near.I was thinking the same thing. STEM educated women are surrounded by men. They got options It depends. I'm STEM educated, but my first job was in a building full of women who were STEM. Some fields are heavily dominated by one sex or the other. I'm in pharma and while Engineers like me lean heavy toward men, degrees like Pharmacists, Microbiologist and chemistry tend to lean toward women. I met my wife at work for what it's worth, she has a background in chemistry and has moved into the medical … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 09:08 PM |
| 4 | Managing Girls week awayWho wouldn't be insecure when that duo gets boots on the ground He's insecure because he's been a drunk captain. What they are is irrelevant. | /r/askMRP | 21/09/21 08:48 PM |
| 1 | CMV: no one is sexually attracted to money, accomplishments or intelligence.Here Miriam Nakamoto talks about the moment she lost attraction for a boyfriend because he got knocked out. She said it was pretty instant. https://youtu.be/no7FuVwcn6w | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/21 09:24 PM |
| 6 | Outcome/Update from Dread & Removing Attention/Affectionu/HornsOfApathy is right. I would never tell my wife I wouldn't cheat. Why is that? It's her job to make sure that doesn't happen. If you're a high enough value man? She'll gladly look the other way, or maybe even help you. | /r/askMRP | 16/09/21 11:26 AM |
| – | Why is there so much hate and negativity here and on MRP sub?Why is this not one big fucking concern troll? | /r/askMRP | 07/09/21 11:55 AM |
| 1 | Redpillers of PPD - What is your most "Blue Pill" belief? Bluepillers of PPD - What is your most "Red Pill" belief?I love my cat. I think someday he's going to change, but he still pushes shit off the counter. I don't understand why he keeps doing that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/21 03:37 PM |
| 1 | So what's the point of getting married?If all marriage is is just some constant, brutal game between two people where she will drop you the moment you slip up why even engage at all? You've encountered survivorship bias. Take that into consideration. I've met many integrated men in my life who had happy well adjusted marriages. There are legal pitfalls of traditional marriage for sure, but those can be adjusted for. Get married, don't get married, have an LTR, don't have an LTR, have kids, don't have kids, in the end your choices are… | /r/askMRP | 31/08/21 09:16 PM |
| 6 | The Shy Girl and the Sex Date.People are a sum of their experiences. More than a few past girlfriends had fucked up expectations because some Schlub before me had taught them bad habits. Young girls who grow up in less than communicative families? They start out as shifty communicators. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/21 06:04 PM |
| 6 | Problem with my motherYou let people into your life that provide more value than the work you put in. No one gets a pass because they fucked some one that had a vagina that had you, or if it was the very vagina that popped you out. No one gets a pass because of vague distant circumstances. I'll give you a little credit for talking to your uncle. He's a man and these are the kind of discussions to have with men. Now was he the right man? Maybe, maybe not. You have the right to set the relationship with your former inc… | /r/askMRP | 28/08/21 01:36 PM |
| 4 | Do People just use this sub as the new red pill sub because the rest is all banned/quarantined?No, using thuggery and fascist tactics is what make you fascist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/21 03:26 PM |
| 2 | Do People just use this sub as the new red pill sub because the rest is all banned/quarantined?anti-incels Are they like antifa? Using fascsim to combat fascsim? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/21 11:37 PM |
| 18 | Feedback on constant argumentsThere's a few critical skillsets I feel you haven't internalized. Start first with DEER. The reason your wife doesn't feel you're being sincere is because you're not. She doesn't want you to apologize the way your think, instead she wants you to own your actions for what they are. If you fucked up, own it. "Yeah, I left out the dishes, won't happen again." And then don't leave them out. Conversely, if you don't think you need to apologize, don't. "Aren't you going to apologize for being mean",..… | /r/askMRP | 24/08/21 01:24 PM |
| 0 | Why Picking Up Girls Is Like Playing PokerYeah, I feel like this guy wasn't ever a serious poker player. It reads like a guy who watched WSOP on TV.... | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/21 01:49 PM |
| 1 | What kind of man would you want your daughters to date?Sure I would. She'd be lucky to find someone like me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/21 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Basing future predictions of the dating landscape based on current and past data is pointlessWhen I first started out in industry we used to use very simple controls to run our reactors. They had buttons, needle gauges, and paper chart recorders. Now we have touch screens with data logging that records data into secure traceable databases. I can see the history of a reaction down to milliseconds, and use complicated machine learning to tune the controls faster than I ever could with rheostats and paper chart recorders. You know what? Nothings changed about the reaction. Those laws of ph… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/21 02:32 PM |
| – | Self TherapyNo. Go to own your shit for your ramblings. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/08/21 04:06 PM |
| 6 | Urgent question after dramatic scene over the phoneDe hecho fue un noviazgo corto, bonito y de ensueño, sin ni una sola pelea I puked in my mouth a little. You're living in the past. Read up on the sunk cost fallacy. | /r/askMRP | 04/08/21 08:26 PM |
| 3 | Urgent question after dramatic scene over the phonePlus I am one of those Christians who believe that marriage is forever Not even the pope believes Marriage is forever. I call bullshit. | /r/askMRP | 04/08/21 08:23 PM |
| 40 | Urgent question after dramatic scene over the phoneI really didn't want to read it purely from the title: Urgent question after dramatic scene over the phone So this first section I will write without even reading it. What does it say about your frame if you need urgent help after a phone conversation? Ok, now I read.... Oh man it gets worse. Still getting worse. I. Can't. Even. You have poor boundaries. What should you do? Quit answering the fucking phone. I swear my wife tried one time when we were first dating to yell at me and all it took wa… | /r/askMRP | 04/08/21 08:19 PM |
| – | Question about “the wall”Sure they do, but they have the same options in their early 30s,plus new ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/21 12:14 PM |
| 3 | Question about “the wall”Look at a woman like Taylor Swift she recently turned 30 does she really look all that different then she did 5 years ago? There's always outliers. Taylor swift is mega-rich for her entertainment value and she's had plastic surgery. The average woman isn't Taylor Swift. It isn't about Can or Can't they. It's about radically changing circumstances based on age. I know plenty of attractive women in their late 30's who are dating. It's no where near as easy for them then when those same women were … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/21 08:49 PM |
| 2 | Question about “the wall”It's simple. When a woman is in her early 20's she has a buttload of options. But after she crosses her 30s those options dramatically change. She can't just show up at a club and get let in anymore. She can't just sit in a coffee shop and get hit on, or at the gym. She can't just show up. Or maybe she does, but it's no longer the quality of man she was used too. Add to it that men, tend to hit their stride around their 30s, in their career and life choices. So a man now has his options opened f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/21 07:04 PM |
| 6 | Pushing Counseling and saying we have bad communicationreading body language and Tones Are you? Because I read everything that your wife is very good at manipulating you and making you dance like a monkey. Yet you don't realize that. Then out of the blue she asks did you find a couples counselor. She says, so now all of a sudden you don’t want counseling. Where have you been getting your help from? She says she’s not happy. In all of these interactions I read you reacting to her instead of watching her actions and responding accordingly. Reading the… | /r/askMRP | 02/08/21 01:52 PM |
| 3 | Why are single women happier than married women? If so, why do women even bother with men?Male partners can be exhausting...in all of my relationships My dad was divorced three times. You know what he had in common to all his marriages? Himself. Maybe the problem wasn't your partners? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/21 12:40 PM |
| 11 | Should I be open to life with a woman who broke my heart? Can they really improve?Maybe she can work her way up from there, but it'll be a while and require lots of qualification. Nope. Once demoted, they never get re-promoted. Your efforts are better off spent elsewhere. | /r/askMRP | 28/07/21 03:03 PM |
| – | I opted for divorce following UltimatumFor those of you who feel the need to "die on your sword" and spew out one last diatribe about the moral quandaries of those who post here no one gives a fuck. The mod team will delete and remove. Moralizing is a low effort, ineffective method and often illogical argument to persuade someone. Calling people out on a moral basis is the same as using the old "True Scotsman" fallacy It's a call to purity that distorts what in some cases maybe a hard decision. For those of you that are still around … | /r/askMRP | 26/07/21 07:16 PM |
| 3 | I opted for divorce following UltimatumCool, message received Your wish is granted. | /r/askMRP | 26/07/21 06:09 PM |
| 12 | I opted for divorce following Ultimatuml be blunt: As a father and a husband You don't sound interested in the sacrifices required even for being a husband, which you already are, much less fatherhood. Or grow up the fuck up already and act like a husband Pay attention real closely. How about you reframe this from a redpill point of view. Because the way I read it, it's moralizing. This is your only warning. | /r/askMRP | 26/07/21 04:26 PM |
| 28 | Suspicions about wife's infidelity several years ago - should I bring it up?Alright, lets talk about OpSec and trust but verify. First, OpSec aka operational security should always be at the forefront. In strategic situations you always want to be dictating the rules of engagement. So right now you have some circumstantial evidence. How do you proceed? My gut tells me that I should absolutely STFU about it unless I can stick unmistakable proof in her face Like a good lawyer, never ask a question you don't know the answer to. When you are driving her behavior you don't w… | /r/askMRP | 23/07/21 07:09 PM |
| 6 | Suspicions about wife's infidelity several years ago - should I bring it up?ruin all the progress I made over the last year when I'm wrong or unable to get her to confess Sunk cost fallacy. | /r/askMRP | 23/07/21 06:44 PM |
| 7 | We are headed for a huge population cliff mainly because men and women have been conditioned to hate each other.The worlds first and second world countries are losing population, but not for the reason you think. Mainly education, affluence, and access to birth control are responsible. Back in the day you had 10 kids on a farm because they were assets; aka a labor and retirement plan. Women got married for security and as a primary job. Now that women have entered the work force and are just as educated as men they have other opportunities. Add affluence to it, and the shift from using kids as assets to m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/21 01:24 PM |
| 15 | How do you reward good behavior?Wait so you'd suck dick for a ride? That's kind of whorish babe. When my wife says stupid shit, I play with her head. Read WISNIFG. You can use it to get people to stop judging you for your actions and you can also get them to judge themselves. Time is your number 1 asset. She gets it when she behaves. | /r/askMRP | 22/07/21 10:02 PM |
| 3 | Sex and mind games. STFU or call her out?It's the IV-drip of hope and affection. She thinks she can feed him a little here and there, and give him hope. OP, what do her actions say? Don't listen to her words. | /r/askMRP | 19/07/21 06:43 PM |
| 39 | New here. Oblivious wife is inconsiderate and disrespectful. Do I STFU or call it out?STFU or call it out and then STFU. It's not calling it out. That's what whiney women do. Karen's call it out. A redpill man has boundaries and doesn't tolerate bad behavior with his actions. "Hey I'm trying to sleep, knock it off" Now ask yourself what's the boundary here? How do I enforce it? Me? I'd get up and leave with no explanation. Then when she asked me where I was "out." You may have to give her operational guidelines. My wife grew up in a noisey house with no respect for other people. … | /r/askMRP | 18/07/21 12:48 PM |
| 9 | Wife Wants Therapy; How Much Help Do I Offer?the overwhelming majority of this was emotional detachment from me/the marriage, and not being sure what she wants Seems pretty obvious to me. She's not attracted to you. This is code for "I feel some obligation to you, history and kids, but I don't want to fuck you. That's why I'm conflicted." Be more attractive. Be less unattractive. | /r/askMRP | 17/07/21 04:07 PM |
| 6 | Wife very angry and hostile?Take her home. Drop her off. She'd be lucky to get a ride home after that shit. | /r/askMRP | 11/07/21 02:58 PM |
| 1 | My wife dislikes that I do not take her seriouslyHow should I go about doing that? Sometimes it's as easy as just telling her. What's the context of her saying it to you? | /r/askMRP | 09/07/21 05:18 PM |
| 8 | My wife dislikes that I do not take her seriouslyYour wife doesn't dislike you not taking her seriously. She dislikes that you don't acknowledge her. Change the way she feels about it. | /r/askMRP | 09/07/21 04:27 PM |
| 12 | Serious question about a career crisisI've sent out hundreds of applications went through like 10 interviews Failure to close. They're not buying what you are selling. It seems like there's plenty of options, and you had 10 interviews but none offered. So go to the source, call all of them back and ask point blank, "Hey I need some feedback, why was I not the right fit?" First you need to define the problem. Do you understand what it really is? | /r/askMRP | 08/07/21 03:18 PM |
| 5 | Own Your Shit Weekly - July 06, 2021I don’t want to ruin the evening, so I just comply You give too many fucks. Practice outcome independence. Who cares if she's upset? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/07/21 02:59 PM |
| 3 | I don’t think FDS is that bad and I don’t understand why they get so much hateYour living for her validation. You'll only be disappointed when she doesn't give it to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/21 12:49 AM |
| 12 | laundry and logicI want you to look at what the tagged guys have told you. u/BobbyPeru and u/man_in_the_world have cut right to the heart of the matter. DEER'ing is not a pretty look. More important ask yourself, why do you feel a need to explain? A man who DEER's is afraid of the woman's response he is DEERing too. He wants to changer her mind, and convince her why he is right. First, you need to control the rules of engagement. Learn how to steer your wife's behavior in a way that you get to the second part fi… | /r/askMRP | 28/06/21 04:00 PM |
| 16 | My wife, 46 years old, of 17 years is having a virtual affair with her first love from 30 years ago. Do I blame myself?Blame is a loaded word. Accept your responsibility, and prepare to move forward. Read the side bar on lawyering up. | /r/askMRP | 24/06/21 06:56 PM |
| 16 | Wife is starting to push backI'm not going to touch the sex issue, or any of that. There's a big issue that seems to be the root cause of a lot of your frame issues. Boundaries. Before you get your wife in sex-shape, you need to get yourself in boundary shape. Just wouldn't let it go, threatened divorce and the whole package. If your woman ever threatens this you need to come to grips with what it means. At that point she felt you would miss her more than she would miss you. You need to correct that boundary and let her kno… | /r/askMRP | 24/06/21 01:51 PM |
| 2 | Does having children lessen the risk of divorce? Can you put the terms in a prenup?Christian guys get caught up in the whole male/female roles and how it can fit their traditional ideas, but they can't reconcile abundance with it. All relationships, from plates, fwb, LTR, to traditional marriage must be approached this way. It's a core principal of the redpill that you can always move on, you can always upgrade when the woman in your life stops fulfilling her role, whatever that roll is you define. Even the strictest conservative religions have options for divorce or it's equi… | /r/askTRP | 23/06/21 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Does having children lessen the risk of divorce? Can you put the terms in a prenup?except I want to have children and believe this is the one-and-only right way to do it. Is it a religious reason or a legal reason? | /r/askTRP | 23/06/21 05:19 PM |
| – | Need Red Pill Perspectivenot for us | /r/askMRP | 23/06/21 02:31 AM |
| 2 | Does having children lessen the risk of divorce? Can you put the terms in a prenup?....does having children lessen the risk of divorce? There's a lot of data that shows that having kids correlates to lower divorce rate. College education, occupation and lots of other things factor into it. Is it cause or correlated? There's probably a pHD in statistics if you answer that. I have kids, I wanted a family and I married to achieve it. I didn't know the pitfalls of marriage, so I have to learn from my mistakes. Would I get married again? No. Not worth it, and I could have had kids … | /r/askTRP | 21/06/21 07:11 PM |
| – | Need advice on what my next move with this girl should be.Now she's followed me back but I'm not sure if I should dm her. Wayne Gretzky said "You miss 100% of the shots you don't take" She sounds like a branch swinger. Have fun and treat it accordingly. You should be spinning plates anyway so treat this like any other potential plate. | /r/askTRP | 21/06/21 03:19 PM |
| 12 | She'll give blowjobs and let me finger her, but wants to be in a committed relationship before she lets me fuck.Wow, there's so much lack of abundance in this comment I can smell the desperation through my screen. Take women off the pedestal jack. You know the universe creates a brand new 18 year old every day. Every single day a chick pops into legal age. A good deal many of them are virgins. I've had my share of them, and while they can be fun, and elusive, they are not unicorns, nor are they saints in the making. To all you fuckers moralizing about "stealing innocence" knock that shit off. She's a grow… | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 01:51 PM |
| 4 | My fiancé has been reminding me that I’m a taken man.It doesn’t bother me, but I feel like I should tell her that there are better ways to keep a man faithful. I just want to make sure I communicate it in the right way. Advice? Demonstrate through your actions. Words are meaningless. Be a high value man and make it clear through your actions that marriage is a tool to accomplish goals, ie kids, that she can be a part of or not. She's a vessel, not the solution. I get it, marriage is considered by many the biggest simp move You know what's a simp… | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 01:35 PM |
| 2 | Did I just waste the best years of my life?I’m 22, just graduated college last week. Slow down brother. You're not even close to your peak Everyone says college is the best years of your life and the social scene is one that only exists in university. College was the one place people find life long friends and I literally don’t have a single one... I haven't seen a college friend in nearly 20 years. College was fun for me for sure, and I look back on it fondly but was it the best time of my life? Sure it was awesome being able to jump in… | /r/askTRP | 18/06/21 01:26 PM |
| 37 | Was referred hereMy family would go ape shit if I got divorced. Our families are very close Why are you so entrenched in how your families judge your actions that you would let it affect the rest of your fucking life? Repeat after me, "I'm the prize!" Start fucking acting like it and maybe your wife will want to bang. Every man must be prepared to live his life according to his rules. I've told my own mother to knock her shit off and act like a grown fucking adult, and if she couldn't behave she wouldn't be allo… | /r/askMRP | 17/06/21 06:32 PM |
| – | Wife wants divorce because of sex life but i don't want to not see my kids everydayHave at it fellas. New account so you'll probably need approvals on your responses because the automod will remove them. | /r/askMRP | 17/06/21 06:19 PM |
| – | Feel like I ruined my life, Don't know what to do.I've worked in entrepreneurship for startups which all of them, not even one succeeded, and started my own company- which eventually failed Don't let this stress you. The reality is Entrepreneurship is not a young mans game. Success in a business is directly correlated to age. In other words, the older you are the more likely you are to succeed at building a business. Why is this? Experience matters. If you're good at math (reasonably) and willing to get dirty I'd suggest a trade. In NY state th… | /r/askTRP | 17/06/21 02:19 PM |
| 2 | Discussion about sexually successful deadbeatsSexual market place for men is always down market. otherwise known as Hypergamy for women. Just because he's low value in your eyes doesn't mean he wasn't to those women at the point of conception. Go watch my 600 lb life. Even a morbidly obese giant hippo of a woman on that show regularly has some thirsty fuck willing to hold his nose and procreate with her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 10:23 PM |
| 8 | What are some of your hobbies?fishing If you want to get into fishing, try fly fishing. It can take you to amazing places, there's a steep learning curve, and you can create something with your hands that helps you achieve your goal. I took up fly fishing 20 years ago. I've been to some amazing places all over the world and met some really interesting people because of it. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/21 03:50 PM |
| 23 | What is the point of a radically feminized society?It's a massive shit test from ugly women trying to control their market value. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/21 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Can someone please give me some good reasons why any financially successful man (or woman) should ever get married in today’s day and age?All of us are early to mid 30’s and very successful objectively (e.g. 750K net worth at 30 puts you in the 99th percentile in the US). Speaking as someone who came from where you are and is now older and has a family you should be practicing asset shielding and other methods for wealth protection. Things like Trusts for property and LLCs for investments should absolutely be on your to do lists. If you do choose to get married for whatever reason there are methods to shield negative outcomes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Anyone have experience with LTR’ing lower SMV girl?I have a degree in Chemical Engineering. I used to tutor her in math. That wasn't the case I can tell you. | /r/askTRP | 11/06/21 11:57 AM |
| 3 | Update: LTR wanted to go to a dance with another dudeChickens or Eggs, which came first? She said it was an error on her part but it fails the but-for test. You wouldn't be here if it wasn't for the error in her ways. It shows a critical lapse in judgement that was only amended after you cleared it up for her. Now maybe she's a high quality woman, but reading between the lines, you're young and so is she. So is it a lesson she learned for you or for someone else? Time will tell. Some boundaries need no definition. I shouldn't have to tell my old l… | /r/askTRP | 10/06/21 04:09 PM |
| 5 | MO after first date fuck?You want to condition her behavior. Reward her for positive behavior by giving her attention, withdrawal for negative. This is a good time to reward. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/21 08:54 PM |
| 4 | Women shouldn't expect to be paid for on the first few datesA guy who is trying to win over a woman he's very interested in, who doesn't have a strong opinion of him yet? The smart man picks up the tab So trying to negotiate attraction? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/21 08:05 PM |
| 10 | Frame and Shit TestsYou can live a life of integrity and be an integrated male. But try not to make it an excuse to live blue pill goals through red pill glasses. An integrated male confronts harsh realities and deals with them independent of outcome. | /r/askMRP | 08/06/21 12:55 PM |
| 4 | How I Text WomenTrying to convince a woman who is iffy about you to meet in person is a low-ROI thing to do and usually fails. Here's a key take away that's almost buried in the lead. You cannot negotiate attraction. You must demonstrate it. Texting takes away a vital tool. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/21 09:36 PM |
| 24 | Frame and Shit TestsSeems like you're the only one who's not willing to renegotiate the terms of the relationship. So how do you think you will fare? | /r/askMRP | 07/06/21 09:08 PM |
| 10 | Frame and Shit TestsHowever, a man keeps his word and my vows Why? | /r/askMRP | 07/06/21 08:57 PM |
| 4 | How to tell my female friends I don't give a shit, and how to respond to further BSYour best tool? Learning to walk away. Time is the only resource you have, and it's finite. | /r/askTRP | 07/06/21 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Is Going to the Gym “Too Much” a Thing?am I legitimately using the gym as some sort of coping mechanism? Of course you are. I couldn't think of a better way to cope with life than praying at the iron temple. Why wouldn't you use the gym as a coping mechanism? When people say stuff like this it's a reflection of their choices and what they want to feel. There's a lady in my neighborhood who is probably a text book case of Orthorexia. She'll literally bring weights to kids sports games and do lunges and shit. Now I could walk over to h… | /r/askTRP | 07/06/21 01:45 PM |
| – | Father's Day Gifts That Are Practically FreeFuck this spamming shit | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/06/21 12:49 PM |
| 2 | Anyone have experience with LTR’ing lower SMV girl?How so? Expand a little, I'm not sure what you're asking. | /r/askTRP | 05/06/21 12:33 PM |
| 26 | Anyone have experience with LTR’ing lower SMV girl?I dated a girl who was a "nerdy" type. She was typical type-A academic. Got her Doctor in Pharmacy. She was actually pretty attractive, just very plain and not into make up etc, or cutting edge style. Nice body, healthy etc. First time I met her she was talking to a friend. Kept staring out the corner of her eyes at me. Later told me I was hotter than she thought she could date. Pluses? Yeah she was definitely way more into me than I was into her. I could really push her buttons in a multitude o… | /r/askTRP | 04/06/21 03:26 PM |
| 3 | Is it medical or am I still a beta?Probably, but until he quits hearing excuses he won't get out of his own way. | /r/askMRP | 02/06/21 06:47 PM |
| 25 | Is it medical or am I still a beta?The real question you need to ask yourself is "Who cares?" One of the funniest stories I ever read was from Tucker Max. He fucked a married chick like two hours after she had a miscarriage. Do you think that chick was worried about roids? Your stay plan should be your go plan. One month of getting unfucked is not a lot of time. Get your shit right and someone will fuck you. It's up to your wife if it's her. | /r/askMRP | 02/06/21 02:24 PM |
| 0 | People who have been married and are no longer.... What was the reason for your divorce? Do you take any responsibility in it or was the cause on them?So they are all having the same problem... Different women, same problem? Like I said is it a surprise now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/21 10:54 PM |
| 9 | People who have been married and are no longer.... What was the reason for your divorce? Do you take any responsibility in it or was the cause on them?Does it surprise you that the more entitlement you gave her, the more contempt she displayed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/21 08:24 PM |
| 3 | "I'm not good in relationships" What does it mean?/thread | /r/askTRP | 31/05/21 07:12 PM |
| 2 | What’s up with women being down to do the most vile shit?And I always hear stories from friends about bitches doing the weirdest freakiest shit in bed and then acting normal after. It's in a woman's biological nature to be able to dissociate different aspects of her life. Rollo talks about it in his essay, War Brides. Think about all the women over hundreds of thousands of years who were happy little gatherers only for the tribe next door to come and snatch her up, do a bunch of nasty things to her, then make her a new gatherer in their tribe. Women w… | /r/askTRP | 25/05/21 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Any advice for a sales cuck who isn't doing well at his job?Right now you're seeing a huge push across platforms like LinkedIn for this reason exactly. As Millennials and younger generations become purchasing decision makers they are looking more and more to googling for their first point of contact. If you aren't an influencer or don't have a presence they may look past you. Sales guys will still need to make the final push, but initial contact will be made in different ways for sure. Branding will help with that. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/21 08:06 PM |
| 2 | Any advice for a sales cuck who isn't doing well at his job?It gets difficult when all the products are functionally the same as other companies Then you need to find that one thing that sets you apart. If you're faster, be the fastest. If you're the best price, always be the best. If you're always the best service then always be the best. Cheap, fast and good. You can offer two of those. Pick it and stick with it. Also when qualifying customers remember the saying "we bake bread with the flour we have". Too many sales guys want to say shit like "if we j… | /r/askTRP | 24/05/21 04:36 PM |
| 2 | Any advice for a sales cuck who isn't doing well at his job?If you haven't read, "Never Split the Difference" by Chris Voss, I'd start there. As a general rule I stay away from "features". Oh we can do this, this, this,.... puke. You need to be a problem solver. Find out what peoples problems are, push that problem to them (sometimes they don't even know) and then provide a solution to them. And if people are saying "yes" you aren't solving their problem for them. During a cold call you should be talking about 30% of the time, Let that customer tell you … | /r/askTRP | 24/05/21 02:12 PM |
| 38 | Moving on after 8 year relationship with obese womanLet's use a business analogy to see if we can shed any light on this. You took $10,000 and invested it in a business. You got the business to work better, but it's in a rough part of town and even when it's doing well it's still just barely making money. At the end of the year after all your expenses and earnings you can sell that business for exactly $10,005. For an amazing profit of exactly $5. So now you're asking if you had dumped more money into the business would it have been more successf… | /r/askTRP | 24/05/21 01:53 PM |
| 4 | found tinder on gfs phone after vacationIn business WL Gore has a term called "a waterline mistake" A mistake so grevious it will sink the ship, because its a hole below the waterline. Some mistakes won't sink the ship, some will. There's no saving a crew member who makes a waterline mistake. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/21 12:13 AM |
| – | How to break the Iron Rule #2 of Tomassi...the RIGHT WAYHave it boys | /r/askMRP | 19/05/21 04:58 PM |
| – | How to break Iron Rule of Tomassi #2...THE RIGHT WAYTake it to Askmrp. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/05/21 03:37 PM |
| 14 | I hate having to ignore.I see some of your nice guy peaking out of it's shell, and it's unattractive. The problem is with the way you want to fix it: “did you really not realize that when you did x, y, z, it was really hurtful? Put yourself in my shoes and imagine how you would feel, you would be upset if I did that to you.” You want to manipulate her. Notice your words? You're actively getting her to judge her own actions, instead of taking ownership of them. You want to talk her into it and convince her what she did … | /r/askTRP | 19/05/21 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Had to let go of a very nice plate due to my feelingsI swear I don’t know why I can’t just fuck these girls and not catch feelings. What's wrong with catching feelings, you are an emotional being after all. I’m really not with the whole sharing girls thing once I begin loving a girl. This is the real problem. Tell a chick she can't fuck other dudes if you catch feelings. Tell her you're going to see other girls, or don't tell her, it doesn't matter really (redpill is amoral after all). If you're SMV is high enough and they see you as valuable enou… | /r/askTRP | 12/05/21 01:25 PM |
| 1 | What is ethical non-monogamy?Young children are a shitload of work. This is spot on. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/21 01:17 PM |
| 7 | If you’re in a good, healthy relationship that you want to keep, how do you deal with the desire to fuck over girls?I'm Hungarian and bitches are as slutty here as everywhere else. I have a theory that the more traditional and conservative the society is, the more underground sluttiness is. Back in my younger days I hooked up with a few Orthodox and Conservative Jewish girls. They'd do nasty things and one even lied to herself that "BJ's and Anal don't count" as she was saving herself for marriage. Last I saw a few of these girls got like 5-6 kids each and sit Shabbat and shit like good little housewives. Gir… | /r/askTRP | 11/05/21 05:09 PM |
| 20 | If you’re in a good, healthy relationship that you want to keep, how do you deal with the desire to fuck over girls?But ultimately, I think many women know but just don’t want to be specifically aware of it. I was in an LTR after college. Definitely had a higher SMV than her, as she was insecure all the time. She once asked me about a Bachelor Party, "Are there going to be hookers there?" "WTF? I don't think so, why would you ask that?" "If there are, wear a condom. I don't want to catch something nasty" Now a lot could be read into that, projection among others, but it was very odd that there was zero mentio… | /r/askTRP | 11/05/21 05:04 PM |
| 82 | If you’re in a good, healthy relationship that you want to keep, how do you deal with the desire to fuck over girls?Redpill is amoral. You do you. I've known a few dudes who were in a bad spot, LTR was shit and just needed to get the stink off. A quick ONS and they realized that abundance was a thing and that they could do whatever they wanted. Next thing you know the LTR was great, the job was cruising along, etc. I know a dude whose wife got caught with a side guy. He was devastated, went and got jacked and tried to win her back. He did eventually and then proceeded to fuck every one of her friends and get … | /r/askTRP | 11/05/21 02:41 PM |
| 1 | "It's Your Fault" - do not fear itdivorce is permitted as a legal matter but men who do so can expect to be unwelcome in their churches and social circles because, like they teach on MRP, Yeah, who is this "they" you keep talking about? | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/21 02:28 PM |
| 3 | Shit Test QuestionWhat would be the right path if it were one? A lot of guys get it wrong. They'll tell you that you need to blend Alpha with Beta, and that comfort tests can be handled with Beta. There's only Alpha. There are a million ways to 'handle' it, but in reality, is the only way is to internalize what it means to be Alpha. My wife asked me the same question, and I answered her point-blank, "Fuck yeah there are." When she hits me with the occasional comfort test, I reiterate "the future is in your hands,… | /r/askMRP | 07/05/21 04:17 PM |
| 11 | Shit Test QuestionI'm an engineer... finding optimal solutions is what I do lol. Well as one engineer to another, you're trying to justify your solution and filling in the blanks to work it out. She's 7 years older, so you already failed a gigantic shit test. You're desperately trying to live a blue pill life through redpill lenses. She got fat. You are not. "Are there pretty girls at the gym?" "Fuck yeah there are." Stop giving a fuck about her feelings, they are hers and hers to deal with. It's not your job as … | /r/askMRP | 06/05/21 07:06 PM |
| 2 | Shit Test Questionbut you're the only one I think about, babe Fuck that stupid shit. If my wife asked a stupid question, she'd get a stupid answer. This isn't the right path to answering a comfort test. | /r/askMRP | 06/05/21 06:55 PM |
| 7 | She Randomly lost interest?I feel like dudes say this all the time, "She randomly stopped [fill in your thing here ] and it was out of the blue" It wasn't random. It wasn't out of the blue. I think it's like a deaf dude and a blind chick trying to figure shit out though. He's speaking sign language to her, and she's telling him stuff in plain old English. But she can't see him and he can't hear her, but it doesn't change the fact that both were trying to say shit. This is also why we say "judge a woman by her actions, not… | /r/askTRP | 03/05/21 05:34 PM |
| 6 | Resigned from my job today (24 years old). How do I not lose my confidence and make my girlfriend not attracted to me after this?You know what should matter? Control. You let someone else dictate the terms of dismissal for you when you didn't have to. You should check your local labor laws for what's called "Constructive dismissal". Even if they made you sign something that you won't sue them, the law doe not prevent someone else from breaking the law because you signed a piece of paper. You should have someone your uncle recommends that is a lawyer look into it for you. You should also report it to the labor board. Now y… | /r/askTRP | 03/05/21 05:25 PM |
| -1 | My mom had a sudden jump in her SMV, and just recently she's been cooking a divorce after 26 years of marriage. I hate her guts for it and I don't know how to deal with the situation.Hey chuckle fuck. Did I bring up religion? Did I bring up choreplay? Nope. You know why? Those arent redpill. Rule zero is paramount. So go on with your ad hominem attacks but the reality is what I said holds true. Is his dad's fault. He probably saw it coming. Or he didn't lead when he should have. Or maybe she's just a fucking crazy harpy and he should have left years ago. The message is still the same. His father is in charge of his own destiny. It's not his place to be captain fix a bro or c… | /r/askTRP | 26/04/21 08:25 PM |
| 4 | My mom had a sudden jump in her SMV, and just recently she's been cooking a divorce after 26 years of marriage. I hate her guts for it and I don't know how to deal with the situation.I have a cold hard truth for you. This is your dad's fuck up. This is called drunk captain syndrome. For years and years, he's been asleep at the wheel. Your mom has been freelancing without leadership. Then she went out and got a taste of what it's like to be out in the world and figured, "Fuck it, I can do better. Look at that fat slob" Your father's role in this? The signs probably started years ago. He's probably got a dad bod. He probably deferred to her for all the important decisions over… | /r/askTRP | 26/04/21 12:47 PM |
| 3 | Is height really that important?5'6" | /r/askTRP | 22/04/21 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Making friends as an adultFriends for a reason, friends for a season, and friends for life. Look at ways to fill in each of these types. Friends for a reason? You can try things like meetup.com and other local interests. I have fly fishing buddies, I have photography buddies, etc. These are guys I can call up and go do something specific with. Friends for a season? Try the local toastmasters, and learn how to get good at public speaking or take a foreign language class. You'll always end up going out for drinks or after … | /r/askTRP | 22/04/21 01:24 PM |
| 6 | Is height really that important?I'm short. In my dating career, I stayed fit, was successful, and dressed well. Frankly, I never had a problem finding girls, and had a few cheerleaders in high school, a few taller girls in college, and did fine dating professional girls after college. Abundance is the key, as it's a numbers game. Are some girls going to reject you? Sure. But the reality is that something we all face. So find your niche. I ended up dating mostly shorter girls, (5'1-5'5) and never let it bother me. I had a girlf… | /r/askTRP | 22/04/21 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Girl who I rejected... posts our DM’s on her IG story.Hey stupid! You know this is another great reason why they say texting is for logistics. I say again, texting is for logistics. Explain to me how this would have happened if you had kept to that rule? | /r/askTRP | 22/04/21 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Do women underestimate the strength of smaller men?It's like retard strength... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/21 02:42 PM |
| 6 | My friend was getting married next week... his girl basically left him at the altar.He was blindsided. They never fought, had no real issues at all. I only met her once but they seemed great together. It doesn’t make any sense. I feel for the dude, he’s a good guy with a good head on his shoulders. Take this as a lesson. There are two sides to every story, and the reality is he wasn't blindsided. Women use covert language to tell you what they are feeling. By the time he was told, she had to use overt language. I've seen enough of my friends get divorced and while they may have… | /r/askTRP | 21/04/21 01:44 PM |
| 8 | Do women underestimate the strength of smaller men?The looks of surprise mixed with the obvious look of pain is woeful. You can see that they GENUINELY didn't expect to be on the losing side so fast, if at all. "Everyone has a plan until they get punched in the face" - Mike Tyson | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/21 05:08 PM |
| 5 | Do women underestimate the strength of smaller men?The numbers aren't even close. The top quartile of women doesn't overlap the lowest quartile of men when testing for strength. Literally, almost all men, are stronger than all women. You don't start to get significantly stronger women than men unless you are comparing peak strength women to 80-year-old men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/21 05:00 PM |
| 2 | GF recently got cancer. I was planning to end things leading up to this and now don't know how to do so without being the bad guy.There's a couple of things going on here, so let's unpack them. First, an integrated male gives freely, as he expects nothing in return. You should only do so if you can. From the sounds of it, you cannot. Why is that? The second is Captain sav-a-ho syndrome. Why is it that you feel she is so fragile and so incapable that she is unable to deal with the trauma of you relieving her of your glorious presence? Are we talking dead in a month cancer or just a little colon cancer? If she's circling the… | /r/askTRP | 20/04/21 01:57 PM |
| 2 | Long-distance relationship game need help?There's no such thing as an LDR.... | /r/askMRP | 18/04/21 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Did female economic liberation cause the birth rate to decline?Did they go through the work to get citizenship? Because my mom and grandparents did. They also went to a strange city and didn't speak english. So does that make my victim status higher? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/21 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Did female economic liberation cause the birth rate to decline?Funny, because Puerto Ricans aren't immigrants any more than the great african american migration was "immigration" Irish? Recent irish or like Boston Irish? Because again, confirmation bias is my wife's family is all very irish and very conservative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/21 07:01 PM |
| 2 | Did female economic liberation cause the birth rate to decline?Are you sure that's what you are seeing or is that just confirmation bias? Because I can find a whole swath of 2nd and 3rd generation of Italian Immigrants that are conservative. Same goes for Lebanese, Korean, or Nigerian (Some of the most successful immigrant populations). Add Russians, Armenians, and some other Eastern Slavs to that mix, and I can find a huge number of conservatives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/21 04:43 PM |
| 2 | Why more women than men watch the more extreme forms of porn today?DEVI Our friend who wrote the sex-god method explains it. Dominance Emotion Variety Immersion It can fit any one of those. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/21 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Agreed to a date but then deleted off snapWouldn't this yield more no-shows? Change your frame of reference on this. If you have abundance do you care about no-shows? If you've done the leg work and built the foundation, she's attracted to you, right? You're the prize, assume the close. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 07:26 PM |
| 8 | Agreed to a date but then deleted off snapJust a little tweak in psychology. Give people a chance to say 'no' not 'yes'. 'Hey, we still on for Saturday?' becomes 'See you at 8, wear a couple of layers so you don't get cold' By asking her if you're still on, you are now giving her an out. By telling her you're still on, she now has to actually make up an out. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 05:09 PM |
| 4 | literally just LTR'd a girl to fuck her now don't know what to do....help please.Yeah, I got one buddy whose ex/baby mamma was on track to Ivy league Grad School when she got knocked up. I used to date a girl in Medschool who legit thought she was always pregnant to the point where I started tracking her cycle, and low and behold she was pretty regular. They may have Doctor or other initials in front of their name or after it, but they are still the oldest teenager in the room. Don't rely on them unless you're cool with babies. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 05:04 PM |
| 11 | She wants to bring an ugly friend overSounds like she's bringing a built in cock block to me. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/21 04:57 PM |
| 2 | Got beaten upWe were talking face to face and he started hitting me out of nowhere No, he didn't. I grew up fighting. I used to hang out with dudes who fought. Most of them were friends because they got into a fight at some point. One thing I can tell you, it's never out of nowhere. These guys were animals, and one thing I learned is you get pretty good at figuring out when someone is about to get smacked. Fists get clenched, he'll drop his dominant shoulder back, he might fix loose clothing, etc. So if you … | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 03:03 PM |
| 9 | Casual sex for gay men is ridiculously easy to find. Yet, there's still a huge market for M-to-M prostitution. What does this tell us about straight men, if it were also easy for them to get sex?You don't pay a prostitute for sex, you pay them to leave afterward. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/21 01:27 PM |
| – | Lot to unpack hereNo thanks. Not for AskMRP. | /r/askMRP | 02/04/21 01:20 PM |
| -1 | "I wouldn't cheat on you even if you stayed away longer"Why are you a stupid fuck and having important conversations over text? You cannot engage emotion over text. She was throwing a comfort test and you sent her an emoji? You stupid fuck. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 04:43 PM |
| 1 | are there any communities like this but for purple pillersYou can't live a bluepill life through redpill glasses. Rule zero is the focus here. What you do with that is up to you. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 04:40 PM |
| 27 | What is considered the “high” sexual partner count in today’s generation?I grew up in what would be deemed 'affluent country'. Think rural country club. There were girls who absolutely banged everyone, and yeah I'm sure they moved off to the city and picked right up from there. It's all about opportunity. Sluts gonna slut. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/21 01:58 PM |
| 3 | Headspace is a little confused right nowThe stay plan is the go plan. I think that's what you've been missing all along. As others have pointed out, she's made her intentions known. While women normally communicate covertly, when she moves to overt communications she is literally telling you to your face it is over. My next bit of advice is the hard part. Don't ever help a chick move on or out from you. Give her exactly what she wants. The moment she said, "I don't ever think the spark is coming back" you should have started your exit… | /r/askMRP | 26/03/21 12:06 PM |
| 6 | How come hypergamy can't get them the man they want?I'm older than most on here. You'll find that the simplest answer is probably the best. Incompetence. I've had my share of relationships, and as girls get older they bring the sum of all their past relationships to the table. It shows it's ugly head in the form of "Well my last boyfriend did XYZ so that's what I thought..." So yeah, she doesn't know how to get you, because she has no experience getting a high-value man. In my late 40's I still see, divorcees and single moms tripping over themsel… | /r/askTRP | 24/03/21 01:41 PM |
| 8 | What's her motives?Maybe. I don't act like it ever though No maybe. Absolutely. She lost attraction. You failed under pressure in her eyes, and now the spark is gone. You made the mistake of being a guy who doesn't smash while drinking and then drinking with a girl that wants to smash. Cool for you, but don't put yourself in situations where your values can potentially cockblock you. You filtered her out, now live with the consequences. | /r/askTRP | 23/03/21 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Is it normal to have more sexual urges after lifting?As the black rifle coffee guys', hot-ass chick says, "Wife cardio!" | /r/askTRP | 23/03/21 04:18 PM |
| 0 | TRP has been incorrect about 2 things for me: texting and being honest about other plates/women. I’ve had success in texting several times daily, and with saying who I’ve been with.I'd actually posit that you proved that low and behold, texting is for logistics. to add to what u/Musicgoon is saying to you, you're using texting for bitch-management. What we tell the retards with texting is, you are not there to deliver emotion. When a chick wants to fight, you never do it over text. When a chick wants to get to know you, you never do it over text. You can't judge or deliver emotion well over text. You can set the mood, you can set up for later, you can even get her to do na… | /r/askTRP | 23/03/21 04:16 PM |
| 17 | Average Ain't HardIf you pick three things, and just try to make the top 10% in each of them, you'll be a 1 percenter. Scott Adams calls it talent stacking. Other people call it different things, but in the end, it's an easy concept to get behind with redpill lenses. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/21 02:36 PM |
| 19 | How do I tackfully turn women down?I'm going to give you a bit different advice than you've already got. You're new again to the world of dating politics and you're starting to see the potential interest. Instead of trying to turn them down politely why not do nothing. You don't have to say yes or no. Women that are attracted to you offer benefits even if you don't reciprocate. You can go all dark triad on them and get them to clean your house, or make you dinner. Or you can just keep them around as orbiters and instant social pr… | /r/askMRP | 22/03/21 02:24 PM |
| 2 | Would you stay friends with your friend if he decided to transition to female?Redpill is amoral. Rule zero is paramount. How does any of this relate to that? That's the question you need to ask yourself. Is your friend becoming a time vampire? Is he an emotional drain? In the context of friendship can you give freely without expectations of anything in return? Can he positively add to you achieving your mission? I had a friend recently who broke up with his baby mama. Definitely a project and always a shit show. We'd go out, have drinks and shoot the shit. He says stuff l… | /r/askTRP | 22/03/21 02:05 PM |
| 1 | How would you treat old "friends" (who were in fact bullies) after you've stopped being a recluse and gained some confidence?"Friends for a reason, Freinds for a season, or Friends for life" It took me until I was a bit older to internalize that saying. I wish I had that conversation when I was young. I regularly have a conversation with 2 guys I knew from Highschool. I'm 48. I was close to a bunch of dudes in college. I don't talk to any of them anymore. I worked with a guy for 15 years, went on vacation with him, went to his kids baptism, the works. I haven't talked to him since I left that job, and not for lack of … | /r/askTRP | 18/03/21 02:08 PM |
| 1 | migration feminists countriesSwitzerland is a very conservative country. They have pretty tough immigration laws, but if you are STEM it can be done relatively easily (Or Turkish and want to open a pizza/kabob place). Obviously, if you are in another Schengen country you can easily immigrate, although you likely won't ever attain swiss citizenship. I very much like the Swiss and have rather enjoyed my business dealings with them. Having mostly dealt with German-speaking swiss, they also tend to be rather Germanic. Cold, res… | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 01:27 PM |
| 1 | migration feminists countriesA mgtow told me Those guys are retards. Don't take advice from guys who refuse to play the game. That's like a top-tier football coach asking sports reporters who should be in their lineup. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 01:18 PM |
| 5 | The Social Credit Score system takes hold in it's first bold move "Tinder will soon let you run a background check on a potential date." This will become a norm. Blackballing people and reporting on bad dates will follow. MARK MY WORDS.This won't get far if they charge for background checks. No woman is going to pay for that It won't even get that far. Everyone here is forgetting about the Hamster Wheel of Rationalization. Who here doesn't know a chick that dated a guy who was a drug dealer, "But it's just a little on the side" How about the girl who dates a guy who literally beat a previous girlfriend, but swears "He said that was in the past" Girls will rationalize any shit they see fit to make the narrative work in their ow… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/21 04:57 PM |
| 7 | Long Puke: Is it possible to fix a marriage in which wife has lost respect/admiration for husband?Is it possible to fix a marriage in which wife has lost respect/admiration for husband? I didn't read anything you posted. You know why? You're asking the wrong question. If you looked at this from the perspective of outcome independence what would the question be? Loss of attraction, contempt, shitty marriage; these are all symptoms. Fix your problems and they will resolve themselves. | /r/askMRP | 15/03/21 01:55 PM |
| -1 | Just seeking adive if i'm doing right - Took the Red pill and stopped being the nice husband since a month and here is what happenedComfort tests can be handled by being Alpha. They are treated with Leadership. Alpha means you are operating in your frame. Beta means you are operating in her frame. My wife comes to me and throws a comfort test, "I just don't feel like there's a place for me in your life!" I give her direction, I hold frame, and I lead, "Babe, I'm building a future here, of course, there's a spot for you if you want it." Hero kisses her forehead. These fucks that think you have to turn into a beta "20% Beta" h… | /r/askTRP | 11/03/21 08:57 PM |
| -38 | Just seeking adive if i'm doing right - Took the Red pill and stopped being the nice husband since a month and here is what happenedtrp with relationships, it’s a healthy 80% Alpha, 20% beta. There's only Alpha. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/21 01:36 PM |
| 6 | Just seeking adive if i'm doing right - Took the Red pill and stopped being the nice husband since a month and here is what happenedI read it, sort of. Well, I skimmed it. I mostly heard you complaining about your wife. Her, she, I did this so she... I'm I doing right? Is there something that I need to do? Your living in her frame. Start from there. Stop being worried about her emotional response or her validating your actions. Hit the gym because you're probably a fat fuck too. Dumbells won't cut it. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/21 01:35 PM |
| 18 | Plate of 1yr recently got told she has cancer and is starting treatment soon. I'm experiencing feeling I haven't had before. Possibly not TRP related. Just after some advice or something.Ask yourself, "Am I being captain sav-a-ho?" or can I help by giving freely with no expectations in return. Are you being a white knight or do you truly want to help without anything in return? | /r/askTRP | 10/03/21 01:45 PM |
| 6 | What is TRP's argument against tradcons ?How would you digest the fact that the woman you will later call wife has been intimiate with someone else? A woman is the sum of her past choices. It's not black and white, and it's not an objective decision you can make a spreadsheet on and say "Oh the numbers say she's a high-value woman" If you meet a woman who is 21 and only been with one man, that's one thing, but if she's also a single mom that's a completely different story. A woman's intimacy is her greatest agency. If you knew she wa… | /r/askTRP | 05/03/21 04:18 PM |
| 5 | Building a better career.Currently 22 and in a shit sales job where i make less than 20k a year, I have a degree buts its in business and didnt get the best grade. I dont enjoy my current job but idm as your not supposed to enjoy work especially not entry level jobs Congratulations, you are in one of the most lucrative jobs to have with no actual degree in what you are doing. I've met many sales professionals in my career and no one cares if they have a degree in Migratory Polar Bear Science and Women's studies or an MB… | /r/askTRP | 05/03/21 02:35 PM |
| 8 | What is TRP's argument against tradcons ?I don't know the details of the argument specifically you are asking about, but there's a common knock against many of the fringe areas in Redpill. That's they are trying to live a bluepill life through redpill glasses. Inherently they are still bluepill. Another way to look at it is, are they trying to achieve a bluepill life with redpill skills? Still bluepill. Make sense? | /r/askTRP | 05/03/21 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Specific shit test responseThe first rule of MRP is STFU, but not because of that. We tell noobs to STFU to stop reacting. Sit back, contemplate your actions and then formulate. Operate in your own frame, not hers. Emotion is a good thing, and it's particularly useful when dealing with your woman. She craves it, so give it to her the right way. | /r/askMRP | 04/03/21 03:38 PM |
| 13 | Am I (18M) being naive when I say that Western women aren’t worthy of marriage and/or LTRs?First, let's have two definitions. Marriage as a business definition, otherwise known as state-sanctioned marriage. Marriage as an institution, otherwise known as a relationship with some form of ceremonial commitment. Marriage Inc. (Or ltd. for my British friends) is an over-regulated business model. For an affluent, high earner looking to have a nuclear family I would not recommend it in today's common law countries. Marriage as an institution? You do you. There are lots of ways to make this w… | /r/askTRP | 04/03/21 03:32 PM |
| 2 | How do I show affection to my girlfriend without showering her?They always say these things in the champagne room. It must be the champagne. | /r/askMRP | 03/03/21 05:28 PM |
| 12 | Am I the only one who thinks some of you are just as bad as the women you call out?What the fuck? Am I the only one who thinks this is one big fucking concern troll? Rule zero, and fuck off. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/21 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Plate just sent me a text out of nowhere, wrote me "I want to stop, i don't see myself with you in the long run", should i bother replying at all?If texting was for logistics, what reply would you send? Texting is for logistics. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/21 02:54 PM |
| 3 | Sex after a breakupIt's not that you can't get back with your ex, it's that she can never be promoted back to a level she was demoted from. So if you need her as an FWB, go for it. As others have pointed out, if you can't emotionally handle the difference in status, say because you start to fall into old habits, or reconsider the demotion, don't do it. Fuck because you want to. Fuck who you want to and when. It's your life to live, and rule zero is paramount. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/21 02:47 PM |
| 13 | Buddy (28) is about to commit to his 36 yo single mom of 3, LTR.Don't waste your effort on someone who neither appreciates it nor has the ears to listen to it. Do you have time to just throw around and waste? I doubt it. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/21 02:10 PM |
| 10 | Has anyone had to tell a plate to not make it obvious they’re fucking other people?Boundaries aren't drawn, they are enforced. Do as you see fit. | /r/askTRP | 02/03/21 01:32 AM |
| 60 | Has anyone had to tell a plate to not make it obvious they’re fucking other people?She's 22 and playing games. She's just not good at them yet. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/21 10:02 PM |
| 7 | "Do you think she's hot?" - did I handle this situation correctly?The first part was a shit test. The second time, was her being bratty. Read it again. | /r/askTRP | 27/02/21 02:45 AM |
| 4 | What advice would you give your 22 year self?Fuck every chance you get. Let the cards fall where they will after. Too many times I cock-blocked myself because I was worried about stupid shit. "Oh she's got a boyfriend/she's married" "Oh I don't think I'd want to date her" "Oh her apartment is too messy" (that one I'm cool with, messy chicks disgust me) "Oh she's my friend's sister" "Oh her dads a judge" "I respect her" Girls can be ho's. Don't let yourself stop them from their calling. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/21 07:25 PM |
| 7 | "Do you think she's hot?" - did I handle this situation correctly?Contrary to the advice given here you actually didn't do great. It started out as a shit test, and your reaction was textbook. But then she escalated it beyond a shit test. So you doubled down on it. This was a testing of boundaries and you failed. She was being a brat and you appeased her. My daughter once threw herself on the ground kicking and screaming. So I left the room. A few seconds later she got quiet, stood up, and threw herself on the ground in front of me to start all over. My wife d… | /r/askTRP | 26/02/21 07:14 PM |
| 165 | Is it worth to fuck below average woman?I had a friend in college who fucked virtually anything that would cross his path. His particular specialty was hippy chicks (this was the early '90's in the height of grunge). We'd all laugh our asses off as he'd be walking out with some patchouli-wearing chick at the end of the night. These girls were mostly 4s, 5s, and 6's. He'd score the occasional 7 or 8, but his bread and butter was right there in the middle. He got laid 10x more than all of us combined, including the ones of us that had g… | /r/askTRP | 23/02/21 01:49 PM |
| 2 | Trying to get to the fundamental biological reason why women have abundance?You can play the black knight angle or you can be subtle. Dread game has a whole heirarchy in and of itself. The short of it is, she needs to see you as attainable, but not that she's entitled to you. She must always be working for you or she will resent you. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/21 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Austin vs NYCMore like you needed it for the set up. There's a certain type of city chick who would exit if they found out you were bridge and tunnel. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/21 04:41 PM |
| 89 | Trying to get to the fundamental biological reason why women have abundance?You're looking at this from the wrong perspective. Women hold the key to sexual intimacy, men hold the key to commitment. So while dick is a commodity, and unlimited in a woman's eyes, commitment is not. A man's abundance' mentality comes from the fact that he can pull from lower SMV women than he is. A '5' slut throwing themselves at him won't warrant commitment. Where women go wrong is they think that their sexual prowess is an unlimited resource that will always work for them. Men go wrong in… | /r/askTRP | 20/02/21 02:19 PM |
| 3 | Austin vs NYCWill I find what I’m looking for in Austin? You will find what you are looking for wherever you go. Filter and set your screening accordingly. Now, will some places have different populations to screen from? Absolutely. I went to a party school too. But life is different after if you make it different. College is very isolated in who you meet and see. You need to make your own path now. I have a wife and a young family, and I wouldn't change it for the world. But if my wife left tomorrow, I'd be… | /r/askTRP | 17/02/21 08:02 PM |
| 2 | Austin vs NYCEh, I've been there. I've done some business with "tech" start-ups. I'd say that same thing. In Silicon Valley, the ones with a successful exit have an average founding age of 47! | /r/askTRP | 17/02/21 06:50 PM |
| 4 | Austin vs NYCthey were all much older than I was and I rarely met someone our age that I could legitimately call an entrepreneur. Studies show the older you are, the more likely you are to be successful as an entrepreneur. Are you sure you weren't just seeing survivorship bias? | /r/askTRP | 17/02/21 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Austin vs NYCA couple of more questions. What's your style? Me personally, I love Austin and had every intention of moving there if it weren't for some family obligations. I go there a lot on business. They have a good blend of college town, food scene, Austin-weird, music, but I can still go be a crazy gun nut. I've also spent a fuck ton of time in NYC, but at the end of the night, I was always glad I could go home and stretch my legs. I've had some crazy wild nights telling skanky chicks I worked at Goldma… | /r/askTRP | 17/02/21 06:26 PM |
| 14 | Austin vs NYCWhat's your long-term goal? NYC is a great place to be single. NYC women can be brutal but are usually pretty clear about their intentions. The cost of living is outrageous, and I would not want to raise a family there. Southern women and Texas women can be much more ambiguous, and a place like Austin tends to have a much bigger strata of women to choose from. I have a friend who lives in Seattle, and there's Tech, and everyone else. In NY there is Finance, Marketing, and everyone else (with a l… | /r/askTRP | 17/02/21 05:15 PM |
| – | I cheated (but no sex) on my gf she found the texts (22M) can still be fixed but what to do?Take it to Askmrp | /r/MarriedRedPill | 15/02/21 08:41 PM |
| 4 | Not married, but really like a girl who used to want a relationship (and I didn't, long-term) and now she just sees me as a friend who fucks her well. Insight from MRP?Isn't this an advice sub? No, there's your mistake. | /r/askMRP | 15/02/21 08:40 PM |
| 3 | Not married, but really like a girl who used to want a relationship (and I didn't, long-term) and now she just sees me as a friend who fucks her well. Insight from MRP?Let me put it a different way. I don't give a fuck. Now why should I care? | /r/askMRP | 15/02/21 07:55 PM |
| 4 | Not married, but really like a girl who used to want a relationship (and I didn't, long-term) and now she just sees me as a friend who fucks her well. Insight from MRP?Familiar with TRP and PUA from the last few years. I like biscuits and Bojangles fries. What the fuck does this have to do with anything? | /r/askMRP | 15/02/21 07:24 PM |
| 23 | What turns a girl to feminism/lgbt?I agree, and I'd clarify to say, especially in the context of a relationship. Our job is not to fix them, only to lead the ones willing to follow. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/21 04:35 PM |
| 57 | Backstabbed.. by my closest friendsI think $5 is a pretty low price to pay for this information, don't you? The boys are what you usually have by your side forever. That's the number of guys who I can count on that have been there for me my whole life (I'm 48). It took a lot of $5 bills for me to figure that out. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/21 02:07 PM |
| 67 | What turns a girl to feminism/lgbt?I'd add to this that men are the vessel to which women fill. The problem is there are too many weak vessels or incapable vessels. Resentful women come from poor leadership. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/21 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Girl ask me what do i want to do for the first date, any advice ?She's not asking you because she wants ideas. She's asking you to chose for her. If she's into you, just about anything non creepy will sound good to her. Tell her "let's grab a couple of hot Teas, panne chocolate and chill in the park. For part two take her somewhere else and tell her 'its a surprise'. They want to know you make good decisions, not where you are actually going. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/21 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Should I confront my LTR for cheating on me behind my back or just cut her out completely without a word?Trickle truth is a bitch. Remember, women communicate feeling, not content. She may feel like sucking his dick wasn't cheating so in her mind, she's not lying when she says nothing happened. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/21 08:33 PM |
| 36 | We live in a world of RP unaware men, that are constantly chasing women and blowing up their phones, so....This is the gist of dread. Women don't want men who are needy. They want to know that their man has options because if he's got options, she's got options. Her desire is to want you more than you want her, it confirms her choice was right. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/21 05:38 PM |
| 11 | LTR removed me from instagram close friends featureShe'll be leaving for university by the end of this month, Redpill men do not engage in LDR's; there's no upside for you in them. Plate her. Whether you tell her or not is really up to you. She should have been getting a demotion regardless of her current behavior. | /r/askTRP | 10/02/21 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Are women hitting the wall faster now?I think you are suffering from confirmation bias. The world makes a new 18-year-old every single minute. With the population growth, it would be a simple math fact that there are more 18-year-olds than there were previously. I'm old enough to have seen a whole generation of women go through the stages. Party girls I knew in the '90s? Trashy divorces in the 2020s. Clean cut 'nice girls' in the 1990's? Dedicated moms. Are there outliers in each group? Of course, the law of large numbers prevails. … | /r/askTRP | 10/02/21 02:36 PM |
| 6 | BipolarIntimacy is a lot better because of this sub but I need to be able to control this specifically. What am I missing? Am I fucking up in some way that causes this? CALLING CAPTAIN-SAV-A-HO! CALLING CAPTAIN-SAV-A-HO! u/Tyred_Biggums is spot on. Why do you feel the need to save this damsel in distress? Why are you such a presumptuous asshole that you feel it's your job to fix her? Why do you feel that she is incapable of taking care of herself? I'd recommend reading this little ditty on Caretaking v… | /r/askMRP | 10/02/21 02:16 PM |
| 7 | Is it foolish, as a woman, for me to try to have my husband embrace TRP?Thirsty motherfuckers. Captain-sav-a-ho! | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/02/21 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Plate wants to meet up again tomorrow.Your mission comes first. Your life should focus on your mission. Here's the rub, how you prioritize your mission? Well, that's up to you. If it were me, and say it was me going to the gym but I had at a chance for some fun and interesting sex? Go to the gym later. A major meeting to close a deal? Pass, need to focus on my mission. If you're the type of guy whose mission means the schedule is paramount, then don't compromise. That's your judgment call. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/21 01:28 PM |
| 2 | Planning on moving in with my dad, need a second opinionRepeat after me, "I am the prize" Say it again, "I am the prize" Mom, girlfriends, Dad, brothers, sisters, friends, plates, etc. all get let into your life, not the other way around. You are the prize, you let them in. If you haven't read it, I'd suggest you read the book When I Say No, I Feel Guilty (add No More Mr. Nice Guy if you haven't read it either). The kind of response you fear from your mom is someone who wants you to take ownership of their feelings. You owe her nothing even if she is… | /r/askTRP | 05/02/21 01:22 PM |
| 2 | How to call out girls when they are lying?I like to call it "Operational Framework". I use it with my kids and my wife. I set boundaries and ruthlessly enforce them. In my house, that framework means that lies, above all are worse than the infraction they cover. My oldest son got caught swimming in the neighbor's pool. He tried to pass it off as something else. I knew the answer and when I confronted him about it and made it known, he was getting punished for the dishonesty first and foremost. It's not about knowing the truth, it's abou… | /r/askTRP | 04/02/21 02:03 PM |
| 3 | ltr and coworkerI can't tell you how to judge the information that is given to you. You should of course use it in a holistic manner; given in and of itself it's a single data point. What does it say in conjunction with the other things you've just learned? | /r/askMRP | 03/02/21 05:52 PM |
| 5 | ltr and coworkerThe fact that she’s talking to him about sex is a huge red flag. Thank god someone pointed this out. It's a fucking glaring red flag. 10 bucks says if he would have said, "You want to do that" she would have jumped at it. Women say shit like this because they are running it up the flagpole for your reaction. | /r/askMRP | 03/02/21 01:12 PM |
| 4 | The average corporate workerRead the 48 laws of power. Internalize those concepts and know when to recognize what's going on around you in light of that. Power games get played regardless of whether you're a bench warmer or star player. Don't ever think you can sit out, you're in the game whether you like it or not. Read when I say no I Feel Guilty. Why is that? It's a good way to internalize the things people say to manipulate you. Read the 7 habits of highly successful people. Internalize those processes. Read Never Spli… | /r/askTRP | 02/02/21 01:41 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend of 3+ years, DM'ing some dude. Told her to stop. Immediately kept doing it ..on a week long trip right now.I lost my job in the pandemic so I'm pretty pissed Did the disrespect show up about this time? It's possible to lose your job and still maintain "Alpha Provider" status with a woman, but it's not easy. You're attitude probably showed throw like stink on garbage. Disrespect will start to show through as she starts to lose trust in your leadership. Let it be a lesson to others and yourself, you should always have an emergency fund/plan. Conservatively you should be able to survive a few months, by… | /r/askTRP | 02/02/21 01:33 PM |
| 2 | What does it say about me if I attract girls with daddy issues?Well, that's what it translated too, so all means to an end I suppose. They would do some pretty debasing shit on the mere possibility that there was free coke. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/21 08:56 PM |
| 9 | What does it say about me if I attract girls with daddy issues?I had a friend who was always dating strippers. His pick up line was "I've got coke at my place" Some things are self-selecting. Ask yourself what your search criteria are and if there's a common theme. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/21 05:02 PM |
| 55 | Is the red pill popular now?“Alpha female” hahaha, fucking priceless. That's a code word for "I'm a cunt". Same kind of chick that leads a profile with "If you can't handle me..." Quit listening to a chick's words. Watch what they do. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/21 04:53 PM |
| 6 | Veteran redpillers, what are some of your regrets you wish you had (not) done when you were younger?I don't have regrets, I've come to realize that I made the choices in my life and my path is mine. If I could give my young self better advice? Go forth and seek all the knowledge you can, learn how to better make decisions. I love long term relationships. I've had 5 LTR's in my life that I loved. I had the kind of love with them that makes you ache deep down inside. What do I wish someone had told me? That's ok, and sometimes they come to an end and it doesn't diminish the relationship you did … | /r/askTRP | 29/01/21 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Relocation to ChinaDo you want them to use a cotton swab, or can they use the tip of their penis? Just the tip of course. Maybe leave it there and see how it feels? | /r/askMRP | 29/01/21 04:25 PM |
| 3 | How can you make a plate shut up about her abusive relationship sob story?It could just be a fucked up way of her saying "Don't treat me like shit like this guy did" or she could be a genuinely broken person. The right answer is simple. Reward positive behavior with your time, punish negative behavior by removing yourself. If she starts droning on about her ex, leave. I mean get up mid-conversation and excuse yourself. Come back, reset, and if she starts to go on, leave for good. "Oh hey, I'm gonna jet. Good times." Your boundary will be clear. The other side is girls… | /r/askTRP | 27/01/21 02:29 PM |
| 12 | Almost 30. No savings. Joining the military. Is there any hope for getting a passive income within the next ten years?I have a relative who's in the Air Force. He joined when he got out of high school. He has a tech rating and goes around showing allied militaries how to talk to the US so we don't blow them up if the shit hits the fan. Whatever that means. I believe he's an E-6. We had the chance to catch up in Europe and talk a few years ago. He did everything right for his career. Every re-up that came along, he pushed and got them to throw money at him. He saved all his money. He didn't get married. He wore … | /r/askTRP | 27/01/21 01:51 PM |
| – | Dump LTR?Reports: Low Quality Yeah he's a retard. Help him out. | /r/askMRP | 26/01/21 02:35 PM |
| 5 | GF feels pressured into having sexWe know what true commitment is and offer advice on how to fix things worth fixing. Yeah, that's not true. Most guys on here are retards who fucked up their shit. You my friend aren't a true Scotsman. | /r/askMRP | 26/01/21 02:33 PM |
| 7 | GF feels pressured into having sexSo I'm dating this girl for about 4 months, we break up because I felt pressured into kids when I wasn't ready but we're retrying for 2.5 months currently and overall it's going well. Is everyone just going to gloss over this glaring fucking deficiency? You're rooting through the garbage and the neighbors can see. | /r/askMRP | 26/01/21 02:32 PM |
| 22 | Advice on living with ex during divorceIt's now a business arrangement. Treat it accordingly. If you are in a position of power and do not have to worry about divorce rape let her handle her business; don't be captain-sav-a-ho. Back up conversations with email. Frame conversations in a neutral way, "So we can get the most equity back on the house" or "If we do this, we will save money..." Don't beat her up about her poor decisions, as you need her to not resist and become combative. Don't tell her things you cannot commit to, "Yeah w… | /r/askMRP | 22/01/21 06:39 PM |
| 2 | She takes off her clothes and lays on the bed like a bodybag. The f am I supposed to do?Dude, you kind of yada-yada'd this. We were ready to bang... yada yada. I lost my boner. Before you got into bed did you notice she was more submissive or is she a take-charge kind of girl? I once had a super submissive girl do the same sort of thing. After she rolled over and told me "Wow I came hard" WTF? I didn't even see it. After a few more times I found out, she loved to be told what to do. That was her experience, she just thought once business got started you would tell her what to do. N… | /r/askTRP | 21/01/21 07:37 PM |
| 1 | A female coworker made it her hobby to call me ugly and loser behind my back to all other women... how can handle her?Ulysses Everett McGill https://youtu.be/uqtz7B-Og6A?t=95 | /r/askTRP | 19/01/21 12:58 PM |
| 12 | Should i accept myself as an introvert or try to become an extrovert?Being an introvert or extrovert is really about how you recharge, not about how you keep friends. After a stressful day, or a bad meeting do you need to go out and drink with the boys or go read a book or work on a hobby? The rest is social skills. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/21 03:50 PM |
| 4 | A female coworker made it her hobby to call me ugly and loser behind my back to all other women... how can handle her?Fuck a few of the hot girls in the office. It worked for me. Hot girls will turn on an ugly girl in a heartbeat if she gets out of her place in the pecking order. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/21 03:46 PM |
| 4 | Share school fees custodyI had a buddy who's ex-wife dragged him into court. She demanded he pays for half the private school tuition she'd signed the kids up for. Nevermind the fact that the school was worse, her current husband and she were renting and had walked away from a mortgage and had a slew of other poor financial decisions. The judge laughed at her. Told her to worry about real problems, and that if she wanted the kids to go to the private school that it was 100% on her, up to and including rides to and from … | /r/askMRP | 18/01/21 03:18 PM |
| 6 | Look For Compliance from Women, Not Indicators of AttractionThe Ben Franklin effect is a powerful tool in everyday life, not just with women. Whenever I'm in a presentation with a client, I'll always interject, "Hey I may need to ask you some follow up questions, do you mind if I call you after this meeting?" To my memory, no one has ever said no, and my return call rate is much higher. Another take on this is to ask, "I may need help later, would you be able to help me if I need it?" I often do this with front desk ladies. "Hi [receptionist's name], I'm… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/21 04:03 PM |
| 3 | Who was that bold guy with glasses on and with mustache? He was on dr Phil. He is kinda red pill in a wayThat treadmill comment was hilarious Wasn't there also another edit where he was like "But you'd be in the line?" | /r/askTRP | 13/01/21 03:10 PM |
| 3 | Movies or TV shows that depict male redpill tendencies?Not if you've watched The Wire it's not. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/21 05:59 PM |
| 14 | Cheated on my LTRCheat, don't cheat, after all, Redpill is amoral. The real question is do you think you are self-sabotaging? Maybe it's pretty simple. Would define her as a unicorn You've pedestalized her. So you're afraid of losing her. So instead you fuck around, while deep inside your lizard brain you rationalize it as "well if she dumped me because of it, that's ok because I was doing shitty things" Do you want an LTR? Do you want her? Do you want to be a player? Figure out what you want, and do it. Let the… | /r/askTRP | 08/01/21 02:23 PM |
| 19 | Uncles wife cheated, he took her back, doesnt accept redpill???In his sermon on the mount, Jesus told his listeners, "Do not give dogs what is sacred" "As a dog returns to his vomit, surely a fool returns this folly." Jesus often talked of sharing the Gospel, but he also said not to waste time on people who won't listen. Like pearls before swine, preaching the Gospel of the Redpill to your uncle is wasting something precious on someone who neither wants to nor can understand the value before him. I'm neither religious nor particularly spiritual. But this is… | /r/askTRP | 08/01/21 02:16 PM |
| 11 | Do women have an INSTINCTUAL defensive response when the topic of paternity testing comes up?We obviously don't but, seeking commitment and resources is the most important thing when their kids are involved Unfortunately, this is not true. The number one inflictors of abuse on children? Parents. The number two inflictors? Non-parental partners of parents. We suck. Vet your woman well fellas. Your kid's life may depend on it. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/21 02:05 PM |
| 5 | Entering LTRs discussion (after vetting)I would demote her for sure. It seems like a simple solution to me. Never put more value into a person than you get out of them. So if you thought something was there, but now it's not, it's time to move on, and invest better elsewhere. The reality is, I don't think it's a realistic situation, for a high-value Redpill man. The only dudes I see getting rejected after trying to wife up or LTR some chick are beta's trying to lock down pussy out of their league. If you build your life correctly then… | /r/askTRP | 06/01/21 09:11 PM |
| 35 | Is an RP lifestyle even possible and sustainable for any kind of public figure in today's culture?Right from the 48 Laws of Power, "Think as you like, but behave as others" Why wouldn't there be? | /r/askTRP | 21/12/20 02:17 PM |
| 2 | Starting over in life and going to medical school at 25?I guess I just need some advice. Am I making the right decision here? Like I said I really do want to be a Physician but am I giving up too much? I can tell you this, I had friends go to Med School after Engineering (I'm a ChemE) and they all told me, med school was easier than ChemE. They said yeah sure there's a volume of work no doubt, but the subject matter was just cramming in as much as you could remember. Second, an advanced degree later in life is way easier than when you first went to c… | /r/askTRP | 18/12/20 01:24 PM |
| -2 | Lunch dates, mostly pointless?"no, I'm busy that day until night" and she responded "are you free any other day at lunch?" lol I think you figured out a filter. It's not a bug, it's a feature. If a chick is moving to lunch, aka trying to move your frame, you have choices to make don't you? Instead of DEER'ing, try DARE, "Oh a lunch date, like you want a happy meal? You like getting a toy with lunch don't you?" Get her jumping and defending why it's lunch. You can move to drinks, or even decide it's lunch on your terms. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/20 01:16 PM |
| 11 | Is the bi dude fucking all 3 girl mates?The girls are all bisexual too and regularly fuck each other, they are all super sluts but they all have boyfriends as well What the fuck are you talking about? Is she LTR material or a super slut with a boyfriend? I think you're blinded by great pussy, because the red-flag is flying. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/20 01:04 PM |
| 12 | Age 30+ men: When did you notice the odds shifting into your favor again?You went from being a high-value male in a small pool to a lower-value male in a much larger pool. It's all relative and that's why you've seen the drop-off. For what it's worth the hot cheerleaders I used to bang in high school? Most are overweight, working on husband 2 or 3 and plugging along in a mediocre life. Their social status was relevant to their surroundings. Now that they're surrounded by a million other crotch-fruit-bearing Karens, they don't rate as good as they used to. I went to a… | /r/askTRP | 16/12/20 05:28 PM |
| 8 | Girlfriend keeps trying to encourage me to show more feelings, emotions and vulnerability to her. Is this a big shit test?Dieda's book, "The Way of The Superior Male" is a pretty good treatise on showing emotion in a positive way with a woman. It gets a little "woo-woo" but the gist is there, Be an oak in her emotional storm. What she says is she wants you to be more "emotional" but she doesn't want you to be emotional like her, and that's the trick. Give her positive emotion as a reward for good behavior, say after sex. Frame emotion is the way that gets a good push/pull going. Save vulnerability for your male fri… | /r/askTRP | 16/12/20 01:53 PM |
| 2 | Should I give my girlfriend of 4 months a gift for hannukahMy wife gets to live in my house, clean it, and take care of my kids for Christmas. Yeah, I'm generous that way. | /r/askMRP | 15/12/20 05:32 PM |
| 1 | How to combat jealousy?I’m still pining over the fact I’ve gotten left for that. You should be pining over the fact that she left you because you probably became a whiney bitch who didn't activate the gina-tingles. The deadbeat drug-felon is finally doing that for her. She was probably telling you for months that you were a bitch, you just wouldn't hear it. How do you get over it? Hit the gym, get jacked, and fuck bitches. It's simple. You know you'll be in the right zone when you get an out of the blue message from h… | /r/askTRP | 11/12/20 06:11 PM |
| 10 | women seem boring.Okay so i am 21 and a virgin never been in a relationship or even a close friend of a girl. This right here says it all. I've met exciting, exhilarating women. Women who took my breath away, and then broke my heart. I've been literally left on the side of the road asking myself, "What the fuck just happened?" I've watched my kids being born. Definitely tons of women in my life who weren't boring. Crazy ass fun, and terrifying too; the whole gamut. deserve a high value chick You don't deserve s… | /r/askTRP | 11/12/20 06:04 PM |
| 3 | Those that know how to hunt, build, etc. How?Many years back I wanted to learn how to fly fish. I watched videos, went on to forums, etc. Then I booked a guide. Nothing prepared me like being on the water and actually doing it. I hunt, I fish, I camp. I enjoy these things. It's a different feeling when you knowingly take the life of another animal. Part joy, part sadness, but you relegate yourself to understanding, you didn't do anything that wasn't going to happen one way or the other. If you want to learn to hunt or fish, hire a guide. J… | /r/askTRP | 11/12/20 05:55 PM |
| – | How do I cultivate abundance mentality as a married man without cheating?Take it to r/askMRP | /r/MarriedRedPill | 09/12/20 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Opinions on girls who show off their bodies onlineIn marketing, if it's a commodity, you brand it. Insta hoes are branding of yet another commodity. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/20 01:57 PM |
| 6 | Girls weight x personalityAre hot chicks that get fat that miserable to be around or is it just my experience? The notion that fat chicks tend to be more fun to be around doesn’t seem to apply to hot chicks that get fat You need to youtube "survivorship bias" Next ask yourself why you should even concern yourself with fat chicks. "Hey McGill,Are hot chicks that get fat that miserable to be around or is it just my experience?" Me: "What's a fat chick?" | /r/askTRP | 04/12/20 06:21 PM |
| 5 | LTR just admitted emotional affairI’ve fucked up in letting this happen There are two people in this. Sure you've let shit get out of hand, but she broke an impassible boundary. Boundaries are only as good as what you enforce. I suspect you know the answer but you don't like the outcome. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/12/20 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Gray Hairs on Side of HeadI'm an executive, so I dress the part when I need to. I buy fitted shirts and dress pants. I get my suits tailored. I don't wear the dad uniform of khaki pants and a golf shirt. I have more than one pair of shoes, and shoes that match what I'm wearing. My hair is clean and tight on the sides with a part shaved. I get it cut every two weeks. If I'm going to a meeting, it's a sport coat, tailored slacks and shoes to match. My hair is longer on top so, that means I use a stiff holding product and g… | /r/askTRP | 03/12/20 06:21 PM |
| 4 | Gray Hairs on Side of HeadI started going gray at the same age. By 35 I was 50/50. Now in my late 40's I'm what would be called 'silver'. 100% grey, but thick, and well-groomed. I have all my hair and keep it age-appropriate styled. It's just one more piece to the puzzle. Pick a hairstyle that works for you and match your wardrobe accordingly. I've actually had women tell me out of the blue, "I like your hair!" I had one black girl ask if she could run her fingers through it. Like everything in your life, own it. Women w… | /r/askTRP | 03/12/20 03:33 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to passive-aggressive over-inflated ego fuckheads at work?Read the sidebar, it's almost as if there's a fucking book for it. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/20 03:27 PM |
| 10 | Why is she being THIS good to me? "Former" party girl pulling out all the stops to get LTR.This is a story as old as time, it's just another version of the war bride. She's been dicked down and is coming off riding the old cock-carousel. She has some serious life skills in that she knows how to manipulate men and tell them what they want. It's in her nature as a survival skill. She can show you what a sweet, submissive, gentle, woman she is, all the while there's a video of her somewhere with some other chick taking a double dildo while stockbrokers throw c-notes at her. She does this… | /r/askTRP | 02/12/20 02:10 PM |
| 4 | I want to know more about ‘The Wall’, good age ranges for women, & promoting plates.but you will be getting the "where are we speech..." If you demonstrate high enough value, you'll be getting this regardless. | /r/askMRP | 19/11/20 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Joining the army and willingness to sacrifice life for your country.Men have always been disposable. Sometimes we convince young men that it's their duty to be disposable, and they buy into it for nostalgia reasons. Do I think the military is a bad choice because of that? Not at all. I know some dudes who have serious fuck-you money because of their time in, and will retire early. Your mission should always be yours, not someone else's. Putting yourself in harm's way should be a means to an end for that. Risky behavior should be managed with the reward in mind… | /r/askTRP | 18/11/20 04:13 PM |
| – | It's over - my oneitis no longer loves or respects me, and its all my fault.I'm going to ban him for using the red-pill aware statement. But you guys go ahead and trash him from here. | /r/askMRP | 16/11/20 06:58 PM |
| 2 | I don't know how to push a woman out of my life that's constantly creating havoc against me. I work with her. How can I put an end to it?When I started dating my wife I worked in a building that was full of gossipy bitches. One woman, in particular, was pretty bad and would say shit behind my back. So what did I do? I poisoned the well. My then-girlfriend and I were in the elevator when this woman happened to pop on at the same time. Typical pleasantries, and elevator chit-chat. So I nudged my girl and asked her, "Are you sure? I mean how late are you?" My girl immediately jabs me in my side and gives me the 'stop' look. Mission … | /r/askTRP | 13/11/20 01:36 PM |
| 2 | Girls with high value alpha fathers?Have you met the Dad? Is he truly an Alpha Provider? Your first mission is to gather information. He could be a pretender or the real deal. That's your start. Second, what's her opinion of him? Does she pedestalize him? Is there resentment because daddy was firm and consistent? I've met some rich motherfuckers who in the board room were tigers, but when they got in front of women turned into beta bucks. I've met some meth dealing biker dudes who didn't have a pot to piss in, yet bitches were sta… | /r/askTRP | 11/11/20 02:12 PM |
| 10 | I don't know how to push a woman out of my life that's constantly creating havoc against me. I work with her. How can I put an end to it?It's almost like there was a book about this, hmmmm..? The 48 Laws of Power are your friend here. Study it wisely. If you want to truly fuck her over, you should be prepared to go the long haul. But understand the risk, that it may backfire on you. In the short term, you should brush up on your Laws of Power and understand how she's playing you using the same rules. Knowing that you can at least put up some defensive bulwarks to stop her. A woman works through social cohesion and reputation. She… | /r/askTRP | 11/11/20 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Is there a book/blog/playlist which teaches everything related to finance and market for a college student?Like I said, they are very risk-averse, and just like you suggest they offer risk-averse advice. If you want to really learn about finances, you need to learn about risk managment. The two are not the same. Leveraged debt, option trading, and any other of the myriad of finance tools can be very risky, but understanding risk can also lead to great reward. OP asked about where to learn about finance, not how to save money risk free. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/20 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Is there a book/blog/playlist which teaches everything related to finance and market for a college student?Stay away from personalfinance. While what they do is pragmatic, they are very risk-averse. It may keep people from going broke, but it ain't finance. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/20 04:14 PM |
| 2 | Nuclear shit testsI consider it a shit test It is if you make it one. A shit test is a test of frame; will you operate in her frame or will she operate in yours. You responded, or felt the need to address it, so who's in who's frame? | /r/askTRP | 10/11/20 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Annoyed by BP dudes inflating girls egosI can see that she still has feelings for me cause she gets visibly nervous around me and we have these intense eye contact randomly while working. Bad feelings or good? Just put her in ignore like any other chick at work. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/20 10:18 PM |
| 6 | Want to buy a boat....wife going thermonuclearSince the grandparents pay for a lot of the kids extra curricular activities, That stuck out to me. | /r/askMRP | 09/11/20 07:11 PM |
| 10 | Annoyed by BP dudes inflating girls egosWish I could tell them to wake up, but it's just how it is I guess. The matrix is a system Neo. Don't fight it, don't lament it, it just is. These guys that sit around and simp over low-value girls, actually make your life easier. Back in the day I used to go to Atlantic City and hit the poker tables. Some nights you'd show up and there'd be a ton of tourists and drunk people that knew they were going to 'win big' because they watched poker on TV. It was easy to make money. Other nights you'd sh… | /r/askTRP | 09/11/20 04:39 PM |
| 3 | Is STFU misunderstood / mis-advised?It's simple. STFU is the default when you aren't equipped or experienced enough to deal with a situation correctly. Your brain is going crazy saying stupid shit like, "Fix her feelings! DEER DEER DEER" so when you STFU you reset to a low impact, no-fail mode. Instead of trying to spew out some asinine shit, you sit back listen, and use rational means to move forward in the next step. Then just like push-ups, every time you do more, you get better. Pretty soon your a fucking ninja and when you cu… | /r/askMRP | 27/10/20 06:28 PM |
| 10 | Wife expects me to lead her through nearly all aspects of her life, and gets upset when I am unable to deliverAs the leadership portion of the team, you have failed to impart on your wife the mission intent. If she's sitting around bored or waiting for you to entertain her, frankly she doesn't have enough work to do. My wife was a SAHM for about 7 years. I was very clear, that her career was now that. As such her duties included, keeping the kids safe, fed, and learning. The house was to be in order and shopping was to be done. We had a few bumps in the road, but after me asking her "What were you doing… | /r/askMRP | 27/10/20 01:34 PM |
| 5 | Wife expects me to lead her through nearly all aspects of her life, and gets upset when I am unable to deliver“Wife, we are going on a date to go 4 wheeling and shoot guns.” “No no no whine whine whine” (You get her shit, put it in the car, pick her up with one arm and carry her to the car, laughing and smacking her on the butt while making caveman noises. Drive to middle of nowhere, shoot guns, and fuck her.) Ok Bye FTFY | /r/askMRP | 27/10/20 01:27 PM |
| 9 | How to handle a womanI think the key to the story is, "Each time I get in the car it's the same thing" Yet she keeps getting in. | /r/askMRP | 27/10/20 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Why do Red Pill Content Creators appear so shady?How is this not concern trolling or moralizing? How can you ask this from the Redpill standpoint? | /r/askTRP | 22/10/20 05:11 PM |
| 3 | Talking trash when you’re an easy targetYour years of self-depreciation shows through. Ballbusting is a test of frame. It harkens back to the day when we were hunter-gatherers and the dudes around you literally had to rely on you for life and death. It's a way the tribe still makes sure you're one of them and capable. First, understand that they are getting you to judge yourself. Are you a fat fuck? Yeah, everyone knows that. So if they give you shit about it, either don't be fat or fucking own it. "Hey Pugilist, you're so fat, you th… | /r/askTRP | 22/10/20 12:48 PM |
| 17 | LTR will not stop complaining about lifeNo one can get on the crazy train if the station is empty. | /r/askMRP | 22/10/20 12:30 PM |
| 2 | In your opinion, what should a husband do if he no longer desires to have sex with his wife that much but he loves her as a person?I'm hesitant to just leave her because honestly it would make her life difficult and she doesn't deserve it. She didn't do anything wrong. You're kind of a presumptuous asshole, aren't you? Why are you responsible for her feelings? What makes you captain-sav-a-ho? Why are you such a prize that you can deny her the right to having an intimate relationship that she might want? Redpill is amoral, so at least admit you're being a selfish prick. Once we understand why you want to sabotage your relati… | /r/askMRP | 20/10/20 07:33 PM |
| 3 | Thoughts on Family Business?If you haven't read it, try readin up on the DG Yeungling and Son. It's the oldest operating brewery in America and just happens to be family-owned. The most interesting fact? In order to change hands, the next generation has to buy it from the previous. I suspect your fear of entering the family business comes from imposter syndrome. You're afraid that everyone around you will look at you like you are only in this position because daddy owned the company. On its face, they're 100% correct. But … | /r/askTRP | 15/10/20 02:40 PM |
| 4 | How can I devalue this girl I met from years ago? [oneitis]I'm 100% over her they just never seem to really compare to her. The words were in the same sentence! | /r/askTRP | 15/10/20 02:25 PM |
| 10 | What do you do when a friend finds some acquaintance on the street but you don't know them?Do what you feel comfortable with. It's kind of situational you know? You and Bro number one going somewhere fast? Shake Bro number two's hand, state your name, and sit back until BRO1 moves on. You and Bro1 in a bar having a beer? Invite bro2 in, introduce yourself and ask a nice leading question, " Bro1 and I know each other from... Where do you know him from?" I tend to find that people I'm friends with, also have friends that I would be friends with. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/20 02:23 PM |
| – | Physical abuseSo I'm done with this. Advice was given. Seek a lawyer, and do not become a victim of Domestic Violence. This has gone beyond the purveyance of MRP. | /r/askMRP | 15/10/20 12:37 PM |
| 6 | Caught her in her dm's"It was only a blowjob" | /r/askTRP | 14/10/20 11:56 PM |
| 39 | Why is it so hard for girls to understand that we don’t wanna date a slut?Why is it so hard to understand for most girls that I don’t wanna be in a committed relationship with a girl that I can fuck on the first date? Don't think of it as a bug. It's a feature. I'm old enough to have been around the block a time or two. High-value women, don't think this way. They will also not allow it in their social circle. Watch a womans reaction to another woman being slutty and you can easily tell what her position is. Does she shake her head and say, "Why does she think she's g… | /r/askTRP | 14/10/20 02:57 PM |
| 45 | Caught her in her dm'sWhether it be this woman, future kids, subordinates at work, anyone for that matter, you should never shoot the messenger. If you catch your girl in a lie and then freak out on her, all you will do is drive her future actions further underground. Work to establish upfront what the rules of operation are. In my house dishonesty gets punished worse than the crime. With my wife, I've reiterated that she's my first officer and that she gets that job because of trust. I made it clear very early in th… | /r/askTRP | 14/10/20 12:39 PM |
| 2 | How do i handle extremely toxic sister?I live by a simple rule, no one in my life that takes more value then they add. Family, friends, it doesn't matter. You're giving her too much value. There's obvious shit testing, and then there's boundary-pushing. When she got drunk and kept bring up you were without a kid she crossed a boundary. What you do to enforce that boundary is up to you. But using amused mastery or other shit-test busters is not the choice here. You can go black-knight on her and ask her "How can I take advice from you… | /r/askTRP | 14/10/20 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Did I just rambo my marriage?It's the same play, they just change the actors. | /r/askMRP | 08/10/20 08:20 PM |
| 6 | Filed Protective Order Against Crazy Ex. Her wealthy parents retained an attorney last minute. Need help.Never accept advice from opposing counsel (I read that right on legaladvice). He is not your attorney. He negotiates for a living and has tried to put a time-bound decision on you. It's intended to pressure you and is the kind of shit that used car salesmen do. If I were you I would wait to receive it. Then wait, then wait until just before his arbitrary deadline. Then... Tell him you need a day or two. He'll give you the time, he'll hem and haw but relent. Remember, his client is the one with t… | /r/askTRP | 08/10/20 06:20 PM |
| 2 | The Baby TrapI can tell you story after story of friends, family, and acquaintances who had trouble getting pregnant. Some paid thousands for fertility, some were told their whole life it ain't happening. But life will find a way. There's more "we didn't think she get pregnant" stories in there than I can count. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/20 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Closure is BullshitI wonder if he realized it was an insult when she said it? | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/20 05:24 PM |
| 33 | Did I just rambo my marriage?I'm reading between the lines, but it seems like you fucking DEER everything. told her I am capable of setting my sleep hours, stayed calm and told her this doesn't mean we don't have a home budged, just that we need to rethink how we approach money. DEER DEER DEER. Quit fucking explaining shit to her. Switch tactics and own it. "You're not going to get enough sleep" "Right? Watch out for Mr cranky pants!" "This is the budget. My mission is to ensure financial security. If you don't understand c… | /r/askMRP | 08/10/20 01:27 PM |
| 5 | Older women are still women. Her age won't make her more "mature".How fucking weird did that feel at the beginning Not too weird, I come from a pretty old-school family with traditional roles. It's not a new role, per se, but definitely the first time I had to tell them to cut the crap. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/10/20 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Can someone explain why the book Men are From Mars, Women Are From Venus is blue pilled? I read it last night and found it pretty read and echoing TRPI've read the book, but it's been awhile. Ultimately any book is just information, it's how you use it to achieve your goals. Using Redpill ideals to achieve Bluepill goals doesn't make you redpill. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/20 02:28 PM |
| 17 | Pregnant wifeI've gone and made my wife pregnant again (yeah, I know, idiot) Why is that a problem? The first question you need to ask is why are you self depreciating? | /r/askMRP | 05/10/20 02:15 PM |
| 14 | Older women are still women. Her age won't make her more "mature".I'm late 40's and my mother just lost her husband. You're 100% spot on. What I've come to realize is that while my mother has always been a loving, nurturing woman she always had a strong man who lead her. Without her husband, she easily defers to me. Her and my sister were fighting, I got them both in a room and told them to cut their shit and act like grown adults. I swear it was like scolding 8 year olds. You know what? They cut their shit. Somebody has to be in charge. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/10/20 01:20 PM |
| 3 | LDR in the futureI don't want to destroy this girl tbh, she has some anxiety problems Why are you captain-sav-a-ho? What makes it your job to take care of her? Her feelings are hers to manage. | /r/askTRP | 01/10/20 03:30 PM |
| 5 | Avoiding the friendzoneIf she’s interested she’ll give you a few days And if she's not, she quickly deflect and try to make it clear you're in the friend zone. "Oh, I'm not sure I see you that way" or "I'm going through some things right now and I'm not ready to date" | /r/askTRP | 01/10/20 03:25 PM |
| 9 | Be on the lookout for the chameleonI hate to break it to you brother. She wasn't a chameleon. She was a tiger and you could clearly see her stripes. I knew her from high school and she used to be a party girl Red Flag. At a party she was hanging out with my mates girlfriend and asked me if she could smoke because that friend offered Boundary crossed Progressively started to lose her dedication to the gym Red Flag Started to hit the clubs again because her cousins wanted her to come out Red Flag. Women will try to please you by em… | /r/askTRP | 24/09/20 02:04 PM |
| 8 | The perfect example of women settling for the beta provider?I saw this on a confessions page this morning, and it angered me, for obvious reasons. Why does it anger you? The real moral of this story should be what is it about this that bothers you? The nature of women? The nature of this woman? What obvious reasons? You're a redpill man. The whole analogy of swallowing the pill is that you know the matrix isn't the truth. She's a shitty single mom who's made poor decisions and when some beta-provider comes along she sings holy praise that she has been de… | /r/askTRP | 22/09/20 07:02 PM |
| 3 | I am red pill when sleeping around, but turn blue when I like someoneAll these things can be done in the context of the Redpill. Learn to give her proper emotion after she's been a good girl. There's nothing wrong with a little sweet cuddling after you've cave man fucked her. Here it's the reward, not the treat. You should always demonstrate leadership. Never discuss your fears with a woman, save that for a good buddy. Ultimately, when you master your emotions, you can master hers. Its like playing PS4 on cheat codes how easy it becomes. The best part? She wants … | /r/askTRP | 22/09/20 12:35 PM |
| 3 | I’ve got a woman obsessed with meShe lives 8 hours away but wants to drive to my place just to see me. I told her sure I wouldn’t stop her, but I refuse to have sex... any advice? Why the fuck are you even talking to her? You told her you wouldn't stop her but refuse to have sex? This is a real simple concept I'm going to tell you. Don't give people you don't value your time. There's no reason you can't ghost a bitch that lives 8 fucking hours away. "She lives 8 hours away but wants to drive to see me" becomes... ...crickets...… | /r/askTRP | 21/09/20 02:04 PM |
| 6 | If a girl loses attraction to you is it always your fault?That depression stems from a lack of abundance, self worth, and ego Truly underrated comment here. Nail on the head. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/20 01:56 PM |
| 17 | What's the best strategy for a man who wants kids but doesn't want marriage?There's a lot of bullshit talking in this thread. It's simple. First step, be a high value man. Second step, use legal asset protection to keep your wealth, yours. You should be doing this regardless. You are a high value man after all. It may be beneficial to look into local laws and requirements for child support if you decide to separate or co-parent. Some states (US) heavily favor time spent with parent over actual monetary child support. NJ for example will kill you on alimony, but if you a… | /r/askTRP | 18/09/20 12:36 PM |
| 12 | Divorce or SeparationLooking back I was fairly alpha when we met (MGTOW monk) These are not compatible. Ask yourself why you think that. Should I activate the nuke? Taking the kids to her mom.signals she is truly done or is trying to have her cake and eat it too. What do you want? That's really the question. In the end I get the suspicion that you are not a Captain, and the crew is wandering around a lot without leadership. Seems like reading between the lines there's a lot of bluster on your part and no boundaries.… | /r/askMRP | 17/09/20 01:23 PM |
| 6 | new friend but not that hot as her friendsJust remember, even at 45 there's a 15 year old girl trapped in her body. She will behave and act like one when you least expect it. In MRP we say that your wife is the oldest teenager in the house for a reason. It's no different when she's not your wife. She's just a 15 yo with a 45 year olds baggage. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/20 06:15 PM |
| 7 | How to convince girl to come visit youI used to hook up with a chick who lived 4 states away. I'd give her the option to say 'no'. "Hey I'm in Richmond on the 24th. What time can I expect you?" Half the time she'd respond with " ooh, I have plans let me see if I can change them". Then 10 minutes later she text she was in. It was up to her to decline instead of saying yes. Subtle but it works. Gauge her interest by throwing out a test idea. Then if she shows interest give her the option to turn it down. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/20 04:57 PM |
| 3 | In Canada you can be required to pay support to a woman you dated, even if you're not married, don't kids and don't live togetherThere's a minor upside. NJ has permanent alimony and there's story after story where a woman will do exactly what the woman in Canada did. She won't cohabitate but she'll let him do all the things a partner did. There was a story I think where the dude was going to jail for contempt and meanwhile wifey had a secret live in but they maintained that he had a separate residence. I could see where you could use it to you advantage in that case. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/20 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Girl Losing Interest, Best Way To Move Forward?people with the same last name, aka married people. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/20 01:58 PM |
| 9 | How do you define the fine line between putting her in her place for bad behavior and failing a shit test?Let's define a few things for clarification first. Shit test: This is otherwise known as a compliance test. It's a test of your resolve and leadership. She wants to see if your frame is strong. Comfort test: These often look like shit tests, but they come from a point where she feels dread, like she's not part of the program. She wants to belong, not test your frame. Boundary issue: This is a go/no go situation. Her fucking another dude and she's an LTR? That's a no-go situation and a boundary t… | /r/askTRP | 11/09/20 06:23 PM |
| 7 | Red Pill from the outside looking inIt's a universal truth that people constantly want to make you feel guilty and judge your own actions. The fact is they don't. Only you can judge your actions. Look around there's always something. Maybe it's the left trying to make you feel guilty for your white privilege. Or they call right wingers racists. Or the right calls left wingers communists. On and on and on. Why would I be concerned with what other people think about me? I'm the only one responsible for my actions and the only one wh… | /r/askTRP | 11/09/20 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Girl Losing Interest, Best Way To Move Forward?escalated sexually in person and over text and Snapchat. How the fuck did you escalate over text and Snap when texting is for logistics? | /r/askTRP | 11/09/20 06:02 PM |
| 3 | Girl Losing Interest, Best Way To Move Forward?professional jobs, mainly. I fucked a ton of women where I worked when I started my career. But half the phone book was double entries so it wasn't frowned upon in my office. I would say the best answer is, look to what your corporate culture dictates. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/20 06:01 PM |
| 0 | How to handle female boss who is after you?Maybe you don't have the skill to neg someone Maybe you don't have the skill to analyze the appropriate response to a situation and instead you charge at it like a bull? | /r/askTRP | 11/09/20 12:16 PM |
| 0 | How to handle female boss who is after you?I like simplicity. If someone picks on me i dont care what kind of power imbalance there is im going to destabilize it by fighting them back with the same kind of fire. I've done it with ceo's and gained respect as a result. Strike the Shepard and the sheep will scatter. It's certainly a tactic that can work in the right situation. But it's not the only solution, and maybe incorrect in OP's situation. Why not use all the tools available to you instead of being a one trick pony? | /r/askTRP | 11/09/20 01:42 AM |
| 2 | How to handle female boss who is after you?You're analogy breaks down in thinking it's a 1:1 interaction. This isn't just two people going at it. It's a hierarchical organization and she has the institutional backing of the hierarchy behind her. He is her subordinate. She can end his job, he cannot end hers. There is a power imbalance that has to be accounted for. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/20 09:35 PM |
| 2 | How to handle female boss who is after you?Let me ask you what part of the 48 laws of power this? | /r/askTRP | 10/09/20 04:41 PM |
| 3 | How to handle female boss who is after you?I'll clarify. I would generally pull someone aside for this, and emphasize "We" in the have a problem. Some of it is context too. The specific problem I spoke of was a real life event. Where I worked, the products were always theirs, I owned the process, they owned the product. It was actually showing deference to her expertise and responsibility. The "we" part was actually actually a stretch, as those problems were never actually mine. I could have been a dick and just said, "Your formula sucks… | /r/askTRP | 10/09/20 04:40 PM |
| 8 | Can I still Participate in MRP posts post LTR? Rant/Questioncannot believe you even let her go over in the first place. The correct application of dread is called for here. Let her know she has a choice. "I can't tell you what to do, but I don't date chicks who visit past hookups or 'take breaks' you're either in, or out." Then let the chips fall where they may. | /r/askMRP | 10/09/20 02:41 PM |
| 5 | Can I still Participate in MRP posts post LTR? Rant/QuestionI’ve been heartbroken by her before in the relationship. The common theme here is you. Fix yourself so you can better chose candidates. Why are you surprised at getting bit by a snake, for it's in a snakes nature? Don't pick snakes is the problem. | /r/askMRP | 10/09/20 02:36 PM |
| 28 | How to handle female boss who is after you?The 48 Laws of Power are your friend. The first thing I would try is Law 22: The surrender tactic. Remember, women operate from an emotions based communications. So when you pointed out fault in the operations, you pointed out her faults. You committed a major error in team building when it comes to women in leadership. Anson Dorrance, UNC women's Soccer coach and the most winning coach of all time in american women's soccer attributes his success to the fact that women excel best in an atmosphe… | /r/askTRP | 10/09/20 02:25 PM |
| 9 | Crosspost from PPD: CMV - Every attractive young woman will have an OnlyFans account by 2030 and be entirely undateableQuestion is where do you go from here? The Redpill embraces the tenets of abundance right? Make sure you have options in case things get untenable. I have two passports, and keep enough 'liquid' assets that I could change states pretty easy. Sure I'd loose a lot in the process, but worrying about that would be worrying about sunk costs. Personally? I have some friends and business associates in Russia. There's money to be made there hand over fist if you know how to deal with Russians. There's a… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/20 01:51 PM |
| 25 | Dynamic with Ex who CheatedTwo things you need to look at to gain perspective. First is her ego. Second is her actions. There's tale after tale from some of our very best redpill chads talking about how they just got done smashing some dudes wife or fiance who sits there telling him after she just did ass to mouth about a), how she loves her husband, and b) she doesn't want to leave him (or some fucked up version of it). One minute its "Oh god I love your dick in my ass" and the next it's "He'll make a great father" On it… | /r/askTRP | 09/09/20 08:08 PM |
| 76 | Crosspost from PPD: CMV - Every attractive young woman will have an OnlyFans account by 2030 and be entirely undateableInteresting thought experiment but to me it seems to miss out on a some fundamental economics. No business segment survives with essentially no barrier to entry and unlimited supply. Commoditization will make it a buyers market eventually and you'll end up seeing subscription based service etc. Hell they have an all you can fuck Brothel in Germany. Supply will push market prices down, make no mistake. That'll also serve as a barrier to entry to many potential "suppliers" as the opportunity cost … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/20 05:45 PM |
| 3 | The girlfriend-getting-fat dilemma. Is there a solution?her entire immediate family is obese. Mom and sister both ~300 pounds This was your biggest red flag. | /r/askTRP | 09/09/20 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Work colleague is a simpy cuck...any hope for this guy?The real question is why do you believe in hope? Life is what you make of it. Don't waste your money and effort on lottery tickets and fools. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/20 03:33 PM |
| 4 | Short girls easier to game?Short guy also. I did well with taller chicks and confidence was key. They want to feel submissive, so give them that opportunity. I know a dude who is a jacked athlete, works in a professional-blue collar type job and his wife adores him. He's 5'0" and she's gotta be 5'11". Watch him around her and you quickly understand how he projects himself. | /r/askTRP | 08/09/20 03:28 PM |
| 0 | Short girls easier to game?Ask yourself if you're seeing a real trend or survivorship bias Is it that short girls are easier or by time they filter through the app, your profile, swiping, etc that's all that is left? Same with 5'9" girls according to you? What filter criteria could you apply to the mid-range that might move them into the target zone? | /r/askTRP | 08/09/20 03:26 PM |
| 3 | Need some older male advice hereOlder dude here. When I first started working I lived near Princeton. I was a kid from a State school and was kind of in awe of these Ivy League kids. Then I started messing around with the chicks there. You know what I found out? Ivy league bitches are just as crazy and neurotic as state school bitches. They have the same crazy shit going on in their life as those former trailer park chicks I used to bang at State College. It was "My dad got indicted for embezzlement" instead of "My dad got bus… | /r/askTRP | 08/09/20 03:14 PM |
| 10 | 33 Years of Marriage WastedI was 30 when I got married, 35 when I had my first. Being an older dad has it's advantages. Frankly now that I'm approaching 50, I'd be perfectly ok being that dude who's got a 20 something wife and a new baby, because I've got shit together in my life like I never thought I would. Advice for a mid 30’s dude? I’m okay dying like that 95 year old as long as I’ve lived and experienced life the way I wanted. Build your life with your mission in mind. I'm not a family first guy, which sounds ironic… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/20 02:50 PM |
| 8 | 33 Years of Marriage WastedI got married before I really knew what the score was. I saw my dad go through divorce and frankly it was pretty amicable. One day a woman was living with us, the next some furniture was missing, and she wasn't there. So that was kind of my view of it. My mistake was not looking at all the variables, as the women who divorced my dad were for the most part the same economic bracket as him, and came into the marriages with assets also. Now it's not a justification, but I see some definite advantag… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/20 01:44 PM |
| 8 | 33 Years of Marriage WastedKnew a dude in NC that caught his old lady cheating. She didn't get shit, and when she threatened to go after his 401k, he threatened to sue the dude she was fucking for "Alienation of Affections" (an example). He walked away with a clean slate. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/20 01:23 PM |
| 18 | Was I too honest with plate?I can't believe no one is pointing out the fundamental failure here. Texting is for logistics. I say again. Texting is for logistics. Why is this so important? Feeling and emotion cannot be determined properly in the context of a text. Was she being playful? Was she serious? You didn't find out until after you sent the twice a week comment. Knock that shit off. Other than sexting or titty pictures to instigate a booty call, keep it to logistics. Then when she sends you the "What are we?" Move … | /r/askTRP | 04/09/20 01:23 PM |
| 8 | How to genuinely like meeting and talking to new people?If you haven't read it, try Dale Carnegie's book, "How to Win Friends and Influence People". People want to feel important. They want to feel heard. So start talking to a person with this in mind. When you meet a new person for the first time look at them like a science experiment, like they are a complete unknown and you have zero judgement about who they are or what they do. I talk to someone not because i'm interested in them, but because of some logical ulterior motive like to not be alone. … | /r/askTRP | 04/09/20 12:54 PM |
| 32 | Asking plates for feedback when they break?They always tell you before, you just have to be observant enough to see what's going on. Read Rollo's article on killing the puppy. Women don't tell you what they are thinking or doing per se, their actions always do. Her actions were pretty clear. She was getting banged then she threw out a comfort test ( I don't.. I'm not looking for). When you did the exact opposite of what you need for a comfort test, the plate broke. The feedback was, you handled what may have been a comfort test poorly, s… | /r/askTRP | 04/09/20 11:29 AM |
| 1 | Is she gone?Read this and then answer me. Where do you think she was on your ladders? Where do you think you were on her ladders? Treat her accordingly. u/IXseed has good advice. Fortune favors the bold. If you only want to see her as a friend, there's literally no harm in being proactive about how you handle it. Don't DEER, just put it out there. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/20 06:56 PM |
| 9 | Should i just give 0 fucks and shoot my shotYou know why Dick picks get sent constantly? Because somewhere, some neckbeard sent a dickpick and some skanky bitch said "What the fuck". The investment is so low that it essentially costs zero, but on that one in a billion chance she says "Sure, why not" dudes keep sending them. Is this an unsolicited dick pick? Probably not. Are the chance of success high? Probably not. I say go for it. Rejection builds character, Then when you're done, hit the gym, become high value and be the guy who gets u… | /r/askTRP | 03/09/20 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Is this the Truth ??AWALT. We toss that around a lot around here, and frankly I think it's misused too much. All Women Are Like That. The reality is they all have the chance to be like that, given the right circumstances. What does that mean for you? Women have value on a bell-curve just like men have value on a bell-curve. At one end is porn-stars, prostitutes, and junkies. At the other end is Mary the mother of god, Olga of Kiev and maybe your mom. All the other women? They lay on the spectrum in between. Some ab… | /r/askTRP | 03/09/20 06:42 PM |
| 2 | I need to improve my story telling skill.Here's a great example of story telling, Bert Kriescher the Machine A good story has a few elements, but the biggest thing you want to do is take your listener on a journey. Make them feel like they were there. Notice in the end how Bert gets you involved and relates the story to things you might understand. He develops the story just like a play, with three acts, then at the end, wham! He throws you for a loop. It's a great story from a great story teller. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/20 02:58 PM |
| 10 | Went on first date with a girl, she said something I found disrespectful, how should I have handled it?I'd argue that going down that path is letting her dictate the conversation. You're operating in her frame. "Oh that's sweet you're concerned but I'll never kiss and tell". If she keeps trying? Shut it down. "I'm not here to talk about that". How you talk about your ex can say a lot about you. Act bitter and angry? It shows lack of frame. Act alouf and disinterested? It'll show her your not about to be swayed and add mystery. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/20 09:13 PM |
| 3 | Do women shit-test each other?It doesn't take much effort to figure out who she does and doesn't really trust; she'll drop subtle clues about who she wouldn't trust alone with you. Then if you do break up? Watch who comes sniffing around with some bullshit excuse like "hey heard the news, if you want to talk..." | /r/askTRP | 31/08/20 09:06 PM |
| 0 | Girlfriend met with friends and next day decides to break upHow is this not moralizing? | /r/askTRP | 31/08/20 08:55 PM |
| 3 | Is ignoring insults ever a sign of strength?I've been in this situation before and I just start making them defend and explain the joke. If you can do it right they'll end up super flustered. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/20 01:35 PM |
| 6 | Is ignoring insults ever a sign of strength?"Don't act surprised, I saw your mom in here on her knees the other day." | /r/askTRP | 31/08/20 01:30 PM |
| 3 | Told girl I didn’t want relationship. She said she can’t see me anymore. Texts me next day, and continues to text me. How to handle?Right? See how the story plays out when you show actions instead of words? we had crazy sex She reaches out versus I told her I don’t want a relationship the last time we hung out, then we said our goodbyes because she said she can’t see me any longer if it’s not headed in the direction of a relationship. says she doesn’t want to stop talking to me. We’ve been texting each other sparingly throughout the last couple days. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/20 01:22 PM |
| 4 | Is the big key to TRP not being emotionally invested?The key is don't look to women for validation. You can invest in women emotionally. Hell it can be a lot of fun, after all there is the E in DEVI. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/20 09:17 PM |
| 4 | Roommate “lost a date” when she offered to split the check and he agreedIt's a feature not a bug. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/20 10:23 PM |
| 7 | What are things you wish you knew in your 20s?Build your life with abundance. If you always have options, when shit does get hairy it's ways easier to deal with the hard things when they do come. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/20 10:16 PM |
| 17 | Dealing with super nagging in-laws (WISNIFG examples wanted)I'm repeating this, but in this case I have to: You my friend are a fuck farmer. You give to many fucks and your fuck farm should be barren so that you have no fucks left to give. All that vommit that you posted above comes from a point of nasty validation seeking. Knock that shit off. Here's me, someone with a barren fuck farm and no fucks to give. MIL: Why did you only come today? We have booked the room for you from yesterday! You are crashing our planning! Me: I wanted too. MIL: You always… | /r/askMRP | 27/08/20 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Women in the US VS EUROPEI agree with you bro, but my problem is french girls are hard to get into at first so you must try hard, and if you try hard you loose your high value because you have to chase them. I think you are looking at it from the wrong perspective. Don't think of it as you must try hard with French girls think of it as getting past their fears. They put up a bitch shield or ASD and it's just another shit test to pass. But! Once you are past? Loyal to a fault. American women have their faults too. What y… | /r/askTRP | 26/08/20 05:25 PM |
| 6 | Women in the US VS EUROPEI've had a great life that's included traveling to Europe as an American, and Italian citizen (I've lived in the US my whole life). The best way to describe what you are seeing is the coconut and peach analogy. Germans, Swiss, and French tend to be Coconuts, Italians, and Americans tend to be peaches. Americans can be very friendly but tend not to go beyond the surface, where as my French friends take forever to let you in, but when they do, they will stay loyal to a fault. Italians? They will t… | /r/askTRP | 26/08/20 01:34 PM |
| – | Help me help himFuck your dad. Fuck you. Fuck your mom (she's probably easy so that's not hard). Fuck you too. Why should we care about this fucking circus? Edit: User is an askhole. He was banned for being one. But feel free to trash him while he's gone. | /r/askMRP | 26/08/20 01:02 PM |
| 2 | Why aren’t my initiations workingBecause you're unattractive. Step 1. be attractive. Step 2. don't be unattractive. Your listening to her words, yet her actions are telling you something else. One month in? How long have you been fucking things up. It's going to take a long time to unfuck things. | /r/askMRP | 26/08/20 12:58 PM |
| 7 | Progress blocking?Instead of thinking "Why is my wife blocking my progress" ask yourself "What do her actions say about my progress? How does my improvement make her feel?" She doesn't care about your progress per SE, she cares about how it makes her look. You're seeing the manifestation of dread. | /r/askMRP | 26/08/20 12:55 PM |
| 3 | Progress blocking?I'm stem so I'll also occasionally throw around zeta. I've also grown up in the south, so there's biscuits, and cookies and the two are not synonymous. | /r/askMRP | 26/08/20 12:53 PM |
| 3 | When plates get ASD/LMR plow through or freeze out?Nice. Would dangling commitment work "I like you, you're hot. Lets not rush and see where this goes"? It depends on how experienced or sophisticated she is and how much higher she perceives your SMV than her. Let her spin/Don't that's really up to you. As far as pushing through LMR it's really a value judgement. If I had one bit of advice for my younger self it would be don't waste time. Too much time was wasted on trying and occasionally bedding mildly interested women when I could have been pr… | /r/askTRP | 25/08/20 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Is there a point in hanging out with plates if you are not going to smash them?What are you fucking Buffalo Bill? Does it get the hose if it doesn't put the lotion on? | /r/askTRP | 25/08/20 01:32 PM |
| 2 | Girl I simped for in university wants to visit me and hang out on my sailboat. Yay or nay?I don't know the actual convo but I find it problematic that it appears she led with the "I want to come on your sailboat" Literally she goes right to securing resources. Girls that are genuinely interested in you tend to try portray what they can do for you. At the very least they may conceal their intentions and bury the lead, "Oh I'm in town and thought maybe we'd grab a drink, but fuck corona virus, what are our options?" u/-DeadLock could easily test her intentions by throwing out, "Hey boa… | /r/askTRP | 25/08/20 01:29 PM |
| 9 | When plates get ASD/LMR plow through or freeze out?Plates spin, plates fall. This was a version of the "What are we?" shit test. If you want to cut through the bullshit next time float it out there about your intentions, "I like you, I think you're hot. So this was a sexual relationship and if that's not what you're in this for let me know." She left and said how we can still be friends etc hang out with mutual friends. "I'm full up on friends." Chicks say this shit for their own benefit. "If we're friends it means I'm not a total cunt for not b… | /r/askTRP | 25/08/20 01:16 PM |
| 27 | I've been married for one month. The sex stopped 2 weeks in. Most posts are from men who were married for years. How to address this critical Issue so early? (initially posted in MRP)It wasn't sudden. There's more to this than you are letting on or explaining. | /r/askMRP | 25/08/20 12:26 PM |
| 7 | Sadly, I realized that cucking another guy is the harshest red pill learning experience. Share your thoughts.I'm older than most here, so I've reached the point where many friends long term marriages are blowing up. Dudes that got cheated on? They knew. Just go onto relationshits or any of those forums and you'll see. There's a standard formula. Wife goes from frumpy to working out and watching her weight. GNO's become more frequent. All of the sudden there's a new 'gym class' they have to take every Monday night. Meanwhile at home the demands for choreplay skyrocket, "I just can't feel sexy when the h… | /r/askTRP | 10/08/20 02:09 PM |
| 0 | just found out dad is cheating on mom againMaybe your mom should have been slapping that bitches hands and taking the dick out of her hands to tell her, "I got this". Maybe your mom is a cringy cunt who got fat and lazy? Or maybe she gets off on sucking the strange off your dads dick when he comes home? Don't be captain fix a bro or captain sav a ho. Take a look around and ask yourself "What's going on that got us to this point?" | /r/askTRP | 06/08/20 01:01 PM |
| 24 | Girl “warns me” shes 19It's like when they say shit like "I'm coming over your apartment for netflix and chill, and we're just going to cuddle. No hanky panky." What they're really saying is, "I know what I'm doing looks slutty, so don't make me feel slutty (in a bad way) on top of it" She's saying "I'm young, I know it but don't make me feel that way on top of it." Have fun. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/20 12:51 PM |
| 2 | Finally broke down and agreed to 8-month old plate’s repeated requests to date me; was met with an unexpected response; not sure what to doYou have to take everything in context as a whole. I don't know the whole conversations, but I suspect you're in the midst of a large comfort test. I had to fight off her bringing up the relationship talk like at least 5 times Did she use works like, "me", and "I" when discussing the relationship or did she phrase it as "You". There's a subtle difference between shit tests and comfort tests, where comfort test are directed toward her, but shit tests are directed toward you. Comfort tests are dea… | /r/askTRP | 06/08/20 12:36 PM |
| 1 | Anyone know any good RP financial and business-building posts or resources?They key to any successful business career is to realize two things. One, you're always selling; be it yourself, a product or an idea. Two, you're always negotiating. Get good at both, and you'll be able to write your own ticket. My favorite book on negotiation is Never Split the Difference, by Chris Voss. For selling? That's kind of a buffet of choices, so start with something like Ultimate Sales Machine, by Chet Holmes. Some other good books are 7 Habits of Highly Successful People, by Steven … | /r/askTRP | 05/08/20 05:56 PM |
| 5 | Finally broke down and agreed to 8-month old plate’s repeated requests to date me; was met with an unexpected response; not sure what to doOr instead of my other response, are you implying she feels alone and I provide the near term solution to not feeling alone? Think of it like ASD. She's on the text chain with her friend, lamenting all the time wasted with you, but hey, "At least I'm not alone". Nobody likes to think they've wasted time investing into something only to show nothing in return. So she justifies her actions to herself in front of her friend by saying that. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/20 05:47 PM |
| 21 | Finally broke down and agreed to 8-month old plate’s repeated requests to date me; was met with an unexpected response; not sure what to doShe told her friend she doesn’t even really like me as a person but she also doesn’t want to be alone. Two women talking over text do not deliver information to each other. They deliver feeling. They also say things for their own ego, not yours. Given this what does the quoted statement now say to you? | /r/askTRP | 05/08/20 02:56 PM |
| 5 | Drawing Lines/BoundariesYou missed your opportunity to have the gun safety talk with your kids long ago. Now I'm a gun owner and my kids have been around them and can recite the 4 universal rules by heart. I don't know if they were ever going to be in a house that had guns, or if they were secured the way mine are, so I assumed they wouldn't be. I gave them the best tools I could so they knew how to deal with it safely. If there's a value you want to impart on your kids, it's your job to do it. The other part? There's … | /r/askMRP | 04/08/20 12:22 PM |
| 4 | Ex messaged me, we hung out, things got sexual. Agreed to meet again but she doesn't want things to go that far anymore.She was never an ex. A girl you didn't bang doesn't count as anything other than a failure to close. Whatever you want to call her, the red-flags say to me that she should not be elevated to anything more than a plate, or a FWB. As such the effort put into her should only be that which would be a plate. If you think that you can't just plate her because of past oneitis, than move along. Otherwise you should only invest in her if you think you can benefit from it. When she said, "yeah, but what h… | /r/askTRP | 03/08/20 02:59 PM |
| 2 | My Covert Narcissist GirlfriendJust in case.... https://archive.is/GOu2u | /r/askMRP | 03/08/20 12:48 PM |
| 4 | LTR jealous of other relationshipsUnfuck yourself. Only you can do it. Someday he'll realize that he didn't even have to entertain these silly shenanigans. Neo: What are you trying to tell me? That I can dodge bullets? Morpheus: No, Neo. I'm trying to tell you that when you're ready, you won't have to. | /r/askMRP | 03/08/20 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Experienced guys, how do you deal with vetting?Let's redirect on you my friend. What's your mission? What are you so hyper focused on in life that nothing else matters? Having a mission fills the void that men often try to fill with relationships. Dudes focus on relationships and then when it's flat or unfulfilling they become disheartened. Instead reverse the priority. Get that mission going and let that be your focus. Then as women come and go, they are an enhancement to your life. And if you vet and churn you will eventually find the one … | /r/askTRP | 31/07/20 01:02 PM |
| 11 | Are these my only options?I used to fuck a conservative Jew Girl in the ass, and then she'd swallow my load just so she didn't get her v-card punched. She wore white on her wedding day, and keeps a kosher house. Good times. The nice thing about traditional girls is they keep their mouth shut if they have a lot to lose. | /r/askMRP | 31/07/20 12:42 PM |
| 19 | Are these my only options?"Poof",tick,tick,tick,"poof",tick,tick,tick,"Poof",... Here that? The universe/god/yaweh/allah just created another sweet 18 year old church girl with strong values. Literally every minute a new one appears... Abundance my friend. Embrace it. If you have a super strict set of criteria for LTR promotion there's nothing wrong with that (In fact I encourage it). Instead of lowering the entry level you need to up the volume. Finish school and work on your career, my advice to you at 24 is to be sett… | /r/askMRP | 31/07/20 12:37 PM |
| 2 | I fucked up and had a kidOk time for some fatherhood perspective. I've got 3 kids, including a set of twins. Two year olds suck. They whine, they shit themselves, the need constant attention, if you fuck up their schedule, they get a thousand times worse. I loved my kids when they were little, but frankly there was not a lot to like about them. Then you have a million people telling you, "Isn't kids great/fullfilling/affirming" or some other bullshit. Instead, like a really tough workout you know is coming, you need to … | /r/askTRP | 30/07/20 01:42 PM |
| 4 | Do I pull back??There's so much fucking cringe in this I don't even know where to start. I’ve been in a relationship with this girl for about 3 months. But she’s been my best friend of many years. Aka, "I've put her on a pedestal and now she's let me see her vagina" Take her down. Realize that she is just another girl. She is not going to give birth to the next baby Jesus (Baby Jesus is my favorite Jesus, so I pray to him). If you had outcome independence you'd realize that all those years being her girlfriend … | /r/askMRP | 29/07/20 01:17 PM |
| 2 | Why are there no dominant woman and plenty of submissive men?You're tilting at windmills my friend. Like Don Quixote running off to slay giants only to find out they are windmills. This is not new. It's pretty simple human nature. Some people are in charge. Most people are followers. Women will take the best male they can out that bunch. You've unlocked the code and have the benefit of being born in a time and place where your dad didn't have to be lord of the manor. Don't lament, celebrate. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/20 01:09 PM |
| 3 | Tips on working in salesFirst, I'd recommend reading and reading prolifically. There's quite a few books that I'd recommend but here's the start: How to Win Friends and Influence People, Dale Carnegie Ultimate Sales Machine, Chet Holmes Never Split the Difference, Chris Voss Now let's talk about your process: I got my first sale, but the guy backed off after seeing the agreement:( You didn't get your sale and lose it, you never had it to lose. In his book Never Split the Difference, Chris Voss explains this pretty well… | /r/askTRP | 28/07/20 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Sending first dates back to their homes after sexKnow your local laws. 2 Party Consent States. | /r/askTRP | 28/07/20 02:24 PM |
| 32 | Do I give my wife the emotional connection she is asking forThis morning she came to me saying that she needs more emotional connection ie talking without sex on the agenda. Step 1, be attractive. Step 2. Don't be unattractive. What you got was another version of the "ILYBINILWY". She feels attached to you, but not in that way. You're girlfriend with a penis. You need to rebuild that attraction by unfucking your life. Lifting, going from skiny-fat to in shape. Dressing better and leading your life. If you've been fucking your shit up for 24 years, she's … | /r/askMRP | 28/07/20 01:22 PM |
| 13 | Would having past ONS experience disqualify a girl of being LTR worthy?Am I incorrect in thinking this way? I can't value a woman for you. Only you can put value to that. You should have an LTR filter. It should be the most stringent and toughest requirements possible. You should be uncompromising in your values and what is or isn't LTR material. Their your rules. You set them, and then never compromise. You can change them, but it should be because you've rethought your own values, not for any other reason. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/20 04:40 PM |
| 24 | Would having past ONS experience disqualify a girl of being LTR worthy?A girls value is based on the sum of all her decisions. Her past actions, and consequent decisions she made after say a lot about her character. More importantly they are a predictor of future actions she might take. Let's take girl A. She has Tattoo's, she frequently uses recreational drugs, (tried smoking heroin one time, but that was just a whim), lives with her ex because she can't afford to move out, and dropped out of college, but is working as a freelance make up artist while she pays off… | /r/askTRP | 24/07/20 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Advice about living together leading up to marriageWhat's the mission? What is your fiance's end-goal and how does moving in or not support the mission at hand? When help is given freely, with no strings attached, why not accept graciously? What would you need to feel like you weren't a freeloader yet supporting the mission? | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/07/20 02:48 PM |
| 2 | Do you guys agree that male and females cannot be "true" friends?Why can't they be? I have plenty of female friends of differing levels. I have a few close female relatives who I certainly wouldn't consider fucking. Read the ladder theory of women. There's women you would fuck, and there's women you wouldn't. They're on different ladders. If a woman is on your would fuck ladder, where she is on it depends on what effort you'd put into it. She's high on the ladder if you would actively try to fuck her and readily admit it to your buddies. Think LTR, FWB, etc. … | /r/askTRP | 23/07/20 02:37 PM |
| 2 | Do you think people needed TRP 20+years ago?The rules of the road and sexual strategies of men and women are the same. They have been time immemorial. I was a kid in the 70's, a teenager in the late 80's, a young man in the 90's and on and on. I can look back at pivotal moments in my life and recognize all the basics. "Oh that was a shit test." "Oh that was hypergamy." "Oh that was branch swinging" I saw my own father do some very Alpha shit, and revert to beta ways. I look back and recognize guys I thought were naturals, were just master… | /r/askTRP | 23/07/20 02:15 PM |
| 10 | Disrespectful dateDidn’t know girls could be so disrespectful It's not a bug it's a feature. Remember she's trying out for a spot on the roster. Do you think Phil Jackson or Bill Belichick got fucked in the head after some promising prospect fucks up a tryout? Nope, they look at their team and figure out who the next prospect to try out should be. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/20 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Very disrespectful comments from LTR after broken frame, soft or hard next?There's no such thing as wasting a year. There's making a decision with data. Sometimes you can make a decision with good data and have a good outcome. Sometimes it's a bad outcome and either you had all the data or incomplete data. If you've done everything right, made the right decisions and shit still goes sideways? Your job is not to lament time lost, but what you would've done differently knowing what you knew going into it. Poker is said to be a game where you make the best decisions based… | /r/askTRP | 22/07/20 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Very disrespectful comments from LTR after broken frame, soft or hard next?This is a good start u/cvbnjk. Keep in mind she already chose you. So don't make her regret why she did. Be the dude she chose. Her job is to keep up, not set the pace. I'm older than most here. I see plenty of soccer moms complaining that their husband is a fat useless fuck who does nothing but annoy them. if you could look back 20 years and see pictures of them you'd see vacations in beautiful places and that they were good looking people. Do you think that woman is complaining about the guy i… | /r/askTRP | 22/07/20 06:30 PM |
| 4 | Much younger womenu/business---travel makes the best point here. Set her age aside and ask why she deserves a promotion? What work has been putting in to demonstrate worthiness? Right now you have a resume in front of you that looks great on paper, and she's nailed the interview, but what about demonstrated skills? I've dated all spectrums of age range. In the end? There's a reason we say they are the oldest teenager in the house. All women will resort to being bratty teenagers if you don't handle your shit corre… | /r/askMRP | 22/07/20 01:34 PM |
| 7 | Women hate men especially the married ones in my country. Do single women hate married men?I'm glad this is on Ask... What the fuck is this shit? Tell me why this isn't some concern trolling or circle jerking. "Whoa is me! I live in a such and such and the girls here are such and such." Fuck you man. I've told this story as baseball, but I'm going to change it to Soccer (football for you non-freedom loving fucks) to suit you, you stupid fuck. My oldest boy was on the pitch and he had just gotten blasted off the ball by a particularly rough fullback. I pulled him aside (I'm the coach… | /r/askMRP | 22/07/20 01:18 PM |
| 7 | Very disrespectful comments from LTR after broken frame, soft or hard next?Recently the shit tests have been coming in harder and I started failing them, so naturally they get worse. Your failure came way before she dropped the bomb, " you're lucky I'm not dumping you over this, I can do better". We've discussed this many times but you were on the path to her begging you to kill the puppy. When women tend to become dissatisfied in the relationship they up the brattiness. They see you as failing to lead, they lose attraction, etc. So they start to treat you with contemp… | /r/askTRP | 22/07/20 01:08 PM |
| 2 | She said she’s leaving. I told her to leave then. She stayed and blew me. Why?Im guessing no, 90% sure Handle it right, she'll fill your glass for you. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/20 04:35 PM |
| 3 | She said she’s leaving. I told her to leave then. She stayed and blew me. Why?First, learn how a woman communicates. She starts with feeling, not information. Learn to interpret what she is saying and what emotion she is delivering. The context of when and where will tell you what's she's doing. Are you joking having a good time, and she dangles her glass in front of you and says, "I'm thirsty, fill this!". She's shit testing foreplay. Her words say, get me a drink but her emotion is saying 'I'm bratty and a little turned on, can you handle it?' Next option, let's say you… | /r/askTRP | 21/07/20 03:32 PM |
| 18 | She said she’s leaving. I told her to leave then. She stayed and blew me. Why?Ok, but how the fuck do you think any skill is mastered? Practice and study.... which gets you experience. It's not magic. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/20 12:34 AM |
| 47 | She said she’s leaving. I told her to leave then. She stayed and blew me. Why?it sucks that even a woman you’re dating will test you for no apparent reason There's always a reason. When the dog gets on the couch do you get mad and wonder why he got on the couch for 'no apparent reason'? It's in his nature to push your boundaries. It's your job to set clear boundaries. Inconsistency will yield a misbehaved dog. Women will shit test, and comfort test; sometimes its to see if your strong, sometimes it's about commitment, and other times it's foreplay. Recognize when and what… | /r/askTRP | 20/07/20 10:59 PM |
| 2 | Is choosing not to fuck your female coworker possibly detrimental?Do I got that right? yes | /r/askTRP | 17/07/20 01:25 PM |
| 1 | AITA delivers again: SIMP doesn't know he's dating a sugar baby.SHE definitely sees him as alpha. Again, I'm not advocating one way or another, but ask yourself, just because he bought and paid for pussy does that mean he is a master of frame? Do you think Harvey Weinstein is Alpha because he bought and paid for actress pussy all those years (make no mistake, he didn't lay out cash, but he paid for it)? What does Jeff Bezos divorce say about him? I've been around some wealthy men in my life, and wealth does not equate to alpha. I've seen more than my fair sh… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/20 12:56 PM |
| 4 | Is choosing not to fuck your female coworker possibly detrimental?There's a couple of good books on Amazon and Sun tzu and the art of war in business for more reading. "Don't be a fortress" means more of don't be a loner. Have alliances and allegences to those that deal power so that you may use them for shelter. Don't isolate yourself from communication and information that flows. In your case you may have heard it through the grape vine from others that there was a plot against you. Does that make sense? | /r/askTRP | 16/07/20 11:15 PM |
| 1 | AITA delivers again: SIMP doesn't know he's dating a sugar baby.The fuck it is. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/20 11:09 PM |
| 26 | Is choosing not to fuck your female coworker possibly detrimental?I simply want to know how to handle this for the future. The 48 Laws of power are your friend in the work place. Start with: Law 5: So much depends on reputation, guard it with your life Law 9: Win through your actions, never through argument Do not build a fortress to protect yourself, isolation is dangerous I don't believe in the old don't shit where you eat, but I've also been in the workplace for 25+ years. I've had to weather my fair share of workplace flings gone bad. Learn to become indis… | /r/askTRP | 16/07/20 07:29 PM |
| 1 | AITA delivers again: SIMP doesn't know he's dating a sugar baby.wealthy alpha David prefers her skinny What data suggests David is Alpha? Nothing in the story tells me he is or isn't. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/20 03:11 PM |
| 6 | What’s your thoughts on TheBluePill’s accusation that TheRedPill is a misogynistic women hating sub?who? | /r/askTRP | 14/07/20 11:36 PM |
| 2 | About to turn 35, and need input/advice.So when you tell me about being top 1% in a field. Up to maybe a couple years or so ago, I would be pumped and gone for it. I can tell you, probably not going to happen even if I tried. Here's a story I want you to read. It's a story about how having marginal gains added on top of one another can make dramatic improvement. My suggestion may have been muddled so I'll say it again. You don't have to be a 1% at one thing. Be an ok performer at a few things. Those things added together can make you … | /r/askTRP | 14/07/20 11:27 PM |
| 1 | About to turn 35, and need input/advice.First question I haven't heard you answer is, what is your passion? I see you kicking around with a bunch of place holder jobs, looking for another but what is it that you really like? Is welding interesting to you? Or are you just doing it because you heard it makes money? In any job field there are specialists and there are generalists. If you can become an in-demand specialist you can really up your earning potential. Welder? Lots of those. Certified ASME high-pressure vessel welder? Not near… | /r/askTRP | 14/07/20 01:10 PM |
| 15 | She's Mad That I Don't Want MarriageI'm married. If I was in the same situation as OP, that would be the message I delivered. | /r/askTRP | 11/07/20 07:58 PM |
| 68 | She's Mad That I Don't Want MarriageWhat's not clear to your woman is your mission. She broke down in tears because she realized the mission didn't include marriage and it's trappings. You have no obligation to change your mission for the emotional whims of a woman. However, clarifying how she fits into the mission may help her resolve her feelings. "I can't do legal marriage, but that doesn't mean I don't want the features. I want kids, I want a partner in crime at my side who wants to ride shotgun and slay dragons. If you're wil… | /r/askTRP | 11/07/20 06:29 PM |
| 1 | The single mom contradictionDon't forget women also have the ability to financially abort too, aka adoption or voluntary surrender of parental rights. Just go to a clinic or a fire station... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/20 11:59 AM |
| 1 | "Damaged" Girls and the lightswitch effect clarificationHere's what I think from my armchair psychology degree. Women tend to say stuff for their benefit in front of you. It's how they deal with and compartmentalize decisions that on face value look horrible. She's not saying it for your benefit, she's saying it for her benefit and to make herself feel better (Women communicate feelings first, then info). So while you hear "Yeah I spent 7 years being abused as a pass around chick in a biker gang" what she's saying to herself is, "I spent 7 years as a… | /r/askTRP | 09/07/20 04:12 PM |
| 3 | "Damaged" Girls and the lightswitch effect clarificationI highly doubt any girl would stay in an abusive relationship for that long People are fucked up dude. Some abusive relationships are like slow burns, where the guy just doesn't start out beating her from day one. People stay in fucked up situations for fucked up reasons. Women evolved over millennia to stay in fucked up relationships as a matter of preservation. Look back through history at all the women collaborators who sided with the conquering foes after watching their men get killed. There… | /r/askTRP | 09/07/20 03:12 PM |
| 15 | Books on how to improve your charisma and deal with people?Here's a few that help deal with people that I'd recommend: "When I Say No I Feel Guilty", it's a simple read and puts in to perspective how people manipulate you and get you to judge your own actions. "Never Split the Difference", probably one of the best books on negotiating. Think negotiations are just about used cars? You negotiate all the time. "The Ultimate Sales Machine" even if you're not in sales pick up this one or another, as the base of sales is really about getting people to buy int… | /r/askTRP | 09/07/20 03:03 PM |
| 33 | Came home from camping to find that my ex-girlfriend is there hanging out with my parentsThe real issue that is hardly being addressed? Although I did feel slightly bad Your mom and ex both got you to judge your own actions. Chick shows up unannounced, "for closure" bullshit. And then gets your mom to also get you to judge your actions. Chicks want closure to make you feel bad, not so they feel better. The right answer would have been to feign indifference. By hiding in your room you showed contempt for her instead. You let her rattle your frame, and then your mom got in your head t… | /r/askTRP | 06/07/20 03:29 PM |
| 5 | How do I tell a friend that I'm disappointed in him?You know who talks about their feelings? Girls. Men demonstrate value through their actions. So how do you demonstrate your value to your friend? Just like you would a woman, by giving or denying him your time. Look at how he valued you by giving you his time. What did his actions say to you that his words didn't? | /r/askTRP | 02/07/20 03:57 PM |
| 7 | Should I trust a girl to take a pregnancy test?Never reveal your intentions with a girl. Law 3: Always conceal your intentions It's right from the fucking side-bar. People don't read and they sure as hell don't internalize. | /r/askTRP | 02/07/20 03:46 PM |
| 9 | Girl next door asked me for helpGive freely because you expect nothing in return. If her intent is genuine, I mean some people actually do need help, give freely because you can. If you think she's just trying to get you to Orbit, then as others have suggested, add conditions so she knows there's a cost. "Sure I'd love to help, I have to hit the gym, then I can grab it. Why don't you pick us up some take out and we can bring it in and set it up." Often a small favor for favor will establish that nothing in life is for free and… | /r/askTRP | 01/07/20 05:04 PM |
| 28 | Doomed to beta-dom?Trying to figure out if marriage is recoverable. This is your problem right here. You're starting from the wrong point of view from the get go. Add to it what u/BobbyPeru is saying, her message to you is she 'settled' on a safe guy. So what does that mean? What does that mean about the marriage? Nothing. Nada. Zip. It has no bearing on the future. Quit focusing on her and the marriage and instead focus on yourself. Become a man of abundance. If you were sitting at the table a year from now, not … | /r/askMRP | 30/06/20 06:37 PM |
| – | Reddit ban coming?I have no idea what this is about. But if something does come, OYS can be done on r/NMMNG. We'd put it up there. | /r/askMRP | 29/06/20 12:43 PM |
| 3 | My Mom is Cheating on My Dad...Redpill is amoral. OP needs to ask what the value is in blowing this up. If his dad is more valuable and that relationship is also, he has one course of action, if not another. His dad's motivations and what not are solely on his father. OP cannot be responsible for the actions of two grown ass adults fucking up there lives. | /r/askTRP | 28/06/20 03:16 PM |
| 13 | My Mom is Cheating on My Dad...u/aDrunkenWhaler is spot on. You mother has unknowingly made you an actor in this. What you need to ask yourself is what value do I need to get out this playing out? Understand there is no right answer. You can ignore it, because who knows maybe your dad is also in on it? You can blow it up, because maybe your dad isn't in on it. In the end, none of this is your burden to hang on too, so don't sweat making the wrong decision. When I was in college I had two buddies, we were all close and part … | /r/askTRP | 26/06/20 01:37 PM |
| 2 | How to engage feelings instead of logic?You don't sound logical, you sound fucking autistic. I speak German, and only German, but found that girls respond to French better. How do I continue speaking German while acting French? You want to have a good time in France with the locals? Learn to speak French. Fuck it's not complicated. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/20 09:46 PM |
| 26 | MRP: why did u get married and what are your biggest lessons?Are you concerned of infidelity? Why would I be? This is the kind of question that comes from a lack of abundance. If she wants to be unfaithful, that's on her. She will be easily replaced. | /r/askMRP | 19/06/20 12:52 PM |
| 12 | Why would my girlfriend say that she’s the better looking one to my face?It's a trope, "why am I with you?", Maybe even a shitty comfort test. So give her an answer that ups the emotion. ”when you try really hard your like a 7 on a good day honey. Keep working and you'll get there! " Don't take her seriously. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/20 05:17 PM |
| 14 | Why would my girlfriend say that she’s the better looking one to my face?She's not telling you, she's telling herself this. She just happens to be saying it out loud so you can hear it | /r/askTRP | 18/06/20 05:10 PM |
| 5 | 2 plates, they know each other we end up at the same party. Not down for threesome and ask who I'm going home with. WTF to do?Porque no los dos? The first one was shit testing you and trying to show the other girl up. The second was playing catch up. Instead of DEERing the answer to them. You should have left some mystery, and just left. Why do bitches need answers from you to what your plans are and where you are going? If they were sitting right next to each other I would have just looked in the general direction and said, "I'll see you later!" and then let them figure that shit out. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/20 01:03 PM |
| 22 | Young guy (26) has serious problems with Ex ( mom of his kids)The same advice you got over there. Lawyer up, play the long game. She a ho and you tried to wife her up. Oh well, lesson learned. Hit the gym, spin plates and only talk logistics with her. | /r/askMRP | 16/06/20 09:19 PM |
| 6 | Ex behaves like a cunt/treats me bad even though my only interest are my kids..You're playing the long game. This is not a simple "frame" situation and you need to do a few things immediately. As others have suggested, you need to move only to texts. Second and more importantly you need to lawyer up. There's such a thing as Parental Alienation. If she's doing this in front of you, you need to document every case of it. Doing things like making you change your time, or not being there at agreed times is a form of this, and in the long run, can make your kids resent you. I h… | /r/askTRP | 16/06/20 03:20 PM |
| 2 | Tips on navigating relations with coworkersI've been in my career since the 90's, and I've been working since the 80's. Whether a casual after school job or trying to get ahead on the corporate ladder, the rules of power always apply. Read the 47 Laws of power and look back at the poor interactions you've had. A good example that you learned the hard way? Think as you like, but behave as others. You incorrectly assumed that you were one of the guys and let your guard down. They then used it against you. The great thing about part-time … | /r/askTRP | 15/06/20 01:57 PM |
| 6 | Question: Career DecisionsI've taken the exact career path you ask about. Undergrad in Engineering, and now run a Sales Organization. The best of the best that I see? Technical salespeople who are really good at their job know how to solve a problem that even the customer doesn't know he has, and know how to convince the customer that what they are talking about will help them. Those same people are often really likable and can move between many different worlds. One day you're a designer, the next you're a manager. Some… | /r/askMRP | 10/06/20 06:52 PM |
| 2 | Those of you firmly against "Enjoy the Decline" mindset, what do you do to fight the degeneracy?Entropy is always increasing. The ironic part of it? Out of entropy comes order. Don't think of it as "enjoying the decline" but instead of choosing your place in the chaos. Chaos is going to happen, it's up to you to bring order to your own life out of it. Don Quixote was fighting imaginary enemies but the real tragedy was he was foolish trying to prove chivalry was not dead. It was likely never alive to begin with. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/20 06:20 PM |
| 17 | Girl texted me months after out of the blue, did I handle this correctly?Make her qualify herself back to you. "Remember me?" "Latte Girl? Wait, puppy girl? No runner chick? What do you look like?" ....describes herself..... "Drawing blanks here...." Then of course move to meet, because texting is for logistics and you aren't a time slut. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/20 01:17 PM |
| – | Labcorp Fake Paternity TestI think you are LARP and a karma whore. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/06/20 05:55 PM |
| 8 | I failed horribly in marriage.. or close to. Advise neededLet me distill it down clearly. She doesn't fuck you at all. She declared herself asexual She disappears 2-3 hours a night What is that message? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/06/20 04:57 PM |
| 3 | I failed horribly in marriage.. or close to. Advise neededYeah dude, they can be thirsty. I coach a youth travel team, and I've had Mom's blatantly try and flirt with me in front of my wife. It can be laughable sometimes. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/06/20 04:52 PM |
| 11 | I failed horribly in marriage.. or close to. Advise neededI knew this chick in college, she was dating a friend of mine. She would never sleep over his place, maybe every two weeks she'd throw some duty sex at him. She claimed to be a good "Christian Girl!" and was looking to get her advanced degree in Marriage while at school. He always complained that she just didn't want to do it. Her answer was, "she was a good girl and that's what marriage would be for". He finally wised up and realized that he was wasting his college years and broke up with her. … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/06/20 02:34 PM |
| 2 | Why would my girlfriend cheat on me with a younger much man?We fight over literally everything She's been fighting with you for weeks, she's figuratively been pleading with you to kill the puppy. Chicks have a hard time being upfront about things. So they become bratty and bitchy so that you do the deed and break up with them. As attraction, wanes, and leadership fails they realize that they are no longer interested in the relationship. She's been telling you for months that it was over. Look at the way she broke up with you. She was so disgusted with yo… | /r/askTRP | 03/06/20 06:15 PM |
| 15 | How to get over being short and bald?Short dude here (5'6"). Never had a problem with it or getting women. Now I tended to date short women, but there's plenty of them out there. I've even picked up a few chicks specifically highlighting being shorter than them. I had an LTR in college who was a couple of inches taller than me, and she still loved being dominated and tossed around. Keep your game tight. Keep your dress code tight. Continue working out. Every dude has the same problem, namely "What is my ideal type and who is attrac… | /r/askTRP | 03/06/20 05:56 PM |
| – | Turned down sex and really upset him. What can I say to make it up to him?Not for us. Take it to redpillwives. | /r/askMRP | 30/05/20 08:47 PM |
| – | Baby momma is keeping our child (1F) from me for the first time.Answered. tl;dr Get a lawyer, get a custody agreement. | /r/askMRP | 28/05/20 01:44 PM |
| 7 | Tell Ex To Stop Contacting Me Or Just Keep Ignoring?/thread | /r/askTRP | 21/05/20 01:52 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with irreconcilable differences of opinion on very serious issuesWhy would they be? Rule zero is paramount. Context is key here. You can do any kind of ultimatum you want, but understand there will be different results for different ultimatums. Give me a specific example. | /r/askMRP | 21/05/20 12:59 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with irreconcilable differences of opinion on very serious issuesSure it is. It's an ultimatum that confers choice. It's also an ultimatum that sets a clear boundary and defines the consequences of crossing that boundary. "You are free to do, Xyz, and here's what I will do if you do xyz" Our hero was wishy-washy in his line in the sand. He tried to weasel his way around it instead of owning his actions in her behavior. He was trying to change her thinking, when she had already made her mind up. I felt helpless and angry that my wife and child were being endan… | /r/askMRP | 20/05/20 12:46 PM |
| 1 | If men stopped using women for sex, you'd find the connection you're really looking forDiscussing incels and sexual strategy is like discussing schizophrenics and why not to be paranoid. It's a lesson in futility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/20 01:07 PM |
| 2 | How does one get better at story telling?Fuck that bitch, this is Russia. | /r/askTRP | 14/05/20 08:36 PM |
| 3 | The boss of my boss is asking me to allow my boss to take credit for my work?I had a guy that worked for me tell me, "There's an old Polish proverb. If you have 2 horses, one lazy and one strong and need to get a heavy cart up a hill which one do you beat?" "You beat the strong one because he will get you up the hill and the lazy one will always be good for nothing." Congrats, you are the strong one. As much as you don't like it, your work is your boss's. Even if she did nothing to actually contribute. That's the nature of working in a corporation. If I sell a 5 millio… | /r/askTRP | 14/05/20 04:26 PM |
| 16 | How to deal with irreconcilable differences of opinion on very serious issuesI insisted that she not go through with it, but she decided to anyways, I laid out the scientific evidence and argued hard, but never supported her emotionally I felt helpless and angry that my wife and child were being endangered, and there was nothing I could do- I had zero input. You failed in leadership. You failed to explain the mission to the crew and the crew revolted and took its own direction. Then while the crew was in active revolt you tried to Explain and Rationalize away why you fel… | /r/askMRP | 13/05/20 01:00 PM |
| 8 | Where does a true “red-pilled” man draw the line?Redpill is pragmatic. You choose where you want to live on the curve. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/20 02:35 PM |
| 14 | Where does a true “red-pilled” man draw the line?Math and the Redpill. So there are absolutes, and there are probabilities. An absolute is, you are going to die. Not if, but when. 100% absolute. There's a 50/50 chance you will die around age 80. Half the people in the US will die before then, half after. That's a probability. It's absolute that all will die. It's about a 50/50 probability when you will die. So now let's talk AWALT. "All women are like that!" AWALT is best described as a probability. It's not an absolute in the sense that "Al… | /r/askTRP | 12/05/20 01:08 PM |
| 17 | Do y’all wear cologne?All women love a man who wears cologne. Ok, time for a fucked up field report. I was over a girl I was dating's house. She had a big family with 2 brothers and a sister. The sister was wrapping a present she got for her current boyfriend. He was an alright dude but kind of quiet. My girl asks the sister what cologne she got the new boyfriend. She responds "Acqua di Gio" My girl asks her sister, "Wait, isn't that what Dominic wore?" "Yeah, but I love the smell." My girl responds, "That's fucked u… | /r/askTRP | 12/05/20 12:41 PM |
| 4 | Is it worth it?This wouldn't be a problem if you had an abundance mentality. Plates, spin and Plates fall. Notice the s? Who gives a fuck if plate 1 falls? Who gives a fuck if plate 2 tells plate 1 what's going on? Fuck, girl 2 might just tell girl one some shit because she's a cunt and you still haven't fucked her. This is like talking about what you would do if you won the lottery and had a million dollars. You haven't won it, and you don't have a million dollars. It doesn't matter what you would do with gir… | /r/askTRP | 11/05/20 02:40 PM |
| 6 | How do you guys get over being cheated on or played?Embrace abundance. A low-value woman demonstrated her low value. If you had abundance, you'd have a clear brain and could easily discriminate and discern where a woman fits in the hierarchy. Some women are destined to be plates, some FWB, and maybe a few select as LTR's. With a library to choose from it may still hurt when something goes sideways, but at least you'll have immediate opportunity to move on. | /r/askTRP | 08/05/20 02:30 PM |
| – | The gift of GOD... not what you think.Rule zero? Bring it around for us. | /r/askMRP | 08/05/20 02:24 PM |
| 1 | kids, women and marriageThe state finds him, they dock his $9.00 an hour pay and take $47. So he quits. | /r/askMRP | 08/05/20 12:41 AM |
| 2 | kids, women and marriageI guess I don’t see the sexual strategy of purposely having children you don’t really want? Maybe that's the correct answer then? The lesson was for you, not him. You can't fix stupid. | /r/askMRP | 07/05/20 06:30 PM |
| 4 | Discovered LTR's cheating activity from 2017Swallowing the Redpill means you've come to the realization that you were plugged into the matrix. Some day when you run into her and she's got three kids from two other guys thank her for doing you the favor of pushing you to unplug yourself. Neo: What are you trying to tell me? That I can dodge bullets? Morpheus: No, Neo. I'm trying to tell you that when you're ready, you won't have to. Go forth and slay. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/20 06:28 PM |
| 1 | kids, women and marriageWe'd run a guy out of town for only going to the gym once a month Sure, because that shows a lack of dedication to getting his needs met. If he won't better himself why do we expect some woman to fuck him? How does getting randos preggars and being a part-time dad affect our anti-hero's sexual strategy? | /r/askMRP | 07/05/20 03:48 PM |
| 2 | OnlySimps revenueI made this post in the past, but it stands repeating. Men and women sell their bodies, they just do it in different ways. Women sell their bodies via sex work, men sell their bodies via dangerous or simple manual labor. Think about all the old broken coal miners, you see. Construction workers who can barely get out bed in there 50's because they are broken. Women do the same thing, but instead of their body (aside from STIs) they break their mind. They're selling their future for a present shor… | /r/askTRP | 07/05/20 01:42 PM |
| 23 | Discovered LTR's cheating activity from 2017Anyway, i am yet another victim Are you? You were never a victim. Chalk it up to lack of wisdom. Getting engaged at 23? That's a poor life decision. The good news? All this is information to gain wisdom. At 30, I was a million times more competent than at 21. I had a lot of awesome times with fun chicks after college. So don't lament the past, it's a sunk cost. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/20 01:24 PM |
| 15 | Discovered LTR's cheating activity from 2017Why is that any different than some faggot jumping up to white knight for a chick because he thinks you're bad for her? | /r/askTRP | 07/05/20 01:19 PM |
| -2 | kids, women and marriageMeh, I know a guy who's up to at least 11 kids that anyone talks about. A few are the same age and half-siblings. He had zero commitment to most of them, and nothing longer than a year with any of them. It's pretty easy if you ask me. | /r/askMRP | 07/05/20 01:14 PM |
| 0 | kids, women and marriageRule 5. We don't judge what is right or wrong in sexual strategies, only if it works So how would he rephrase this from a sexual strategy standpoint? Is OP's question potentially fraught with moral questions? Absolutely. Is it our position to Judge, nope. Once the crowd takes the 'moral high ground' the sub loses objectivity. So how would r/redrover857 phrase his response in a way that is objective and holds rule 0 paramount? | /r/askMRP | 07/05/20 01:10 PM |
| 3 | kids, women and marriageJust go to Walmart. Plenty of young single Moms with multiple baby-daddies if that's what you like. | /r/askMRP | 07/05/20 11:13 AM |
| -4 | kids, women and marriageIt seems awful close to moralizing. What's your point? | /r/askMRP | 07/05/20 11:12 AM |
| 26 | Requesting advice on dealing with wife hiding somethingIf my eldest son came to me and said, "I accidentally flooded the bathroom" and I smacked him across the face what do you think he's going to do next time he fucks up? Leadership has many styles but if yours is one where there's fear in reprisal from an honest answer you need to ask yourself what is it worth it to you to get the truth? The problem isn't that she lied now, it's likely that somewhere in the past you shot the proverbial messenger. And then when you expect honesty from her, you doub… | /r/askMRP | 06/05/20 05:08 PM |
| 20 | My (20M) girlfriend (20F) has too much power over meWhen I was in my twenties my girlfriend got mad at me for some inane reason. The next day I called her and she politely told me, "I'm not talking to you, I'll call you when I'm ready". Cool with me, I was going to make plans with her for the weekend but I could adjust. I called up a buddy and asked him, "Going to AC for the weekend I need a wingman" I put my cell on silent mode. We went to AC, played poker and shot craps, stayed up until 5 or 6 am each night. We went out and had a steak and dran… | /r/askTRP | 05/05/20 01:15 PM |
| 6 | Potential LTR I’m seeing asks me a hypothetical question about vacationing with friends"Potential LTR" That's the real key here. This is where you put the woman on a pedestal and fucked up. High-value women will constantly demonstrate their worth to you by trying to keep up with you. I see too many young guys trying to elevate women to their standards only to be disappointed when she fails. If you want an LTR you should have impossibly high standards. You should have a set checklist for denial of promotion, and those standards should get progressively harder and harder. An LTR is … | /r/askTRP | 05/05/20 12:53 PM |
| 9 | Men in your 40s - if you can turn back time, what do you wish you knew in your 30s?I never had a problem with girls. I've always managed to find a girlfriend or date when I wanted. But, I was a serial monogamist. I stayed in a few relationships that I should have ended way earlier. I gave some girls way higher value than they had. To that, I gave too many relationships value that they didn't have. I probably stayed too long in a few jobs for the same reasons too. I learned many hard lessons that the only person who will ever advocate for your needs is you. Put your mission fir… | /r/askTRP | 05/05/20 12:25 PM |
| 10 | Why The Red Pill died with MillenialsI think this is a classic mistake that all generations make. Right now it's the millennials mistake to make. It has a formula, now that our generation has figured out what the previous generation was doing wrong... I was working a consulting gig and this young engineer was with me. When I started asking him basic questions about the background of the problem, he couldn't answer them. He literally pulled out his phone and tried to google up an answer. I told him, "Let's try something else" and ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/20 04:55 PM |
| 4 | How much cyclical craziness do you accept from a woman your genuinely enjoy? (how much on-again-off-again will you do before you just decide to "next"?)You talk too fucking much. saying "omg how are you so mature? Why do you even put up with me?" I can't see you anymore because it's bad for my mental health and I don't wanna be the crazy girl getting angry at you all the time. I can't wait [for exclusivity] any more" She tells me that she's getting into prayer and studying and other wholesome self-improvement shit but she always goes back to her mood swings. Blah, blah, blah, blah... You know she says this shit for her own good, not yours… | /r/askTRP | 01/05/20 05:06 PM |
| 23 | How can I get back into the drivers' seat and save my marriage with childrenYou're going to take a beating, but with tough love will come good advice. Right now, you have a major red-flag. You are helping your wife branch swing. You've given her permission to start a relationship with another man, all because you are "woke" and want her to have a break from being mom. You don't get to take a break from your responsibilities. Did she fuck him? Many on this board are going to say she did, and believe me there's good evidence that points to it. Just because she's out runni… | /r/askMRP | 30/04/20 12:56 PM |
| – | How can I get back into the drivers' seat and save my marriage with childrenBetter for r/AskMRP, take it there. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 30/04/20 11:35 AM |
| 5 | Is it worth it?Hey, you know what? Divorce is reversible. So divorce her. It seems like you've gotten what you want but now that you have it, it's not worth it. Women will always pick fights. That's why "Why won't she love me for being me" never works. Rule zero is paramount. Other than that, why stay married if you're not up to the rest of the shit that goes with it? Maybe she's not the right woman for you? Find another. Really who gives a fuck. What do you really want? | /r/askMRP | 29/04/20 12:55 PM |
| 1 | Am I attracting women with mental health issues or is every woman carry heavy mental health issues?But 90% of women are ruining their lives/mental health by financially overextending themselves with student debt for fake degrees and vanity trips for instagram content. My personal experience is that the depression that a lot of women face comes from trying to be one of the boys. Then along comes yet another beta-boy who wants to be 'equal partners'. From that comes a lack of leadership, and insecurity. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/20 01:25 PM |
| 1 | LTR planning on sending nudes as an art project to her fine arts lecturerThere's no such thing as LDR pandemic or not. You understand why? | /r/askTRP | 25/04/20 10:12 PM |
| 3 | What would make a woman force her hand into breaking up with a stable betabux?cuz all the girls i been with been like that So you know what they all have in common? You. Filter better. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/20 02:05 PM |
| 2 | What would make a woman force her hand into breaking up with a stable betabux?Either she's BPD or you think more of yourself than you should. Which is it? | /r/askTRP | 24/04/20 01:48 PM |
| 5 | How to think quicker on your feet for shit tests?First, practice the art of Shut The Fuck Up. Sometimes just staring at her when she's being bratty or throwing shit tests is enough. Learn to value your time first and foremost. Not every shit test has to be crushed with impunity, many can just be ignored. As you master the art of STFU, you'll gain the ability to listen and understand what she's really saying. Is she being playful or cunty? If my wife is being playful, I'll give her the foreplay she wants and smash her shit tests. If she's being… | /r/askTRP | 24/04/20 01:43 PM |
| 8 | What would make a woman force her hand into breaking up with a stable betabux?Tell her your gay, because you sound like a homo already. Value in, is value out. What value do you get out of this? Married, kids, major assets to split? You worry about splitting up. LTR with no legal obligation? "Hey this isn't working, it's not me, it's you" Or at least come to a 'mutual understanding' so she doesnt make a shitshow out of it You need to ask yourself why you are afraid of her feelings. They're hers and only hers to own. Quit trying to fix her. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/20 01:34 PM |
| 11 | How do I deal with my ex-girlfriend telling people lies about me?Just look at this way, she's doing these things to protect her ego, not for your benefit. I remember when I was young there was a dude that ran around in some of the same circles as me. He was banging a bunch of the girls that all knew each other. One would go out with him, then he'd get caught banging another girl. Then that girl would trash him, tell stories about him, and all the other girls would go, "You go girl!" Meanwhile, the first chance any of them got? Right in his bed. They would ope… | /r/askTRP | 20/04/20 12:39 PM |
| 1 | How to Quit Pot if Doing So Will Lose All of Your Friends/lock | /r/askTRP | 16/04/20 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Is there any upside at all to marriage if a man is High Net Worth?But petrified to think of an event where I get a poor partner or bad mother for them Maybe this is a lack of abundance? If you're a 1% man, don't you think you could find and develop a 1% LTR? | /r/askTRP | 16/04/20 12:47 PM |
| 1 | What are some phrases people commonly say that makes them look weak?What's a specific example, maybe we could help better with that. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/20 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Is there any upside at all to marriage if a man is High Net Worth?So full disclosure, I'm married and have kids. Would I get married if I didn't have kids? Nope. Not enough upside, especially for a high net worth individual. If my wife stops holding up her end of the bargain, I would never get married again. I'm also somewhat introverted and I am generally pretty happy for long periods of time alone. As far as kids go, I always wanted them. I always saw myself as a family man, and love the fact that I get to teach my kids something new every day. what exactly … | /r/askTRP | 15/04/20 02:19 PM |
| 3 | How old are most guys in this sub?47 and can remember my first redpill 'aha' moment like it was yesterday. That was 28 years ago. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/20 02:08 PM |
| 9 | What are some phrases people commonly say that makes them look weak?I was trying to do... It's not my fault... I was only putting the part on when... Well if Bill had done Xyz we wouldn't be here... Whether DEER comes out of your mouth or someone else's, it's slimy and shows a lack of ownership. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/20 02:05 PM |
| 11 | What are some phrases people commonly say that makes them look weak?Why is saying fuck me bad? Law 10, Avoid the unlucky or unhappy... It's on the sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/20 02:01 PM |
| 7 | OneitisYou are gripped by fear. Fear comes from feeling like you don't have options. For example, dumping her now will leave me in a mess until the lockdown is over. The way to get over this fear is two-fold. First, live in the fear. Embrace the suck and deal with it head-on. "Yep, this is going to suck, but I'll come out on the other side." If you enter into any transaction, be it a business transaction or a relationship, you should always assess it from a standpoint of 'what do I have to gain, and wh… | /r/askTRP | 15/04/20 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Good job fields to consider now?Are you comfortable talking to people? Are you good at presenting to people and in front of a room? Do you mind negotiation or even like it? STEM degree background can do quite well in technical sales. I know plenty of people that went from being a junior technical person to sales. Six-figure income is pretty easy. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/20 11:54 AM |
| – | What’s the point of an LTR?Take this shit posting to AskMRP | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/04/20 11:35 AM |
| 5 | Giving No More Nr Nice Guy to my father - worth it?It's a Bible verse. Matthew 7:6. I'm not religious, so it's one of the few I know. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/20 09:52 PM |
| 3 | Giving No More Nr Nice Guy to my father - worth it?Yep, he's not ready. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/20 07:02 PM |
| 3 | Giving No More Nr Nice Guy to my father - worth it?In sales there's the saying, "You're right" and then there is the saying, "That's right!" (thanks Chris Voss). If he's truly saying, that's right! it means he agrees with you. If he's saying, "you're right, I need to be..." it means he's trying to appease you to get you to shut up or move on. You can give him the book, but make sure he's actually getting to a point where he's really embraced wanting to make change. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/20 06:49 PM |
| 10 | Giving No More Nr Nice Guy to my father - worth it?Did he ask you for advice? "Do not give what is holy to the dogs; nor cast your pearls before swine, lest they trample them under their feet, and turn and tear you in pieces." The wisdom of this quote is to not give something of value who doesn't value it, and they will resent you for it. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/20 03:41 PM |
| 4 | Girl mad because I put her in her place. How would you have responded?Good luck and slay bro. Also tons of Brazillian and Latino south American Tourists and business people, so plenty of ONS options. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/20 02:53 PM |
| 10 | Girl mad because I put her in her place. How would you have responded?I fucking love Miami. I'm half Italian so I get weird sideways looks like, "Is he Cuban?". Then when I hear girls talking in Spanish, I'll answer them in English. It confuses the fuck out of them. Sushi joints with hot Latina waitresses and Cigar shops? Fuck yeah. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/20 02:06 PM |
| 150 | My GF won't have any sex with me after 3 months because I am virgin.As u/redhorndog pointed out, Iron Rule #3, is absolutely in effect here. You might also want to read his post on, "Saving the Best" Women will paint themselves in a light that makes them feel better about themselves, but they'll do it in a way that appears to be for your benefit. So she says she slept with a guy after only 3 months? It was probably way sooner than that. She knows that, but she's said it enough she actually now believes it was 3 months. She says she was raped, yet she moves in wi… | /r/askTRP | 10/04/20 01:19 PM |
| 13 | Girl mad because I put her in her place. How would you have responded?If that’s your first Latina, get used to shit like that. It’s a bombardment of shit tests Right? My experience is they love to be bratty, then when the right guy shows them who's boss, it's all "Pappi, mi Rey...". It's like they want to know you can actually be in charge, so when you are you don't hold back. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/20 12:42 PM |
| 3 | Married men make more money than single men. Is this the REAL reason?It's just math Bro. The number of single adults is 45.2% of the 18 and over population. 53% is women. so single men are 47% of that. Add to the fact that, as you age, your career is likely to be better. Conversely, you'll also likely to be younger and single. Take any man and the later in life he is, he probably makes more money than a similar status younger male. He's also more likely to be married. You would need to compare apples to apples, say a cohort of mechanical engineers with 10 years o… | /r/askTRP | 09/04/20 08:00 PM |
| 1 | I really feel angry when guys try to push their weight around at work. It’s so overt and yet I can’t prove they did anything wrong...Law 22 is bullshit, nobody wants sympathy. Don't misconstrue sympathy for empathy. If I said, "Awe you're mad. Here's a cookie." That's sympathy. If I said, "You seem mad..." I'm merely acknowledging his feelings. Like I said, your initial reaction was actually dismissive of him, and as you saw he actually got angrier. Work is a complicated place. Sometimes you need to pick your battles and play the long game. Recently I was involved in a similar situation where a colleague in a side hustle wa… | /r/askTRP | 08/04/20 04:56 PM |
| 10 | I really feel angry when guys try to push their weight around at work. It’s so overt and yet I can’t prove they did anything wrong...“chill out- it’s not that serious” I'm not a fan of these kinds of responses. It's another way of saying, "I don't care what you think so fuck off." Now if that's what you wanted to say, go for it. But understand there are consequences. Work and the workplace are where games of power and control are played. So go back to the book "The 48 laws of power" and ask yourself, what could have been done to play this differently? Here are a few: Law 12: Use selective honesty and generosity to disarm your… | /r/askTRP | 08/04/20 03:28 PM |
| 5 | AMOG - disqualifying associates who chase every girlCaptain sav-a-ho, or Captain sav-a-bro, not much difference here? Maybe you'd do this guy a favor by plating this chick? Maybe he'd freak out and turn his life around and hit the gym. Or maybe he'd just go on living his life on the same shitty groundhog day-repeat cycle. He's not a friend, so why do you give a fuck about him? He's not asking you for help, so why would you care? Fuck her, or don't fuck her, but it has nothing to do with him. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/20 03:06 PM |
| 99 | She came back?You absolutely have oneitis. If you didn't you'd be spinning plates and this would be an afterthought. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/20 11:42 AM |
| 6 | Cutting a girl offso ultimately, is the correct thing to completely cut her off and don't tell her why and not ask her what is it that she didn't tell me? Absolutely. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/20 03:49 PM |
| 9 | Cutting a girl offWhat the fuck dude. Why are you wasting valuable time on this? we don't live in the same countries There's no such thing as LDR's. You don't have a relationship with the chick. Why the fuck are you torturing yourself over this? Let's get something straight. Chicks don't tell you things to help you or get closure. They tell you shit to unburden themselves. Ever see a chick tell a dude, "Well I was at a party and yadda yadda yadda, we woke up naked together? Whew, I feel better." The shitty news i… | /r/askTRP | 07/04/20 03:22 PM |
| 14 | How often is too often?with me Dammit, you beat me to it. OP, the world makes a new 21-year-old every single day. If you are a high-value man, she will make sure that your needs are met. | /r/askMRP | 07/04/20 01:36 PM |
| 13 | Do people actually see the red pill as an ideology?At it's core it's supposed to be pragmatic. A set of guidelines and disciplines that help you achieve rule zero. Ideology and pragmatism rarely make good bedfellows. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/20 07:34 PM |
| 5 | How to have the salesman skills ?And practice. Practice the art of DNGAF. Learn how to refine your art. They say a good salesman is slightly empathetic, but not so much that they take the customers side. You have to believe that you're right and they're wrong, but not that they're crazy. Another good book is Never Split The Difference by Chris Voss . It's a negotiation book, but reality is, your always negotiating in sales. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/20 06:54 PM |
| 2 | Why ‘Assholes’ Get Laid, And You Don’tNice guys and white knights come off as unattractive because they are inherently dishonest. They commit covert contract after covert contract and try to negotiate attraction. Women see through justs as if a guy blantently asks "I'll give you 50 bucks to suck my dick". At least there he's honest with his intentions. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/04/20 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Need some career-advice. Really want to become more successful.You are triggered. I'm an engineer too. My friend has the summers off because of his teaching position, that wasn't clear I get that. I do not, nor do I suspect you do have that kind of additional time off. I didn't say we don't have free time, but it's different for sure. Op is a teacher, that's the example I was giving him | /r/askTRP | 02/04/20 09:20 PM |
| 3 | Need some career-advice. Really want to become more successful.Why the fuck does everyone all of a sudden know what it's like to be a teacher when they are not one themselves ? Because you have a sister who is a teacher you're an expert? Or did I miss the part where you are a teacher? Notice, I never said it was not a hard job. Notice I never said anything about it being masculine or feminine? I too have a close relative who is an elementary teacher and he toured with a band and taught first grade, one of the reasons he taught? Because he could do his music… | /r/askTRP | 02/04/20 05:18 PM |
| 5 | Need some career-advice. Really want to become more successful.Does she grade papers the whole entire summer? Maybe you missed that point. Who knows how your sister manages her time? Maybe she sucks at being organized. I know plenty of teachers who have spare time for side hustles, playing in the band, working on the house, etc. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/20 03:53 PM |
| 43 | Need some career-advice. Really want to become more successful.Don't lament what your job isn't. Instead, focus on what it is. I had a teacher in high school that ran a custom cabinet company, in a boomtown. He made more money in the summer off than he did the whole year as a teacher. He had the stability and long term benefits of a teacher while capitalizing on an economic boom. I have another friend like you, working in the school system, in a highly tech-focused area. While all the enginerds are slaving away 50-60 hours a week he's sailing on a nice boat… | /r/askTRP | 02/04/20 11:32 AM |
| 9 | If women are so attracted to dominance and fear-inducing behavior, why do they seem to hate men so much because of it?If you go to a strip club and drop 500 bucks on a few strippers and the next time you go they flock around you like flys on shit that doesn't make you attractive. Harvey had power and influence and many were all too glad to prostitute themselves for it. Harvey committed one of the most egregious of sins, negotiated attraction. Once he outlived his usefulness he was thrown to the wolves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/20 04:21 PM |
| 21 | STIs and platesHe's not wrong. I mean hell, babies are technically STI's. He got it by banging strange. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/20 03:03 PM |
| 2 | If women are so attracted to dominance and fear-inducing behavior, why do they seem to hate men so much because of it?When I was a young bro I used to go out and hit the bars with my cousin and his friends. It was a group of mostly blue collar types, all jacked from working concrete and construction. There was a smattering of girls, some girl friends, some fwbs, some just easy, that made these rounds also. Inevitably one of the girls would say ,"that guy grabbed my ass" or some other transgression. The guy that was the focus invariably got his ass beat in and whomever did the pummeling went home with one of the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/20 02:50 PM |
| 2 | Fellas, I'm struggling with fighting off black pill beliefs. I'm worried it will overcome me like my nigga VenomMgtow and incels are retards. Every incel I've ever delt with likely has a serious personality disorder. They're like anorexics and body dismorophic disorder people. They don't see the world correctly. Would you take an anorexics advice on nutrition? | /r/askTRP | 31/03/20 01:45 PM |
| 3 | Should i cut off communication with my problematic father(possibly the rest of my family as well) ?Repeat after me, "I am the prize. I am the prize!" Women, men, and even parents get to enter your life because you let them, not the other way around. When you are independent and out on your own, you set the rules that your dad interacts with you. Say he starts yelling or freaking out, "alright Dad I'm going to leave" and vanish. Or if you catch him in a lie, ignore it and don't let it affect you. Your behavior should clearly demonstrate that if you don't like his, you will find better shit to … | /r/askTRP | 31/03/20 01:41 PM |
| 17 | If women are so attracted to dominance and fear-inducing behavior, why do they seem to hate men so much because of it?Harvey Weinstein wielded power over women but he is physically revolting. So some of what you are talking about is when unattractive men use their strength or power over those who aren't attracted to them. My wife likes it when I pick her up or physically over power her during a romp. If I pushed her into the ground and held her down while yelling at her for fucking up the cleaning the floor? Decidedly not sexy to her. I think of it like being a big old silver back. She finds security and attrac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/20 01:14 PM |
| 10 | How bad is an open relationship?She will get dicked immediately and a lot. Your friends will start sniffing around and asking questions. Are you ready for that? Rule zero is paramount. Get the sex you want, first and foremost. The real question is why would you consider it? I can only assume you are roughly the same age. Maybe you are just starting your career/training in life. Your effort maybe better spent spinning plates, building your mission. You like her, but beware of the sink cost fallacy. On the other hand, she maybe … | /r/askTRP | 30/03/20 08:05 PM |
| 3 | Bald shit tests.A lot of people aren't prepared to defend their position much less explain it.get them moving backwards and usually easy from there. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/20 01:09 PM |
| 1 | What double standards between men and women *should* exist?Everyone, male and female, know men are physically stronger on average. Just look at most mammals, the male is usually stronger than the female. You'd think that was the case,and while I agree with you that most believe that, there's still a sizable minority that doesn't believe it. Hell, I've had conversations here in reddit that started out "with training a woman can be as strong as a man". When I showed them the evidence that proved otherwise they were genuinely suprised. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/20 12:39 PM |
| 9 | Is this a back handed compliment?What does your dick say about her when she's trying to swallow it? Watch her actions,not her words. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/20 12:30 PM |
| 2 | Dropped out of College Today. What is my best option?Yeah, I'd at least take the ASVAB. With an engineering background, he may be able to go into a tech background. Army is putting guys straight into W1 for cyberwarfare. I knew a guy who was a fuck up, in college, but that good ASVAB score and some technical background got him into nukes and he enlisted as an E-3 (he had completed course though). | /r/askTRP | 29/03/20 09:13 PM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts on being romantic?It's a classic, but be a skittles guy. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/20 09:02 PM |
| 7 | What are your thoughts on being romantic?It's a compliance test. Give freely, because you can and only with no expectation in return. Instead, go read the sex god method. Women crave DEVI, Dominance, Emotion, VAriety, and Intensity. She saying "I want more emotion in my life". Even though it's meant for in the bedroom, it works in life too. So instead of romantic, tell her "Friday, I'm going to pick you up, where your slinky black dress" then takes her to Ice Cream, and then a nice little jazz bar to talk and listen to music. Be unpred… | /r/askTRP | 29/03/20 07:35 PM |
| 2 | How do you react when your GF or FWB act jealous / angry ?Texting is for logistics. I say again, texting is for logistics. If she said that shit about waiting a day on her end, go radio silent after. fwb "guess u was busy with all your girls friends" That gets ignored also. By simply answering "Not even, lol" you were defending your actions, aka DEER. Set good boundaries and enforce them. If she is a FWB, then you're banging other girls right? "Hey, we're just casual, so I don't bother you with your business, so why would you bother me with my busine… | /r/askTRP | 29/03/20 07:21 PM |
| 215 | Bald shit tests.Drop it deadpan, "Yeah, it never grew back from the chemo", then look them straight in the eye with a few seconds of silence. "Ha just fucking with you." The key is to make someone feel awkward for their own comment. Remember, when people say this shit they are trying to get you to judge yourself, instead put it right back on themselves and make them judge their own actions. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/20 07:04 PM |
| 22 | Talk with LTR about body countI used to date Jewish girls in the north east. Many came from conservative backgrounds and would never marry a catholic Italian like me. They would suck your dick, they would let you fuck their ass, but the vagina was safe for Moshe. They'd happily wear white on the wedding day and go off and marry proclaiming they were pure as the driven snow. In their mind, it was all true, because that's how they felt. It didn't count because it was in their ass, or I was a catholic and it was never going to … | /r/askTRP | 27/03/20 03:33 PM |
| 10 | Had sex with a 18 year old girl from tinder on 1st date. Im 26. Girl says it doesnt feel comfortable to date someone my age.Seems like a feature not a bug. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/20 01:16 PM |
| 72 | Had sex with a 18 year old girl from tinder on 1st date. Im 26. Girl says it doesnt feel comfortable to date someone my age.It's a really good way to reframe any overly emotional discussion with a woman. If my wife is out of control and being crazy I'll just tell her, "hey I know your emotional so ill let you have your space, when you're ready to have adult discussions I'm here" Sometimes a quick, "hey, put your big girl panties on we have big people things to accomplish" will knock her right out of that bratty state. Look at her emotions, reframe it how you'd like to see it, and give her a safe place to land. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/20 01:14 PM |
| 2 | Movies were the nerdy, dorky, "nice" guy gets the hot girl are almost always made by men for men, yet TRP still blames women for "misleading" themSure we do. That's why we have asktrp and AskMRP. Some guys lie to themselves and do nothing. Some lie and get called out on it. When they make a change that's growth. OP was stating that men get angry at various sources for telling them lies and filling themselves with false hope. The reality is, they lied to themselves. Some guys get past it. Some don't. Hell the whole Redpill meme is based on swallowing the red pill so you see the truth. So that you stop accepting the lies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/20 01:07 PM |
| 6 | How do you behave towards colleagues/acquaintances/distant family with different opinions about relationships?When I was a high school kid I got a job working for a corporate catering place. There was this bull dyke lesbian that had a 'life-partner' way before it was vanguard and hip to be LGBTQIADFASD. One day she up and leaves her partner and marries a man. A couple years later she's got kids and the whole white picket fence, etc. You know what I understood about her whole change of heart and awakening? Nothing. Nada. Zilch. Why would I care about a lesbian-gone-breeder and how and why she made the li… | /r/askTRP | 26/03/20 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Movies were the nerdy, dorky, "nice" guy gets the hot girl are almost always made by men for men, yet TRP still blames women for "misleading" themWhat do you mean? That's a little open-ended. It can be a host of things, but context is key. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/20 04:16 PM |
| 37 | Movies were the nerdy, dorky, "nice" guy gets the hot girl are almost always made by men for men, yet TRP still blames women for "misleading" themBluepill guys lie to themselves all the time. How many guys I've seen say, "I don't play politics at work", only to get fired or "I think she really likes me" after spending $200 on lap dances. Look at all the stupid fucks out there who say things like, communism wasn't done the right way yet. They still think there's some magic formula out there where it will actually work. Incels, and MGTOW may blame women for misleading them. But a vangaurd redpill guy who is integrated gets life; the only pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/20 01:26 PM |
| 15 | Beta signals in LTR, clarificationThis. People confuse beta with caregiving. Caretaking is beta, caregiving is alpha. Give freely because you can and have no expectations in return. Betas would think "if I comfort her she'll fuck me" An alpha is an oak to his women. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/20 02:53 PM |
| 2 | How do you call out fake crying without putting your career into jeopardy?It's almost like they wrote a book about it... Either you don't care, or you should do something about it. Don't be a passive participant if it is affecting you though. Make others come to you. Conceal your intentions Speak like others but think for your self Avoid the unhappy or unlucky Pose as a friend work as a spy Keep your hands clean. Befriend said chick. Get her to play up her actions and tell her she's should not take shit from anyone. Meanwhile build a case of her poor performance and h… | /r/askTRP | 19/03/20 08:54 PM |
| 0 | Why is the phrase “You’re not a guy. You wouldnt understand our sex drive” so popular here?I wish I could find the article, but the only one I see is behind a paywall. This woman decides to take testosterone for a few weeks to see what it's like to live like a man. What she finds is that she's basically a rage infused ball of horniness. She thought, "Yeah I might be a little grumpier or maybe a bit more aggressive" but she said it was magnitudes more than she could have ever imagined. It may be anecdotal, but I still think it's pretty telling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/20 11:48 AM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 17, 2020Also, I have been taking on a large burden of the household recently and leading and my wife is really starting to appreciate it, feeling entitled to it, and I feel good about it, as in the past I ultimately was the drunk captain and she led, although I made most of the final decisions. I also handle the finances. Listen, dude. Your wife looked you directly in the eye and lied. She goes out, bangs chad and then comes home like it never happened. Does that seem like a woman who appreciates you? I… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/03/20 05:05 PM |
| 18 | Caught her in a lieOk, let's start with the obvious. You promoted a previously demoted chick. FWB's do not get demoted only to be promoted back to what others have pointed out is essentially an LTR. This was a valuable effort you could have spent developing new plates. Second, let's talk about boundaries. There are defined boundaries, ie don't take my protein shake I made just before I go to the gym. And there are implied boundaries, ie don't do things that make you untrustworthy. If a girl is so low value that yo… | /r/askTRP | 17/03/20 11:26 AM |
| 8 | Do lower SMV girls know that they don’t got any chance with higher SMV guys?Do they? Do an experiment. Make up a throwaway account, google up a pic of some blue and pink hair chick with tattoos and post on r4r and watch how much your inbox gets filled with thirsty bro's and dick picks. Dick is free. The more important question is, how do you make this work for you? | /r/askTRP | 16/03/20 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Stay clear of female bosses?I've had a few women bosses, but I've also worked in a predominantly female environment as an engineer from an all-male department. What I failed early in my career to recognize was that even in work, women communicate vastly different than men. If I stated a simple fact, "Your product failed because a and b" it was perceived as a personal attack. I had to become very good at bringing them to a consensus when it was obvious. Strangely enough, one of my best work relationships was with a Russian … | /r/askTRP | 16/03/20 11:18 AM |
| 36 | Joe Rogan is stunned at Miriam Nakamoto’s open display of hypergamyBut what can we learn from this? 100:1 says she likes to have her hair pulled and get choked while getting dicked down by a caveman. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/20 07:49 PM |
| 3 | How to be a good leaderYou can't lead people who don't want to follow leaders. Translation: get rid of bad actors, cancers, nuisances, anything that disrupts the team. People will LOVE you when you do this. People would MUCH rather pick up the extra slack themselves than continue to work with people who they consider to be slackers that drag down the team. I learned early in my career after firing a bad employee and hiring a new one. Now when I start a new organization, the first thing I do is clean house. It usually … | /r/askTRP | 13/03/20 07:37 PM |
| 2 | How to be a good leaderEarly in my career I took a front line manager class. SMART was the acronym we used. Specific - Do the data analysis code Measurable - Can I run the analysis code once it's developed? What milestones can be checked before the final delivery? Achievable - If you yourself worked on it, could you do it by then? Realistic/Relevent - Does it support your app development project? Timebound. - Need it by next Thursday. Lead people and manage things. Ask him what resources he needs from you to get the t… | /r/askTRP | 13/03/20 07:35 PM |
| 3 | So... you got the "I love you but I'm not in love with you" (ILYBINILWY) speech?A couple days go by and some of the younger women reach out to me and ask me to meet them out for drinks. They know about the problems between my wife and I, and they want to help. I go meet them and, sure enough, they tell me that my wife has been banging both Chad and Alex J while I've been away. I find this even more interesting than Chad and Alex's behavior. Men can be downright blunt and too the point, but women? I hope you banged a couple of them just to let it get out to your ex. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/03/20 03:42 PM |
| 17 | Girlfriend broke up with me while we’re on spring breakI get it. Make her pay for gas, and all the same shit one of your frat brothers would pay for. Stop doing boyfriend things. Make her get her own shit out of the car, etc. Act like it's just another day and you have no cares. The opposite of love is indifference. Show her that you are indifferent, but you are forewarned, she may very well come back saying she made a mistake. She's a plate now. She gets plate privileges. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/20 03:19 PM |
| 33 | Girlfriend broke up with me while we’re on spring breakBack when I was young and stupid I was visiting friends and family over the holidays. The girl I was dating at the time and I had gone down together from a few states away. We had planned to see separate friends and family, and then end up together for the last few days for New Years'. She got cold and distant during the trip (in hindsight she had been asking me to kill the puppy for months), fed up I finally pulled the trigger and told her it wasn't working. She cried and said she felt it was c… | /r/askTRP | 13/03/20 02:23 PM |
| 24 | Do alphas settle down?Rule zero is paramount. Don't look it at it as "settling down". If you are alpha, you look at it as part of the mission. I always wanted kids. I love being a dad. The best way to produce productive, well-adjusted kids is in a nuclear family. They are part of my mission, but not necessarily the focus of the mission. Make no mistakes, I'm under no delusions about my wife. She could flake tomorrow and I'd have to find a replacement (a few to be exact), but for right now, it's all working. You have … | /r/askTRP | 13/03/20 02:07 PM |
| 13 | Never got any trouble with this girl but says we have to be equal.To ignore it or maybe tell her openly we are never gonna be equal? Do you know who talks to each other? Girlfriends. They love to sit around and talk about their feelings. Women deliver emotion when they communicate, men deliver content. What was she delivering when she said this? Don't listen to a woman's words, watch her actions. Conversely, never tell a woman what the rules are, demonstrate through your actions. I'll give you an example. My Feminist never-Trumper cousin loves to tell people t… | /r/askTRP | 12/03/20 02:04 PM |
| 3 | Plate is mad, how should i answer ?Ignore like it didn't happen. Don't let a woman's emotions sway you. Don't ever justify your behavior to a woman. Send her a text, "hey drinks and then we can walk to my place after?" | /r/askTRP | 10/03/20 10:27 PM |
| 5 | LTR is moving an hour away to start a job in a different city, I want to downgrade her to avoid LDR. How do I do this?"hey with you moving, I think we need to be honest. It's not right to do the long distance thing. But you're still important in my life so when you do come to town, I'd love to get together." Ultimately rule zero is paramount. Don't let her emotions change your principals. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/20 10:24 PM |
| 3 | Ex keeps asking why I have her blockedI had the good fortune of actually saying this to a woman once. It was savagery. Thank you Sam Malone. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/20 10:18 PM |
| 2 | Is it too late to confront?Why would I give my time to anyone I don't value? | /r/askMRP | 10/03/20 09:47 PM |
| 4 | Is it too late to confront?I think the right play would have been to just leave. "hey it's time for us to go." No explanation, no drama. Leave the guy wondering. If your wife asks why, you simply say "I didn't like the company anymore." | /r/askMRP | 10/03/20 08:05 PM |
| 2 | New Sheriff in TownPorque no Los dos? She's the new boss, of course she's making changes and showing her boss what she can do. You've read the Laws of Power haven't you? You have a great opportunity to improve your position at your work place. Go play the game. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/20 06:08 PM |
| 26 | Plate having sex with roommate to get under my skin: What to do?I'm not really bothered, because she's a plate But you are. Oneitis as others have suggested. Ask yourself why it bothers you so bad. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/20 03:30 PM |
| 37 | What do you do when a girl is withholding sex to secure commitment?If you were spinning plates you wouldn't be worried about this. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/20 06:46 PM |
| 27 | I seem to be attracting post wall women exclusivelySee this is great information right? You know why the Nigerian prince scam works so well? It's self filtering. People who aren't going to fall for it, immediately reject it. But the 1 in 1000 that do fall for it are in. Girls that are disinterested or shy? They are self filtering. Try one or two opens, and then move on. Try to get to shit test immediately if that's what works for you. You want girls to do the work for you so that when there is a connection it's easy and apparent on your side. Th… | /r/askTRP | 06/03/20 06:52 PM |
| 9 | I guess my main event is going to be today.It really is that simple. | /r/askMRP | 06/03/20 06:42 PM |
| 7 | I guess my main event is going to be today.We have a rule in my house. If your text doesn't say urgent, it gets responded to when the time is right. | /r/askMRP | 06/03/20 05:50 PM |
| 15 | I guess my main event is going to be today.The first response was wrong from the get go. She came at you snarky and bitchy. You should have shut it down or ignored. I don't know your story, but this kind of shit come from trying to own her feelz. Every time she responded you engaged her and her bad behavior. Then you tried to make her feel better "I hope you have a good day" My wife starts raging on text, I either call her or state simply "I see that you're upset and doing this over text wouldn't be fair to you or me." Then go radio sile… | /r/askMRP | 06/03/20 05:19 PM |
| 26 | I guess my main event is going to be today.Your first fuck up was texting. Texting is for logistics. I say again, texting is for logistics. That's your warning. | /r/askMRP | 06/03/20 05:07 PM |
| 116 | I seem to be attracting post wall women exclusivelyYou've closed the deal exactly twice... If this were sales we'd talk about sales funnel, prospects and deals closed. So your funnel had a wide range of possibilities but contained customers who are less than ideal. But you did close on 2, customers. What worked on those 2 that worked well? Do that more. What works on the post wall chicks? Do that less. What are you doing with your target that isn't working? Do that less. I'm an older dude, and can say that girls post wall tend to be more jaded. … | /r/askTRP | 06/03/20 05:02 PM |
| 10 | Girlfriend wants me to train her.Is this a genuine want to get fit or some covert way of spending time with me/checking up on me? Or should I help her? Sounds like she's looking for your leadership. Give it to her. | /r/askMRP | 05/03/20 04:24 PM |
| 1 | "Women don't care about your struggles. They wait at the finish line and pick the winners." Do you agree with this?Maybe he traded up in status because she failed to up her game with him. Too many women in the world think they are entitled to the wealth and status a man earned because she popped out some crotch fruit. If I'm making a majority of the income, and she can't keep fit, run the house and be the second in command what do I need her for? I see too many of my contemporaries wives (guys with high income, and SAHM) bitching and complaining that she's lazy and they can't get laid. Hit the gym, get fit, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/20 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Semen and vasectomyhttps://www.express.co.uk/news/world/1109794/sex-news-semen-reproduction-recurrent-miscarriage-fertility Good to go | /r/askMRP | 03/03/20 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Best example of holding frame I've ever seen...Roughly... "It's not a formula 1 car!" "Please for the respect of the mother and father!" "That's enough! Slow down! Your crazy!" It's the same shit any wife says when you drive too fast for her. | /r/askMRP | 02/03/20 03:12 PM |
| – | My girlfriend of 6 months is claiming that she is breaking up with me because I won't do the things she nags about? Nuclear shit test?Texting is for logistics. | /r/askMRP | 02/03/20 02:49 PM |
| 18 | Wife just red pilled me with reverse dreadThere's no such thing as reverse dread. What you witnessed is bad behavior. Frankly if I found out my old lady was going to go troll for dick you'd see me go full stealth mode. Then she'd get served. Your approach is wrong. She won't support you in your mission so you're fucking up your mission. Is this the mark of a good first mate? | /r/askMRP | 28/02/20 09:44 PM |
| 15 | How do you get laid when you still live with your parents?When I was in college this was standard operating for me during summer break. "I didn't know you lived with your parents?" "Yeah, what'd you expect when you were coming into the basement at 2 am?" "Well, will your parents' mind I'm here?" "My mom's old school Italian, and is going to ask you a lot of fucking questions." "Oh, I think I'm going to bounce before she wakes up." The key is to tell your mom you only want to bring home slutty girls so she immediately dislikes them from the get-go. It m… | /r/askTRP | 28/02/20 04:15 PM |
| 18 | Is there any value in FemaleDatingStrategy or are they all just angry post wall 3s?I got into poker in the first wave of it getting popular on TV. If you were good, practiced and spent your time at the table you could make money. The more time you invested, the better you became. You could spot the guys who "read" a book. Maybe they read Super System and now the way they were betting was right out of the book. They'd run their game and 99% of the time they were good enough and they'd take some donks money. Then someone would come along and play the long game and set a trap. Th… | /r/askTRP | 28/02/20 04:09 PM |
| 34 | Why is my EX telling me about her sleeping with other guys?She knows she's a whore, and a shitty girlfriend, but if she can get you to freak out then her hamster can rationalize "see he's a dick! You're better off" Girls do stuff for there own ego, first and foremost. | /r/askTRP | 27/02/20 01:38 PM |
| 3 | Do men really have a protector instinct or is it just a gimmick socially engineered to keep male disposability alive?An interesting idea to support this is the Carnegie hero medal. The foundation gives a medal to people who went above and beyond to save their fellow man. One fact? There's not one case of a woman acting in conjunction with a man. If a man did it, he did it alone. If a woman did it, no man was on the scene. Men are far more likely to be heros, women will do it as a matter of last resort. | /r/askTRP | 27/02/20 01:33 PM |
| 3 | What are your thoughts are on not having kids?Engineering and technical sales | /r/askTRP | 26/02/20 09:43 PM |
| 4 | What are your thoughts are on not having kids?Sure. Let's take one theme that keeps coming up. If you want your mission to be "Travel the world" then make the kids support that. Some people feel like it can hold you back, instead make it so that it empowers you. Me personally, traveling is part of my mission. So at an early age, my kids learned how to travel. They know how to behave in hotels, they know how to camp, they know how to travel like pros. They have passports and all the stuff like that. We teach the kids that experience is prefe… | /r/askTRP | 26/02/20 08:11 PM |
| 30 | What are your thoughts are on not having kids?I have 3 kids, I had them later in life, and sure some days are hard, but man I love the chaos. I live my life with them as I would live without them. My kid's ski, sail, hike, you name it. We make sure that there's adult vacations and kid vacations. Being in my late 40's with younger kids has one benefit; namely, my career is well established and I could afford the things I wanted. Being redpilled and a father, you can appreciate the nature of kids and what they are and are not capable of. In t… | /r/askTRP | 26/02/20 01:12 PM |
| 3 | Paranoid about STDsWalk her to the shower first, for some light washing to prep for foreplay. Inspect as you go. | /r/askTRP | 25/02/20 09:17 PM |
| 41 | The female dating strategy sub inadvertently proving redpill theory correct. Oh the irony."men suffer the burden of performance at all times, first and foremost in courtship" I'd say it's a feature, not a bug. Women will rise to the level of a man that leads them. If they can't they should be ejected for better candidates. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/20 05:40 PM |
| 2 | Hard next or soft nextYoi can't get on the crazy train if no one is at the station. This is a boundary issue that is 100% about poor behavior. "Babe, I don't like you when you are drinking. So go have fun with your girls, but it's best if you don't come here afterwards." If she tries to come over or drunk dial, send her home, or put her on ignore. Do not tolerate poor behavior. Boundaries should be clear, and enforced. | /r/askTRP | 25/02/20 01:49 PM |
| 3 | Did I lose frame?You need to give a reason to say no, instead of getting her to say yes. You said, "I can stay at your place or you can come to mine, its up to you?" Instead put it to her as "hey your place is closer so I'll stay at yours and we'll go to breakfast...." She's hemming and hawing because she wants leadership, so give it to her. | /r/askTRP | 25/02/20 01:31 PM |
| 13 | Girl I’ve been smashing for a few months told me she isn’t healed from her past relationship, doesn’t want to continue seeing each other because she has feelingsTexting is for logistics. I say again texting is for logistics. You know what happens when you let some chick dump her emotional vomit over text? Her pussy dries up, she feels better and you've just given her emotional intimacy without physical intimacy. Next time, only discuss these things after you've given her a good fucking. Every day should be a reset with a favorite plate, fwb, or LTR. Treat it like it never happened. Plates spin, plates fall, so send her a text and set up for the next mee… | /r/askTRP | 25/02/20 01:23 PM |
| 7 | How do I be implicit about restricted stuff - in public?Are you sad when the retards don't win at the Special Olympics? No, of course not, they're out there smiling and drooling having a good time just like those chicks. If she's not a champion then she doesn't deserve the trophy. Don't sweat it. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/20 07:38 PM |
| 8 | How do I be implicit about restricted stuff - in public?It's like a Nigerian prince letter, it's so absurd that it shouldn't work, but when it does... | /r/askTRP | 24/02/20 02:09 PM |
| 33 | How do I be implicit about restricted stuff - in public?".... I don't know why, but I just can't come from blow jobs. Must be me or something." If you want to give a girl a goal to accomplish, work that one into a conversation. She'll make it a mission and then ask you for praise after she's gulped your load. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/20 12:56 PM |
| 8 | Being "good at sex" is for ugly girls. Men don't actually care about your sexual prowess when you're pretty."For every super hot girl, there's some guy sick of fucking her" - Some guy on the internet. Dudes don't like fucking chicks who just lay there, hell they even invented a name for it; starfish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/20 05:03 PM |
| 2 | How to handle ultimatumYeah, he was well regarded on the MRP sub. His wisdom is missed. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/20 02:09 AM |
| 13 | How to handle ultimatumWhat is DEER again?? Remember reading this in another post. Defend, Excuse, Explain, Rationalize. It's the opposite of owning your actions. Here's a post a while back from a former poster on shitty comfort tests. As you progress in the LTR game, it gets a bit more complex, and you need to navigate complex emotional situations. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/20 04:12 PM |
| 4 | Soft nexted a plate/LTR, should I hard next?Listen to what u/Red_Pill_Brotherhood is saying. You DEER'd when you explained to her your reasons, and it's a failure in leadership. Women, this one or others, can smell that shit a mile away. As for the rest that was her number 2 complaint You ever notice that she starts complaining and you then go into explaining mode, "Yeah but I do this and this and this because..." She doubles down on her complaint? Because she senses a lack of resolve in you and doesn't trust you're a good leader. If you … | /r/askTRP | 20/02/20 03:53 PM |
| 247 | How to handle ultimatumAs it's been pointed out, she's trying to change the power dynamic. You could be a kind and benevolent dictator and tell her, "Sure love, but if we move in together under threat how does that start us off on the right foot. How would you feel if I coerced you?" You could be a machiavellian overlord, and simply tell her what she wants until she's outlived her usefulness. Or you could be the Alpha provider and ask yourself, "Does she support my mission? How would adding her to my household do that… | /r/askTRP | 20/02/20 03:42 PM |
| 3 | Single Motherhood, Vetting, and why Redpill should be taught to young man at schoolI realize it's an impossible sell. Of course millions of women would lose plausible deniablility on what whores they can be. I've had a couple kids and cost wise? Meh, it's a drop in the bucket. You test for certain inhertible diseases, certainly someone else's genes are a genetic problem? I think it's a good thought exercise because it would literally derail an entire avenue of deception. It could easily be sold on the grounds of limiting things like BRCA and tesacs etc. Label it as genetic pro… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/20 01:24 PM |
| 6 | Where do I find good women? Going insane, about to hard next all my plates and go into monk modeFirst, you're looking for a 1% girl, so you need to be 0.1% guy. Sounds like your career is on track (although having lived in NYC area 100k job is not as great as it would be in Houston). Get jacked of course. Your on an upward trajectory and every thing you should be planning for is to improve it. Your goal is to be a 0.1% guy by time you are in your early 30's. Second if you don't want to find whores don't look in a whore house. First you need to determine what is your ideal girl. Submissive,… | /r/askTRP | 19/02/20 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Where do I find good women? Going insane, about to hard next all my plates and go into monk modeHahaha... Mormon chicks do some depraved shit bro. I can't tell you how many conservative relegious chicks I've hooked up with over the years who went on to a nice traditional marriage. | /r/askTRP | 19/02/20 02:27 PM |
| 94 | Single Motherhood, Vetting, and why Redpill should be taught to young man at schoolWhy not mandate paternity testing for all birth certificates? They routinely test for STIs prenatally and post birth. Seems like more information for the state. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/20 02:03 PM |
| 184 | Just found my now ex-gf has been fucking 50+ sugar daddies in the last 9 months. I'm sick to my stomach.I know a girl, she's a part-time hairdresser, works at hooters the other 3 days a week. She has blue hair and a full arm sleeve. I know that in college (she dropped out) she had a reputation for a party girl, but that's not verifiable. She fucks like a racehorse and can suck dick for hours. Also, she goes radio silent for hours at a time but she always gets back to me. I feel like she's worth taking a chance on. LTR material or what?!? | /r/askTRP | 17/02/20 07:52 PM |
| -2 | The media staying silent about Amber Heard is a brutal display of how little society cares about men.Sure feel bad for the guy, but he deserves what he earns. His reputation is more than just Amber Heard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/20 06:38 PM |
| 0 | The media staying silent about Amber Heard is a brutal display of how little society cares about men.Why do you believe he needs a white night to save home from himself? What good would it do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/20 06:15 PM |
| -1 | The media staying silent about Amber Heard is a brutal display of how little society cares about men.Johnny Depp stuck his dick in crazy. Why does anyone owe him an apology for his poor choices? His life has been a series of poor choices, but he's benefited from being fucking rich. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/20 04:52 PM |
| 4 | Do women really like older guys? Whats your experience like?Recognize stress and minimize it. As an older dude, I'd add to this. Learn to process stress. Learn to live in it. You need to learn to step back and ask yourself, "Is this in my control or out of it?" "Can I affect what the outcome is if it is in my control?" "If I can't, then what can I do to embrace the suck?" Stress is your brain telling you "I don't know what the fuck is going on and uncertainty freaks me the fuck out." So give your brain as much certainty as possible, even if that outcome … | /r/askTRP | 14/02/20 04:02 PM |
| 0 | What causes a woman to become a feminist/activist?Why are you worried about it? Instead classify girls you could fuck and girls you wouldn't fuck. Don't listen to a woman's words, watch her actions. I have a close family member who is 'woke" love talking about the patriarchy. Meanwhile she's right next to my wife helping serv dinner while I sit at the head of the table. You think I care that she's a feminist? | /r/askTRP | 13/02/20 02:46 PM |
| 39 | Boxing teacher gets overly aggressive. What would you do?You're paying the dude? Your his boss. Act like it. | /r/askMRP | 13/02/20 02:14 PM |
| 7 | Women should NEVER enter the porn industry. Even if the like earning money AND having sex.Men have been disposable for 1000's of years. Need some coal? Send some dudes in a hole and let them dig it until they turn black on the inside. Politicians can't get their shit straight? Send some young men in to do battle. Need some shitty job done where people grind up their bodies for money? Send a man in. Why is it any more appalling when women are disposable? This is the female equivalent of coal miner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/20 10:42 AM |
| 3 | Random texting until you see each other, what do you do?How do you connect? If someone, and I mean anyone starts to text me more than a few things, I pick up the phone. The only person I text at length to is my brother, who's also my best friend. Even then I make it a point to call him. What do you want? It sounds like she's into you. Basically she's asking for more connection. Is she a plate? A fwb? More? There's nothing wrong with emotionally connecting with a woman, if you do it on your terms. You read the sex God method right? Give her good emoti… | /r/askTRP | 11/02/20 05:57 PM |
| 15 | Random texting until you see each other, what do you do?You're operating in her frame. Texting is for logistics. I say again, texting is for logistics. Now when she says shit like "I want to know how you feel about me" move to meet. "cool babe, come over and let's cook dinner" Then bang her good. Only when you are done do you tell her how you feel. "oh I love spending time with you" It conditions her behavior that in order to get good emotional reinforcement, it will be after sexual encounters. It reiterates you are a sexual person and you are in a s… | /r/askTRP | 11/02/20 03:32 PM |
| 13 | I (27M) never wanted to get married, LTR is changing my mindOn the one hand, redpill is amoral and doesn't give a fuck about you, her faith or your lack of it. What does any of what you driveled on about have to do with it? Here's the redpill question any man should ask without the moral baggage. "Do I have the sex life I want?" Rule zero is paramount. How does she answer that question? What I read that you should be really conscious of is this nice little woman is desperately trying to please you with her servitude and sexual favors. She's engaged in a … | /r/askMRP | 10/02/20 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Can’t handle being screamed at. Any ideas how I can fix this problem?Have you read the 48 laws? | /r/askTRP | 08/02/20 02:19 AM |
| 3 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 28, 2020The Five Love Languages Well, there's a start. While it can be an interesting attempt at understanding the blue pill mentality, it's attempting to go back into the matrix. When your wife says shit like, "I show love by acts of..." instead of sucking your dick, she might as well be giving you the "I love you, but I'm not in love with you" speech. Try this, it's a real convo between me and my wife, "How was Seattle?" "Fucking great. We sailed down Puget sound, sat on the back of the sailboat, sm… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/02/20 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 28, 2020We did schedule some time this Friday to be together (got a sitter). I am not sure what to plan. My only goal is to try to pass some time together with some good vibes. I do want answers on what she wants to do, but I also understand that's stupid to ask and it's not up to her. If she had the balls she'd say "give me money and leave the house". So, assuming she doesn't cancel, I plan to lead her into something low key, get some food, maybe a movie so we don't feel pressure to talk, take a walk, … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/02/20 08:31 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - January 28, 2020Reading: The Five Love Languages Where the fuck is that on the sidebar? You should braid her hair and the two of you can paint your fingernails together. Twice this week my wife asked if I smoked pot and twice I lied. I lied because I was afraid to stand up to her and for myself. This is probably one of the reasons we don’t have sex frequently. Nope, it's because you are unattractive. Be more attractive. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/02/20 08:21 PM |
| 4 | How to get with an old plate’s friend?She wrote me a long post talking about how she also had a great time and wants to but doesn’t want to betray her best friend since they’ve both fought over a guy before and it put a dent in their friendship. I just said “it’s all good, I understand” and since then she’s been stalking all of my social media profiles. What would you do if you had a chick at your house, she had her top off and said to you, "Hey I'm a nice girl and don't do slutty things." You'd push through that ASD just like the A… | /r/askTRP | 03/02/20 05:33 PM |
| 24 | So girl i havent seen in two years wrote me that shes getting marriedBack in the day, I got one of those messages. Cool, "let's grab drinks" and then the next thing I know she's telling me, it didn't count because she's not married yet. It's funny the shit they tell themselves to feel better. It's called the hamster wheel of reasoning for a reason. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/20 03:54 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with Psycho ex preaching socialist and far left ideologies to 5 and 10 year old daughters?First let's talk technical and logistics. You say you've talked to the Aid, but what I didn't hear you say was you talked to your Daughters Guardian Ad Litem, aka GAL. Does your daughter have her own GAL? This is an advocate who focuses soley on what is best for the child, independent of you or Mom. In cases like yours they can be an impartial witness to the insanity that is your ex-wife. https://www.justice.gc.ca/eng/rp-pr/fl-lf/divorce/vccp-vecp/voi2c.html Tread carefully. If you can somehow d… | /r/RedPillParenting | 29/01/20 07:05 PM |
| 8 | How do you deal with a close friend being dishonest and fake?All people should be judged for the value they provide, not the value they provided. Don't get sucked into a sunk cost fallacy, even with someone who has been a long time friend. People grow, people change. Second, let's talk about one thing that sticks out to me. I've always tried to help him and guide him in things I have expertise in, Beware of giving unsolicited advice to those who don't want it. It makes you come off as condescending or arrogant. So when he agrees with you, he may be doin… | /r/askTRP | 29/01/20 03:33 PM |
| 19 | Rubbers the Rest of Your Life?Older dude here, don't forget the number one rule about birth control. Never let her control the birth control. Is that clear? I had this conversation with my godson a year ago. Stupid fuck is now a baby daddy. I can't tell you how many friends and family members ended up as dads or with an unplanned kid because they let the old lady run the BC operation. "Well mistakes happen" Even if you end up with the worst STI you don't end up with an 18-year obligation to the woman after. Babies are an eve… | /r/askTRP | 27/01/20 02:45 PM |
| 2 | Umbilical hernia from liftingI've had one, uncorrected for years. I'm also past the 1000lb club and it doesn't bother me one bit from lifting. Work on your form. | /r/askMRP | 27/01/20 02:28 PM |
| 4 | "Help a Sister Out...." How would you Handle this Professionally?It's almost like there's a book for that... refer back to 48 laws of power. There's so many that could apply, but here are the ones that stick out to me: Law 5, so much depends on your reputation, guard it with your life. Law 7, Get others to do the work for you but always take the credit. Law 8, make others come to you, use bait if necessary Law 11, Learn to keep people dependent on you. Law 30, Make your actions seem effortless So if we take those 5 as a premise, what would you do? Me, I'd bui… | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Wife found out my account in a website and she wants a divorceShow her the email of the sign up date. Bad advice. Own your shit. If he wants to LARP on the internet to strangers, that's his thing. "Yep, I do that all the time babe. I'm fucking awesome at it." | /r/askMRP | 22/01/20 02:17 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (01/15/20)Most leads for jobs I get are 10-20k under my base currently. Leads above my base are apparently rare, so I'm telling all recruiters my target which is 20k+base. I apply to everything, sometimes I build my network, sometimes it's just email exchanges. Abundance is hard to maintain when every lead is below my target. So you're doing what is akin to a sales funnel. Instead of dropping your sales price, try to filter to people you can effectively "upsell" on your skillset. Give them a range, but ad… | /r/RPChristians | 17/01/20 06:11 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (01/15/20)I'd even take a pay cut, so I know I won't be too choosey Why would you do that? Any position you take you should consider for at least a premium over the job now. If people are willing to hire you away from your current situation they know that. Don't leave money on the table. Senior Pant Suit is fabricating chicken little rhetoric, making promises and breaking them, and removing responsibility from actual employees to contractors. I'm so ready to burn it down, I'm actively adding kindling. I a… | /r/RPChristians | 17/01/20 04:43 PM |
| 2 | Don’t eat paintDangit. Missed it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 16/01/20 12:02 PM |
| – | What has made your Red Pill Marriage successful with your partner?Take it to ask | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/01/20 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Don’t eat paintTL;DR, eating paint will make retards. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/01/20 06:21 PM |
| 7 | How to stop being the workplace bitch?I'd recommend his book to anyone. Call it emotional intelligence, the 10000-hour rule, talent, etc. He came about his skillset through years of training and trial and error. It's actually encouraging because you'd think he's a natural, but in a lot of ways, he's just been grinding at it for years. Give you confidence that anyone can do it with practice. From my standpoint it's definitely helped my career. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/20 05:01 PM |
| 29 | How to stop being the workplace bitch?I'd add to that, Never Split the Difference, by Chris Voss People don't realize that negotiation happens all the time. Learning to play the games of power will definitely help anyones career. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/20 03:10 PM |
| 47 | LTR doing 4 month internship in south africa. Is the relationship doomed?You know all this is just you going on and on about her, her, her.... Seriously who gives a fuck about her. What is your mission? How does this chick jive with your mission? (I have back-up plates, but I don't feel like cheating) No, you don't. You either have plates or you don't. Take her off the pedestal and ask yourself, "How does this chick add value to my life every single day? How will she do that being gone for 4 months?" If she's working on Elephants now, what's going to happen when she … | /r/askTRP | 10/01/20 05:54 PM |
| 7 | How to act sexual?You're overthinking this. Did you read the part where Athol says, "70% of sex is just ok" My wife and I act goofy all the time during sexy times. It's an incredibly vulnerable and intimate moment so why not do it the way that you like it to be? Quit overthinking this. Next time you fuck her, grab her by the hair and ask her "You like that you fucking retard?" | /r/askMRP | 10/01/20 03:06 PM |
| 3 | You’re dismissive. Apologize to me!I'll build on this a little more. What I found is often my wife isn't looking for a seat at the table, but an acknowledgment that I understood her perspective. I once had to make a considerable financial decision, and I did it without her knowledge. When she found out about it, she asked why I hadn't consulted her. Now previously I had probably kowtowed to her too much and accommodated her when I should have done what was right. So I said, "I made a hard decision, but the right one." "Oh ok, but… | /r/askMRP | 07/01/20 03:18 PM |
| 13 | Update 1 to Caught STD (What to tell wife?)Keep improving. Your wife seems to be floating in the middle. She's not disgusted enough with you to leave immediately, but not attracted to you enough to have been angry that you let another woman do her job. So, where do we go from here? I'm still trying to work that out. The stay plan is the go plan. You've given her information, and she can choose to do with it what she will. Avoid DEER. Watch for comfort tests. Don't go all beta either. Don't look at this as a setback, but only as informati… | /r/askMRP | 07/01/20 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Running the MAP on peri menopausal or menopausal womenrepost | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/01/20 02:51 PM |
| – | Running the MAP on peri menopausal or menopausal womenTake it to ask | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/01/20 02:40 PM |
| 2 | Ltr mad about a political party I supported in the past. Where do I go from here?You DEER'd instead of owning it. Why wouldn't you own your past decisions? | /r/askMRP | 05/01/20 11:31 PM |
| – | My wife let's me do whatever I want multiple times a day but is only actually in the mood herself about once a week. Should I wait for her or?take it to r/askMRP | /r/MarriedRedPill | 05/01/20 03:04 PM |
| 9 | How do you remind yourself not to engage?I read Chris Voss, and ended up getting my wife so frustrated. She just wanted to fight, and when I kept asking, "Sure, but how am I supposed to..." she ran away screaming, "I hate your mind-judo shit" Good book, and it has made me a few extra million in negotiations. | /r/askMRP | 20/12/19 03:16 PM |
| 31 | How do you remind yourself not to engage?It's really about learning to have an internal dialog. Instead of immediately trying to counter whatever is being said go through the motions of WISNIFG and ask the questions: "Am I being made to judge my own actions?" "is this a valid criticism?" "Does this add value" You can come up with a few more, but you get the gist. | /r/askMRP | 20/12/19 01:31 PM |
| 12 | Work Christmas Party - Drunk Co-workerPlease note: my team is mostly composed of females (manager, director, etc) so gossip definitely happens in the office (keep this in mind for the following info). This is a very important piece of info. When I was early in my career, I worked in an R&D environment as one of the few engineers. I was also one of the few men in the building. Same as you I had nothing by high marks on my performance review. Yet the feedback to my manager was, "He's not a team player." "He's condescending". Even, "He… | /r/askTRP | 19/12/19 12:39 PM |
| – | I'm not fine with giving up special sex acts, and I don't want to be. Is there anything I can do,Nothing to see here. Move along. | /r/askMRP | 19/12/19 01:59 AM |
| – | Wife spent $9Post in AskMRP | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/12/19 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Asking for advice and another look at my situationAlso be prepared to walk away from MGTOW. I do not endorse it, nor see it as an "alternative". You're welcome to disuss it, but be prepared to understand that it is incompatible with integrated men and redpill goals. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/12/19 03:15 PM |
| 5 | Caught STD. What to tell wife?Accept your fate like a man. I don't know about you, but I don't believe in fate. I'll make my own way in the world and control my own destiny. | /r/askMRP | 10/12/19 03:16 PM |
| 7 | Caught STD. What to tell wife?Wrap it, wrap it, wrap it... until you have verified (through a doctors test - multiple over a period of time in reality) your plate or girl is safe. No hole is safe, no hole is worth it. Not to mention, babies are sexually transmitted also. | /r/askMRP | 10/12/19 03:12 PM |
| 1 | LTR acting suspiciousIt depends on your leadership style and the situation. I would say a big portion is consistency in reaction and matching actions to that. Don't blather on with words, be a man of action. I was dating my now wife and had to leave to go do some things around my place. I invited her to come but she refused as she had to get up early for her second job. I was like "ok, cool see ya." She gave me a very terse, "fine" It came out later that she was super mad at me (I knew it), but I told her I don't de… | /r/askTRP | 10/12/19 02:36 PM |
| 6 | LTR acting suspiciousSo my LTR started acting bitchy around 30 days ago So in the LTR game, you should always adhere to the 2nd date rule. A bunch of things may be going on, like her wanting you to kill the puppy, she's got a side dude, etc, but the biggest issue you have is you let this get too far. Bad behavior should never be tolerated beyond the 2nd date. What does that mean? If you were on a second date with this chick and she started acting bitchy, would you have put up with that shit? You wouldn't then, and y… | /r/askTRP | 09/12/19 08:11 PM |
| 9 | LTR acting suspiciousOnly you are the judge of your actions. So give her the answer you feel capable of giving. It doesn't matter in the end, as you should only invest in going forward. Just understand when a woman asks for closure, she's asking because she wants to make you feel worse, not make herself feel better (typically). My bet is, this chick will know exactly why without any reason. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/19 08:01 PM |
| 3 | Girls says she never let a man pull her hair, grab her by the neck. Is she stroking my ego intentionally?Never listen to a woman's words. Look at her actions and ask yourself, "What does this say about her? How does this reflect on me?" She isn't telling you this, because she wants you to hear it. She's telling you this because she wants to believe it herself. A woman communicates feeling and emotion primarily, and information and fact second (generally reserve fact and information for when she is forced to communicate that way). Just like they will openly say, "I never had sex with that guy" but s… | /r/askTRP | 02/12/19 09:17 PM |
| 5 | Two prior, now married, plates contacted me on Facebook this week. AWALT is so true.Don't blame the women. Blame the men. Take care of business, be a high quality man, and vet for high quality women and the likelyhood of this is drastically reduced. He gets what he puts in. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/19 06:34 PM |
| 2 | Want to move back to my parents house with my wife, stuck due to mother and wife conflictCALLING CAPTAIN SAV-A-HO! CALLING CAPTAIN SAV-A-HO! You need to ask yourself why you have this incessant need to fix everyone's problems. Your parent's problems are their problems. They didn't suddenly manifest themselves into a shitty situation, it took years and years of lack of planning on their part. I get the feeling that English is not your first language, so what are the social services that are available to you in the country you live in? Your wife is OCD, has panic attacks, and anxiety … | /r/askMRP | 27/11/19 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Need more books to read on Masculinity and TRP.I'm going to make the assumption you're tone policing. Now change my view. | /r/askMRP | 26/11/19 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Need more books to read on Masculinity and TRP.I'll state it another way if someone is too lazy or too cheap to find them on their own, do you think it would benefit them even if it was free? Free things have no value for a reason. | /r/askMRP | 26/11/19 05:19 PM |
| 3 | Need more books to read on Masculinity and TRP.Why should we? Who gives a fuck about low effort mother fuckers who can't find shit on their own? If they don't give a shit, why should we? | /r/askMRP | 26/11/19 03:48 PM |
| 36 | Friends don't like growth?There's a series of books out called Rich Dad Poor Dad, where he touches on this. It's also an often quoted bible verse, When I was a child, I spoke like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I gave up childish ways. In the end, it's a timeless problem. It has to do with the fact that you have achieved a higher level of understanding. You know what it means to put in the work, the effort and the time to get to that new level. People aren't haters, per se.… | /r/askTRP | 22/11/19 03:07 PM |
| 11 | Not looking butt hurt when ignoring wife?Don’t put up with shit guys. They’ll see it as a sign of weakness and it will get worse. In a few months of years you’ll be her door mat, she’ll walk all over you. Add to it, she'll resent you for it. | /r/askMRP | 22/11/19 12:51 PM |
| 56 | Are you still fucking other girls?“Sally, guys and girls are different. I’m really enjoying the time we’re spending together but I’m a guy and I have no desire to stop fucking other girls at this point. We have only been seeing each other for a few months. That’s not long enough in my opinion, to really get to know someone like that.” Actually you DEER'd. You explained you excused, you rationalized. The correct path would have been to own it. "Hey, this is how it is for now. I won't make promises I can't keep." Plates spin, plat… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/19 08:19 PM |
| 3 | Anyone been to Thailand or Philippines?always wear a condom Remember babies are sexually transmitted too. There was literally a story on here a few weeks ago about a dude who got some Phillipino chick prego. Never underestimate the lure of locking you down. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 07:54 PM |
| – | Caught sexting what nextWhat the fuck is going on with you dude? Your user history is all over the place. Plates, Married, not married? I don't like the smell of this. | /r/askMRP | 18/11/19 03:42 PM |
| 11 | Wife backing out on a trip out of state with another couple but still wants me to go... alone..."Alright, I've changed my mind, no sense going if we both can't go." Own your choice, and don't DEER. As others have said, trust but verify where this is coming from. | /r/askMRP | 18/11/19 03:34 PM |
| 5 | Wedding ring shit testDon't engage. Your whole problem I've read through out this is her problem is yours. "oh I wasn't wearing a ring and I got worried..." Really? Why is the emotional hose still attached? Your wife was trying to get you to own her feelings. And you did. "where is your ring?" "In my gym bag" That's it. Anything past that is trying to make her feel better. Make her own it not you. "where's your ring?" "in my bag" "I don't believe you" "ok" "prove it to me" "nope. Either you believe me or you don't. B… | /r/askMRP | 15/11/19 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Would you say TRP favors cold approach over online?I never liked bars and clubs. They are definitely not the kind of customer I wanted. So I get your apprehension there. Begin with the end in mind. Ask yourself, what's your ideal? What kind of girl are you looking for? I did my fair share of times in the clubs, snuck out of some club-skanks place at 4 in the morning and yeah it was fun at that time, but it was a pain in the ass. I did really well at the gym, but in my early 20's I went to a huge gym with lots of options and cardio bunnies. I als… | /r/askTRP | 14/11/19 03:45 PM |
| 2 | Would you say TRP favors cold approach over online?In sales do you want to be a poacher or a farmer? You're in the business of selling you. If you are a poacher, you go out, stalk, wait and then boom, you either eat or you starve. When you farm, you plan, you tend your fields, you plant a diverse crop and then you harvest food and put it away for a rainy day. Instead of looking for the best way to poach the big game, why not build your life so you have fields to tend? First, the local gym is not a 'don't shit where you eat' place, I think you're… | /r/askTRP | 14/11/19 03:13 PM |
| 10 | Do any of you older guys think that rare use of LSD/shrooms or weed is useless for meditation/introspection, or enhancing spiritual/creative events?You ever noticed that reformed alcoholics and drug addicts are the most vehement proselytizers? They become vegans, so everyone should become vegans. They get "Born again" so everyone should find Jesus. Or maybe, they swallow the redpill so they want to go out and save the world. The fact is, they have addictive personalities, and they want to find boogeymen in everything; and a way to save you from it. I do have a feeling that those who wallow in drug abuse have no way of taking personal respon… | /r/askTRP | 14/11/19 02:56 PM |
| 3 | What is my problem? Am I horny or not? Is that seeking validation?Rule zero is paramount. Are you getting the sex that you want? What is your point? Should you fuck other girls? Yes, no, but mostly we don't care. | /r/askMRP | 13/11/19 02:50 PM |
| 17 | Plate got pregnant, had a baby, gave it up for adoption, all without me knowing. Need adviceSure, but I suspect the girl is "mentioning" it like it's a done deal. But it's not, she can't just give the kid up, OP can go in and claim the kid also. She might have a deal with the adopted parents she doesn't want messed up (cash anyone). I've seen custody where it was obvious mom shouldn't have the kid but doesn't tell anyone about dad and then he shows up and stops the baby from being adopted. | /r/askTRP | 13/11/19 12:21 AM |
| 128 | Post from the front page of Reddit where a poor confused married guy has no idea what is happeningDoes it hurt because of her or him? Hint, it's not her... Incidently, my wife and sister would have cut that bitch. Don't fuck with Italian women... | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/19 12:09 AM |
| 4 | Ltr catching hard feelings. How to respond to text?Texting is for logistics. "awe, I'd miss me too. Let's fix that, say 8 pm Friday. Meet me at..." Texts should be kept to logistics because it's hard to discern emotion. Even if she pushes it move it back to logistics. "I feel like you're pissed..." "that's not a discussion we should have over text. Let's talk at.." "I think I'm catching feelz.." "ah that's sweet, let's have drinks..." Whatever it takes, don't engage the emotion or reward it. Move it to face to face where your iron frame will set… | /r/askTRP | 12/11/19 11:19 PM |
| 11 | Plate got pregnant, had a baby, gave it up for adoption, all without me knowing. Need adviceNot necessarily, he also has to surrender parental rights. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/19 11:09 PM |
| 4 | What is a good comeback to a woman respond to you teasing with "ok"?Awesome, now I'm convinced you are a retard, or at least mildly Asperger. Nah, if you want to date women, you got to talk to them sometime. Let me say again, very clearly so you understand. It had nothing to do with "getting out there", and more to do with your clumsy interaction with a friend of your sister who was trying to be nice. Sometimes Sets fail. You need to recognize that and understand more about why they did. Then you can refine and go from there. Hitting on your sister's friends can… | /r/askTRP | 11/11/19 03:48 PM |
| 3 | What is a good comeback to a woman respond to you teasing with "ok"?It sounds like you're a retard and she's trying to not raise the bitch shields. She then gave me a weird look that could have passed for either embarrassed or nostalgic She's thinking, "Oh god, I like hanging out with his sister, but if I gotta put up with this shit I'm out." You try too hard. | /r/askTRP | 11/11/19 03:29 PM |
| – | Mom has affair, parents getting divorced. I feel like crap. What do I do?Nope, take it to AskTRP | /r/askMRP | 10/11/19 07:59 PM |
| – | I got hit to my ego in the balls by a friendzone, how to keep frame?Take it to AskTRP | /r/askMRP | 10/11/19 02:13 PM |
| 6 | I thing dread is working. Part FR, part question.What's the lesson? What have you learned about your wife and her responses? You did interesting things around interesting people. You were independent and unbeholden to your wife's whims. Oh you're not as fat. What are you doing that's working and what can be done better to make those habits stick? | /r/askMRP | 09/11/19 06:58 PM |
| 3 | Tell me your experiences with “Religious Girls”I once fucked a Jewish girl on the regular. She would say things like "I could never marry a catholic" then try to swallow my dick. I've dated a few Catholic chicks that swore they were saving it until marriage, then magically changed their tune as long as I promised to pull out. Baptist chicks in the south? Just told them I'd tell their parents I was born again. In the end it's all a form of ASD. They need plausible deniablility that their friends and social structure won't see them as a whore.… | /r/askTRP | 06/11/19 10:29 PM |
| 3 | LTR might move to Hawaii - Should I go?I didn't read the body and already had an answer. I read it, and still have an answer. Never move or change careers to support a woman. Never. If she was really into you she would have nuked this of her own accord. So why would it change if you cow towed to her now? | /r/askTRP | 06/11/19 10:24 PM |
| 3 | Need help with daughter! (throwaway)At 15 she's realistically 3 years from the age of majority. I don't know you or your family but I get a sense that freaking out about a haircut at 15 tells me you have a pretty strict household. Leadership is a style. You can be totalitarian or hands off. One thing you cannot be is inconsistent or ambiguous in your expectations. I lead my family and kids from a "nothing in life is free" standpoint. School is the number one priority. A's are expected Bs are average, and anything less will be addr… | /r/RedPillParenting | 06/11/19 10:09 PM |
| 6 | Slept with older Asian women in one of my classes, she’s 32 I’m 22. After we we done fucking and she was leaving my car I saw that she recording a voice memo the whole time that showed 45 min. What the fuck. Do I text her and ask her why? What the fuck.Rule zero mother fucker. Rule zero. | /r/askTRP | 06/11/19 01:13 PM |
| 8 | Fiance gave me her old laptop to use for work - a look into her past has me worriedI don't want to get into specifics, but I have some dealings with a family member and some investment properties. These were acquired in a state favorable to it and there are some features in the incorporation that would make it very hard for a minority stakeholder to do anything but sell out. | /r/askMRP | 04/11/19 08:11 PM |
| 13 | Fiance gave me her old laptop to use for work - a look into her past has me worriedIf I didn’t plan on marrying her, this would all be moot So the stay plan is the same as the go plan. Look at it another way, if you could marry her and leave her as easy as if she just lived with you how would you feel? Is the real problem the legally binding aspect? If that's what you are getting at a fix that. If you're having second thoughts on marriage, address that. I don't regret marriage, per se. I regret that I put so much risk into another person's potential to fail or succeed. It was … | /r/askMRP | 04/11/19 06:51 PM |
| 7 | Best replies to “I’m not easy”Pressure flip. Make her defend her statement, "wait what? I'm a gentleman... What did you think..." | /r/askTRP | 31/10/19 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Regret, Remorse & Nuclear Frame LossI strongly believe that if the sister would not have experienced a bad trip then everything would have been smooth sailing. I felt my leadership was valued and respected up until this point where i dropped the ball due to the internal lack of self-confidence that was unmasked by the substance. Even during the bad trip, ltr was looking to me for guidance so she could comfort her sister. Do you? Leadership is deferred to in times of crisis. Kids, women, your reports will all look to you immediatel… | /r/askMRP | 30/10/19 04:24 PM |
| 2 | Regret, Remorse & Nuclear Frame LossNow that a lot of people of pointed out what you need to do, what you didn't do, and the lack of rules of engagement upfront let's ask a few questions to set the tone for what is most important, namely moving forward. I love tripping on mushrooms. My brother and I will go get high as balls in the woods. Just him and me and a bag full of shrooms. I find it very therapeutic and it can often be a window into my state of being. But, and this is huge, I really only trust my brother with that kind of … | /r/askMRP | 30/10/19 01:28 PM |
| 2 | Ways in which LTRs manipulate a break upYeah I learned a lot after her. I never went back to a woman after that. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/19 10:37 AM |
| 36 | Ways in which LTRs manipulate a break upI had a girl in college tell me, "if I treated you like shit I wouldn't feel so bad that you broke up with me." I learned how to ghost a bitch that day. I learned a few days later that dread is powerful. What I didn't learn was you don't take a bitch back and had to start over again. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/19 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Shitty day, shitty questionGood brother. | /r/askMRP | 24/10/19 07:56 PM |
| 4 | Shitty day, shitty questionDo you talk man to man with your dog? Except you are failing to address a fundamental concept. You're addressing her like she's a man. You delivering information to her when her emotional state is already poor. With your way, she's just sitting there listening to you and thinking, "This fucking prick doesn't get it. He's blathering on about shit he did with the kids and there's still dirty fucking dishes in the sink! Can't he see that I'm fucking furious!" That description above? It's glorified … | /r/askMRP | 24/10/19 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Shitty day, shitty questionLet me ask you a question if your wife is being a nagging harpy bitch does she deserve a thoughtful reflective answer? That kind of behavior needs to be nipped in the bud. | /r/askMRP | 24/10/19 12:00 PM |
| – | Filed for Divorce 6 Months Ago - Still in the process but feel weak mentallyPrepare for the shitshow.... | /r/askMRP | 24/10/19 11:41 AM |
| 1 | Filed for Divorce 6 Months Ago - Still in the process but feel weak mentallyNot for Marriedredpill I'll leave it in AskMRP | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/10/19 11:40 AM |
| 2 | Is my marriage salvageable?Read the Professor's book for saving a low sex marriage if you want to save it. But here's some food for thought as you start your journey. Let's look at these statements: She has a good job, is a good mom, and has always been faithful to me. and She is disrespectful, lazy, and overweight. She has no friends, no hobbies, and no interest in sex. Refuses to keep house, diet, exercise, or dress sexy. Refuses to shower before sex or get waxed. Do these seem like congruent statements? She refuses to … | /r/askMRP | 23/10/19 01:10 PM |
| 3 | “I accidentally fucked one of my female friends. What do?It's a value decision then. The relationship should be one that whatever you invest in it, you get back more in return. Is she going to get feelz if you fuck her on the reg? Is there going to be fallout from the ex-bf (ie drama?). Turn yourself into a rational actor and approach this as such. For whatever you invest, what is the outcome? Is your return on investment acceptable? Or are you chasing sunk costs? Most people are irrational actors, and our friend was calling you out on that. Use your … | /r/askTRP | 23/10/19 12:43 PM |
| 18 | What to respond when the girl asks if you want her just for sex?Everybody is going on and on about shit test basics. But fuck if you didn't miss the most fundamental basic rule. Texting is for logistics. I say again Texting is for logistics. Why is that? You have no way of establishing rapport and judging her emotional state. Even your lame ass comment about sex being integral to a relationship could have been delivered as a killer response in person "Why darling, I believe sex is an important part of the relationship," Said with a dry answer, using amused m… | /r/askTRP | 23/10/19 12:33 PM |
| 2 | All boys schoolGood progress on your lifts. Tailor them to basketball and get ready for college, aim for the 1000lb club so you can body up in the paint. Sometimes, the situation just sucks. Being at an all-boys school is there an equivalent girls school nearby? When I was in college the local girls' colleges used to put on mixers so they could meet people. Also, try things like meetup.com, and put yourself where there are other people. In the end, in 2 years it will be over and you'll be moving on. The next 1… | /r/askTRP | 22/10/19 02:02 PM |
| 2 | All boys schoolActually I'm going to backtrack. I think it was Good to Great. I've read a lot of books but these two are some of my favorites. Here he talks discusses Covey though. https://www.jimcollins.com/article_topics/articles/The-7-Habits-of-Highly-Effective-People.html Both books should be on the reading list of any future corporate warrior though. | /r/askTRP | 21/10/19 06:19 PM |
| 2 | All boys schoolSteven Covey, but I'm pretty sure Collins heard them from Covey. | /r/askTRP | 21/10/19 05:27 PM |
| 2 | All boys schoolAre you fit? What're your lifts? What's your stats? That'll tell us if there's something to show for your work. the first step comes from self-discipline. | /r/askTRP | 21/10/19 05:25 PM |
| 3 | All boys schoolYou should be hitting the gym hard and the books hard. Girls are a result of all the things you put in place and come as a natural result of you building you to be awesome. Life is a flywheel; all the little things you do will build-up momentum so that by the time you hit your mid-twenties you'll be a natural at slaying pussy. So always focus on yourself first. Don't sweat that girls aren't around and when the occasional one does pop up, don't treat her like a man in a desert getting his first d… | /r/askTRP | 21/10/19 11:49 AM |
| 13 | 6 years into a LTR, but now something is going on with me - Constructive criticism and discussion will be appreciatedI hate when I come here all ready to pronounce wisdom, read the top comment and realize, there's nothing left to say. | /r/askMRP | 18/10/19 01:35 PM |
| 3 | You are the leader, but what kind of leader?Jack Welch, Cincinnatus and Aldolf Hitler were all great leaders in their own right. Do you think they learned by soft skills, and self reflection? Leadership is a style. It can be horrific or amazing. Machiavelli or honorable. It doesn't matter. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 10/10/19 05:09 PM |
| 45 | DB, found my wife cheatedSome simple rules in the Redpill. Rule Zero: sex is the goal. Get the sex you want out of life. All other rules are subordinate to this rule. Rule number something-something. Women never get promoted once they get demoted. If a woman in your life gets demoted because she fucked up and failed to follow the rules, implied or explicit, she will get demoted to a lower title, as you see fit for the value she provides. So given these two maxims, you have plenty of options. One guy way back plated his … | /r/askMRP | 08/10/19 06:37 PM |
| 3 | Why do a lot of the people in this community give terrible advice?Modding is done in the main sub to keep it on message. Here the rules are looser to accommodate noobs. The tags are what new guys should look for. It's a learning process that hopefully, you can see the difference between guys LARPing and guys who have proven time and time again to know what they are talking about. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/19 10:08 PM |
| 3 | Facebook dating... better than Tinder?How do get better at push-ups? More push-ups. Put yourself in uncomfortable situations and they will become less so. | /r/askMRP | 30/09/19 09:09 PM |
| 11 | Wife Moving Out: An UpdateThat's also why a plate is called a plate... | /r/askMRP | 30/09/19 09:02 PM |
| 9 | Why do sorority girls all present themselves in the same way?It's the manifestation of social proof. They seek social validation and reinforce it via the group. The good news? Get one, and you'll be in for all. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/19 07:39 AM |
| 2 | Comfort or STFU?Wake up like it's a new day. It was ASD. | /r/askMRP | 30/09/19 07:10 AM |
| 7 | Love letter by the faggotIt's an eloborate DEER. You feel bad all the time, so you explain. Then she goes away so again you want to explain. You talk to much. Get to work and do instead. I never went monk as I had responsibilities and a house to maintain. But when my wife asked what was going on with me I simply responded, "just getting better at life hun" If she redirected or tried to make it about her I held my ground, "no babe, it's just about me. I want to be better." Stop worrying about her feelings, detach the emo… | /r/askMRP | 30/09/19 06:47 AM |
| 4 | Searching for RP productivity tips - Looking to become the best version of myself.I read this book at a critical point in my career. It was a game-changer. I remember about six months after I read it and someone asked, "How do you get so much done?" | /r/askTRP | 26/09/19 06:28 AM |
| 2 | Tell LTR About a Past Fling.Let's eat Grandma! Let's eat, Grandma! Commas can save lives.... | /r/askMRP | 25/09/19 04:28 PM |
| 3 | Tell LTR About a Past Fling.I ran into a chick I used to bang with my wife once. It was at a bar type place. She was with a relative. So I made the intros and was non chalant about it. My wife immediately picked up on it. "you and her hooked up?" "yeah once or twice" "I could tell by the way she looked at you" That was it. I owned it. No DEER. My wife stuck by side the whole night. Fuck if I know if she could or not but it was a nice piece of natural preselection. Don't make a big deal either way about it. Own it if she do… | /r/askMRP | 25/09/19 03:59 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Bloops assuming "insecurity" is the reason men can't get dates is unfairly blaming them for their problems.It's a trope that stems from lack of abundance. Real or not, the story is the same. Hero goes on a date. Hero strikes out. Hero pays for play and is disappointed at his choices. It's a common problem, and it likely stems from insecurity and fear. Some people are short, some people are bald, etc. We're all burdened with genetics out of our control. But the fact is there are 7.5 billion people on this earth, half of which are of the opposite sex. It's a numbers game and you need to embrace failure… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/19 06:24 AM |
| 6 | Telling Me to ApologizeWhat the fuck does he need a wife for if he has to put his own clothes away? She's probably not fucking him either. So she's just a shitty roommate? | /r/askMRP | 23/09/19 05:52 PM |
| 6 | Types of males explained - need your thoughtsI thought it was constructive. I read you saying "jerk jerk jerk, splooge.'. Guys come jerk off with me! | /r/askMRP | 23/09/19 05:41 PM |
| 6 | Divorce threatsGo get divorce papers drawn up. Have a lawyer put together a clear and sizable settlement. Then drop it in her lap with a "hey, I'm cool with this. Sign it, don't sign, I don't really care. But let me know which way you want to go, because I've got plans either way." If she really wanted to divorce you, you wouldn't known until the guy asked your name, and followed it with "you've been served." The best way to counter divorce threats are with indifference. Because in the end, you should be indif… | /r/askMRP | 22/09/19 08:03 PM |
| 2 | Still failing, but not as muchWhy the fuck are you worried about her orgasm? Jesus christ she's probably thinking what I'm thinking "when will he just fucking get it over with?" | /r/askMRP | 22/09/19 07:56 PM |
| 18 | Dealing with girls who try to push their friends on youWomen run there lives based on social connections. If shes bringing you around to her friends she's doing it for their benefit as much as her own. If you're a high value male, in an LTR she showing her friends "heh look at me!" Play the game, or don't. Redpill is amoral after all. Its easy to spend a little time around them and reinforce social proof (a very alpha trait) and then bail. Plenty of times I've been out with my wife for what I thought was a couples get together only to find out it wa… | /r/askTRP | 20/09/19 11:49 AM |
| – | As a 23 years old married guy, I don't know how to keep plates in secret. How do you keep your plates in secret?Before this turns into a shit show let me remind everyone, no moralizing. I know this will be ugly regardless... | /r/askMRP | 19/09/19 12:58 PM |
| 11 | Milf game?I'm older and married. Here's what I'll say about women in the 30-40's range. Deep down, they are still girls trapped in a 35 year old body. They'll get fucking catty like a 23 year old and shit test you the same. The difference? They're experienced and probably a little more jaded because of it. Expect bitch shields to be up. Approach expecting it, but work to make them feel like little girls. This will level them out and make them more amenable. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/19 08:49 PM |
| 2 | Wife critical of parenting style -- update on post from a few days agohere's my dilemma. I see alot of guys in here that struggle with adding alpha, BUT I think I'm lacking a little blue pill comfort at times. She's right, I can be a "selfish prick" (her words). How do you guys find that ideal balance? I want to find the balance between being a strong and comforting oak, without being a cold heartless asshole. Advice / comments I actually see it the opposite. You're still not Alpha enough. You're too connected to the emotional hose that is your wife and you let … | /r/askMRP | 17/09/19 01:15 PM |
| 7 | how to deal with this shit test?On some of the logistical side, if you haven't already, read The Seven Habits of Highly Successful People. Organize your life so that you can automate things or make things easier. The wife was running around in the morning trying to get the kids ready and being their clock. So instead I bought an Alexa and put it in the TV room in the morning. They get up before school without alarms generally so they'll come down and watch a little Netflix. I started programming Alexa to go off when it was bre… | /r/askMRP | 13/09/19 09:14 PM |
| 13 | how to deal with this shit test?First and foremost, it's your ship, your command, and your mission. Ask the question from that standpoint. A general statement and then the meat of it; detach the hose from her emotions; stop giving a fuck about what she thinks. When you walk in the house is shit laying around? Pick it up. Are the dishes dirty? Put them in the dishwasher. Yard clean? Mow that shit. I can go on and on. Don't wait around for shit to get done, instead get shit done. Leave her in the dust. It should be her job to ke… | /r/askMRP | 13/09/19 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Children fightingI have a zero-tolerance policy in my house. You are not allowed to lay hands. The reason is exactly that, it's all fine and dandy until it isn't. Swift consequences will be had for violating it. The long term solution? Keep them involved in sports and activities. Short term? Get a trampoline if you have space and can afford it. Things start getting crazy in the house? I throw them out and tell them to go play on the trampoline. | /r/askMRP | 07/09/19 12:12 PM |
| 11 | I'm pretty sure I'm going wrong, need some advice gentlemen.The levels of dread are caused by emotion not information. So look at her space and position and ask yourself how does she feel? When she says "I need time to get horny" is she really saying "I need to feel horny?" Post romp is a great time to communicate emotions and feelings. Oxytocin is running rampant and you've just done a very intimate thing. Instead of pushing your agenda reward her for her efforts. Tell her how awesome you feel because she was such a good girl. Tell her how irresistible … | /r/askMRP | 06/09/19 01:08 PM |
| 3 | Ex boyfriendYou know he said kg right? As in kilograms... | /r/askMRP | 01/09/19 12:14 PM |
| 3 | Daughter being touched, I'm being gaslightedI need to know what I can say to my daughters Lead by example. I know it sounds counter-intuitive, but never bad mouth the mother in front of your kids. Openly state what your values are in an age-appropriate manner. Kids are smart, they'll see what is real and what is bullshit. | /r/RedPillParenting | 30/08/19 03:01 PM |
| 9 | Daughter being touched, I'm being gaslightedI hate to say it my dude, but this is a marathon and not a sprint. Get yourself a Voice Activated Recorder, and a good notebook. Note that there a 12 states where you can't record without telling the person. Record every interaction. Take pictures of circumstances. Get your kids phones so they can "call Daddy" and have them take pictures if you think they can do it "innocently". Your ex is crazy and inconsistent. She will continue to give you evidence and you should build a case against her usin… | /r/RedPillParenting | 30/08/19 10:56 AM |
| 8 | Plate is seemingly telling people we're "almost official", even though i've made no such notion. How to handle?You need to hold frame with your students better. "are you dating my friends cousin?" "what's that have to do with your trig test?" You got so flustered by the question you failed to realize it was none of their God damned business. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 09:16 PM |
| 2 | Wife Sending Selfies to Orbiter / ChadI wanted to take a little time and get back to this. I ultimately want a woman I can push boundaries with, who looks to me for direction, who feels safe and secure in my care, and who supports my life goals. There are 7 billion people in the world. That woman is out there. Why do you think it could be your wife? More importantly, why is your wife the best option and investment. Why is your wife not a sunk cost fallacy? I'm not convinced my taking the ring was to hurt her. At least when I think a… | /r/askMRP | 21/08/19 03:52 PM |
| 9 | Help me understand better about Beta BaitYour snap/insta whatever should be a reward that she has to justify being let in. "hey follow me on Instagram!" "ha, funny. Yeah that's for close friends and family" Then make her validate why she would make your life better not the other way around. "I don't know you. You could be some crazy stalker. Besides I don't need pumpkin spice lattes clogging up my feed." | /r/askTRP | 20/08/19 10:58 PM |
| 5 | “you are talking to many girls” “not worth my time” she saysShe's getting you to judge your own actions and you fell for it. It's a valuable life skill to recognize when people are emotionally manipulating you for your behavior. The first step, realize only you can judge your actions. No one else. Her statement wants you to defend to her that you really are a man. But what you need to realize, you don't need to defend it. What you do thereafter is purely up to you. But once you start to recognize this in her, you'll see it everywhere it happens, and you … | /r/askTRP | 19/08/19 07:58 PM |
| 13 | Wife Sending Selfies to Orbiter / ChadCan you elaborate on the ring a little more. I need to understand why it is faggot move. There's a couple of things going on here. One, you played your hand. You were emotional and you responded emotionally. Your intent, whether you realize it or not, was to call your wife out and hurt her for what she did. You wanted to make her suffer. "See I took my ring away!!!" Frankly, you should have disguised your intentions and never let her know what you planned to do. An integrated male shows his inte… | /r/askMRP | 19/08/19 07:46 PM |
| 2 | Renaming some of the cringiest mansphere phrasesSo we are then just arguing over tone because it makes people feel bad. This is exactly what OP is trying to do, get people to argue about tone, instead of the truth of the statements. It's also exactly why all the RP subs have a specific rule against tone policing/concern trolling. OP's argument is designed to confuse, obfuscate and sow discord. It has no intention of debating the merits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/19 06:37 PM |
| 6 | Renaming some of the cringiest mansphere phrasesYou're committing a logical fallacy, akin to the True Scottsman. Just because you argue that a person of a certain qualification, in your case 'high-brow', wouldn't use the phrases you use, doesn't change the meaning or value of those phrases. You're trying to disqualify the terms because it doesn't meet your level of context or description, but that is on you not the users of the phrases. In fact, I'd bet based on your attempt at describing them, you don't actually understand their origin, as y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/19 06:02 PM |
| 3 | I fucked up last night had a fight with the wife.Alright you autistic fuck. There's a reason I post this everytime some off the rails out of control asshole starts off his post 'so I was fighting over text...' It has nothing to do with texting. You'll notice in the follow-up I immediately challenge him to find out why. Don't play in the margins. Outliers don't represent the mean so quit trying to point out little bitty ones to make your point. ' Well what about African swallows?' Sheesh. | /r/askMRP | 13/08/19 01:36 PM |
| 2 | I fucked up last night had a fight with the wife.You should ask why it's a rule. | /r/askMRP | 12/08/19 05:04 PM |
| – | I fucked up last night had a fight with the wife.Texting is for logistics. I say again texting is for logistics. Text an apology again and I'll ban you. | /r/askMRP | 12/08/19 04:38 PM |
| 13 | Theory on Frame vs. EgoFrame is pretty simple. It's simply the operational parameter. Is she reacting to you or are you reacting to her. Ego is your internal self, the reality you present to yourself. You can have iron frame and still be overly invested in your ego. We've seen those guys who would just burn their life down instead of stepping back and looking at their reality. Rambo is often what happens when guys push frame without reflecting ego. Or conversely guys who are fully in their wife's frame and fully aware… | /r/askMRP | 11/08/19 06:16 PM |
| 23 | Would you still consider a girl relationship material if she gave into blackmail?Her life is a sum of poor decisions. Getting 'blackmailed' is the final act in those poor decisions. More importantly shit happens, bad situations happen, how you extract yourself is what counts. If you are sitting on a casting room couch and decide to suck a dick because "it's not my fault they misrepresented it to me" you're still a cocksucker. You just have poor values. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/19 05:12 PM |
| 9 | Do woman exist in a similar social hierarchy as men? (ie: Alpha, Beta etc)You're thinking like a man. Look from a woman's perspective instead. Women seek social cohesion and validation (feelz). Bickering and quarreling is their version of ball busting. Bitches who won't step in line get ejected. They have their hierarchy just like men, it's just run differently. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/19 04:16 PM |
| 2 | Does it ruin your smv if your ex finds out you have moved on but wants you back?Right? Tell her of course you're fucking other girls and if she wants her position back she's gonna have to earn it. Then never promote her. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/19 04:11 PM |
| 10 | Getting cockblocked by a more attractive girl?As a general statement regardless you should be moving to isolate any target from a group. Slut shaming, judgment, and reputation can be a hard thing to block and maintain. By isolating you give a woman plausible deniablility in front of her friends. She can then say things like "we didn't have sex!" because in her mind blow jobs and anal don't count. If her friends don't see her acting slutty, it didn't happen. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/19 03:32 PM |
| 1 | The Fatherhood Studybye bye, | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/08/19 02:09 PM |
| 3 | Thanks TRP. Held frame with someone and kept my dignity.It's not, as long as you don't try to fix her feelings. If she wants to play games, and play the "It's nothing, it's fine" you have a couple of choices. In more serious relationships it ok to say "What's up?" It then becomes boundary management. If it's an LTR are you going to deal with this shit every time it comes up? I had this fight early in my relationship with my wife. I told her to put her big girl pants on and knock it the fuck off. If she's feeling somethings wrong how can I acknowledge… | /r/askTRP | 02/08/19 12:45 PM |
| 13 | Finally passing shit tests, but more questionsYou seem to piss in your own cornflakes. When you say shit like "what if I still want kids if we break up?" and "I put them away because we don't use them" it comes off as spiteful and bitter. Remember she's not asking for info, she's asking for feeling. So saying these things to her conveys a feeling of unease to her. Why would I want to get a vasectomy if I'm not sure I'll still be with you? So as far as sex and lingerie, give her only the option to say no. Don't let her decide to say yes. "Ba… | /r/askMRP | 29/07/19 03:50 PM |
| 14 | Being friends with womenhttp://www.laddertheory.com/ Put value into people in your life who return value back. Plenty of women in your life can be friends, so long as they are either not on your ladder, or below you if they are on your ladder. Every relationship should return more than it takes. Eliminate those who don't. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/19 01:03 PM |
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